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Unexpected - Season 7 - Episode 11: Co-Parenting Your Baby
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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Who said I don't need good?
00:03Oh, you're going to school.
00:04Hopefully, Hunter graduates eighth grade.
00:06A lot of it is he doesn't get to see his dad anymore.
00:10It kind of all fell apart after Bella got pregnant.
00:12He said I ruined my life.
00:14We're making dinner and meal prepping.
00:16I support Maya on losing weight.
00:18I just feel like I shouldn't go crazy.
00:20Jose, can you wash the baby, please?
00:23He's only working part-time.
00:25Eight hours a week is not an excuse to be as unhelpful as he is.
00:28Give him to me.
00:29I need them to be able to carry the weight of being parents.
00:32And hopefully, it happens before Mother's Day,
00:35because this mom is wore out.
00:37Where you been, dude?
00:38They done took her back down there.
00:40.
00:41I wanted my mom back there with me, but she wasn't there.
00:43Where was your mom?
00:45I don't know.
00:46Her first outside experience.
00:49I do appreciate my dad for letting Jessie stay for two weeks
00:52since Oakley's here, but I still don't think it's long enough.
00:55All I ask is no kind of frisky business.
00:58Wow.
00:59Ain't no well about it.
01:00I don't really want to move out on my own, but I will if I have to.
01:03We don't want anybody to know she's here.
01:05Yes, ma'am.
01:06It's induction day, and I do not want any more drama from Bryce or his family.
01:09Baby might have been born already.
01:11We don't even know.
01:12Decent human beings would not inflict pain like this.
01:17She's coming, Belle.
01:18I am so freaking pissed.
01:22Oh, she's here.
01:36She's so cute.
01:38How are you feeling, babe?
01:40Weird.
01:41Weird?
01:42Yeah.
01:42Yeah.
01:43Why?
01:43Because it feels weird.
01:45What feels weird?
01:46Waking up in your house.
01:48But I can get used to it.
01:49Me too.
01:51I can get used to waking up to Jesse every day.
01:54But now that I wake up to him every day, he sweats so bad in his sleep, and he takes
01:58up the whole bed.
02:00Like, I mean, the whole bed.
02:03This is our bed.
02:04And this is how he sleeps.
02:06It's terrible.
02:08Terrible.
02:13What time is the baby?
02:148.30.
02:15So I'll get up and then pump, and then get the baby ready.
02:19Pack the diaper bag.
02:21It's been a few days since we got home from the hospital, and it's been pretty good.
02:25Like, when it comes to nighttime, around 7 o'clock, somebody feeds the baby, whether
02:29it's dad, or me, or Jesse.
02:32And then we put her diaper on, put her brand new clothes on, and then we swatter her up
02:35all nice.
02:36And then me and Jesse take turns during the night.
02:39Jesse's been doing good.
02:40He's doing what he has to do.
02:42Hopefully he keeps it up.
02:43I guess we'll see sooner than later.
02:48She was awake so much last night.
02:50Like, we were all eyes open and everything.
02:51I'm ready to go to these appointments, come home, and leave my bed.
02:54Oh, my dad's calling me.
02:56Hello?
02:57Hey, you calling?
02:58Yeah, I was gonna say you forgot to leave the car seat, but AK's gonna go get a car seat.
03:05Oh, I didn't know I was supposed to leave it.
03:08Oh, the doctor's appointment.
03:10Yeah.
03:11Oh, man.
03:13Today's Oakley's one-week doctor's appointment.
03:16And we forgot her car seat in my dad's truck.
03:19My dad went to work at 6 o'clock in the morning.
03:21AK's on the way to get us.
03:23And I remember, oh, we don't have a car seat.
03:27Ooh.
03:28Mom brain is a real thing, okay?
03:31But I'm sorry.
03:32Like, I'm tired.
03:34Your girl's tired.
03:35AK's gonna go get one and then bring us to the appointment and do his...
03:39What about your mama?
03:40Ain't no mama?
03:41No, I haven't heard from her.
03:43Yeah.
03:43Because of how big of a deal my mom made for my last doctor's appointment, I did try reaching out
03:48to her.
03:49She's a minor, but not her mother.
03:50She's old enough to make her own decisions on who wants to bring her.
03:53You may think that, but you know what?
03:53She is a minor, and I am her mother.
03:56But she didn't respond.
03:57Sorry, babe.
03:58It's okay, Dad.
03:59I know I told you, like, yesterday morning, but, like, I forgot to remind you.
04:04Well, I would like to be involved with helping, but you have not reached out to me.
04:09Yes, I have.
04:10Some days, like, we have appointments, I'd be texting you all day long.
04:14Days that we have appointments.
04:15You're lying right now.
04:16I am.
04:17You're lying.
04:18Mom, you never answer me.
04:19You're lying.
04:19You never answer anybody.
04:21Bullcrap, Mia.
04:21You don't text me at all.
04:22Look and see.
04:25I texted you this day telling you you had mail at the house and you didn't answer me.
04:29What was I supposed to say to I have mail?
04:30You don't even answer me.
04:31When do you text me, like, just to say, hey, mom?
04:34Why would I text you just to say, hey, mom, if you're not going to answer me?
04:38Mia.
04:38Yeah.
04:38Since I got out of the hospital, you've texted me twice.
04:41No.
04:42Yes.
04:42Let me see.
04:44This is when I was in the hospital.
04:46You told me you were in the car.
04:48Mm-hmm.
04:48How's the baby?
04:50Wait, wait, wait.
04:50Let me get my phone.
04:52Where did you contact me?
04:54Mom, you're my mother.
04:56Mia, you're my daughter.
04:57And you're my mom.
04:58Where have you contacted me?
04:59When do you contact me?
05:00Mia, I know you see what's going on there.
05:02She literally just told me that she didn't.
05:04She's texted me more than twice.
05:05Let me see.
05:05She just saw that she only texted me twice.
05:07You're lying.
05:07Pick up your phone.
05:08You just...
05:09Let me see.
05:10Pick up your phone.
05:10Pick up your phone because you're...
05:12I'm done talking.
05:12I'm done talking.
05:12Pick up your phone.
05:13I'm done talking.
05:15My God.
05:39I'm done talking.
05:42My God.
05:49All right.
05:50All right.
05:51I love you.
05:51Have a good day.
05:52I love you, too.
05:52Just be careful.
05:53Kiss her for me.
05:53I will.
05:56I would say because of how my mom is, I know exactly what I don't want to be as a
06:00mom,
06:01and I know exactly what I do want to be as a mom.
06:03No matter how old my daughter, no matter if she was 16 like I am or 26, I would always
06:08be there for her if she needed me.
06:13What a beautiful world it is.
06:20Happy first Mother's Day.
06:24Enjoy every moment of being a mother because it goes fast.
06:30My first Mother's Day is interesting.
06:33It's like, it was always like, oh, I get to appreciate my mom today.
06:37Now it's like, I get to appreciate my mom today and be appreciated.
06:42It's crazy.
06:44It was kind of my holiday and now I got to share it, but that's cool.
06:47That's with her.
06:48I'm willing to do that.
06:55Aww.
06:57You know Amaya loves her roses.
06:59I know.
07:00Thank you so much.
07:02That's for me?
07:03Oh.
07:06You want me to hold the baby so you can open your stuff?
07:09No.
07:09He just went to sleep.
07:12On a day that's all about moms, I'm feeling grateful for you.
07:16In so many ways, you've been like a mom to me.
07:21Here, read it out loud for me.
07:24You didn't even get through the first one.
07:25No, I know.
07:26I'm over here on this side.
07:28Thank you for everything you have done for me, Mama G.
07:30I am forever grateful for you taking me in.
07:33You've taught me a lot and that's why you deserve the best Mother's Day.
07:36Aww.
07:39Thank you, Jose.
07:41And I love you like you're my son.
07:45I love you too.
07:47Mama G is a lot of things to me, including my mom.
07:50But I feel like she has helped me a lot.
07:53Not even just being a better dad.
07:55Just personally, if there's like any problem or anything that I'm going through, she's always there.
08:01So yeah, I do love her.
08:04You better.
08:06To Amaya from Jose.
08:08Happy Mother's Day.
08:09I hope you enjoy this.
08:10A gift card for the perfect style?
08:13The value is $200.
08:15Is that for you?
08:16Dang.
08:17God.
08:18What is this?
08:19Nail that treat yourself to beautiful nails.
08:22Value $50.
08:24Ooh.
08:25Dang.
08:26Great gift.
08:27I know.
08:28I gave her gifts as an offering of my shortcomings.
08:33I do feel bad that Amaya isn't really feeling supported by me with Sammy.
08:39And typically I'd just be taking her out to eat and stuff.
08:42But now that she's on a diet, I want to help support her.
08:45So I just got her a hair appointment instead.
08:48I am impressed that he did all this on his own, because boys are kind of stupid.
08:51I'm not gonna lie.
08:53Like...
08:55And he's doing pretty good at supporting me on my weight loss journey, even though I know he's cheating when
09:00he thinks I'm not looking.
09:03Lies.
09:04Right.
09:06Go ahead and read it.
09:07I want to hear this.
09:09I am forever grateful for the sacrifices you took in giving me my son.
09:14I'm already about to cry.
09:16Aww.
09:17You're the greatest mom to Sammy and take care of him all the time for me while I'm at work.
09:22I think you deserve this and so much more.
09:25Aww.
09:26Oh my God.
09:26That's beautiful.
09:28Thank you, Jose.
09:29Are you gonna get up and give him a hug?
09:30Yes.
09:30Can I, like, collect myself?
09:32I think the man deserves it after that.
09:35It does mean a lot that he, he appreciates what I do and he recognizes that.
09:41But it doesn't change the fact that he's still not being as helpful as me and the baby need him
09:47to be.
09:51Get up.
09:52No.
09:53Oh.
09:56Thank you so much.
09:58You're welcome.
10:00Because she's still that with a kiss at least.
10:02Geez.
10:03You guys act like you hate each other.
10:04She does hate me.
10:05I don't.
10:08Wow.
10:09No, that's why he doesn't get that.
10:11I feel like only time will tell on how, like, if we're gonna stop fighting so much and, like, if
10:18he's gonna help more with the baby.
10:19Like, the gifts don't really mean nothing regarding to that.
10:23So, I am grateful though.
10:26Well, we gotta give Sammy a bath and you gotta go to work.
10:29Wow, you're kicking me out already.
10:31Thank you for everything.
10:32I appreciate my card and my flowers.
10:35No, seriously, thank you.
10:35You're welcome.
10:36Jose has to put in the work.
10:38It takes more than financials to be a parent.
10:44A lot more.
10:46But, I'm glad he's trying.
10:51I would like for dad to come to the game.
10:54Did he ever answer your text?
10:55No.
10:56The relationship with my dad has been not good since Wes has been born.
11:00He won't come see him.
11:02I still have hope.
11:03He can see that I have not ruined my life because my life is not ruined.
11:06Go, Hannah, go!
11:08So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate?
11:11No.
11:13Haisley is the one who's gonna suffer in the end
11:15because she's gonna miss out on a lifetime of a father that adores her.
11:20I don't wanna talk about it no more because it's gonna piss me off.
11:36Used to piss away.
11:39Used to piss away.
11:40Used to piss away.
11:41Can I have her?
11:42I'm trying to sing to her.
11:44Yeah.
11:44Oh, hold on.
11:45Can I bond with my namesake?
11:48Hiya.
11:49She even has all my initials.
11:50Hi, princess.
11:52She's named after me.
11:56I just love her.
11:57There's no better feeling in the world than to hold your daughter's daughter.
12:03Can I see them?
12:04Because I just love looking at her name.
12:06Yeah, I like her name.
12:08So, this is Haisley Natasha Skye Stone.
12:12Haisley's middle name is Natasha Skye.
12:15I just felt like my mom earned that.
12:19She was six pounds, 19.
12:22Six pounds, six ounces, 19 and three quarters inches long.
12:26Period.
12:27Okay.
12:28My mom gots it down.
12:32Yep.
12:38So, Bryce's name is not on the birth certificate?
12:41No.
12:43He's not here.
12:46Can't put someone on the birth certificate that's not here.
12:50I did not put Bryce on the birth certificate because I just, no thanks.
12:57Bryce still doesn't know he has a daughter.
13:00Like, he still hasn't reached out.
13:02And he knows that I wanted to get induced on the fifth.
13:06I mean, that says what it needs to say about him.
13:11Obviously, he doesn't deserve to be on the birth certificate.
13:13Okay.
13:17Well, I'm here to put me on the birth certificate.
13:21I'm just playing, Bill.
13:23I just want you to laugh.
13:24I'm just trying to make you feel better.
13:27Haisley is the one who's going to suffer in the end
13:30because she's going to miss out on a lifetime of a father that adores her.
13:35And he did everything right.
13:36And now he's just like out, you know.
13:39Well, like, throw him away.
13:41Well, hey.
13:46All right.
13:47Come on.
13:51I don't want to talk about it no more because it's going to piss me off.
13:55There ain't nothing I can do about it.
13:56It is what it is.
13:59That's the whole thing is he can't do anything about it, you know,
14:02and it's frustrating to him because he loves the baby.
14:04He's trying to do the right thing.
14:07And what, he's just cut out from seeing his baby?
14:09All right, so unless the paternity is established, you can't see her.
14:13You're just going to have to be strong, be tough.
14:15And, hey, it's not you doing it, it's them doing it to you.
14:18So you're just going to have to suck it up.
14:22It's just part of one of those hard things of life, you know?
14:24He feels very uncomfortable talking about it anymore.
14:27All right, I'm going.
14:29Okay, well, I'm going to come meet you.
14:31All right.
14:37Oh.
14:40Boy, I'll tell you what.
14:43I ain't never seen no people like this in the world.
14:46Hills have eyes, people.
14:52You all right to drive or you want me to drive you home?
14:55I'm sure.
14:56You sure?
14:57Me or Nan can ride with you.
15:00Huh?
15:00Okay, well, wait a minute and we'll follow you home, huh?
15:03All right.
15:04I love you, son.
15:06Oh.
15:09Oh, oh, oh.
15:14Hi, Isabelle's ready to go.
15:18Okay, thank you.
15:20Okay, come on, baby.
15:22Come on.
15:23I don't know.
15:25You have to be in a person.
15:26I try to make sure it was the best one for my little sweet princess.
15:30Yes.
15:33There's been a lot of victories with bringing Haisley home, Isabella home, like, alive, healthy.
15:40Bryce is, like, out of the picture.
15:43Thanks, y'all.
15:44Bye.
15:45Bye.
15:47Yeah, whatever this is, buddy.
15:50Like, go live your life.
15:52I don't know what to tell you.
15:56Oh.
15:59Sit up, pumpkin.
16:02Now that Haisley's here, my only priority is Haisley and my happiness.
16:11But Haisley first, of course.
16:29We're going to go see your goofy daddy play baseball.
16:33Get away from me.
16:36Oh!
16:37Oh!
16:38Oh!
16:38God, that sounded wet, Hunter.
16:39I think that was wet.
16:41Hang on.
16:41Let me go check my pants.
16:42Oh!
16:43Oh!
16:44He's going to have a time, Mark.
16:45He's going to have a time, Mark.
16:45He's going to have a quick shower.
16:51So who's all going to the game?
16:54Mom and y'all.
16:56But I would like for Dad to come to the game and let him see Wes.
17:01Did he ever answer your text?
17:05No.
17:06That's sad.
17:08The relationship with my dad has been going not good since Wes has been born.
17:14He won't come see him, but I'd like him to.
17:18Why hasn't he met him yet?
17:20Because he's not making an effort.
17:23It is literally as simple as just showing up and being there, physically being there.
17:28Physically, mentally.
17:34We're here at Hunter's baseball game, and his dad's not here.
17:38So...
17:39Imagine that.
17:40Maybe Hunter will realize.
17:43Eventually.
17:44Yeah.
17:45We're all Hunter needs.
17:46Because obviously his dad's never been there anyway.
17:52I still have hope that I'll have a good relationship with him, like, in a couple years.
17:57Not now.
17:58When he can see that I have not ruined my life, because my life is not ruined.
18:02I get to play sports.
18:03I get to do the stuff I wanted to do.
18:06Now he gets to teach his son how to do it all.
18:08Yeah.
18:10Mom, a junkie baby.
18:13His onesie ain't going to fit much longer.
18:16What a man, Dad. He's about to bat.
18:18I'm surprised.
18:19Despite Hunter's dad not showing up for him, Hunter has accomplished so much.
18:24He finished eighth grade.
18:27Aren't you so glad you're done?
18:29No.
18:30Why?
18:31Yeah.
18:31Yes.
18:33We didn't want to add a year to school.
18:35No.
18:35Good grief.
18:37It feels good passing eighth grade.
18:40Because my grades were pretty low.
18:42And then at the end of the year, I got them up.
18:45Pretty low is an understatement.
18:48Yeah.
18:48They were all zeroes.
18:50And then I got them up to like A's and B's when I actually tried.
18:54He's done really, really good.
18:56And he's really started helping me with Wes.
19:00He actually is changing poopy diapers now, so...
19:04Change his diapers.
19:07Which I don't give him an option, but he just does it.
19:09Was it just pee?
19:11No.
19:12Yes, it was.
19:13Nope.
19:13It was poop.
19:15That was some very pee-looking poop.
19:17See, I change the pee diapers, sometimes poopy ones.
19:21I don't do no runny poop.
19:23That's Bella's.
19:24Like the runny poop dripping out the diaper.
19:26He just on me.
19:29Did he?
19:31All over his blanket?
19:33Yeah.
19:34Hunter is doing a lot better than I thought he would for being 13 years old as a dad and
19:40a...
19:40Big dog.
19:42I don't know if I would say he's like a big dog or anything, but...
19:46I'd say he's doing alright.
19:48Alright, really?
19:50I'm proud of him. A little bit.
19:52A little bit.
19:54That's a lot.
19:55That's a lot coming from him.
19:58Home run, Hunter.
20:02You better run!
20:04Go, Hunter, go!
20:06I am very relieved that Hunter passed the eighth grade.
20:09It was gonna be super hard if he was held back and had the baby.
20:14You know, all these things.
20:16And could just breathe again when he got that certificate.
20:20Run!
20:21Go, Hunter, go!
20:24Hunter, go!
20:25Go!
20:28He still needs to get through high school, and then I'm hoping maybe he'll get drafted in one of the
20:35sports that he does.
20:37It would be good for his future, for his family, for his son.
20:43And Hunter's got all of us there to support him, but he doesn't have his dad.
20:49I do worry that it will affect him, because he gets in his thoughts about his dad like everything disappears.
20:57It's just, he wants his dad, he misses his dad.
21:02It's a good game, dad, bump, bump, peace, bump, dad.
21:07When his feelings are hurt, he can't focus on anything important.
21:11We're just trying to push him through all of this, but it's, it's really tough.
21:25Are you mad that your dad didn't show up?
21:29Honestly, our biggest hope for them both is that we can get rid of all the drama and negativity,
21:36and they can go on to take care of themselves and their son.
21:44Let's go, mama!
21:46My heart is sinking, because I want her to do nothing more than buckle that buckle.
21:52I can't, it's not reaching.
22:06Ready?
22:07It's been like three months since that terrible ass go-kart date with Jose.
22:12Hey, slow, wait.
22:21Not fitting into the go-kart was the motivation I needed to change my diet and start working out.
22:26But let me tell you, it has not been an easy journey.
22:30One, and up, you got that. Perfect. Two.
22:33Being that big after gaining a whole bunch of weight rapidly like that, and I'm not going to say out
22:39of nowhere,
22:39because I know what I was eating when I was pregnant.
22:42That was all them donuts at 3 a.m., but just starting working out out of nowhere is really hard.
22:48Ooh, that hurts.
22:49What hurts, your knees?
22:50Like right here.
22:51Your quads, yes.
22:54So I feel like I've pushed through a lot of BS.
22:57And one more.
22:59And relax.
23:02Awesome.
23:03I gained 60 pounds during my pregnancy, and my first goal of my weight loss was to hit 285, because
23:12that's how much I weighed before I got pregnant.
23:15And I'm hoping that my hard work is finally paying off.
23:19So it's been three months since I've been working out with Carolina.
23:23I'm about to check right now to see if I made any progress.
23:27I'm nervous, okay.
23:30The progress is showing off.
23:35285.
23:36She hit it.
23:37Ay.
23:40Ay.
23:40But I don't know if it's going to be enough to fit into the go-kart.
23:48There she is!
23:50Oh, my God!
23:51Y'all are so embarrassing!
23:54Come on, Carol!
23:56Let's go, Mama!
23:58Oh, man!
24:00Let's go, Maya!
24:01Come on, Mama!
24:08I can't slow reach in.
24:10I got you.
24:12My heart is sinking, because I want her to do nothing more than buckle that buckle.
24:21Getting that phone call from Amaya when she was on the date, and just hearing her, like, break down in
24:29the bathroom by herself, it was hard.
24:32Why are you crying?
24:34Because I didn't fit on the go-karts.
24:36I want to go home.
24:38Why couldn't you fit?
24:39Because I was too fat.
24:43You got this!
24:44Come on, Mama!
24:46It's gonna happen! It's gonna happen!
24:47Come on, Maya-Maya!
24:50I'm just hoping that she gets it to click, because I know how upset Maya was about the go-karts.
24:56You've never been too fat for anything.
24:58Yes, I have.
24:59No, you haven't. Not like that.
25:01And I don't want her to feel that way ever again.
25:09Oh, my God!
25:11Woo!
25:14It's like, click, and I'm, like, so happy!
25:22I could jump onto a building right now, not off, I could jump from the ground up, okay?
25:27Oh.
25:28That's how happy I am!
25:35I'm really proud of Maya being able to meet her goal weight, since she has been crying to me, and
25:41she's been working really hard for it.
25:42Don't say I've been crying to you, like, what the hell?
25:45You're just bringing up unnecessary stuff, bruh.
25:48These kids fight all the time.
25:50Stop talking to me.
25:50This is what my life has been.
25:52Stop talking to me.
25:59I feel amazing about my body.
26:02Woo!
26:02Woo!
26:05But I'm not feeling very confident in our relationship right now.
26:09I feel like we're just two people who had a baby together.
26:13Raising a baby together.
26:14Just parenting, you know?
26:19I did let you pass me.
26:21Nah.
26:21Yes, I did.
26:23I don't know if it's her weight loss, but I feel like her gaining more confidence, she probably realizes that
26:30maybe she can find someone else other than me.
26:33I mean, I love Maya, but I don't know if that's enough, and I don't know what our relationship will
26:40look like in the future.
26:41Whether it be us being together or not, I do not know.
26:49He's heavy.
26:50Why are you holding him like this?
26:52Because he likes to be held like that, but he's heavy.
26:54I hope that for the sake of Sammy, they're not going to be together, at least co-parent.
27:01But I would love to see them together, though.
27:04I would love to see Sammy raised in a house with both his father and mother.
27:09Why is that important for you?
27:14When I was pregnant with her, I knew I was going to be a single mom.
27:25And I just don't want her to go through that.
27:31Because it's not easy.
27:33At all.
27:44Your makeup looked really good today, too.
27:46Shut up, Lamar.
27:48This is not an easy decision for me at all.
27:51He won't let Jesse move in.
27:52If he don't want us living our life at his house, then we'll live our life at a different house.
27:56If he doesn't want us living our life at his house, then we'll live our life at a different house.
28:45Dad's home.
28:47Come see her.
28:50She looks so cute.
28:51Come look at her.
28:54My baby.
28:56My sweet baby.
28:58I want to talk to the kids about Jesse staying at the house.
29:01Because Mia's been nagging me ridiculously about it.
29:05And it's time we had the conversation.
29:08Now, look.
29:11All bulls*** aside, I've been going through a moral dilemma about the situation.
29:17This was not part of the plan.
29:22But I'm giving you a chance to stay here.
29:26I asked her two weeks.
29:28Because I love my daughter, and I don't want to lose her.
29:32Okay?
29:33Yes, sir.
29:35I was raised Catholic.
29:37I mean, you don't shack up.
29:38You don't sleep around.
29:40You know, you wait until you're married.
29:41I mean, I know those are ridiculous things to ask of kids, especially these days.
29:48But, you know, if that's how you're raised, at least you sort of try to abide by that, you know?
29:55But after Mia gave me the ultimatum, I prayed about it almost every night.
30:00When he leaves, then I'm going to be going back and forth with the baby.
30:03We're not having this conversation right now.
30:05I'm just telling you.
30:06I'm just telling you.
30:07It's still not cool to me, you know?
30:09But I just don't want to lose my daughter and my grandbaby, so we're going to give it a shot.
30:18This is not an easy decision for me at all.
30:21I know.
30:21No, I don't think you know.
30:23I do.
30:23No, I don't think you will know until you get older.
30:27So don't take it lightly.
30:28Do your best.
30:29You hear me?
30:30I'm serious, bruh.
30:31It's on you.
30:33It means a lot to me that my dad didn't just squash the idea.
30:39Nag, nag, nag, nag, nag.
30:41It would have been a constant just...
30:43Every freaking day, I need help, dad.
30:46He's dramatic.
30:47That's what I'm getting at.
30:49Somebody would have been dramatic.
30:50No, he's dramatic.
30:51I can't do it alone, dad.
30:53He's dramatic.
30:55But I'm thankful that he let him stay.
30:59And I'm thankful that he loves the baby girl just as much as I do.
31:07I am told for sure.
31:11And I love you, baby.
31:15That's all I gotta say.
31:18I really, really appreciated it all.
31:20And so did Mia.
31:21But we were just so in shock because of how strong he is about his morals and all that.
31:27So we didn't really know what to say.
31:29But I was very appreciated.
31:32Appreciative.
31:32Is that the word?
31:33Yeah, that's close.
31:35Appreciative about it.
31:36And now I'm willing to do anything it'll take to prove him that he didn't make a mistake.
31:41Good.
31:42You gotta do it.
31:44I mean, you know?
31:45It's just, it's no choice.
31:48Well, I mean, you do have a choice, but you don't.
31:53Yeah, you don't.
31:55Yeah.
31:56What a big moment, huh, babe?
31:58Big moment.
31:59I didn't expect that.
32:01Gotta stay on top of our game.
32:05Yes.
32:06Yes.
32:07We're not exactly starting our life as a new family because I don't have, like, the, what is it?
32:13Like, I don't have the things older people can do since I'm still a minor and young.
32:17But eventually, hoping we can get our own space into our own thing.
32:20And I really do plan on marrying her one day.
32:23But that's a huge step, so stepping will take time.
32:26Yeah, yeah.
32:27Do you think of Jesse as more of a son-in-law now?
32:31More of a son-in-law, yes.
32:33It's not really seeing him step up.
32:35It's more of me stepping back.
32:37I guess, in a certain way to me, it sounds stupid.
32:40But, like, it's giving your daughter away at the wedding.
32:44It's like, I gotta kinda just let him do what I wanna do.
32:47Like, instinctively, I wanna be by her side to do whatever's gotta be done.
32:52And now, I gotta not do that.
32:55So that's gonna get some getting used to.
32:57But, it's good, yeah.
33:00Just don't mess it up.
33:06I love you.
33:07I love you.
33:09Are you excited?
33:10Are you happy?
33:12Like, in a few years, like, once the baby's old enough, and we're stable, and we have what we need.
33:20If I do wanna marry Jesse.
33:22Well, first he has to propose.
33:24And then, we'll start the other process.
33:32Are you okay?
33:33Yeah, well, Bryce texted me.
33:37He said he wants to see Haseley.
33:39Do you want him involved?
33:42Like, do you-
33:42Like, obviously, I want her to have a dad.
33:44This isn't gonna cause anything but more heartache and trouble.
33:51Keep a hold on home.
33:54Anywhere I go, I never allow you.
33:57What'd the doctor say?
33:59Pretty much everything's good.
34:01She's not worried about anything.
34:04Um, and, like, in two months, I'll go back to, um, I think she gets her shots then.
34:12So, it's been two weeks since I had Haseley, and we just finished up her first pediatrician appointment.
34:18She said she's doing great.
34:19She eats very good.
34:21Um, she's always mean mugging.
34:24Like, she never smiles at nobody.
34:27She just rolls her eyes.
34:28Um, I already caught her flipping me off.
34:32And, um, Bryce still hasn't seen her.
34:37But it's great.
34:38It's lovely.
34:39It's like we've finally got some peace and quiet.
34:43It's not no drama, you know?
34:53You're being kind of standoffish today.
34:56Are you okay?
34:58Yeah.
34:58Are you just tired?
35:01Like, what's wrong?
35:02It's nothing.
35:04Huh?
35:05It's nothing.
35:07Well, when it's nothing, it's usually something.
35:12Yeah, well...
35:16Bryce texted me.
35:18When?
35:19Last night.
35:21What did he say?
35:22Uh, what did he say?
35:26Okay.
35:28Okay, you said only text if it has something to do with our daughter, and it does.
35:32I said, okay, that's fine.
35:34He said, okay, so can I see her or something?
35:36Like, I know you think I'm gonna be a piece of dad or whatever, but that's not me.
35:40I got more respect in myself than that.
35:42What our relationship was has nothing against her and has no reason on why I shouldn't have a relationship with
35:47her.
35:48And I also don't want that to hold anything back from me seeing her or anything.
35:52I just wanted to ask and see.
35:54Ugh.
35:56Not that I could have changed my attitude and changed everything and done what I was supposed to do as
36:02a damn dad.
36:04I'm actually very surprised that Bryce finally reached out, and Bryce sounds very mature and not childish as, like, he
36:14usually would be.
36:15It's giving me a little bit of hope.
36:18What's that for?
36:20Don't have, like, a bad attitude.
36:21I'm sorry, but I get frustrated and aggravated because I think Isabella wants that relationship to work so bad that
36:33she gets manipulated by him.
36:35And my thing is, he does good for one minute, and then it's back to bull crap again.
36:42Deja vu, we've been here before, it feels like nothing's new.
37:00I got a job with my buddy Ryan, and getting paid better than what I would if I worked at
37:06a job.
37:07My goal is to save up enough money to be able to put myself into CDL school and support me
37:11and my daughter.
37:13I need a break. Hang on a minute.
37:16Whew.
37:20So you figure out your situation with a whole girl there.
37:25It's complicated, I guess. I don't really know the whole situation.
37:28I've been texting Isabella, so she'll hopefully see that I'm trying.
37:33It's not about us, it's about our daughter.
37:36That's all that really matters to me.
37:38Because I know how that feels to not have a father, or your father.
37:44Like, you can have a father figure there, but it's not the same as your own father, I guess you
37:49could say.
37:50I mean, I want me and her to be better and do good, but, like, if we have a problem,
37:55then it goes to her mom.
37:57Unfortunately, that's how it goes most of the time.
38:00I hope that if me and her get to a cordial point that I can see my daughter on a
38:04daily basis or more, but...
38:06The ball's in Isabella's court.
38:08I mean, that really comes up to her. That's her decision if she wants me there or not.
38:14And you think it's a good idea for him to see the baby?
38:21I don't know.
38:23I obviously want my daughter to have both of her parents.
38:28I mean, what parent doesn't want their kid to have the other parent involved?
38:36But there's things that need to be worked on.
38:40He's still f***ing annoying. Like, he's still annoying.
38:44He irritates my soul. Like, I don't know. Like, I... I don't know.
38:50You know, Belle, it's just, he's had nine months.
38:55He hasn't changed in a year, but he changed now.
38:58I don't know.
39:00I would feel bad if I tell him,
39:02Yeah, no, you can't see her.
39:04So, I mean, the least I can do is, you know, try...
39:08the least you can do.
39:11I'm gonna give him the chance to come and see her.
39:14I'm reaching out one time.
39:15And then if he doesn't, then he does it.
39:17I won't reach out anymore.
39:19Do you want him involved?
39:21Or do you not want him involved?
39:23That's his decision. I don't know.
39:25Like, do you...
39:26Like, obviously, I want her to have a dad.
39:28Like, I'm never gonna take that, but I'm not gonna...
39:31Like, if he's sitting there showing me, like,
39:33that he's not being a consistent person
39:35and he is, like, not showing up for her
39:38when he says he's gonna show up for her
39:40and, like, supporting her, helping me support her,
39:43then no, I'm not gonna let him be in her life.
39:47I'm gonna shut up and be quiet.
39:50It's against my better judgment, though.
39:52I'd rather see his true intentions now
39:54than wait till she's 12 and starts asking about...
39:58Well, you know how bad he hurt you?
40:01Get ready, because seeing your baby hurt
40:03because of some dumb he's done,
40:05it's gonna hurt you 10 times worse.
40:14Next time on Unexpected...
40:21Me and Wes don't get to see Hunter every day anymore
40:23because Hunter's now staying with his dad
40:25every other week.
40:26It's hard being by myself for a week,
40:28but it's not Hunter's fault.
40:31You'll see Daddy in a few days, Bubba.
40:33It's okay.
40:34And it's also really hard on Wes
40:36because he's a different baby without his daddy.
40:41Oh, my gosh, these are so pretty.
40:43I'm dating a girl.
40:46Don't be mad that they're leaving
40:47and you're staying here with me.
40:49Why should I be mad?
40:50Since Amaya and I broke up,
40:52it just feels...
40:54lonely.
40:56Everything is gone.
40:57The trucks.
40:58Our house burnt down.
40:59It was just nothing but a black wall of smoke.
41:02We're finally getting there.
41:04It's draining.
41:06Mentally, financially.
41:07It's rough, man.
41:09How did it go when Bryce proposed?
41:11Were you surprised?
41:12I knew.
41:13Me and Bryce got back together.
41:17Yes.
41:18That's when everything exploded, basically.
41:22You lied to me.
41:24You tried to make me pick between you and Bryce.
41:27I chose Bryce.
41:28Sorry, I want my kid to have a dad.
41:29You disrespected me for the last time.
41:32I miss my mom, but, like, the bitch is spiraling.
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