00:01it's the anti-summer show with three calls ended all this is where members of the a member of the
00:06summer squad reaches out to us with a question that they're having trouble contemplating um or
00:13you know like just kind of figuring out and this morning's note comes from jimmy and if you're
00:20easily spooked just be careful this is this is i cannot wait i know i know what everyone says
00:27about this okay all right jimmy writes my wife has become convinced that our house is haunted
00:34which seems harmless enough but now it's starting to affect the whole family it started with little
00:39things like noises at night or objects being out of place but now she's genuinely anxious about being
00:46left alone at home and she keeps bringing up the idea of just selling the house altogether we've
00:51only lived here for three years it would be a huge financial hit to have to move which i've explained
00:56to her but she doesn't care i don't believe in ghosts and i think there are normal explanations
01:02for the stranger stuff but every time i try to rationalize it she gets upset and says i'm dismissing
01:07her the kids think i should just play along and maybe consider bringing in a paranormal expert but i
01:13worry that that might do more harm than good so what do you think do i humor my wife or
01:19keep pushing
01:19back even if it causes tension in our relationship i think you have to i think already he's come to
01:29his
01:29conclusion by saying do i humor her or do i just you know yeah put it all aside i think
01:37you've got to
01:38go down this rabbit hole amen it's so dismissive if you don't like you cannot ignore that she's freaked
01:44out in her home which is the place where you're supposed to feel safe because yes she's scared
01:49but also this goes to like relationship 101 that i've learned it's like support your wife or husband's
01:55interests or whatever it might be like don't dismiss them if there's something they like there's a movie
02:00i really want to see in theaters my wife is going to go with me because she knows i don't
02:04really want
02:04to just like be rolling up to a movie by myself yeah and having dad guilt i'd rather make it
02:09a little
02:09bit of a date day and get a sitter okay single guy going to the movie by myself hand him
02:14a popcorn
02:15get one of those big ones you know what i mean yes but yeah i think you've got to go
02:20down the
02:20rabbit hole and i think you have to give her grace because she's scared yes you don't want your wife
02:25to be living in a scared like that in your house she needs to suck it up oh it's gonna
02:31be a financial
02:32hit i mean that's really what it's gonna come down to now because it's gonna put you in a rut
02:37so there's only really one thing to do call the ghostbusters and get it over with yeah you know
02:45and then just move on is that what you're saying exactly no interesting probably go down the rabbit
02:50hole maybe someone listening has been in a situation similar to this um and maybe you can
02:55speak from firsthand experience or maybe your house is haunted and if jimmy's listening which i'm
03:03sure he is right because he wrote us right so maybe you can say like hey listen i've actually
03:07had this problem and here's how we rectified it yeah maybe he clearly doesn't want to sell his house
03:13and i know that's a huge financial thing because you could go under on your own house and sell it
03:18for
03:18you know whatever it might be but maybe as ghostbusters are one thing but maybe like a
03:23like a like a doctor of ghostly things you know someone come sage the place i'm not familiar with
03:29that world so like can't really speak about the spirits but might be things that we don't even
03:33know about right that you can do there are some people out there that are one with the spirits maybe
03:37you just need to burp your house right who knows burp the house let them out let them out sorry
03:44jimmy's
03:45wife i don't mean to be making light of this it would really stink like your life would be miserable
03:50if you don't feel safe in your home yeah i can only imagine so you can't dismiss her no but
03:56what do you
03:56think how do they rectify this issue 610-660-6925 three calls send it all
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