90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 1

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00:00:00You got something about you, something I can't forget.

00:00:04Welcome to America.

00:00:06I hope I survived the next 90 days.

00:00:09We make out for four minutes.

00:00:14Paulina!

00:00:15Oh, my God.

00:00:16I always wanted to get married with a gringo.

00:00:20We're married.

00:00:21The universe introduced me, Thomas.

00:00:27Welcome to America.

00:00:28Okay.

00:00:31USA!

00:00:32USA!

00:00:34Original U.S.

00:00:35Yeah!

00:00:36Are you a redneck?

00:00:37Do I look like a redneck?

00:00:38Yeah.

00:00:39Two, one, go!

00:00:44Nervous? We're almost there.

00:00:45I'm excited to show you New York.

00:00:47I'm a little bit nervous, and I don't know why.

00:00:48New York's incredibly big, you know.

00:00:51It's so huge.

00:00:52This is real.

00:00:54Hey, Bibi.

00:00:55How are you?

00:00:57Handsome.

00:00:57My fiancé's name is Vito.

00:00:59And he's an Egyptian movie star.

00:01:02You want me to act something?

00:01:04Yes.

00:01:04Okay.

00:01:06You talking to me?

00:01:07You talking to me?

00:01:10Hey, Shay!

00:01:11Hey, ladies!

00:01:12I don't tell my fiancé, Annabelle, every single thing that goes on at the parties.

00:01:18I was in bed with you when you were with Annabelle.

00:01:25I want you.

00:01:28I want you.

00:01:29What the ?

00:01:29I'm giving Katie a lot of slack, and that's being straight in my face.

00:01:34This is bull .

00:01:38Only God can do it.

00:01:40He's gonna bring my husband to the USA.

00:01:42There's still that stereotype of Nigerians' cameras.

00:01:46But God literally created this man for me.

00:01:50Thank you, Lord.

00:01:52So, we are getting married tomorrow.

00:01:55Are we?

00:01:56I have a choice.

00:01:57I just wanna go back to Brazil.

00:02:03At what point do you decide something that's just not meant to be?

00:02:08Something that you're paying.

00:02:11I'm worried I'll push them away by my actions.

00:02:15Since we got to the United States, everything in our relationship has changed.

00:02:19I don't know what that means.

00:02:20It means that I'm not ready to give you an answer, and I still need time.

00:02:24I just don't know who I am right now.

00:02:26I just wanna just be honest with me.

00:02:30Jesus Christ.

00:02:42So, Marissa's on her way right now.

00:02:44Okay, great.

00:02:44Her VIP appointment's good.

00:02:45Champagne, robe, charcuterie board.

00:02:47Everything is all set.

00:02:48You're the best.

00:02:52Yeah, so I'll be there in about 10 minutes.

00:02:56Ladies, how's it going?

00:02:57Just let her know we went ahead and pulled some ball gowns and A-lines for the brides.

00:03:01They should be working with later.

00:03:02Awesome.

00:03:03Noted.

00:03:03Thank you guys so much.

00:03:12Hey, Shay, good morning.

00:03:13Good morning, Marissa.

00:03:16I'm Marissa.

00:03:17I'm 45 years old, and I currently work as the Chief Operating Officer and Executive Vice President at Kleinfeld.

00:03:23Hello.

00:03:24How are you doing this morning?

00:03:25Good, thank you.

00:03:25How are you?

00:03:26Good, good.

00:03:26I can play.

00:03:27Tell me what's going on.

00:03:28All right, so today, we have a kind of busy day.

00:03:30We have 41 appointments.

00:03:31We have four Lux appointments right now, and then starting at 2 o'clock, we have three

00:03:36Platinums.

00:03:37All right.

00:03:38Kleinfeld Bridal is an iconic wedding salon here in New York City.

00:03:42We service almost 20,000 brides per year, and everybody makes it on their bucket list if

00:03:48they're a bride to come shop us.

00:03:49But you probably know us best because it's where they shoot the famous show Say Yes to the Dress.

00:03:53Just a reminder, your meeting is starting right now, so if you want to go and hop in that,

00:03:57I can get your back.

00:03:58Perfect.

00:03:58Okay, I'll talk to you later.

00:03:59Thanks.

00:04:00I never get tired of hearing brides say yes.

00:04:04Is this possibly the one?

00:04:05This is the one.

00:04:08I'll be in, like, another room, and, like, the bride won't even see me, and I'll hear

00:04:12somebody, like, you know, have their yes moment, and I'll be like, you know, like, and they

00:04:15don't even see me or hear me, but it's just like a natural, like, yay, they're saying yes.

00:04:21Congratulations.

00:04:22Enjoy your moment.

00:04:22Come on, we're going to get you some champagne.

00:04:23Thanks.

00:04:24All right.

00:04:24Yes.

00:04:26But even though I work in bridal, my love life isn't a fairy tale.

00:04:30I was married for six years before getting divorced, and divorce left me as a single mom

00:04:35of two boys in a very high-powered career with a lot of stress, so it was really hard to

00:04:42find love in my life.

00:04:43That was until I took a girl's trip to the Dominican Republic, and I met Edward.

00:04:52I was probably initially attracted to his looks.

00:04:59Edward has great lips.

00:05:02He has a great butt.

00:05:04He was working in entertainment at a hotel that I was staying at on a girl's trip, and

00:05:10I just thought he was so cute and so friendly.

00:05:14He made me feel like a beautiful woman again.

00:05:19And it's something that I hadn't felt in a really long time.

00:05:22So when somebody ignites that feeling inside of you again, you really don't forget about

00:05:27them.

00:05:27So we had an instant connection, but I didn't see it going anywhere.

00:05:30An executive from New York meets a hotel entertainment worker.

00:05:34It just didn't seem like a likely match for us.

00:05:40What are we having?

00:05:41A hallway meeting in here?

00:05:42Always.

00:05:43A hallway meeting?

00:05:43Yeah, I know.

00:05:44Can I be a part of it?

00:05:44No.

00:05:44Yeah.

00:05:46A little powwow.

00:05:46I have a question.

00:05:48Yes?

00:05:48Where is Mr. Edward?

00:05:50When is he coming?

00:05:51He's coming.

00:05:51Yeah?

00:05:52I remember all this time.

00:05:53He's coming on Sunday.

00:05:55Sunday?

00:05:56Yeah.

00:05:56Oh.

00:05:57I know.

00:05:58It was about three years in between when we first met to when we reconnected.

00:06:05I was taking a trip to Punta Cana with my girlfriends.

00:06:09So I texted him.

00:06:12I was like, oh my God, I lost your number.

00:06:14I couldn't contact you.

00:06:15I didn't know your last name.

00:06:16I've tried every social media outlet possible.

00:06:19And he was like, I can't believe that you actually texted me just now.

00:06:22Wow.

00:06:23Ever since that date, we were pretty much in a solid relationship.

00:06:27It happened really quick.

00:06:29Edward and I were long distance for two years and I visited him in DR every six to eight

00:06:34weeks.

00:06:35But it made it really hard to balance being a single mom of two boys and managing a high

00:06:40stress career.

00:06:41So eventually we made it official.

00:06:44Oh.

00:06:46Oh, that's so sweet.

00:06:48He said, you know, do you want me to get on one knee?

00:06:51And it's like, I don't really want to have to tell you to get on one knee.

00:06:55So I was like, don't worry about it.

00:07:02Working in bridal makes you a little numb to the whole bride experience.

00:07:07And then a lot of people at work said, are you crazy?

00:07:10Like you are just as much a bride as every other person that comes in here.

00:07:14And you need to celebrate yourself.

00:07:16I feel like a doll.

00:07:17You look like a doll.

00:07:19Perfect.

00:07:20And once I got used to that idea that like, yeah, I am getting married.

00:07:24This is a special time in my life.

00:07:25I kind of embrace being a bride.

00:07:28Marisa!

00:07:28Are you saying yes to the bride?

00:07:31Yes!

00:07:32Woo!

00:07:33Woo!

00:07:39Oh, I was looking for you guys.

00:07:40Dorothy, Caitlin.

00:07:41Hi.

00:07:41How did it go?

00:07:42Good.

00:07:43Yeah.

00:07:43We love them.

00:07:44Fabulous.

00:07:45When am I going to see you again?

00:07:47I don't know.

00:07:48Wait, so he's coming?

00:07:50Sunday.

00:07:50This weekend.

00:07:51Yeah.

00:07:51Is he freaking out?

00:07:53I don't know if he's freaking out or if I'm more freaking out.

00:07:55I mean, like, I have to teach him everything.

00:07:57This person on a plane.

00:07:58I know.

00:07:58Oh, my God.

00:08:00He got his body ready.

00:08:02Did I tell you about that?

00:08:03No.

00:08:03He's going to kill me for telling you.

00:08:05So he decided that before he came to the United States, he wanted to get an adult circumcision.

00:08:12Oh, my God.

00:08:15Edward, since the moment I met him, has always been interested in getting his penis circumcised.

00:08:21You had to have said something.

00:08:23I didn't.

00:08:24When you saw it, did you go, ugh?

00:08:26No, I didn't.

00:08:28I didn't.

00:08:31Maybe subconsciously, he thought that it was more culturally appropriate here in the

00:08:35United States.

00:08:36Like, what if he goes into a locker room with some men after the gym and, you know.

00:08:40So who knows why he does the things that he does.

00:08:43But let's just say that I'm happy that he did it.

00:08:47And then he gets the surgery.

00:08:49Everything was fine.

00:08:50He has a little bit of pain.

00:08:51A couple days later, when he wakes up in the morning, they expand a little.

00:08:57And his stitches fell out.

00:09:00So he ripped open his penis.

00:09:02He ripped open his incision.

00:09:03Oh, my God.

00:09:04So he had to, like, go back to the doctor, get re-stitched.

00:09:07Is it hurt?

00:09:09He's gonna find out this weekend if it hurt.

00:09:11I'm gonna get a text on Monday morning and say, how was it?

00:09:14How was it?

00:09:15I know.

00:09:15Which was it?

00:09:16Was it better this way or that way?

00:09:19Was there a concern that might look different or, like, you know, cut the wrong piece or something

00:09:25like that?

00:09:26Yeah, a little bit.

00:09:27But the doctor gave him the full green light to let his penis work as normal.

00:09:32So we're gonna test that out when he gets here.

00:09:35At first, I was like, we're gonna get married as soon as you get to the United States.

00:09:38But now, like, reality's setting in.

00:09:41And I'm like, I really think I need to take the full 90 days.

00:09:46So when Marissa first told me about Edward, I was kind of leery.

00:09:49I'm born and bred in Brooklyn, New York.

00:09:50And, you know, I know scammers all my life.

00:09:53Believe me.

00:09:54You really got the golden ticket.

00:09:55Marissa is a very successful businesswoman.

00:09:58She has two beautiful kids.

00:10:00She has a home in Pennsylvania, an apartment in New York City.

00:10:03I think they're living a fairy tale right now.

00:10:05And I think when reality hits, who knows?

00:10:08Sometimes I feel like I have real life problems.

00:10:11Like, real life.

00:10:12Yes, you do.

00:10:12I have job problems.

00:10:14I have kid problems.

00:10:15Correct.

00:10:15And, like, you know, he tells me about his problems.

00:10:17And I'm like, that's not a problem.

00:10:19Like, oh, a guest was complaining about something.

00:10:22And I don't want to feel like my life is so much more important than his.

00:10:25No, no, no.

00:10:25It has nothing to do with that.

00:10:25But in a way, like, I have a lot more at stake here.

00:10:31There's a saying that goes, I don't want you because I need you.

00:10:36I need you because I want you.

00:10:38Do I need to have a man in my life to carry on?

00:10:42No.

00:10:43Do I need a man in my life to give me financial support?

00:10:46No.

00:10:48And if I ultimately feel like the relationship is bringing me more stress or unhappiness,

00:10:54then I'm going to have to make a hard decision that I probably can't move forward with the

00:10:59marriage.

00:11:00You know Rome wasn't built in a day.

00:11:02Yeah, I know.

00:11:03I know.

00:11:03What can it be built in, like, 90 days?

00:11:05Oh, my gosh.

00:11:09You are full of hunger.

00:11:11You are full of hunger, that thirst from hell.

00:11:18Pulling me in.

00:11:19Val?

00:11:20Hello.

00:11:21Something underneath the water takes you by surprise.

00:11:27To the marina, please.

00:11:29Okay.

00:11:30To the marina, please.

00:11:31Okay.

00:11:34Did I put it in here?

00:11:35Yeah, I did.

00:11:35Okay, cool.

00:11:37My name's Mallory.

00:11:38I'm 29 years old, and I live in Athens, Alabama.

00:11:41And how would you describe yourself?

00:11:44Ugh, I don't know.

00:11:46I don't like talking about myself.

00:11:47Basic white bitch.

00:11:51And if you can't tell already, I'm a long way from home.

00:12:05How are you?

00:12:06Good.

00:12:08I've been traveling for, I think, over 20 hours.

00:12:12I had some coffee on the plane, you know,

00:12:15extra double shot, espresso-type b****.

00:12:18So, yeah, I'm ready to rock and roll.

00:12:22Are you from America?

00:12:24Yes, I am, yes.

00:12:26Which country?

00:12:26I live in Alabama.

00:12:28Oh.

00:12:30My hometown of Athens, Alabama

00:12:32is definitely your typical southern town,

00:12:35which is a little bit redneck.

00:12:37Well, kind of a lot of redneck.

00:12:39My friends and I love to get into some crazy things for fun.

00:12:48Turn it up country!

00:12:50Sleep it with a black world, that's our town.

00:12:53Turn it up country!

00:12:55Yeah, involves a lot of drinking.

00:12:59We'll get a girl right there.

00:13:08Why you come here?

00:13:10My fiancé is Turkish.

00:13:12He lives here with some of his family.

00:13:15And Rosh gets to come back with me to America this time around.

00:13:20Very excited.

00:13:21Yes, that's good.

00:13:23Rosh is my fiancé.

00:13:25I call him Rosh because I cannot say his name correctly.

00:13:30He's Rosh.

00:13:32And he is from Marmaris, Turkey.

00:13:38Rosh is definitely on a scale of 1 to 10.

00:13:40He's at 10.

00:13:41I would place him higher than that, honestly.

00:13:43Yeah, my fiancé's hot as f***.

00:13:45Let's be real.

00:13:47And I've come here to Turkey to bring my baby back to America

00:13:51because I'm not taking any chances

00:13:54with him having a hard time getting into America.

00:14:12My name is Rashid.

00:14:14I am 29 years old.

00:14:16I am from Marmaris, Turkey.

00:14:18I am captain.

00:14:24Charter boat'un kaptanı olarak sorumlulukları çok büyük.

00:14:29Tekneyi kullanmak, gelen turistleri aksiyon ve eğlenceliyi de çok beğendim.

00:14:44Ne güzel yerde durdu.

00:14:46Tam cennet gibi.

00:14:47Evet efendim, burası cennet adası olarak geçiyor.

00:14:52Marmaris'in güzel yerlerinden birisi.

00:14:55Evet, çok güzel.

00:14:59Marmaris cennet gibi yeri terk edeceğim.

00:15:01Yani terk edip Amerika'ya gideceğim.

00:15:03Bu yüzden çok üzgünüm.

00:15:04But Malorie Altay'dır görmüyorum ve çok heyecanlıyım görmek için.

00:15:11She is for me very sexy.

00:15:13I love her heart first.

00:15:16And second, I don't like sikini.

00:15:20And she is...

00:15:21You don't like skinny.

00:15:23I don't like skinny.

00:15:25She is for me very good.

00:15:27Very perfect.

00:15:30Yeah, I can say this.

00:15:33When did you see your fiancée last time?

00:15:36It's been six months.

00:15:38Six months.

00:15:39Six months since we've seen each other.

00:15:41Do you want to hike?

00:15:42Yes.

00:15:43Very much.

00:15:46Almost two years ago, I went to Greece for a girl's summer trip.

00:15:51And we had a wild time and that's how I ended up meeting Rosh.

00:15:56One day, I am on the bath.

00:15:59I take my phone.

00:16:01And I saw Malorie like, who is this?

00:16:04I red side touch.

00:16:07What is this?

00:16:08Spike.

00:16:09I did spike.

00:16:10And after half hour, she spiked me and we match.

00:16:16Some dude that I just hung out with, he catched my drift.

00:16:20Afterwards, he French braided my hair.

00:16:23I was too blind to see.

00:16:26But I definitely planned on Rosh just being a one-night stand and that I would go back to America

00:16:32and I would never hear from him again.

00:16:33And what happened?

00:16:34I guess Rosh just fell in love with me the minute he laid his eyes on me.

00:16:40Baby, I'm a girl, Rosh.

00:16:45Will you marry me?

00:16:50Wow.

00:16:53Will you marry me?

00:16:55Really?

00:16:58She said yes.

00:17:00I start to cry and she hugged me and...

00:17:04Don't cry because I love you so much.

00:17:08I know you so much, Malorie.

00:17:21There are a lot of what-ifs running through my mind right now.

00:17:26You know, what if he hates America?

00:17:29What if he hates Alabama?

00:17:32What if he has a horrible time trying to find a job?

00:17:35So, I'm scared, but I'm really happy.

00:17:40You know, because this is the beginning of us never being apart ever again.

00:17:45Like, we're closing that chapter of long distance in our relationship.

00:17:48Which is something that I think is so beautiful.

00:17:52Keep on, keep on fighting.

00:17:55Keep on, keep on shining.

00:17:59My love!

00:18:03My love!

00:18:05I scooped it!

00:18:06I scooped it!

00:18:16I want y'all to continue to pray for me, because I know he's going to bring my husband to

00:18:19the USA.

00:18:20Don't mess us up!

00:18:21At the age of 12, I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly.

00:18:27He told me I will have a marriage call.

00:18:30I was asking God, where's my husband?

00:18:33God said, Maka, Nigeria.

00:18:35Every prophetic word you spoke of my life is coming to pay!

00:18:40Thank you, Lord!

00:19:03Jesus, take me to the higher ground.

00:19:13It's something she got in her spirit for God to do, and the devil tell her it ain't going to

00:19:17happen.

00:19:18But the Lord says he wants you to embrace her, because that anointing of the breaking, that's what I need

00:19:23you for.

00:19:24That anointing of the breaking.

00:19:26So what broke off you?

00:19:47I'm Aisha Montgomery.

00:19:48I'm 38 years old, and I'm from Alabaster, Alabama.

00:19:51Thank Jesus' name you pray.

00:19:53Thank you, Lord.

00:19:55I am Pentecostal.

00:19:56You know, you have other churches where you're going to sing hymns or there's more to do, you know.

00:20:02But in my church, we get down.

00:20:05You've got all that money and you still man.

00:20:09You've got the mansion and you still ain't happy.

00:20:12But my church is in the Lord.

00:20:16Thank you, God.

00:20:17As a Pentecostal, we believe the entire Bible.

00:20:21So we still believe people do miracles and God gives everybody a gift.

00:20:26And God has given me multiple gifts.

00:20:30I feel like I'm a little blessed.

00:20:32Glory!

00:20:34At the age of 12, I was just in a store and I remember God stopping me and he said,

00:20:42listen.

00:20:43So I'm in the middle of the store and I'm just listening to the music.

00:20:47And then the Holy Spirit said, this will be the next song that comes on.

00:20:52So I'm waiting for the next song to come.

00:20:54And then it came on.

00:20:56And it was what God told me.

00:21:00Literally, I was in the middle of that store, shocked, listening to this NSYNC song.

00:21:05I could not believe it.

00:21:06I knew this song before this song came on.

00:21:09And a voice told me.

00:21:11And it wasn't like an audible voice.

00:21:13It was like a knowing.

00:21:15And then my pastor, he confirmed.

00:21:18He's like, you know, you have a prophetic gift.

00:21:21I finally realized that God was speaking to me directly.

00:21:25It was like my aha moment.

00:21:27Like, it made sense.

00:21:31God's going to fill you up for your journey.

00:21:32But he told me the reason they didn't take you out, because her prayer brought you out.

00:21:43Now, when it comes to talking in tongues, it's a heavenly language.

00:21:47So it's a language that I'm speaking that God understands, but the devil doesn't.

00:21:53It's almost like if you're going to war, like, you might write stuff in a different code.

00:21:59Thank you, Lord.

00:22:01Y'all got to stop, because we got to go on a testimony series.

00:22:05Praise the Lord, everybody.

00:22:06Praise the Lord.

00:22:07Praise the Lord, everybody.

00:22:09Let me tell you, Apostle.

00:22:11Uh-huh.

00:22:12I'm going to try not to cry.

00:22:13Oh, my God.

00:22:13Every prophetic word you spoke of my life is coming to pay.

00:22:18Thank you, Lord.

00:22:20All right, you've got to pay.

00:22:21Because I know I used to worry.

00:22:23It's one petition I put before God, and it was very special to me, and I've been waiting

00:22:29ever since I was 16 for God to answer this prayer.

00:22:33Lord, like, when are you going to bring my husband?

00:22:36And it was just not coming.

00:22:37It just seemed like it just was not coming.

00:22:39And it just finally happened.

00:22:41He told me I will have a marriage.

00:22:45December 2023, a notification came across my screen.

00:22:48It's like, here comes the bride.

00:22:50And I was just like, okay, Lord, I got you.

00:22:54February, God said, get ready.

00:23:00March, I was asking God, I was like, okay, Lord, where's my husband?

00:23:05He said, he's not close.

00:23:08So I knew I had to do something different.

00:23:11I had to widen my search.

00:23:12Abroad, maybe.

00:23:14And within two weeks, we matched with each other.

00:23:16Not that cute.

00:23:20Maxwell is my fiancé.

00:23:22He's 28 years old, and he's from Akka, Nigeria.

00:23:25Hey, sweetie.

00:23:26How you doing?

00:23:27You know you love my dimples, so I just want to show it to you.

00:23:33When I saw him on the app, he was cute.

00:23:36He has the cutest little nose.

00:23:38Like, I love his nose the most.

00:23:41And from the jump, Maxwell was speaking the language of Asha.

00:23:46He is the male version of me.

00:23:49Like, we both love business.

00:23:51We both love the Lord.

00:23:52We're both family-oriented.

00:23:55It's like God literally created this man for me.

00:24:00I couldn't have dreamed it even better.

00:24:02But I feel like if somebody came to me literally and said that they were dating somebody from

00:24:09Nigeria, me, Asha, would say, you're probably getting scammed.

00:24:14So I knew that I had to meet him one-on-one and see him face-to-face to prove

00:24:19that this is legitimate.

00:24:24My friend and I flew to Nigeria.

00:24:26She was actually going to meet Maxwell's friend, Silas.

00:24:30Like, Silas was always over Maxwell's house.

00:24:34So he's like, um, will you help hook me up with one of your friends?

00:24:37And I was like, yeah, I'll hook you up.

00:24:39And since everything was going so well for me and Maxwell, we decided we wanted to introduce our two best

00:24:45friends to each other.

00:24:46And so, like, when I got there, to be honest, I feel like everything happened the way it's supposed to

00:24:51have happened, and it could have been better.

00:24:53It was a time of our lives.

00:24:56And on the third night while we were in Lagos, all of a sudden, Maxwell's best friend, Silas, proposed to

00:25:02my friend.

00:25:03You know what?

00:25:03I thought they were crazy.

00:25:05I really did.

00:25:07And so I'm sure Maxwell's like, well, I'm going to propose to Asha tomorrow.

00:25:11And so we were at this restaurant.

00:25:17My plate was covered up.

00:25:18His plate was covered up.

00:25:19So I was like, maybe they're just keeping the food hot.

00:25:21And then as soon as, like, he lifted the plate, it was like, will you marry me?

00:25:28I feel like there's still that stereotype of Nigerians being scammers.

00:25:39But when I tell you every prophecy and every word lined up, Maxwell is the man I have been waiting

00:25:46for.

00:25:49I just want y'all to pray for me because my fiancé, he goes for his interview to get his

00:25:53visa to come to the USA.

00:25:54Mm-hmm.

00:25:57That's prophetic.

00:25:59So I want y'all to continue to pray for me because there's one song in my spirit.

00:26:03Because I know he's going to bring my husband to the USA.

00:26:06You got that beat.

00:26:07Don't mess us up.

00:26:09Don't mess us up.

00:26:21Don't mess us up.

00:26:32So now Maxwell and Silas, they have their interviews on the same day.

00:26:37So they're planning to come to the U.S. together.

00:26:39But, you know, me and my best friend dating two best friends and getting engaged at the same time,

00:26:46people in my circle definitely think Maxwell is a scammer.

00:26:49But I know for a fact that Maxwell was brought to me by God.

00:26:52I have no doubt in my mind.

00:26:54And if you got God on your side, what could go wrong?

00:26:58To tell everybody.

00:27:18I walk in like, how do you do?

00:27:20I need a little liquor with me just to set the mood.

00:27:22And I don't mean to be rude or even act a fool.

00:27:24I just do a little better with an attitude.

00:27:27So...

00:27:27Shea!

00:27:28That's a great story, Les.

00:27:30Oh, yeah.

00:27:30Hey, Shea!

00:27:31Hey, ladies.

00:27:32Time for some beer and barbecue.

00:27:38I'm Shea.

00:27:39I'm 54 years young.

00:27:41I'm from Quilt City, USA, Paducah, Kentucky.

00:27:44What's up?

00:27:45I'm a realtor.

00:27:46I've also got my Prince Blocks Schneer license.

00:27:49700 now, 899999.

00:27:51I've got nine.

00:27:52I've got 1,000 back here.

00:27:53There's about 11, 11, 11, 12, 12, 12, 12, 13.

00:27:56Boom.

00:27:57So it's sold.

00:27:59You can bring your friends.

00:28:01Hey, what's up?

00:28:02How you doing, buddy?

00:28:03How you doing?

00:28:03If you live in Paducah, you probably know who I am.

00:28:06We probably met up, had a beer.

00:28:08Hey, right?

00:28:09How are you?

00:28:10Good.

00:28:11How are you?

00:28:11It's always 5 o'clock somewhere,

00:28:13so you're always going to catch me having some fun.

00:28:19Yes!

00:28:23I think women are just drawn to him.

00:28:28Shea's a little flirty at times with some girls.

00:28:32Maybe a kiss on the cheek.

00:28:34Hug.

00:28:34See you now.

00:28:35Those kinds of things.

00:28:38I mean, if he were single, I might consider dating him.

00:28:44It ain't a cookout unless we get it on us.

00:28:49How is it?

00:28:51Man, it's coffee.

00:28:53I bet Annabelle in there ever had barbecue like this before.

00:28:58Annabelle's my fiance.

00:29:01She's 54 years old, and she lives in L.O. City, Philippines.

00:29:06And she arrives in America in just a few days.

00:29:09And I cannot wait.

00:29:10Absolutely cannot wait.

00:29:11I'm counting the minutes.

00:29:12I'm gonna follow wherever you go.

00:29:14We met through it.

00:29:16My friend Greg, he's here six months,

00:29:19and he spends six months a year in the Philippines with his wife.

00:29:23His wife and Annabelle are like best friends,

00:29:25and they just decided that we would be a good match.

00:29:29And he introduced us on a video call.

00:29:32I turn around, and I've got a Filipino girl in my face.

00:29:35And say hi, you know, and I say hi.

00:29:38And Annabelle's just kind of looking at me like,

00:29:40and I'm like, so you don't understand me?

00:29:43And she's like, hmm.

00:29:45And then I'm like, Greg, this girl don't even speak English.

00:29:49And she's like, just kidding.

00:29:55After that call, we started talking every day.

00:29:58They can't wait to hug you and kiss you and...

00:30:05I think it was, you know, a godsend thing.

00:30:08It wasn't anything I was looking for.

00:30:10But she's such a sweet, caring person

00:30:13that God knew I needed that.

00:30:15And it didn't matter if she was across the street

00:30:17or across the world.

00:30:18And it just so happened, she's across the world.

00:30:21Miss you, baby. Love you. Good night.

00:30:23Night.

00:30:25When is Annabelle coming?

00:30:27Just a few days. She'll be here soon.

00:30:29A few days? I can't wait.

00:30:30Yep, yep.

00:30:32About 10 or 11 months after our daily talks,

00:30:36I finally decided I'm going to the Philippines.

00:30:42The first night where, you know, I'm wore out.

00:30:44It's been a long trip.

00:30:46And she goes, do you feel like getting some deed?

00:30:48Are you hungry?

00:30:49And I'm like, let me get a shower.

00:30:50And then, you know, I'll get dressed and let's go get some dinner.

00:30:53So I get in the shower and I turn around

00:30:55and Annabelle's right there at the shower.

00:30:58I'm like, can I help you?

00:31:01Oh, I was just going to come in and scrub your body.

00:31:04I'm like, what?

00:31:06So she takes her clothes off and climbs right in the shower with me

00:31:10and like, give me the soap.

00:31:13She's scrubbing every inch of me.

00:31:15She's going into crevices I didn't even know I had.

00:31:19So after that, she trimmed my toenails

00:31:22and I've still got to show her that I keep my toenails clean now.

00:31:27I mean, it's just crazy.

00:31:29But yeah, Annabelle, I'm keeping them trimmed until you get here.

00:31:35Oh, my God.

00:31:39That's pretty well sealed the deal.

00:31:41I proposed to her like a couple days later.

00:31:45I guess it's easy to get comfortable with somebody

00:31:48after they scrubbed your butt cheeks.

00:31:51Where's the beer card at, Greg?

00:31:54I don't know.

00:31:55We're about to have to find it.

00:31:57I just think Annabelle's going to calm him down a bunch

00:32:00when she gets here.

00:32:01Calm me down?

00:32:03You know, she always tells me, like, drink moderately

00:32:05and how many beers you had?

00:32:07And I'm like, I usually tell her about a third, you know,

00:32:09if it's been a dozen.

00:32:10Oh, it's like three or four, you know.

00:32:12She said it was over when she gets here,

00:32:14but I think she does it more just to kind of keep me honest to say,

00:32:18like, don't get too wild.

00:32:20But she told you no more?

00:32:22Over the years, like, about every time I'm at a party or the bar,

00:32:26hey, oh, Shay, we're not doing that.

00:32:30Okay, Annabelle, we'll see.

00:32:32Call you when I get home.

00:32:34When we're partying, I mean, sometimes it gets a little bit wild

00:32:37and things happen that, you know,

00:32:39may be a little out of line in some people's books,

00:32:41but, you know, kind of like Vegas,

00:32:44what happens at the lake stays at the lake.

00:32:46So why is everybody going to know everything?

00:32:49When she calls, it's like, who's that with you?

00:32:52What do y'all, how many people's with you?

00:32:53You know, I got to pan the camera,

00:32:55and I think she worries about me.

00:32:57That's why she gives me a little bit of the issue with,

00:33:00hey, I don't want you doing it as much.

00:33:02So you're saying you wouldn't give up all the partying

00:33:05and the lake and all of that for Annabelle?

00:33:09If it came down to it.

00:33:11Do you think I would?

00:33:12No, I don't.

00:33:16Obviously, I don't tell Annabelle

00:33:18every single thing that goes on at the parties.

00:33:21There's been things that I didn't mention to Annabelle

00:33:24since we've been together, since we've met.

00:33:26It's just things I don't feel like, you know,

00:33:29why should I bring that up and just start something?

00:33:32But people in Baruka, they like to gossip.

00:33:35I mean, you hear about it.

00:33:36I see it.

00:33:37You've got the Facebookers.

00:33:39A lot of them like to talk,

00:33:40and she finds out from someone else,

00:33:43you know, it would just be a big mess.

00:33:45She said, are you going to give it up?

00:33:47No, I'm not.

00:33:48I'm not going to.

00:33:49Either she's in or she's out?

00:33:51Yeah, she's in or out.

00:33:55It'll all work out,

00:33:56but no, I'm not going to give her it up.

00:34:06I've been traveling around the world

00:34:08for the past three years

00:34:09living a carefree, nomadic lifestyle.

00:34:12I was a little bit crazy the past two months.

00:34:15I, like, kissed people a little drunk again.

00:34:18Did you tell Josh about this?

00:34:20No.

00:34:26Anything's got you

00:34:28Anything without you

00:34:36Currently it's five minutes

00:34:40until we land

00:34:41And I feel like it's the sea

00:34:44Show me that you want me

00:34:52I'm Katie

00:34:53I'm 26

00:34:54And I'm from Portland, Oregon

00:34:56I'm back in America

00:34:59And I'm trying to find my bag

00:35:02Miss the carpet

00:35:04It's classic

00:35:05It feels like it's been so long

00:35:08Well, it kind of has been so long

00:35:10I've been traveling around the world

00:35:12for the past three years

00:35:13living a carefree, nomadic lifestyle

00:35:17I definitely had a ho phase

00:35:20Don't tell my grandma

00:35:23No

00:35:25Got it

00:35:27But now I'm back in my hometown of Portland

00:35:30And I'm going to be settling down

00:35:31So in love with procrastination

00:35:35Lacking guests don't know direction

00:35:37Try so hard to find a distraction

00:35:40Look around now

00:35:41Look around now

00:35:43Frozen by indecision

00:35:45Lacking hits but no intention

00:35:47Look around now

00:35:49Look around now

00:35:52Hello

00:35:53Hey

00:35:54Hey

00:35:55Hey

00:35:56It's been so long

00:36:00What really like drove me to travel

00:36:02the last few years

00:36:03is I'm a really impulsive person

00:36:05and I get a bit bored with routine

00:36:11For example

00:36:12My friend told me about this program

00:36:13where you could pet sit around the world

00:36:15in exchange for free rent

00:36:17And then I signed up the next day

00:36:18and I was like

00:36:19Okay, this is what I'm doing

00:36:19when my lease ends

00:36:20in like a few months

00:36:22Sorry

00:36:22My boob got really itchy

00:36:23One sec

00:36:25So when's Josh coming?

00:36:27Oh, he's coming tomorrow

00:36:28And then like one of you guys' plans

00:36:30when he like comes in

00:36:32Actually, it's kind of a secret

00:36:34So you can't tell Josh

00:36:36Josh is my fiance

00:36:37and he is British

00:36:43Stereotypical British man

00:36:44He's a bit reserved

00:36:47But what I love about Josh

00:36:48is that

00:36:49I feel like he doesn't judge at all

00:36:51Because I have OCD

00:36:53And he really understands

00:36:55my quirks

00:36:55and my personality traits

00:36:58Tell me the whole story

00:37:00of how you first met Josh

00:37:00Really? Are you sure?

00:37:01You want to hear that?

00:37:02Yep

00:37:02Okay

00:37:03Okay

00:37:05So I was pet setting

00:37:07in the UK

00:37:09and occasionally

00:37:10I would swipe on Tinder

00:37:11and the first person

00:37:13who responded

00:37:14was this guy named Dave

00:37:16and he said

00:37:17I'm hanging out

00:37:18with some friends

00:37:19want to join us?

00:37:20And that was perfect for me

00:37:22Me and Dave

00:37:23like went on a little date

00:37:24we were taking tequila shots

00:37:25we were hitting it off

00:37:26we were making out

00:37:27I had like met

00:37:28some of his friends

00:37:29that night

00:37:29including Josh

00:37:31but then later on

00:37:33in the night

00:37:33Dave got kicked out

00:37:34I called Josh's

00:37:35other friend hot

00:37:37I made out

00:37:38with his other friend

00:37:39I tried to make out

00:37:40with his best friend

00:37:41but he had a girlfriend

00:37:43and then I asked Josh

00:37:44to make out

00:37:45and he said no

00:37:46you just made out

00:37:47with at least

00:37:47two of my friends

00:37:49um no

00:37:50I have this video

00:37:51of me being really drunk

00:37:52in the bathroom

00:37:53There's this other cute guy

00:37:55with long hair

00:37:57I forgot his name

00:38:00but I want him

00:38:03Bar closed

00:38:03there was this guy

00:38:04being creepy outside

00:38:05and I was like

00:38:05oh can you walk me home

00:38:07so Josh said

00:38:08yeah I'll walk you home

00:38:09and then I remember

00:38:10we just like made out

00:38:12really like

00:38:14passionately on a bench

00:38:15and then he said

00:38:16he had to go pee

00:38:17and I was like okay

00:38:18so then I just sprinted home

00:38:19and I was kind of embarrassed

00:38:20because I had just like

00:38:21left him peeing in a bush

00:38:23and that's how

00:38:24I met my fiance

00:38:31I was like kind of lonely

00:38:33because I was solo traveling

00:38:34and I said

00:38:35hey if you're free

00:38:36this one random weekend

00:38:37you can join me

00:38:38for a pet sit in Milan

00:38:39and then he said

00:38:40okay

00:38:42I was just like wow

00:38:43he'll go to Milan for me

00:38:45wow

00:38:48we had a really great time

00:38:49in Milan

00:38:50we had sex

00:38:51a bunch

00:38:52I learned he was allergic

00:38:54to nuts

00:38:54and I shouldn't kiss him

00:38:55if I have nuts in my mouth

00:38:56not nuts in my mouth

00:39:03he was like very polite

00:39:04very funny

00:39:05more reserved

00:39:07like he wouldn't talk

00:39:08about anal

00:39:08on the subway

00:39:10that would make him

00:39:10really uncomfortable

00:39:12would you talk about

00:39:13anal on the subway

00:39:14I would definitely

00:39:15talk about anal

00:39:15on the subway

00:39:18but yeah

00:39:19I just really love him

00:39:21cheers everyone

00:39:22cheers

00:39:23it's really nice

00:39:24to see you guys

00:39:25and he's back

00:39:28how do we do this

00:39:30I know

00:39:32these wrong shots

00:39:34Annabella Jarris

00:39:36how was the trip back?

00:39:38it was long

00:39:39so I went from London

00:39:40to Mexico

00:39:41for my friend's wedding

00:39:42it was really lovely

00:39:43but party a little too hard

00:39:46did going to the wedding

00:39:47like make you feel excited

00:39:49or like nervous

00:39:50for your own wedding

00:39:50or was it

00:39:51yeah no

00:39:51it was definitely

00:39:52I definitely like

00:39:53cheered up

00:39:53I started like

00:39:54thinking about like

00:39:55my vows

00:39:55when they were doing

00:39:56their vows

00:39:58I wasn't really

00:39:59thinking about marriage

00:40:00but Josh proposed to me

00:40:03at sunset

00:40:03on the coast

00:40:04in Turkey

00:40:06how long is the time

00:40:09you did the classic

00:40:10proposal thing

00:40:11where you pretend

00:40:12you're taking a picture

00:40:12but you're actually

00:40:13taking a video

00:40:15I wondered

00:40:16if you would marry me

00:40:17I did know this was coming

00:40:19and I want to look cuter

00:40:23yes

00:40:24I love you

00:40:25I love you

00:40:28Josh is one of the few

00:40:29people in my life

00:40:30that truly gets me

00:40:32and I'm super excited

00:40:33to marry him

00:40:34but I'm also worried

00:40:35my OCD causes me

00:40:37to make some pretty bad

00:40:37decisions

00:40:38and I'm afraid

00:40:39it could end our relationship

00:40:41how's it going

00:40:42it's going good

00:40:44how stressed do you feel

00:40:46like on a scale

00:40:47of 1 to 10

00:40:50maybe like a 9

00:40:51that's really high

00:40:53I feel like

00:40:54I was a little bit crazy

00:40:56the past two months

00:40:58I like

00:40:59kissed people

00:41:00while drunk again

00:41:01it was bad

00:41:03did you tell Josh

00:41:04about this

00:41:06I apologized

00:41:0820 million times

00:41:09he was like

00:41:10this is not good

00:41:11why did you do that

00:41:13I have intrusive thoughts

00:41:14as part of my OCD

00:41:16when I get drunk

00:41:17I really want to make out

00:41:19with everyone I know

00:41:20especially when I'm in

00:41:21a happy mood

00:41:22or in a really

00:41:23insecure bad mood

00:41:25I just get really

00:41:26into the moment

00:41:27and I'm like

00:41:27I think making out

00:41:28with this person

00:41:29is a great idea

00:41:30and that isn't always

00:41:32exciting for Josh

00:41:34especially because

00:41:36it's been a bit

00:41:37more frequent lately

00:41:38like I really don't

00:41:39want to hurt him

00:41:40I think it's more

00:41:41just like

00:41:42oh I really want

00:41:43to feel wanted

00:41:47I'm always honest

00:41:48with Josh

00:41:48I tell him

00:41:49every time

00:41:50that I do something

00:41:52out of line

00:41:53but he says

00:41:55he can't see himself

00:41:56married to me

00:41:57if I keep doing this

00:41:58in the future

00:42:00like I was there

00:42:01in your last relationship

00:42:03when it ended

00:42:04because you were

00:42:05making out

00:42:05with another person

00:42:07and I don't want

00:42:08to see that happen again

00:42:09and Josh is such a good guy

00:42:11I don't want to see

00:42:11him getting hurt either

00:42:13I would like to stop

00:42:15wanting to make out

00:42:16with people

00:42:16but I feel like

00:42:17every time I drink

00:42:18my brain has another

00:42:19plan for me

00:42:21so I'm worried

00:42:22that this is going

00:42:23to be a hard thing

00:42:24to give up

00:42:30I love Annabelle

00:42:31she isn't even here yet

00:42:33I don't want y'all

00:42:33getting off on the wrong foot

00:42:34because you've already

00:42:35got an attitude about it

00:42:36I'm his daughter

00:42:37I'm first

00:42:38and I don't expect her

00:42:40to come over here

00:42:40and just think that

00:42:41she's before me

00:42:42and everything

00:42:43well I hope it works out

00:42:44if not we're going to

00:42:45have some problems

00:42:48we climbed the mountains

00:42:50until it started to hide

00:42:52the wolves were chasing

00:42:54but it couldn't keep us down

00:42:58I love you

00:42:59I love you so much

00:43:00I love you so much

00:43:01I love you so much too baby

00:43:03give me a kiss

00:43:03are you ready to come to America?

00:43:06of course baby

00:43:09comfortable?

00:43:10come on

00:43:10watch my hat

00:43:13don't lose it

00:43:13yeah

00:43:14don't lose it

00:43:14I cannot believe

00:43:17that it's been six months

00:43:19since we've touched each other

00:43:21when I saw

00:43:22Mallory

00:43:23I say to myself

00:43:25oh my god

00:43:26Koba is coming

00:43:27like

00:43:28boots

00:43:29hats

00:43:29Koba hats

00:43:30I feel like

00:43:32how

00:43:33she will catch me

00:43:34like

00:43:43come

00:43:44come

00:43:44no

00:43:45come come

00:43:46no I'm scared

00:43:47come

00:43:48what if I fall

00:43:50I can say this

00:43:51this is my dream

00:43:52with my fiancé

00:43:54I will do

00:43:56Titanic

00:43:57everything but the sinking part

00:43:58yeah

00:43:59sinking and dying part

00:44:00you know

00:44:00this is the

00:44:01very good idea

00:44:02thanks

00:44:05I'm gonna fall

00:44:07I'm gonna fall

00:44:08that's it

00:44:12come

00:44:13baby

00:44:14no

00:44:15come

00:44:18come

00:44:19come

00:44:19okay

00:44:19be careful

00:44:20okay

00:44:26how do you feel

00:44:27tired

00:44:28how do you feel

00:44:29tired

00:44:29good baby

00:44:32are you excited

00:44:33of course

00:44:34I just can't believe

00:44:35that this time

00:44:37you'll be coming

00:44:38with me

00:44:39America

00:44:40America

00:44:43it'll be good

00:44:44I will miss

00:44:45on the boat

00:44:46on the sea

00:44:47in the sea

00:44:48we'll figure it out

00:44:49it's a lot different

00:44:50than Alabama

00:44:50of course

00:44:52we're a little further

00:44:53we're not as close

00:44:55to the beach

00:44:57Raj

00:44:58what has Valerie

00:45:00told you about

00:45:01Athens

00:45:01Alabama

00:45:02just

00:45:04redneck

00:45:05mhm

00:45:06hmm

00:45:07so what

00:45:08mean

00:45:08redneck

00:45:10redneck

00:45:10is a type of person

00:45:11in America

00:45:12yeah

00:45:13they love

00:45:14NASCAR

00:45:16they love

00:45:17hunting

00:45:17America

00:45:18they don't like

00:45:19other country

00:45:20yeah

00:45:21yeah

00:45:23I mean

00:45:23just being

00:45:24they don't like

00:45:25Muslim

00:45:27there's good people

00:45:28and bad people

00:45:29yeah

00:45:29in different countries

00:45:31yes

00:45:31there's good rednecks

00:45:32and bad rednecks

00:45:33they have friends

00:45:34redneck

00:45:35do I have friends

00:45:36that are rednecks

00:45:37yeah

00:45:37I mean

00:45:38yeah

00:45:40yeah

00:45:43you'll meet them

00:45:43eventually

00:45:44I will see

00:45:47so how do you feel

00:45:49leaving all the family behind

00:45:52this is

00:45:53very sad

00:45:54I am very sad

00:45:55about this

00:46:04but I don't want

00:46:05to think about this

00:46:06because when I think

00:46:07this I want to cry

00:46:08I know

00:46:09it's okay

00:46:10it's okay

00:46:10to cry

00:46:12it's okay

00:46:13this is for you

00:46:14okay

00:46:15it's okay

00:46:16but

00:46:17I am happy

00:46:19for

00:46:19I want to be

00:46:21live with you

00:46:22it's gonna be

00:46:23a big adjustment

00:46:25these next few days

00:46:27these next few days

00:46:27I definitely

00:46:28am dreading

00:46:29just because

00:46:30he's going to have

00:46:31to say goodbye

00:46:32to his friends

00:46:33and family

00:46:33who he's never been

00:46:35away from

00:46:36in his life

00:46:37ever

00:46:39I don't think

00:46:40I've really prepared

00:46:41Rosh

00:46:42for how life

00:46:43is going to be

00:46:44in Alabama

00:46:44I have very

00:46:45conservative friends

00:46:46and there are some

00:46:48that are super

00:46:49into

00:46:51the deportations

00:46:55I am excited

00:46:56I am nervous

00:46:58we'll figure it out

00:47:02he says he's ready

00:47:04for it

00:47:04but I really

00:47:05don't think

00:47:05he understands

00:47:07what he signed up for

00:47:25hey dad

00:47:26hi guys

00:47:27dad do you want us

00:47:28to come look at

00:47:29those clothes

00:47:29for Annabelle

00:47:30oh yeah

00:47:31come on over

00:47:31okay

00:47:32yeah I want you

00:47:33to see that stuff

00:47:35are you even ready

00:47:35for Annabelle

00:47:36to get here

00:47:36getting there

00:47:37hopefully

00:47:38slowly but surely

00:47:40we're nervous

00:47:41I know

00:47:42it's going to be weird

00:47:52yeah y'all check it out

00:47:53I mean it's just

00:47:53stuff I've been

00:47:54buying for

00:47:54I want y'all to

00:47:55get your opinion

00:47:56it's that stuff

00:47:57on the bottom

00:47:59I've been married twice

00:48:00unfortunately

00:48:01I've been divorced twice

00:48:02but I've got

00:48:03some great kids

00:48:04my son Hunter

00:48:05he's the oldest

00:48:06and then we've got

00:48:06my middle daughter

00:48:07Abigail

00:48:08and Allison

00:48:09and then

00:48:10my youngest child

00:48:11Madison

00:48:13I'm honestly

00:48:13kind of surprised

00:48:14you did

00:48:15halfway decent

00:48:17and that's our

00:48:18shoe rack over there

00:48:19so she's got shoes

00:48:20she likes all those

00:48:21yeah

00:48:23after we got engaged

00:48:24Annabelle and I

00:48:25I started

00:48:26getting her clothes

00:48:27so she's got stuff

00:48:28when she gets here

00:48:29I'm gonna have to

00:48:30steal these

00:48:31those are too big

00:48:32for you

00:48:34Allison's always

00:48:34trendy

00:48:35and knows what's

00:48:36going on

00:48:36so yeah

00:48:37I mean I want her

00:48:38to wear

00:48:38kind of the same

00:48:39clothes Allison

00:48:40type stuff

00:48:40and what the other

00:48:42women are wearing

00:48:42so I got those

00:48:43at a clothes out sale

00:48:44in Florida

00:48:45they were like

00:48:46250 bucks

00:48:47she might not wear

00:48:48them but

00:48:48they're kind of

00:48:49cool looking

00:48:50I mean she's got

00:48:51very limited

00:48:52she's got like

00:48:53three outfits

00:48:53I mean there's

00:48:54nothing wrong

00:48:55with what she's

00:48:55wearing it's cute

00:48:56but she's got to

00:48:57have more

00:48:57and I just want

00:48:59her to fit in

00:49:00and you know

00:49:01not stick out

00:49:02I mean just

00:49:04feel comfortable

00:49:04when she's around

00:49:05people you know

00:49:06how long have you

00:49:07been getting

00:49:07all this stuff

00:49:08dad

00:49:08I mean

00:49:09two and a half

00:49:09three years

00:49:10probably

00:49:11I love my dad

00:49:12we're super

00:49:13super close

00:49:13and I even

00:49:14am his neighbor

00:49:15he bought me

00:49:16the house next door

00:49:17so that I could

00:49:18be with him

00:49:18all the time

00:49:19free rent

00:49:20free child care

00:49:21I get to keep up

00:49:22with what he's

00:49:22doing

00:49:23who he's seeing

00:49:24it's awesome

00:49:26do you ever think

00:49:27it's gonna like

00:49:27bug Annabelle

00:49:28that like

00:49:29you spend so much

00:49:30time with dad

00:49:30I don't know

00:49:31I feel like

00:49:32you're gonna like

00:49:32kind of turn into

00:49:33like a third wheel

00:49:34like you guys

00:49:34are gonna have to

00:49:35like have your

00:49:36like scheduled

00:49:36like time together

00:49:38and stuff

00:49:38yeah

00:49:38yeah potentially

00:49:39that's a worry

00:49:40for sure

00:49:41I don't think so

00:49:42I mean

00:49:43us going to do

00:49:44something by ourselves

00:49:44is probably gonna be

00:49:45like out of the

00:49:46ordinary

00:49:46she might get offended

00:49:47that like

00:49:48we are going

00:49:49you know

00:49:49well I think

00:49:50she'll just go

00:49:51with us

00:49:51I mean anything

00:49:52we do

00:49:53right but that's

00:49:54what I'm saying

00:49:55is like

00:49:56I don't want her

00:49:57to go all the time

00:50:02me and my dad

00:50:02do almost everything

00:50:03together

00:50:03we go out on the

00:50:04lake together

00:50:05we drink together

00:50:06if I want to go out

00:50:07and watch the game

00:50:08on TV

00:50:09I typically call my dad

00:50:10so I'm nervous

00:50:12to meet Annabelle

00:50:13I hope she knows

00:50:14that I'm his daughter

00:50:16I'm first

00:50:16and I don't expect

00:50:18her to come over here

00:50:19and just think that

00:50:19she's before me

00:50:20and everything

00:50:22all right

00:50:23I have to go

00:50:24love you

00:50:24I guess I'll get back

00:50:25you'll be seeing Annabelle

00:50:26I guess I will

00:50:27I'm excited

00:50:28all right

00:50:28bye

00:50:28Annabelle

00:50:29let's see if

00:50:30Abby was like

00:50:31humming your tree

00:50:32about that

00:50:32I know

00:50:33I mean she's right though

00:50:34I mean it is

00:50:35going to be different

00:50:36you need to also

00:50:38you know

00:50:38cut her a little bit

00:50:39of slack

00:50:39you know

00:50:40I've never like

00:50:41talked about a woman

00:50:42like this

00:50:43and you know

00:50:44I love Annabelle

00:50:45and she isn't even here yet

00:50:46I don't want y'all

00:50:47getting off on the wrong foot

00:50:48because you've already

00:50:48got an attitude about it

00:50:49well I hope it works out

00:50:51if not we're going

00:50:51to have some problems

00:50:52we're not going

00:50:53to have any problems

00:50:54okay we'll see

00:50:55I think I hear the dog

00:50:56barking

00:50:56is someone coming over

00:50:57I think that might be

00:50:58Nicole

00:50:59why is she here

00:51:00I have no idea

00:51:01I'm sick of her

00:51:01pulling up like that

00:51:02Annabelle's about to be here

00:51:03that can't be happening

00:51:04well I'll go see

00:51:05what she wants

00:51:06that's jeez

00:51:07it's been going on

00:51:08way too long

00:51:09that's ridiculous

00:51:09I know

00:51:10let's see what she wants

00:51:11I don't know

00:51:13Nicole is ex-wife

00:51:14number two

00:51:15and she's the mother

00:51:16of my youngest child

00:51:17Madison

00:51:17it's not unusual

00:51:19for her to come by

00:51:20time to time

00:51:21but anytime me and

00:51:22Nicole are together

00:51:24you know

00:51:24it's just not good

00:51:25it's bad

00:51:35hey

00:51:36hey

00:51:36what's going on

00:51:41my dad remarried

00:51:43after my mom

00:51:44to Nicole

00:51:45and it was

00:51:45an absolute

00:51:46show

00:51:46as long as he

00:51:48living a normal

00:51:49happy life

00:51:50I think that

00:51:50she's always going

00:51:51to be in the corner

00:51:52like trying to ruin it

00:51:53somehow

00:51:53someway

00:51:54always

00:51:55the rumors I heard

00:51:56I guess are true

00:51:57that Annabelle's coming

00:51:58yeah

00:51:59getting close

00:52:00for a few days

00:52:03what's up

00:52:03what you need

00:52:05I was wanting to see

00:52:06if I could talk to you

00:52:07in private for a minute

00:52:08you know

00:52:09she's just trouble

00:52:10but I haven't been

00:52:11completely honest

00:52:12with Annabelle

00:52:13about everything

00:52:13with Nicole

00:52:14so unfortunately

00:52:16Nicole's got dirt on me

00:52:17and she's

00:52:18just can't wait

00:52:19to spill it

00:52:20oh my lord

00:52:42he is not gonna feel good

00:52:43about the twin size mattress

00:52:45I've had it since like

00:52:46the days of the dorms

00:52:49it has a bunch of stains

00:52:50but I feel like

00:52:51they're my stains

00:52:52so I'm not that

00:52:52grossed out with them

00:52:54ah

00:52:54no we can just cuddle

00:52:55we can cuddle on the twin mattress

00:52:58he'll like it

00:53:08oh I want to wear this

00:53:11it's been about

00:53:12three years

00:53:12since I've properly

00:53:14been able to access

00:53:15all my things

00:53:16they're all in a storage unit

00:53:17some of the boxes

00:53:19are like really organized

00:53:20and then some are just

00:53:20like random

00:53:21yeah

00:53:22oh this box is sketch

00:53:23there's like

00:53:25beams

00:53:29keyboard

00:53:32olive oil

00:53:35we're just like

00:53:36random

00:53:38Josh is not prepared

00:53:39for living with my chaos

00:53:41Josh is flying

00:53:42to America tomorrow

00:53:43and I promised

00:53:45I would handle

00:53:46the whole

00:53:46getting an apartment

00:53:47for us

00:53:48I said don't worry

00:53:49about it

00:53:49I'll take care

00:53:50of it babe

00:53:51so I think

00:53:52he's expecting

00:53:53to come

00:53:54to America

00:53:55tomorrow

00:53:55and like

00:53:56see our new apartment

00:53:58what is the apartment like

00:54:00we don't have

00:54:01an apartment yet

00:54:06it's really important

00:54:07for me to find a place

00:54:08before he gets here

00:54:09because I could literally

00:54:10like live out of my car

00:54:11for like a day or two

00:54:12and I'd be fine

00:54:13but he like

00:54:14is like oh

00:54:16like even like

00:54:17one night of discomfort

00:54:18for him

00:54:18it's like

00:54:19kind of an issue

00:54:21sometimes they say

00:54:22I'm gonna do stuff

00:54:23and then

00:54:24I

00:54:25I don't do it

00:54:27exactly to his liking

00:54:28and sometimes

00:54:30it's just me

00:54:31being lazy

00:54:31or procrastinating

00:54:32but other times

00:54:33things just get

00:54:34really complicated

00:54:35because of how

00:54:36my mind works

00:54:37I have like

00:54:38severe

00:54:39or extreme OCD

00:54:41I tend to get

00:54:42consumed by

00:54:43little details

00:54:44and then something

00:54:45big like

00:54:46finding an apartment

00:54:47falls through the cracks

00:54:49and I definitely

00:54:50have always had it

00:54:51like I remember

00:54:52having it in preschool

00:54:54and I went to therapy

00:54:55and I was officially

00:54:57diagnosed with OCD

00:54:58in middle school

00:55:00so my OCD

00:55:01makes it hard

00:55:02to get

00:55:04the big tasks

00:55:05done in my life

00:55:06because I'm like

00:55:07focused on all

00:55:08the little details

00:55:09or I'm like

00:55:10double checking things

00:55:11a hundred times

00:55:12checking the

00:55:13door handles

00:55:14on the car

00:55:15to make sure

00:55:15it's locked

00:55:16I check the stove

00:55:18about a bajillion times

00:55:19before I leave the house

00:55:21I like to check my teeth

00:55:23and make sure

00:55:23they're not chipped

00:55:24I memorize how they look

00:55:26so I just double check

00:55:27to make sure

00:55:27they look the same

00:55:30so all these things

00:55:31take time away

00:55:32from like

00:55:32focusing on a bigger task

00:55:36I hope Josh isn't upset

00:55:38because that was like

00:55:38the one thing

00:55:40I feel like

00:55:40he needed from me

00:55:42because I was like

00:55:43oh yeah I promise

00:55:44I'll figure out the apartment

00:55:45you don't have to do anything

00:55:47because I know the area

00:55:48I'm going to play

00:55:49in the apartment

00:55:49but we don't have

00:55:51an apartment yet

00:55:52because I'm bad at planning

00:55:55but I did

00:55:56I tried

00:55:56I really tried

00:55:57I hope he sees that

00:55:59my OCD

00:56:00has definitely

00:56:01messed up my relationships

00:56:02in the past

00:56:04it's definitely

00:56:05the main reason

00:56:06why my long term relationships

00:56:08didn't work out

00:56:09and I can't let that happen

00:56:10with my relationship

00:56:11with Josh

00:56:12at first

00:56:13he was really understanding

00:56:15and he was just like

00:56:16go to therapy

00:56:16and stuff

00:56:18and it's fine

00:56:19and now

00:56:19it's getting to the point

00:56:21where he's very disappointed

00:56:22in me

00:56:22so Josh is really understanding

00:56:25but

00:56:25I'm worried that

00:56:27he'll be less understanding

00:56:29when he lives with me

00:56:30and all my chaos

00:56:3124-7

00:56:32and now as soon as

00:56:34he gets off the plane

00:56:35I need to tell him

00:56:36that we're homeless

00:56:39Josh is a really

00:56:40understanding guy

00:56:41but even the most

00:56:42understanding person

00:56:43would lose their

00:56:44over that

00:56:50um

00:56:51how's your penis

00:56:53like

00:56:53it's crazy

00:56:54did the doctor

00:56:55clear you for the flight

00:56:56I'm not worried about that

00:56:58the only thing

00:56:58that I'm a little bit concerned

00:57:00to be honest with you

00:57:01is Michael

00:57:02I've been divorced

00:57:03for six years now

00:57:05a dad that has boys

00:57:07is always gonna feel

00:57:08a little threatened

00:57:09when a new man

00:57:10comes into

00:57:11the life

00:57:12if Michael

00:57:13comes in

00:57:14with anger

00:57:15or aggression

00:57:16it might turn into

00:57:17a disaster

00:57:22I'll be up for playing

00:57:24fun and games

00:57:26Oh yeah

00:57:29it's so easy

00:57:30even if it isn't

00:57:33keep it easy

00:57:34breezy

00:57:34oh

00:57:35it's so easy

00:57:38how's it going over here

00:57:40hello Marissa

00:57:41how are you

00:57:42I'm good

00:57:42how are you

00:57:43if you need anything

00:57:44please let us know

00:57:45congratulations

00:57:45thank you Marissa

00:57:47thank you Marissa

00:57:47thank you

00:57:48thank you

00:57:49everything's peachy

00:57:50oh that's so easy

00:57:53honestly

00:57:54get free

00:57:55chilling out

00:57:56keeping it peachy

00:58:05hi

00:58:06can you hear me

00:58:07yeah I hear you

00:58:08okay

00:58:09hi

00:58:11how was your day

00:58:12doing

00:58:12it was busy

00:58:14I haven't spoken to you

00:58:15all day

00:58:15oh my god

00:58:15oh no

00:58:16it's been a long day

00:58:17at work

00:58:17but it's like a really

00:58:18pretty like summer day

00:58:19in New York

00:58:19so like this is what

00:58:20you get to experience

00:58:21soon

00:58:22you see it

00:58:23yeah

00:58:24it's a big building

00:58:25really nice

00:58:25it's a big building

00:58:27see I don't think

00:58:27that you're used to this

00:58:30my biggest concern

00:58:31about Edward

00:58:31moving to the United States

00:58:32is a little bit

00:58:33of culture shock

00:58:34I'm a little

00:58:34I'm a little concerned

00:58:35first of all

00:58:36you've never been

00:58:38on a plane before

00:58:39it's a lot of

00:58:40that I don't know

00:58:41I was trying to google

00:58:42you know like

00:58:43what I'm supposed to do

00:58:45like it's crazy

00:58:47I think that it's kind of cute

00:58:49that Edward really

00:58:49doesn't have any experience

00:58:51in anything outside

00:58:52of his country

00:58:53and you know

00:58:54the fact that he has to

00:58:55like google

00:58:55how to get through

00:58:56an airport

00:58:57or google like

00:58:58what you have to put

00:58:59in your bag

00:58:59or what you can't

00:59:00put in your bag

00:59:01but it does concern

00:59:02me a little bit

00:59:03that he just doesn't

00:59:04have the same type

00:59:05of life experiences

00:59:06that I do

00:59:07here's a good example

00:59:08when I would go

00:59:09to visit Edward

00:59:10in Punta Cana

00:59:11and we stayed at a hotel

00:59:13I hadn't even realized

00:59:14that he had never

00:59:15even experienced

00:59:16being a guest at a hotel

00:59:17he's only just worked

00:59:18at them his entire life

00:59:21it's you know

00:59:22vast differences

00:59:25before we even get to

00:59:26I guess I don't want

00:59:27to forget

00:59:27because you know

00:59:27I forget everything

00:59:28in like a second

00:59:30um

00:59:30how's your penis

00:59:32how's your penis

00:59:34are the stitches healed

00:59:35like did the doctor

00:59:36clear you for the flight

00:59:38do you know what's crazy

00:59:38I would see

00:59:39I would see my doctor

00:59:40today

00:59:40when I was walking

00:59:41in the street

00:59:43what

00:59:43doctor yourself

00:59:45yeah

00:59:46he's saying

00:59:47he's asking me

00:59:47how

00:59:48how is your penis

00:59:49and everything

00:59:49and I was like

00:59:50uh

00:59:51it's just typical

00:59:52typical conversation

00:59:53how's your penis

00:59:53but he's my doctor

00:59:54you know

00:59:56like

00:59:56what's funny

00:59:57because

00:59:57it wasn't in front of everybody

00:59:58and everybody was

00:59:59you know

01:00:00like

01:00:00you know like

01:00:03maybe

01:00:03we are gays

01:00:04or things like that

01:00:05I don't know

01:00:06that my penis

01:00:08is supposed to be ready

01:00:09for next week

01:00:10because my life

01:00:11depends on it

01:00:12my life depends on it

01:00:14my life too

01:00:15it's two people's lives

01:00:16affected by this

01:00:17not just yours

01:00:18I'm not worried about that

01:00:19the only thing

01:00:20that I'm a little bit concerned

01:00:21to be honest with you

01:00:22is Michael

01:00:26I've been divorced

01:00:27for six years now

01:00:29it's taken a few years

01:00:30but my ex-husband

01:00:31Michael and I

01:00:31have really developed

01:00:32a strong relationship

01:00:34and we're really good

01:00:35at co-parenting

01:00:36but

01:00:37a dad that has boys

01:00:39is always gonna feel

01:00:40a little threatened

01:00:41when a new man

01:00:42comes into

01:00:43the life

01:00:59I think that

01:01:00we all can play

01:01:01a really important role

01:01:02in their lives

01:01:02and I don't want anybody

01:01:03to feel threatened

01:01:04by like you know

01:01:05one another's

01:01:06interaction with them

01:01:09there's still

01:01:10some forms of resentment

01:01:11some forms of animosity

01:01:13some disappointment

01:01:14and that's why

01:01:16I have never

01:01:17brought another man

01:01:19into my parenting

01:01:20relationship before

01:01:21and I've explained

01:01:22this to Edward

01:01:22that if Michael

01:01:23comes in with anger

01:01:25or aggression

01:01:26please don't respond to it

01:01:28because it will not

01:01:28make the situation better

01:01:29now I've said this

01:01:31to Edward many times

01:01:32will he listen to me

01:01:34I don't know

01:01:37you're gonna meet Michael

01:01:38you know

01:01:39like pretty soon

01:01:39I think because

01:01:40he's like around

01:01:41all the time

01:01:41I think that we have

01:01:43to have like a serious

01:01:43conversation

01:01:44and you and him

01:01:45have to put your

01:01:46like boundaries in place

01:01:47like what would upset him

01:01:49or what would upset you

01:01:50I know that I'm like a person

01:01:52and I have a good part

01:01:53and I love coal

01:01:54and I love Derek

01:01:55and I just need to show that

01:02:00I think when Edward

01:02:01and Michael

01:02:01finally have

01:02:02the talk

01:02:04I am a little concerned

01:02:06emotions are gonna flare

01:02:08people are gonna get

01:02:09territorial

01:02:10protective

01:02:11if that happens

01:02:12Michael will

01:02:13you know

01:02:14get very upset

01:02:15and aggressive

01:02:16and it might turn

01:02:17into a disaster

01:02:17and it's gonna be

01:02:19very hard to repair

01:02:20after that

01:02:24you look upset

01:02:27well

01:02:27it's okay

01:02:43so I'm making cake pops

01:02:45and I think

01:02:45I'm gonna make them

01:02:46red and blue

01:02:47on the inside

01:02:49for America

01:02:50normally I wouldn't be

01:02:51this messy

01:02:52or maybe I actually

01:02:53probably would

01:03:03but

01:03:03wait why is this

01:03:04backwards

01:03:06do you understand

01:03:07this

01:03:08in no world

01:03:09this is right

01:03:09maybe if I go in front

01:03:10of a mirror

01:03:11or something

01:03:12oh yeah

01:03:13look

01:03:14America

01:03:15haha

01:03:16Josh arrives today

01:03:17and I got us a hotel room

01:03:18because I definitely

01:03:19didn't want our first night

01:03:20together to be sleeping

01:03:21on an air mattress

01:03:22in our friend's house

01:03:24I don't think

01:03:25he'll be expecting

01:03:26a hotel

01:03:26I think he'll either

01:03:27expect the apartment

01:03:28magically to appear

01:03:30and be done

01:03:30which unfortunately

01:03:31isn't the case

01:03:32or something

01:03:34like less comfy

01:03:37even though it's not

01:03:38ready to move into yet

01:03:39the big news is

01:03:41I actually signed a lease

01:03:42on a new apartment

01:03:43so I looked at a couple

01:03:45of photos

01:03:46of the apartment online

01:03:47but I haven't seen it

01:03:49in person yet

01:03:50so it could be

01:03:51crazy

01:03:52like I don't know

01:03:53what it's going to

01:03:53look like inside

01:03:55I'm nervous

01:03:56because I feel like

01:03:57I haven't seen him

01:03:57in a bit

01:03:58and I'm worried

01:03:59he'll be jet lagged

01:04:00and I really want

01:04:01to have like a good

01:04:01you know

01:04:02fun kind of night

01:04:04I don't know

01:04:06how to say that

01:04:06correctly

01:04:07but yeah

01:04:10my sex life

01:04:11with Josh

01:04:12has been a little bit

01:04:14dull

01:04:17and we're not

01:04:18having sex enough

01:04:20I told him

01:04:21to get condoms

01:04:21I just said

01:04:22oh can you pick them up

01:04:23I forgot

01:04:23so

01:04:25I did that

01:04:26because I was like

01:04:26oh I want him to

01:04:29like

01:04:31think about it

01:04:32at least

01:04:33I'm worried

01:04:34that moving in

01:04:34with Josh

01:04:35will not

01:04:36improve our sex life

01:04:37he's super British

01:04:39and super reserved

01:04:40so he tends to avoid

01:04:42conversations about sex

01:04:43it just like

01:04:44doesn't come up

01:04:45as much

01:04:46no not sorry

01:04:47that sounds sexual

01:04:48oh

01:04:48it drives me crazy

01:04:50because I'm the exact opposite

01:04:52and I'm very open

01:04:53about sex

01:04:53so I know

01:04:55we have to get on

01:04:55the same page

01:04:56before we get married

01:05:02oh

01:05:03no

01:05:06that's okay

01:05:07Josh won't eat that one

01:05:13I think

01:05:13the thing I'm looking forward

01:05:14to the most

01:05:15when I see Josh

01:05:16is giving him a kiss

01:05:17I want to make out

01:05:18for like 10 minutes

01:05:20but he hates PDA

01:05:22maybe we'll save that

01:05:24for the hotel

01:05:24I'm so excited

01:05:43cool

01:06:04okay it seems like he should be here like any minute or something

01:06:11uh yeah i'm excited but i'm stressed out because i just want him to appear as soon

01:06:15as possible he's gonna freak out when he sees this

01:06:21well at least he'll spot me probably

01:06:27we've waited for this a long time we literally waited over a year for the visa to be approved

01:06:33where is he

01:06:40i know i'll see you still

01:06:44i'll find my way to you

01:06:49i'll never give you a tell

01:07:06this is my fiancee josh and he's from can you say it first really fast and i'll copy it

01:07:14uh cambridge england cambridge england

01:07:22can we make out for four minutes

01:07:26when i see josh i want to make out with him for a while

01:07:43but it felt like only four seconds um i've never been super hot on pda

01:07:51i just feel self-conscious like not always but i don't think i'm the only person who's like that

01:08:01do you want to make out for four minutes now

01:08:04i actually

01:08:10can i put the hat on you

01:08:12can i see

01:08:15it's uncle sam i don't know i forgot who uncle sam is actually

01:08:19but he's like an american icon from the past

01:08:22yeah or he's a fake person i don't know i'm not sure

01:08:26so i got us a hotel for the night and the apartment got approved

01:08:31nice

01:08:32we might have to wait a few days to move in

01:08:34sure

01:08:35but for tonight and maybe tomorrow night i have a hotel for us

01:08:39and then i have some sexy red lingerie for tonight

01:08:47okay

01:08:47laundry in the airport

01:08:49do you want me to put it away now

01:08:51i mean it looks lovely

01:08:53are you excited

01:08:55yeah

01:08:55i can't wait to like wake up next to you every day

01:08:57i feel like now we're moving in together

01:09:00i don't super know what to expect

01:09:03we are really different like we're like so contrasting

01:09:06you're quite chaotic and wild and lovely

01:09:09um

01:09:11we're choosing to be together

01:09:12because we love each other

01:09:14um it just feels like we fit

01:09:17oh

01:09:22do you need help carrying stuff

01:09:23i'm good

01:09:25no i'll just like try not to hit my face with the balloons

01:09:28i love them

01:09:30do you want to make out for four minutes now

01:09:36i was in bed with you

01:09:38when you were with annabelle

01:09:39it's not gonna happen when she's here

01:09:41why is it okay that it's happened for this long that she's not here

01:09:46this is her last ditch effort to try to screw things up again with annabelle and i

01:09:52you do know when she gets here i'm gonna talk to her

01:09:54if he thinks that i'm not gonna tell annabelle all the dirt all the things that i know about him

01:10:14what's up what's your name i was just wanting to see if i could talk to you in private for

01:10:18a minute

01:10:18sure

01:10:28what up

01:10:31so

01:10:35annabelle's coming right

01:10:37a few days hopefully

01:10:39you do know when she gets here we are actually gonna have a conversation like i'm gonna talk to her

01:10:43there's no way around that

01:10:47my marriage to my ex-wife nicole it only lasted four weeks and her relationship was volatile because i mean

01:10:53she did a lot of things i didn't agree with and i guess i did a lot of things she

01:10:57didn't agree with so we weren't really like a match for a relationship

01:11:02she's a mother of one of my children so i don't know i mean she'll always be around in some

01:11:06capacity but

01:11:07she's very jealous and vindictive and doesn't really want me with anyone but i guess her

01:11:15okay so are you gonna like

01:11:18what are you gonna talk about she needs to know the things i think about angie she needs to know

01:11:23about the things that you've said to me

01:11:27what about angie to me it seems that you are like having some kind of relationship maybe it

01:11:33was just physical or whatever the case may be so are you i have not treated with anybody and

01:11:39definitely not angie angie is my good friend greg's daughter

01:11:47it ain't a cookout unless we get it on us

01:11:49help picked up your shirt a little bit she got recently divorced me and her just kind of hit it

01:11:56off as friends and heck you know friday nights we might go catch a band and catch dinner but it's

01:12:01just

01:12:02a good friendship i think nicole's just trying to get under my skin she sees that i'm happy and

01:12:08probably thinks this is her last ditch effort to try to screw things up again with anamel and i

01:12:15so in your opinion flirting and telling people things that would obviously upset annabelle is okay

01:12:23that's not cheating you know that's everybody's perception is different he led me on for years

01:12:32and then we got together and we got married and that ended very quickly and he and come to find

01:12:37out

01:12:38he was talking to annabelle while we were married and if he thinks that i'm not going to tell

01:12:43annabelle all the dirt all the things that i know about him he's wrong with angie and shay i saw

01:12:48it

01:12:48with my own eyes something's not right with that situation and i don't want annabelle to make the

01:12:54commitment and walk down the aisle without her knowing these things about him i don't believe that

01:12:59you have told her some most of the stuff that you do i mean like we've been out before and

01:13:06you're

01:13:06drinking and she calls and of course the camera goes this way where she can't see me and like you

01:13:12know i just feel like that's very very unfair for her anything that you know i've done is not like

01:13:20you know it's like if we go out and have a few too many beers i might like you know

01:13:24say something

01:13:24vulgar or pat on you or something but i mean it's not like i'm like i want to rip your

01:13:29clothes off or

01:13:30anything there's no way i'm gonna stray even if i drink too much you know yeah i may flirt but

01:13:39that's

01:13:39the extent of it and that's my personality i'm not gonna be like oh let's sneak around the corner and

01:13:51give it give me a kiss or something it's not gonna happen when she's here okay so why is it

01:13:56okay that

01:13:56it's happened for this long that she's not here because she's eight thousand miles away shay i was in

01:14:03bed with you when you were with annabelle and she called and i answered the phone yeah we went to

01:14:12a

01:14:12concert or something yeah yeah we were in the same bed together yeah i remember and after that incident

01:14:18i mean annabelle didn't talk for a while you know she had to kind of cool off so there was

01:14:25a situation

01:14:26a few years ago between annabelle and nicole and it wasn't good after nicole and i divorced we

01:14:32we were actually out of town several of us five or six people we had a few hotel rooms and

01:14:36um drank too much she took me to the hotel room i got in bed still in my clothes passed

01:14:44out and then

01:14:46i just remember i'm in the bed with my clothes still on and i've got a phone poking in my

01:14:54face with

01:14:54annabelle uh crying and i've just kind of woke up enough to see nicole holding the phone and

01:15:03she was just doing it to be vindictive and and break me up and it just made it really tough

01:15:09on our

01:15:10relationship early on so i mean you seriously are adamant about talking to her yeah that's definitely

01:15:18happening she needs to know what she's signing up for i don't want to make the same mistake i did

01:15:21especially coming from way over there ours is completely different i mean it is what it is

01:15:28but okay well i don't want you coming back here and doing it so i mean i'm not i'm definitely

01:15:35going

01:15:35to figure it out well so you know there's no trespassing i don't want you back here

01:15:40she's going to understand who you are by by the time i get done so i mean and there's plenty

01:15:45of people

01:15:46that can contradict you on that so i'm not i mean there's plenty of people who can also say they've

01:15:50seen me with you and the way you act with me you just need to go on home i i

01:15:54can't deal with no

01:15:55problem just expect that when she's here we're going to have that conversation i just can't deal

01:15:58with it anymore that's okay well see you jay what a boy i'm scared that if nicole gets to her

01:16:06before

01:16:07i explain some of this stuff she may want to head straight back to the philippines but i worked hard

01:16:15to get annabelle to trust me again and i'm not going to let nicole or anybody else ruin it just

01:16:19because she's jealous

01:16:24good lord

01:16:57thank you lord thank you lord thank you lord

01:17:12grace and mercy heavenly father

01:17:16amen thank you guys bye bye bye love you

01:17:23so asha tell me what what's what's going on basically today maxwell went in with his best

01:17:31friend silas for their k-1 visa interview maxwell got called up first the interviewer

01:17:40approved for his visa he came outside he took a picture of it he showed it to me he called

01:17:48me just

01:17:49excited next thing i know he was like baby let me call you right back i gotta go back into

01:17:55the embassy

01:17:56i was like okay then he sends me another picture and in this form is saying that he had been

01:18:04denied

01:18:06and so of course he's bawling i'm hardly able to get him to answer the phone so when he does

01:18:11answer

01:18:12the phone he starts explaining to me that when his best friend went in for the interview his term

01:18:19they looked at the photos and saw that me him and my best friend and his best friend were in

01:18:27the same

01:18:27pictures and with that they decided that it looks like fraud and so then not only that he yelled at

01:18:36them and told them not only am i going to file this under fraud but i'm also going to ban

01:18:45you from the u.s

01:18:47i am completely blindsided i never in a million years the thought never crossed my mind that he would

01:18:58get denied i felt like god was on my side and he would get approved but maxwell getting banned is

01:19:07beyond

01:19:07words because that prevents max webb ever applying for any visa or ever coming to the u.s ever

01:19:17i don't know how the devil snuck in gave my fiance a visa in his hand let him walk out

01:19:26the door with

01:19:27the visa let him celebrate for 0.2 seconds and then tell him to come back in and give it

01:19:33back

01:19:34and i cannot understand it we just been you know praying not only have we bombarded heaven but we've

01:19:41literally bombarded that embassy because i told maxwell i said listen do not leave that embassy

01:19:48i said you talk to whoever you got to talk to to get inside that building you know explain yourself

01:19:53what

01:19:54is going on and there was a security guard kind of was going back and forth to the point to

01:19:59where

01:19:59the people inside the embassy got tired and they're waiting to be with the agent again right now

01:20:06but i know one thing he got to leave with that dorm visa and that's for sure

01:20:14lord i ask that you protect my future husband lord jesus these are the prayers that i ask in our

01:20:19petitions i put before you heavenly father i ask that you do it right now in jesus name amen

01:20:26and thank you lord thank you thank you literally i am terrified

01:20:35it's terrifying that one person could say one thing and then that's my life that's my future

01:20:44i would lose the love of my life

01:20:50okay this maxwell

01:20:54okay sweetie what they say

01:20:57yeah so we just came out of here now right can you hear me baby okay i'm listening

01:21:04the man called us you're no longer banned look

01:21:07the band has been lifted the band has been lifted we're no longer banned we should go continue our

01:21:11relationship and apply for the spousal visa just understand that for the k1 there's nothing that

01:21:18can be done so it won't he won't let us get the k1 no

01:21:24the only thing you could do was take out the band i'm not accepting it i'm not really accepting it

01:21:31that ain't sitting right with me i don't want to let the k1 go because i don't want to start

01:21:35over the

01:21:36spousal visa take a longer time that's the problem like that's not fair

01:21:41what about the appeal he is like we can't appeal his decision

01:21:50i'm gonna talk to attorney because that's not right you know what i'm saying if he made a mistake

01:21:55we need to talk to an attorney and see what they can do they have definitely messed with the wrong

01:22:02woman because you know i feel like looking over my life god has not denied me anything and maxwell and

01:22:12i were destined to be together let me just call my family and come get this to them okay all

01:22:18right

01:22:19sweetie ain't that a mess i am a hundred percent going to do everything in my power as long as

01:22:29it

01:22:30is in the will of god to get maxwell to the usa you can be the king you can be

01:22:36the president you can

01:22:38be whomever you think you are but you're not more supreme than god almighty

01:22:47this season on 90 day fiance you're ready let's see it come on i have my circumcision

01:22:54i'm ready to be an american now

01:23:00you want to feed them i'm afraid they bite me i'm a city girl from sao paulo

01:23:08animal crap is not my

01:23:10it has a rear wash pulsating action

01:23:18i need to be there paper don't tell are you talking about dingleberries

01:23:29you're not sure if you're not gonna eat or not i just don't want to close off all my experiences

01:23:35katie wants to talk about openness so close to the wedding day what the is that about

01:23:41i really really want to make out with people then what do we do that's concerning

01:23:50it's your second time getting married if you are not certain do not get married i love edward but i

01:23:57have

01:23:57started to question whether this is the right situation for me i'm sorry for you was born like

01:24:03this this is so sad do you really want to spend your life with me do you really want to

01:24:07get married

01:24:08in brazil it's so easy but i'm fighting so much here i'm tired

01:24:16you're the one i'm married you're the one i'm marrying what is this issue

01:24:22in turkey we don't be friends ex-boyfriend don't call my fiance never get the off my tailgate

01:24:35what the people are like who is this person you might be like a mail-order bride

01:24:43people saying about me well i mean it has come up

01:24:51i don't want to listen to your crap

01:24:57i'm just frustrated i'm just to be straight for what you can

01:25:00that slut in egypt but you can't be compassionate with me get out

01:25:06you should push me too far it's finished it's over i'm done with the whole thing he's going home

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