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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 07: Brace for Impact
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breathe, yo, what's up, would?
00:00:12She really like my girl, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one-woman type of guy.
00:00:30Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child.
00:00:50I'm still sick.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged,
00:00:54and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything,
00:00:58and he doesn't want me,
00:00:59and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me.
00:01:05He's trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend
00:01:17because I know he has a lot of money,
00:01:18and I'm not in a position to be sport hunter like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval
00:01:33to marry her,
00:01:34so now I have to go and get their approval
00:01:37while I have to tell them
00:01:38that their days are basically numbered
00:01:40with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:43First, it's your career.
00:01:47I'm going to have to tell my parents
00:01:49the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders is quite hard,
00:01:56so I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:03With my jobless situation and my debts,
00:02:07I am just broke.
00:02:09Did you say your debts?
00:02:10Yeah.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:15That's a lot of money.
00:02:18I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:22I'm worried if she finds out
00:02:24how I make money sometimes.
00:02:27She could leave me.
00:02:54That's so beautiful.
00:03:06You have
00:03:07the
00:03:10nicest ass
00:03:11I have ever seen.
00:03:15I'm blushing.
00:03:19And you know,
00:03:20I always thought your dimples
00:03:21were my favorite thing,
00:03:22but you know what my favorite thing is now?
00:03:26You're not going to...
00:03:27Your belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an Audi.
00:03:33It's not an innie.
00:03:34It's so cute.
00:03:37I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel,
00:03:42and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:44I'm engaged.
00:03:46Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:48I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:50All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:52He's everything I could have dreamed about,
00:03:55except he doesn't have booze.
00:03:59We have to talk about last night.
00:04:02It was awful.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:08Why?
00:04:10Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:16Last night was uncomfortable,
00:04:20and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:27And I don't think he was full-on.
00:04:31And I had so much anticipation.
00:04:33I was very.
00:04:35So it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:38Even though we had sex,
00:04:39it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:42So it just deflated me.
00:04:44I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:46Maybe I am, you know,
00:04:48not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:51I was really questioning myself.
00:04:55I was stressed last night because of all, you know?
00:04:58But it was really awkward for me
00:04:59because it's been so long
00:05:01since I've been intimate like that.
00:05:04And then you didn't finish.
00:05:07And then it went.
00:05:11I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:13I'm in favor.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed,
00:05:19he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:21So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night,
00:05:27preparing, getting ready to go and wake up with you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:33It was a trial run.
00:05:34We have a test.
00:05:36It was a test run.
00:05:38Tested it.
00:05:39It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:40Yeah.
00:05:41I'm sorry for the first time.
00:05:43But I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:46You did.
00:05:47Yeah.
00:05:51But you want me to be honest?
00:05:53You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little painful at first.
00:06:01Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:04At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:08And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable.
00:06:12And I seem to have stretched to fit you just perfectly.
00:06:15And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:20I'm so happy.
00:06:21I'm so happy.
00:06:26I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:28And I love you so much.
00:06:30I love you more.
00:06:32And I'm so happy trying to be here.
00:06:36Now that Daniel and I have been physical and I'm engaged to him,
00:06:42I'm even more concerned how he's going to handle what I have to tell him
00:06:45about being still married and it's a woman
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:53I'm already 100% into this relationship physically and emotionally.
00:06:58And it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle
00:07:00if he can't accept my past.
00:07:05You keep saying things like that.
00:07:07We're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:37Let's go ride on a trip.
00:07:40Oh, my goodness.
00:07:41Oh, my God.
00:07:43Oh, Lord.
00:07:44Oh, my God.
00:07:45Give me strength.
00:07:46This is worse than the bust.
00:07:49Sheen and I getting into this tricycle
00:07:52is like what a sardine feels like, being inside of a can.
00:07:56I would never do this with anybody else but you, Sheen.
00:08:01That's pretty great.
00:08:02I get to, you know, get up nice and close.
00:08:04But she's also crushing me to death.
00:08:06I love those.
00:08:11I wish they give us a nice, you know, extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:23I'm afraid I'm going to fall off and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:27Today, I'm going to meet Sheen's family for the first time
00:08:30in a province called Cavite.
00:08:33We're almost there, though.
00:08:34We'll just have to get along.
00:08:35I'm so nervous, baby.
00:08:38Oh, man.
00:08:40Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago,
00:08:42her family has been, like, these ominous figures.
00:08:46She's told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially.
00:08:56I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that Sheena
00:09:01is going to completely cut them off financially.
00:09:04But now it's turned into something completely and totally different than what I envisioned.
00:09:09You didn't tell me that there was going to be a mountain treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:14No.
00:09:15Oh, man.
00:09:17First, she told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:09:21And then she said that they're going to ask me about my career and how I make money.
00:09:26Well, the truth is, I don't have a job.
00:09:28I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:30I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:34Baby, we can do this.
00:09:36Just be careful, babe.
00:09:38So, at this point, I'm concerned that I won't be able to get the blessing for Sheena's family
00:09:43that I apparently need.
00:09:47Oh, my gosh.
00:09:48Is that them?
00:09:49Yes, my love.
00:09:51Oh, my goodness.
00:10:00You must be Forrest.
00:10:01Forrest?
00:10:02Yeah, I'm Forrest.
00:10:03Wow.
00:10:08Hello, sir.
00:10:09Nice to meet you.
00:10:09It's finally nice to meet you after so long.
00:10:12Nice to meet you, too.
00:10:14Hello.
00:10:15Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:17This is my dad.
00:10:17He said it's Katrina, so.
00:10:21Yep.
00:10:22She's just a little bit shy.
00:10:23This is my dad's version, though.
00:10:26It's okay.
00:10:27I'm a little shy myself here.
00:10:29I hope you enjoy your stay here.
00:10:33No, I'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here and I'm finally getting to meet you.
00:10:42Oh, man.
00:10:43Oh.
00:10:45Sheena told me that her mom is sick, so I won't be meeting her, but her dad and sister seem
00:10:49nice enough.
00:10:50A bit quiet, which I guess is kind of normal, but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:57You want to take a break from traveling?
00:11:00Yeah, sure.
00:11:00To do that, can you show them?
00:11:02Yeah.
00:11:03Follow me.
00:11:03You want to check the gardens?
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:08So this is a place.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:14There's small improvements over the years.
00:11:18Wow.
00:11:20Yeah.
00:11:22Yeah, this is the place where we have our group meals for guests.
00:11:27Boy.
00:11:28Okay, cool.
00:11:31Wow.
00:11:32Sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home.
00:11:35And I've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof.
00:11:39Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:41Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:42That's why they're stealing all this money from me.
00:11:44But it turns out that this is a nice, fancy place.
00:11:47Okay, welcome to our house.
00:11:50Oh, wow.
00:11:52I think you're going to be on the second master's bedroom.
00:11:55This place is huge.
00:11:57Wow.
00:12:00So Gary was under the impression that her family might be desolute or they are going to starve without her.
00:12:08It doesn't add up.
00:12:12Okay, come on, come on.
00:12:13It's cool.
00:12:14Thank you very much.
00:12:15And we have dinner.
00:12:16Yeah.
00:12:16Yeah, all right.
00:12:17Enjoy and relax.
00:12:19Yeah, all right.
00:12:20Thank you, guys.
00:12:27My mind's just confused.
00:12:29I don't understand.
00:12:31So, you like the place?
00:12:33Yeah.
00:12:34It was way worth the getting crushed in the bus.
00:12:37Yeah.
00:12:38Your dad seems like a really awesome guy.
00:12:43Yeah.
00:12:44They're great people.
00:12:47Okay.
00:12:47Well, I think I want to clean up my face real quick.
00:12:50Yeah, sure.
00:12:50Okay.
00:12:51Take your time.
00:12:51I'm going to head in the bathroom real quick.
00:12:52Yeah, go great.
00:12:53Go very quick.
00:12:56Do you think Forrest was expecting something different from what he's seeing at your family's house?
00:13:02Mm-hmm.
00:13:04Yes.
00:13:05Which is probably my fault.
00:13:07Test for the water if it's good.
00:13:09Wash your face around.
00:13:11Wash your hands.
00:13:12Yeah.
00:13:13I'm not going to be honest.
00:13:17I'm not going to be honest.
00:13:18And I'm worried about what is going to be said.
00:13:22What Forrest could say, what my family could say.
00:13:27I'm worried that everything could fall apart.
00:13:37Do you think I'm going to marry you for your money?
00:13:42That's what everybody else thought.
00:13:45I thought he was that man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:13:52the beginning.
00:13:53And now I don't know.
00:13:54The debt is a big deal.
00:13:58You excited about my show tonight?
00:14:01Yeah, I am.
00:14:02What songs are you singing at your show?
00:14:04Mariana, Vicky.
00:14:08So who is Vicky?
00:14:28You can't tell me that's not beautiful.
00:14:30You have, like, the second most active by the recent work.
00:14:32Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:14:33I'm so grateful that I live here.
00:14:34It's so pretty.
00:14:36Do you want to jump in?
00:14:37Okay.
00:14:38Come on!
00:14:38Now you know I can't swim.
00:14:39Don't play with me.
00:14:51you know what you need right coconut water we're good for your brains are good for your soul so
00:14:58that sounds good wash off that what energy this is aviva's second full day in belize and we're
00:15:08here in beautiful san pedro because i'm gonna perform tonight yesterday aviva was accusing
00:15:14me of not being over my ex from texas but in the hotel last night i do believe that i
00:15:20was able to
00:15:21calm her down i'm old are you gonna be so fine and watch her huh stop stressing i'm trying
00:15:33thank you we had sex three times no protection again we're risking it all we're just going with
00:15:42the flow how is it it's good you have this in the states in arizona no not like this
00:15:50oh you're excited about my show tonight yeah i am what songs are you singing at your show
00:16:13i am trying to have this romantic beach moment with stig but he mentions the song vicky and i can't
00:16:22help
00:16:22but think of when my aunt spring brought up that rumor to me they actually just did a big concert
00:16:28like for valentine's day the first song that was performed was vicky and she was at the concert
00:16:36and they laughed together so who is who is vicky
00:16:46the concept of vicky is a girl is a girl i was messing with who had a man and the
00:16:53man wasn't
00:16:53treating her good she was married and i was the little bartender showing her love you know i mean on
00:17:00the other side so is it someone you still talk to is it someone that you no no no no
00:17:07no no have a
00:17:07past with i had a past with you that's years ago so my aunt spring um she knows a lot
00:17:15of people here
00:17:16i've heard a lot of rumors that vicky went to the your last show with you and you left the
00:17:23show with her
00:17:24and i just i'm confused and i'm just hoping that you can clear some things up with me
00:17:36aviva's aunt spring i never met her i only heard about aunt spring but apparently she knows me better
00:17:41than i know myself she the secret service i don't nothing to hide at the concert i was there with
00:17:50the
00:17:50bros trying to make a good set you know trying to make sure to share members but did you go
00:17:56home
00:17:57with her no i did not didn't go home with any girl
00:18:02you don't believe me apparently there was some article or you were tagged in something or she was
00:18:08tagged in something um of you guys going home together so i'm not really sure how i'm supposed to
00:18:13believe you police isn't the fake news don't let get to your head
00:18:22i'm definitely gonna do my best to not be in my head about it but you're apparently gonna sing it
00:18:28tonight how do i know she's not gonna be that's one of my biggest songs i believe i can't not
00:18:33sing
00:18:33that yeah you don't want me to sing the song my biggest one of my biggest songs yeah come on
00:18:42don't do that
00:18:46all of my exes they start off saying i'm not gonna be jealous i got you
00:18:53but i thought aviva was gonna be different and now i am worried how she's gonna react when i perform
00:18:59vicky when i do perform it tonight could the whole thing up i don't want that
00:19:08if tonight is a problem that's gonna throw me off i don't you know i don't know if i can
00:19:12deal with
00:19:13that that's not what i signed up for
00:19:18i mean i'll do my best but i just would feel more comfortable if you didn't perform vicky
00:19:36i had a lot of people before i came here say that you would only want to be with me
00:19:43because you
00:19:44would want a green card and money and hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true
00:20:01do you think like i'm gonna marry you for your money
00:20:09that's what everybody else thought did you think that well i don't know right now i'm literally
00:20:16just hearing about most of this for the first time beer con just told me that he's 50k in debt
00:20:23and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt and just ignore it i'm frustrated and incredibly
00:20:30concerned because it's making me feel like he's just straight up using me to get out of his debt
00:20:40you know that's not who i am i'm sure if i was someone like that i would have lied i
00:20:49would have
00:20:50never told you about my debt you know i i know that but i want to make sure that i'm
00:21:00making a smart
00:21:01decision when it comes to future plans like getting engaged i just gotta hustle because money is money you
00:21:10know
00:21:13you know what i'm ready to go okay let's go let's go
00:21:38i'm pretty frustrated he told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning the debt is a big
00:21:45deal to me because he's talked about nothing but like honesty and pride and respect and it's really
00:21:51hard to respect someone that's not outright and straightforward with the truth
00:21:56i thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:22:04the beginning
00:22:05and now i don't know
00:22:10what are you doing washing the dishes
00:22:19why are you upset i told you why i'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did
00:22:25why are you mad don't be cute that doesn't fix this you think i'm cute i'm not going to answer
00:22:34that
00:22:34right now you gotta ask no you gotta ask i do not have to answer you think why are you
00:22:49making a couple kisses will win me over you think doesn't oh i'm still feeling nervous about what his
00:23:00intentions are but this is probably all of the fantasies i had had kind of rolled into one in that
00:23:07moment having a hot turkish guy push you up against the wall and make out with you
00:23:12i don't know what it is i just can't resist him you're adorable i know that's why you love me
00:23:36i don't know why he acts this way it's like he assumes the worst i'm already doing things for you
00:23:46so why are you asking for more is that is that what you want me for
00:24:05get out of here
00:24:09baby they didn't give me any questions this morning so you're new kid
00:24:15uh uh watch out
00:24:19okay
00:24:22you ready yeah i'm ready okay let's go
00:24:31i'm so tired wow because we were packing all night that's why
00:24:43yesterday was tough but after we had argument about my ex we went back to the hotel and we did
00:24:51makeup
00:24:52about sex it was really good i love sex after argument oh yeah
00:25:09i know that we still have trust issue to work for but today we are going to romantic trip that
00:25:18rick
00:25:18booked for us in noosey bay first flight together baby noosey bay is a really beautiful island they do have
00:25:28lumers and a beautiful beach if you have someone to spend time together romantic go there
00:25:45look how beautiful look how beautiful i'm riding
00:25:48yeah
00:26:10We are here.
00:26:12Oh, very hot out there.
00:26:14Haha, it's really hot.
00:26:15Woo!
00:26:20Woo, it's nice and cool.
00:26:22Woo!
00:26:23Finally.
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28I'm hot.
00:26:29Oh, my God, baby, are you serious?
00:26:33Okay, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:40Woo!
00:26:43Hey, look, look.
00:26:46Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:26:52Here we go.
00:26:54We'll see.
00:26:57I know you got an expensive taste.
00:27:00You're so cheap.
00:27:04Tastes good.
00:27:06It's cheap.
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08It's bougie chick.
00:27:11You serious?
00:27:13Yeah, I'm serious.
00:27:16Oh, my God.
00:27:17Oh, my God.
00:27:18Oh, my God.
00:27:18Oh, my God.
00:27:18Oh, my God.
00:27:18Oh, my God.
00:27:18Oh, my God.
00:27:19There ain't nobody sugar daddy.
00:27:22There ain't nobody sugar daddy.
00:27:27Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:32i don't know why he called me like that like you are boozy agora trisha i'm not looking for
00:27:39a sugar daddy and i'm not a sugar baby i got my own money i don't know why he act
00:27:47this way
00:27:47i'm just asking for one thing and it's like he assumes the worst it makes me really angry and
00:27:56hard i will never ask you for anything
00:28:08oh it's a nice room
00:28:13see what i set up for you
00:28:17i don't care you don't care of course because the roses aren't made of gold huh
00:28:30so what what are we here to do huh i thought we were here to you know have a good
00:28:37time yeah but
00:28:37your answer in the car seems like i don't know well what are you talking about you were the one
00:28:45that brought up buying you things yeah but i'm just asking for a little things you just say
00:28:50oh you act like a bougie oh you act like uh i'm not uh somebody's sugar daddy did i say
00:28:57that
00:28:57you didn't say it but you were acting like a sugar baby
00:29:05i'm already doing things for you and i pay your rent yeah you did pay my rent
00:29:11so why are you asking for more is that is that what you want me for
00:29:17it's not what i want you for but i'm just asking for a little things it's not that much
00:29:25i'm gonna get you what you need but i'm not always gonna get you what you want
00:29:35so make it easy keep your money see this type of attitude i could have found this in the in
00:29:42the
00:29:42states i didn't have to come all the way to madagascar to get this because i thought you
00:29:47were different so i thought also you were different
00:29:55what'd you think i was like your ex-boyfriend because that i'm not
00:30:03i didn't expect something like this i'm not with him because of money i'm just with him for love but
00:30:12i
00:30:12don't know why he think the opposite
00:30:17it's crazy i don't even
00:30:24what were you expecting from me you know what i do
00:30:31so what were you expecting what were you expecting
00:30:36what i mean what what what happened to to just loving me for me that's what you were saying in
00:30:54the
00:30:54beginning what happened to that
00:31:04oh i don't know if i'm buying i just want to look at them hello hi chick chick chick chick
00:31:10chick chick
00:31:10i'm not gonna kill a chicken you don't kill a chicken i had chickens they were my pets
00:31:15they had a little vcr and a tv to watch your chicken watch tv yes oh my god
00:31:25sheena's family they seemed pretty laid back normal caring people what were you expecting when you go
00:31:34here oh this is going to be mind shattering here well i was expecting that um i might be walking
00:31:43into a scam
00:32:07i'm getting used to you opening my door you're you're such a gentleman you treat me like a queen
00:32:22so that is a taxi
00:32:30so that is a taxi
00:32:33and that means what it's taxing oh
00:32:40is this where we're going the market i have always wanted to go to a market i can't wait to
00:32:47get
00:32:47out and see everything
00:32:52this is my first time out of the country this is nothing like the farmers markets that i have been
00:33:00to
00:33:09it kind of reminds me of a flea market but a flea market with food and it's little tiny stalls
00:33:17right
00:33:17on top of each other you can buy anything and everything there are live poultry there is dried fish
00:33:25smoked fish hello there are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market it looks so beautiful
00:33:35oh i don't know if i'm buying i just want to look at them oh my goodness
00:33:42oh be careful like this hello hi chick chick chick chick chick chick she handed me the chicken as
00:33:50if i was going to eat the chicken okay no i'm not going to kill a chicken you don't kill
00:33:55a chicken
00:33:55i had chickens they were my pets my chickens were spoiled they had a little vcr and a tv to
00:34:02watch
00:34:03your chicken watch tv yes really
00:34:09oh my god
00:34:12bye thank you okay let's go okay i have to take you to the stars i love fabric
00:34:24hello good afternoon good afternoon they're beautiful thank you you're welcome i would like
00:34:29you to check the one that will fit you because you know my uncle came yesterday to wake home you
00:34:34he was there you saw him
00:34:43smart we have to pay him a visit why yeah because you know my uncle have to approve you know
00:34:50he doesn't
00:34:51know you that much so he'll ask you some questions i i'm confused what has he not given us approval
00:34:59for
00:35:00he was very happy at the engagement yes but he have not given us the blessing to marry
00:35:08the blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important
00:35:12in my culture you get blessing from your parents but my dad is not well
00:35:17it's my uncle i have to call my father and report back but i thought everything was said and done
00:35:22i thought we were ready to start planning a wedding i didn't realize there was going to be more to
00:35:26it that's just a proposal in america you have to get blessings before you give the ring um this is
00:35:32nigeria i know we have different cultures we have different way of life you didn't warn me about that
00:35:40you have to see you dressing um our traditional attire maybe um one of the wrapper here
00:35:48this one here this one
00:35:50you know my uncle lover he likes good things it's nice colorful yes this is the head tie you have
00:36:00to tie
00:36:00this one on your head okay yeah it's on the head i i'm confused okay so it gets wrapped around
00:36:15yeah
00:36:18and then it gets tired yeah just giving you the the feel on how to tie it i can't hear
00:36:25you it's very loud
00:36:27cold oh my gosh how am i gonna do this i have no clue how this wrapping thing works i
00:36:36have to do
00:36:37this myself when i meet his uncle and there's no way i'm gonna remember how to do everything
00:36:42i don't want to look like a fool i don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle very
00:36:48easy very easy
00:36:50yeah it's nice what should i expect like how how would this be wrapped we have to cut it okay
00:37:03yeah we
00:37:04have to give it to a teller oh yes i can cut but i don't know because we are we
00:37:10are a bit fat
00:37:32i'm feeling awful and i'm kind of taken aback i have to meet his uncle and i have to wrap
00:37:38myself up in
00:37:39two layers of this wrap this big headdress and i'm gonna look fat okay measure up please
00:37:51i have to try to impress his uncle but what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing
00:37:58what kind of questions are going to be asked i'm worried that i may have to reveal things that i'm
00:38:04not
00:38:04ready to reveal this whole thing could be a disaster for me so i'm i'm scared thank you you're welcome
00:38:18what is
00:38:26i'm trying to be supportive but he's dancing and flirting with
00:38:30some random girl on stage right in front of me
00:38:36what the is aviva doing
00:38:49what the is aviva do you see i'm outside in san pedro on the main street walking holding hands
00:38:57i have to let the whole world know about my baby you can't question my love for you or anything
00:39:02at this
00:39:03point
00:39:12how are you feeling we good i'm nervous
00:39:15don't be overthinking enjoy the show enjoy the entertainment okay i'm an entertainer all right
00:39:22all right we're good yes all right i'm a little frustrated with aviva still for not wanting me to
00:39:30perform my hit song but listen i'm still gonna go and peace stick the artist and hype this place up
00:39:35i don't want anything to throw me off my game ready so am i ready ready i have to say
00:39:42it like me no you
00:39:43can't say it ready you guys get ready ready
00:39:45uh-huh come on
00:39:56that's good brother
00:39:59trouble man
00:40:08welcome to all the party people tonight
00:40:16i'm super super excited to see stig performing for the first time but i feel super nervous
00:40:27i still have my suspicions to what stig's manager and antspring had to say about stig and other women
00:40:35i know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him at his shows i don't know what to
00:40:42expect
00:40:47anybody from belize
00:41:05i know you think that i'm a bad guy
00:41:08this is what i'm gonna say i'm gonna marry your daughter
00:41:11i'm gonna have your blessings that would be amazing
00:41:16i know you think that i'm a bad guy and i'm gonna break her heart
00:41:48i'm trying to enjoy myself
00:41:50and i'm trying to be supportive but he started playing vicky after i asked him not to
00:42:02not only that but he's dancing with some other random girl
00:42:07and flirting with her on stage right in front of me
00:42:15it's just really hard to watch and it's making me feel pretty insecure
00:42:35what's
00:42:36You're too pretty.
00:42:39Well sticky, hold up him now, have no pity.
00:42:42Watch out.
00:42:43You know that you're pretty.
00:42:44You're brown skin, but you're here, no pity.
00:42:49What the is Aviva doing?
00:42:54I'm seeing a sea of people partying,
00:42:57having the time of their lives.
00:43:00And Aviva head down in her phone while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife,
00:43:09much less my girlfriend right now.
00:43:10Like, come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on release.
00:43:19Yeah.
00:43:21You alone, you alone, you alone, you alone, yeah.
00:43:26They want to give you love to the phone, baby,
00:43:29just you alone, yeah.
00:43:31Ooh, it feels all right.
00:43:33Do the things your best.
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:40Yo, six for us.
00:43:41Yeah, yeah.
00:43:43One, two, three, four, five.
00:43:46I forgot.
00:43:48All of these times I forgot.
00:43:51You're distracting me.
00:43:53I am so pissed.
00:43:56I can't even think straight right now.
00:44:05Make it round.
00:44:06Make the fufu to be round.
00:44:08How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:10Are you asking me?
00:44:11Yeah.
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:14Call it very well.
00:44:15No.
00:44:16My uncle.
00:44:16No.
00:44:17Stop raising your voice on me.
00:44:19Call it again.
00:44:21He's pushing me really hard, and I'm getting angry.
00:44:24What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:26Can you stand up and walk?
00:44:27Let me see.
00:44:28You want to see me walk?
00:44:29Yes.
00:44:30Are you walking now, man?
00:44:31Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back.
00:44:33Come back.
00:44:54I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:44:58You angry?
00:45:00I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:45:04Don't you know I got not fair to lose?
00:45:07I got something to prove.
00:45:10Ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:45:13No, no.
00:45:14You're not fat, baby.
00:45:15Come on.
00:45:17And I'm stressed.
00:45:20No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:21That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:26Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:29I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:31I tried to quit, and I couldn't.
00:45:33And I, ah, I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:38It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:49I, I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:52He doesn't want me to vape.
00:45:54And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:58But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle for the blessing.
00:46:03And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:46:07So I'm stressing out.
00:46:09And I want my vape.
00:46:16You surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:19How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:23I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:25I'm from Igbo land, so we have to learn.
00:46:29Igbo people, we have tradition.
00:46:32And if Lisa wants to marry me, she have to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed okay for this?
00:46:41Yeah, you look good.
00:46:42You look good.
00:46:43Come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture.
00:46:47To impress my uncle.
00:46:50Oh.
00:46:51Oh, thank you.
00:46:53That may be the one.
00:46:55There's a traditional way of blessing par wine, okay?
00:46:57Okay.
00:46:58You have to shake it.
00:47:00After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, okay?
00:47:03The ground must test it first.
00:47:06Then pick it up again.
00:47:08Mm-hmm.
00:47:09Woman blessing par wine is a taboo.
00:47:12It's not good.
00:47:14Can I drink it?
00:47:16Yes, you can test it.
00:47:17Okay, but it's very strong.
00:47:19It's very strong.
00:47:20Okay, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:31Yes, sir.
00:47:32It's cassava.
00:47:33Did you pound it?
00:47:34Did you pound it?
00:47:35Oh, okay, pounded one, okay.
00:47:41Okay.
00:47:44You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:50It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:54I learned you flatten it.
00:47:56I learned you dip it.
00:47:57So I'm prepared and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:01Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:07Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:18You just swallowed it.
00:48:19Boil it again.
00:48:23All right.
00:48:24Dip your hand.
00:48:28Make it round.
00:48:29Make the fufu to be round.
00:48:30How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:32Are you asking me?
00:48:34Yes.
00:48:41This is really good.
00:48:42This is oha soup.
00:48:44I can just eat that.
00:48:45Good.
00:48:46I need a spoon.
00:48:47Use your hand to eat soup.
00:48:48I'm not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:50Use your hand.
00:48:51Dip your hand inside the soup and take...
00:48:54Look, baby.
00:49:00I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me.
00:49:03But I didn't think he'd be so forceful about it.
00:49:06I am in the nursing field and I work in caregiving.
00:49:11I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:15It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:17It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup, scoop it up, suck your fingers and lick them dry.
00:49:25That's not.
00:49:26That's just nasty.
00:49:28I think he's being very rude.
00:49:33No.
00:49:36Can you taste it?
00:49:40Test.
00:49:41Go on.
00:49:41Go on.
00:49:42Test.
00:49:48I did.
00:49:49I tasted it.
00:49:56Do you know what we call it in our dialect?
00:49:58No.
00:49:59My uncle.
00:50:00My uncle.
00:50:01Eh?
00:50:01I can't say that.
00:50:02What does it mean?
00:50:03My uncle.
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10You drink it.
00:50:11You respect it.
00:50:12No.
00:50:14Stop raising your voice at me.
00:50:17Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey.
00:50:20Don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Eh?
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:25I'm done talking to you.
00:50:27I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:30What is that?
00:50:32I thought you're drunk.
00:50:33I took one sip.
00:50:34It doesn't matter.
00:50:35Just a drunk can make you change the system.
00:50:39No, I'm not.
00:50:39You're the one who's changing.
00:50:40Look at you.
00:50:41Put it down and talk nicely.
00:50:44This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:47I understand that he's pushing me really hard
00:50:50to do things a proper etiquette way.
00:50:53But he's being rude to me.
00:50:55What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:57Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:59Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking normal?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:04You're walking normal.
00:51:05Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09Come back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:22For the last seven years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:51:26But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31I don't recall that.
00:51:32What's your job?
00:51:35The importance, you have pants, you know, to help her.
00:51:41Letting forest.
00:52:04You ready to go?
00:52:06Yeah.
00:52:07It's already late.
00:52:08I think the boat is waiting for us.
00:52:19I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:22We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:25Last night was really rough.
00:52:27We got in this big argument.
00:52:31I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me
00:52:36to buy her stuff.
00:52:37I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:52:43So eventually we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:52:49Oh, my God.
00:52:51But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:53:03Wow, baby.
00:53:12So beautiful.
00:53:14Today we took a boat to an island called Nosy Oranja.
00:53:18This place looks like paradise.
00:53:20I see crystal blue waters, a sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:29It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time.
00:53:34And we sat, you know, take some strolls along the beach.
00:53:41I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:45Thank you so much.
00:53:49Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52Oh, I know.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No.
00:53:56We haven't learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Oh, man.
00:54:02That's cool.
00:54:03Then we can walk.
00:54:03Oh, what?
00:54:05It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:54:10You got like a nest up there.
00:54:11No.
00:54:12You can do it.
00:54:14All right.
00:54:14Here we go.
00:54:15Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife.
00:54:22And I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:27She has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah.
00:54:35I'm doing it.
00:54:36Let me see.
00:54:38But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:54:44a future.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:51Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53It's beautiful.
00:54:55Mm-hmm.
00:54:56I'm so glad that we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yeah.
00:55:01Yeah.
00:55:02I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:13I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich, so I'm not asking a lot.
00:55:28I think when you were asking me for things, then that, you know, kind of triggered some things that I've
00:55:36gone through in the past.
00:55:38What's your name?
00:55:40Just past relationships, and I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want to
00:55:50be with me anymore.
00:55:52I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:04I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Chini, for seven years.
00:56:09Chini is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:15I think Chini had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide, and it caused a lot of issues between
00:56:23us.
00:56:24That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:31You run with that money.
00:56:34I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything.
00:56:38But I just want to make sure if you buy all my needs.
00:56:43That's it. That's what I'm asking.
00:56:47You know when you bring me to the country, I have to let everything in here.
00:56:54My life, my job.
00:56:57Yes, I know that.
00:56:58Yeah, so I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:05That's the promise that I'm making to you.
00:57:07A promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:57:15But everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:57:20My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:57:25With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you give me a picture, I love that.
00:57:38You think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:40Yeah, yes you are. You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:48And I love you. That's why I want a relationship for you.
00:57:53This is what I want too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:01Yeah, I want to get you the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:06I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:13That's what I need to feel.
00:58:15Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:23I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:28But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place.
00:58:40But everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:44I really don't know how to tell her.
00:58:46But eventually it needs to come out.
00:58:54Do you love me?
00:58:55Of course, baby.
00:59:12The fruit is ready.
00:59:16Ah, just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:59:19Just in time. Perfect.
00:59:20Yeah, thanks.
00:59:21Good stuff.
00:59:22I hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:25Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:31That sounds awesome.
00:59:34Dinner is served.
00:59:45Yeah.
00:59:46See how it works in America or in my culture?
00:59:49We normally start with the oldest and we go down the line.
00:59:52Okay.
00:59:52We do it first.
00:59:53Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:59:55Oh, I am the biggest.
00:59:56We go by size here.
00:59:59Okay.
01:00:01I just met Sheena's family and so far they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
01:00:07For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating her awfully.
01:00:13And now I'm hearing that they are decent people.
01:00:17I feel confused, but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then go
01:00:27from there.
01:00:30So, how's your travel here from America?
01:00:33It was long and it was hard, but I got to see my Sheen for the first time.
01:00:41Mm-hmm.
01:00:42Finally, yes.
01:00:44Finally.
01:00:45I'm curious though.
01:00:46What were you expecting when you go here?
01:00:49Oh.
01:00:51I was expecting, um...
01:00:57Well, I was expecting...
01:01:02It's kind of hard to say.
01:01:04You know, my mom's under the impression that I might be walking into a scam.
01:01:17Every, I know, there's, in every place there, there are scammers, no, no, no, not...
01:01:22A lot of scammers.
01:01:23She'll be meeting us tomorrow.
01:01:25Prove her wrong.
01:01:27Prove her wrong.
01:01:27That's the rest thing.
01:01:29That's, that's it.
01:01:32How'd you guys feel when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:01:40Yeah, I, I thought to finally, because it's so long, um, we're not really, we're not really sure if we're
01:01:48gonna meet you in person.
01:01:50Yeah.
01:01:51I, I have to say, a lot of it had to do with, uh, finances.
01:01:56I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:02:01Just eat, babe. Enjoy your meal.
01:02:03Mm-hmm.
01:02:07Um...
01:02:07But, uh, question is, uh, I, I, I don't recall it. What's your job?
01:02:15Yeah.
01:02:18So, this is kind of going to be mind shattering here.
01:02:23I'm unemployed right now.
01:02:30I, I'm actually, uh, receiving disability.
01:02:33Disability for, for what?
01:02:35So, I have, uh, autism.
01:02:37I have problems talking with, with others.
01:02:40Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:02:47So, that, that's enough for you, for your daily life?
01:02:51It cover, it covers everything in my life right now.
01:02:54But, I, I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:03:02But, I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:03:07Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:03:09And, I was hoping I could get your blessing.
01:03:20Well, Forrest, of course, the importance, you have pants, you know?
01:03:30So, without any funding, how, how will you survive, you know?
01:03:36The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:03:39Yeah.
01:03:40Proper job.
01:03:40I have, I have the energy, I have the drive.
01:03:43I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:03:46I'm going to be working full-time.
01:03:48And, yeah, be support for her.
01:03:53I prefer that, uh, Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable.
01:03:58Because, it's the guy's, uh, obligation to support a wife.
01:04:05And, Sheena also is, ano, she's very helpful, ano.
01:04:11There, ano, so, talagang hindi mawawala sa akin yan.
01:04:21Okay, you have my blessing.
01:04:26But, you're going to help her.
01:04:30And, she's been helping us also.
01:04:32Oh.
01:04:34How has she been, uh, doing that?
01:04:37Sometimes, if we lack funds for her, you know,
01:04:40she would help us, you know, pay, like that, you know?
01:04:44Oh.
01:04:45I understand.
01:04:48Yeah.
01:04:49Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:04:55My mom and dad.
01:04:57They definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:05:03We're looking forward to it.
01:05:05It's going to be a blast.
01:05:07I should be happy that I got their blessing,
01:05:09but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
01:05:14What I've seen, it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:05:20The way she described her family, the way they live, the whole money situation.
01:05:26The stories are not adding up.
01:05:27And, I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to come in and going to think everything has been
01:05:37a lie this entire time.
01:05:39She's going to basically flip out.
01:05:52Michael, I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:05:58So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:06:03Yes, you heard me right.
01:06:06This kind of changes my thinking a little bit.
01:06:09About him?
01:06:11No.
01:06:22Yeah.
01:06:33I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:36Yeah, I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:42I knew I killed it, but I forgot my lyrics.
01:06:45Middle show.
01:06:47my mind, but...
01:06:48Don't be so hard on yourself.
01:06:49I'll always be hard on myself.
01:06:51It's okay.
01:06:54I'm so tired.
01:06:56It's been such a long night.
01:06:57Yeah.
01:06:59We're just getting back to the hotel from Stig's performance.
01:07:02And I felt a little uncomfortable, but I think I did well.
01:07:09I knew I had to hold it together and just push my feelings to the side.
01:07:16My feet are killing me.
01:07:19You want to give me a foot massage?
01:07:21Maybe.
01:07:24Maybe.
01:07:28I had a good time.
01:07:30I thought you did really well.
01:07:35So, did I handle it okay?
01:07:39Like...
01:07:41You guess?
01:07:42You guess?
01:07:45What'd I do?
01:07:48How does this girl think that she handled this well?
01:07:52Like, how?
01:07:54You're mad at me?
01:07:57Aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance.
01:08:01She's on her phone texting while I'm performing.
01:08:04I'm boiling inside.
01:08:07And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.
01:08:13What did...
01:08:14Please tell me what I did wrong.
01:08:17When you were on your phone?
01:08:19Texting?
01:08:21Hmm.
01:08:23Hmm.
01:08:27Oh, no.
01:08:28It wasn't like that, like...
01:08:31Accelerate my feelings.
01:08:32Being on my phone?
01:08:33Yes, the .
01:08:34Not the right time for that.
01:08:36You weren't even watching.
01:08:37You were...
01:08:37Yes, I brought...
01:08:39I'm literally performing.
01:08:41Singing to you.
01:08:45I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
01:08:48It wasn't intentional.
01:08:50But...
01:08:51He was dancing with another woman in front of me,
01:08:54and he played Vicky even though I asked him not to,
01:08:57so...
01:08:58It's a little annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song.
01:09:01It wasn't even a big event.
01:09:03I just feel like it's not fair.
01:09:12Sorry.
01:09:13Hi.
01:09:13I don't have anybody out here.
01:09:15Like, you have to understand that there is all these girls on stage with you,
01:09:18so I'm gonna talk to my people.
01:09:20I'm gonna text my friends.
01:09:22I can do that.
01:09:23Relax.
01:09:24You can do what you want.
01:09:26To me, that's .
01:09:30You're supposed to be on my team, a part of my team.
01:09:33That dude did not hype me up.
01:09:36Kinda killed my vibe, actually.
01:09:38That's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics.
01:09:40I was just distracted.
01:09:43You keep talking about these other girls, this.
01:09:45These other girls having fun hyping me up,
01:09:47and my girl is there just...
01:09:49on her phone.
01:09:52It's my first time in a situation like this.
01:09:55There's lots of beautiful girls around.
01:09:56I just...
01:09:57I felt awkward.
01:09:58I didn't feel confident.
01:09:59And I just wanted...
01:10:00One, you really think that's the best way to handle it?
01:10:07Anyways, I'm disappointed.
01:10:12I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way, but okay.
01:10:15I'm sorry.
01:10:18BRB.
01:10:21BRB.
01:10:22BRB.
01:10:23BRB.
01:10:26I'm kind of at a loss because I am trying my best
01:10:31to not get super jealous, not overreact,
01:10:35but apparently I didn't do a very good job.
01:10:42I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy,
01:10:45he might just break up with me.
01:10:48I don't want to scare him off,
01:10:50but part of me is terrified that I already have.
01:11:09BRB.
01:11:09I don't like that.
01:11:14Why?
01:11:15I thought they bit me or bark at me.
01:11:19Bark at you.
01:11:21Bark at me.
01:11:22OK, well.
01:11:24No, you're fine.
01:11:25My English is better.
01:11:26Your English is perfect.
01:11:27Reboot, reboot.
01:11:38Last night, I found out that Birkan has an immense amount of debt.
01:11:45And I was worried that he really just does want a green card.
01:11:50But I have put a lot into this relationship.
01:11:53So maybe I just need to give it a little bit more time to see how red the red flags
01:11:59actually are.
01:12:02Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:12:04I don't know.
01:12:11There's lots of evil eyes.
01:12:12Yeah.
01:12:13I like that tree full of them.
01:12:16Today, my plan is taking Laura to the Nazarköy.
01:12:21I wanted to show her different areas and different villages.
01:12:25And also, it is the place that makes evil eye beads there.
01:12:54When people see you, if they get jealous about you, thoughts about you,
01:12:59to evil eye, consume bad thoughts and protects you.
01:13:09Perfect.
01:13:10Oh, you did it.
01:13:11I got one.
01:13:13I know that.
01:13:14I'll take this out.
01:13:15Yes, it's all.
01:13:16In Turkey, everybody believes there's superstition because, you know, people needs to believe something.
01:13:23Not me.
01:13:25I'm into reality, actually.
01:13:27But I know that Laura, she loves crafting, so she will enjoy.
01:13:35Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:13:41And I suck at every talent thing.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yeah, I am.
01:13:47Check at this.
01:13:47I have no talent.
01:13:49No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It has a tail.
01:13:55And it just broke.
01:13:58Apparently, I suck at evil eye beads.
01:14:02Yeah, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:05I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life, you know?
01:14:09Sometimes, I can suck.
01:14:12Okay.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:20All of the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yeah.
01:14:23Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like, you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something that your family taught you?
01:14:28Your parents taught you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30They taught me.
01:14:31Okay.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:14:36Yeah.
01:14:36Usually, we kind of dance around that topic.
01:14:39And I'd like to know more about them.
01:14:43We never had a good relationship.
01:14:47Do you see them very often?
01:14:51No, actually.
01:14:52My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:15:03Birkan has been a little evasive about the relationship with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:15:11So, hearing that Birkan's parents don't approve of me is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already doesn't approve of this.
01:15:22And it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship where I feel like everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think that there's a point where I would ever meet your parents?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:38But I do feel like meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know more information about a
01:15:47person.
01:15:48My family is my friends.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:54For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know.
01:16:00Michael.
01:16:07I don't want you to be too close to him because I don't trust him.
01:16:14Also, I don't like him.
01:16:16Well, he is very important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:16:25I will give you a solution.
01:16:29I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:16:36So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:16:41No, actually, it's not an ultimatum, you know.
01:16:45What is it, then?
01:16:46You're going to choose me.
01:16:50This is the point.
01:16:51We are thinking about marriage.
01:16:54When we get married, he is not going to be a part of our lives.
01:16:58And yes, you heard me right.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend, and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:17:23I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan tells me that I'm going to have to cut Michael out of my life, it absolutely feels
01:17:34like some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet, and I really don't like.
01:17:40This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm in a moment.
01:17:44About him?
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't want to make.
01:17:52Hmm.
01:17:52So, why don't you think a little, you know, I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:18:16It's super disrespectful to me, especially when I've tried to be very understanding with the massive amount of debt that
01:18:27he revealed to me.
01:18:30This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:18:39I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:18:41The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and s***.
01:18:43No.
01:18:44No, he's not going to do that.
01:18:46And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:18:51Oh, s***.
01:19:09I'm mad.
01:19:10And he better come and apologize.
01:19:12And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:19:15I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:19:17The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and s***.
01:19:19No.
01:19:20No, he's not going to do that.
01:19:22He's not going to shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:25Let me go.
01:19:26Let me.
01:19:28Where is my woman?
01:19:48Baby, why are you here?
01:19:56Why are you talking to me like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand in my face.
01:20:01No, I gave you pawine.
01:20:02I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:04That's why I did like this.
01:20:07It makes someone...
01:20:08I took two sips.
01:20:09I don't want to...
01:20:09I'm not even going to drink it anymore.
01:20:11Even a drop can make someone go...
01:20:13Then why are you drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it?
01:20:15I wanted to let you know that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:20:19Ukuelu.
01:20:20Ukuelu.
01:20:21And don't get mad at me because I can't pronounce everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:29So what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:32Oh, come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:35You are raising your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry, okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:40Come on, eat.
01:20:41Are you going to be nice?
01:20:44I'll be nice always.
01:20:46Let's go.
01:20:46Come and eat your food.
01:20:51My queen.
01:20:52Actually, look.
01:20:53No.
01:20:53Don't put your arm around me.
01:20:56No.
01:20:57The most beautiful queen.
01:20:58No.
01:21:02I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:21:05This is our first full day together, and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving has given off warning signs.
01:21:12I don't like it.
01:21:16I'm sorry.
01:21:17I'm a little nervous.
01:21:18My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:21I told him that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:25We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?
01:21:29You're not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle that you don't, babe?
01:21:35No, you don't talk about it at all.
01:21:39I don't want to be a liar.
01:21:42In my family, we don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle does not give you the blessing, does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:22:00How's this?
01:22:09You told me you were a man who could make his own decisions.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria for a reason, and now you're telling me without a blessing that you can't marry me.
01:22:17Yes.
01:22:18I'm a grown man, but I came from somewhere.
01:22:22In my family, we have one of our own.
01:22:24The way we do our things.
01:22:26And I want everything possible to make sure that my uncle gave us blessing.
01:22:31That's my concern.
01:22:32And the vaping is the only thing that you're very concerned about.
01:22:36That's your biggest concern.
01:22:42Are you worried?
01:22:44I'm thinking.
01:22:46Thinking of what?
01:22:48Daniel is so worried about the vape, but that seems really small compared to all the other
01:22:55things that Daniel doesn't know about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:23:01I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me, and even if he accepted my past.
01:23:06Once I reveal my secrets to him, is he going to have to tell all of his family that I've
01:23:10only
01:23:10been with women for the past 21 years, and that I'm still married?
01:23:14If we tell his uncle about that, I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:23:20I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:23:26We're here, huh?
01:23:28Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:32So cute.
01:23:33Maki Maki.
01:23:34Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:23:36Yeah.
01:23:37It'll be worth it if I can bring a step-mommy home.
01:23:40But I want to have my own.
01:23:43If he decided he does not want to have kids, I don't know if I could be with him.
01:23:49You want what you don't want.
01:23:54Now that I'm in person with my husband, he's giving me trust issues.
01:23:59Remember what you promised me before you came down here.
01:24:03I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:24:05So, can I see your phone now?
01:24:14Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:24:17Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
01:24:22Ben söyleyeyim.
01:24:23Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:24:28I don't want to make things bigger.
01:24:30Sen süreyi uzattıkça olunun sana olan tepkisini de büyüyecek bence.
01:24:34Wait.
01:24:35What did she say?
01:24:38Oh, yes.
01:24:39Moment of truth.
01:24:43Man.
01:24:44This is so beautiful here.
01:24:46Holy s**t.
01:24:48Well, would you look at that.
01:24:50Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents don't take her money, that they're going to starve.
01:24:57Tonight, we'll get the truth for Sheena.
01:25:00She told us if she didn't give the money, that you would mistreat her.
01:25:07Did you say this?
01:25:12Uncle, you are not an Igbo woman.
01:25:17I want to know Igbo more.
01:25:19I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know s**t about me.
01:25:23I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I want us to have this blessing more than anything in
01:25:28the world.
01:25:29Are you a practicing person?
01:25:31I have not always been, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
01:25:36Are you or were you a lesbian?
01:25:40Do you practice lesbianism?
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