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Second Chance Love - Season 1 - Episode 06: Climbing Together Emgsub
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00:07I am totally in to keep moving forward.
00:12I've been wanting to, like, open up to you more.
00:16I get scared.
00:17Like, our chemistry is still there.
00:19As soon as I saw you, it clicked.
00:21I feel like I'm at home.
00:23I do not want to rush into another relationship,
00:25and I wouldn't want to lose a potential friend.
00:28And what's important to them, like, in a relationship
00:31where it's so vastly different?
00:33They're talking marriage and kids, you know?
00:36They don't exactly envy the position that they're in.
00:39This is about as romantic as it could get.
00:42I am a little concerned because we haven't had a lot of moments
00:46where she and I have connected.
00:48I'm not really sure what direction she wants it to go in.
00:51My daughter has her first dance recital coming up,
00:54so tonight I'll be leaving to go back home.
00:57Are you going to come back?
01:14We took the wrong path,
01:16and we ended up at, like, somebody else's, like, resort.
01:19That's why you are.
01:22Where are we?
01:24Girl talk.
01:25I have a chair.
01:27The new one, the new B.
01:30The new one.
01:30You get to be.
01:31New girl on the block.
01:33Yeah, the new one.
01:34The new, okay.
01:36So?
01:37So we want the real skinny.
01:39We want everything.
01:40No, I'm kidding.
01:40Yeah?
01:41Okay, no, you don't have to tell me anything.
01:42Even though we came late,
01:44me and Calvin have had some talks,
01:46and we want to take it slow.
01:48And he's made me feel just super comfortable.
01:50He's easy to talk to.
01:52Are you avoiding anything now?
01:54Like, are you prepared for the serious questions
01:57or the serious conversation?
01:59Oh, yes.
02:03I mean, I'm going to be honest with him,
02:04no matter what he asks,
02:05and he knows that,
02:06and he knows that I want to take it slow
02:09and think things through.
02:10I have a motherly instinct.
02:12I know that Calvin is very much into Autumn.
02:18She?
02:18I can't tell.
02:19I can't tell if she's into him.
02:21I just don't want to jump into something
02:23and not really think it through.
02:25I mean, obviously, we live super far apart,
02:28so that would be something
02:29that we would have to be able to work out
02:32in real life when we're out of Italy.
02:35Because this is like a dream,
02:36like getting this time and hanging out.
02:38But it's different when we get home,
02:40and reality kind of sits in.
02:43Right.
02:43Now, Paul and I, it's so funny,
02:44because here I am telling you all,
02:46Paul and I haven't had that conversation.
02:47I'm in Houston, and he's in Seattle.
02:50How are we going to work that out?
02:52Because you're so into somebody,
02:53you forget to ask those,
02:54and that could be a deal breaker.
02:56I feel like that's how me and Calvin were
02:57the first time around.
02:58It was like a whirlwind,
03:00and we just kind of jumped in,
03:01like too fast.
03:03And we really don't want to do that
03:05this time around.
03:06Calvin and Autumn,
03:07I think that they are a beautiful couple.
03:09So I want to see their relationship blossom.
03:13How's it going with you and Paul now?
03:14I hardly know.
03:16I hardly know.
03:17What do you mean?
03:18Because right now,
03:19I mean, I already have expressed my feelings,
03:21and it's kind of the balls in Paul's court.
03:24So it depends on what he's thinking
03:26and what he wants.
03:28Okay.
03:28He's a little more sort of grumpy now.
03:33But he was actually more kind of loving
03:36and affectionate before.
03:38But then that loving and affectionate guy,
03:40you know, broke my heart.
03:42So now I don't even get that.
03:45I just get, you know, he's kind of gruff.
03:47But I think it's just the way
03:49he's showing his affection.
03:51He just does it differently,
03:52and I haven't been used to that.
03:53Paul and I still need to have
03:55the hard conversation,
03:56because even though I sense how he's feeling
03:58and he knows how I'm feeling,
04:01he needs to say those words.
04:03And for this man,
04:04who is the most honest man that I've known,
04:06he's holding back ever so slightly,
04:08and he needs to say it to me.
04:09I need to hear it.
04:10I need to hear,
04:12I want to be with you forever.
04:15What's your update?
04:17Give us your update.
04:18You know, we've been friends
04:19for over 30-something years.
04:22Ellen is a great person,
04:25and we get along,
04:26but there's different aspects
04:28of, like, you know,
04:29a romantic relationship
04:31that Ellen and I don't know about,
04:33of each other.
04:34And that's what we're, like, you know,
04:36discovering about one another.
04:38But it's going to take some time.
04:41But we're just trying to see
04:42if we would be, like, right,
04:44like, if we're fitting for one another
04:46for, like, a romantic relationship.
04:48That's one of the things,
04:49is us trying to find out, like,
04:50you know, if, you know, we can.
04:54That's a lot to unpack.
04:56It's kind of funny,
04:57because Rasmie,
04:58when she talks to me
04:59about her relationship with Ellen,
05:02she says the same thing
05:03back to back to back to back.
05:06Yeah, we're just, you know,
05:07really trying to get to know each other.
05:09I sense that she's afraid
05:11to actually come up
05:12with what she wants.
05:14I'm going to have to explore,
05:15because I need details,
05:17and I'm inquisitive.
05:18Some people call me nosy.
05:21Um, let's go get going
05:23for the rest of the day,
05:24because I think we have to,
05:26you know, get ready
05:26for the workout.
05:28Cool.
05:29I'll walk you to the door
05:30like a gentlewoman.
05:31Oh, thank you.
05:32Because that's how I am.
05:37So today,
05:38we have a workout
05:39with Chili,
05:40who's in such good shape.
05:42So we won't go too hard today,
05:44but we're going to do
05:45the core workout.
05:47This is exactly what we need.
05:49There's been a lot of pasta here,
05:50like a lot.
05:51I like to eat.
05:52Pastries.
05:53Potatoes.
05:54Pasta.
05:54Pasta.
05:55Pizza.
05:56I can eat.
05:57There's no doubt about that.
05:58So this is going to be
05:59so wonderful.
06:02All right, you ready?
06:03Wow.
06:04Well, I'm going to be
06:05in the front of the class.
06:07I'll be all right,
06:08you know,
06:08because I'll work out.
06:09You know, I'm an athlete.
06:11Today, we're going to
06:11concentrate on the core.
06:12That's my favorite,
06:13because if you want
06:14to preserve your back
06:16as we age,
06:17you got to have
06:18a strong core.
06:18We know that, yeah?
06:20Yes.
06:20Paul and I have been
06:21hitting the gym
06:22every single day.
06:23When you consistently
06:25work out,
06:26classes like this
06:27are very, very easy.
06:29So I'm ready.
06:31Let's get down here.
06:34Okay.
06:35On your backs.
06:36Let's do this.
06:38One, two, three, six, seven, eight, nine, ten.
06:47Ten more.
06:49I was wrong.
06:50It was hard.
06:53All together.
06:54I'm here with someone
06:56who I want to rekindle with,
06:57and she is very athletic.
07:00So it makes me work
07:02a little bit harder.
07:03I got to keep up.
07:04Guys, we're not done yet.
07:06Let's go.
07:07One, two.
07:09This workout routine
07:10is no joke.
07:12Go.
07:13Two, three.
07:15I was fighting for my life.
07:18Oh, you're okay?
07:19Hey.
07:21Oh, my gosh.
07:24I haven't had this much fun
07:25since polio.
07:28Now we're going to come around
07:29and we're going to look
07:30at everybody's abs.
07:31I know.
07:33What's crazy is that,
07:34you know,
07:35our time is kind of
07:36winding down here.
07:37Yeah.
07:37I know.
07:38It's bittersweet, isn't it?
07:39You know,
07:40we've had such a good time,
07:41but I think we want to make sure
07:43that you guys
07:44have those conversations
07:45that need to be had
07:46and don't get to that point
07:48where all of a sudden
07:48you realize time is out
07:50and you haven't really discussed
07:52with your partner
07:53what you're feeling.
07:54I think it's incredibly important
07:56just making sure
07:57that it's real clear,
07:58you know,
07:58that you guys
07:59are either going to leave together
08:00or you're going to leave separate.
08:02And also remember,
08:03there's no failing here.
08:05Leaving as friends
08:06and going your own separate ways
08:08could be the win.
08:09Right.
08:10So don't put that pressure
08:11on yourself.
08:12Just be true to yourself.
08:13Just got to be
08:14100% transparent.
08:16Let's see what
08:17these next few days
08:18lead us to.
08:19All right.
08:21Thanks, Chili.
08:23I'm going to be sore tomorrow.
08:25Yeah, I'm going to be sore.
08:26That was a good workout.
08:27Big old bump will be.
08:30What's that Chili?
08:37Hello.
08:38Are you ready for our double date?
08:40Yes.
08:40Today,
08:41we are going on
08:42a little double date,
08:43Camille and I
08:44and Autumn and Calvin.
08:45Come on.
08:46It'll be great.
08:47We're making memories,
08:49you know?
08:49Calvin and Autumn
08:50definitely like to be outside
08:52in nature like myself.
08:53And I think
08:54that Camille will like this,
08:56but we'll make the best of it
08:58and have fun.
08:59Trust me.
09:00It'll be a lot of fun.
09:00It'll be sweet.
09:04We're making memories,
09:06you know?
09:06Memorable memories.
09:08It'll be great.
09:10Hello, guys.
09:11Hello.
09:12Hello.
09:13Welcome.
09:14We're going to do some
09:15rock climbing
09:16and some zip lining.
09:17I'm excited.
09:19It's going to be fun, Camille.
09:20Yeah, this will be fun.
09:21This?
09:22We got it.
09:24This is the first time
09:25Blake and I have done
09:27anything like this together.
09:29So I'm a little scared,
09:31but I'm excited.
09:33I'll be there for you.
09:34I got it.
09:34Okay.
09:35We're just going to have to see.
09:36You look like Laura Croft,
09:38you know?
09:39Tomb Raider.
09:40Double dates could be
09:40a little weird sometimes,
09:41you know,
09:42because it's different dynamics.
09:44I'm not too worried
09:44about Autumn.
09:45I got this daredevil next to me
09:47and she's just like
09:48pushing me to do things
09:49that I probably would
09:50never do by myself.
09:51Are these one-size pizza?
09:54I don't know.
09:55You can choose.
09:56Yeah.
10:01I've never gone
10:02to rock climbing before.
10:03I love doing
10:04outside stuff like that.
10:05I like challenging myself
10:06and I think it is
10:07super romantic
10:08because I get to
10:10experience all of this
10:11for the first time
10:12with Calvin.
10:14Come on.
10:15Let's go.
10:17I'm excited.
10:18Let's do this.
10:19Yeah, let's do this.
10:22This date,
10:23it's one of these
10:24once-in-a-lifetime
10:26experiences.
10:27I'm beyond excited.
10:29I just want to
10:29carpe diem
10:30seize the day.
10:31I see that with Camille, too.
10:33She's got that spirit.
10:34I love the fact that,
10:35you know,
10:36she's like the same way.
10:38That's what I want
10:39in a partner.
10:40Leg workout.
10:42Woo.
10:42I got a nice little sweat going.
10:44Yeah.
10:45I thought it was just
10:45going to be a short
10:46little walk,
10:47but then there's like rocks
10:49that we have to kind of
10:50like start stepping over,
10:52climbing up.
10:53This way.
10:54This way.
10:54These are super sturdy.
10:55Trust me,
10:55I would not be getting on
10:56these rocks if they were moving.
10:57You want me to take your hand?
10:59You got it.
11:01I promise it'll be okay.
11:04I just wanted to support her.
11:09Let me try.
11:11He'll pull you.
11:12This is freaky.
11:13I'm climbing over rocks,
11:15climbing under rocks,
11:16hanging on for dear life.
11:19Oh my gosh.
11:20Oh my gosh.
11:21I can't.
11:22I'm done.
11:22Yeah.
11:23No.
11:23You're good.
11:24You're good.
11:24You want me to get in?
11:25Come on.
11:28I do not do things like this ever.
11:35I believe this is for you.
11:36Aww.
11:38It's not necessarily my nature
11:40to be romantic.
11:42You're welcome.
11:43I'm not going to make
11:44the same mistake
11:44I made 45 years ago.
11:46The ball's in Paul's court.
11:47We should probably talk
11:49about compatibility.
11:51I made this big effort
11:53to try to like connect with you,
11:55but it doesn't feel like
11:56you're ever going to want
11:58to take that chance.
11:58Maybe not.
12:08You got it, Kim.
12:09There were some tricky rocks
12:11to climb over.
12:13One by one, okay?
12:14But I'm willing to go through this
12:18because our time here in Sardinia
12:21is coming to an end.
12:23Blake makes me happy,
12:25and I deserve to be with a good guy.
12:28And I honestly think this is all
12:30in God's plan.
12:31Come on.
12:32Push over.
12:33And I am just trusting it.
12:37For my first time rock climbing,
12:39I definitely think it was
12:40a little challenging.
12:41My arms were shaking,
12:43but I love it.
12:45I'm having a blast.
12:46This is a lot of fun.
12:47Oh, this is a workout.
12:49I was impressed
12:50when I saw her moving
12:51the way she was.
12:51It showed me a lot about her.
12:53It shows me that
12:54she likes to challenge.
12:56Right there.
12:57This one's probably
12:57in the workout.
12:58Not saying that this is a competition,
12:59but it just shows that
13:00we're going to push each other
13:01to be better.
13:03Okay.
13:03No matter what happens.
13:05Good job.
13:10So, Razmi,
13:11are you prepared
13:12for the serious questions
13:13or the serious conversation?
13:16What?
13:17So I was thinking
13:17maybe you want to
13:19explore or see,
13:20you know,
13:21if you have those feelings
13:22with Alan.
13:25And I know it's not
13:26in your comfort zone,
13:27but you might want to
13:28sort of just open up
13:30about this.
13:33You can do this.
13:35It's okay.
13:36Razmi is a little guarded
13:38in her feelings
13:39in sharing it with everyone,
13:41but I sense
13:42there's just something more.
13:44Just try it
13:44because what's the worst
13:45that's going to happen?
13:46I'm scared.
13:49I'm scared
13:50that
13:54our friendship
13:56dynamic might change.
13:57It will change.
13:59That's the point.
13:59In a negative way.
14:00Oh,
14:01the possibility
14:02of losing a friendship
14:03altogether
14:04if that doesn't work out.
14:05Yeah.
14:06And that's,
14:06I think,
14:07what's holding you back,
14:08maybe.
14:09Yeah.
14:09Perhaps.
14:10Yeah.
14:10Because you don't want
14:11to risk losing that.
14:12Yeah.
14:13I think that that's
14:14perfectly fine,
14:14but I understand
14:15Alan wants more.
14:17I think so.
14:18Do you think
14:19that that's a big obstacle
14:21in your relationship
14:22right now?
14:23It might be.
14:24Really?
14:24I think it's
14:25one of the things.
14:26If you don't
14:27take a risk,
14:28I can assure you
14:29that nothing will happen.
14:31If you do take a risk,
14:33something might happen.
14:34Yeah.
14:35So just consider that.
14:36I mean,
14:36I know you've probably
14:37had conversations about it.
14:40To be completely honest,
14:43no.
14:45Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
14:46You have to have
14:47that conversation.
14:51Yeah.
14:51Yeah.
14:54Yeah.
15:07Look, we up here.
15:08We up here.
15:09Wow.
15:11I'm so scared right now.
15:16Camille actually got up there,
15:18up onto the top of the mountain,
15:20which is huge.
15:22She pushed through it.
15:23Good job.
15:24Thanks, Blake.
15:26There's this level
15:27of just like admiration
15:28and respect for her.
15:30If all the instructions
15:30and I'll be okay,
15:32I promise.
15:32I finally make it
15:34to the top
15:35and I see the zip line.
15:38Three, two, one, go.
15:41Go!
15:43I am feeling
15:45very emotional.
15:47Bye-bye.
15:50I'm shaking.
15:52Want me to go first?
15:53Mm-hmm.
15:54I'm crying.
15:55I'll see you on the other side.
15:56Bye-bye.
15:57Woo!
15:59But I'm trying
16:00to get past my fear.
16:03I feel like Cam's
16:04a little nervous.
16:05Go down.
16:06Your head.
16:07Go down.
16:07Go down.
16:08Go down.
16:08Okay.
16:09Okay.
16:09Three, two, one.
16:11Bye!
16:11Yes!
16:14Woo!
16:16Woo!
16:16Woo!
16:17Woo!
16:17Woo!
16:17There you go.
16:19Woo!
16:20Woo!
16:25Look at that.
16:28Wow!
16:29I did it, guys!
16:31There you go.
16:32Look at you.
16:34I did it.
16:36Come here, come here, come here.
16:38Ow!
16:38I am proud of myself
16:40for getting through these fears
16:42and just pushing,
16:43pushing through it.
16:44You did it!
16:45I am so happy
16:47that Blake
16:48has been by my side.
16:50You helped me
16:51so much.
16:52I'm just like,
16:53I'm really proud of you.
16:54I mean, that was just,
16:55I know that was a big deal.
16:56Yeah.
16:57You know?
16:57It was a really big deal.
16:58But you did it.
16:59I feel like I
17:00couldn't have done it
17:01without him.
17:03He's made me feel so safe.
17:05I'm very appreciative
17:06for you
17:07just being patient with me,
17:08you know,
17:08and just giving me
17:10time.
17:11Anything for you,
17:12honestly.
17:13It's a breath of fresh air
17:15to be with somebody
17:16who cares about me
17:19and sees me for me.
17:22Thank you for opening up.
17:26I know that's a lot.
17:27I get it.
17:29We've both been there
17:30and not so great
17:32of relationships.
17:34So I totally understand,
17:36like, you know,
17:36it's the whole
17:37just trusting again
17:38and, you know,
17:40doing the work
17:41and to open up
17:43and trust again.
17:44It takes a long time.
17:47I know my worth
17:48and Blake knows my worth
17:50and I deserve
17:52to have a good relationship.
17:54And I'm happy that
17:55just the good things
17:57come to those who wait,
17:59I guess, you know?
18:02I'm ready to
18:03let my guard down
18:05and open my heart to you.
18:07You're a good one
18:08and I would like
18:09to keep you.
18:11Can I kiss you?
18:12Yeah.
18:28You give me butterflies
18:29and I haven't felt that
18:31in, like, a really,
18:32really, really long time
18:33and it's just,
18:34it's nice to,
18:36it's nice to feel that again.
18:38Just getting to know you again
18:39after so long.
18:42I wouldn't, you know,
18:43trade this moment
18:44for, like, anything.
18:46Honestly.
18:47Sam.
18:54Ready to get off this rock?
18:56I'm so ready to get off this rock.
19:03We've been friends for so long
19:05and now we're working
19:06on the romantic aspect of it.
19:09But I'm looking for something more.
19:11Things haven't been aligned.
19:13I don't know how much more
19:14I can wait to figure that out.
19:18We're really enjoying ourselves.
19:19But there's nothing fluffier, romantic.
19:22Sometimes we can be a little clueless.
19:24That would be the word
19:25that comes to mind.
19:26It is.
19:38Practiced my vocal cords.
19:40I learned from Cam.
19:43Hey, ladies.
19:44How's it going?
19:45Good.
19:45Good.
19:47So I'm here
19:47to check in on you guys
19:49from the guy's perspective.
19:52Hello.
19:54Hi, Chilly.
19:56What is up?
19:58Fancy meeting you here.
20:00Good to see you guys.
20:02Good to see you, too.
20:02See you, too.
20:03I just felt like
20:03it would be good for us
20:04to talk, just us,
20:06from a woman's point of view.
20:09Chilly and Matthew say
20:10they want to kind of check in.
20:12I love that.
20:12I mean, I love opportunities
20:14to get a new perspective on things.
20:16It's going to be helpful
20:16with regard to Razmi and I's relationship.
20:19So I just want to know,
20:21I want to go, you know,
20:22to each of you and see
20:23if there's a moment,
20:24like a romantic moment,
20:25a moment that gave you butterflies
20:27on this whole trip
20:28that really you felt
20:29that little spark.
20:31You know that someone
20:32loves you by looks.
20:33Totally.
20:34Looks and smiles.
20:35Yeah.
20:35I'll catch a little look
20:36from Chilly
20:37and it just melts me.
20:39For sure.
20:40Okay, cool.
20:41Awesome.
20:41Good to hear.
20:42The reunion,
20:43when I first saw it,
20:44it was just like this,
20:46this feeling of euphoria
20:47just washed over me.
20:48When we were getting gelatos
20:50and he gave me the journal
20:52on the bridge,
20:52it was really nice.
20:53Yeah?
20:54And then the stuff
20:55that was inside the journal
20:56was really, really nice
20:57and it meant a lot.
20:58Cool.
20:59That's very cool.
21:00My favorite was us
21:02just like cuddling
21:03like on the couch.
21:05It was like all dark
21:06and we were just like
21:07having like those moments
21:08of just like talking about life.
21:10That's great.
21:11It was nice.
21:12What about you?
21:13When did you feel butterflies?
21:14Seeing her coming off the boat
21:16onto the beach,
21:17this was our reunion.
21:18Oh, okay.
21:19Yeah, yeah.
21:20Like lightning bolt down my spine.
21:22Yeah, she's pretty.
21:25Autumn, how you get any butterflies
21:27at any point in time
21:28on this trip so far?
21:29I enjoy just quality time.
21:31Like I went out to tan
21:32the other day
21:33and I know that man
21:34does not want to lay out there
21:35and tan up to me
21:36but he was like,
21:36oh, go.
21:37We were out there
21:37for like two hours
21:38and I was like,
21:39I knew he didn't want to
21:40but he did it
21:41just to spend time with me
21:42and I love stuff like that.
21:43Totally.
21:43Like our reunion.
21:45You felt he had the butterflies?
21:46When I first saw Autumn
21:48after so many years.
21:50It felt like home.
21:51Alan and I had that moment
21:54on our first date
21:55where we really opened up
21:58to one another
21:58and we spoke about,
21:59well, marriage
22:01and children.
22:02He opened up
22:03and talked about his children
22:04and then we both got emotional
22:06and the moment
22:07was just so real,
22:09so genuine.
22:09That for me
22:10really opened up
22:12my feelings,
22:12my feelings
22:14in a different way,
22:15not just the friendship way.
22:16Okay.
22:16Well, that's a great moment.
22:18Yeah, it was a great moment.
22:19When you can really
22:19bare your soul like that
22:20to somebody,
22:20it's pretty special.
22:22Our first date.
22:23Okay.
22:23I left that date.
22:25I had a hard time
22:26sleeping that night
22:27because my mind was racing.
22:28I love all of this.
22:31Paul?
22:31Yes?
22:34What about you and Leslie?
22:35Leslie, what's going on?
22:36Like, seriously,
22:37give it to me.
22:37Sure.
22:38We're really enjoying ourselves,
22:40so we, yeah,
22:40it's been 45 years.
22:42Yeah.
22:42But we are so much
22:44the same as we were.
22:46I think it's going well
22:47because right now
22:48I'm actually learning
22:49a lot more about Paul.
22:51But there's nothing,
22:52you know,
22:53fluffy or romantic.
22:55Communication is,
22:56it's not easy
22:57for guys all the time.
22:58Sometimes we can be
22:59a little clueless
22:59when it comes to
23:00the emotional side.
23:01That would be the word
23:01that comes to mind.
23:02Yeah, it is.
23:03We can be.
23:04Yeah, she's just as,
23:06you know,
23:07lively and adorable
23:10and bright
23:11as she ever was.
23:12And I'm still,
23:13you know,
23:13kind of dumb.
23:15Well, I've had trouble
23:16with that,
23:16even with Chili and I.
23:18It's great, though.
23:19She'll text me like,
23:20I need some mushy stuff today.
23:21Oh, I like that.
23:22Yeah, and I'll be like,
23:23okay, totally.
23:24You said, I got you.
23:25I got you.
23:25For some reason,
23:27it takes a lot of vulnerability
23:29from a man
23:30to get mushy sometimes.
23:32It's like,
23:32if we open ourselves up
23:34that way,
23:34it maybe weakens us.
23:36You know,
23:37there's that.
23:37That is definitely
23:38something to consider.
23:39I wasn't really thinking
23:39in those terms.
23:40It's weird,
23:40but that's what it is.
23:42I know with Leslie
23:43and I,
23:44it would be easy
23:45to commit.
23:46I have not forgot
23:47about Leslie
23:48in all those years.
23:49You know,
23:50commitment, sure.
23:50I mean,
23:51I don't,
23:52I don't see a problem
23:53with that.
23:53No outside dates?
23:55Yeah.
23:55No.
23:56No.
23:58I'm too old for that.
24:00You never,
24:00no,
24:01there's no such thing.
24:02You want to bet?
24:03Get me married.
24:04Get me married.
24:06So,
24:07Alan and I
24:07are kind of like
24:08the opposite
24:08because we've been
24:09friends for so long
24:10and now we're trying
24:11to think about
24:13coming out of that,
24:15coming out of a friend zone.
24:16Yeah.
24:17Yeah.
24:17And now we're working
24:19on the romantic aspect
24:22of it.
24:23Yeah.
24:23Can we have that spark
24:24for one another?
24:25We seem to be
24:27in this kind of
24:28friendship space,
24:29but I'm looking
24:30for something more.
24:32Things haven't been aligned.
24:33We've been here
24:34for a while.
24:34We've had lots of time
24:35to spend together.
24:37Flirty,
24:38being physically affectionate.
24:39Yeah.
24:39I haven't really felt that,
24:41you know.
24:41From her?
24:41From her, yeah.
24:42Okay.
24:42I've kind of interpreted
24:44that as a lack of interest.
24:45I don't know
24:46how much more
24:47I can wait.
24:48We all have
24:49that gut feeling, right?
24:50You listen to your gut,
24:51listen to your gut.
24:52Like, what is your gut
24:52telling you?
24:53It's always right.
24:54Yeah.
24:55My gut has said,
24:56be patient.
24:57But I feel like
24:58I'm giving a lot
24:59and being supportive
25:00and listening,
25:01but I'm not really getting,
25:04that's not reciprocated
25:05for me.
25:05Mm-hmm.
25:06You need to say
25:07that to her.
25:08Don't try to, like,
25:09dance around it
25:10or sugarcoat it.
25:11Just, y'all gotta have
25:12that conversation ASAP.
25:13Yeah.
25:15What about you?
25:17Um, I'm doing well.
25:18Yeah?
25:18I'm doing well.
25:19Okay.
25:19Enjoying this time.
25:20Okay, good.
25:21Alone.
25:22Oh, right.
25:23I know, I know.
25:23It's been a couple days now.
25:25Yes.
25:25How are you feeling about that?
25:27Um, I was definitely supportive
25:29for him to go
25:30to support his daughter.
25:31I was disappointed
25:32in the fact that
25:33I wasn't given
25:35a lot of notice.
25:36It was just like,
25:36hey, I'm leaving.
25:38Right, right, right.
25:39That does seem to be
25:40a very common male trait.
25:42I don't know why
25:43we do this,
25:44but we'll literally
25:45hold these certain details
25:47to the last moment
25:48because we're just afraid
25:49of how they're gonna land.
25:50Yeah.
25:50Of course,
25:51it could be done better.
25:52Yeah.
25:53Time is winding down,
25:54running out.
25:55I'm feeling
25:56uncertain about
25:57the relationship
25:58that I was once
25:59super confident in.
26:00Matina and I
26:01will need to have
26:01some deeper conversations
26:03once he gets back.
26:05Sounds like
26:05a little margin of grace.
26:07Yeah.
26:07Isn't it?
26:08Distance makes
26:09the heart grow fonder.
26:11That's what they say.
26:14Ah!
26:15Oh, a little tell there.
26:17Oh, no.
26:18I don't know.
26:19If you don't have
26:20a lot of time,
26:21so really throw it
26:21all out there.
26:22Don't be afraid
26:23of what the reaction is
26:24because, um,
26:25you know,
26:26we don't,
26:26time is just,
26:27it's just running away
26:28from all of us,
26:29so really go for it.
26:30And I'm rooting for you guys.
26:32I'm so glad you opened up
26:33to me and shared
26:34these things with me.
26:36And it's great
26:36to have a female perspective.
26:39I want you guys
26:39to be happy.
26:41I want this to work out,
26:43you know,
26:44either way.
26:44Thank you for being here
26:45and sharing your wisdom
26:47and the guy perspective.
26:50Wise words.
26:51All right.
26:51All right.
26:52You know, I try.
26:53I don't know.
26:53You know,
26:54take one of the grain of salt.
26:55Let's bring it in.
26:56Let's bring it in.
26:57Come on, come on, come on.
27:00On three,
27:01one, two, three.
27:03We got this!
27:04Yes!
27:05Woo!
27:13Hello.
27:14Buongiorno.
27:15Can I have a piece of paper,
27:17please, and a pen
27:17to write a note?
27:18Of course you can.
27:19Sure.
27:19There we go.
27:20Mm-hmm.
27:22Leslie and I reconnecting.
27:24We're just having a lot of fun
27:26and a good time.
27:27It's been just wonderful.
27:31It's not necessarily my nature
27:33to be romantic,
27:36but Leslie,
27:37she makes me want to be better
27:39as far as that goes.
27:41If anyone could,
27:42it would be Leslie.
27:43And would somebody be able
27:44to take that to her room
27:44for me, please?
27:45Of course we will, sir.
27:46Thank you so much.
27:47You're really welcome.
27:48Bye-bye.
27:49I'm looking forward
27:50to seeing where it goes.
27:51I really am.
27:52I'm not going to make
27:53the same mistake
27:54I made 45 years ago.
28:00We've been really
28:01having a good time.
28:01We don't have to
28:02talk about marriage.
28:04Marriage would involve
28:05someone moving.
28:07It ain't going to be me.
28:17Ah.
28:18How are you?
28:20Very well.
28:20There is an envelope for you.
28:21Ah.
28:24You're welcome.
28:24Goodbye.
28:27Huh.
28:31Leslie, please meet me
28:33for dinner tonight.
28:35Paul.
28:35Aw.
28:38Okay.
28:39It's just so Paul.
28:41There's nothing, you know,
28:43fluffy or romantic.
28:44It's just, meet me for dinner
28:46at the Yacht Club, 8 p.m.
28:48Paul.
28:49But I think that that's him
28:51being extremely romantic.
28:53So you know what?
28:54I will take that.
28:55Let's see.
28:58Beautiful.
28:59Yes.
29:00I'm so excited for you.
29:02You look beautiful.
29:04Okay.
29:05Yay.
29:05Have fun.
29:06Okay.
29:08Have fun.
29:08I'll see you when you get back.
29:10Yeah.
29:10Yeah.
29:11Yeah.
29:12I'll tell you everything.
29:13Yeah.
29:14Leslie and Paul are so adorable.
29:17I see the love that they have
29:20for one another still
29:21and I just think that they're a perfect couple.
29:25See you when you get back.
29:27Thanks.
29:27Bye.
29:40Bye.
29:41Oh my gosh.
29:43Oh my gosh.
29:47Wow.
29:47Look at you.
29:49You clean up quite nicely.
29:51I know.
29:51I do.
29:51It doesn't get any better than this.
29:52I am like, wow.
29:53I believe this is for you.
29:56Oh.
29:57That is like so sweet.
29:58Oh thank you.
29:59You're welcome.
30:00I haven't had someone give me flowers
30:02in probably 40 years.
30:05This is going to sound silly
30:06but I kind of felt like a princess.
30:08Shall we?
30:09Yes.
30:10Okay.
30:11Oh my gosh.
30:13Paul keeps saying to me
30:14I will not make this mistake again.
30:17I am not going to have any regrets again.
30:21What does that mean?
30:23Does that mean we're going to be
30:24boyfriend-girlfriend?
30:26Have a seat.
30:28You're welcome.
30:29I'm in so.
30:30The ball's in Paul's court.
30:32Don't you look pretty?
30:35This is a nice surprise
30:36and I have to tell you
30:37I was not expecting.
30:38It's just lovely.
30:39I hope the prince is big enough
30:40so I don't need my readers.
30:41I brought some.
30:43I love it.
30:45I'll probably get the beef.
30:46You get the beef,
30:47I'll get the tuna.
30:48Okay.
30:49We can share.
30:50Done.
30:50Do I see a future with Wesley?
30:53Absolutely.
30:54I want her to know,
30:56you know,
30:57I'm just really smitten.
30:59Now that's gorgeous.
31:00Look at that.
31:01Oh, it has nice legs.
31:03Yes, you do.
31:08Well, cheers, sweetie.
31:09Aw, okay.
31:10The prettiest girl,
31:11the belle of the ball.
31:15Mmm.
31:16Okay.
31:18It's really yummy.
31:20Yummy.
31:21It is good.
31:23So when we go back to the States,
31:26you're coming to Seattle
31:27for your parents' 50th?
31:29Mm-hmm.
31:29Yeah, okay.
31:30Okay, very nice.
31:33Oh, my goodness.
31:34Oh.
31:37Beautiful.
31:38Look at this.
31:39How far a flight is that?
31:41Like three hours, maybe?
31:43It's almost four.
31:44I'll be in Seattle.
31:45So we'll get together.
31:46Will you be in Seattle?
31:47Oh, for sure.
31:47What we'll find
31:48is when my sons meet your son.
31:51That will be fine.
31:53Absolutely.
31:53Because they all snowboard
31:55and they snow ski
31:56and they,
31:57my sons wakeboard
31:58and I was thinking
32:00I'd like to come to Houston.
32:02Come on down.
32:03I'm coming.
32:04I'm there.
32:04I could do that.
32:06Okay, that's perfect.
32:07Yeah, it'll be great.
32:09It'll be good.
32:11I feel terrific about this date
32:13because this is the first time
32:15that I know that Paul
32:16is in it 100%.
32:18He's talking in terms of us
32:21doing things together.
32:22We have plans
32:24and I like that.
32:25We've been really having a good time.
32:27I know.
32:28I feel a little guilty
32:29because you don't have to
32:30talk about marriage
32:32and kids,
32:34you know,
32:34and we're retired.
32:36I mean,
32:36we don't have to talk
32:37about kids
32:38or retirement.
32:39But, I mean,
32:41I don't know what you mean by marriage.
32:42I mean,
32:43well, that's true.
32:47It doesn't freak me out
32:48that marriage would involve
32:50someone moving.
32:53it ain't going to be me.
32:57Well, no,
32:58that's a fair question.
32:59I'm just going to tell you
33:00about Houston and me.
33:01I moved to Houston
33:02just because I thought
33:02it was a fun place to live.
33:03No connection to Houston.
33:05None.
33:05I love it
33:06and it's beautiful.
33:08If I moved,
33:09I wouldn't even think about it.
33:11It would just be something,
33:12just a little blip in my life.
33:13My mom,
33:14my dad,
33:15my brother,
33:16my sister,
33:17two of my children.
33:18And your grandkids.
33:19I'm a Northwest girl
33:20on a satellite.
33:21I know, I know.
33:21So it wouldn't take
33:22a lot of conjoling to...
33:23No.
33:24I'm just enjoying it now
33:25because this is something to do.
33:28Seems like Leslie
33:29is not married to Houston,
33:32so the distance thing
33:34would never be an issue.
33:35Ideally,
33:36she would move back
33:38to the Seattle area.
33:39That would be ideal.
33:41But we'll just have to wait and see.
33:43So what do you think
33:44about all these other couples?
33:46Blake and Cammie,
33:47that's an easy one to start with
33:48because they live in the same town.
33:50I mean,
33:51it's pretty hard to mess that up,
33:53you know,
33:54when you...
33:54They have the music,
33:55the connection,
33:56all that.
33:57Moving on.
33:59Alan, my roommate,
34:00and Razmay,
34:01they've known each other
34:02since the seventh grade.
34:04I'm not seeing a big spark there.
34:06But they're reserved.
34:08They can still be reserved
34:10and you can detect a...
34:12Yeah, right.
34:12a look in their eye
34:13or something.
34:14And I'm...
34:14I don't see it,
34:16you know?
34:17I mean,
34:17I'm not exactly,
34:18you know,
34:18Dr. Rue's here,
34:19but I...
34:23So Shakira
34:24and Mateen,
34:26they are like the same person
34:27because they're both...
34:29They kind of are cute,
34:30their personalities,
34:32the way he looks at hers.
34:33He loves everything about her.
34:35He gets her.
34:37Yeah, I'd agree.
34:38But how they're going to blend,
34:40you know,
34:41their families,
34:42how is that going to look?
34:43Could be a deal breaker.
34:44Calvin and Autumn.
34:46I believe they dated
34:47about six or seven months.
34:48I think they're both adorable.
34:49I think they're a super cute couple.
34:51Yeah.
34:51They don't really have an opinion.
34:52I could see that happening.
34:54Anyway,
34:54this was amazing.
34:56And these flowers,
34:57I'm going to save them for...
34:59I mean,
34:59I'm going to bronze them.
35:00You take a picture.
35:01You take a picture.
35:03This is like the sweetest thing
35:04anyone's ever done.
35:05Oh, please.
35:05Oh, no.
35:06Okay,
35:06it's been an awfully long time
35:07before I've had any romance at all.
35:09I know.
35:10Me too.
35:11And this is so beautiful.
35:13I'm not crying.
35:14You know I cry.
35:15Please don't cry.
35:18I'm not going to cry.
35:19I promise.
35:20You know,
35:20when you cried in the store
35:21the other day,
35:21it really embarrassed me.
35:23When we broke up,
35:24or as you like to say,
35:24I dumped you,
35:26I am profoundly sorry.
35:28I'm not going to make
35:29the same mistake twice.
35:30Don't be so...
35:34Okay, thank you.
35:35You're welcome, baby.
35:38As if it didn't embarrass me
35:40that in the middle
35:41of a retail store,
35:42you decide to say,
35:43like, the most deep,
35:45heavy thing.
35:45It was beautiful.
35:48Looking into his eyes,
35:49the entire world stops.
35:51It was like
35:52the world was gone.
35:53It seemed like
35:54we were just staring
35:55at each other for hours.
35:56I cannot explain it.
35:58I don't think a word,
35:59I don't even think
36:00there is an English word
36:01for what I was experiencing.
36:04We were in a good mood.
36:05If you don't speak,
36:06good time to...
36:06Oh, sure!
36:07She'll take it well.
36:08I've loved Paul
36:10since I was 19 years old.
36:12He broke my heart,
36:14but, um,
36:16you know,
36:17that's just part of life.
36:18I regret what happened
36:20between us
36:21so many years ago.
36:22I didn't mean to hurt her,
36:24and I certainly won't do it again.
36:26Oh, okay.
36:27Wow.
36:28Let's go to bed.
36:30Excuse me?
36:30I mean, you know...
36:31God.
36:32That's so forward.
36:33In our separate bedrooms.
36:35What?
36:35Yes.
36:35In our separate rooms.
36:38He's feeling it,
36:39and he's feeling it
36:40on his own.
36:41It's not because
36:42we're in the most romantic
36:43place in the world.
36:44I think the love
36:46that Leslie and I had
36:4745 years ago
36:49definitely, uh,
36:51lends itself
36:51to a pretty good foundation
36:52going forward.
36:53Shall we?
36:55Yes.
36:55Okay.
36:56Oh, my gosh.
36:56This is just wonderful, Paul.
36:58I want him in my life.
37:00I love this.
37:01It doesn't get more...
37:02any more romantic than this.
37:03I don't think I want
37:04to entertain dating anyone else.
37:06It's Paul or bust.
37:09You are very lovable.
37:10Okay, sweetie.
37:11Oh, my God.
37:12That's it.
37:12You're trying to be lovable.
37:13I get it.
37:15I can't.
37:15There's a plan.
37:16I'm so trying.
37:17Ha, ha, ha, ha.
37:34Hey.
37:35Hey.
37:36You saved me a spot?
37:39No.
37:40Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
37:43Oh, my goodness.
37:45How's it going?
37:46Much better now.
37:48How you doing?
37:50Amazing.
37:52What an amazing day.
37:54So peaceful.
37:55Yeah.
37:55You know, we've been in this experience
37:58for a while.
37:59We've had, you know, a lot of time
38:01to kind of talk about things
38:03and, you know, do things together
38:06and go on dates and all that.
38:09Yeah.
38:10For me, I definitely, you know,
38:13am looking for a partner,
38:16someone to spend my life with.
38:18I think you're amazing.
38:19I think you're beautiful.
38:21I love the way that you show up in the world.
38:23But, you know, we should probably talk about compatibility.
38:28If you want me to be quite honest,
38:30I don't really feel like you really want to be with me.
38:36What makes you say that?
38:37I don't think that you would be satisfied with me.
38:41So you're saying that
38:44you don't think that
38:45you're what I want.
38:47If your reason for not wanting to be with me
38:49is because you don't feel like I want to be with you,
38:51that is confusing.
38:53No, it has to be.
38:55I have to laugh at that for a second.
38:57But it doesn't feel like you
38:59want to be with me.
39:01I don't feel like you really want to be with me.
39:03Like, I invited you here.
39:05I know you invited me here.
39:06I invited you here.
39:07This experience.
39:08We're in this, you know, beautiful resort
39:11and we've flown across the world.
39:13And I made this big effort
39:15to try to, like, you know, connect with you.
39:18If that doesn't signal to you that, you know,
39:20I want to kind of see if we can explore something,
39:23I don't know what will
39:24because this is all I got.
39:27Yeah.
39:27I mean, I also don't want to cross that line
39:31and, you know, ruin our friendship.
39:33I don't want to risk
39:35us not ever being in each other's lives
39:38because we tried something
39:40and once you cross that line,
39:42it's like you can't go back
39:43because I'm not friends with my ex-boyfriends.
39:46I'm not friends with my ex-husband.
39:49You're special to me in my life.
39:52I'm treading carefully.
39:55It's, like, not worth it for me
39:57to lose somebody special in my life
40:00just because.
40:04That's really sweet.
40:06I would never want to lose Alan from my life.
40:10This is very sensitive
40:12because, like, I've already lost
40:14so many people in my life already.
40:16I don't want to risk losing you, period.
40:20Period.
40:22I don't want to lose
40:23any more people out of my life.
40:24I've lost enough.
40:26I miss my parents every day.
40:30You know, maybe other people
40:31would know right away,
40:32but for me, it would take time.
40:35Especially, we're going to be together
40:38as friends, but I can have you forever,
40:40then that's what I want.
40:42It sounds like it's unlikely
40:44that you're ever going to want
40:46to take that chance.
40:47Maybe not.
40:52Hey!
40:54We got a talent show?
40:55Yes!
40:57All the couples,
40:58we created something together.
41:00I have one for you.
41:01You have one for me.
41:02Back in love of the crowd.
41:05You just got to do it.
41:06Leave no stone unturned.
41:08That feeling that I get
41:10when I see you,
41:11I can't ignore that.
41:12I'm telling everyone
41:13exactly how I feel about her.
41:15Even if you don't feel the same, man,
41:16I shed a couple tears.
41:19Hi!
41:21How was your trip?
41:22It was good.
41:23That's good.
41:24What did I do?
41:25I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone.
41:40What did you think?
41:42I did.
41:44I did.
41:48I did.
41:50I did.
41:51I did.
41:54I did.
41:59I did.
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