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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day, The Last Resort.
00:00:03Wait, what is this?
00:00:05This is a castle.
00:00:07We're like in a fairy tale.
00:00:09Am I the king?
00:00:11We'll see.
00:00:14Oh, hello.
00:00:15Hello, hello.
00:00:17Oh, my god.
00:00:18Do you want to drink anything, brother?
00:00:19Like, anything can make me, like, drunk.
00:00:22Our marriage is like a roller coaster,
00:00:26a lot of ups and downs.
00:00:27For sure.
00:00:28I know you're going to come here and get drunk.
00:00:32I feel like that you've been extra controlling.
00:00:34I'm here to enjoy.
00:00:35OK, then go enjoy, idiot.
00:00:38I was scrolling the other day and I got a suggestion
00:00:41to follow you, meaning you removed me as a follower.
00:00:46Who cares?
00:00:48I'm not here to deal with these crazy people.
00:00:50We cannot know from social media, like, someone unfollow you.
00:00:54This whole decision you're making right now
00:00:56to have this be your answer is wild.
00:01:00Welcome, everyone.
00:01:02You are here because your marriages are in a place of crisis and dysfunction.
00:01:08With this Brazil trip, there was, like, this, like, random charge on the credit card for, like,
00:01:13almost $2,000.
00:01:16Yeah, I actually got, um, a lipo in my back.
00:01:20Wow.
00:01:21Our family's not a priority.
00:01:23He doesn't trust me.
00:01:26We just moved to Las Vegas and I told him not to come with me.
00:01:29I said, no, I'm going.
00:01:31You're not taking my son away from me.
00:01:34So how?
00:01:35Are you here to try and fix this?
00:01:37I feel like I'm very confused about my feelings, what I feel about him.
00:01:44We have a power struggle.
00:01:46I mean, I felt myself so weak.
00:01:49I just want, again, to be the alpha male.
00:01:52But you have to earn respect.
00:01:54We are arguing so much.
00:01:56Sometimes I think that we are not compatible anymore.
00:01:58For sure.
00:02:00The way that you want to control her, it pisses me off.
00:02:03I'm just being honest.
00:02:04I'm triggered.
00:02:06You're triggered?
00:02:07Yes, I am triggered.
00:02:09Shut up.
00:02:10Girl, don't talk to my husband like that, first of all.
00:02:13Shut up.
00:02:59We're all here to give feedback on each other's relationships.
00:03:02There's no need to.
00:03:03He's not telling you to shut up.
00:03:04Look at you.
00:03:04How do you look at me?
00:03:05Geez Louise.
00:03:08Shut up.
00:03:11Don't say shut up, shut up.
00:03:18Sorry, Ziet, but everything started with respect.
00:03:21And a man has to be strong.
00:03:23If he's not strong financially, physically, whatever you do, sexually.
00:03:29If he's not strong, a woman does not respect.
00:03:31You're supposed to be a partnership against the world first.
00:03:35What do you mean?
00:03:36Not against each other.
00:03:37Yeah, I agree with that.
00:03:38Yeah.
00:03:39Okay, so what I'm hearing is that you're not working as a partnership.
00:03:43So what we really can work on is primarily your communication, so that you feel supported
00:03:50and you feel respected.
00:03:52Yeah.
00:03:54Yeah.
00:03:54I still love her.
00:03:54You know?
00:03:56I want to save it.
00:04:00I understand what Sarpur is talking about.
00:04:04Looking for respect from his wife.
00:04:06Because it's his culture.
00:04:08This is the job of the man.
00:04:10He's supposed to have the charge for everything.
00:04:13That's normal.
00:04:14I think Sarpur is just a chauvinist.
00:04:17Respect is earned, and I don't want you getting any ideas from Sarpur at all.
00:04:27All right.
00:04:27Thank you guys for that.
00:04:28Up next, Jenny and Sumit, tell it to me.
00:04:31How are you guys feeling jumping into all of this?
00:04:32I just don't know where to start.
00:04:36Like, right now we're living with his parents, so that's causing problems.
00:04:44But, I mean, we have other issues too.
00:04:47Like, last night we went out and Sumit likes to drink, but I don't want him drinking.
00:04:54And he doesn't listen, and I feel like he's disrespecting me.
00:05:00I don't want people to say, don't do that.
00:05:04So, that's problem number two.
00:05:09Problem number three, I'd say, he hides things.
00:05:13Like, when you went and invested $50,000 without telling me.
00:05:19Oh, damn.
00:05:22I did inform her?
00:05:24No, you did not.
00:05:28We're married.
00:05:30I'm in this too.
00:05:31It's both our money.
00:05:35Jenny's making it a bigger deal than it could be.
00:05:38I got a tip from my friend that I can make some money, and if I wait for her permission,
00:05:44I could have missed out.
00:05:45I didn't lose any money, and if it's up to you, I was never able to take any risk.
00:05:51You have to be honest.
00:05:55It's a very interesting difference there between, you know, having an issue with communication and choosing when and when not
00:06:02to communicate.
00:06:03Sumit, why are you so afraid to tell Jenny the truth?
00:06:06It's anger issue.
00:06:09She get mad.
00:06:10And, you know, one time, we were in the mall, like, and we were discussing about something, and she got
00:06:16so mad, she even, like, tried to punch me in the public.
00:06:20That is not true.
00:06:25I pretended like it, but not in real.
00:06:31I'm actually very surprised to hear this.
00:06:33I cannot imagine Jenny trying to hit Sumit.
00:06:37Oh, my God.
00:06:38I think that Sumit has pushed her to the breaking point, and she's ready to start swinging.
00:06:43Yeah, I can picture Jenny throwing it at her.
00:06:45Yeah.
00:06:46You saw that face.
00:06:47The finger's gonna turn into her.
00:06:49Don't mess with Jenny.
00:06:51You better don't get Jenny's bad side.
00:06:53Yeah, note yourself.
00:06:54Not gonna do that.
00:06:55Note.
00:06:57So, we have some issues around trust and communication and potentially anger management as well.
00:07:03There's gonna be some work here to try and meet in the middle.
00:07:06I agree.
00:07:06Are you both willing to compromise?
00:07:08I always compromise.
00:07:10Because I can't imagine my life without Jenny.
00:07:14Clearly, there is still a lot of love between the two of you.
00:07:18Yeah.
00:07:18And, definitely, when we get mad at each other after a fight, make up six always.
00:07:23We love and enjoy.
00:07:25Interesting.
00:07:27Yeah, in the moment.
00:07:29It just happens.
00:07:30You want it, it happens.
00:07:32So, when it happens, is it good for you, Jenny?
00:07:34Yeah.
00:07:34Is the sex good?
00:07:35Of course.
00:07:36He's young.
00:07:39You're young don't mean good.
00:07:42Honestly, listening to Jenny and Sumit's sex life's not really my thing.
00:07:45Like, I wish I had some earmuffs.
00:07:48Well, I can help you.
00:07:49Oh, thank you.
00:07:50Oh, thank you.
00:07:50Is this better?
00:07:51Ah, perfect.
00:07:54Whenever I'm 50, 60, 70, I'm definitely gonna be having a ton of sex.
00:07:59Yeah.
00:08:00You know, fun fact, my dad had me at 64.
00:08:03So, it's in my blood.
00:08:05I mean, I don't know about a lot of tape of sex.
00:08:10Okay.
00:08:11Well, yeah, there's makeup sex, there's morning sex, there's vacation sex.
00:08:16Ah, so now we have, like, uh, castle sex?
00:08:21Like we had last night?
00:08:22Like we did last night.
00:08:24You know what?
00:08:25There is something in common.
00:08:27Passion, right?
00:08:28Yeah.
00:08:29Like, passion, intimacy, and fighting and argument, they're both heat.
00:08:33Oh.
00:08:34So, that's why.
00:08:34Not always healthy, so we'll address that later.
00:08:37Right.
00:08:37Okay.
00:08:38I agree.
00:08:39Yeah.
00:08:40And he wants it more than I do.
00:08:42I'm older than him.
00:08:45Men always ask more of the woman.
00:08:49It's not always that way, and you know it.
00:08:53Not always.
00:08:54Not always.
00:08:54Women love sex, too.
00:08:56Ooh.
00:08:56We just love good sex.
00:08:57Amen.
00:08:58Yeah.
00:09:01Okay, so next we're gonna be moving on to Rebecca and Ziad.
00:09:05So, tell us what's been going on with you guys.
00:09:09Well, so, for, we've been together for, what, almost seven years?
00:09:14So, for, like, the first three years, it was amazing.
00:09:17We were literally, like, best friends.
00:09:19But, about three years ago, he just started going to the gym all the time.
00:09:25He started dressing different.
00:09:27It's just slowly eroded to where now we never wake up at the same time.
00:09:33We never go to bed at the same time.
00:09:35Half the time, he doesn't even sleep in the same bed.
00:09:39And if I ask, what are you doing?
00:09:41What's going on?
00:09:42You're like, I'm going out with my friends.
00:09:44And nothing else is any of my freaking business.
00:09:46She working between 12 to 16 hours a day.
00:09:50So, gotta be alone.
00:09:52And if she not working, she stay in the couch watching her phone or watching TV or something.
00:09:58So, when I be bored or I not have any person to talk, I like to sit outside coffee shop
00:10:05or smoke cigarettes.
00:10:06Because it's how I grew up.
00:10:08But she'd be mad.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:10A hundred percent.
00:10:11I hate to have to worry about where you are and what you're doing.
00:10:15You always think I'm cheating on you.
00:10:18We have application in the phone.
00:10:20So, she always watch me where I am.
00:10:23No, don't make it sound like I'm obsessive.
00:10:26No.
00:10:27I literally...
00:10:27No, no, no.
00:10:28No, hang on.
00:10:29Tracker.
00:10:29I used to be a private investigator.
00:10:31You checked off the top three boxes.
00:10:33You started going to the gym.
00:10:35You changed the way you were dressing.
00:10:37You stopped letting me get anywhere near your phone.
00:10:43Sometimes I feel the same way.
00:10:45As yet, tracked, you know?
00:10:47I had some air tags on me.
00:10:50She was following, tracking me.
00:10:51I just always put air tags on my keys.
00:10:54And you took the keys.
00:10:55You air tagged yourself.
00:10:58You knew that she was a private investigator when he first met her, right?
00:11:02So, he kind of signed up for this.
00:11:06Ladies, let's see what y'all think about this.
00:11:08We get into a fight.
00:11:10He throws a mortal fit, packs a bag, and disappears.
00:11:16He had done this several times before.
00:11:18And every single time, he is gone for the entire day.
00:11:24I fell asleep and woke up at midnight, 2 o'clock in the morning, something like that.
00:11:28And he's 400 miles away in a hotel in Virginia.
00:11:32Holy crap.
00:11:36So, what were you doing there?
00:11:38Uh-oh.
00:11:44The actual problem, she was drinking a lot as she ended up kissing another guy.
00:11:53Have you had sexual relations with other people during your separation?
00:12:03I have a bad feeling with her.
00:12:04You, like, all of you guys, you heard what she said about me.
00:12:07Like, I'm cheating on her, right?
00:12:09Why are you in this relationship then?
00:12:11I mean, I see you unhappy.
00:12:14Let Ziet and Sarper, his little boyfriend, go stand outside.
00:12:18I'm really kind of sick and tired of both of them right now.
00:12:21Ziet, don't forget what we talk.
00:12:24Sometimes the trash takes itself out.
00:12:36So, what were you doing there?
00:12:39Uh-oh.
00:12:42So, I get pissed.
00:12:44I'm so angry this time, so I'm just driving and watching the road.
00:12:49I'm not focused where I'm going, you know.
00:12:51I keep going, driving, all the way I find myself in Virginia.
00:12:55I just sleep in my car, and in the morning I turn and I'm back home.
00:13:00He slept in his car.
00:13:03That's so sketchy.
00:13:05It makes sense that Rebecca doesn't trust Ziet that he drives 400 miles.
00:13:10Oh, I'm glad you understand that, because that's how I feel when I can't get ahold of you forever.
00:13:15Maybe next time I'll hire Rebecca to find you.
00:13:18Do I drive 400 miles?
00:13:20No, I know you can't drive 400 miles, so...
00:13:23Right.
00:13:25You don't do that .
00:13:27The problem is you can't run forever.
00:13:29Yes.
00:13:30Like, it's gonna come back.
00:13:31You can pull off and then come back.
00:13:34He wants to get away from her as much as possible, you know what I mean?
00:13:37Yes.
00:13:38Let me be out of that area of her.
00:13:41Yeah.
00:13:42That is such...
00:13:43You know what?
00:13:43If you're dating somebody, do that.
00:13:46No, it's not.
00:13:46Once you get married, you don't do that .
00:13:50You're a grown-ass man, and you took your grown-ass out to be angry with me.
00:13:57I would just like to say something really quick.
00:13:59I think you talk disrespectful, period.
00:14:01Okay.
00:14:02And I think if you soften your tone a little bit, you'll be heard a lot more.
00:14:06And you'll be received differently.
00:14:07I don't need to soften my tone to be heard.
00:14:09Okay.
00:14:11Okay, then you're gonna keep getting the same result.
00:14:13You should talk.
00:14:16You have been popping off this whole time in a rude way.
00:14:19Well, I'm sorry you have.
00:14:20I'm sorry you don't like it.
00:14:21I don't think anyone likes it.
00:14:25Okay, so it seems like this has been an ongoing problem.
00:14:31Ew.
00:14:33He said next time you're gonna drive to Canada.
00:14:36What's wrong with Canada?
00:14:37No, he's like, even further away.
00:14:38No, but it's even farther away because I'm so awful.
00:14:41Come on, Mom.
00:14:42You look awful.
00:14:43I didn't say you are awful.
00:14:44I know that.
00:14:47I really feel bad for Rebecca because I feel like a starper, Chekina, and Zied
00:14:52is trying to gang up against her.
00:14:54Like, that's unfair.
00:14:56I don't know.
00:14:57Rebecca doesn't seem like the easiest person to get along with.
00:14:59I kind of speak like Rebecca sometimes, so...
00:15:02You don't say.
00:15:04Yeah, I'm feeling for Zied at this point.
00:15:10Okay, so, Rebecca and Zied, clearly there are some trust issues.
00:15:15Are you both willing to work on this?
00:15:18Yes.
00:15:19You're here for a reason.
00:15:20Are you willing to work on it?
00:15:20You both still love each other?
00:15:22Yes.
00:15:22Very much.
00:15:22I still love her.
00:15:24I still want to stay in this marriage.
00:15:28And you're willing to do whatever it takes to work through this issue?
00:15:32Yeah.
00:15:33And you believe it's possible?
00:15:36Yes.
00:15:37Yeah.
00:15:42Okay, moving on to the next couple.
00:15:44Cara and Guillermo.
00:15:46Why don't you share a little bit about what's been going on in your relationship recently?
00:15:51Well, we've been apart for over a year.
00:15:57What was it that caused you to separate a year ago?
00:16:02I was feeling really like everything was, like, on me.
00:16:06The logistics in the household, like, to cook meals, to take care of our, at that time, really small baby.
00:16:13Also while working several jobs.
00:16:15Like, I felt like I was drowning.
00:16:17And he was just like, not helping.
00:16:19You know?
00:16:21And then it got...
00:16:21All right, listen.
00:16:22This adds some bull****.
00:16:24The actual problem, she likes to go out.
00:16:27She likes to drink.
00:16:29And she will do things that they will be very cheaty.
00:16:36Or, like, going out with friends.
00:16:38Like, doing, like, a girls' night.
00:16:40Then going to these men's houses until, like, 4am.
00:16:46Please clarify that piece?
00:16:47Yeah, can you just explain what exactly you're talking about?
00:16:49I can tell you what he's talking about.
00:16:51Go on.
00:16:52So, I slept with a guy in 2011.
00:16:54We both agreed, hey, whoops, misstep.
00:16:56Let's write that back.
00:16:57We're better friends.
00:16:58It was weird.
00:16:59So, we moved on.
00:17:00From then on, we've only ever been friends.
00:17:02But at the same time, she was in that man's house when we were married.
00:17:07So, can I just clarify?
00:17:08You were at this man's house until 4am.
00:17:12Yeah.
00:17:12But not just the two of us.
00:17:13It was a party.
00:17:15You and her?
00:17:16Wait, no.
00:17:17But was he always invited to be there?
00:17:19Yes.
00:17:19Did he ever want to go?
00:17:20No.
00:17:20No.
00:17:21There's a friend of her.
00:17:23This friend came to me and he said that in one of those girls' nights when we were living
00:17:27together, she was drinking a lot.
00:17:36That didn't happen.
00:17:37Don't.
00:17:38Come on.
00:18:01Arthur, can you tell us what happened that night?
00:18:04No.
00:18:05nothing to hide from him i went to have drinks with my friends and we all had drinks and then
00:18:11we came home so i don't know where this story comes from where i was making out with a man
00:18:20because that guy that's recounted it to him wasn't there so i don't know who he got his
00:18:25information from that guy that he spoke to wasn't there no he wasn't there why the
00:18:32would i jeopardize our entire marriage why would i do that yeah i was gonna say no but why would
00:18:38i do that when you know all of the that i did every day to keep our lives together why
00:18:43would
00:18:43i actively it up i don't know why would i do that i have no idea i have the same
00:18:48question i need to
00:18:49just use your logic like i show up every single day in so many ways why why then would i
00:18:56go and
00:18:56throw it all away to make out with a guy at a bar because drinking removes logic that's why
00:19:00like when you're drunk you're not logical anymore
00:19:06i've never cheated on guillermo but he has it in his mind that i have even though i've explained
00:19:10the facts to him many many times and i think he's leaning on this cheating angle because i feel like
00:19:17maybe he's like trying to make me look bad but he doesn't want to have to take accountability like
00:19:23it's not fair okay so these are some of the reasons why you separated but let's talk about
00:19:30what were some of the barriers to you reconciling you know it remind me of a time that she actually
00:19:36came to me she was like hey i want to fix it and that gave me so much hope and
00:19:43i said in order to fix
00:19:45these problems you needed to stop drinking how you do it number two you need to stop going out how
00:19:51you do
00:19:51it and listen i promise you i will do whatever you want and she said yes let's do it but
00:19:59dean she never
00:20:00did that he just like doesn't take accountability and then wants to accuse me of being flagrant or
00:20:09being out or whatever and like he's over here sending bitches venmo on valentine's day saying
00:20:15can't wait to see you smiley face here's 150 dollars oh could you say when i send those messages
00:20:22when i said valentine's day were you together this is when we're separated but when we separated
00:20:28there were not clear parameters she's also been doing things
00:20:34okay let's just make this really clear have you both had sexual relations with other people
00:20:41during your separation
00:20:45i have
00:20:47oh
00:20:51you have
00:20:52yes you both did
00:20:55this is crazy to me that's it i mean how do they come back from that like some of these
00:21:02problems they're massive they need more than a therapist they they need a magician
00:21:10so the question is do you want to work through this do you still love each other
00:21:14even though both of you have been with other people during your separation
00:21:20i love him i love you it's not a question
00:21:23it's are you in love with him
00:21:29it's a love institution
00:21:33that's a hard one i don't know
00:21:37is that something you want to explore while you're here
00:21:39yeah i need to know that we did everything that we could
00:21:53yeah
00:21:53yeah ma'am
00:21:54yes ma'am
00:21:55do you still love cara
00:22:01uh
00:22:02that's enough
00:22:05she's a mother of my kid i will never stop feeling love for her
00:22:12are you in love with her
00:22:16i have no idea
00:22:19are you willing to explore that while you're here
00:22:21yes
00:22:22okay
00:22:29so cara and guillermo there is a lot of tension there's a lot of conflict but i also feel
00:22:34hopeful because the very fact that they have been willing and brave enough to come here and
00:22:38to show up and expose themselves it shows that they care enough to give it a go
00:22:44we have a long journey ahead of us we have a lot of work to do but if you keep
00:22:49showing up like you did today then i think that there's a lot of hope for us all
00:22:52thank you so thank you and have a good night thank you thank you thank you thanks guys
00:23:04that was quite a session yeah a lot of work to do
00:23:09that was crazy
00:23:26that was a lot
00:23:28i know i get mad but a lot of my anger comes out of frustration i'm frustrated with so many
00:23:39things
00:23:40because you want everything
00:23:43to be your way
00:23:44no
00:23:46how this thing thing is going to work
00:23:48i don't know maybe it's not
00:23:52we we do have a big age gap
00:23:56and that's what's causing the problem
00:23:59maybe like when you are in love age is just a number
00:24:03no it's causing the problem
00:24:12i don't really understand like
00:24:14how we've gotten to the point where you feel like
00:24:16you had a high glycosuction
00:24:18i know you planned it
00:24:20you hide things from me
00:24:22to
00:24:24we're not playing tip for tat
00:24:25that's not what i'm talking about
00:24:26yeah because when i tell you like
00:24:27i tell you like
00:24:29you know i'm very open
00:24:30are you gonna do it again
00:24:32are you okay
00:24:33that's all i'm asking for
00:24:35don't lie to me again
00:24:42well that was interesting
00:24:48how do you really feel
00:24:55when do you have sex with another person
00:24:59when
00:25:01why is this relevant
00:25:03we're already here
00:25:04we're trying to fix things
00:25:06i feel like
00:25:08why not to say it
00:25:10said in europe
00:25:11in one of your trips
00:25:12or it was in charlotteville
00:25:13oh no no no
00:25:14it was on a trip but not to europe
00:25:16it was in the united states
00:25:17i don't i don't know
00:25:18what
00:25:19with who
00:25:19no i'm not
00:25:20no
00:25:22i just don't know that i understand
00:25:23why those details are really important
00:25:28i feel like if we
00:25:31want to actually
00:25:34fix something
00:25:35we need to be clear
00:25:36with each other
00:25:37yeah
00:25:38are you still
00:25:39with them
00:25:40with him
00:25:44so only one time
00:25:47twice
00:25:48oh yeah
00:25:51do you want to tell me
00:25:52about this girl
00:25:53how many times
00:25:54did you have sex
00:25:55two times
00:25:56actually
00:25:57same way
00:25:59so
00:25:59can you just tell me
00:26:01when
00:26:02did you have sex
00:26:03i went to new york
00:26:04in the fall
00:26:06i don't know
00:26:07i feel like
00:26:07i i had sex
00:26:08for the very first time
00:26:09after you
00:26:11way longer
00:26:13we both did
00:26:14the same thing
00:26:14mine was just
00:26:15slightly sooner than yours
00:26:16slightly
00:26:17no
00:26:17i just feel like
00:26:19i feel like
00:26:19you just constantly
00:26:20want to villainize me
00:26:21and make me
00:26:22like
00:26:22the bad person
00:26:24you agree
00:26:25that like
00:26:26it took
00:26:26two of us
00:26:27to get
00:26:28to where
00:26:28we currently
00:26:29are
00:26:30sure
00:26:31yes
00:26:34definitely
00:26:34i did something
00:26:35that upset you
00:26:36and definitely
00:26:37i did something
00:26:38to make you
00:26:38take different
00:26:39decisions
00:26:39that you had
00:26:40probably before
00:26:42yeah
00:26:43okay
00:26:44and that may be
00:26:45the rest
00:26:45we should like
00:26:46talk about
00:26:46with a professional
00:26:47like with a therapist
00:26:49uh-huh
00:27:03i'm going out
00:27:05with you guys
00:27:06okay
00:27:07i'm gonna stay here
00:27:09i'm ready
00:27:10i'm emotionally drained
00:27:12okay
00:27:12a few drinks
00:27:14i need to drink
00:27:23you think that
00:27:25what you
00:27:25the real problem
00:27:26is
00:27:27that out of
00:27:29all of the
00:27:29that i put up
00:27:30with
00:27:31your main argument
00:27:32is that
00:27:33i'm on my phone
00:27:35too much
00:27:35do you know
00:27:36how bad
00:27:36i wanted to
00:27:38just stand up
00:27:38and scream
00:27:39why you scream
00:27:41we are here
00:27:42for therapy
00:27:42because
00:27:43you need to
00:27:43calm down
00:27:44and you understand
00:27:45my problem
00:27:46you're not like
00:27:47my feeling
00:27:48this is my problem
00:27:49with you
00:27:50do not come here
00:27:51and act like
00:27:52my problem
00:27:53is what is keeping us
00:27:54from being intimate
00:27:55or close
00:27:56or having a connection
00:27:58the problem is
00:27:59you have not
00:28:00deserved
00:28:00to be trusted
00:28:02i have no idea
00:28:03who you're talking to
00:28:04what you're doing
00:28:05you have made it clear
00:28:07that i'm not allowed
00:28:08to touch your phone anymore
00:28:09you can
00:28:09i never stop you
00:28:11no
00:28:12you specifically
00:28:13told me no
00:28:14in fact i have
00:28:15asked you for your phone
00:28:16for like a setting
00:28:17or something
00:28:17you literally
00:28:18will move it
00:28:19to that section
00:28:20hand it to me
00:28:21and then immediately
00:28:22take it back
00:28:23like oh
00:28:24oh
00:28:25you get it
00:28:26like that
00:28:26so why would i not
00:28:27be worried
00:28:28that you might
00:28:28be cheating on me
00:28:29if that is the
00:28:30constant attitude
00:28:31that i get from you
00:28:32i'm not cheating
00:28:33on you
00:28:35the one time
00:28:37i wanted to go
00:28:38prove to myself
00:28:39that you were doing
00:28:41nothing wrong
00:28:41you're in a freaking
00:28:42parking lot with a blonde
00:28:44and then the whole time
00:28:45since then you have been
00:28:46doing nothing but
00:28:47gaslighting me
00:28:48and telling me that
00:28:49every single thing
00:28:51that concerns me
00:28:51is really my fault
00:29:00you know i love you
00:29:01you know i want to
00:29:02stay with you
00:29:03but if you're gonna
00:29:04come on me
00:29:06f*** that
00:29:06to be honest with you
00:29:18we have to be
00:29:19together
00:29:20i mean we are in the
00:29:21middle of a freaking
00:29:22castle in united
00:29:23kingdom
00:29:23and i feel like
00:29:24william wallace
00:29:25you know
00:29:26freedom
00:29:27brave art
00:29:28i mean i just
00:29:28will paint my
00:29:29face to the blue
00:29:30and we will run
00:29:32oh my god
00:29:33i kind of get like
00:29:35a 60% of his jokes
00:29:37they don't all land
00:29:57do you have a gin tonic
00:29:59yeah we do
00:30:00thank you so much
00:30:00are you married
00:30:06no
00:30:07no don't
00:30:08please don't
00:30:10we have a turkey saying
00:30:11listen to whatever i say
00:30:12but don't do whatever i do
00:30:14okay
00:30:14ring finger
00:30:15okay
00:30:16keep that in mind
00:30:18after the therapy
00:30:20all couples we agreed to meet
00:30:21and have some drinks
00:30:23we need it
00:30:24she kind of feels so overwhelmed
00:30:26to socialize
00:30:28and i'm glad she feels that way
00:30:31i mean sometimes
00:30:33keeping distance is better
00:30:35yeah
00:30:36this way
00:30:37where's the bar
00:30:38this way
00:30:39yeah
00:30:42there you go
00:30:43what's going on
00:30:44hi
00:30:44you're already here
00:30:46good
00:30:46yeah
00:30:48good
00:30:48shekinah
00:30:49in the room
00:30:50sleeping
00:30:51sleeping
00:30:51what
00:30:53therapy is strong
00:30:54yeah
00:30:55it was exhausting
00:30:57yeah
00:30:58i think i'll take
00:30:59back to them 15
00:31:00yeah
00:31:01absolutely
00:31:02do you want to
00:31:03on the rocks as well
00:31:04on the rocks
00:31:10hey
00:31:11what's up guys
00:31:12what's up
00:31:13how are you
00:31:14where's rebecca
00:31:15she stay in the room
00:31:17why
00:31:18i don't know
00:31:19maybe she'll follow me soon
00:31:21i choose to go
00:31:22hang out with the other couples
00:31:24because i'm here for therapy
00:31:28plus i want to have a good time
00:31:29i want to make my mood is good
00:31:31i want to have fun
00:31:34you want to be sad be sad
00:31:38i forgot how exhausting therapy is
00:31:41like i did it for a while myself
00:31:43and my whole day would be wrecked
00:31:44because i'd just be like
00:31:45talking about feelings
00:31:50boys
00:31:52will you join me
00:31:53there's a bonfire outside
00:31:55i was waiting for you in the room
00:31:57i didn't realize that you were
00:31:59down here
00:32:01i'll join you
00:32:01bonfire time
00:32:03ziet if you can
00:32:05i'll be there
00:32:06you are welcomed
00:32:07oh so you're going out with him
00:32:09with all of them
00:32:10and with him
00:32:11whatever
00:32:12i cannot believe my husband right now
00:32:15we just had a therapy session
00:32:17where we talked about him running away
00:32:19and the second that things get tense with us
00:32:21he runs away
00:32:22and starts drinking with the other couples
00:32:24and doesn't tell me
00:32:26i don't care anymore
00:32:27let ziet and sarper his little boyfriend
00:32:30go stand outside
00:32:31i'm really kind of sick and tired of both of them right now
00:32:34sometimes the trash takes itself out
00:32:41today i felt something
00:32:42i mean we need a union
00:32:43like man union
00:32:44you know
00:32:46oh my god
00:32:48today in the therapy
00:32:49i saw in she kind of eyes
00:32:50this love
00:32:52unlove to me
00:32:53i mean that kind of things
00:32:55that i heard from her
00:32:56and i'm in shock right now
00:32:57you know
00:32:58she was rough on you
00:32:59she is rough on me
00:33:00i always say
00:33:01she is my punishment
00:33:02in this life
00:33:03because i had a lot of i mean
00:33:05yeah
00:33:05i did a lot of bad things in my past
00:33:08and right now i'm taking
00:33:10i'm paying the redemption
00:33:13the way sarper talks about shekinah
00:33:15like i don't know why they're together
00:33:17and maybe he's joking
00:33:19i don't know
00:33:21i i kind of get like
00:33:23a 60 percent of his jokes
00:33:25i think a lot of his language barrier
00:33:27or something
00:33:28they don't all land
00:33:29but one thing's for sure
00:33:32i wouldn't want to be married shekinah
00:33:35hello
00:33:35hey
00:33:36hi hi
00:33:37oh pink pink
00:33:38pink pink
00:33:39pink with her
00:33:40you love that
00:33:40i'm like a
00:33:41pink inspector gadget
00:33:43thank you
00:33:44i think i want to sit in here
00:33:46just like i can see you guys
00:33:47sit where i can see your face
00:33:49cheers
00:33:49cheers y'all
00:33:50cheers
00:33:51put a little bit of like
00:33:52to independent women
00:33:53oh hell yeah
00:33:54nice
00:33:55yeah
00:33:56hi
00:33:57oh my ladies
00:33:58thank you jesus
00:33:59look at you just wafting in
00:34:01so beautiful
00:34:02thank you
00:34:03i'm glad you guys feel that way
00:34:06because i feel like a mess
00:34:07no you look gorgeous
00:34:10can i ask you
00:34:11yeah i was going to say
00:34:12because obviously i know a little bit about you all's relationship
00:34:15um
00:34:16but not
00:34:17like what i really want to know
00:34:19which is like
00:34:19can you elaborate more on the position that you refer to as the dead cow
00:34:26i've never heard of that position
00:34:27i want to know how to execute
00:34:29i don't know
00:34:29just imagine a dead cow just laying down on the bed
00:34:31like the guy like a tortoise like
00:34:33wait but i imagine a dead cow would be on their side
00:34:36yeah but it's not
00:34:37i'm trying to bring you over there
00:34:39that's actually a good position
00:34:40i know that's i'm like wait what
00:34:42so it's like when the guy chose do all the job
00:34:44but it's like i just feel like
00:34:46we have an english version called a starfish
00:34:48the starfish
00:34:49yeah
00:34:50you just all the
00:34:52all the limbs out
00:34:54a lot of these women feel adventurous in bed
00:34:58but they're all still young
00:35:01to me there's nothing wrong with the dead cow
00:35:05because that seems kind of nice
00:35:08i don't have to do any work
00:35:12like i'm a sexual person
00:35:14and i'm very sensual too
00:35:15but if i don't have that like
00:35:18like reciprocate like you know
00:35:19i feel like why am i even trying to be all at this
00:35:22when i'm gonna get the same
00:35:25why
00:35:25yeah
00:35:26so it's like it's no motivation
00:35:28i wonder what the guys are talking about
00:35:30they're bitching about us
00:35:31this better not
00:35:33we don't even need them do we
00:35:36need is a strong word
00:35:38need is a strong word
00:35:41today i felt like
00:35:43there's a there's not a word like this
00:35:46feminist for women
00:35:47we have to create a word
00:35:49menest
00:35:50menest
00:35:50yeah
00:35:50menest
00:35:52menism
00:35:53what's up
00:35:54hello
00:35:54oh hello brother
00:35:56what's going on
00:35:57oh my god
00:35:58oh man yeah
00:35:59this is a union guys
00:36:01got the he-man woman haters club going on
00:36:03yes
00:36:03we have to be together
00:36:06i mean we are in the middle of a
00:36:07freaking castle in united kingdom
00:36:09and i feel like william wallace you know
00:36:12freedom
00:36:13i mean i just will paint my face to the blue and we will run
00:36:18and we will die at the end
00:36:20yeah i mean
00:36:21yeah we're just all begging for mercy
00:36:26i'm happy that we're all connecting and having fun but i kind of wish shekinah was here
00:36:33oh my god where is she
00:36:35where is she i asked it
00:36:36i felt so bad for her day
00:36:38she just looks so upset
00:36:40i can't imagine what it's like to be married to sarper
00:36:43yeah
00:36:45i mean when sarper speaks
00:36:47you can literally tell like he's
00:36:49he controls everything
00:36:51he wants to control everything
00:36:52he wants to
00:36:53he wants i think he wants someone that he can control
00:36:55you know
00:36:56like sarper is who he is
00:36:58yeah
00:36:59right
00:36:59i'm just like
00:37:01well did you
00:37:02did you not see this coming
00:37:04she said he's mean to me
00:37:06i'll go
00:37:06the whole city is crazy
00:37:07i think that's something that she
00:37:08she really wants to address
00:37:09very strong
00:37:10he just rubs me the wrong way
00:37:16we are so easy to be happy bro
00:37:18i know but the thing is they want us to be complex
00:37:21we can't
00:37:22i can't
00:37:23i know
00:37:23we are posters
00:37:24i just had this conversation
00:37:26bread in bread out
00:37:28that simple we are
00:37:29they are like smartphones
00:37:31and we all of us have
00:37:33yeah we have with the same problem
00:37:35like i just like 30 months ago we
00:37:39we just fight again
00:37:40you and rebecca
00:37:41yeah bro
00:37:42brother i just want to say something to you about i mean
00:37:45i i'm so sorry for today i mean
00:37:49i couldn't stop myself i'm so sorry for that i mean i just want to say that
00:37:53i appreciate you bro i appreciate that
00:37:55and i'm sorry for what she told you like shut up i don't like it
00:37:58to be honest with you
00:37:59i have bad feeling with her
00:38:01like all of you guys you heard what she said about me like i'm cheating on her
00:38:06right
00:38:09if she think i'm cheating on her so why she stay with me let's broke up
00:38:16i'm so close to finish my relationship to be honest with you
00:38:21damn
00:38:25why are you in this relationship then i mean i see you unhappy
00:38:29i'm not happy in my relationship but i love her i hope you decide the best thing for yourself
00:38:36exactly yeah but we see bro we see what's going on
00:38:41make it or break it bro
00:38:44oh my goodness
00:38:48oh hello i'm sorry to ruin the fun
00:38:50hello hello
00:38:51what are you guys doing
00:38:52fun in there
00:38:53hi
00:38:53how's it going
00:38:54how are you doing guys
00:38:56we have a good time together
00:38:57oh
00:38:58beware in the moment
00:38:59sounds so serious
00:39:00so serious
00:39:01work
00:39:01i know god
00:39:02you're talking about
00:39:03it wasn't convincing ziyad
00:39:05nope
00:39:06just sports
00:39:06guys i want to excuse myself
00:39:11ziyad
00:39:11don't forget what we talk
00:39:13see you buddy
00:39:14bye
00:39:15besties
00:39:16you guys are like besties
00:39:19no accounting for taste
00:39:23what do you say
00:39:25nothing
00:39:26i don't get it
00:39:27i feel like you and sarpa really have like bonded
00:39:30yeah
00:39:30and it doesn't matter how he talks to people
00:39:34like your wife
00:39:34actually he's already apologized about what's going on
00:39:38oh he apologized to you
00:39:39that says a lot
00:39:40since he was talking to me
00:39:41no he need to apologize to me i'm the husband
00:39:44oh
00:39:44oh
00:39:46really
00:39:46on that note
00:39:47oh my god
00:39:48oh my god
00:39:52go to bed y'all
00:39:55are you going with her
00:39:57i'm gonna go there soon
00:39:59but not right now
00:40:05that
00:40:09i want you to both give each other a compliment
00:40:13i believe kara that you're a very beautiful in the inside
00:40:17do you feel proud when you look at her and think that's the mother of my child
00:40:41bye
00:41:10Good night.
00:41:14Oh, no, I put, yeah, no, I put it over there.
00:41:19Oh, dry.
00:41:22Is it scared?
00:41:25Is it?
00:41:31It makes me sad that he feels like he can't, like, share a bed with me.
00:41:35I mean, I feel like we were making a lot of progress.
00:41:37We did a whole day of therapy, and we were able to talk about some hard stuff,
00:41:40and he slept in the bed yesterday.
00:41:42And so him moving to the couch kind of does feel like a step back in a way.
00:41:48But, I mean, I guess the fact that he's willing to even sleep in the same room with me,
00:41:52even though it's on the couch, is better than nothing.
00:41:55I just wish that he would be, like, a little more relaxed and not so rigid.
00:42:07Well, you just left me there.
00:42:11Like, why not say, like, let's go together?
00:42:14I mean, like...
00:42:15You literally did that to me at the party earlier.
00:42:17And did you text me?
00:42:18Did you call me?
00:42:19Did you come back up and go, hey, there's a party going on downstairs?
00:42:22No.
00:42:22Do you want to come with me?
00:42:23No.
00:42:23So, maybe don't walk out here and ask me why I left you there.
00:42:27You went down by yourself?
00:42:28You can come back up by yourself.
00:42:31Right.
00:42:32You're right.
00:42:34You're right.
00:42:36This is what happens when you buddy up with somebody that your wife obviously has an issue with.
00:42:42Why you make it issues?
00:42:43You don't have any issues.
00:42:45Because of the way he talked to me earlier.
00:42:47Now, I'm supposed to just shut up and not say anything else to him because he apologized to you?
00:42:51That's bull****.
00:42:53What do you want me to do, Rebecca?
00:42:55Someone, he said something to my wife.
00:42:58He come to me, apologized, said, no, don't apologize to me.
00:43:02Wait when she come here.
00:43:03What are you talking about?
00:43:04Or, maybe, okay, hey, I appreciate that.
00:43:07Okay, that's what I said.
00:43:08Not done talking.
00:43:09No, that's what I said.
00:43:11You're not hearing me and you're not letting me talk.
00:43:13Yeah.
00:43:13Which is completely normal.
00:43:15Just me, I'm talking.
00:43:16F***, bro.
00:43:33Should we wait for Jenny?
00:43:35Yeah.
00:43:36Okay.
00:43:37We just find out that we have a fancy banquet tonight, so we have to dress to impress, which
00:43:43is obviously my specialty, but I'm a little nervous because we have to do this couple's
00:43:48therapy, and to be honest, I don't think that's a great idea, to make therapy, unlimited
00:43:54wine, and sharp knives.
00:43:57Oh, so nice outside.
00:43:58This place is so magical, isn't it?
00:44:01Yeah.
00:44:02Jenny!
00:44:04Hi, girl.
00:44:06You look adorable.
00:44:08You do.
00:44:08I love your outfit.
00:44:10It's a little too pretty.
00:44:11I think the colors are matching.
00:44:13And you're beautiful as usual.
00:44:18I haven't gone out often with Rose, so I just kind of, like, want to give a great impression
00:44:23tonight, so we're going to a local salon to get glam up.
00:44:27Jenny and I invited Chikina because she didn't come out last night, and she already got into
00:44:30multiple fights with women in here.
00:44:33I just really want to find out if she's having a really hard time in here or just being a
00:44:39brat.
00:44:40Riding backwards is such a trip.
00:44:49Well, this is going to be fun today.
00:44:51Are you excited for tonight?
00:44:53How did you say?
00:44:54I can't say that word.
00:44:54Banquet.
00:44:55Banquet.
00:44:56I was saying buffet in the...
00:44:57Buffet?
00:44:58I was like, wait.
00:44:59Have you been to a banquet before, Jenny?
00:45:01Oh, in India.
00:45:03Oh, in India.
00:45:11Jack...
00:45:12Gosh, this is interesting.
00:45:14I don't understand this game.
00:45:16All right, well, we each get a ball, and then basically we got to try to get it through
00:45:20that.
00:45:21But the ball is bigger than that thing, isn't it?
00:45:23No, it's not.
00:45:26Oh, okay.
00:45:27Okay.
00:45:29What the hell is croquet?
00:45:30It's kind of like the English version of mini golf.
00:45:34Oh.
00:45:34Yeah.
00:45:35You got a mallet, you get the ball, but the ball doesn't go in the hole, so to be honest
00:45:41with you, it's not that fun.
00:45:42Why?
00:45:44Huh?
00:45:45There's no holes.
00:45:46Aw, you like the hole.
00:45:48I like your .
00:45:51Stop.
00:45:54Hi.
00:45:57Damn it.
00:45:58You're horrible.
00:46:00Okay, now my turn.
00:46:02I'm gonna swing that booty.
00:46:04Oh.
00:46:06Oh.
00:46:07Yeah.
00:46:09Ah.
00:46:10Ah.
00:46:11Ah.
00:46:11You missed it?
00:46:12How did you miss it?
00:46:14I think you're about to tie it up.
00:46:15Ah.
00:46:17You barely got it.
00:46:19This is a lot more confusing than mini golf.
00:46:21Oh.
00:46:23Oh, no.
00:46:24Ah.
00:46:26You're horrible.
00:46:28I won.
00:46:31I mean, how could you have won?
00:46:32We don't even know if we're playing it right.
00:46:34No, I did win.
00:46:35I was actually ahead, and I was just being nice.
00:46:38Oh, I always excused.
00:46:41Isn't this fun?
00:46:42Like, having one-on-one time.
00:46:45I love this.
00:46:45I love having time with you while we just, like, being distant, and we don't have that much time together.
00:46:51We got married, had a child.
00:46:54You have really taken this, you know, prioritize yourself thing really far, and I don't think you realize how much
00:47:03of it's affected me.
00:47:03What do you want?
00:47:03You want me not do anything?
00:47:05No, I just want you to realize, like, there's a balance to it.
00:47:08Yes, okay.
00:47:10No.
00:47:11Used to be the one that don't like to talk about things, right?
00:47:15Yeah, but that's, I mean, we're here to talk.
00:47:19Like, I don't want to ignore everything and then go back home and everything's the same.
00:47:23Not me either.
00:47:41Ooh, look at that.
00:47:43This is getting much better.
00:47:44This looks amazing.
00:47:46Thank you so much.
00:47:48I get massages, like, every single week at home.
00:47:51Oh, really?
00:47:52Full body, two hour massages.
00:47:54Yes.
00:47:54I need to feel the friction.
00:47:55Oh, I don't like that.
00:47:57Oh, I love it.
00:47:57You don't like it, Jenny?
00:47:58It hurts.
00:47:59When was the last time you had your makeup done or you got glammed up, Jenny?
00:48:03I can't even remember.
00:48:05I'm just staying in my room.
00:48:07His parents are there.
00:48:09I'm hiding out.
00:48:11That's a lot because it happened to me with Ross at the beginning when I moved to U.S.
00:48:15I went to live with his parents at the beginning and I'm like, you gotta get me out of here.
00:48:19Yeah.
00:48:20So I missed out on last night because I was so tired.
00:48:24Yeah.
00:48:25I didn't know you guys were separated.
00:48:26I thought it was everyone together.
00:48:28You don't know what happened with the guys because you weren't even with them.
00:48:31No, but my husband kind of, like, filled me in a little bit.
00:48:34Sarper said they are now besties.
00:48:38That makes me worried.
00:48:39Yeah, because they're very alpha, alpha controlling.
00:48:42Oh my God, get over yourselves.
00:48:44You're giant babies.
00:48:45Did you guys get to talk after the therapy?
00:48:48We haven't said a word to each other.
00:48:49That's crazy.
00:48:52I do really like that Sarper is a little more of a strong type than Sumit and Russ, for example.
00:48:59Like, I just feel like they come across as very weak men.
00:49:03And, like, I would have already left Ross if I was in Powell's situation.
00:49:08She has so much to offer and I feel like he's just like a weight pulling her down and keeping
00:49:13her from reaching her true potential.
00:49:16Yeah, I feel like I do want Ross to have a little bit like alpha male on him, but not
00:49:22in a controlled way because I'm an alpha female.
00:49:24But I do want him just to be a little bit more strong in a way.
00:49:28Like, I can actually be more feminine because I feel like I'm more like a man sometimes.
00:49:34And I just don't like that.
00:49:36Because you're just being put in that position.
00:49:37I want some changes because I'm tired of that.
00:49:41I'm doing this just to give it one more try, but I feel like I, I don't know, I feel
00:49:47like I'm just, I'm done trying.
00:49:50But he always threatened me.
00:49:51Like, he told to my son, like, oh, mommy's breaking up the family.
00:49:54Like, he told, yeah.
00:49:58I do want this to work, to be honest.
00:50:00And I'm here for a reason.
00:50:02And deep down, like, I know that we have so much history together.
00:50:05But I don't know, it's, I'm tired of feeling sad, depressed.
00:50:12Feeling that I'm letting my best years go by and for someone that is not even trying.
00:50:19And it's a concern that maybe there is no hope.
00:50:31Welcome to your royal banquet.
00:50:34All right.
00:50:35A crucial element to these high society events is etiquette.
00:50:41Want to watch where we're putting that forks in it?
00:50:44Sorry?
00:50:44Means he wants to kill me, that's what it means.
00:50:47There are a few people who are eating with their bare hands.
00:50:51Some are even eating with their mouths open.
00:50:56I can see that there is a lot of work to do.
00:51:07He told to my son, like, oh, mommy's breaking up the family.
00:51:10Like, he told, yeah.
00:51:14He'll suffer from the dysfunction that you guys had.
00:51:16You would think Rosie's the sweetest guy, but you would never think that he actually, like, oh, it's not going
00:51:22to be easy.
00:51:23I'm sure.
00:51:24And, like, he does that.
00:51:25Oh, it's the quiet, sweet ones that are the most scary when they don't get what they want.
00:51:28I feel manipulated.
00:51:28Yeah.
00:51:29I went through a really scary experience when I was leaving my daughter's dad.
00:51:34He also said something similar, that he was going to, it was going to be hell for me.
00:51:38And he tried to take full custody of my daughter.
00:51:42And I didn't have money to get my own attorney.
00:51:45I was representing myself.
00:51:46I don't know anything about the legal system.
00:51:49And when I got to court, he was like, just kidding.
00:51:52I'm not going to try to take our daughter from you.
00:51:55Oh, really?
00:51:56He was just trying to scare me.
00:51:57I've been divorced for, like, 20-something years now.
00:52:00Was it an easy breakup?
00:52:02Yeah.
00:52:03He wanted, he left.
00:52:05My daughters were still young, so I took him to court, made sure he paid child support, spousal support.
00:52:15And I got everything I asked for.
00:52:18Good for you.
00:52:18See, I never did any of that.
00:52:20I didn't know how to do anything.
00:52:23For some reason, when I hear Shekinah and Jenny talking about the divorce, it's a lesson for me, to be
00:52:28honest,
00:52:28because I don't think it's fair, just me making decisions because of my son.
00:52:34I need to think about myself, too.
00:52:36But at the same time, they are with somebody else already, and they are struggling right now.
00:52:43So I'm not going to give up.
00:52:45Gorgeous.
00:52:46Yeah.
00:52:46Wow.
00:52:46Look at those eyes.
00:52:47They are popping.
00:52:48Do you think Sumit is going to love it?
00:52:50Yeah, of course.
00:52:51Will he notice?
00:52:52Does he notice things like this?
00:52:54Yeah.
00:52:54Yeah.
00:52:54He'll notice, especially the eyelashes.
00:52:58Okay.
00:52:59You're welcome.
00:52:59Yeah.
00:53:00Nice job.
00:53:09Hello.
00:53:09Hey there.
00:53:10How are you guys?
00:53:10Good.
00:53:11How are you?
00:53:12Good to see you.
00:53:13Feel free to take a seat.
00:53:16How was the start to your day so far?
00:53:17Not too bad.
00:53:18Yeah.
00:53:18Better than yesterday.
00:53:19Yeah.
00:53:21Things are still frosty between Ziad and I after our fight last night.
00:53:24But we do have our one-on-one therapy today.
00:53:27And I'm just really hoping this session can give us both some insights.
00:53:32So how did you feel about the group session yesterday?
00:53:36Um...
00:53:36It's cool.
00:53:37I like to sharing my story and people sharing story with me.
00:53:42Do you know what I mean?
00:53:43That setting is good for that.
00:53:44Yeah.
00:53:44You know, you get to kind of know that you're not alone.
00:53:46For me, yesterday it was draining and I was uncomfortable with the fact that he got so buddy-buddy with
00:53:57Sarper after Sarper became very disrespectful to me.
00:54:01As soon as we got back upstairs to our room, it turned into a huge argument.
00:54:06Then I felt like there was zero support from him.
00:54:08I just know Sarper like this two days, okay?
00:54:12He's a good guy.
00:54:13I don't get exactly what he said mean to her.
00:54:16And I don't like it when she told him a five or six times shut up.
00:54:20Mm-hmm.
00:54:21In the front.
00:54:21I said it twice.
00:54:22No, you said more of twice.
00:54:24I promise you.
00:54:25You're not supposed to talk with men like that.
00:54:28I'm gonna pause.
00:54:29Shouldn't it be more important that he was disrespectful to me than whether or not I told him something?
00:54:34Why couldn't you just be on my side?
00:54:37In this moment yesterday, when he start talking, I'm not thinking he talk about to her specifically, but I thought
00:54:46he be in men's side.
00:54:48Mm-hmm.
00:54:48And she not like it.
00:54:50She told him, shut up.
00:54:51When he talk about men's side, about like me and him, we're men.
00:54:56No.
00:54:56Mm-hmm.
00:54:57Can I finish, dog?
00:55:00Don't stop me.
00:55:00Let me finish.
00:55:02Don't be rude.
00:55:03You see, like, you can't want to control me.
00:55:05No, you're just repeating the same thing over and over again.
00:55:07The point is, I thought it was disrespectful.
00:55:12And you hurt my feelings worse than he did when we got back to the room.
00:55:16You hurt my feelings.
00:55:17Even if I'm wrong about those feelings, you still hurt my feelings.
00:55:21Okay.
00:55:22And you're still arguing that you didn't say or do anything wrong.
00:55:32I honestly can't even look at him.
00:55:35Why?
00:55:36There's so much distance.
00:55:38I feel stupid dressed up.
00:55:40I feel like I don't belong here.
00:55:42Oh.
00:55:58You hurt my feelings.
00:55:59Even if I'm wrong about those feelings, you still hurt my feelings.
00:56:03And you're still arguing that you didn't say or do anything wrong.
00:56:09So I'm going to pause you right there because you feel like he doesn't understand your experience
00:56:12and he doesn't understand that you were disrespected.
00:56:14But we may need to help him get there and understand exactly what your perspective is.
00:56:19We have to slow down in these conversations or arguments and break it up piece by piece.
00:56:24Yes, sir.
00:56:26There's an emotional disconnect because I think the language barrier is huge.
00:56:30And it's not only a language barrier, it's a cultural barrier as well,
00:56:33where it puts Ziad in a place where he constantly is trying to explain himself.
00:56:36And it puts Rebecca in a position where she doesn't feel like he ever understands anything that she said.
00:56:42And that's going to be a major challenge as they continue to move through this.
00:56:46So Rebecca was asking for an apology or acknowledgement that her feelings were hurt.
00:56:54I got you.
00:56:55And I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings.
00:56:58All right?
00:57:01How do you feel about the apology that he's giving you?
00:57:06I appreciate it.
00:57:10But you see how quickly an argument just almost happened just because of the misunderstanding.
00:57:16You guys are from two completely different ends of the world, right?
00:57:20Yeah.
00:57:20Exactly.
00:57:20And certain things that you may not see a problem with or you think are just how it should be
00:57:24might be difficult for her to understand.
00:57:27So both of you guys get very frustrated and you guys have your own internal response that is happening.
00:57:32For you, you want to fix it right away and you start talking to him about it.
00:57:36And if he doesn't give you that validation, it does spark something in you where it just puts you in
00:57:41a defensive space and it doesn't feel good.
00:57:44And Rebecca, when you approach a situation aggressively or angrily, he's going to shut down.
00:57:50I could certainly learn to be less aggressive with my time.
00:57:54For me, when we get fired, she say everything what she wanted comfortable.
00:57:58For me, it's take me like 30 minutes.
00:58:00So I need to explain slowly, slowly, slowly.
00:58:03When I start explaining, she get angry, of course, because she not get my words.
00:58:08She start to stop me to say something.
00:58:12Okay.
00:58:12So I get angry again.
00:58:15I've tried to be patient with the fact that he's not great with English, but I'm sure that I've screwed
00:58:20that up at times.
00:58:22So I think that if you guys can maybe pause an argument before it stops, it's okay for you to
00:58:28go to another room.
00:58:29You can sit outside on the front porch.
00:58:32You can get your emotions more clear.
00:58:35So it's easier for you to express and it's going to be easier for her to listen and allow you
00:58:41that space because she understands what you're trying to do in that moment.
00:58:45Dr. Grandison's right.
00:58:46My initial instinct whenever Ziad and I are fighting is to push for a response right away.
00:58:53But Ziad responds to things way more differently than I do.
00:58:57And honestly, I tend to feel like I'm, I feel like I'm right more often than I probably really am
00:59:05right.
00:59:05And so I need to be a little bit more patient instead of assuming that he doesn't care.
00:59:12I'll set up a, uh, uh, what do they call it?
00:59:15One of those actions on my phone that automatically sets a 15 minute timer.
00:59:19Timer.
00:59:20Oh.
00:59:20Let me see.
00:59:22Rebecca and Ziad's relationship, they're going to need a lot of work.
00:59:26Both of them definitely have some fiery personalities, but the love, the care is still present.
00:59:31And hopefully they can give each other a chance to actually explain and express what they need to.
00:59:38I like the conversation with you, by the way.
00:59:40Oh yeah.
00:59:40Good.
00:59:41And we're working progress and this is a step one.
00:59:43This is definitely step one.
00:59:58I'm back.
01:00:01Wow, baby.
01:00:03You're looking pretty.
01:00:04It's okay.
01:00:05It's just different from how I do my makeup.
01:00:08Yeah, sometimes different is good.
01:00:10That's why we're here, to do something different.
01:00:12True.
01:00:13Good point.
01:00:14Yeah, but really, I'm telling you, you're looking very pretty.
01:00:19Like for a moment, I didn't recognize you.
01:00:22I don't recognize you.
01:00:32Kara, we're going to be late.
01:00:35No, I'm done.
01:00:36Huh?
01:00:37I'm done.
01:00:38Ooh.
01:00:39Ah, let me see.
01:00:41Yeah.
01:00:42Girl?
01:00:43Oh.
01:00:44No way.
01:00:46Ooh.
01:00:46Ah.
01:00:46It's given...
01:00:48What's it giving?
01:00:49It's given...
01:00:50Cater.
01:00:50Wine.
01:00:51It's given wine.
01:00:51It's given red.
01:00:52Burgundy.
01:00:53Red wine.
01:00:54It's given red wine.
01:00:55The New York.
01:00:56It's given...
01:00:57It's given castle.
01:00:59It's given castle-ish.
01:01:00Like I feel like I could blend into the floor.
01:01:02Huh.
01:01:10You don't see this.
01:01:12I forgot to put your an.
01:01:13The last thing I want was to stink.
01:01:17What age is the menopause happening?
01:01:19I'm having flashes at the end, maybe?
01:01:22I need to know.
01:01:22I have to go out and get some pills or something.
01:01:25Actually, it's really cold here,
01:01:27but I don't even know why am I sweating so much.
01:01:30I'm very anxious for tonight.
01:01:32Personally, I'm hoping for some good food.
01:01:34But for me, I'm not, like, the person
01:01:36who can experience new stuff.
01:01:38With food, no.
01:01:40So I won't be eating, unless they have rice and beans
01:01:43and pineapple pizza.
01:01:45I'm pretty sure the British would take offense to that.
01:01:49I haven't seen you wearing a turtleneck in a while.
01:01:52It looks nice.
01:01:53You look good.
01:01:54They look great, too.
01:01:56Shiny.
01:01:58Okay, let's go.
01:01:59Let's do this.
01:02:09Oh, it's here.
01:02:11Time to have some fun.
01:02:14Oh, wow.
01:02:15Look at this.
01:02:17Hello.
01:02:18Champagne.
01:02:19Wow.
01:02:23Wow.
01:02:25So we're going to be queens tonight?
01:02:29I'm excited because there might be pig
01:02:32with, like, the apple in the mouth
01:02:33and just, like, turkey legs.
01:02:36They might have a gesture, too.
01:02:38Someone that just tells jokes.
01:02:40Like, sharper.
01:02:41They do like that?
01:02:45Oh, Samantha and Ginny.
01:02:47Hello.
01:02:48Hi.
01:02:49What's going on?
01:02:49Oh, my God.
01:02:50You guys look so good.
01:02:51You're looking so nice, too.
01:02:54Oh, I want to try.
01:02:56Oh, it is so good.
01:02:58Oh, my God.
01:02:58Oh, yes.
01:02:59Yeah, I get it.
01:03:00There you go.
01:03:00You have to put it on right.
01:03:04Look at her sneaking in the door.
01:03:06I got clean.
01:03:07You look gorgeous.
01:03:11Hello, guys.
01:03:12Hi.
01:03:12Nice.
01:03:13Looking good.
01:03:14Looking good.
01:03:15Hey.
01:03:16Don't knock me over.
01:03:20Shekina and I, we are barely spoken after the group therapy.
01:03:25Obviously, we will be the hottest couple out there today.
01:03:28I'm not being humble, but it doesn't work like this
01:03:32because we don't look at each other.
01:03:34I mean, she needs to look at me and say,
01:03:37well, he's a hot guy.
01:03:38I'm a lucky bitch.
01:03:41Ooh.
01:03:42Wow.
01:03:43This is beautiful.
01:03:45Oh, girl.
01:03:45My goodness.
01:03:48Sounds like a party.
01:03:50Oh.
01:03:50I know.
01:03:52And you're always in crowns.
01:03:54I know, right?
01:03:55There is a tiara for you in there.
01:03:57I feel like this one's supposed to be like that, no?
01:04:00Oh.
01:04:02Hi, everyone.
01:04:04Oh, it's the little bitch.
01:04:06Welcome to your royal banquet.
01:04:09All right.
01:04:11A crucial element to these high society events is etiquette.
01:04:15Etiquette is particularly important in British culture, but really it's important in all relationships.
01:04:22How we listen to each other, how we communicate with each other.
01:04:26It's a mark of respect.
01:04:27And it is a sad truth, unfortunately, that we are often rudest to the people that we love and care
01:04:34about the most.
01:04:36What I've noticed so far about the way these couples interact is that there is a really notable lack of
01:04:43respect for the most part.
01:04:45They talk over each other.
01:04:47Some of the partners are, quite frankly, yelling and screaming at their partner, and they're doing this in front of
01:04:53other people.
01:04:54So what I'm really looking for this evening is that the couples exhibit respect for each other.
01:05:00They pay attention to etiquette, not just for their partner, but for everyone in the group.
01:05:05Because the key to a happy and thriving relationship is to understand how your partner desires to be treated.
01:05:14So the first instruction you were given was to dress your best in proper formal attire.
01:05:21So, Russ, how do you think Pao looks?
01:05:24Stunning. She looks great.
01:05:27Shiny.
01:05:28She's beautiful.
01:05:30And how do you think your man looks?
01:05:32I chose his outfit.
01:05:35What are we thinking of the shoes, everyone?
01:05:38They're amazing.
01:05:39But can you notice that Pao is looking at you very differently from how she was looking at you yesterday?
01:05:45Look how much she's smiling.
01:05:47Look how much she's smiling.
01:05:49Look how easy a fix that is.
01:05:51Yes, you're right.
01:05:52How does that feel for you, Russ?
01:05:54It's good.
01:05:55It is good to see her looking at me and admiring the way I'm looking.
01:06:00You are handsome.
01:06:02I'm not much of a turtleneck guy, but I'm digging it.
01:06:06There is something hot and sexy on a guy wearing a turtleneck.
01:06:10And Russ is actually looking very hot.
01:06:12Like, he's kind of turning me on.
01:06:13He looks so hot.
01:06:17Okay, so what we can really establish from this is just by putting in that little bit more effort into
01:06:23our appearance, into dressing up,
01:06:25how much that makes your partner feel seen, feel respected, feel that connection.
01:06:31Most importantly, feel that desire for you.
01:06:35100%.
01:06:36Okay, go on.
01:06:37He has a very unique style and he's very opinionated about it.
01:06:43That's me?
01:06:43Yes.
01:06:44But I'm grateful that he looks amazing tonight.
01:06:48Sapa, how do you think Shekinah looks this evening?
01:06:52Great, as usual.
01:06:54And how about Sapa?
01:06:57He looks great.
01:07:00This is the first jacket and probably shirt combined.
01:07:06First date.
01:07:06Combination, first date, combination.
01:07:09How did it make you feel when you saw him this evening?
01:07:12When I cry, it makes me feel sad.
01:07:15I honestly can't even look at him.
01:07:18Why?
01:07:19Because yesterday was so hard and he hasn't spoken to me since then.
01:07:22And I just feel like there's so much distance.
01:07:26What do you think?
01:07:27I feel stupid dressed up right now.
01:07:29I feel like I don't belong here.
01:07:31Aww.
01:07:33Why is Shekinah crying?
01:07:35Already?
01:07:36Is this just for her attention?
01:07:38I just feel like everything Shekinah does is pretty cold and calculated, so...
01:07:42I don't care.
01:07:52What you said in the other room, that was harsh.
01:07:56How'd you get there?
01:07:57There's some decisions that she takes in life that I definitely feel embarrassed of.
01:08:04Like what?
01:08:04You said, I will never be naked.
01:08:07In those pictures?
01:08:08Oh!
01:08:09Oh my God.
01:08:11Oh my God.
01:08:20I know I know what.
01:08:21Oh!
01:08:22What do you feel?
01:08:22Yess.
01:08:23Yesterday was so hard.
01:08:24I feel stupid dressed up right now.
01:08:26I feel like I don't belong here.
01:08:28Oh!
01:08:30What do you feel would help close that distance between you?
01:08:36I don't know, to be honest.
01:08:41Whenever we have a big fight, Sarper gets defensive,
01:08:44and I have to be the one to eventually coax him out of the corner.
01:08:48And I hate myself for doing it, but I do it anyways.
01:08:51I feel like he should be the one coming to me and apologizing,
01:08:56but he actually refuses to talk to me.
01:09:00I would like to know, what is the most meaningful compliment
01:09:04that Sarper's ever given you, Shekinah?
01:09:09He told me that he saw my inner child and he loved her,
01:09:13and that meant a lot.
01:09:15And when was that?
01:09:16It was when we first met.
01:09:18I saw a very transparent, naive person, and I loved it.
01:09:27Today I wanted to compliment her in the room, but I couldn't.
01:09:32I hate that side of me, because vindictiveness...
01:09:36Why don't you do it right now?
01:09:39Why don't you turn to her, take each other's hands,
01:09:42and tell her how you feel about her?
01:09:47And how do you feel when you look at her now?
01:09:50No.
01:09:55I love her.
01:09:56Say it to her.
01:09:57I love you.
01:09:59I just want us to be happy.
01:10:01I just want to be happy.
01:10:03I mean, life is freaking short.
01:10:04I don't want to be unhappy, you know?
01:10:07That's what I want.
01:10:10I really want you to both work on just trying to stay with it
01:10:13and letting that connection develop between you.
01:10:17Can you work on that this evening?
01:10:19Mm-hmm.
01:10:22There was a real tension and energy between them.
01:10:25I could feel she was still very much holding back.
01:10:29I noticed her looking down at the floor a lot,
01:10:31not wanting to catch Sapa's eyes, let alone anyone else's eyes.
01:10:35I think she's got a lot going on within her at the moment.
01:10:38And I can see that there is a lot of work to do with this couple.
01:10:42Jenny, how do you think Sumit looks this evening?
01:10:46I mean, he looks great.
01:10:48I like to see him dress up.
01:10:50And how do you think your wife looks today, Sumit?
01:10:53Yeah, she looks good.
01:10:54She always looks good, like...
01:10:58But thinking, like, this is Indian, I see every day.
01:11:01I was expecting a little more.
01:11:05But, yeah, like, she's comfortable in that
01:11:08and she's always about comfort.
01:11:10Well, aren't you lucky to have a wife who always looks good?
01:11:13Yeah, I am.
01:11:15That's true.
01:11:17That's hard.
01:11:18I mean, it's hard to hear, I think, as your wife.
01:11:21But also, like, if that's his truth, like, you know, if...
01:11:25Personally, if I was him, I would keep my mouth shut.
01:11:29I mean, we are in a therapy,
01:11:32so you don't need to lie in this situation.
01:11:35It's not like you are ugly.
01:11:38Who is him to say it with his fake, giant glasses?
01:11:41It looks like the Edna Moe from The Incredibles.
01:11:44Let's be honest.
01:11:45You only need to go his bangs, because he will be perfect.
01:11:49Come on, Sumit.
01:11:53Cara and Guillermo, what is the most meaningful compliment
01:11:57you've given each other throughout the course of your relationship?
01:12:01Okay, and here's a thing that happens, maybe more recently,
01:12:04is, like, he'll give me a compliment, like today.
01:12:06He said, yeah, I think you're really smart,
01:12:07but I don't think you use it.
01:12:10Okay, so you start well.
01:12:12It's like he wants to be nice,
01:12:14but it's, like, too hard for him to be nice,
01:12:15so then he has to end it with, like, a dig,
01:12:17and I'm like, well, I didn't feel great.
01:12:20So what if you, just right now,
01:12:22gave her a compliment without the dig?
01:12:27The person that I fell in love with,
01:12:31it has been the most beautiful person ever made in my life,
01:12:35and that is you.
01:12:38And what was it that, when you first met Guillermo,
01:12:42that made you fall for him?
01:12:44I'm going to cry.
01:12:51I just felt like I had really found, like, a good person.
01:12:58So why don't you look at each other for a moment?
01:13:02Take her hand,
01:13:04and I want you to both give each other a compliment,
01:13:08something sincere,
01:13:09something that you really do mean.
01:13:16I believe, Cara,
01:13:17that you're a very authentic person,
01:13:21and actually friendly and beautiful in the inside.
01:13:29Do you feel proud when you look at her
01:13:31and think, that's the mother of my child?
01:13:33Does it make you feel proud?
01:13:40No.
01:13:46Now.
01:14:14MUSIC CONTINUES
01:14:23Why not?
01:14:25I don't think that it's something that I would like to talk about right now.
01:14:33Okay, so this is something we can dig into and explore at dinner.
01:14:39Because this whole evening really is about respect and etiquette
01:14:44and what these two things can do for our relationships.
01:14:49It's just unbelievable to me.
01:14:51It's one of the worst things I think you can say to a mother.
01:14:55And I don't know if he's doing it because he really believes that
01:14:58or if he's trying to just hurt me because he's hurt.
01:15:01I don't know.
01:15:02Just, I don't know, what goes through his mind sometimes.
01:15:07So we're going to move to the next section of our evening together,
01:15:11which is the dinner.
01:15:13Yay!
01:15:14Yes!
01:15:15So, let's eat.
01:15:16Starry, man.
01:15:17Off to you.
01:15:26Oh, wow.
01:15:27Oh, my God!
01:15:29Look at this.
01:15:34Wow!
01:15:35Oh, my God, what?
01:15:37Welcome.
01:15:41I love that.
01:15:43I feel like I've never seen that in, like, the movies.
01:15:48Oh, wow.
01:15:50We don't eat with that much forking spoons.
01:15:52Personally, I don't like using forks.
01:15:54I just like to eat everything with a spoon.
01:15:55How do you eat a steak?
01:15:57My hands.
01:15:58You're a caveman.
01:16:00Then when you eat, too, you're just slurping all the time.
01:16:07I guess even with all of our problems,
01:16:10so we still have a good match, right?
01:16:14Arrgh.
01:16:16So, as you're eating, I will keep an eye on you,
01:16:20and if I notice any egregious mishaps,
01:16:23I will gently let you know.
01:16:26Bon appetit.
01:16:35Oh, vegetables.
01:16:41Pork is beheaded in the castle.
01:16:46I actually took etiquette classes when I was younger.
01:16:49My mom sent me to literally learn to walk with books on my head.
01:16:54You can tell it was the 80s,
01:16:56but we definitely have the best etiquette manners.
01:17:01For therapy, guys.
01:17:04Sarp, be very careful where you point that.
01:17:08Wow.
01:17:09Woo-hoo.
01:17:12That's not good etiquette.
01:17:14Bad etiquette.
01:17:17I want to watch where we're putting that fork, Simit.
01:17:20Sorry?
01:17:20Just watch where we're putting that fork.
01:17:22This one?
01:17:24You raised it to her face.
01:17:26Nah, you're pointing at me.
01:17:28Oh, I'm sorry.
01:17:29Means he wants to kill me.
01:17:31That's what it means.
01:17:33Can anyone tell me the correct way to hold a wine glass?
01:17:38Correct.
01:17:40Excellent wine etiquette.
01:17:42Cheers.
01:17:43Cheers.
01:17:44So in terms of the couple's manners, we have a mixed bag.
01:17:48There are a few people who are eating with their bare hands.
01:17:52Some are even eating with their mouths open.
01:17:57But at the same time, given what happened earlier with Sarp and Shekinah and Kara and Guillermo,
01:18:03it's clear to me that the focus right now of this banquet has to become less about the formal eating
01:18:10etiquette
01:18:10and all about can the couple's exhibit respect for each other?
01:18:16Can they demonstrate care and consideration for their partners?
01:18:20I just want to remind everyone that the theme of this evening is respect and etiquette,
01:18:26not just dining etiquette rules, also the way that we interact with one another.
01:18:33Is there anything that your partner does that feels maybe it's a very subtle thing that makes you feel very
01:18:38respected?
01:18:39Is it just feeling seen?
01:18:42What makes you feel seen, Kara?
01:18:44Just the work that I do, everything that I've done as a mom.
01:18:50So acknowledging.
01:18:51Yeah.
01:18:59God, I hate that I can't jog without crying.
01:19:01Sorry.
01:19:04Like the stuff he just, like what he just said in the room over there.
01:19:10It's hard for me.
01:19:13He can look me square in the eye as a mother and tell me that he's not proud that I'm
01:19:21the mother of his child.
01:19:23Yeah.
01:19:24That was not nice, to be honest, to hear it.
01:19:29I mean, what you said in the other room, like, that was harsh.
01:19:35How'd you get there?
01:19:38There's some decisions that you take in life that I definitely feel embarrassed of.
01:19:44Was that when you guys were married and together?
01:19:48Yeah.
01:19:49Like what?
01:19:53Okay, let me elaborate my thing.
01:19:56Um, you decided to start selling pictures and videos online.
01:20:03Yeah, I mean, I thought a platform where I can sell pictures of myself, I can take pictures at home,
01:20:10I can still take care of my son at home.
01:20:11I came to you and I said, hey, this is something that I'm interested in doing.
01:20:15I want you to please listen and then after, I'm going to let you know and you can talk.
01:20:22Is that okay?
01:20:23Cool.
01:20:24Okay, can we just remember that we're here to try and practice being respectful to our partners?
01:20:30Just being aware of the language that we're using and most importantly, the tone that we're communicating our words in.
01:20:37I apologize.
01:20:39What kind of pictures are we talking about?
01:20:40What kind of pictures are we talking about?
01:20:45Implied nudity.
01:20:47Oh.
01:20:49Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute, hold on.
01:20:53I remember two years ago, in the first conversation that she had with me, she said very clear,
01:20:59hey, I will be literally posting the same pictures that I post on my social media, in bikini, you know,
01:21:05being sexy.
01:21:06You said, I will never be naked.
01:21:08And it was like, hey, listen, I don't, I don't, I don't like this.
01:21:14Yeah, I mean, he had his reservations, but I think ultimately we were like, okay, cool, yeah, that's fine.
01:21:18So that's what I did.
01:21:19So what happened from that place of healthy communication to where you are now?
01:21:26So now I have this platform.
01:21:28Yeah.
01:21:31And I'm like, I really want to get back into music.
01:21:33Music is something I've done my entire life.
01:21:35How can I do that?
01:21:36Cost money.
01:21:37I'm like, okay, well, I have this income source.
01:21:39Let me use that to pay for my music.
01:21:42In the meantime, him and I are fighting a lot.
01:21:44He tells me he doesn't like my music.
01:21:45I feel completely unsupported.
01:21:47And so then we have a blow up and then he moves out.
01:21:52Now I'm thinking, uh-oh, single momhood is expensive.
01:21:57So guess what?
01:21:58My tits came out.
01:22:01Wow.
01:22:02Goddamn.
01:22:10Next time on 90 Day, The Last Resort.
01:22:13I pay for him to go to get massages, which I don't remember the last time I paid you for.
01:22:18Why do you have to bring up that you pay for it?
01:22:20Because I do.
01:22:21I don't have the support.
01:22:23I just have lash, lash, lash, and it just tears me down.
01:22:29Welcome to our first sex therapy session.
01:22:33Who was your first celebrity crush that you masturbated to?
01:22:37I like Britney Spears when I am young.
01:22:40There is a Hollywood actress.
01:22:41She was, I think, in her 40s.
01:22:43This is when you were young.
01:22:45Yeah.
01:22:46I know my children.
01:22:48I think Samet's a little freak.
01:22:51My freak radar goes off.
01:22:52He's a pervert wife.
01:22:55This guy, this guy is horny.
01:22:57Is it normal?
01:22:58Like, every single day?
01:22:59Like, two times a day?
01:23:01Three times a day?
01:23:03Patrick, I'm wondering if his sex drive, there's something going on?
01:23:07Are you curious if he's a sex addict?
01:23:16There are all the things that you could have done to get money, but you went in an easy way.
01:23:21That's my perspective.
01:23:23What is an easy, what is easy about it?
01:23:25Listen, I'm done with that.