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90 Day Diaries - Season 8 Episode 1 - Dear Diary, This is the New Me
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00:31We have a really big secret that we have been keeping from everyone, and that is we are pregnant with
00:39baby number four.
00:41Chloe and I are going to tell the kids the big news.
00:44What big news, Mom?
00:48How are things with Dallas?
00:49Could be better.
00:50Me and my partner, Dallas, we've been together for almost three years, but I can't shake the feeling that something
00:58else is up.
00:58It's like 3.15 in the morning, and Dallas is parked down the street again.
01:03Is he cheating?
01:04This just feels like torture.
01:07These are the options.
01:09Let's see what Ashley thinks.
01:11Ashley, I need your help.
01:13Man, she has no idea what's coming.
01:15Look at that.
01:16I'm about to propose for Chantelle this weekend.
01:19I am so nervous.
01:21I just hope she says yes.
01:22Chantelle, I really, really gotta say this.
01:28We're on our way to our game to go to Juarez.
01:31We started the visa process for Armando and Hannah to move to the United States, and they finally have their
01:37interview date.
01:38How'd it go?
01:40Something that we weren't expecting just happened.
01:46No, because they're the mosquito center.
01:51Okay.
01:53Ma's mom and I don't have the best relationship.
01:56This woman is very detrimental, so I really want to prove that this is a new version of Jasmine.
02:02But whatever I do, she finds something wrong about it.
02:07Why do you keep leaving me alone with your mom?
02:10Is this way too much for me?
02:12I'm gonna lose it.
02:14It's been a long day, long night.
02:16Fighting true.
02:17I'm saying, hey.
02:19Uh-oh.
02:20It's getting serious here.
02:21Megan's got a baby coming.
02:23And I have doubts about being a father, so I'm getting a paternity test.
02:27Swallowed.
02:28Big, sure.
02:29100%.
02:29You're a sadistic person.
02:39Give me your love, give me your love.
02:46Kelly, we're giving your mom a baby.
02:50Leave it like this.
02:52And I will look so good.
02:54Yeah.
02:55My name is Jasmine.
02:56I'm 39 years old, and I'm from Panama City, Panama.
03:00This is our daughter, Matilda.
03:03She's eight months old.
03:04And I am Matthew.
03:06I am 37, and I'm from Michigan, but now I live in Florida.
03:15I like how it feels, baby.
03:18Almost my whole life, I have a struggle with alopecia areata, which is an autoimmune condition,
03:24and it causes bald patches on my hair.
03:28After I have Matilda, they were multiplying by the day.
03:32So I made a very drastic decision, which was to shave my head.
03:39Matt even shaved his head as well.
03:42You have more hair than I do.
03:44Just to prove to me that he desires me and he loves me regardless.
03:48Oh, no, I'm sure.
03:51He's the pretty best.
03:52But once after being excited about it and feeling so loved, my second reaction was like,
03:59Oh, he's ugly with that hair.
04:03But I'm loving it.
04:06Every four to five days, Matt, I shave my head, and it includes every time I massage.
04:14So I wake up happy when it is shaving head.
04:18Okay.
04:21Okay.
04:22You know.
04:24Massage.
04:26Massage.
04:28See?
04:29The hair goes, but the attitude is not.
04:32Yeah.
04:33Comes for free hair, no?
04:35Yeah.
04:35There we go.
04:37My 90 day began with Gino.
04:41We met on a sugar baby side.
04:44He was very handsome.
04:45And it was instant love.
04:47So I moved to the United States.
04:49Baby!
04:52Woohoo!
04:53Oh, my God!
04:5590 days later, I married him.
04:58Te amo.
04:59Te amo muchĂsimo.
05:02Te amo.
05:04Te amo.
05:05My parents started to go down the drain.
05:08He denied me I have intimacy.
05:12I'm so desperate, Gino, to have some sort of validation from you.
05:16Like you actually attracted to me.
05:18Like my husband doesn't make love to me.
05:20We received therapy, and we both agreed on having an open marriage.
05:26I decided that I want to go forward with it.
05:29Is it a yes?
05:30I need to take action.
05:32Yes.
05:32Matt was the person that we selected to be part of our open marriage.
05:38He was just supposed to be a buddy just to have sex with me.
05:44But my husband got super jealous and accused me of cheating on him, which is not true.
05:52The phone records are showing you having this relationship with Matt four months before I agreed to open marriage.
05:58Because you didn't want to drive me to the gym, Matt offered himself to drive me back and forth.
06:04And I have to call him like, hey, are you going to the gym? Come pick me up.
06:08I don't want to hear your explanation either.
06:14We agreed that getting divorced was the best for both of us.
06:19And then this dude is super fertile. He got me pregnant and we moved to Florida.
06:26We had our baby, Matilda.
06:30I love you.
06:34Matilda is eight months now.
06:36And I was not planning to fell in love with Matt because honestly, he was just used for sex.
06:42But that was before, baby.
06:43I still use him for that, but now I also love him.
06:48We have another big change coming here soon, too, so.
06:52Are you pregnant?
07:01Yes, we are on our way to our first house, officially homeowners.
07:08I'm so happy. I can't believe it.
07:11Please pinch me. Pinch me.
07:12This is not true. Oh, you are driving. Don't worry. I pinch myself.
07:16I fell in love with this house.
07:18Unfortunately for Matt, it went, you know, above the budget that he proposed.
07:26But I told him it's this or nothing.
07:29Right, my love?
07:31Do you know Connor well?
07:35We are here.
07:40This is like the most beautiful house.
07:44These are happy tears.
07:47A kiss.
07:53Oh, oh, oh.
07:54Okay, Matilda, are you ready?
07:57It's happening.
07:59You ready?
08:00I love this right here, too.
08:02I love these tiles.
08:03Everything is perfect.
08:04Oh, beautiful.
08:08Coco, this is our house.
08:11Run, Coco.
08:12Go, run.
08:13See, Mommy?
08:15This is your castle, my princess.
08:19This house is perfect, and it is exactly what I wanted.
08:22It feels like the home where I want to grow up our family.
08:28Open the door, baby.
08:30This is one of my favorite parts of the house, the pool.
08:35And it's beautiful.
08:37And I have a fence, so I can do skinny dipping in the pool,
08:42and my neighbors are not going to see me.
08:45Matilda.
08:46Ah, she's happy.
08:49She loves the pool.
08:50Oh.
08:51You have to trim those bushes.
08:53Yes.
08:54Okay.
08:55I'm going to show you the kitchen.
08:57It's so beautiful.
09:00Look at it.
09:01I want to live in the kitchen.
09:04I want to let you know that this is my hosting era,
09:11and I want to host our family for Thanksgiving.
09:17Have you ever hosted a Thanksgiving dinner?
09:19Like, have you made a turkey?
09:21Have you carved a turkey?
09:23I have seen turkeys.
09:26Matt is a very traditional father, and he is very fixated into me being the traditional housewife.
09:34And I have had to change the way I dress.
09:39I cannot show up like cleavage.
09:41All the sexy slutty clothes from Daddy Jasmine are gone.
09:46And I'm just baking, cooking, and cleaning every freaking day.
09:51I feel like I went back in time.
09:55Instead of turkey, could it be chicken?
09:58No.
09:59It has to be a turkey.
10:00What do you mean?
10:01It's Thanksgiving.
10:02They are not going to notice.
10:03There is a difference between turkey and chicken.
10:05No.
10:06It's just the size.
10:08No.
10:10I was vegan for 12 years.
10:12But when I got pregnant, mom didn't want me to follow my vegan lifestyle and diet.
10:18He's like, you have to eat meat for the baby.
10:20So I was like, you know what?
10:22Whatever.
10:23I eat meat.
10:23And I'm eating meat now.
10:25I'm a carnivore.
10:27My mom's going to want turkey.
10:29Because it's Thanksgiving.
10:32I'm going to make the turkey.
10:36My mom and I don't have the best relationship.
10:40This woman is extremely religious, very judgmental.
10:46Mom, I lied about us being engaged.
10:50I wish you guys do the right thing to be saved in God's eyes.
10:55And not to go to hell.
10:57I know, mom.
10:57I know.
10:58It's okay.
10:58It's okay.
10:59Relax, mama.
11:00Relax.
11:02She looked at me like I'm Jezebel.
11:05The woman that is responsible for dragging his innocent baby, Matt, to hell.
11:11And I really want to prove to his family that this is the new me.
11:15This is a new version of Jasmine.
11:16So if I have to cook a turkey a whole Thanksgiving and have his family for a few days, which
11:25is a lot,
11:27it.
11:27I'll do it.
11:28I suck it up and put on a happy face.
11:33I have to produce some meat.
11:34You are, too.
11:34You look pretty good when knowing what you are.
11:36Oh, ma.
11:37Must see.
11:47Stop.
11:47What's up there for you?
11:54Well, I'm dressing very pretty to make dinner
11:57and bake bread before Matt arrives.
12:00But all I do is to talk to baby and my dog,
12:04so I need some human interaction.
12:05I'm gonna call my sister while I do some baking.
12:09My sisters are my best friend,
12:11and I talk to them every single day with no exceptions.
12:14I'm gonna call myself Chavs.
12:16Hola niña!
12:18Hola niña!
12:19ÂżCĂłmo estĂĄs, Matija?
12:21La mucĂa!
12:22Hola tĂa!
12:24Qué chica!
12:25Voy a poner a la niña para que camine.
12:28Huéga con coco, Matija!
12:29Ay, qué linda!
12:32I have two sisters, but Suelen is the closest to me.
12:35She's literally my soul mate.
12:37She knows me better than I know myself.
12:41Tengo que ponerme a cocinar para mĂ.
12:44You know that he doesn't like to buy food on the street.
12:48When he comes from work, I have to have the food ready for him.
12:53Are you happy? Are you happy like that?
12:57Sometimes.
13:00He doesn't want to put me very provocative clothes.
13:05And now that we move, he's going to be reviewing my closet
13:09and he's going to see what clothes do and what clothes don't I can use.
13:12Well, as your sister, I'm sincere. I don't like it.
13:16I'm obsessed with controlling your clothes.
13:21He's not going to accept having a woman, the mother of his daughter,
13:27a woman who's not submissive.
13:31Jasmine, and the words submissive together, he's not going to control you.
13:38Oh, girl, but what happens is that he's from Romania,
13:42so they have these conservative ideas.
13:46I feel that if I don't behave like this,
13:49his mother will go and look for a Roman woman
13:54who will give her what I can't give her.
13:57And I don't want her to be happy.
14:06This is nothing I was in the past,
14:09resting differently, speaking differently,
14:11hosting, cooking, baking, cleaning, serving him, you name it,
14:15is something that I have never, ever done for anyone.
14:19But he is my person, and I really want to prove to him and to his family
14:23that this is the new me.
14:25This is a new version of Jasmine.
14:27But on the other hand, I feel like I'm not being true to myself,
14:32and I'm, like, holding with big chains and bits inside of me.
14:39And it's becoming harder and harder for me to have her, you know, contained inside of me,
14:49and it scares me.
14:50I love you, and I really want you to see you.
14:53My girl, I have to go, because the kids are already in the classroom.
14:56Yes, I love you a lot.
14:57I love the kids.
14:58I love you.
14:59I love you, child.
15:00I love you, child.
15:02Ay, ay, ay.
15:15Normally, I pick the kids' clothes out the night before,
15:18but it was a crazy night last night,
15:21so we're running behind.
15:23Very, very running behind, so.
15:26I'm Lauren.
15:27I'm 37 years old, and I'm from Hollywood, Florida.
15:31And I'm Alex, and I'm also 37 years old,
15:34and I am originally from Nofa Galil, Israel.
15:37Oh, my goodness.
15:39Whoa, whoa, whoa.
15:39Look at this.
15:41This is what I walked down to.
15:45They have all the fun, and I'm the one that has to go do all the work.
15:49So nice.
15:51Our 90-day journey began on a birthright trip in Israel.
15:56I was the staff leader.
15:58And I was the medic.
15:59And he didn't do anything.
16:01After a year and a half of dating, we went through the K-1 visa process,
16:05and we got married here and in Israel.
16:10We waited a few years, and then popped out a few kids back to back to back.
16:15And here we are 10 years later.
16:20Come here.
16:21What is that you're doing?
16:22And why are you eating cheese?
16:23No cheese right now.
16:25What?
16:25No after brushing.
16:27You know the rules.
16:28Our three kids are five, four, and three years old.
16:32Jay is the firstborn.
16:34He's five.
16:35Asher is the middle kid, and he's four.
16:38And Ariel is three years old.
16:40And Alex still to this day never gets their name right on the first try.
16:45I get confused.
16:47We gotta go.
16:48I'm leaving.
16:49Dima's leaving.
16:52No, I'm gonna go to action.
16:53This house is such a mess.
16:55Life right now is pure chaos.
16:58Close the door, please.
16:59One, two, three, quickly.
17:01Being a mom is amazing, but I also want to feel productive
17:04and have a career outside of being just a mom.
17:06So with the kids getting older, I've started to slowly kind of go back to like my roots
17:12and marketing, advertising.
17:14I have a few clients, but I'm always trying to expand and get more.
17:18But it is challenging.
17:20Building this, this career again.
17:22Let's go.
17:23Let's go.
17:24Oh my God.
17:25Go to the car.
17:26Come to the dead lizard.
17:31You guys are crazy this morning, huh?
17:34Do you think you were a good grade accent for Ima?
17:37No.
17:38Okay.
17:38Well, at least you're honest.
17:42Oh, okay, guys.
17:43You're gonna be quiet, okay?
17:46Hello.
17:47Hi, honey.
17:48Hi, Auntie Rona.
17:50Hi.
17:51Are you with the kids?
17:52I sure am with the kids.
17:54Okay.
17:54I have some really exciting news.
17:56Are you ready?
17:57The beauty brand that you've been working with for the past couple months.
18:01Uh-huh.
18:02They are planning a really big Mother's Day campaign.
18:06Really?
18:07And they want you to be the face of it.
18:10No.
18:11Really?
18:12Yes.
18:13Availability.
18:14Hold on one second.
18:15Let me pull over for a second.
18:18I'm gonna talk to Auntie Rona now, okay?
18:22Okay, tell me.
18:22So here's the deal.
18:23They want you to be the face of the Mother's Day campaign.
18:27Wow.
18:27And they want the kids involved.
18:32Interesting.
18:33This is the vision.
18:35You are a busy mom.
18:36Get ready with me in the morning to leave the house.
18:39I don't have more than 30 seconds to look like a human being
18:43before I run out of the house and we see the kids.
18:46And, um, you grab the kids and go.
18:48I love that.
18:49It's gonna be...
18:49Yeah, yeah.
18:50That's the realness, though.
18:52That's, like, the reality, right?
18:54I would really love to film a little scissor wheel
18:57just that we have in our back pocket.
19:00Okay.
19:01You know, I've worked with Rona a lot in the past.
19:04She's also one of my best friends.
19:06So when she comes to me with this amazing opportunity
19:10with a client that I know and I've had an ongoing relationship with,
19:15like, they know my family, they know my kids,
19:16so it really does make it appropriate to do a Mother's Day campaign around me with the kids
19:23because I'm just a mom when they go.
19:26Listen, I'm for it.
19:28I just have to get Alex on board with it.
19:31Okay, perfect.
19:32Let me know when and I'll make myself available.
19:35This is so perfect.
19:36But Alex has always been against the kids participating in stuff on social media.
19:42He thinks that they're too young.
19:43They don't understand it.
19:45But the reality is if they don't want to do it, they're not gonna do it.
19:48So I definitely think that I can get him on board with them being a part of the campaign.
19:53All right.
19:54I will talk to you later.
19:56Bye, honey.
19:56Love you.
19:57Love you. Bye, guys.
20:07Hello.
20:09Hi, guys.
20:10Hi.
20:11Hello, hello.
20:13Hi.
20:13Auntie Bron is here.
20:15We're gonna film some stuff while Alex is not here.
20:17Can I have a hug?
20:20So after thinking about it for a little bit, I've decided that I'm just gonna go ahead
20:24and shoot the sizzle reel behind Alex's back.
20:28Alex is at work right now.
20:30And I know if I ask him first, it's gonna be an immediate no.
20:34Hi.
20:35This is a big opportunity for the kids if they want to explore this kind of job in the future.
20:40And it can also help with their college funds, too.
20:42So I'm just gonna ask for forgiveness before permission.
20:47Um, so explain to me, like, what is a sizzle?
20:51I mean, essentially, I'm just gonna take a few videos just getting a feel of the kids' personalities
20:57so I can take this over to my clients and give them something that they can get a feel for
21:03each one of them.
21:04Okay.
21:04Like their energy, their personality.
21:06Exactly.
21:07All right.
21:08You wanna give it a try, ma'am?
21:09Are you ready?
21:11Here's the thing.
21:12I know my husband like the back of my hand and I know that if he sees the sizzle and
21:18he sees how happy the kids are and how much fun they're having, like, he's definitely gonna be on board
21:23with them being a part of this campaign.
21:24I just, I have to get this video done first.
21:28Oh, you're on your bench.
21:30Move over.
21:31How many people can we fit in here?
21:33Oh, there goes my mirror.
21:34What we're gonna do is we're gonna get mommy ready, okay?
21:38So, wait, when I'm gonna step out, you're gonna brush your hair, okay?
21:42And you're gonna say, mommy, let's use this beautiful purple serum.
21:46Can you say serum?
21:47Serum.
21:48There you go.
21:49She's in.
21:50Okay.
21:53Rona walks in and the kids are going crazy.
21:56Like, they're so excited, but you can see that they're so tired.
22:00And I'm a little nervous to see how it's gonna go today.
22:03Ashley, you can give me the headband.
22:05Can you give me the serum?
22:06Okay.
22:06Can I have the serum?
22:07I'll open it.
22:08No, you can't open it.
22:09I can open it.
22:11And who's gonna put a headband on my hair?
22:13Okay.
22:13Because I have it.
22:15Okay.
22:15He's taking the brush that you just broke.
22:18Oh, there goes Emma's phone.
22:20Dear God.
22:21This video, so far, it's not going well.
22:26What are you doing in there?
22:27I'm directing you.
22:29I'm telling you what to do.
22:29Oh, you're putting me in jail?
22:30Getting ready with me.
22:31Why am I putting this on?
22:33Oh, I gotta put you down.
22:34Can you stand in there?
22:34Here.
22:35I think next time we film, we'll film after nap time and they'll be a little bit more focused.
22:41Oh, do I need one more thing?
22:42Go ahead.
22:43Go ahead.
22:43Put it on.
22:44Go get ready with mommy.
22:45Okay.
22:45Now you're super beautiful.
22:47Now I'm super beautiful.
22:49The kids were a little slap happy, but you could see that they were having fun.
22:54It wasn't forced.
22:55Like they were genuinely enjoying themselves.
22:57So I will take this as a win.
23:00Did you like it?
23:01Yeah.
23:01Who do you think did the best?
23:02Yay.
23:03And now the reality is, is I have to tell Alex about this and I don't know how he's going
23:08to take it.
23:09I don't know if he's going to be more angry that I did it behind his back.
23:13I don't know if he's going to be more angry that there's this video now.
23:15Like, I don't know.
23:18All right.
23:19We did it.
23:19It's a wrap.
23:35I know I need to come clean to Alex about doing this sizzle with the kids.
23:39I'm hoping that he'll be open to the idea of them potentially doing campaigns.
23:44But I'm nervous to tell him.
23:47I don't know how he's going to react.
23:49It's always been a hard note from him.
23:50And I'm hoping that changes and I can use these clips and this video to show Alex that
23:56the kids love it and that that can kind of move us into the next phase of my job and
24:04even work for the kids.
24:06What's going on?
24:07We had a crazy day with the kids and they're all napping.
24:11So I figured, let me just take a minute for myself.
24:15That's amazing.
24:16What do you do?
24:19Basically, a company that I've worked with in the past reached out because they want me
24:26to be the face of a Mother's Day campaign, but they want the kids involved.
24:36Like, I don't know.
24:37I'm not for it right now.
24:38They're on TV from their birth.
24:41I'm not sure I want to have them involved.
24:44They're in it already enough.
24:48Well, Rona came over today and we filmed content with the kids.
24:58I'm really mad at you doing it while I'm at work.
25:00You understand?
25:02It's behind my back you're doing this stuff.
25:05Lauren has a pattern on when she feels like I might say no to something, then she just
25:11does it and it's just sneaky to do it that way.
25:14It's, you know, it pisses me off.
25:16Hear me out.
25:17It's not I hear you out.
25:19There's nothing to hear out.
25:20Listen, if they don't want to do it, I'm not going to be...
25:23No, that's for sure.
25:24You're not going to force them.
25:26That's for sure.
25:27But...
25:27Lauren, when I try to say a sentence, you need to shut up.
25:49You gave me the chance, so now I'm over you.
25:55I am on my way to get my hair and makeup done for my celebratory single AF boudoir photo shoot.
26:01I decided to do something that is totally out of character for me because it's a new me,
26:06a new life, a new everything.
26:08So I just wanted to test my boundaries.
26:13My name is Ariella.
26:15I am 34 years old.
26:16I'm from Princeton, New Jersey, but I currently live in Las Vegas, Nevada.
26:20I'm a little bit introverted, so for me to do a boudoir photo shoot is a little out of my
26:25comfort zone,
26:25but it's just going to be like hanging out with friends with a camera.
26:29And a little less close.
26:30Yes.
26:31Ooh.
26:32My 90 day journey began seven years ago when I met Vinny in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia.
26:40When I first saw Vinny, I thought, wow, he's really good looking.
26:43But I can't necessarily always trust my own judgment because I have terrible eyesight.
26:50But we quickly fell in love.
26:53I got pregnant.
26:54And we decided to do the K-1 visa so we could move together to the United States.
27:00Arie.
27:01Arie.
27:02That's for you.
27:03Welcome to the US.
27:04Yes.
27:04And then 90 days later, we got married.
27:07The time.
27:08This is your wife.
27:10It all happened so quickly.
27:12It was a whirlwind.
27:13But there was some infidelity on his part.
27:18Multiple infidelities.
27:20We thought that trying couples therapy at a resort would help.
27:24You betrayed me.
27:25You lied to me.
27:27I can't keep it inside anymore.
27:29You came for fixes this relationship?
27:31I came to tell the truth.
27:32Are you came for fixes a lot?
27:33I thought we would come and you would tell the truth.
27:35So we have his life.
27:36So we have his life.
27:36I don't swear on my son's life.
27:38Not like you.
27:39You.
27:40Just.
27:41I was committed to doing everything possible to fix our marriage.
27:45But unfortunately, Vinny wasn't.
27:48Well, my hair already looks amazing.
27:52I mean, really.
27:54Currently, Vinny and I are separated.
27:56We are living in different apartments, living different lives.
28:00But we are still married because Vinny refused to sign the divorce papers.
28:06And he refuses to talk to me about it at all.
28:10We are done.
28:12Wow, wow, wow.
28:13This is some of your best work yet.
28:15I feel like it's a cross between like a Swedish swimsuit model, a mermaid.
28:21What do you think?
28:22I don't know.
28:23All of it, girl.
28:24I know.
28:25But as soon as Vinny signs these divorce papers, we will be exes.
28:29And I am so ready to start my life as a single person.
28:35In celebration of my single AF-ness, I'm wearing white as I'm getting unmarried.
28:41Exactly.
28:42After years of being cheated on, my self-esteem took a major hit.
28:45I didn't feel worthy of love.
28:47And I just don't want to feel that way anymore.
28:49Okay, let's get it.
28:50Back.
28:51I am ready to strike.
28:54Back.
28:55You better go hide.
28:57I am ready to feel confident and to be better and stronger.
29:04Goddamn, girl.
29:05You look really good.
29:07I cannot twerk, but I can move it like this.
29:11I am determined to move on and I am ready to start diving back into the dating world.
29:19Honestly, I'm single and ready to mingle.
29:26Who needs a divorce paper when you have a smashed cake, right?
29:34I am getting ready to go on my date, which sounds so weird and feels so weird.
29:41I literally could not decide what to wear.
29:44And this is what happened.
29:45So tonight I'm going on a blind date, which was set up by my rabbi of all people.
29:51I have somebody in mind that you might like.
29:54He's here in Las Vegas.
29:55Okay.
29:56Yes.
29:58And I don't really know what to expect.
30:01What do people do on first dates?
30:03Like, are people kissing on first dates?
30:05Like, what is expected on a first date?
30:07I'm just like second guessing my clothes, my hair, my shoes, everything.
30:12My anxiety is just through the roof.
30:14I just want to be me, right?
30:17Because if someone's going to like me, they're going to have to like me for me.
30:21So here goes nothing.
30:28I'm a nervous wreck right now.
30:30What if me and this guy have nothing in common?
30:33What if I say the wrong thing?
30:35Hello.
30:36Hello.
30:39Hi.
30:40Nice to meet you.
30:44Ezra, he's good looking.
30:46He's cute.
30:47He is very tall.
30:49I mean, everybody's very tall to me, but he seems pretty tall.
30:55So, first...
30:57I should probably open this door, right?
31:00It would be impressive if you could read it upside down.
31:03It would be impressive if I could read it upside down.
31:05How are you?
31:06Good. How are you?
31:07Good. How are you?
31:07Wonderful. Thank you.
31:08Do you guys have any questions on the menu?
31:10We're in a Jewish place.
31:11I mean, I feel like you have to go with a birthday.
31:14Okay.
31:14Perfect. Thank you so much.
31:17You look really nice.
31:20Oh, I changed so many times.
31:22I wasn't thrilled.
31:28I haven't been on a date since... I don't even remember.
31:32So, now I'm realizing, like, oh, no.
31:36I don't know what to do.
31:39Is this your first, first date since the divorce process?
31:43Uh, yeah, this was my first date.
31:47I haven't even kissed anybody.
31:49Haven't kissed anybody?
31:50Since when?
31:59I haven't had sex with anybody since I broke up with my ex-girlfriend.
32:04So, a year plus.
32:07I was just very open about his life, his past, his everything.
32:12It's not often that you meet somebody like that.
32:14And it puts me at ease.
32:17But I am worried that once he finds out that I'm not officially divorced,
32:21he's gonna see that as a red flag.
32:25Actually, I do have to mention something.
32:28Okay.
32:29Pat's out the bag. Let's hear it.
32:31Well, I...
32:32I'm not actually divorced yet.
32:36Okay. In the process?
32:38I mean, I haven't submitted the paperwork yet, but I have a lawyer.
32:42Okay.
32:43And apparently it's very quick to get into both of you.
32:52I was divorced, and when I first started dating, my marriage wasn't finalized yet, either.
33:02I was nervous coming here, though.
33:04I knew we had a good time.
33:06Me too.
33:07It was fun.
33:08You're very easy to talk today.
33:12So, am I allowed to ask if you would go on a second date with me if you had the
33:16option?
33:21Yes, it was definitely a very good date. I would do it again.
33:25To have a guy interested in me and interested in hearing what I have to say, I feel hopeful, happy.
33:34I'm so glad I put myself out there.
33:39I had such a good time.
33:43I didn't realize how much I missed this.
33:46I'm happy.
33:47And I can't wait to see what happens next.
34:05I'm happy.
34:07I'm happy.
34:09I'm happy.
34:09I'm happy.
34:09Matt's family arrived, and...
34:12I haven't slept, because my mom didn't tell me that they were coming at 6 a.m.
34:19Like, the last time that we talked, he told me that they were going to come at 4, around 4
34:26today.
34:27So I have the whole day to organize everything.
34:33It's so frustrating.
34:34Matt's family just arrived.
34:36It's Thanksgiving Day.
34:37They are drunk in their suitcases, yelling, arguing among each other.
34:43They woke up the baby.
34:44They woke me up.
34:45It was like, actually, the horror Thanksgiving version.
34:50You know?
34:51Like, literally, I was invaded in my house.
34:55And no, I haven't told Matt about the turkey yet.
35:00I'm going to show you what the I thought it was a turkey.
35:04It's not a turkey.
35:05And why they put this thing in a turkey?
35:12Like this thing.
35:14I thought it was a turkey.
35:17It's not a turkey.
35:19It was just a turkey.
35:25I feel like a lot of people were grabbing it, and I feel like it wasn't turkey.
35:31And I look.
35:32It looks like everything.
35:33It has a tail.
35:35But it was a head.
35:39It's a half.
35:42Happy Thanksgiving.
35:44Everyone.
35:44Can I make myself a coffee?
35:47Yeah.
35:48I'm getting skippy.
35:49If you want, I can make it for you.
35:51You want me?
35:52No, I don't.
35:54OK.
35:55I really hope that things go smoother during the day,
35:58because my anxiety is already over the roof,
36:03and I just don't want to have a
36:06first thing given.
36:09It overflow a little bit in my cup.
36:13I think this is too much coffee.
36:16Oh, my gosh.
36:17OK.
36:17Give me this.
36:19OK.
36:20Let's go in the floor.
36:22Before it gets safe, because it's good.
36:25My mom and I don't have the best relationship.
36:29This woman is extremely religious, very judgmental,
36:34and she disagrees with everything I do, the way I dress,
36:38the fact that we're not married, that we're having sex,
36:41that we have Matilda.
36:42Whatever I do, she finds something wrong about it.
36:52No, because then the mosquitoes enter.
36:56I'm outside.
36:59No, and the air conditioner then goes out.
37:03OK.
37:03OK.
37:04I have so much pressure to make things work,
37:09and I'm not feeling well after Matt's family invasion.
37:14All I need is for her to get the heck out of my way
37:19and let me do my thing.
37:21Is that too much to us?
37:23No.
37:25Close the door, please.
37:27Yeah, what's up?
37:29And lock it.
37:30OK.
37:30Your mom is going to come.
37:32OK.
37:33Why do you keep leaving me alone with your mom?
37:37What do you want me to do?
37:38You've complained about this in the past, too.
37:40I don't know what you want me to do.
37:41You have to take care of her, Matt.
37:42This is way too much for me.
37:44You know how she is, Matt.
37:46Don't pretend.
37:48She's only seen my mom a couple of times, right?
37:50And you're already annoyed with her.
37:52It's just annoying.
37:53You know what she's asking this morning?
37:56If I have sex with you.
37:58If I'm taking very comfortable.
37:59I know.
38:00She likes to ask those things.
38:01Like, how is she asking, like, if we have sex?
38:04Like, what do I mean?
38:06We live together.
38:06We have a daughter.
38:07I mean, we just bought a house.
38:10This is a holiday, and I'm trying to keep it together.
38:13So, to avoid arguments, because I'm going to lose it.
38:17I am asking not to leave me alone with her.
38:20That's all I'm asking.
38:22Like, I know my mom could be extra and annoying.
38:26I know my mom can be difficult, but I love my mom,
38:29and I don't know how to explain it to Jasmine,
38:32that she's just an old person.
38:34Like, have some patience.
38:37I don't know why everything has to make your blood boil.
38:40You know?
38:41I'm sorry.
38:42I'm not perfect, and my family's not perfect.
38:44I don't know what to tell you, so.
38:47But you want me to be perfect, then.
38:49Okay, do you want me to watch her while you start cooking,
38:51or what are we doing?
38:53Just as a matter of fact, I didn't buy the turkey.
38:57You're joking.
39:01Honestly, I'm not surprised.
39:04What do you mean?
39:05I'm not surprised.
39:06I knew it.
39:07I knew you were going to say something.
39:08Like, oh, I forgot the turkey or something.
39:10I don't know.
39:11I could sleep.
39:12I didn't do it on purpose.
39:15So I won the Thanksgiving.
39:17No.
39:18But at least be in a nice mood.
39:20Like, can we at least be in a nice mood?
39:25Dude.
39:25Jesus Christ.
39:27We could live in a mansion and have everything.
39:29You should be like, eh, about something.
39:31Just behave.
39:32Behave.
39:34There's no reason to be crabby.
39:36It's Thanksgiving.
39:51Listen, if they don't want to do it, I'm not going to be...
39:53No, that's for sure.
39:54You're not going to force them.
39:56That's for sure.
39:57But...
39:57I'm also not going to...
39:58Lauren, when I try to say a sentence, you need to shut up.
40:02I just told Alex that I shot some content of me and the kids for a potential Mother's
40:08Day campaign.
40:09This is a big opportunity for me.
40:11And to have the kids involved with it, like, I think this is the perfect fit.
40:15And I was really hoping that he would be more open to it, but it is not going well.
40:22I have clearly taken on the role of momager, and if I'm able to fully pursue being this
40:30momager and this agent for our family...
40:32You and your momager.
40:33Be momager.
40:34The kids is a different story.
40:37Well, I filmed some stuff with them.
40:40I know you filmed some stuff with them.
40:41You told me you filmed with Ron.
40:43I know you did already something.
40:45So can I show you?
40:46You can show me, but it doesn't mean that we're going to use it and take this campaign
40:49or whatever.
40:50Okay.
40:51Understand?
40:52I understand.
40:54All right.
40:54So show me.
40:55What is it?
40:56Okay.
40:56I'll put that on the TV for you.
41:02Whoa!
41:04Oh, thank you both for me to fit in here.
41:07So, wait.
41:08When I'm going to step out, you're going to brush your hair.
41:10Okay.
41:11Here we go.
41:14Look at how much better I have there.
41:15Serum?
41:16Serum?
41:17You can't see all of them in here.
41:21They're having fun.
41:22I'm not begging them to do it.
41:27This is what we do.
41:29You make your video, cut it together or whatever.
41:32We'll show it to the kids.
41:35And we'll tell them, hey kids, do you want to get in more videos?
41:40But if they say no, that is it.
41:44All right.
41:44Not a problem.
41:47This whole social media thing is going to be an ongoing thing, I'm sure.
41:50But what bothers me more is that we're not on the same page.
41:54So moving forward, we've got to be a team in this.
41:56You're right.
41:57Moving forward, I will be better at that.
41:59It's just that this could be huge for my career.
42:06But for what it's worth, I will never force our kids to do something they don't want to do.
42:11I promise.
42:12All right.
42:14Yeah.
42:16I'm going to change.
42:20I love you.
42:22Well, I think that went well.
42:24Here's the thing.
42:27Ima gets what Ima wants.
42:29Good morning.
42:30How are you doing?
42:31Good morning.
42:32Glad to be back in San Diego.
42:34Bring your AK.
42:36Gino style.
42:42Oh, my God.
42:50Here we go.
42:52Time to get ready.
42:53Today, I'm going on a date with Stephanie.
42:57Yeah.
42:58I hope I don't blow it.
42:59I would love to worship you.
43:01And on that note.
43:04I have a gigantic man child bitching at me.
43:09I'm sick of being belittled and taking advantage of.
43:12So I'm going to have to decide if I want to stay in this marriage or not.
43:16I think you take me for granted.
43:17I've spoiled you.
43:19No.
43:20Oh, Rachey, oh no.
43:21I hate him.
43:22I hate him.
43:22I hate him.
43:23I want to get married in Florida so my friends and family can go.
43:27Uh-huh.
43:27He's like, oh, I want to go to Aruba.
43:29I want to go to Turks and Caicos.
43:30So not only does my fiancé, Phillip, want a destination wedding.
43:35He also wants it to be a dry wedding.
43:37I'm not allowed to have fun or drink with my friends.
43:40Well, I don't want to see you embarrassing yourself.
43:42Uh-oh.
43:43You always go out and stop.
43:45You go meet with your friends.
43:47You come home, Andrea.
43:48I don't want you to boss me around every day and tell me what to do.
43:50I don't like the way that you are at continuous selection, man.
43:53I feel like a prisoner in my own home.
43:55So I don't know how much longer I can do this.
43:59I'm over it.
44:02Before Matt's mom left, she handed me this envelope.
44:07Dear Jasmine, I cannot give you and Matt my blessing.
44:12All of this could have been avoided if Matt had chosen a remaining girl.
44:17Matt's mom is getting on my last nerve.
44:21And these words, they cut like knife into my heart.
44:26In this ear, I make sure you go after it.
44:27And when he does that, I want to make up.
44:27I think we're going to have a victory.
44:28But at this event, we're going to be ready for the end.
44:29And I'll be ready for your part.
44:29And we'll be ready for the end.
44:30And if you're going to be ready for the end,
44:30and you're going to be ready for it.
44:30And if you're ready for it,
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