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Love & Marriage- Huntsville Season 11 Episode 10
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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03We had arguments in the past, but the space that we're
00:07now just feels a lot different.
00:09I just really want to apologize for my part,
00:14the role that I played in.
00:16I could have been a lot better in a lot of situations.
00:18Am I supposed to get on a bullhorn and alert
00:21everybody that my license revoked?
00:23No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:24Just me, just me.
00:26Who the are you?
00:28Well, hello there.
00:29What are my months?
00:30How you doing?
00:31I got you this little bitty chair.
00:33Yeah.
00:34What rumors have you heard?
00:35About?
00:36About anything.
00:37About me.
00:38Um, I really don't hear rumors about you.
00:41I've been hearing this one little rumor about me, man.
00:43What is it?
00:44About me and Kayla.
00:46You and Kayla?
00:48Yeah.
00:48Is there something going on between you and Troy?
00:52We have went on dates before.
00:56I am lost for words.
00:57We need to have a gathering with the Fletchers.
01:00What you said to me was that,
01:01oh, you don't defend me in rooms that I'm not in.
01:03The only person who don't defend you is your husband.
01:05Y'all hit me way below the bell.
01:09I'm done.
01:37Come on.
01:40All day, all night.
01:41Yeah.
01:43Ain't no stopping us.
01:46Yeah.
01:51What y'all doing out there now?
01:59I'm not.
02:00I'm not.
02:01I'm not.
02:02I'm not.
02:04I'm not.
02:05I'm not.
02:05I'm not.
02:05I'm not.
02:06I'm not.
02:06What's up, nigga?
02:08I just seen you out there about 20 minutes ago.
02:10We were like, what the hell?
02:11Today, I'm going to go and meet with my guy, Martell.
02:15Haven't talked to him in a while.
02:16And I think it's about time we sit down and maybe a little lunch
02:20and catch up with him, see how he's doing.
02:23Who's been going on in your end?
02:24Shoot.
02:24Not much, man.
02:26Talking to Marcel the other day.
02:29Would you ask for some advice on what?
02:34See that shit?
02:36No, he asked me to come by.
02:38For what?
02:38Marcel felt like I should have came to him first
02:42and let him know the status of my license.
02:45Why?
02:46Exactly.
02:47Why?
02:49Like, as I told him, who the are you?
02:52Yeah.
02:53Well, Fletch, we were doing business together.
02:56What were y'all doing?
02:57Exactly.
02:57Nothing.
02:58No.
02:59Why are he playing?
03:00Right.
03:01I'm not doing business.
03:02And our sit down was two years ago.
03:07Exactly.
03:08You know what I said to him?
03:09I hope you said some good .
03:10Uh, did you come to me to tell me about this lawsuit
03:14that you're coming to head against?
03:15I mean, yeah, Fletch, but no, no, no.
03:17Don't butt me.
03:18Yeah.
03:18So did you come to me to tell me?
03:20You said that .
03:21Yeah, because you know how Marcel is.
03:23You let him get started.
03:24Oh, yeah.
03:25You can't let him talk.
03:26Don't let him or Maurice start talking.
03:27No.
03:27You got to tear that ass up from the beginning.
03:29Exactly.
03:29And they all in your business, especially Marcel.
03:31Like, how many projects has he completed?
03:33Didn't he say one time that he complete the projects that
03:36matters to him or something?
03:38He said black finish.
03:40Really?
03:41Is it?
03:43I was on Jordan Lane and I passed by the building again.
03:46But they just started back doing a little work out there.
03:49Trying to put some...
03:50And the building ain't nothing at 500 square feet.
03:53Is it?
03:54Right.
03:55That's the outside fringe, man.
03:57Yeah.
03:57Yeah.
03:58I'm happy as hell Chris stood up for himself like that.
04:01Like, that's right.
04:02Like, who the you think you are?
04:04To even ask me something like that.
04:06So, yeah.
04:07I'm proud of Chris.
04:08Good job, boy.
04:10Still feeling around with Posh and Prissy.
04:12Boutique, you know, for the wife.
04:14This her idea or your idea?
04:16No, this is her.
04:17She's been at this for probably about three years now.
04:19Oh, really?
04:20Yeah.
04:20And she's been on me about finding her a brick and mortar.
04:24Oh, really?
04:24Yeah.
04:25And I finally, you know, I finally found her a location.
04:28Come on.
04:28Let's take a look.
04:29Ha-ha.
04:31Welcome to Posh and Prissy, good.
04:33Oh, my God.
04:34Yeah.
04:35Oh, Lord, there's so much I gotta do.
04:37Yeah.
04:38I love it.
04:39Thank you so much.
04:42Why don't you try to do online sales, anything like that first?
04:45She's been selling some things, but kind of like...
04:46Oh, okay, okay.
04:47Out the front type thing.
04:49And y'all already got y'all hands full of the guy that was going.
04:51Grand Davis.
04:52Oh, my God.
04:53The kids.
04:54The daycare.
04:56Her father.
04:57Like, y'all about to add something else to this equation.
05:00Like, God damn.
05:02No, man.
05:03That's, uh...
05:03Hey, I'm gonna say, you about to be running ragged.
05:07If anything, I would have thought that it would have been his boutique.
05:10Chris and I, we spoke about, you know, him getting the men's clothing store.
05:13Something like that.
05:14Because, you know, him and I both, we dressed to impress.
05:17So, to me, you know, I'm still kind of shocked that he'll be putting her ahead of him.
05:23But that's typical for a man to do anyway, though.
05:26I thought maybe y'all would have extended the daycare before anything else.
05:30It's almost as if a male making it seem like she'll say, he's on my payroll.
05:35I'm like, no, he's on y'all's payroll.
05:37It ain't like y'all been married for two years and you had this daycare before him
05:40and you hadn't had all this money before him.
05:42Y'all started at zero together.
05:45Right.
05:45You know what I'm saying?
05:46I bought the daycare.
05:47And see, when we started, the daycare back then may have put up $100,000, $150,000.
05:54Yeah.
05:55Today, to start one, at least three quarters of a meal.
06:00At least $750,000.
06:01Yeah.
06:02Buying the daycare, you know, making sure that we had sole ownership of the daycare.
06:08And a lot of times, you know, Neal, my wife, she's always saying, ah, ah, me, me.
06:14And every now and then, yeah, I think, I think Neal needs to acknowledge and give me my flowers as
06:20well.
06:21How about it was rumored, Twan and Kayla.
06:27They've gone on two or three dates.
06:28Is it true?
06:30Yeah.
06:30Oh.
06:31I don't know.
06:32What's wrong with it?
06:33He ain't saying to me.
06:34I wouldn't.
06:35Shit.
06:36He's a good dude, though.
06:37At least he ain't blood.
06:39Yeah, he's already been divorced.
06:41He's got two kids.
06:42I think he has a teenager.
06:44Oh, .
06:45Okay.
06:46You know what I'm saying?
06:46Okay.
06:47My daughter ain't...
06:48Oh.
06:48Kayla ain't had no kids.
06:50Kayla ain't never been married.
06:51Oh, yeah.
06:52So...
06:53You know what?
06:54that.
06:56He need to get up with a woman to share similarities.
07:00Yeah.
07:01Destiny would've been a good one.
07:04Why?
07:05Because she's been married, divorced, and got a child?
07:07That's it.
07:08So you talk to her all the time.
07:09Why you think that didn't happen?
07:11You know, I don't know what's up with Destiny for real, man.
07:13When it comes to these men, she need to know that you ain't in your 20s no more, baby.
07:18She is in the Tribal Side.
07:19She is as ŁŲ°Ł as Angelique.
07:24She is born in his injured arms.
07:30Stop, drop, drop, drop.
07:31Drop it.
07:31Tap in.
07:33Step by step to the side.
07:34Tap in.
07:34Stay there.
07:35three, two, push, push, push.
07:39Five, four, three, two, one.
07:43Stretch it out.
07:44So I invited Sharon back over so we can get a little workout in.
07:48And you know when you work out with me,
07:49it's going to be a little pain at the end.
07:51No pain, no gain.
07:54I get a break.
07:57Don't talk.
07:57Catch your breath.
07:59Oh, I didn't get to catch up with you the other day on the...
08:02How did you, uh, like the drag thing part?
08:06It was fun.
08:06How did you fit in with the girls?
08:10Um, I honestly enjoyed all of them.
08:12So what do you think about how Tisha and Destiny's...
08:15I think they need to just let it go.
08:17I'm sitting in the middle and Destiny, I'm like...
08:20And Destiny's the slinging glasses and s***.
08:22I'm trying to figure out...
08:23I'm like, okay, can we just...
08:24I wasn't laughing so hard.
08:26When they last came back and then started eating,
08:28and I thought she was supposed to take Destiny home.
08:32And she had that damn chicken in her mouth.
08:34I don't.
08:35She said, I'm going to take her home.
08:37But I'm going to eat my food first.
08:41The food was good, I don't blame.
08:42I would've ate mine, too.
08:44Yeah, that's my stuff was good as hell, it was.
08:45That was one hell of a night, boy.
08:48I was laughing so hard.
08:49But we was talking about spinning the block,
08:51and Destiny said something about Martell.
08:53You said, no, I heard that was Destiny sleeping with Martell.
08:55I spent the block on someone.
08:58I did, I'm not gonna lie.
09:00Martell?
09:01I know that's your best friend,
09:04but let's not protect your best friend here.
09:06I ain't never done nothing with Martell.
09:08Well, they tried to say Destiny did something with Martell,
09:10so, girl, bye.
09:14This mother...
09:16That's what the streets is saying.
09:19I was like, I didn't even get a chance to respond.
09:21They do seem to have a chemistry, though.
09:22I feel like the Scots one and two,
09:26they have a lot of questions about you and your relationship.
09:29Where is Ken?
09:30And you guys have reconciled.
09:33We've reconciled.
09:34Decided 100% to work on your relationship?
09:37We've decided 100% to work on things.
09:39No more spinning the blocks.
09:41No more spinning the blocks.
09:43Does he know?
09:45He know about you spinning the block?
09:48Because he's...
09:49Yeah.
09:50Okay.
09:51It took, yeah, it took some courage, but I don't...
09:54Ooh, that trust ain't gonna be something serious.
09:57That's gonna be serious.
09:58I'm gonna say this.
10:00Men typically expect to be forgiven and expect you to move on,
10:03but they're normally...
10:05It's not that easy for them.
10:07Does he hold grudges?
10:08Because, like, what was his response when you told him?
10:11He forgave me.
10:12No, what was his response?
10:14Did he do that yelling and screaming or...
10:16Well, yeah.
10:17Storm out the door?
10:19Well, we was all over the phone.
10:20It was over the phone conversation.
10:22That was easy, yeah.
10:23It was.
10:23He did a coward.
10:25That was not...
10:26Yes, it was.
10:27How you gonna tell him something like that on the phone?
10:30Because he asked.
10:32Okay, then, Ken.
10:33I wouldn't say it was an easy call to make,
10:36but right now, Ken and I are trying to get past whatever happens.
10:40We're moving forward, building forward,
10:42getting back to our original plan,
10:44as in being that fit couple and doing what we love to do.
10:48So, it took a lot of forgiveness,
10:51a lot of not thinking about things
10:53and not bringing up things
10:55and not letting the outside world get to us.
10:57It was a back and forth,
10:59but then we was like,
11:00okay, we're moving on past this.
11:01We're not gonna let anybody come between us.
11:03One thing he always do say
11:05is that we are better together.
11:08And sometimes,
11:10I'll let my thoughts and everything get away.
11:12He does the same.
11:13Are you being accountable for yours?
11:16It's because in the past,
11:17it seemed like you would point out his stuff in.
11:20Here lately, I have.
11:22I'll go for that.
11:24Yeah.
11:27Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
11:30It just teaches you not being an authentic friend.
11:33Well, I did tell her, I said,
11:34you know, I do defend you in a room that you're not in
11:37because I have told multiple people that you're not stupid.
11:42Parents came to me
11:44about what Tuon and I have going on
11:46before I could even come to them
11:48or before we could come to them.
11:50So I was wondering who said something to them.
11:54Bye.
12:09Hi.
12:10Hello.
12:11Table four, three.
12:13How are you doing?
12:17Hey.
12:19Hey, you looking good, looking good.
12:22Well, thank you.
12:23You look gorgeous, too.
12:24I'm feeling so proud and grateful and excited today.
12:27I just closed the deal, and it feels really good, you know, getting back into the real
12:31estate game.
12:32Since my divorce hasn't been easy, it's been a lot of hiccups, and I'm just grateful to
12:37just be back into my rhythm of things.
12:40And today, I'm celebrating with Martell and Nell.
12:43I want to invite you to the house where I'm in.
12:46You know, I'm going to have, like, a dinner.
12:49A Fletcher family dinner?
12:51What are you having a family dinner for?
12:53I just need to talk to these young, grown adults.
12:58Why do I got to be there?
12:59Because you part of them.
13:01I'm part of the grown adults now?
13:03Yeah.
13:04Oh, have mercy, Jesus.
13:07Good Saturday dinner.
13:08I seen the shine on your head coming around and going in.
13:11What's happening?
13:12I'm looking beautiful.
13:13How y'all doing?
13:13Good.
13:14We're doing good.
13:15What's up?
13:16What's up?
13:16And so when I opened that door, I heard somebody laugh, and I
13:19said, I know that's Nell.
13:21Look at that butt.
13:23It's screaming.
13:24Hey, listen.
13:25If the butt ain't screaming, something wrong.
13:28What you talking about?
13:30Cheers.
13:31Hey.
13:32To my closing.
13:33To your closing.
13:33To your closing.
13:34You could have been closing mine.
13:36There's no closing.
13:36I don't have time to play with you.
13:38He got a closing, too.
13:39Yeah, apparently.
13:40Yeah.
13:41Then I gave you your husband first, but this little situation,
13:43then he pissed it off the desk, and then the desk didn't have time for me.
13:46The butcher didn't even tell me that he done up the movie.
13:48He ain't got a...
13:50No, no, no.
13:50See what happened when you got a license?
13:52No, no, no.
13:52God damn.
13:53I didn't up.
13:54I didn't do nothing wrong.
13:55I'm just the one that has to fix it all.
13:58That's what happened in marriages, though.
13:59happens.
14:00Then when y'all got each other's back, y'all don't care.
14:01But you should know happens in marriages, though, don't you?
14:03You know that.
14:04It does.
14:05But then y'all got to care together, and y'all
14:07go a couple together, right?
14:09I think sometimes that everybody on the outside kind of discredit Chris
14:13for the things that he do around the house, at the daycare, for his wife,
14:18for the kids, for the grandkids, for her father.
14:22And I know he's on top of all of that.
14:24And, you know, I talked to him the other day when he felt discredited.
14:27I think that it's okay for Nell to make it known that Chris is her everything.
14:32I think that it'd be good for a man to hear that and feel that.
14:36It's more to a marriage than this, oh, somebody messed up and they got to fix it.
14:41Exactly, but it still hurts during the process.
14:44Okay, but look at all the stuff that he do.
14:46What does he do?
14:47What do you mean?
14:48The daycare, the kids, the grandkids, your father.
14:50That's part of being married, right, Martell?
14:53So the daycare, that does help pay him, too.
14:57Yeah, I mean, y'all married.
14:58That's y'all's establishment.
15:00I get that, but you want to bring it up.
15:02Chris runs around, and he do this for the daycare, and he do that for the daycare.
15:05He's running all the errands.
15:07Well, Chris is on my mother payroll.
15:10No, don't say your payroll.
15:12It's y'all's payroll.
15:13My payroll.
15:13It's my daycare, just like that was his bro.
15:17Hold on.
15:18Now, as a collective, we are married.
15:20We have things together.
15:21So you established that daycare alone, like, in the beginning of it?
15:25Let's make it clear.
15:27I did not establish it alone.
15:29My husband was there, but it is mine, 100%, on my own.
15:36My husband has been very supportive.
15:38He's even poured a lot of money into it.
15:42In the beginning as well?
15:43Yeah.
15:44Yes.
15:44Yeah.
15:45You know the answer to that, so he's just trying to get you to say it out loud to be
15:48able to...
15:48You know, so my thing is, I mean, we have conversations.
15:51I'm just going to discredit him.
15:51Yeah, 100%.
15:52Because he and I have conversations.
15:54I'm just asking to see if it's going to match up.
15:56No, he's...
15:57So you don't believe your brand?
15:57Of course I do.
15:58No, he saved my ass before.
16:01Oh, he saved you?
16:02Yeah.
16:03Did he complain about it?
16:04Yeah.
16:06I mean, well, I guess you got to complain a little bit so it won't try not to happen again.
16:09I think Martell has an antiquated view of what a relationship looks like between man and woman.
16:14I don't think Martell even knows that he's being sexist at times.
16:19I think that it's kind of like, I want to prove a point that I was...
16:22That Chris was there, but I'm really saying that I was there in my marriage, too.
16:25And so I think he goes off the deep end sometimes, and it's really just stuff that he needs to
16:32heal from, to be honest.
16:34Have y'all talked to Scott lately?
16:36Well, I know you told me you talked to...
16:40Tisha, you said y'all got into it about something.
16:42They been into it.
16:44They both showed their ass.
16:46I was...
16:47You showed your ass, too.
16:49Tisha kind of finna run at this.
16:51She what?
16:52You seen her commentaries you wrote with her.
16:54What's your...
16:55Kimmy had to stop her.
16:56Girl, please.
16:59I can't believe you brought my husband in this.
17:01I thought we was better than that.
17:02Hey, take her out.
17:03Are you cussing at me?
17:04Yes.
17:05That's Tisha.
17:06No, no, I'm serious.
17:07I'll tell you.
17:08I'll tell you.
17:09I'll tell you.
17:10Come on, let's go.
17:11No, I'm...
17:12No, yes, I will.
17:14Yeah, she was coming towards you.
17:15And I walked right back by her.
17:17She wanted to do something.
17:18She had the opportunity to do that.
17:19I didn't say we wasn't going to do nothing.
17:20I know that.
17:20I'm still Detroit Destiny.
17:22Don't get it twisted.
17:23You making a statement that her husband needs to take up for her?
17:26No.
17:27She keeps saying, you don't defend me.
17:28You don't defend me.
17:29You ain't no real friend.
17:29Mama.
17:30I said, the only person I see not defending you is your husband.
17:32You know how she feel about her husband.
17:34I know how I feel about me.
17:35You can't keep saying stuff to me, discrediting me, talking about me.
17:38I'm dating, and now I got this label that you're trying to put on me that you and your
17:41husband have been saying around.
17:43Oh, he been saying that too?
17:44Yes.
17:45She put in a whole, whole box.
17:47Shut up, Martell.
17:48I'm just saying.
17:49First of all, it seems that you are the start of all the commotion.
17:52The ?
17:54What?
17:54He was like, and then with Martell, you could have forewarned me what he was going to say
17:57when we had the Big D event and blah, blah, blah, blah, field day.
18:00The hell?
18:01I was like, I didn't know what the hell he was going to say.
18:03Right.
18:03The hell?
18:04You know she right?
18:06That wasn't Carmen.
18:09I didn't when my boys were gay.
18:12And that's what I was going to warn her about.
18:14I didn't know you was going to say that.
18:15I didn't even know I was going to say that.
18:17And you want me to have this whole blind allegiance and stupid loyalty when all of y'all are my
18:22friends.
18:22Like, I can't sit up here and say, oh, well, I'm going to be mad at Nell, and then she
18:26go and make up with you.
18:28Like I told her, I said, you made up with Nell, I didn't even know.
18:30And that's why you...
18:30What if I would have took that side, and then I'm sitting there, and we walk in the
18:33party, and I'm mad at Nell, and y'all done went out to brunch.
18:35And we the kumbaya.
18:37Now, I agree with you on that.
18:39It just teaches you not being an authentic friend.
18:42The thing moving forward, people need, if they're going to be a friend, they need to be a friend.
18:45If they're going to be a foe, they need to be a foe.
18:47Well, I did tell her, I said, you know, I do defend you in a room that you're not in,
18:51because I have told multiple people that you're not stupid.
18:55God damn, Desi.
18:57Don't be lying like that.
18:58I have told multiple people.
18:59You're doing it again.
19:01That's that.
19:02And what's...
19:03What am I doing?
19:04Hitting below the belt.
19:05No.
19:06That's below the belt.
19:06That's me really defending her.
19:08She's very accurate, because people do say she's a dodo back.
19:11I don't say all day.
19:12That's your words.
19:13But you don't think calling somebody a hoes below the belt, you don't think discrediting
19:16somebody as a businesswoman is below the belt?
19:19You don't think none of that's below the belt?
19:21It is.
19:22Like, me saying that don't hurt your business.
19:24Me saying that doesn't hurt your character, and you out here, she's married.
19:27I'm a single woman.
19:28Why would you try to put that label on me?
19:30And ain't nobody in this circle, anybody in Huntsville outside of the person I was married
19:35to can say they had me.
19:37Period.
19:38Well, is it fair to say, when you and Lance ain't done nothing?
19:42Lance ain't had nothing.
19:43I ain't seen my...
19:44Why you all...
19:45Then you go again, baby.
19:46My second wife.
19:47Watching Letitia and Destiny go back and forth, this is a hot-ass mess.
19:51I'm not gonna be in the middle.
19:52I'm gonna stay neutral.
19:54Love Destiny.
19:54I like Letitia.
19:56We're cordial.
19:57We've worked our stuff out.
19:59I think they just need to, you know, let it go.
20:02Just table it and be done with it.
20:05No friendship, because this is what a toxic relationship looks like.
20:09It's like, if it's not an apology and an acknowledgement of all the things that she's done, I'm cool.
20:16Are you gonna apologize first?
20:17I've already apologized way too many times for her feelings and how she felt, so the answer is no, like
20:22I said that night to her face.
20:23Stop playing with, stop playing with Destiny.
20:25Stop playing with Big V.
20:27Stand on that Destiny.
20:33Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville, let's address the elephant that is no longer in the room.
20:39There's some underlying issue.
20:41You're feeling some type of way about something.
20:44The last time you and Lance was over, I wanted to ask one or two other questions, because I feel
20:49like I'm gonna end up having to talk to Torrance as he's here tonight.
20:52Okay, were y'all dating?
20:54You and Torrance dating?
21:09And who you got flowers for?
21:10Got them for y'all.
21:11These are mine.
21:13Ashley, three and three, you can split them right down.
21:14I was gonna say, I made sure it was six, so Dad can have three, you can have three.
21:18Right.
21:20What are you going to do with them?
21:21I don't know. I like flowers. I figured you might like flowers.
21:24I am his flower.
21:26Clock it. I like that. I already used that.
21:29So today we're going to have a family gathering.
21:32There's so much going on, so much being said, so much rumors.
21:36You got Destiny dating Twan, allegedly.
21:42She also dated Lance, now Twan dating Kayla.
21:47I want to get to the bottom of what's going on with the family
21:51and see, you know, where everyone is at with this
21:55so I can, you know, have a little more peace within my heart.
22:00Hey!
22:01There's our late ass!
22:03Fashionably late.
22:05Fashionably late.
22:06Oh, cutie.
22:08Oh, how y'all doing?
22:09Fine!
22:11You look good.
22:12Looking good as hell.
22:15Does anybody else want something?
22:17That's too much.
22:18Be smooth.
22:19How are you going, boo?
22:20How many are you going to make?
22:21It's just for us, right?
22:22One, two, three, four.
22:24What?
22:29Why are you laughing?
22:30That's a messy laugh.
22:31I happen to say this now.
22:36Is it for Lance?
22:37That's all I need to know.
22:38It's his surprise.
22:39Well, I put it this way.
22:41Every time I turn around, you're a surprise with me, so...
22:44Surprise!
22:45Oh.
22:47I'm surprised at you.
22:49I never know what y'all going to do.
22:50I'll get y'all a place and eat.
22:53Baby, you going to bless this food?
22:54How are we going to do this today?
22:56All right, can't nobody else come.
22:57She talking about blessing the food.
22:58Exactly.
22:58Yeah, we're going to bless you all.
22:59Because I'm just trying to figure out who would come.
23:02What's all good.
23:05Hmm.
23:09Come on.
23:09That's me to know and for you to find out.
23:11You like to bring females to my house on a whim.
23:15So maybe I'd send advice people over on my whim.
23:19I just, you know, do what I want to do.
23:20It's your house.
23:20You can do what you want to.
23:21Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
23:25I got a car sign.
23:27If I need to leave, I will.
23:28Plenty of doors.
23:29Don't run.
23:31Spotlights run.
23:32Let's bless this food.
23:38Where are everybody at?
23:41Bless the hands that prepared this meal.
23:43We thank you for this fellowship.
23:44These and other words we pray in Jesus' name.
23:46Amen.
23:47Amen.
23:48Amen.
23:50Oh, we did.
23:52Oh, okay.
23:53What's up, bro?
23:54What's going on?
23:55Okay, there's one surprise.
23:57I see what's going on here.
23:59Hey, Twan.
24:00Guess what?
24:01It's depressing.
24:02No, that's my bad.
24:04Surprise.
24:05I'm doing good.
24:07What's up?
24:08I'm good.
24:10I'm just going to look at you.
24:11Wow.
24:12I don't want to.
24:13I don't want to.
24:14Okay.
24:18With Twan dating Kayla now, it's awkward for me because I look at him like,
24:24a son, but he's dating my daughter.
24:28It's just so complicated at the end of the day.
24:33I got it.
24:34I got it.
24:41Hey, hey, hey.
24:43What's up, sis?
24:43Hey, hey.
24:44How you doing, bro?
24:45You been playing the dressing like this?
24:45Is it a funeral?
24:46Well, you know.
24:46Is it a funeral?
24:47It's a funeral.
24:48I just came for one, by the way.
24:50I think I just heard somebody for it.
24:52I know.
24:52You fucking, man.
24:55That's just messy.
24:57Hey, y'all.
24:57This just got real sour.
24:59Oh, fucking deep pink.
25:01What up?
25:01What's up, man?
25:03How you doing?
25:04How you doing?
25:05You icy.
25:07What's up?
25:08What's up?
25:10You, uh, just missed the shot.
25:13I'm good on shots.
25:15Hey, hey.
25:16Who the hell did I just walk into?
25:19What the hell is this?
25:21Hey, hey.
25:22How you doing?
25:23Good.
25:24I see you made my macaroni.
25:44I see you made my macaroni.
25:55You can get unlimited meat, y'all.
25:57Let's get all the meat you want.
26:01Let's go get all the meat you want.
26:03It's interesting to see Tawon here because I've never really seen him at previous family gatherings.
26:07I am so confused and it seems like a moment.
26:12So why am I really here?
26:14What did I get invited to this lovely Fletcher family dinner for?
26:17I'm still a little baffled about the last time you and Lance was over with the rumor that was going
26:24on.
26:24So I wanted to ask one or two other questions because I feel like I'm going to end up having
26:29to talk to Tawon since he's here tonight.
26:31Were y'all dating?
26:32You and Tawon dating?
26:33Or went on a date?
26:35Or?
26:36I'm confused.
26:38I don't even understand how that is even relevant to the conversation.
26:43Kayla, it's my daughter.
26:44Mm-hmm.
26:45You being my friend, I'm wanting to know as a mother, like, whoa, hold up, let's pump some brakes.
26:52What is this?
26:53You got Destiny here and Kayla here.
26:55This don't look good.
26:56Right.
26:57You got a friend of the family.
26:58You got a godson of the family.
27:00And we got our own actual daughter.
27:02So we're trying to make sure there's no, I mean, for the lack of a better word, there ain't no
27:07overlap.
27:08Ain't no animosity, but what's the timeline?
27:12When's the last time you talked to Tawon?
27:14Last time I talked to Tawon was at lunch.
27:17A few weeks ago, I guess.
27:20We had a little brunch date.
27:22We talked about it.
27:22Just close out some stuff.
27:24Y'all went on a date?
27:25A date?
27:26A brunch date.
27:27Wow, I didn't know that.
27:28Why?
27:29No, no, I'm not finna date him if he's gonna date her.
27:34No, no, no, no, no.
27:35Let me speak for myself.
27:37Let's just go and clear this up right now.
27:39I date most of the people, no, as far as that goes, as far as destiny, no.
27:42But at the same time, yeah, we went on a date.
27:44And yeah, we grown.
27:45Yeah, we had to sit there and, you know, deal with that little situation and kind of nip the bud
27:49and that.
27:49Just like I would respect it if I see you out on a date for whatever reason, I'm not gonna
27:52question you.
27:53You know what I'm saying?
27:54If you decide to tell me, you tell me that.
27:55You're chillin'.
27:56You know what I mean?
27:57What?
27:58We just...
27:59We're hanging out.
28:00We're talking.
28:01We're chilling.
28:04My thing is, let's see what's really happening.
28:07Let's invite everybody over for dinner and we'll get to the bottom of it and see what's going on.
28:15So for me, Antoine is a grown man.
28:18He's not my man.
28:19We're not dating.
28:20I've said that.
28:21None of my business.
28:22Like, that man is a free man.
28:24Kayla's a grown woman.
28:25They do what they do.
28:27I am a bystander in what I thought was just a simple rumor.
28:32That has nothing really honestly to do with me.
28:34And I think, you know, you know I adore Kayla.
28:37She's a beautiful girl.
28:38And if they are, they are grown.
28:40That's just a conversation that they should be having with y'all.
28:42It got nothing to do with me.
28:45I don't know.
28:46I got a little bump.
28:48She bumped you?
28:49Mm-hmm.
28:49You know, I was making my plate and she just bumped me.
28:53And I was just like, I turned around and she looked back at me.
29:02A nice nasty bump?
29:03Yeah.
29:04The fact that she bumped you and leaving like that, that's kind of abrupt.
29:07Clearly, she feels different though to her and I ain't gonna lie.
29:09And I'm not saying that's not even your issue, dog.
29:10That's not your issue.
29:11But let's address the elephant that is no longer in the room.
29:14Mm.
29:15There's some underlying issue.
29:17She feeling some type of way about something.
29:19But you mean something.
29:20Like, ain't nobody dumb.
29:21If they went on a date and then now she's...
29:23It's probably just the fact that she probably didn't know and now she done heard the rumors.
29:26Yeah, you might feel some kind of way.
29:28You know, I think people confuse.
29:31Like, I told y'all, Twan is an attractive man.
29:35And we had great conversation, great chemistry.
29:39I think your presence is just, it like, it was a reminder to me that I can be, you know,
29:44in a sump place.
29:45I appreciate the ability to be myself.
29:49Likewise.
29:50For real.
29:51For real.
29:51I appreciate you.
29:52I really do.
29:53At the end of the day, chemistry doesn't mean relationship and, like, your person, your partner, your life partner.
29:59And it just wasn't that for me with him.
30:02So I don't have a problem with if this is what they have.
30:05Let them be.
30:07Parents came to me about what Twan and I have going on before I could even come to them.
30:12Or before we could come to them.
30:15So I was wondering who said something to them.
30:19I'm gonna be totally honest with you.
30:20There's always so much what I got going on, what Chris got going on, what Chris got going on, what
30:24I got going on, what Kiki got going on, what Kiki got going on.
30:26You know what I'm saying?
30:26It's like, damn.
30:27So I thought not to throw you out of the blank there, but just more so to ask.
30:31I don't know.
30:31People asking me.
30:32Mama asking me.
30:33I understand.
30:33But I know you made the comment, like, spotlight always on me and Chris, or always on me, me, me.
30:39Don't nobody ever know what Kayla got going on.
30:41So when they came to me, I was like, I guess somebody wanted to put the spotlight on me.
30:44Like, don't nobody ever know what Kayla got going on.
30:47That's for a reason.
30:48Right.
30:48We'll love to keep it that way.
30:50This conversation was great, ladies and gentlemen, but I got to go to work.
30:59What are we talking about?
31:01You?
31:03So awkward.
31:04Let me holler at you real quick before you leave.
31:13Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
31:16Sounds like y'all been on four, five, six dates.
31:19Hell, I feel blindsided.
31:20That's my daughter.
31:21That's my youngest daughter.
31:23I don't move like that.
31:25And this, this is not what this is going to be.
31:28If you got there, you didn't like it, you could have just automatically left if that's the way you feel.
31:38What's going on?
31:39I just wanted to, uh, you know, try to get a conversation with you.
31:44The rumors they'd be talking about going around and, you know, about you and my daughter, Kayla.
31:51Right.
31:52Last I knew, I thought you and Destiny had something going on.
31:55Because her and Lance kind of brought it to us, like, you know, there's a rumor going around.
32:00You know what I'm saying?
32:01I wasn't pleased to hear that from other people.
32:04Hell, I feel blindsided as her dad.
32:06Because it sounds like y'all been on four, five, six dates.
32:09Y'all been to play pool.
32:11Y'all been to the movies.
32:12Y'all been here.
32:12Y'all been there.
32:13Somewhere along the way, it's like, talk to me.
32:16Do you not think as a man, man to man, that you should have came to me?
32:21That's my daughter.
32:22That's my youngest daughter.
32:23You know what I'm saying?
32:23I wanted to, but at the same time, I didn't want to jump the gun or anything.
32:28And, you know, I just didn't understand how to really approach you about it.
32:32Because I don't want to say, hey, me and your daughter just having cats with dating times
32:37and hanging out.
32:38You know what I'm saying?
32:39What does we just chillin' trying to figure things out?
32:43What does that mean?
32:44Chillin' is probably the wrong thing.
32:45We vibe pretty good.
32:47Like I said, both being Aquarius, we got a lot of similarities.
32:51But we both still singing.
32:53Nothing exclusive.
32:56And I also don't want to hurt nobody no more.
32:58Asking Twan about, you know, my daughter and he possibly getting serious,
33:04his response was kind of off track for me.
33:09I don't think he has the right answers right now.
33:12You say one key thing that I like, and that's you don't want to hurt anyone.
33:19Because I definitely don't want you to hurt my daughter.
33:21I don't want to do it either.
33:22That's my baby.
33:23I don't know.
33:24You know, that's my baby.
33:26But that's something.
33:29Okay.
33:30Once we understand.
33:31Yeah.
33:32Appreciate it.
33:33No doubt, man.
33:34All right?
33:34Yeah.
33:38Hi, my beautiful people.
33:40What's up, Kayla?
33:41What they do, baby?
33:43I did want to ask you, why'd you bump into me?
33:48I just wanted to make sure, you know, we was good.
33:50I didn't think it was no problem with me, no.
33:53Bump into you?
33:55You had turned around and looked at me, and I turned around and looked at you.
33:59If I did it, it was like a hey bump.
34:02Well, no, no, we had already spoke to each other.
34:04We had already said, hey.
34:05I was fixing my food.
34:06And I was like, but then turned around and it was you.
34:10You kind of like spurted at me, and I just blew a kiss.
34:12Oh, I bumped you on the booty, and I said, hey, fine.
34:15Uh, no, that was when you first came in.
34:17Girl, I don't remember that at all.
34:18Don't you ever, ever, ever, ever think it's a problem with me and you.
34:22I'm about to get out of here, though.
34:24Nell, I love y'all.
34:25Y'all, yeah, because y'all got a lot of, I'm trying to get out, I'm trying to get out
34:28the hot seat because I got a date.
34:31I don't know what that's about.
34:32What, Kayla?
34:33First of all, I don't have a beef.
34:35Why would I start one?
34:36Like, it doesn't make any sense at all.
34:39What are we doing?
34:41Yeah, yeah, I'm out.
34:42It's time for me to go.
34:45How are you doing?
34:47Good.
34:48You all right?
34:49Mm-hmm.
34:50We did go on a wine trip, a girls' wine trip, and Destiny did say that they had great chemistry.
35:01Yeah, I'm going to tell you something.
35:04We shut the restaurant down.
35:07Like, didn't want to leave.
35:08Ooh.
35:09Yeah, I was not expecting that.
35:12And I don't think he was either.
35:14Ooh.
35:16Yeah.
35:17Scared the out of me.
35:20I want to say she was said that chemistry was, I said, like, you're Lance?
35:26She's like, yeah, like, 10 times better or something to that effect.
35:34And I was like, whoa.
35:36Okay, well, go for it.
35:38That's my godson.
35:40So, yeah, I wanted to know the timeline, but she really didn't want to talk about it.
35:44I get it.
35:46Did she just say she had a date?
35:48Mm-hmm.
35:49Is that Antoine a girl?
35:51You so messy.
35:53I just, I just, hey, if I got a question, I'm going to ask, right?
35:56Well, ask the question directly.
35:57He's going to work like he's here.
35:59Yeah, okay.
35:59I just, I just, again, I'm thinking.
36:01And again.
36:02Ladies.
36:03What?
36:03That's too, man.
36:04That is messy.
36:06You, like, you don't think enough of your sister?
36:08I, just.
36:09You said she going on a date, okay, and it's Antoine.
36:12No, see, again, it's not.
36:13Why don't you say that, though?
36:14It's a question, a concern.
36:15I mean it for you.
36:16I understand that.
36:18I've known Antoine for a long time.
36:20I introduced Antoine to the family, if everybody recall correctly.
36:24It's a different type of friendship now.
36:27So I got to look at it like that.
36:29I have to question those things.
37:04So Nell is invited.
37:06She invited me to lunch after her situation should reveal.
37:08I always have a soft spot for Ms. Nell.
37:10I know I probably shouldn't, but I do.
37:12So I'm here.
37:13So what's going on with you?
37:15Working, being a mommy, being a daughter.
37:17Still, you know, day-to-day stuff.
37:21And you?
37:22Same thing.
37:23Busy.
37:24I ain't heard of you since that, um, infamous family dinner.
37:28Well, if that's what you want to call a family dinner, that was not a family dinner.
37:31Yeah, because I didn't even eat.
37:33That was a family gathering, unfortunately.
37:35Yeah, I felt like I was being gathered at some moments of it or trying to be gathered.
37:40It was awkward for you, and it was awkward for me.
37:43And I wanted to know where me and you stand.
37:45It was weird.
37:46I just got to be honest with you.
37:47It was weird.
37:48I could tell it was weird for you.
37:49You, you, you wasn't your normal self as you would be in my home.
37:54I'm like, what?
37:55You know, Chris had his 21 questions.
37:57You had some too now, Kayla.
37:59I'm like, my sweet Kayla, what is going on?
38:02I bumped into you, Kayla.
38:03What are you talking about?
38:04Yeah, I'm like, I don't know.
38:06I said, I didn't see it.
38:07First of all, why would I go from loving and hugging on you and telling you how beautiful
38:10you are to bumping into you in a house full of your whole family?
38:13Like, what?
38:15I'm not sure.
38:16I'm not sure.
38:17I didn't see it.
38:19It didn't make any sense.
38:20I was shocked.
38:20I was shocked when I heard about it.
38:25So Kayla says Destiny bumped into her.
38:28Destiny says she did bump into Kayla.
38:30I'm going to have to say maybe Destiny did bump into Kayla, but it wasn't what Kayla thought
38:36it was.
38:36I just felt like I was there.
38:38Was I there for a dinner?
38:40It felt more like an interrogation and then like a situation should reveal.
38:44And it was like, see how Destiny going to react?
38:46What she think?
38:47And I'm like, this not my man.
38:48Like, I don't have a reaction to the situation and I really don't care.
38:54Swan, if he's dating Kayla or whatever they got going on, that ain't got nothing to do
38:58with me.
38:58And I felt like it's 10 on 2.
39:01I just feel like for everybody in this group, I have so much more consideration for them than
39:07they do for me.
39:08And it seems like it's a continuous thing.
39:13Destiny, I'm not going to do that.
39:15I didn't bring you there for no interrogation.
39:16I said what it felt like.
39:17I got to be honest about how I feel.
39:19And I got to be honest how I feel.
39:21That's just not who I am.
39:23I don't do like that just to be doing it.
39:30It's inconsiderate.
39:32It just is.
39:33I'm not going to keep repeating myself.
39:35I immediately said, look here.
39:37What are you talking about you're not going to keep repeating myself?
39:39Because I've said it two or three times while I'm sitting here.
39:41I didn't ask you to repeat yourself.
39:42I said it two or three times while I'm sitting here.
39:43But I didn't ask you to repeat yourself.
39:44No, you didn't.
39:44But I'm going to say it one more time so we're clear.
39:46I'm clear.
39:47You already said it.
39:48I clearly said.
39:49I didn't bring you there for no interrogation.
39:50I said what it felt like.
39:51Because I don't move like that.
39:54And this is not what this is going to be.
39:58You got there.
39:59You didn't like it.
40:00You could have just automatically left if that's the way you felt.
40:15Next on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
40:17Did you get into it with destiny is my question.
40:22Destiny and I did a strange words at the party.
40:25She's trying to hit below the belt to get me out of character.
40:27And I'm like, okay.
40:29Used to get you out of character?
40:31Yeah, crazy.
40:32This is not how we do things.
40:35We don't do this.
40:36I've been saying this from the very beginning.
40:39Tisha asked, was we, was we, would we spin the block again?
40:44Of course, I was in the hot seat.
40:45You weren't in the hot seat?
40:46I mean, yes, I was.
40:47For the relationship.
40:48We were talking about our relationship, what was going on in our relationship,
40:50going back and forth again.
40:51We took a break, both of y'all spent the block, and then y'all came back together.
40:56Tricia's event.
40:57What she told us was that during this break, I guess, that her and Ken were in,
41:05that she had spun the block.
41:07She was excited.
41:09Oh my God, are you kidding me?
41:10She was like, uh-huh, uh, yeah.
41:13This is unbelievable.
41:14When y'all had a conversation outside of us, was he mad when you told him about spinning
41:20the block?
41:20Well, it was a little angry in there, yeah.
41:21First of all...
41:22Well, I didn't mean it, sexual.
41:24What?
41:24Let's go!
41:25Let's go!
41:26I'm from it!
41:26Yeah!
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