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Belle Collective Birmingham Season 1 Episode 7
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00:00We can just move forward.
00:01I'm so glad y'all was able to make it.
00:03I got a photo shoot.
00:04Nice, nice.
00:05And then we got like a little dinner.
00:08Maybe she sat next to me so me and her
00:10can have an intimate sidebar conversation.
00:13Let me get that seat, baby.
00:14This seat?
00:14Of course.
00:15I don't know how that guy like that.
00:18I'm claustrophobic, so I hate my sides closed in.
00:21What's funny?
00:22You.
00:23It's clear we need to have a conversation.
00:24Absolutely.
00:25What is the issue, Tiffany?
00:26What is wrong with mopping?
00:27Mopping is serving.
00:28You did it to be demeaning, and you know it.
00:31No, it's nothing wrong with you mopping.
00:33Get that bitch.
00:34Get your free, Amber.
00:35Now I'm a b-word.
00:36Now I'm a b-word.
00:37Get your mother f-word.
00:38Get the hoes.
00:38You need to go sit with their feet
00:40if you are offended by some mopping.
00:51I hope you guys enjoyed the dinner.
00:53I know they put a lot into it.
00:56These blankets are nice, though.
00:57Well, Stormi, thank you for inviting us into your home.
00:59Yes.
01:00It's been beautiful, the whole experience, the photo shoot,
01:04now the dinner.
01:05So I've enjoyed myself.
01:06I bring my name on the menu.
01:07How cool is that?
01:08I tried.
01:09I really did try.
01:10You didn't try, you did.
01:11It's very thoughtful.
01:12Like, y'all don't understand, like, the last thing I wanted
01:15to happen was that.
01:16I really wanted to invite somebody into my space and treat them
01:19better than how they treated me and theirs.
01:21But it's just only so much.
01:23It's disrespectful.
01:24I've been dealing with it since the damn civil rights thing.
01:25Tiffany chose to sit at my mother f-ing table.
01:28Instead of breaking bread, she chose to act a mother f-ing fool.
01:31If you want to act like that, you can see your way out.
01:36Whew.
01:37How you feeling, Ambie?
01:38I'm gonna know that's your friend.
01:39It just made me sad.
01:40I don't know.
01:41I'm just sad.
01:41You know, I always hope this stuff can be worked out.
01:44But I don't know about this one.
01:50Right now, you can cut the tension with a butter knife.
01:54And thank god the food is good so that we can blame this silence
01:59on just having our mouth full and enjoying the food
02:01and not what just happened.
02:03Y'all want to go to the fire pit?
02:04Yeah.
02:05Oh my god, we can make more.
02:07Ew.
02:11Oh, wow.
02:14Fireside trees.
02:15I know, right?
02:16Stormy, this is beautiful.
02:19Oh my god.
02:21Dinner was awkward as hell.
02:23And we just need a different vibe.
02:26Come on, let's do a little s'more show.
02:27Cheers.
02:28Cheers.
02:30I'm gonna go prep my medicine, but I'm
02:31gonna bring it back out here, because I'm gonna take it.
02:32It's just one shot.
02:33Who's gonna do it?
02:37I feel like we should, like, pray or something
02:39before you take it.
02:40I know.
02:40I'm gonna go prep it, and y'all figure out
02:42if y'all gonna make Stormy do it by the time I get back.
02:44No, Stormy's gonna do it.
02:45Yeah.
02:47Stormy, get your head together.
02:48My egg retrieval is in T minus 36 hours.
02:52Maybe I should put on the sweatsuit,
02:53because I got on a dress.
02:54I have to take the medicine specifically
02:57at 8 o'clock PM within a 15 minute window.
03:00And they said it's crucial, because if I go off track,
03:02I could lose my eggs.
03:04OK, Stormy.
03:05You can do it.
03:06You can't.
03:06I don't do needles.
03:07I had the biggest fear of needles for a very long time, and so I went through IVF myself.
03:12Ready?
03:13Wait a minute.
03:13Oh, my God.
03:14OK, hold on, hold on.
03:15This is not that big, though.
03:17I'm not gonna stick it all the way in.
03:18Thank God I never have to go through the IVF process ever again.
03:22The next time I bring a child Earthside, it will be by way of a surrogate.
03:27OK, you ready?
03:29OK, take that, wipe the needle.
03:31Ooh, God.
03:32How far does needle gotta go in your skin?
03:34All the way.
03:34All the way.
03:35This has to touch my skin.
03:37Ooh, don't make me go up.
03:38So you pinch.
03:40OK.
03:40You stick first, then you push.
03:42OK.
03:42So you have to stick it all the way in first.
03:44OK.
03:46Now wait, you're looking like you're about to throw a dart.
03:49Why are you doing it like a dart?
03:50You gotta do it nice and slow, Stormy.
03:52Yeah, nice and easy, just glide it in there.
03:56Wait, just get closer, slow.
03:58Yeah, slow, slow, slow.
03:59Wait, wait, you still finna hit a dart.
04:00I'm gonna go in, I'm not gonna dart it, I promise.
04:03OK, I'm just not gonna look, y'all.
04:05Oh, Stormy Jesus.
04:06Go in all the way first.
04:12And push, push.
04:13Oh, my God.
04:14Ooh.
04:15Does it hurt, does it hurt, does it hurt?
04:17Oh, my God, oh, my God.
04:18Oh, my God.
04:18Yeah, I got to push.
04:19Yeah.
04:22I thought you never did those jokes.
04:24We did it.
04:25The trigger shot is done.
04:26I felt the resistance.
04:28Look, I love you.
04:31Oh, Amber, I love you.
04:33Thank you, Amber.
04:34Oh, my goodness.
04:34What did it feel like?
04:35It hurt it.
04:36Oh, I'm sorry, baby.
04:38I'm used to it.
04:39You OK?
04:40You're a G.
04:41I love you.
04:42You deserve some cake.
04:43Yeah.
04:44Let's have some cake.
04:45Girl, I'm about to cry watching that.
04:47Y'all want to write something and burn it and release it?
04:50Sure.
04:50We could all write something.
04:52We don't have to share.
04:53If we want to share, we can.
04:54But we should all write something that we should want to release so that we can be stronger,
04:59more vibrant, and beautiful beings.
05:02Amen.
05:03Amen.
05:03This is something that we're releasing.
05:05Yes.
05:05I have mine.
05:07Oh.
05:08So mine is fear.
05:10Releasing fear.
05:11I love that.
05:12With, like, every aspect of my life.
05:14Love that.
05:14I can't say mine out loud.
05:16Oh, OK.
05:17Yeah.
05:18OK.
05:18Mine is self-doubt.
05:21Being Nigerian, you just grow up to be being prideful in, like, who you are and what you are,
05:25but then in the same time you can't ever talk about all your successes.
05:30You have to be very humble, and that brings in, like, self-doubt.
05:33There's somebody doing so much better than you, and so I just want to release myself from that
05:37and just be just proud of myself for how much I've accomplished and where I've come.
05:47So I wrote, I want to release apologizing for being myself.
05:52I doubt myself, too.
05:54Like, I doubt that I'm likable.
05:56I want people to, like, understand me.
05:58And if they don't understand me, I feel like I need to change so that they can.
06:02And I've had to learn that, like, being me is, it's OK, and it's enough.
06:06So I'm not going to stop apologizing when I mess up, but just, like,
06:10being in this constant state of apologizing for being mean,
06:14I don't have to do that anymore.
06:15Yeah.
06:18So mine is kind of a twofold.
06:21It's funny, but then it has a root.
06:23So mine is the spirit of I wish a bitch would.
06:26I've always been the person who grew up, you have to be tough.
06:29You have to be, you can't cry.
06:31You can't, you've got to always be ready to go.
06:34Like, you know, you walk around, like, to the point where it's like,
06:36I wish that bitch would.
06:37You know what I'm saying?
06:38And I want to release that because to me, that's like childhood trauma that I still hold on to.
06:42And it makes me be a version of myself.
06:45Oh, it's like, you want to rid yourself of that, but you also
07:02want to protect yourself.
07:03You got to protect yourself.
07:04Yeah.
07:04And like, that's the only way I know how.
07:06When you grow up in the South, half of our grandparents had to have this nonchalant demeanor
07:11because most of them were damn near so close to slavery.
07:13Showing weakness, showing any type of emotion that is soft, it's just not something that's instilled in
07:19you instead you're taught to be hard because if you're not, this world will crush you.
07:25But I'm still in a spirit in a place in my life too, where I like self-reflect and want
07:30to be
07:31the highest version of me because I feel like the life God blessed me with, I have to be
07:39because I'm responsible for so much and so many people that I can't not be great.
07:51And I hate that still in me. I won't let that go.
07:57As an adult now, I want to learn how to live in a soft girl era because
08:04everything don't always warrant that. I want to be as much like God as I possibly can.
08:10So I thought I was doing great, but this moment has truly shown me that I still got work to
08:15do
08:15and I'm ready to do the work.
08:20That was good. That was really good.
08:23One, two, one, two, three, release it!
08:28Coming up on Bell Collective Birmingham, when we were at the house, I'm like,
08:33God, damn, I'm trying to make it with this bitch.
08:34She's messing with you.
08:35It was a million ways I could have told her to get out.
08:37I need to get them together. I want to apologize.
08:39I think I'm going to call the dinner the last supper.
08:41So hopefully we'll get an unprideful Tiffany because she got so much pride.
08:45It's ridiculous. And later.
08:47Stormy invited all of us, all the Bells, like private dinner that she's having.
08:51She invited you as well.
08:52So right now I'm going to decline the office.
08:58I've been wanting to see this building, so I'm super excited.
09:01Me too.
09:02You know where we are?
09:04No.
09:05You want to tell them?
09:05This is the Civil Rights Institute of Birmingham.
09:09And it's going to tell you a lot of things about our history.
09:12When I say our history, I mean people of color, okay?
09:16Yay!
09:17All right.
09:18Do we have current in there?
09:20Not that kind of color, my brother.
09:22We are going back to the Civil Rights Museum today
09:25because I want to take my baby.
09:27I want him to see some of this rich history that Birmingham has to offer.
09:30And it's just like a fun family outing.
09:33Why it always look closed?
09:35Man.
09:36Because it's closed.
09:37It is not closed.
09:38Did you not look at the mission?
09:41I mean, what day is it open?
09:42Oh, God, girl.
09:43It's too...
09:44Tuesday through Saturday.
09:46I'm never going to get to go in here.
09:48This is where the Tiffany situation.
09:52Right here.
09:52No, you're kidding me.
09:54Huh?
09:55Right here.
09:56Yeah.
09:56So moving forward, when you are offended, come to me.
09:59Don't offend me.
10:00You can choose...
10:01Don't do that stupid.
10:02Do you know where directly across the street from you?
10:04No, what is it?
10:05You don't know where that building is?
10:06The church?
10:0716th Street Church.
10:09That is the church that the four little girls got killed in the bombing in 1963.
10:15Really?
10:15You didn't know that.
10:16We were right here?
10:17Yes.
10:18But that wasn't a place for that type of conversation to be had.
10:21All this historical stuff out here.
10:23And y'all can find nothing better to talk about.
10:25I'm with you when you write.
10:27So you with me all the time, huh?
10:28You ain't always right.
10:29I'm always right.
10:30You write on a bad day.
10:34Birmingham has made such an impact on Black history as a whole.
10:38Who's that?
10:39Who's Jay Jackson?
10:41Cosmetology.
10:41She the hair?
10:42Who's that?
10:43It was the most segregated place in America.
10:46The history, the marches that is known for.
10:48And just to know that it's right here, I have no words.
10:55Y'all, this is loaded with history.
10:57I see this and I get angry.
10:59You have a right to.
11:00The children's crusade on May 19th morning,
11:03a thousand students skipped school and marched down to Elgin.
11:05I ain't afraid of your jail.
11:07Who are those persons?
11:09Those children, they marched down to the jail.
11:11Oh, my God.
11:12Yeah.
11:13We went through some serious stuff.
11:15Oh, my God.
11:15Segregation.
11:18Chesapeake, that's where you don't want to be.
11:20Let's go.
11:20Why?
11:21That's a jail.
11:23Well, I can get out of there so easily.
11:25Yes, sir.
11:26From this moment forward, we're going to make sure my son
11:29know things that we went through and how blessed he truly is to live a life
11:34that's so far removed from what we've endured as people.
11:37Being here back at the Civil Rights Museum, the stuff with Tiffany, even though here,
11:43she was weird as hell here.
11:44When we were at the house, my seat was next to her and Foley, and I was in the middle.
11:51And you know you're claustrophobic.
11:52I know.
11:54I'm up here talking about being claustrophobic.
11:56She said, and I said, Tiffany, what's funny?
11:58She said, you?
12:00Babe, I'm like, God damn, I'm trying to make it with this.
12:03She's messing with you.
12:03I think she's with me.
12:05Yeah, yeah, she's with you.
12:05At that point, I was like, bitch, you get the out.
12:07Just get the out.
12:08I was like, God damn.
12:09Here go that Stormy.
12:11Here she go.
12:11Hey, yeah, I'll be kicked out too.
12:13Yeah.
12:14Babe, you never kicked nobody at the house.
12:16Now, your ass have, I have never.
12:18I'm not feeling like that in my house.
12:20I feel compelled to tell that girl I'm sorry for calling her a bitch in the hole
12:24and to let her know that even though I do feel like she was out of pocket,
12:30it was a million ways I could have told her to get out.
12:32I feel like at this point, I need to get them together.
12:34I don't want to apologize.
12:35I think I'm going to call the dinner of the Last Supper, like in the Bible.
12:40I know what it is.
12:41And I'd rather go ahead and see if we can resolve this,
12:44because if we can't act accordingly at the Last Supper,
12:47where can we do with it?
12:49And then I want to just stop having the words and start doing the actions
12:52and show people what it's really like to have grace and humility.
12:55How you think she's doing what's wrong with her?
12:57Like, you think she'll be out at the Supper?
12:59I feel like, I don't know.
13:00I hope she acts accordingly.
13:02I mean, she said she loved the Lord.
13:03She said she loved the praise.
13:04So hopefully we put ourselves in that type of position.
13:06We'll get an unprideful Tiffany, because she got so much pride.
13:09It's ridiculous.
13:12Coming up.
13:12She invited me to her house, and she kicked me out.
13:15How you get home?
13:16The Uber.
13:17She kicked you out.
13:17She cussed you out.
13:18You have actual friends there.
13:20Check your circle.
13:35Oh, this is cute.
13:37It looks amazing.
13:40OMG.
13:41Oh, the cake is super cute.
13:44I love that.
13:45So excited.
13:46Today is the big day, and it's our choosing lunch party.
13:49I've invited all of our friends and all of our family.
13:52So I'm going to have my lunch party, and I want y'all to come.
13:55So let me go ahead and invite y'all now.
13:56So tomorrow.
13:57Tomorrow?
13:59Oh, my God.
14:00Oh, my God.
14:01Yes.
14:01I still choose you after almost two and a half years.
14:04I'm still choosing you, too.
14:05You still choose me.
14:05OK.
14:06Almost there.
14:07You probably got a little gloss on you.
14:10Child, unlike Stormy, honey, I'm going to be serving hors d'oeuvres instead of drama.
14:14Because child, I ain't got time for the drama.
14:17Hey, sweetie.
14:17So you remember I've been telling you about Kayla.
14:20And I keep saying y'all act alike.
14:22Do we?
14:23Oh, girl.
14:24We act alike.
14:24Maybe that's what we need to be together.
14:26Oh, my gosh.
14:27Kayla is my girl, honey.
14:29That is my play cousin.
14:31Just like Kendra, she is the same.
14:33They riding for me till the wheels fall off.
14:35So, you know, she invited me to her house.
14:39And she kicked me out.
14:40What?
14:41What do you mean?
14:42She had seats assigned for dinner.
14:45I don't know how they got like that.
14:47I'm claustrophobic, so I hate my sides closing.
14:51What's funny?
14:53You.
14:54Get the out, girl.
14:55Get out.
14:56You're doing too much.
14:56Come on.
14:56I'm gonna go.
14:57I'm gonna go.
14:58Get that bitch property.
14:58Now I'm a b-word.
15:01She kicked you out.
15:01She cussed you out.
15:02And you didn't have nobody to bet you.
15:03And I'm saying, and you had to stand out there.
15:04Baby, you already know I'm ten toes down by myself.
15:07You have actual friends there.
15:09Mm.
15:10Check your circle.
15:13I'm one of those friends that you don't have to choose a side,
15:15as long as you choose what's right.
15:18However, if it was one of my close friends,
15:20and Stormi kicked one of my close friends out,
15:23that's Stormi.
15:24I like my girl sweet, like a sweet tea.
15:27I like a salsa pie, all I can't eat.
15:31Hey!
15:33Girl, hey!
15:35How are you?
15:36How are you?
15:39How are you?
15:39Hey, how are you?
15:40Hey, how are you?
15:40Good to see you.
15:42You look so good.
15:45How are you?
15:45How are you doing, man?
15:47Really?
15:48I'm Sam.
15:49Good to meet you, man.
15:50I have some shirts over there.
15:51Okay.
15:51I'm going to give you the QR code,
15:53so you can go ahead and spend your money, honey.
15:57Single, but intentional!
15:59Single girls!
16:00Single girls!
16:02Yes!
16:03Ah!
16:04And then I want this to be white.
16:07Yeah.
16:07You probably can play with different funds, too.
16:09Yeah.
16:09Yeah.
16:10Okay.
16:10Okay.
16:11Yeah, and that's what I need.
16:11You know, I need honesty.
16:12I need feedback, honey.
16:13Let me know.
16:14I like this one.
16:15This will be cute with, like, leather pants this time of year.
16:17Yeah.
16:17All right, we want to thank everybody for coming!
16:22Um, I'm so excited that you all decide to join us.
16:26So one day, me and my hubby was driving in the car,
16:28and I was like, what made you just know that you love me?
16:33What kind of feelings did you get?
16:35And he was like, I just made a decision.
16:37The decision to choose you.
16:39That was the answer I didn't want.
16:41And as we grew, I realized choosing is important.
16:46Mm-hmm.
16:47And that's what love is all about.
16:50When we came up with this line, we was like, you know what?
16:53Why not choose?
16:54Now, my love story, I was wanted and desired.
16:58As soon as Sam saw me, there were no other options.
17:00Don't tell me you chose me because God told you to.
17:03Probably somebody else.
17:04So, we wanted your honesty before we throw it out there to the world.
17:10I want your feedback.
17:16And I'm being serious.
17:17Okay.
17:19Definitely colors.
17:20Some more color choices.
17:21More color choices?
17:22Okay.
17:23More shirt styles?
17:24Okay. Anybody else?
17:25Make sure your vendor, same thing.
17:27You stick with them, high quality.
17:28Like I see on the S, a little piece of the S Miss,
17:30you know, I pay attention to detail.
17:32You can get into embroidery and stitching.
17:34Okay.
17:35That's good.
17:37Okay.
17:37And kind of get away from the print because I feel like print is kind of like,
17:42it's going on a family vacation.
17:43Okay.
17:44Everybody get a t-shirt.
17:45Okay.
17:45How much would you spend on the choosing shirts in this current iteration?
17:50Uh, $5.
17:52Can you see this line being a sister?
17:59Alright, well let's get this party started!
18:05Say this to none.
18:07We got so much stuff that you know.
18:10Sunetta.
18:11Did you see this?
18:12It's from Stormy.
18:13Hey Sunetta, for me, Kayla, Amber, and Tiffany.
18:16It meant so much for me to have you all over.
18:18I want to formally extend an invite to a private celebratory dinner.
18:21I hope you all can make it.
18:22Okay.
18:23Yeah.
18:24Okay.
18:24It looks like everybody's invited.
18:26Yeah.
18:27She invited Tiffany.
18:28Yeah.
18:28Well that's good.
18:29You think she'll go?
18:30I don't know.
18:32Okay.
18:33Oh, after our last dinner, the last thing I want to do is sit across this table from Tiffany
18:39and Stormy, but I will be there because I love a good tea.
18:42What's wrong?
18:43No, no, no.
18:44I was just trying to see if you got the text.
18:46My phone is.
18:46Okay.
18:47Friday, Stormy invited all of us, all the bells, for like private dinner that she's having.
18:52She invited you as well.
18:53So right now, I'm going to decline the offer.
18:55Okay.
18:56Well, you don't have to decline it to me.
18:57You can decline it.
18:58I was just trying to give you a heads up.
19:00I'd rather mop the seat before going to this dinner with Stormy.
19:05I will say last night, we sat at the fire pit.
19:08She was crying.
19:08You know, she said she never wanted to get to that space.
19:12And she was open to trying to work it out with you.
19:15Take that with...
19:16She was just talking about her childhood and how she just...
19:19Yeah.
19:19It's just tough.
19:20She was like, we're a lot alike.
19:21You know, she said she'd been back down.
19:25Honestly, I just think that she was just trying to connect with the other bells so they
19:29won't look at her differently.
19:30I don't think that the tears was sincere, but I could be well.
19:34I don't like that she left by herself.
19:36Why nobody left with her?
19:37She told us to stay.
19:38I was standing right there.
19:39I think emotions are high.
19:40Yeah.
19:41But that's a long trip for someone to travel by themselves.
19:44I care about...
19:45Both of them.
19:46Yeah.
19:46I don't want to keep harping her.
19:47Did you tell your friend?
19:48I'm not going to be in the middle of it.
19:49Say what?
19:50Did you tell her she was wrong?
19:51What do you mean?
19:51You wasn't there.
19:52Well, I just...
19:53If you wasn't there, just...
19:54You could talk to Tiffany about it separately and get her story.
19:57Then come to me a little later.
19:58But you wasn't there, so I'm gonna need you to stay there.
20:02Girl, who are you to tell me or anyone else how they should handle the situation?
20:06Girl, you don't know me.
20:07If you don't know me, don't come for me if I didn't send for you.
20:10I'll just ask her.
20:11And I'll answer.
20:12I just wanted to let you know before you open your text and it's like this.
20:16Take some time, think about it, pray about it.
20:17Okay.
20:18Yeah.
20:19Okay.
20:19Right.
20:21Coming up...
20:21We need to reconsider taking the house off the market.
20:25It's not going off the market.
20:26You're not trying to see my point.
20:27You're not budging on any of this stuff.
20:29This house situation has to change, okay?
20:31No.
20:31No.
20:33We need to reconsider.
20:34We can do what we want.
20:37Yeah, we can do what we want.
20:39Me and my girls, we all.
20:41We want.
20:43We want.
20:44We want.
20:45We want.
20:47We want.
20:47We want.
20:48We want.
20:48Hey babe?
20:49Hey babe.
20:49How you doing?
20:50You look good.
20:51Thank you, I think you today.
20:53You dropped in on me?
20:55I dropped in.
21:01the back broke sorry oh my goodness no but the food didn't touch the ground
21:08i got something for you okay you got me a purse let's get some chocolate oh thank you oh you
21:14know
21:14i love chocolate but i got it for a reason no uh no no no no hold on no why
21:20are you talking
21:21no no no tell me first before because you're not about to bribe me into doing anything
21:24i love chocolate don't get me wrong but usually when he pulls out things like that he has bad news
21:29this house situation has to change okay no we need to reconsider about taking the house off the market
21:36no that was something we agreed upon sam don't let me cry like you're trying to go back on your
21:42word with the house and i don't i don't want to because listen here's the deal babe we've had over
21:4730 showings of this house and we've had some offers on the house but we've been lowballed every single
21:52time i'm gonna tell you why i think they're offering what they're offering we're a black
21:56family in a predominantly white neighborhood predominantly white school system i feel like
22:02we're getting a reduction on these contracts it's because of who we are our experience with home buying
22:09in birmingham has not always been so easy i remember in 2020 we were going to look at a house
22:15fell in love with it we put an offer on it the offer got accepted and then of course you
22:20have to drop
22:21off your earnest money literally an hour after he turned in that money the owner said they did not
22:27want to sell to us anymore it does not matter how well dressed you are how well spoken they have
22:32hate
22:32in their heart and so that house it was like one of our dream homes was taken out from underneath
22:38us
22:38in like an hour i'm not gonna take it off today but we're taking this house off of the market
22:42in march
22:43okay you're gonna you're making me you're about to make me really upset when we sat down and we
22:48talked about buying this house we both agreed on it we're not taking it off this house it's going
22:53off the market it's not going off the market so yeah i definitely think this was a waste of time
22:58i'm gonna take my food with me well leave my suit no i feel like i've been more than reasonable
23:03you taking my suit you're not getting sued okay babe enjoy your chocolate goodbye i'm a runner i'm
23:08a track star so anytime you start talking rubbish i'm gonna take my stuff and i'm just gonna leave
23:14why did you storm out like that you're not budging on anything you don't even want to move let's be
23:18honest do you want that's the truth i didn't even want to list the house i'm budging by making a
23:22concession then why did you do it you know what i want i want a pool in a backyard but
23:27it has to make
23:27sense okay all right goodbye okay ciao
23:51tonight is the night the last supper it is so important to me i've literally made sure that
23:57you know with pep my event planner we've talked about like just the experience overall
24:02the thought is like when you walk in it's almost like you're walking into oblivion you'll go through
24:10this tunnel of just moodiness and boom you're gonna come into the last supper it's dark it could
24:19read sinister but it could read romantic it all depends on where their head's at how they take it
24:26right they're probably gonna be like oh my god is this gonna be a repeat of stormy's house
24:30but hopefully they realize that this is something very impactful very positive and very humbling
24:38good bye you look so pretty thank you hey babe oh this is a vibe we got names today too
24:49yes i made this
24:51sure they're correct they're correct
25:00you look amazing thank you mom how are you thank you it's a body you know i got my spanks
25:07on
25:08look at my baby
25:10oh you know i'm coming to take him right you can have him oh so we got a seating arrangement
25:17that's what i
25:18told you hopefully better than last time right hey kayla hey mom oh my goodness mommy this looks
25:25amazing it's a red edible too my name's on the bread stop it's the fruit real right here oh
25:32everything you know i'll be ready to eat is everybody coming i don't know everybody everybody
25:37in the group chat yeah it looks like the last supper doesn't it uh-huh like the big table you
25:43know
25:43wait that was your theme yeah because i feel like our last supper didn't go how i wanted it to
25:50so
25:50like the last this is the last last supper the last supper theme is not appropriate for us i'm a
25:57pastor's kid the last supper is all about sacrifice i can't even begin to make my mind figure out a
26:03correlation between jesus's last meal with his disciples and a group of girls fighting about mops and
26:10rules it doesn't make any sense amber how was your procedure it was great it was great so they
26:16called me and said that they kept 23 oh that's so good yeah i have 23 babies in the future
26:25i'm so
26:25excited you might still call me jordan baby going for three number 23. now it's time to work on finding
26:31a husband so i'm so excited about that am i or am i not i don't know but i'm gonna
26:37do it
26:39i had a little disagreement with sam he's like i'm giving you 21 days to either have the house
26:45sold or we're gonna take it off the market sam didn't want the house sold in the first place
26:49that's what it sounds like you think so i'm thinking like you just got to give it time
26:53so do y'all think tiffany is done with us y'all ain't needing to work she done with you
26:57possibly
26:58you know what was so weird when we were in the circle and her cousin asked that question about why
27:04didn't anybody go with her i guess she was just trying to be you know protective cousin i guess
27:08yeah cousin should have stayed in her place amber amber you was finna you was gonna be on her ass
27:12amber what did you say i said when you wasn't there was you there who are you it was like
27:17who are you
27:17that was the first question she caught me so off guard i didn't even remember what she asked me she
27:22asked did you tell your friend she was wrong yeah and amber looked at her like
27:28bitch who you talking to who tiffany's was in tiffany ended the conversation tiffany was shocked
27:33she was shocked she knew her cousin was going to be asking all that and they didn't think i would
27:37respond like that how how would she know who was wrong exactly i guess from tiffany telling her
27:52i don't think she no beach i don't think she no ho but tonight i i don't even want to
27:56do
27:56a rehash the conversation that's gonna go that way yes hello ladies your favorite bell is here
28:17baby i guess joke on me i told this girl that i was the light in dark places so i
28:22guess she said let
28:23it be real dark it's feeling like somebody's about to jump out of the curtains or something
28:27and try to scare me like baby it's just a haunted house but i'm walking in this dinner with good
28:34intentions and an empty stomach hello ladies hello everyone your dress is cute thank you
28:56thank you
29:00tonight i really want to put this dinner together because i feel like i know the one at my house
29:05didn't go as planned and on top of that tonight i do have a amazing surprise for you all that
29:10i really
29:11hope you guys enjoy and i don't want to sit here like i did last time and not address you
29:15know something
29:15intense in the room and i immediately want to apologize to you because i don't think you're a
29:22bitch i don't think you're a hoe and i'm not proud of that stormy i want anybody to treat me
29:27like that
29:27and i'm sorry i made you feel that way and i really want this night and this dinner to be
29:32a positive one
29:33i hope you accept my apology yeah i appreciate it thank you so much you're welcome i'm really here
29:43trying to walk in grace after having a conversation with my husband it's important that i forgive i don't
29:50want to go to a dinner and feel like it's a setup we still have to be the light god
29:56said in this world
29:57you will have trials and tribulations we just gotta face them and overcome them well i'm gonna start
30:02off by apologizing for offending you as well i thought at the civil rights i was coming directly
30:08to you so i can hear your heart your question was to me was do you still think it's funny
30:13and i
30:14answered yes the reason why i said that is because it was the end like literally it was and i
30:20didn't
30:20want to lie to you in that moment but the truth of the matter it was not funny that i
30:24offended my
30:24sister it was not funny that i hurt you in a way that wasn't funny so i apologize i appreciate
30:30that
30:30and i think it's us not knowing each other and what our tones are and yeah how we communicate and
30:37i
30:38think over time like we'll be able to understand that tiffany's tone right now is 1000 different
30:44than civil rights her neck is even in the proper position normally you know tiffany is like this
30:50what's your intention but today she's like this and i like the level-headed tiffany
30:58i grew up taught to always be ready don't never let nobody play with you so to the point where
31:04i
31:04walked around my younger years like i wish a bitch would just that type of energy and as i've gotten
31:10older and more mature i have gotten better at that but that moment reminded me you got a lot of
31:15work to
31:15do and my first thing i said when i see tiffany she gonna know like i don't feel that way
31:20about you
31:20and i hate that happened i think we all have a past that we have overcame i used to go
31:24from zero to
31:25100 and now i tell myself hey let's get to the middle i never want to go back to who
31:30i used to
31:30being and like what you said i don't want to be that person because that person is ugly yeah oh
31:36my
31:36that person is that person is real ignorant look at us being adults cheers y'all gonna leave me
31:42hanging cheers cheers cheers cheers i am not shocked that stormy is apologizing to tiffany she's being
31:53the bigger person and apologizing i think that's cool it means so much to me i've been stressing
31:58about this for the last month finally it feels like the bells can move forward i don't think tiffany
32:03and stormy have buried the hatchet i really think they're just trying to get along to get along
32:07i think it's very important for me to receive her apology but me receiving apology does not take away
32:15the character traits that you have displayed so now i just watch character and see if your character
32:21match up with the apology i'd be a fool to trust you this fast oh i love that it's like
32:29fruit in it too thank you so much i hope y'all like it we're all getting to know each
32:36other
32:37we are not going to understand each other's sense of humor in the beginning so you know you have the
32:42mop you have the lines of coke you know you have i did that i did that you have all
32:49these things that
32:50come up and because no one i don't understand hey not too much kayla no i it's still a joke
32:55i know
32:56kayla's still acting like she don't know what's funny or that she don't know what she's doing and
33:01always apologizing so i do not trust kayla at all and hopefully we can keep growing and learning
33:08together everybody else i have no issues with but this lady in white oh and let me just tell me
33:13what's
33:14your issue with baby amber if you do one more short joke if you do one more teeny weeny coconut
33:20bikini short joke oh lord i'm gonna ride up on you like our cousin brought up on you
33:24and i'll be waiting on you to ride up on me okay don't worry make one more joke girl i
33:31used to get
33:32picked on so much oh how's the weather down there hey oh oompa loompa now i know amber means it
33:37jokingly
33:38but bring it down a little sis it's not that funny i got one more surprise and i gave this
33:46a lot of
33:46thought service came up a lot in the debacle of the the mock right but i did want to put
33:54together
33:54something tonight for us to be able to actually show service to one another and what i've done is
34:03prepared a foot washing station oh my god that is so cool yeah i would like the opportunity to humble
34:10myself wow give you guys a foot bath i want to ask you a question um i know that you
34:17say you like the
34:17spiritual person do you know like the meaning behind it you know why jesus actually washed his
34:22disciples feet and what i know about it it was to show humility it was and to show service and
34:42it was
34:43to be able to honor them in that moment because i want to say at the last supper a lot
34:47transpired with
34:48him and being betrayed and that was his way of being humble before them yeah so is this like the
34:57last supper i will hope this is the first of many amazing stuff but maybe last one that we should
35:04have
35:04to walk into and question yeah where our hearts are we've talked about service and humility about this
35:12mop in ways that i don't even know how we got there
35:15this statement of humility and service has came up so many times that the one act and the most powerful
35:22act in the bible around it was when jesus washed his disciples feet and if we're going to talk about
35:30service to this capacity then everybody should be able to serve in the way in which he did
35:39i don't want you to see them dolls baby i haven't gotten a pedicure in months
35:45all of us need to come on all of us together all right let's do it together
35:49so i'm gonna actually supervise it
35:55so you get on this side culturally it's just not something nigerians do you have to get to know the
36:00person before you can become so intimate however i think what stormy did was so beautiful as a way of
36:07forgiveness and servanthood she was a servant and washed our feet therefore we can be servants and
36:13wash her feet just not my feet my feet's for my man okay you guys i feel like after like
36:21a great night
36:21i feel like it's safe to say we kind of trust each other a little bit so this is the
36:28moment
36:29that we must walk by faith and not by sight and not by sight oh lord let me finish this
36:36wide before
36:37you bribe all this look can i be honest yes i'm scared as hell i understand the importance of walking
36:43by faith and not by sight but my faith is in the lord not into people now stormy babe you
36:49could have
36:49waited so we got in the car to put the blindfolds on you know i got bad knees bad feet
36:53surgery after
36:54here surgery there what's going on tiffany can you see i can't me either tiffany is right behind you
37:01right there i feel like we're in the middle of the road okay everybody take off their blindfolds right now
37:09oh
37:15rubbing on my booty
37:25being a bell being successful truly are our ancestors wildest dreams and i don't ever want
37:32us to forget that we can actually start a new chapter and i cannot wait to see what it holds
37:38thank you yeah this is so insane i don't know where tiffany is but i can say mops are nowhere
37:46in my
37:47future it was just a joke next on the bell collective birmingham reunion he knows some about to go
38:07down if the shoe fit then wear it a hit dog gonna holler every time when it comes to me
38:11disabuse yourself
38:12of that thought i don't need anybody amber was talking about the job she had done let me squeeze
38:17them see how real they felt you kept playing like you didn't know nothing about the mop when you
38:23clearly knew about the mop tiffany was just like you need the mop next no she didn't clean up on
38:29our
38:29fort we put an offer on one house how much you are digging honey i am carlos king i dig
38:35amber do you
38:37think sermon was direct no he asked you about this specific comment and i just gave a specific
38:42answer she knew dance around questions i don't see how you friends with her i don't get your goddamn
38:46spirit because you jealous and you cannot beat me i never had a problem with you you had the problem
38:53with me girl oh my god jesus christ
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