00:00For me, what love generally translates into is that when I try to feel it or try to go deeper
00:06into it, it generally takes the direction of sexual instincts.
00:09Sex is an itch. It's a physical thing. Like itching a place that's itching to be itched.
00:16The real question lies elsewhere. And by talking so much of sex, you avoid the real question.
00:21The real question is, if I have any kind of self-diagnosis, I will know the kind of company I
00:29should keep and the kind of person I should avoid.
00:32Now, when you engage with somebody for sexual reasons, a lot of time is spent together.
00:39Maybe the sexual activity lasts just a few minutes. But the companionship does not stop at that.
00:46The companionship continues for many, many hours, weeks, months, years, sometimes like...
00:51Fourteen rebirths.
00:55And what will you do to the quality of your life?
00:58Remember the bigger issue at hand.
01:01The bigger issue is always the ego.
01:04Because that's what suffers.
01:06And at the root of most of these relationships is the sexual urge.
01:10So sexual urge becomes relationship, relationship becomes suffering.
01:14And that's where the equation threatens.
01:17That's what you should be mindful of.
01:21Whether you're confident kids or whatever remind them, that you need to understand the meaning of the condition.
01:25You can explain what we have to know.
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