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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 27
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00:00:00Previously, after seven intense weeks in the experiment, the next phase of the
00:00:13experiment began. Feedback week saw our couples receive fresh perspectives on
00:00:21their marriages from their peers. Did you see the commitment ceremony when he was
00:00:25like, Sam will come to Sydney and then we'll do this. We had not spoken about that plan.
00:00:31Sam was able to express his concerns about Chris making future plans for the pair
00:00:36without consultation. I just feel like I didn't get a say or a voice at all.
00:00:40Alyssa warned David not to discuss those messages. The comments were vile,
00:00:46disgusting. But how do you know what they were? We've seen them. And...
00:00:52Gia. She done a runner. I'm gonna rename her Usain Bolt.
00:00:56Danny was stood up. I'm not doing it.
00:00:59When Gia refused to participate in the partner swap.
00:01:02This experiment is for sh...
00:01:04I think Gia, you're not giving her any drama. She's seeking that drama to fulfill her internal need.
00:01:09And after receiving direct feedback from Stella...
00:01:12The advice I got was quite reasonable, I feel. I just need to deliver it the right way for her
00:01:16to not feel offended.
00:01:17Fingers crossed it goes the right way.
00:01:19I just don't really care for her feedback.
00:01:21Scott was hesitant to share his findings with Gia.
00:01:27Um...
00:01:27If I knew if I went too deep, I'd be over the balcony.
00:01:34Tonight...
00:01:35Oh, my God!
00:01:37It's Alyssa and Stephen's turn to get some fresh feedback.
00:01:41Maybe this is your opportunity to jump right, Joe.
00:01:44Take the lead, Stephen.
00:01:45Alright, that's it.
00:01:47But not all our participants will see this week as constructive criticism.
00:01:51You just, like, made a decision on how this is going.
00:01:53Well, no, actually, no.
00:01:55That's not true.
00:01:56As a tense standoff ensues for one of our strongest couples...
00:02:00Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:02:02I'm not getting defensive. I'm having a conversation.
00:02:04I am sad. I'm disappointed.
00:02:07Do you see me as the mother-father of your children?
00:02:10Yes, I do see you as the father of my children.
00:02:13And as Feedback Week continues...
00:02:16No, thanks.
00:02:19Bye.
00:02:20..what's in the anonymous letter...
00:02:23If we just get through this...
00:02:24Oh, I want to get out of here, Bill.
00:02:25..that pushes Gia to breaking point.
00:02:28Gia wants to leave.
00:02:37It's Feedback Week, and across the city our couples are partaking...
00:02:42..in an anonymous one-on-one partner swap task...
00:02:45..set by the experts.
00:02:46The partner swap allows couples to gain an outside perspective...
00:02:51..on their relationships.
00:02:53But it was nice to just talk freely.
00:02:54Week after week, our couples get critical feedback from us as experts.
00:02:59But this week is all about feedback from those within the bubble...
00:03:02..of the experiment, their peers.
00:03:06And despite a devastating 24 hours...
00:03:09..Alyssa is putting on a brave face...
00:03:12..and is ready to participate in this task.
00:03:15Obviously, David and I, we've come off the back...
00:03:17..of, like, some pretty heavy times.
00:03:22Tonight, Juliet felt passionate enough to send me the receipts...
00:03:27..about the language that was used behind my back.
00:03:31What I just read was...
00:03:34..disgusting.
00:03:36But today, I just want to focus on the task.
00:03:39You know, I'm here for David and our relationship, so, yeah.
00:03:42I'm really excited and I'm always open to feedback.
00:03:44..and I'm not sure who I'm going to be partnered with today...
00:03:47..but I feel like it's really hard to take feedback...
00:03:50..from people that have burnt you.
00:03:52So, hopefully, it's not, Bec.
00:03:54Do I look or do I not look?
00:04:03MUSIC PLAYS
00:04:05Oh, hello there!
00:04:07Oh, my God!
00:04:09Hello!
00:04:10Hi!
00:04:11Oh, I walk in and I see Alyssa.
00:04:14But I was wondering who I was going to meet.
00:04:15I'm like, who is it going to be?
00:04:17I actually feel really good.
00:04:18If I want advice and feedback,
00:04:19it's probably the best that it comes from Rachel's best friend...
00:04:22..because they talk like crazy.
00:04:25Alyssa knows everything.
00:04:26Probably if I fart in my sleep or something, who knows?
00:04:29I've been wanting to talk to you.
00:04:30Oh, fantastic!
00:04:33How's your attraction?
00:04:35Are you getting...
00:04:35..is that attraction-building with Rachel?
00:04:38I can definitely say yes.
00:04:39What is holding you back?
00:04:41LAUGHTER
00:04:42Um, nothing's really holding me back.
00:04:44Um, intimacy-wise, it's taken a while to get there.
00:04:47You've made such progress,
00:04:49and I feel like maybe this is your opportunity to jump Rachel.
00:04:54LAUGHTER
00:04:55You just need to build up that confidence more
00:04:58and take the lead, Steve-o!
00:05:01All right, that's it.
00:05:02How are you and Dave going?
00:05:04I feel like David and I are in such a good place right now
00:05:08in our relationship,
00:05:08and I feel like we're on the same page in a lot of areas.
00:05:12Um, the thing I wanted to ask is,
00:05:15what do you see from the outside?
00:05:17Um...
00:05:17I can definitely tell you this.
00:05:19I've seen Dave at those dinner, um, parties,
00:05:22and when you're not around,
00:05:25he...
00:05:25..he's got your back.
00:05:28He's got me?
00:05:29Uh, he's got your back.
00:05:31It's amazing.
00:05:31He has your best interests at heart,
00:05:33and he's... Yeah, it's just amazing.
00:05:35Um, he's so calm and collected,
00:05:37and he respects you so much,
00:05:39and there's such a... and there's a connection.
00:05:40I've seen you two at the retreat,
00:05:42the connection you two had.
00:05:44It's super sweet.
00:05:46You are a match. Yeah.
00:05:46There's no doubt about it.
00:05:47All I can say is, keep going.
00:05:50Thank you, Stephen.
00:05:51You're a match.
00:05:53Look, Steve-O, I feel like he really took on board
00:05:56the feedback that I had for him,
00:05:57and I'm so happy about the feedback that Stephen gave me.
00:06:00It was really reassuring to hear that we are a strong couple.
00:06:04Cheers.
00:06:04Cheers to that.
00:06:05Cheers to us and our relationship.
00:06:08Cheers. 100%.
00:06:08And hurry up and jump, Rach.
00:06:10Ah!
00:06:12The first phase of Feedback Week has come to a close.
00:06:16And while Alyssa is feeling reassured
00:06:19in her relationship with David,
00:06:22back at the apartments,
00:06:25David is feeling nervous about his catch-up with Bec.
00:06:31I am nervous sitting here waiting for Alyssa to walk in
00:06:34because I don't know how she's going to take the fact that
00:06:38I had to talk to Bec about text messages that Bec sent,
00:06:42and I did not want to talk about it,
00:06:44but Bec obviously brought it up,
00:06:45so I couldn't shy away from it, you know?
00:06:48Do you know what?
00:06:48I wanted to talk to you and Alyssa,
00:06:50but obviously I couldn't, about those messages.
00:06:52I wasn't rude about you.
00:06:54I wasn't rude about Alyssa.
00:06:55I was just talking about your relationship.
00:06:58I don't want to take away from Alyssa's part.
00:07:00I'm sure she will talk to you in a long time,
00:07:02but I felt like the comments were vile, disgusting.
00:07:05But how do you...
00:07:06And very, like, mean and vicious.
00:07:08But how do you know what they were?
00:07:11Did Juliet send them to Alyssa?
00:07:14She did.
00:07:15It's hard to look past that.
00:07:19Hello, Mark.
00:07:20What it do?
00:07:21Hello.
00:07:23Hi.
00:07:23How are you?
00:07:24Good, how are you?
00:07:25I'm good.
00:07:26How was your day?
00:07:27Good.
00:07:28How was you?
00:07:29Yeah, I was good.
00:07:30It was good.
00:07:33Who did you catch up with today?
00:07:35Who did I catch up with today?
00:07:41Oh, I caught up with Bec.
00:07:44Where do I begin?
00:07:46I sat there and I was thinking...
00:07:48How did you hold your breath?
00:07:50Because we spoke about it before you left.
00:07:52I was like, do not mention the messages.
00:07:55Well, I went in thinking...
00:07:57Did you mention them?
00:07:58She brought it up.
00:08:00Babe, no!
00:08:00She brought it up.
00:08:02Yeah.
00:08:03The one thing I said to David today before he left was, please do not bring up the text messages.
00:08:15And it was brought up and it upset me because I'm like, I'm really disappointed because that is something I
00:08:20wanted to address.
00:08:23Because she was like, she was apologizing and then she tried to say, you should have seen the other side
00:08:28of Gia and she's like, it's all Gia's fault.
00:08:31Gia has a problem with me, but she keeps on making it out like it's me, but Gia sent them
00:08:37to Juliet to try and throw me under the bus, but hurt you.
00:08:40At the center of everything is Gia.
00:08:43I don't know what to believe anymore, but I don't care how many sorries I get.
00:08:47Oh yeah, I'm with you 100%.
00:08:49How many sorries it needs to be addressed?
00:08:52She knows that you're kind, she's leaning into you and she is manipulating you.
00:08:57But I don't...
00:08:58I don't believe it.
00:08:58No, but all I did was I said, look, you and my wife can sort it out, is essentially what
00:09:03I said.
00:09:03I said, Alyssa, I'm not going to take away from Alyssa, but I said I wasn't cool with you.
00:09:08But babe, I asked you, like, not to.
00:09:10How do you think I felt sitting there and the first thing that comes out of her mouth is the
00:09:14situation?
00:09:15What did you want me to do?
00:09:16You should have said, I'm not, this is not for me to step in, like, I don't agree with...
00:09:21Well, like, that's what I said, I said you will...
00:09:24No, but don't you went there.
00:09:24I asked you one thing.
00:09:26I feel like David should have just shut it down completely.
00:09:30Bec just wants a leg to stand on because as soon as Gia obviously brought it up on the couch,
00:09:34she was shitting herself.
00:09:36You should be careful with how much you are upset about me saying that
00:09:41when I have screenshots of what you've said about Alyssa and David.
00:09:47It was vile.
00:09:54She wanted to make sure she addressed it with David to try and back herself somewhat.
00:09:59But, yeah, I'm pretty upset because, like, that is something that I wanted to address girl to girl.
00:10:04I understand you're upset and I heard you loud and clear before I left today, but it's not something
00:10:10that I'm gonna, that I wanted to address. It's something that you can address with her.
00:10:15At the end of the day, I am very protective of Alyssa. And even though I didn't want to talk
00:10:20about
00:10:20the situation at all, when Bec brought it up, I felt like I had no choice.
00:10:25Because it was, I, the last person I wanted to see was that, was her.
00:10:29I know that you're pissed, just as pissed as me.
00:10:32Yeah, 100%.
00:11:02I know that you are.
00:11:02It's a bit like, honestly, I hate seeing you like this.
00:11:05And it, it just frustrates me.
00:11:23I don't know what to believe anymore.
00:11:34And down the hall, Bec is awaiting Danny's return from his partner swap task.
00:11:42Hello, babe.
00:11:43Hello, darling.
00:11:45How are ya?
00:11:47Good. How was your day?
00:11:49My day was, was f***ing amazing.
00:11:51Who did you see?
00:11:52How was yours?
00:11:53Good. Who did you see?
00:11:56The, the better question would be, who did I not see?
00:12:01What?
00:12:02I was meant to see Gia, but she stood me up.
00:12:06First time I've ever been stood up in my life and it's by Gia.
00:12:09That's so funny.
00:12:12The streak is over.
00:12:14Well, that's hilarious.
00:12:14So did you speak to anyone?
00:12:15No, no one.
00:12:16I just had, had a couple of beers in Bondi, chilled out, walk on the beach,
00:12:22done my thing, come back here.
00:12:23So I started shagging birds when I was 14.
00:12:26I'm now 34, 20 years.
00:12:28I've never been stood up once.
00:12:29So it had to happen, had to happen eventually.
00:12:32Out of interest, why do you reckon she didn't show up?
00:12:36Honestly, I think she probably thought it could be you and if you've lied about someone and
00:12:41then you have to sit there face to face with them where you can't run away.
00:12:44It's confronting, isn't it?
00:12:45It's confronting.
00:12:46When you've lied about someone, right, and you've lied about someone and you've gone at them.
00:12:51Only the other night at the commitment ceremony, she told me to shut the up.
00:12:56She probably thought there's a slim chance I could get Daniel and I can't, I can't do that.
00:13:02Even if it was a 10% chance she couldn't risk it.
00:13:05I also truly believe that she's not interested in showing any flaws in her relationship.
00:13:13She's not keen on that.
00:13:15And I think that would be why she's probably refused to do it.
00:13:22Do you know what I think is funny though?
00:13:24She hasn't disrespected me because she doesn't owe me nothing, but she's actually disrespected Scott.
00:13:30Because this task, she could have brought them closer together if she got some genuine feedback.
00:13:36But because she didn't show up, she's got no feedback.
00:13:40Who'd you have, by the way?
00:13:41David, yeah.
00:13:42How'd you go?
00:13:43When Juliet left the commitment ceremony, she sent Alyssa and David all of the text messages.
00:13:49David, David read the message.
00:13:51David and Alyssa, yep.
00:13:52Oh God.
00:13:53Yeah.
00:13:54And so...
00:13:54What did they say obviously because I don't even know what they said.
00:13:56Babe, I don't remember what they said.
00:14:00Alyssa is going down.
00:14:02Rat bitch with her rat husband.
00:14:06The only fake in this place are those two influencer wannabe.
00:14:12I did apologise to him for the messages.
00:14:16I'm just apologising over and over and over and over and over.
00:14:20And I get it.
00:14:21I've done the wrong thing.
00:14:22But I just feel like it's just something, it's just never ending.
00:14:29Honestly, like, how much more apologising can I do?
00:14:34Like, and I will because I have to and I'm in the wrong for writing them.
00:14:39But like, I'm just, I'm on empty.
00:14:45Things that happened two months ago, Gia keeps bringing up to the forefront of issues.
00:14:53And Alyssa and David...
00:14:54Juliet brought them up though by sending them back.
00:14:56But Gia sent them to Juliet.
00:14:58And they were sent two months ago.
00:15:01I'm actually just so tired, babe.
00:15:03You say you're tired of it. Imagine how David feels.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:07He'd be so sick of it.
00:15:08Yeah, of course.
00:15:09And I know, like, you're saying that Gia sent the messages to Juliet.
00:15:15But the reality is, if you didn't send them messages in the first place,
00:15:18she wouldn't have no screenshots to send.
00:15:22I don't care what someone had done to me or how I was feeling.
00:15:26I don't send abusive messages.
00:15:28Like, that's just me.
00:15:29You can't condone it.
00:15:31She's like trying to say, ah, Gia sent them to Juliet.
00:15:34But I'm like, but you sent them in the first place.
00:15:37Without you sending them, there is no screenshots.
00:15:39So that doesn't really fall with me.
00:15:41It all does go back to Beck.
00:15:43So, yet again, our relationship is just, like, almost smurred with all this other stuff.
00:15:50Like, what about that conversation was about us?
00:15:54She's worried about the screenshots are going to be brought up at the next dinner party.
00:15:59But it's like, they probably will be.
00:16:01So if people want to say a few things to her and to call her out of order and stuff
00:16:06like that,
00:16:06then she has to just take that on the chin, to be honest.
00:16:08So you've just got to run up and apologize in front of the group again, and then move on from
00:16:13it.
00:16:14Yeah.
00:16:14And just don't do no dumb shit like that in future.
00:16:44I just regret sending messages two months ago.
00:16:50I just regret it so much.
00:16:56I just feel like, for the past couple of weeks,
00:17:00retreat and Gia's just non-stop for months.
00:17:06And I've told Daniel I love him.
00:17:08And then this week has been intense because it's intensified it.
00:17:12There's pressure and I never wanted that.
00:17:16I'm just really scared of getting hurt.
00:17:20I can't make someone fall in love with me.
00:17:25I just feel like a fool.
00:17:27I just feel silly.
00:17:28I just feel like I'm happy.
00:17:31That's how I feel.
00:17:43With the partner swap phase finished, Chris is waiting for Sam to return.
00:17:51Sam was left feeling pressured after Chris revealed at the commitment ceremony that he
00:17:57had a firm plan for the pair outside of the experiment.
00:18:01I think what it would probably look like is just like say we go well everything ticks
00:18:05the boxes we'd have a place in Sydney so he'd go to Sydney I would stay primarily at the
00:18:10farm and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit from Sydney to the farm.
00:18:14Someone's been thinking about this little bit of detail.
00:18:17I think I think that's what it would look like if if we are successful and I want us
00:18:21to be successful but he has a lot of stuff to do in the city whereas I'm like
00:18:24cool to be at the farm full-time but after a constructive chat with Philip
00:18:28about the need to discuss this issue with Chris like I just feel like I didn't get
00:18:32a say or a voice at all if we'd come to that decision together of course it would
00:18:37have landed a lot better right now you don't feel like you're writing your
00:18:40story you really need to verbalize what your plans are because this is a
00:18:45partnership you know Sam is returning to the apartments feeling encouraged coming
00:18:51off the back of talking to Phil I feel like I can take a step forward and finding a
00:18:55resolution from Chris I really hope that we work through it together and that he
00:19:00can open up a little bit to my point of view of things yeah it was good chatting
00:19:07with Phil but one thing that could do come up with him is that like when we sat on the
00:19:12commitments ceremony couch and the experts were like what's the plan for us and you
00:19:20sort of said like oh this is how it works and we moved to Sydney and then we can go
00:19:23here and this we go here that's the first time I heard that plan yeah and it was
00:19:29kind of like you've just like made a decision on how no I actually know that's
00:19:34not true I said if we were to work and if we survive outside this experiment I said
00:19:39the most ideal plan would look like us getting a place in Sydney and then living
00:19:44at the farm just being like that's not how it happened like that's how it
00:19:47happened for me yeah so like disregarding that's like I sat there and like this is
00:19:52what I heard you saying and it felt like you were saying this is the only way
00:20:00I'm just I'm shocked like he's instantly defensive when I tried to bring up something that didn't feel
00:20:06nice for me it just like I don't know I just I'm not used to being spoken to that sharply
00:20:14I guess
00:20:15yeah that's just a conversation I would have rather had the two of us before like any sort of plan
00:20:22was
00:20:22like no it wasn't a plan it was a suggestion it was um well plan is a suggestion right well
00:20:28it
00:20:28would be like this is the most ideal scenario can you empathize at all that like that might have felt
00:20:33like a bit like no but they asked a question they said you know are you looking at the future
00:20:36and I
00:20:37answered it already I don't feel like I have much leeway or like input into how this can work because
00:20:50it's kind of like if it is going to work with us it's got to work your way because you
00:20:55have heaps
00:20:55on but it doesn't mean that like I don't like it would be nice for you to maybe like mention
00:21:03sometimes that it is a big weight on my shoulders I think it's ridiculous I'm 38 I've got a kid
00:21:14coming
00:21:15I don't need to argue about coming up with an idea for us after the experiment when I got asked
00:21:20a
00:21:20question and I answered it I just feel like it's a bit ridiculous to be honest yeah if someone said
00:21:28that and I was in Sam's position to me I'd be like oh my god that's so cute they're coming
00:21:33up he's
00:21:33thinking outside the experiment um I wouldn't have taken it the way that he's taken it also he said
00:21:39like you're not showing me a lot of empathy I get called an empath all the time wise that you'll
00:21:45be
00:21:45giving up a lot that's a big change for you as well but it wasn't like a set plan like
00:21:51you could have
00:21:51just um chimed in yeah I mean yeah I mean I feel like you're getting really like defensive with me
00:21:58I'm not getting defensive at all well even like a little sorry it felt like that I'm sorry that it
00:22:02felt like yeah I'm sorry that it felt that way but it was lead with that yeah um I can't
00:22:09remember
00:22:09what language I use but yeah it was not a big deal yeah yeah I don't know how I feel
00:22:20when someone
00:22:22tells me that something I did hurt them I'll always lead with apology but instead he was like nah that's
00:22:31not what I said and cut me off when he did that and then proceeded to tell me what he
00:22:36said um I was
00:22:38just looking for just to be heard it's a brand new day how'd you sleep great and whilst feedback week
00:23:03is
00:23:03bringing some of our couples closer there we go you did great sweetie
00:23:12following their first fight last night Chris is feeling offended with the comments Sam made
00:23:18about him not being empathetic I'm feeling like uh it's it's awkward because there's like a bit of
00:23:30tension between us it's not been like this yesterday he said that I have no empathy that is so hurtful
00:23:39so this morning I've got a clear head I've slept on it um I want to just try and clear
00:23:44it up and move
00:23:44forward how are you feeling after yesterday yeah good yeah cool yeah I said everything I wanted to say
00:23:52mm-hmm um yeah yeah I just feel like um I just like to revisit it quickly just so that
00:23:58I can like move
00:23:59forward yeah so as hard as it was for you as equally as hard for me and I think you
00:24:05said like I I wasn't
00:24:06showing any empathy or whatever so that's kind of hurt me a little bit because um you know everyone
00:24:11knows me as an empath like I am quite empathetic to people and I didn't realize that you felt like
00:24:16I was
00:24:17not showing any empathy like I felt like I needed more empathy around that situation more empathy about
00:24:23the moving situation yeah I just feel like you're maybe like sweeping under the rug a little bit how big
00:24:28a deal it
00:24:29was that's what it felt like okay yeah yeah when Mel asked me that question it was just a throwaway
00:24:34thought that I had while I was on a run I do feel like um yeah maybe that that comment
00:24:39was maybe
00:24:41misconstrued or whatever I'm happy to like just like move forward from it even now I feel like you're getting
00:24:47defensive I'm not getting defensive I'm having a conversation okay I'm just sitting here listening to you
00:24:51I think the saying that he didn't give me empathy comment hurt him I guess because he sees himself
00:24:55as quite an empath but I think asking for more empathy shouldn't really be met with defensiveness
00:25:02he's still defensive but again he didn't like me saying that today yeah I'm super sensitive to like
00:25:08to sharp talking I guess I'm not used to it at all um it's not how I like ever communicate
00:25:13yeah um
00:25:14so maybe just like if yeah you could be a little bit wary of that sure I'll take that on
00:25:20board
00:25:21um I am sad I'm disappointed this is all stemmed from the comment that I made on the couch Sam's
00:25:30upset that I didn't consult him prior to thinking about this um I thought it was cute I thought it
00:25:35was admirable that I had thought ahead of the experiment he obviously feels different he also
00:25:40feels that I was too defensive I disagree I think I just tried to communicate with him this morning it
00:25:48doesn't seem to be going anywhere so yeah unfortunately it's a bit ox as feedback week
00:25:58continues I hate these boxes Beck and Danny receive a familiar task the honesty box what is one dream or
00:26:07goal of yours that you wouldn't be willing to give up for me but will it derail their relationship
00:26:15again it's not just all fun and games it's just not I don't know why I'm laughing I'm sorry I'm
00:26:23sorry
00:26:25don't touch it again I'm joking you're pissing me off you're absolutely pissing me off
00:26:48as feedback week continues the experts have prepared another task for our couples
00:26:57that's the gift that keeps on doing oh yo as the experiment enters its final weeks it's time
00:27:08for the couples to think about taking their relationships outside the experiment and consider
00:27:13any hurdles they may face oh I know that box I've seen it well I've seen that before one of
00:27:23the tools
00:27:23we use to assist this process is the honesty box which will ask our couples to face these hard
00:27:30issues as you all know life outside the experiment may come with some pretty hefty hurdles we hope that
00:27:37you can tackle these hard topics head-on together not only answering the questions honestly but
00:27:43providing feedback framework and insight for our couples these questions will test whether they are
00:27:51able to align on their futures Stella and Philip jump straight into the challenge shall we yeah do
00:27:59you see me as the mother father of your children yes I do see as a father of my children
00:28:03you have
00:28:04great genes stud we both align on so many things yes it would be definitely awesome on that front and
00:28:21if we had to do long distance for a while how much contact do you expect once every fortnight at
00:28:29least for
00:28:30three months and then we move to Sydney I like that for Rachel and Steven this task offers an opportunity
00:28:39to open up can you see yourself falling in love with me can I see myself falling in love with
00:28:47you
00:28:48the way things are going yes I can you're accepting me for my flaws you're leaning into my hobbies
00:28:55you're just an amazing woman ah it makes me feel really good it really does and it makes me really
00:29:02excited for the future I'm gonna swipe this box it's good um keep all sorts of things in here
00:29:08keep all our trinkets keep some Lewis in there
00:29:11hey
00:29:12hey
00:29:17for Beck and Danny
00:29:20the honesty box is bringing back some memories
00:29:25so what's it like like another like like the honesty box like the box on the honeymoon
00:29:29yeah that one went well didn't it do you feel any sexual chemistry with me
00:29:38not too much to be honest with you no
00:29:50what
00:29:50that box
00:29:53oh every time I've done one of these it's gone bad
00:29:56do you know what I'd rather have done I'd rather have someone go whack
00:29:58kick me straight in the bollocks I would
00:30:02it's so hard for me to sit there and answer questions and talk about my feelings
00:30:08I'm not the type of guy to be like oh I feel like this
00:30:11like who's like who's like that I want to know because I'm not
00:30:15you ready
00:30:18I'm excited for this task because we haven't talked about how nice it that I've you know
00:30:24realized that I was in love with him on a commitment ceremony couch in front of the experts and all
00:30:28of
00:30:29our friends I love you
00:30:45I don't even know what to say to that
00:30:50I know that he's not at that that place yet and when it comes to these sorts of tasks like
00:30:55I know he gets uncomfortable because he's a man and you know talking about his feelings and stuff is
00:31:00hard but I'm hoping we can be super vulnerable and honest because there's a whole life outside of
00:31:08this that we need to be thinking about
00:31:10what is one dream or goal of yours that you wouldn't be willing to give up for me
00:31:17um
00:31:24I'll be honest
00:31:27one would one would hope you've always been honest
00:31:30me and the boys right we had a little trip to Rio planned
00:31:34yeah
00:31:35it was a boys trip
00:31:36and
00:31:38I'm going on now
00:31:40Daniel
00:31:44I'm joking
00:31:48what's the question
00:31:49one goal
00:31:52one goal of yours that you would that you wouldn't be willing to give up for me
00:32:00oh kids
00:32:02yeah
00:32:03yeah I want to be a father
00:32:04do you know what you mean
00:32:06maybe because I've just been called daddy for years
00:32:08I'm joking
00:32:15but yeah
00:32:16do you know what you mean
00:32:19I just expected him to take it a little bit more seriously
00:32:23I mean look like
00:32:26I love him the way he is
00:32:27he's a jokester
00:32:28like every day is hilarious and fun
00:32:31don't touch me
00:32:32I'm joking
00:32:32I'm joking
00:32:33but there's a time and a place for joking around
00:32:36you're pissing me off
00:32:38you're absolutely pissing me off
00:32:40why
00:32:41this isn't just a task that the experts have given us and it's a he he ha ha
00:32:49and by him acting like that it makes me feel like he's not serious about this relationship
00:32:55it's not just all fun and games
00:32:57it's just not
00:33:01just sometimes it's like there's a place for humans
00:33:03sometimes you want me to drop the jokes
00:33:05yeah
00:33:05I want you to
00:33:06to like
00:33:09like today I feel like
00:33:11I don't know why I'm laughing
00:33:13I'm sorry
00:33:14I'm sorry
00:33:15because I'm trying not to
00:33:17she weren't finding me funny
00:33:20oh
00:33:21she didn't find it funny did she
00:33:24I try and crack some jokes
00:33:26to like make light of it
00:33:27and just have some fun with it
00:33:29because I find them a bit awkward
00:33:30and I don't know
00:33:32a lot of these questions I've never thought about
00:33:33so I'm thinking on my feet
00:33:35and then I start to give her an answer
00:33:36and like it's like the wrong answer
00:33:42back to Danny
00:33:44do you think
00:33:45you will fall in love with me
00:33:47and why
00:33:54do I think I'll fall in love with you and why
00:33:59I want to be very careful how I answer this question
00:34:16back to Danny
00:34:17do you think
00:34:18you will fall in love with me
00:34:20and why
00:34:28do I think I'll fall in love with you and why
00:34:33I want to be very careful how I answer this question
00:34:40I'd assume I will yeah
00:34:43am I there yet no
00:34:45do I think it's going to go there
00:34:55probably
00:34:56doesn't make you feel too good
00:35:01okay
00:35:02what do you mean
00:35:03what's that place for
00:35:05I knew that he wasn't at that stage
00:35:08right
00:35:08I knew that
00:35:10but using the words of potential
00:35:12I assume
00:35:12maybe
00:35:13it's like no
00:35:14I'm here
00:35:15I'm in this
00:35:16I want to make this work
00:35:17and this is how we're going to do it
00:35:19like that's what I need
00:35:21not
00:35:22ha ha
00:35:23jokey jokey
00:35:24I might love you
00:35:25I might not
00:35:26whatever
00:35:27that's not
00:35:27it's not going to work for me
00:35:31good job buddy
00:35:34why are you feeling like that
00:35:37oh I hate these boxes
00:35:39you know
00:35:40who does he think he is
00:35:41how dare you not think
00:35:42that you could fall in love with me
00:35:43I'm the best thing that you'll ever get
00:35:44the end
00:35:46like
00:35:48anyway
00:35:57the couples are about to be set a new task
00:36:00which will allow the feedback they give
00:36:03to be taken to the next level
00:36:06do you want me to get it
00:36:07yep
00:36:08ah
00:36:09look what it is
00:36:10I hope it's an apology from the experts
00:36:12for setting me up with Danny yesterday
00:36:14it's time for the anonymous feedback letter
00:36:19as the participants move through the experiment together
00:36:22they have had a front row seat to each other's relationships
00:36:26this year we have devised a new task
00:36:29which will ask our couples to think long and hard
00:36:32outside of their own relationships
00:36:34for this task
00:36:35for this task you will write an anonymous honest and constructive letter to another couple in
00:36:40the experiment
00:36:41anonymous
00:36:42anonymous
00:36:43anonymous
00:36:44I said anonymous
00:36:45is he saying it right
00:36:47this is your chance to tell them what you really think about their relationship
00:36:51where you see the positives
00:36:53but also where you believe they need to make changes if they want to succeed outside the experiment
00:36:57by staying anonymous they can be completely honest with any critical feedback
00:37:03include a clear suggestion they can work on together
00:37:05this may be a ritual, a conversation, a task, or something else you think they could benefit them
00:37:13Alyssa and David are writing their anonymous feedback letter to Rachel and Stephen
00:37:19now we just get a brainstorm
00:37:21this is the best possible outcome
00:37:23because David and I are very close to Rachel and Stephen
00:37:26and Rachel's my best friend
00:37:27and I've given Stephen some great feedback yesterday
00:37:32and it's even better that I get to put it in writing with my husband
00:37:36what are you hoping that Rachel and Stephen get out of this?
00:37:39I'm just going to be straight shooting and say Steve-O needs to put on his captain's hat today
00:37:44and run the show
00:37:47be the boss for the day
00:37:48Rachel needs to allow Stephen to lead
00:37:50yeah she just sits back and let him run the day, run the show
00:37:54the goal of me and Alyssa's anonymous letter today to Rachel and Stephen
00:37:58is to hopefully get Stephen to take the lead
00:38:01so that they can get closer together and get intimate
00:38:04and then I feel like
00:38:06oh my gosh this is my brain now
00:38:10what?
00:38:11is there something Rachel?
00:38:12I don't think Stephen's going to want to do this but it's an idea
00:38:15Dave-O and I have the surprise for Stephen
00:38:17he's going to die
00:38:19I'm so excited for Rachel
00:38:20she's going to love this task today
00:38:25this is the golden product
00:38:27because it's about time we cracked the whip on Stephen
00:38:30and I feel like the task we've given him today is a really good one
00:38:34it's going to make Rachel feel special and he'll feel good about it
00:38:36we've got to seal the deal
00:38:38seal the deal
00:38:38alright we're going to fold it up
00:38:40oh you're going to kiss it
00:38:41okay ready
00:38:42are you going to headbutt it
00:38:44we're going to headbutt it
00:38:46muah
00:38:47great
00:38:47wait
00:38:49we've got to put some
00:38:50oh my god this looks so beautiful in you
00:38:52yeah
00:38:55okay
00:38:55wrap them together
00:38:57give them a kiss
00:38:57go on
00:38:59I don't want my dog
00:39:01kiss it like you mean it
00:39:02god damn it
00:39:02kiss it
00:39:04hey Stephen
00:39:05you better take this seriously
00:39:07I even had to put on lipstick for you
00:39:10like what more do you want bro
00:39:13get down and dirty with your wife
00:39:29oh my
00:39:36I don't know what this is
00:39:39what do you know there's a piece of paper with some red markings on and an interesting looking
00:39:45instrument
00:39:46what do you mean an interesting looking instrument
00:39:49well um
00:39:50I've been around the block a few times
00:39:53and I believe I've seen these things before
00:39:56this is not what I think it is is it
00:39:58it's an actual lipstick babe
00:40:00I thought this was a sex toy for a minute there
00:40:04why do they have to shape it like that for
00:40:09um
00:40:10Rachel and Stephen
00:40:12it's Alyssa
00:40:14you reckon it is
00:40:15yeah it's Alyssa
00:40:16she's the only one who calls me Rachel
00:40:19she's so cute
00:40:19oh my gosh
00:40:22Rachel and Steve-o
00:40:24hey guys it's your secret admirers
00:40:27who have been watching and observing your relationship from the beginning
00:40:31your connection is undeniable and we can see you guys taking the experiment out into the real world
00:40:39Rachel it's your turn
00:40:41it's time to be a passenger princess
00:40:46it's time to let Steve-o put his captain hat on and lead for the day
00:40:51also your task is to give Rachel 20 kisses
00:40:57the red lipstick needs to be used Steve-o so Rachel can count her kisses
00:41:06this is for you babes
00:41:09there's lipstick
00:41:11there's lipstick
00:41:12for me
00:41:13kinda wish it was a vibrator now
00:41:17at least it smells alright
00:41:18well you're not doing that right now
00:41:19no I'm not
00:41:23that's for Rachel and Steve-o time
00:41:25this is a really great opportunity for us to progress our intimacy
00:41:29so I want it to be
00:41:31I would like Steven and I to do this in a private setting
00:41:34because I want it to be taken seriously
00:41:36I want this to be a really nice romantic intimate moment
00:41:42that's just for us
00:41:43yeah
00:41:43I actually think it's a really respectful task
00:41:47I'm really happy for Steven to take the lead
00:41:50and Alyssa knows that I want that from him
00:41:53but she also knows her girl pretty well
00:41:56like
00:41:56I will very easily fall into like taking the lead
00:42:00okay let's do this let's do that
00:42:02like you know
00:42:03so
00:42:03I feel like
00:42:05both tasks are really good
00:42:08it's all you boo
00:42:11it's all you
00:42:14aye aye aye
00:42:19still to come
00:42:22are you making me walk away from here
00:42:26Steven takes the lead with Rachel
00:42:28I kinda went heavy on the cheese
00:42:30oh well that's not a bad thing
00:42:32only the best for my wife
00:42:35and
00:42:36has the shine of your relationship
00:42:40here let me read it
00:42:41dimmed
00:42:42yep
00:42:43no thanks
00:42:46bye
00:42:48it all becomes too much for Gia
00:42:51oh I want to get out of here really
00:42:55Gia wants to leave
00:43:07it's Gia and Scott's turn to write the anonymous letter to Alyssa and David
00:43:13and after refusing to participate in the partner swap task Gia's mood hasn't improved
00:43:20we can start um
00:43:24getting our hands to work and start writing
00:43:30feedback week has been tough for us
00:43:33that we had an argument this week and we were feeling a little bit off each other
00:43:38yesterday's task was an ideal
00:43:39I didn't end up going on the task on the feedback meeting because I just didn't want to
00:43:45so just want to get my letter done and I'm ready for this week to be over to be honest
00:43:51I'd say positives is how
00:43:55Dave's very understanding
00:43:58calm and collective is good to lean on
00:43:59so just say one positive at a time
00:44:02um understanding
00:44:04um Dave is understanding
00:44:05yeah he's um
00:44:07not all about him we're gonna do one for her now
00:44:09oh yeah
00:44:10she brings the energy into their
00:44:12yeah
00:44:13into their relationship
00:44:14so that's how they match into this even level like
00:44:17negatives
00:44:20um
00:44:20can David long term handle and sustain Alyssa's energy
00:44:25and also um
00:44:27Alyssa needs to give more reassurance
00:44:29yeah well I'll get to that
00:44:32so the energy is a bit low
00:44:34I think Gia's just really on the edge of just
00:44:37yeah
00:44:38I think all the tasks we've had this week
00:44:41it's just
00:44:42she doesn't want to do them
00:44:44is David the type that can
00:44:46always be up for Alyssa's challenges
00:44:49well
00:44:49no
00:44:50just no
00:44:55there's one thing that
00:44:56yeah hold on hold on hold on
00:44:57I'm just trying to help
00:44:58I'm trying to think hold on David
00:45:01um
00:45:04yeah like whatever I say doesn't matter
00:45:08a suggestion they can work on
00:45:09or a task
00:45:11what's a task then
00:45:12something beautiful
00:45:13I don't know Scott I have no idea
00:45:14like I can't I'm sorry
00:45:23feedback week really getting to you babe
00:45:26you've got all this tension built up in your traps
00:45:32oh
00:45:32oh
00:45:33oh you're kidding
00:45:33I'll go I'll go
00:45:35you chill
00:45:37I'm so excited to get feedback
00:45:39I always think that any feedback is good
00:45:42even if it's from someone that you know you don't even really want to receive feedback from
00:45:47so I'm hoping there's some golden nuggets in there
00:45:50David and Alyssa
00:45:52oh wow
00:45:53all right
00:45:54let's read it
00:45:56dear David and Alyssa
00:45:57we think you two are a really strong couple
00:46:01David you are calm
00:46:02collected and understanding
00:46:03Alyssa you bring so much energy and fun into the relationship
00:46:07however
00:46:08David has mentioned that in this relationship he needs more reassurance
00:46:13Alyssa we think that's something that you could work on
00:46:15David we know you love Alyssa's energy but do you think long term you can handle it
00:46:21our task we are giving you that you both write an open and honest letter with one another discussing the
00:46:26things written in this letter
00:46:31I don't that does not make sense
00:46:33that makes no sense
00:46:34hang on
00:46:37they honestly just want us to write a letter about a letter that they've just given us
00:46:41they want us to write a letter about a letter
00:46:45a letter about the letter with the things that are in this letter
00:46:49that's
00:46:54that's
00:46:55it's all slanted and it's not straight
00:47:00okay
00:47:00it's Gia and Scott
00:47:01Gia and Scott for sure
00:47:02David and I believe that Gia and Scott wrote our letter today
00:47:05that is definitely Gia's handwriting and that is definitely Gia to the T
00:47:10it was a lazy effort they didn't even think outside the box
00:47:13yeah
00:47:14that would like something fun or something to
00:47:16I agree
00:47:16spice things up or you know make us connect
00:47:20what we did for Rachel and Stephen was fun
00:47:23that was fun
00:47:23that was nice and well thought of
00:47:28it's kind of killed my buzz
00:47:30the fact that Gia has been putting all this effort in recently to build back some trust and a friendship
00:47:36with me
00:47:38and the fact that she only put not much energy into that letter that feedback letter
00:47:43just goes to show that she's obviously not invested in this friendship
00:47:47or David and I's relationship and that goes for Scotty too
00:47:54what do you want to do about that?
00:47:55do you want to write a letter to each other or do you want to take a pass?
00:47:58I'll be honest and say we'll just take a pass
00:48:01me too
00:48:02yeah there's no point
00:48:03I feel like me and Alyssa not taking part in this letter's task
00:48:08and doing something ourselves
00:48:09will actually bring us closer together than this letter ever will
00:48:14in fact I mean is Joel anywhere around?
00:48:17because I think Teddy might give me and Alyssa way better feedback on our relationship
00:48:21put it in the bin
00:48:22yeah at least for me
00:48:25might as well
00:48:25he just stole the paper
00:48:30sorry we don't want to waste the trees but
00:48:35I just can't
00:48:37oh that was probably not my glamorous moment
00:48:45and down the hall
00:48:47armed with a strict task to take the lead
00:48:50Stephen has taken it upon himself to plan a romantic date
00:48:54how you going over there babe?
00:48:56good
00:48:57and is pulling out all of the stops
00:49:00alright
00:49:03don't you look at what I'm doing
00:49:06oh look I'm a little bit of a hopeless romantic
00:49:09and a little bit of a dope with this taking the lead thing
00:49:14so how are you feeling passenger queen?
00:49:16excited for one of my
00:49:17old ancient recipes
00:49:20I'm intrigued
00:49:29you know what screw it
00:49:32are you making me a microwave meal?
00:49:34only the best for my wife
00:49:37no
00:49:39dammit
00:49:41you just sit till the end
00:49:43keep looking at the wall
00:49:45I'm almost ready
00:49:48pro tip from Steve-o
00:49:50there's two ways to a woman's heart
00:49:54either it's chocolate
00:49:55or cheese
00:49:57I may well
00:49:58you know what the thought is there
00:50:02what did you make?
00:50:04I kind of went heavy on the cheese
00:50:05oh well that's not a bad thing
00:50:10I thought quick evening nachos
00:50:14cute
00:50:16yeah the cheese kind of fell out
00:50:18I love it
00:50:22he made me some really bad nachos
00:50:24and I'm really really happy about it
00:50:27I just think it's really sweet
00:50:29you know it's something so simple and so sweet
00:50:32no one makes nachos like me though do they?
00:50:35no
00:50:37and maybe they shouldn't
00:50:39and maybe they shouldn't
00:50:49don't judge the nachos just because they look sad they were still delicious made with love
00:50:55my love
00:50:56thought this can be like a little sample of what's to come
00:50:58it's me trying to take the lead
00:51:00I know I murdered the nachos but
00:51:01I actually do want to take you out on a proper day
00:51:05and not just be in the apartment
00:51:06I'm excited you know
00:51:09by you taking the lead
00:51:10it means a lot to me
00:51:13when you do so I'm very excited
00:51:15oh good
00:51:16it seems that this is only a taste taking the lead
00:51:19it's only a taste
00:51:20it's only a dibble
00:51:21just the fact that he's organising a day and thinking about me
00:51:25it just excites me
00:51:27because it reminds you
00:51:29that you are
00:51:31appreciated
00:51:31want a nacho kiss?
00:51:33yeah why not?
00:51:38tasty
00:51:40these things are a bit a serious topic in our relationship
00:51:44but fun and playfulness is actually how we're going to get there
00:51:47so yeah I'm really grateful to my secret admirer
00:51:53cheers anyway
00:51:54thank you
00:51:55I know I'm a bit of a dork but
00:51:57I like it
00:52:08as Gia and Scott await their anonymous feedback letter
00:52:12Gia's mood has only worsened
00:52:15can you please not do that right near me right now with the floss
00:52:19it's going to send me into a rage
00:52:24um
00:52:33the energy
00:52:35is
00:52:38like at the moment yeah it's a little bit tiring
00:52:43but I care about her and I want this to work
00:52:45I don't want to have any more conflict or strainer relationship
00:52:49so I'm trying to help as much as possible to get through it
00:52:52there's only so much I can do
00:52:56can you read it?
00:52:57can I?
00:52:59yeah
00:52:59do you want it?
00:53:00well it's long
00:53:01Jesus
00:53:04give it to me
00:53:05give it to me
00:53:19can you read it?
00:53:21can you read it?
00:53:22this
00:53:27you can read it
00:53:34dear Scott and Gia
00:53:36it's been great to see how your marriage and connection has flourished in this experiment
00:53:40from the outside looking in we see that you have a great physical connection and physical intimacy
00:53:45you're both committed and united this is a great foundation for you for a long lasting marriage
00:53:52but
00:53:53Gia do you take notice as to how much effort reassurance Scott gives you?
00:53:59do you give the same reassurance to Scott?
00:54:02another thing to consider has the shine of your relationship
00:54:08here let me read it
00:54:09dimmed
00:54:10it's alright yep
00:54:11it's alright I'm just trying to read it
00:54:12another thing to consider has the shine of your relationship
00:54:17yeah they've written it wrong
00:54:18has the shine of your relationship has been dimmed by external distractions
00:54:23our suggestion would be Gia fully remove yourself from group chats
00:54:27all the gossip and so called drama and just 100% focus on your relationship
00:54:30I have Bec, don't worry about that
00:54:33this will totally block out any unwanted distractions
00:54:35need for external validation hopefully the need for drama
00:54:40focus on the emotional connection we challenge both of you
00:54:43to withhold physical intimacy for 10 days
00:54:46to hold physical intimacy
00:54:48to not have sex for 10 days
00:54:51no
00:54:52no I thought the letter was stupid
00:54:54I didn't get anything good from that
00:54:57it would have been better if they gave us actual advice
00:54:59that was based on facts
00:55:01it was just stupid and pointless
00:55:03and like
00:55:05no physical touch for 10 days
00:55:06if we're moving towards final ballots
00:55:08and I'm going to move into state for this man
00:55:09I'm not going to not touch him for 10 days
00:55:10I just think that's just stupid advice
00:55:13and yeah I'm not going to take it
00:55:17we're not going to not be physical
00:55:19because that's healthy in a relationship
00:55:21that's not good advice
00:55:23and also I'm not part of any group chats
00:55:26I was only ever in a group chat with Bec
00:55:28and I don't think Bec would write that
00:55:29because she knows I'm not in it
00:55:30so now I'm like who was that
00:55:32how do you think that the letter went down
00:55:34I just think that she and Scott are just cackling to themselves
00:55:39it's someone who doesn't know us well
00:55:42it's someone who doesn't know us well
00:55:43I have no idea who wrote it
00:55:45I thought it was Bec initially
00:55:47because the way that it was written
00:55:49it seemed a bit harsh
00:55:51and a bit like something that she might say
00:55:54to try and piss me off
00:55:55but if it was Bec she'd know I'm not in any group chats anymore
00:55:58so yeah I have no idea who it is
00:56:01I mean it could very well be her and she's trying to push my buttons
00:56:04I have no idea but I'm not going to sit here and conspire all day
00:56:06no idea
00:56:08I didn't get anything out of that
00:56:11well it wasn't useful really
00:56:12did you take anything from it?
00:56:14mine's just more covering what they've said a bit more in terms of
00:56:17the detox and removing ourselves from trouble
00:56:20we've already spoken about that
00:56:21so it's something that I find would help us the most
00:56:24just don't want to be involved in anyone's shit anymore
00:56:26that's it
00:56:27because I find when everything else
00:56:29yeah but we've said that
00:56:29we've done that
00:56:32anyway this letter can
00:56:33I won't rip the envelope
00:56:35because it's cute but
00:56:36no thanks
00:56:39bye
00:56:43don't care
00:56:45whoever it is you don't know us
00:56:48I think today Gia was not open to feedback whatsoever
00:56:52she is not interested
00:56:53she has no interest in what anyone has to say
00:56:57for me I like take everything with a grain of salt
00:57:00and how the letter was describing I could see it
00:57:03but for me
00:57:05I didn't say too much because I know if I'm going to say something
00:57:09Gia's not going to respond well
00:57:10so I feel backed off I feel like I can't really talk much later to be honest
00:57:14and yeah that does suck and I should be able to speak in my feelings and show all that
00:57:18but I feel yeah I think this is a part of what's starting to affect the relationship
00:57:23I feel like I'm starting to not be able to get my point out there
00:57:26because I know if I speak she'll probably just start defending
00:57:31she's a very passionate woman
00:57:33she's fiery and I know it can come out a bad way
00:57:36and sometimes I think it shouldn't
00:57:39so that's one thing I need to either adjust to
00:57:41or be able to have a conversation with her without her taking offence to it
00:57:46but right now I can't
00:57:50yeah
00:57:52that's pretty much it
00:57:54well it is it
00:57:55the bloody letter's torn
00:57:56just
00:58:06after a disappointing honesty box challenge
00:58:11Danny wants to apologise for upsetting Bec
00:58:14by creating a romantic surprise for her
00:58:18obviously I've been dubbed the king of romance before
00:58:21they call me Romeo in a past life
00:58:24so I've been reborn
00:58:26I'm back in the 21st century
00:58:28but not much has changed
00:58:30so I'm still the king of romance
00:58:41alright
00:58:45hello sweetheart
00:58:46hello Pat
00:58:47I got you these
00:58:49thanks babe
00:58:50that one's a bit wet because it's been in my mouth
00:58:54so I'm going to lead you
00:58:55I'm going to lead you the way
00:58:56turn around
00:58:58come this way
00:59:00first stop
00:59:00don't look at the notes
00:59:02okay
00:59:02first stop
00:59:03what does this one on the table say
00:59:05enjoy a glass of red
00:59:07no problem
00:59:08you're so cute
00:59:11she's obviously been upset because I didn't take the box task serious
00:59:15but like I didn't really know how to react
00:59:18talking about my feelings
00:59:19it's so so hard for me
00:59:21so there we go
00:59:22oh babe
00:59:24here's a glass
00:59:25thanks baby
00:59:27maybe in hindsight I could have worded things different
00:59:29or said things different
00:59:31but I was trying to just be as truthful as I could
00:59:32also
00:59:33I want to apologize for upsetting her
00:59:36because I don't ever want to upset her
00:59:38so what I'd done for Bec was post-it notes around the place with compliments and things I like about
00:59:44her
00:59:45just so she knows how I feel about her essentially
00:59:49there we go
00:59:50oh babe
00:59:51now I'm going to lead you around the room
00:59:53I want I want you to read these out loud
00:59:54because I don't give you enough compliments
00:59:57so I'll give you awesome notes
01:00:00I love being married to you
01:00:02you're an amazing wife
01:00:03thanks babe
01:00:06you looked amazing in the French maid outfit
01:00:10I heard someone ordered a French maid to clean this place up
01:00:15I don't know if I ever told you
01:00:17so I was like
01:00:17you didn't
01:00:18I should write it down
01:00:19thanks baby
01:00:20sometimes I don't say it but I'm thinking it
01:00:22so that's what these notes are for
01:00:24oh my god I don't feel like I deserve this
01:00:28oh yeah that's a nice one to end it on as well
01:00:31I've given a softer side to you than I've ever given anyone before
01:00:35have you?
01:00:36yeah
01:00:39thanks
01:00:41it was so cute
01:00:44the notes just mean like everything
01:00:47to hear he loves being married to me
01:00:49and also
01:00:51I'm serious about us and our relationship
01:00:54it's everything you want to hear
01:00:57it's nice isn't it?
01:01:00it's so cute
01:01:03I just like hearing them and reading them is just like
01:01:06it makes me feel really good
01:01:09sometimes I need to hear this
01:01:10yeah I know
01:01:11that's why I've done it
01:01:12yeah
01:01:14sometimes when he jokes in the tasks and stuff I'm like
01:01:17it hurts
01:01:20because Danny doesn't articulate his feelings
01:01:24so I've been questioning him
01:01:26and if I had told him that I loved him too soon
01:01:30because he's not set it back
01:01:32but then he does things like this for me and it's just like reminds me
01:01:36this is how he feels
01:01:39I think I need to get rid of my insecurities and just trust that
01:01:43you're here for a reason
01:01:45I'm so scared of getting hurt now
01:01:47but I just have to let that go don't I?
01:01:49and just trust
01:01:50promise I will
01:01:53let's cheers to that
01:01:55cheers
01:01:55you're the best
01:02:00after ripping up their anonymous feedback letter from Stella and Phillip
01:02:06Gia has reached her breaking point
01:02:09we'll just get through this
01:02:10no I want to get the out of here
01:02:13I'm not coming back
01:02:14no I just I want because I want us to talk on mic man
01:02:17everyone listens to everything
01:02:23why don't you just wait on the couch I'll be there in a minute
01:02:25okay?
01:02:26I'll be there in a minute
01:02:27I'll walk in
01:02:39I don't think Gia's enjoying it anymore
01:02:41I think she just wants to get out of here
01:02:43and I will say that Gia has said like we want to leave together
01:02:49so at the moment we both have said like Gia wants to leave
01:02:53and I said I'll go with her
01:02:55so I don't know when this would happen
01:02:57I'm leaving the ball in her court
01:02:59because I'm happy to face anything
01:03:00and if we decide to go we go
01:03:02we go together
01:03:23Gia wants to leave and I said I'll go with her so if we decide to go we go we
01:03:28go together
01:03:55we need to go together
01:03:58in the end of the night
01:03:58Jira and Scott are leaving what I just saw them with their bags I don't know
01:04:04what is going on the fact that Jira and Scott are walking out with their bags
01:04:12they've obviously got to be somewhere and they've got more better priorities
01:04:16to go to obviously that's wild they're leaving that's insane okay I'm like lost
01:04:24for words that's just a cop-out we are in this experiment to find love and to work
01:04:32together as couples and to grow and we're only here for three months like we're nearing to the end
01:04:39but they would rather pack their bags and walk off and I'm like well have I checked out of the
01:04:50experiment tomorrow night I feel like I have been caught up in the Jira and Beck what it's
01:04:56been toxic from the start I refuse to play the game anymore Alyssa's reached her limit and is
01:05:03standing her ground I've had enough and it's the first time she'll come face to face with Beck
01:05:09after those text messages the vibe with Alyssa is icy cold it was vile and vicious very different
01:05:17vibe tonight Alyssa doesn't she hang on hang on a minute hang on hang on oh god stop using me
01:05:23why are you laughing what bombshell has Sam dropped on Chris right before the dinner party I'm fuming I
01:05:31feel uncomfortable I feel betrayed I've never had someone do this to me and then that needs to stop I
01:05:38needs to stop has Danny reached his breaking point I want you to be wary about what you text people
01:05:44two months ago Daniel two months ago okay it was ten years ago
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