00:00The part that hormones play in defining our relationships or the way we will proceed with a certain person in
00:07our life, you will definitely fall prey to it.
00:10First part is right. The second, not necessarily. You said hormones are not in our control. That's right. That's well
00:18said.
00:18The second thing you said, we will definitely fall prey to it. Not necessarily. You may not control the hormones,
00:25but you have it in you to observe the play of hormones.
00:30But that sort of observation doesn't come in teenagers. I mean, they are too young to even observe themselves.
00:35It's not a matter of youth. It's a matter of conditioning. Teenager is a very old person. He has already
00:42been conditioned for 10 years or more.
00:44So that's what makes it tough for the teenager. It's not as if you require to be really old to
00:50understand a few things.
00:51Self-observation is a very, very simple thing of direct honesty. You know, you have a little daughter and she
00:58can honestly admit, yes, I was jealous.
01:01Why did you hide the apple from your brother? I was greedy. This is self-observation. This does not demand
01:10a particular age.
01:11But when you tell her in advance, you're a bad girl, if you are envious or jealous, then she'll not
01:18envious.
01:19She'll start hiding her true emotions. She'll start hiding her true emotions.
01:23And when we are forced to mask our true emotions and true self, you cannot then afford to observe.
01:29And there will be a sudden eruption. Yes, obviously. And what is observed becomes harmless.
01:36Now you know what is happening is hormonal, chemical. Therefore, you will not fall prey to it.
01:43You don't need to control it. You just need to know.
01:46Take care.
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