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Love Is Blind - Season 10 - Episode 11: See Where the Chips Fall
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00:00:11You
00:00:16Best defender I've seen in a minute. Don't do tricks. I don't know. That's not a trick. That's normal
00:00:25Look at you
00:00:28Well, it's coming to my face now. I get so scared. I'm just gonna let you score
00:00:38Yay our marriage lesson is easy peasy
00:00:47Five six seven and here comes the spin now you can take her nice up turn out that was beautiful
00:00:56And then just together. Oh, yeah, I like it
00:00:59Let's fall in love
00:01:17Did you get me flowers? I did
00:01:24Thank you of course so today we are as you can hear
00:01:31They love to show off. I love that got a nice dinner plans final date before the weddings kind of
00:01:37crazy
00:01:39Meeting with fam I was like one of the best nights of my life
00:01:42How Tina and Brandon opened up their home like he wanted to show you his bourbon collection and like Tina's
00:01:47like go upstairs and we have fresh towels
00:01:48We have this and we have that it's like
00:01:50How they showed up for us in that moment is how I expect like us to show up for others
00:01:57to as a household
00:01:58You want someone to feel at home in your home. It's so important to me
00:02:02To like create a home like that same
00:02:06So a g-man I try to call mr. McNeice try to say mr. McNeice I
00:02:11Knew he was gonna be like, oh my gosh. I have to come in like
00:02:16The iron fist of like breeze dad and like my baby girl is getting married like I need to be
00:02:21so critical
00:02:24You're cheesing like are you laughing at me? Are you happy?
00:02:28It's just like so weird for me. I'm like being so honest
00:02:32I feel like weirdly me and him are like a lot more like than
00:02:36Either must whatever you maybe admit even just like a little mannerisms. It's like slightly look over make sure like
00:02:42you're good and just like always
00:02:44Holding the door paying for stuff. I don't know. I feel like
00:02:48He can see me as a normal guy. It was just really nice. We just kept talking about stuff and
00:02:53he's like, oh, she'll do that. Yep
00:02:56Oh, you already know that and I think you just said one place like I trust you kids
00:02:59Like even like when we were leaving is like well might need to get a tux or something here soon
00:03:03Don't we I didn't know what I want and I was I wanted it to be us
00:03:07You are just like a boss bitch and you do what you want when you want and the fact that
00:03:13I choose me every day
00:03:15Makes me even feel confident more about myself
00:03:17Because like I am like I know what I want so much so like I want this man
00:03:23So like that makes you feel like hell. Yeah, she wants me. Yeah, that's interesting
00:03:28Because like you are not getting the best of me
00:03:31Like I'm not myself right now
00:03:33And it's crazy that you're falling in love with this part of me because like this is not my best
00:03:37self
00:03:37There's gonna be some days where you need your resets that believe me. I won't
00:03:45Ever take offense to it you're grinding your ass off going to work and I can just see
00:03:50Obviously and just feel some of the stresses that you've been under but you
00:03:54Even if you come home like tired and exhausted you still at least like give me a hug. Give me
00:03:58a kiss at least a little smile
00:04:00I think even on some of my worst days
00:04:02You know how to talk to me the moments that I have
00:04:07I've needed you you've been there and that means like the world to me
00:04:12I feel like I even fall in love with you like more and more each day
00:04:15Stop okay
00:04:19But each night we get to go to sleep and just like this is awesome
00:04:23Each time I wake up even though you're like I need you to get me up earlier
00:04:27Those five minutes in the morning when we finally let me cuddle you because you wanted to be away from
00:04:32me all night
00:04:33Okay, not all night. Yeah, but
00:04:36It's just like those little moments. I'm like feels like a forever thing. I
00:04:41Know you're gonna be a good mom and especially since we're dreamers. That's all I'm thinking about right now. I'm
00:04:44just like
00:04:45Yeah, our little left-footed midfielder playing well and you on the sidelines cheering him on it
00:04:54Well, this is endless is if it's a six-hour train ride I could feel the time of why you'd
00:04:58be a good wife
00:04:59Okay, stop it
00:05:03Well, let me just like talk about why the reasons I love Connor, okay
00:05:07I have heard my friends talk about dating. I've heard them talk about
00:05:11Marriages and like all these things and everybody kept saying like when you know, you know talking to you like
00:05:17and I
00:05:18Literally had butterflies heart palpitations everything in between like it was just like I
00:05:24Physically it was like unwell like I was like oh my god. This is the feeling they're talking about like
00:05:29I'm insane
00:05:30Like this is crazy. Yeah, I was like done. She's getting married
00:05:33I put it all on Connor. I fell in love with you. If it wasn't you it was nobody and
00:05:39what's crazy is I know
00:05:41What it's like to feel loved now?
00:05:45Like you fucking love me. I
00:05:50Know you do you love me
00:05:52Like you bring me flowers every day you run down to the
00:05:59Garage to greet me on my way home from work
00:06:03You sometimes are my punching bag and you're like you're so cute when you do that
00:06:08Being a bitch
00:06:10Like you love me
00:06:13I'm a psycho
00:06:16I'm crazy
00:06:18You even call me you're like you're a lunatic. I was like I know and you love me
00:06:21You're my lunatic. I don't have to be anybody who I'm not
00:06:25I can be me you loving me has opened up my eyes to be like I am deserving of this
00:06:33I should have somebody that loves every bit of me every piece of me and to find somebody like that
00:06:38is insane
00:06:39you really taught me like
00:06:42what love is
00:06:45To our last date in this experiment finding crazy finding my favorite person ever
00:07:07Africa events I go play with the monkey. I gotta go play with a monkey
00:07:12I'm returning you to sender
00:07:15Bringing me home
00:07:23Hi, how are you?
00:07:26Oh my gosh anything you don't want slobber on remove now, okay
00:07:32Um, so here at the columbus si we have 17 giraffe we have quite a few this is bobby hi
00:07:38handsome
00:07:38He is actually our breeding bull of the herd oh, all right bobby
00:07:43He's got four lovely ladies in the house
00:07:45Look at you
00:07:47And here she comes one of them right now is zuri
00:07:50As you can see they don't think they get fed at all
00:07:53You are a lot of people
00:07:56You are a you know you are
00:07:59Emma you gotta control your man
00:08:01You gotta control your man
00:08:08There you go buddy
00:08:10You're my best friend wow
00:08:12Another head of lettuce please
00:08:14He's like give me a hat
00:08:16Just give it all of us
00:08:22All gone
00:08:25Hey this is so cool
00:08:27That was really cool i've never done anything like that so
00:08:32Oh shit oh oh is that my boy
00:08:35Wait probably
00:08:36So cool this is so cool this is a great finale date before our wedding
00:08:41It is
00:08:42You smell like giraffe
00:08:44Do you a little bit
00:08:46What does that smell like
00:08:47Come on over
00:08:50Feeding giraffes
00:08:51For our anniversary every year we like pick something on our bucket list and like
00:08:56Do something super like cool and wacky and whether the cool shit is like
00:09:00Literally walking around the zoo together and like getting getting culvers and a sweet treat
00:09:07I want to be able to like have shared experiences before
00:09:12We start a family and then like when that family comes like then it's like
00:09:16You get to do
00:09:18Cool experiences with them it's like disney world and just like all of that stuff
00:09:21But it's like i want to do things with us that we can do while we're young right then do
00:09:27stuff
00:09:28Post right i mean i that's i couldn't agree more like
00:09:33Is that
00:09:34I don't know you said with family and stuff like you've been thinking more on that
00:09:38I have been thinking about it and like
00:09:43I
00:09:46Like i a hundred percent think you are the right partner like i
00:09:53Don't
00:09:54Like i don't think like i just i picture like
00:09:58You're laughing so i'm sorry no no i um and but like the way like i feel with you like
00:10:04safe and stable and like
00:10:06Confident like it's one in a million like i
00:10:11Am continuing to be open-minded yeah that's all you just brought it up this way no no
00:10:16But i am thinking about it i want to show you i'm thinking about it because like i
00:10:20I am like and i see
00:10:23I see it like i do see a family with you and i see
00:10:27um
00:10:28Sorry i was like what is that um the drops are talking
00:10:36Go on
00:10:38It's like in Cabo and i can't stop laughing um
00:10:42No i like i see that with you but i
00:10:45I think that will like also continue just to go with time sure
00:10:52Sure i get it
00:10:53Yeah
00:10:54All right
00:10:55All right
00:11:24You're very cute
00:11:24How much, like, has happened in a matter of six weeks?
00:11:28Lock and train in six weeks.
00:11:30Mm-hmm.
00:11:31You had 16 girlfriends and I had 16 boyfriends.
00:11:34Oh, that was nice.
00:11:36Shut up.
00:11:37This is the only time I'll be able to do that.
00:11:40Ever.
00:11:41Take me back, honestly.
00:11:43That was when life was good.
00:11:46I can't stand you.
00:11:49Oh, man.
00:11:50What a ride.
00:11:52What a ride.
00:11:53I'm going to get married in a week.
00:11:58It's crazy when you say it like that.
00:12:00Yeah.
00:12:02Oh, wow.
00:12:04Mm-hmm.
00:12:05Let's go sit by the fire.
00:12:06I guess I haven't had this pressure before of, like, the marriage.
00:12:10It's more been in a relationship where it's like you can just kind of drag things out.
00:12:14What we have, like, foundation-wise, can last a lifetime.
00:12:18Yeah.
00:12:19You are the first person I've met that I felt like it's worth giving up my independence.
00:12:25Yeah.
00:12:27All right.
00:12:28That's good.
00:12:28I would say I'm definitely, like, worried about it.
00:12:30You were snoring last night legitimately.
00:12:33Stop it.
00:12:35Sound like a lumberjack.
00:12:36I'm a cute sleeper.
00:12:39To each their own.
00:12:42So you're still going to choose me even though I snored like you?
00:12:45I don't know.
00:12:46You kind of sounded like Godzilla last night.
00:12:48Don't say.
00:12:50Did I really?
00:12:52Oh, yeah.
00:12:53Paul Bunyan.
00:12:53That's your nickname.
00:12:55Stop talking.
00:12:59My mind, like, at night has been racing.
00:13:01I haven't been able to, like, sleep.
00:13:03Of course we could say yes, but it's just, like, it's a lot.
00:13:08And it's definitely been waiting on me.
00:13:10Yeah.
00:13:11I need to, like, get away.
00:13:13Everything is, like, great and amazing, but I'm just trying to, like, really, like, process it.
00:13:17I need, like, time to just, like, really sit because it's, like, it is a big decision.
00:13:21I feel like it's starting to, like, weigh on me, like, in a good way.
00:13:25But it's, like, I got to really sit with my thoughts and kind of, like, literally go ghost.
00:13:29Mm-hmm.
00:13:30I'll probably do, like, a day where I'm just, like, I'm unreachable.
00:13:34Okay.
00:13:34So completely off the grid.
00:13:36It's, like, completely, like, complete dark day.
00:13:39Like, phone probably won't even be on.
00:13:41Do you feel like you're not certain if you're going to say yes?
00:13:47Like, I'm, like, obviously, I would say, like, I'm 98% there.
00:13:52I told you my biggest fear is getting to the aisle and it being, like, a no.
00:13:57Yeah.
00:13:57I can see myself saying yes.
00:14:00Yeah.
00:14:00I wouldn't have my family come here if I didn't, if I wasn't going to say yes.
00:14:05Even though I already had a wedding dress, like, trying on wedding dresses again.
00:14:09When I tried it on this time, it was, like, exciting because I'm, like, I can see myself marrying you.
00:14:18I can be a wife and, like, have a husband.
00:14:22It does kind of feel like we're just in this fairy tale.
00:14:25Trust me, I get it.
00:14:28You're saying yes at the altar.
00:14:31Well, there is one thing that I want to talk about.
00:14:34Someone told me that, like, the dress fitting day, they heard that I don't, like, kiss you enough or tell
00:14:43you you're pretty enough and to, like, remind me to do that.
00:14:46I was pissed because I was like, oh, I'm being talked about again in a negative way.
00:14:51They asked what Devante is going to say when he sees you in this dress and I said, well, he's
00:14:56a man of few words.
00:14:57I don't know what he's going to say.
00:14:59Yeah.
00:15:00I think everybody knows, like, how I feel about you and it's very obvious.
00:15:05Yeah.
00:15:06But I know you're not somebody that's ever going to be, like, gushing over me.
00:15:10Yeah.
00:15:10It's, like, not your personality.
00:15:11And that's something that, like, I've had to come to terms with of, like, accepting that, like, that's not, like,
00:15:19how you show me that you think that I'm pretty.
00:15:21That makes sense.
00:15:23Obviously, I would like for you to tell me that you think that I'm pretty.
00:15:27Right.
00:15:27But I also know that that's not how you are.
00:15:32There's one more thing.
00:15:34I know the sacrifices that I've made to get to where I'm at.
00:15:38I don't ever want to lose that.
00:15:40Lose half of that or a lot of that and, like, I don't know.
00:15:44So, prenups?
00:15:47And I don't think that was, like, something we even talked about in the pods.
00:15:49So, I'm not saying that's directed towards you.
00:15:53That is more for, like, where I feel good in my own space.
00:16:00You're entitled to feel how you feel.
00:16:01Like, obviously, you have worked very hard to get where you are.
00:16:04Yeah.
00:16:05To build the life that you have.
00:16:07But I don't know.
00:16:12I don't want to be married to somebody that feels like they have to protect themselves from me.
00:16:17And I don't think people intend to be spiteful until they have the opportunity to do it.
00:16:22I'm not spiteful.
00:16:23Like, that's not who I am.
00:16:24That's never going to be who I am.
00:16:25I don't know.
00:16:26I guess it's just how I feel.
00:16:27And sometimes you don't know why you feel the way you feel.
00:16:34Or...
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:37So, is this you saying you want one?
00:16:41I think it would make me feel comfortable.
00:16:48I wish you would have brought this up sooner.
00:16:50Well, the reason I didn't is because I was like, I'm not going to jump right into this one.
00:16:55It's like we don't even know what everything else looks like.
00:17:00So, if I didn't feel comfortable with the prenup, is that...
00:17:04Hmm.
00:17:08I don't know.
00:17:11I guess it's just something I'll have to decide.
00:17:13If I sign that paper, will I be able to not think about the fact that there's that in the
00:17:21background?
00:17:22Yeah.
00:17:22I don't know.
00:17:23It just feels like...
00:17:27You have a plan to not always fight for it.
00:17:33Well, I can tell you one thing, that I'm still here for a reason.
00:17:37You know that I'm not a quitter.
00:17:39I'm not asking you to make a decision right this second.
00:17:43Sleep on it.
00:17:44But we're going to be life partners.
00:17:46We've got to have everything out on the table.
00:17:48I've stayed because you actually, like, want to be here.
00:17:52Mm-hmm.
00:17:53You know, you said actions speak louder than words, and your actions...
00:17:57Your actions have definitely shown me...
00:18:00Okay.
00:18:01...that it's worth staying.
00:18:03I didn't come this far to come this far.
00:18:05Were you planning on having this conversation, Nate?
00:18:07Yeah.
00:18:07Oh.
00:18:08Yeah, tonight.
00:18:09Save the best for past.
00:18:13Because you knew that I wouldn't take it well.
00:18:15That's why.
00:18:16See, I know you.
00:18:20I think we should pray.
00:18:21When in doubt.
00:18:22What we need.
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:26Dear Heavenly Father, I thank you for this day.
00:18:28I thank you for Devontae.
00:18:31We trust you.
00:18:32And, you know, if we do choose to get married, God, I pray blessings over our marriage,
00:18:38over our future, over our kids, over our finances.
00:18:42I just thank you for Devontae.
00:18:44I thank you for everything that you've brought us through, and that you'll continue to bring us through.
00:18:51Thank you that we're gonna be able to celebrate with our family next week.
00:18:54And I just thank you for the journey.
00:18:57Amen.
00:18:58Amen.
00:19:01Are you going for a high five there?
00:19:03I don't know how I was going there.
00:19:10It's gonna be okay.
00:19:12The sun will rise again tomorrow.
00:19:14Mm-hmm.
00:19:15Not here.
00:19:17Not in a while.
00:19:20The clouds will rise again tomorrow.
00:19:24Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:19:34Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:19:45favorite place to go when i told emma i was coming here with jordan which she has not met him
00:19:50yet
00:19:50she's going to meet him saturday she was like i want to go i want to go and i was
00:19:54like we will
00:19:54definitely come back here with him emma was playing with my ring and she has this little
00:20:00stuffed animal and she had put it like literally right i found it in her toy box and i was
00:20:06like
00:20:06yeah let's just not do that again maybe never do that again ever
00:20:24oh yeah this one's tripping oh man i'm gonna ram into a mirror in here i know
00:20:29so fun yeah this is so pretty yeah thanks for bringing me
00:20:45so don't make me tell you why
00:20:55cheers cheers good games yes
00:21:00oh yes so we have a little buddy bag but the grand prize is for you oh my god we
00:21:09can't ever see
00:21:13yeah getting to meet emma finally yeah that'd be awesome saturday yeah i finally have a plan to meet
00:21:19emma which is going to be cool so i wouldn't say that i have any reservations about the wedding
00:21:24because i know amber and i are on the same page we're just looking forward to planning a life together
00:21:28can't wait to see what emma says has to say about that actually you know what
00:21:34maybe i'll have you bring it to her saturday i have another little thing for her so maybe you can
00:21:41bring
00:21:41both okay that'd be really cute okay that's a good plan
00:21:48i'm excited me too
00:22:02ready this is where i get murdered no are you proposing again you know i get surprises
00:22:09this trust me okay okay all right so that's kind of what we got going on tonight oh my gosh
00:22:15pretty cool yeah this is so cute i'm obsessed yeah oh my god yeah can i go sit absolutely
00:22:21this is so beautiful did you plan this all of it yes it's like the most romantic thing i love
00:22:28it
00:22:29you want some champagne sure thank you
00:22:36we need cheers like an ice cheers dad's expert seven years i don't want that
00:22:43we don't need that what are you most excited for on the wedding day you're running
00:22:49no no just spending time with you like obviously a wedding day yeah
00:22:54i need to sit back you're gonna fall asleep no i'm not what are we doing for our first christmas
00:22:59do you see that globe right there yeah you know that like bottom tip it's called antarctica no
00:23:05we're gonna go there for our first christmas no if anything we first of all go to the north pole
00:23:09for christmas it makes no sense that's where santa lives you make good arguments obviously okay so
00:23:15for real what are we doing for christmas switzerland um saint moritz i don't know we gotta
00:23:21go somewhere warm a beach would be nice make that work that's one thing you want to do in our
00:23:26first
00:23:27year of marriage what's a goal we should have we have to travel out of the country at least once
00:23:32i guess i would just love for us to like obviously know where like our home is
00:23:39at least where we want to be for a while whether it's florida arizona wherever starting to have those
00:23:45roots and i'd like i don't want to like scare you when i say these things like you know planting
00:23:49roots and like staying grounded like throw me like as much as i feel like you think it might
00:23:53but i do want it to be in a place where i'm not thinking about other places
00:24:02how do you want to celebrate your first birthday as a married man
00:24:06oh i don't know what about you i normally like to go like on a trip somewhere to be honest
00:24:11it's it's got to be warm though no promises you don't want me to be happy
00:24:19another question did you get for me
00:24:22um
00:24:29i just asked one what'd you ask
00:24:33uh i thought i just asked one no did i not no no we're talking about birthdays oh that's right
00:24:39that is right um
00:24:46i'm trying to think what about your new dress you have to be excited about it i got emotional
00:24:51putting on the dress did you i know shocking um no it was like a very real moment um yeah
00:25:00yeah thinking about what you were gonna think or say when you saw me all the girls were there and
00:25:05my friends were there and just think how pretty i was stop it but go on it's my job stop
00:25:12it but go
00:25:14that's funny no but it was sweet they asked like what what's your dad gonna think when he sees
00:25:19you and i just started crying i was like he's not invited like he's no longer invited anymore
00:25:22no i'm sure i'll support you we'll see
00:25:31what's your mom gonna think i think she'll be excited like
00:25:35she's probably pushing more for grandkids at this point oh my god really i think so
00:25:39now she's excited though what do you say like when someone asks you like tell me about ashley what
00:25:44do you say oh i love her authenticity the confidence and the competitive spirit that she shows is huge
00:25:49i do love the fact that you're willing to put yourself out there um try new things what do you
00:25:55tell your friends my friends hate you i know ridiculous i'm just kidding i tell them that your
00:26:03golf swing needs a lot of work it's true no that's that's just what you tell your dad i did
00:26:09tell him
00:26:09that you need some more um no i tell them that you're very well traveled you're very passionate
00:26:16about soccer and day trading it seems like your friends and family have nothing but good things
00:26:22to say about you i think you'll be like a good husband a good father just based off of like
00:26:28your
00:26:29experiences i love that love that and i think when you like have something in your mind you put everything
00:26:36you have into it so that's why i think you've been successful in this experiment no not tuning
00:26:41my own horn or anything like you got really lucky i did so you know how to make a really
00:26:47good decision
00:26:48i do
00:26:51how are you feeling about having to make a decision how confident i guess are you yeah i feel good
00:26:57about it i feel kind of like we're where we should be um obviously like we're crushing it like
00:27:04we've done very well we've been on the same page for a long time it seems like so there's excitement
00:27:09there for sure i know it's a big big day it's obviously a life you know changing decision but
00:27:16everything for me goes back to soccer like you can't plan out how the game's gonna go you just play
00:27:20it like you're in that game and you're a part of it and obviously doing your best but you don't
00:27:27necessarily control the outcome and this is one of those things that i control part of it but it's an
00:27:33outcome that is going to happen how it was meant to happen is the way i look at it stoicism
00:27:38helps
00:27:39out as well in the sense of like keep the emotions in check i feel confident in
00:27:45the the end product as well yeah the fear of the unknown always gets me you know that
00:27:51i'm sure you got the vibe i was like attracted to you because you were so confident in like your
00:27:55decision to choose me like i've been second best so many times and when you work like i want it
00:28:02to
00:28:02be you yeah that is when i was like this guy's got it that was it for me i love
00:28:07that love that
00:28:10choose me and finish this finish my god you didn't make eye contact
00:28:16i did in my head so you're having bad sex for seven years oh you're having it with me then
00:28:20i will be having good sex i've looked in your eyes did you anyways we have a wedding people
00:28:26i'm excited for it
00:28:52i can't wait for wedding day like i'm on countdown in my head but
00:28:56i'm just trying to remind myself to slow down and to take in every last moment that i get with
00:29:01vic
00:29:02toast to uh many more memories my future and love into one chapter and start all the books to
00:29:12write to come i like them salute
00:29:18every phase of this has felt like an eternity in the best way yeah you know it all
00:29:26and you accept me for who i am you love me for who i am i don't think i've ever
00:29:30felt as
00:29:32confident about anything in my life especially something so serious as this and i know it's not
00:29:36even just like my decision right i mean you're great now but i've been praying for you for a lot
00:29:44longer than i've known you same i can see and i can feel how much you love your family how
00:29:50much you
00:29:51love your friends how much you love your job how much you love what you get to do and the
00:29:57change you
00:29:57get to be a part of how much you love god how much you love me you just pour yourself
00:30:05out in like the best
00:30:06way and it's a way that like fills you and it's like that's the part that i love how like
00:30:11filling it
00:30:12is for you to love so much you're an amazing woman and you know that i don't even have to
00:30:18tell you
00:30:19everything about you your selflessness love you haven't you you're smart like i think you're
00:30:26brilliant i love hearing your stories and i mean i know you'll make an excellent partner sometimes i get
00:30:34speechless around you because of it's just like i get this this like this wow feeling that happens
00:30:44you're gonna make me cry already i love you i love you too
00:30:58you're somebody that i'd be and i am very very very proud to know and to love and to call
00:31:10you my
00:31:13husband and for you to be the father of my kids someday i just love you very very much i
00:31:20love you
00:31:20deeply baby deeply deeply deeply deeply you're just everything that i could want in so many ways i mean
00:31:30even just down to your hobbies and snacking on your cashews and just like the little habits that you have
00:31:35and i think we're going to complement each other and push each other push me to be better and vice
00:31:42versa yeah you're gonna push me too i know that yeah i've never felt like this in my life
00:31:48me too and it just makes so much sense you know you look back at every single little stepping stone
00:31:55of
00:31:55your life even the hard times you know i'm just like i would do those things a million times over
00:32:00if
00:32:01it got me here yeah i'm saying you're an answer prayer so are you so are you baby and i
00:32:10love it i love
00:32:11you everything i'm so excited so happy so grateful so so grateful you too
00:32:23i had a great day with your mom great last first date the last first date
00:32:45this is the most bizarre exciting expansive coolest thing i've ever done and i couldn't have done it
00:32:54without you and i wouldn't have done it without you like there's no chance i mean we fell in love
00:33:00not
00:33:00even looking at each other i know it's crazy it really is but you're not getting the best of me
00:33:06right now because i have just been grinding
00:33:12what's really sad is like i know i can give so much more when i see my friends and family
00:33:18tell you
00:33:19that you're not getting the best version of me and this isn't me right now it really hurts
00:33:25that's really tough to say out loud that's what i mean it's powerful um it's a testament to you so
00:33:31even in maybe your worst version still obsessed with you
00:33:38you really do love me for the good bad the ugly
00:33:45even as we're seeing each other every single day when you text me at like 505 you're like can i
00:33:49call
00:33:50you i get so happy
00:33:54i'm gonna start getting emotional like
00:33:59i just can't wait to like we've had so many nights where after the longest day
00:34:02we still just sit in bed and talk for like two hours yeah those are my favorite moments with you
00:34:08if this is who you are right now and this is how much i'm obsessed with you
00:34:14stop i think once you get back into what you call your normal stay it's like
00:34:18i think you're going to be able to give more love too so i'm excited for not only me how
00:34:24much more
00:34:24i even might love you which is i don't know if it's possible yeah but like you also to give
00:34:28off that love and accept it more too like i'm so excited to see that kind of transition i know
00:34:33me too
00:34:34do you think you are ready for marriage i am ready for it i think i'll be a good husband
00:34:39uh good father transparently when i came into your house i see your car and i'm like this guy doesn't
00:34:45give a like he doesn't give a about anything what does this mean about like how he's going to show
00:34:50up for like a presentation of like our house and our family and like his job and is he proud
00:34:55of it like
00:34:56i know like it's such a silly thing about a house and a car but like what clothes you wear
00:35:00and like
00:35:01how you present yourself it doesn't have to be like high-end crazy things but just like have pride
00:35:07and like that's a reflection of you it just makes me feel like it's lazy like there's no pride there's
00:35:12no like hustle there's no grit there's no like pride to this and like it just made me feel like
00:35:18who is
00:35:18this guy is he just gonna be a liability like i don't know i'm just so used to someone that's
00:35:26out
00:35:27alpha'd be like he's been the leader it's not like you're coming in and being like i'm gonna make
00:35:32like five times more money than you i live in a nicer house than you i do this like it
00:35:38wasn't like
00:35:38this extravagant like in your face like out alpha me you don't have the big energy where you're talking
00:35:45over me or ordering at the restaurant or like the confidence to be like she'll take this like you're
00:35:50kind of looking at me like what should we order like what and it was just like this weird energy
00:35:54that
00:35:55i'm not used to and it's actually interesting because we talk about challenge and challenge
00:36:00shows up so differently like is it challenging me to get up at six o'clock and go to the
00:36:04gym and like
00:36:04be disciplined about that maybe that's something that i would love for someone to encourage me to do
00:36:10but like also is the challenge of like being able to accept just being loved for who i am
00:36:16some people think i don't care about a lot of things because there's not like a lot of i guess
00:36:20material things that like yeah i would love a nice car yeah i'd love a nice house and i can't
00:36:25wait for
00:36:26those things someday but that's why i do work and support you and a family someday but a lot of
00:36:31people
00:36:31sometimes just see like the the keg on the outside or something or that i haven't cleaned up and uh
00:36:39i just don't love talking about myself i just like listening more and just kind of who i've been
00:36:44you've actually seen more of me and i'm just very glad that you took the time because not everybody
00:36:51does my dad and i have had conversations he's like maybe that's you've been chasing the wrong thing and
00:36:56you need to shift into something like that where like you can still lead but you find somebody that's
00:37:01complimentary and leads you in other ways i just feel like i've been so critical and so analytical and
00:37:09like trying to figure out if this is my husband that i've like lost sight of like literally the
00:37:14whole concept of it is love blind because had i seen all those things i may be a past judgment
00:37:21on
00:37:22things that weren't true and i did yeah and like that's like the whole point of this experiment right
00:37:29i know you hustle and i know that you're proud of what you've built for yourself and i know you
00:37:34take
00:37:34pride in that and i hated that i watered that down because i do like it is incredible you own
00:37:40a house
00:37:40you have an established career i know you've worked your ass off to get where you're at and like you
00:37:44are thinking about the future and like what you could do with your career to support a family and do
00:37:49all those things like you have absolutely shown up for me in ways i have never been no i've never
00:37:55experienced before i know that you love every piece of me the way that you make me feel loved is
00:38:01insane
00:38:01even on my darkest days or even when i'm like literally feeling the most disgusting like you
00:38:06think i'm the most beautiful person in the world however i show up to you is enough i'm trying to
00:38:13decide
00:38:14are you the total package or are you in my life to teach me how to be loved is this
00:38:19my person for
00:38:20the rest of my life is that true love
00:38:25i can't go up to the to the altar and be like yeah question mark
00:38:32am i ready to walk down the aisle no
00:38:42if i were to go down the aisle today it would be no for me
00:38:46but that makes me question like why why is it no because if it is the right person i'm like
00:38:54so deeply in love and it's like my person for life like would it matter
00:39:01i think i would have said yes to you you would have gone to the altar and said yes
00:39:05yeah so had i been in a different space we would be at our wedding day yeah i would have
00:39:11on monday said
00:39:12yes and i've been open about that i've no issue saying that um and i'm not gonna be ashamed of
00:39:19that
00:39:19and i know you don't think anything less of me because i wanted to marry you so
00:39:27what the am i doing
00:39:33if we can get through this like i hope that it's not a no forever
00:39:37so do you see yourself marrying me someday i hope
00:39:41hold me up until the morning
00:39:47yeah break me down into the dust
00:39:55what a ride
00:39:57what an absolute craziest month of my life
00:40:00month it's been like years that's true i set the couch or something is that okay
00:40:06i can't say with certainty that he's not my person like that's the hard part i hate that i have
00:40:11to
00:40:11say no i'm not ready i hate to be saying things like are you a lesson to learn or are
00:40:18you the love
00:40:18of my life it's really hard to understand why i'm going backwards i don't know why it sucks that we
00:40:23aren't getting married monday so it's just the way i feel and uh did i want to come here and
00:40:28just
00:40:29teach you how to be loved more no but i think any time before this if somebody had said that
00:40:38they
00:40:38aren't ready to marry me and i'm ready to marry them is i would have freaked out why do you
00:40:42think
00:40:42that's different because of how much we do love each other i am optimistic and i know you're not
00:40:51going to run you've consistently proven that you're going to be there for me i would have said yes but
00:41:07as life you've told me you're wise this whole time you've directly communicated where you were at
00:41:12i've never had that my entire life and that's why i'm more excited to
00:41:19continue to grow continue to prove that i'm going to be there for you i mean there's a reason
00:41:24that we fell in love sight unseen that's something i'll remember forever in my entire life and
00:41:31hopefully it's a connection that brings us even to the altar someday i love her with all my heart
00:41:37and i knew that before even seeing her so yeah i think love is blind
00:41:47and you don't have to be this has been the ride of a lifetime so thank you
00:41:55no matter where you go
00:41:58you'll never run never alone
00:42:05you'll never run never alone
00:42:18yeah yeah monster jam oh yeah this is gonna be so fun
00:42:34it's monster jam
00:42:38this bachelor night monster trucks good vibes good friends damn near family at this point man feeling good
00:42:47very ohio kudos to whoever set that up
00:43:02so today's the bachelet party and i'm feeling really excited
00:43:29i'm gonna be alex anderson's wife in a couple days and that is a
00:43:36crazy thing to say i'm gonna be a wife
00:43:39you're betting on love i'm all in first bachelet party
00:43:50this is how i'm practicing walking down the aisle
00:43:52i'm just sitting there with alex i do jordan he's the best man i've ever met
00:43:59what i'm hopeful for is like tomorrow when he meets emma but he'll realize it's not that scary
00:44:04and i think that would fulfill his life so much in ways that like he can't even understand yet
00:44:11i feel very goofy trying to walk sexy
00:44:17amber's got the legs
00:44:20all right let's hit it baby
00:44:28there's no way the girls are having this much fun they just can't be
00:44:32amber texted me a little bit ago and asked if i wanted pizza i said we're not done
00:44:36i wish she didn't get pizza though i'll eat the rest later she's probably asleep i hope she takes my
00:44:42dog out
00:44:45ooh 40. jesus christ man now you get me killed as a quarterback
00:44:52i am excited to get to the altar and to see her in her dress
00:44:55we do have question marks in terms of children does sound like she's coming around but i don't
00:45:00know what she's gonna say excited yeah excited nervous
00:45:06i love 40. oh give me that oh my daisy can let's serve 5-0
00:45:15oh my god i think ashley's a phenomenal person so when i close my eyes and picture my wife in
00:45:22five
00:45:22years i see myself living in florida with a phenomenal house potential trust in dubai and
00:45:27a safe house in queenstown new zealand i feel my i see myself very happy with a wife and kids
00:45:31or
00:45:31kids on the way at that point game point all my days here's a toast to everybody fighting a husband
00:45:40it's a toast to love happiness toast to marriage god damn it and marriage god damn it
00:45:51it's so good today's my wedding day and i'm so excited big days i'm like really in my head right
00:46:16now really yeah children and like all the thoughts and like it's a big decision yeah i just don't want
00:46:25to make the wrong yeah have you talked to mike at all today no i texted him it's her mother
00:46:31and he goes like he thumbs it and he's like i'm very late i was like i am too
00:46:37we just had like fun last night too you know it's like we never talked about
00:46:41anything did you guys end up staying together last night no no i like we went to our hotels
00:46:46i love him for you yeah mom loves him i've never felt this way about someone before yeah he's very
00:46:55comfortable he fits in really well he makes me feel so happy and so comfortable i just really haven't
00:47:07felt this light and free with someone before
00:47:32today's the big day getting married it's it's wild we're in this forever you know until death do us
00:47:38part how you feel man feeling good feeling nervous feeling a little nervous yeah nervous about
00:47:44i mean i don't know if she's gonna say yes or no oh it's scary what's the rest of the
00:47:48family thinking
00:47:50they're supportive nobody understands fully just kind of what we've talked about and what we've
00:47:54gone through either you've got that's the thing you're getting married that's a lot right it feels
00:47:58like forever exactly the hearts of thousands of women are going to break today
00:48:03i'm in joe
00:48:13hi hi i'm like hello you guys look so beautiful thank you thank you this is my sister hannah
00:48:21hi hannah hi hannah nice to meet you and this is my best friend kayla hi nice to meet you
00:48:27honey i'm
00:48:28patty hello beauty are you nervous i'm excited good
00:48:34i feel so happy and calm oh emma stop emma no don't she just did your makeup i know i
00:48:43was like
00:48:44i'm a blibbering mess but yeah i feel just excited good good everybody is how are you feeling i'm good
00:48:56thank you happy birthday thank you first day of 28. how's mom and dad good they're also kind of
00:49:01emotional too but they're really good they love him so much too they like think he fits perfect in
00:49:09family hannah's like hannah what's your verdict 100 yes that man makes me feel so safe and so secure
00:49:18and it makes me feel comfortable like in my own skin but it's a big decision right i don't take
00:49:26lightly
00:49:29oh look at this guy i put the buttons and everything yeah have you been working out
00:49:35i hate you i hate you yeah lipstick on me uh-huh oh yeah
00:49:51bracelet the bracelet might be too much but bracelets too much i like the bracelet my sister
00:49:55has the same bracelet i like the bracelet a lot but bill not bill all right this guy exciting day
00:50:02you
00:50:03got good men by your side looking forward to the future cheers cheers cheers cheers thank you guys
00:50:14oh oh where's my boy look how spitty you look you look so beautiful ma thank you my son oh
00:50:22my god
00:50:22you look fantastic i love you good hon thank you look at that baby how are you feeling good good
00:50:37you
00:50:37excited excited nervous yeah they let mommy and cali go by emma oh you were over there nice how was
00:50:44it
00:50:45she was emotional she's crying already she said she's gonna cry let's sit down i'm just concerned
00:50:52about you okay i'm gonna make sure you're okay i know you're stressed out yeah i mean i i talked
00:50:58to you maybe what three times every single time you had an attitude yeah which is understandable yeah i'm
00:51:04sorry i shouldn't take it out on you it's just you always call it the worst time huh so it's
00:51:09actually
00:51:10unreal it really it really is she's uncanny for that i really is are you happy yeah i'm happy i
00:51:15just
00:51:15want you to be happy so you're happy i'm happy yeah you're miserable i'm miserable okay which i was
00:51:23so there's only so much crying we can do in the house oh yeah
00:51:29i mean i relax i relax on the crying all right i relax mainly i learned a lot more about
00:51:33this whole
00:51:34thing so you know like this is a it's like a whirlwind you don't know detail you know what i
00:51:41mean
00:51:42and i you know me as as parents and you'll you'll know you'll notice hopefully one day
00:51:49we love you and we just want the best for you and you know understanding now i'm understanding now that
00:51:59you make the decisions so right you're your own man as long as you're happy you instilled that in me
00:52:05so at the end of the day we just want you to be happy and uh yeah you know which
00:52:11traditional you
00:52:11know that we me and mommy dated for five years before we got before i asked to marry me you
00:52:17know so
00:52:19that's you know that's why we were taken off guard a little bit in the beginning right
00:52:23mm-hmm yeah yeah but if she's the one for you making sure you do feel that way deep in
00:52:30your heart
00:52:31then you know we're behind you like you know i love her i think she's great i appreciate it she's
00:52:38a
00:52:38good kid yeah i mean she definitely fits in yeah it's a lot to take in i'm going to be
00:52:47honest with
00:52:48you like just to think about starting off in the pods and turns into the rest of my life the
00:52:52rest of our
00:52:53lives we raised you right i know that i'm happy for you if you're happy i'm happy for you looks
00:52:59so
00:52:59good okay all right i love you all right all right baby yeah see you guys there yeah yeah
00:53:11she has the question marks in terms of children and that's our biggest thing so i i would love for
00:53:18her to go first to see what that answer is if she can overcome that and say yes that means
00:53:23she's
00:53:23really thought about it she's like i can see a future with mike with children so i would love
00:53:28to hear her say yes like okay that's the biggest thing in my mind is children you just check that
00:53:34off like let's do it let's dive in i hope i'm the one who gets to stand beside you i'd
00:53:44never let
00:53:46let you go oh my god i'm so beautiful now i'm gonna cry just wait for the veil mom stop
00:54:08don't cry
00:54:11oh so my pearl earrings my dad gave them to me for my wedding
00:54:25oh my god
00:54:30i know
00:54:30i know
00:54:30there's my son
00:54:33there's something old
00:54:36here am i something old
00:54:41oh my god
00:54:42oh my god it's it's magical and it's beautiful she's meant to wear a veil yeah look at her you
00:54:53look
00:54:53so pretty
00:54:58if you can picture yourself in any situation with him and having him still makes you happy that's the one
00:55:04we are here no matter what you decide just make yourself happy true yeah okay final cheers
00:55:11final cheers we love you so much cheers good decisions
00:55:36i'm behind you 100 percent thank you okay i love you more than you know
00:55:46you're okay okay yeah nervous
00:55:49it's a lot to take in you know we're all behind you you know
00:55:55you know
00:56:11seasons come and seasons go
00:56:36Oh, God, here she comes.
00:56:42You're beautiful.
00:56:45I'll try not to wrinkle you.
00:56:49Are you ready?
00:56:52Okay.
00:56:54Love you, sweetie.
00:57:00This dress is beautiful.
00:57:02Wow.
00:57:03Oh, my God.
00:57:03I'm going to have a freaking faint.
00:57:05I guess it's okay.
00:57:06It's okay.
00:57:22Oh, my God.
00:57:23Oh, my God.
00:57:23How cute.
00:57:23Uh-uh.
00:57:26Please rise.
00:57:33Oh, shit.
00:57:34When you're ready.
00:57:35Holy fuck.
00:57:38Holy fuck.
00:58:04Oh, my God.
00:58:05How are you?
00:58:07You look so gorgeous.
00:58:08It's okay.
00:58:10How do you look gorgeous?
00:58:11Great.
00:58:13All right.
00:58:14I get your face.
00:58:16I know.
00:58:17Is it straight?
00:58:19Please be seated.
00:58:23Good evening.
00:58:27Good evening and welcome.
00:58:29I'd like to thank everyone in this room for being here today as we celebrate Emma and
00:58:34Mike and the journey they've been on together so far.
00:58:37Today, the two of you are taking the first step of your new chapter, and in many ways,
00:58:42a whole new life.
00:58:44Loving someone in marriage is a reason to stretch beyond our limits, to become more for the sake
00:58:50of the other.
00:58:51It is to look into the soul of your beloved and accept what you see, yet hold space for all
00:58:58that they're going to become.
00:58:59As you join today, you're announcing to the world that you're welcoming that challenge.
00:59:03And all the joys that come with it.
00:59:10Emma, our journey has been amazing.
00:59:13And it wasn't easy.
00:59:15We have so many questions with the kids.
00:59:17And throughout our whole experience, you have been open and understanding to hearing my journey
00:59:25and my story.
00:59:26But I really just, I want to know that you want to start a family with me.
00:59:33I know you've been thinking about it, and it's not fair for you to have to choose now.
00:59:38But one of the biggest things that I love about you, and I love about us, is that we're able
00:59:42to communicate.
00:59:43And we'll always be genuine with one another and get to the bottom of anything.
00:59:50So, thank you for that.
00:59:52And thank you for making it easy on me to love such an amazing person inside and out.
00:59:57Because I can't wait to see what the future holds for us.
01:00:05Mike?
01:00:07Yeah?
01:00:08I knew that I was doing this for a reason.
01:00:12And being here, my reason is you.
01:00:17You've made me feel safe and seen and comfortable.
01:00:22We have gone through a lot.
01:00:25I know.
01:00:26Yeah.
01:00:26You have made me feel so special and empowered me to march to the beat of my own drum and
01:00:37not
01:00:37sacrifice who I am in the process.
01:00:39And I can't ask for a better partner, like, throughout my life.
01:00:45I love that.
01:00:50Emma and Mike, you chose to get engaged and spend the rest of your lives together based
01:00:54on a deep emotional connection.
01:00:57Looks, age, finances, and all the superficial things of the world were not a factor for you
01:01:02two.
01:01:03Now is the time to decide if love is blind.
01:01:13Will you get married and commit to facing life together as husband and wife?
01:01:17Or will you walk away forever?
01:01:30Emma, do you take Mike to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold from this
01:01:36day forward for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to
01:01:44love and cherish, forsaking all others for all the days of your life?
01:01:50If so, say, I do.
01:02:01I've been thinking a lot about this decision.
01:02:13There's a lot of things that we still need to go through.
01:02:22Whether that's today or whether that's two years from now.
01:02:32I've been thinking about how you make me feel and I can't, I can't see a future without
01:02:50you.
01:02:51Yeah.
01:02:53Yeah.
01:02:58And I love you.
01:02:59I really, really do.
01:03:01And if that was a yes.
01:03:17Mike, do you take Emma to be your lawfully wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward,
01:03:25for better, for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and change.
01:03:33Do you cherish, for forsaking all others for all the days of your life?
01:03:42If so, say, I do.
01:04:09I will find you.
01:04:12I will find you.
01:04:12I will find you.
01:04:12I will find you.
01:04:14Everything is great.
01:04:15I can see my life being with you.
01:04:18I know Christine.
01:04:19I know all the parts of her and she knows all the parts of me.
01:04:22It's a lot of pressure.
01:04:25How do you think your sister is going to take care of everything?
01:04:27This is a strange like meeting on the day of.
01:04:30Really?
01:04:30What are you all doing?
01:04:31This is like the calm before the storm.
01:04:33Are you ready?
01:04:34Now is the time to decide if love is blind.
01:04:38She flat out calls him a liar.
01:04:42You're so strong.
01:04:45Every stone will make a fire.
01:04:52Every heart will feel desire.
01:04:59Every love will ease me higher.
01:05:05There's something inside.
01:05:08You can't let it go.
01:05:37Paula Mone kratsảy.
01:05:38Clean up.
01:05:59The first thing is on the train anyway.
01:05:59I will be able to take care of you when I got to a meeting.
01:06:00In thección project, I wish you all the time.
01:06:01Do you agree on my whole story.
01:06:02It's been a beautiful story.
01:06:05And that's the way I was trying to engage myself out with those beasts.
01:06:19You
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