00:00My work can of course take me away from my home and my kids. Whatever it is that I'm doing,
00:06it has to be worth it. Because I'm missing time away from them, watching them grow,
00:12having them ask me questions. This morning, Titan saw me getting ready for this and he's like,
00:17where are you going? And I was like, I'm not going anywhere. Like, I know that this phase
00:21and stage of his life, he just wants me close. And whatever it is that I'm doing, it means
00:28something to me. And I told him that I was like, if I'm leaving or going somewhere, it's because it
00:33really means a lot to me. I was like, and I don't want to leave you. And he goes, okay,
00:37you got to
00:38just talk to them like they're human. I don't baby my boy. I'm completely obsessed with them. So I just
00:44love them and kissed on them all day. So there's never a moment where they don't feel like I love
00:50them, even when there is some sort of challenge, you know what I mean? Or it's figuring out,
00:56you know, you, you feel like you have a bigger voice since you're 11, but you don't use that tone
01:02of voice than me. You know what I mean? That kind of thing. Like we, I talked to Titan and
01:06Noah like
01:07that, you know, I'm like, I don't like the way you said that to me. I wouldn't say that to
01:10you like
01:10that. So don't say that to me like that. And then it's over. I wish someone would have told me,
01:14make it quick, you know, when you're correcting something and move on. And I wish someone would have said,
01:21like, let your yes be a yes and your no be a no. And immediately when something happens,
01:27like nip it in the bud. Oh, oh, and boundaries. Oh.
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