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00:00:13I
00:00:23Have dated guys who are my age because it was the right thing to do
00:00:29And it didn't work out obviously
00:00:31This is a great opportunity for me to possibly find someone whether you're 25 or 55
00:00:40There's something here for me. I'm pretty positive
00:00:49I definitely want to explore dating older men because my history with younger men has just been so
00:00:57Problematic, but in the real world older men disregard me based on my age right off the bat
00:01:07I love that. I'm gonna be able to experience
00:01:10Meeting men not knowing their age
00:01:13I want to be able to get to know their heart and what their passions are then I'll know like
00:01:18have I pushed some guys away that I shouldn't have
00:01:26When you tell people your age they put a stigma to that. I don't want to fit in a box
00:01:31Why does it matter how old I am? It's what I feel like it's my vibe. It's my energy. It's
00:01:36it's who I am as a person
00:01:38It's just a number
00:01:45It is tough out there to find a partner like oh when someone's 40 they're over the hill. It's over
00:01:50when when are you retiring?
00:01:56You know
00:01:58The dating world is trash so much
00:02:03Superficiality this is perfect for me because we're in a situation where age is not the factor
00:02:09It's really the connection which I think is dope because it should be about the connection
00:02:14I'm looking for the most special person of my life. I think maybe they're here. I
00:02:20I hope that they're here
00:02:23The truth is when love is there and love is real age won't matter at all
00:02:35Two steps for another one back
00:02:44I wasn't nervous
00:02:58It feels a little bit scary because I don't know if these guys are my age my dad's age my
00:03:04grandpa's age
00:03:05I just don't know what we're dealing with but what I don't know can't hurt me
00:03:11How we doing ladies
00:03:12Hi
00:03:13How are you doing well doing well brian i'm sophie tristan michelle yeah nice to meet you
00:03:28Hello everyone i'm nick vial and i'm natalie joy
00:03:33You've all agreed to come here to take an unconventional approach to find love
00:03:37It may seem crazy, but here you'll be dating and even committing without ever knowing
00:03:44How old your partner is
00:03:47To answer the question
00:03:49Does age matter
00:03:51When it comes to love
00:03:54It didn't for us we are 18 years apart
00:03:59And happily married ours is a modern-day love story. I slid into his dms
00:04:04Hot right?
00:04:07Our chemistry was instant but honestly
00:04:11I had my reservations about exploring a deeper connection. I was self-conscious about our age difference
00:04:16I wasn't sure if we wanted the same thing
00:04:18If we were in the same stages of life or even if we liked the same movies
00:04:24I was far less worried about others opinions
00:04:28I focused my energy on what nick and I had in common
00:04:30And what I found was a man I love being around who laughed at my jokes and who was ready
00:04:36to start a family just like I was
00:04:38So I decided to get out of my head
00:04:41And we gave it a shot and what I ended up finding was
00:04:45The greatest connection of my life
00:04:50For us age is just a number
00:04:54Now it's time for you to find the connection of your dreams
00:04:59Oh, yeah, I'm getting butterflies
00:05:03During your time here you'll choose who you want to date based on attraction compatibility and chemistry
00:05:10You can pursue anyone you're drawn to there are no rules
00:05:14Except one the only question you can't ask
00:05:19Is how old are you?
00:05:20Dang y'all look good. Yeah
00:05:24If you feel as if you found that special connection
00:05:28You can invite that person into the promise room
00:05:32And take the next step in your journey together by exchanging rings and committing to one another
00:05:38From there all that's left is revealing the one thing you've been keeping secret
00:05:44Your age
00:05:44And if you still want to be together after that you'll leave this retreat as a couple oh oh
00:05:52And take the next step moving in together and seeing if the connection can survive in the real world
00:05:58Oh my god stop and then comes perhaps the greatest test of all
00:06:02You'll introduce each other to your closest friends and families
00:06:06Oh
00:06:07Oh
00:06:10It's getting real
00:06:10It's getting real
00:06:11In the end you'll have to make one final decision
00:06:15Do you stay together and plan for a future or leave this experience single once again?
00:06:21I'm getting nervous
00:06:22We got this girl
00:06:24Okay
00:06:25And what better way to kick things off
00:06:27Than for you all to date
00:06:30Every single person here
00:06:33Oh my gosh
00:06:34That's going to be interesting
00:06:36That's a lot of dates
00:06:36I know right
00:06:37Busy day
00:06:39Are you ready?
00:06:40Yes
00:06:43Let's do it
00:06:44Good luck
00:06:45Okay
00:06:53All right straight to the real
00:06:55Okay yes go
00:06:56What's working for you in dating
00:06:58And what is not working like you're here for a reason right
00:07:00Well the men aren't working
00:07:02Does that make sense?
00:07:03Got you
00:07:03Yeah
00:07:03Got you
00:07:04Do you have green eyes?
00:07:07Yeah do you have green eyes?
00:07:08Yeah
00:07:08Okay
00:07:09Can you tell?
00:07:09Our babies could have green eyes
00:07:10Oh my god
00:07:11Right
00:07:12Wait wait okay how much money do you make and what's your job?
00:07:14Yeah
00:07:15Like diving in
00:07:16For real?
00:07:17Okay what's your job?
00:07:19Damn girl
00:07:22So what brought you here?
00:07:25Probably the foul men that exist
00:07:27In the world
00:07:28People have a tendency to put me in a box when they find out my age
00:07:32Um they probably think I don't know what I want and I'm super nonchalant
00:07:39But I'm not really looking to attract men within my age range because they're usually
00:07:45super immature
00:07:47I came from this experience looking for something more serious
00:07:51Lovey nice to meet you
00:07:52David nice to meet you
00:07:53David's my dad's name
00:07:57Is it?
00:07:58All right
00:07:58Is that a bad thing to start with?
00:07:59No I don't think so
00:08:00Do you like your dad?
00:08:01Love my dad
00:08:02All right
00:08:02Great guys
00:08:03I'm definitely excited
00:08:05But I don't think I've ever dated somebody that old so it's definitely nerve-wracking
00:08:09I'm like what are we going to talk about
00:08:13Yeah
00:08:14You had to play a song on the piano right now
00:08:16What would it be?
00:08:17And you have to sing
00:08:18I'd say maybe desperado by the eagles
00:08:21Okay
00:08:21A little classic
00:08:21You probably hate this
00:08:23What?
00:08:24But I love Taylor Swift
00:08:25Love
00:08:26Swifty
00:08:26Yeah
00:08:27Can't lie
00:08:28Don't be ashamed
00:08:28Yeah
00:08:29Not ashamed
00:08:29How many shows of hers have you seen?
00:08:31Just one
00:08:32Oh
00:08:32Just one
00:08:33Wait okay so you're a huge Swifty but you've only been to one show
00:08:35You don't like going to shows
00:08:38Does the average person go to more than one?
00:08:40Oh yeah for sure
00:08:44Am I the problem?
00:08:48What's your name?
00:08:49Ashley
00:08:50Ashley you are Ashley I've heard about you
00:08:52What?
00:08:53No I'm just kidding
00:08:55My age range is evil like no one is safe I swear
00:08:59I could date you or your mom and I'm open to both
00:09:04Hi
00:09:04Hi how are you?
00:09:05How are you?
00:09:06What's your name?
00:09:07Good Tristan
00:09:07Erin nice to meet you
00:09:09Yeah absolutely
00:09:10I knew I was interested in older women the first time I saw Kim Zolciak
00:09:15in a church parking lot I was like damn that's everything I want
00:09:21There's like a 35 year old busty blonde and a white Bentley and I'm a 13 year old boy
00:09:26I was just like doing I mean wow do you like your name you play your fits
00:09:31Do you like yours?
00:09:31Yeah
00:09:32It's kind of soft like I would like a
00:09:35It wasn't soft in legends of the fall
00:09:37Yeah yeah yeah don't get me started
00:09:39Is that where are you?
00:09:40It's annoying yes yes it was
00:09:42That's a good named after
00:09:44Do you like that movie? Have you seen it?
00:09:45It's one of my favorite movies
00:09:46Okay
00:09:47Me too
00:09:48It's beautiful
00:09:48Yeah so what is your middle name?
00:09:50It starts with a B
00:09:51Do I have to guess?
00:09:52Yes
00:09:53Beatrice
00:09:55No
00:09:56It's not bitch
00:09:57Okay that was my second guess
00:10:00I feel like I could just leave with Erin right now
00:10:03She's beautiful she's tall she's charismatic she was laughing at all the jokes
00:10:08She was like giving me the eyes I was like it's my girl dog
00:10:11I already feel like I'm ready to get her alone the chemistry was hot
00:10:19Well hello
00:10:20Oh hi
00:10:21How are you?
00:10:22Good
00:10:22My name is Andrew I have two daughters Olivia and Ella
00:10:27I typically date younger it's a little bit more crazy it's a little bit more fun
00:10:33probably for all the wrong reasons but I'm trying to turn over a new leaf kind of
00:10:40change things up a little bit I do want a wife I do want a partner definitely someone that
00:10:45Maybe has more life experience and that is ready for something a little bit more serious
00:10:51What has been something that you've not loved in your past like relationships?
00:10:56I think it's kind of like the same cycle
00:10:59Really?
00:10:59So I've led back to old relationships back to things that weren't necessarily serving me anymore
00:11:04Sure
00:11:04So it's kind of like the same cycle so being here for me is kind of like
00:11:09Breaking that cycle
00:11:10Yeah yeah like some old bad habits
00:11:11Yeah
00:11:12No
00:11:12It's an exciting little journey that we're about to go on
00:11:15Um and I'm curious do you normally date like older or younger or
00:11:23I normally date older
00:11:25Do you?
00:11:25Um yes I do
00:11:27I can see that because you're like
00:11:28I have a lot of emotional intelligence you can tell
00:11:30Really?
00:11:31You picked that up already?
00:11:32For sure
00:11:32Oh wow
00:11:33Two seconds yeah
00:11:34Wow I guess I'll take the compliment
00:11:36What about you?
00:11:38Um you know I don't really have a type I don't have a preference
00:11:41Yeah
00:11:42I probably mostly date younger just because of life circumstances
00:11:46I feel like older people are usually like married with kids and settle down you know
00:11:50So
00:11:51I was married for five years when I was young
00:11:53And I completely loved her like wildly in love with the woman
00:11:58I think it was ultimately for the best
00:12:00You know it's a little bit of a scarlet letter on your resume right of like having a divorce
00:12:05And then no children and being the age that I'm at
00:12:08But the older you get and you invest in the wrong person you don't get that time back
00:12:14This is a great color on you by the way
00:12:16Thank you jean
00:12:17I love this dress
00:12:17Yeah
00:12:18Really?
00:12:18It's like it's beautiful
00:12:18Thank you thank you so much
00:12:20Um what are you most excited about for this whole thing?
00:12:23Um I would say just
00:12:26Being able to like actually get to know people without like
00:12:30Like outside life distractions
00:12:31Yeah
00:12:32No no that's a great point
00:12:33Like genuinely like you know
00:12:34Focus on something that you know
00:12:36Yeah like just genuinely actually getting to know someone
00:12:38Yeah that's awesome
00:12:39Yeah
00:12:39This is something that's just very out of my comfort zone
00:12:42But I want to find love
00:12:44I want to you know walk out here with a potential husband like a life partner
00:12:49And my husband could be here
00:12:51I'm extremely spontaneous
00:12:53It's whatever
00:12:53It's like if I if I feel like yo
00:12:55I'm somewhere I'm like yo
00:12:57We should go to Vegas
00:12:57Like yo let's go
00:12:58Yeah I love that
00:12:59I'm just very spontaneous
00:13:00My dad has said that he doesn't want me to marry anyone 10 years or older than me
00:13:05But I don't date young men like the oldest I would date here is the four
00:13:10The forties
00:13:11Somewhere in the forties
00:13:15How are you?
00:13:16I'm good how are you?
00:13:18I'm good
00:13:18What was your name?
00:13:19Derek
00:13:20Derek I'm Pfeiffer I love this is amazing
00:13:23It's working?
00:13:24I love it
00:13:24Thank you
00:13:25It's definitely working
00:13:26Thank you
00:13:26Definitely working
00:13:27I love your eyes
00:13:28Thank you me too
00:13:30I'm very optimistic about this experience about getting to meet a variety of people
00:13:36Meeting an older man is quite hard as a younger woman
00:13:39You go to the bar and most of the older men that you meet are kind of a little skeevy
00:13:44Like maybe even like a little bit predatory
00:13:47Or on the flip side they could think that I'm just looking for like money
00:13:51And also like a lot of the places that I'm frequenting older people just aren't you know
00:13:58Hi
00:13:59I'm John
00:13:59I'm Catherine
00:14:00I'm a hugger
00:14:00Nice to meet you
00:14:01The speed dating is fun it's a little unnatural but I'm not here to date an older woman
00:14:06I'm not here to date a younger woman I'm here to date no matter their age
00:14:11Catherine she looks like a Bond villain
00:14:15She's she's intimidating to talk to
00:14:19How you doing good excited yeah yeah I'm happy to be here
00:14:24Lauren's cool but the conversation didn't flow you know tremendously
00:14:28Um I think she's like physically attractive all right another round I love your nails too
00:14:34Thank you
00:14:37John
00:14:38John Teresa great to meet you
00:14:41Excited
00:14:42Very excited of course I've been waiting for this forever
00:14:45So tell me one thing that you would want me to remember about you
00:14:49Oh I liked okay I like that
00:14:50See
00:14:52Hmm and I'm super excited for this experience
00:14:54Okay
00:14:54Kind of open to
00:14:55So like what about you
00:14:57So I jokingly I guess not jokingly but everyone says I look like Prince Harry
00:15:02I could see that
00:15:03So my joke is that I'm looking for Megan minus the family drama
00:15:07Really well I used to have dark hair so
00:15:09Okay
00:15:10There you go
00:15:11I could play it off
00:15:11I dressed up like him for Halloween last year
00:15:13Really?
00:15:14But I was by myself so
00:15:15Oh bummer
00:15:17Maybe by October you never know
00:15:19Yeah
00:15:19That's a good question I like that
00:15:20It's gonna happen
00:15:20I like that
00:15:22When I've you know been on dating apps and things like that which suck
00:15:26Most of the guys I don't think put their age range up to my age
00:15:30And so it's been really really hard to find someone
00:15:34I've been married twice
00:15:40Sorry um I've had some really terrible relationships and I just feel like I'm at a point in my life
00:15:50where
00:15:51I finally deserve what it is that's right for me
00:15:56Yeah so it's it's a good thing
00:15:59What is your favorite quality about yourself?
00:16:03Um probably that I'm very like easy going
00:16:07I think life has given me enough that I've been able to like realize like
00:16:13The small things that pop up that are problems aren't that important
00:16:18It's okay
00:16:18Big picture
00:16:19Yeah exactly
00:16:20Yeah
00:16:21Yeah
00:16:21So
00:16:22Yeah
00:16:22Teresa's hot
00:16:24Best three minute date I've ever had
00:16:27I don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow but hopefully her and I
00:16:30Kind of get to know each other better
00:16:32All this late night talk with my girl keeps me falling in love, in love, in love
00:16:41Oh I've been dreaming, oh I've been dreaming
00:16:45That you're my lady, that you're my lady
00:16:50All right how are y'all feeling?
00:16:57Hopefully some of you are starting to feel some sparks
00:17:03Now during your time here you'll be going on lots of activities
00:17:07Starting tomorrow morning each day's adventures will be posted on the activity board
00:17:12And if you're not off on an adventure enjoy your time here at the retreat
00:17:17Keep looking for that true connection
00:17:21One that doesn't revolve around age
00:17:26You came here to get away from it all and try something new so let's all take a moment to
00:17:31celebrate that
00:17:32All right, let's toast to ageless dating and to all the adventures that lie ahead
00:17:38Cheers
00:17:44Cheers
00:17:45Cheers
00:17:58Hands up we reach for the stars
00:18:03Chasing dreams no matter how far
00:18:05Chasing dreams no matter how far
00:18:06And only one is he's gonna touch your lips
00:18:10I'll never start a rush life is so fast
00:18:14No we know we know
00:18:16Our journey's just begun
00:18:19All right so after the first bear
00:18:26Just clawing out my windows I was trying to get a nap
00:18:29Okay
00:18:30I come back I'm sitting in my bed and the shades start like moving
00:18:34I was like holy shit he's back
00:18:36Oh my god
00:18:37So I get up
00:18:38It was a fucking window washer
00:18:42Theresa's beautiful we have good conversation
00:18:44I live in Miami it's beautiful women everywhere
00:18:46But it's hard to find like a genuine connection
00:18:49So I'm looking forward to connecting with her more
00:18:51Do you have any pets?
00:18:53Two cats
00:18:54Really?
00:18:55You like cats?
00:18:56I love cats
00:18:57Jerry is five Jenna's like seven
00:19:01Jenna so a boy and a girl
00:19:02I do I miss my dogs for sure
00:19:05What kind of dogs do you have?
00:19:06I have a beautiful
00:19:07German Shepherd
00:19:09German Shepherd
00:19:10Yes give it to me
00:19:13Labrador
00:19:14No not a Labrador
00:19:15You have a Doberman
00:19:20I got this part of it right
00:19:21Yeah she's so sweet
00:19:23What's her name?
00:19:23Peyton
00:19:23Oh I like that
00:19:25My other dog's name is Boomer
00:19:27After?
00:19:29My daughter named Boomer
00:19:31I have three cats
00:19:32P.S.
00:19:34Okay
00:19:35Alright
00:19:36I'm petrified that he's too young
00:19:39My oldest is 29
00:19:42And my daughter's 25
00:19:44And then my youngest is 22
00:19:45So a guy in their 20s would be really
00:19:52Like shocking
00:19:54I don't know how I would reconcile that
00:19:58Um but again just trying not to think about it too much
00:20:03And just focus on who he is
00:20:06Um
00:20:09Excuse us
00:20:11Hey
00:20:12Is that an actual drink?
00:20:13Yes coffee
00:20:14You want some that's a little bit cold now
00:20:15No I drink tea
00:20:17Yesterday the one that stuck out to me the most
00:20:19I would say is Justin Esch
00:20:22Um he kind of was like more like calm and quiet
00:20:25A lot of the other guys had like really big personalities
00:20:28And were really out there
00:20:30And so his like quiet demeanor kind of like intrigued me a little bit
00:20:34Okay okay remind me where you live
00:20:35Uh Charleston, South Carolina
00:20:37Okay okay
00:20:38I remember that
00:20:39Dallas
00:20:39Dallas that's right
00:20:41Would you say you're like relationship person?
00:20:44Yeah I'm a serial monogamist
00:20:45Okay I think you said that yesterday
00:20:47Yeah
00:20:47Okay
00:20:47I just think there's something kind of invaluable
00:20:50About being able to build a life with somebody
00:20:52Versus just this hookup culture that we're in
00:20:55So I don't know how to navigate that
00:20:57Yeah
00:20:58I'm just not built that way
00:21:00Neither am I
00:21:01No
00:21:02And tell me I can't remember you have kids or no?
00:21:05No I don't
00:21:05Okay you want kids?
00:21:07I do want to get married
00:21:08I want marriage
00:21:09Um so my partner if they want kids I will want kids
00:21:13Yeah
00:21:13If they don't want kids I'm okay with having kids
00:21:16Wow okay
00:21:16So
00:21:17You don't meet a lot of women that are like flexible in that
00:21:19Yeah
00:21:19It's very I feel like it's very binary
00:21:21Yeah
00:21:22Yeah
00:21:22That's good
00:21:22Um I always wanted them my whole life
00:21:25Um I think as I got older I kind of like
00:21:28I separated my
00:21:30I tied a lot of my happiness to that when I was younger
00:21:33Oh
00:21:33I was like this is something you know that I want in my life
00:21:36I always wanted children
00:21:39Um I
00:21:41I love kids I always felt like called to be a father
00:21:45Um and I think like at some point you have to kind of divorce yourself from goals that are outside
00:21:52of your control completely
00:21:54Like you know I'm 44 you know could I find somebody to just have a baby with probably
00:22:00But is that the right thing to do you know I don't think so not for me
00:22:06Um and you kind of wake up and it's like oh wow you know it might not happen so
00:22:14Um
00:22:17But that's okay
00:22:19I think
00:22:26So talk about something else
00:22:29So I don't
00:22:31Cry on television
00:22:34I do love kids
00:22:35Oh I love that
00:22:36I do too I have four nephews
00:22:47First morning here
00:22:49This has been so wild
00:22:50I know
00:22:51Yeah
00:22:51Already
00:22:52How are you guys feeling?
00:22:53So yeah I mean it is interesting to like look at like the whole diverse group
00:22:57Absolutely
00:22:58Yeah and like the different ages and everything
00:23:00I do I will say like I've been like kind of looking around at the guys mainly
00:23:04And being like how wondering like what their ages are
00:23:07There was a big variety
00:23:09I was gonna say
00:23:10There was a huge variety
00:23:11Like Tristan
00:23:12Yeah
00:23:13Versus like David
00:23:15Yes
00:23:15Versus Horne
00:23:16Horne
00:23:16Right
00:23:17Some people I forgot the names
00:23:18Like there's so many of them
00:23:20It just like went over my head
00:23:21Yeah
00:23:21I'm so excited for the dates
00:23:23I know me too
00:23:24I like can't wait to see like what activities we have planned
00:23:35Oh no
00:23:36Oh snap
00:23:38Oh no
00:23:39Oh snap
00:23:40I have never gone to Whitewater Optum before
00:23:42But I will try anything
00:23:44Not anything
00:23:46Once
00:23:46Some things
00:23:48I could
00:23:49I will try some things once
00:23:52Oh no
00:23:54Yeah we're good
00:23:55We'll take the front
00:23:56Andrew I don't know if I saw him at first
00:23:59But he definitely is really cute
00:24:01I think I caught some good muscles going over there
00:24:05I'm ready
00:24:05This is exciting
00:24:07I was like super excited when I saw that Libby was going to be on this date
00:24:11She is typically who I date
00:24:14Blonde
00:24:15Good looking
00:24:15Fun
00:24:17She probably is a little younger like she gives off that vibe
00:24:20But I'm definitely like excited to get to know Libby more
00:24:24And just see where it goes
00:24:26Have fun
00:24:27All right
00:24:28Ready for the first method?
00:24:31Look at this
00:24:34Come on!
00:24:35Get down!
00:24:36Get down!
00:24:36Get down!
00:24:37Get down!
00:24:40Oh my god
00:24:44Oh my god
00:24:47Guys
00:25:04Cheers to rafting
00:25:07Yeah
00:25:07Not dying
00:25:07Not falling in
00:25:08Not dying
00:25:10Did you like it?
00:25:12I didn't survive without you
00:25:14You saved me
00:25:15You definitely give off city girl vibes for sure
00:25:18You didn't show it at all
00:25:19No
00:25:20Water rafting
00:25:21Not at all
00:25:22Stop, stop
00:25:24I am a young, hot dad
00:25:27Like I want to still have fun
00:25:29I'm going to have fun
00:25:31And I think that's probably why I gravitate to someone that's more fun
00:25:33Because I'm like, you know, not ready to fully grow up and be boring
00:25:40I feel like you're definitely my type a little bit
00:25:44Oh really? What's your type?
00:25:46Blonde
00:25:47Blonde
00:25:47Um
00:25:49I'm going to give off probably a little bit younger of a vibe
00:25:52Um
00:25:53Don't I still say that?
00:25:55You're like a hardcore Swifty, aren't you?
00:25:57No
00:25:57Oh my god
00:25:59I'm
00:26:00I'm not going to lie to you and tell you I'm not someone that I am
00:26:03Why are you here?
00:26:05Why am I here?
00:26:05I'm just kidding, yeah, I'm done with the small talk
00:26:07The guys that I've dated, I think, are a bit too immature
00:26:12And I'm just kind of tired of
00:26:14That's why you don't date your age
00:26:16Yes
00:26:17What about you?
00:26:18Um, yeah, I think just something different as well
00:26:21Like I definitely, like, am ready to, like, find my partner, like, someone to do life with
00:26:27Yeah
00:26:28I'm not playing around
00:26:29I like that
00:26:30Yeah
00:26:30Yeah
00:26:30So
00:26:32I have two kids
00:26:34Um
00:26:35I like kids
00:26:37Have you ever dated someone that has kids?
00:26:39No, I've never dated anybody with kids
00:26:42No
00:26:43Like, is that something that you would be into? Like
00:26:47I think that somebody having kids isn't the scariest thing in the world to me for sure
00:26:51Okay
00:26:53Alright
00:26:54And if anything, I think it shows that you, you have enough, um, of your life together that you can
00:27:02be a good father hopefully
00:27:03At least, hopefully you're that
00:27:05That's right
00:27:05For so long, I've kept my heart locked
00:27:11Turns out, you have the key
00:27:14He definitely isn't one of the people here that I would guess to have kids, but it doesn't really scare
00:27:19me
00:27:19I kind of like the fact that he's more mature
00:27:21I think that if I met him out and about and I found out that he had kids, I think
00:27:26my mind would start to spiral about his age
00:27:28And I probably would get a little freaked out and be more reserved, but I think that this is a
00:27:33great experience for me to open up and kind of put those reservations aside
00:27:37Well, I mean, I'm definitely feeling this, I like your vibe
00:27:42I think you're kind of sometimes, sort of, okay, cool
00:27:49Do you want to get married?
00:27:51Do I want to get married?
00:27:53Oh, thank you so much, you should have
00:27:55I mean, I'm pretty, I'm not gonna lie, I feel a little giddy
00:27:59A little giddy, a little nervous, you know, a little excited about everything
00:28:04Do I want to get married?
00:28:06Um, are you gonna get down with me in these wetsuits?
00:28:09It's giving a little bit of a hunger game
00:28:12I don't even know, I don't think I've ever seen hunger games
00:28:15Okay, well
00:28:18Yeah, I'm sorry, that might have been too much credit for you, I take that back
00:28:26I don't need, I don't need you to tell me
00:28:30So
00:28:31This is going
00:28:34Vanell and I actually ran into each other at the speed dating
00:28:37We had a little mutual thing going in
00:28:40She's right down my alley
00:28:42You know, I know what I want and I know what I don't want
00:28:44You know, I've learned over the years
00:28:47I got married really young, about when I was 26
00:28:49I was divorced by 30, I have two kids
00:28:52Um, since then I've had some relationships
00:28:55With Vanell, the vibes are amazing
00:28:57I mean, we both, I think we both feel each other
00:28:59We both are attracted to each other
00:29:00Um, the conversation is easy
00:29:02So I hope it stays like that
00:29:04So now I have questions for you, alright?
00:29:07So first of all, what is your passion?
00:29:10Ooh
00:29:11I would say my biggest passion is
00:29:14Number one, faith is really important to me
00:29:16Mm-hmm
00:29:17So I would say trying to live out every day
00:29:19Honoring God with every action I have
00:29:22I get it
00:29:22You know, I'm a PK
00:29:23I'm a pastor's kid
00:29:24So, you know what I'm saying
00:29:25Okay
00:29:26What are you looking for in a man?
00:29:28Someone that's God-fearing
00:29:29Okay
00:29:30Um, a dominant leader, but not like overpowering
00:29:33Dominant, but not overpowering?
00:29:34Yes
00:29:34Okay
00:29:35Yes, dominant
00:29:35Um, someone that has integrity
00:29:37Okay
00:29:38Someone that's just respectful
00:29:39And just like easy-going
00:29:40Someone to have fun and, you know
00:29:43Be goofy and silly with
00:29:45Do you
00:29:46What about you?
00:29:47I always look for what's opposite of me
00:29:48Cause I'm on a hundred
00:29:50Yeah
00:29:50So, I look for peaceful energy
00:29:52So you got peaceful energy
00:29:53When I first met you
00:29:54I was a little bit kinda like
00:29:56Uh, I don't know if him and I would connect
00:29:57Because you're very opposite of me
00:29:59Like I'm like quiet introvert
00:30:01Yes
00:30:01And you're very like social
00:30:03And like big personality
00:30:04So I was like I don't know
00:30:05That's exactly what I'm looking for though
00:30:07Yeah
00:30:07You know how they say opposites track, right?
00:30:09Mm-hmm
00:30:09Well, I don't ever want anybody
00:30:10Who's as intense as I am
00:30:12Mm-hmm
00:30:12Who's gonna calm that down?
00:30:13Yeah
00:30:14Like I need someone who's like chill
00:30:15So, like when
00:30:16Then I come around
00:30:17I'm like okay
00:30:18Mm-hmm
00:30:18Let me just chill
00:30:19But I feel like you're also just like
00:30:21Very like goofy and silly
00:30:22Which like
00:30:23I can be
00:30:23It takes someone to like bring that side out of me
00:30:26Of course
00:30:26Um
00:30:26Like a man needs to be plugged into his woman
00:30:29So that he
00:30:29That she walks in the room
00:30:30And he looks at her
00:30:31And says what's going on
00:30:33Yeah
00:30:33Like he's in tune to her
00:30:34Okay, I'm not gonna lie
00:30:35You seem like the whole package right now
00:30:37Like I'm surprised you're single
00:30:38And now you know
00:30:39Now I know
00:30:40Any other questions about that?
00:30:42Not about how you feel now
00:30:44Now I know
00:30:45Now you know how I feel?
00:30:46Mm-hmm
00:30:46Well, let's go
00:30:49We didn't do cheers
00:30:50Cheers to our first date
00:30:51Cheers, cheers
00:30:52Cheers to our second date
00:30:52Cheers to our third date
00:30:54Okay
00:30:54That's coming up, right?
00:30:56I do feel butterflies inside
00:30:59And honestly like
00:31:00Like I didn't expect to like
00:31:02Even like
00:31:02Like him or be interested in him
00:31:04I should let you walk in front of me
00:31:06So I can see it
00:31:06Oh my gosh
00:31:08Ain't nothing back here
00:31:09Oh, you sure?
00:31:11Yes
00:31:11You sure about that?
00:31:12He keeps me on my toes
00:31:13Like I don't know
00:31:14What he's gonna say or do next
00:31:16As I'm getting to know him
00:31:18I like that about him
00:31:19And I'm seeing that
00:31:20He's genuinely just himself
00:31:22He's not like pretending to be anybody else
00:31:24But I do have another connection
00:31:27With Justin
00:31:28And it's been going really well
00:31:30So that's why I'm kind of like
00:31:31Scrambled in my head
00:31:32I'm like, oh my gosh
00:31:33What am I getting myself into?
00:31:42All right, let's go
00:31:43Cheers
00:31:43See what's gonna happen
00:31:44Right?
00:31:45This is scary, yeah
00:31:46Cheers
00:31:47Justin, who you
00:31:48Who you been talking to?
00:31:51Ah, Vanell?
00:31:52You know, Vanell and I have really connected
00:31:54I think
00:31:55Nice
00:31:55I'm not sure how old she is
00:31:56She's younger
00:31:57But articulate and kind
00:32:00I love kind people
00:32:01Yeah
00:32:02You know
00:32:02So she's giving you some of those signals?
00:32:05I think so, yeah
00:32:06She says that she is
00:32:09Whether or not she's telling somebody else the same thing
00:32:11I don't know
00:32:11Oh, right
00:32:12We'll know that for a little while
00:32:13How would you know? Yeah
00:32:14She has every right to you, right?
00:32:15Yeah, of course
00:32:16For right now, she just met me
00:32:17She should be
00:32:17Yeah, right
00:32:19All right, you can't tell me you've been on a more beautiful day than this
00:32:24Um, I cannot actually
00:32:26This is pretty phenomenal
00:32:28John is very, like, surprising, actually
00:32:33Um, he's pretty great
00:32:35And we got along
00:32:37Like, our compatibility seems to be, like, right on
00:32:39So I'm interested in continuing that
00:32:42And really excited to see where it goes
00:32:45I think those onion layers are gonna peel back
00:32:49And we're gonna decide whether or not we're right for each other
00:32:52Cheers
00:32:53Cheers
00:32:53What are you choosing to?
00:32:54Okay
00:32:55I would say getting to know each other better
00:32:58And having a great time while we're here
00:33:00Is that good?
00:33:02Basic, but
00:33:02Cheers
00:33:03Oh, oh
00:33:07Before I came here, I celebrated my youngest graduation
00:33:11I said goodbye to that stage of my life
00:33:15And here I am
00:33:17On to my next chapter
00:33:19With someone who makes me feel super safe
00:33:22And excited about the possibility of him being my partner
00:33:29Um, have you lived anywhere else than Miami?
00:33:33I lived in Boca
00:33:33Oh
00:33:35What was that for?
00:33:37Baseball
00:33:38Baseball
00:33:39And then I had injuries
00:33:41Oh no
00:33:42I was like, baseball was A through Z
00:33:44Like, that was like
00:33:45Yeah
00:33:45John was gonna be a professional baseball player
00:33:48And that's it
00:33:49Really?
00:33:50Yeah
00:33:51So then I had the surgeries
00:33:52So you put all your eggs in that basket
00:33:53It's hard
00:33:54It was my identity
00:33:56I get that
00:33:58I played softball
00:34:00Softball's hard
00:34:01Yeah
00:34:02I was probably like 10 when I got on the team
00:34:05Then I played all throughout, like, my younger years
00:34:09Mm-hmm
00:34:09And then after I graduated college
00:34:12I was like, playing on like a recreational softball team
00:34:16And someone literally came up to me and they recruited me
00:34:19It's like something out of a movie
00:34:20I know, it was weird
00:34:22I think there's a movie about the all-girls baseball team
00:34:24Yes, there is
00:34:25What's it called?
00:34:26League of our own
00:34:27League of our own
00:34:27League of our own
00:34:27Yeah, exactly
00:34:28Yeah
00:34:29Yeah, I think Madonna's in it
00:34:31Um
00:34:32Madonna?
00:34:33She acts?
00:34:34There's so much I need to teach you
00:34:38We have a lot in common
00:34:39Which is frickin' awesome
00:34:42Um, I think that connection is much stronger
00:34:46When you have similar interests
00:34:48I'm embracing what could come of this, for sure
00:34:52Um, so
00:34:54Do you have any siblings?
00:34:56Um, so
00:34:58Sort of sensitive topic
00:34:59But yeah, I have a brother
00:35:00But he passed away when I was 18
00:35:02So he was like three years older than me
00:35:04But he is the reason why, like
00:35:07I became an athlete
00:35:08And like, played baseball
00:35:11Sorry to hear that
00:35:12It's okay
00:35:13Yeah
00:35:14I was a freshman in college, so
00:35:16You wanna talk about it, or?
00:35:18Not right now
00:35:19Yeah
00:35:20Yeah
00:35:21I mean, it's fine
00:35:22Like, I'm okay with it
00:35:24But it's, you know, still sensitive
00:35:26And he was huge in my life
00:35:29Yeah
00:35:30So
00:35:31Life is very precious
00:35:32It's, you know
00:35:33It's here, and then it's not
00:35:35And you just, you know
00:35:36Gotta not take it for granted
00:35:38And all that good stuff
00:35:42Yeah
00:35:43Yeah
00:35:43I mean, it's cheesy, but it's true
00:35:44Yeah
00:35:45Life's a wild ride
00:35:47Look at us now
00:35:49I know
00:35:50We're in the beautiful whistler
00:35:52Trying to like, take it all in
00:35:54You
00:35:55This
00:35:56The heat
00:35:58Good
00:35:58It's only gonna get better
00:36:01Think so?
00:36:02I think so
00:36:08I'm gonna go for it
00:36:09So I'll stay up
00:36:12Every night
00:36:13Can't get you
00:36:14Good night
00:36:14Good night
00:36:15Stay up
00:36:16I'll try and try
00:36:18But I can't
00:36:19For the best date ever
00:36:20Yes, absolutely
00:36:20Cheers
00:36:21Cheers
00:36:23I just feel really great around him
00:36:25And I really enjoy kissing him
00:36:27Alright, hold me up
00:36:29I feel like we already have that vibe
00:36:35You know, like, you just know
00:36:37Like, you know when you
00:36:38Like, when you kiss someone
00:36:40You just feel it
00:36:41It's hard to explain
00:36:43He's like, pretty much the full package
00:36:46I guess
00:36:46I feel like he's the right speed for me
00:36:50And a very mature guy
00:36:53Are you taking me back to your place?
00:36:55Yeah, you wanna share a tent?
00:36:57Great first kiss
00:36:58Best one ever
00:36:59No, don't
00:37:00It was
00:37:00You were self-conscious about it
00:37:02Making you feel better
00:37:03Where's my tulip?
00:37:06Aww
00:37:08You know, tulips are my favorite flower
00:37:10Just like our wine
00:37:11Truly
00:37:12Good
00:37:12Yeah
00:37:14So I'll stay up
00:37:16Every night
00:37:17Is this crazy?
00:37:18Should I grab your ass?
00:37:19Yeah
00:37:20Oh my god
00:37:21I'm trying to try
00:37:22But I can't close my eyes
00:37:25Stay up
00:37:43When was it?
00:37:48When did it end?
00:37:51When was it?
00:37:52When did it end?
00:37:52Okay, so
00:37:53Hold up
00:37:54It's like the same thing
00:37:55When was it?
00:37:56When did it end?
00:37:57I'm sorry, I'm just daunting the question
00:37:58I'm just daunting the question
00:37:59Over
00:38:00The
00:38:00The
00:38:01No, I would say
00:38:02I would say
00:38:03It ended probably
00:38:04Five months ago
00:38:06And it started
00:38:07Maybe like
00:38:08Ten to twelve months ago
00:38:10So
00:38:11Why did that end?
00:38:12It was
00:38:12Why did it end?
00:38:14Honestly
00:38:15Because
00:38:18He had a lot that he needed to
00:38:21Como se dice
00:38:22Fix
00:38:23And I wasn't willing to take that on
00:38:25I mean, I think it's really hard when
00:38:27You love a person
00:38:28And you want the best for them
00:38:29And you see the best for them
00:38:31But at some point
00:38:32It's not worth sacrificing your own well-being
00:38:35So for me
00:38:36It was just choosing myself
00:38:38Over somebody who wasn't good for me
00:38:40My daughters are a huge part of my life
00:38:42So when I'm dating someone these days
00:38:44It's definitely
00:38:45I need to see the potential in them
00:38:47Of someone that could be
00:38:49In my daughters lives
00:38:50Someone
00:38:51That I can trust enough
00:38:53To let that guard down
00:38:55And let them into
00:38:56Every part of my life
00:38:57That's what I want to lean into
00:38:59The demon we just
00:39:01Starts to guide us home
00:39:04Because
00:39:04We become one
00:39:06And we're together
00:39:07We got that fire that burns forever
00:39:10Through the storm
00:39:12We hold each other close
00:39:15Because
00:39:15We become one
00:39:17And we're together
00:39:18We got that love
00:39:20And love that lasts forever
00:39:25Hi guys
00:39:26Good morning
00:39:27How'd you guys sleep?
00:39:29So good
00:39:29Oh my gosh
00:39:30I had some weird dreams
00:39:31Really?
00:39:32Yeah
00:39:33Like
00:39:34I don't know
00:39:34Stress dreams probably
00:39:37Yeah
00:39:37Was it about
00:39:38John or
00:39:39How are you guys doing?
00:39:40We're good
00:39:41I mean
00:39:42Obviously I'm just
00:39:43Like
00:39:44How the hell old is he?
00:39:47I think that's my biggest thing
00:39:48Obviously I'm like
00:39:49Wake up in the middle of the night
00:39:50Like
00:39:51Oh shit
00:39:51Yeah
00:39:52I was like shocked
00:39:53When
00:39:54I went on my one on one with John
00:39:56Girl you were so
00:39:57So
00:39:58I was like
00:39:58What?
00:40:00Yeah
00:40:00Yeah yeah yeah yeah
00:40:01He was just like
00:40:02I'm gonna go for it
00:40:03But you know
00:40:04I just
00:40:04I always am like
00:40:05Waiting for the other shoe to drop
00:40:07So
00:40:07That guy's locked in on you Teresa
00:40:09He hasn't looked at anyone else
00:40:11Yeah I swear
00:40:11No he's locked in
00:40:12Yeah
00:40:13And he's genuine about it
00:40:14And you guys actually
00:40:15Like you're a cute couple
00:40:16Like you guys are really good together
00:40:17We're rooting for ya
00:40:19I'm gonna say like
00:40:20In the next few days
00:40:21I see you guys there
00:40:21Promise room
00:40:22This is like the fun stage
00:40:23I will lead you ladies
00:40:24Yes
00:40:25Through
00:40:25Please do
00:40:26To the promise room
00:40:26Lead us to the promised land
00:40:46Oh boy
00:40:46This is gonna be fun
00:40:55Look at the river
00:40:57Welcome everybody
00:40:58Thanks for having me
00:41:00Thank you
00:41:01Yes
00:41:01Welcome to Pemberton, British Columbia
00:41:04Beautiful coastal mountains here
00:41:06We have some wonderful beverages for you to enjoy
00:41:09I will pour some white
00:41:11This is really good
00:41:13This is my favorite
00:41:14Mmm
00:41:14Oh wow
00:41:16It's good
00:41:16Cheers
00:41:17Cheers
00:41:18I like this
00:41:22So when you swirl it and you have the legs
00:41:24Does that mean sugar?
00:41:26Yes
00:41:26See
00:41:26The legs are sugar
00:41:27The thicker the legs
00:41:29The more sugar
00:41:32We'll see if that's true
00:41:36Will we?
00:41:38I would hope so
00:41:39I would absolutely hope so
00:41:40Yeah
00:41:42Well I know what we're doing later
00:41:43That's easy
00:41:45Um
00:41:45Says you
00:41:46Says you
00:41:47Okay
00:41:47Okay
00:41:47You know I've said from the get-go
00:41:49I really am open to getting to know these men regardless of their ages
00:41:56But
00:41:58I have a 21 year old nephew
00:42:00And he reminds me of him
00:42:01It's like
00:42:03Should we make out?
00:42:06Too soon?
00:42:07Oh
00:42:09Um
00:42:11Really?
00:42:12If we did that
00:42:13Then you'd have this all over you
00:42:14I wouldn't mind
00:42:16You're pretty smooth Tristan
00:42:18I'm not gonna lie
00:42:19Like I don't know if I can really let that guy into my bed
00:42:22You know what I mean?
00:42:24I'm not gonna lie
00:42:25I like the mom pie
00:42:25You do? Do you have mommy issues?
00:42:27My mom is only 19 years older than me
00:42:30So when I date women that are getting up there
00:42:33This is gonna sound horrible
00:42:34But like if you're not as hot as my mom
00:42:36I'm not gonna marry you
00:42:38Was your mom distant?
00:42:40No
00:42:41She was very strict
00:42:42Oh well
00:42:43That might be distant
00:42:44No she was
00:42:47Maybe
00:42:47He's really young
00:42:49Little baby face
00:42:51And that
00:42:51I'm finding that that does matter
00:42:54Where did you come from?
00:42:56Cheers Prince Harry
00:42:57Cheers
00:42:58Where's Meghan Markle?
00:42:59He loves that
00:43:03Some people might be chasing money
00:43:04Some people might be chasing fame
00:43:06I'm chasing like a feeling
00:43:08Like you wanna wake up
00:43:09And be excited to
00:43:11Have a partner
00:43:12And Theresa's slowly checking off my boxes
00:43:17Of what I want in a partner
00:43:18Gorge
00:43:19Oh it's crazy isn't it?
00:43:21It is
00:43:21I feel at ease with her
00:43:23And not to get too deep
00:43:25But it's because she's Theresa
00:43:28I
00:43:29If I could bottle it up and sell it I would
00:43:32I got lucky
00:43:34How are you feeling?
00:43:36I feel good
00:43:37Kinda crazy isn't it?
00:43:39Yes
00:43:39In a good way
00:43:41I did wake up in the middle of the night
00:43:43And I was like
00:43:43Ugh
00:43:44What is happening?
00:43:46Me too
00:43:46Me too
00:43:46Did you?
00:43:46I swear
00:43:48Yeah
00:43:48Yeah it was like
00:43:49I think it hit me last night
00:43:51And I was like
00:43:51Yes
00:43:52Not anything bad
00:43:53It was just like
00:43:53No same
00:43:54It was just like
00:43:55What is
00:43:56What's going on?
00:43:58But no sincerely
00:43:59I left the date last night
00:44:01Couldn't stop thinking about you
00:44:03No interest in
00:44:04Anybody else
00:44:05Okay
00:44:06Good
00:44:07Me neither
00:44:07Good
00:44:08Oh god
00:44:11So game's over
00:44:12And I was kidding
00:44:12Oh god
00:44:13Don't say that
00:44:14I'm kidding
00:44:15Yeah I mean that
00:44:17I don't think
00:44:17There's no
00:44:19There's no added pressure to that
00:44:20But
00:44:20Yeah
00:44:21I think
00:44:21I don't
00:44:23That's what I'm here for
00:44:25Um
00:44:26So
00:44:27Yeah
00:44:29Good
00:44:38Kissing him is
00:44:39Amazing
00:44:40Like I was shocked
00:44:41When I kissed him yesterday
00:44:42And it was just like
00:44:43Sparks and
00:44:44Good stuff
00:44:45We just have this
00:44:47Magnetic attraction to each other
00:44:49And
00:44:49Yeah I wanna
00:44:50Kiss him some more
00:44:51So
00:44:52Let's go
00:44:57I just wanna be with you
00:45:01I definitely think this is a moment to see if Justin and I are compatible
00:45:05But
00:45:05I still very much wanna get to know Jorge more
00:45:09I do like both of them
00:45:11But
00:45:12Justin he's just so sweet
00:45:14We want the same things
00:45:16Um
00:45:16And that's also what has drawn me to him
00:45:19And he's just like
00:45:20Made me just feel so comfortable
00:45:22And just like
00:45:23So wanted
00:45:24And just
00:45:24Yeah
00:45:25Just all the things that a woman wants to feel
00:45:27What you did say yesterday is that like
00:45:30You don't really like
00:45:30Fall easily
00:45:31Or like
00:45:32Um
00:45:33No
00:45:33Or don't really
00:45:35Yeah
00:45:36I love very hard
00:45:37Slow to love
00:45:39Right?
00:45:40How slow?
00:45:41I don't know
00:45:42I thought we connected super early
00:45:44Like literally the first day
00:45:46We were like
00:45:4730 seconds together
00:45:48And I was like
00:45:49It's like
00:45:49Oh
00:45:50This girl
00:45:51I like this girl
00:45:52But I don't want you to
00:45:54You know
00:45:54I don't want you to feel like
00:45:55You can't get to know anybody
00:45:56Or whatever but
00:45:56I mean of course not
00:45:57But I
00:45:58I listen to what I want
00:46:00Like my heart
00:46:01I suspect you usually get what you want
00:46:10You can't look at me like that
00:46:12How am I looking at you?
00:46:14I don't know
00:46:15Like you're gonna kiss me or something
00:46:16Yeah?
00:46:17Does that make you nervous?
00:46:18A little bit
00:46:19And why?
00:46:21I don't know
00:46:24Stop
00:46:25Justin
00:46:27I feel like a school girl
00:46:29I don't know why
00:46:30You feel like a school girl?
00:46:32Get the fuck
00:46:33You know where you're like
00:46:33In high school or something
00:46:34You're like talking to someone
00:46:36You're just like getting
00:46:37Yeah
00:46:37Yeah
00:46:38I feel like that right now
00:46:39That's what you feel like?
00:46:40Mm-hmm
00:46:41I like talking to you
00:46:42Yeah
00:46:48Would you move a little close to me?
00:46:52Move a little close to me.
00:46:57Move a little close to me.
00:46:58Move a little close to me.
00:47:03Um, sorry.
00:47:05Were you waiting to do that?
00:47:06Yeah, I needed only four glasses of wine.
00:47:08You needed encouragement?
00:47:10Yeah, right.
00:47:10Oh, my gosh.
00:47:12I normally don't kiss someone, like, so fast.
00:47:14Yeah, that's right.
00:47:14I should have asked you.
00:47:15No, it's okay.
00:47:16No, I reciprocated.
00:47:18You did?
00:47:18Yeah.
00:47:19I wanted to.
00:47:21And I love that you did that.
00:47:23Yeah.
00:47:24Mm-hmm.
00:47:25So far, smitten is a good way to say it, I would say.
00:47:29I'm smitten with Vanell.
00:47:31I suspect Vanell is younger than me.
00:47:34She has no gray in her hair, and I have gray in my beard.
00:47:37Um, I know how old I am.
00:47:40But despite that, I feel a lot of connection with her.
00:47:44I want to know how old you are.
00:47:46Do you?
00:47:49We can go to the promiser, and you can find out.
00:47:52I guess that's true.
00:47:54But I will say, my dad has told me,
00:47:57but now I don't want you to marry anyone that's over ten years older than you.
00:48:00Oh, no.
00:48:01You're done over there.
00:48:02But my whole family knows that we're older, guys.
00:48:04Should we just end this now?
00:48:05We could still be in the criteria.
00:48:08Yeah, it's possible.
00:48:09That's true.
00:48:11I doubt it.
00:48:12I could be older than I look.
00:48:13You could be.
00:48:14You know, black don't crap, right?
00:48:16That's true.
00:48:16That's true.
00:48:17Mm-hmm.
00:48:18Today really just sped up our relationship to another level.
00:48:22Like, I really did not expect us to, like, kiss today.
00:48:25It's only been, like, a few days of me knowing him,
00:48:27and now I find myself in a love triangle with Justin and Jorge.
00:48:34His age does matter to me to an extent,
00:48:37but I'm really trying to lead with, like, my heart
00:48:40and not try to, like, get in my head about that.
00:48:43I'm glad I met you.
00:48:45I'm glad I met you, too.
00:49:03Waking up today at the retreat,
00:49:05I feel like John is the one that I really want to see this through with.
00:49:10It is crazy that it's only been a couple of days,
00:49:13and my connection with John is super strong.
00:49:17Like, he just knows, he already knows me.
00:49:19Like, we have this, like, really strange ease with each other.
00:49:28So I'm taking John to the Promise Room.
00:49:32I think we're ready for that.
00:49:34There is a very good chance that I found my partner.
00:49:37Lying on the ocean floor.
00:49:41Lucking up.
00:49:43In the past, I had been terribly hurt.
00:49:47I had been lied to, deceived,
00:49:50um, and also controlled in a couple of relationships.
00:49:59Even though I'm nervous about sharing my kids' ages with John,
00:50:05I feel that I can trust him and be vulnerable and...
00:50:14Sorry.
00:50:19Yeah, I feel like I can trust him.
00:50:23Um, and that our connection is strong enough that once I do tell him,
00:50:30you know, about my kids and my age and everything,
00:50:32I don't think he's gonna run away.
00:50:35I'm lying on the ocean floor.
00:50:39Looking up.
00:50:40Being 100% vulnerable and out there is scary.
00:50:43Watching as the world floats by.
00:50:46Going into the Promise Room, the only thing on my mind right now
00:50:49is expressing to Theresa how I feel and seeing how she reacts to my age.
00:50:55If age ruined this, it would hurt.
00:50:58I've been in that situation before and it hurts,
00:51:01and I don't want to be in that situation again.
00:51:03If I could only breathe
00:51:10If I could only swim back towards the life above
00:51:17If I could only be
00:51:18You look great.
00:51:19How are you?
00:51:21Good. How are you?
00:51:22I'm good.
00:51:23If I could only breathe above the surface
00:51:26Good attention.
00:51:29You know, I came here because, um, I thought this was a really great opportunity for me
00:51:38to hopefully meet somebody who was ready for a relationship.
00:51:45In the past, I've been really hurt.
00:51:52And I was really touched because you, right away, like, made me feel super safe.
00:52:01And, um...
00:52:10And, um, to me, that's very rare.
00:52:14So I'm really grateful that I got here
00:52:19and that we found each other so quickly.
00:52:21And I'm looking forward to hopefully continuing down that path
00:52:26and getting to know you more
00:52:29and expanding our relationship, hopefully.
00:52:32Mm-hmm.
00:52:35Um...
00:52:39I appreciate you being vulnerable pretty early.
00:52:44You know, it's been quick.
00:52:45Yeah.
00:52:46And I think in the past, with relationships, it's been on me.
00:52:51I haven't been ready.
00:52:52I haven't been, like, mentally there.
00:52:53So I can't really blame anybody but myself.
00:52:57And I feel at ease, like, where I'm at.
00:53:01I think that I can be trustworthy and reliable
00:53:08in that kind of rock that I feel like we've been
00:53:13throughout this whole experience.
00:53:15I'm looking forward to whatever's next.
00:53:17Yeah.
00:53:18Me too.
00:53:20All right.
00:53:21Well...
00:53:24So I think this is your size.
00:53:26A little bit bigger than yours.
00:53:28Um, so this is a ring I wanted to offer to you,
00:53:33um, and hope that you'll accept it
00:53:37in that, um, it just symbolizes that
00:53:41I want to continue to grow this relationship,
00:53:46see where it goes, and learn more about each other.
00:53:53Do I say yes now, or...?
00:54:02And this is a ring for you...
00:54:05Mm-hmm.
00:54:06...to express how thankful I am to have met you.
00:54:11Aw.
00:54:11I hope you will accept this ring.
00:54:16Mm, yeah, I'll accept it.
00:54:18Mm-hmm.
00:54:24Voila.
00:54:25Teamwork.
00:54:25Yeah.
00:54:26That's good.
00:54:28Um, so...
00:54:30I have some kind of big things to tell you.
00:54:34Um, again, this is very sensitive,
00:54:40and...
00:54:42Um...
00:54:43So, yeah, my age...
00:54:46You're gonna die.
00:54:50Oh, my God.
00:54:51Okay.
00:54:53I think anything that you can't control in life
00:54:55that has a weight of importance
00:54:58is really scary.
00:55:02If she thinks the age gap is more significant than she expected,
00:55:07than she thinks, than she feels,
00:55:09um, yeah, it could affect us for sure.
00:55:13I think it's going to be, like, a really big shock,
00:55:16because I don't think he has any idea.
00:55:22In the past, everyone thinks I'm significantly older than I am.
00:55:26It's not, like, one to two years, like, oh, she'll...
00:55:28I think I'm gonna shock her.
00:55:30Ugh.
00:55:31I mean, I think he's in his 30s.
00:55:34But I'm hoping he's 38.
00:55:36Or older.
00:55:37He's gonna be so shocked.
00:55:43I'm 27 years old.
00:55:50Taking someone to the Promise Room
00:55:52is something that I take very seriously.
00:55:55To me, it means commitment,
00:55:57and it means acceptance.
00:56:01I'm nervous about learning his age.
00:56:05I don't know if I could move forward with him
00:56:07if he's over late 40s.
00:56:09Got your seatbelt on?
00:56:10Oh, God.
00:56:14I don't know if you would be for this.
00:56:18I am...
00:56:2127.
00:56:23Oh, my God.
00:56:27Oh, wow.
00:56:28Oh, my God.
00:56:30Trying to roll with that whole
00:56:32age is just a number thing.
00:56:39I just can't believe it's going so well.
00:56:42I did not expect to find something
00:56:44this serious this fast.
00:56:48Have you guys had sex yet?
00:56:50Yeah, we have.
00:56:51Good for you.
00:56:52I'm so jealous.
00:56:54It's time to introduce
00:56:56your bold new love story
00:56:57to the people who matter most.
00:56:59Your friends,
00:57:00your families.
00:57:02My kids coming here
00:57:03would be, like, insane.
00:57:06Like, so scared to see them.
00:57:08Oh, my God.
00:57:10It's both on there.
00:57:11Wow.
00:57:12She seems a little high maintenance.
00:57:15He may need some Botox.
00:57:17She seems really fun.
00:57:18She just can't rent a car to drive out to.
00:57:20No!
00:57:21His age will be jarring for them.
00:57:23They will not accept it.
00:57:26I just want to make sure
00:57:27you're thinking realistically.
00:57:29I don't want to do this.
00:57:32You just like me as a friend?
00:57:33This whole thing has been a lot, man.
00:57:35I feel like it's killing you.
00:57:37I'm starting to think,
00:57:38is this age a problem for us?
00:57:40Maybe I'm not as mature as I thought.
00:57:43Potentially having
00:57:44two immediate children?
00:57:48I mean,
00:57:49like, it is,
00:57:50it is what it is.
00:57:51You're trying to turn this on me.
00:57:54I'm not trying to turn this on me.
00:57:54Yes, you are!
00:57:56Lou was the fun person
00:57:57that I had at the retreat.
00:57:59What the fuck am I doing?
00:58:00I'm really done with this conversation.
00:58:03Can I get this mic off me?
00:58:04I'm not ashamed of how old he is.
00:58:06I'm not ashamed of it.
00:58:07She's not ashamed.
00:58:07It's really none of your business.
00:58:09I'm sorry.
00:58:16I don't know whether we're gonna
00:58:18get over that huge age gap.
00:58:20Is my life too overwhelming for her?
00:58:22It's very possible that he is
00:58:24gonna break my heart on this mountain today.
00:58:27I don't wanna live my life without her.
00:58:29I might be feeling dangerous,
00:58:31and I might do something crazy.
00:58:33And so...
00:58:40We wanna continue this journey
00:58:42and do life together.
00:58:54We wanna continue this journey
00:58:56and do life together.
00:58:58Gonna be feeling like you're my time machine.
00:59:03Saturated.
00:59:04To the extreme.
00:59:062020.
00:59:08HD.
00:59:10Digital visual like something from the screen.
00:59:13A filter from a dream.
00:59:15You're so colorful to me.
00:59:18Vibrant.
00:59:20Vibrant.
00:59:21You make my life so vibrant.
00:59:23I'm smoking in the ecstasy.
00:59:26Hide it.
00:59:27I just can't hide my excitement.
00:59:31So vibrant when you're next to me.
00:59:34Let's go!
00:59:36Love, yeah.
00:59:37We love you thriving.
00:59:39Cause you're all mine.
00:59:41Yeah, yeah.
01:00:18I just wanna go.
01:00:23I'm not gonna climb.
01:00:23I'm not gonna get that.
01:00:23I'm gonna come back.
01:00:27I'm gonna get it.
01:00:27I'm gonna get it.
01:00:27I'm gonna miss everything.
01:00:27I'm gonna get it.
01:00:28But just do it.
01:00:28Okay.
01:00:29I can't do that.
01:00:32I can't do it.
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