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Unexpected - Season 7 Episode 11 - Co-Parenting Your Baby
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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Chris said I'd help me get you.
00:03Oh, you're going to school.
00:05Hopefully, Hunter graduates eighth grade.
00:07A lot of it is he doesn't get to see his dad anymore.
00:10Kind of all fell apart after Bella got pregnant.
00:12He said I ruined my life.
00:15Hunter just texted me and said, is Bella pregnant?
00:18Why would he text me that?
00:19How long did you wait after I want to start on the next day?
00:23I think we only waited four days.
00:26We're making dinner and meal prepping.
00:28I support my own losing weight.
00:29I just feel like I shouldn't go crazy.
00:32Jose, can you wash the baby, please?
00:34He's only working part time.
00:36Eight hours a week is not an excuse to be as unhelpful as he is.
00:40Give him to me.
00:40I need them to be able to carry the weight of being parents.
00:43And hopefully, it happens before Mother's Day,
00:46because this mom is wore out.
00:48Where you been, dude?
00:49They done took her back down there.
00:53I wanted my mom back there with me, but she wasn't there.
00:55Where? What's your mom?
00:56I don't know.
00:58Her first outside experience.
01:01I do appreciate my dad for letting Jessie stay for two weeks since Oakley's here, but I still don't think
01:06it's long enough.
01:07All I ask is what kind of frisky business.
01:10Wow.
01:10Ain't no well about it.
01:11I don't really want to move out on my own, but I will if I have to.
01:16We don't want anybody to know she's here.
01:18Yes, sir.
01:19It's induction day, and I do not want any more drama from Bryce or his family.
01:22Baby might have been born already. We don't even know.
01:25Decent human beings would not inflict pain like this.
01:30She's coming back.
01:31I am so freaking pissed.
01:35She's here.
01:38I feel it when you're looking deep into my eyes. I feel it when you say my name.
01:49She's so cute. How are you feeling, babe?
01:53Weird.
01:54Weird?
01:55Yeah.
01:56Why?
01:56Because it feels weird.
01:57I feel like waking up in your house, but I can get used to it.
02:02Me too.
02:04I can get used to waking up to Jessie every day, but now that I wake up to him every
02:08day,
02:08he sweats so bad in his sleep, and he takes up the whole bed.
02:13Like, I mean, the whole bed.
02:15This is our bed, and this is how he sleeps.
02:19It's terrible.
02:20Terrible.
02:26What time is the baby?
02:278.30.
02:28So I'll get up in the pump and then get the baby ready, and back to everybody.
02:34It's been a few days since we got home from the hospital, and it's been pretty good.
02:38Like, when it comes to nighttime, around 7 o'clock, somebody feeds the baby, whether
02:42it's dad or me or Jessie.
02:45Yeah.
02:45Somebody feeds the baby, and then around 7.30, 8 o'clock, we give her a bath, and then
02:49we put her diaper on, put her brand new clothes on, and then we swatter her up all nice.
02:54And then me and Jessie take turns during the night.
02:57Jessie's been doing good.
02:58He's doing what he has to do.
02:59Hopefully, he keeps it up, but I guess we'll see sooner than later.
03:05She was awake so much last night.
03:07We were all eyes open and everything.
03:09I'm ready to go to these appointments, come home, and leave her bed.
03:12Oh, my dad's calling me.
03:14Hello?
03:15Hey, you called?
03:16Yeah.
03:16I was going to say you forgot to leave the car seat, but AK's going to go get a car
03:21seat.
03:23Oh, yeah.
03:23I didn't know I was supposed to leave it.
03:25Oh, the doctor's appointment.
03:27Yeah.
03:28Oh, , man.
03:30Today's Oakley's one-week doctor's appointment, and we forgot her car seat in my dad's truck.
03:36My dad went to work at 6 o'clock in the morning.
03:39AK's on the way to get us, and I remember, oh, we don't have a car seat.
03:46Mom brain is a real thing, OK?
03:48But I'm sorry.
03:49Like, I'm tired.
03:51Your girl's tired.
03:53AK's going to go get one and then bring us to the appointment and do his...
03:58No, I haven't heard from her.
04:00Yeah.
04:01Because of how big of a deal my mom made for my last doctor's appointment, I did try reaching
04:05out to her.
04:06She's a minor, and I'm her mother.
04:07She's only up to make her own decisions on who wants to bring her.
04:10You may think that, but you know what?
04:11She is a minor, and I am her mother.
04:13But she didn't respond.
04:15Sorry, babe.
04:16It's OK, Dad.
04:17I know I told you, like, yesterday morning, but, like, I forgot to remind you.
04:22Well, I would like to be involved with helping, but you have not reached out to me.
04:26Yes, I have.
04:28On days, like, we have appointments, I'd be texting you all day long.
04:31Days that we have appointments, you're lying right now.
04:34You're lying.
04:35Mom, you never answer me.
04:36You're lying, man.
04:37You never answer anybody.
04:38Bull crap, Mia.
04:39You don't text me at all.
04:40Look and see.
04:42I texted you this day telling you you had mail at the house, and you didn't answer
04:46me.
04:46What was I supposed to say to I have mail?
04:48You don't even answer me.
04:49When do you text me, like, just to say, hey, Mom?
04:52Why would I text you just to say, hey, Mom, if you're not going to answer me?
04:55Yeah.
04:56Since I got out of the hospital, you've texted me twice.
04:59No.
04:59Yes.
05:00Let me see.
05:01This is when I was in the hospital.
05:03You told me you were in the car.
05:05Mm-hmm.
05:06How's the baby?
05:07Better.
05:07Wait, wait, wait.
05:08Let me get my phone.
05:10Where did you contact me?
05:12Mom, you're my mother.
05:14Mia, you're my daughter.
05:15And you're my mom.
05:15Where have you contacted me?
05:17When do you contact me?
05:18Mia, I know you see what's going on there.
05:20She literally just told me that she didn't, she's texted me more than twice.
05:22Let me see.
05:23She just saw that she only texted me twice.
05:24You're lying.
05:25Pick up your phone.
05:26You just.
05:26Let me see.
05:27Pick up your phone.
05:28Pick up your phone.
05:29I'm done talking.
05:30I'm done talking.
05:30Pick up your phone.
05:31I'm done talking.
05:33My God.
05:54Stop.
06:00Please.
06:07All right.
06:08All right.
06:08I love you.
06:08Have a good day.
06:09I love you, too.
06:10Be careful.
06:10Kiss her for me.
06:11I will.
06:14I would say because of how my mom is, I know exactly what I don't want to be as a
06:18mom.
06:18And I know exactly what I do want to be as a mom.
06:21No matter how old my daughter, no matter if she was 16 like I am, or 26, I would always
06:26be there for her if she needed me.
06:30What a beautiful world it is.
06:37Happy first Mother's Day.
06:41Enjoy every moment of being a mother because it goes fast.
06:47My first Mother's Day is interesting.
06:51It's like, it was always like, oh, I get to appreciate my mom today.
06:55Now it's like I get to appreciate my mom today and be appreciated.
07:00It's crazy.
07:02It was kind of my holiday and now I got to share it, but that's cool.
07:05That's with her.
07:06I'm willing to do that.
07:13Aww.
07:15You know Maya loves her roses.
07:17I know.
07:18Thank you so much.
07:19That's for me?
07:21Oh.
07:24You want me to hold the baby so you can open your stuff?
07:26No.
07:26He just went to sleep.
07:29On a day that's all about moms, I'm feeling grateful for you.
07:33In so many ways, you've been like a mom to me.
07:38Here, read it out loud for me.
07:41You didn't even get through the first one.
07:43No, I know.
07:44I'm over here on this side.
07:46Thank you for everything you have done for me, Mama G.
07:48I am forever grateful for you taking me in.
07:50You've taught me a lot and that's why you deserve the best Mother's Day.
07:53Aww.
07:57Thank you, Jose.
07:59And I love you like you're my son.
08:02I love you too.
08:04Mama G is a lot of things to me, including my mom.
08:08I feel like she has helped me a lot.
08:11Not even just being a better dad.
08:13Just personally, if there's like any problem or anything that I'm going through, she's always there.
08:19So yeah, I do love her.
08:21You better.
08:22To Amaya from Jose.
08:25Happy Mother's Day.
08:26I hope you enjoy this.
08:29A gift card for the perfect style.
08:32The value is $200.
08:34Is that for you?
08:35Thank God.
08:37What is this?
08:38Nailed it.
08:38Treat yourself to beautiful nails.
08:41Value $50.
08:43Ooh.
08:44Dang.
08:45Great gift.
08:46I know.
08:47I gave her gifts as an offering of my shortcomings.
08:52I do feel bad that Maya isn't really feeling supported by me with Sammy and typically I'd just be taking
08:59her out to eat and stuff.
09:01But now that she's on a diet, I want to help support her.
09:04So I just got her a hair appointment instead.
09:07I am impressed that he did all this on his own because boys are kind of stupid.
09:10I'm not gonna lie.
09:12Like...
09:14And he's doing pretty good at supporting me on my weight loss journey, even though I know he's cheating when
09:19he thinks I'm not looking.
09:22Lies.
09:23Right.
09:25Go ahead and read it.
09:26I want to hear this.
09:27Okay.
09:27I am forever grateful for the sacrifices you took in giving me my son.
09:33I'm already about to cry.
09:35Oh, my God.
09:36You're the greatest mom to Sammy and take care of him all the time for me while I'm at work.
09:40I think you deserve this and so much more.
09:44Oh, my God.
09:44Oh, my God.
09:45That's beautiful.
09:46Thank you, Jose.
09:47You gonna get up and give him a hug?
09:49Yes.
09:49Can I, like, collect myself?
09:51Get yourself together.
09:51I think the man deserves it after that.
09:53It does mean a lot that he appreciates what I do and he recognizes that.
10:00But it doesn't change the fact that he's still not being as helpful as me and the baby need him
10:06to be.
10:09Get up.
10:11No.
10:12Oh.
10:13Oh.
10:15Thank you so much.
10:17You're welcome.
10:19I think you should sell that with a kiss, at least.
10:21Jeez.
10:21You guys act like you hate each other.
10:23She does hate me.
10:24I don't.
10:27Wow.
10:28No, that's why he doesn't get that.
10:30I feel like only time will tell on how, like, if we're gonna stop fighting so much.
10:36And, like, if he's gonna help more with the baby.
10:38Like, the gifts don't really mean nothing regarding to that.
10:41So, I am grateful, though.
10:45Well, we gotta give Sammy a bath and you gotta go to work.
10:48Wow, you're kicking me out already.
10:50Thank you for everything.
10:51I appreciate my card and my flowers.
10:54You're welcome.
10:55Jose has to put in the work.
10:57It takes more than financials to be a parent.
11:03A lot more.
11:05But I'm glad he's trying.
11:10I would like for dad to come to the game.
11:12Did he ever answer your text?
11:14No.
11:15The relationship with my dad has been not good since Wes's been born.
11:19He won't come see him.
11:20I still have hope.
11:21He can see that I have not ruined my life, because my life is not ruined.
11:25Go, Hannah, go!
11:27So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate?
11:30No.
11:32Haisley is the one who's gonna suffer in the end,
11:34because she's gonna miss out on a lifetime of a father that adores her.
11:39I don't wanna talk about it no more, because it's gonna piss me off.
11:58Can I have her?
11:59I'm trying to sing to her.
12:01Yeah.
12:02Oh, hold on.
12:02Can I bond with my namesake?
12:05Uh, hi-ya.
12:06She even has all my initials.
12:08Hey, princess.
12:09Yes.
12:12She's named after me.
12:15Um, and I just love her.
12:16There's no better feeling in the world than to hold your daughter's daughter.
12:22Can I see them?
12:23Because I just love looking at her name.
12:25Yeah, I like her name.
12:27So, this is Haisley Natasha Skye Stone.
12:31Haisley's middle name is Natasha Skye.
12:34I just felt like my mom earned that.
12:38She was six pounds, 19.
12:41Six pounds, six ounces, 19 and three quarters inches long.
12:45Period.
12:46Okay.
12:47And my mom gots it down.
12:50Yep.
12:57So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate?
13:00No.
13:02He's not here.
13:05Can't put someone on the birth certificate that's not here.
13:09I did not put Bryce on the birth certificate, because I just...
13:14No thanks.
13:16Bryce still doesn't know he has a daughter.
13:19Like, he still hasn't reached out.
13:21And he knows that I wanted to get induced on the 5th.
13:25I mean, that says what it needs to say about him.
13:30Obviously, he doesn't deserve to be on the birth certificate.
13:37I'm here to put me on the birth certificate.
13:39No.
13:40Just like, I just want you to laugh.
13:43I'm just trying to make you feel better.
13:46Haisley is the one who's gonna suffer in the end,
13:49because she's gonna miss out on a lifetime of a father that adores her.
13:54And he did everything right.
13:55And now he's just, like, out.
13:58You know?
13:58Well, like, throw him away.
14:00Well, hey.
14:10I don't want to talk about it no more, because it's gonna piss me off.
14:14There ain't nothing I can do about it.
14:15It is what it is.
14:18That's the whole thing, is he can't do anything about it.
14:21You know?
14:21And it's frustrating to him, because he loves the baby.
14:23He's trying to do the right thing.
14:25And, uh, what?
14:27He's just cut out from seeing his baby?
14:29Well, it falls below.
14:29Unless the paternity is established, you can't see her.
14:32You're just gonna have to be strong, be tough.
14:34And, uh, hey, it's not you doing it, it's them doing it to you.
14:37So, uh, you're just gonna have to suck it up.
14:40It's just part of one of those hard things of life, you know?
14:43Okay, he feels very uncomfortable talking about it anymore.
14:46I know he does.
14:46I'm going.
14:48Okay, well, I'm gonna come meet you.
14:50All right.
14:56All right.
14:59Boy, I'll tell you .
15:02I ain't never seen no people like this in the world.
15:05Hills have eyes, people.
15:11You all right to drive, or you want me to drive you home?
15:15You sure?
15:16Me or Nan could ride with you.
15:19Huh?
15:19Okay, well, wait a minute.
15:21We'll follow you home, huh?
15:22All right.
15:23I love you, son.
15:34Hi, Isabella's ready to go.
15:37Okay, thank you.
15:40Okay, come on, baby.
15:41Come on.
15:43I don't know.
15:44You have to be in a person.
15:45I try to make sure it tastes the best one for my leadership princess.
15:52There's been a lot of victories with bringing Haisley home, Isabella home, like, alive, healthy.
15:59Bryce is, like, out of the picture.
16:02Thanks, y'all.
16:04Bye.
16:04Bye.
16:05Bye.
16:07Yeah, whatever this is, buddy.
16:09Like, go live your life.
16:11I don't know what to tell you.
16:15Oh.
16:19Sit up, pumpkin.
16:21Now that Haisley's here, my only priority is Haisley and my happiness.
16:30But Haisley first, of course.
16:45Are you ready to go see your goofy daddy play baseball?
16:52Get away from me.
16:55Oh!
16:57My God, that sounded wet, Hunter.
16:59I think that was wet.
17:00Hang on, let me go check my pants.
17:02Oh, my God.
17:04He's gonna have a time, Mark.
17:04He's gonna have a quick shower.
17:10So, who's all going to the game?
17:13Mom and y'all.
17:15But I would like for Dad to come to the game and let him see Wes.
17:21Did he ever answer your text?
17:24No.
17:26That's sad.
17:27The relationship with my dad has been going not good since Wes has been born.
17:34He won't come see him, but I'd like him to.
17:37Why hasn't he met him yet?
17:40Because he's not making an effort.
17:42It is literally as simple as just showing up and being there, physically being there.
17:47Physically, mentally.
17:53We're here at Hunter's baseball beam.
17:55And his dad's not here.
17:57So, imagine that maybe Hunter will realize eventually.
18:03Yeah, we're all Hunter needs.
18:05Because obviously his dad's never been there anyway.
18:11I still have hope that I'll have a good relationship with him.
18:14Like, in a couple years.
18:16Not now.
18:17When he can see that I have not ruined my life, because my life is not ruined.
18:21I get to play sports.
18:22I get to do the stuff I wanted to do.
18:25Now he gets to teach his son how to do it all.
18:27Yeah.
18:29Mom, a junky baby.
18:32His onesie ain't gonna fit much longer.
18:35Sweet man, daddy's about to bat.
18:37I'm surprised.
18:39Despite Hunter's dad not showing up for him, Hunter has accomplished so much.
18:43He finished eighth grade.
18:46Aren't you so glad you're done?
18:49Why?
18:50Yes.
18:52We didn't want to add a year to school.
18:54Good grief.
18:56It feels good passing eighth grade, because my grades were pretty low.
19:01And then at the end of the year, I got them up.
19:04Pretty low is an understatement.
19:08They were all zeros.
19:09And then I got them up to like A's and B's when I actually tried.
19:13He's done really, really good.
19:15And he's really started helping me with Wes.
19:19He actually is changing poopy diapers now, so.
19:23Change the diapers.
19:26Which I don't give him an option, but he just does it.
19:29Was it just pee?
19:30No.
19:31Yes, it was.
19:32Nope, it was poop.
19:34That was some very pee-looking poop.
19:36See, I change the pee diapers, sometimes poopy ones.
19:40I don't do no runny poop.
19:42That's Bella's.
19:43Like the runny poop dripping out the diaper.
19:45You just on me.
19:48Did he?
19:50All over his blanket?
19:52Yeah.
19:53Hunter is doing a lot better than I thought he would for being 13 years old as a dad.
19:59Big dog.
20:01I don't know if I would say he's like a big dog or anything, but.
20:05I'd say he's doing all right.
20:07All right, really.
20:09I'm proud of him.
20:10A little bit.
20:11A little bit.
20:13That's all I need.
20:14That's a lot coming from him.
20:16Mm-hmm.
20:17Home run, Hunter.
20:21You better run!
20:23Go, Hunter, go!
20:26Hunter, I want to have another baby.
20:28I just want to relive what I had with Wes, because he's growing so fast.
20:37You're crazy.
20:41Am I though?
20:43Um, a little bit, yeah.
20:46Each to their own.
20:48No.
20:49What would you have to see?
20:51No.
20:52Never.
20:53That's what you say.
20:54I don't know.
20:57We'll see.
21:10Hey, are y'all so excited?
21:11It's your first day of high school.
21:14I am.
21:15Hey, get in here.
21:16Y'all gotta go to school.
21:17I love you.
21:18I love you.
21:18It's so good.
21:20Take a little lipstick on him.
21:23I do think I'm lucky that I have parents who are so supportive and help me and my sister
21:28with our babies.
21:30Hi, beauty girl.
21:32Oh, look, they're holding hands, kinda.
21:36Mom has sacrificed a lot.
21:38She literally quit her job so she could be an in-home babysitter.
21:42And dad takes extra hours just to make sure we have enough.
21:46Looks like I'm gonna have to work for a long time to take care of these grandkids.
21:51Say bye-bye-bye.
21:53Bye-bye-bye.
21:54Bye-bye-bye.
21:57And they're gone.
21:58Bye-bye.
22:00Have you changed your mind at all about getting on any type of birth control yourself?
22:06I'm not getting on birth control.
22:08I don't need a birth control.
22:10You do realize you've taken a plan B if you figure it up every month since you've had
22:15him.
22:15I'm not pregnant anymore.
22:17No.
22:19I would be surprised if she made it to her junior year and not be pregnant again.
22:23We'll see if I can make it to my 16th birthday.
22:26Let's go, momma!
22:28My heart is sinking because I want her to do nothing more than buckle that buckle.
22:34I can't.
22:35It's not reaching you.
22:43Ready?
22:48It's been like three months since that terrible-ass go-kart date with Jose.
23:01Not fitting into the go-kart was the motivation I needed to change my diet and start working
23:06out.
23:07But let me tell you, it has not been an easy journey.
23:10One.
23:11And up.
23:12You got that.
23:13Perfect.
23:14Two.
23:14Being that big, after gaining a whole bunch of weight rapidly like that, and I'm not
23:19going to say out of nowhere because I know what I was eating while I was pregnant.
23:23I was on them donuts at 3 a.m.
23:25But just starting working out out of nowhere is really hard.
23:28Ooh, that hurts.
23:30What hurts?
23:30Your knees?
23:31Like right here.
23:32Your quads.
23:33Yes.
23:35So I feel like I've pushed through a lot of BS.
23:37And one more.
23:41And relax.
23:42Awesome.
23:44I gained 60 pounds during my pregnancy and my first goal of my weight loss was to hit
23:52285 because that's how much I weighed before I got pregnant.
23:56And I'm hoping that my hard work is finally paying off.
23:59So it's been three months since I've been working out with Carolina.
24:04I'm about to check right now to see if I made any progress.
24:08I'm nervous.
24:09OK.
24:11The progress is showing off.
24:15285.
24:16She hit it.
24:18Ay.
24:20Ay.
24:21But I don't know if it's going to be enough to fit into the go-kart.
24:29There she is!
24:31Oh my god, y'all are so embarrassing!
24:34Come on, Farrah.
24:35OK.
24:37Let's go, mama!
24:39Oh man.
24:40Let's go, Maya!
24:42Come on, mama!
24:49I can't...
24:50I just want to reach in.
24:52My heart is sinking because I want to be a baby.
24:55I want her to do nothing more than buckle that buckle.
25:02Getting that phone call from Amaya
25:04when she was on the date,
25:06and just hearing her, like,
25:09break down in the bathroom by herself, it was hard.
25:13Why are you crying?
25:15Because I didn't fit on the go-karts.
25:17I want to go home.
25:18Why couldn't you fit?
25:20I guess I was too fat.
25:23You got this?
25:25Come on, Mama.
25:28Come on, Mai-Mai.
25:29Let's go, Mai-Mai.
25:31I'm just hoping that she gets it to click,
25:33because I know how upset Mai was about the go-karts.
25:37You've never been too fat for anything.
25:39Yes, I have.
25:40No, you haven't. Not like that.
25:42And I don't want her to feel that way ever again.
25:54It's like, click.
25:56And I'm, like, so happy.
25:58Whoo!
26:01Yeah!
26:03I could jump onto a building right now, not off.
26:06I could jump from the ground up, OK?
26:08Oh, that's how happy I am.
26:16I'm really proud of Mai-Mai being able to meet her goal weight,
26:20since she has been crying to me,
26:21and she's been working really hard for it.
26:23Don't say I've been crying to you.
26:25Like, what do you have?
26:26Girl, you have been crying.
26:28Y'all are so, like,
26:29Amaya literally, like, fits and crying.
26:31Y'all are telling the business, for real.
26:34But it's true.
26:35Oh, don't.
26:36That's how much it means to you.
26:37You're right.
26:39Oh, my God!
26:41Oh, my God!
26:42Oh, my God!
26:43Oh, my God!
26:45So it's not just Amaya that I'm proud of.
26:48I'm definitely proud of Jose, and the changes
26:50that he's made as far as stepping up
26:52and helping Amaya more with Sammy.
26:56Taking them and, yes, while you sleep.
27:00OK.
27:01She gets more sleep now than she has ever.
27:04Mm-hmm.
27:07Whoo!
27:11Nothing is perfect, and we definitely
27:13have our arguments.
27:15Since being teen parents is stressful,
27:18but I just feel like I found my person.
27:21I did let you pass.
27:23Nah.
27:24Yes, I did.
27:25It always starts as an argument that ends up
27:27in us, like, flirting.
27:29And she's like, Jose, I love you.
27:31Oh, my God.
27:31I still love you.
27:33I hate you.
27:34I've never said I hate him.
27:38Hi!
27:38Say, Mommy!
27:40Mommy did it!
27:41My hopes for Amaya and Jose's relationship
27:45is that they can continue to give each other
27:48the balance that they need, you know?
27:51It takes a little bit of giving and a little bit
27:53of taking in any relationship.
27:55But I just hope that they do what's best for Sammy.
28:08Hey!
28:12We heard you the first time.
28:14Well, I took you, huh?
28:15Yeah.
28:16Ooh!
28:17Who is it?
28:18The handcuffers!
28:21What's changed in the last few months?
28:24Me and Amaya broke up, and then I moved out
28:26and started living with my grandma.
28:30I'm not going to cry about it.
28:32Well, I always don't cry about it,
28:34but I'm not going to just stick on that
28:37for the rest of my life.
28:38But I feel like there are some moments
28:40where I could have viewed myself living a life
28:44with them and all that and building a home
28:46with all of them.
28:47But now it's just, like, memories.
28:54Well, she didn't want to be in a relationship with me.
28:56Uh, that's not what happened, actually.
28:58We broke up because we had been arguing a lot,
29:00and one morning he was yelling at me,
29:03talking about some, I never shut the up
29:05and da-da-da and all this.
29:07So I broke up with him.
29:09Because you're not about to talk to me like that.
29:11What?
29:19I hope that for the sake of Sammy,
29:23they're not going to be together, at least co-parent.
29:25But I would love to see them together, though.
29:29I would love to see Sammy raised in a house
29:31with both his father and mother.
29:34Why is that important to you?
29:39When I was pregnant with her,
29:40I knew I was going to be a single mom.
29:50And I just don't want her to go through that.
29:55because it's not easy at all.
30:18This is not an easy decision for me at all.
30:21He won't let Desi move in.
30:22If he don't want us living our life at his house,
30:25then we'll live our life at a different house.
30:42Hey, hey.
30:44He's all right.
30:45He's OK.
30:46Mommy's making food.
30:49We've been home for about two weeks,
30:51and Desi has been a very big help.
30:53But my dad, he won't let Desi come move in,
30:56and he don't want me to move out.
30:58But, you know, he can't have his cake and eat it, too.
31:02If he don't want us living our life at his house,
31:05then we'll live our life at a different house.
31:14Dad's home.
31:16Come see her.
31:19She looks so cute.
31:20Come look at her.
31:25My sweet baby.
31:27I want to talk to the kids about Jesse staying at the house,
31:30because Mia's been nagging me ridiculously about it,
31:33and it's time we had the conversation.
31:37Now, look.
31:39All more inside.
31:41I've been going through a moral dilemma about this situation.
31:45This was not part of the plan.
31:51But I'm giving you a chance to stay here.
31:55Pass to two weeks.
31:56Because I love my daughter, and I don't want to lose her.
32:01OK?
32:02Yes, sir.
32:04I was raised Catholic.
32:06I mean, you don't shack up.
32:07You don't sleep around.
32:09You know, you wait till you're married.
32:10I mean, I know those are ridiculous things to ask of kids,
32:15especially these days.
32:17But, you know, if that's how you're raised,
32:19at least you sort of try to abide by that, you know?
32:24But after Mia gave me the ultimatum,
32:26I prayed about it almost every night.
32:29When he leaves, then I'm going back and forth
32:31with the baby.
32:32We're not having this conversation right now.
32:34I'm just telling you.
32:35I'm just telling you.
32:36It's still not cool to me, you know?
32:37But I just don't want to lose my daughter and my grandbaby.
32:42So we're going to give it a shot.
32:47This is not an easy decision for me at all.
32:49I know.
32:50No, I don't think you know.
32:52I do.
32:52No, I don't think you will know until you get older.
32:56So don't take it lightly.
32:57Do your best.
32:58You hear me?
32:59I'm serious, bruh.
33:00It's on you.
33:01It means a lot to me that my dad didn't just squash the idea.
33:07Nag, nag, nag, nag, nag, nag, nag.
33:09It would have been a constant just...
33:12Every freaking day, I need help, Dad.
33:15He's dramatic.
33:16That's what I'm getting at.
33:17Somebody would have been dramatic.
33:19No, he's dramatic.
33:20I can't do it alone, Dad.
33:22He's dramatic.
33:24But I'm thankful that he let him stay.
33:28And I'm thankful that he loves the baby girl just as much as I do.
33:36I am told, for sure.
33:40I love you, baby.
33:44That's all I got to say.
33:47I really, really appreciated it all.
33:49And so did Mia.
33:50But we were just so in shock because of how strong he is about his morals and all that.
33:56So we didn't really know what to say, but I was very appreciated.
34:00Appreciative.
34:01Is that the word?
34:02Yeah, that's close to that.
34:03Appreciative about it.
34:04And now I'm willing to do anything it'll take to prove to him that he didn't make a mistake.
34:10Good.
34:11You got to do it.
34:12I mean, you know, it's just...
34:15It's no choice.
34:17Well, I mean, you do have a choice, but you don't.
34:22Yeah, you don't.
34:24Yeah.
34:25What a big moment, huh, babe?
34:27Big moment.
34:28I didn't expect that.
34:30Got to stay on top of our game.
34:56Do you think of Jesse as more of a son-in-law now?
35:00More of a son-in-law, yes.
35:02It's not really seeing him step up.
35:04It's more of me stepping back.
35:06I guess in a certain way to me, it sounds stupid, but it's giving your daughter away at the
35:12wedding.
35:13It's like, I got to kind of just let him do what I want to do.
35:16Like, instinctively, I want to be by her side to do whatever's got to be done.
35:20And now I've got to not do that.
35:23So that's going to get some getting used to, but it's good, yeah.
35:29Just don't mess it up.
35:39Like, in a few years, like, once the baby's old enough and we're stable and we have what
35:47we need, I do want to marry Jesse.
35:51Well, first he has to propose, and then we'll start the other process.
36:11How would you say it's been gone?
36:13We'll run down.
36:15You take it.
36:16Living with Jesse's gone good, for the most part.
36:20He just gets my nerves a lot easier now.
36:24But that's it.
36:27I've had a few talks with him.
36:29That's amazing.
36:30Everything's been going pretty good, though, I would say.
36:33I would say.
36:35Yeah.
36:37I would say.
36:43You asked.
36:46You wanted it.
36:54Get some of it out of there.
36:56You got some quick hands, dog.
36:58I know.
37:09Once you've been with the men who act like Bryce acts, then you know how this ends.
37:15I don't like men who are mama's boys and crybabies.
37:18Mom.
37:19Okay, next question.
37:21Before we all start beefing on this couch.
37:23Before I beat up Bryce, I can't remember.
37:26For what?
37:26That's it.
37:33It's the baby.
37:35So tonight, we're having a family dinner.
37:40And, um, I don't know.
37:45it's unbelievable but you know here we are hey guys I always find a way now
38:13Bryce did what was important and did things that you know every man should do when they have a baby
38:20go get a job paying child support and being a responsible parent and then she said let's live
38:28together and he went and got him a place within what 48 hours yeah later
39:01you really eating on the remote
39:06how is he as a dad Bryce is a good dad just sometimes he doesn't know what to do
39:19I like men that provide and do what they're supposed to do I don't like men who are mama's
39:28boys and crybabies
39:35oh wait what will you shut your mouth um no but the issue with his grandparents and his mom
39:43not many men at his age are going to pick the baby and the girlfriend over their family
39:52nobody's asking like you to choose yeah but I'd much rather be at home spend time with y'all than
39:57go over there I didn't get a headache going in there no I'm kidding you're not kidding but it's okay
40:05Bryce
40:06mom okay next question before we all start beefing on this couch
40:15they've seen real seem real happy I haven't heard from him much you know because he he doesn't really
40:20want our help he wants to be on his own and it's been hard for us in a dream world
40:27I would wish that
40:29you know they would come to our house and have dinner you know just like a normal family
40:40god bless her whatever you know I hope she lives a happy life but there's not going to be a
40:46relationship between us
40:50hon is it that hard to put a freaking come on easy come on let's show that how we do
40:54this
40:55you just yank it down our foot I am scared to hurt her
40:58babies even the hospital told us babies are not as fragile as everybody thinks they are
41:04well I wasn't there to hear that whose fault is that mom I guess after all the drama and the
41:13fighting
41:14are you guys surprised that things have worked out the way that they're working out now
41:17I'm very surprised I'm not surprised it was just a matter of time until she fell back in love with
41:22me
41:24no
41:29I'm stealing them all from mommy
41:53do you guys think that your relationship will work this time and if so it's so different this time
42:00I don't hear what she has to say I think so because I think we're both like mentally there
42:06we're not as stressed out as like we was I mean Bryce does piss me off but like
42:12it's not as bad as it used to be now it's like piss her off give her five minutes go
42:16give her a hug and
42:17kiss and then hold hazely and she'll be all right
42:21you
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