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First Dates Ireland - Season 11 - Episode 01

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00:09It's fine, it's cool
00:12If you say that we ain't nothing but you know the truth
00:17Then guess I'm the fool
00:20With your arms out like an angel through the dark sunroof
00:26And I cry, it's not fair
00:29I just need a little love and I just need a little air
00:35Think I'm gonna call it art, even if you call it love
00:39I just love someone who calls me, baby
00:42You can crush on the poison bars
00:46Shoot another shot, try to stop the feeling
00:50You can change just the way you are
00:55Make a new excuse for the stupid reason
00:59Good luck for you
01:01Well, good luck for you
01:02You're out to stop the world
01:05Just to stop the feeling
01:07Good luck for you
01:08Well, good luck for you
01:11You're out to stop the world
01:13Just to stop the feeling
01:31With a killer attitude and a badass role
01:35You may be shocked to learn that Lisa's terribly nice
01:39Do you think you're a good date?
01:41I'm unreal
01:41What are you talking about?
01:45And I'm sound, aren't I?
01:47I've no ill intention towards any human
01:48And I just want everybody to have a time to be happy
01:51Like the feeling can't hold us
01:54Like the feeling can't hold us
01:56Yeah, girl
02:01Another one
02:02No
02:05My God
02:08Pleasure to meet you
02:09Pleasure to meet you too, brother
02:10You definitely brought positivity and style
02:14I'll remember
02:15I've been described as a hit of dopamine
02:17Because I'm so hyper
02:19But I've also been described as a wrecked head
02:23This is your place
02:24This is like a video coming to do a UFC fight or something
02:27Everybody's just square up to me here
02:32My man
02:33I'm like Barbara
02:34I don't love it or you have it
02:36So tell me, tell me what you're looking for
02:39Are you Jacobite?
02:41This is your date, I'm afraid
02:43I mean, I requested something a little different
02:46Do you have any sense?
02:49Strategy on the date
02:50No, I'm an absolute mess
02:57No baking
02:58Stop it
02:59Yeah
03:00You're embarrassing me
03:06Magic
03:07If it's in the air
03:09Boo will sense it
03:14I need to feel
03:16The attraction
03:20It's more of an energy for me
03:22I think an energy can be more attractive than how someone looks
03:29It's really the vibe when I meet them
03:31With me
03:39Be your
03:40Hi there
03:40Hi, how are you?
03:41Hey, boo
03:42Good to see you again
03:44Thank you
03:45You're a little bit nervous?
03:46A little bit
03:47Yeah, okay
03:47Stay here with me
03:48We'll put you at the end
03:49And then I'll get you there
03:50Okay
03:51I think I'd like someone who is open-minded
03:54Someone who I can be myself with
03:57And who's comfortable being themselves
03:59Someone who's just confident and really well assured of themselves
04:02Hi, how are you?
04:04How are you?
04:04How are you?
04:05Lovely to meet you
04:05You too
04:05How are you?
04:07What's your name?
04:08Lee
04:09Lee
04:10Very good
04:11Where are you from?
04:13Oh, very good
04:14Where are you from?
04:15Plane
04:15Oh, you're so good
04:17Thank you
04:17You're so pretty
04:18Thank you so good
04:19There's something in there
04:20But you can read it later
04:21Oh, thank you so much
04:23That's gorgeous
04:23That's so nice
04:24Thank you
04:25Hi, how are you?
04:26Hiya, how are you?
04:27This is babe
04:28Betty, you were here before if I'm not mistaken
04:30I was here before, yeah
04:31Would you like a drink?
04:32What was the one I had last time?
04:34It's got a love potion, was it?
04:35Love potion, absolutely
04:36Yes, please
04:36Thank you
04:38Here, where was it?
04:40Are the chips chunky in here?
04:44What the most genuine question?
04:47You'll be too busy chatting
04:48You won't care about the chips
04:55Not every love song is a duet
04:58I still need
04:59He's a one-man band
05:01You're such a good little woman
05:05Shameless more of the transit then
05:07What the life is so surprising
05:09Just kind of a one-man show
05:10There's becky tracks on the keyboards
05:12I have speakers, microphones
05:14All the other crackers
05:15The gear isn't nothing too offensive
05:18Gets the job though
05:25What's your name?
05:25How are you doing?
05:26Dermot
05:26Dermot, nice to meet you
05:27Where's the accent from?
05:28Cork
05:29North Cork
05:30I'm from Reiling, a small village in North Cork
05:33It's actually the highest village in Ireland
05:35What brings you on?
05:36Hopeless romantic
05:37Well look, there's no such as a hopeless romantic
05:39There has to be hope somewhere
05:41I will try it over
05:42I'd like someone that's good Craig
05:44Someone from the country
05:45If it was possible
05:46I'd be more able to have a conversation with them
05:48Because they'd kind of get what
05:49They'd get what I'm on about
05:52Where Shannon comes from
05:54Life isn't just sweet
05:56It's sweeter by a country mile
05:59I'm from Turnavola
06:01So it's a small village in West Limerick
06:04And it's actually the longest village in Ireland
06:07I do like someone who is a bit of a culty
06:12Towny people
06:13They just don't have the same personality that a culty person would have
06:19There's no such thing
06:19Hi there
06:20Hello
06:20Well, look at you
06:22What a nice dress you have
06:23Thanks so much
06:24How are you keeping?
06:25Good
06:25Bit nervous, yeah
06:26But okay, that's Paul's too nervous
06:28Here we go now
06:29This is your moment
06:30My time to shine
06:31This is your time to shine
06:32Pull out all the shops now, alright
06:34Alright, mister
06:36Hello
06:37How are you?
06:37How are you?
06:38Not too bad, how are we doing?
06:39Good, I'm Shannon
06:40Nice to meet you
06:40Nice to meet you
06:43Well, how are you?
06:44Not too bad
06:45Where are you from?
06:46Cork
06:47North Cork
06:49Where are you traveling from yourself?
06:50Limerick, West Limerick
06:52Newcastle, West direction
06:53Not too far away from yourself
06:54Wearing Newmarket
06:56Oh really?
06:57Oh, okay
06:57But I have to hold up for it
07:00How are you wet with yourself?
07:02So I'm going into my final year in college
07:03I'm doing homework teaching in Sligo
07:05Very good
07:06How about you?
07:07Car sales
07:07Car sales? Oh lovely
07:09I have to have a nice car that's a big bonus
07:11Be nice to be the passenger princess for a while
07:14My sister is a year older than that
07:16And I have twin brothers there, 18
07:17The youngest
07:18Are your brothers new?
07:20Oh Jesus Christ
07:22I actually taught them last year on placement
07:24In Barbwick
07:26Yes
07:28Small world
07:29Definitely, oh my god
07:34Where are you from?
07:36Take a guess
07:38I don't know
07:38I live in Kildare now
07:40I live in Kildare now
07:41No, I'm from the UK originally
07:43I hear
07:44But keep that on the down low though
07:45I don't like stuff
07:46Say nothing
07:46Say nothing
07:47Yes, say nothing
07:47Say nothing
07:49Where are you from?
07:50I'm from South Kildare
07:51I'm in Nice
07:52Well you're out of the teeth that you almost said
07:54Ah, neighbour
07:55Very good
07:56So, we're all going back to Kildare after this right?
07:59Yeah
07:59Two pints
08:00Then nothing
08:01Can you hear more?
08:07I've been single over four years now
08:08In the last few months I've opened myself up a lot more
08:12I was closed off and I was busy last year so I had no time for dating at all
08:17So what do you do for them?
08:19I was doing home care
08:20Really?
08:21Yeah, I just got out with that for a break
08:24Cause I was just like burnt out and I'm a single parent and I don't have any help with her
08:28Well now that I've had more time to myself I'm like hmm
08:31I actually could think about it now and you know I've been more optimistic
08:36What do you do for fun?
08:37I'm a spiritual girlie
08:38I love me tarot cards and crystals and stuff like that
08:41I'm also creative
08:42I write poems and I write like lyrics and stuff
08:45I'm a musician
08:46No way
08:48I'm a tattoo artist as well
08:49I own a bus company, I have a barber, I'm a musician
08:52And whatever you want me to be really
08:54Yeah
08:55Friendship is so important
08:56I want to be best friends with someone
08:58Let's go
08:59I have to have a good time, don't you?
09:02I want someone to have the absolute crack back
09:03I was working all together now
09:05Was it good?
09:06I don't know
09:07I got kicked out
09:09You got kicked out working there?
09:11Oh my god
09:12That was yesterday
09:13Oh no way
09:15And you rolled over into here today?
09:17Nah bro
09:18I had it
09:18Maybe an hour
09:19You seem fresh enough like
09:21It's Botox
09:27Her sister Nancy is the cockroach, really
09:30No way
09:31Oh my god
09:32I actually went for the Limerick Rose this year as well
09:35Really?
09:35It's so funny
09:37I didn't get it now but it was a great experience
09:40Yeah
09:40I got sponsored by my job in the Sentra
09:42My escort is lovely in fairness
09:45The poor creator had to walk four of us up
09:47So he had to like run up back down again and get the next girl because there wasn't enough escorts
09:52for all of us
09:53I used to play the concertina and
09:55And when I went for the roles like that was my practice piece
09:58Yeah, I stood there in front of like a full ballroom in a deer and count Limerick like was crazy.
10:05I
10:06Played a keyboard and a fiddle
10:08Yeah, we had a more country music and metal
10:10Yeah, I'm fairly well able to do it
10:15I actually done classes. We went for a couple of weeks, but I still can barely drive like
10:21And I love to teach you that so
10:24I like going out Saturday night like any regular country fella
10:28We'd always go to a pub where there's a bit of music on no matter who the bend is I'll
10:32end up singing a few songs
10:33Anyway, I'm in school and how do you feel like? My father's first cousin was the principal
10:36No way!
10:38Liam
10:40I was saying that to the girls before I came up and I was like, imagine if I actually know
10:42this person like
10:44I literally said that last night
10:45If I drove all the way up the Dublin, she'll probably like half an hour over the road
10:51I don't know you at all that
10:52No, I don't know, I don't know you there
10:54Not in the West of Journal
10:55No
11:02It's been a while, I haven't done it sober
11:08Are you okay?
11:09Yeah, it just landed on my forehead
11:13When I first meeting me, I think some people are like, oh my god
11:17Is he alright?
11:19Did he have a bunch of Red Bull or something?
11:21Let me go wild
11:23Like I could sit
11:25Some people think I'm like a dog running around, you know
11:29I kind of have that golden retriever brain
11:32Let me go wild
11:35I can't sit still for a long time, you know
11:37I'm excited
11:38I like the flowers
11:39Thank you
11:40A few brownie points
11:41You're going to help there
11:42Yeah
11:43What do you do yourself for a living?
11:44I am a doctor
11:47And you are cash for the lady
11:48Oh, thank you
11:49Thank you
11:50I don't know about that
11:51But we'll see
11:52Yeah
11:52I've never gone too far astray from just being myself
11:56Unapologetically myself
11:58Wow
11:58These actually cost a penny
12:00Fair play
12:00It did
12:00I bought them up the ladies in Grand Street
12:02She tried to talk me out of them
12:03She was like
12:03They're too expensive now
12:04And I was like
12:05What's going on?
12:06First dating?
12:08And how vulnerable does dating make you feel?
12:11Ah
12:12Brutal at times
12:12You know
12:13It is like marketing for your soul
12:15You know
12:15You're like
12:16Hi
12:16Do you want this forever?
12:18I was like talking to my mum on the way here
12:20And she's like
12:20Keith
12:21Just be you
12:22But a little less
12:28Onya's had just about enough of a little less
12:31What she really wants is a little more
12:35You'll ask for clarity on the third or fourth date
12:38And it's not like
12:38Listen
12:39No one's asking you to settle down
12:40Like hand out a ring
12:41Nothing like that
12:41But it's like
12:42You're just kind of asking for a little bit of clarity
12:44And then they're like
12:44Whoa
12:44Like
12:45Oh
12:45Take chill pill
12:47You need to calm down
12:49You're being so loud
12:51I thought
12:52As I got older
12:53Oh yeah
12:53Like now I'll find somebody
12:55Who's like
12:55You know
12:55Ready to settle down
12:56Like ready to
12:57I suppose
12:57Get married
12:58Have kids
13:01I feel like it's worse
13:02They're getting at this point
13:07No
13:07And that doesn't matter
13:09I knew I was going to get it wrong
13:13Yeah well
13:13Perfection is boring
13:16Hi
13:16Onya
13:17Hi
13:19I like someone who's
13:20Active
13:21Like I would be very like
13:22Go go go
13:22I do like a bit of facial hair as well
13:25A little bit of confidence
13:26Someone who's just I suppose
13:27Good crack
13:28And a good personality as well
13:29No mister
13:30Oh
13:30Hi
13:32Hello
13:32Hello
13:33How are you?
13:34Nice
13:34He's so sweet
13:35Oh my god
13:36Beautiful
13:36Is that for you?
13:38Thank you so much
13:38Come here
13:38Give me a hug
13:39Thank you so much
13:39Thank you
13:40Oh my god
13:41You look absolutely stunning
13:41Thank you
13:42Jesus Christ
13:42I was not expecting
13:43Holy shit
13:45Yeah
13:45I really really appreciate
13:47I'm actually
13:47A massive flower person
13:49Are you?
13:49Yeah
13:49I am
13:50Honestly
13:51Hi
13:52I'm
13:53Really good
13:54What a beautiful bunch of roses
13:56Here already
13:56We're off for a good start
14:07I'm a marine biologist
14:09No way
14:10Yeah
14:10That is everybody's dream
14:12And you're actually doing it
14:13Yeah
14:13You've really nice eyes by the way
14:15Really really pretty eyes
14:16Thank you
14:16Thank you
14:16Thank you
14:16Thank you
14:17Thank you
14:17Thank you
14:22I'm a bit of a loner
14:23Like a bit of a lone wolf
14:24That's fair
14:25I've got like
14:26My like couple of best friends
14:29And then I've got a group of acquaintances
14:31Do you know what I mean?
14:32I love my own company
14:33I love that
14:34Would you consider yourself somebody confident?
14:37I've worked on it
14:38I'm still socially awkward sometimes
14:40I don't think that will ever go away
14:41But I think my confidence is something that's growing
14:43I come across as this big confident person
14:46Like as I look a certain way
14:47Obviously fantastically good looking
14:48And really really really sexy and all
14:50Yeah
14:51Right
14:51That's fair
14:52Okay
14:56And
15:00There's a lot of that
15:01I know
15:02I'm going to look at
15:03End it
15:05Always been class clown
15:07There was always so much going on in my life
15:09When I was younger
15:09That I created the person that had to be liked
15:13I have a complicated family
15:14I was raised with my grandparents
15:16How was that?
15:18It was great
15:19Okay
15:19Until I died
15:20Oh, I'm sorry
15:21Hey, it's a problem with the grandparents, isn't it?
15:24Fucking holding your parents
15:24Yeah
15:25Who knew?
15:26My grandmother passed away
15:27My mum
15:27Like I called my mum
15:28And passed away when I was 12
15:30So
15:30So I was kind of
15:31It was upheaval from there
15:32Like, you know
15:34So there was a lot of
15:36Windy roads
15:37My granddad
15:38And I was 23
15:40I'm so sorry
15:41And dad, yeah
15:44That's awful
15:45I'm so sorry
15:47But you know what?
15:49It is what it is
15:50Yeah
15:50It happens
15:50You know
15:51Yeah
15:52You're born with a number of breaths
15:55And every single breath you take
15:56That number gets less
15:58So I will never waste the breath
16:00I say
16:01I promise you that
16:04I was drifting my forklift
16:06My phone flew off the side of it
16:07And is that your forklift?
16:10God, it is
16:10Why do you have a forklift?
16:12I want to have a forklift
16:13I want to lift things
16:14Right
16:14So just have a forklift
16:15Okay
16:16Yeah
16:16I like to
16:18Fork things
16:19Yeah, I like to forklift
16:22Oh my God
16:23You made the funniest joke
16:25I'm raging
16:26I'm raging
16:29I love driving
16:30Really, yeah
16:31Do I drive you?
16:32My father is always giving out to me
16:34He's like
16:34You have so much mileage for up in your car
16:36Blah, blah
16:36Have you had all done up then?
16:38I would like to have it a bit more done up than I have
16:40But I have like number plates
16:42And like pink sea covers and stuff like
16:45But
16:45Do you get a little urban vibe?
16:47I don't know now
16:48Can you imagine me a teacher coming into a school
16:49And the car is going
16:51Not quite all right now
16:53I would have been the quiet child in school
16:55I would not have put up my hand like to answer a question
16:57And
16:59Now
16:59Going to be the teacher that will be teaching the class
17:02Like that's such a difference
17:03When I went on placement the first year
17:04I was just out of second school myself
17:06And then I'd try and teach these 18 year olds
17:08The same age as yourself
17:09Yeah, literally
17:10What did you think of my brothers there?
17:12When you had them?
17:13Oh, they were grand
17:13I had great crack at them
17:14They were deadly crack at it
17:18I'm actually going back to the second school
17:20Until I went to myself
17:21So it's like a real full circle moment
17:25And how long have you been working in your job then?
17:27About a year I'd say
17:28Oh yeah
17:28Before that
17:29I had a bar myself in the market
17:32Nice
17:33I took over a bar when I was 19
17:35Really?
17:35Yeah
17:35I stayed at it for a year
17:37The tone kind of needed a lift
17:38If you're not what I would say
17:40The tone was gone quite
17:41And when the opportunity came up
17:43I said
17:44Let's give it a shot
17:46Rural nightlife in general is
17:47Kind of gone
17:49Unless there's a party or something
17:50Yeah, exactly
17:51I think I was the youngest publican in the country at the time
17:53I was taught
17:55I don't know
17:55I'd half mind going back into bars again
17:57But
17:58I don't know
17:59Do I want to go back down the route of 2 o'clock every fucking morning?
18:01It's tough enough
18:02Like when all your friends are going out as well
18:04Yeah
18:04It's just
18:05It was two tiny down for one person
18:06But look
18:07I had a great year
18:08I made great friends and everything
18:09All of it
18:09So
18:09I
18:10Not all
18:11Don't know
18:11It's
18:11So
18:13Do you have any pets?
18:15We've dog it on
18:16We've cattle
18:17We had hens
18:18The hens went missing
18:21Oh no
18:23Nine of them
18:24Oh no
18:26I just can't figure out what happened
18:28They didn't run away
18:31I'm so excited
18:40I'm kind of hungry
18:40Yes
18:41I'm excited too
18:42And I only have like three default states
18:44It's excitement or hunger
18:45What's the third?
18:47Sleep
18:47Sleep?
18:48That's fair enough
18:49That's fair, yeah
18:50I have had a lot of relationships
18:53It's like a running joke
18:54And my friends are like
18:55Oh classic
18:55This guy is better than the last guy
18:57He's amazing
18:58And then it just falls to shit
19:00Because I have like rose-colored glasses on
19:02And I just completely like dismiss other stuff
19:04So I've stopped doing that now
19:05Thank you so much
19:06Thanks
19:07I've kind of stopped settling
19:08If the person isn't right for me
19:09They're not right for me
19:10And it's like
19:11Can I ask how old are you?
19:12I am 34
19:12I'm 31
19:13You are 31?
19:14Yeah
19:14God
19:15I thought
19:15Well you look easily 25
19:18You've got this aura about you
19:20It's beautiful
19:21You're by far the hottest girl I've ever got on a date list
19:25I move every six months or so for my work
19:28Emergency hours are bad
19:29It doesn't really allow too much for dating
19:32And you're living in Shremory?
19:34I am
19:34I just moved there two weeks ago
19:35It's so nice
19:36Yeah
19:37You've got to come down
19:38It's really cool
19:39I do have to go down
19:40I'm training to be a GP now
19:42So I'm at a place in my life
19:44In my career
19:45Where I can say
19:45You know what?
19:45I'm going to take a little bit for me now
19:47And so hopefully all that changes
19:50I haven't even looked
19:51Oh my god
19:52We forgot to look
19:53You haven't even looked
19:54I thought you were hungry
19:55Sorry
19:56Sorry
19:56Okay
19:57Okay
19:57Wait
19:57Caroline's heard oysters
19:58I was looking at that too
20:00Let's get some oysters
20:01Yeah
20:01And the baratta as well
20:03I was going to go with the baratta as well
20:05Were you?
20:06Yeah I was
20:06We are lovely
20:07We are flying here
20:15Bringing joy wherever she goes
20:18Margaret's got happy feet
20:20I love to dance
20:21Oh I love to dance
20:24What kind of dance make?
20:26Disco dancer
20:30I never get to dance anymore
20:32I dance sometimes myself in the kitchen
20:34Would you like to find a man
20:35Who's gone on his feet?
20:36That should be amazing
20:42Oh lordy
20:46Hi there madam
20:47Hi how are you?
20:48Your name please?
20:48Margaret
20:49Nice to meet you Margaret
20:50Nice to meet you
20:50Well look at you
20:51You look lovely
20:52Are you alright you are
20:53Well either go big or go home
20:55Isn't that what they say?
20:56Yeah and you went big
20:57I went big
20:58What would we not know about you by just looking at you?
21:03I suppose I'm very adventurous
21:04I think people look at me say
21:06Ah bless you know
21:07She's 67
21:08Look at her
21:09She's great
21:09She's great
21:10I dabble in aerial yoga
21:13What's that?
21:14It's like can you imagine a big hammer
21:16Oh I've seen it
21:17Can you do yoga with the support of that?
21:20Very good
21:21I am pretty independent
21:23Going holidays on my own
21:24Quite happy within myself
21:26Spend time on my own
21:27But it would be nice to have a partner in crime
21:30And what are you hoping for?
21:31I don't know
21:34I'd like to meet somebody nice
21:36And have a nice dinner
21:37I'm sure we'll see what happens
21:39We can't all be fluent in the language of love
21:42Take Robin
21:44He frequently sends out the wrong message
21:47My daughter says I'm a terrible texter
21:49Communication breakdown
21:52There's four stops everywhere
21:53Are you upset?
21:55Communication breakdown
21:56She says my texts sound rude and abrupt
21:59Hello
22:00Hello
22:01I'm just too scared to try on my dating apps
22:04Or what the like
22:05Because I'm sure it wouldn't go well
22:09Right Margaret
22:10Hello
22:10Hello
22:11How are you?
22:13I'm well
22:13Lovely to meet you
22:14Nice to meet you
22:15Is it for you?
22:17Oh my lord
22:18Thank you so much
22:19They're beautiful
22:20Thank you
22:20Thank you
22:21And what's your name?
22:22Margaret
22:22Hello Margaret
22:23Robin, nice to meet you
22:24That's not an Irish accent, Robin
22:26It's, I'm from Melbourne
22:27Oh
22:28Australia
22:28My family are here
22:30I have a daughter
22:30And she's here, is she?
22:32She's here with a lovely husband
22:34She has a four month old
22:36And a four year old
22:37That are like magnets
22:40Just drawing
22:41Yes, my grand
22:41The grandchildren are the love
22:44You didn't think you had to give
22:45What I'm wanting is someone who is
22:48Warm, lovely
22:49Similar interests
22:51So whether it be film, music, dance
22:53My eldest granddaughters
22:55My eldest granddaughter is 21
22:56She is a light of my life
22:59We'll go out to the cinema
23:00And we'll go for a bite to eat
23:01Or we'll go shopping
23:02We'll go to shows together
23:04Someone who is
23:06Ready for an adventure
23:07And I already know we've got an area of interest
23:10You like film?
23:11I love film
23:12I love cinema
23:12I love film
23:13And cheers
23:14And cheers
23:15Lovely to meet you
23:16Lovely to meet you
23:17To dinner
23:17I'm excited
23:18And thank you again
23:20For my beautiful flowers
23:21Pleasure
23:24She's a lovely girl
23:25Do you know when you
23:26You mean to her and you're like
23:28Man, they're just like
23:29I don't know though
23:30If she'd be able for me
23:33Yeah, she's a bit too quiet for you
23:35She's, I don't know
23:36I'll have to like see how like
23:39The rest of my goes
23:40How vulnerable does dating make you feel?
23:42The vulnerability of probably
23:44A two year old child
23:45Lost in the middle of the city
23:47When it comes to being like
23:48In an actual romantic setting
23:49I just lost, lost confidence
23:51You know
23:52Like that
23:53I'm 36
23:54Nothing's ever worked out
23:55I was really quiet in my 20s
23:56To be fair
23:58I, yeah
23:59I remember mentally in my 30s
24:01You can feel vulnerable
24:03But it makes me feel optimistic also
24:05If the person's not right for you
24:06You're one step closer to the person who is
24:08I was mentally in my 20s
24:10I loved recession
24:11I was a bit of a rape
24:12So you were a recession when were you?
24:14I was a bit of a recession when
24:18I was a bit of a recession when I was in my 20s
24:19Would you go out local or that?
24:20I've often gone out to Newcastle as well
24:21Because I would know a lot of people from Newcastle
24:24I still can't get over all fucking close
24:26I don't know what's mad
24:28My parents separated when I was young
24:29So my dad is remarried and my mom has a new partner
24:32And they both have three children each with their new partners
24:36So I have two sisters and four brothers and they're all under the age of eight
24:41It is crazy at every house
24:43But it's a crazy that I love
24:47Do you think you'd like to stay in Ireland
24:48And like settle down in Ireland like her?
24:50I would think so
24:52Yeah
24:52I'd like to stay very close to home
24:54Yeah
24:55I've always lived to my life
24:57I'm actually planning to build a house on a site at home
25:01In the near future
25:03Your sister, she works in Bob's bar, doesn't it?
25:06Brian is the manager there
25:07He sure is
25:08His, like, fiancee is, like
25:11Like, I've grown up with her
25:12Like, she's best friend of my whole family and everything, like
25:15So, yeah
25:16And his best man is closing away
25:19The way he is a small world
25:20I'm telling you
25:21You don't care for what you're seeing, like, wouldn't you?
25:25Definitely do
25:25I've got the cute starters
25:26You put it in the middle?
25:27Yeah, yeah, throw it in the middle, yeah
25:28Thank you so much
25:29Oh my God, I'm so excited, you're the best
25:30So
25:31Right, okay
25:31Can I feed you, Kim?
25:32You want to do a little
25:34You can't feed me an oyster
25:36Nooo
25:36You're okay
25:37I will cheers you with this, though
25:39I will 100%, okay, so
25:40To the best first date ever
25:43I, well, yeah, I think so
25:44There you go, okay
25:47How would I know that you fancy your date?
25:50I would probably be staring intently into their eyes
25:54You don't like me to feed you, so I'll put it on the little leaf
25:57Yeah
25:57I'm gonna put it on the leaf
25:59Do you like it to mass?
26:02It would be really obvious, yeah
26:03I'd be very excited
26:04To speak in a mile a minute
26:05If I didn't get a laugh, I would not stop until I did
26:09From North Carolina, originally
26:11We moved when I was a little kid
26:12So I could come up
26:13It was kind of like a self-dub, you know
26:14All my mates are like, hey, what are you getting on?
26:16We're all finance bros
26:18Here's a go, and accountants and all
26:20Sorry, do you work for KPMG?
26:21Like, man
26:24It's just that golden retriever mentality, you know
26:26Here's like, this is gonna be the greatest thing ever
26:28I got to talk to you like a South Atlantic
26:30What do you see?
26:31What do you do?
26:32I'll get you the moon
26:33Hey, listen here, darling
26:34Why don't we take this drink to go?
26:44I have four children
26:46Oh, wow
26:47I've been married twice
26:48Okay
26:49There's two children from my first marriage
26:51Mm-hmm
26:51And I inherited two children in my second marriage
26:54Oh, okay
26:56And you're commuting at the moment?
26:58Just sold the family home
27:00Oh, did you? Okay
27:01Started the registration process to be a teacher in Ireland
27:04For the last 23 years I've been a teacher
27:07I've worked in Aboriginal rural communities
27:10Working with Aboriginal adults
27:12And disengaged teenagers
27:14That love of teaching is still there
27:16So it's something that I still wish to continue
27:19So two wives, come on, I'm curious
27:21Oh, yes
27:22I have to be honest
27:24First marriage was at 21
27:25Oh, me and you both, yep
27:27We had 16 wonderful years
27:29But I think we both changed
27:31Yeah, our lives were different as individuals
27:34Yes, I was married a second time
27:36And that relationship lasted nearly two decades
27:39Yeah
27:40I think I'm a better person partnered
27:43I've been single many years
27:45And now I'm ready to fill that void
27:47I was married for 27 years before I got separated
27:51The first thing I did when I got separated was
27:55I signed up to do a degree
27:56I did a degree in marketing part-time
27:59Well done, yeah
28:00I had been in a relationship from such a young age
28:04That I just needed to find myself
28:07Like, come back to the person I should have been
28:10If I, I would have been if I hadn't gotten married
28:13When I got married
28:14Do you travel?
28:14Yeah, I, like last year or now
28:16I would have been in Houston
28:17And I would have been in Geneva
28:19And Dubai
28:20But I do love to travel
28:22I travel a lot on my own though
28:23I go on holidays on my own
28:25So
28:25Would you travel on your own?
28:27Everything I've done recently is on my own
28:29Is on your own?
28:30Yes
28:30Yes
28:36How are you getting on?
28:37Happy Oscar
28:38Yes
28:38Very good ladies
28:39The matchmakers have done a good job, sorry
28:41Yeah
28:42You'll actually never guess
28:43His sister is the car girls
28:45No way
28:46I swear to God
28:47I thought his brother is in Bora B
28:49And his sister is the car girls this year
28:54What are the chances?
28:55Genuinely, what are the chances?
28:59Oh
29:01Did you go all out of the outfit for us?
29:03I did, yeah
29:03I saw the amount of stuff I had
29:05Now you think I was staying up here for about a week
29:07Like
29:07I went to the claw shop in the market
29:09Right Walter
29:10Where I was going
29:11Did you?
29:11I called back to me in a few days
29:13Then I picked it up
29:14And all that right here to go
29:15Oh, brilliant
29:16Yeah
29:17What was the best thing about your date?
29:19Let's say figuring out if we were so close to each other
29:22Can I give you cash?
29:23Yeah, yeah, of course it's okay
29:24Yeah, yeah
29:25Are we split it?
29:26No
29:26Are you sure?
29:27I'm positive
29:28Yeah, old fashioned guy
29:29I like this guy
29:30All fashioned, that's it
29:31Thank you
29:32Not at all
29:33That's one thing I was actually worried about last night as well
29:35Like, will they take cash?
29:38Very nice girl
29:39Very good looking girl
29:40I was very nervous of course
29:42But
29:43I got over it
29:44Eventually
29:49No problem
29:49No problem
29:49No problem
29:50No problem
29:51Thank you
29:51So, do you guys think you'd like to see each other romantically again?
30:02I was
30:03I was
30:05I'd say
30:05I'd say
30:08Thank you very much
30:10Thank you
30:11Thank you
30:11Thank you
30:12Thank you
30:27Do you think he could be boyfriend material?
30:30He definitely could be, yeah
30:32Yeah
30:33Where will your second date be?
30:36It's gonna be class of the harmony
30:37I think he's gonna be like
30:54I'm so excited
30:59I'm so excited
31:03I'm so excited
31:03I've been looking for my first time
31:07Thank you so much
31:09You hardly thought I was going to moonwalk behind the bar
31:12There's something in the flowers that
31:16Thank you
31:18Just have a look behind the bars
31:25What's this?
31:38What?
31:41It was my room key
31:43Oh
31:44Well, I actually think you're nicer than that
31:46So there is a driver organiser to bring you home
31:49What are they talking about?
31:51I have a driver organiser to bring you home
31:52All the way home?
31:54It's on the web
31:56Wow, okay
31:58So you were expecting someone to go up to your room tonight, were you?
32:02Yeah, you don't know who you're going to meet
32:04Okay
32:04Yeah, I think you're more respectful than that
32:07No, you judge me, right?
32:10Yeah, I think so
32:11Yeah, I think so
32:14You're a nice girl
32:20You like to cook?
32:21Sometimes
32:22I wouldn't say I'm a great cook, but I enjoy feeding people
32:24I like to cook
32:25Love making fries
32:27Sourdough?
32:27Yeah, love sourdough
32:28I tried once, I made a brick
32:31Why do you think your mum would say you're single?
32:34She says I'm a bit all over the place
32:36She always buys self-help books
32:38How to manage ADHD and have a relationship
32:41That was the last book she bought me
32:44I write stories
32:45You write stories?
32:46What kind of stories?
32:47Like fantasy mostly, but I also write funny stories
32:51I'm big into fantasy books
32:53Yeah
32:54No way
32:55I can't believe you write fantasy books
32:57Yeah
32:57It's shocking
32:58I'm trying
32:59What are you reading in the moment?
33:00I like the wheel of time
33:01It's so good, the show terrible
33:03It's shockingly bad
33:04It's so bad
33:05I would be definitely a little bit nerdy as well
33:07Like I love reading fantasy books
33:08I do love cleaning as well
33:10I hate to say it
33:10My friends always know
33:11If something happened
33:12Or if I ended with like a lad
33:13Or something like that
33:14They're like something in that house
33:15Is getting deep cleaned
33:17I'm going to feed you
33:17No, I'm not going to feed you
33:19I forgot
33:19Oh, feed me
33:20Fuck it
33:21Really?
33:22I don't know what I'm doing
33:23This is shocking
33:24You don't even do this
33:25I never do this
33:27I'm going to feed you now
33:28You're going to feed me?
33:32Is this my fucking ear fork?
33:33I don't give a fork
33:35It's ear fork
33:35No, no
33:36Oh my god
33:36You didn't just do it
33:37I did just do it fine
33:39That was actually pretty good
33:40Do you like dad jokes?
33:41I do
33:42Yeah, yeah, yeah
33:42Okay, so you make bread
33:43I make bread
33:44You're super hot
33:46You read fantasy
33:47My weird matches your weird
33:48Let's do it
33:49Yeah
33:54She's a lovely girl
33:55She's too lovely for me though
33:56She's lovely
33:57She's good looking
33:58She's a mommy
34:00She's like
34:02She's a really beautiful person
34:03But I kind of felt really bad
34:05Because I gave her a bunch of flowers
34:06My room key
34:07I was like
34:08I think it's fine
34:10I have a car
34:10I organised you to go
34:11Here, do you want to swap seats?
34:13Come on
34:14Just
34:14Just
34:15Swap seats
34:16Of course
34:17Just do it
34:17Go and swap seats
34:19I got flowers
34:22I've never got flowers on a date before
34:24Yeah, we'll just see how it goes
34:26It's good fun at the moment
34:28Like
34:28She's really funny
34:29And her chips are lovely
34:33You got it
34:33You just look forward and pinch me
34:40Yeah
34:40Hi guys
34:40Am I same with you?
34:42I think so
34:43This is...
34:44Lee
34:46Sorry
34:46I'm Boo
34:48Are you Lee?
34:50No
34:51What's your name?
34:52Callum
34:52Hi Callum
34:53Hi Ed
34:54What's your name?
34:55Hi Gabby
34:55Hi Gabby
34:56Nice to meet you
34:58Ladd if you want mine
34:59Can I actually get my seat back?
35:00Yeah
35:01My day is over there
35:02Do you know what I mean?
35:02It's a bit rude
35:08Hips are good
35:09Ah they are aren't they?
35:09That's always a good start
35:10Yeah
35:11And your company's been lovely so far
35:13Oh thank you
35:15You need to speak with my mouth
35:16Oh you're allowed
35:17I will too
35:18That's okay
35:19How's that?
35:19Okay
35:22My mother was Italian
35:23We all had fish and chip shops
35:25So we all lived over fish and chip shops
35:26And whatever
35:27Italian heritage
35:28Yeah
35:29They would have come over as immigrants
35:32And they had nothing
35:33Oh yeah
35:34We did have land
35:35We'd land
35:36Yeah no we'd land initially
35:37It was great for growing rocks
35:38Yes
35:43Do you ever get lonely?
35:45I call it Sunday blues
35:47That Sunday feeling
35:48When everybody's with their family
35:50Everybody's with their other half
35:51Everybody has somebody except you
35:54This is my fierce
35:55And I have the cat on a swing
35:58See it's a bit of a joke
36:00Oh yeah
36:01Big swing
36:02Uh huh
36:02You've got to embrace it
36:04Being single can be lonely
36:06I enjoy going to gigs on my own
36:08Or the cinema on my own
36:10But I think having company
36:11Would be a better thing
36:13Do you like your live music?
36:15Yes I love music
36:17I love my lives
36:18I love everything from opera
36:20To pop
36:22And anything in between
36:23Music makes you happy
36:25Yeah yeah
36:25I find music medicinal
36:27Yes
36:27I'm a member of a
36:29Four part harmony chorus
36:32So in Melbourne
36:33But there's a group here
36:35That I've been to one of their
36:36Uh meetings
36:38And um
36:38So that's
36:40That's a group
36:41That I'd be joining
36:41Coming up there's
36:43Performing
36:43Could be Wexford
36:45Okay
36:46So down the road
36:48So
36:49Um
36:50Yeah
36:51If there's a second date
36:52Perhaps we can
36:53Go there
36:58This girl is amazing
37:00This girl is amazing
37:01She makes bread
37:02She likes fantasy books
37:05She's a marine biologist
37:06Super hot
37:07She is absolutely stunning
37:09She is a 10 out of 10 Leah
37:10She is perfect
37:13This is so good
37:17Well
37:17I'm glad nobody's really losing their cool
37:19No
37:20Nobody's losing their cool
37:22As I jump up and down
37:25Nice and calm
37:26Yeah nice and calm
37:27Cool it down
37:27No but I really like her
37:28She's really nice
37:29If I can just
37:31Nail this next bit
37:33I think
37:33I think I've
37:34Think I got a winner
37:35I don't like
37:37Being in situations
37:38With
37:39People like me
37:41Like you
37:42Yeah people like me
37:43Who are a little bit
37:43A little bit wild
37:45And people that are calmer than you
37:47Handle you
37:48No
37:49And that's the problem
37:51You seem very calm
37:55Or
37:55Is there a wildest day
37:57Yeah me
37:58I had a really good time
38:00Really pretty girl
38:01Really quiet
38:03Total opposite of me
38:06Do you put the whole thing in your mouth
38:07Yeah
38:08Savage
38:09I can be a little bit like
38:12All over the place
38:13And like
38:13It's fun to me
38:14But it can be embarrassing
38:15Some other people
38:16I think she deserves a bit better
38:18I would like to play in the middle
38:20If that's okay
38:20Are you sure?
38:21Absolutely
38:22Honestly
38:22You feel a delight
38:24I'll tell you that
38:26Would you like to see each other again
38:28Romantically?
38:30Go ahead
38:32Harley
38:32Ladies first
38:34Erm
38:37I would say
38:38We'd be good as friends
38:41For sure
38:42Do you agree?
38:43Yeah
38:43I think I'd make a showy everywhere we go
38:47Thank you
38:48My flowers
38:50There is
38:51That spark
38:52And
38:52Like
38:53I think sometimes
38:55It's just not there
38:55And this time it wasn't
38:57Yeah
38:57But
38:57It doesn't mean there wasn't a spark
38:59Of like
39:00Similarity
39:01Interests
39:02Yeah
39:02Definitely
39:03Thank you
39:04It was a pleasure
39:04Thank you
39:05See ya
39:05See ya
39:06Bye
39:06It was a really fun day
39:08It was grey crack
39:09But I think we'd be really good as friends
39:11Yeah for sure
39:12Yeah for sure
39:13Definitely
39:14Here go on then
39:15You might as well
39:26Can I just say I love your accent
39:27Thank you
39:28And I love yours
39:29I can understand yours
39:31Thank you
39:31Thank you
39:47It's when you're not trying to change somebody
39:48To be who you want them to be
39:50Is it okay to be vulnerable
39:53Wanting to spend time with them
39:55And being happy
39:56When they're doing something they want to do without you
40:00That it's
40:00That's okay too
40:01Sounds like you do a lot of travelling
40:03See
40:04Perhaps some
40:05You know
40:05If we were to have a second date
40:07And beyond
40:09It's something that we could do together
40:10And apart
40:11And we'd both be okay with that
40:13Absolutely
40:14I have to be very honest
40:17Please
40:19I'm not looking to get married again
40:20I'm looking for a companion
40:23I hate that word
40:24Because it makes you sound very old
40:26But I don't mean it in that sense
40:27I get exactly what you've just said
40:29Yes
40:30That's it
40:31You don't have to think about
40:33Being in love
40:34It's just comfortable
40:36Having the confidence in another person
40:39That they get you
40:41Now there's a period of my life
40:42That I recognise
40:43That you know
40:45There's
40:45Am I lonely?
40:47No
40:48But would I like to be in a relationship?
40:50Yes
40:50Okay
40:51Yes
40:52Yeah
40:52I get you
40:54I get you
40:55That's me
40:56I'm not lonely
40:57I'm very content
41:00But I'd love somebody in my life
41:02There you go
41:02Yeah
41:03Because all I wanted Margaret
41:04Out of this was
41:05To meet someone who got me
41:07Yeah
41:07Yeah
41:07And um
41:09And that's all I wanted
41:11Was somebody who got me
41:18Mmm
41:19That umami
41:20Is so good
41:22Sorry
41:22Thank you for that
41:23I watch a lot of Gordon Ramsay
41:24Oh of course
41:25Of course
41:26It's my emotional support show
41:27Okay
41:28That and The Office
41:28The Office is my comfort show
41:30Yeah it's my comfort show
41:31I watched that last night
41:33I did too
41:34Yes
41:35Oh my god
41:38That's amazing
41:39Why did we both watch it?
41:41We're both nervous
41:41What would you love to come out of this?
41:44Honestly it would be great to find a partner
41:46I have six siblings
41:48There's seven of us all together
41:49Seven?
41:49Big family
41:50Are you close to your family?
41:51Yeah yeah we're very close
41:53Five of them live in America
41:54Me and my little sister live here
41:55And my parents live here as well
41:56I grew up in a very very loving household
41:59You know it was just hugs
42:00Laughter everywhere
42:02It's hard to go and be alone
42:04After a lifetime of that
42:06And where do you fall on that?
42:08Do you want to have kids?
42:09Yeah
42:09Do you want to settle down?
42:10Yeah I want to have kids
42:11I want to settle down yeah
42:11Whatever to sell
42:12Me too
42:14How many do you want?
42:16Um
42:17Oh
42:18If you fucking say seven
42:22It's not happening
42:23Okay I'll settle for five
42:24Oh my god
42:25I'm only joking
42:26I would like just to go home to someone
42:28And you know no matter what life throws at you
42:30There's always your best friend at home you know
42:33So it would be nice
42:35How do you find the moving around?
42:37That's awful yeah
42:38Yeah
42:38I'm not going to lie
42:39It has to be done
42:40We have to do every position
42:41For how long does it have to be done?
42:42So I have a year long post in Tremor
42:45And then I'm back in the hospital on medical call
42:47For four months
42:49Don't worry I'll come back every weekend
42:50No no no no
42:50If you're crossing me
42:53No
42:53No
42:54No no honestly
42:55I travel a lot for work as well
42:57Do you?
42:58Well maybe we could
42:58You know circuits could work
43:00Yeah
43:01If you want to go on more dates
43:04I would love to go on and have a date
43:05I would really love it
43:07Really?
43:07Perfect yeah
43:08You're perfect
43:10Perfect
43:10Perfect
43:15Oh that looks gorgeous
43:17Oh look at you
43:19Enjoy
43:20Look at you
43:22Now go for it
43:23Go on
43:23Okay do I crack it
43:24I don't know
43:25I don't know
43:26Oh no it doesn't crack
43:27Oh it's soft
43:28Oh look at you
43:30Mmm
43:31Did you feel a spark?
43:33I did
43:33Yes I did feel a spark
43:35I'm very happy with my choice
43:36Mmm
43:37Do you want a taste?
43:38Would you like a taste?
43:39Mmm
43:40There was just so many connections
43:43And it was like
43:45Tick
43:46Tick
43:47Tick
43:47Cheers again
43:49Cheers
43:49Cheers
43:50To our first date
43:51First
43:52We were both wanting the same thing
43:54It just started to feel right
43:57Thank you very much
43:59Thank you
44:00You're very welcome
44:00Gentlemen
44:02Absolutely
44:03Flowers and dinner
44:05I know
44:05I've been looking forward to this for a while
44:11Would you guys like to see each other again?
44:14Do you want to go first or shall I?
44:16Please do
44:17I'd like to
44:18Yes very much
44:20And I'd like to also
44:21Yes
44:24Thank you
44:25Thank you
44:26Thank you
44:26I appreciate it
44:28Bye now
44:32Vicino mare
44:34He's so nice
44:36Handsome
44:37Beautiful eyes
44:38Oh and I love the accent
44:42Absolutely love the accent
44:46We were ticking off boxes of the different things that we had in common
44:52Lots to learn about one another
44:54It was all
44:55It was meant to be from there
44:56Yeah
44:58Do you think Robin is boyfriend material?
45:00Yes
45:01It's exciting
45:02It is exciting
45:03Yeah
45:07Where will date number two be?
45:10I think it will include red wine
45:11Yes
45:12Live music
45:13Yes
45:13And I think I'll maybe invite you out to Malahide
45:17Malahide
45:17Yeah
45:18It's happening
45:24Mwah
45:26Mwah
45:27Mwah
45:28Mwah
45:28Mwah
45:29Mwah
45:38Mwah
45:39Now
45:40So I'm here to tell you lovely people
45:42We gotta go
45:43Are you serious?
45:44Oh my god
45:45It actually flew
45:46I thought it was just beginning
45:49Tell me what went through your mind when you first saw her
45:52Oh my god
45:52I was like oh god
45:53Way out of my league here
45:56Do you want to split?
45:57Absolutely not
45:58Thank you so much
46:00The chats were absolutely amazing
46:01She is exactly my type of girl
46:04Through and through
46:05Thank you so much
46:06The service is great
46:07Everybody is great
46:0810 out of 10
46:0910 out of 10
46:10Thank you so much
46:10Would recommend
46:11Such a pleasure to have you both
46:13Yeah
46:13Such fun
46:15Would you like to see each other again romantically?
46:183
46:192
46:201
46:20Yes
46:21No you didn't
46:23Did you plan that?
46:25No I thought you were going to say it first
46:26The man always has to answer that
46:27Oh do I say it first?
46:28You have to say it
46:29The man has to say it first
46:29Yes
46:29A hundred percent yes
46:30A thousand percent
46:33Yes
46:33Yes
46:34Yes
46:35I'm really glad we met
46:37Me too
46:38I'm really glad too
46:38Yeah honestly
46:39I think this is going to be
46:40This is something special
46:42I just want to know you better know
46:45You better now
46:46It was amazing
46:48He's so nice
46:49He's so genuine
46:50Very similar values
46:52Wants to get married
46:53Wants to have kids
46:54I just can't believe he hasn't been kind of like snapped up at this point in his life
46:57To be honest
46:58All I know is his third hand jackets
47:01I actually brought a jumper for you
47:03In case you wanted to go and drink with me
47:05Yes
47:05Thank you so much
47:06Could he get out in a bottle?
47:08Thanks
47:10I have a wedding coming up in Italy
47:11I need a plus one for
47:12When's the wedding?
47:13And September
47:14And there's another one in Edinburgh
47:15Do you want to go?
47:16Let's go!
47:17Okay let's
47:17Oh my god
47:18Swan dive into this
47:20Everything has changed
47:23Bye
47:25Where are you going?
47:26If life has taught me anything
47:27It's that
47:29You don't know
47:29What's around the corner
47:31I had definitely kind of given up for a while
47:34And I did have a good feeling about this date
47:36But I didn't fully know
47:36Take him down
47:37Take him down
47:38And open up the door for you
47:40I feel like I've always wanted someone like her
47:42You know not to jump the gun or anything
47:44But I felt
47:45She
47:46I could definitely
47:46Wake up to her someday
47:47He
47:49Ticks literally
47:50All the boxes
47:51It's all I know
47:53Is you have the door
47:54He's definitely boyfriend material
47:56Yeah
47:57Woo!
47:58I've lost you yesterday
48:01It's everything
48:03It has to change
48:04Come back and tell me why
48:08I'm feeling
48:09I think you're like giggly cheating
48:11I don't know
48:12Are they all right?
48:13Oh well
48:14You're never too old
48:17And leave me there tonight
48:20And let me know that it's not all in my mind
48:28What do you think, a little jive?
48:30I don't think a jive
48:31I don't think a jive
48:32Less I could have about four points before that
48:34You'll be mine and I'll be your home
48:37I know since yesterday
48:39Yeah
48:40Cause everything has changed
48:43All I know is to tell her
48:45I would like to take you to places that you'll like and just see a smile
48:49I like being taken to places
48:50Let's do it
49:08Let's do it
49:23I'm going to remember
49:24I'm an area
49:24I'm a good boy
49:24I'm a good boy
49:26I'm a good boy
49:28I'm a good boy
49:31I'm a good boy
49:34What's going to say?
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