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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 12: Final Boarding Call
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03God will give you people happy home.
00:00:05I bless you in a marriage.
00:00:08I say you shall be well with two people in a care.
00:00:11I have done everything Daniel has asked of me
00:00:14so that we can get married.
00:00:16But technically, I'm still married to a woman.
00:00:20And I have to tell him soon.
00:00:24Josh is kind. He's super sweet.
00:00:26So I'm going to Australia.
00:00:28Yeah, hold on. Where are you staying?
00:00:30He lives with his parents.
00:00:32But when I come, he's going to get a rental
00:00:35and split it with a roommate.
00:00:37No!
00:00:39In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia
00:00:42to meet Josh for the first time.
00:00:44But he sent me a text last night
00:00:46that was super alarming.
00:00:49I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
00:00:53So yeah, it actually came with quote-unquote proof of me.
00:00:58I'm not being fearful to you.
00:01:00Apparently, the girl is like,
00:01:01oh, she's messing with me.
00:01:03I don't even know who the that is.
00:01:05I need to see the photos,
00:01:07and I need to see the text messages and make a decision.
00:01:12Sheena, will you please marry me?
00:01:15No, girl.
00:01:17I asked you to hold off and wait
00:01:19so she could prove herself.
00:01:21And then you just go walk up
00:01:23and pull this little sneaky.
00:01:25What the am I doing sitting over here
00:01:28in this country then, Forrest?
00:01:32You weren't talking to me yet.
00:01:34I started talking to my ex.
00:01:37Did you have sex with her?
00:01:40Yes.
00:01:43Please.
00:01:44I want you to forgive me.
00:01:47I have nothing to say, Rick.
00:01:51I'd rather he told me, before coming here .
00:01:57Don't touch me.
00:01:58Please.
00:01:59Don't touch me, please.
00:02:28It's the end of the day.
00:02:34I feel like crap.
00:02:37My God.
00:02:46Last night was awful.
00:02:50I didn't sleep.
00:02:54This has never happened before in my whole entire life.
00:02:57No matter how sick I've gotten, I've never the bed.
00:03:02I'm thinking maybe the spicy food you have been eating.
00:03:06I like spice, though.
00:03:08You know, I drink spices and yours are not different.
00:03:12I don't know, but you know how embarrassing it is to wake up in the middle of the night
00:03:17and there's all over your sheets and it's just...
00:03:22I feel bad that I did that.
00:03:25Baby.
00:03:28I accepted it with all my hats.
00:03:31I told you that I love you.
00:03:33You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:36She woke me up and the stuff stained my clothes.
00:03:44So she pooped on you?
00:03:46She pooped on me, yes.
00:03:48She pooped on me.
00:03:51It was everywhere.
00:03:53I had to change the sheets with his help and I didn't know what to do because I couldn't
00:03:58stop going to the bathroom.
00:03:59It kept coming out of me.
00:04:02I'm so f***ing mortified.
00:04:05Are you going to call the housekeeping to come and clean everything?
00:04:08I will take care of them.
00:04:10Maybe I will call them when we are going to the cooking class.
00:04:12My stomach is still so upset and today, of all days, Daniel has organized to take me out
00:04:20to no other but a cooking class.
00:04:22A cooking class.
00:04:23Do you need my help?
00:04:25No.
00:04:26Are you sure?
00:04:26Yes.
00:04:27Okay.
00:04:30I'm so worried I'm going to have more explosive diarrhea, but I'm going to cook for him.
00:04:36I'm going to try.
00:04:38I mean, if a man can love me covered in f*** and himself covered in my f***, then he must
00:04:43love me for real.
00:04:56Thank you so much.
00:04:58Be careful.
00:05:01Look how pretty this is.
00:05:03The table, Daniel.
00:05:05Look how sweet that is.
00:05:07Oh, this is going to be fun.
00:05:10It's so cute in here.
00:05:14Hello, madam.
00:05:15Hello.
00:05:16I'm Chef Rukaiat.
00:05:18There's lots of ingredients.
00:05:19Oh my goodness.
00:05:21So we're making oha soup.
00:05:23Oha soup.
00:05:24Yes.
00:05:24Oh, you're happy.
00:05:26So oha soup is traditionally an Igbo meal.
00:05:29First of all, I have oha leaf.
00:05:30That's the start ingredient for oha soup.
00:05:34Then I have my proteins.
00:05:37I have stock fish.
00:05:38Then I have fermented locus beans.
00:05:42It's very medicinal as well.
00:05:44Shall we start?
00:05:47The raw meat and the things that we are going to be cooking with, it's making me a little
00:05:53queasy.
00:05:55Especially the fermented beans.
00:05:58My stomach is hurting so bad.
00:06:01But it's okay.
00:06:03I can do this.
00:06:05Do I open it from here like this?
00:06:08Yes.
00:06:09This is beautiful.
00:06:11I'm very slow.
00:06:12I'm slow, honey, but I'm doing it.
00:06:14I'm happy.
00:06:15I'm just educating you.
00:06:18You're just happy I'm learning how to cook for you.
00:06:22It's very important to learn how to cook as an Igbo woman.
00:06:26I will cook as an Igbo woman.
00:06:28Try it.
00:06:28Try it our best, eh?
00:06:29I am.
00:06:31In my hometown, if your wife doesn't know how to cook, it will make you to be going outside
00:06:36to eat.
00:06:37She can even get attracted by other women.
00:06:40I don't want to hear about that.
00:06:41I'm going to cook.
00:06:42Just leave me alone.
00:06:43I'm going to cook.
00:06:44This is stock fish.
00:06:45Stock fish.
00:06:47I'm also going to be adding the dry fish.
00:06:50The dry fish.
00:06:51Which, what kind of fish is that again?
00:06:53Catfish.
00:06:53Catfish.
00:06:54It is catfish.
00:06:55Oh, my God.
00:06:56You're happy?
00:06:57You're smelling the smells of what your woman is cooking?
00:07:00I can't wait to taste the food.
00:07:03I'm very appreciative that Daniel is showing me his traditions and his culture.
00:07:08It means the world to me.
00:07:10It smells delicious.
00:07:14Daniel is doing so many wonderful things and making our relationship concrete towards a marriage.
00:07:22And I'm so happy about that.
00:07:25But at the same time, I feel extremely guilty for not telling him my secret shit.
00:07:32Can I get love just a little from you?
00:07:38Wow.
00:07:39It looks delicious.
00:07:41You're welcome.
00:07:42Hey.
00:07:44I've already gotten blessings from his uncle, from the king.
00:07:48I hope you lack the food that I cooked.
00:07:51Oh, my God.
00:07:52I'm only one step away from getting married to Daniel.
00:07:58I have to start being honest with him as soon as possible.
00:08:03I did good?
00:08:05Hmm.
00:08:08Hmm.
00:08:11This is so sweet.
00:08:13You're wonderful.
00:08:26I'm not having any right now, honey.
00:08:28I'm not eating.
00:08:29I was very sick last night.
00:08:31I have to be very careful.
00:08:42I want to talk to you about something.
00:08:48Well, you have been talking to me, so...
00:08:50No, about something different.
00:08:55You know how, um...
00:08:57I've told you I've been married a couple of times?
00:09:01Yes, you have made mention of that.
00:09:05You told me about faith, Dad.
00:09:08I've never discussed it with you, you know, deeply.
00:09:24I've been married five times.
00:09:29Five times?
00:09:32You would be my sixth husband.
00:09:36God.
00:09:49We talk about this.
00:09:51This is our decision.
00:09:53Don't answer for him.
00:09:54I am an adult, and I would decipher what we want to do.
00:10:12The point is, I worry about you.
00:10:16I worry about Sheena.
00:10:19I felt this was the appropriate thing to do
00:10:21for our relationship to work and continue.
00:10:26We talked privately.
00:10:29She explained herself to me, and I came...
00:10:31Yeah, I'm sure she didn't.
00:10:32Did she ask for your big and humble forgiveness?
00:10:36No, she actually gave me a real explanation
00:10:39and told me what was really up.
00:10:41Then how about you enlighten me,
00:10:43or is that going to be private, too, Forrest?
00:10:48You know, we talked about, you know,
00:10:51her struggles and how when she starts to, you know, lie,
00:10:55it's because she has, um, a traumatic...
00:11:00She's had traumatic experiences,
00:11:04and it causes her to...
00:11:11So, she says she's not going to do it again
00:11:15and again and again.
00:11:16Rome was not built in a day,
00:11:17but she has to put in the work and prove herself,
00:11:19and she is going to prove it.
00:11:21Then why didn't you make her prove herself
00:11:21before you proposed?
00:11:26Forrest, you're more full of than a Christmas goose.
00:11:29No.
00:11:30Yes, you are.
00:11:32Everybody's got stress in their life,
00:11:33and then to say,
00:11:35I'm under stress, so I'm going to lie,
00:11:37and you're going to accept her
00:11:39just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying?
00:11:42That's no stability.
00:11:43You don't have any foundation.
00:11:46I will...
00:11:47Don't.
00:11:47Mom, I admit for everything that I did was wrong.
00:11:52Oh, God, here we go again.
00:11:53I have to open...
00:11:54Oh, you couldn't say it
00:11:55because you don't know how I experienced it
00:11:57in my past life, you know?
00:11:58I'm suffering from trust with people.
00:12:02Well, guess what?
00:12:03We can't trust you.
00:12:04You can't...
00:12:05I know you can easily trust me,
00:12:06but I'm trying to do my best
00:12:08to get things over, you know?
00:12:10Yeah, you're getting them over, all right?
00:12:12I'm trying to...
00:12:18We've heard this for seven years,
00:12:23and even up until three days ago,
00:12:26it was yet another lie.
00:12:28She...
00:12:28She's a pathological liar, I'm thinking.
00:12:33I bet you'd stay with her
00:12:34if she diddled and somebody else do.
00:12:43Would you?
00:12:48Mom?
00:12:50At the end of the day,
00:12:51She and I...
00:12:52Yeah, you can't answer my question,
00:12:54so that's all you're going to say.
00:12:55Oh, John.
00:12:56That's because your question is ridiculous.
00:13:00I'm so disappointed
00:13:02in my mom's reaction to all this.
00:13:05It's the whole reason why we're here
00:13:06is to figure out how to bring Sheena
00:13:08to the United States.
00:13:10And getting engaged
00:13:12is a next big step.
00:13:15And her being angry and mad
00:13:17and saying nasty things,
00:13:19that's not how a mother should act.
00:13:22Mom?
00:13:24I'm going to...
00:13:25I'm going to take the dive.
00:13:27I'm going to go in.
00:13:29And if there's rocks,
00:13:32I'm willing to take it.
00:13:34But that is my choice.
00:13:39And you're going to have to be watching her
00:13:4124 hours a day
00:13:42and be paranoid and concerned
00:13:44and wondering.
00:13:45And you have such a trust thing,
00:13:47which means it's going to have to be meek.
00:13:49Here you are, a future teller.
00:13:49Here you are, a future teller.
00:13:50No, Forrest, it's not a future teller.
00:13:52It's what we have lived through
00:13:54the last seven years.
00:13:57You think this is appropriate,
00:13:58how she's acting?
00:14:00This conversation about Molly,
00:14:01it's about you too.
00:14:02Yeah, but she's making it about her
00:14:04with all her yelling around.
00:14:06How the hell am I supposed
00:14:07to get a conversation done
00:14:08with all the time?
00:14:12We're going to make things
00:14:13easy for you, okay?
00:14:16Are you going to be part
00:14:17of our lives or not?
00:14:20Excuse me?
00:14:21You're going to give me
00:14:22the ultimate, Forrest?
00:14:23Mom, accept this proposal
00:14:26or you're not a part
00:14:26of our lives.
00:14:32I cannot believe
00:14:33that I'm about to get
00:14:34on my flight
00:14:36to Sydney, Australia
00:14:37for the first time
00:14:37to meet Joshua in person.
00:14:40I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:14:42I know, I know.
00:14:43I want to, like,
00:14:44get questions answered.
00:14:46Yeah.
00:14:47After Girls' Night Out,
00:14:48the other night,
00:14:49I ended up calling Yulia
00:14:50about the text I got from Josh
00:14:51because it was really bothering me.
00:14:53It seems like his life
00:14:54is falling apart
00:14:55as I'm coming.
00:14:56I don't know what to do.
00:14:58This sounds like a disaster.
00:15:18Appreciate you bringing it.
00:15:39What can we do now
00:15:43to make this right?
00:15:51We just got back
00:15:53from Nusikomba
00:15:54and after what he told me,
00:15:57I'm so hurt.
00:15:59I...
00:15:59I don't know what to do.
00:16:04I'm really angry
00:16:06that he lied to me.
00:16:08I thought it was
00:16:10something serious between us
00:16:11and I still cannot believe.
00:16:14He was...
00:16:15in Colombia
00:16:16with...
00:16:17with that girl.
00:16:20It's really crazy
00:16:21because he bothers me a lot
00:16:24with,
00:16:25oh, you're still talking
00:16:26to your ex
00:16:27and accusing me
00:16:29of cheating on him
00:16:30with my ex.
00:16:31Yet,
00:16:32he's the one
00:16:33messing up
00:16:34this relationship,
00:16:35not me.
00:16:39I didn't want to hurt you.
00:16:41No, you did.
00:16:43He just ruined
00:16:45our vacation.
00:16:47It doesn't have to be ruined.
00:16:49It doesn't have to be over.
00:16:50We still have time.
00:16:54I don't know, Ray.
00:16:57I trust you a lot.
00:17:01And I didn't expect this coming.
00:17:06I didn't.
00:17:07How can I trust you
00:17:09when you go back
00:17:09to your country?
00:17:11What if...
00:17:11She's not in my country.
00:17:13She can't go.
00:17:14I know she's not
00:17:14in your country,
00:17:15but you could go
00:17:17in Colombia,
00:17:18meet her.
00:17:20And I'm not gonna do that.
00:17:22Oh.
00:17:22I have no intentions
00:17:23on ever being with her.
00:17:26And I'm promised
00:17:28that I'm gonna be
00:17:29faithful to you.
00:17:31Oh.
00:17:34I just hope
00:17:35that you can
00:17:37forgive me.
00:17:49Oh, baby.
00:18:00I'm sorry.
00:18:04Just eat hearts
00:18:06so that she...
00:18:06I know, baby.
00:18:07I know you've been
00:18:08hurt in the past, baby.
00:18:09I'm...
00:18:09I didn't want to add to that.
00:18:12Yes, you did.
00:18:13Baby, I didn't want
00:18:14to add to that.
00:18:15I'm sorry.
00:18:15Please.
00:18:18I promise.
00:18:22Don't promise me.
00:18:23Because you did
00:18:24promise me, but...
00:18:26See?
00:18:27She was happy.
00:18:28Baby, I'm looking
00:18:28at you in your face
00:18:29and I'm telling you
00:18:31that I'm not gonna
00:18:32cheat on you.
00:18:34If you look at me,
00:18:36I'm not gonna cheat
00:18:36on you, baby.
00:18:38Okay?
00:18:41I'm not.
00:18:42I'm gonna do my best
00:18:44to make it up to you,
00:18:45okay?
00:18:52Okay.
00:18:56Thank you, baby.
00:19:00I could have lost her
00:19:02for what I did.
00:19:03So I feel grateful
00:19:06that she is giving me
00:19:08the second chance.
00:19:23I think that we still
00:19:25have time
00:19:26to turn things around,
00:19:28but it's gonna take
00:19:30some work
00:19:30for me to prove
00:19:31that, um,
00:19:34that I'm sincere
00:19:35and to show her,
00:19:36you know,
00:19:38that I really do care
00:19:39and want this to work.
00:19:47I decided to stay
00:19:49because I'm already
00:19:50in love with him.
00:19:54But I didn't know
00:19:56he has different
00:19:59personality
00:20:00that he can cheat,
00:20:02he can lie.
00:20:04I didn't know.
00:20:09And the way he acts,
00:20:11the way he solves
00:20:12problems,
00:20:12it scares me a lot.
00:20:14I don't know
00:20:14if I could trust him
00:20:15again in the future
00:20:16or after this.
00:20:19I don't know.
00:20:25I heard that's you.
00:20:27You were talking
00:20:28about me
00:20:28running your mouth.
00:20:30So you said
00:20:30a little birdie
00:20:31all over town.
00:20:33Wish you'd come
00:20:34looking for me.
00:20:35Oh.
00:20:41Oh, my God.
00:20:45Do you think
00:20:46he's going to think
00:20:46it's sexy
00:20:47when I go to bed
00:20:49in my red light
00:20:49sleep mask?
00:20:50through my mouth.
00:20:51Oh.
00:20:52Somebody tell the truth.
00:20:55Come on.
00:20:56I heard it last.
00:20:57It slipped out
00:20:58up the salon.
00:20:59Word travels fast,
00:21:00but it's already
00:21:01long gone.
00:21:02Don't have to lie.
00:21:03Six,
00:21:04seven,
00:21:06eight.
00:21:09I need another
00:21:10suitcase.
00:21:13The day is
00:21:14here.
00:21:15I cannot believe
00:21:16that I'm about
00:21:17to get on my
00:21:18flight to Sydney,
00:21:19Australia for the
00:21:20first time to meet
00:21:21Joshua in person.
00:21:22I feel like I'm
00:21:23in a dream.
00:21:23Like, is this
00:21:24actually happening?
00:21:26I'm so excited
00:21:27to see him in person.
00:21:28Like,
00:21:29like, is he going
00:21:30to be affectionate
00:21:30and, like, touchy-feely?
00:21:31Is he gonna
00:21:33like, run up to me
00:21:34at the airport?
00:21:34Like, am I gonna
00:21:35meet his family?
00:21:36Like, I'm not just
00:21:37going there for,
00:21:39like, a vacation.
00:21:39Like, I'm going there
00:21:40to see if he can
00:21:41be my future husband.
00:21:43Oh.
00:21:50Oh.
00:21:51My.
00:21:52God.
00:21:53These are, like,
00:21:54half of my bikinis.
00:21:56Okay.
00:21:57This is, like,
00:21:59granny style.
00:22:01This is, like,
00:22:02okay, like,
00:22:03I'm not having
00:22:04sex with you,
00:22:05but, like,
00:22:05maybe we'll go to,
00:22:06like, second
00:22:07or third base.
00:22:10This is, like,
00:22:12okay, game on bikini.
00:22:16It's been six months
00:22:17since I've had sex,
00:22:18which is the longest
00:22:19time I've gone
00:22:20without sex,
00:22:20since I've been
00:22:21a freshman in high school.
00:22:23I'm literally
00:22:24a born-again virgin.
00:22:27I want to try
00:22:29and take it slow
00:22:29with Joshua.
00:22:30I definitely want
00:22:31to have more
00:22:31of an emotional connection
00:22:32before having
00:22:33a physical connection.
00:22:34But even if we do,
00:22:36his roommate
00:22:37is gonna be there
00:22:38the whole time,
00:22:39which is, like,
00:22:40so awkward.
00:22:43I feel very strange
00:22:45that I'm gonna be
00:22:45staying with Joshua
00:22:47and also a roommate.
00:22:48We have chatted
00:22:50on the phone
00:22:50a few times.
00:22:51He's like a chatterbox
00:22:52and he tells me
00:22:53all the cool places
00:22:53in Australia,
00:22:54but it's a little weird.
00:22:56Why is he bringing
00:22:56a roommate to the rental
00:22:58at 40 years old?
00:22:59It seems like I'm going
00:23:00in a thruckle here.
00:23:01Like,
00:23:03Josh wants a nice place
00:23:04for us to stay
00:23:05when I'm there,
00:23:06so he's temporarily
00:23:07renting an apartment
00:23:09with his friend Chris
00:23:10because he can't
00:23:11afford it alone,
00:23:11so Chris is
00:23:13splitting it with him.
00:23:15If Joshua was honest
00:23:16with me about his
00:23:16living situation up front,
00:23:18like, I definitely
00:23:18would have split
00:23:19half and half with him.
00:23:21But I guess he was
00:23:22just trying to be nice
00:23:23and I don't want
00:23:23to offend him,
00:23:24so whatever.
00:23:25I'm just gonna roll with it.
00:23:29Oh!
00:23:30Yulia's here!
00:23:34Elise!
00:23:35Hi!
00:23:35Are you ready?
00:23:36Yes!
00:23:37Really?
00:23:38Hi!
00:23:38How are you?
00:23:40Oh.
00:23:41My friend Yulia
00:23:42is taking me
00:23:43to the airport today
00:23:44because I'm freaking out
00:23:46and I need all
00:23:46the emotional support
00:23:47I can get.
00:23:49Should we do
00:23:49one at a time together?
00:23:50Yeah.
00:23:52Okay.
00:23:54You think you got it
00:23:56or should I,
00:23:56how do we do this?
00:23:57Oh my God.
00:23:58It's 50 pounds.
00:23:59I didn't sign up for this.
00:24:01You take this one.
00:24:02Okay.
00:24:03Okay.
00:24:05Go, go, go!
00:24:06Okay, okay.
00:24:07Before my hand falls off.
00:24:09Okay.
00:24:09Put it down.
00:24:10She says.
00:24:11One down.
00:24:13Wait, wait.
00:24:15Okay.
00:24:21My goodness, Elise.
00:24:23All right.
00:24:24Let's head the road.
00:24:26Sydney, Australia,
00:24:27I'm coming for you!
00:24:28I'm coming for you!
00:24:34So, are you excited?
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:37I know.
00:24:38Like, I really am excited.
00:24:39I've never felt this way
00:24:40about someone before.
00:24:44I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:24:46I know.
00:24:47I know.
00:24:47I want to, like,
00:24:48get questions answered.
00:24:50Yeah.
00:24:51I mean,
00:24:52I don't even think
00:24:52he can drive a boat anymore
00:24:54because of the work incident.
00:24:56That's so stressful
00:24:56to be happening
00:24:57right before your freaking trip.
00:25:01After Girls Night Out,
00:25:02the other night,
00:25:02I ended up calling Yulia
00:25:03about the text I got from Josh
00:25:05because what he told me
00:25:06was very concerning.
00:25:08I don't know what to do.
00:25:10This sounds like a disaster.
00:25:14He sells boats for a living.
00:25:15He's a yacht broker.
00:25:16And a few weeks ago,
00:25:18Joshua took a boat
00:25:21that his company was selling
00:25:23for a joyride
00:25:24with some of his friends
00:25:25and ended up crashing
00:25:27the boat into rocks.
00:25:28And he has a final warning at work.
00:25:31I think that it's
00:25:32absolutely irresponsible of him.
00:25:34The man's almost 40.
00:25:35I know.
00:25:37Oh, my God.
00:25:38We're close to the airport.
00:25:39I see it.
00:25:40So, he might lose his job.
00:25:43I just found out that
00:25:44he lives with his parents.
00:25:47It's crazy.
00:25:48Like, it seems like
00:25:49his life is falling apart
00:25:50as I'm coming.
00:25:51But I really like him
00:25:52and I'm starting to fall for him.
00:25:54So, I just want to give this a chance.
00:25:59Are you ready?
00:26:00No.
00:26:01Kind of, yes.
00:26:02I'm ready as I'll ever be.
00:26:03Listen, if I didn't take this trip,
00:26:05I would always think
00:26:06in the back of my mind,
00:26:07what if?
00:26:07What if?
00:26:08What if?
00:26:08But at the same time,
00:26:10like, just, you know,
00:26:11don't carry your heart
00:26:12on your sleeve
00:26:13like you usually do.
00:26:14I love you.
00:26:15I love you.
00:26:15I love you.
00:26:16With all my heart and soul.
00:26:18You got this.
00:26:19Thank you so much for giving me.
00:26:21I'll text you, okay?
00:26:22Bye.
00:26:32Am I getting pranked?
00:26:34What is going on?
00:26:37I applied for the tourist visa
00:26:39once I got my ticket
00:26:41to go see Joshua
00:26:42and it got instantly accepted
00:26:43and I was like,
00:26:45great, perfect.
00:26:46But I get to the airport
00:26:47and they're like,
00:26:49your visa is denied.
00:26:52Oh, my God.
00:26:53I'm literally
00:26:54my pants.
00:26:56This guy keeps
00:26:57refreshing the system
00:26:58and he keeps saying
00:26:58I'm denied.
00:26:59I've literally put my heart
00:27:01and my soul into Joshua.
00:27:02I just want to go into this
00:27:03with, like, ease
00:27:05and calmness
00:27:05and excitement.
00:27:07Why is this
00:27:07happening to me
00:27:08at the airport?
00:27:10Did it work?
00:27:12No.
00:27:13No?
00:27:14I got to night again.
00:27:16I got to night again.
00:27:19I'm having panic attack.
00:27:24The girl in the photo,
00:27:26she's my friend.
00:27:27And do we know
00:27:28if this is still
00:27:29going on currently?
00:27:34Are we actually calling?
00:27:35Oh, you're gonna...
00:27:37Oh, f***.
00:27:37Get your questions ready.
00:27:54Babe, what are you doing?
00:27:57Are you going somewhere?
00:27:58Yeah, I'm...
00:28:00I'm gonna go meet up
00:28:01with Anne Spring.
00:28:01Really?
00:28:02You're just gonna leave me
00:28:03here by myself?
00:28:04There's a nice weather
00:28:05right now,
00:28:06the beach,
00:28:07the pool.
00:28:08You're just gonna
00:28:09leave me all day?
00:28:10I'm not sure
00:28:11how long
00:28:11it's gonna take.
00:28:12Aye, aye.
00:28:14Don't forget, right?
00:28:15My dad is coming later.
00:28:17Okay.
00:28:18Okay.
00:28:28I'm feeling a little nervous
00:28:29because I don't know
00:28:31what Aviva's gonna hear
00:28:32from Anne Spring.
00:28:33Probably more lies,
00:28:34but I don't want that
00:28:35to affect us.
00:28:36I don't want her to hear
00:28:37something really bad
00:28:38and want to end things.
00:28:41I don't want to lose Aviva,
00:28:42especially over this.
00:28:45she would be stupid
00:28:47to have us break up
00:28:48for this,
00:28:49but I have a bad
00:28:50feeling about it.
00:29:00Hello.
00:29:01Hi.
00:29:02Would you like
00:29:02something to drink?
00:29:04Do you have a mojito?
00:29:05Yes, we do.
00:29:06Okay, make it extra strong.
00:29:07I will.
00:29:08And then I'm waiting
00:29:09for two more people.
00:29:10Okay.
00:29:11You're welcome.
00:29:18Good to see you.
00:29:20Good to see you.
00:29:22I already ordered
00:29:23a strong drink.
00:29:24Oh, is that the timing
00:29:25we're on?
00:29:26Sure are.
00:29:27Okay.
00:29:31Looks so good.
00:29:33You're welcome.
00:29:34Can we order something?
00:29:35Can I get a strawberry daiquiri?
00:29:37Strawberry mojito?
00:29:40Strawberry mojito?
00:29:40Yes.
00:29:41Okay.
00:29:46So, mojito o'clock here.
00:29:48Yep.
00:29:51Last night was pretty intense.
00:29:53I saw you and Stig talking,
00:29:55and it seemed a little heated.
00:29:58You want to give me
00:29:59your side of the story?
00:30:01Did he give you
00:30:03his side of the story?
00:30:04He did.
00:30:05He told me that
00:30:07he took a picture
00:30:10with a fan
00:30:10and that it was all
00:30:12just a fan interaction.
00:30:18It's a friend of Corinne's,
00:30:20and the girl has no reason
00:30:21to lie.
00:30:22So, I got your frozen coconut
00:30:25strawberry mojito
00:30:26and your strawberry
00:30:28and your
00:30:29you ladies enjoy.
00:30:29Thank you so much.
00:30:32So, maybe I should
00:30:34let Corinne explain.
00:30:37So,
00:30:38here is this
00:30:40picture,
00:30:41and if you can see,
00:30:43like, his...
00:30:43Yeah.
00:30:46That's a little bit
00:30:47more than a fan.
00:30:49The girl in the photo,
00:30:51we have known each other
00:30:52since we were really young.
00:30:54She has been telling me
00:30:56about her and him
00:30:57for a while,
00:30:58that they have been
00:31:00having relations
00:31:01off and on.
00:31:04So,
00:31:05when Spring had told me
00:31:07that you guys
00:31:07were starting to dating,
00:31:09it was kind of
00:31:10weird to me
00:31:11because I know
00:31:12that they have
00:31:13a low-key relationship,
00:31:14but they do have
00:31:16a relationship.
00:31:17Sexual,
00:31:18everything.
00:31:22Wow.
00:31:24And do we know
00:31:25if this is still
00:31:26going on currently?
00:31:29What do we know
00:31:30before I lose
00:31:31my mind on him?
00:31:32I can, like,
00:31:33see if I can
00:31:34call her and see
00:31:35if she would...
00:31:36I would love to.
00:31:43Are we actually
00:31:44calling?
00:31:45Oh.
00:31:46You're gonna...
00:31:47Oh,
00:31:47get your questions
00:31:49ready.
00:31:52Oh,
00:31:54can you hear me?
00:31:58So,
00:31:59Aviva,
00:31:59like,
00:31:59what would you want
00:32:00me to ask
00:32:01to ask my friend?
00:32:02When was the last time
00:32:04they slept together?
00:32:06Like,
00:32:06when was the last time
00:32:07you and Stig
00:32:08ever, like,
00:32:10or whatever?
00:32:16she said last month
00:32:18when they were here
00:32:19in Placentia.
00:32:22Have they talked
00:32:23after that?
00:32:25Like,
00:32:25are you and Stig,
00:32:26like,
00:32:26still communicating?
00:32:28Do you guys still talk?
00:32:32They still communicate.
00:32:33Like,
00:32:34he ever tell you
00:32:34he's in a relationship?
00:32:37So,
00:32:38he tell you
00:32:38he's single.
00:32:41He says he's single.
00:32:43So,
00:32:44he never mentioned
00:32:45Aviva?
00:32:46Mm.
00:32:47Okay.
00:32:49I'm sorry,
00:32:50friend.
00:32:51I owe you
00:32:51a night out.
00:32:52Bye.
00:32:57Do you still believe him
00:32:58when he's saying
00:32:59he doesn't know her
00:33:00and that she's just a fan?
00:33:02This girl has no reason
00:33:04to lie to Corinne.
00:33:05Yeah, she has no reason
00:33:06to lie.
00:33:06She didn't even
00:33:07know about you.
00:33:13So,
00:33:13I have a real
00:33:14shocking text here.
00:33:20We do have
00:33:21an upcoming trip.
00:33:24Them together?
00:33:26So,
00:33:26this trip
00:33:27is in San Pedro
00:33:29end of the month
00:33:30Friday to Sunday.
00:33:35Exactly
00:33:36when you leave.
00:33:42Sounds like
00:33:42this girl
00:33:43has kind of
00:33:44a casual
00:33:45relationship
00:33:45with Stig.
00:33:46Not like
00:33:47a serious
00:33:47girlfriend.
00:33:48But still,
00:33:50if she's telling
00:33:50the truth,
00:33:51they were hooking
00:33:52up a month ago
00:33:53when we were
00:33:54supposed to be
00:33:54exclusive.
00:33:56That's just
00:33:56crazy to me.
00:33:58I feel like
00:33:59I don't even
00:33:59know Stig
00:34:00at this point
00:34:01and that's
00:34:02devastating.
00:34:08I wanted to tell you
00:34:09before you asked
00:34:10me to marry you.
00:34:11But I was scared.
00:34:13In my culture,
00:34:14it's a sin.
00:34:14They will banish you.
00:34:16I'm sorry
00:34:17that it took me
00:34:18so long
00:34:18to tell you.
00:34:19shots.
00:34:20Kick price.
00:34:35I've been married
00:34:36five times.
00:34:41Five times?
00:34:44You would be
00:34:45my sixth husband.
00:34:48My sixth husband.
00:34:58Ouch.
00:35:07So why didn't you
00:35:09mention them to me?
00:35:10Why didn't you
00:35:10discuss with me?
00:35:11You only told me
00:35:12of two.
00:35:13Well, you never
00:35:14really asked.
00:35:15And so I just
00:35:17never mentioned it.
00:35:18But there's...
00:35:21Yeah.
00:35:26I don't feel bad.
00:35:28You can get married
00:35:30to a hundred men
00:35:31and divorce.
00:35:33But when you meet
00:35:35your God-given
00:35:36husband,
00:35:40it lasts forever.
00:35:44So what transpired?
00:35:46Well, they haven't
00:35:47all been faithful.
00:35:48Really?
00:35:49Yeah.
00:35:49Did they cheat?
00:35:50The men?
00:35:52One did.
00:35:52Okay, one did.
00:35:53The fifth one.
00:35:55So tell me.
00:35:57Tell me about
00:35:57these 50 men.
00:35:58What happened?
00:36:03Yeah.
00:36:07The fifth one
00:36:08was really bad.
00:36:09We were married
00:36:11a few months
00:36:13and then they ran
00:36:15off to be with
00:36:15somebody else
00:36:16and I couldn't
00:36:17locate them
00:36:18for quite a while.
00:36:19And I recently
00:36:21located them.
00:36:22Okay.
00:36:23And I filled out
00:36:25the divorce papers
00:36:26but I'm still married.
00:36:30You are still married
00:36:32to the fifth one.
00:36:34I am still married.
00:36:36Okay.
00:36:40I wanted to tell you
00:36:41before you asked
00:36:42me to marry you
00:36:43but you asked me
00:36:44to marry you
00:36:45in the middle
00:36:45of the airport
00:36:46with everybody there
00:36:47and I couldn't say no
00:36:48and I couldn't tell you that.
00:36:52So I have been sleeping
00:36:53with another man's wife.
00:36:57We are legally separated.
00:37:11You don't know
00:37:11what you have cost me.
00:37:13Sleeping with another man's wife
00:37:15in my culture
00:37:15is a sin.
00:37:16They will banish you.
00:37:17I'm sorry.
00:37:25Daniel, listen.
00:37:26I have not been with this person
00:37:28for nine years.
00:37:29Nine years.
00:37:30We've been married
00:37:31but we have not lived
00:37:32in the same state.
00:37:33We have not lived
00:37:34shared the same bed
00:37:35for nine years.
00:37:36We have been separated
00:37:37for nine years.
00:37:38I call you on phone
00:37:40every day.
00:37:40Yeah.
00:37:42After a conversation
00:37:43I will tell you
00:37:43I love you
00:37:44and you will respond.
00:37:45Because I love you.
00:37:46You love me
00:37:47and you have not
00:37:48told me about it.
00:37:49I have not.
00:37:49Can you keep
00:37:50shut, keep quiet.
00:37:55This is a month
00:37:56you have been dating.
00:37:57You never told me.
00:37:59No.
00:38:01I was scared
00:38:02to tell you.
00:38:04It took me a long time
00:38:06to get the divorce
00:38:07but the divorce
00:38:08is almost here.
00:38:18I've told you
00:38:19all the things
00:38:20you always know about me.
00:38:23I never hide anything.
00:38:26You told me
00:38:28you love me.
00:38:29I do love you.
00:38:32Sleeping with
00:38:33another man's wife
00:38:33I don't think
00:38:34is love.
00:38:37I'm sorry.
00:38:41You're sorry?
00:38:42I'm sorry.
00:38:45My uncle came
00:38:46all the way
00:38:46from Goware
00:38:47to Lagos
00:38:47because of
00:38:48you and I.
00:38:51My friends came.
00:38:54But I never know
00:38:55you have
00:38:55you know
00:38:56hidden stores.
00:38:57So I lied to them.
00:38:59You didn't lie to them.
00:39:00I did this.
00:39:04I'm sorry
00:39:04that it took me
00:39:05so long
00:39:06to tell you.
00:39:09This is unbelievable.
00:39:12I don't know
00:39:13how to fix this.
00:39:14I, I,
00:39:16I'm sorry.
00:39:17Do you want
00:39:17your ring back?
00:39:19I'll give you
00:39:20your ring back
00:39:21and I'll leave.
00:39:39Oh, my goodness.
00:39:44Oh, my goodness.
00:39:51I've been sleeping
00:39:52with her.
00:39:53Sleeping with
00:39:54another man's wife.
00:39:58No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:40:02I don't know
00:40:02what to do.
00:40:03Oh, my God.
00:40:06Oh, my God.
00:40:13Oh, my God.
00:40:20How are you feeling?
00:40:20Are you nervous?
00:40:21I'm nervous
00:40:22but like
00:40:22it's an excited
00:40:23nervousness.
00:40:24I'm so excited
00:40:25to meet my girlfriend,
00:40:26Elise.
00:40:27I'm obsessed
00:40:27with her.
00:40:28So I'm hoping
00:40:29she will like me
00:40:31as much as I like her.
00:40:32It is definitely
00:40:33a couple of hours.
00:40:34Yep.
00:40:35Yep.
00:40:35You're yourself,
00:40:36right?
00:40:36I'm just
00:40:39The guy keeps
00:40:40calling the
00:40:41border control
00:40:41in Australia.
00:40:42My visa's been
00:40:43denied eight times.
00:40:45What do I do?
00:40:59I know.
00:41:02Oh, my God.
00:41:05I mean,
00:41:06Oh, my God.
00:41:28Last night, Trish was very cold, and I felt like she needed her space.
00:41:35And I've been trying to make the most of our last day here at Nosy Bay, trying to remind
00:41:40Trish of how fun things can be between us.
00:41:44I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
00:41:48I don't know for sure.
00:41:53Why was the round so short?
00:41:56Like, they was only into it for, like, 20 seconds.
00:42:00I don't know.
00:42:03I thought you knew something about this.
00:42:07I don't know their rules.
00:42:11Moringa Fight started in Madagascar, and you don't use something on your hand.
00:42:17You just fight directly.
00:42:21It's scary, but that's the culture, because before, we didn't have anything to protect.
00:42:28This is why, and we keep the culture till now.
00:42:34We should solve our problem, and I will win.
00:42:38Oh, you will?
00:42:39I'll give you one free shot.
00:42:44We could watch them, you know, fighting here, and then we could do some wrestling at home.
00:42:52I can't forget all the things he has done, but it makes me feel a little bit happy and smile.
00:43:02I want this relationship to work.
00:43:06That's why I'm trying to give him a chance.
00:43:11Okay, this is the deal.
00:43:12You have to pick one, and if the one you pick win, we do have sex tonight.
00:43:20If the one I pick win, we don't have sex tonight.
00:43:25I might put my sex life on the lawn.
00:43:29In some other man's head.
00:43:31No, that's my rule, so pick the good one.
00:43:36I mean, the dude over there is much taller, so I'm going to have to go with him.
00:43:41Okay, I'm going to take the blue shirt off.
00:43:43Okay, okay, okay.
00:43:45You got to get him for me, man.
00:43:46My sex life depends on it.
00:43:50Hey, keep your distance, man.
00:43:53Yeah, you're going to make a ball get him.
00:43:57Hey, hey, hey, referee.
00:44:01I don't know the rules to this thing.
00:44:03I don't know how points are scored.
00:44:05Come on, my man, get him.
00:44:07But after everything we've been through,
00:44:09I'm just happy that she's even considering having sex with me.
00:44:14Give him, keep that distance.
00:44:15I hate seeing people fighting.
00:44:17Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:44:18Oh, yeah, get him.
00:44:20Yeah, oh, you open it up more.
00:44:22You open it up more.
00:44:23It's over, it's over, it's over.
00:44:32Come on, come on, ref.
00:44:33Do the right thing, ref.
00:44:36Yeah!
00:44:41I'm getting some, baby.
00:44:42Get ready, get ready.
00:44:44We had a really good day, but there is no way.
00:44:50We are going to have sex tonight.
00:44:52I don't want him to touch me at all.
00:44:55It's too soon for that.
00:45:00Oh, look at the...
00:45:02That's what they used to use in the Jesus days right there.
00:45:05Yeah, we use it to carry everything.
00:45:07You'll see a lot of it, man.
00:45:13Yeah, so, um, what do you think, baby?
00:45:17Do you still want me to leave your dad?
00:45:23I already told my dad that we were here
00:45:26and we are coming to visit them,
00:45:28so I cannot go back.
00:45:39You're not going to tell him about what happened, are you?
00:45:43No, I'm not.
00:45:46My dad is really protected.
00:45:48Like, oh, my daughter is in a good and a right hand.
00:45:53That's what he want.
00:45:55That's what I want from you, too, baby.
00:45:57I want your happiness.
00:46:00And hopefully he'll be able to see, you know,
00:46:02how much that I love his daughter.
00:46:10I'm feeling more nervous and anxious
00:46:12than I was before about this meeting with her family.
00:46:17I'm worried about going there
00:46:19and dealing with their expectations
00:46:22when we're not even in a good place.
00:46:25They want a younger guy that's, you know,
00:46:28never been married
00:46:29and that is excited about having children.
00:46:34And then that's something that I'm not.
00:46:37I love Trish so much
00:46:39and I really want to be with her
00:46:41and make this work.
00:46:43But right now,
00:46:44it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:47:02What do we do?
00:47:03What do we do?
00:47:09This is like the fourth time system regression.
00:47:12I'm supposed to be boarding my flight
00:47:14to Australia right now,
00:47:16but I'm stuck here
00:47:17because my visa's been denied eight times.
00:47:21The guy keeps calling
00:47:22the Board of Control in Australia.
00:47:24I am panicking and I'm freaking out.
00:47:28It worked.
00:47:29What?
00:47:31It's worked?
00:47:32We got it?
00:47:34Give me a high five.
00:47:35Let's get the guys going.
00:47:37Come on.
00:47:37Thank God!
00:47:39They got it!
00:47:40Thank you so much.
00:47:41If I wasn't about to go
00:47:42meet the love of my life,
00:47:43I would ask you for your number.
00:47:45The guy told me
00:47:46that I put my first name
00:47:49as my last name
00:47:50when applying for the visa
00:47:52so it didn't match my passport.
00:47:56What a sire relief
00:47:57because, like,
00:47:58I'm so excited to go see Josh.
00:48:02Always do this ritual
00:48:03before applying.
00:48:07I'm going to have to do it.
00:48:09I cannot believe
00:48:11that I am traveling the world
00:48:13for someone
00:48:14I've never met in person.
00:48:18But I'm doing this
00:48:20because I truly believe
00:48:21that Joshua is my partner
00:48:23and I've never felt
00:48:25more ready in my life.
00:48:28going to Australia.
00:48:30Oh my God!
00:48:31I'm going to Australia.
00:48:33Australia.
00:48:35What a sire!
00:48:39What a sire!
00:48:44Oh my God.
00:48:49Oh my God.
00:48:51Oh my God!
00:48:53Oh my God!
00:48:56Oh my god!
00:48:56I can't stop it!
00:48:59I can't stop it!
00:49:00Oh my God!
00:49:23Oi, dickhead.
00:49:25Oi.
00:49:27How are you?
00:49:29Hey.
00:49:32My name is Joshua, I'm 39 years old, and I live in Sydney, Australia.
00:49:37I'm sort of in between places at the moment.
00:49:40How are you?
00:49:42Elise is s**t.
00:49:43It is, it is.
00:49:46Yogurt, veggies, but my girlfriend Elise is coming, and I want a nice place for her.
00:49:51So my friend and I, Chris, have a rental that we have organised for when she gets here.
00:49:56Did she request all of, literally every bit of this?
00:49:59She requested a lot more.
00:50:01And how are you feeling?
00:50:02Are you nervous?
00:50:03I'm nervous, but like, it's an excited nervousness, so it is definitely...
00:50:07What is it, a couple of hours?
00:50:08Yep.
00:50:08Yep.
00:50:08Until I have to pick her up from the airport.
00:50:11You're s*****ing yourself, aren't you?
00:50:12I'm just...
00:50:15Come check this out.
00:50:19What is it?
00:50:21I thought I'd establish a hierarchy really quickly.
00:50:24Are you kidding?
00:50:27It's in my bedroom.
00:50:29Wow.
00:50:30Elise is going to f***** hate it.
00:50:32I like it.
00:50:36Tell me about this photo that Chris puts above your bed.
00:50:40It's typical Chris, you know.
00:50:42Jesus.
00:50:43You don't have to hang me right now.
00:50:45You can build up to it.
00:50:47She gets here tonight, so we'll see if it stays up or not.
00:50:51I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, you know, after talking for six months.
00:50:57Elise makes me feel excitement because she could be the one.
00:51:03Elise is beautiful, but what I love about Elise is that she's an unbelievable listener,
00:51:08and you can tell she cares.
00:51:11Elise is very fiery, but I think that's an attractive quality.
00:51:15I know when she gets here that I will be obsessed with her, so I'm hoping that she will like
00:51:21me as much as I know I like her.
00:51:24Here we go.
00:51:32What are you going to wear?
00:51:34Oh, blue pants, cream jacket.
00:51:35Wait, so we're wearing the same thing.
00:51:37How's she going to know who's who?
00:51:39No, I'm just joking.
00:51:42Today's the Melbourne Cup race, so it's a horse race.
00:51:45The whole of Australia watches it.
00:51:46This is something that Chris and I would typically celebrate together.
00:51:50Ready, Princess?
00:51:52Princess is almost ready.
00:51:55It's an excuse to dress up and have a few drinks.
00:51:57We're going to whisk her straight off the plane and straight to watch the race.
00:52:01She says she's spontaneous, so I think she'll be okay with it.
00:52:04So we can go straight from the airport to the Melbourne Cup off a 25-hour flight.
00:52:15I'm now starting to be like, oh, it's actually happening.
00:52:19Yeah.
00:52:20Big day.
00:52:22I'm jumping into a relationship with someone that I've never met, like, in person.
00:52:26It's so different.
00:52:28So being a Miami chick, how do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
00:52:34I don't know.
00:52:35If she has a problem, it'll be with Nat, not me, I reckon.
00:52:37Yeah, if she has a problem, it'll definitely be with Nat, not you.
00:52:40Yes.
00:52:41Do you think American girls are more jealous?
00:52:44Do you think it's weird for them?
00:52:45Do you think it's different?
00:52:46Like, male and female friends?
00:52:47What do they think?
00:52:48You make a good point.
00:52:49I didn't think about that.
00:52:53My friend that's a girl, Nat, she's just a special person that looks after everyone.
00:52:58Like, she's let me stay with her while I've been looking for a place.
00:53:03So, I've been living with her for three months.
00:53:07Wait, let me step back for one second, because Elise said that you told her you were with your parents.
00:53:13Oh.
00:53:16No.
00:53:20We're here.
00:53:22Well, I am...
00:53:23I'm nervous.
00:53:25Very nervous.
00:53:26Jesus.
00:53:29Hold my hand.
00:53:33I got you, boy.
00:53:35It is really important for me that this works out.
00:53:39You know, I dragged her halfway across the world.
00:53:40I wouldn't do that on a whim or just for fun.
00:53:47But, you know, I feel a bit embarrassed because I don't have a lot of stability in my life at
00:53:51the moment.
00:53:52And I know that's important to a girlfriend.
00:53:56But I hope she can see that I'm ready to get really serious and, you know, settle down.
00:54:03She's already... is she already here or...?
00:54:05Yeah, she just touched down, so...
00:54:07What?
00:54:08Yeah.
00:54:10I literally just landed in Australia.
00:54:13I am tired.
00:54:14I'm overwhelmed.
00:54:15But I am about to meet Josh for the first time.
00:54:19Oh, my God.
00:54:21I cannot believe I'm here.
00:54:23My adrenaline is pumping.
00:54:24Oh, my God.
00:54:25I'm gonna go do it.
00:54:26Beautiful lady.
00:54:28Hopefully my husband thinks I'm beautiful too.
00:54:30I'm about to meet him for the first time.
00:54:34You want me to maybe stand a little back or should I be right here next to you?
00:54:37Well, that was always the case.
00:54:37You weren't coming right up with me, right?
00:54:39Okay, right.
00:54:40Okay.
00:54:40Does she know I'm here, though?
00:54:43Um...
00:54:43I don't know.
00:54:44No.
00:54:44I didn't say anything, no.
00:54:46Okay.
00:54:48I have so many emotions right now.
00:54:51Like, I literally just saw on Chris's social media that Chris and Josh are, like, in, like,
00:54:57straight suits and ties.
00:55:00First of all, weird that Chris is coming to pick me up.
00:55:03I have so much anxiety already, how it is.
00:55:06Like, so much anxiety.
00:55:10Do you want a light massage?
00:55:12Take the nerves away.
00:55:15I've been envisioning this moment for so long,
00:55:18and I've already had a travel day from hell.
00:55:21So the fact that he has to bring his friend to the airport,
00:55:25is he not comfortable enough to meet me on his own?
00:55:27Like, what the ****?
00:55:30I just traveled 30 hours, so I have all this time to think,
00:55:34and I'm starting to spiral out of control.
00:55:37This guy is 39 and has a roommate.
00:55:40And on top of that, he has this job incident.
00:55:45And I'm thinking about all the things my parents said to me
00:55:47and the overwhelming pressure of, like, not trying to let them down.
00:55:51Good luck.
00:55:52Don't let them.
00:55:57I've been wrong so many times,
00:55:59and I've done not only damage to me, but damage to my family.
00:56:03I don't have another wrong in me.
00:56:12Hello.
00:56:13Hi.
00:56:14This is my dad.
00:56:16Hi.
00:56:16When it comes to dating, my son is always drama,
00:56:20talking to a bunch of girls.
00:56:21When he said that he's serious as a beaver, I have to question it.
00:56:25That girl said, you guys actually hooked up before, about a month ago.
00:56:30Hello.
00:56:31So, is it made of this shoe?
00:56:50Oh, look, there they are. That must be his dad.
00:56:59How are you doing?
00:57:00How are you doing?
00:57:01Hi.
00:57:02How are you?
00:57:03Hello.
00:57:04Hello.
00:57:04Spring.
00:57:05Nice to meet you.
00:57:06Hi.
00:57:06Nice to meet you.
00:57:08I'm a beaver.
00:57:09Nice to see you.
00:57:11Can I offer you guys a drink, or what are you drinking?
00:57:14Yes.
00:57:14I would love a drink.
00:57:15I don't know.
00:57:16Did you try a Panty Ripper yet?
00:57:18You might be one of those.
00:57:20True Panty Ripper, please.
00:57:21Yes, please.
00:57:23I had plans to meet up with Steg's dad tonight, and I'm really, really nervous.
00:57:30I don't want to come off as just this crazy girl meeting his dad for the first time.
00:57:37But after talking to Corinne's friend, I learned so much today, and I definitely want to bring
00:57:44this up to Steg.
00:57:45I wanted Aunt Spring to be here because she can ask all the hard questions and basically
00:57:51play a bad cop, and she doesn't have to worry about the repercussions.
00:57:57You took her away from me all day, Aunt Spring.
00:57:59It's definitely been an interesting day.
00:58:03Yeah.
00:58:04Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
00:58:05Hmm.
00:58:06There's a lot to talk about.
00:58:08Oh, really?
00:58:11Aviva has been gone since morning with her aunt.
00:58:15Right now, the vibes are off.
00:58:17Aviva has basically been, like, ignoring my texts all of today.
00:58:23I'm pretty sure Aunt Spring is there putting stuff in her head.
00:58:26So I'm, like, I'm, I don't know.
00:58:30I'm anxious.
00:58:32My dad came to the hotel earlier.
00:58:34I gave him a quick summary of what went down with Aunt Spring.
00:58:38Last night, Aunt Spring pull up swinging.
00:58:41Yeah?
00:58:41Yes.
00:58:42Pull out the phone and ask me, so what is this?
00:58:46So I got a picture of me and a girl, and hold her by her waist, and I did.
00:58:51Really?
00:58:52Are you sure you don't have done with this girl?
00:58:54No, no, no, no, no.
00:58:55I didn't even know this would be the father.
00:58:58Where do we start?
00:59:00What?
00:59:01Jump right into it?
00:59:02I don't know.
00:59:03I mean, you're meeting my dad for the first time.
00:59:05I know, I know.
00:59:06Goodness gracious.
00:59:06This is very uncomfortable.
00:59:08Sorry that you have to be here for this.
00:59:13Aviva, maybe you should be the one to explain to him what's going on today?
00:59:21I mean, I talked to that girl and...
00:59:23What girl?
00:59:24Corinne?
00:59:25No, not, not to my niece.
00:59:27Yeah.
00:59:27To the girl in the photo.
00:59:29The random girl I took a picture with.
00:59:38What happened?
00:59:40Um, she said that you guys actually had, you know, hooked up before.
00:59:48It was about a month ago, and that apparently you're going to San Pedro at the end of the month
00:59:54with her.
01:00:00So, is any of this true?
01:00:02No.
01:00:04No.
01:00:05That, I swear.
01:00:07I swear, I swear.
01:00:09I can see where Ann Spring is coming from.
01:00:12When he said that he's serious as Aviva, I have to question him.
01:00:16Because when it comes to dating, my son is always, um, drama.
01:00:22He's always been talking to a bunch of girls, and I just never saw him just settling down now, especially
01:00:29with the work that he's doing.
01:00:31I'm sure my dad the photo so he could tell.
01:00:35I don't know why a best friend would lie to a best friend.
01:00:38That's probably the text between them.
01:00:40What happened there?
01:00:41She said, my man happened.
01:00:44My man happened.
01:00:45So...
01:00:45I mean, I can see why you said...
01:00:47And so we called her to clear up that, and she spoke with Aviva.
01:00:50Probably not a good look, but...
01:00:51It's not a good look, but to me it's not a definite...
01:00:54I would figure that if, uh, this girl really wants to prove that she's, this is going on, she'd say,
01:01:01here's a text.
01:01:03That was the last one she provided with him telling her that he loved it.
01:01:07But...
01:01:07Have you seen, like, conversations, like...
01:01:10Not long conversations, no.
01:01:11Yeah, not long conversations, but the only texts that I saw were...
01:01:14Like saying, like, well, can I meet you? Can I see you?
01:01:16Everything like that, that'll prove that...
01:01:19Yeah, no, it's about it.
01:01:22Young lady probably didn't even have my number when we died. That's crazy.
01:01:27I have no reason to lie.
01:01:30She just completely made that up.
01:01:32Then what, what, what, what, what do you need from me?
01:01:35Call me every day. You want my location?
01:01:39I don't have nothing to hide.
01:01:41Hey, if I'm here having you with my dad, do you think I'm not serious about you?
01:01:49I'm not sure if he's just lying and making this stuff up, but he did bring up a point that
01:01:55the girl in the photo couldn't provide solid evidence.
01:02:01I don't even know if she actually has Sig's phone number.
01:02:05So all I have right now is his word against hers.
01:02:11Well, I'm gonna take your word for it, that maybe she's just trying to cause drama.
01:02:17Hmm.
01:02:20What's the humor about?
01:02:21I don't know.
01:02:22Man, Spring, you don't believe me?
01:02:24I mean, I don't know.
01:02:27I do feel that Aviva is quick to trust Stig.
01:02:32Stig may be able to fool Aviva, but he's definitely not fooling me.
01:02:36But I have given her all the information, and it is her choice to make her future decisions.
01:02:45And if I do later, you know, find out that, you know, you weren't telling the truth, I obviously wouldn't
01:02:50want to continue, but I do still want to work things out.
01:02:54Like, I want it, I want it to work it out with you.
01:02:57Babe, for the millionth time, I don't mind it could be a billionth time.
01:03:03I'm gonna be as transparent as I can in this relationship.
01:03:07I live in a glass house.
01:03:08Nothing to hide right.
01:03:09I got to.
01:03:12I'm glad all the drama is done.
01:03:15I have a clean slate right now, but I'm definitely worried about what else could come out in the future.
01:03:24A few months ago, when Aviva was hinting about being exclusive, I did take some steps and made some changes,
01:03:30but I wasn't.
01:03:31A hundred percent.
01:03:32I was still entertaining people.
01:03:34I wasn't sleeping around, but I was texting people, hanging around people.
01:03:39Not really proud of it now, but I was still unsure about Aviva because we haven't met in real life.
01:03:47But Aviva doesn't notice?
01:03:50Yeah, she doesn't notice.
01:03:52I didn't want to scare her away.
01:03:54And now that we've met in person, and it's what I thought it was, no other woman in the picture.
01:04:00I'm done with all that.
01:04:02Now I'm just hoping that she doesn't find out.
01:04:05We good?
01:04:06Mm-hmm.
01:04:08Let's move forward for me.
01:04:09Okay.
01:04:10Yeah?
01:04:10Yeah.
01:04:16She called me a liar.
01:04:18She called me a scammer.
01:04:20But she's the real scammer.
01:04:22I'm sorry.
01:04:23I came here to tell you the truth in person.
01:04:26I came here to tell you everything.
01:04:29I want you to go home, please.
01:04:33And he doesn't even know she's a she.
01:04:36Oh, my God.
01:04:53I feel like dying.
01:04:58I'm not okay.
01:05:00I'm not okay.
01:05:07I've done the worst.
01:05:10I've committed the worst thing.
01:05:12Sleeping with another man's wife.
01:05:14I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:05:17Someone...
01:05:17I should have never known him.
01:05:20I should have kept it a secret.
01:05:24In America, they have been legally separated.
01:05:26No, no, no.
01:05:27Don't tell me in America.
01:05:28You don't have to tell me that.
01:05:32I respect my culture.
01:05:36I'm engaged with another man's wife.
01:05:38In my culture, we don't do that.
01:05:41It's a very big offense if you should do it in our tribe.
01:05:45It's something that will bring shame not only to me,
01:05:47but to my family as well.
01:05:50I could be banished because of Lisa.
01:05:53Because of our lies.
01:05:56I want to go back to him, but I'm scared.
01:05:59This is forbidden.
01:06:01And I don't know how to talk to God, my God.
01:06:04I don't know how to talk to the ancestors.
01:06:07Because I have to ask for apology.
01:06:12Daniel.
01:06:13I'm sorry.
01:06:15Daniel.
01:06:17Daniel.
01:06:18No, listen to me.
01:06:19Stop.
01:06:20Stop.
01:06:21Please, listen to me.
01:06:23I'm sorry.
01:06:24I'm sorry I didn't tell you the truth.
01:06:27I'm sorry I didn't speak to you about this before now.
01:06:30I'm sorry.
01:06:32I came here to tell you the truth in person.
01:06:34I came here to tell you everything.
01:06:37I love you.
01:06:39And I want us to be together forever.
01:06:42I'm so sorry.
01:06:45Ali.
01:06:46Please forgive me.
01:06:48You're messed up.
01:06:50That's all I have to say.
01:07:04Can you stop?
01:07:05Stop.
01:07:10I feel empty.
01:07:14I don't think he's ever going to forgive me.
01:07:17And I haven't even told him everything.
01:07:21I should have told him in the beginning.
01:07:26I waited and I waited and I held off.
01:07:29And the worst case scenario happened.
01:07:32He doesn't want me near him.
01:07:34He doesn't want to hear me.
01:07:37I'm worried that I have lost Daniel.
01:07:40There's no coming back from this.
01:07:46I'm a up person.
01:07:50.
01:07:52.
01:07:57She called me a liar.
01:07:59She called me a scammer.
01:08:05But she's the real scammer.
01:08:16And I told the white people tell us the truth.
01:08:29I've given her my hat.
01:08:31I trusted her.
01:08:33I believed in her.
01:08:36What did I do to deserve all this?
01:08:39I mean, for God's sakes, I've been separated for nine years.
01:08:44Separated.
01:08:46For nine years.
01:08:47Didn't know where she lived.
01:08:49And he doesn't even know she's a she.
01:08:52Oh, my God.
01:08:54When he finds out she's a she, I don't know what he's going to think.
01:08:59I haven't even been with a man for 21 years.
01:09:03I don't have any hope anymore.
01:09:10I want you to go home, please.
01:09:19You've got to go, if I saw my feet.
01:09:33He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:38He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:45He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:46He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:48He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:51He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:52He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:52He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:53He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:57He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:58He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:59He's not going to forgive me.
01:10:00He's not going to forgive me.
01:10:02He's not going to forgive me.
01:10:03He's not going to forgive me.
01:10:11so why are you so dressed up it's melbourne cup day you want to come and have a few drinks
01:10:17the last thing i thought possible was one to bring chris and two to take me to a bar the
01:10:24second i
01:10:25landed at the airport after a few tequilas you won't even forget that you haven't had showered
01:10:30or put my cap on or done your hair
01:10:46oh man
01:11:05oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
01:11:21oh
01:11:28come here give me a hug
01:11:29it's all right
01:11:30i'm so happy i'm finally touching you
01:11:32yes i know i'm saying far out
01:11:36you're sexy
01:11:37so are you
01:11:38don't leave my side
01:11:44oh my god i'm so happy to see you you're so sexy i think
01:11:48thank you thank you all you think is you know i know i know i know
01:11:56feels really really good finally finally how good does it feel amazing
01:12:02how does she look she looks amazing do you feel like you look amazing no i feel like i look
01:12:07like
01:12:07absolute what are you talking about i didn't i did not want him to see me for the first time
01:12:11looking like
01:12:12this especially when he's dressed up like this like it's like an oxymoron no right wait oxymoron means
01:12:20wait um i don't know but i just feel like like he looks really good and like i just look
01:12:26like
01:12:26no slummy you look amazing i need reassurance every five minutes okay i'm happy to do that every three
01:12:34you actually look exactly what i thought perfect no so do you so do you i was so scared and
01:12:42i had so
01:12:42much anxiety but then seeing him standing there and seeing the look in his eyes i felt like i just
01:12:48have to follow my heart and like i have to give this a chance and then i hugged him and
01:12:52i felt like
01:12:53i've known him for years i really didn't expect to feel this comfortable this soon
01:12:58oh so why are you so dressed up um because it's melbourne cup day this is the biggest day of
01:13:04the
01:13:04year okay so we were hoping that you might want to come and have a few drinks and let your
01:13:10hair down
01:13:10i know that you're probably jet-lagged i'm tired i feel like i look like i need a shower
01:13:17we don't have time so where are we gonna undo it
01:13:24can i tell her that we don't have time yeah we're going out we're going out yeah i know it's
01:13:30bad timing but after a few tequilas you won't even forget that you haven't had showered or put
01:13:36makeup on or done your hair yep and time is a factor so yeah it is so yeah first race
01:13:44is in 13 minutes
01:13:46if it makes you happy i'll do it but i feel really uncomfortable you guys look very good and i
01:13:52actually there's something in your 50 bags so should we should we do it right here no i didn't think
01:13:59that
01:13:59far ahead and surely josh did he's he's he's he's open up all my suitcases and we can have like
01:14:03a party
01:14:03of what at least could wear i like when people pick out my outfit yeah let's start now
01:14:11each boy grab a suitcase and open it up
01:14:20i see dresses joshua liked that on me i send him a picture
01:14:26i kind of want to dress sluttier dress what sluttier no you dress how you want i don't mind i
01:14:33don't need a bra
01:14:34or underwear with this dress that saves time saves time time let's let's get ready here
01:14:40all right i will go get ready in the bathroom yep we'll be outside just here right here okay i
01:14:48like
01:14:48that she's a trooper that is attractive someone that's sort of like yep you know what you want to
01:14:52do it let's do it so what do you think about good that went well i think yeah yeah she's
01:15:03a firecracker
01:15:04yeah i just can't believe that i'm actually getting ready in a bathroom at the airport to go
01:15:11to a bar to watch an event i really just hope josh sees how much like effort i'm putting into
01:15:18this
01:15:18relationship obviously this isn't the ideal first day with josh the last thing i thought possible was
01:15:28one to bring chris and two to take me to a bar the second i landed at the airport
01:15:35but i flew across the world to like get a glimpse of his life and figure out if he's a
01:15:39person i want to be
01:15:40with everything seems good right now our connection and our chemistry was like it's there so i'm really
01:15:47gonna just try and make the best of it i am here hey there she is you look stunning i'm
01:15:58not even wearing
01:15:58underwear oh well just hope it doesn't get too windy all right well now i'm dressed like you boys
01:16:08are you gonna be part of our lives or not you're gonna give me the ultimate forrest
01:16:24hmm i'm just a little bit excuse me you know excuse me you going on your little attack you i
01:16:32don't
01:16:33like the attitude you're having
01:16:45you made it perfectly clear that you mentally cannot handle my decisions
01:16:51you seem like you're way too stressed out we don't want to cause you any more stress
01:16:58well you're the big man now aren't you you're the big grown-up that can handle all and make all
01:17:03the
01:17:03decisions on his own right thank you yes yes i am
01:17:14i have always had to protect forrest because of his autism and it's happened before where he's been
01:17:23taken advantage of and used and hurt deeply i'm absolutely positive that sheena manipulated forrest again
01:17:33just so that he would propose to her but in the grand scheme of things forrest is going to do
01:17:40what
01:17:40forrest wants to do and now i feel like i lost my son i really feel like i lost my
01:17:49son
01:17:51and it makes me really sad
01:17:58you know forrest you have done this crap to me over and over again
01:18:02and i am tired i am so tired
01:18:08i am tired of the mess that you keep throwing me into
01:18:14you and then when i crawl up to grab you out again and crawl up to save you out of
01:18:20a situation
01:18:21or to help you you turn around and you give me the big bird well it's none of your effing
01:18:26business mom
01:18:29and do you think that the next time it crumbles and falls that when you go to pick up the
01:18:36phone to
01:18:36call me to save you that i'm gonna be there i promise i won't come to you
01:18:44sheena and i are gonna move forward okay you're gonna be in our lives but you think i think
01:18:53you might be surprised forrest oh well you just might be surprised
01:19:00all right well
01:19:04have a good night to you both
01:19:11i'm sorry by law thank you for standing over me
01:19:17it's okay baby
01:19:19it's hard to think that my mom would actually step away from my life rather than accept sheena as my
01:19:27wife
01:19:29i never thought it would come to this and that my own mother would put me in this situation
01:19:38losing my mom is something i never expected to lose on this trip
01:19:43i lost my best friend the person who's been with me my entire life the person who gave birth to
01:19:49me
01:19:51and it's tearing me apart my god it is time that mommy just cut it mommy has to let him
01:20:03be the man
01:20:03and take the knocks and not fail him out force to sign his own now yep
01:20:16oh god i'm starting to be like sheena oh my god
01:20:23i told him the truth and he won't even talk to me did you even tell him about the women
01:20:29no i haven't mentioned the women he's going to be destroyed by the women yes he is i can't tell
01:20:37him that
01:20:37i can't tell him you have to i can't
01:20:50daniel
01:21:24i don't think it's a good idea for us to stay together
01:21:28so i'm gonna get myself a different room
01:21:44hi can i have a separate room please
01:22:03hi i just told daniel how many times i was married and then i'm still married
01:22:11okay
01:22:13he didn't take it very well
01:22:15and i'm in a whole different room i told him the truth and he won't even talk to me
01:22:22did you even tell him about the women no i haven't mentioned the women i've only told him about the
01:22:29marriages but you didn't just lie about the marriages you lied about a whole part of your life
01:22:38he's going to be destroyed by the women yes he is i can't tell him that i can't tell him
01:22:46you have to i can't he's never going to forgive this i was going to forgive that
01:22:52i know you don't want to tell him so you can stay together but you he will find out eventually
01:23:05i'm sorry
01:23:08i'm sorry
01:23:09daniel is the one forever face he's really the one
01:23:12i want him i want daniel i want daniel i don't want this to be over
01:23:30we're here next time on before the 90 days before i got here i told joshua i wanted to take
01:23:37things slow not leading with sex but at the same time he's hot and i wanted to make him you
01:23:44know
01:23:45see a little glimpse of what he might be getting josh
01:23:52we're packing up to go to trisha's hometown to meet her family this is like make or break i just
01:24:00want to make sure that i'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family i told you
01:24:04yes
01:24:05so what else do you want just tell me now just tell me
01:24:15you don't know how happy i am to see your face right now what's wrong it literally went to
01:24:19with him leaving me alone in the desert can we just be done with the country of marco
01:24:26don't be mad what who's it muhammad oh my god hello the other night i called my friend michael
01:24:37because i have concerns and now michael has the same concerns he has no place in our relationship
01:24:44well he wants to come here he already bought a flight what oh my god i cannot believe you're in
01:24:53turkey this is my god i'm not giving up at walking away like i have every other relationship i'm gonna
01:25:02wipe the tears and i'm gonna fight for daniel i'm asking you to give me a chance i plan a
01:25:09small
01:25:09romantic getaway is this a kind of a trap
01:25:18is this being romantic yeah did i pass the test today kind of okay you still have to be nicer
01:25:24to
01:25:24yourself i think that you got comfortable don't ever get too comfortable ever you don't want to
01:25:32bitchy wife don't be a asshole and like i don't have to talk i don't want to see you ever
01:25:38again
01:25:39don't come home ever
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