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00:00:13I
00:00:23Have dated guys who are my age because it was the right thing to do
00:00:29And it didn't work out obviously this is a great opportunity for me to
00:00:35possibly find someone whether you're
00:00:3725 or 55
00:00:40There's something here for me. I'm pretty positive
00:00:49I definitely want to explore dating older men because my history with younger men has just been so
00:00:57Problematic, but in the real world older men disregard me based on my age right off the bat
00:01:07I love that. I'm gonna be able to experience
00:01:10Meeting men not knowing their age
00:01:13I want to be able to get to know their heart and what their passions are then I'll know like
00:01:18have I pushed some guys away that I shouldn't have
00:01:26When you tell people your age they put a stigma to that. I don't want to fit in a box
00:01:31Why does it matter how old I am? It's what I feel like. It's my vibe. It's my energy. It's
00:01:36it's who I am as a person
00:01:38age is just a number
00:01:45It is tough out there to find a partner like oh when someone's 40 they're over the hill it's over
00:01:50when when are you retiring?
00:01:56you know
00:01:58The dating world is trash so much
00:02:03Superficiality this is perfect for me because we're in a situation where age is not the factor
00:02:09It's really the connection which I think is dope because it should be about the connection
00:02:14I'm looking for the most special person of my life. I think maybe they're here. I
00:02:20I hope that they're here
00:02:23The truth is when love is there and love is real age won't matter at all
00:02:35Two steps for another one back
00:02:38I wasn't nervous
00:02:58It feels a little bit scary because I don't know if these guys are my age my dad's age my
00:03:04grandpa's age
00:03:05I just don't know what we're dealing with but what I don't know can't hurt me
00:03:11How are we doing ladies?
00:03:12Hi
00:03:13Good how are you?
00:03:15Doing well
00:03:15Doing well
00:03:15Brian
00:03:16I'm Sophie
00:03:17Tristan
00:03:17Michelle
00:03:18Nice to meet you
00:03:19Nice to meet you
00:03:19Nice to meet you
00:03:28Hello everyone I'm Nick Vial
00:03:30And I'm Natalie Joy
00:03:33You've all agreed to come here to take an unconventional approach to find love
00:03:38It may seem crazy but here you'll be dating and even committing without ever knowing how old your partner is
00:03:47To answer the question does age matter when it comes to love?
00:03:54It did it for us
00:03:55We are 18 years apart
00:03:59And happily married
00:04:00Ours is a modern day love story I slid into his DMs
00:04:05Hot right?
00:04:07Our chemistry was instant but honestly I had my reservations about exploring a deeper connection
00:04:13I was self-conscious about our age difference
00:04:16I wasn't sure if we wanted the same thing
00:04:18If we were in the same stages of life or even if we liked the same movies
00:04:24I was far less worried about others opinions
00:04:27I focused my energy on what Nick and I had in common
00:04:30And what I found was a man I loved being around
00:04:34Who laughed at my jokes and who was ready to start a family just like I was
00:04:38So I decided to get out of my head
00:04:41And we gave it a shot
00:04:42And what I ended up finding was
00:04:45The greatest connection of my life
00:04:47Absolutely
00:04:48Aww
00:04:49For us, age is just a number
00:04:52Woo
00:04:52Woo
00:04:54Wow
00:04:55Now it's time for you to find the connection of your dreams
00:04:59Oh yeah
00:05:00I'm getting butterflies
00:05:03During your time here, you'll choose who you want to date
00:05:06Based on attraction, compatibility, and chemistry
00:05:10You can pursue anyone you're drawn to
00:05:13There are no rules
00:05:14Except one
00:05:16The only question you can't ask
00:05:19Is how old are you?
00:05:21Dang, y'all look good
00:05:22Yeah
00:05:24If you feel as if you've found that special connection
00:05:28You can invite that person into the Promise Room
00:05:31And take the next step in your journey together
00:05:35By exchanging rings and committing to one another
00:05:38From there, all that's left is revealing
00:05:40The one thing you've been keeping secret
00:05:43Your age
00:05:45And if you still want to be together after that
00:05:47You'll leave this retreat as a couple
00:05:49Oh
00:05:52And take the next step, moving in together
00:05:55And seeing if the connection can survive in the real world
00:05:58Oh my god, stop
00:05:59And then comes perhaps the greatest test of all
00:06:02You'll introduce each other to your closest friends and families
00:06:06Oh shit
00:06:10It's getting real
00:06:11In the end, you'll have to make one final decision
00:06:15Do you stay together and plan for a future
00:06:18Or leave this experience single once again?
00:06:21I'm getting nervous
00:06:23We got this girl
00:06:24And what better way to kick things off
00:06:27Than for you all to date
00:06:30Every single person here
00:06:33Oh my gosh
00:06:34That's gonna be interesting
00:06:36That's a lot of dates
00:06:36I know, right?
00:06:37Busy day
00:06:39Are you ready?
00:06:40Yes!
00:06:43Let's do it
00:06:44Good luck
00:06:45Okay
00:06:46Instead of taking shots to no chances
00:06:50Don't go crying in this hideaway
00:06:54All right, straight to the reel
00:06:55Okay, yes, go
00:06:56What's working for you in dating?
00:06:58And what is not working?
00:06:59Like, you're here for a reason, right?
00:07:00Well, the men aren't working
00:07:02Does that make sense?
00:07:03Okay, gotcha
00:07:03Yeah
00:07:03Do you have green eyes?
00:07:07Yeah, do you have green eyes?
00:07:08Yeah
00:07:08Okay
00:07:09Our babies could have green eyes
00:07:10Oh my god, right?
00:07:12Wait, wait, okay, how much money do you make
00:07:13And what's your job?
00:07:14Yeah?
00:07:15Like diving in
00:07:16For real?
00:07:17Okay, what's your job?
00:07:19Damn, girl
00:07:22So what brought you here?
00:07:25Probably the foul men that exist in the world
00:07:28People have a tendency to put me in a box when they find out my age
00:07:31Um, they probably think I don't know what I want
00:07:34And I'm super nonchalant
00:07:39But I'm not really looking to attract men within my age range
00:07:43Because they're usually super immature
00:07:47I came from this experience looking for something more serious
00:07:50Lovey, nice to meet you
00:07:52David, nice to meet you
00:07:53David's my dad's name
00:07:57Oh
00:07:57Is it? All right
00:07:58Is that a bad thing to start with?
00:07:59No, I don't think so
00:08:00Do you like your dad?
00:08:01Love my dad
00:08:02All right, amazing
00:08:03I'm definitely excited
00:08:05But I don't think I've ever dated somebody that old
00:08:08So it's definitely nerve-wracking
00:08:09I'm like, what are we gonna talk about?
00:08:14You had to play a song on the piano right now
00:08:16What would it be?
00:08:17And you have to sing
00:08:18I'd say maybe Desperado by the Eagles
00:08:20Okay
00:08:21A little classic
00:08:21You probably hate this
00:08:23What?
00:08:24But I love Taylor Swift
00:08:25Love
00:08:26Swifty
00:08:26Yeah, can't lie
00:08:28Don't be ashamed
00:08:28Yeah, not ashamed
00:08:29How many shows of hers have you seen?
00:08:31Just one
00:08:32Oh, wait
00:08:33Okay, so you're a huge Swifty
00:08:34But you've only been to one show
00:08:35You don't like going to shows?
00:08:38Does the average person go to more than one?
00:08:41Oh yeah, for sure
00:08:42Am I the problem?
00:08:48What's your name?
00:08:49Ashley
00:08:50Ashley, you are Ashley
00:08:51I've heard about you
00:08:52What?
00:08:53No, I'm just kidding
00:08:54I'm just kidding
00:08:55My age range is evil
00:08:56Like, no one is safe
00:08:59I swear
00:08:59I could date you or your mom
00:09:01And I'm open to both
00:09:04Hi
00:09:04Hi, how are you?
00:09:05How are you?
00:09:06What's your name?
00:09:07Tristan
00:09:07Aaron, nice to meet you
00:09:09Yeah, absolutely
00:09:10I knew I was interested in older women
00:09:12The first time I saw Kim Zolciak
00:09:15In a church parking lot
00:09:17I was like
00:09:18Damn
00:09:19That's everything I want
00:09:21There's like 35 year old busty blonde
00:09:24And a white Bentley
00:09:25And I'm a 13 year old boy
00:09:26I was just like
00:09:27Doing
00:09:27I mean, wow
00:09:28Do you like your name?
00:09:30Do you play Fitz?
00:09:31Do you like yours?
00:09:32Yeah
00:09:32It's kind of soft
00:09:34Like I would like a
00:09:35It wasn't soft in Legends of the Fall
00:09:37Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:09:38Don't get me started
00:09:39Is that where you were named?
00:09:40It's annoying
00:09:41Yes, yes it was
00:09:42That's a good named after
00:09:44Do you like that movie?
00:09:44Have you seen it?
00:09:45It's one of my favorite movies
00:09:46Okay
00:09:47Me too
00:09:48It's beautiful
00:09:48Yeah, so what is your middle name?
00:09:50It starts with a B
00:09:51Do I have to guess?
00:09:52Yes
00:09:53Beatrice
00:09:55No
00:09:55And it's not bitch
00:09:57Okay
00:09:57That was my second guess
00:10:00I feel like I could just leave with Aaron right now
00:10:03She's beautiful
00:10:04She's tall
00:10:05She's charismatic
00:10:06She was laughing at all the jokes
00:10:08She was like giving me the eyes
00:10:09I was like, it's my girl, dog
00:10:11I already feel like I'm ready to get her alone
00:10:14The chemistry was hot
00:10:19Well, hello
00:10:20Oh, hi
00:10:21How are you?
00:10:22Good
00:10:23My name is Andrew
00:10:24I have two daughters
00:10:26Olivia and Ella
00:10:27I typically date younger
00:10:29It's a little bit more crazy
00:10:31It's a little bit more fun
00:10:33Probably for all the wrong reasons
00:10:36But I'm trying to turn over a new leaf
00:10:39Kind of change things up a little bit
00:10:41I do want a wife
00:10:42I do want a partner
00:10:43Definitely someone that maybe has more life experience
00:10:47And that is ready for something a little bit more serious
00:10:51What has been something that you've not loved in your past relationships?
00:10:56I think it's kind of like the same cycle
00:10:59Really?
00:10:59Talking about back to old relationships
00:11:01Back to things that weren't necessarily serving me anymore
00:11:04Sure
00:11:04So it's kind of like the same cycle
00:11:06So being here for me is kind of like
00:11:09Breaking that cycle?
00:11:10Yeah, yeah, like some old bad habits
00:11:11Yeah
00:11:12It's an exciting little journey that we're about to go on
00:11:15I know
00:11:20And I'm curious, do you normally date like older or younger?
00:11:23I normally date older
00:11:25Do you?
00:11:26Yes, I do
00:11:26I can see that because you're like
00:11:28I have a lot of emotional intelligence you can tell
00:11:30Really?
00:11:31You picked that up already?
00:11:32For sure
00:11:32Oh wow
00:11:33Two seconds, yeah
00:11:34Wow, I guess I'll take the compliment
00:11:36What about you?
00:11:38You know, I don't really have a type
00:11:40I don't have a preference
00:11:41Yeah
00:11:42I probably mostly date younger
00:11:44Okay
00:11:44Just because of life circumstances
00:11:46I feel like older people are usually like married with kids
00:11:49Yeah
00:11:49And settle down, you know
00:11:50So I was married for five years when I was young
00:11:53And I completely loved her
00:11:55Like wildly in love with the woman
00:11:58I think it was ultimately for the best
00:12:00You know, it's a little bit of a scarlet letter on your resume, right?
00:12:04Of like having a divorce and then no children and then being the age that I'm at
00:12:08But the older you get and you invest in the wrong person, you don't get that time back
00:12:14This is a great color on you, by the way
00:12:16Thank you, Jean
00:12:17I love this dress
00:12:17Yeah, it's beautiful
00:12:18Thank you, thank you so much
00:12:20Um, what are you most excited about for this whole thing?
00:12:23Um, I would say just being able to like actually get to know people without like
00:12:30Like outside life distractions
00:12:31You know what I mean?
00:12:32Like genuinely like, you know
00:12:34Focus on something
00:12:35Yeah, like just genuinely actually getting to know someone
00:12:38Yeah, that's awesome
00:12:39Yeah
00:12:39This is something that's just very out of my comfort zone
00:12:42But I want to find love
00:12:44I want to, you know, walk out here with a potential husband
00:12:48Like a life partner
00:12:49And my husband could be here
00:12:51I'm extremely spontaneous
00:12:53It's whatever
00:12:53It's like, if I feel like, yo, I'm from somewhere
00:12:56I'm like, yo, we should go to Vegas
00:12:57Like, yo, let's go
00:12:58Yeah, I love that
00:12:59I'm very spontaneous
00:13:00My dad has said that he doesn't want me to marry anyone 10 years or older than me
00:13:05But I don't date young men
00:13:07Like the oldest I would date here is the 40s
00:13:09The 40s
00:13:11Somewhere in the 40s
00:13:15How are you?
00:13:16I'm good, how are you?
00:13:18I'm good
00:13:18What was your name?
00:13:19Derek
00:13:20Derek, I'm Pfeiffer
00:13:21I love it
00:13:22This is amazing
00:13:23It's working?
00:13:24I love it
00:13:24Thank you
00:13:25It's definitely working
00:13:26Thank you
00:13:26I love your eyes
00:13:28Thank you, me too
00:13:30I'm very optimistic about this experience
00:13:33About getting to meet a variety of people
00:13:36Meeting an older man is quite hard as a younger woman
00:13:39You go to the bar and most of the older men that you meet are kind of a little skeevy
00:13:44Like maybe even like a little bit predatory
00:13:46Um, or on the flip side they could think that I'm just looking for like money
00:13:51And also like a lot of the places that I'm frequenting older people just aren't, you know?
00:13:58Hi
00:13:59I'm John
00:13:59I'm Catherine
00:14:00I'm a hugger
00:14:00Nice to meet you
00:14:01The speed dating is fun
00:14:03It's a little unnatural
00:14:04But I'm not here to date an older woman
00:14:06I'm not here to date a younger woman
00:14:08I'm here to date
00:14:09No matter their age
00:14:11Catherine
00:14:11She looks like a Bond villain
00:14:15She's, she's intimidating to talk to
00:14:19How you doing?
00:14:20Good
00:14:21Excited?
00:14:22You? Yeah
00:14:22I'm happy to be here
00:14:24Lauren's cool
00:14:25But the conversation didn't flow, you know, tremendously
00:14:28Um, I think she's like physically attractive
00:14:31Alright, another round
00:14:32I love your nails too
00:14:34Thank you
00:14:37John
00:14:38John, Teresa
00:14:38Great to meet you
00:14:41Excited?
00:14:42Very excited
00:14:43Very excited, of course
00:14:43Very good
00:14:43I've been waiting for this forever
00:14:45So tell me one thing that you would want me to remember about you
00:14:49Oh, I like that
00:14:49Okay, I like that
00:14:50See?
00:14:52Mmm, and I'm super excited for this experience
00:14:54Okay
00:14:54Kind of open to
00:14:55But like what about you?
00:14:58So I jokingly
00:14:59I guess not jokingly
00:15:00But everyone says I look like Prince Harry
00:15:02I could see that
00:15:03So my joke is that I'm looking for Megan
00:15:06Minus the family drama
00:15:07Really?
00:15:08Yeah
00:15:08Well I used to have dark hair, so
00:15:09Okay
00:15:10There you go
00:15:11He played off
00:15:11I dressed up like him for Halloween last year
00:15:13Really?
00:15:14But I was by myself
00:15:15So
00:15:16Oh, bummer
00:15:17Yeah
00:15:17Maybe by October you never know
00:15:19Yeah
00:15:19It's a good question, I like that
00:15:20It's gonna happen
00:15:20Yeah
00:15:22When I've, you know, been on dating apps and things like that, which suck
00:15:26Most of the guys I don't think put their age range up to my age
00:15:30And so it's been really, really hard to find someone
00:15:34I've been married twice
00:15:40Sorry
00:15:40Um
00:15:41I've had some really terrible relationships
00:15:45And I just feel like I'm at a point in my life where I finally deserve
00:15:54What it is that's right for me
00:15:55Yeah
00:15:57So it's, it's a good thing
00:15:59What is your favorite quality about yourself?
00:16:03Um, probably that I'm very, like, easy going
00:16:07I think life has given me enough that I've been able to, like, realize, like, the small things that pop
00:16:15up that are problems
00:16:16Aren't that important
00:16:18It's okay
00:16:18Big picture
00:16:19Yeah, exactly
00:16:20Yeah
00:16:21I like that
00:16:22So, yeah
00:16:23Teresa's hot
00:16:24Yeah
00:16:24Best three minute date I've ever had
00:16:27I don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow, but hopefully her and I are gonna get to know each other better
00:16:32All this late night talk with my girl keeps me falling in love, in love, in love
00:16:41Oh, I've been dreaming, oh, I've been dreaming
00:16:45That you're my lady, that you're my lady
00:16:50All right, how are you all feeling?
00:16:52Yeah
00:16:52Yeah
00:16:53Yeah
00:16:57Hopefully some of you are starting to feel some sparks
00:17:01Woo!
00:17:03Now during your time here, you'll be going on lots of activities
00:17:07Starting tomorrow morning, each day's adventures will be posted on the activity board
00:17:11And if you're not off on an adventure, enjoy your time here at the retreat
00:17:17Keep looking for that true connection
00:17:21One that doesn't revolve around age
00:17:26You came here to get away from it all and try something new
00:17:29So let's all take a moment to celebrate that
00:17:32All right, let's toast to ageless dating
00:17:35And to all the adventures that lie ahead
00:17:38Cheers!
00:17:44Cheers!
00:17:45Cheers!
00:17:46Cheers!
00:17:47Cheers!
00:17:49Cheers!
00:17:49Cheers!
00:17:50Cheers!
00:17:55Cheers!
00:17:58Hands up, we reach for the stars
00:18:03Chasing dreams no matter how far
00:18:24All right, so after the first bear was clawing out my windows
00:18:28I was trying to get a nap
00:18:29Okay
00:18:30I come back, I'm sitting in my bed and the shades start like moving
00:18:34I was like, holy shit, he's back
00:18:36Oh my god
00:18:37So I get up
00:18:38Yeah
00:18:38There's a fucking window washer
00:18:42Theresa's beautiful, we have good conversation
00:18:44I live in Miami, it's beautiful women everywhere
00:18:47But it's hard to find like a genuine connection
00:18:49So I'm looking forward to connecting with her more
00:18:51Do you have any cats?
00:18:53Two cats
00:18:54Really?
00:18:55You like cats?
00:18:56I love cats
00:18:57Jerry is five, Jenna's like seven
00:19:01Jenna
00:19:01So a boy and a girl
00:19:02I do, I miss my dogs for sure
00:19:05What kind of dogs do you have?
00:19:06I have a beautiful
00:19:07Oh two German Shepherds
00:19:08No
00:19:08German Shepherd
00:19:09German Shepherd
00:19:10Yes, give it to me
00:19:11And a
00:19:13Labrador
00:19:14No
00:19:14No, not a Labrador
00:19:15No, no
00:19:16I'm leaving
00:19:17You have a Doberman
00:19:20Yes
00:19:20I got the spider right
00:19:21Yeah, she's so sweet
00:19:22What's her name?
00:19:23Peyton
00:19:23Oh, I like that
00:19:25My other dog's name is Boomer
00:19:28After
00:19:29My daughter named Boomer
00:19:31I have three cats
00:19:32P.S.
00:19:34Okay
00:19:35All right
00:19:36I'm petrified that he's too young
00:19:39Um, my oldest is 29 and my daughter's 25 and then my youngest is 22
00:19:45So, a guy in their 20s would be really, like, shocking
00:19:54I don't know how I would reconcile that
00:19:58Um, but I'm, again, just trying not to think about it too much and just focus on who he is
00:20:09Excuse us
00:20:11Hey
00:20:12Is that an actual drink?
00:20:13Yes, coffee
00:20:14You want something that's a little bit cold now
00:20:15No, I drink tea
00:20:17Yesterday, the one that stuck out to me the most, I would say is Justin Esch
00:20:21Um, he kind of was, like, more, like, calm and quiet
00:20:25A lot of the other guys had, like, really big personalities and were really out there
00:20:30And so his, like, quiet demeanor kind of, like, intrigued me a little bit
00:20:34Okay, okay, remind me where you live
00:20:35Uh, Charleston, South Carolina
00:20:37Okay, okay
00:20:38And you?
00:20:38I remember that, Dallas
00:20:39Dallas, that's right
00:20:41Would you say you're, like, a relationship person?
00:20:44Yeah, I'm a serial monogamist
00:20:45Okay, I think you said that yesterday, yeah
00:20:47Okay
00:20:47I just think there's something kind of invaluable about being able to build a life with somebody
00:20:52Versus just this hookup culture that we're in
00:20:55So, I don't know how to navigate that
00:20:57Yeah
00:20:58I'm just not built that way
00:21:00Neither am I
00:21:01No
00:21:02And tell me, I can't remember, you have kids or no?
00:21:05No, I don't
00:21:05Okay, you want kids?
00:21:07I do want to get married
00:21:08I want marriage
00:21:10Um, so my partner, if they want kids, I will want kids
00:21:13Yeah
00:21:13If they don't want kids, I'm okay with having kids
00:21:16Wow, okay
00:21:17So...
00:21:17You don't meet a lot of women that are, like, flexible in that
00:21:19Yeah
00:21:19It's very, I feel like it's very binary
00:21:21Yeah
00:21:21Yeah, what about you?
00:21:22That's good
00:21:23Um, I always wanted them my whole life
00:21:25Um, I think as I got older, I kind of, like, I separated my... I tied a lot of my
00:21:31happiness to that when I was younger
00:21:33Oh
00:21:33I was like, this is something, you know, that I want in my life
00:21:36I always wanted children
00:21:39Um, I... I love kids
00:21:42I always felt, like, called to be a father
00:21:44Um, and I think, like, at some point you have to kind of divorce yourself from goals that are outside
00:21:52of your control completely
00:21:54Like, you know, I'm 44, you know, could I find somebody to just have a baby with? Probably
00:22:00But is that the right thing to do? You know, I don't think so, not for me
00:22:06Um, and you kind of wake up and it's like, oh, wow, you know, that might not happen
00:22:15So...
00:22:17But that's okay
00:22:19I think
00:22:26So, talk about something else
00:22:29So I don't...
00:22:31Cry on television
00:22:34I do love kids
00:22:35Oh, I love that
00:22:36I do too, I have four nephews
00:22:47First morning here
00:22:49This has been so wild
00:22:50I know
00:22:51Yeah
00:22:51Already, how are you guys feeling?
00:22:53So, yeah, I mean, it is interesting to, like, look at, like, the whole diverse group
00:22:57Absolutely
00:22:58Yeah, and, like, the different ages and everything
00:23:00I do, I will say, like, I've been, like, kind of looking around at the guys mainly
00:23:04And being, like, how... wondering, like, what their ages are
00:23:07There was a big variety
00:23:09I was gonna say
00:23:10There was a huge variety
00:23:11Oh my God
00:23:12Like, Tristan
00:23:12Yeah
00:23:13Versus, like, David
00:23:15Yes
00:23:15Versus Jorge
00:23:17Some people, I forgot the names
00:23:18Yeah
00:23:19Like, there's so many of them
00:23:20It just, like, went over my head
00:23:21Yeah
00:23:21Yeah
00:23:22I'm so excited for the dates
00:23:23I know, me too
00:23:24I know, I'm excited
00:23:50I will try some things once
00:23:53Oh, no
00:23:54Yeah, we're good
00:23:55We'll take the front
00:23:56Andrew, I don't know if I saw him at first
00:23:59But he definitely is really cute
00:24:01I think I caught some good muscles going over there
00:24:05I'm ready
00:24:06This is exciting
00:24:07I was, like, super excited when I saw that Libby was going to be on this date
00:24:11She is typically who I date
00:24:14Blonde
00:24:15Good-looking
00:24:15Fun
00:24:17She probably is a little younger
00:24:19Like, she gives off that vibe
00:24:20But I'm definitely, like, excited to get to know Libby more
00:24:24And just see where it goes
00:24:26What's going on, baby?
00:24:27Have fun
00:24:28Ready for the first rapid?
00:24:31Look at her face
00:24:32Look at her face
00:24:34Oh, god
00:24:35Get down
00:24:36Get down
00:24:36Get down
00:24:37Get down
00:24:38Get down
00:24:40Oh, my god
00:24:42Oh, my god
00:24:46Oh, my god
00:24:47Oh, my god
00:24:48Guys
00:24:51I saw my last last move on my eye
00:24:53Woo
00:24:54Woo
00:25:04Cheers to rafting
00:25:07Yeah
00:25:07Not dying
00:25:07Not falling in
00:25:08Not dying
00:25:10Did you like it?
00:25:12I couldn't survive without you
00:25:14You saved me
00:25:15You definitely give off city girl vibes, for sure
00:25:18You didn't show it at all
00:25:19No
00:25:20Water rafting
00:25:21Not at all
00:25:22Stop, stop
00:25:24I am a young, hot dad
00:25:27Like, I want to still have fun
00:25:29I'm going to have fun
00:25:31And I think that's probably why I gravitate to someone that's more fun
00:25:33Because, like, you know, I'm not ready to fully grow up and be boring
00:25:40I feel like you're definitely my type a little bit
00:25:44Oh, really? What's your type?
00:25:46Blonde
00:25:49Um, I'm gonna give off probably a little bit younger of a vibe
00:25:53Um
00:25:53Don't I still say that?
00:25:55You're like a hardcore Swiftie, aren't you?
00:25:57Oh
00:25:57Oh, my god
00:26:00I'm not gonna lie to you and tell you I'm not someone that I am
00:26:03Why are you here?
00:26:05Why am I here?
00:26:05I'm done with the small talk
00:26:07The guys that I've dated, I think, are a little immature
00:26:12And I'm just kind of tired of
00:26:14That's why you don't date your age
00:26:16Yes
00:26:17What about you?
00:26:19Um, yeah, I think just something different as well
00:26:22Like, I definitely, like, am ready to, like, find my partner
00:26:26Like, someone to do life with
00:26:27Yeah
00:26:28I'm not playing around
00:26:29I like that
00:26:30Yeah, so
00:26:32I have two kids
00:26:34Um
00:26:35I like kids
00:26:37Have you ever dated someone that has kids?
00:26:39No, I've never dated anybody with kids
00:26:43Like, is that something that you would be into?
00:26:46Like
00:26:47I think that somebody having kids isn't the scariest thing in the world to me, for sure
00:26:51Okay
00:26:53All right
00:26:54And if anything, I think it shows that you have enough, um, of your life together that you can be
00:27:02a good father, hopefully
00:27:03At least, hopefully you're that
00:27:05That's right
00:27:05For so long, I've kept my heart locked
00:27:11Turns out, you have the key
00:27:14He definitely isn't one of the people here that I would guess to have kids, but it doesn't really scare
00:27:19me
00:27:19I kind of like the fact that he's more mature
00:27:21I think that if I met him out and about and I found out that he had kids, I think
00:27:26my mind would start to spiral about his age
00:27:28And I probably would get a little freaked out and be more reserved
00:27:31But I think that this is a great experience for me to open up and kind of put those reservations
00:27:36aside
00:27:37Well, I mean, I'm definitely feeling this
00:27:41I like your vibe
00:27:43I think you're kind of sometimes, sort of
00:27:46Okay, cool
00:27:49Do you want to get married?
00:27:51Do I want to get married?
00:27:53Aw, thank you so much, you shut up
00:27:55I mean, I'm pretty, I'm not gonna lie
00:27:57I feel a little giddy
00:27:58A little giddy
00:28:00A little nervous
00:28:01You know, a little excited
00:28:03About everything
00:28:04Do I want to get married?
00:28:06Um, are you gonna get down to one day in these wetsuits?
00:28:09Yeah
00:28:09It's giving a little bit of a hunger game
00:28:12I don't even know, I don't think I've ever seen hunger games
00:28:15Okay, well
00:28:18Yeah, I'm sorry, that might have been too much credit for you
00:28:21I take that back
00:28:27I don't need, I don't need you to tell me
00:28:30So
00:28:33Vanell and I actually ran into each other at the speed dating
00:28:37We had a little mutual thing going in
00:28:40She's right down my alley
00:28:41You know, I know what I want and I know what I don't want
00:28:44You know, I've learned over the years
00:28:47I got married really young
00:28:48About when I was 26
00:28:49I was divorced by 30, I have two kids
00:28:52Um, since then I've had some relationships
00:28:55With Vanell, the vibes are amazing
00:28:57I mean, we both, I think we both feel each other
00:28:59We both are attracted to each other
00:29:00Um, the conversation is easy
00:29:02And so I hope it stays like that
00:29:04So now I have questions for you, alright?
00:29:07Mm-hmm
00:29:07So first of all, what is your passion?
00:29:10Ooh
00:29:11I would say my biggest passion is
00:29:14Number one, faith is really important to me
00:29:16Mm-hmm
00:29:17So I would say trying to live out every day
00:29:19Honoring God with every action I have
00:29:22I get it, you know, I'm a PK
00:29:23I'm a pastor's kid
00:29:24So, you know what I'm saying
00:29:25Okay
00:29:26What are you looking for in a man?
00:29:28Someone that's God-fearing
00:29:29Okay
00:29:30Um, a dominant leader
00:29:31But not like overpowering
00:29:32Right
00:29:33Dominant but not overpowering
00:29:34Yes
00:29:34Okay
00:29:35Yes, dominant
00:29:35Um, someone that has integrity
00:29:37Okay
00:29:38Someone that's just respectful
00:29:39And just like easy-going
00:29:40Someone to have fun
00:29:41And, you know, be goofy and silly with
00:29:45What about you?
00:29:47I always look for what's opposite of me
00:29:48Cause I'm on a hundred
00:29:50Yeah
00:29:50So I look for peaceful energy
00:29:52So you got peaceful energy
00:29:53When I first met you
00:29:54I was a little bit kinda like
00:29:56I don't know if him and I would connect
00:29:57Because you're very opposite of me
00:29:59Like I'm like quiet introvert
00:30:01Yes
00:30:01And you're very like social
00:30:03And like big personality
00:30:04So I was like I don't know
00:30:05That's exactly what I'm looking for though
00:30:07Yeah
00:30:07You know how they say opposites track, right?
00:30:09Mm-hmm
00:30:09Well, I don't ever want anybody
00:30:10Who's as intense as I am
00:30:12Mm-hmm
00:30:12Who's gonna calm that down?
00:30:14Yeah
00:30:14Like I need someone who's like chill
00:30:15So like when then I come around
00:30:17I'm like okay
00:30:18Mm-hmm
00:30:18Let me just chill
00:30:19But I feel like you're also just like
00:30:21Very like goofy and silly
00:30:22Which like
00:30:23I can be
00:30:23It takes someone to like
00:30:25Bring that side out of me
00:30:26Of course
00:30:26Mm-hmm
00:30:27Like a man needs to be plugged into his woman
00:30:29So that he
00:30:29That she walks in the room
00:30:30And he looks at her
00:30:31And says what's going on
00:30:33Yeah
00:30:33Like he's in tune to her
00:30:34Okay, I'm not gonna lie
00:30:35You seem like the whole package right now
00:30:37Like I'm surprised you're single
00:30:39And now you know
00:30:39Now I know
00:30:40Any other questions about that?
00:30:42Not about how you feel now
00:30:44Now I know
00:30:45Now you know how I feel?
00:30:46Mm-hmm
00:30:46Well let's go
00:30:49We didn't do cheers
00:30:50Cheers to our first date
00:30:51Cheers
00:30:51Cheers to our second date
00:30:52Cheers to our third date
00:30:54Okay
00:30:54That's coming up, right?
00:30:56I do feel butterflies inside
00:30:59And honestly like
00:31:00Like I didn't expect to like
00:31:02Even like
00:31:02Like him or be interested in him
00:31:04I should let you walk in front of me
00:31:06So I can see it
00:31:06Oh my gosh
00:31:08Ain't nothing back here
00:31:09Oh you sure?
00:31:11Yes
00:31:11You sure about that?
00:31:12He keeps me on my toes
00:31:13Like I don't know
00:31:14What he's gonna say or do next
00:31:16As I'm getting to know him
00:31:18I like that about him
00:31:19And I'm seeing that
00:31:20He's genuinely just himself
00:31:22He's not like pretending to be anybody else
00:31:24But I do have another connection
00:31:27With Justin
00:31:28And it's been going really well
00:31:30So that's why I'm kind of like scrambled
00:31:31In my head
00:31:32And I'm like
00:31:32Oh my gosh
00:31:33What am I getting myself into?
00:31:42Alright, let's go
00:31:43Cheers
00:31:43See what's gonna happen
00:31:44Right
00:31:45This is very uh
00:31:46Cheers
00:31:47Justin, who you
00:31:48Who you been talking to?
00:31:51Ah, Vanell?
00:31:52You know, Vanell and I
00:31:53Have really connected I think
00:31:54Nice
00:31:55I'm not sure how old she is
00:31:56She's younger
00:31:57But um
00:31:58Articulate and kind
00:32:00I love kind people
00:32:01Yeah
00:32:02You know, yeah
00:32:03So she's giving you some of those uh
00:32:04Signals?
00:32:05I think so, yeah
00:32:07She says that she is
00:32:09Whether or not she's telling somebody else the same thing
00:32:11I don't know
00:32:11Oh, right
00:32:12We'll know that for a little while
00:32:13How would you know? Yeah
00:32:14She has every right to you, right?
00:32:15Yeah, of course
00:32:16For right now, she just met me
00:32:17She should be
00:32:17Yeah, right
00:32:20Alright, you can't tell me
00:32:22You've been on a more beautiful date than this
00:32:24Um, I cannot actually
00:32:26This is pretty phenomenal
00:32:28John is very, like, surprising actually
00:32:31Um, he's pretty great
00:32:35And we get along
00:32:36Like our compatibility seems to be like right on
00:32:39So I'm interested in continuing that
00:32:42And really excited to see where it goes
00:32:45I think those onion layers are gonna peel back
00:32:49And we're gonna decide whether or not we're right for each other
00:32:52Cheers
00:32:53Cheers
00:32:53Cheers
00:32:54Okay, I would say getting to know each other better
00:32:58And having a great time while we're here
00:33:00Is that good?
00:33:02Basic, but
00:33:02Cheers
00:33:03Ah, ah
00:33:07Before I came here, I celebrated my youngest graduation
00:33:11I said goodbye to that stage of my life
00:33:15And here I am on to my next chapter
00:33:19With someone who makes me feel super safe
00:33:22And excited about the possibility of him being my partner
00:33:29Um, have you lived anywhere else than Miami?
00:33:33I lived in Boca
00:33:33Oh
00:33:35What was that for?
00:33:37Baseball
00:33:37And then I had injuries
00:33:41Oh no
00:33:42I was like baseball was A through Z
00:33:44Like that was like
00:33:45Yeah
00:33:45John was gonna be a professional baseball player
00:33:48And that's it
00:33:49Really?
00:33:50Yeah
00:33:51So then I had the surgeries
00:33:52So you put all your eggs in that basket
00:33:53It's hard
00:33:54It was my identity
00:33:56I get that
00:33:58I played softball
00:34:00Softball's hard
00:34:01Yeah
00:34:01I was probably like 10 when I got on the team
00:34:05Then I played all throughout like my younger years
00:34:09And then after I graduated college
00:34:12I was like playing on like a recreational softball team
00:34:15And someone literally came up to me and they recruited me
00:34:19It's like something out of a movie
00:34:20I know, it was weird
00:34:22I think there's a movie about the all girls baseball team
00:34:24Yes, there is
00:34:25What's it called?
00:34:26League of something
00:34:26League of our own
00:34:27League of our own
00:34:27Yeah, exactly
00:34:28Yeah, I think Madonna's in it
00:34:31Um
00:34:32Madonna?
00:34:33She acts?
00:34:35So much I need to teach you
00:34:38We have a lot in common
00:34:39Which is
00:34:40Freaking awesome
00:34:42Um
00:34:42I think that
00:34:43Connection is
00:34:44Much stronger
00:34:46When you have similar interests
00:34:49Embracing
00:34:49What could come of this for sure
00:34:52Um
00:34:53So
00:34:54Do you have any siblings?
00:34:56Um
00:34:57So
00:34:58Sort of sensitive topic
00:34:59But yeah
00:34:59I have a brother
00:35:00But he passed away when I was 18
00:35:02So
00:35:03He was like three years older than me
00:35:04But he is the reason why like
00:35:06I became an athlete
00:35:08And like
00:35:09Played baseball
00:35:11Sorry to hear that
00:35:12It's okay
00:35:13Yeah
00:35:14I was a freshman in college
00:35:15So
00:35:16You wanna talk about it or?
00:35:18Mmm
00:35:18Not right now
00:35:19Yeah
00:35:20Yeah
00:35:21I mean it's fine
00:35:22Like I'm okay with it
00:35:24But it's
00:35:24You know
00:35:25Still sensitive
00:35:26And
00:35:26He was huge
00:35:28In my life
00:35:30Yeah
00:35:30So
00:35:31Life is very precious
00:35:32It's
00:35:32It's
00:35:33You know
00:35:33It's here
00:35:34And then it's not
00:35:35And you just
00:35:35You know
00:35:36Gotta
00:35:36Not take it for granted
00:35:38And
00:35:39All that
00:35:40Good stuff
00:35:42Yeah
00:35:43It's cheesy
00:35:43But it's true
00:35:44Yeah
00:35:45Life's a wild ride
00:35:47Look at us now
00:35:49I know
00:35:50We're in the beautiful whistler
00:35:52Trying to like
00:35:53Take it all in
00:35:54You
00:35:55This
00:35:56The heat
00:35:58Good
00:35:58It's only gonna get better
00:36:00You think so?
00:36:02I think so
00:36:08I'm gonna go for it
00:36:09So I'll stay up
00:36:11Every night
00:36:13Can't get you
00:36:14All right
00:36:18To the best date ever
00:36:20Yes, absolutely
00:36:21Cheers
00:36:21Cheers
00:36:23I just feel
00:36:24Really great around him
00:36:25And I really enjoy
00:36:26Kissing him
00:36:27All right
00:36:28Fill me up
00:36:29I feel like
00:36:30We already have
00:36:31That vibe
00:36:32You know
00:36:36Like you just know
00:36:37Like you know
00:36:38When you
00:36:38Like when you kiss someone
00:36:40You just feel it
00:36:41It's hard to explain
00:36:43He's
00:36:44Like
00:36:44Pretty much the full package
00:36:46I guess
00:36:46I feel like
00:36:48He's
00:36:48The right speed for me
00:36:50And
00:36:50A very mature
00:36:52Guy
00:36:53Are you taking me
00:36:54Back to your place?
00:36:55Yeah
00:36:55You want to share a tent?
00:36:56A great first kiss
00:36:58Best one ever
00:36:59No, don't
00:37:00It was
00:37:00You were self-conscious about it
00:37:02I was making you feel better
00:37:03Where's my tulip?
00:37:06Aw
00:37:08You know
00:37:08Tulips are my favorite flower
00:37:10Just like our wine
00:37:11Truly
00:37:12Thank you
00:37:12Huh
00:37:14So I'll stay up
00:37:16Isn't that crazy?
00:37:18Should I grab your ass?
00:37:19Yeah
00:37:39When was your last relationship?
00:37:44When?
00:37:44Yeah
00:37:45Oh
00:37:48When was it
00:37:49Or when did it end?
00:37:51When was it?
00:37:52When did it end?
00:37:52Okay, so
00:37:53Hold up
00:37:54Isn't that like the same thing?
00:37:55When was it?
00:37:56When did it end?
00:37:57I'm sorry, I'm just daunting the question
00:37:58I'm just daunting the question
00:37:59Over
00:38:00Um, no
00:38:01I would say
00:38:02I would say it ended
00:38:03Probably
00:38:04Five months ago
00:38:06And it started
00:38:07Maybe like
00:38:0810 to 12 months ago
00:38:11So
00:38:11Why did that end?
00:38:12It was
00:38:13Why did it end?
00:38:14Um, honestly
00:38:15Because
00:38:18He had a lot that he needed to
00:38:21Como se dice
00:38:22Fix
00:38:23Um, and I wasn't willing to take that on
00:38:25I mean, I think it's really hard
00:38:26When you love a person
00:38:28And you want the best for them
00:38:29And you see the best for them
00:38:31But at some point
00:38:32It's not worth sacrificing your own well-being
00:38:35That's right
00:38:35So for me, it was just choosing myself
00:38:38Over somebody who wasn't good for me
00:38:40My daughters are a huge part of my life
00:38:42So when I'm dating someone these days
00:38:44It's definitely
00:38:45I need to see the potential in them
00:38:47Of someone that could be in my daughter's lives
00:38:50Someone that I can trust enough
00:38:53To let that guard down
00:38:55And let them into every part of my life
00:38:57That's what I want to lean into
00:38:59We don't need a star to guide us home
00:39:04Because
00:39:04We become one
00:39:06And we're together
00:39:07We got that fire that burns forever
00:39:10Through the storm
00:39:12We hold each other close
00:39:15Because
00:39:15We become one
00:39:17And we're together
00:39:18We got that love
00:39:20The love will last forever
00:39:25Hey guys
00:39:26Good morning
00:39:27How'd you guys sleep?
00:39:29So good
00:39:29Oh my gosh
00:39:30I had some weird dreams
00:39:31Really?
00:39:32Yeah
00:39:33Like
00:39:34I don't know
00:39:35Stress dreams probably
00:39:37Yeah
00:39:37Was it about
00:39:38John?
00:39:39How are you guys doing?
00:39:40We're good
00:39:41I mean
00:39:42Obviously I'm just
00:39:43Like
00:39:44How the hell old is he?
00:39:47I think that's my biggest thing
00:39:48Obviously I'm like
00:39:49Wake up in the middle of the night
00:39:50Like
00:39:51Oh shit
00:39:51Yeah
00:39:52I was like shocked
00:39:53When
00:39:54I went on my one-on-one with John
00:39:56Girl you were so
00:39:58I was like
00:39:58What?
00:40:00Yeah
00:40:00Yeah yeah yeah yeah
00:40:01He was just like
00:40:02I'm gonna go for it
00:40:03But you know
00:40:04I just
00:40:04I always am like waiting for the other shoe to drop
00:40:07So
00:40:07That guy's locked in on you Theresa
00:40:09He hasn't looked at anyone else
00:40:11I swear
00:40:11No he's locked in
00:40:12Yeah
00:40:13And he's genuine about it
00:40:14And you guys actually
00:40:15Like you're a cute couple
00:40:16Like you guys are really good together
00:40:17We're rooting for ya
00:40:19I'm gonna say like in the next few days
00:40:21I see you guys there
00:40:21Promise room
00:40:22This is like the fun stage
00:40:23I will lead you ladies
00:40:25Through
00:40:25Please do
00:40:26To the promise room
00:40:26Lead us to the promised land
00:40:44Yes
00:40:45Oh boy
00:40:46This is gonna be fun
00:40:55Look at the river
00:40:57Wow
00:40:57Welcome everybody
00:40:58Thanks for having us
00:41:00Hey
00:41:00Thank you
00:41:01Yes
00:41:01Welcome to Pemberton, British Columbia
00:41:04Beautiful coastal mountains here
00:41:06We have some wonderful beverages for you to enjoy
00:41:09I will pour some white
00:41:11This is really good
00:41:13This is my favorite
00:41:14Mmm
00:41:14Oh wow
00:41:16It's good
00:41:16Cheers
00:41:17Cheers
00:41:22So when you swirl it and you have the legs
00:41:24What does that mean sugar
00:41:26Yes
00:41:26See
00:41:26The legs are sugar
00:41:27Interesting
00:41:28The thicker the legs
00:41:29The more sugar
00:41:32We'll see if that's true
00:41:33Are they thicker?
00:41:34No they're
00:41:35They won't
00:41:36I'd say they're around
00:41:37Will we?
00:41:38I would hope so
00:41:39That's true
00:41:39I would absolutely hope so
00:41:40Yeah
00:41:42Well I know what we're doing later
00:41:44That's easy
00:41:44Says you
00:41:46Says you
00:41:47You know I've said from the get go
00:41:49I really am open to getting to know these men
00:41:54Regardless of their ages
00:41:56But I have a 21 year old nephew
00:42:00And he reminds me of him
00:42:01It's like
00:42:03Should we make out?
00:42:06Too soon?
00:42:07Oh
00:42:09Um
00:42:11Really?
00:42:12If we did that
00:42:13Then you'd have this all over you
00:42:14I wouldn't mind
00:42:16You're pretty smooth Tristan
00:42:18Not gonna lie
00:42:19Like I don't know if I can really
00:42:21Let that guy into my bed
00:42:22You know
00:42:24I'm not gonna lie
00:42:25I like the mom vibe
00:42:25You do?
00:42:26Do you have mommy issues?
00:42:27My mom is only 19 years older than me
00:42:30So when I date women that are getting up there
00:42:33This is gonna sound horrible
00:42:34But like if you're not as hot as my mom
00:42:36I'm not gonna marry you
00:42:38Was your mom distant?
00:42:40No
00:42:41She was very strict
00:42:42Oh well
00:42:43Yeah
00:42:43That might be distant
00:42:44No she was
00:42:47Maybe
00:42:47He's really young
00:42:49Little baby face
00:42:51And that
00:42:51I'm finding that that does matter
00:42:54Where did you come from?
00:42:56Cheers Prince Harry
00:42:57Cheers
00:42:58Where's Meghan Markle?
00:42:59He loves that
00:43:00Nice
00:43:00Enjoying it
00:43:03Some people might be chasing money
00:43:04Some people might be chasing fame
00:43:07I'm chasing like a feeling
00:43:08Like you wanna wake up
00:43:09And be excited to
00:43:11Have a partner
00:43:12And Teresa's slowly checking off my boxes
00:43:17Of what I want in a partner
00:43:18Gorge
00:43:19It's crazy isn't it?
00:43:21I feel at ease with her
00:43:23And not to get too deep
00:43:25But it's because she's Teresa
00:43:28I
00:43:29If I could bottle it up and sell it
00:43:31I would
00:43:32I got lucky
00:43:34How are you feeling?
00:43:36I feel good
00:43:37Kinda crazy isn't it?
00:43:39Yes
00:43:39In a good way
00:43:40Mhm
00:43:41I did wake up in the middle of the night
00:43:43And I was like
00:43:43Ugh
00:43:44What is happening?
00:43:46Me too
00:43:46Did you?
00:43:47I swear
00:43:48Yeah
00:43:48Yeah it was like
00:43:49I think it hit me last night
00:43:51And I was like
00:43:51Yes
00:43:52Not anything bad
00:43:53It was just like
00:43:53No
00:43:54Same
00:43:54It was just like
00:43:55What is
00:43:56What's going on?
00:43:58But no
00:43:58Sincerely
00:43:59Like I
00:43:59Left the date last night
00:44:01Couldn't stop thinking about you
00:44:03No interest in
00:44:05Anybody else
00:44:06Okay
00:44:06Good
00:44:07Me neither
00:44:07Good
00:44:09Oh God
00:44:11So game's over
00:44:12And I was kidding
00:44:12Oh God
00:44:13Don't say that
00:44:14I'm kidding
00:44:15Yeah I mean that
00:44:17I don't think
00:44:18There's no
00:44:19There's no added pressure to that
00:44:20But
00:44:20Yeah
00:44:21I think
00:44:21I don't
00:44:23That's what I'm here for
00:44:24Um
00:44:25So
00:44:27Yeah
00:44:38Kissing him is amazing
00:44:40Like I was shocked
00:44:41When I kissed him yesterday
00:44:42And it was just like
00:44:43Sparks and good stuff
00:44:45We just have this magnetic attraction to each other
00:44:49And yeah I wanna kiss him some more
00:44:51So
00:44:52Let's go
00:44:57I just wanna be with you
00:45:01I definitely think this is a moment to see if Justin and I are compatible
00:45:05But I still very much wanna get to know Jorge more
00:45:10I do like both of them
00:45:11But Justin, he's just so sweet
00:45:14We want the same things
00:45:16Um
00:45:16And that's also what has drawn me to him
00:45:19And he's just like
00:45:20He's just like
00:45:20Made me just feel so comfortable
00:45:22And just like
00:45:23So wanted
00:45:24And just
00:45:24Yeah
00:45:25Just all the things that a woman wants to feel
00:45:27What you did say yesterday is that like
00:45:30You don't really like fall easily or like
00:45:32Um
00:45:33No
00:45:33Or don't really
00:45:35Yeah
00:45:36I love very hard
00:45:37Slow
00:45:38Slow to love
00:45:39Right?
00:45:40How slow?
00:45:41I don't know
00:45:42I thought we connected super early
00:45:44Like literally the first day
00:45:46We were like
00:45:4730 seconds together
00:45:48And I was like
00:45:49It's like
00:45:50This girl
00:45:51I like this girl
00:45:52If you like
00:45:53But I don't want you to
00:45:54You know
00:45:54I don't want you to feel like
00:45:55You can't get to know anybody or whatever
00:45:56But
00:45:56I mean of course not
00:45:57But
00:45:58I listen to what I want
00:46:00Like my heart
00:46:01I suspect you usually get what you want
00:46:10You can't look at me like that
00:46:12How am I looking at you?
00:46:14I don't know
00:46:15Like you're gonna kiss me or something
00:46:16Yeah?
00:46:17Does that make you nervous?
00:46:18A little bit
00:46:19Why?
00:46:21I don't know
00:46:24Stop
00:46:25Justin
00:46:27I feel like a schoolgirl
00:46:29I don't know why
00:46:30You feel like a schoolgirl?
00:46:32Get the
00:46:32You know where you're like
00:46:33In high school or something
00:46:34You're like talking to someone
00:46:36You're just like getting
00:46:37Yeah?
00:46:38Yeah, I feel like that right now
00:46:39That's what you feel like?
00:46:40Mhm
00:46:41I like talking to you
00:46:42Yeah
00:47:01I'm
00:47:03I'm sorry
00:47:05Are you waiting to do that?
00:47:06Yeah, I needed only four glasses of wine
00:47:08You need an encouragement?
00:47:10Yeah
00:47:10Right
00:47:10Oh my gosh
00:47:11I normally don't kiss someone like so fast
00:47:14Yeah, that's right
00:47:14I should've asked you
00:47:15No, it's okay
00:47:16No, I reciprocated
00:47:18You did
00:47:18Yeah
00:47:19I wanted to
00:47:21And I love that you did that
00:47:23Yeah
00:47:24Mhm
00:47:24So far
00:47:26Smitten
00:47:27Smitten
00:47:27Is a good way to say it
00:47:28I would say
00:47:28I'm smitten with Vanell
00:47:31I suspect Vanell is younger than me
00:47:33She has no gray in her hair
00:47:35And I have gray in my beard
00:47:37Um
00:47:38I know how old I am
00:47:40But
00:47:40Despite that
00:47:41I feel a lot of connection with her
00:47:43I wanna know how old you are
00:47:46Do you?
00:47:49Yeah
00:47:49We can go to the promise room
00:47:51And you can find out
00:47:52I guess that's true
00:47:54But I will say
00:47:55My dad has told me
00:47:56But now I don't want you to marry anyone
00:47:58That's over ten years older than you
00:48:00Oh no
00:48:01You're not older then
00:48:02But my whole
00:48:02But my family knows
00:48:03Should we just end this now?
00:48:05We could still be in the
00:48:07In the criteria
00:48:08Yeah
00:48:09It's possible
00:48:09That's true
00:48:11I doubt it
00:48:12I could be older than I look
00:48:13You could be
00:48:14You know black don't crack, right?
00:48:15That's true
00:48:16That's true
00:48:17Mm-hmm
00:48:18Today really just sped up our relationship to another level
00:48:22Like I really did not expect us to like kiss today
00:48:25It's only been like a few days of me knowing him
00:48:27And now I find myself in a love triangle with Justin and Jorge
00:48:33His age does matter to me to an extent
00:48:37But I'm really trying to lead with like my heart
00:48:40And not try to like get in my head about that
00:48:43I'm glad I met you
00:48:45I'm glad I met you too
00:49:03Waking up today at the retreat
00:49:05I feel like John is the one that I really want to see this through with
00:49:10It is crazy that it's only been a couple of days
00:49:13And my connection with John is super strong
00:49:16Like he just knows
00:49:17He already knows me
00:49:19Like we have this like really strange ease with each other
00:49:28So I'm taking John to the promise room
00:49:31I think we're ready for that
00:49:33But there is a very good chance that I found my partner
00:49:37Rying on the ocean floor
00:49:40Fuck you now
00:49:43In the past I had been terribly hurt
00:49:47I had been lied to
00:49:48Deceived
00:49:50Deceived
00:49:51And also controlled
00:49:54In a couple of relationships
00:49:59Even though I'm nervous about sharing my kids' ages with John
00:50:04I feel that I can trust him
00:50:07I feel that I can trust him and be vulnerable and
00:50:14Sorry
00:50:19Yeah, I feel like I can trust him
00:50:23Um
00:50:25And that our connection is strong enough that
00:50:27Once I do tell him
00:50:30You know about my kids and my age and everything
00:50:32I don't think he's gonna run away
00:50:35I'm lying on the ocean floor
00:50:39Looking up
00:50:40Being 100% vulnerable and out there is scary
00:50:43Watching as the world floats by
00:50:46Going to the promise room
00:50:47The only thing on my mind right now is
00:50:49Expressing with Teresa how I feel
00:50:50And
00:50:51Seeing how she reacts to my age
00:50:55If age ruined this
00:50:57It would hurt
00:50:58I've been in that situation before
00:51:00And it hurts
00:51:00And I don't want to be in that situation again
00:51:03If I could only breathe
00:51:10If I could only swim back towards above
00:51:14Hi
00:51:17You look great
00:51:19How are you?
00:51:21Good
00:51:21How are you?
00:51:22You're good
00:51:26I touch her
00:51:29You know I came here because
00:51:33Um
00:51:34I thought this was a really great opportunity
00:51:37For me to hopefully meet somebody
00:51:40Who
00:51:42Was ready
00:51:43For
00:51:44A relationship
00:51:45In the past I've been really hurt
00:51:52And
00:51:53I was
00:51:54Really touched
00:51:55Because
00:51:56You
00:51:57Right away
00:51:58Like
00:51:58Made me feel
00:51:59Super safe
00:52:00And
00:52:01Um
00:52:09And
00:52:10Um
00:52:11To me
00:52:12That's very rare
00:52:14So I'm really
00:52:16Grateful that I
00:52:17Got here
00:52:18And that we found each other so quickly
00:52:21And
00:52:22I'm looking forward to hopefully
00:52:23Continuing
00:52:25Continuing
00:52:25Down that path
00:52:26And
00:52:27Getting to know you more
00:52:29And
00:52:30Expanding our relationship
00:52:31Hopefully
00:52:32Mm-hmm
00:52:34Um
00:52:39I appreciate you
00:52:41Being vulnerable
00:52:43Pretty early
00:52:44I know it's been quick
00:52:45Yeah
00:52:46And I think in the past
00:52:48With relationships
00:52:49It's been on me
00:52:51I haven't been ready
00:52:52I haven't been like
00:52:53Mentally there
00:52:53So I can't really blame anybody
00:52:55But myself
00:52:57And
00:52:57I feel
00:52:58At ease
00:53:00Like where I'm at
00:53:01I think
00:53:03That
00:53:05I can be trustworthy
00:53:06And
00:53:07Reliable
00:53:08And that kind of rock
00:53:10That I feel like
00:53:11We've been
00:53:13Throughout this whole experience
00:53:14I'm looking forward to whatever's next
00:53:17Yeah
00:53:17Me too
00:53:20Alright
00:53:20Well
00:53:24So I think this is your size
00:53:25A little bit bigger than yours
00:53:28Um
00:53:29So this is a ring
00:53:30I wanted to
00:53:31Offer to you
00:53:33Um
00:53:34And
00:53:35Hope that you'll accept it
00:53:37In that
00:53:38Um
00:53:38It just symbolizes that
00:53:41I
00:53:42Want to
00:53:42Continue to
00:53:43Grow this relationship
00:53:45See where it goes
00:53:48And
00:53:48Learn more about each other
00:53:53Do I say yes now
00:53:55Or
00:53:59Thank you
00:54:02And this
00:54:03Is a ring for you
00:54:05Mm-hmm
00:54:06To express
00:54:07How thankful I am
00:54:09To have met you
00:54:10Aw
00:54:11I hope
00:54:13You will accept this ring
00:54:16Mm-hmm
00:54:17Yeah, I'll accept it
00:54:24Voila
00:54:24Teamwork
00:54:25Yeah
00:54:25This is good
00:54:28Um
00:54:28So
00:54:30I have some
00:54:31Kind of big things to tell you
00:54:33Um
00:54:34Again, this is
00:54:36Very
00:54:37Sensitive
00:54:38And
00:54:40Um
00:54:43So yeah
00:54:44My age
00:54:47You're gonna die
00:54:50Oh my god
00:54:51Okay
00:54:53I think anything that you can't control in life
00:54:55That has a weight of importance
00:54:58Is really scary
00:55:02If she thinks the age gap is more significant than she expected, than she thinks, than she feels, um, yeah,
00:55:10it could affect us for sure
00:55:13I
00:55:13I think it's going to be, like, a really big shock, because I don't think he has any idea
00:55:22In the past, everyone thinks I'm significantly older than I am
00:55:26It's not like one to two years, like, oh, she'll, I think I'm gonna shock her
00:55:29Uh, I mean, I think he's in his 30s, but I'm hoping he's 38, or older
00:55:37He's gonna be so shocked
00:55:43I'm 27 years old
00:55:45I'm 27 years old
00:55:50Taking someone to the promise room is something that I take very seriously
00:55:55To me, it means commitment, and it means acceptance
00:56:00I'm nervous about learning his age
00:56:05I don't know if I could move forward with him if he's over late 40s
00:56:09Got your seatbelt on?
00:56:10Oh god
00:56:14I don't know if you would think for this
00:56:17I am
00:56:2127
00:56:23Oh my god
00:56:27Oh wow
00:56:28Oh my god
00:56:30Trying to roll with that whole age is just a number thing
00:56:38I just can't believe it's going so well
00:56:41I did not expect to find something this serious this fast
00:56:46Have you guys had sex yet?
00:56:50Yeah, we have
00:56:51Good for you! I'm so jealous
00:56:54It's time to introduce your bold new love story
00:56:57To the people who matter most
00:56:59Your friends, your families
00:57:01My kids coming here
00:57:03Would be, like, insane
00:57:06Like, so scared to see them
00:57:08Oh my god, it's both up there
00:57:10Wow
00:57:11She seems a little high maintenance
00:57:14He may need some Botox
00:57:16She seems really fun
00:57:18She just can't rent a car to drive out to
00:57:20No!
00:57:21His age will be jarring for them
00:57:23They will not accept it
00:57:25I just want to make sure you're thinking realistically
00:57:29I don't want to do this
00:57:32You just like me as a friend?
00:57:34This whole thing has been a lot, man
00:57:35I feel like it's killing you
00:57:37I'm starting to think, is this age a problem for us?
00:57:40Maybe I'm not as mature as I thought
00:57:43Potentially having two immediate children?
00:57:48I mean, like, it is, it is what it is
00:57:51You're trying to turn this on me
00:57:53I'm not trying to turn this on me
00:57:54Yes, you are!
00:57:56Lou was the fun person that I had at the retreat
00:57:58What the fuck am I doing?
00:58:00I'm really done with this conversation
00:58:03Can I get this mic off me?
00:58:04I'm not ashamed of how old he is
00:58:06I'm not ashamed of it
00:58:07It's really none of your business
00:58:16Sorry
00:58:17I don't know whether we're gonna
00:58:18get over that huge age gap
00:58:20Is my life too overwhelming for her?
00:58:22It's very possible that he is
00:58:24gonna break my heart on this column today
00:58:27I don't want to live my life without her
00:58:29I might be feeling dangerous
00:58:31and I might do something crazy
00:58:34And so...
00:58:40We want to continue this journey
00:58:42and do life together
00:58:43I've been living in the 50s
00:58:51Everything I see
00:58:52Black and white TV
00:58:54When you're with me
00:58:57Things look pretty
00:58:59Gonna be feeling like
00:59:00You're my time machine
00:59:03Saturated to the extreme
00:59:062020
00:59:08HD
00:59:10Digital visual
00:59:11Like something from the screen
00:59:13A filter from a dream
00:59:15You're so colorful to me
00:59:18Vibrant
00:59:20You make my life so vibrant
00:59:23You're spoken in the ecstasy
00:59:26Hiding
00:59:27I just had my excitement
00:59:30So vibrant when you're next to me
00:59:36Love, yeah
00:59:37Love, yeah
00:59:37We love you thriving
00:59:39Cause you're all mine, yeah, yeah
01:00:13Love, yeah
01:00:16We love you
01:00:31Oooh niye
01:00:33Sings
01:00:33The problem
01:00:33Nomics
01:00:34Is you
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