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00:00I don't want to be on the end or the front.
00:04Can you please help me?
00:06No, you have to fend for yourself.
00:09I'm the girl and I get put in the very, very back.
00:11That's how I know something is up.
00:13Honestly, I just can't really put my finger on it.
00:16Haylin, can we talk to my truck for a minute?
00:20Can you turn your mic on?
00:23I'm king of the world!
00:25What are you doing?
00:26Oh, oh, oh, hello.
00:28I like him to call first before he shows up.
00:32I don't want to be in the house and look out the window and just see him there.
00:37I want to know if I look out, I'm going to see woods and birds, maybe a deer.
00:42I'm not going to see Barry.
00:44I'll just say it all so there's nothing left in the dark.
00:47She called me out on social media, which just hurt.
00:51For me, from the time that you two said I do, I see you as a son, son-in-law,
00:56part of the family.
00:57I just think actions really speak louder than words.
00:59And so I just hope that now that she's said that, it actually turns into action.
01:04I don't know.
01:15I don't know.
01:18I don't know.
01:30I don't know.
01:35you're gonna get a drink I'm gonna have cider in a can yeah I might it's five o'clock somewhere
01:41right yeah today's a good day to meet up with Ethan and Micah and Mariah when they're in town
01:48you know we do make a point to just get together there she is there she is it's been a
01:54while huh
01:55yeah so today is just one of those infrequent times where we just go to a restaurant bar and
02:02just have some pizza and have a drink just to chat yeah cheers to Ethan I'm saying his first
02:11word today I have an idea let's all go around and say something that we wished we didn't do today
02:24do you have more of an original idea why don't you start did you drive into another fountain today no
02:31I haven't had any incidences since I left Georgia there's a lot to run into out there I mean and
02:38there's a lot that can go wrong in Montana in the winter you know I thought there was nobody out
02:41there and that's why I wanted to move out there but then I realized there were people and I also
02:46realized I kind of need people like not you guys but some people what are the people like like the
02:56community is very tight because they need each other I can like pretty much promise you that
03:01when you guys come out to see me you're gonna know exactly why I couldn't come back I will always
03:06have
03:06a very special place in my heart for Cairo but Montana is my new home that's where I feel like
03:12I belong I
03:13worried about you when you first moved out there I worried about myself but I wasn't gonna tell anyone
03:21there's been some things in my life that I've had to work through and I just you know I needed
03:27a reset
03:27and I needed to just figure things out on my own and grow up a bit like I think we've
03:35lost her to
03:36Montana for good but at least she found her home on a good spot Mariah seems really happy probably the
03:43happiest I've ever seen her and I think Mariah's happy because she's found peace and peace is hard
03:50to come by and when you find it you should keep it and that's what I want you know I
03:57had in the I had
03:59in my mind's eye this this like vision of me finding some lady in Montana what do you think of
04:13that
04:14at this point I'm just introducing them to the topic of me dating someone I am open to meeting
04:23people in a variety of locations right Montana being a novel thought that would be fun it would
04:29be great to meet somebody the only woman I've ever known my dad to be with is my mom and
04:34I don't think
04:36that's gonna be his type I'm staying out of it I just don't want to be the one son that
04:42is out at a
04:43bar with my dad and hooks them up with somebody and then it's just hell you know if you meet
04:49somebody
04:49that looks good but are you just thinking with that third leg dad did you really have a vision I'm
04:59looking at Micah I'm looking at Ethan going I'm in one mode and they're in another Ethan you know
05:05he's kind of playing the role of bump on the log right now if Micah I don't know if Micah
05:09realizes
05:09it but he needs to process that relationship that was so toxic and work through it but I have an
05:15optimistic outlook on life right now divorce is behind me now new chapters totally begun
05:21so do you have new beginnings Mariah this is gonna be an interesting journey dad what's your best
05:32pickup line I don't have any you know he doesn't have any no wonder he's single yeah right he's been
05:40out of the game for like 30 years okay Ethan what's a good pickup line I don't have any Micah
05:46used to use
05:47something dad just needs to walk up to a girl and go like how you doing baby how you doing
05:55how you
05:56doing how you doing how you doing how you doing how you doing I'm very I'm from New York I
06:08honestly
06:09would just like to see my dad try and flirt with how you doing baby where do you park your
06:16car
06:16maybe I wouldn't want to see you you know never mind I change my mind I don't want to see
06:21that you
06:23would make a pretty pretty interesting New Yorker do they look like willing wingmen it's not gonna
06:32happen they're nowhere near any type of wingman yeah that's fine there'll be other people who might
06:37like to offer me advice or introduce me to someone you have one job and that would be take your
06:44time
06:44to find the right one so a few days ago we were at the Halloween thing and I could sit
07:11something was off
07:13and so afterwards we had a long talk and me and Isaac ended up breaking up I never saw it
07:21coming and I
07:22kind of thought everything was going really good today I'm at my friend Kim's house I've had a really
07:29really rough week and it might help just a little bit have a glass of wine we're both nurses and
07:35we
07:36graduated together I share a lot of things with her and she knows Isaac and some about the family
07:42dynamics hey hey how are you doing uh just as you would expect it's kind of been a lot the
07:55past few
07:55days I can understand that when he came to you what what exactly did he say so we were at
08:05that
08:05Halloween thing and I could kind of feel like something was off in a way like he was just kind
08:12of distancing himself yeah so he pulled me aside after we got done and he was like can we talk
08:20and I was
08:20like yeah and I knew it was kind of like I knew something was coming that's when it all happened
08:26first he can't get out the words and then you know I'm I kind of make him like you got
08:32to say it say it
08:32with your chest and he you know said that I think we should break up and honestly like I'm kind
08:44of shocked
08:44been away like it threw me like it's thrown me for a loop now I'm just like I honestly I
08:51just I
08:51didn't even know what to think I'm just really shocked because out of all the people in the world
08:57that I know I never would have saw this coming yeah nobody saw it coming either
09:06so dad I have not heard this directly from you but I have heard it around you're open to date
09:14that was the topic of conversation here before you walked in I mean it's kind of weird to be
09:20talking to my ex-husband about dating other people you know it's a new age another woman can have
09:26them I'm okay with that so how's everything been going man there's going on right now I'll work
09:33through it and get through it but it's going I got scared I felt like it was moving too fast
09:40and I was
09:40too young just seeing her happy and stuff knowing what I was about to do to her just still haunts
09:46me to
09:46this day honestly we need like a steady hour with the big hose to knock a lot dirt off it
10:06would
10:06definitely make it easier for sure today we're at one of our sheds and we just finished up picking
10:12peanuts me and Ralph have we've known each other since I started last year we hit it off pretty
10:18well we both just like screwing around spending time together we'll get this one washed off okay
10:27there's no easy way to say it but me and Kalen I broke up with her because I felt like
10:37it was moving
10:37too fast and I was too young just certain thoughts built up to where I felt like I was under
10:45too much
10:45pressure and I wanted to just be free I know she is a little bit older than me so she
10:50may want to
10:51settle down a little sooner than I would have in mind just everything my family's been through it scared me
11:04explain it did she say something no no I mean I wouldn't be the type to break off with someone
11:08because they say something it wasn't like an instant decision it was just something that I was thinking
11:12about and that that's one thing that was really hard was seeing her happy and her not knowing anything's
11:18going to happen you know knowing what I was about to do to her just still haunts me to this
11:23day honestly
11:24he didn't know if he was ready to like be completely settled down you know like because
11:28he knows marriage is on the table for me one day yeah it got into his head that he thought
11:32I want
11:32to be married in the next like year or two and that was not the case and then some of
11:37the guys at work
11:38kind of got into his head a lot they were like are you sure you want to be settled down
11:42are you sure
11:42you're ready for that with divorce with Kim and then Mike and Veronica I mean he has been
11:50surrounded by relationship failure after relationship failure and I think that's put a real big fear on him
12:00but he's got to understand you are so far from the type of person Veronica was your relationship is
12:08not the same as the things that he's experienced with his family how's he been after the fact though it
12:16was either Sunday or Monday night he called my parents stop and yeah he called mom and daddy why
12:25would he do that though he wanted to apologize for hurting their daughter yeah he just apologized he
12:31apologized to them he asked mom and daddy to pray for him and he was like I'm always gonna love
12:37your
12:37daughter mama was like you could tell he's confused about some stuff so how's everything been going man
12:50like work or personal life it's a little bit of both it's been going I mean works been good other
12:57than
12:58working with you but then everything else is there's going on right now I'll work through it and get there
13:05it's going it's only been a few days that's one of the things that makes me feel so stupid and
13:12it's
13:12one of those things where right after you make the decision you just know in your gut it wasn't a
13:16good
13:16decision she didn't deserve to be treated that way after everything she's done for me we're not really
13:24talking but I kind of reach out to her and I have no desire to do anything other than to
13:29rebuild it with
13:29her and that's all I want that's all I can see myself doing she's gonna have to decide what she
13:35wants to do a few days of being by myself is too much already and it's killing me inside but
13:41I just miss
13:46her man I'm good maybe I should listen to Mario for advice yeah you live and you learn I don't
13:53think I
13:53should listen to him some lessons are best learned the hard way yeah I guess so where I'm at personally
13:59is
14:00pretty close to hell it's just really setting in now and looking back that's something I should
14:06never have even thought about letting go of hate myself so much that I just don't even want to wake
14:15up if I can't be with her I want more than anything to talk to her and work it out
14:22there's a lot of
14:25trust that would need to be rebuilt and I'm willing to go to the ends of the earth to do
14:29it but I don't
14:32know if I can recover from this with her you know I don't know if she'd be open to that
14:37I'm really
14:38waiting to see you know where she stands I don't know I just don't know if I've done too much
14:44damage
14:44to redo it but I'm just praying for second chance has he been trying to contact you a lot since
14:58this
14:58he's reached out probably like once a day he wants to meet up sometime and talk and he was like
15:05you
15:05know the balls in your court whatever you you want to do um whenever I feel like I'm ready and
15:11I was
15:12you know kind of confused about it and you didn't message immediately back did you no okay no yeah make
15:18him wait it out I have mixed emotions because you know I do still care for him I do still
15:23love him
15:24but I've always known my self-worth that I've always stuck up for myself you know I'm never a
15:28second option and I'm not for all that you can't just make these decisions without thinking about
15:35other people's feelings I know it was probably really rough and I know that it took a lot for
15:40him to come to you and talk to you about this yeah but I want the best for you and
15:45I don't know if
15:46Isaac's it there's trust issues yeah you're gonna have that that's the whole thing about it though
15:52when you put that seed of doubt into somebody and then in the future want to work that out or
16:00wait
16:00and and see if he can reconcile that seed of doubt's gonna be there when a man loves you and
16:10he wants to
16:11wife you up and marry you he will show you there will not be a doubt in your head they
16:17won't allow him
16:18to exist if he you know really wants us he's gonna prove it to me with his actions because
16:22you know to me it's always actions over words honestly right now I don't necessarily know where
16:28me and Isaac stand I really believed so much that he you know was the one but you know trust
16:36isn't just
16:37given it's something that you have to earn with your actions we'll just see what he does and yeah just
16:42thank God cuz that's the only other thing I can do you guys want to sing some music with me
16:57yeah Ethan's
17:00back in Cairo it's great to have him here I think Ethan's doing good it's kind of hard to tell
17:06you know
17:07with him but since Ethan's moved back here he's been really quiet what do you want to sing oh I
17:14don't know gospel songs or something I don't know what Ethan's thinking but every once in a while he'll
17:21share something with me wait I need to be in the middle but he's not like a very open person
17:25as we all
17:27know you know you know amazing grace yeah it's just really nice to have him around
17:36amazing grace how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me
17:50well I think it's been a good move for my little sisters to come back here I'm very thankful for
17:56the
17:56time I get to spend with my siblings especially my little sisters I think that I did need to come
18:02back and see what it's like here what it's like living here again just so I would know if I
18:08really
18:08wanted that or not but the days of the farm and all of us there's it's not it's not that
18:15anymore
18:15it probably never will be and that that chapter's come and gone
18:27I don't know whenever I'm with Tegan I feel completely at home and like everything all the
18:32little things that bug you in life or day to day or whatever they're just gone and when I'm not
18:38with
18:39her when I'm away from her it's like I'm just restless I can't can't sit still I don't sleep very
18:46well
18:49it's just no I just I know I'm not supposed to be here
19:01so at this point you don't know if you're gonna stay in Georgia or or not right
19:12if you don't stay in Georgia what might you do
19:16only God knows that I don't know
19:18we've no less days to say God's praise than when we first begun
19:34it's very nice
19:36very nice
19:39get them with their confidence
19:51I can start with the comb I just washed it okay and I didn't do anything to it I didn't
19:57brush it
19:58here I can do it I'm a professional remember yeah I'm a hairdresser now mom and I've been trying to
20:04get more time together lately and apparently she wants the haircut that I did on myself like last year
20:11or something
20:13I've always wanted to be close with my mom and I feel like
20:16through the years we have had our times where we were closer than others
20:19but there's always been
20:21like a lack of transparency a lack of vulnerability
20:25we're both adults now
20:26she's got to be able to
20:28let her walls down
20:30what I want to clear up with my mom is kind of
20:34one of the root issues
20:36of the distance in our relationship
20:40is this your first time seeing a hairdresser
20:45this year it is
20:49the distance in Lydia and I's relationship
20:52I feel like my part in that is not reaching out to her
20:55as much as I would have otherwise because I felt condemnation judgment about my life choices
21:02especially the divorce
21:04I would love to get back to where we were before
21:10okay
21:12you've been married less than a year you know so I'm sure you're still on that you know honeymoon stage
21:19and all that
21:20yeah I mean I know there were aspects that were quick for us personally it never felt rushed
21:25I understand for you guys not having too much time with him and everything that was hard
21:32but I don't want to be you know 10 years into marriage and just be like well the honeymoon phase
21:37was fun but now here we are
21:39yeah
21:39and I feel like we've been doing that pretty well having tough conversations
21:45things that we admired about each other at the very beginning that we feel like has faded a little bit
21:50that's hard to hear but it's needed
21:52needed
21:54and
21:54he doesn't shy away from hard conversations
21:56yeah
21:57I've definitely always been one to shy away from hard conversations
22:00but
22:01yeah marriage takes two
22:02it takes two to be vulnerable
22:04it takes two to be honest
22:05it takes two to sacrifice
22:07and
22:08when
22:09hurt from life gets in the way
22:11and wounds you
22:12and numbs you
22:12it affects every aspect of your life
22:15oh my goodness
22:17oh lord
22:18the tangles are like right back here
22:20oh
22:21oh I see
22:26you know Isaac's coming over to visit
22:28nice
22:28and we're gonna talk
22:30nice
22:30I think about
22:32Kaelin's stuff
22:33yeah
22:34that's really sad
22:36I feel like
22:37even though it's really hard
22:39I feel like he did make the right decision
22:41and the fact that like
22:42he is only 20
22:43and so to have some time
22:45just him figuring
22:46yeah
22:47stuff out I think is really good
22:49and I would love it if they could
22:51grow and come back together
22:53once they're in a good place
22:55but
22:56I'm hoping that
22:57Lydia is kind of realizing that
22:59dating people going through breakups
23:02getting married
23:03relationships can be more complicated
23:05it's not always just well
23:07this is the right thing to do
23:08just do it
23:12okay
23:16you and I used to be really close
23:18and I feel like all of this other stuff has kind of crept in over the years
23:22with the separation and divorce and all of that
23:26mm-hmm
23:27mm-hmm
23:28when the divorce and the separation happened
23:30you know there was a rift between Lydia and I
23:33I felt like Lydia has been a supporter of Barry and not me
23:40well speaking of which
23:42um
23:43like whenever I would talk to you
23:45it just felt like there was
23:46I was talking to a brick wall
23:58like whenever I would talk to you it just felt like there was
24:01I was talking to a brick wall
24:06I felt that you were judging me and
24:09and like not accepting where I was in life
24:15it hurts to hear
24:16because I certainly never intended to be like a brick wall
24:20so I'm making an effort towards
24:22chatting about things
24:24on a deeper level
24:26I mean the hardest thing in all of that
24:29was knowing that it was hurting
24:30all of you kids
24:31and that was the last thing I wanted
24:33mm-hmm
24:33and I'm sorry that that
24:35yeah
24:37happened
24:38I mean it definitely would have been easier
24:40if he had been the one to leave
24:42you know
24:49what's going on?
24:52I don't know
24:54I'm dating someone
24:58I don't know if
24:59if you can step out of a 24 years of marriage
25:02and then so soon
25:05jump into any other relationship
25:08I can't support this
25:09I can't say I agree with it
25:14you okay?
25:17yeah
25:17what's going on?
25:22I just
25:25I don't know
25:27sack it up we put into words
25:29I can't
25:37you know that's understandable now seeing that
25:40everything you were going through
25:41that you were the one that left
25:44you had to do it
25:45what you had to do
25:47there were definitely repercussions from that
25:49but it's something that we can all
25:51grow from
25:53the last thing I ever wanted
25:54for it to come across was
25:56that I was judging my mom
25:58I think there's definitely
25:59part of me that was hurt
26:01but deep down this
26:02you know
26:03was never my intention
26:06and you know it's hard to hear that that's
26:08you know one of the reasons that
26:10she
26:11distanced herself
26:12going through all that was just about as hard as this tangle here
26:16I am
26:18does Ken know you're getting this haircut
26:20or are you just going to get it and see if he notices?
26:23no he wouldn't
26:24he would notice
26:28it's kind of something I wanted to
26:31talk about with you
26:32back when you guys started dating
26:34it was like right when
26:37everything was fresh
26:38and then I
26:40expressed how
26:42I didn't approve
26:43and I know there's been
26:45lots of ups and downs for you guys
26:46but I see
26:48you guys are doing a lot better
26:50and I see there's
26:52you know you're in a healthy place now
26:54and the girls are happy
26:55and you guys are happy
26:57and I just wanted to
26:59make sure you knew that
27:00that I'm happy
27:01really happy for you
27:02and I approve
27:03and if that day ever comes
27:05then I'll be really happy
27:06for you guys
27:10thank you
27:25thank you
27:27yeah
27:34that really means a lot to me
27:35yeah
27:36because you know like
27:38I hated how everything happened like it did
27:41yeah
27:41where like
27:43I wanted so much to give all of you kids a stable home
27:48and two parents
27:50but at some point I just couldn't
27:53and I hated that I was the one that left
27:57yeah
27:57but I didn't really
27:58I feel like I didn't
28:00I didn't have a choice
28:01it really means a lot that
28:05you know there's some grace there for
28:08how all that played out
28:10yeah
28:12today really helped
28:13I felt like in her not accepting Ken
28:16it wasn't that she wasn't accepting Ken
28:18she wasn't accepting me and my choices
28:20to me it means she loves me
28:22no matter what I do
28:24and that just was huge for me
28:26I wasn't expecting to hear that today
28:28all right
28:29start with four inches maybe
28:31I just want to be able to move forward as a family
28:34and Zach is family now
28:37no going back
28:40oh these are nice scissors
28:44I'm excited to see what this looks like
28:48okay
28:48okay now if you want to stand up
28:49and I'll just look at the layers
28:50and see if anything needs to be
28:52okay yeah I think I should trim
28:54that was where we just go
28:56maybe I was supposed to cut it the other way
29:00oh no
29:02that's not what you want to hear
29:08are you laughing?
29:10no
29:12are you crying?
29:14nope
29:14I'm making it all good back here
29:16don't worry
29:17okay
29:17I think that's good
29:19all right
29:20go look in the mirror
29:23and see what you think
29:25you know I do see that
29:27she does want to be close with us
29:28and she does want the best for us
29:29I'm glad we could share this
29:31with each other
29:32and I'm excited to see
29:35where our relationship goes from here
29:37I hope it's good
29:39oh that looks good Lydia
29:42okay
29:44I love it
29:45I love it
29:45I love it
29:45it's perfect
29:46let's go
29:53so how was the day?
29:55good?
29:55everything's good
29:56yeah you know I'm just prepping
29:57at the house for some other things
29:59Zach and I have had time now
30:02to spend together more and more
30:03and so if I need to talk with a guy
30:06Zach is a guy I can go to
30:07yeah I know you got a pool table
30:09that's fun
30:12so tonight we're at Giorgio's
30:14and it's guys night
30:16at Giorgio's
30:17it's true
30:18I'm living for that shirt
30:19let's go to Hawaii right?
30:21I have one very similar
30:22I may actually wear to church tomorrow now
30:23yeah
30:24I'm just looking for good wingmen
30:26who want to be a member of the few
30:28the proud
30:29my wingmen
30:31I didn't know I was being knighted tonight
30:33you're being enlisted into a valiant service
30:38need my hugs guys
30:39oh good to see ya
30:41alright man
30:42it's good to see ya
30:43you too
30:44Taylor's a friend of Zach's
30:46Taylor's a friend of mine
30:47Lydia has worked for him
30:49Mariah has worked for him
30:51Taylor is Kim's boss as well
30:53so Taylor knows
30:55what's going on with the Plath Clan
30:56even when the Plath Clan doesn't know
30:58what's going on with the Plath Clan
31:00so what are you guys doing today?
31:02we're just hanging out
31:05just relaxing
31:05just doing a father-in-law
31:07son-in-law hangout day?
31:08yep
31:08oh yeah
31:08we're trying to catch up
31:10yeah what should I have?
31:12what would you recommend?
31:13do you have one of your mocktails?
31:15do the ginger orange mocktail
31:17it's out of this world
31:18the ginger orange mocktail
31:19the ginger orange mocktail
31:20you got it
31:21absolutely yeah
31:22Barry and I have been friends
31:23for a little over a year now
31:25at the restaurant one evening
31:26Barry came in and I got to meet him
31:28and we just clicked right away
31:29Barry and I both have just come out of
31:31very long relationships
31:32and before I met the Plath
31:35I was in a really bad relationship
31:37it was the guy that I was with for 15 years
31:40and you get a lot of judgment from that
31:42from the fundamentalist community
31:45but the friendship that I've gotten from them
31:46and the non-judgment that I've gotten from the Plath
31:48have really helped mold me into the person I am today
31:52they have a special place in my heart for that
31:55yeah so what have you been up to?
31:56yeah it's a new chapter
31:58I'm feeling pretty good
31:59right?
31:59yeah I'm good
32:00cheers
32:01yeah
32:02there's times where I think you know
32:03it'd be nice to maybe go out and go on a date
32:06and meet somebody
32:08but I really haven't dipped my foot into the dating pool
32:12sure
32:12at all yet
32:13it takes time
32:15so what are you looking for exactly?
32:18somebody that likes to go to the beach
32:19somebody that likes to travel to the mountains
32:20yeah
32:21somebody who's very grounded in her faith
32:24someone who likes to stay active
32:26because I'm in like the second act of life
32:28and I'm like
32:29there's no slowing down
32:30so you know I kind of envision
32:32my path will intersect with the one
32:35exactly
32:35and then we'll both know
32:37with the two of us we're very extroverted
32:39so yeah
32:40you know if he hangs with us
32:42basically Zach and I are going to be your wingmen
32:44you can be my wingmen
32:46oh absolutely
32:46I mean
32:47yeah
32:47yeah it's much more fitting
32:49with like Micah and Ethan
32:51my sons being wingmen
32:53and I'm like
32:53mmm no
32:54that's weird you know
32:55do you think Barry has game?
32:58or are you maybe in a position to help him
33:00kick it up a notch?
33:03um
33:04well
33:04I'm a little more in tune with how to date
33:08and stuff like that
33:09obviously just marrying Lydia
33:10it's nice to have a good father-in-law relationship
33:13and there's a couple generations separating us
33:16so there might be some different dating cues
33:18but
33:18you know I'll do my best
33:19we're like
33:20the family thing wingman
33:21that just doesn't make sense
33:22we've got you
33:22yeah
33:24we've got him on this
33:25we're not his children
33:26we're not in weird places ourselves
33:28so we're going to be his wingmen
33:29we're going to find the right guy
33:30yeah
33:31right guy
33:31we're going to find the right girl for Barry
33:35Duna
33:35say that again
33:36yeah
33:39okay
33:39so
33:41pretend like I'm a beautiful blonde woman
33:43oh dear
33:43no we're not going to do that
33:44we're not going
33:45what are you doing?
33:46what's your name?
33:48I think that he's been with the same person for 25 years
33:50so now it's time to see what else is out there
33:54I actually have an aunt that is single and age appropriate
33:59you want to see a picture?
34:01well in due type
34:02well it's been a while since Barry's been on a date
34:05so
34:05at this point in life I think Barry's type is the type that has a pulse
34:16hey girls
34:17well look who's arrived
34:18look who I found
34:20the ex-wife is there
34:21she's got a boyfriend
34:23Barry's looking to get a girlfriend
34:24it's just the dynamics are present
34:27the tension
34:28well I mean the divorce is final
34:30the divorce is final
34:31so I don't know what this world is anymore
34:44I don't know I'm an extroverted person
34:46it's very easy for me to approach people
34:49are you like willing to talk to anybody
34:50kind of thing
34:52I like to engage people
34:53sure
34:53yeah
34:54well it is not on my agenda that I would
34:57give my father-in-law dating advice
34:59but I feel like I'm in the best position too
35:02so you know I have the most recent experience
35:04so I gotta help a man out
35:06you're a single man it's time to get you out on town
35:09I was thinking we could go throw axes
35:11oh now that would be interesting
35:13did you know that locally here there's a place where you can go and do sauna cold plunge?
35:18no but I would do that in a second
35:20no that sounds awesome
35:21who are you gonna meet at a sauna?
35:23doesn't seem like this would be a lot of places where ladies would hang out
35:27you know to be well-rounded you want to do stuff
35:30with your friends
35:31have a community
35:32do stuff with
35:33people with camaraderie
35:34bonding
35:36these are great guys
35:37I like these guys a lot
35:38I'm pretty fond of them myself
35:41and who knows what we might be doing next
35:43you know on Guys Night Out
35:46send me the plans and I'm there
35:47okay awesome
35:48I'll be back over to visit when I get a chance
35:50I need to go check and do my work
35:52yep
35:52I'll be back
35:53absolutely
35:53single and ready to mingle
35:55single and ready to mingle
35:56let's go find you a girl
35:59hi Ryan
36:00hey girls
36:01you got a haircut
36:02yeah
36:03it looks great
36:04well look who's arrived
36:06look who I found
36:08hey
36:09your wife does a good job on the hair
36:11yeah
36:12it looks good
36:13yeah
36:13it looks really good
36:14you did a great job
36:15yeah looks great
36:17so if your day job doesn't hold up
36:19you can always go into cosmetology
36:21yeah
36:21right
36:22I can do that
36:23Perry comes over almost every Sunday for lunch
36:25but up to this point I haven't always seen
36:28Kim really reaching out to us
36:30as means of checking in
36:32or wanting to know how we're doing
36:33it's more just like
36:35hey come help me with this thing
36:38the thing that Lydia has just told me
36:40that she feels is missing is nourishment
36:42of just like being
36:46understood
36:48so dad I have not heard this directly from you
36:50directly from me
36:52but I have
36:52heard it around
36:52you're open to date
36:56well
36:56is that misinformation
36:57we were discussing that
36:59or
36:59tell me if that's information
37:00that was the topic of conversation here
37:02before you walked in
37:03I mean there's a lot to think about like my dad dating
37:07I'm honestly kind of excited
37:09because this would be
37:10this would be something
37:12well I've just heard around
37:13you're like oh
37:14so and so
37:15told so and so
37:16told so and so
37:17I was like I need to hear from dad first
37:20yeah
37:21well I mean the divorce is final
37:23the divorce is final
37:24so go for it
37:27I was sitting next to Zach
37:29and then my ex-wife
37:30pops into the picture
37:31and we're discussing dating
37:34and she's giving me advice
37:36truly like an episode from the Twilight Zone
37:38but there it was
37:40you know
37:41it's a new age
37:43it's kind of comical
37:43while we're here
37:44like go for it
37:45or whatever
37:46I don't know what this world is anymore
37:49yeah
37:50I mean it's it's kind of weird to be
37:52you know
37:53I'm talking to my ex-husband about
37:55dating other people
37:56but I mean it's almost been five years
37:58since we separated
37:59so
37:59so
38:00go for it
38:01I can't imagine
38:03going that long
38:04and not dating anybody
38:06is it just
38:06the dating that you can't imagine
38:08going that long
38:09without?
38:12what do you mean?
38:16so has Zach given you good advice
38:18or are you guys just talking?
38:19oh he's giving me great advice
38:21I think the first thing we're gonna go do
38:22is just throw axes
38:24guys hang out
38:25should it concern me at all
38:27that the talk about Barry dating
38:29went straight to guys night?
38:31no
38:32no
38:32no we're mixing things
38:33okay
38:34how did we get to guys night out
38:36from Barry dating?
38:37like did I miss something?
38:39there's a girl supposed to be in there somewhere right?
38:42that's definitely the way to start dating someone
38:44go have a guys night
38:46yeah there's there's dating
38:47and then there's guys night
38:48and I'm mixing the two right?
38:51thank you for the heads up
38:53I'm getting lots of notes to file today
38:55here
38:57the ex-wife is there
38:58she's got a boyfriend
39:00Barry's looking to get a girlfriend
39:02it's just the dynamics are
39:04present
39:04the tension
39:06but it's just not necessarily a conversation
39:08I feel like
39:09Kim needs to be a part of
39:11it's kind of an interesting dynamic of
39:13someone who wants to know it all
39:15and someone who maybe doesn't need to know anything about it so
39:18yeah this is a guy talk
39:20you guys can have your own conversations
39:24another woman can have them
39:25I'm okay with that
39:28so you know I've offered you this business
39:31Russell's military vehicles right there
39:33no I got somebody else's name right here
39:35we haven't talked in a while
39:37Tegan gave me the freedom to live up there or live down here
39:41and it's not good without her
39:43does she feel the same about you?
39:45you think?
39:46I think
39:47I gotta ask
39:48relationship
39:50are you dating anybody?
39:52it's not like I really
39:53want to get into any conversation with Ken
39:55about my dating life
39:56it's been a very long time
39:59since I've even done anything like that
40:02although it'd be funny if I asked him
40:05let me give you a few pointers
40:07watch out for X, Y, and Z
40:11I heard that you broke up with Katelyn
40:13I don't know what the hell I was doing
40:15or thinking but
40:17I'm gonna try to unscrew it
40:19I really don't know if I will get her back
40:23that really scares me
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