90 Day- The Single Life S05E14

MusicalMagic

4 days ago

Transcript

00:00:00Previously on The Single Life.

00:00:03You have to do your pickleball dance.

00:00:07Phil is my new boyfriend.

00:00:10But Colt is living in Phillip's house.

00:00:13It's not the best situation.

00:00:16I think Colt has a thing for you still.

00:00:18I don't trust him.

00:00:19I don't want to jeopardize my new relationship with Phillip

00:00:22by prioritizing Colt.

00:00:24We need to get him out of our home.

00:00:26It's time to make him a little uncomfortable.

00:00:29I mean, ever since LA, I guess I've just been thinking about it.

00:00:33I don't want to put my heart and energy into something

00:00:36that could be pulled out from underneath me at any moment.

00:00:39So are you breaking this off?

00:00:41I mean, as far as boyfriend and girlfriend kind of thing,

00:00:44I don't think that's for us.

00:00:47Yeah.

00:00:49I guess I'm just going to be straightforward.

00:00:52There is somebody back at home that I've been seeing.

00:00:55Didn't expect that.

00:00:56Coming on this girl's trip, I never expected to fall for someone.

00:01:01It's just such a tricky situation I put myself in.

00:01:05Hi.

00:01:06How are you?

00:01:06It's so nice to meet you.

00:01:08I'm Vanya.

00:01:09What I know about Tony's parents is they are very religious.

00:01:12And I am not.

00:01:15Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?

00:01:18I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem.

00:01:22I would prefer to stay away.

00:01:27When I was 20, I got a woman pregnant.

00:01:30I did get married because I thought every child needs a father figure and another figure as well.

00:01:35Wayne might think, oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.

00:01:38She's the most selfish person on earth.

00:01:40.

00:01:42How was your day?

00:01:44Tell me.

00:01:45Have you kissed a guy?

00:01:47Yeah.

00:01:48Because I told you I want to have time being single.

00:01:51If that's one thing you want to do, bye.

00:01:54You're making me feel like I'm the most person in the world.

00:01:57And I'm not.

00:01:58I'm not.

00:01:59Like, I just, I'm not ready for a relationship.

00:02:01F*** this.

00:02:02Disgrace.

00:02:17Right now, I'm not feeling great.

00:02:18Like, things with Pedro obviously was really bad.

00:02:23I texted him yesterday.

00:02:25I also texted him again today.

00:02:26He still hasn't replied to me.

00:02:28So, I'm upset that things have turned out this way.

00:02:31And I really hope he at least has a conversation with me before I go home.

00:02:46The girls are here.

00:02:48Hello.

00:02:49Hello.

00:02:50We're here.

00:02:52Come and grab some champagne.

00:02:53Yeah, I need some champagne.

00:02:56Today's my last day in the DR, and the hotel's throwing a phone party at the pool.

00:03:00And me and the girls have decided to go.

00:03:01It was like a fun end to our trip.

00:03:04That's it.

00:03:05That was it.

00:03:06That's it.

00:03:07I've also invited Pedro, and I really hope that he shows up.

00:03:11It's the last opportunity we have to talk before we both go home.

00:03:16Julia told me that you and Pedro aren't talking right now.

00:03:21Yeah, I went on that date with that guy, and he kind of blew up after it, and he's just

00:03:25not texting me.

00:03:25He still haven't heard from me.

00:03:27Oh, wow.

00:03:28Yeah.

00:03:29Yeah.

00:03:31I wish he at least reached out and said, even tell me, look, Sophie.

00:03:35I just need some time to take it all in, yeah.

00:03:37Or even if he's...

00:03:37Or just leave me alone.

00:03:38Just, yeah.

00:03:39Yeah, but let me know.

00:03:40Don't leave me, like, hanging here.

00:03:41Like, does he hate me?

00:03:42Is he here?

00:03:42Is he not?

00:03:43Like, I don't know what's going on.

00:03:44It's like the uncertainty is just, like, stressful, you know?

00:03:46I really like Pedro, and I do really care about him, and I am upset.

00:03:49If this is how it ends, he just ignores me, and that was that.

00:03:52And we leave on such a horrible fight that we had.

00:03:54Like, that is upsetting to me.

00:03:56Just disappeared.

00:03:58We are planning to go into this party.

00:04:00Do you think he come?

00:04:02I invite him.

00:04:03Like, he's supposed to be at this party, but I don't think he's coming.

00:04:06I know Viya is coming.

00:04:08Viya is coming?

00:04:08Yeah.

00:04:09What's been going on with you and Viya?

00:04:10Um, I have enjoyed every single moment with him, but it sucks that now I have feelings for two guys,

00:04:17but that's not what was supposed to happen at all on this trip.

00:04:20I have a friend who have open marriage.

00:04:25I know.

00:04:26I mean, let's see what's going to happen.

00:04:28I mean, Viya come, maybe Pedro come.

00:04:31You're going to have conversation.

00:04:34Do you think he'll be okay, like, if he doesn't show up?

00:04:38I mean, if he doesn't come, I'm going to be really upset.

00:04:42Right, let's not think about it.

00:04:43Yes, not think about it now, but eventually this will be happening.

00:04:46So now let's have fun.

00:04:47Yeah.

00:04:49Let's go.

00:04:50I love the text of your kiss.

00:04:52I love the fear of your lips.

00:04:55I've been a way through your best man when thinking about you.

00:04:59I love the text of your kiss.

00:05:02I love the fear of your lips.

00:05:04I've been a way through your best man when thinking about you.

00:05:08Oh!

00:05:08Your best man, your best man.

00:05:11Here's the bartender that brings the shot.

00:05:15Everyone looks like Pedro from the back.

00:05:18Maybe people become dumb.

00:05:19Don't lose your hope, maybe.

00:05:22Hello, ladies, what's up?

00:05:25Hi!

00:05:26I like the phone.

00:05:28Are you coming in?

00:05:28Are you coming in like that?

00:05:30Uh, no, you're going to have to help me here.

00:05:35He is here and Pedro isn't with him.

00:05:38I feel like he's just playing games with me.

00:05:40Like, he's done with me.

00:05:42Because that's not how you would act

00:05:43if you actually want to be with me.

00:05:49Oh, look!

00:05:52Pedro isn't here, so I kind of keep him like...

00:05:56Do you know something?

00:05:58Is he coming?

00:06:00Is he coming?

00:06:03Um...

00:06:07We talked earlier, and...

00:06:09Stop bombing. Can you come or no?

00:06:17No.

00:06:17He's not going to come today.

00:06:18He's not?

00:06:19No.

00:06:22Like, really?

00:06:24I tried to convince him to come out,

00:06:26but he doesn't want to come.

00:06:28Like, he's not going to change his way.

00:06:30He's not going to change his mind.

00:06:31I don't...

00:06:31Are you sure?

00:06:33Yeah, 100%.

00:06:34Did he tell you why he's not coming?

00:06:36Did he kiss somebody else?

00:06:40I do understand he's upset,

00:06:41but I do feel like he's being a little bit much

00:06:44when we're not together.

00:06:47I can understand if, like,

00:06:49you don't want to talk to me again,

00:06:51but at least communicate that with me.

00:06:54Honestly, even if he just said,

00:06:55**** off,

00:06:56that would let me know,

00:06:57okay, and let me start to move on from this.

00:07:00I think he's just being very spiteful,

00:07:02and honestly very emotionally immature.

00:07:05Okay.

00:07:20Seems like Colt gets more male here than we do.

00:07:23More medical though?

00:07:24Yes.

00:07:25Oh my God.

00:07:35I think you should go.

00:07:40You're going to back me up, right?

00:07:42Of course, babe.

00:07:42I always have your back.

00:07:44Okay.

00:07:47Colt overseeing his welcome

00:07:48has been hurting my relationship with Phil

00:07:50because he's caused a lot of jealousy and trust issues.

00:07:54So, if I want my relationship to survive,

00:07:57I think Colt needs to get out of the picture.

00:08:00Oh my God, what is that?

00:08:02Oh, he's just, like, laying out there.

00:08:04Oh my God.

00:08:06Feeding Colt before we kick him out

00:08:08is kind of like being fed your last meal

00:08:10before you go to the electrocution chair.

00:08:13So, eat up.

00:08:16Ahoy.

00:08:18Hey.

00:08:18I have your male here.

00:08:19Hey.

00:08:28Yo.

00:08:29What'd you bring?

00:08:31Charcuterie.

00:08:34I made it myself.

00:08:35Wow.

00:08:37You're the best.

00:08:39I'm good.

00:08:40Trying to wash my weight a little bit.

00:08:44How's your leg doing?

00:08:47It's doing better.

00:08:48It probably looks worse than it actually is at this point.

00:08:51I'm surprised I'm walking again.

00:08:53I really thought it would be a long time if ever.

00:08:57Now that you can walk, what plans have you made?

00:09:02So, it's time for that talk, huh?

00:09:05I think it's time for you to move on.

00:09:09Our relationship is still pretty new, but I feel for us to move forward, things have to change.

00:09:18I mean, you have some time to think we're not kicking you out right now, but I mean, start figuring

00:09:24out what you're doing.

00:09:25Oh, sure.

00:09:26Yeah.

00:09:26A couple days.

00:09:30Yeah.

00:09:34I'm not surprised that they want me to move out.

00:09:36I feel like they didn't really want me to be here to begin with, and now that my leg is

00:09:41healed, it's time to go.

00:09:47I just want to give this relationship, like, a real chance.

00:09:52So, once you've moved out, I think I need to cut off communication with you.

00:09:58Because I don't want to be disrespectful to him.

00:10:06I can't blame you.

00:10:08I mean, I want you to have a fresh start, but that stings.

00:10:12I can't see where my ride or die.

00:10:14I felt bad telling Colt I'm totally done with him, but it had to be done.

00:10:18He's like a leech.

00:10:19I feel he will take advantage of me as long as I'm willing.

00:10:27Well, I feel a little greasy.

00:10:28I think I got to wash off some of this suntan lotion.

00:10:31Okay.

00:10:33Be careful.

00:10:33Thank you for understanding.

00:10:35Oh, yeah.

00:10:39I'm sad.

00:10:41My life has been entangled with Courtney for so long now.

00:10:44I feel like having her not in it is like losing my entire life.

00:10:49But Courtney has found love in whatever weird way that she did.

00:10:54And I hope that she's happy and has a great life.

00:10:58What will you do now?

00:11:00At this point, I feel like it's the next logical step, going back to Brazil, seeing Diana and seeing if

00:11:05we can actually have a relationship and if I could be honest and truthful and do all the things that

00:11:10I couldn't do with Courtney.

00:11:12Do you think you can do that?

00:11:15I want.

00:11:16I need to do better.

00:11:22Well, that was awkward.

00:11:24I think it went okay.

00:11:25He understands what we're saying.

00:11:27It's time to move on.

00:11:33So what made you want to come to meet my dad?

00:11:36Isn't that weird for you guys?

00:11:37Yeah.

00:11:38Yeah.

00:11:38Really?

00:11:38I'm really excited to get to know Wayne's daughters tonight, but I'm a little nervous.

00:11:42I think you go into every relationship expecting people to have no baggage.

00:11:46Yeah.

00:11:47When sometimes that just isn't realistic.

00:11:50My heart just sunk.

00:11:51I don't really want to call my children baggage, but oh God, he's going to judge me for what I've

00:11:56done.

00:12:12Do you want to come to church and see how we are doing?

00:12:17I would probably prefer to stay away.

00:12:32It's just not something that I would enjoy.

00:12:37I am meeting Tony's parents for the first time, and of course I was prepared for them to bring up

00:12:42religion, but I never expected it five minutes after arriving.

00:12:48Inviting me to church is very sweet and kind of them, but my response is always going to be no.

00:12:54It's never going to change.

00:12:56I really hope that they can just see me for the person who I am and the person that makes

00:13:01their son happy.

00:13:04My relationship with God, he's always there.

00:13:09He understands you. He's there listening.

00:13:12I feel so good going to the mass and praying.

00:13:16The way we think is we need association with something.

00:13:24Now, because in Bosnia, it's very normal to be religious.

00:13:28It's very normal to not be religious.

00:13:32What's common in Bosnia?

00:13:34We have three religions in Bosnia.

00:13:37Muslim, Catholic, and Orthodox Christian.

00:13:39And my family essentially has all three, but my parents were not religious.

00:13:44Oh.

00:13:48So what language do you follow there?

00:13:50So we have, before the war in Yugoslavia, it was called Serbo-Croatian.

00:13:55So I learned English here, yeah.

00:13:57Oh, so you had a lot of problems when you moved over here in schooling and all?

00:14:02It was very hard because I had to work, help support the family, help my parents find jobs,

00:14:08take my brother to daycare, help my sister with her homework, and then do my schoolwork as well.

00:14:14So it was, it was like an instant adult overnight, yeah.

00:14:18I think when you came here, you really work hard, no?

00:14:21Absolutely.

00:14:22Still work hard.

00:14:23It hasn't stopped.

00:14:49I'm just super happy to have met your son.

00:14:53And so I'm just, I'm happy that I finally got to meet you.

00:14:57You are so nice and you are so beautiful and hardworking.

00:15:01Hardworking, yeah.

00:15:02I'll pray for you.

00:15:04Thank you so much.

00:15:06I think this is a good step in the right direction.

00:15:09My parents, they want someone that has faith and belief,

00:15:12but I know more importantly,

00:15:13they want to make sure that the person that I'm with

00:15:16will love me as equally as I love them to as well.

00:15:19It was nice meeting you.

00:15:20It was such a pleasure meeting you.

00:15:22Nice to meet you.

00:15:22So much, thank you.

00:15:24So I have a feeling my mom is overlooking a lot of her previous thoughts

00:15:28about, oh, she doesn't have that faith.

00:15:31But now at least she does love my son,

00:15:33and that's going to go a long way.

00:15:35Thank you. Bye-bye.

00:15:37Bye-bye.

00:15:37Bye.

00:15:40I hope that wasn't so bad.

00:15:42I told you, right?

00:15:44You really weren't kidding about your mom and religion.

00:15:47She really is all about it.

00:15:50They're always going to try.

00:15:51But I think they were asking you quite a few questions,

00:15:54and they really wanted to get to know you.

00:15:56That's big.

00:15:57And that's what I saw from the conversation,

00:16:00was that they were very happy to see us together.

00:16:02So you think they approved?

00:16:03Absolutely.

00:16:04And I think they really enjoyed talking to you.

00:16:06That's a very good sign.

00:16:07So I do want to present you with something

00:16:12as, like, a symbol of acceptance and into our family,

00:16:17and also, more importantly, a bigger step for me into our lives.

00:16:21What?

00:16:22You wait right here.

00:16:26No looking.

00:16:27What?

00:16:28What's happening?

00:16:29Close your eyes.

00:16:30Oh, my God.

00:16:31Okay.

00:16:33Oh, my God.

00:16:39I want you to take this box and open it.

00:16:44What is this?

00:16:46And...

00:16:49There's a heart in here.

00:16:51There's a heart.

00:16:52It's a good symbol.

00:16:57It's a key.

00:16:58So, this is a key to my house.

00:17:01I mean, I really think that the next step for us

00:17:05is to have you move in.

00:17:07Are you serious?

00:17:10Absolutely.

00:17:14What did you think was in the box?

00:17:16Not a key.

00:17:18Of course I thought it was a ring.

00:17:20It's what any normal woman would think.

00:17:23But, wah, wah, wah, it's a key.

00:17:27I mean, it's fine.

00:17:29I'm not, like, ungrateful.

00:17:32But, it's not a ring.

00:17:36You know, I feel like this is the next step,

00:17:38and this is my promise to you that I do want you in my life.

00:17:43Yes.

00:17:43Of course I will.

00:17:45This is amazing.

00:17:47Hmm.

00:17:50The key is great and all,

00:17:51but I'm not looking for a roommate.

00:17:54I want a husband.

00:17:57So, I will move into his house for now.

00:18:01But, pretty soon,

00:18:02he better be giving me another box

00:18:04while he's down on one knee.

00:18:07I love you, baby.

00:18:09This is amazing.

00:18:11I'm so glad.

00:18:16I always wanted a kitchen like this.

00:18:20I love you, baby.

00:18:25I love you.

00:18:27It's gonna be incredible.

00:18:34Yeah, you've seen it all before

00:18:38You're writing on the wall.

00:18:40Hi.

00:18:41Hi.

00:18:41Hi, you all right?

00:18:42Hiya.

00:18:43Hi.

00:18:43Hi, Talia, you all right?

00:18:45I'm good, thank you.

00:18:45Hi.

00:18:46Hi.

00:18:47This is Ayesha.

00:18:47Hi, Ayesha.

00:18:48Nice to meet you.

00:18:50This is Ayesha.

00:18:51Hi.

00:18:52How are you?

00:18:53This is Kim.

00:18:53Nice to see you.

00:18:54I stepped on your shoes.

00:18:55And that's Kim's son, Jamal.

00:18:56Hi, Jamal.

00:18:57Nice to meet you.

00:18:57Yeah.

00:18:59One day we'll wake up.

00:19:05Well, nice to meet you, ladies.

00:19:07You're beautiful.

00:19:09So pretty.

00:19:10I'm really excited to get to know Wayne's daughters tonight at the pub.

00:19:14They're so cute, and they're so tiny, and they look just like Wayne.

00:19:18Shall we go and play skittles?

00:19:19Let's go.

00:19:20Okay.

00:19:21But I'm a little nervous, because Wayne just told Jamal and I that he had his children at a young

00:19:26age,

00:19:26and he sacrificed so much to be in their lives.

00:19:29This is skittles.

00:19:30And I'm like, oh, God, he's going to judge me for what I've done, because I placed my children up

00:19:36for adoption.

00:19:37But I just need to calm the hell down and focus on Jamal and Wayne getting to know each other

00:19:43and me getting to know his daughters.

00:19:45So what you need to do, there's a wooden ball.

00:19:47We get three wooden balls.

00:19:49You have to throw the ball, then you have to hit this first pin.

00:19:52You have to hit the first one.

00:19:53You have to hit the first pin to start scoring.

00:19:56Okay.

00:19:56I will show you.

00:19:58Yeah, you will.

00:19:59Because I've played this before.

00:20:01It sounds like a difficult game, but it's really, really easy.

00:20:04Okay.

00:20:05It's not about strength, and it's not about skill.

00:20:08It's about pure luck.

00:20:12Yay!

00:20:12Good job!

00:20:14So, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven.

00:20:17So hopefully, we all can connect and get to know each other.

00:20:20Kim, it's your go now.

00:20:21Are you ready?

00:20:22Yeah, I'm ready.

00:20:22You've got this.

00:20:23You've got this, Kim.

00:20:24And you know I'm good at pulling.

00:20:26Okay, go.

00:20:26This is a deal breaker, by the way.

00:20:28Oh, f***.

00:20:30Okay.

00:20:31Yeah.

00:20:31Okay.

00:20:33Oh, f***.

00:20:35All right.

00:20:36Kim, you're scot's there, right?

00:20:37But well done.

00:20:38Thank you for saying it out loud.

00:20:39Appreciate it.

00:20:40All right, so boom, boom.

00:20:42All right.

00:20:42Jamal's going to get it.

00:20:43Watch.

00:20:44Come on.

00:20:47Oh!

00:20:48Hey!

00:20:49Wow, good job!

00:20:52Some competition there, Wayne.

00:20:53Yeah.

00:20:54That's eight.

00:20:58Oh, yay!

00:20:59Hey!

00:21:01Whoa, whoa!

00:21:04She's bowling.

00:21:05I love it.

00:21:06Dota.

00:21:07I'm going to fix that.

00:21:07I let her go again.

00:21:08That was crazy.

00:21:10Skittles is a really fun game, and it's a good way to let loose, break the ice a little bit.

00:21:14Throw it.

00:21:15Throw it underhand.

00:21:16You got it.

00:21:17Oh!

00:21:18Oh!

00:21:19Oh!

00:21:20Good job!

00:21:21You know the best part?

00:21:23Watching Wayne be, like, competitive and, like, watching his arm muscles, like, throw the ball.

00:21:29I was like, hey, Wayne.

00:21:33Hey, I'm standing right over here.

00:21:36Hi, cutie.

00:21:40So what made you want to come to meet my dad?

00:21:43We just, I don't know, it was really weird, because you just popped up on my social media

00:21:46one day, and then I sent him a DM, and we started talking pretty quick, like, every day.

00:21:50Yeah.

00:21:51Wow.

00:21:51And then, yeah, he invited me to come here, so here I am.

00:21:54Okay.

00:21:54All the way from America, it's me.

00:21:55Isn't that weird for you guys?

00:21:57Yeah.

00:21:57Really?

00:21:58Do you normally move quite fast?

00:22:01No.

00:22:02No.

00:22:03I have in the past.

00:22:05I have in the past.

00:22:06That's different.

00:22:06I don't know.

00:22:07I have in the past, but I've learned from my past relationships, so, yeah.

00:22:11Well, her last, like, international relationship, I think, moved really way too fast, for sure.

00:22:18Yeah, it did.

00:22:19But he also was not like your dad.

00:22:21He was, let's just say, different.

00:22:24And 20 years younger, too.

00:22:2620 years younger?

00:22:28Oh, wow.

00:22:28Yeah.

00:22:30So you both like them younger, then?

00:22:31Because I feel like my dad used to go for younger women.

00:22:34Oh, I didn't know that.

00:22:36I used to attract younger women.

00:22:38Okay.

00:22:39And you would just feel attraction back.

00:22:42It's okay.

00:22:43I attract older women, younger women.

00:22:44It's fine.

00:22:45You know how it is.

00:22:47Okay.

00:22:47But, like, I've seen, like, everything great.

00:22:50You know what I mean?

00:22:50I've seen everything great.

00:22:51He's really honest with me when I've asked him questions about, like, red flags and stuff.

00:22:55What do you guys see as, like, a red flag?

00:22:59Oh, you don't want to know.

00:23:01I'm just joking.

00:23:03I think sometimes you will really like somebody and then kind of change yourself

00:23:09to be how they want to be.

00:23:10Oh, no.

00:23:10Like, when you dated a vegetarian.

00:23:12Oh, no.

00:23:13That's what we found.

00:23:14That, you know, after a certain amount of time, he's not acting like himself.

00:23:19And then he becomes unhappy in the relationship.

00:23:22I get it.

00:23:23Yeah, yeah.

00:23:23You think they are?

00:23:24Well, I can guarantee you I want him to be his own person.

00:23:26Like, I don't want him to morph into me or me to morph into him.

00:23:29Anything else?

00:23:30I think you go into every relationship expecting people to have no baggage.

00:23:34Yeah.

00:23:34When sometimes that just isn't realistic.

00:23:37In fact, it's not realistic at all.

00:23:41My heart just sunk.

00:23:43Because I don't really want to call my children baggage, but I do have baggage.

00:23:48So we're just taking it slow, but I felt like it was, we both thought it was time for us

00:23:53to just meet in person, just to see, like, why keep going on, you know?

00:23:57Yeah.

00:23:58So that was really nice of us all getting together.

00:24:00It was.

00:24:00But you guys have got to get home.

00:24:02Yeah.

00:24:02Thank you for coming, driving up here to meet me.

00:24:05I feel so special, so thank you.

00:24:06Thank you for flying.

00:24:08Nice to meet you.

00:24:08You love me.

00:24:09Thank you so much.

00:24:11What kind of person in their 50s doesn't have baggage?

00:24:14We all have past relationships.

00:24:15We all have past trauma.

00:24:17All right.

00:24:17Nice to meet you.

00:24:18Kim, I'll see you tomorrow.

00:24:19All right.

00:24:20I'll see you tomorrow.

00:24:21All right.

00:24:21Get them home safe.

00:24:22Nobody comes into a relationship perfect.

00:24:25Nobody does.

00:24:27Are you ready to go?

00:24:28Yeah, I'm ready to go.

00:24:29Okay.

00:24:31Now I'm starting to see why Wayne is single.

00:24:36Okay, mama drank two ciders.

00:24:38All right.

00:24:38Let's get out of here.

00:24:51I'm about to do something really big tonight.

00:24:54I need to have closure for myself and move forward in my life.

00:25:01And this is how I can do that.

00:25:14I really want to get this weight off my shoulders and, you know, take action tonight.

00:25:22Ultimately, I know things didn't work out between Natalie and I, but I'm not going to

00:25:29give up on love because I know there's someone out there for me.

00:25:33I just got to go find her.

00:25:35But tonight I have something that's very important that I really need to focus my attention on.

00:25:42Hello.

00:25:44Hi.

00:25:53Jeez.

00:25:55Is there anything I can help you with today?

00:25:57I'm not sure I'm in the right place here.

00:26:00When you came in, I immediately got a vibe of, like, a renewal, a fresh start.

00:26:05We do have green adventuring, which is for good luck.

00:26:09If you wanted to, like, take a look at these, maybe hold them in your hand, see if you can

00:26:14feel, like, the weight, the energy, if one, like, feels better than the other.

00:26:19Wow.

00:26:21Um, actually, the reason I'm here is to see my lawyer.

00:26:26Oh, absolutely.

00:26:28Let me go get them.

00:26:29Mm-hmm.

00:26:31Did I wake up in Oz?

00:26:32Because, I mean, I'm seeing quartz rocks, candles, weird jewelry.

00:26:40Where am I?

00:26:41This does not feel like a lawyer's office.

00:26:44Gino, right?

00:26:45Hey, Thomas.

00:26:47Pleasure to meet you in person.

00:26:48Finally, nice to meet you in person.

00:26:50For the last few weeks, I've been searching for a lawyer because I'm finally ready to file

00:26:55for a divorce from Jasmine.

00:26:57I walked in here and I was like, am I in the right place?

00:27:02It can be a little confusing.

00:27:03The idea behind it is law is very stressful, so I want to try to get you as relaxed as

00:27:07possible.

00:27:09My friend referred me to Thomas.

00:27:11He has very good credentials, graduated from Harvard, and the fact that he owns this crystal

00:27:19shop is freaking awesome.

00:27:22Why don't you step into my office?

00:27:24Oh, no kidding.

00:27:24Secret door.

00:27:25Secret door.

00:27:26Wow, how cool is this?

00:27:29I'm Tom.

00:27:30I've been an attorney for roughly 13 years, but my day-to-day life, I'm a spiritual explorer.

00:27:36I've studied basically everything from hypnosis.

00:27:39I'm certified in Reiki.

00:27:41That helps me in my law practice because if you're able to handle high levels of stress,

00:27:46it gives you a huge advantage.

00:27:48So Monday, I might be doing meditation, Tuesday yoga, but by Thursday, I'll definitely be back

00:27:53in the courtroom.

00:27:55So, Gino, I know we have a lot to go through.

00:27:57Where would you like to start?

00:28:00Well, actually, I did speak to a lawyer once before I hired you, and he told me that because

00:28:08Jasmine had a baby with another guy during our marriage, I'm presumed to be the father

00:28:16of the child legally.

00:28:17Yeah, unfortunately, that is true.

00:28:20And so now you're going to be responsible for child support unless we take care of it.

00:28:24From what I hear, and my understanding is I can take a DNA test and prove that I'm not

00:28:29the father and clear my name.

00:28:32But she had the child in Florida, so, you know, I don't know what kind of wrench that throws

00:28:37into the whole thing.

00:28:38Here, I feel like if you had your paternity test, we could easily get that taken care

00:28:42of for you.

00:28:44But as for what Florida law says, I'm not going to lie to you, we'll have to research

00:28:47it.

00:28:47We may have to consult with a Florida lawyer.

00:28:49So it's going to get very, very complex.

00:28:52The longer you wait, unfortunately, if she could take out debt, that could become half

00:28:56yours.

00:28:57I mean, the situation just gets worse, you know, as time passes.

00:29:01Oh, my gosh.

00:29:02I didn't know how serious some of this stuff is.

00:29:04Yeah.

00:29:05Yeah.

00:29:05I mean, I've waited too long already.

00:29:08I need to file, like, now.

00:29:11This possibly could be one of the most complicated divorces I've ever tried to tackle.

00:29:16There's a child out of wedlock.

00:29:18There's two different states.

00:29:20There's immigration issues.

00:29:21And there's premarital significant assets to separate out between both parties.

00:29:26And so I'm trying to put some Band-Aids on things, but I'm not going to lie.

00:29:31It's probably going to be a pretty painful divorce.

00:29:34Do you think I would have to end up seeing this narcissist in court?

00:29:42If everybody agrees, you can get out with one hearing.

00:29:45However, there could be multiple hearings, and it could proceed all the way to trial.

00:29:50Divorces can usually get as nasty as somebody wants to make them.

00:29:54I think she's going to try to hurt me as much as she can, you know, destroy me.

00:29:59But, you know, I'm ready for it.

00:30:01I'll give her a fight.

00:30:05What I think a good game plan for us legally is, is we rush and file this complaint.

00:30:09We try to serve her as quick as we can, and then take it from there here in Michigan.

00:30:13Does that sound like a good plan?

00:30:15Yeah, that, I'm definitely all in, because I don't want to wait any longer.

00:30:21Marrying Jasmine was the biggest mistake of my freaking life.

00:30:27But I am going to get out of this mess, because today I am filing for a divorce, finally.

00:30:34I think you're going to feel a lot better once we get you through this process.

00:30:37Yeah, yeah, I will, for sure.

00:30:42You don't have to choose to go, just go away.

00:30:49I understand he's upset for sure.

00:30:51I'm not saying he's not valid for feeling that way.

00:30:53He is.

00:30:54It's just annoying, because I like him.

00:30:56But you don't know, maybe he's, he brought you back.

00:30:58You don't know, your phone right there.

00:31:00So maybe we need to check it.

00:31:01I don't have to check my phone so many times.

00:31:03Can we check it now?

00:31:04Last time, because now I feel stupid.

00:31:06Let's go, last time checking.

00:31:09I'm just a little bit fragile.

00:31:12I'm just a little bit fragile.

00:31:18Let's see if you text me.

00:31:20I'm scared.

00:31:23You're going to look first?

00:31:25You want me to look first?

00:31:26Look.

00:31:30He hasn't texted me.

00:31:32Look, there's no text.

00:31:34Oh, he's online.

00:31:35He texts me now?

00:31:36No.

00:31:37One second.

00:31:37Can I look now?

00:31:38Can I look now?

00:31:38Can I look?

00:31:39I just want to look.

00:31:43Julia.

00:31:48Sophie?

00:31:49I need to answer.

00:31:51She can do whatever she wants right now.

00:31:53He hung up.

00:31:54No answer.

00:31:55He hung up.

00:31:56You're upset?

00:31:57You know, it's just like, yeah, I am upset.

00:31:59I'm upset, because I just called him.

00:32:00He's not answering me.

00:32:02Like, I still wanted to build on my connection with him.

00:32:05You know, he wants a relationship.

00:32:07I do.

00:32:08Eventually, I do want a relationship, you know?

00:32:11Because it could get to a point where I'd want to be with him, and I'd be ready.

00:32:18What are you doing?

00:32:20What are you doing?

00:32:20I'm parking.

00:32:22I'm parking on my .

00:32:25I'm supposed to leave the DR tomorrow, but I change my flight.

00:32:29I'm going to leave it right now.

00:32:32Last night, she sent me a text like, are you fine?

00:32:36I didn't answer.

00:32:38And this morning, she's sending another text.

00:32:41Say, are you hating me?

00:32:44Yeah.

00:33:02She used me like a paper towel.

00:33:04She wore her ass and threw me away.

00:33:07She break my hand completely.

00:33:10She chattered my hand in pieces.

00:33:13I know I'm going to be okay, but I will be okay.

00:33:16If I suffer from my divorce, you know, this is like a little rock in my way.

00:33:21It's nothing else.

00:33:23Telling to see you later.

00:33:25She can enjoy the other guys.

00:33:30Because, you know, I got some dignity.

00:33:32I got a lot of dignity.

00:33:36I got a lot of dignity.

00:33:44Something made me feel like a freaking idiot.

00:33:46And my mom and my sister, they were right.

00:33:50She's nothing good.

00:33:51I was freaking blind.

00:33:53And I was my time with somebody that doesn't deserve it.

00:34:25I'm not giving up about love.

00:34:25I'm not giving up about you.

00:34:26Don't f*** your body.

00:34:28I'm going to go to the portas de Domingo.

00:34:29I'm going to go to the ship.

00:34:39You're welcome.

00:34:43I'm excited to see your house.

00:34:45I'm very nervous about cooking.

00:34:47Why?

00:34:48Well, it's the first time I've cooked somebody.

00:34:50Really?

00:34:51That's not my kids or family.

00:34:52It's all right.

00:34:53Don't be noticed.

00:34:54It's going to be great.

00:34:55And if you mess it up, we'll just order some food.

00:35:10It was really a pleasure to meet your daughters last night.

00:35:13Yeah.

00:35:13They sent me a message and said that it was nice meeting you as well.

00:35:16Oh, did they really?

00:35:17Yeah.

00:35:17Oh, that's nice.

00:35:18I really think things went well with Wayne's daughters.

00:35:20But they told me a couple things that gave me a little pause.

00:35:24Like, he can't handle a woman with baggage.

00:35:26And I'm like, oh, honey, I have all the bags.

00:35:29All of them.

00:35:31No women are going to run out of your bedroom already.

00:35:33No.

00:35:33Okay.

00:35:35Just be careful you don't slip over.

00:35:37Oh, it's icy.

00:35:38Yeah.

00:35:38Now I'm starting to get doubtful.

00:35:40Like, is he going to accept me for everything that I am?

00:35:43Oh, this is so cute.

00:35:45It's a bachelor pad.

00:35:46That's what we call it.

00:35:47Oh, look at your little squirrel door knocker.

00:35:52That's so cute.

00:35:54This is my umbrella boat.

00:35:55I love it.

00:35:56I love your kitchen.

00:35:57I love the color.

00:35:58It's so cute.

00:35:59Is that me and Jamal?

00:36:01Yeah.

00:36:01Can I see it?

00:36:02I thought I'd do a little surprise for you.

00:36:03What is this?

00:36:04Aw.

00:36:06It's that picture you sent me, and I've got somebody to draw it.

00:36:08Aw, thank you.

00:36:09That's so cute.

00:36:10I love it.

00:36:12The first thing I saw was this sketch of me and Jamal, and I'm like, what the f***?

00:36:16Is he stalking me?

00:36:17Like, is this like a Silence of the Lambs vibe?

00:36:19I got to go.

00:36:21Who drew this?

00:36:22Uh, one of my friend's daughters.

00:36:25Wow.

00:36:28I don't want to be a bit.

00:36:30You're keeping this here, though, right?

00:36:32No, that's a gift for you.

00:36:33Oh, is it for me?

00:36:33Yeah.

00:36:34Oh, I love it.

00:36:35It's very thoughtful.

00:36:36I've never had that done for me.

00:36:38But it's like, do I look that old?

00:36:41Do I have that many wrinkles?

00:36:44So what are we, what are you cooking?

00:36:46It's Jamaican chicken and rice.

00:36:48It's my mom's recipe.

00:36:50Oh, okay.

00:36:51And I promise it won't be too spicy.

00:36:53Okay.

00:36:54I don't do it the professional way.

00:36:55You don't have to do it the professional way.

00:36:58I've never, ever, ever had a man just cook just for me.

00:37:02And I feel, like, so special, and I feel, like, appreciated.

00:37:08You sure you don't want to spice it up?

00:37:09You can spice it up.

00:37:10No, I'm not putting it too spicy for you.

00:37:13But I'm getting really, really nervous.

00:37:15We have to have a conversation about if we're going to be in a relationship.

00:37:19And I have to tell him about the children I placed for adoption.

00:37:22And I feel like everything's just starting to bubble up.

00:37:26So I'm going to let that simmer.

00:37:27Do you want to have a little sit down and chill?

00:37:29Sure, sure.

00:37:29I can have a break from cooking, then.

00:37:31Oh, my gosh.

00:37:31It was so nice to watch you do that.

00:37:33I just feel like everything is just going to start word vomiting out of my mouth.

00:37:38There you go.

00:37:40This is nice.

00:37:41Yeah.

00:37:42So how do you think this week went?

00:37:45Um, so far, so good.

00:37:47So far, so good.

00:37:47I leave tomorrow.

00:37:49No, I mean, like, I don't know.

00:37:52Like, I had such a good time.

00:37:53Like, with you, I just feel like it's such a good fit.

00:37:56Yeah.

00:37:57You know, I really do.

00:37:58Like, I love being in your company.

00:38:00It's gone very quick, which is a good thing.

00:38:02So sometimes I think, and if you're talking to someone and it's dragging, that means you're

00:38:07not enjoying it.

00:38:07Yeah, we haven't had that.

00:38:08And it's just like, it's just gone just like that.

00:38:10Like, how do you feel about the long distance thing?

00:38:13Like, are you willing to give this a try and try it out?

00:38:16Yeah, what we're doing so far, I think, is working.

00:38:20Mm-hmm.

00:38:21So, it'd be nice if we do see each other again.

00:38:25Yeah?

00:38:26Yeah.

00:38:26Okay.

00:38:27So are you like my man now?

00:38:29My boyfriend?

00:38:30Yeah.

00:38:34Um, I like not to put no pressure on stuff, though.

00:38:39That's important to me.

00:38:40And sometimes relationships scare me.

00:38:45I've been on my own for a while, and I've enjoyed it on my own.

00:38:48Um, so I don't want the, I don't want the pressure of, we're doing this, we're doing

00:38:53that.

00:38:53Oh, no, no.

00:38:54He is not saying that we are boyfriend and girlfriend, but we're not seeing anybody else.

00:38:59So technically, in my head, we're in a relationship.

00:39:02But the last thing I want to do is put pressure on Wayne, because I know that is a surefire

00:39:07way

00:39:07to kill a relationship.

00:39:09I think we try it out, see what happens.

00:39:12And if it doesn't work, it doesn't work.

00:39:13We'll be great friends.

00:39:14You know what I mean?

00:39:15But I like you.

00:39:16I'm interested in you.

00:39:17I feel the connection with you.

00:39:18And like...

00:39:24So there is one thing before we continue that I want to tell you about.

00:39:28And it's not easy.

00:39:29I'm sorry.

00:39:31It's very, very, um...

00:39:35Sorry.

00:39:36I didn't know it was going to be this hard.

00:39:38Sorry.

00:39:39Give me a second.

00:39:41I have other children.

00:39:42I put up for adoption.

00:39:44Oh, well.

00:39:45Please don't judge me.

00:39:46Okay?

00:39:59Today is a big day.

00:40:03I feel like my life is about to take a really good turn in the right direction.

00:40:22Today I brought my natural charm and also a little science with me, too.

00:40:29So this is pheromone spray, and this is supposed to attract the ladies.

00:40:38Since breaking up with Natalie, it's taken me some time, but I finally have started talking

00:40:44to women online, and I've actually met someone that I'm really interested in.

00:40:50I have to give it the test.

00:40:52I feel like Lexi and I, we just have a natural chemistry together, and we talk every day.

00:40:59At first, we decided to meet up as friends, and we had such a good time together.

00:41:05Whew.

00:41:06I had to ask her out on a date.

00:41:09Heck yeah.

00:41:12You know, extra.

00:41:14Hopefully, she will say something like, Gino, you make me crazy.

00:41:19I think she's going to like this.

00:41:26I'm very excited.

00:41:28I still have some nerves about, like, what's going to happen, you know?

00:41:32Is this going to turn out good, or is it not going to be good?

00:41:38I see you like a shooting star, I'm afraid of that if I think that I could miss it all.

00:41:45Holy cow.

00:41:46Good to see you.

00:41:47Nice to see you.

00:41:49Oh, my God.

00:41:50How are we doing?

00:41:51I'm good.

00:41:52How are you?

00:41:53You look beautiful.

00:41:55Gosh.

00:41:57I think they actually have a wine tasting room in here.

00:42:01Yes.

00:42:02This should be fun.

00:42:03I've never been in the winery.

00:42:04The last time, I was just looking at the animals.

00:42:07When Gino first wrote me on the app, I figured, why not?

00:42:12It was fun getting to know each other.

00:42:15We had really good conversations.

00:42:18Ooh, those look good.

00:42:20I really like his sense of humor.

00:42:23I kind of have a quirky sense of humor, too, so we decided to meet up.

00:42:29Hi.

00:42:30Have you decided what you'd like?

00:42:31Oh, yeah.

00:42:32I think so.

00:42:34All right.

00:42:34Can we start with your ID, please?

00:42:36Yeah.

00:42:36All right.

00:42:39Aren't you going to ask me for my ID?

00:42:42Well, I could check it if you insist.

00:42:45No, that's only if you need to check my ID.

00:42:48If you look like me, sweetheart, we're good.

00:42:51I am 56 years old, and Lexi is 30, and that's a lot, okay?

00:42:58It is a lot.

00:42:59But, I mean, when I'm with Lexi, I do not feel like we have a 26-year age difference.

00:43:06And, honestly, I feel like age doesn't even matter.

00:43:08Is the age difference thing, like, is that a problem for you yourself?

00:43:14For me, I don't really have any problems with it, but I would be a little concerned about what my

00:43:20family might think.

00:43:33What happens, like, if your dad, what if your dad kicks your ass?

00:43:38No, like, what if your dad, he might do that.

00:43:41He might do that.

00:43:42I think if your dad likes me as a person, you know, maybe age won't matter to him.

00:43:49Yeah.

00:43:53She's saying, give me a drink, but let's have a toast.

00:43:57Yes.

00:43:58To new beginnings.

00:44:00New beginnings.

00:44:01Yeah.

00:44:01Yeah, new beginnings.

00:44:02That's a good one.

00:44:06I know you mentioned before, but have you been to a lot of orchards around this area?

00:44:11Yeah.

00:44:12Mila really likes coming to them.

00:44:14She loves feeding the animals.

00:44:16I'm a single mom.

00:44:17I have a four-year-old daughter.

00:44:19So if I'm going to be in a relationship with somebody, it's absolutely mandatory that they

00:44:24would have a good relationship with my daughter.

00:44:26I feel like he would be really good with kids.

00:44:30So speaking of animals, if you were an animal, what kind of animal would you be?

00:44:36I've always wanted to be like a cheetah, like running across the landscape 70 miles an hour.

00:44:44You know, being a cheetah, um, it doesn't really make sense.

00:44:51He's more like a platypus.

00:44:57Do you want to go see the animals?

00:44:59Of course.

00:45:00Let's go.

00:45:01Let's go.

00:45:05Animal.

00:45:07Is this my bag of food?

00:45:09Oh, look at it.

00:45:10He's ready.

00:45:13That's good.

00:45:15Aw.

00:45:17My daughter would love feeding these guys.

00:45:20I would like to meet her.

00:45:22Mm-hmm.

00:45:23Yeah.

00:45:24That would be fun.

00:45:27You know, obviously, this is only our very first date, but to me, like, the benefits of

00:45:34dating a younger woman like Lexi, I could have a baby with this person naturally.

00:45:41Oh, my God.

00:45:42I feel like a little kid again.

00:45:44And have the child that I've always wanted to have.

00:45:48Is this your first date in a corn maze?

00:45:51Yeah, it's the corniest date I've ever been on.

00:45:53I mean, look at it all.

00:45:56We made it.

00:45:58My divorce is in process now, and I feel free.

00:46:06Well, I had a lot of fun on our date today.

00:46:10I had a lot of fun, too.

00:46:11Yeah?

00:46:12Yeah, I would love to go on more dates with you.

00:46:15Goodbye.

00:46:20Well, goodbye.

00:46:22Goodbye.

00:46:25Oh, that was fast.

00:46:28Do I get one more quick one?

00:46:31Oh, my God.

00:46:33Maybe next time.

00:46:34Maybe next time?

00:46:35Yeah.

00:46:37Okay.

00:46:40I have a good feeling about Lexi, but if it doesn't work out, I'm okay, because I know

00:46:48there's a woman out there for me.

00:46:51Good night.

00:46:51Bye.

00:46:54Honestly, I'm hopeful for the future for the first time in a very long time.

00:47:03I got a kiss.

00:47:05Woo!

00:47:08I had an amazing time here with you, and I don't regret any of it.

00:47:13Like, what if I just pushed this amazing guy away, and, like, I lost my chance to have

00:47:19my forever?

00:47:21How are you feeling now?

00:47:22I mean, I guess I'll just come out and say it.

00:47:29I don't think I'll be okay when all these thoughts of you still ain't done I'll remember.

00:47:41It's a little bit bittersweet to be packing right now.

00:47:45I've had some great highlights on this trip, but also it's just so nice to be able to go home.

00:48:17Hey, cutie.

00:48:18Hey.

00:48:20How are you?

00:48:22I'm good.

00:48:23You good?

00:48:24Yeah.

00:48:26When it came down to this trip, I wanted to be open to anything and everything that came my way.

00:48:31But never in a million years did I think that I'd be someone who'd be in some type of love

00:48:37triangle.

00:48:40How are you?

00:48:43I'm good.

00:48:44I mean, I haven't finished packing yet.

00:48:46Well, I haven't even started.

00:48:47Jeez.

00:48:48I'm mad at myself.

00:48:50I can be hurting two people right now.

00:48:53It's just such a tricky situation to put myself in.

00:48:56Oh.

00:49:01So, how are you feeling now?

00:49:05I have, like, an anxious feeling in my stomach.

00:49:13I don't know if it's just hot outside or I'm just anxious.

00:49:29I think you really just came into my life unexpectedly and we've had nothing but good times.

00:49:36But I feel like I need to be true to myself and try to pursue anything long term.

00:49:43It's not, it's not, it's not in the cards for me.

00:49:48Okay.

00:49:49Okay.

00:49:50Well, what, I mean, what made you, I guess, decide that now?

00:49:59I think a lot of it does still have to do with, like, my sickness and everything that just scares

00:50:04me to, like, have to try to do that with someone who is long distance.

00:50:10I don't want you to think that I led you on, and I'm really sorry if I hurt you in

00:50:15any way.

00:50:21It sucks.

00:50:28I mean, I understood from the beginning.

00:50:31I mean, I kind of felt it couldn't end this way.

00:50:36You and I just met.

00:50:39You have a lot more back home.

00:50:41You know, what am I right now?

00:50:43I'm just a friend.

00:50:58As much as I do have feelings for VIA, it's just way too complicated for me right now.

00:51:04I have a child.

00:51:05He has a child.

00:51:06We live on opposite sides of the country.

00:51:09And there are days when my sickness takes a toll on me, and I want someone who can be there

00:51:16by my side.

00:51:20I've fought really hard to make relationships in the past work, and, like, I don't have any more fight left

00:51:28in me, especially while being sick.

00:51:33Honestly, no hard feelings don't feel bad.

00:51:36You know, I don't want you to feel, like, any type of pity or anything.

00:51:41I had an amazing time here with you.

00:51:44And, like I said, I don't regret any of it.

00:51:51It's okay.

00:51:53It does feel really bad.

00:51:55It's okay.

00:52:00I'm sorry.

00:52:02Don't be sorry.

00:52:03Don't be.

00:52:07There's nothing to be sorry about.

00:52:08You're such a good person.

00:52:13You just became a huge part of my life, and I don't think you understand how much you did help

00:52:17change me through all this, so.

00:52:21I'm glad you're saying that, because I'll at least know that.

00:52:26And I appreciate you for that as well.

00:52:33Crazy for you, it was whirlwinds of lightning.

00:52:37I'm shocked.

00:52:39I felt we had something.

00:52:41Liz was a genuine person with me, and I fell in love with Liz.

00:52:48I think we could probably be something and work something out, be together, whatever.

00:52:56Yeah, it sucks.

00:52:58It does suck.

00:53:01You know, me and the girls are heading home, so I'm going to miss you.

00:53:05I know, I know I'm going to miss you, for sure.

00:53:09Weird.

00:53:19Great.

00:53:20That we do?

00:53:20I hope you take your stuff home.

00:53:22Yes, please.

00:53:24I'm going to carry your purse.

00:53:26Are you going to carry my purse?

00:53:28I'll carry your purse.

00:53:30I think my biggest fear is, like, going home and realizing that, like, our love wasn't just a love on

00:53:35vacation, that it could have been something more.

00:53:39Why is it that this one seems heavier than this one?

00:53:42I don't ask questions.

00:53:44I am a female.

00:53:46Like, what if I just push this amazing guy away, and, like, I lost my chance to, like, have my

00:53:55forever?

00:53:57I'm just hoping that when I get home, I don't realize that I made one of the biggest mistakes of

00:54:02my life.

00:54:11I'd absolutely hate myself if I made the wrong decision.

00:54:16All right.

00:54:17Let's get you home.

00:54:42Sorry.

00:54:42Give me a second.

00:54:44I have other children.

00:54:45I put up for adoption.

00:54:47Oh, wow.

00:54:48Please don't judge me, okay?

00:54:52They're Jamal's full brother and full sister.

00:54:56I have a son, Larry.

00:54:58He found me through, like, one of those DNA websites.

00:55:01And I had a daughter after that.

00:55:04Uh-huh.

00:55:06It's not like I was really irresponsible.

00:55:08I was with the same man for years.

00:55:11And he was just not there.

00:55:13You know, if I would have had somebody like you, it would have been a totally different story.

00:55:16But I didn't have that.

00:55:17I was by myself all the time.

00:55:19You know?

00:55:19But it's, like, my past, and it's my baggage.

00:55:22But when you said that yesterday...

00:55:23Can I have to say something?

00:55:24Don't use the word baggage.

00:55:27Just use the word, it's yesterday.

00:55:29It's your life.

00:55:29It's what happened.

00:55:32It's not baggage.

00:55:33Baggage is a horrible word to use.

00:55:35It's just history.

00:55:36Well, it was brought up yesterday.

00:55:38Yeah.

00:55:39And it was like, I just feel like this is who I am.

00:55:41And either you accept me for all of this or you don't.

00:55:44You know?

00:55:45It's just that simple.

00:55:46Yeah.

00:55:47I know it's a big deal to you.

00:55:48I see.

00:55:49Because you've gone through it all and you've lived it.

00:55:51Yeah.

00:55:52To me, it's not that much of a big deal.

00:55:55I can do it on my own.

00:55:57I honestly can do it on my own.

00:56:00I'm happy you told me.

00:56:02Well, I've got a pass.

00:56:03Some people's pass is different than other people's.

00:56:05But it's hard to talk about for me.

00:56:07And now I feel like I can trust you and I can talk to you about it.

00:56:10You know?

00:56:10Yeah.

00:56:11I don't feel no different about Kim after what she's told me tonight.

00:56:15I'm not that sort of person.

00:56:17I don't judge people.

00:56:18I don't like people to judge me.

00:56:20She's had a past.

00:56:22We've all got a past.

00:56:24And all I'm concentrating on now is the future.

00:56:28You're okay?

00:56:29You sure?

00:56:29Yeah.

00:56:29Yeah, I'm fine.

00:56:30But I felt like if we're going to take this further, then I needed to tell you.

00:56:34I wasn't going to keep it.

00:56:35You're fine.

00:56:37We're good.

00:56:38We're good.

00:56:38Cheers.

00:56:39Cheers.

00:56:40Can I just down this now?

00:56:43I feel better, actually.

00:56:46Right now, I see this person in front of me.

00:56:48And I see someone that's really, really strong.

00:56:52Someone that's been through a lot in life.

00:56:54And they come out of it.

00:56:55And they're still breathing.

00:56:59That looks so good.

00:57:02You like juice on it?

00:57:03Yeah.

00:57:05I never thought that I would find somebody that would be so accepting

00:57:09of my past.

00:57:12And now I know that Wayne likes me and that he accepts me for who I am.

00:57:15All right.

00:57:16Let me try.

00:57:20Oh.

00:57:22It's really good.

00:57:24I'm impressed.

00:57:24I'm going to take you home with me and my suitcase now.

00:57:26Okay?

00:57:28He's just a wonderful, wonderful guy.

00:57:31And this is what I deserve.

00:57:32I've waited a long time for this.

00:57:34Oh, I hate the fact I have such an early flight tomorrow.

00:57:37I know.

00:57:38You know, you're welcome to stay here tonight.

00:57:40I'll home.

00:57:42I would.

00:57:43But I'm really tired.

00:57:44And I do have an early flight.

00:57:45I think I'm emotionally tired, too.

00:57:48Yeah, I'll get that.

00:57:48Is it okay?

00:57:49Do you mind taking me home?

00:57:50Yeah.

00:57:51Yeah, I'll give you a lift back.

00:57:52Are you sure?

00:57:53Okay.

00:57:55Next trip.

00:57:57I wasn't really sure if Wayne and I were going to be intimate on this trip.

00:58:00I mean, I'm very attracted to him.

00:58:02But this just isn't the trip for that.

00:58:05We've talked about so much heavy stuff and established our relationship.

00:58:09But next time I come, look out, Mr. Wayne.

00:58:14You're such a gentleman.

00:58:15You put my jacket on for me.

00:58:18Is this what you do when you're dating someone?

00:58:21Are you just...

00:58:22Seeing someone.

00:58:23My God.

00:58:24Is that the thing?

00:58:25We're seeing each other.

00:58:26Okay.

00:58:26So I won't change my relationship stats.

00:58:29Well, yeah, I will.

00:58:31I'm seeing someone.

00:58:33Hashtag leave me alone.

00:58:34That sounds good.

00:58:36Like all the qualities you have, I'm like, this is exactly what I've been looking for

00:58:40for so long.

00:58:42Tonight, me and Phillip are celebrating our three-month anniversary.

00:58:45The last three months have been very nice together.

00:58:48Now that Colt is out of our relationship, I think we should go to the next level of our

00:58:52relationship.

00:58:53No.

00:58:57No.

00:58:58Are all the stars aligning?

00:59:00Or is it all bad timing?

00:59:02Wish we were on the same page.

00:59:08A heart of gold inside me.

00:59:11Is there a silver lining?

00:59:13Or does it always send this...

00:59:15Hello.

00:59:16You're fine, Jim?

00:59:17Yeah.

00:59:21You okay?

00:59:23Yes, I'm clean and I just want you to go home all the way.

00:59:25Turn home.

00:59:26Me too.

00:59:28Let's go.

00:59:28We know we've reached the end before we begin.

00:59:34And you're in the middle of your head.

00:59:37He still doesn't respond?

00:59:39No.

00:59:40He's had time now.

00:59:41He's had space now.

00:59:43How it's like coming from I want to be with you, I want everything for you, like, to I ghosting

00:59:48you, I ignoring you.

00:59:49Like, say something.

00:59:51If this hurt him that much, really, he should be like, look, Sophie, this has really hurt

00:59:55me.

00:59:55Moving forward, I want us to be exclusive.

00:59:58Don't kiss anyone else.

01:00:00Yeah.

01:00:00Or he could be like, Sophie, that really hurt me.

01:00:03This isn't worth it to me.

01:00:04Walk away.

01:00:05At least say something, but he ain't just saying nothing.

01:00:07Yeah.

01:00:09You know, I would just continue being single, like I want to do anyway, so.

01:00:14I was honest with Pedro from the start about what I was ready for and my intentions.

01:00:19He's the one that chose to just not listen to me and make assumptions about our relationship.

01:00:23Let's go.

01:00:25But looking back, me even just coming to the DR, I could see why maybe that would give him

01:00:30the wrong impression.

01:00:31And, you know, if that's the case, I am sorry.

01:00:34Like, I never wanted to lead him on.

01:00:36If I could do things over, I probably wouldn't have come.

01:00:47Look at you, lovebirds.

01:00:50Lovebirds.

01:00:51Lovebirds.

01:00:52A lot in this expression in America.

01:00:56Well, Vivian and I talked and, yeah, we're parting our ways.

01:01:03What?

01:01:03We're going to be parting our ways.

01:01:05What does this mean?

01:01:09What is part?

01:01:10We're parting our ways.

01:01:12Like, we're just going to be friends.

01:01:14Ah, you decided to be friends?

01:01:16Yeah.

01:01:17We're just friends.

01:01:19Yeah.

01:01:20I mean, at least you have something good from the strip.

01:01:22You have a friend.

01:01:23Yeah.

01:01:24Yeah.

01:01:29All right.

01:01:30Let's go.

01:01:31All right.

01:01:38Friends.

01:01:39Okay.

01:01:41I'm going to miss you.

01:01:42I wish you all, too.

01:01:46All right.

01:01:47Well, this is goodbye.

01:01:50Hold on.

01:01:50Move up a little bit.

01:01:52Oh.

01:01:54What are you saying?

01:01:55Excuse me.

01:01:57You're good.

01:01:58I'm good.

01:01:58I'm good for the...

01:02:00You girls, we save, okay?

01:02:02Bye.

01:02:09Please, how are you actually feeling?

01:02:11It's just, like, hard, because it's, like, we, like, you know, he developed feelings, and, like, he was really sad.

01:02:15Like, I...

01:02:16You're sad, too.

01:02:17I'm sad, too.

01:02:18But I guess I did get something out of this trip.

01:02:22Did you learn something from this trip?

01:02:28I think I'm going to...

01:02:30I think I'm going to...

01:02:32I think I'm going to just take some time that I need still a bit for myself to figure out

01:02:35what I actually want.

01:02:37But then I definitely want to try dating again.

01:02:42You want to take this ball with you?

01:02:44Let's just remind you of Pedro.

01:02:45No.

01:02:47A right man is out there for you, and when it's the right time, he will find you.

01:02:52Now I know.

01:02:53If I see even a tiny red flag, bu-bye.

01:02:56Block.

01:02:57Block.

01:02:58Who's picking you up from the airport?

01:03:00My dog.

01:03:02He will become a sign.

01:03:04Just be the only man, only boy that you should be excited for for a little bit.

01:03:08Live your life.

01:03:10Next ghost trip, no voice allowed.

01:03:15All right, we should have just did a trip.

01:03:17I don't want to miss my head.

01:03:31That's where we met that bar back there.

01:03:33That's where you originally met.

01:03:34I remember it was like, oh, hey, when I walked by, and then you were kind of like giving me

01:03:38the cold shoulder.

01:03:39I was shy.

01:03:40I didn't have enough nerve to come and talk to you.

01:03:42But then after you left, I was kicking myself.

01:03:44I asked my friend Liz, the bartender, about you, and she said you come in on Fridays.

01:03:48So I went back on Fridays looking for you.

01:03:50For how long?

01:03:52Six months.

01:03:53Oh, wow.

01:03:53Before you came back.

01:03:55That's cute.

01:04:11Hello.

01:04:11Hi.

01:04:12How are you doing tonight?

01:04:12Good.

01:04:13A tube, please.

01:04:14Perfect.

01:04:14Inside or out today?

01:04:15Let's do outside.

01:04:17Outside.

01:04:17You guys can follow me this way.

01:04:20Colt left Phillip's house about a week ago.

01:04:23I have no idea where he went.

01:04:25I blocked him.

01:04:26I don't know if he's in Canada with his mom, Brazil with Diana, Orlando with another girl.

01:04:31Who knows where he is in the world, honestly?

01:04:33And I don't really care.

01:04:35Hi, folks.

01:04:36Welcome in.

01:04:37Hi.

01:04:37How are we doing tonight?

01:04:38Good.

01:04:39How are you?

01:04:39Good, good.

01:04:40You guys want to put in any food at the moment?

01:04:41I think I'm going to do the charcuterie.

01:04:44I'm going to have the oysters.

01:04:46I'll get those put in for you guys.

01:04:49Tonight, me and Phillip are celebrating our three-month anniversary.

01:04:52This is our first date night since Colt left.

01:04:55And I was like, this is the first time I finally feel free in six months.

01:05:02Do you notice a difference in the house now that Colt's gone?

01:05:06Yes.

01:05:07It's peaceful.

01:05:09I mean, he wasn't disturbing us, though.

01:05:12He was just, like, in his room being, like, depressed or, like, fighting with Diana.

01:05:16But now it's just us.

01:05:17Yes.

01:05:18Oh, thank you.

01:05:20That looks so good.

01:05:21You guys enjoy.

01:05:27Suck it.

01:05:29How was that?

01:05:30Good.

01:05:31What do they taste like?

01:05:32Oysters.

01:05:33Oh.

01:05:34Have you ever tried a oyster before?

01:05:36I'm allergic to seafood.

01:05:38I didn't know you were allergic to seafood.

01:05:40We've only been together three months.

01:05:42What don't I know about you?

01:05:44Mmm.

01:05:47My favorite sex position is missionary.

01:05:51Duh.

01:05:51I know that.

01:05:53The sex is great with Phillip.

01:05:56We do it every day.

01:05:58Like, no issues at all.

01:05:58No complaints.

01:05:59Compared to limp over there.

01:06:04Phillip is 66, but he gets easily aroused.

01:06:08Like, he doesn't take any pills.

01:06:09He's just good to go.

01:06:11He's active.

01:06:12He has a lot of energy.

01:06:15He drinks a lot of soda.

01:06:16Maybe, like, a 12-pack a day.

01:06:19Ah!

01:06:20So one thing I didn't know about you was I didn't realize you were so old.

01:06:25When you found out, did it bother you?

01:06:26When I first saw your birth year, I was, like, surprised.

01:06:30But, like, who you are as a person and, like, all the qualities you have, I'm like, this is exactly

01:06:35what I've been looking for for so long.

01:06:37That's good to hear.

01:06:38If we stay together long-term, I'll have more grandkids than my mom.

01:06:44Then you're going to, like, more, because we're going to stay together.

01:06:48The last three months has been very nice together.

01:06:51Now that Colt is out of our relationship, I think we should go to the next level of our relationship.

01:07:00I love you.

01:07:01I want to be with you forever.

01:07:08No.

01:07:09Will you marry me?

01:07:10No.

01:07:12Tell a no or yes?

01:07:14Yes.

01:07:15Yes.

01:07:16Babe.

01:07:18You're now my fiancée.

01:07:20Are you serious?

01:07:21I'm serious.

01:07:26Babe.

01:07:27I love it.

01:07:29Wow.

01:07:30I'm engaged.

01:07:32Cheers.

01:07:33Cheers.

01:07:34To us.

01:07:35To my fiancée.

01:07:37Woo-hoo.

01:07:38So how quickly are we going to get married?

01:07:41Tomorrow?

01:07:42Babe.

01:07:43There's so much I need to plan.

01:07:44I'm like, DJ, photographer, caterer, venue.

01:07:48I just want to enjoy the whole process.

01:07:49I don't want to feel, like, stressed.

01:07:50But I don't want to wait too long.

01:07:52We'll make it happen this year.

01:07:54Yeah.

01:07:55You're what I've been envisioning or, like, waiting for all these years.

01:07:59Like, I didn't want to settle with anybody else.

01:08:02Like, that's why I haven't been engaged or married.

01:08:04Oh, I'm going to cry.

01:08:09I've just waited so long to meet, like, a good man or me.

01:08:17Don't cry.

01:08:20Because, like, I picture my life.

01:08:22I'm like, am I ever going to get engaged?

01:08:24Am I ever going to get married?

01:08:25Am I ever going to find my person?

01:08:29You don't have to worry about that.

01:08:35I don't have to worry about that anymore.

01:08:39Make sure my lashes don't fall off.

01:08:43What a crazy journey.

01:08:45It's been a chaotic six months.

01:08:47Like, I went to a singles retreat in Mexico.

01:08:49Colt broke his leg.

01:08:51He was living with me and my parents.

01:08:53Sending jerk-off videos to other women.

01:08:55He goes to Brazil.

01:08:56He comes back to have surgery.

01:08:58I move him into my boyfriend's house.

01:09:00We kick him out.

01:09:00And then it's like, now I'm here.

01:09:03I think the universe finally rewarded me some good karma.

01:09:10Oh, you made me very happy tonight.

01:09:13Glad I can.

01:09:14Should we go home so I can make you happy?

01:09:16See if the oysters have the effect that they say they do.

01:09:19What effect?

01:09:20Oh, that effect?

01:09:22That's my favorite.

01:09:24Glad you said yes.

01:09:25Because I believe we will have a happy future together.

01:09:28Babe, you're so corny.

01:09:30That's why you love me.

01:09:32Yes.

01:09:33I'm engaged!

01:09:34Woo!

01:09:39I love you.

01:09:45I love you, too.

01:09:48Obviously, it would be nice to live with you.

01:09:51But to me, this is such a weird order of events.

01:09:54Buying a house together, and you're not even making any sort of commitment towards marriage.

01:09:59Like, what am I doing here?

01:10:01It has to happen in my time when I feel comfortable.

01:10:12What to wear?

01:10:13What to wear?

01:10:14Maybe your title will drown me.

01:10:16I feel like I'm okay with that.

01:10:19Even with all these clothes, I always feel like I have nothing to wear for the day.

01:10:24Some choices to start with.

01:10:26More of a ride.

01:10:28So, this pull-up bar is used more for hanging the clothes than it is for actual exercise.

01:10:35Life's much better when we're falling in love, not falling apart.

01:10:42So much better when you're breaking my fall, not breaking my heart.

01:10:47So pretty.

01:10:51When Tony asked me to move in with him last month, I was so excited.

01:10:55Because it seemed like I was the one making all the first steps in this relationship.

01:11:00I was making all the first moves.

01:11:01And he finally asked me to do something, which feels amazing.

01:11:06Oh, it's Tony.

01:11:09Hey, baby.

01:11:10Hi.

01:11:11Hey, baby.

01:11:13Oh, this is good.

01:11:15I love this dress.

01:11:16But then he changed his mind.

01:11:19Instead of me moving into his house, he wants us to start fresh and buy a new house together.

01:11:25Let's do this.

01:11:27So today, we're going to go take a look at a house that he found online.

01:11:32Thank you very much.

01:11:34I'm trying to keep an open mind, but buying a new home together is a much bigger deal than just

01:11:41me moving into his house.

01:11:43This is such a huge decision, you know, tying my finances with him when there's not even an engagement yet.

01:11:52So excited.

01:11:53The beach house had open house hours today, so I thought it would be a good way to be spontaneous

01:11:58and kind of really see what we're really looking at, like, in terms of the future.

01:12:02And, you know, where we might end up and start fresh for us, you know.

01:12:08So I know that you asked me to, like, move in with you.

01:12:12What made you have a change of heart?

01:12:15You've been established in your home for so long, and I have been the same way.

01:12:19And that was kind of more of a gesture saying that, hey, I think it's time for us to just

01:12:22really combine our lives together.

01:12:26And I think this is the best way to start is to look for something new, you know.

01:12:30Yeah.

01:12:33I think it's this one.

01:12:35Oh.

01:12:36All right.

01:12:37This is it.

01:12:39We are here.

01:12:40Are you ready?

01:12:43All right.

01:12:45This is going to be, oh, just getting out of this car is an adventure in itself.

01:12:50Yeah.

01:12:51What do you think?

01:12:52All right, let's take a look.

01:12:53Wow, it's pretty big.

01:12:55Yeah, it's definitely, uh, looks voluminous.

01:12:59Voluminous.

01:12:59Hey, Tony.

01:13:00Yeah.

01:13:01Oh, here we are.

01:13:02Oh.

01:13:02You must be Dwayne.

01:13:03Yeah.

01:13:04Nice to see you.

01:13:05Good to put a face in the name.

01:13:05Yeah, absolutely.

01:13:06Hi, Vanya.

01:13:07Nice to meet you.

01:13:08Nice to meet you as well.

01:13:09Come take a look.

01:13:10I love it, Vanya.

01:13:11It's all about ocean living, right?

01:13:12Ocean living.

01:13:15Oh, my goodness.

01:13:17Look at this light.

01:13:20Incredible.

01:13:22Wow.

01:13:23Wow.

01:13:25It's amazing.

01:13:26So let's just head upstairs.

01:13:27Wow, there's a lot of stairs, so no stair master needed.

01:13:32Whoa.

01:13:33Look at this double door situation.

01:13:35The master quarters.

01:13:36Yeah.

01:13:36Oh, wow.

01:13:38Oh.

01:13:40Like, oh.

01:13:41Bathroom.

01:13:42Oh, my God.

01:13:44With the bathtub.

01:13:45Oh, my God.

01:13:46Look at this bathroom.

01:13:48Soak it in, literally.

01:13:49Oh.

01:13:50Wow.

01:13:51Every room has an amazing view.

01:13:53What the heck?

01:13:53This is beautiful.

01:13:54This is gorgeous.

01:13:57Wow.

01:13:57What I really love is how bright this home is, how full of light it is, how spacious it is.

01:14:03Wow.

01:14:04Oh, my God.

01:14:05This is incredible.

01:14:07The location is right on the beach.

01:14:09It is absolutely spectacular.

01:14:12This house was just meant for me.

01:14:13So I want to let you guys just go down the staircase, enjoy the beach, and then just let me

01:14:19know.

01:14:20Amazing.

01:14:20Thank you so much.

01:14:21However, looking at homes with Tony as just a boyfriend feels very weird to me.

01:14:29You know, this is something that you do at least as a fiance, if not a wife.

01:14:34We're putting the carriage before the horse.

01:14:37And I really don't understand what Tony's thinking.

01:14:42Oh, I love it.

01:14:43I love it.

01:14:44This is spectacular.

01:14:46Stunning.

01:14:47Stunning.

01:14:48I mean.

01:14:49So how did you experience the day?

01:14:52I mean, for me, the whole point of bringing you here was to kind of envision a house for us

01:14:57that we can make things easier for us.

01:15:00I mean, I don't like commuting 45 minutes to work.

01:15:04You know, I want to have some place that we can call home and, you know, think about, obviously, saving

01:15:09time and spending more time together, you know?

01:15:12It just sounds like this is, like, a very practical decision for you.

01:15:17You know, it just sounds like you just want to save time.

01:15:20I'm not saying it's, um, it's just about that.

01:15:25You know, obviously, it would be nice to live with you.

01:15:27But to me, this is such a weird order of events, buying a house together without being engaged.

01:15:35I don't think I can do that.

01:15:36I'm totally not down with that.

01:15:39No, I don't want you to think that I'm not, in a sense, planning that or thinking about that because

01:15:45I am.

01:15:45But we just started dating six months ago.

01:15:48No, we haven't just started dating a few months ago.

01:15:50We've been friends in each other's lives for the last two years.

01:15:54And you're not even making any sort of, you know, commitment towards marriage.

01:15:59Like, what am I doing here?

01:16:01It has to happen in my time when I feel comfortable.

01:16:03And I'm not ready for that step right now.

01:16:11Vanya is ready to be engaged.

01:16:14It's something I'm thinking about.

01:16:16And I really am looking at her as the one.

01:16:19And it's just, I definitely need more time.

01:16:21And I thought house hunting may be an idea of trying to not distract her or sway her away from

01:16:26it, but to show her that we're serious.

01:16:28But now I'm seeing that this definitely backfired.

01:16:32You know, if you don't think it's time for us to get engaged, then it's not time for us to

01:16:35buy a house together.

01:16:36I mean, it's just simple as that.

01:16:37This is a huge financial commitment.

01:16:39And if you're not sure about if you want to marry me, then how are you sure that you want

01:16:44to share a home together?

01:16:45I never said that.

01:16:46I never said I wasn't sure.

01:16:48Obviously, you're not ready.

01:16:51Yeah.

01:16:53I definitely thought a proposal was right around the corner.

01:16:56And my mind is blown to find out that it's not.

01:17:01I don't want to get this big house with you.

01:17:04Then you become complacent, and then it never gets towards marriage.

01:17:07Because that would not be an acceptable scenario for me at all.

01:17:12I don't want a roommate.

01:17:13I want a husband.

01:17:15I want to marry Tony.

01:17:17It's all going to happen, but I just feel super pressured right now.

01:17:22This is just so frustrating.

01:17:25But as much as I love him, at 43 years old, I can't wait forever.

01:17:34I'm going to have to move on.

01:17:35When it all comes down.

01:17:39When we're about to drown.

01:17:43When you go down singing, put your fist and brain.

01:17:47Will you even make a sound when it all comes down?

01:18:08I'm back to California, but of course Wayne is coming to say goodbye to me.

01:18:12I can't wait to see my little English muffin.

01:18:14I'm excited.

01:18:21I guess I'm his girlfriend now.

01:18:27I mean, it was weird.

01:18:28He texted me last night, hashtag girlfriend.

01:18:30I was like, wait a minute.

01:18:32That's not what you said before, but that's just the way he is, you know?

01:18:36There's so many good things that happened on this trip to England.

01:18:39The biggest top two things are I'm in a relationship, and that I told him my past, and he accepted

01:18:46it.

01:18:53It's Wayne, hello.

01:18:55You all right?

01:18:56Yeah, how are you?

01:18:57Not doing bad.

01:18:58No?

01:18:58Reception let me straight up.

01:18:59They recognize me.

01:19:00Oh, I did they?

01:19:01Yeah.

01:19:01So you didn't have to come down to bed for this time?

01:19:02You were a frequent visitor.

01:19:04Have a seat.

01:19:04I'm just finishing packing.

01:19:05How's your packing going?

01:19:06Good.

01:19:07I think I have too much stuff.

01:19:08Well, now jump on your bed.

01:19:09You don't mind, do you?

01:19:10Oh, no.

01:19:11No, now you're on my bed.

01:19:12It's so comfy.

01:19:12It is comfy.

01:19:13It makes a lot of noise, though.

01:19:15How do you know?

01:19:15Who else you had up in here?

01:19:16A nobody, but I'd sleep wild sometimes.

01:19:21Oh, .

01:19:22Do you want a hand?

01:19:23I got it.

01:19:23So after, like, sleeping on it last night, I did kind of have, like, a little panic moment this morning.

01:19:29You don't feel any differently about us being in a relationship or anything?

01:19:33I'll be honest with you.

01:19:34I did think about it.

01:19:35Because obviously when someone tells you something, you have to process it.

01:19:39And now I don't feel no different.

01:19:41Okay.

01:19:42No different at all.

01:19:43I'm quite happy and proud that you trust me.

01:19:46But at the same time, I felt a little bit bad.

01:19:49I felt like I probably could have cuddled you.

01:19:52Or even held your hand.

01:19:54And, but I was listening.

01:19:56And I didn't want to take the focus off while you're talking to me.

01:19:59And I'm like that.

01:20:00I will listen and I will focus.

01:20:02But at the same time, it don't mean that I don't care.

01:20:04Yeah, I get it.

01:20:05I appreciate that.

01:20:06I figured it was just because you're English.

01:20:09Come here, though.

01:20:10I'll make up for it now.

01:20:11Oh, you're so sweet.

01:20:13You're so sweet.

01:20:16You're so sweet.

01:20:18I'm okay.

01:20:19Good.

01:20:21Who thought I would come to England and find the man of my dreams?

01:20:24Who would have thought that?

01:20:25No.

01:20:25Who would have thought that?

01:20:26Seriously.

01:20:26I did.

01:20:27You did?

01:20:29Oh, you knew?

01:20:30Oh, you're conceited, too.

01:20:31You're such a smartass, I swear.

01:20:33You know, I'm joking.

01:20:34Kim's leaving to go back home today.

01:20:36I feel quite sad.

01:20:37I'm going to miss a smile.

01:20:39I'm going to miss the laughter.

01:20:41I'm going to miss her being tactile.

01:20:43I'm going to miss the little touches that she's doing.

01:20:45I've got used to that.

01:20:46In a, not a weird kind of way, in a nice kind of way that I like it.

01:20:50Give me this.

01:20:52All right.

01:20:52I'm going to get up and finish packing.

01:20:56Car's here.

01:20:57We've got to go.

01:20:58I know.

01:20:59Let's go.

01:21:00Taking your sweet time, aren't you?

01:21:01I had a lot to do.

01:21:03Ready?

01:21:03On the way.

01:21:04Let's go.

01:21:05I couldn't be more proud of my mom for telling Wayne the truth about my brother and my sister.

01:21:10Her growth ever since I found about my brother has been incredible, and I've gained a lot more respect for

01:21:17her.

01:21:17Jamal?

01:21:18Huh?

01:21:18Oh, Wayne.

01:21:20See you later.

01:21:20Lovely meeting you.

01:21:21Oh, so nice to meet you.

01:21:22Really nice meeting you.

01:21:23Yeah.

01:21:24Keep doing what you're doing.

01:21:25You're killing it.

01:21:26Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:21:27She's really happy with you, so.

01:21:28Well, thank you.

01:21:29Glad I got your approval.

01:21:30Yeah, man.

01:21:30Very sweet.

01:21:31Yeah.

01:21:31All the best.

01:21:32Have a good one.

01:21:33Okay, we have to take one last picture over here.

01:21:36Oh, that light.

01:21:37It's too bright.

01:21:38Wait, this way.

01:21:38This way.

01:21:39There.

01:21:39There we go.

01:21:40Perfect.

01:21:40Ready?

01:21:45Okay.

01:21:46That's cute.

01:21:47Come here, man.

01:21:47I'm going to miss you.

01:21:48I'm going to miss you.

01:21:52I know.

01:21:52I'm going to miss you.

01:21:54Thank you for being so amazing, honestly.

01:21:56Like, from the beginning of this trip to the end, you've just been amazing.

01:21:59Honestly.

01:22:00I've absolutely loved it.

01:22:01Yeah.

01:22:01It's been a privilege.

01:22:02It's been a blessing.

01:22:03It's been really nice.

01:22:06I am definitely coming back to England very, very soon.

01:22:10Next time, I might be able to wake up in the morning with you.

01:22:12I know.

01:22:13There's that.

01:22:13If you let me.

01:22:14There's that.

01:22:15All right.

01:22:15But I have learned from past relationships not to go 100% balls to the wall.

01:22:22You know, I'll be back, though.

01:22:23I'll be back very soon.

01:22:25With Wayne, I can take my time.

01:22:26We can get to know each other better.

01:22:29Get more on an intimate level.

01:22:30And then, if this is for me, then it's going to be for me.

01:22:34And if it's not, it's not.

01:22:35I'm always going to be okay.

01:22:37Hey, y'all are just so cute.

01:22:39But we have to go.

01:22:40Okay.

01:22:42Tell your kids I said bye to you.

01:22:43I will do.

01:22:44I'll tell them, too.

01:22:45All right.

01:22:46Let's go.

01:22:47I don't think anybody will ever understand how harshly I've judged myself, how I never

01:22:53thought I was really worthy of a really good love.

01:22:56And now that I'm there, and I've lost all my weight, getting the teeth fixed next, and

01:23:01I have this wonderful man by my side and my sons with the hope of finding my daughter,

01:23:06life is pretty good.

01:23:16I'll be back in three months.

01:23:17See you later.

01:23:18See you, Wayne.

01:23:19See you.

01:23:20All right, bye-bye.

01:23:21See you.

01:23:29See you.

01:23:30Next time on 90 Day, The Single Life Tell All.

01:23:34I'm Ross Matthews, and trust me when I tell you I cannot be more excited to be with all

01:23:38of you tonight.

01:23:39I'm usually at home watching, too.

01:23:41I've got reason to be angry.

01:23:42I showed what a lying, cheating hoe you are.

01:23:44That ruined the whole trip.

01:23:49We're in territory I'm not prepared for.

01:23:53Liz.

01:23:54Why is your left hand so heavy?

01:23:56Ooh.

01:23:57I am engaged.

01:24:00Two.

01:24:00Um.

01:24:03Jasmine, come on out here.

01:24:04Hi.

01:24:06Oh.

01:24:06He's not happy to see me.

01:24:08Also welcome Gino's friend, Lexi.

01:24:12Gino's been very respectful to me.

01:24:14That's not the real Gino.

01:24:16You liar.

01:24:17Oh, there it goes.

01:24:19Lexi, run.

01:24:22Sophie and Pedro, have you seen each other since that vacation?

01:24:26Um.

01:24:27I feel this.

01:24:28This is the love of all my life.

01:24:30Oh.

01:24:31Pedro is a little bit naive.

01:24:34It's like you don't want him to be happy.

01:24:36Excuse me, Sophie.

01:24:37I am talking.

01:24:38Shut up.

01:24:39Courtney and Phil, you two broke up because of Colt.

01:24:43Yeah.

01:24:44No way.

01:24:46And in that time, Courtney, did you have any communication with Colt?

01:24:50Guilty.

01:24:52And the plot thickens.

01:24:56Please welcome Vanya's boyfriend, Tony, and cousin Cinella.

01:25:01I don't think she can count how many times she's on the floor crying.

01:25:05Sometimes my reactions are exaggerated.

01:25:08There shouldn't be any engagement talk.

01:25:11Whoa.

01:25:12He's my person, and I love you.

01:25:15I don't like the way they call treats the women around him.

01:25:18Who the f*** are you?

01:25:19You're a leech.

01:25:21I wouldn't respect a man that comes out here and tags another man like a f***.

01:25:26Whoa.

01:25:27I'm sitting right here.

01:25:28Get up.

01:25:28What the f*** do you want to do?

01:25:30Oh, guys.

01:25:31You want to really do this?

01:25:32No, no, no, no, no.

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