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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 09: The Act of Monkey Barring
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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02You've never had my back.
00:04Yes, I have.
00:04You've never had my back.
00:05OK, you're happy now.
00:06I'm just done with Liz, and I'm just done
00:08with this whole trip.
00:10Liz.
00:10She just it all up.
00:12She's a horrible person.
00:15Sorry, everything's kind of going the way it's going right now.
00:18Via is becoming someone that I feel like I can trust.
00:23Do you want to have a baby with her?
00:28We just established today that you're not
00:30talking to other women, and now we're talking about babies.
00:34I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
00:37I don't know about completely sailed,
00:39because there's always options.
00:44Courtney broke up with me a few days ago,
00:47and here you go.
00:48My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada
00:51to save the day.
00:52So you're not going to get back together?
00:54Having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
00:58Thank you for seeing us.
01:00I wonder if Colt told his mom that he was sending jerk-off
01:03videos to other women.
01:05He thinks maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
01:10you could work this out.
01:12On a relationship standpoint, I'm done.
01:16Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me.
01:19I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
01:22My family can be a lot, but I'm not going to lose you,
01:25because my birthday party was wrong.
01:28I just need a bit of, like, time.
01:32Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
01:35You're worried that I'm a player.
01:36Yeah.
01:36Is that what you're getting at?
01:39Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya,
01:42because I feel like she's told her a lot about my past that now someone is using against me.
01:47I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
01:50This trip is off to such a bad start, and something happened today that makes me feel like
01:56I don't even know Tony whatsoever.
02:10Hola.
02:12Como esta?
02:13Bien, ¿y tú?
02:15Oh, sí.
02:28So Liz's not here yet, so I hope she will be calm,
02:31because we doesn't spoke with her a couple days, and it'd be so awkward.
02:35Yeah.
02:35But did you really just let this go?
02:38Yeah.
02:38I know we had a miscommunication, and, like, it wasn't great, but people make mistakes.
02:44It's been four days since me and Liz had our big fight,
02:47and Julia texted Liz to come and join us for some drinks.
02:50You know, it's up to her if she wants to continue our friendship,
02:52but I would love if she wants to, because I do value her.
02:56I think that every girl has a problem.
02:59Especially when they go on holiday.
03:00Oh, my God.
03:01Girls have issues.
03:02Then they're vacation.
03:03Yes, it's...
03:04They have a thing.
03:05Without the fight, it's going to be a not-girls trip.
03:08Let's go over there. It's more cuter.
03:10Oh, yeah, I agree.
03:11I was upset at Liz for talking to Pedro behind my back,
03:14but I did take it a little bit far.
03:17Especially after being on the receiving end of Pedro's family's craziness.
03:21So, if Liz does show up and she can see how we both went wrong,
03:24then hopefully we can just put this whole thing behind us.
03:30Hi.
03:31Hi, ladies.
03:32How are you?
03:33Hi.
03:39I haven't seen the girls in a few days.
03:41And I feel like shutting out a friend on a girl's trip is definitely mean girl energy.
03:47It doesn't feel good.
03:51I'm going to grab a drink.
03:53Can I grab you another?
03:55Can I get a pina colada?
03:56Yeah, thank you.
03:58But when Julia reached out, I decided it was worth hearing what Sophie has to say.
04:04Can I get two pina coladas, please?
04:07We came on this trip together.
04:10We still have a couple days left.
04:12So, I just, I need to clear the air.
04:15You're welcome.
04:16I'm glad you came.
04:19Because it's been a couple days silence and now it's time to back to our girls trip.
04:25I've been super overwhelmed since I got here.
04:27Not because of you, but because of me and Pedro.
04:30And it's been a lot.
04:32And I know, like, I probably came a bit too hard on you.
04:34And I apologize for that.
04:37I think I was projecting, like, my emotions.
04:41I really don't want, like, drama or pettiness.
04:45I really didn't have any intention of being malicious.
04:48I didn't have any intention of trying to harm you.
04:51Yeah.
04:52So, I'm sorry.
04:53I hope you do know that.
04:55I appreciate you saying sorry.
04:56And I'm sorry, too, if I seemed like I was, like, emotional.
05:02No one's perfect.
05:03People bake it.
05:04So, what you're saying is we got our first fight out of the way.
05:06Yes, yes, yes.
05:09I generally feel like Sophie had time to reflect on what had happened.
05:13Her apologies seemed very sincere.
05:15I really hope she believes my apology.
05:19I still feel like the outcast in some way.
05:22But I'm going to move forward and enjoy the rest of this trip.
05:26And, oh, my gosh, please just no more drama.
05:31I'm happy that this is all squashed.
05:33Like, even though, like, I wasn't with you this weekend,
05:36I want to know how you and Pedro are doing.
05:41Well, it was really bad.
05:43It was really bad.
05:44It was bad.
05:45Oh, my God.
05:47Okay, so Pedro introduces me to his mom.
05:49He did great.
05:51He was like, look, this is Sophie.
05:52She's not my girlfriend.
05:53She's my friend.
05:53I'm getting to know her.
05:55The first thing she says to me, she goes,
05:58you're not dating him yet,
05:59because you haven't had his banana and his eggs yet.
06:06He's in his .
06:07His mom said that in front of everyone.
06:09This is, like, first, like, first encounter.
06:12And then the sister comes to me.
06:14She goes to me, I don't trust you.
06:17That's a lot, Sophie.
06:19It's a lot.
06:19After that, I do need to step back and be like,
06:22okay, well, let me focus.
06:23I am single.
06:23I don't need to have all these issues right now.
06:27And since I got here,
06:28there was a guy that I found on my social media
06:31that lives literally in this area.
06:34And we have been talking.
06:36This guy's fine.
06:38I need to show you him.
06:39Oh, my God, I'm blushing.
06:41Like, okay.
06:44I was scrolling through some of the local guys on social media,
06:46and there's this one guy in particular that looks really cute.
06:50And I just feel like he could be really fun to meet up with.
06:52Okay, this is him, this is him.
06:53Okay, let's start with that one.
06:55Oh, yeah.
06:56Hell, yeah!
06:58Sophie, you need all of this for you.
07:03He rides motorcycles.
07:04He's tall, he's good looking, and he's in shape.
07:09I'm single, I'm on holiday, and I've told Pedro I need some space.
07:13This is a little fling, a little eel.
07:16And this guy looks like the right amount of space.
07:20So, when do you plan on hanging out with him?
07:23Uh, in a couple days, you know.
07:24I said, I still dance, you know, pleasure,
07:26but everything will happen in DR.
07:28Stay in DR.
07:30Cheers to this.
07:32Welcome to our crazy friendship party.
07:34Yes.
07:35That's all with you.
07:38Cheers.
07:51Good morning.
07:53Good morning.
07:54How are you?
07:55I'm feeling good.
07:56Ooh, yeah.
07:57Morning latte.
08:00Everything okay?
08:16Well, in terms of how the night ended, Tony was really upset.
08:21Did you really go so harsh at him?
08:23What happened?
08:24I wasn't hard on him.
08:25I was just kind of asking a question.
08:26Hey, what's up?
08:26What's your plan?
08:27I know Vinny is looking for a long-term relationship.
08:29Are you on the same page or not?
08:32That was nice-ish.
08:33Okay.
08:35I brought Tony to Maine to spend my birthday with my family.
08:39But instead, ever since we arrived, it's been a complete disaster.
08:44Last night, Tony stormed off to bed after Sanella started grilling him about his past.
08:50But before he even arrived to my cousin's home,
08:54I saw a side of Tony that I didn't know existed.
08:57And this could be a deal-breaker for us.
09:00I don't know if you picked up on what was happening when you were doing my eyebrows and my lips.
09:05Tony was blowing up my phone, and obviously I couldn't pick up because we were working on my face.
09:10Mm-hmm.
09:10And I called him back after we were done.
09:13And he was so angry that he ended up hanging up the phone on me.
09:17And you know that in my book, that's one of the most rudest things you can do to me.
09:22Like, you do not do that.
09:24Then, you know, when he showed up to the house,
09:27he was trying to make it look like he was ignoring what just transpired.
09:32The reason why he was upset just because you didn't pick up the phone.
09:35That's it.
09:35Yeah.
09:37It's too soon.
09:38If this is happening this early in a relationship, it's only going to get worse later.
09:44He completely freaked out about not being able to reach me, and he hung up the phone on me.
09:50He just blew up.
09:53It was disrespectful.
09:55It was hurtful.
09:56And I just don't know how to process this or what to do about it.
10:01It sounds very controlling.
10:03Yeah.
10:04So this is something that I'm going to have to deal with.
10:07I'm going to have to address it with him.
10:10It has to be done.
10:11Better sooner than later.
10:12I know.
10:14Tony made plans to go paddle boarding today,
10:16and I want to use this time to really get an answer about what happened yesterday.
10:25How'd you sleep last night, Tony?
10:27Did not get a good night's sleep.
10:28Kind of thinking about the conversation last night and what transpired.
10:32And Sonella just unleashed on me, and I just feel like I'm getting teamed up on.
10:36I feel like I'm alone in this, and I just feel a little bit awkward right now.
10:55Walk we go to the adventure.
10:57Walk we go.
10:57Oh, all right, to the coast.
11:07I think it's good to get out of the house.
11:09And there's just a little bit, I mean, not even a little bit.
11:13There was quite a bit of tension yesterday.
11:17Sonala came at me pretty hard.
11:18What do you mean, she came at you pretty hard?
11:21She kind of threw out a lot of history
11:23that was from a while ago.
11:24I think Sonala just has something against me.
11:27And I don't think it's fair that she just comes out
11:29and attacks me on the first night.
11:30I just feel like I was kind of blindsided by it all.
11:32Well, she's worried for me.
11:34She wants to make sure that you have the best interest
11:36for me in your heart.
11:38If you saw what happened, I was being attacked.
11:41She's just looking out for me.
11:43And I think that she went about it the wrong way.
11:46But I think she had good intentions.
11:51I know Sonala is Vanya's best friend.
11:54But instead of really trying to communicate with me,
11:57it becomes my cousin first and let's see what her opinions are.
12:01And out of respect for me,
12:03I would just prefer that we work out our issues together.
12:07They don't have to be spread to the whole world.
12:12Howdy, folks.
12:12How you doing?
12:13Good, good.
12:14We have a reservation for Tony.
12:16Unfortunately, we've got some thunderstorms rolling in.
12:20Unfortunately, we just can't have folks on the water
12:22when we're doing thunder and lightning.
12:24All right.
12:25Okay, then.
12:25You want to just walk around?
12:27Yeah, might as well.
12:27You can walk by the water.
12:34I feel like you can cut the tension with a knife.
12:38Tony's being really quiet,
12:40but you need to man up and own your mistakes.
12:44There's nothing that I have done ever to this point
12:48that would warrant somebody hanging up the phone on me.
12:51It's disrespectful, it's rude, it's childish,
12:53and I will not tolerate it.
12:57So why are you so quiet?
13:01Something on your mind?
13:02Yeah.
13:05You hung up the phone on me and you got upset at me.
13:09Not my cousin, you got upset at me.
13:12And I didn't do anything wrong.
13:14You knew what I was doing the whole time.
13:15She was doing permanent makeup on me.
13:17I couldn't talk and you got upset because I couldn't talk.
13:21I mean, I'm in a new place, a new setting.
13:25You know, you have your family here, I have no one here,
13:27so I thought I could just kind of rely on you and mourn
13:31and, you know.
13:33I didn't know it was bothering you so much, though.
13:35So much.
13:36Like, this is so important for me, for you to meet my family.
13:40And it's all starting off on the wrong foot.
13:45This is a special weekend for me
13:47and these are the most special people in my life.
13:50And did you hang up the phone on me?
13:53And you're just ignoring me?
13:56This is horrible.
14:02We have a great connection,
14:04but our connection hasn't really been physical.
14:08Don't get nervous.
14:09So far, we've fooled around, kissed a bit, but we haven't had sex.
14:15Okay.
14:17Tonight is the night, baby.
14:20Look at that big hoodie.
14:21Oh, my God.
14:22That's how I like it.
14:24So, I guess I have not told you, ladies.
14:26Wait, what?
14:27Yeah.
14:29I've been keeping a secret since arriving in the DR.
14:32The worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him.
14:35Yeah.
14:35That's the worst thing you could do.
14:37Feelings between Via and I are evolving very quickly,
14:40and he might be hurt by what I have to share with him,
14:44and he might not want anything to do with me.
14:58I think I need a few shots.
15:00I need a nightcap for sure.
15:03You know what happens when I get a few shots at me?
15:05Oh, my God, yes.
15:05No, I just care.
15:06I do.
15:07I do.
15:18I do.
15:19Uncle Marco's interesting.
15:20He's an interesting character.
15:22He had a lot of questions.
15:25You know, I mean...
15:26Yeah.
15:27All those questions.
15:28There was a lot to absorb, but, you know,
15:30I just think that we need to walk before we run.
15:37I invited Natalie to Michigan,
15:40and things are going good between us.
15:43getting my uncle marco's blessing was a huge deal to me but i'm a little concerned that he
15:50kind of came in a little hot about natalie and i having kids you haven't even met my children yet
15:57they don't even know you that's step one right step one yeah so if i ask you to marry me
16:02tonight
16:03is that too fast it's really important to me to have a child of my own so if i move
16:11forward with
16:11natalie i'm hoping she can remain open-minded to make that a reality
16:18we are home oh look at those flowers i know i got some nice flowers aren't they beautiful thanks to
16:23you and uncle marco i know okay
16:32go ahead oh this is nice you like it yeah enter my home yes
16:40my bedroom is up there okay and if you want you can have a seat and wait for me while
16:47i get us a
16:47drink this could be a big night for natalie and i so far we've fooled around kissed a bit but
16:55we
16:55haven't had sex and that's not because i haven't wanted it cheers to the future the future cheers
17:03there we go so let's hope tonight is the night baby what was your favorite part of the day
17:11what was my favorite part what i think was just hanging out with you today my favorite parts of
17:18the day was when you came to me and told me that you have decided not to talk to other
17:23women
17:26can you do that though can you do that are you gonna be able to do that i don't know
17:31no just kidding listen there's beautiful women on this planet i mean gorgeous women i get it i get it
17:40the thing is is like it's hard to find a good quality woman that has like good qualities like
17:48you have yeah having a good quality woman trumps everything you're growing up everything right
17:56you're growing up yeah yeah no that's nice to hear because you know what it's true you're absolutely
18:02right so after everything that happened in dc i took a big chance coming here but wanting to be
18:09exclusive and introducing me to uncle marco is finally showing me that gino may be serious about
18:15being in a committed relationship i'm hopeful for the next step and it's probably the most hopeful
18:22i've been in a long time with him we have a great connection but our connection has been very mental
18:29and it hasn't really been physical so i mean don't get nervous
18:39that totally makes sense baby okay
18:55you are a good kisser i will say that i will give you that
19:01i'm getting kind of tired really
19:07i kind of think we should go to bed so soon so soon yeah you know
19:16i'm ready to go to bed yeah
19:22i don't know how many more hints i can give you
19:26i'm ready to go to bed okay so let's go then let's go let's take the drinks
19:34it's probably been a year and a half since i've been intimate with a woman when i was with jasmine
19:42i was miserable and i can't be intimate with someone that's yelling and screaming at me fighting
19:49with me and disrespecting me after you okay but with natalie i feel like i can be myself
19:57she's a very good person and i'm going to prove to her that i can be the man that she
20:04deserves
20:04look at that big booty oh my god that's how i like it
20:09maybe we'll do it two three four five times who knows how many times
20:14we might even have sex till the sun comes up
20:17hmm yeah baby oh yeah
20:34i got this feeling in my body i need to dance the stress away i like to get a little
20:41mighty
20:43when i hear that music play
20:47okay ladies if you haven't found your man yet may try to hug yourself
20:55julia stop hugging
21:12thank you for putting us a bang in our zumba
21:16we'll see you on the next hangover zumba test tomorrow
21:20let's take a shot
21:22i am very relieved sophie and i put the drama behind us
21:26and i really just want to enjoy the rest of our girls trip
21:32okay what do you want to say show us
21:35i really need some like guidance
21:40i've been keeping a secret pretty much the whole time since arriving in the dr
21:48okay
21:49you have a couple days left before before home
21:52yeah
21:53you're gonna have fun because you have this all like
21:56not fun i mean you have some fun
21:58i've just been spending so much time with via
22:00but i have not told you ladies
22:04so
22:05there is someone that i'm talking to back at home as well
22:09wait what
22:11yeah
22:12like talking talking or like like
22:14like we're dating
22:15wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
22:20wait
22:21about three months ago right after i broke up with jason
22:24i met someone new
22:26his name is alec
22:28and we just clicked
22:32really
22:33yes
22:34oh my
22:35i'm overstimulated
22:38alec wants a relationship with me
22:41but i've never been single
22:42So I told Alec I was coming on this trip and I wanted to date.
22:48I wanted to get it out of my system
22:51and then kind of come home and figure out
22:53if I wanted a serious relationship.
22:55I never expected to fall for someone.
22:59I made it very clear coming to here
23:01I wanted to express being single,
23:03and then now I feel very conflicted
23:05because I see my self-developing feelings for Via.
23:09So I'm scared to, like, tell Via,
23:11hey, I am talking to someone back at home.
23:14As long as you communicate and tell him,
23:16hey, like, we're just hanging out,
23:17that's all you can do, you're being honest.
23:20If anyone understands how Liz feels, it's me,
23:22because I just got out of a toxic relationship
23:25and I don't want to rush into anything either.
23:27My only thing is it does feel a little shady
23:29that she's hiding it from Via.
23:31Like, I'm in the same boat,
23:32like, I'm also trying to get to know Pedro,
23:34but the thing is I'm being extremely honest with him
23:36because I don't want to lead someone on.
23:38So I hope she tells him soon
23:40or this whole thing could blow up in her face.
23:43I think tell him, he seems like a nice guy,
23:45he's probably going to take it fine
23:46and he'll probably still want to get to know you.
23:48The worst thing you could do is lead him on
23:49and not tell him.
23:51But I feel like it's so complicated now,
23:54and it scares me either way.
24:02When Courtney took my phone, she told Diana that her and I
24:05were in a relationship together.
24:07I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
24:10So, how you been?
24:12You're hurting me.
24:14You're hurting me.
24:33I miss her.
24:59Courtney, are you okay?
25:04Let me know.
25:06It's been about five days now since Courtney broke up with me
25:10and apparently my mother couldn't convince Courtney to give me a second chance
25:15and I can't say I'm exactly surprised.
25:18I threw away a good relationship with a good woman
25:22and I hate myself for that.
25:25I hate for all the pain that I caused to everybody.
25:32Living with her parents, I couldn't do anything without Courtney.
25:35I couldn't leave the house.
25:36It was just like I was completely relying on her for everything
25:39and I felt trapped.
25:42And talking with Diana allowed me to escape that reality.
25:48I'm blocking our memories
25:51with a hidden black heartbeat.
25:55Hello?
25:56I'm here.
25:58Hey!
25:59Hey, how are you?
26:01You look great today.
26:04I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
26:08When Courtney took my phone, she saw all the messages between Diana and I
26:12and she decided to message her directly.
26:14She told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together
26:18and this is a problem because I never told Diana the truth,
26:23that Courtney and I have been in a romantic relationship.
26:28So, how you been?
26:33Tell me.
26:46I do love you.
26:54I have a lot of feelings for you.
26:56That's why I wanted to see you.
26:58But then I broke my leg.
27:02King.
27:03You know, I wasn't expecting to see Courtney.
27:05I wasn't expecting to have her in my life.
27:12I love Courtney.
27:18But I love you.
27:19And if I haven't met you, I was supposed to meet you.
27:29You're hurting me.
27:32I'm hurting everybody.
27:35I feel terrible for causing Diana so much hurt and seeing her upset.
27:41But I want to be honest.
27:43Yes, I still love Courtney.
27:45I love Courtney.
27:46And I also love you.
27:47And Diana needs to know that.
27:52Do you still want me to come to Brazil?
27:59I'm feeling like your last option.
28:07I could see that.
28:12I don't know what I'm doing with anything in life right now.
28:21I'm sad.
28:23I'm sorry that I've hurt you.
28:38Well, that sucked.
28:41I know I up with both of them.
28:44I was treating both women equally wrong.
28:49I wanted the benefits of having Diana as an outlet.
28:54But I also wanted the benefits of having Courtney as a girlfriend.
28:57And now they don't want anything to do with me.
29:00And I take full responsibility for this.
29:04But I'm not ready to give up on love.
29:06I'm going to fight like hell to get her back.
29:09Which one?
29:13Good question.
29:20I like to be in control.
29:22I like whatever I plan to happen.
29:24But you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you.
29:28I have never seen this controlling side of Tony in the past.
29:33This is just all coming out of the blue.
29:35This has happened to me so many times in the past.
29:38A guy starts out one way and then it turns out they were just hiding their real personality.
29:42So is this who you are?
29:56This is a special weekend for me and these are the most special people in my life.
30:01And did you hang up the phone on me and you're just ignoring me?
30:12This is horrible.
30:15Yeah, I made the mistake.
30:16Like I said, I didn't communicate with you about what happened.
30:19But it was kind of awkward with me kind of to bring it up at their place and me and
30:22them for the first time.
30:24But I don't want this to be kind of blown out of proportion where it was, yeah, about an issue
30:28we had yesterday regarding time management, spending time together.
30:32Don't make it like I'm blowing things out of proportion.
30:35You haven't really talked to me nicely since yesterday.
30:40I didn't intend for this to happen. I didn't.
30:43I overreacted and one of my issues, one of my flaws is I like to be in control.
30:47I like the situation or whatever I plan to happen and, you know, and done right, correctly.
30:53But you can't go with life thinking that things are going to go exactly how you planned it.
30:57Absolutely.
30:57You have to roll with the punches and in the process, you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be
31:02so important to you.
31:06Tony hanging up on me yesterday, it took me by surprise.
31:10I have never seen this kind of controlling side of Tony in the past.
31:16This is just all coming out of the blue.
31:19What did I tell you when we were first discussing trying to take this into a relationship?
31:23I said, are you going to change?
31:25Please don't change.
31:26It's not much changing, though.
31:27Because this has happened to me so many times in the past.
31:29A guy starts out one way and then it turns out that it was the opposite the whole time and
31:33they were just hiding their real personality.
31:35So is this who you are?
31:38No, it's not like a new me. It's not. The old me is the real me. That's the person you've
31:45known for the longest time.
31:47But the old you has never hurt me like this.
31:50I don't think someone should ever be judged on one reaction or one issue or one fault.
31:59I don't know.
32:02You think this is a real me?
32:04I don't know. That's why I'm trying to have this conversation.
32:07That's not fair, Vanya. It's not fair at all.
32:14This has been kind of like a running theme in some of my past relationships.
32:18A guy starts off being this amazing prince charming and then once they feel like they got you in their
32:25claws,
32:25then they do a 180 and they become a totally different person.
32:29And who knows? Is Tony becoming this totally different person this early in a relationship?
32:34And that's definitely a concern for me.
32:38Tony.
32:39I mean, if you really think I'm a person that's going to truly just hurt you, then you should walk
32:43away from me. I agree.
32:45I want to make sure that going forward you're not going to just have a freak out and then have
32:52an explosion like hanging up the phone
32:55and then ignoring me.
32:57I can first of all apologize for what I did because hanging up the phone is not right.
33:01I'm taking full accountability for it.
33:07I like to be updated. I like to have things kind of go according to plan.
33:11But then I feel like sometimes I'm not even on her radar.
33:14So I felt like that yesterday. I didn't respond the right way.
33:17I hung up on the phone on her. So, you know, it was not a good reaction on my end.
33:22You know, going forward, I think communication and transparency is key.
33:26And, you know, I think Vanya in the end will see that this is still the real Tony and it's
33:29a pretty good version too.
33:33Because I'm not trying to hurt you. I really am not.
33:35And I don't like to see you cry like it hurts me too.
33:46Are you going to get a smart chance?
33:48What?
33:50That's all right, man.
33:52You're never going to lose you.
33:55Right?
33:57After a year and a half of friendship, I thought that I knew Tony.
34:01But this whole experience now makes me feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
34:06And it's putting seeds of doubt in my mind because is this what I want to sign myself up for?
34:14Maybe the relationship Tony and the friend Tony are two totally different people.
34:20Strap by the tide of the matter.
34:24This one's good. Get things off your chest.
34:26I just felt like it was important to talk about. It's been really bothering me.
34:33Um, we've been having a great time.
34:36We have a great connection, I feel. I think, I thought.
34:40I guess I'm just going to be straightforward.
34:42There is somebody back at home that I've been seeing.
34:46Didn't expect that.
34:48Oh, this is hard.
34:50There's actually a lot of emotions involved.
34:53So, I don't really feel good right now. I feel bad.
35:15So, I'm taking you up.
35:19Hey beautiful.
35:20Hi.
35:21How are you?
35:22Good.
35:23Good? You ready?
35:24Yeah.
35:25We smell good as always.
35:27You ready for our dance lessons?
35:28I'm ready.
35:29Yeah? Yeah.
35:30Let's go.
35:41Julia!
35:41Julia!
35:43Oh my goodness!
35:45I think we're going to dance and you look like you're going to the wedding.
35:48Are you ready?
35:49Let's go.
35:50Ever since landing here in the DR, all I've wanted to do is go to a dance class.
35:55Okay, Julia!
35:57You're ready for dancing.
36:00Julia is joining us, but Sophie decided to take some alone time for herself and I think that's a great
36:05idea.
36:06Girl deserves it. It's been a roller coaster.
36:08It's so pretty!
36:10Hello!
36:12Coming!
36:13A little dance.
36:14This is exciting.
36:15This is exciting.
36:16Today we will give some merengue and bachata like Dominican style, so follow me and enjoy.
36:23We are here for give love.
36:24Can I pick this one?
36:25He can have a crazy energy.
36:26Yeah!
36:30You can have a big partner, for example, with him.
36:33So, we will start with some both steps first.
36:37I feel like we've done this before.
36:39It doesn't feel all that new.
36:41It's kind of natural now.
36:42And let's go to the top and bottom!
36:45Yahoo!
36:46Oh, we can do a spin.
36:49Open position!
36:50Again!
36:51Let's go!
36:52Let's go!
36:52Let's go!
36:53Here we go!
36:55I'm sorry.
36:56I feel like I have to count my steps.
36:57I'm like thinking.
36:58I'm talking and counting my steps.
36:59Two, three.
37:00One, two, three.
37:03You're making me really nervous.
37:05Why?
37:05Me?
37:06Why?
37:07I'm always getting nervous.
37:10You're getting me all hot.
37:12Oh, yeah?
37:16Well, that can lead to that.
37:18I've really done nothing but hang out with Via on my whole singles girl trip.
37:24And as much as I'm enjoying being in the moment with him, it's making me feel guilty for the feelings
37:30that I have back at home with Alec.
37:36I think I'm really falling for Via, and now I'm so beyond confused.
37:41I've waited such a long time for just one good person to walk into my life that never did I
37:46imagine that there'd be two.
37:49Okay, guys.
37:50I'm gonna see you.
37:51I'm gonna see you tomorrow.
37:52Yeah, I'm gonna see you tomorrow.
37:53So, rest now.
37:54After this dancing, can you walk me?
38:00You seem so nervous.
38:01I know.
38:02I just wasn't supposed to come here and start falling for someone.
38:05It's true.
38:06But you're gonna be honest.
38:07That's all what you need to do.
38:08Okay.
38:09Yes.
38:10Thanks, girl.
38:11So, see you.
38:12Everything will be fine.
38:13Just breathe.
38:14Take a shot.
38:20Hey.
38:21Hey.
38:22You wanna go get a drink?
38:24Yeah.
38:25You wanna drink finally?
38:26Yeah, let's go get a drink.
38:28Everything okay?
38:29Yeah.
38:30I am worried about hurting Bia's feelings.
38:33I don't know how he feels about me.
38:36Is this just a vacation fling?
38:38Did he expect to, like, have feelings?
38:42We just, we have to have this conversation.
38:45Cheers.
38:46Cheers.
38:48To dancing?
38:49To dancing.
38:50To chemistry?
38:51To chemistry.
38:53That was a lot of fun.
38:54Mm-hmm.
38:55I feel like dancing with you is always a lot of fun.
38:58Yeah.
38:58I think every time I'm with you, I have a lot of fun.
39:01So, I guess, I don't know where, like, your feelings are at with me, but I know that I am
39:09developing feelings.
39:13And same with me.
39:15Um, we've been having a great time.
39:18We have a great connection, I feel, I think, I thought.
39:23I have the best time with you.
39:27But I came on this ship to work on me.
39:32And now having feelings for you is making it super complicated.
39:36I guess I'm just gonna be straightforward.
39:39There is somebody back at home that I have been seeing.
39:47Okay.
39:49Didn't expect that.
39:52How serious, like, is this with this person?
39:56I don't know.
39:58The whole point of this trip was to see if I wanted to embrace being single or if I, where
40:05things can go potentially when I get back home.
40:10Oh, this is hard.
40:13It just doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
40:16Single's trip.
40:17You're not single.
40:19Well, I am single.
40:20Right now, until you go back.
40:24Like.
40:26I can see how it looks to you.
40:29Yeah.
40:30I just kind of feel like I'm, like, I've been wasting my time, you know?
40:39I'm gonna use this.
40:40I'm gonna wash you.
40:43I got so scared of letting the truth be told.
40:47If having your head to hold.
40:50If having your head to hold.
40:52And I got freaked out by letting the truth be known.
40:57Safer to be on your own.
40:59There's actually a lot of emotions involved.
41:02So.
41:03I don't really feel good right now.
41:05I feel bad.
41:08Like, I feel really bad right now.
41:13I thought we were doing well, you know?
41:16I thought we were on the right path, on the right track, I guess.
41:21I just didn't expect that, so.
41:23I feel a little.
41:25Betrayed.
41:27Deceived, I guess.
41:30I feel like.
41:32There's like a gun in the right track.
41:34There's like a gun in the right track.
41:38And, yeah.
41:41It's like a gun in the right track.
41:42And, yeah, I feel really sick to my stomach right now.
41:48Well, I can't take it back.
41:54Next time on The Single Life.
41:56Hello.
41:57Hi.
41:59How are you?
41:59I'm good.
42:00It's so good to see you.
42:02Wayne is 52 years old.
42:03He lives in the UK.
42:05And we've been talking for a couple months.
42:07I've even put some aftershave on for this coffee date.
42:10You're so handsome.
42:11I have to tell you.
42:12You are a handsome little guy.
42:13You are as well.
42:14Oh, thanks.
42:15Wayne might legit be my person.
42:18But putting all the effort into another international relationship, it's just taking such a chance.
42:26This is my daughter.
42:27I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
42:29I didn't expect that.
42:30I'm surprised you're even here.
42:32I was expecting more of a nice initial greeting, you know.
42:36That was a little weird for me.
42:38Can you close that?
42:39I could.
42:40Well, you better.
42:42So far, I'm not impressed.
42:47I want to know if you'd like to, you know, to try again.
42:51So I'm being honest.
42:52There is someone today that I'm going to just, like, meet.
42:57That's a day.
42:58You're going to have a date with someone.
43:00We have a few days left.
43:02And you'd rather spend that time with somebody that you know than spending time with me?
43:06This is bulls**t.
43:08Are you free to dance?
43:09I am.
43:10All right, let's do it.
43:11I just don't see how dancing with other guys is respectful of the guy that you're with.
43:15It's my girl.
43:16Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
43:18No.
43:18I mean, like, are you serious?
43:20The fact that he's projecting this insecurity on me is not fair.
43:23It's not right.
43:24I'm not going to stand for it.
43:26I'm just, like, really done with this s**t.
43:28We might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
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