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00:03I'm nervous.
00:05I'm gonna take it one step at a time.
00:07In a world saturated with sex.
00:10I'm absolutely petrified.
00:12More young adults than ever are living without it.
00:16The thought of having sex with someone.
00:18Scares me.
00:19It gives me the ick.
00:20I'm missing out.
00:21Terrified.
00:22Nerve-racking.
00:22Gut-wrenching.
00:23Embarrassing.
00:24All I think about is what I'm gonna get wrong.
00:27Can you point to the outer labia?
00:30Nope.
00:34Now, 12 virgins are getting a crash course in intimacy.
00:39Social media, porn, dating apps.
00:42There are so many negative messages and we can help them blossom.
00:45Use it by stimulating the area.
00:48They'll be guided by experts.
00:50You see yourself as...
00:52Proposal.
00:52To explore all aspects of intimacy.
00:56And maybe even have sex with a trained therapist.
01:00Do you wanna put a condom on?
01:03Or each other.
01:04Get a room, guys!
01:07I really do need to change my life.
01:10Who will be ready...
01:11Desperate times call for desperate measures.
01:14To go all the way.
01:26Get on your knees.
01:29Over the past few days, the group enjoyed some playtime.
01:32Do you wanna bark for me?
01:35With guest expert Shelby.
01:38How did that feel?
01:39Yeah.
01:41Alex worked hard, controlling his anxiety.
01:45I genuinely feel amazing.
01:48Ellen made progress.
01:49Is that okay, like, me doing that?
01:52Building trust with surrogate partner Kat.
01:54I feel on top of the world right now.
01:56Yes.
01:57On top of Virgin Island.
01:58Yeah!
02:00And Tegan got into the swing of things.
02:02Hit my hands with the dick.
02:05Now, as they enter the next phase of the course, it's time to get technical.
02:11There's a lot of pressure to know everything around sex, so technique is really, really important
02:17because many of them haven't tried anything at all.
02:20This is what's gonna prepare them to connect sexually with each other or with anyone else
02:25once they go out and start dating.
02:37Day 11 on Virgin Island and the start of a new two-day phase of the course.
02:42The next phase of the course is all about technique.
02:46That can mean so many things.
02:50I don't think I have any really good technique.
02:53You want to do everything right and not what I've just seen online,
02:57watching porn or anything like that.
02:59So, I think the whole phase is gonna be good for me.
03:01It's gonna be intense, I'll say that.
03:04That I can agree on.
03:05Mm-hmm.
03:07Oh, we've got a sausage.
03:09Maybe we can practise technique with the sausage.
03:11If you want to.
03:13I've got no clue how we're gonna practise technique.
03:16As long as they don't say,
03:18right guys, oral technique on each other right now in the pavilion.
03:21Red, red, red, red, red, red.
03:23Yeah.
03:24Yellow.
03:31You feeling good, Bertie?
03:33I don't know what they're gonna do, but we'll see.
03:36In this morning's workshop,
03:38Celeste and Danielle will show how mastering simple skills...
03:41Morning, guys.
03:43Morning.
03:44...can take sexual intimacy to the next level.
03:47I don't think anything can transform around intimacy
03:50if you're not including some of the basics.
03:52At first, they're gonna find this exercise pretty intimidating,
03:54but I know they're gonna have fun with it once they dive in.
03:58Okay, welcome to the next phase of the course.
04:02You've already learned a lot of skills,
04:04but technique is about putting it all together
04:06into like a smooth, flowing escalation.
04:10We are going to start with kissing.
04:18I've never been a fan of it.
04:20I've had, like, one person going,
04:22I'm gonna make out with you, and he went...
04:25And then that'll just put me off,
04:26and then he started biting me, and I was just like,
04:28no, this is too much.
04:30Kissing may be seen as first base,
04:32but Celeste and Danielle know it's the gateway to so much more.
04:36For me, kissing is probably the most important thing.
04:40I just love lips,
04:41and I want them everywhere on my body,
04:44on my face, on my neck, all over my body,
04:47so there's, like, a whole escalation
04:49even through a single kiss.
04:52It literally travels to the nipples,
04:56to the pussy, to the toes,
04:57and that's what creates a lot of warm-up.
05:00So who wants to practise with me?
05:08Yeah!
05:09That's it.
05:10So far, accountant Teagan
05:12has thrown herself fully into the course.
05:15I really want to not be a virgin anymore,
05:18and to experience the romance,
05:21to be able to make love to somebody,
05:23I want all that.
05:26I was born with cerebral palsy.
05:28I grew up being told from a very young age,
05:31you might not be able to do a lot of things.
05:33They told me I might not be able to walk,
05:35so I walked.
05:36I might not be able to talk,
05:37so I talked.
05:38You only get out what you put in, you know?
05:50Good, and even keep your mouth open longer,
05:53and see if you can bring your teeth in a little bit.
05:55Like, yes.
05:59You really got in there?
06:01Yeah, yeah.
06:01Yeah.
06:01I felt a lot of contact.
06:02Yeah.
06:06Oh, I need not a cold shower.
06:09Oh, it was very erotic.
06:11Mm-hm.
06:11I felt it all the way then.
06:13Yeah, yeah.
06:15Next, the experts want to up the ante.
06:18We want to invite you to try with each other.
06:20With some peer-on-peer practice.
06:23Who wants to give any one of these kisses a try?
06:28Fuck up.
06:32First up are Katie and Callum,
06:34who've been growing close throughout the retreat.
06:37Initially, I don't think I would be a very good kisser.
06:40I've never gone further than holding someone's hand.
06:44Ever, was it?
06:46I've never done anything.
06:49I think it's funny, you know, intimacy and sex.
06:53I find it quite humorous.
06:54A lot of people would say I am quite childish.
06:58Working with Kat at the retreat,
07:00Callum is learning to step up from boy to man.
07:05Right.
07:22All right.
07:23We need to go a bit slower.
07:26Right.
07:26Katie, I love it that you're giving him feedback.
07:28It's fantastic.
07:30And I like the stubble on up.
07:32So, yeah.
07:33Yay!
07:36Yeah.
07:38Also quick to pair up...
07:40Yeah, you're right doing it with me.
07:41Yeah.
07:42..the island's other potential lovebirds, Alex and Joy.
07:45Do you want to do neck?
07:46Yeah, yeah.
07:47Can I?
07:48Yeah.
08:06You can add teeth in if you want.
08:13Sorry.
08:14I feel like I was just kissing.
08:16No, it felt good.
08:17And I like the teeth.
08:18Gorgeous.
08:20And you're okay with me giving your neck kisses?
08:22Yes.
08:23Yes.
08:47Please.
09:02How was that?
09:03Very good.
09:05Wonderful.
09:12Who else is going to try?
09:17I think that's a bit uncomfortable for me.
09:20OK.
09:21Ellen?
09:22It's OK.
09:23No, you're having one.
09:24No, don't worry.
09:26Even if it's just a hand kiss.
09:30I'll do arms only, if anyone wants to do an arm.
09:33I'll do it.
09:33Yeah, come on.
09:35Good boy.
09:38Identifying as bisexual,
09:41Theatre Russia Millie is filled with horror by the thought of romance.
09:47When it comes to dating,
09:49you know the other person will want intimacy
09:52and, you know, he'll want a kiss.
09:55I just can't, I can't give them that, really.
09:58I'm scared that I'm not going to enjoy it
10:02and then, like, kill the vibes instantly.
10:06OK.
10:07Go ahead?
10:08Yeah.
10:12OK.
10:26OK.
10:27Good.
10:27Really good.
10:28Thanks.
10:29Woo-hoo!
10:33Any feelings?
10:35Obviously, it's intimate, but, like, it's very, like, I don't know.
10:39I think I need to try and relax.
10:42I think this will be something really good to work on in one-on-ones.
10:48How was that?
10:48Yeah, I broke the seal.
10:50Yeah.
10:53Lovely.
10:56It's an old T-shirt, Graham.
10:58Yeah, I saw that.
10:59And then you did the thing, I was like, woo!
11:02It was hot.
11:04Also feeling hot after the workshop...
11:06Jeez, I'm not comfy.
11:09..Callum and Katie...
11:12..whose relationship has been noticed by the Islanders...
11:16..and the experts.
11:19There's definitely something developing, it feels.
11:22Totally something between them, right?
11:24It's spicy.
11:25Yeah.
11:25It really looks like something that he's been deeply craving.
11:28Mm-hm.
11:29I'm going to work with him a little bit on practising kissing
11:32because that's a huge insecurity that he has.
11:36In terms of being intimate,
11:38getting it to the next stage after flirting
11:40is where it just kind of walled off.
11:44Whoa.
11:46Kissing is quite a big step when it comes to it.
11:50I might be weird about it and then they start thinking I'm weird.
11:53I've never done it.
11:55Can I squeech in here?
11:56You can.
12:02I did enjoy today's workshop.
12:04But I feel like I could be a lot better than that.
12:07Yeah.
12:07Yeah.
12:11I mean, we can do it here if you'd like.
12:15Yeah.
12:16Does that seem fun?
12:17Yeah.
12:18If Kat can boost Callum by teaching him kissing technique...
12:24Maybe it could help him to act on his feelings for Katie.
12:27Look.
12:29Yes, but...
12:30I want you to...
12:33go very slowly.
12:39Hmm.
12:41And a little more up with your head.
12:43I like...
12:44No, not that one.
12:45The other bit is great.
12:48If I have a little bit of space, then I can kind of meet you.
13:03Good job.
13:04How does that feel?
13:05Cool.
13:11You sounded like such a dude in that moment.
13:19I'm flustered.
13:21I can't even think right now.
13:23I've had my first kiss, basically.
13:25I feel like a lot more confident in actually doing that now.
13:29If you told me before coming here, I'd be doing that in there, like, honestly, I wouldn't believe you.
13:55I think you need to learn the anatomy of a man.
13:58It's the first afternoon of the technique phase.
14:01Is that your balls?
14:02Yeah.
14:04And the experts have given the virgins some toys to add to their sexual skill set.
14:10Sex toys can be seen as taboo, but it's really important that they have time to just practice and play
14:15with each other and maybe just not take sex so seriously.
14:19Oh, my God!
14:22You've just twatted it.
14:24I'm so sorry.
14:27Still make baby shower?
14:29Maybe.
14:30I don't know.
14:31Since pairing up in the kissing workshop, some of the islanders are getting even closer.
14:36This is nice.
14:37This is quite internal.
14:39Oh, crumbs.
14:39I shouldn't have put that in my eyes.
14:42Alex and I, I feel like we really connect.
14:44It's very easy to feel comfortable around him.
14:47I came here to, like, overcome my issues with sex and intimacy, and this has happened.
14:51I would definitely say this is, like, unexpected.
14:55Do you want a blankie?
14:56I don't want one.
14:57Oh.
14:57But just in case, just see me if you want one.
14:59Oh, that's nice.
15:00Thank you so much.
15:02She makes me feel, like, really at ease.
15:04It's like enjoying getting to know someone, exploring that romantic connection.
15:10To smooth the road to romance, they first have individual issues to address.
15:15You have a long tongue.
15:17That's what I get told.
15:18That tongue gonna go places.
15:20Oh, my God.
15:22Elil will continue to help Joy with her vaginismus, while surrogate partner Rizden will keep working
15:28on Alex's anxiety with erections.
15:31I'm looking forward to seeing what has shifted now that there's this romance blossoming.
15:36And we want to make sure that they're equipped to deal with that.
15:40What's your plan?
15:41You know, this is a big thing for Alex, is the, like, performing.
15:44My goal is teaching him how to sustain an erection as well as complete with an orgasm.
15:49Okay, so Elil, you'll be seeing Joy today?
15:51Yeah, so I want to give her a plan of how she can start integrating a lot of engorgement,
15:58potentially even orgasm, into her practice of penetration.
16:04If the treatments work, it could bring Alex and Joy closer together.
16:09If I started dating someone, that is the assumption that we get to a point where we have intercourse.
16:14And yet, if somebody tried to touch me there, like, it would be pain, and that's not a sexy thing.
16:19So we're just gonna check in?
16:21Yeah, perfect.
16:22In previous sessions, Joy has been learning to relax around penetration.
16:27We have dilators here.
16:29Do you have your own one?
16:30Yes, I have mine. I can show you.
16:32Cool.
16:32But now Elil wants to go further with a new approach.
16:35It's way easier to practice penetration, either when you are very, very engorged,
16:42and ideally, after your orgasm, you're more relaxed.
16:46We're rewriting the experiences around penetration, to let your nervous system and body know,
16:52oh, it's not this painful, scary thing.
16:58Have you made progress with his erection anxiety?
17:02One hand.
17:04One hand.
17:06I can't even do that.
17:08Have you been practicing that?
17:09No.
17:10Alex has tested himself further.
17:12Lay back when you're ready.
17:14In the safe hands of surrogate partner Rizden, to see if he can stay focused until orgasm.
17:21No pressure.
17:22How's that feel?
17:23That's really good.
17:27Let's just put that on the floor, just so it's a tiny bit softer.
17:33I know that working through vaginismus entails pain.
17:36It will be uncomfortable at points.
17:38Would you like me to cover one of the pillows, just in case you want a hump pillow?
17:42Yeah?
17:43Yeah.
17:44I know that some approaches are unconventional.
17:46Doing this, you know, it's clearly whatever it takes.
17:59Having really bad performance anxiety.
18:02In my head, I am thinking that I'm not good enough, I'm not masculine enough.
18:06This person doesn't really want to be with me.
18:09I start to lose my erection.
18:11It's then the panic attacks, massive heart rate, deep breathing, feeling nervous.
18:17Keep breathing.
18:28Everything your body's doing right now is perfect.
18:55That felt amazing.
18:57Yeah.
18:58It's like all the tension's just lifted.
19:00I feel tingly, I feel shaky in a good way.
19:04That felt pretty good before I put so much pressure on me and my genitals.
19:11Having come to this island, learned techniques that can calm you down in the moment
19:14and just, like, lose yourself in your body has been, yeah, amazing.
19:19Just give yourself a moment to kind of feel it, spread all over your body.
19:29How crazy is that?
19:34After orgasm, using a dilator should feel easier,
19:39bringing Joy a step closer to pain-free sex.
19:42Just remembering the breathing.
19:48And remembering that the tensing is around the entrance.
20:00Yeah, you're all the way in now.
20:02There's no pain.
20:05Amazing.
20:09Happy with that today?
20:10Yeah, I'm happy with that.
20:12Amazing.
20:12I've learned something about myself.
20:14I just masturbated in front of someone.
20:27And then I used the first size of my dilator and it, like, just slipped right in there.
20:34Oh, yes!
20:38This has been so big for me in terms of rewiring my brain.
20:43I think the idea of penetrative sex is becoming less and less scary.
20:50The therapy that they've been through has created such a noticeable change.
20:54It's unbelievable.
20:57The more that they practice, the more prepared they are to go out and do these things in life.
21:05How did your one-to-one go, Alex?
21:07It was pretty good.
21:09Cool.
21:09I had a great time.
21:10Do you have to, like, fully shower after that sort of thing or do you just baby wipe?
21:15Does it not just go everywhere?
21:16I use your shower, personally.
21:19After wanking?
21:20Yeah.
21:21Jeez.
21:22I can't be bothered.
21:23I'd be having six hours a day.
21:27Hello.
21:28Hello, honey.
21:29How was your one-to-one?
21:30It was very good.
21:31Oh, you smell really nice.
21:33Yeah, it's because I was really sweaty, so I had to...
21:35I bet you were.
21:37Was that good?
21:38It was really good.
21:40Did you finish?
21:40Yeah.
21:41Yeah.
21:41I now know how the people of Pompeii felt, but instead of pyroclastic flow of
21:46lava, it was a hot, frothy ejaculant.
21:49Everyone!
21:55Right, I love kissing.
21:57It's just something I've really enjoyed doing, so as soon as they were like,
22:00oh, we're going to practice kissing, I'm like, yeah, boy!
22:03Do-do-do-do-do!
22:04Yeah!
22:08At the hangout, talk has turned to this morning's kissing workshop.
22:13I think, Katie, you look like you're enjoying yourself.
22:15And I don't think I could have done it with anyone else.
22:18I could.
22:19Oh, fuck you.
22:21It was nice to see the progress from being too shy to do some things to
22:24being confident enough now.
22:25Yeah, well done, guys.
22:27But for Ellen, it just magnifies how far behind she's feeling.
22:32I didn't do the kissing on the neck because I didn't really feel comfortable.
22:36It was a bit awkward.
22:38For me, it's quite a personal thing to share in a group setting.
22:44You okay, baby?
22:45Yeah, I'm good.
22:46You just wanted alone time?
22:49Yeah, but I don't mind if you...
22:51I just wanted to come check if you were okay.
22:52Yeah, no, I'm all right.
22:53I don't want you to feel like you're being left out.
22:55So Ellen, she didn't want to do any kissing.
22:59She felt aversion.
23:01I noticed at one point she got very internal and really couldn't watch.
23:06But she would feel comfortable doing it with someone she feels connected with,
23:11someone she feels drawn to.
23:14How are you doing?
23:17To help Ellen get closer to losing her virginity,
23:20Kat's getting her confident with the basics.
23:23I'm not very good at kissing though.
23:25Well, we can start with practicing that.
23:27Yeah, ready?
23:28Okay.
23:33And you can relax your lips more.
23:35Like really let them explode.
23:39Okay.
23:42You're still a little bit like this.
23:45Sorry.
23:48Can I go again?
23:49Yeah.
23:54Is that right?
23:55How does it feel?
23:58Like down below is like excited.
24:03Feeling more relaxed, Kat wants to escalate the session to more intimate touching.
24:08Uncharted territory for Ellen.
24:11I've never been touched intimately.
24:14I feel like maybe there's something wrong with me.
24:20I feel a bit of an outcast and like I've done something wrong.
24:30I feel like I've done something wrong with you.
24:31Are you feeling okay about directing?
24:32Yeah.
24:33Yeah.
24:34Where would you like to be touched first?
24:37Softly, like slow and then down like to my gentle.
24:42Down a little bit.
24:47Just keep letting me know.
24:53Just a second.
24:59Pass, pass.
25:00No, it's okay.
25:03Even the anticipation of intimate touch.
25:06Yeah, just breathe.
25:07You can look at me.
25:08Breathe.
25:10It's okay.
25:11Is enough to overwhelm Ellen.
25:15What are you feeling right now?
25:18I don't want to like fail.
25:20You can't fail.
25:22The only goal is pleasure.
25:25Someone told me in the post that I'm broken.
25:28No, you're absolutely not broken.
25:31And there's nothing wrong with your reaction to being touched.
25:40It felt quite intense.
25:44Just cross at myself really because it's my fault that I'm how I am
25:48and I knew I was going to struggle with it.
25:56As the sun sets on the first day of the technique phase, progress is mixed.
26:02Some move slow, others more quickly.
26:08You smell really nice still, by the way.
26:14That was actually really smooth.
26:16Yeah, I like that.
26:20Do you want me to kiss your neck?
26:31Cheeky.
26:32Too much?
26:33Cheeky.
26:34No.
26:35Can't go for me too.
26:37Get out of the room, guys.
26:54Those grapes are disappointing.
26:56They're not grapes.
26:57What are they?
26:57They're olives.
27:02It's day two of the technique phase of the cast.
27:05All right, lads, boys only table.
27:07Can I come on the boys table?
27:09No, it's boys only.
27:10Well, fuck you then.
27:11Yeah, fine.
27:17What are you giggling at?
27:18I just spat on you.
27:20Oh, really?
27:20I didn't actually, but I pretended to.
27:21Oh, okay.
27:22Yeah, as a member of the male species.
27:25That's kind of hot.
27:34It's obvious to see how effective somatic work is
27:37as you start to see people connecting with each other on an intimate level.
27:41Because people actually have the opportunity to practice.
27:44Then you start to gain this sense of confidence and relaxation.
27:48It's beautiful to see.
27:50Alex and Jai have shared their first kiss.
27:53Come here, baby.
27:54Come here.
27:55And now she's looking to share the love.
28:00Oh, my first kiss of the island.
28:03Did you just kiss?
28:04Yeah.
28:05Stopped stealing her, Jai.
28:07Oh.
28:08Are you getting possessive now?
28:09Yeah.
28:10Oh, about time.
28:12So, if I want Katie more...
28:14You can't.
28:15Why?
28:16Because she's mine.
28:17Have you said that to Katie?
28:18No.
28:19Not exactly.
28:20Not even kissed her, have you, so?
28:21No.
28:24I'm not doing that in front of everyone.
28:26That's so awkward.
28:27Uh-uh.
28:38I've got a fucking air in my mouth.
28:41As Callum and Katie turn up the heat, Millie is still lukewarm.
28:47The whole socializing with a stranger and knowing the next bit could be intimacy.
28:55I internally, like, panic.
28:57But I'm hoping I can change and start doing things that I've never done before, even though
29:04it's going to be very scary.
29:08Millie's tasks are to embrace her sexuality.
29:12I want to help her see how her experiences don't have to hold her back.
29:17I'm sure there's more secret desires that Millie has tucked away that we can get into.
29:24Yeah.
29:24And I think being teased is a way to kind of tease it out of her.
29:28I can handle that.
29:29Yeah.
29:32So, a session with playtime expert Shelby.
29:35You ready to begin?
29:37Yeah.
29:38Come on up here.
29:39Could help Millie unlock her true desires.
29:42Nothing in this whole wide world matters except your body and my voice.
29:51Experimentation is how we learn about what we like and what we don't like.
29:55And playing with different sensations with different people is a great way for us to
29:59figure out what people's true desires are.
30:03Have you ever had your nipples pinched?
30:06No, ma'am.
30:07Hmm.
30:10Ooh.
30:11Shelby's experiment to discover what turns Millie on...
30:14Oh, did you like that?
30:16I did.
30:16You did.
30:18...is proving to be enlightening.
30:21Your face is getting a little pink.
30:24Something exciting must be happening.
30:27Yes, ma'am.
30:32You're so beautiful.
30:33Thank you, ma'am.
30:34Shelby is quite hot.
30:36She's touched me in places I've never been touched before.
30:39And I'm like...
30:42I really love, like, the whole, like, girl-on-girl aspect.
30:46So, I think I'm still figuring that out for myself.
30:50As the day goes on...
30:52Grab that pillow.
30:54Yes, mistress.
30:55Put it there.
30:57Shelby scrutinizes Will's technique in self-control.
31:01Is that for me?
31:02Yes, mistress.
31:03Good boy.
31:06And dominates Ed.
31:08This is how I want your hair.
31:10A handle to lead you around.
31:13I'll let you do whatever you want.
31:15I usually do.
31:17To build his confidence.
31:19People will go decades thinking about stuff like this
31:21and never trying it out.
31:23You're ahead of the game.
31:24Probably the best I've felt about myself in a long time being here.
31:28I'm really happy to hear that.
31:39Hey, Ed. How was your one-to-one?
31:41It was so much fun.
31:43Yeah.
31:43With the choice between getting laid or another session with Shelby,
31:47I'm picking Shelby.
31:49For real.
31:50Yeah, like, 100%.
31:52For Tegan, though, the possibility of sex is becoming real.
31:56I think I've still got a lot to learn, but I'm also, like...
31:59I definitely feel ready to go and do it.
32:01I think I've got my support called blue balls.
32:06Having conquered the shame around her sexuality...
32:09You ready to look at my ass? Mm-hm.
32:12I'm definitely laughing.
32:14Tegan has learned many techniques with surrogate partner Rizden.
32:18Mm-hm.
32:19Mm-hm.
32:39Mm-hm.
32:40The feeling that she's embodied here at the retreat is really transformative for her.
32:44She is an ideal client to have a sexual experience.
32:50For this rite of passage, Rizden has escalated the session to the bedroom.
32:57Up until now, it's been very much like Rizden's been teaching me a lot of things.
33:01Whereas now, to lose my virginity, I'm feeling a tad of warmth, a bit nervous.
33:06It's hard to describe.
33:09Tegan defines losing her virginity as receiving an orgasm through the hand of somebody else.
33:18It's a very pivotal moment.
33:22Hello.
33:23Hi.
33:24Hi.
33:24Hi.
33:25Hi.
33:26Oh, that's really comfy, actually.
33:29It's not so bad.
33:30It's not so bad.
33:48You're nervous.
33:49Yeah.
33:50Yeah.
33:50Mm-hm.
33:51That's real.
33:52I'm nervous too, just so you know.
33:54Are you?
33:54Yeah.
33:55Okay.
33:58May I kiss you?
34:00Mm-hm.
34:10How nice.
34:11What'd you think?
34:12I like that.
34:13I got fanny flutters.
34:14Mm-hm.
34:14Same.
34:15You did?
34:15Yeah.
34:18The session starts with slow, sensual touch.
34:22I want to struggle with you.
34:24Yeah, great.
34:25Yeah?
34:25Go for it.
34:26Are you sure?
34:26Yeah, of course.
34:27So bizarre.
34:28What's bizarre?
34:29I've just never been in this situation.
34:31Totally.
34:32Super new.
34:32Mm-hm.
34:33Yeah.
34:34It's really good.
34:34Do you want to try the strap on?
34:37Yeah.
34:38You want to try it?
34:38Yeah.
34:47You're quite good at this.
34:49I'm cute.
34:49I can't.
34:51I can't.
34:54Now, Rizden takes the lead in pleasure in Teagan.
34:59Touching you here again?
35:01Mm-hm.
35:03Mm-hm.
35:14Don't make it.
35:18Yeah.
35:27Yeah.
35:31I was feeling good.
35:33Yeah.
35:37That didn't take long.
35:49My pleasure.
35:56Jacob!
35:57Hello!
35:58How was your turn?
36:01My head's a bit fried right now. I feel great.
36:04Let's just say I'm not a virgin anymore.
36:06Shut up!
36:09He could sit down!
36:10Basically, I just lost my virginity.
36:13I feel like jumping for joy.
36:16Oh!
36:17Confidence!
36:18Your cheeks are so rosy.
36:20All these phases have just kind of helped me grow.
36:24I can't wait to take all these different skills and tricks into the real world
36:28and hopefully find myself a girlfriend after this.
36:30I have little to no concerns about Teagan out in the world.
36:35I am mostly concerned for the lesbians of Glasgow because here she comes.
36:43Oh, she's fantastic.
36:45So happy.
36:46Well done, Teag.
36:47There were 11 virgins left.
36:49Yeah!
36:50It's all happy.
36:51Big up, big up.
36:52Should we have a group hug with you?
36:53Yeah!
36:53Let's go.
36:54Everyone can get in.
36:56And three, two, one, say Teagan's not a virgin!
36:59Three, two, one.
37:00Teagan's not a virgin!
37:01Yay!
37:03Thanks, guys!
37:04How'd that taste?
37:16It's the afternoon.
37:18Whoa, that can kill someone.
37:22And an advanced sex toy lesson proves pleasure doesn't always require human touch.
37:29You can use it by stimulating and warming up the area.
37:32Close your eyes and try it out.
37:36Vibrators are really good because the clit often needs an intense amount of stimulation.
37:41That's heavy.
37:43And especially for women who have a difficult time cumming, sometimes they won't be able
37:47to cum ever if they don't use a vibrator.
37:51Yeah, I've done it like a couple of times, but I find I can't quite reach an orgasm.
37:58I don't think I've ever had an orgasm.
38:01If I do have a sexual thought, I just try and ignore it because I've never really explored
38:09that area.
38:16After feeling overwhelmed in the previous session...
38:19Hello, how are you?
38:20Kat has tried a different tactic to get Ellen comfortable with intimate touch.
38:26The reason that I have the table is to make it safe to have a more non-erotic exploration.
38:32Does that feel...?
38:33Okay.
38:33Yeah.
38:38Ready?
38:39Yeah.
38:40And if anything makes you uncomfortable, just let me know.
38:45As Ellen and I move into deeper intimacy, it's more apparent how she can sometimes shut down.
38:51And so that's something we're really working on is helping her to sit with herself in those moments.
38:56To remind her that she is in control, so that she feels safe, and then she can choose to take
39:02the final steps.
39:05It's still okay?
39:07Yeah.
39:08Can we just stop for a second?
39:09Of course.
39:10Of course.
39:17Is there anything that you need?
39:20Just a second?
39:21Just a second.
39:21Yeah, of course.
39:24Okay.
39:25You sure?
39:27Yeah.
39:29Just like, I kind of just needed a minute, but it's okay.
39:32Okay.
39:33And tell me if anything's, like, too fast, too, yeah?
39:41That's right.
39:46Hmm.
39:47How you feeling?
39:48Good.
39:49Yeah.
39:50Yeah.
39:50Like, very good.
39:51I haven't had that, like, before.
39:58So really happy that you were able to be like, wait, hold on, and kind of go into yourself, and
40:03then know when you were ready to engage again.
40:05That's really good.
40:06Okay.
40:07Okay.
40:08Yeah.
40:09When I first walked on the island, I didn't even think I would take my bra off in front of
40:14someone else.
40:15So I feel like I've come a long way.
40:18And now I'm looking forward to hopefully losing my virginity on the island.
40:34Do you want to try a bit of tongue?
40:36Ah, I see, I don't know about the texture.
40:38That's fair.
40:39Do a little teeth, but not too hard, if you don't mind.
40:42No, no, no worries.
40:45I just need to, I need to get over that blockage.
40:48Yeah.
40:49Since her one-on-one with Shelby, Millie has begun exploring intimacy.
40:56During our one-on-one, she really got in touch with a lot of new sensations.
41:02I really want to explore with her her feelings around boundaries.
41:08I feel that there's some sort of shame that holds her back from exploring who she is and how she
41:16can develop deeper romantic relationships.
41:21I definitely want to get over the obstacle of kissing, because I feel like there's quite a bit of, like,
41:26relationship blooming.
41:28Your hands are freezing.
41:30I didn't even realise I was cold.
41:31Alex and Joy, they've been getting really close to each other.
41:36Can I lean on you?
41:37Yeah, of course, Joy's the one.
41:41And then you've got Callum and Katie.
41:44I can't be.
41:46They're getting more comfortable in each other's, like, space.
41:49Callum!
41:52And I'm sort of just, like, watching them.
41:54And I'm just like, oh, why can't that be me?
42:00So I actually wanted to follow up a little bit on the kissing.
42:04I think a little bit, like, yucked by kissing.
42:07I don't know.
42:08My friends have seemed to be able to do it easily.
42:10Mm-hm.
42:11And I'm like, okay, why can't I feel nice when it comes to, like, dating and things like that?
42:17To help Millie focus on what's holding her back...
42:20Can I hold your hands?
42:21Yeah.
42:23Danielle plans to use a focused breathing technique.
42:32I can just feel the thing in my throat.
42:35Don't try to push it away.
42:37That's what I do, though.
42:38I know.
42:39It's okay.
42:40Let's not fight it.
42:41You already know the truth inside you, right?
42:44Mm-hm.
42:44Yeah.
42:46Do you want to tell me?
42:55I feel like I've got more preference to female.
42:59I've never been attractive to, like, guys.
43:07So what's happening when you say about them into women?
43:11Oh, I just feel like I want to cry.
43:13Yeah.
43:13Yeah.
43:13It's not easy to come out.
43:17Oh.
43:18It's a lot, huh?
43:19Just saying them words out loud, and it's just like...
43:22I think because I've covered them for such a long time.
43:25It's, like, really hard.
43:28Yeah.
43:32I feel like people won't accept me.
43:35Yeah.
43:35Yeah.
43:37My older sister's disabled, and there's a pressure on me of, like,
43:41I'm the one that's meant to, like, get married and have kids.
43:44And you're scared that if you're going to come out,
43:46you're going to lose love.
43:48That's normal, to feel like that.
43:50We all want to belong.
43:52Yeah.
43:54Can you peek with one eye, like you're doing now,
43:58and see that I don't judge you at all?
44:00Yeah.
44:01Yeah.
44:02Mm-hm.
44:02And I appreciate you.
44:06And respect you, just the same.
44:10Thanks.
44:13Okay, darling.
44:14Can I have you for a hug?
44:16Yeah, I quite love a hug.
44:27As the sun sets...
44:29Can I have everybody's attention?
44:32The islanders have gathered to say a fond farewell.
44:35Shelby has brought in this beautiful way of looking at playtime,
44:40and she's going to be leaving tomorrow, so we all want to thank her.
44:43Thank you, Shelby.
44:47Thank you, Shelby.
45:07and I'm like...
45:08And I'm like, oh, I like boys, you know?
45:10That's kinda normal.
45:12Sorry.
45:15You got this, Mills.
45:18Yeah, I can't say it and I think deep down I've like girls
45:27Yeah, just what
45:29You need to like to say it otherwise. I'll be living in this life of like not being me
45:36No, well done. Whoa the ladies like you Millie
45:43Proud of you as hard as it was. I'm really glad I said it
45:48Yeah, it's lifted like a ton of bricks off my shoulders. I don't need to be ashamed
45:54It's okay to be a lesbian
46:02Next time
46:03Of course the group explores the art of seduction
46:09Will you clutch my crock more major milestones are reached?
46:18And in an island first one connection is set to intensify
46:25Does that feel like something that you want?
46:28I'd be keen if you've identified with the issues raised in virgin island and would like to be part of
46:34a possible new series
46:35Visit channel4.com forward slash take part
46:39You
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