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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:03Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
00:05No, there you go, there you go.
00:08Via is very good looking.
00:10I think we need a drink to that.
00:12I think we need a shot.
00:14This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.
00:17Nice to meet you, I'll never see you again.
00:21I'll see you tomorrow, okay?
00:23I didn't like the way it ended for us.
00:25Neither did I.
00:26And I'm a little bit more recovered, I guess.
00:29Well, that's good.
00:30Now I am.
00:30If Chino wants something romantic with me,
00:32he's gotta prove that he's gonna be honest.
00:34He's gotta prove that he really wants this.
00:40He's having issues right now.
00:42Like, he's not able to get, like, up.
00:45So I'm trying to be supportive.
00:47But then, yeah, I do have, like, doubts or fears.
00:50Like, what's he doing behind my back?
00:51Oh, .
00:53There is a girl I was talking to
00:55before I even went to the resort.
00:58Oh.
00:59Yeah.
01:00Here we go again.
01:01Diana and I met a year ago online.
01:04Are you still in contact with Diana?
01:07I still talk to Diana.
01:09This might be an opportunity for you to do the right thing.
01:12I don't know, man.
01:16I want to figure out what I want.
01:18I don't know what it is.
01:19I like things clear, you know?
01:21I've been clear to you.
01:23No, you didn't.
01:24I don't want Sophie to play games with me
01:27and I'm interested in that .
01:29I have never once told you I have healed
01:31and I'm ready for relationship.
01:32I have never told you that.
01:33Sophie.
01:34No, never told you that.
01:34No.
01:35No.
01:36Hell no.
01:37Not with me.
01:59I don't like rain.
02:01Sophie.
02:05Hello.
02:06Did you order strippers?
02:08Yes.
02:08Come in.
02:08Yay!
02:14We're just getting started.
02:16Oh, nah, nah.
02:18We've got places to be.
02:21Let's jump in a bit.
02:23Hey!
02:24Hey!
02:26I have to, like, cover my boobs when I jump.
02:30Why?
02:30They want to blow up?
02:31No, because my implant, like, hurts.
02:33But you have to protect them.
02:38Oh, my God!
02:41That is like a rock.
02:43It's squishy.
02:45That's squishy.
02:46No, it's squishy.
02:47It's just, like, it's still an implant.
02:50So it's just, I don't know.
02:52I don't know.
02:52I'm not a doctor.
02:58Is that my food?
03:01Tonight was supposed to be a girls' night out,
03:03but there's just crazy rain outside.
03:05The power's down in parts of the area,
03:08and the streets are flooded.
03:09Yes, yes.
03:09So me and Julia just decided to stay in
03:12and order room service.
03:15So, how are your day with Spendrum?
03:18Because I want to hear you tell me
03:19you're going to tell me everything.
03:21We ate at a restaurant at the beach,
03:23and he told me that Liz went and told him
03:26basically everything I told you guys.
03:29She was telling him how I'm not ready,
03:31and, like, he should be careful.
03:33Be careful?
03:34Like, he's so nice.
03:35He does all these things for me,
03:36and I'm not even ready, like, pretty much.
03:38It sounded like she was kind of warning him about me.
03:41Okay, what the ?
03:44She just like, hey, let's start this
03:46between them two.
03:49It isn't her place.
03:51Liz has just given reason to Pedro to think, like,
03:55I'm just a huge red flag.
03:56Even though I'm not ready for a relationship,
03:58I am still trying to get to know him,
04:00and I actually do like him.
04:01And as my friend, you should only say good things about me.
04:05She should say, oh, Sophie's great.
04:07Like, you're lucky.
04:08That's what friends say.
04:09Like, girlfriends don't tell a guy, like, watch out.
04:14So then I was like, even though I've had this discussion
04:17with him before, I felt like, let me, again,
04:19just reiterate, like, where I'm at, you know?
04:22I'm getting to know you, but, like, you can talk to people,
04:25I can talk to people.
04:26And right at the end, he's like, you know what, Sophie?
04:28If I'm being real with you,
04:29you never said any of this to me,
04:30and all of what you just said is rubbish.
04:33I'm used to my last relationship always saying I'm lying
04:36and making things up and gaslighting me.
04:37So when he did it, it triggered me, and I was like,
04:40I don't want to do this again,
04:41where someone's convincing me something never happened that did.
04:44We definitely both just did not mesh well at the end
04:48and communicate well.
04:49It flipped so quick that I was like,
04:51what the hell was that?
04:53Now he feel like it's, like, so sad
04:56because you are, like, technically saying he's, like,
04:58a rob in your last relationship.
05:01I text him often.
05:03I was like, hey, like, you know,
05:04I apologize if I offended you.
05:05What can I say?
05:06He's ignored me since the day.
05:09I sent him a one-minute voice note.
05:12Okay, but...
05:12One minute.
05:14That's so...
05:16Scene!
05:18He's seen it!
05:19Show me.
05:19No, it says seen.
05:21And played.
05:22Ah, now you're interesting.
05:25I'm like...
05:26Wait, he's ghosting me?
05:27Let me call him.
05:29Oh, my gosh.
05:31Up until this point, I'm used to hearing from Pedro
05:33multiple times a day.
05:35So, because he stopped texting me back,
05:38I'm starting to miss him.
05:39But he's really ignoring me.
05:41Hold on, there's one more question mark.
05:42If you're gonna...
05:43Stop!
05:45Don't!
05:45I said, I said...
05:45No, let me understand it.
05:46Let me give him space.
05:48It's a little bit of space for me to, like,
05:50think about him and remember I like him.
05:53And I want to talk to him.
05:55Maybe he didn't give up.
05:56That's why he stopped texting me?
05:57Mm-hmm.
05:58You think so?
06:01I'm really pissed off at Liz.
06:02Like, I feel like she might have just instigated
06:04the end of me and Pedro.
06:05Like, what if he just...
06:07ghost me forever and that's that?
06:18You're the best of the best
06:20You're the cream, the cream
06:22And the more that you do
06:24The better it gets me
06:26I'm stopping and stare
06:28No one else can compare
06:30You're the best that's ever been
06:33The cream, the cream
06:34There is no such thing as too much glitter
06:37Yeah
06:39The world wraps around your finger
06:42You got the know-how
06:44Best that's ever been
06:47The cream, the cream
06:49This is perfection.
06:51I wish I could just walk like this every day.
06:53Mm-hmm.
06:54I am Vanya, I'm 42 years old
06:56I live in Orlando, Florida
06:58I'm a Jill of all traits
06:59I wear many, many hats
07:01I do medical sales
07:03I'm a vegan baker
07:05And I'm a professional belly dancer
07:10Hi!
07:10Oh, she's here!
07:12How are you?
07:12Good!
07:12She's here, she's got her wings
07:13How was it? How did it go?
07:15Oh, it was good
07:16Great crowd, by the way
07:17So, is it packed?
07:18Yes, definitely
07:19So, how have you been, my darling?
07:21Uh, I'm okay
07:23Uh, I have a weird date
07:25Let's hear it
07:27Oh, my God
07:28I went out with this guy
07:30And it started out okay
07:32But then, like, we started sitting down to eat
07:35And he just kept picking his nose
07:37What?
07:39What am I supposed to do with that?
07:40It's so gross
07:41The dating apps are just overwhelming
07:45I know
07:46So many times I match with somebody
07:48And I'm thinking, okay
07:49The conversation is going great
07:51And then, you know, thing
07:53You get a notification
07:54A picture came in
07:55And I open it
07:56It's a d*** pic
07:58Like, who thinks that's gonna work?
08:01What do they envision?
08:02I get a d*** pic
08:03And I go, oh my God
08:04I must marry this guy
08:07I have been single for about a year
08:10And what I'm looking for is somebody who is optimistic
08:13Who is accomplished
08:15Who is driven
08:16And that's hard to find, apparently
08:19All right, girly
08:20I am going to go get my little shamadan ready for the show
08:25All right, I'll see you out there
08:26Break away
08:27Thank you, girl
08:28I'm starting to get really frustrated
08:31I want to find my forever partner
08:33And it's not like I haven't been trying
08:35Heck, I'd even went to another country in search of love
08:41You're a wonderful creature
08:43And everything you do
08:45It's so loveable
08:46Amazing
08:47I'm dying
08:48Two years ago
08:50I met a guy from Croatia online
08:52And his name is Boža
08:55Vanya!
08:57Oh my God
08:58Oh my God
08:59He's dead
09:00He's dead
09:03He's dead
09:03Woo
09:03But I was only in Croatia for a couple of days
09:06Before things just blew up
09:09In a, how do you say, romantic way
09:12I don't feel it right now
09:14You know, I can't believe that this guy that I was talking to for eight months online
09:19Turned out to be something totally different
09:21I should have just never come
09:23I should have listened to my friends and to my cousin
09:26I should have never come because
09:31After everything fell apart with Boža
09:33I ended up going back on a dating app
09:35And I ended up matching with Yoshiko
09:38It was an immediate connection
09:40I love it
09:42It's perfect
09:43Thank you
09:43It's the rest of you
09:46What a great line
09:49I have been celibate for six years prior to Yoshiko
09:53Because I feel like your body is the most precious gift you can give to somebody
10:00At the time it felt right
10:02But looking back I really wish it didn't happen
10:05Without my knowledge he took a video of us
10:09While we were being intimate
10:12Violated my privacy, my body
10:15Yes I did
10:20And obviously I went back to my celibacy
10:24Because I'm not going to be breaking it for just anybody ever again
10:40I should be jaded at this point
10:42But despite all the negative stuff that's happened
10:44I'm still here ready for love
10:48I'm easy to talk to
10:50I'm easy to read
10:50I wear my heart on my shoulder
10:52And I am unapologetically me
10:57On top of all of that I'm still single
10:59Can you believe that?
11:00Because I can't
11:02I keep in mind
11:03Really high finish
11:04Hi
11:05Hi
11:05How amazing
11:06Oh my goodness
11:06We were just talking
11:08You were so good
11:09So beautiful
11:09We got you a drink
11:10You guys are awesome
11:12Cheers
11:12Cheers
11:13Cheers!
11:14Girls night out.
11:15This is awesome.
11:18So what did you think?
11:19Amazing.
11:22I think this guy over here is looking at you.
11:24Where?
11:25He's smiling.
11:27He's definitely looking.
11:28He's kind of cute.
11:29I don't know.
11:30There's this other guy.
11:32Oh, excuse me.
11:34I know.
11:35Well, his name is Tony.
11:37Is that your friend Tony?
11:39Yeah.
11:40Wait, I know Tony?
11:41Who's Tony?
11:42Tony's actually a doctor.
11:44A year and a half ago, he invited me to dance at his holiday party.
11:48And we ended up just hanging out after that as friends,
11:51like, all the time.
11:53Tony's an amazing person.
11:55I always thought that he was very handsome
11:57and very intellectually stimulating and attractive.
12:06So I'm starting to wonder if, after all the searching,
12:09the guy for me has been right in front of me this whole entire time.
12:13We've been friends for a year and a half at this point,
12:16and he's never made a move.
12:18This hot mama?
12:19And no move?
12:21Nothing.
12:22And then finally I get sick and tired of it, and then I made the move.
12:26No way.
12:27Okay.
12:27Okay.
12:27I kissed him.
12:29Oh, my God.
12:30Girl.
12:31Get it.
12:32Okay.
12:32But it's kind of like now we're in this limbo situation.
12:36We haven't made it clear if we're exclusive, if we're dating.
12:39It's just we're two friends who kissed.
12:42Oof.
12:43I don't like this zone of unknown.
12:49When it comes to relationships, Vanya can be very optimistic.
12:53She really, really wants it to work.
12:55I hope that it goes well, but the fact that Tony hasn't made a move yet
12:59gives me a little pause.
13:01And I just hope she's not imagining something with Tony that's not really there.
13:06I don't want to see you get hurt again.
13:08I don't want to see you hang on to something that's not really there.
13:12You need to have a conversation with him.
13:15I really want our friendship to blossom into a relationship.
13:19But I just don't know if I'm ready to take this risk and potentially lose my best friend.
13:26Because if I have this conversation, there is no going back.
13:31Our friendship will be changed forever.
13:33We get to the bottom of it.
13:35No more wishy-washy wondering.
13:42Hi.
13:43Hey.
13:44If we came here and spent all this money on a hotel just to play with his gummy worm all
13:50night,
13:50I'm going to be annoyed.
13:53Oh, yes.
13:57I just keep seeing you have this online battle deal with Jasmine back and forth.
14:03If she wouldn't post anything, there wouldn't be any back and forth.
14:07Any type of emotion, whether it be positive or negative, is still an emotion attached to that person.
14:12There's a thin line between love and hate.
14:30What are you doing?
14:32It's my tiara.
14:35Beautiful.
14:36Oh, you look pretty.
14:37Okay.
14:38Let me suck stuff out of your face.
14:43Oh, it's like you're giving me a little kiss.
14:53I feel 10 years younger and beautiful.
14:56You are beautiful.
14:57I really want this relationship to work with Colt, but we have major issues.
15:02His leg is broken, trust issues, his erectile dysfunction.
15:07We're not able to have sex.
15:09We don't get wrinkles.
15:11We got to keep it young.
15:13Forever young.
15:14But I still want to be with Colt.
15:16He makes me feel good.
15:17He makes me happy.
15:18I enjoy spending time with him.
15:21I love who I am when I'm with him.
15:24I need a spa, damn.
15:26Come in.
15:28Hey, you two.
15:29Hey.
15:30What the heck are you doing?
15:32He's trying to make me look more beautiful.
15:35I see.
15:35It's working.
15:36Oh, thank you.
15:37You're sweet.
15:38I'm going to head to bed.
15:40Well, you have a good night.
15:43So, lights off in 10 minutes, Courtney.
15:46Okay.
15:47You know the rules.
15:48Yes, good devil.
15:50You have a good night.
15:51Thank you for everything.
15:5610 minutes, huh?
15:57Yeah.
15:58That's still enough time.
16:00We could do it in 30 seconds.
16:02Yeah.
16:03Probably could.
16:04All right.
16:05I'm going to go to bed.
16:06Oh.
16:08Maybe.
16:09Night.
16:11Good night, Courtney.
16:26Good afternoon.
16:27How are you doing today?
16:28Good.
16:28How are you?
16:29Very well.
16:29Thank you for asking.
16:30What reservation is the name under?
16:31Colt.
16:32Courtney and I booked a hotel room for tonight to get away from her parents' house so we can
16:36have more alone time.
16:38Oh, wow.
16:39Wow.
16:40This is so nice.
16:41Three months by far is the longest I've ever been with somebody without having sex.
16:47Oh, champagne.
16:48Hey.
16:49Woo-hoo.
16:50But knowing her parents could come in at any time really has made any intimacy between Courtney
16:55and I impossible.
16:59Probably why my performance as of late has been spotty.
17:04Well, cheers to you.
17:06Cheers.
17:08That's nice.
17:14So what do you want to do now?
17:23I guess I'm going to change and get ready.
17:27I love that Colt had the idea to come to a hotel.
17:29But if we came here and spent all this money just to play with his gummy worm all night,
17:36I'm going to be annoyed.
17:37I'm not a miracle worker.
17:41Colt tells me he loves me, but if he can't get it up, that makes me question, does he really
17:46love me or he's just saying that?
17:53Hey.
17:54Hey.
17:55Hey.
17:55Hey.
17:55Hey man.
17:57I was doing some research and like different ways to get creative.
18:01Yeah.
18:03What the hell is this?
18:06Whoa.
18:07You're like in the carpet for this one.
18:10I guess this is like doggy style for like...
18:12Lazy dog.
18:16This is probably like the most practical one, I guess.
18:19Oh, this is simple.
18:21You just go straight to the target.
18:25That's what looks like you'd have to really have some upper body strength.
18:29Right?
18:30No, I think I'm probably down.
18:32Wait, am I up from the ceiling?
18:33Wait, am I up from the ceiling?
18:34Why can't you just do it like this?
18:35Yeah, like that.
18:36I don't think I'm flexible enough to do a handstand like on your...
18:40Some of these seem a little complex and you need a lot of upper body strength and I don't know
18:45if we could do that.
18:46Yeah, I'm like, what are these people doing?
18:48Like, maybe the handicap world's freaky.
18:55Hi.
18:56Hey.
18:57Why'd you tie the rope for a new chest?
18:59Wait.
19:00I don't know how to tie this.
19:02Oh, yes.
19:04What do you think?
19:05Sexy.
19:06Yeah?
19:08We found a little bow tie that's cute.
19:10You like it?
19:13Don't break your lip.
19:14I already did that.
19:20I love you.
19:21I love you too.
19:22You don't have to be afraid or nervous or anxious about anything.
19:25Just have fun.
19:26Enjoy our life together.
19:29It means a lot to me that Kourtney has been there for me.
19:32I mean, we're so close in so many ways.
19:35I feel this love for her.
19:37Cheers to that.
19:38Cheers to that.
19:43We just don't have the passion, the intimacy.
19:47The fire.
19:48So I really do feel like that's why I'm still talking to Diana.
19:52For me, having sex with a woman makes me feel validation.
19:56I need that in my life from Kourtney.
20:03Why don't you show me that massage?
20:05The back massager you got.
20:12It's nice.
20:14Oh.
20:16Whoa.
20:17Whoa.
20:17Whoa.
20:18Whoa.
20:20You know the right spot.
20:25We're going to go do some surfing.
20:27Surfing?
20:27Yeah.
20:28Last night, I met Pedro's friend, Villa, and we completely hit it off.
20:32You want to help me?
20:35Is it too tight here?
20:36I like it.
20:37It's showing your abs.
20:38I'm having butterflies.
20:40I haven't felt these emotions in such a long time.
20:44We're definitely going to fall.
20:57Hi.
20:58Hey, beautiful.
20:59How are you?
21:00How are you?
21:01You feel very nice.
21:03You look good.
21:05Please.
21:05I got some water because I know it's like humid out.
21:07And I talked to the activities coordinator.
21:10Oh, okay, okay.
21:11And we're going to go do some surfing.
21:13Surfing?
21:14Yeah.
21:14I've never surfed before.
21:15How does that sound?
21:16I've never surfed either.
21:17So let's do it.
21:24Okay.
21:27Hola.
21:29Okay, we're ready?
21:30Yes.
21:31Last night, I met Pedro's friend, Villa.
21:34And we completely hit it off.
21:36We ended up talking and flirting all night.
21:39And then he asked if I would go on a date with him today.
21:43Is this the changing room?
21:45No bathrooms here.
21:47So just straight to it, I guess.
21:49Villa's hot.
21:51But talking to him was so easy.
21:54And I think that that's what hooked me.
21:56You want to help me?
21:58Is it too tight here?
22:01Are you going to be able to move?
22:05Oh my gosh.
22:06You look good.
22:07I like it.
22:07It's showing your abs.
22:09You got some muscles going on.
22:10Yeah.
22:11Yeah.
22:11We're good.
22:12My life is really upside down right now.
22:15So you guys can lay down and we're going to start.
22:17You got it.
22:18I have health issues going on.
22:21So I have to be careful who I let into my personal space.
22:25But anything I can possibly want in someone, he's already showing it to me.
22:31Okay, you guys ready to go in the water?
22:34We're definitely going to fall.
22:35I think we're going to hit some water.
22:45Last night, when I met Liz, I just felt she had something about her.
22:57Great energy.
22:58The vibe is awesome.
23:04I need you.
23:05I need you.
23:17I need you.
23:20I would love to.
23:21Yeah.
23:22I would.
23:22Yeah.
23:22Maybe tomorrow or something?
23:24You tell me when, where, I'm there.
23:25Okay.
23:26I'm so down.
23:27Okay.
23:29All of this is completely unexpected.
23:31I'm having butterflies.
23:33I haven't felt these emotions in such a long time.
23:36Do you need help?
23:37Yes, please.
23:38Please, yes.
23:39I can't.
23:40I'm only day two into this vacation and all I can think about is spending time with Via and getting
23:47to know him.
23:48I'm definitely a hundred percent all in to see where this can go.
23:53I guess I will see you tomorrow.
23:55Will do.
23:55Yeah.
23:56It was so nice.
23:57I had a great time.
23:58Me too.
23:59I do.
24:00It's a good hug.
24:13It was a good day.
24:14Yes, it's raining, but hey, I'm with you.
24:17So my day is bright.
24:18Oh, okay.
24:19Well, that's good.
24:20You know?
24:20It's like sunshine next to me.
24:23Stop.
24:25Natalie is my sunshine.
24:26Oh my God.
24:35Come on.
24:38Okay.
24:41Sorry.
24:41Be careful with that.
24:43Let me give you a tour.
24:46I can't believe I'm here with Natalie in her apartment.
24:49It's taken a lot of work to get to this point.
24:52A lot of texts and calls and putting on my Gino charm.
24:58All right.
24:59Come on over here.
25:00This is the bedroom.
25:02This is the bedroom.
25:03Yep.
25:04Lay on the bed.
25:05All right.
25:06This is my side, I guess.
25:07Right.
25:08Here we go.
25:09Oh my gosh, it's got massage on it.
25:11Torture me.
25:12All right.
25:12Torture me, baby.
25:13All right.
25:13You asked for it.
25:15There we go.
25:17Oh, yeah.
25:18Oh, yeah.
25:19Don't stop.
25:21I'm a very bad boy.
25:23You're a very bad boy and you need some serious discipline.
25:32So.
25:33Whoa.
25:33I got a surprise for us.
25:35Look at you.
25:35You are all hearts tonight.
25:37So let's get you comfy because we're going to have a spa night.
25:40Spa night?
25:41So you get a choice.
25:43Oh my God.
25:44That thing's scary.
25:45We can use the Master Blaster for like the back and larger areas and this is for like
25:50the face and scalp.
25:52And I have the Blaster Oil.
25:54Oil?
25:55Yes.
25:55So you kind of have to lubricate it up so that it collides.
26:00Wow.
26:01You sound really dirty tonight.
26:03The fact that Natalie is offering to give me a massage with her little toys, maybe something
26:10good is going to happen tonight.
26:11I'm really hoping so.
26:13That would be awesome on the first night connecting, wouldn't it?
26:17You're going to have to take your hat off.
26:20Oh my gosh.
26:21Well.
26:22You're safe.
26:23You're in a safe space.
26:24Don't worry.
26:25Okay.
26:26Yeah.
26:26All right.
26:27There.
26:27Perfect.
26:28See, there you go.
26:30This is by no means any foreplay or a way to get him aroused or the way to get sexy
26:37time.
26:37How does that feel?
26:39Freaking awesome.
26:40Yeah.
26:40I was an esthetician for 10 years.
26:43I was an esthetician for 10 years.
26:43I know how to get people to relax and be comfortable and kind of tell me their deepest, darkest secrets.
26:49Very relaxing.
26:51I know that Gino can get defensive.
26:52I know that Gino can get defensive.
26:53So I want to pamper him to let his guard down so that I can ask him some tough questions
26:57and I can actually get some honest answers from him.
27:01You know, I'm happy that you came here.
27:04I'm happy that we reconnected.
27:06But I just keep seeing that you have this online battle still with Jasmine back and forth.
27:16There's a lot of emotions still left there.
27:21One thing that's concerning me about Gino is he is battling Jasmine constantly on social media.
27:31She's making accusations.
27:33He's defending himself.
27:34She's rebuttaling that.
27:36And I think they just both look really stupid.
27:39See, the problem is she's saying lies about me.
27:44So I had to defend myself.
27:46I can't let her lie about me, you know, in public.
27:49It's just not fair.
27:52Now, if she wouldn't post anything, there wouldn't be any back and forth.
27:57To me, it's a red flag because any type of emotion, whether it be positive or negative,
28:03is still an emotion attached to that person.
28:06Does he have these unresolved feelings for Jasmine?
28:09There's a thin line between love and hate.
28:13All right.
28:13Well, I think it's time to go to bed.
28:16I will be right back.
28:27Oh, my God.
28:28What the hell?
28:29Well, that turns into a bed.
28:35Seriously?
28:37But you just showed me how the bed works.
28:40That's my bed.
28:41I'm going to go in my bed.
28:42Yeah.
28:43This is your bed.
28:43I thought things were really going good.
28:47And Natalie and I were going to have this romantic, sexy weekend together.
28:52There we go.
28:55So I'm really disappointed.
29:00This is not bad.
29:02Oh, my God.
29:03There you go.
29:05This isn't bad at all.
29:07All right.
29:07I'm going to get to bed.
29:09You're going to what?
29:10I'm going to go to bed.
29:11Oh, you're going to bed?
29:12I'm going to go to bed.
29:13Oh, okay.
29:14Bummer.
29:16Okay.
29:16Good night.
29:20There was no way in hell this man was going to be invited into my bed and sleep with me
29:25the first night he's here.
29:27I don't think he understood how much he hurt me by not being transparent about him and Jasmine's
29:32relationship.
29:33Good night, Gino.
29:35Sweet dreams.
29:35Sweet dreams.
29:37I feel a connection with Gino.
29:39I feel like we could have a future together, but trust is earned, and he hasn't earned it
29:44yet.
29:46Are you sure you don't want to come sleep in here on this comfortable bed you just made
29:50me?
29:54Oh, guess not.
29:57Going to meet Tony, things are kind of unclear.
30:01You know, is this a date?
30:02Are we just hanging out?
30:04I feel like there's a lot at stake here because if we give it a try and it doesn't work
30:09out,
30:09we're risking of losing our friendship.
30:11I just, I'm a little confused.
30:13We, we had a kiss.
30:15So, where is your head?
30:34I
30:35Always wanted a pink heart it is pink and it is sparkly and I think it finally matches my personality
30:44Going to meet Tony and we're going to an amusement park
30:48There's a lot happening in my head because things are kind of unclear
30:53You know is this a date are we just hanging out so I would like to get to the bottom
30:58of that
31:12There she is
31:13Hi, I see you again. Oh my goodness. Absolutely. You ready? Which way do we go this way?
31:19I met Vanya two years ago where I actually invited her to a party that I was hosting and
31:25She danced for some of my work colleagues and we kept in touch ever since
31:29At that time I did meet someone else and I actually had a very short marriage
31:34And after my divorce it took me a while before I could start thinking about even pursuing someone else again
31:41I haven't been on a roller coaster in like over ten years now
31:45Well, it's about time we break that streak
31:48But I think with Vanya, she makes my my worst days feel amazing. Oh the front seat. Yeah
31:55We're always laughing. She's very easy to talk to. We have a lot in common to me. It's the best
32:00thing ever
32:02I've never been in the front seat before
32:10Oh my gosh, oh my gosh
32:11Oh my god, oh my god
32:15Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow. Oh my gosh. I can see all of our land out
32:22All of our land out. Oh my god, oh my god. Oh no stop. I don't want a bird's eye
32:28view right now
32:28It's almost over. No, it's not. It's starting. Oh my god
32:40Tony is definitely different than guys I normally date the past two relationships that I've had the guys were very
32:46much
32:47Athletes into fitness, but what I love about Tony is that he's so cerebral and he's so smart and he's
32:54able to keep up in a conversation about anything and everything
32:58Oh
32:58Oh and he's just he's he's incredible. I
33:04Think we should do one of these
33:06Let's do one of these things. How are you with a gun? I'm not good with a gun
33:11Perfect. I think we should try that then
33:13I feel like there's a lot at stake here because I value our friendship so much
33:17He means the world to me and I know that if we give it a try and it doesn't work
33:22out
33:22We're risking of losing our friendship. All right, let's see if you can win me something
33:28But I don't want to look backwards and say like oh my god
33:31This could have been one of the best relationships of my life
33:34But I didn't give it a try because I was scared of losing out on a friendship
33:38We have a winner number six
33:41That's me
33:41Woo
33:43Man
33:43Woo
33:46Wow
33:50Okay, ready?
33:51I'm gonna pop up here take a little break, huh? Yes. I feel like we're having such an awesome time
33:58But I just I'm a little confused
34:02We've been friends for so long we've been hanging out for so long, but you know like we had a
34:08kiss
34:09So what does that mean does that mean that we're more than friends think how do you feel about that?
34:15Is that something that you feel like you want to try to pursue or where's where's your head?
34:25I mean we've been like best friends for over a year and a half now, you know, and it's not
34:31an easy decision for me though
34:32Um for me to commit to the next step. I worry that we might lose what we have I
34:41Can't say right now that I can fully commit to being exclusive and
34:48You know saying that we're in a relationship and I mean obviously I don't want you dating other people
34:53But I feel overwhelmed with just making a decision on the spot where so you are able to see other
34:58people
34:58But I'm not I wouldn't say that either, but I just can't say yes to us right now
35:04I hope I'm not imagining a romantic connection with Tony. That's simply not there. That would just be completely devastating
35:11to me
35:14I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her. I don't know how I'm using her
35:19You worried that I'm just gonna leave once I'm healed or something
35:23I'm really starting to think what the am I doing with him
35:34You
35:35Should we do a ski shot? Yes, shut shut
35:43We have to keep moving to keep warm
35:59This is the most exciting two days I've had in months like last night the hotel with Colt now. I'm
36:05out to the bar with my friends
36:07Let's go out there. It's too cold in here
36:09This is the first time Colt's meeting with them. So I'm a little nervous
36:17My friends have already expressed their doubts and told me I'm crazy for being with him
36:22But I'm hoping once they hang out they see all the good things that I see in him
36:26Hey dude, how's it going?
36:28Nice to meet you and Josh. Nice to meet you. This is my wife Marie. Oh, pleasure to meet you
36:33Hi
36:34Hi, I'm Sandy
36:35I'm Colt
36:36Hi
36:37Sandy and Lexi
36:38Pleasure to meet you both
36:40How are you feeling?
36:41I'm okay a little tired a little hard to get around but I feel like I'm doing okay
36:46Courtney's been a really great help
36:47I'm like a classy housewife woman now
36:50The classiest
36:52What is that like though living together like so fresh with her parents?
36:57The parents are great but it's been difficult you know and her and I want to be close then you
37:02know
37:03That's awkward and I can't do much with my leg either so
37:07He can't stand on it, he can't kneel
37:09I can't put weight on it basically
37:10So it's like that takes away every position
37:12It takes a lot of them out
37:14They're just riding the cowboy, that's it, that's all you can do
37:17Well that's one thing you can do
37:20Our hotel date we had yesterday wasn't a total disaster
37:25We attempted to have intercourse but
37:27We tried
37:28We tried
37:29We got closer
37:29Yeah we got closer than we've been
37:32It's like we're approaching a black hole we get definitely close each time
37:35What's the black hole?
37:39I'm gonna suck you into my black hole
37:41That's the idea
37:43And we basically just scissor and oral
37:47But we together
37:49We literally together
37:51We literally together
37:54We're just going through a lot right now
37:57We're having a lot of issues
37:58Not a lot but some
38:00What's the biggest struggle right now that you feel?
38:06Trust
38:07The trust?
38:11Yeah
38:12At the resort he was talking to like three other girls
38:17Maybe two
38:17Three
38:19Two or three
38:20Or five
38:22Might be more
38:23Nobody knows
38:24Wow
38:25So but now you're fully committed to Courtney at this point
38:28100%
38:29So you're not talking to anybody else?
38:34No
38:35Just Courtney?
38:36Just Courtney
38:42I know right now I'm in kind of a gray area talking to Diana from Brazil but she's been in
38:47my life for a year now and to be perfectly honest I have feelings for her
38:54But I love Courtney so I'm trying to keep things platonic
39:00I don't know I just feel like a lot of problems in such a short amount of time
39:05You're like living in her house and you guys are not even intimate
39:11I'm sorry I feel like you're using her
39:14I mean like are you?
39:16I don't know I don't think I'm I don't know how I'm using her
39:20Are you worried that I'm just going to leave once I'm healed or something?
39:23Yeah
39:23But you've spent all this time worrying about things that may or may never happen
39:27And I assure you I'm not going to cheat on you I'm not using you but I can't convince you
39:32A part of me can't blame Courtney's friends for grilling me alive
39:36But honestly I don't need to tell them anything
39:39I mean I need to tell Courtney that I'm talking to Diana
39:42And I plan on telling her eventually
39:45But that's not happening right now
39:50So what are you guys doing after that?
39:52So we're going to go to a bar
39:53Yeah you guys could come tag along
39:55We'll drive you
39:56I'm pretty tired I was hoping to go home actually
40:00You want to go out?
40:02Yeah I'm going out
40:03So what's your plan? Are you going to go home?
40:06Guess I'll Uber back
40:10Tonight sucked
40:11I think my friends are like what are you doing?
40:13What value is he bringing to your life?
40:17This man you don't trust
40:19Like he can't even keep his
40:21Hey babe
40:22Have fun
40:24It's like I'm torn
40:25I see his potential
40:26But then I also see it through their eyes
40:28You'll be fine though?
40:29I'll be fine
40:30Alright
40:31There's a part of me that loves him
40:33But I'm really starting to think
40:35What the am I doing with him?
40:40Well that was fun
40:43This time on The Single Life
40:45One, two, three
40:46One, two, three
40:50This is Kimberly
40:51Oh Kimberly
40:52How are you?
40:53Kim is a breath of fresh air
40:55You're a beautiful woman
40:55You're charming
40:56It's like
40:57You're charming
40:57I like you
40:58I really want to find love
41:00But it's terrifying to think
41:01My past could make somebody walk away from me
41:06I'm in a stage of my life where I see what I want
41:10And I go after it
41:11I just can't say yes to us right now
41:14I've already wasted so much time on men who don't know what they want out of life
41:19I'm done with that
41:22Hi
41:23Hello
41:25I'm worried Natalie's friends are going to have this preconceived notion about me
41:29And not even give me a chance
41:31Are you talking to other women?
41:34Well
41:37Do you not like him?
41:38I really don't
41:39I think he's hiding something
41:43Why are you here alone?
41:46What is the girl?
41:47Sophie
41:48She's been kind of off
41:50She's being a little decent right now
41:52My sister Nicole
41:53She's very protected
41:54Maybe she's confused
41:57Confused people
41:58Per people
41:59I feel that I had to listen to Nicole
42:01Because she always write about my relationship which I'm telling the past
42:05I think you're going to ruin your life again
42:08Maybe I have to walk away
42:11What's been going on with Pedro?
42:13He hasn't texted me
42:14Everything I told you
42:16He knows
42:17I've been behind you here
42:18I'm not gonna
42:19I'm not gonna
42:19At the end of the day bro
42:20You should have my back not his back
42:22You just can't
42:23I don't know what the f*** is going on
42:25I feel like Sophie's looking for someone to blame for her relationship problems with Pedro
42:30But she's not gonna put the f***ing blame on me
42:32This is bulls***
42:34This is bulls***
42:34первled
42:34This is bulls***
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