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Temptation Island South Africa - Season 1 - Episode 10 EngSub
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00:02Previously on Temptation Island, South Africa.
00:05If all this does not go well, you might be the next lady that will be eliminated.
00:09I think if now be too relaxed, so I don't know, maybe I should bring people back here.
00:15And I'm going to live in love with the guy, it's fine, you know?
00:18Like right now, like I'm single, and I mean, if I fall for you, I fall for you.
00:24The future you want with your man, I don't know if it's the future you want,
00:27or it's the future you're hoping this experience is going to show you you can have with him.
00:32There's a possibility that my boyfriend may be giving up on us.
00:36I'm here to love. I'm not here for any other reason, Justin.
00:42Reflect on that.
00:44I cannot give my all to her because I am committed elsewhere.
00:48And where do I fit into this entire situation?
00:51My biggest temptation on the island.
00:53There's something well there with Uzi.
00:58I'm not sure if she is playing games with me, but she could also be playing games.
01:03Like, I'm not sure.
01:04I just feel like you're trying to prove yourself at the cost of everybody else's emotions.
01:10If you want to go on your own journey to prove to people that you've changed, you do it alone.
01:15You don't do it at the cost of other people's emotions.
01:17Yes, I can be a fuck up sometimes, huh?
01:20At this moment, I'm so confused.
01:24This is some shit you don't deserve.
01:26I'm not going to deny it.
01:27I would like, obviously, to be invited into N'Dabby's room.
01:30Like, duh.
01:31I want to have you all to myself.
01:33And I don't like competition.
01:35I may not know what love is, but whatever feeling that I'm feeling for her, these butterflies in my stomach,
01:40you know.
01:41Shut the fuck up! Shut up!
01:43I'm trying to address whatever I saw, and they're now trying to make it about me and my relationship.
01:49So why not take an adventure?
01:51Try something new.
01:52Ben is a very attractive guy.
01:54I just find it hard to believe why somebody like him would be interested in somebody like me.
02:03Stop pressing buttons.
02:04I'm a flirt.
02:06You all plan on picking your girlfriends in the end, so that's all that came anyway.
02:11I know, I know.
02:12I'm here to self, James.
02:14I'm here to just feel a connection.
02:15You're taking care of yourself.
02:17You're respecting yourself.
02:18If it means that I have to stay away from Dane to maintain a sense of respect for myself, I'll
02:25rather stay away.
02:27Not friendly have I learned that I love you on this island.
02:30I've learned that I'm actually in love with you.
02:32I'm excited now.
02:34I'm a bit eager to, you know, to get our lives back on track again.
02:38Yes, I did try and make connections with the ladies here, but trust me, it's nothing compared to what you
02:43and I have.
02:45For me, to hear him say that today just made me break down.
02:55There's nothing left to work.
02:56There's nothing.
02:58It would have to take a little more than an apology for me to actually be able to trust him
03:05again.
03:09Temptations, relations, could you ever resist me, darling?
03:15Temptations, relations, you will never forget me, darling?
03:22Could you ever resist me?
03:24Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh.
03:27Could you ever resist me, darling?
03:31Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh.
03:33So far away, you'll never forget me.
03:37Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh.
03:41Could you ever resist temptation?
03:44Temptation.
03:57After seeing that message, I was relieved, but at the end of the day, this is bonfire, and I'm very
04:02nervous to see what happens next.
04:05bonfire number five i'm ready for you it's become a thing now
04:13good evening ladies hi joe you guys had all a chance to see your personal video diaries from
04:21your partners how was that a lot was it a lot yeah musa i've been having a lot of questions
04:29about where i stand i was very confused on the last bonfire at least getting that message i know
04:34where i stand with him right now so and where do you stand um sounds like we're still in a
04:39relationship
04:39precious shots were fired shots were fired okay he basically guilt-tripped me for everything they
04:47have done so far it was kind of hard do you think you'll be leaving the island with grant
04:54alone or with dane if i don't leave here with grant i probably will leave here single because i'm not
05:01here trying to rush something well are you guys ready to see how your partners are experiencing
05:08the island yeah yeah musa you get to go for us today
05:21so i believe as much as in general like right now i currently i'm single
05:28and i mean if i fall for you i fall for you i understand what it takes to
05:36to keep my man
05:40fuck you're so good at boys
05:43you just know what you say like at the right time
05:58on the video message he was um more like assuring me that i am still his queen and we will
06:05get out of
06:05this together so seeing that now i'm not sure he meant it am i his queen were we meant to
06:13be together
06:14uh a lot of questions precious shall we do this
06:23guys are playing games with us
06:26you'll all plan on picking your girlfriends in the end so
06:29that's all that came anyway
06:31no no for me i can't speak about the rest of the gents i'm not gonna speak for the rest
06:35of the gents
06:36i'm gonna speak for me and why i'm here and what i'm feeling
06:43so what did you see precious i don't know what i just saw
06:47but i think that he was probably
06:51telling nicole that he wants to leave here with me
06:55and
06:57i think i opened myself
06:58up to the experience
07:00a bit too much
07:02because now i'm finding myself in a place where i do like dame
07:06and now i feel like i've opened up too much
07:09opening up is part of the
07:12self-discovery process isn't it
07:14yeah it is
07:15i'm not
07:16closing myself off to getting to know dame better
07:20but
07:20i feel like
07:23when i leave here
07:25i'll
07:26definitely have a lot to think about
07:29what have you say
07:30i'm ready
07:36it's too bright for me man if you are too bright with me
07:39you understand the weirdest shit because i fucking love you
07:42even though you're sending back it's fine
07:44i just need to send a message across to you
07:47that i fucking love you
07:54so what do you think you just saw
07:56i mean i think i'm getting used to seeing this
07:59so it doesn't affect me as much as it did before
08:03because i'm seeing that it's repetitive and he's not trying to stop
08:07so why keep stressing myself over the decisions that he has made
08:11so right now i'm my main focus
08:14and i'm connecting with other people
08:17our friendship is very very deep to a point where i can open up to them and i can trust
08:23them
08:23so i just feel like
08:25that's good for me
08:26i'm loving the growth
08:28and i'm seeing that
08:31i can be on my own
08:32and be very happy still
08:35still
08:42like how ready are you to be in a committed relationship
08:47i've always been ready
08:48i've always been ready
08:50i want to get married
08:51like i need a husband
08:52i want a husband
08:55so you feel like an escalation
08:56yeah it needs to be that
09:06how does it feel
09:07to see someone he's just met
09:10professing a desire for marriage up front
09:13that's an issue that you guys have been having
09:16correct
09:16he wants to get married
09:18and you're not so sure
09:19being here on the island
09:20i
09:22i learned that i actually just don't love
09:25justin
09:26i'm actually in love with him
09:27so i mean first thing i think about it's him
09:30last thing it's him
09:32i'm not gonna say
09:33this has made me say yes i definitely want to get married
09:38no i'm still unsure because i'm still i still have my things that i'm dealing with that i'm trying to
09:43change
09:44is your reluctance to get married about justin or is it more about you in general
09:51it's more me
09:52i don't even think it's about justin at this point
09:55it's actually me
09:56i'm starting to look at myself differently now
09:58i'm not criticizing myself but i'm more
10:00you know critical about how i do things
10:03how why am i thinking the way i'm thinking
10:05you know
10:05when you're in marriage
10:07you don't want to carry those things over into that
10:11you mentioned that you're in love with uh justin
10:14can you explain to us a little bit more about what that means to be in love with justin
10:18i just want to be with him
10:19i want to make us better
10:21i just i want to i want to see us going forward you know he's my happy place you know
10:26um yeah
10:30all right thank you ladies so much um like we always say it gets rough but it does yield results
10:40and uh i want to thank you guys for being so open and honest and allowing the process to take
10:47course on that note the bonfire is over you guys may head back to your villas
10:53thank you joe thank you
10:57i don't know about that relationship seems like um he doesn't know what he wants
11:03i know my worth and i know that whatever it is that i just saw
11:08i don't want to be a part of it
11:09so i am gracefully walking away from it
11:23what i'm hoping to see i'm hoping to see
11:25most rejecting any guy that's sitting on her
11:29i didn't receive a video
11:32and yeah i expected that um yeah so i just confirmed that i'm i'm a bachelor again
11:43good evening
11:43good evening joe
11:45good evening joe
11:45so today was a special day in that you guys had uh personal video diaries from your partners
11:51i didn't get a clip what do you think the message was in you not getting a message
11:56it just shows that i'm single i think you're with three men that have couple that have
12:00ladies right now i'm i'm probably the one that's that's single right now
12:03see so you were quick to look at mj
12:06yeah i did get a message from mosa
12:09and she just told me how much she loves me and she misses me so and she i'm happy
12:16grant your personal message from precious what was that like
12:19hearing her voice and what she had to say to me it boosted me up
12:23it made me feel like reassured you know that she's still thinking about me
12:26and at the same time she told me she's learning new things about herself
12:30and she was glowing man she was she was happy
12:34and seeing her happy made me happy
12:38justine
12:39joe
12:41so my message today just reassured you
12:43she's learning that she's in love with me and
12:48she's going through her own experience and she's learning she's growing
12:50it's challenging for her but at the same time
12:54she's excited
12:55to leave the island with me
12:57what were you hoping that her development would be
12:59during this process
13:00basically i just wanted her to see me and just
13:03like come on man you brought me this far
13:05like don't you see me
13:06and at this point i feel like she has
13:12shall we get into uh some videos
13:17grant you're first you ready let's do this joe
13:20all right let's go let's go
13:26where the fuck
13:32oh
13:52so grant take us through what you just saw
13:55if i see my girl with another guy it's always going to make me feel like
13:58at the end of the day it's a choice to make
13:59i just hoping from my side that that is true that is genuine that is what she's feeling
14:05and she's not just um there for the ride or whatever the case is
14:10i just always want her to be safe
14:12i want her to take care of herself and just respect herself
14:16so you got a video diary today
14:19and now you're watching this
14:21do the two match
14:22like she knows that we're on separate journeys
14:24and the only way we can come together at the end of this
14:28is to understand our journey and to understand ourselves
14:31so she didn't say like anything about promises
14:34you know like i can't wait to meet you at the end of this or anything like that
14:38which is fair because she's experiencing her own self right now
14:42so i don't feel like she's lying to me
14:44she's not holding back anything
14:46she's living in the moment
14:50all is ready
14:57is your focus on you or is it on both of you
15:00i've been telling you my focus here is on me
15:02but at the end of the day i am in a relationship
15:04there we go
15:05i'm not gonna run away from that
15:07and just because you say your focus is on you
15:09doesn't mean you're running away from it
15:11that's my whole point
15:12i'm feeling numb
15:14there's a lot happening
15:15but being around you
15:17talking to you
15:17like makes me feel better
15:19and
15:21i find comfort in you
15:29what do you think you just saw
15:30she did not hide that she's in a relationship
15:34she still believes she's in a relationship
15:37what about polygamy
15:38does this mean that you're leaving with her and someone else
15:45um not really
15:46i love my girl
15:47and
15:48like i said
15:49we would see nothing compares to what her and i have
15:52yes i did have connections with the ladies
15:55back at the villa
15:57but
15:57almost so far
15:58she's in the lead
16:00she is the one
16:02you really feel that love hey
16:04i do sure
16:05that woman loves me
16:06all right
16:08who do we have left
16:09you want to see the video
16:10he's ready
16:11he's
16:12okay cool let's go
16:20i'm gonna ask you to come put me to sleep but
16:24i'll be fine
16:27we're having sex
16:28we're never ever kissing
16:29we're just people
16:34yeah i know and so am i
16:43what did you see
16:44like i said before she likes him
16:46that's why she's allowing him to
16:48to like
16:49still make moves on her
16:51or whatever it is
16:52but
16:53um
16:53she still has the limits
16:55most of what he's doing
16:56i can see why she likes him
16:58because a lot of what he's doing
16:59that's exactly how i am
17:01so when you say he's like you
17:03what do you think that says about uh
17:05her
17:06like she told me in the message today
17:08she found out that she's actually
17:10in love with him
17:12and
17:13i can possibly see why
17:15because she's constantly being reminded
17:18about me
17:19and
17:20and
17:20maybe another guy
17:21but she understands now
17:23so you see yourself in that video
17:25was that you
17:26i'm like that but like times 10
17:28because that's my person
17:29so i give her my all like all the time
17:32that's also something that she loves about me
17:35mj are you ready
17:36ah man i'm i think i'm more ready than all of them
17:39because i
17:39you didn't get a video
17:42exactly
17:44all right let's go
17:52it's like one minute your mood is like this
17:54and then the next it's like
17:59ruined
17:59it's like an emotional roller coaster
18:03and
18:05it sucks that it's caused by someone that i once called my best friend
18:10and it makes me so angry for trusting this person
18:14and
18:16giving this person my all
18:18i'm still trying to figure out
18:20what is it that i've done to this person
18:23why does this person feel like it's okay to humiliate me like this
18:32what do you think you just saw
18:35unfortunately i disappointed her
18:44what were you hoping she would get out of this experience
18:47as you can see she's never had any connection
18:50not interested in anyone
18:52what's the use of her being like that
18:54and being on the island where she should open up
18:57but this is a new moment for her
18:59she's opening up to someone clearly
19:01for sure um the guys obviously man they're gonna be like vultures
19:04whatever they see that's weak
19:06or that's dying out
19:07they'll wanna be there and finish it off
19:08do you want to leave the island with her at this stage
19:12i'd love to
19:13but at the same time
19:15no video
19:16she said she's kind of single at the last bonfire
19:18and today she proved it to me
19:21it's a grueling process
19:23it's not over yet
19:24there's still more to come
19:27and on that note
19:28let's wrap this bonfire
19:30and you guys can go back to your villa
19:33the questions that she's been asking herself
19:36she's slowly seeing the answers to it
19:39she recognizes me
19:42right now in the villa
19:43i just need to do what i'm doing
19:44you know move on
19:45i cannot cry over spilled milk
19:53hello my little kids
19:57hello kids
19:59when i came back from bonfire
20:01um dimpo kind of wrote me a message
20:04with a heart obviously
20:07wow
20:24my lovey
20:26my daddy
20:28dimpo is the kind of chick that i'll take and make her my side chick
20:33and not a wife
20:35it's a different story with eve
20:37with eve
20:38i can like literally make her a wife
20:42that's why i get so worried when i'm with her
20:45but i just wanna see uguti
20:47how far i can resist her
20:50you know
20:51you see my partner or my lady
20:54getting that message
20:56just
20:57made me realize
20:58why
20:58i feel the way i do about them
21:03justin should leave with his girlfriend
21:04and i feel like what he has learned from me
21:08incorporate that in their relationship first
21:12and then make a decision
21:13why the fuck
21:15why did i have to meet you
21:16why is it that
21:17when i look at you
21:18i only see all of this
21:20and you are
21:23fucking
21:24perfect
21:28but in many ways
21:29when i look at it
21:29also i see perfection
21:32you got this
21:39leave a doubt to say
21:40because all the lies
21:42said you needed me to know
21:45but that you never let it go
21:47but now you're gone
21:49i don't know how
21:50i guess there's nothing to you now
21:53but if it wasn't worth the pain
21:56i wish i'd never run your head
21:58cause your other ways is temptation
22:01temptation
22:13Moussa took me by surprise
22:15she's shown herself
22:16you know i've watched her
22:18struggle
22:20but she managed to still
22:22be open
22:23to me
22:24you know
22:25i know
22:29i do
22:30i love this girl
22:35full stop
22:36from this journey
22:37you guys were here
22:38to find love
22:39but there's something
22:40that you found in me
22:41so you still wanna keep
22:42like that
22:43like i'm so grateful
22:44to have you
22:44because i love my boyfriend
22:47more than anything
22:47i had to sit down
22:48with Ted
22:49and make him understand
22:50as much as he had
22:52characters
22:53qualities
22:53of a person
22:54that i'm looking for
22:55so i had to sit down
22:56and just
22:57break his heart
22:59what did you come here to do
23:00we came
23:01we didn't come here to fight
23:02temptation
23:03we came here to see
23:04if we are
23:07compatible
23:07looking at
23:08justin's bonfire
23:09it's like
23:11oh estelle
23:12you know
23:12you just
23:12brought him here
23:13to
23:14to mess around
23:16and i don't know
23:17it's just so confusing
23:18it seems like
23:19we're not really
23:20on the same page
23:21sometimes you just have to go in
23:23head first
23:24that's what i was saying
23:25like you said you're like
23:26you ready for marriage
23:28i'm like i'm
23:29i don't think i am
23:30why not
23:31because you've
23:33kind of showed me that
23:38it's always been
23:39at the back of me
23:40that this person
23:41has another person
23:43so
23:43i'm just here
23:44maybe
23:45to rock the boat
23:47a little
23:47and potentially get
23:48in there
23:49if that's the word
23:50to use
23:50but
23:51if it doesn't happen
23:53yeah
23:57this is not what i signed up for
24:02gave you everything i had
24:04but you asked for more
24:08alright
24:09gentlemen
24:11it's time
24:13to pick
24:14your final date
24:21now these aren't just regular dates
24:23these are intimate
24:25overnight dates
24:28now ladies
24:29if you do not get selected
24:31for a date
24:31that means
24:33your time on the island
24:34has come to an end
24:35and you'll have to leave
24:40alright
24:41sisal
24:41you're up first
24:56Dimko
24:58you're going on a last date
25:00with me
25:00yes
25:01i'd love to
25:05thank you
25:09wow
25:09i just couldn't look at eve
25:12cause it really broke
25:13to see her like that
25:14it really broke my heart
25:19alright grant
25:19you're up next
25:27will you go on the final date with me
25:29yes king
25:30thank you
25:33in all honesty
25:34if he had asked me for that date
25:35i would have said no
25:37because of my standards
25:38i don't want to be intimate
25:40in a room with you
25:41all night
25:41oh hell no
25:45mj
25:45it's time for you to pick
25:47your final date
25:54um
25:54miss bonjour more
25:57would you like to take our journey further
25:58and go with me on the final date
26:00yes
26:01i'd love to
26:10and finally
26:11justin
26:12it's time for you to pick your last
26:13and final date
26:14thank you joe
26:18ladies
26:19i think you'll know my
26:21my person
26:22julie xander
26:23will you go on this date with me please
26:25yes i will
26:30all right ladies
26:32your time on temptation island south africa has come to an end
26:36it's time for you to pack your bags
26:40bye guys
26:42bye
26:45goodbye
26:47it really is
26:50it's your loss
26:51i walk away knowing that i
26:53i do my part
26:54i can only take that
26:56i had to meet sviso
26:58to affirm my
26:59my
27:00my
27:00my good traits
27:02i want you guys to enjoy
27:04your intimate dates
27:05i'll see you guys
27:07tomorrow
27:08cheers joe
27:09thank you
27:12there is a chance for dimple
27:14there is
27:15if i could choose dimple over eve
27:18i'm worried
27:19because i might choose her over musa
27:28ladies
27:29you guys came here on the island
27:31with a question
27:32is my boyfriend the one for me
27:34well i'm here to tell you today
27:35i've got a unique opportunity for you
27:37an opportunity that will answer that question for you once and for all
27:42it's time to pick your final dates
27:46so gentlemen
27:47this is not just a final date selection but also an elimination
27:52so anyone who is not selected for a date
27:55will have to pack their bags and leave the island
27:58musa you get to go first
28:00oh god
28:01so much pressure
28:06max would you like to go on a date with me
28:08yes sir
28:09honestly i have not made any connections
28:12romantic connections
28:13but with max i think there's something just about you
28:16and isn't there to be in the team
28:18precious
28:19it's time for you to make your final date selection
28:26ever since i walked into this villa
28:28i wanted to be myself
28:30and i feel that me not picking you
28:33wouldn't be me being real to myself
28:36will you go on this date with me dain
28:38yes i would love to
28:40for my overnight date
28:42i want to be with somebody that i'm comfortable with
28:46because there is a possibility that we might need to sleep next to each other
28:53estelle
28:54it's time for you to make your final date selection
28:57final date
28:59tats
29:00i believe we
29:02have a lot of catching up and
29:05you know concluding to do
29:08so will you be
29:10my date
29:11estelle
29:13i would love to run a date with you
29:14okay
29:16so you didn't say no this time
29:20tats
29:20i know that i'm not gonna get bored
29:22tats is very open about how he feels
29:25and what he's feeling
29:26so i like that and i wish it's something that
29:28my relationship
29:29with justin
29:30can have
29:32anything happens bro
29:35i still catch you bro
29:37all the time
29:38i might have to pick between
29:41brandon and cj
29:42you got this
29:44you got this
29:45you got this girl
29:48with cj it's always a vibe
29:51he is so funny
29:52but i also like brandon's calmness
29:55and his maturity
29:57they both have qualities that i really really like
30:00i just wish i could combine them
30:02and tabby thing
30:03it's time for you to make your final date selection
30:12so i am sitting here realizing that i have to make one of the biggest decisions of my life
30:20and my decision today
30:22is based off of the fact that i have your best interest at heart
30:28with that being said
30:31uzi
30:32will you be my final date
30:35i will definitely do your final date
30:38it came as a shock to me because um with everything that me and tabby went through
30:45i had hoped that we'll finally have that one special moment
30:48and you know to just break down and digest everything before we go our separate ways
30:53ladies have made their final choices
30:56which means that uh your time on temptation island south africa has come to an end
31:01i'm gonna need you guys to pack up your bags and leave the villa but before you do i'll give
31:07you a chance to also
31:09say your goodbyes
31:10say your goodbyes
31:10can i get a salute
31:12can i get a mother
31:14mother
31:15yes man
31:17what are you saying
31:18um
31:20you already know it
31:21you know
31:22i don't need to say much
31:24but uh uzi
31:25please take care of my girl boy
31:29got your boy
31:30picking uzi for the date is the smartest thing that she ever did
31:34because um
31:35wherever i go from here
31:37she knows i'm gonna be okay because i really really trust uzi
31:40bye guys
31:42enjoy ladies
31:43gents
31:43take care of the ladies
31:46all right ladies i want to encourage you to make the most of this opportunity
31:50enjoy your overnight dates and uh on that note i'll see you guys tomorrow all right
31:54take care
31:55all right bye
31:58all right
31:59thank you for the rest of the day
32:04all right
32:09all right
32:10all right
32:11all right
32:11all right
32:13all right
32:14all right
32:16all right
32:16you know i like knew that we were gonna go through with this journey together
32:21Even though we decided to be friends just to see how it goes and like where it takes us
32:26So tonight is like a final date. Of course. I knew I was gonna be kicked, you know
32:33Like I'm the one girl who went on every date
32:36So I literally like got to experience every date and I went through the journey from the beginning to the
32:42end
32:54I'm falling in love with Winsley Moore, so I think I'm gonna take that next step
33:01Hey, some people are living with their girlfriends
33:04Not me
33:06Ah, swear me
33:12Obviously I'm building strong feelings, love feelings
33:16And I guess we both know that, but
33:19I told her I'll always be by her side and for sure I have her back
33:24Even though I said well, I'm by her side
33:26Like if I'm gonna be in a relationship with someone, they have to trust me
33:30So it's like it comes with the relationship
33:35And you know how I feel about you, and you know I have feelings for you
33:39A lot
33:41You even still give
33:43A lot
33:45When I'm with the older time outside, man
33:48I just get so
33:49I just get so like
33:51I feel like a big baby
33:52I feel like, oh my god
33:54Is that my woman?
34:02I can't wait for sure, you know
34:03I can't wait for the outside experience
34:05And me and her take it outside
34:07And enjoy the world
34:09And enjoy us being together for sure
34:23Nice art
34:24Oh, it's well deserved
34:26I was surprised that
34:28Tavi chose to choose me for a final date
34:31I would have assumed it would have been either Brandon or CJ
34:36But I'm happy to be here for her as a friend
34:40Do you want to play tag?
34:42I can run, eh?
34:44You're right
34:45I can run, eh?
34:47Like even on the beach
34:50With me, I had to think things through
34:53Because I really do genuinely care about CJ
34:56And I genuinely do care about Brandon
35:00So I felt like
35:01I was not ready to pick as yet
35:03So me picking Uzi
35:05Was just myself
35:06By myself time
35:08So that I can think things through
35:10So that if I do make a decision
35:12I will know that I'm picking the right person
35:15So do you have any idea
35:17Of what you'll say to MJ
35:20When you see him for the first time?
35:21Trust is the foundation of every relationship
35:24He has clearly broken my trust
35:26And even after what he had done
35:28I wasn't vengeful
35:30You know, I wasn't trying to get back at him
35:33By hooking up with the other guys
35:34I was like, you know what?
35:36Out of respect for myself
35:39I'm going to move however I want to move
35:45Keeping my head on my shoulders
35:47And, you know, keeping my head up
35:48Says a lot about me
35:49It says that, you know what?
35:51You can throw anything my way
35:52But I will catch it
35:53And I will smash it
36:02Are you ready for this?
36:03I am
36:03Welcome to our little castle
36:05You didn't let me walk in first
36:06No, no, I need to make sure the place is safe
36:10You know what?
36:11That's a good save
36:13The overnight date
36:14Alone with Lerato
36:15It's exciting me
36:17It's going to be tough
36:18Because I'm thinking of Patricia's
36:20When she's under the influence
36:21She doesn't know where to stop
36:23So when it gets to that part
36:25I think that's what I'm worried about
36:27Because at the end of the day
36:27I don't want a guy to take advantage of her
36:31If she's going to fall for a guy
36:32I want a guy to protect her
36:33Like I want what you and Precious have
36:35You know, and that's beautiful
36:36Four and a half years with someone
36:38That's like consciously waking up
36:40Every single day
36:41Choosing somebody
36:42And, you know, that doesn't mean
36:44You have to commit forever
36:46But then that means a lot
36:47For when all feels like you said
36:48It's not a short time
36:49It's a while
36:51You learn to trust
36:52And you learn everything about that person
36:55And at the end of the day
36:56Like I always believe in
36:57If you love someone
36:58You're willing to let them go
37:01And if they really love you
37:02They're going to come back
37:20I know that I like them
37:22And I'm kind of scared of that
37:24I don't want to put myself in a situation
37:27Where I fall for somebody else
37:29That's not Grant
37:30Grant is my man
37:31I love him so much
37:32He has upset me
37:34But I feel like it's something
37:36We need to talk about
37:38Before I can go ahead
37:39And make any irrational decisions
37:47I am beyond excited
37:49I don't know if you can actually tell
37:50But I am actually buzzing
37:54I don't go in with any hopes
37:56Or expectations whatsoever
37:58But I do go in with an open mind
38:01And whatever happens
38:03Happens
38:04Cheers to a beautiful date
38:07Cheers for that
38:12I get used to this
38:15I don't want to hold back
38:16But you never know
38:19Like I don't want to say
38:19That I'm not going to do something
38:21And then I do it
38:22But I'm not going to say no
38:25I feel like I just need my space for now
38:27I just need to just observe
38:29That we're not at the villa anymore
38:30And we are alone
38:34That's the best part about it
38:36We are alone
38:52Do you think you're good at flirting?
38:54I don't know
38:55Do you want to know?
38:56No, you should
38:57No, because I know what you're going to tell me
38:59Oh, hell to the no
39:00Yes, I'm attracted to Lerato
39:02But at the same time
39:03Like my heart isn't there
39:05My heart is with pressures
39:07Like every heartbeat
39:08My heart beats for pressures
39:09If I wasn't in the relationship
39:11I would pursue you so hard
39:13Like I would have given none of the guys a chance
39:15I would have been like, that's mine
39:16Yeah
39:17But I love my girl
39:19I'm loyal to my girl
39:20Yeah
39:20For me, he's obviously emotionally unavailable
39:25And yeah, where I'm at in my life
39:27You know, I'm trying not to be attracted
39:29Or to go for people
39:30That are obviously emotionally unavailable
39:32Because that never ends well for me
39:34You ready to go?
39:35Mm-hmm
39:37I made it very clear from the beginning
39:38I said I'm here to work on my relationship
39:40I'm here to work on myself
39:42And I feel like my journey is complete
39:44To be honest with you
39:45This is it
39:46Yeah, you have a good night
39:47Me too
39:48Ah, cool man
39:49Are you doing okay?
39:51You too
39:51See ya
39:54Even though I found out so much about myself
39:56I wouldn't personally put myself through this again
39:59But I feel like because I've been here now
40:02I'm away
40:03And like, I can literally now make notes
40:06And tell myself, or remind myself
40:08You've got an amazing girl
40:10Don't mess things up
40:17Cheers to beautiful views
40:18With beautiful people
40:20I can cheers to that
40:24I don't want to stop
40:30That is so good
40:32I'm definitely going to see this experience through
40:35I feel that everything bad that could have happened
40:38Has already happened
40:39So in this moment in time
40:41I'm just like, what more could happen
40:43That isn't meant to happen
40:44I know Dront is my ride or die
40:49But like, I came here to find out
40:51If he is or he isn't
40:52And now, because I'm the one who kissed hers
40:56Now I'm the bad guy
41:00I feel that I'm not here anymore
41:03For my relationship
41:04For Dane
41:05For whatever it is that's clouding my judgement
41:09I'm here for me
41:10To a great date
41:13To a great date
41:21Oh my gosh
41:22This was the best date I've had so far
41:24Like, just being able to spend
41:26Quality time with her
41:28Like, proper quality time with her
41:39I'm so excited to spend more time with Dane
41:42This evening has been amazing
41:43And I can't wait to fulfill it more
41:48Excited
41:49I feel like I'm excited
41:55Oh my God
42:02Wait
42:03Listen up
42:04Listen me
42:05Listen me
42:08I'm going to bed
42:10Oh no
42:14Oh no
42:17The best one amazing date
42:19I know
42:26We had some stuff to drink
42:28And I'm not the type of person
42:30To take advantage of somebody
42:31In a situation like that
42:32As easy as it could have been
42:35That's still not my vibe
42:36And I stand by that
42:37So that's why I chose to
42:40Not act on it at all
42:44I'm sure she still would have wanted it
42:46But I wanted her to be in the
42:48Correct frame of mind
42:49Or at least
42:50Sober
42:51Or
42:51It really does suck
42:53Because if this was an opportunity
42:55Of a lifetime
42:57Which
42:58I guess we didn't take full advantage of it
43:03Cause the other ones is temptation
43:07Temptation
43:15Temptation
43:15This is so
43:16It's gonna be a great day
43:24I do believe
43:25I made the right decision
43:27I don't really know
43:42I'll just go with the flow
43:45Wherever it takes me
44:08How are you feeling?
44:10After receiving his message
44:12And I didn't even expect it
44:14Cause like where we were
44:15And after everything that I saw
44:18I thought like
44:19This guy is falling in love with the goal
44:21So I thought like
44:22This guy is gonna go for this goal
44:23So after receiving his message
44:25I was like
44:27So relieved
44:28So relieved
44:29So relieved
44:30Cause like he was talking about
44:31How he wants us to work
44:32And everything that happened
44:34Like
44:35I'm saying he's queen
44:36I'm like
44:36Well at least that's something
44:38We are both
44:40Musa picked me
44:41Because she knew
44:42I'm a good guy
44:43And she made it quite clear
44:45In the house
44:45That she still loves
44:47Her guy
44:47And I feel like
44:49She feels like
44:50I'm the only guy
44:51That actually understood that
44:52So I've been watching him grow
44:54Watching him do the most
44:56And still
44:57Akaka's break his rule
44:58So that's why I'm saying
44:59Like maybe
45:00He really wants to work on us
45:02He really wants this relationship
45:04So like
45:05I don't know
45:06But I mean
45:06I'm ready for any decision
45:08He takes tomorrow
45:09And point fire
45:09Because I've prepared myself mentally
45:12Which I might get out of here
45:14Without him
45:17We're going to have to have conversation
45:20Communicate after this journey
45:22Communicate after everything is done
45:24And then we'll just take it from there
45:28Thank you, thank you, thank you
45:30Most welcome
45:31Okay, let me bounce
45:32See you
45:33See you later, alligator
45:39I need deliverance
45:45If you want to come and set me free
45:50I'm here to explore
45:52I'm here to find myself
45:55I'm here to find myself
45:57And why foot and kitty
46:03I'm not going to try and hold back
46:05You know
46:05And obviously
46:06I wouldn't want him to feel uncomfortable
46:09So we're just going to have a great time
46:11And see where things go
46:12But I'm not holding back
46:20I do believe
46:21I'm here for the full experience
46:23And if I'm here for the full experience
46:25I won't rob myself
46:44On the walk to the boat
46:46I already felt the difference
46:48I already felt her openness
46:50I already felt that she was there
46:55All right, girl
46:56Here's to finally having you
47:00That's like my personal toast
47:02To me
47:02Here's to finally having you
47:06He gets me
47:07I mean, he understands me
47:09He knows that Estelle's a bit complicated
47:12Estelle's a bit hard
47:14Estelle, you know
47:16Isn't your normal kind of girl
47:18That's why I picked Ted
47:20So I feel safe around him in a way
47:33Angelique makes me feel comfortable
47:36She makes me feel welcomed
47:40She makes me feel
47:42Better
47:43Or more confident
47:53I feel like at the moment
47:57I would like to see
47:59Where my breaking point is
48:01And if I do have a breaking point
48:04You're looking nice
48:05Thank you
48:06Stop it
48:08I can't help it
48:12I'm going to
48:14Look, yeah
48:15Look, yeah
48:16Don't play no games over here
48:18No games
48:19No games
48:20No games
48:21I know the connection
48:23I share with Angelique
48:24And it's not a
48:27A
48:28Fun and games
48:29It's actually something here
48:32Why are you clashing, Sylga?
48:36Stop it
48:39That doesn't take away anything
48:41From a commitment I made
48:42Or the relationship I'm in
48:44But I feel like
48:46A lot of
48:47What I'm experiencing with Angelique
48:50Reminds me of
48:53The relationship I have with Estelle
48:56And it just makes me want to be with Estelle more
48:59Or be better for Estelle
49:06It's freezing as fuck
49:07So let's take it in
49:08And get the hell inside
49:18Nothing's going to happen here
49:19That she doesn't want to happen
49:20Nothing's going to be said
49:22That she doesn't want to speak about
49:24I gotcha
49:26I know you too
49:30Justin is like my man
49:31I mean even if he did do the most
49:33With Angelique or whoever
49:35He would still be mine
49:37We survive
49:40With our
49:44Integrity intact
49:47And we've grown
49:49I've never been worried about that
49:52Actually I'm worried that
49:53He didn't do the most
49:55Here at the island
49:57That's actually what I'm worried about
49:59You know
50:00I wanted Justin to
50:01Have fun
50:03But if that's not him
50:04Then I guess that's not him
50:06I want to kiss you
50:14Why are you doing this?
50:15What am I doing?
50:17Why are you doing this?
50:18What am I doing?
50:39I'm sorry
50:40I'm sorry
50:43I'm sorry
50:54I've given you my all
50:58You know
50:59And if you're not gonna
51:03Be free and open
51:05To yourself
51:07Because you know what's the truth
51:09You know that you want to be with me
51:12I don't know how to do it at home
51:16I don't know how to do it at home
51:17No, this is not
51:23I just want to kiss
51:26Please stop singing
51:28That's all you want
51:31Please
51:40It's not easy
51:41Saying no to a lady
51:43In front of you
51:45That's only being genuine
51:46Only wants what's good
51:48And only wants
51:50To
51:51Give you love
51:52Give you care
51:53Be with you
51:55But I can't
51:56Like I
51:57Like I honestly
51:58I can't
51:58And it's not about me
51:59Being with Estelle
52:00It's about me
52:00Being true to myself
52:01If I've given my word
52:04My word is my bond
52:06If I go back on my word
52:07I'm going back on myself
52:14I can't
52:15He wants to show the affection
52:18But because he has a certain word
52:20That's called loyalty
52:22Which I respect so much
52:23Because that's what I stand for
52:26You know, but I'm not gonna
52:28Sat there
52:30And look like a fool
52:32Going to my room
52:37I had to get up
52:38And I had to walk away
52:50I can't
52:52Give Angelique
52:53That part of me
52:55Because that would be unfair to her
52:56It would be unfair to me
52:57It would be unfair
52:58To Estelle
53:01So I just feel like
53:03After
53:04Going through this experience
53:06My main aim was
53:08If I stay true to myself
53:10For me
53:12Going through this experience
53:14Would have been a success
53:17Next time
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