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00:00:22You're going to die.
00:00:26Um, do you know how old I am?
00:00:28Um, oh my God, okay, um, I'm 54.
00:00:35And that's it.
00:00:37There you go.
00:00:40Got your seatbelt on?
00:00:42Yeah.
00:00:43Oh, shit.
00:00:45Oh, God.
00:00:48I am 27.
00:00:55Oh, my God.
00:00:58Oh, wow.
00:01:00Seriously?
00:01:01Can I see your driver's license?
00:01:05Wow.
00:01:06Okay.
00:01:07Did not expect that.
00:01:10I figured that was going to happen.
00:01:14Oh, my God.
00:01:16That is insane.
00:01:17I literally thought you were, like, 10 years older.
00:01:20Um, okay.
00:01:22My youngest is 22.
00:01:25Okay.
00:01:25And my daughter's 25.
00:01:29And three years before that, I gave birth to my oldest, so he's 29.
00:01:35My son is older than you.
00:01:38Does that scare you?
00:01:48You know, honestly, the only, the biggest thing that scares me is the outside perception of everybody in the universe.
00:01:57Can't control it.
00:02:03No, you can't control it.
00:02:04Absolutely.
00:02:05Yeah, it scares me, but it's also just pretty amazing that, like, I connected with you, and I had no
00:02:12idea how old you were.
00:02:14I didn't want something I can't control to mess this up, because I feel like we hit it off from
00:02:21day one, and it would have hurt a lot.
00:02:30I am really excited to continue our relationship and get to know each other better.
00:02:38Whatever's next.
00:02:44I know I play with fire.
00:02:48Let's do it.
00:02:49Let's do it.
00:02:52Let's do it.
00:02:53Let's go.
00:02:54Nothing gamble, nothing gain.
00:02:55It's worth the price I have to pay.
00:02:58To see if this is real.
00:03:01Yeah, love is a risk.
00:03:03One thing I want to take.
00:03:06If you believe in love, show me something.
00:03:11If I had known his age going into it, like, I would have never probably started dating him.
00:03:17Like, I had a child before he was even born.
00:03:23They're her kids.
00:03:25They're not my kids, you know.
00:03:27Eventually, are there our kids?
00:03:29I don't know.
00:03:31Love is a risk.
00:03:33One thing I want to take.
00:03:36You know, his age is reflective of how much experience in life he has.
00:03:39So, now that we're moving on into the real world and we're going to live with each other, it will
00:03:44be interesting to see how well we can adapt to that life.
00:03:49I'm sexually attracted to her.
00:03:51I'm physically attracted to her.
00:03:52I'm emotionally attracted to her.
00:03:53So, I'm looking forward to as much time with her as possible to just grow this connection and see where
00:03:59it can go.
00:03:59I'm excited.
00:04:01Love is a risk.
00:04:03The one that I want to take.
00:04:06You gotta jump.
00:04:07Don't look at that.
00:04:08There's no escape.
00:04:10Love is a risk.
00:04:12The one that I want to take.
00:04:20God, let's take the end.
00:04:21Guys, I'm sure you know who I've been talking to, Justin and Jorge.
00:04:24Yes.
00:04:25But they are literally total opposite.
00:04:28And they're both really good guys.
00:04:29And I just don't know.
00:04:32Are you still torn?
00:04:32I don't know.
00:04:33Like they're literally just two different.
00:04:35She's like, it's so hard that two men are running over me.
00:04:38Oh my gosh.
00:04:39Guys, it's so hard.
00:04:40Life is so difficult.
00:04:42No.
00:04:42No, like no, it's it's like the thing with me is with like my connection with Justin
00:04:48We've talked about like our lives and stuff and like outside of this and I can like clearly like see
00:04:54like our life like together
00:04:55Yeah, but with Jorge I get like excited and like I noticed that
00:04:59Like yesterday Jorge had his shirt off and I did not know he had tattoos
00:05:06I literally was up there and I could not stop staring. Yeah
00:05:12I was like a little slut. Yeah, I love it
00:05:22My intention coming in here was I want to find love I've been in love once before and I got
00:05:30heartbroken
00:05:32That's the only time I've been in love
00:05:34That's hard, you know, you have to really put your heart out there and be vulnerable, but
00:05:42Yeah, I'm ready for that
00:05:55We're supposed to buckle these not right
00:05:59Oh
00:06:07God this is gorgeous
00:06:10I came here to find a connection and to meet a lot of people but to ultimately find that person
00:06:17that I do want to settle down with
00:06:19Oh my god
00:06:22I
00:06:23I think I have a pretty clear sense of who I am and I think I value things that are
00:06:27more mature than most people my age do
00:06:29Turn your gear. Yeah, I'm really excited to hopefully continue my connection with Derek
00:06:36Honestly, he seems like a really sweet guy seems like he has this life together. I would like to talk
00:06:41to him more
00:06:42But I'm happy. I'm happy that I've even started to find something
00:06:47I can do the pedaling and I can move it but the gear situation kind of had me
00:06:52It threw you off
00:06:52But you helped me out so
00:06:55So you're not a mountain biker. I'm a stationary biker. Yeah, I have never considered myself outdoorsy
00:07:02I actually was just hiking in Austria. It was awesome. It was a solo trip
00:07:08I feel like I'm always saving money to travel, you know, like everybody's like I'm gonna travel at some point,
00:07:14but it's like, thank you
00:07:15Yeah, um, like when am I going to like now is the time. Yeah, are you a big traveler?
00:07:21Love it. Absolutely. I travel a lot. I love the fact that you booked a trip. Yeah, where else have
00:07:27you traveled?
00:07:28I've been to Spain. I've been to London
00:07:32Barcelona, Seville. Did you love it? Yeah, Barcelona's the best
00:07:36Um, I was with my whole family, too, which is really nice. Yeah, um, like I have a pretty small
00:07:41family
00:07:41So it was and it was my grandparents and then like my great-aunt my aunt and my mom. Okay
00:07:47But it was like our last family trip with everybody together. Yeah, how was that? I mean, it was it
00:07:53was fantastic
00:07:53It was great families like it's very important to me
00:07:56Like I said, I'm from a small family and I like want to have a big family
00:08:00Yeah, so I just appreciate those moments together is like that's like a big part
00:08:06Yeah
00:08:08Yeah, I'm the same family so big and so big to me. Yeah, no, I completely agree
00:08:14I didn't get into details about my family my two boys that I have now
00:08:19I do want to tell her but it'll be a shocker
00:08:22I think if I tell Pfeiffer that I have a 15 year old son and a five-year-old
00:08:27Hopefully that doesn't change the connection we have and the feelings that she asked for me though
00:08:33Some say
00:08:35Some say
00:08:36It's a dream
00:08:37See it, believe it, a good thing
00:08:42Hey, Jolene
00:08:43You want to walk with me? Oh, yeah, okay, you could bring the blanket. Oh, I can really? Yeah, why
00:08:48not?
00:08:49Yes
00:08:49I have been on the apps before and I'll be so crazy that I'll swipe when I drive and I'm
00:08:56just like
00:08:56Kind of addicted to it. I'm looking for something authentic and organic
00:09:00I feel like dating girls in the past like I've gotten parts of the one. We're going to the promise
00:09:06room. See you guys later
00:09:07No, I'm just kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding
00:09:10So coming into this it pushes me to talk to girls who I normally would not and it's opened my
00:09:15eyes a bit already
00:09:19Damn, girl you ballsy with it
00:09:22Well, I don't know what else I'm supposed to say. I might crush you
00:09:25No, you're fine. Okay. I was terrified going into this because I live a very comfortable routine life
00:09:33But there's like this little this piece right here that just wants someone to be like come here you compliment
00:09:38me thing, you know
00:09:41My ex-husband and I we took good care of our children together and we continue to do so
00:09:46And I remember driving home one day from work and just being so thankful for my life because I had
00:09:53this wonderful man at home
00:09:55Who like takes my son to baseball and just feeling true happiness and it didn't work out
00:10:03We just kind of grew apart
00:10:05But I want to feel that again. I so badly want to ask you how old you are
00:10:11Yeah, but I don't know why I think it's just
00:10:15Like instinct, but I'm trying to let that go. I know but I'll tell you what I look young
00:10:24Okay, so I'm probably older than you think I am. I'll just give you that that's it. Oh god, I
00:10:30hope so
00:10:42I
00:10:42I'm not used to like doing this dating like multiple people at the same time. So this is just
00:10:48Really hard and I want to try to move as respectful as I can to both the guys
00:10:52We're here today to do some forest bathing. I have here some blindfolds
00:10:59One person leads one person follows and the person who leads
00:11:04Has the responsibility of getting them to experience the forest with their other senses
00:11:11Vanell is amazing. We work well together to me energy wise
00:11:14I want to show her a little bit the gentler side the other side of horror and i've experienced in
00:11:19the past where
00:11:20You know, I don't let everybody see that side of me. Um, because not everybody protects that side of me,
00:11:26right?
00:11:26But in her case, she's just I don't know something in the bottom. He's gentle energy. I love it
00:11:31My trip and fall is over with. Lift your foot. There you go. Come on
00:11:35You think I'd let you fall? No
00:11:38Okay, just trust me. You trust me? I do trust you. All right
00:11:44Am I walking straight? You're just walking straight. Now keep walking real slow. I got you. You will not stumble.
00:11:52You will not fall
00:11:53I will not let that happen. Okay. Mm-hmm
00:11:57Oh, you did so good
00:11:59Oh my gosh, you got me all the way here. That was good. Good job
00:12:05You enjoy it? Yeah, I feel excited
00:12:10Um, I feel like jittery. I feel
00:12:13I don't know. I just had a really good time with Jorge
00:12:16I've been wanting to just like see a different side to him because he has a really like big personality
00:12:21and today
00:12:22I was able to just like see him more calm more serious
00:12:26He seems like he's a little bit older than me. Um, I'm sure he probably is but
00:12:31He has like a young spirit in a way. So
00:12:35Honestly, the age factor with Jorge doesn't bother me. You're my only connection. Like I'm not
00:12:42Because I'm not like I told you
00:12:46If I look at someone and I'm not
00:12:49Feeling it and I know it won't be genuine like
00:12:52I'm not gonna do it because it's not gonna be real
00:12:54But I'm not saying that to put pressure on you
00:12:56You're not good
00:13:01Justin and Jorge are literally total opposites and I don't want to spend too much time tuggling between two guys
00:13:09I want to like make a decision soon
00:13:11But ultimately like I thought I was leaving here with Justin
00:13:15Um and deep down in my heart
00:13:17I kind of feel if Justin was truly the person that I felt like okay
00:13:23That is the one then maybe I wouldn't be so conflicted. I like when a man makes it known he
00:13:28wants me
00:13:30Well, I think I've made it known haven't I?
00:13:32Now
00:13:52You gotta catch me up
00:13:53I think I mean I feel like I'm in a really lucky spot
00:13:57Um, I'm really happy with where I am with derek right now
00:14:02Uh-huh. Um
00:14:03How far apart do you think you and derek are in age?
00:14:06Mmm, I would say like
00:14:0813 to 16 years. Okay. Okay. That's my guess. Okay. Is there any like reservations you have about like a
00:14:15future with him?
00:14:16It feels really weird to be like wow this person and I are really aligned and everything seems to be
00:14:21going smoothly
00:14:22Like where is the big like when is the shoe gonna drop? Yeah, but i'm just kind of a scaredy
00:14:27cat too with this sort of thing
00:14:29That's okay
00:14:30But I think for your age
00:14:31I don't know what your age is, but I can guess and I think that you have a good head
00:14:35on your shoulders
00:14:35Thank you. That means a lot
00:14:37And I think you're a lot more confident than I was at your age and like putting yourself out there
00:14:42How about you? I want to hear all about where your mind is at how you're feeling about things
00:14:46Yeah, so this has really been pushing me out of my comfort zone. I think that's great. Yeah. Yeah
00:14:52What's funny is like in talking to some of the men they're like if a girl came after me
00:14:56I think it's hot as fuck. I know they say that
00:14:59But at the same time like I don't want to be a chaser like I'm not chasing anyone. No, so
00:15:04it's like
00:15:05Yeah, do we push ourselves out of the comfort zone and try something different or do we just
00:15:10Keep the status quo and yeah. Yeah. Oh my god to be determined a lot to think about
00:15:28Make sure you strap it on
00:15:30I found one
00:15:32I got you
00:15:33There's a few women here that have caught my eye, but honestly i'm feeling some vibes with libby. It's very
00:15:39Just playful. She is fun younger very extroverted. How did I know you were not gonna know how to do
00:15:47this?
00:15:48Libby is complete chaos
00:15:50In the best ways possible
00:15:53I think
00:15:58I do not do huddles at all
00:16:00You're fine. Oh god. You're fine. No, I don't know about this. Can I back out?
00:16:06I am feeling a little bit of pressure and nerves because I need to go into this date and you
00:16:12know show up be myself
00:16:13But I think I have a tendency to get a little bit nervous when I'm interested in somebody and kind
00:16:18of
00:16:20Feel a little bit more reserved and closed off
00:16:22So I'm hoping today I can just let my guard down and be normal
00:16:27At this point andrew is really the only one that I genuinely find myself attracted to
00:16:35And although my mind is running in circles about the kid thing and age thing and whatever
00:16:41I definitely have a little crush on him
00:16:47I'm gonna definitely give you the ick today
00:16:51I'm gonna close my eyes and if I hear screaming I'm gonna pretend I don't
00:16:58I'm gonna close my eyes and I'm gonna close my eyes and I'm gonna close my eyes and turn around
00:17:01in the corner
00:17:02Oh god
00:17:07Oh my god
00:17:09Oh my god
00:17:19I can't believe I almost cried
00:17:22Libby is my type like spot on like my group chat is going to be like dude I
00:17:28thought you were gonna do something different it's not that I haven't tried
00:17:32I've talked to a bunch of people and I'm not saying that I'm not going to keep
00:17:35experiencing this experience and talking to other people but I mean you know if
00:17:41you just something's you something's you and I think that you know for me it's
00:17:47been fun to date younger healthy I don't know probably not fun yes we
00:17:55survived we made it yeah you weren't helpful though I think I was nothing
00:18:01but helpful personally but I'm glad you got through it and I guess it was a fun
00:18:05thing for us to do it wasn't day two and you see me scared like that up right but
00:18:09as long as you didn't get the ick I did you got the ick no I'm kidding
00:18:17I think there could be like a strong connection there it's like I'm seeing a
00:18:22lot of her like funny side and maybe there's like a little intimidation there
00:18:27or whatever or nerves you know we're all we all have a little bit of that but I
00:18:31can tell there's like this other side to her that's like super sweet and soft I
00:18:37think if she does have that side like to her I definitely think that you know
00:18:41there would be something there everything all right can I ask you
00:18:44something yeah I like don't get offended you're funny as shit but like
00:18:49are yours is there like a softer side to you like a more like serious like I
00:18:55really do want to have more kids I really do want to find my person I really am
00:19:00here to connect with someone I feel like I love our banter I love how we just laugh
00:19:06and give each other shit back and forth and don't compliment each other but is
00:19:12that like a serious side like a warm side to you why is that it's hard for me
00:19:20because I know like in the past like when I fully let people in and been a
00:19:26hundred percent that side of myself it's kind of hard to recover after you get
00:19:30really hurt you know I just have to like warm up to that place because I don't
00:19:34know I get I'm kind of like guarded in the beginning
00:19:40but yeah we'll get to that place see it's it strides for me to tell you that
00:19:44you're sort of kind of cute okay well I'll take sort of kind of cute I feel
00:19:50like I know a lot about you but I wanted to ask you more about your daughters
00:19:54because I feel like I don't know much about them do you want to know how old they
00:19:58I know I wouldn't tell you the other day 14 and 12 sorry was that I can't I can't hide
00:20:08anything
00:20:1214 and 12 um I'm a little shocked a little shocked I don't think um I was expecting that
00:20:20that's that's new this is surprise you shocked what are you thinking I thought they were way
00:20:26younger than that I'm curious as to how old you probably think I am oh shoot I don't know and
00:20:32I
00:20:32don't want to make us and I'm a little scared don't strike me as an old person what is old
00:20:41to you
00:20:41I don't know you just great skincare any recommendations drink a lot of water okay
00:20:48thanks for that thank you so much stay out of the sun yeah I'm just feeling a little bit shocked
00:20:55and
00:20:55overwhelmed and I think I might need a little bit of time to reflect on it I'm not that far
00:21:01from 14
00:21:04so I'm definitely gonna take a minute and reflect
00:21:21I've been to spas but nothing like this I'm keeping myself open to meeting the other guys
00:21:28but I don't have the same connection with others that I do with West
00:21:43what I want when it comes to relationships is marriage now I'm not saying the next girl that
00:21:48I date is going to be my wife but if I could choose it would be a hundred percent going
00:21:53into
00:21:53this date the three that had my eye on are Vanessa Lindy and Catherine I'm looking for a woman that
00:22:00I can spend my life with a woman I can take home and my parents my mom is happy my
00:22:04dad is happy to
00:22:04see this woman next to me no matter her age I think West right now is at the time in
00:22:13his life where he
00:22:14likes how it's fun he does immature things like backflips into the goal plunge and I'm really
00:22:21continuing to try to like throw that out the window it's like really tough for me what do you think
00:22:28of
00:22:28it I think it's beautiful here I love it it's relaxing I like getting to know you yeah well what
00:22:36do you want to know
00:22:40I mean things I can't ask but
00:22:44why not you could ask me anything
00:22:48what I wonder how old you I know we're not supposed to say who's dating and I just want to
00:22:52get to know
00:22:53you I could take you to the promise room we could we could line it up real quick and I'm
00:22:58I'm up for
00:22:59that I know it's kind of crazy like all in right here right now but you know that's it I'm
00:23:08not crazy
00:23:08I think you are you know with younger guys sometimes they get caught up in like the new
00:23:15stuff you know the new is exciting I think part of me is like how has he like walls up
00:23:21like why is he
00:23:22so complimentary so like soon like what is his game here my flirty aspect can be a red flag to
00:23:30people
00:23:31but the things I say are genuine they're honest and I think like more feelings and actions show
00:23:36how I really feel rather than like things I say
00:23:49absolutely natural beauty that we have around it I know it's so pretty I love it and it's natural
00:23:54beauty in front of you oh wow that was very smooth that was very smooth I've got to give you
00:24:00props
00:24:01good job high-five on that hey guys how are you I don't want to interrupt no you're fine you
00:24:09can
00:24:10um I was wondering if you want to go to the other pool we didn't go there yet let's go
00:24:13okay all right
00:24:15I'll bring him back don't worry you guys have fun okay you take your time okay I have not been
00:24:20successful at dating I lived in a small town my whole life I've met everyone I've dated everyone I wanted
00:24:26to
00:24:26a date this one might be deeper will you save me if I now I have the opportunity to meet
00:24:32people from
00:24:33all different places all different ages and I want to explore things and I want to see who's out there
00:24:39are you are you upset right be real I'm really not I'm actually happy about that I'm waiting for that
00:24:46I'm like you know I don't like to compete for attention me neither but I didn't I didn't I didn't
00:24:50know so I would have given you another five minutes and then I would have stolen you away I didn't
00:24:54want to
00:24:54like I was just trying to get a little reaction oh it's called triangulation a little triangle
00:25:00trying you were trying to triangulate oh it worked look here we are it did work here we are where'd
00:25:07you
00:25:07tell me you live again I live in Miami you are such a Miami boy I think I'm gonna visit
00:25:12you one day
00:25:13absolutely 100% no after this entire thing we're we're going back to Miami together together I won't
00:25:18make you come to Ohio to see me I told you Ohio's my like backyard okay yeah I'm glad that
00:25:28we got to
00:25:28have our time together yeah and then we'll have more time together I hope yeah for sure is that cool
00:25:33with you mm-hmm cool with me all right good okay good I'm gonna kiss your hand oh she didn't
00:25:38really
00:25:38answer it and I'm sorry I stole you away from other girls I'll try not to do that no I'll
00:25:43continue to do that
00:25:44okay all right sounds good just take this this is a quick one you have a nice look
00:26:02you're so beautiful thank you glad that you appreciate it this won't be the end of this you think
00:26:07okay okay good see you tomorrow and stay in the next okay good okay good all right I'm happy about
00:26:13this yeah I'm not bad
00:26:15mm-hmm
00:26:19mm-hmm
00:26:216'2 huh
00:26:236'1 and a half you don't have to lie with me anything over 5'8 is open
00:26:54mm-hmm
00:26:57I came here for
00:26:59a true connection like i really want to find someone um a husband you know um someone to love
00:27:06and that truly loves me i actually like lavender you do yeah coming here i found two amazing guys
00:27:14that you know i really connected with and like i just have a lot to figure out i i just
00:27:21i don't
00:27:21know i just really don't know what to do ladies first okay yeah yeah okay my connection with vanell
00:27:27so far has been really great we have really good strong kind of uh chemistry it's not common to like
00:27:34really have somebody that you meet you kind of connect with on all those levels and that quickly
00:27:40um so i would ask vanell to go to the promise room today i would um i don't know that
00:27:47she
00:27:47necessarily feels the same way about me but the truth is that is how i feel about her
00:28:00tell me about yesterday oh my date yeah we went for his bathing and stuff yeah not really my vibe
00:28:08but
00:28:08i got to have a conversation with jorge yeah but now i also like someone else too and i'm just
00:28:16not used
00:28:16to like being in that position yeah like dating multiple people at once or opening up myself dating
00:28:23multiple people but like this experience you know forces you to do that yeah yeah who do you feel
00:28:29like you have more chemistry with you guys are just so different we are so different um
00:28:36i think i have chemistry with you yeah um but different kind of chemistry with jorge yeah it's just
00:28:44different i know it's just beyond i'm not gonna lie a lot of the time i was thinking about jorge
00:28:56and i don't know i just am
00:29:02i think today i kind of got the clarity that i was wanting and it's more of just like a
00:29:08feeling like
00:29:09when i was with jorge yesterday on our date i was more like getting like nervous
00:29:14and today with justin it was more of like i didn't really feel that
00:29:23anything else you think about no
00:29:30i don't know you sure i don't know those wheels are turning up there
00:29:39i don't know so i can't look hot just she's such a good guy
00:29:49and it just like
00:29:51like he's just he just has such a pure heart and i just don't want to like upset him or
00:29:58like break his
00:29:59heart or i just feel bad
00:30:06what do you worry about um
00:30:12i don't know i guess i just like worry that like
00:30:27it's a little bit bittersweet i guess because it's like you've been i've been through this
00:30:33before where you connect with somebody like on a visceral level and then something comes in between
00:30:39you and um yeah it's part of dating
00:30:56just because i was her first connection doesn't mean that i was her best connection
00:31:03i really hope jorge sees the same kind of beauty and perspective in her that i see in her
00:31:11because i know that she deserves that i don't know that i know what the rest of my life will
00:31:17look
00:31:17like but i am still open to finding like my person and i hope that they're out there uh that's
00:31:24the goal for me
00:31:32so how'd you sleep how do you feel it was pretty good yeah the cold plunge and the hot tub
00:31:38it felt
00:31:38really good yeah for sure since the spa date i've just been feeling really like icky as soon as the
00:31:47kiss happened i was like what am i doing like this is not me at all like i felt like
00:31:53i moved way too
00:31:55fast and then it just didn't feel right to me afterwards it just made me take like a big step
00:32:00back and like rethink what i was doing the last thing you said to me i was like honesty it's
00:32:06about
00:32:06honesty like do this journey let's just keep that word in mind you know 100 you know if there are
00:32:12other people you want to explore dates with like i wouldn't be upset like i want you to like have
00:32:16this
00:32:17experience like a whole experience for you and i don't want you to feel like likewise yeah part of
00:32:22that is what we're here for and no matter what comes out of this i appreciated that i appreciate
00:32:26this it's like yeah that's priceless honestly right every guy that i date has been a love bomber
00:32:31and immediately just throws everything into it acts like everything's so great and i'm so perfect and
00:32:37everything's right and so the fact that like everything with chris happened so fast so touchy
00:32:43feely and everything there was something in my brain that was like warning warning like this is not
00:32:47good this is not healthy so at this point i'm feeling like you know chris really isn't the one
00:32:54i didn't want to be disrespectful to you or your time so i'm glad that it was well well received
00:33:00so
00:33:00100 we had our time honestly i had a great time getting to know vanessa but i would love to
00:33:07get to
00:33:07know other girls while i'm here because i feel like i would regret not doing that and i'll be happy
00:33:13for
00:33:13her as well if she ends up with somebody else here and actually finds love
00:33:25i think that we should spin back on our conversation i know you were kind of asking
00:33:30about like the more serious side of you yeah i want to see that side yeah and i know that
00:33:37like
00:33:37it might come off as just kind of all funny and like silly you don't want to put yourself out
00:33:43there that much and like possibly get hurt yeah that yeah there we go i get it yeah yeah so
00:33:49how's
00:33:50relationship was said um mother of your children um it's amazing honestly you guys kiss we kiss
00:34:00like really good like it's really amazing i mean at one point maybe we did but no that's kind of
00:34:07how
00:34:08the kids are made that is how kids are made yeah oh my god oh god and we blushed like
00:34:17maybe a little
00:34:18uncomfortable there i'm just kidding i'm sorry i have no worries yeah all right well let me ask you this
00:34:25you know my daughters are like 14 and 12 so like my life is very established in baltimore like it
00:34:33just
00:34:33is like my business is there my kids are there you know say we continue this like do you see
00:34:40yourself
00:34:40in a long distance relationship do you see yourself possibly like relocating if you know things went that
00:34:48far yeah well um i think i'm somebody who like when i like somebody i go all in and honestly
00:34:54i am
00:34:55catching a little bit of real feelings for you and there's a there's a five okay five five five
00:35:02flight help help help i'm so such an outdoorsy man yeah i've heard that before with your man this
00:35:07is like the best second time i saved your life i think we're on like four now yeah according to
00:35:12you
00:35:12at least four right now yes every time we spend a little bit more time together i'm seeing there's
00:35:19much more to her than i thought i mean i'm looking for a ride or die and i think honestly
00:35:26after tonight i
00:35:27want to see where it goes i haven't really felt like this in a while about anyone and i guess
00:35:34i don't mind
00:35:57i came here looking for
00:36:01a different way of dating luckily for me like i'm sitting in a position where like i have made a
00:36:08connection and i'm looking to like build on that can we make it now i see the day i want
00:36:16this to last
00:36:17forever i go wherever you i want to take libby to the promise room because i want to continue to
00:36:23commit
00:36:24to this connection that i have with her she keeps me a little off balance and somehow i just i
00:36:31find
00:36:32myself wanting more of that for me having two daughters you know i'm not making that commitment
00:36:41with anyone if i can't see them possibly being in my daughter's lives
00:36:45hey hey hey hey i would say libby's definitely in her 20s there's just this energy about her that's
00:36:55like hard to ignore
00:37:02i feel nervous overall because there's a level of commitment to it that is really serious
00:37:10but i could potentially genuinely see a future with andrew because i think that he has a lot of
00:37:16qualities that resemble things that i'm looking for in a future partner i think that he accepts
00:37:21those parts of myself that i sometimes feel insecure about initially when i learned that andrew had
00:37:29kids i was extremely thrown off my fear is that our lives are just too different and we're going in
00:37:36different paths but i'm trying to be open-minded through this whole experience i'm nervous for
00:37:42andrew to find out my age because i think that it's possible he thinks i'm a little older than i
00:37:46am
00:37:48i don't know if he thinks realistically after hearing my age that i'm somebody who could be a
00:37:54serious potential partner for him
00:38:12surprise hi thanks you look handsome
00:38:24okay okay so i came here because my life back home definitely felt like it was a little bit out
00:38:35of
00:38:36a standstill so i wanted to take a different approach um i wanted to be a little bit more
00:38:42intentional with finding a connection with someone and from the moment i sat down across from you
00:38:51i knew i was in trouble you bring out a side of me that's typically more introverted and it just
00:39:00leaves
00:39:00me wanting more so i know that you know i have two kids one's 14 and one is 12 and
00:39:10it's just very
00:39:11important for me to be able to be with someone where i can merge my entire life and i'm just
00:39:18hoping
00:39:18that that's something you will be open to growing into at some point i've never been scared of the
00:39:27fact that you had kids and honestly that was one of the things that i liked about you it made
00:39:31me take
00:39:32you more seriously so it doesn't bother me and you chose to be here even though i was kind of
00:39:38hard to
00:39:38get through to at some times a little bit a little bit and i'm excited for the rest that's to
00:39:45come
00:39:49oh hi oh my gosh you're asking me to marry you i am oh this is crazy
00:39:56right
00:39:59you're so you're so nervous i know you're okay typically not nervous yeah big commitment it is a big
00:40:06commitment will you commit to me i will yay
00:40:15good job okay well i feel like there's only one more thing for us to do um
00:40:25um i am 38 years young
00:40:34don't know if i was expecting 38. definitely a little shocked no i i thought you were younger
00:40:41like i thought you were a lot younger
00:40:44but um it's gonna be okay are you scared i'm a little nervous okay i am
00:41:15i feel like you've shown me enough that you know despite the age gap um i've seen another
00:41:24other side of you that is more serious and if you're all in on this and you didn't run when
00:41:32you hurt my age i'm not going to either so don't they say that age is just a number it's
00:41:37just a number
00:41:38yeah so we're good
00:41:50i'm feeling shocked
00:41:55i've dated younger women before but this is definitely the biggest
00:41:59age gap and yeah i mean it makes me nervous i am a little shocked about andrew's age honestly
00:42:07don't know what i was thinking it was but i don't think i thought it was 38.
00:42:15i didn't think i would ever be with somebody 16 years older than me
00:42:25when i was 22. yeah my life was was crazy um i definitely wasn't ready to be fully committed to
00:42:34someone i don't think i feel like if i think about it too much i'm gonna get in my head
00:42:38like
00:42:39you know can she meet me where i'm at in life can i meet her where she's at in life
00:42:44but
00:42:46i'm already in it there's no turning back
00:42:58so i told you what it was like for me growing up yeah what was it like for you did
00:43:03you did you play
00:43:04outside did they have outside i did but like i was an only child so i was always begging my
00:43:09dad to like
00:43:10to play with yeah like when he was working you know did you have neighbor kids to play with i
00:43:15did
00:43:15but we moved when i was about seven or eight so after that yeah i was kind of by myself
00:43:20yeah you
00:43:21know i came here wanting to find somebody find a connection in the past i'm notorious for running
00:43:28away from something when it gets serious and i want a real relationship that's not something
00:43:33you know i've had in a while oh i like this this is so pretty it is it's gorgeous all
00:43:38right we gotta walk
00:43:38stop in the middle and look down i want to find love everybody in my family is married everybody
00:43:51has a partner um two years ago my mom was diagnosed with cancer
00:44:01we recently just lost her and just watching my dad like be there for her
00:44:06and just how much he loved her it just made me realize like i'm alone and it's time for me
00:44:11to find
00:44:12my person i wish i had like a penny or something to make a wish in here
00:44:23i wish that vanessa likes me there we go yeah initially i connected with chris but it wasn't
00:44:31something that was like really meaningful and not gonna settle honestly i feel like logan is
00:44:38really a gentleman like i could see some potential here it's so cute yeah it's nice vanessa and i had
00:44:44a really good conversation and i'm excited to continue to get to know her more i feel like we have
00:44:49a
00:44:49connection there's no question about it i've been meaning to ask where you're from because your eyes
00:45:08are just so exotic uh incredible looking honestly i'm from bakersfield california i mean there's just
00:45:13something like i said when they asked me like what's your type and i said eyes so many times me
00:45:17too yeah me and vanessa had a connection but that ended very quickly so leah with her beautiful smile
00:45:24just walked up to me and she's somebody that i've been wanting to get to know from the beginning but
00:45:30we
00:45:30didn't have really any time to have a serious conversation where do you live i live in miami
00:45:36you're in my name too yeah yeah yeah well i mean my background is lebanese my mom and my mom
00:45:41was born
00:45:41haiti actually i'm ready for something exciting and something i haven't had yet which is love
00:45:48i want the right person who wants me and chooses me because it sucks not finding somebody
00:45:55like when i first had the first like go around first of all it was disappointing we didn't get
00:45:59to talk i know because i was like and i was like oh well there he goes and i was
00:46:03like one day
00:46:04but here we are so that's cool chris is the guy that i would want to approach me and i'm
00:46:10like
00:46:10really surprised and happy that i finally connecting with someone so i'm super hopeful
00:46:15that i'm oof let's pray let's pray that he's ready because i am
00:46:34how have you been i've been good i think i've just
00:46:39obviously like our last conversation i told you that i had another connection here
00:46:43mm-hmm and i was just like needing clarity and yesterday i went on a date with him and you
00:46:50not
00:46:50being there just made me realize how much i like you i think for the remainder of this process like
00:46:56i just want to continue this with you god hey are we onto something i don't know but are you
00:47:07my ride
00:47:07that i i want to be i'm really clear on banal i think that she and i have an insane
00:47:15connection
00:47:16it's difficult to actually find someone you really connect with but i feel somewhat anxious to tell
00:47:23it my age because i've experienced in the past where the age came up and she was like oh no
00:47:29i i can't
00:47:30date that's like dating someone that's close to my dad's age so i hope she'll be accepting of it
00:47:36i really do so what do you say so if you want to pursue it then i mean i do
00:47:41i do too all right there
00:47:46Jorge just makes me feel seen like he accepts me for who i am and i love him
00:47:57i love the person he is for who he is
00:48:06honestly like dating him like i could tell he is older than me
00:48:09um i would think that he's probably like in his 40s but my dad told me that he doesn't want
00:48:18me to
00:48:18get married to anyone 10 years older than me so the 40s need to be pushing it
00:48:22i'm ready to show you my cards and chase all the stars that we see
00:48:42this definitely is a big day for me i want to take jorge to the promise room because
00:48:50i see a future with him i can't put into words like the chemistry we have it's just a feeling
00:49:06jorge makes me excited he makes me happy he's just a man like a man i just looked like
00:49:15i was gonna say that i'm sorry i really like i really like being around him that's the second
00:49:21time i've done that oh my gosh okay stop
00:49:27i'm nervous about learning his age i don't know if i could move forward with him in these over late
00:49:3240s
00:49:35that's just a huge age gap huge um and my family would freak out
00:49:45i am a little bit nervous because well actually i have some things on my heart i want to talk
00:49:52to
00:49:52jorge about i would potentially have to walk away from really wanting to be with jorge if our
00:49:58conversation doesn't go well i am preparing myself for the worst a little bit because i just don't
00:50:07know how he would react it would be literally heartbreaking to walk away from jorge
00:50:15oh my god i really like him we made him wee a little more than kids
00:50:25vanilla is truly a genuine interesting intriguing woman who i'm enamored with
00:50:32a quiet world and you'd have me believe it's like been so many different things in a brief
00:50:41amount of time that i've been attracted to i want to find out more i want to continue down that
00:50:47road
00:50:47i haven't felt connected to a woman in quite some time and i'll be damned if i lose control
00:50:54it would suck if vanell was affected by my age because that would be the end of the connection
00:50:59right so it would suck that we can't pursue it further and find out more and see if this is
00:51:04really what we both believe it is i'm a little bit nervous with that
00:51:12but ultimately if it bothers her then it wasn't meant to be right it's the way it goes
00:51:21what will be will be that's never made much sense to me and i'll be damned if i lose control
00:51:34how are you i'm nervous don't be come here
00:51:47so coming into this experience
00:51:51i wanted to find a genuine connection
00:51:56and coming to this i wanted to find a potential husband and since meeting you
00:52:07i feel like i found that i didn't think that i would find a connection this deep with you
00:52:16with you i feel safe i feel cared for i feel protected i feel respected and i like that you
00:52:26are yourself
00:52:28with whoever you're interacting with
00:52:36you're doing good yeah um coming to this experience i was hopeful but still like nah
00:52:43santa claus not gonna happen you know but hopefully that i could find you know the woman that i wanted
00:52:49to be in my life you know and that means a lot to me and that's it's not easy as
00:52:53you know it's not easy at
00:52:55all it works well with us because your quiet confidence and energy cool me out because i'm on
00:53:0110. you know that you've seen how i am and so i need that i really need that and want
00:53:07that in my life
00:53:08it is what it is you know when you know yeah you know thank you for that but i do
00:53:12have something on
00:53:13my heart that i have been wanting to tell you okay
00:53:20um so you know faith is really important to me and honoring god in every way i can is really
00:53:26important
00:53:26to me
00:53:31one of the ways i have made a promise to god is to honor god with my celibacy i've been
00:53:38celibate for
00:53:39almost two years now and i didn't make a promise to wait till marriage and i think in my past
00:53:45relationships when it came to my faith i've been very wavering with that and i'm at a point in my
00:53:51life where i'm no longer doing that so i need someone that understands how important that is to
00:53:58me and that wants to walk on that journey with me
00:54:04so i just need to know like what you think about that
00:54:14well first off i'm not i see you're getting nervous about it yeah and there's no need to be
00:54:19nervous about it because if that's what you're feeling and if that's what is important to you
00:54:24you don't have to be nervous you can say it with your chest you can say it with like you
00:54:27mean it
00:54:27because that's what you mean right um is that something that i've done or is that something that
00:54:33i've actually actively practiced no i haven't is it something that i would respect with you of course
00:54:38i'll respect it with you um i'm not gonna back off of you now after we've gotten to this place
00:54:45because you say that that's not that doesn't scare me you know it doesn't make me i'm i'm a grown
00:54:50ass
00:54:50man you know what i'm saying come on i'm not afraid of that no it's okay no that makes that
00:54:57makes me
00:54:57really happy i think also something else i wanted to talk about is like i don't know if you
00:55:07have kids if you want kids like you want to know if i want kids yes but i'm not gonna
00:55:14have kids outside
00:55:15of a marriage that's not gonna happen that's not gonna happen so if i'm gonna have a child with
00:55:21someone we have to be in a marriage that's not gonna break up i'm not willing to have no baby
00:55:26mamas
00:55:26no i'm not having that so that's not gonna happen but to answer your question yes i wouldn't mind
00:55:31having kids if you're my wife well then that's what we're talking about so yes the answer is yes
00:55:38any more questions get them out no that's that's all i pretty much have you sure i'm excited too
00:55:48now's the time i don't know i'm just really happy that i found you in this experience like really like
00:55:56i feel like if i'm being really honest like maybe i was meant to come here to meet someone like
00:56:02you like you have really made this experience just so amazing for me um thank you are you not
00:56:12nervous anymore no you calm me down so fast that's what it's supposed to be yeah so now we're here
00:56:19in
00:56:19this promise room we're here in this promise room and you need to know my age
00:56:27but hold up so are we making that commitment
00:56:33i choose to yes you choose to i choose to as well so i'm gonna put it on first because
00:56:39i think i think
00:56:40that's the is the one that i have waited all my life for okay
00:56:48does anything about you finding out my age scare you i guess you're gonna tell me now yes i am
00:56:56mm-hmm i'm 27. what you're 27. uh man whoo okay yeah i'm you know it's a this is the
00:57:12way god's
00:57:13testing my words like okay it's not nothing but a number okay it doesn't bank me back off of you
00:57:17okay
00:57:18so you ready for mine because i don't know if you're ready for this i am i really don't know
00:57:24if you're ready for this one you ready
00:57:29in 60.
00:57:36i'm too far gone
00:57:40there's no way back
00:57:43i'm caught in the ecstasy
00:57:45and
00:57:47i'm
00:57:56i'm
00:58:01i'm
00:58:02i'm
00:58:03i'm
00:58:13i'm
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