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00:03Do you feel a bit rusty, Romance?
00:04Yes, very rustier.
00:06Definitely need a WD for our day.
00:09I need some help.
00:10It's hard out there.
00:12I am very single at the moment.
00:15I've run out of swipes.
00:16I've completed Tinder.
00:19In the heart of Britain's most romantic city.
00:22Aloha.
00:24Fred and his team.
00:25This is Captain Fur Potato.
00:27Are matching hopeful singletons.
00:29We're getting married, Merlin.
00:31In a place where love is always on the menu.
00:35I've got a bit in your finger.
00:36You didn't go that far down the strip.
00:40These daters.
00:41He probably thinks I'm having a poo or something.
00:43Are searching.
00:46For the one.
00:49Would you chase me around the bedroom?
00:50Absolutely.
00:51Get your coat.
00:52I'm in.
00:53For some, stepping into the unknown.
00:57Can lead to surprising sparks.
01:00I work in the adult industry.
01:02Do you have an office for that?
01:03I have a dungeon.
01:05But finding a connection.
01:07A love story is about to begin.
01:10Shut up.
01:11Isn't always easy.
01:13Please tell me you actually last longer than three minutes.
01:19Help me.
01:21In the end.
01:22Hi.
01:23It comes down to one.
01:25Nice to see you here.
01:26Big.
01:27Question.
01:29Would you guys like to see each other again?
01:31This isn't a total quiz, is it?
01:33This is The First Dates Restaurant.
01:44How are you?
01:45Terrified.
01:47Take a break.
01:48I think every single person that walks into our restaurant is nervous.
01:54You excited?
01:55You're shooting my pants.
01:56You have no idea who that person is.
01:59I'm so nervous.
02:00It's like high stakes gambling.
02:02Which is kind of exciting.
02:04And kind of nerve-wracking.
02:06Some of us are more confident than others.
02:09It's fine.
02:09Everything's fine.
02:11You can't give up on love.
02:13You owe it to yourself.
02:15And you've got to go for it.
02:19Hi, my name's Jack.
02:22Oh, this is sick.
02:24This is 23-year-old insurance salesman, Jack.
02:29Would you like to fall in love?
02:31Yeah, 100%.
02:31I like to fall in love.
02:33It's just taking its time.
02:35So what's your dating experience so far, though?
02:38I don't really do it, to be fair.
02:39In public, I will never make a move on a girl, I can't lie.
02:42Will you not?
02:42No, I'm just like a nervous wreck.
02:44And I'll be sitting there like, all right.
02:48I'm not the best, I can't lie.
02:51There's been girls, but it's never led to anything serious, basically.
02:54I struggle to find that emotional connection.
02:56It does get to me sometimes.
02:58What kind of girls do you like, Jack?
03:02Strong, independent, outgoing women.
03:03Right.
03:04I don't care if she's short, tall.
03:06I do like lips and eyes, though.
03:07Lips and eyes do attract me, I can't lie.
03:09Enjoy it.
03:10I'll come round and check on your new bit, OK?
03:11All righty.
03:12Do it.
03:12Shall I stand up?
03:15Oh, bro, I don't know.
03:20Hello.
03:2325-year-old Rochella works in communications,
03:26but can't seem to talk her way into a relationship.
03:30I have become the butt of the joke at the moment.
03:33I know that my friends love hearing about how bad my dates are,
03:36but it's getting to the point where it's like, this is just not funny anymore.
03:40You've got the biggest smile.
03:42Are you always like that?
03:42Are you just happy to see me?
03:43I'm just really happy to see you.
03:45Oh, that's very nice.
03:46Thanks, guys.
03:46Yeah.
03:48Oh, my days.
03:49So, have you been single for long?
03:50My whole life.
03:51I've never had a boyfriend, anything like that.
03:52Never had a boyfriend?
03:53No.
03:54It's not like I haven't dated or haven't had, like, a series of situationships,
03:58but that's not really what I want.
04:00I can't do another, like, Bumble match or Hinge match or Tinder.
04:04My, like, brain is just sick of them.
04:06I don't have the best luck.
04:08When I first meet people, I can be a bit shy and guarded,
04:10so I do think it takes me a little bit of time to warm up.
04:13Shall we go?
04:14Yeah.
04:14And on you go.
04:15Oh, here we go, here we go, here we go, here we go.
04:17Here we are.
04:18Hello.
04:19Hiya, nice to meet you.
04:19I'm Jack.
04:19Nice to meet you. I'm Rochella.
04:21Nice to meet you, Rochella.
04:22Oh, sorry.
04:23How are you?
04:23It's all good.
04:24I'm good.
04:24It's really hot in here.
04:25It is, isn't it?
04:26I was just thinking I might have to take this bad boy off.
04:29Hello, can I get you a drink?
04:30Can I get a mojito?
04:32Yeah, of course.
04:32Sorry, I should have asked what you were drinking.
04:34No, sorry, I'm on a non-alcoholic beers.
04:37OK.
04:38No fucking hell.
04:39I mean, I have, obviously, I'm a bit nervous,
04:41so I've had a little sip already.
04:42A little sip.
04:43No need to be nervous.
04:44Yeah.
04:48What do you do for work, then?
04:50I'm in communications.
04:51Oh, yeah, what's that about?
04:52Oh, everyone asks me that straight away,
04:54and I don't know how to give an answer,
04:55because it's literally everything, so...
04:57How about you? What do you do?
04:58Yeah, so I'm, um, I'm a salesman for life insurance.
05:02Oh, as in, like, death?
05:04Yeah.
05:05Sorry, that's the first thing I jump to, and I think...
05:07Yeah, that is literally what I'm chatting about all day.
05:09Yeah. Just, like, death, funerals.
05:11Oh, hello.
05:12How are you? I'm all good.
05:14How are you feeling?
05:14Yeah, I'm better now.
05:15Yeah, I'm all good now.
05:16Or is it a smile just making you feel relaxed?
05:19Yeah, it's a lovely smile.
05:20You can't complain.
05:20Yes, we've delivered, right?
05:22Yes, you have.
05:23Are you ready to go to your table?
05:24Yes, sir.
05:25OK.
05:25All righty, happy days.
05:27I love a timid man.
05:29I think it's really cute.
05:30I really do.
05:30I mean, I love a timid man,
05:32but I don't know if I would want to date a timid man.
05:34I would probably out-talk him in every aspect.
05:38Have you ever been to, like, a proper fancy restaurant like this?
05:41No.
05:42Mine either.
05:43It's got a big-ass ceiling.
05:45Yeah.
05:46Yeah.
06:04It's got a big-ass ceiling.
06:10It's got a big-ass ceiling.
06:16has always remained with me i just need to find a man that loves me as much as my horses
06:21do
06:22hello fred how are you i'm very good you're looking so chic it's like you're coming from
06:28paris thank you come from a farm i'm usually in wellies so what have your animals have you got
06:35land donkeys shetland ponies horses yeah so you can't meet any uh farmers like a jeremy clarkson
06:42time they go to you i can't meet anyone it's hard as you get older because i think sometimes
06:47you forget that you are actually older yourself when people turn up and they look very old
06:53you feel like oh is that really my date you've been doing much dating or no i've been having a
07:00break
07:01men broke my heart okay not tonight definitely not tonight i think my slogan for life is to be
07:08healthy happy and horny you're full of beans full of energy yeah i am this is good i want a
07:16best
07:16friend with nice kind generous values shall i get you a little drink oh yes please could i have a
07:23glass
07:23of champagne glass of champagne yeah i should have known yeah why did i ask someone that's got an
07:30adventurous side and energy to do stuff and it's just got kind of an a spirit about them
07:41louise's date is former windsurfing british number one simon he's hoping to ride a new wave of love
07:49i represent the great britain gbr team in 1988 olympic games in sol korea the opening ceremony
07:56closing so i mean it was unbelievable just going through the tunnel and then suddenly the cheer like
08:00a couple hundred thousand people in the crowd can still feel on the back of my neck now it's like
08:05gives me tingles i'd love to have that feeling in a relationship olympic level love if not greater
08:12gold medal love hey there's how are you nice to meet you and you congratulations to your daughter
08:17by the way thank you very much yeah yeah because i was at 88 games were you what were you
08:22uh doing i mean
08:23surfing is such a cool sport so is it difficult to find women being a surf man come on i
08:30was married
08:30for a little while right so came out of that dating scenes changed quite dramatically okay so um out of
08:37sync i learned to find my person i have not had that feeling in my life i've come close i
08:45thought i'd love
08:46somebody but it was one-sided i'll take you to your date she's already here oh okay it's 1482
08:51sporty lady i want to find somebody for me this equal a partner in crime a friend someone you can
08:56laugh you like enjoy life with there she is thank you hello hello hiya nice to meet you hi i'm
09:05louise
09:06simon thank you early this is the menu thank you very much enjoy it i appreciate it i got you
09:14something
09:15there you are oh bless you so you can remember it i've actually got you something too but i i
09:21left
09:21them on code it's all right and i actually haven't looked at the menu because i'm starving yeah trust
09:31i was just thinking that we've been chatting but we aren't actually letting i didn't see that no
09:37what's she doing to see the table over there yeah is the most nervous data i have ever seen in
09:43this
09:43restaurant so this is going to be your table make sure you look after it for sure i'm kind of
09:50like
09:50drawn to the steak but i don't know if i've ever had a steak in my life before i mean
09:54we can start it
09:54now okay yeah see you see i'll get one as well hello i didn't hear if that's all right my
10:00pleasure
10:01do you want any uh recommendations at all do you need some time i think we've decided on a steak
10:05okay great we're going medium rare as well medium rare fantastic i'm guessing you're not having wine
10:11um i'm okay so yeah great if you change your mind you let me know gorgeous thank you so much
10:16yeah it's like um i don't drink anymore good for you do you smoke or something both kinds crack and
10:23cigarette no i'm joking i've got my pipe right yeah no that's because um basically a little trauma
10:32dump on you right now let's go yeah so basically i got diagnosed with epilepsy when i was 19. i
10:38went
10:38out with my mates i had a pretty heavy sesh and yeah i just drop i was bail out
10:46so i only drink this now i'm sorry to hear that no that's calm yeah after a pretty wild night
10:52out
10:52i was just waiting for the bus the next day and i just i dropped to the floor basically
10:58the thing is where epilepsy it doesn't mean anything the first time so i thought nothing of it and then
11:03i had another one after another night out and then i got tested basically and i got diagnosed with it
11:09it was pretty heartbreaking to be honest it was very sad because obviously i've got to take medication
11:14for the rest of my life now and i used to be a really big drinker socially so i've had
11:20to stop
11:20that might be one of the reasons why i'm single as well to be fair i just can't make a
11:24move in public
11:25unless i'm plastered so that's kind of halted it it's tough at the start yeah because it's just like
11:32denying it but like now i've just come to terms with it you know yeah and i'm just chilling yeah
11:38yeah you're a good looking guy you've got a great sense of style yeah what are you getting nervous
11:43about i don't know i think it's just like the fear of rejection and just like having to be in
11:49the bar
11:49or pub with that girl for us tonight knowing she said no like that's just what runs through my mind
11:54do you do anything with like raise awareness or i posted on my instagram but that still takes a lot
11:59yeah to do that is great yeah impressive what's this so to start we have a complimentary amuse boo
12:08it's a fancy word for starter cool thank you very much enjoy it in one or yeah straight in okay
12:14thank
12:14thank you all right i'm just gonna nab it in one i reckon
12:26it's gone the wrong way
12:41what are you doing million toasting i'm gonna set the whole house on place on fire
12:47it's actually going aphrodisiac in it oh yeah so that's exciting in there whoa that's quite spicy
12:53like me that's just louise thank you very much louise thank you thank you how long have you been
13:02single way too long i mean yeah work and that type of stuff and just takes a this toll on
13:10doing that
13:10yeah i think i question my ability to actually uh choose the right person so hence the reason why
13:15i'm here you were hoping people would choose for you so how old are you uh 58 are you yeah
13:23oh god
13:23i'm not older than you no i have turned 60 last year no way i know i had a real
13:30crisis about it as well
13:32because it feels so old and like i just thought i've not met anyone and then being single when you
13:38were 60 wasn't what i was imagining where my life was going to be yeah i thought sorry it gets
13:45emotional
13:51i thought that i was going to end up being on my own for the rest of my life and
13:57i couldn't understand why i had never met the right person
14:04and i just felt like all these social pressures of being 60 that i should start thinking about
14:12retiring that i should downsize from living on a farm and you shrink as you get older and i wasn't
14:20ready
14:20to shrink now you've been married yeah i've been married but that was a long time ago 20 years ago
14:29since i
14:29was married for some reason it all came crashing in last year and i had a little bit of a
14:35breakdown
14:36i started having panic attacks and anxiety i hadn't got in touch with my inner vulnerabilities and
14:43understood that i was missing having a partner because i've been on my own for years you missed
14:50the company the companionship i'm really happy i love my life and i've got lots of great friends and
14:56family yeah but be nice to do something with someone and be able to plan things and stuff yeah definitely
15:03yeah i want the this third act of my life to be the most exciting and and have a really
15:10great time
15:11and i want to share my life yesterday you're a new life new chapter yeah
15:18you look beautiful oh thank you you look smart in your blue suit oh thank you yeah
15:24this morning i woke up not feeling confident right and i do you ever do affirmations yeah
15:29i just have affirmations i put this 15 minute affirmation on saying you are brilliant you are
15:34confident you are special you are all these things that by the end of the 15 minute thing i was
15:40like
15:40oh my god damn these things i was going to do the exact same i have a habit where i
15:49have to eat chips
15:50in size order and in terms like smaller to bigger oh okay but it would be really insufferable to me
16:01everyone i've been on a date with is like when did you get diagnosed yeah what do you mean what
16:08have your
16:08past relationships been like so my ex was four years ago now that was really it to be honest
16:14have you had any past relationships then i've never had a boyfriend before really yeah you're mad
16:20i think i missed like fun time for dating and i was thrown into it when it's like awful and
16:26shambolic
16:26yeah as it is now and i just don't really enjoy it and i've never really met anyone that i
16:31want to
16:31be in a relationship with so i think i'm a very bottled up person and was really really really
16:38shy as a kid i remember at school all the comments would be she doesn't talk to people
16:45i didn't really have many friends to hang out with so i would just always go to the library and
16:50just
16:51sit down and read books i never got that innocent kind of romance where someone fancies you in class
17:00as an adult here i never really got attention from guys it was always very negative so i'm like if
17:06anyone's giving me attention it must be for a bad reason or for a joke every time i'm on a
17:13date i'm
17:14just thinking what do they want from me rather than they want to be with me yeah i'm always like
17:20yeah
17:21i'm going to throw myself out there i'm going to date and then i'll be out there for like a
17:25minute and
17:25like i don't want to be here anymore it's not fun it's like sucks i feel like i'm a very
17:32trusting
17:32person so i don't want to just go to someone and be giving them all this love and affection and
17:38then
17:38have it thrown back in my face i don't want to be hurt basically and i think i'm very guarded
17:44damn your first ever state hmm see i have to leave that for last but now what you eat it
17:49in order
17:50yeah in order oh you eat your chips first
17:54well i save my chips for the end the meat is like if i'm an animal in the world
17:58i would want to save that i love that
18:08this is scott hey costumier to the stars who loves a bit of dress up himself
18:19in his spare time he becomes the drag diva caster hex she is my gay suit of armor she is
18:26my
18:27stronger heart she's a time-traveling immortal sorceress who could snap her fingers and set
18:35someone on fire whereas me we will see how this goes i'm quite soft looking i'm quite unassuming
18:47i'm not physically very strong or powerful that's so stupid how are you not bad comment
18:54how are you very good nice to meet you scott you too tell me what you do for a living
18:58i work in
18:59costume for film and tv actually oh dear when i was little like i would draw dresses a bit of
19:04a nerd
19:05really yeah yeah so when was the last time you were in a relationship a couple of years ago
19:09it wasn't long summer fling kind of so why do you think you're sick of that's the million dollar
19:17question i think on paper i'm a catch i have a good job i love to cook i'm very doting
19:23there's lots about me that i think is great quite long that coat no worries thank you much i do
19:31want
19:31marriage and i would like kids that whole fairy tale why wouldn't you want to find magic and enchantment
19:57i'm a bit wild i would describe myself as a fire
20:08you have to be able to handle the heat can i just say this is the most runway walk are
20:15you always
20:15walking like that like you're on a runway maybe maybe you're looking fabulous give me a twirl
20:21wow that class are you excited yeah excited i come across as very loud and outgoing and out there and
20:30and i'll talk to anyone and very sociable but when it comes to boys that is very much not the
20:36case
20:36what have i left to myself in my face i've not always felt super super confident in how i look
20:45i remember moving to clapham and i was like wow i actually just look like a potato compared
20:49all of other days man your date is here oh my gosh let's let's do it let's do it keep
20:55doing the
20:56runway walk i'll let you make your way hi hi are you right i'm good thanks how are you george
21:02lovely
21:02to meet you scott are you a hug person hello all right i'm good i'm good i'm good
21:09sorry what was your name again george george sorry that's all good scott
21:17this is wild yeah it is a bit wild oh gosh so yeah um how are you i'm good i'm
21:26i'm good i've been i've
21:27had a great day a lovely lovely morning yeah nice nice what do you like do for fun like have
21:34you got
21:34hobbies i love to learn languages what ones so i speak english french norwegian
21:47spanish serbian albanian
21:53italian german did i say german yeah i know finish
22:02hungarian hindi and learning japanese to go to japan
22:07that's fast that's so cool you're a polyglot i think that's the word i guess so that's so cool
22:18how's it going you're right yeah i'm good thank you how's your date a little bit of a connection
22:22oh we can laugh good luck yeah that's all you want in a relationship really no yeah yeah
22:28he's a really nice guy i'm not sure about the chemistry though like i really would love it to be
22:34good chemistry i know but i'm gonna work on it because he's a really lovely person i really like him
22:42and
22:43we're getting on really well anyway our best to go bye hey loves i have a little surprise for you
22:51on me got a cheesecake to share thank you so much yeah i'll let you go first then no i'll
22:57let you go
22:57first we'll go at the same time get right into it we were just vibing the whole time which i
23:05really
23:05enjoyed personally lots of laughs going on yeah i'd say i fancy her yeah i don't know i don't know
23:13i mean we were chatting loads but does that translate into ratings or not have we discussed what we'd like
23:20to do with the bill i mean we don't need to anyway no no no genuinely that's fine don't let
23:26any of that
23:26machine
23:31would you like to see each other again i'd say ladies first
23:36rock paper scissors is it fantastic perfect thank you very much thank you rock paper scissors shoot
23:44nice it's best for free time flies when you're having fun exactly yeah i'm done yeah yeah i'm i'm
23:52down to see you again yeah yeah happy days all right let's get out of here it was all 10
23:5910s around
23:59for me yeah have a good evening sweet yeah you bounced off me very well yeah and didn't get too
24:07weirded
24:07out you rolled with it really nicely yeah you're just like a really interesting person yeah oh thank
24:12you okay i can't take it back i'd say our fancier yeah yeah that's a m yeah all righty yeah
24:20happy day
24:24hey pickle korean fried chicken yes thanks sir you got some champagne there's lots to celebrate yeah
24:32100 percent breathing yeah so you've been there busy oh yeah i'm always busy yeah well i live on a
24:40farm so i have horses and stuff yeah really yeah have you ever ridden a horse yeah when i was
24:45younger
24:45did you yeah but uh my passing sport was windsurfing what professionally was it cool went to the
24:53olympic games did you my club that's so impressive i was sailing a lot when i was younger watched the
25:02games 84 saw the windsurfing like that self-taught and then went to the games in 88 that is a
25:09big
25:10achievement many moon ago now yeah growing up i had a bit of a broken uh family school bullying and
25:17that
25:17type of stuff i was put on uh like closed hooks punched as soon as i finished uh school went
25:24sailing
25:25windsurfing put my fear and anguish into sport as soon as i came out of school just jumped on a
25:31board
25:32freaked around yeah bullying nearly broke me on a lot of aspects but uh it made me who i am
25:39and that's
25:39something that i am proud of what about yourself i've always been a bit sporty and like i've always been
25:46horsey and i like i can see that you've got bigger guns than me
25:55i'm like very toned flies from my house
26:16it's great chemistry the eye connection they end up looking at each other i know and the way that
26:21they're sitting forwards yes like it's like they're interested in each other yeah yeah
26:26coarser i think it's gonna go well so do i yeah you've got nice eyes did you i was just
26:33thinking
26:33exactly the same thing yeah it's my guy liner
26:41you have great eyes thank you so much
26:46that language thing is honestly so bewitching to me i love this vote of confidence i love languages
26:51i do dip into latin that's really cool did you do that in school nah mate i'm in essex oh
26:58okay not
27:00like glamour essex i'm from like slightly backwards homophobic kind of essex
27:08being gay where i'm from really wasn't great it's a little town and it's a retirement destination so
27:17there's some older values which are not the fun kind of older values
27:21little anecdote i wore like a soft gray pink jumper and the f-slur got yelled at me from across
27:28the street
27:30as much as you like to think you're rock solid it does chip away at you so i think i'd
27:35develop a
27:35bit of an icy prickliness maybe that's why i'm single i don't know where are you based normally um so
27:43i live in clapham oh nice i've been there i've been i've been there a fair bit on a clapham
27:48night out
27:49i've performed that one oh my god yeah i do drag
27:55like well that's like that's so cool side career kind of thing i suppose as scott i don't feel like
28:02i fit in with the world at large really but when you put on that inch of makeup and that
28:08wig and
28:08you tie the strings on that corset it transforms you in a way that you feel stronger what is your
28:15what's your drag name castahex castahex oh my gosh you're kind of like really witchy my character is
28:21kind of yeah witchy historical oh cool yeah so this is what i did last year a lot of pink
28:28butterflies
28:30fun that's supposed to be poison i don't know if it's like the best i feel like my style is
28:34a
28:34bit wild it's important that someone has like substance a bit of ambition yeah i find ambition quite sexy
28:47what's the craziest thing you've done i've only died eleven times eleven time car boats planes gosh
28:56i've done uh stupid things have you yeah surfed on top of a roof holding onto a board strap doing
29:0370
29:03mile an hour on a uh one of those buses dopamine jumping i thought windsurfing was on the sea yeah
29:09we have to get to advance oh my god you sound like james bond i haven't had a date like
29:17that
29:17with anyone not that i can actually remember she is a stunning lady how would you like to pay
29:24there you go he's being a gentleman i offered i did offer thank you very much there's a chance of
29:30having a second date on a scale of one to ten i'd hope we'd be a nine ten i'm hoping
29:36i read the room
29:37right
29:40do you like to see you two again i'll let the lady go first
29:46i've had the best day and i i i did and i i don't think i've met anyone as warm
29:53and interesting
29:53as you for a really long time i don't know yet i felt really safe and like in a really
30:00good
30:00space with you so yeah i'm gonna do a selfie with you come here go this way right i have
30:08to get my
30:08camera yeah i felt the same i'd like to see you again even if it's just like having a friends
30:14and
30:14then see how it goes let's do that let's see each other's friends and see where it goes i like
30:22the way
30:23that you dress to carry yourself the hair the way that you look after yourself oh thanks you won't
30:30think so when i'm covered in mods
30:37so exciting i can't believe i'm actually sitting here
30:43part-time dj priscilla is looking for a plus one who can keep up with her on the dance floor
30:49oh god i could start a party in a peg bag
30:54come on paper bag let's start it off
30:58how are you nice to meet you i never met anybody called priscilla
31:02well there you go you dropped my autograph yes
31:05i love that name what's your motto in life grab life by the short and curlies
31:10what do you mean you're short and curlies
31:15come with me i've always loved love and never is going to be somebody out there for me i mean
31:22what
31:22there's six billion is it in the world and you know there's going to be somebody out there
31:27how are you i'm good thank you how are you i'm very well you've got some interesting necklaces going
31:32on here so yes i've got rose quartz so that's that's crystal of luck oh is it the crystal of
31:38love
31:40love for me feels warm it's that warm comfortable feeling that safe feeling i'm here to find my forever
31:49man he needs to be ready for the party from the off maybe even before the off actually
32:02looking to dance his way into priscilla's heart is 50 year old raj i'm a father of three so you
32:09could
32:10say i'm a uh fun dad or funjabi or whatever you want to call it yeah i grew up in
32:18the east then
32:19watching only fools and horses it's it's my happy place what's your favorite dead boy quote i love
32:25all of them you know like lovely jubbly christy morris 2 morris 2 bonnet de douche and all that
32:32how are you how are you doing i'm fine how are you yeah very good how's dating for you it's
32:37been
32:38stop start so i'm trying to get the momentum going again and i thought this would be a great
32:43way to start let's see how it goes i've been single probably coming up to about two and a bit
32:50years
32:50being in a relationship for i think 13 years so you're at the game for so long i think i've
32:55got a
32:55pretty established uh situation now and i i think i'm i'm a pretty decent version of myself that i can
33:02now
33:02put out there as it were shall i take you to go and meet her yes please come on thank
33:08you i guess
33:09i have that type with beautiful eyes and a smile but for me it comes down to having a good
33:13heart
33:17hello hi hi yeah nice to meet you all right two kisses what's your name sorry priscilla hi i'm raj
33:26thank
33:26you this is the menu thank you oh wow there you are thank you very much you look lovely thank
33:33you very
33:34very much so how are you feeling i think i'm okay i think i got more nervous meeting fred
33:47hello how are you guys i'm good i'm good how are you very well thank you you're coming to take
33:51order
33:51i've come to do everything have you i assume you guys can you sing and dance for me then as
33:55well oh wow
33:56we do it together i'll follow you let's do it what's your normal go-to song strumming my pain with
34:02his fingers one time oh sorry hello you okay when i was studying abroad i met loads of people from
34:18like from this like the balkan region okay okay and i got really really into the pop music from this
34:24region okay it's like a mixture of like middle eastern river rhythms like euro dance and gangster rap
34:30that's really funny i also weirdly am obsessed with eminem me and my brother used to do the ramps
34:36when we were young i love that um but i've not asked you what your star sign is taurus what
34:41are you
34:41aquarius aquarius okay that works as long as you're not on aries that's i always like the problem
34:48sign for you oh you always struggle with an aries for me it's gemini that's my there has been some
34:55some two-faced bitches some pretty interesting gemini men in my life okay not being clear about
35:03their feelings or like just being a bit weird just bad vibes in a group of friends there was a
35:11boy
35:12there was chemistry i really wanted the excitement like the things that you see in films this like
35:20budding romance and i was like oh my gosh this is what it's like this is what it's like and
35:24it feels
35:24amazing he kept sort of like giving me just enough and then someone else came on the scene and then
35:33he
35:33started paying them a bit more attention i'm so over that like game playing which it's not yeah
35:43we were out ice skating and it's really romantic there's loads of like fairy lights and stuff
35:51and they were like skating together having their film moment
36:11like the phrase men are trash is it's there for a reason isn't it yeah i've shut myself off
36:21and i think now i'm ready to sort of open myself up again and put myself out there
36:30how do you say men and men are trash in serbian
36:39that gave me um like eastern european mafia vibes that's in the best way that's very
36:55so what do you do it's a boring profession i'm a qualified accountant so i don't know how to make
37:00it sound any more interesting without you falling in your coffee you know gosh like me then i've had
37:05the corporate side of things um but i'm also a part-time dj yeah no we just took a left
37:14turn somewhere
37:14here how did you navigate there once like two ends of the spectrum right so i'm 54 now when i
37:21was 37 i
37:22had heart attack oh damn i'd gone to bed and then all of a sudden i felt like a an
37:30ache in my head
37:31felt this wave of heat rush all the way through me as well and i was thinking this doesn't feel
37:36right
37:37so i went to the hospital my left artery was 100 blocked they couldn't believe that i'd survived
37:47for me it's like homing in on the silver lining rather than focusing on that cloud okay yeah yeah
37:56for me that was my second chance at life i went through a huge healing journey i then learned to
38:04re-love myself again if you've come through anything you've survived for a reason and that's to live
38:11live your life and to love and to love yeah so yeah it's um i've got quite sort of a
38:22few facets to
38:23me if that makes sense so what do you want any music or 80s but the kind of like the
38:30the disco 80s
38:31if that makes sense yeah you know i love having a good time if there was some sort of like
38:36soul
38:36motown disco that was happening down the road you know i'll be there that's not me
38:45i know what i like and if i go if i'm in a venue where i'm not feeling that music
38:48i'm not yeah not me
38:59oh that's really nice oh yeah yeah are you a cauliflower fan i do love cauliflower actually
39:06i'm gonna try a bit yes please it's good thank you so much it's good how's everything going with
39:13the food dishes i'm struggling with this it just feels really chewy and uh and it was not really
39:19warm i'm only eating because i'm hungry so uh i can swap it for maybe a small piece of chicken
39:25or
39:26something absolutely thank you thank you thanks the problem is it came cold but again i gotta eat it i'm
39:34starving chef can i please have one like korean fried chicken starter thank you so much
39:43what is it that you look for i'm trying to get into a relationship now i'm a romantic right so
39:49i
39:50really want to be settled down you're an aries then aren't you yeah i am by a sign yeah okay
39:55i'm more guarded i'm not gonna be oh please marry me like that it's very i'll be i'm gonna be
40:01more
40:03do you crush yourself as a slow burner then i wasn't used to be like that but i i'm more
40:07conscious
40:07that i am now growing up watching bollywood romance those type of movies growing up and how they um
40:15kind of woo the lady there that never goes away
40:20how's the chicken much better you do eat chilis as well then my tolerance is not as good
40:27i want someone who's not giving up on life like i'm 50 and i don't feel 50. i need someone
40:33who has
40:33the energy someone who can do a bit banter with me for me it's like the flavor after that you're
40:38just
40:38eating hot stuff with no flavor yeah and then if i haven't put any toilet roll in the freezer the
40:44next
40:44day i'm finished you know i mean i'm doing handstands in the shower
40:52i would chase you but in the balkans it's unlucky to cheers with an empty glass
40:57like it's bad luck to give a purse without a coin in it
41:01you can't step over someone's legs or like you can't like you can't sit like naked on the bathroom
41:06floor or you can't have like a one of these like wild superstitions i love it and like the ladder
41:11thing don't go under ladders that's just common sense they've got paint up there so i mean
41:21oh my you're not gonna believe this so a new opportunity will present itself
41:28be ready to seize it mine says a love story is about to begin
41:35shut up
41:41i think it went okay i think i'm not 100 sure
41:48yet however when i opened my fortune cookie i couldn't believe what it said and then when
41:53his said a love story is about to begin i very much believe in kind of like messages from the
41:59universe and i'm like thinking well maybe i i shouldn't really completely write it off
42:04how's it going you again how would you like to pay we don't just split up here in full
42:09i'll pay he's a gentleman he's all right he is very much so thank you very much
42:24would you guys like to see each other again i'm gonna say i've met a fantastic human being and a
42:31fantastic inspiring story uh but romantically i can't see uh seeing you as a romantic ongoing
42:39situation for me i completely agree with what you're saying about the romantic
42:45spark not initially being there however i was willing to go on a second date just to see
42:53outside of all of this just to see if there was something untapped here
42:59i just feel like you would run towards karaoke and that kind of music and i'm not really that's
43:04not my go-to yeah it is what it is but do you know what it's been a really lovely
43:08evening oh yeah
43:09what i want thank you no thank you as well all the best all right okay see you later bye
43:15is there a karaoke song you can think of that describes this i will survive hey
43:33hey
43:39that's the worst isn't it choking a bunch of ice blocks just like the end of titanic
43:45i've never seen titanic that's that i don't understand i don't know i don't know why i've
43:54never seen it i just don't show how many drag queens have performed that terrible off-key
43:59like recorded version of my heart will go on i love you know how many people have done that bloody
44:04i love that stupid recorders so funny i've had fun it's been great 100 it helps that you have
44:12great eyes thank you so much they're very expressive could be in silent movies maybe i was in a past
44:24would you like to see something again yeah yeah
44:29i mean if it works it works yeah yeah it was fun i had a lot of fun
44:35how do you want to handle this do you i don't mind getting this one that's very kind of you
44:39thank
44:39it's all good it's all good it's been five years or so since i've been on a date with somebody
44:46i
44:47think sort of i was super nervous i was really like quite scared to put myself out there and thank
44:56you for creating like a wonderful space and making me feel like really at ease it was really oh that's
45:04i felt very not judged which is very important to me i'm glad so genuinely i really appreciate that
45:09you're very welcome thanks
45:13now would probably be a good little time for a quick picky yes
45:24i don't hate that i don't hate that you've got shiny eyes
45:30what does that mean oh that's what i like in a woman
45:44i've decided where of the next day it's going to be already where um this little like cake shop in
45:50london i love a cake
46:02and i definitely wouldn't like to take your horse riding
46:09well you'd be a pony for me to start off with i've got a shirt then
46:15don't need money don't take fame don't need no credit card
46:21thank you
46:49thank you
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