- 7 hours ago
- #90
- #video
- #trending
- #viral
- #dailymotionlove
#90 Day The Single Life - S05E11 #video #trending #viral #dailymotionlove
Category
📺
TVTranscript
00:01Previously on The Single Life,
00:03we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah.
00:06We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do.
00:07And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute.
00:11This legit might be my person.
00:14We got to do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money
00:19to go over to another country to have my heart broken again?
00:26We are in Hollywood.
00:27Oh, my God, look who's here.
00:29Yeah.
00:30I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm going to meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
00:36I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40Yeah.
00:41I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's going to be any chance for our relationship
00:46to work, I'm going to have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
00:59you could work this out.
01:00I'm not going to be one of his options in his love triangle.
01:04It's like, you had me, and you lost me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
01:10but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done, like...
01:20Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:22Are you serious?
01:23You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a freaking dance class,
01:28we might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
01:32I'm just, like, really done with this .
01:48Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:50How are you feeling this morning?
01:52I'm feeling good.
01:53I'm feeling good, too.
01:55That was one wild, crazy night.
02:06That was pure madness.
02:08How'd you like your lap dance?
02:10Ah, the lap dance was amazing.
02:12Good, I'm glad.
02:14Last night, Natalie took me to a strip club in LA,
02:17and we had an amazing, terrific time.
02:21Both of us were, like, hot and sweaty by the time it was done,
02:24and we were horny and excited to, like, have some real fun.
02:28I unleashed the beast last night.
02:31You were a wild and crazy man.
02:33The sex was so much better than the first time.
02:36Seeing this freaky side of Natalie took all my anxiety away.
02:41I had no problem throwing my hat off and getting down.
02:46So, yeah.
02:49So, what are we gonna do today?
02:51Plan for the day is to meet my family.
02:53Do you know where we're going or anything?
02:55It's a surprise.
02:56But we need to get going because the reservation's coming up soon.
02:59Okay, let's hit the road.
03:01Today, Gino and I are meeting up with my daughter, Bella,
03:04and my brother, Nick.
03:06Do we have a car picking us up?
03:08We're walking.
03:09Are we walking?
03:10We're walking.
03:11Oh, my goodness gracious.
03:12Bella is skeptical about Gino because what's happened in the past,
03:16but I'm hoping everybody can have fun,
03:19just let their guard down,
03:21because my feelings for Gino are only getting stronger,
03:24and I really need for everybody in my family,
03:27especially Bella, to be on board.
03:30Nick!
03:31Nick!
03:32Oh, hi.
03:33Hey.
03:33How you doing?
03:34How are you?
03:36I'm doing good.
03:37Oh, nice to meet you.
03:38This is Gino.
03:39How are you doing?
03:39Nice meeting you, finally.
03:41Nice meeting you, too.
03:42This is my twin brother.
03:43Twin brother.
03:44Yeah.
03:44Yeah.
03:45She's a pretty twin.
03:46Yeah.
03:48No, I think you're the pretty twin.
03:50I can see the resemblance.
03:52The first time Natalie dating Gino, everything went to crap.
03:56Everything was a nightmare.
03:58She was calling me, crying all the time,
04:00and, I mean, he broke her heart.
04:02So, when Natalie told me she was dating Gino again,
04:05I thought she was crazy.
04:06This is going to be a whole huge drama mess,
04:09like every other relationship she's been through.
04:12We're going to see some entertainment.
04:14Have you ever seen a drag show before?
04:16Drag show?
04:17I haven't...
04:17I've heard of them, but I've never seen one.
04:20You're in our tree.
04:21Oh, yeah.
04:21Is Bella there already?
04:22Have you talked to her?
04:23I haven't seen Isabella since yesterday.
04:25You haven't talked to her?
04:27Not since yesterday.
04:29I'm just going to text her real quick.
04:34Yesterday, when Bella dropped her mom off at the hotel,
04:37she was really cold to me and had an attitude.
04:41I can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me.
04:46OK.
04:47I texted.
04:48All right.
04:49So we're good to go?
04:50Yeah, let's go.
04:51We're going to miss the show.
04:53OK.
04:53Stop worrying.
04:54I'm not.
04:55Yeah, don't worry about anything.
04:56It's not good for that pretty face.
04:57Stop.
05:01I'm the girl you see on the street.
05:03Drove love boy down to my feet.
05:05I like when you're under me.
05:07What?
05:10How's everybody doing today?
05:13Are you all ready to get started?
05:15Yeah!
05:17Ladies and girl, welcome to the stage, Penny Ridge Rapper!
05:25I have never been to a drag queen show before.
05:28Being here in person is freaking amazing.
05:39And they're putting their in my face.
05:48This is what I love about Natalie.
05:50She brings me out of my shell or even out of my comfort zone.
05:54And she can do that to me.
06:04Yeah!
06:05You all had a good time at this today?
06:07Yeah!
06:07Oh, yeah!
06:09Happy birthday, everybody.
06:10I'm sure.
06:14After the show, it really clears out, doesn't it?
06:17Yeah.
06:17Man, I wish Bella was here.
06:19She's not responding to me.
06:21Really?
06:22That's weird.
06:24She's not coming.
06:26She texted you?
06:27Yeah.
06:31Bella arranged the whole thing to come here.
06:34And at the last minute, something just went off.
06:36She just doesn't like Gino.
06:38She doesn't trust him.
06:40All she wants to make sure is her mom is happy.
06:42And she doesn't think Gino is that person.
06:46I'm sad myself because I wanted to get to know her a little bit.
06:49It seems like she doesn't want to meet you.
06:51You think so?
06:53She's told me she does not like him.
06:55And that's the reason why she did not come.
06:57I mean, you're still married.
06:59Your ex attacks Natalie.
07:00That's ridiculous.
07:02But we came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it.
07:07But she hasn't gone past it.
07:09That's the problem.
07:10We don't have to deal with Jasmine anymore.
07:12So take Jasmine out of the equation and everything has been progressing really good.
07:17Like, we are having fun together.
07:18So have you filed for divorce?
07:22Um...
07:28Bella has a lot of anger towards me.
07:31And Nick, he's kind of questioning if I'm the right person for her as well.
07:37So everything I did to rebuild my relationship with Natalie is falling apart.
07:43I mean, I don't blame Isabella.
07:45You're still married to another woman.
07:47And she doesn't want to see her mother hurt.
07:50I get it.
07:51She wants to look out for me.
07:53And I love her and I appreciate that.
07:55But I still would like her to give him a chance.
07:59You're just going to have to show her it's not like the other relationships that you had in the past.
08:06She comes first.
08:07She comes first.
08:09Bella has never seen me happy with a man in my entire life.
08:13They are toxic.
08:15They're liars.
08:15They're not honest.
08:17I had an ex that was a serial cheater.
08:20And I knew it.
08:22So when it comes to Gino, Bella has her guard up.
08:25I think she is very protective and very leery of his intentions.
08:32You're going to have to win her over.
08:34She's the hard one to win over.
08:35Yeah.
08:36And don't piss her off.
08:37You don't mess hundreds million miles away on it.
08:38I 당연 sü.
08:41I'm trying to find out what it is that makes it always feel like this.
08:46I'm so tired...
08:48Six, seven.
08:49Walk her through.
08:50We go one, two.
08:52We go forward.
08:53Tap.
08:54What the ?
08:55I just don't freakin' get it.
09:11I asked you if you want to dance, and you said no.
09:14So then I told you I'm going to dance with somebody else,
09:16and I did, and then you interrupted me
09:17in the middle of the dance.
09:18So, like, I wanted you to have fun,
09:20and I wanted you to come into my world.
09:22I was having fun.
09:23I was.
09:23I enjoyed the dancing.
09:24I was having fun.
09:25So what's the problem, then?
09:27I mean, we just talked about coming to his class,
09:30learning how to dance, and social was out of nowhere.
09:34And all of a sudden, we talk about that,
09:36and then you storm off, find some Vin Diesel guy,
09:38or actually a guy who looks just like your ex,
09:40and you're just having a good time.
09:42Are you kidding me?
09:43So here's the thing.
09:44You're going to Ibiza in a couple weeks.
09:46There's going to be many socials in Ibiza, too.
09:48And there's going to be many socials in Croatia, as well.
09:50So you think I'm going to go cheat on you
09:52with a guy in Ibiza?
09:53What I'm trying to say is, like,
09:54if you're going to dance with random guys,
09:55what's going to happen?
09:58And they want to have a good time.
10:00They want to have a good time.
10:01So because they want to have a good time,
10:03I need to be punished.
10:04And I'm going to be.
10:05Punished?
10:05And I'm going to be.
10:06Yeah.
10:06So you're trying to accuse me of something
10:08that I haven't even done yet.
10:09So you have freedom of reigns to do whatever you want
10:11and dance with whatever you want.
10:11I just don't understand, Tony.
10:13Because it's like a vacation.
10:14Listen, I danced with a guy after a dance class,
10:16after you said that you don't want to dance.
10:17And now you're accusing me of dancing with random guys
10:20in Ibiza and, like, potentially cheating on you.
10:23You just said you would.
10:23Well, like, you're literally putting words in my mouth.
10:27I never said that.
10:31He knew I was a dancer when we started dating.
10:34He knew I was a dancer when we were friends.
10:38I feel like at this point in our relationship,
10:39he should trust me.
10:40He should know who I am.
10:42He should know what I stand for.
10:43He should know that I would not do anything to disrespect him
10:46or put our relationship in jeopardy.
10:49Tony is projecting his own insecurity on me.
10:53And I'm really hurt by that.
10:54I don't think I deserve it.
10:57You don't see a problem here at all.
10:59You're not even looking at it from my perspective at all.
11:01What is the freaking problem?
11:02I think the problem is actually us.
11:05Because you look at it as, hey, this is my everyday life.
11:07This is what I've been doing for years.
11:08This is my passion.
11:09I see it as this is not appropriate for a new relationship.
11:12That's the problem.
11:13So you're stopping me from being who I am
11:15because I'm in a relationship with you.
11:17No, I think there's compromise.
11:18There's compromise.
11:19We're not having it.
11:20We're not having a compromise.
11:21This is unbelievable, Tony.
11:22No, it's not.
11:23It's not.
11:24It's compromise.
11:25You ruined everything.
11:26So I hope you're happy.
11:28I need to go find my freaking phone.
11:30I'm taking an Uber home, and this is it.
11:31I'm done with this .
11:36She's been single for a very long time.
11:38She still does things her own way.
11:40I'm concerned that sometimes Vanya may not look at the big picture
11:44of when you're in a relationship, it's about compromise.
11:46And to me, dance is very sensual.
11:48Dance has a lot of feelings attached.
11:51And, you know, it's very easy to fall in love with your dance partner.
11:54You just gonna storm off again?
11:56No, I just, I'm done, Tony.
11:57I'm calling an Uber, and I'm going home.
11:59And I brought up concerns about her traveling and dancing with other guys in other clubs.
12:03And she completely said, hey, that's my prerogative is to have fun.
12:07Hey, by the way, Tony, just trust me when I can't even trust her when I'm watching her and with
12:12her.
12:13So that's it?
12:13That's it.
12:14She's gonna storm out again?
12:15Yeah.
12:16Really?
12:17Yeah, I...
12:17There's no compromise.
12:18There's no resolution to anything now, is there?
12:20What compromise is there?
12:21Really?
12:22You're accusing me of being somebody who has nefarious intentions in mind.
12:26And I don't.
12:26You said you can do whatever you want.
12:27You said I can have fun, I can dance with whoever, and that's...
12:30What's...
12:31What do you want me to do?
12:32Then just stay in my hotel room the whole time I'm there?
12:35Maybe you should enjoy.
12:36Enjoy an visa.
12:37You know?
12:39We'll see how it works out when you get back then.
12:42What?
12:42Is...
12:42What?
12:43Now you're threatening me.
12:44What?
12:48You obviously don't trust me, and I'm going home.
13:02Seriously.
13:06This guy is acting like a complete control freak.
13:10Trying to tell me how to live my life.
13:12It is unacceptable.
13:13I'm a grown woman.
13:14I can make my own decisions.
13:16I'm not going to be told what I can and cannot do.
13:18Will you go watch me?
13:23I'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them.
13:26I mean, what else do you think is going to happen here?
13:30This is really making me worried about our relationship going forward, because if this is how Tony is acting when
13:36we're together, I cannot even imagine what he's going to be like once we're apart for two weeks.
13:41It's really scaring me.
13:57Mama didn't raise no fool.
13:59She let me walk in my own shoes
14:01So double down and let me lose
14:03There ain't no mountain I can't move
14:16Now what do we need these for?
14:18What do you want? Avocado?
14:20We're on a diet
14:20Okay, put them up
14:22We're gonna put them back
14:23Huh?
14:24We're on a diet
14:25Yeah
14:37We're gonna get a cabbage
14:39We're gonna make some cabbage rolls
14:42So I talked to Colt
14:43Oh my gosh
14:44Where is he at now?
14:46He's in Brazil
14:47He went to Brazil?
14:49Yeah, to see the other woman, yeah
14:52For the last month
14:53I haven't been in touch with Colt
14:55Because I needed a break
14:56From that dumpster fire of a relationship
14:59But he called me out of the blue this morning
15:01From Brazil
15:03Did he go back to Canada when
15:05No, I guess he went straight from Florida
15:08To Brazil
15:09Oh my gosh
15:10Seriously?
15:12Yeah
15:12I thought Colt went to Canada
15:15To live with his mom
15:16I found out the whole time
15:18He's been in Brazil
15:19With Diana
15:19The woman he's been sending videos to
15:23Okay
15:24They're saying the ligaments
15:25In his knee need to be replaced
15:27So he has to have another surgery
15:29But he said he's found a doctor here
15:32That will accept the insurance
15:33And stuff
15:34Here?
15:34Yeah, in Orlando
15:35So I guess he's coming back
15:36He's not staying with us
15:38He's not staying at our place
15:39No
15:39No
15:40Oh, okay
15:42Oh my gosh
15:43One thing we've learned
15:45From this experience
15:46Is there's no stranger
15:48Is going to stay at our house again
15:49Ever
15:50It's not going to happen
15:51It's not going to happen
15:52Is he still in the wheelchair?
15:54Yeah
15:55Well, I guess the doorways are small there
15:57So he's been using crutches
15:58Because the wheelchair and walker are too big
16:00How's he going to get around?
16:02Yeah
16:02He can't drive
16:03No, I said I'd go pick him up
16:05And like help him get situated in the hotel
16:09Picking up Colt from the airport
16:10Is going to be torture
16:12You know, we had a really strong connection
16:14There's still some type of bond
16:17Which is maybe really dumb
16:19But I feel responsible for him
16:21Does he want to try to get back with you?
16:23I don't know what he wants
16:25Don't let it happen
16:29He's not going to be faithful
16:31Yeah
16:31Yeah
16:32No, I think he's going to lie
16:34And keep lying and lying
16:35Right, right
16:35I don't trust him
16:36So it's like
16:37How can I be with somebody I don't trust?
16:39When you keep lying about stuff
16:44You're not sincere
16:45Yeah
16:46I don't see any sincerity at all to this
16:48No respect
16:49I mean
16:50Leave our daughter alone
16:52I mean
16:53Bottom line
16:55Well, if it was me
16:58I would be over with it
16:59But
17:01It's you
17:02I think you're strong enough
17:04But when he
17:05Casts that fishing line
17:06And reels you back in
17:08And you know he's going to try
17:10You don't revolve your life around him
17:13No
17:13No
17:14Because he could care less about you
17:15I know
17:16He's just using you once again
17:18I feel he can't use me
17:20Because I'm offering help
17:21I'm offering to do this for him
17:22I want to do this for him
17:24So it's like
17:24He's not using me
17:25It's like
17:25He's not playing me
17:26He's playing himself
17:27But then how far are you going to take this?
17:30Yeah
17:30I just want to
17:31You know
17:32Get him from the airport to the hotel
17:33Right
17:34Okay
17:35Set boundaries
17:36Like all the crying and stuff I've been doing
17:38I think it's just like
17:39Feeling sorry for him
17:40Like he might be permanently disabled
17:42So I cry more about his leg
17:44Than about him dating other women
17:47I know my parents are worried about Colt breaking my heart again
17:51They see that he still affects me
17:54And like the truth is
17:56I don't know what I'm going to feel when I see him
17:59We had such a deep intense connection
18:02And you can't just turn that off
18:04I feel like Colt has some type of crazy power over me
18:08And I don't really trust myself with him
18:10Life is way too short to be putting up with that
18:13Fill your life with happy things
18:16I will
18:17You want the donuts?
18:19No
18:20No, I think I need the wine
18:23The wine
18:32Yay, stockings
18:33Here, you can hang your own stocking up, son
18:37All right, boom
18:41Okay, there we go
18:42Look at that
18:43Look at that
18:44Ooh, I have stuff in here
18:45You already have stuff in your stocking
18:47Is it candy?
18:48Oh, yeah
18:48I gotta get one
18:50Okay
18:53It's been in there since last year
18:56I've been naughty
18:57I've been nice
18:59Santa's daddy reads everything I like
19:01Milk and cookies
19:02Wanna bite
19:03Give me little
19:04I want a single pillow knife
19:07Here we go
19:09Grand Illumina
19:10Whoa
19:12It actually looks pretty good
19:13Do you remember this monkey?
19:15Grandma bought this for you
19:16So I'll let you hang that
19:18Just hang it
19:19Yeah, it's cute, huh?
19:22Christmas is in a few weeks
19:23And I'm really, really excited
19:25Because it's my favorite holiday
19:27Everything's all sparkly
19:28Everybody's just nice
19:29And it brings back so many happy memories
19:32Of my mom and my sister
19:33And previous holidays
19:34When I do stuff like this
19:36It reminds me of grandma
19:37Because this was like our thing
19:38And my grandma
19:39It was like our thing
19:39Was to like decorate
19:40You know?
19:41So it's going to be our thing now?
19:42I think so
19:43And I think we should include Larry in this as well
19:45Because he doesn't know any of our stuff
19:46He doesn't know anything
19:47You want to call him?
19:48Yeah
19:50Christmas is all about family
19:52And this Christmas is even more special
19:55Because my family just got bigger
19:57My relationship with my son
19:59That I placed for adoption
20:00Is just getting better and better
20:02We video chat all the time
20:04And it's really become
20:05A special part of my life
20:07Hey!
20:09What's up, y'all?
20:10What's up?
20:11How are you?
20:12I'm doing good, man
20:13It looks like y'all
20:14In the Christmas spirit
20:15Yeah
20:16I'm really excited to talk to him today
20:18And show him my Christmas decorations
20:19But I also have some news to share
20:22With both him and Jamal
20:23So we thought we would call you
20:25And get you in the Christmas spirit with us
20:27Yeah, for sure
20:28So Jamal's going to carry you around
20:30Let's go for a tour
20:31All right, look
20:32So this is my little tree
20:34I like bling
20:35You know I'm all about the glitter
20:36I love the sequins and stuff
20:37So this is
20:38Instead of doing a star
20:39I do a top hat
20:40Isn't it cute?
20:41Isn't it cute?
20:42Yeah, I know
20:43I don't know about that
20:44It's so cute
20:45And then I do stockings
20:47Am I going to get a stocking?
20:50Yes, you're going to get a stocking
20:52Of course you are
20:53There was never a holiday
20:56A birthday
20:57Or any other day
20:59In 35 years
21:00That I did not think about Larry
21:02Or my daughter
21:03I always wondered
21:04Like what kind of life they had
21:06How they celebrated their birthdays
21:09How they celebrated their holidays
21:11That's my hair
21:13A little flat
21:16I'm so grateful
21:17To Larry
21:18That he gave me the chance
21:20To make up for lost time
21:22I'm really glad
21:23That you can enjoy
21:24Some of this with us
21:25Yeah, for sure
21:26So yeah
21:27And I'm glad
21:28That we have communication
21:28Especially now
21:29I think the communication
21:30Is a lot better
21:31Now that I've been
21:32I agree
21:33I'm free
21:33So speaking of that
21:35I told you guys
21:36About the guy
21:37That I've been talking to
21:38In England
21:40And I'm going
21:41He invited me to come
21:42So I'm going to go
21:43And meet him
21:44I mean
21:46Everybody deserves a chance
21:47At love
21:47So I don't see
21:49Why you wouldn't take it
21:50Just don't get your hopes up
21:51No
21:52You know what I'm saying
21:52A little bit
21:53Don't get your hopes too high
21:54Just a little bit of hope
21:55No
21:55Let's just stay neutral
21:56I mean
21:57Just go over there
21:57With an open mind
21:58I like him
22:00But I'm not
22:01I'm not doing
22:01What I did with Usman
22:02It's a totally different thing
22:04I've learned from my mistakes
22:07Don't look so skeptical
22:09No, I am
22:10I can't help but
22:11Naturally be concerned
22:13When you take these trips
22:14For men
22:14That you haven't met
22:15You're going to fly by yourself
22:16You're going to be there
22:17By yourself
22:18I remember
22:19Even when you go to
22:19Nigeria by yourself
22:20You would call me
22:21And be like
22:22I wish you were here
22:23Why don't you go with me
22:24What are you doing
22:25No
22:25Why?
22:27Is that not too much?
22:28Why don't you go
22:28You don't have to meet him
22:29Like the first day
22:30But you should
22:30Maybe you should go with me
22:32Go Jamal
22:32You need to go
22:34Yeah, you should go
22:35You should definitely go
22:36I do wish I would have
22:37Went to Nigeria sooner
22:38Me too
22:39Because maybe I could have
22:40Helped in that one faster
22:42The men you've met
22:43They're so nice to you
22:44In the beginning
22:44And they trap you
22:46Because you get stuck
22:47And you fall fast
22:48So luckily when I'm there
22:50Maybe I'm able to talk to her
22:51And be like
22:52Just remember to not
22:53Give too much
22:54In the beginning
22:55Because you do that
22:55All the time
22:57Yeah
22:58In the past
22:59Once my mom
23:00Really starts to like a guy
23:01She starts believing
23:02Whatever they say
23:04So I really do hope
23:05Wayne is this nice guy
23:07That he's been telling her
23:08That he is
23:09Because my mom's heart
23:11Cannot take much more
23:12I feel like now
23:13Everybody's in place
23:14And I'm working on myself
23:15It's time for me to go
23:17And find love
23:17Well I think you've had
23:19A lot off your shoulders
23:20Yeah
23:20So it's helped
23:22Like telling you about your sister
23:23And everything
23:24Telling me about him
23:25Then telling him about her
23:27Yeah
23:27Speaking of
23:29Sister
23:29I reached out to the adoption agency
23:31Like we all agreed upon
23:32To try to find her
23:33Well they sent me a letter
23:36Her adopted mom
23:37Had wrote me a letter
23:38So I have the letter
23:40It's like 10 pages long
23:41And I was waiting
23:42For an opportunity
23:42To just kind of bring it out
23:44I want to see it
23:45All right
23:46When the adoption agency
23:47Told me they had a letter
23:49About my daughter
23:50From when she was 6 years old
23:52I was stunned
23:53This was dated
23:54November 26, 98
23:59Okay
23:59It says
24:00To the birth mother
24:01Of our beloved daughter R
24:04She came home with us
24:05In January of 93
24:07She was then
24:08And has continued to this day
24:09To be a healthy
24:10And happy child
24:14I can't read this
24:15Yeah
24:16I want to stop
24:17This is crazy
24:35I haven't seen Tony
24:36Since our dance class
24:37A few nights ago
24:39And obviously
24:40Things ended on
24:41A really bad note
24:42I'm really nervous
24:44It's not an easy thing
24:45To like have that
24:47Huge blow up
24:48And then off I go
24:49For half a month
24:50Tony is coming over
25:08To take me to the airport
25:09And it's awful
25:11Because I'm leaving
25:12For a two and a half week
25:13Vacation to Europe
25:15This is not how
25:16I wanted to leave
25:17Things between us
25:21Hi
25:22Hey
25:29I made us
25:30A little snack
25:31So have a seat
25:32I'll go grab it
25:35Having seen Tony
25:37And his reaction
25:38During the dance class
25:39It has me worried
25:41That this kind of
25:42Jealousy and control
25:43Is only going to get
25:44Amplified while I'm gone
25:46And it could be
25:47The end of us
25:52So how are you feeling?
25:55I mean
25:57I know you're leaving soon
25:59So I thought we at least
26:00Talk about
26:01You know
26:02What's going on
26:03And I just don't want
26:05This tension anymore
26:08So what's
26:09What's on your mind?
26:11I do trust you
26:12But the words escalated
26:14The emotions escalated
26:15And all of a sudden
26:16You left
26:17And I'm like
26:17Well
26:18Are we really
26:19Just throwing it away?
26:22Yeah
26:23I agree
26:24That wasn't
26:25The best thing to do
26:26I shouldn't have
26:27Done what I did
26:29Like stormed out
26:30But I
26:30You know
26:31I was
26:32I was very upset
26:34But at the end of the day
26:35You mean the world to me
26:37And I want to make sure
26:39That when I'm away
26:40That you feel comfortable
26:41That you're not
26:42You know
26:43Thinking
26:43What am I doing?
26:44What's going on?
26:45Am I putting
26:46Our relationship in jeopardy?
26:48Because I would never
26:49Do anything like that
26:53Thank you
26:54I mean that means a lot to me
26:56I'm not trying to say
26:57Hey listen
26:58It's either you dance
26:59Or it's me
26:59I just really want to make sure
27:01That we're on the same page
27:03Going forward
27:03And you know
27:04This upcoming trip
27:05I just don't want it to be about
27:07Us not talking
27:08A lack of communication
27:09Or if there's tension
27:11I just don't want it to just linger
27:12I agree
27:14We're not going to go
27:15Sleep angry
27:17We're not going to let
27:18The day end with us
27:19Not having a resolution
27:20Okay
27:21I like that
27:23Okay I'm just going to put this
27:24In the kitchen
27:25And then
27:26We can skedaddle
27:29We both took responsibility
27:31For what we did wrong
27:32And feeling a little bit more secure
27:34Vanya I'm going to help
27:35Grab your luggage okay
27:36Okay thank you
27:37Alright
27:38But at the same time
27:40Our relationship is
27:41Just starting to take
27:42The next step
27:43We even started saying
27:44I love you to each other
27:45And now I'm leaving immediately
27:47For two and a half weeks
27:48I mean this gives us
27:50No time together
27:51To hug and kiss
27:52And just be good
27:57Sucks
28:09Baby
28:10I'm going to miss you so much
28:12Oh my god
28:13I can't believe we're here
28:14Already
28:18We're going to try
28:20As much as possible
28:21Just keep in touch
28:22Right
28:26Welcome baby
28:27Welcome baby
28:32Next trip is going to be
28:33A together trip
28:34Absolutely
28:35Okay
28:35Okay
28:36I miss you already
28:37I miss you too baby
28:38All right
28:40Bye
28:40Bye
28:41Bye man
28:44I feel like our relationship
28:46Is so new
28:46That there is worry
28:49The last few weeks
28:50We've had a great foundation
28:51And I really hope
28:52This trip is not going to test it
28:54To the point where
28:55She's going to realize
28:56That the single life
28:56Is better for her
28:58I would be in shambles
28:59If I lost Vanya
29:00It would break me apart
29:03There are so many variables
29:05That could go wrong
29:06On this trip
29:07And I hope
29:08We can get through it
29:09But I would be lying
29:10If I said I wasn't concerned
29:13Because if he has another meltdown
29:14While I'm away
29:16I don't think our relationship
29:17Can survive
29:36To the birth mother
29:38Of our beloved daughter R
29:42I can't read this
29:44This is crazy
29:55This letter was not delivered to me
29:57Almost 30 years ago
29:58Because I moved around a lot
29:59I was in the military
30:01So I just never received it
30:03It's very emotional for me
30:05Because it's like me
30:06Getting to know her
30:07It means so much
30:09To get a glimpse
30:10Into what her life
30:11Was like growing up
30:13I got it
30:15Her developmental skills
30:17Progress normally
30:18Except in one area
30:19Where she proved
30:20Exceptionally gifted
30:21She's very verbal
30:23I guess she talks
30:24Like her mama, right?
30:26R's vocabulary
30:27Is tremendous
30:28Her thoughts and desires
30:30At a level
30:30Beyond her six years
30:31We hope to keep her
30:33In private school
30:34As long as we can afford it
30:36R's favorite food
30:37Is pasta, pasta, pasta
30:39That's her Italian side
30:40She is also
30:41A great vegetable eater
30:42We have a large vegetable garden
30:44She loves to go out
30:45And pick vegetables for dinner
30:47She had a pretty nice life
30:49Wait a minute
30:51I think reading this letter
30:53And finding out
30:54These things about her
30:55Like now we know
30:56Her name starts with an R
30:57We know she had a vegetable garden
30:59We know she went
31:00To private school
31:05Sorry
31:09And it's like a bittersweet feeling
31:11Right?
31:11Like
31:12It makes her more real to me
31:14And it just makes me so happy
31:16To know that she was raised so well
31:20We are indeed thankful
31:21For having her in our lives
31:23And love her very much
31:24With best wishes
31:26To you and yours
31:28It's really intense
31:31I'm really glad that she's had
31:33Such a good life
31:33Like that's why I did what I did
31:36You know
31:36Because I know I couldn't provide that
31:37For you or her
31:39Like I can't say
31:40Like I regret what I've done
31:41I can't say that now
31:42I can say that
31:43The way I handled it
31:44Was up
31:45But I can't like
31:46I can't like feel bad
31:48For what I did
31:49You know?
31:51Yeah
31:51And that's what I keep
31:52Trying to tell you
31:53Since you know
31:54Day one
31:54So I'm glad you finally
31:56Kind of
31:57You know
31:58Seeing it for yourself too
31:59Yeah
32:01The decision
32:02To place my children
32:03Up for adoption
32:04Was the most
32:05Heartbreaking decisions
32:06I've ever had to make
32:07In my whole life
32:09Now
32:1234 years later
32:13I can honestly say
32:14I'm at peace
32:15I feel like
32:17I did what was best
32:19For my children
32:22And really
32:22At the end of the day
32:23That's all that matters to me
32:26All we can do now
32:27Is just wait
32:28Yeah
32:29We'll see
32:31What happens
32:31I do have a feeling
32:32We're going to find her
32:33I hope so
32:34Like I'm very positive
32:35About that
32:36I hope so
32:41I'm going to try calling her
32:44Hi
32:45Hi Bella
32:45I just wanted to know
32:47Why you didn't show up today
32:49I can't stand by
32:50And watch you embarrass yourself
32:51By associating
32:52You know
32:52With such a troll
32:53Like Gino
32:55Whoa
32:55I care about Gino
32:57But this is a lot bigger
32:58Than
32:59My daughter
33:00Not wanting to meet
33:01A guy that I'm dating
33:13You want to sit down
33:18Yeah
33:18For a moment
33:19Enjoy this beautiful fire pit
33:24Oh they got blankets
33:25This is kind of like camping or something
33:28I don't know
33:28We just don't have a tent
33:30I keep telling you
33:31Take one step for today
33:34Take two steps for tomorrow
33:37Just step back
33:39Let the vow for the lead
33:43That was rough
33:44Yeah
33:44I'm a little bit
33:46I don't know
33:47Concerned now
33:48Because
33:48Nick is saying that
33:50She doesn't like me
33:53Well she doesn't know you
33:57One of the big reasons
33:58That I came to LA
33:59Was to get to know
34:01Natalie's daughter Bella
34:02But when it was time to hang out
34:06She never showed
34:08Apparently
34:09Bella's mad at me
34:10Because Jasmine attacked Natalie
34:12Last year
34:13You definitely want to have
34:15Approval of the family members
34:17Or you know
34:18The chances of this relationship
34:20Working is not very good
34:23But I'm going to try calling her
34:30Hello
34:31Hi Bella
34:33Hi
34:34It's mom
34:35How are you
34:35I'm fine
34:37Um
34:38I just wanted to know
34:41Why you didn't show up today
34:43I just want to say
34:45What I have to say
34:45Honestly
34:46And then you can do
34:47Whatever you want
34:49I love you
34:50But I can't stand by
34:51And watch you embarrass yourself
34:53By associating
34:54You know
34:55With such a troll like Gino
34:58I don't see why
34:59You feel the need
34:59To extend any grace
35:00To him at all
35:01After how badly
35:02He disrespected you
35:03In Michigan
35:05You're a grown woman
35:06You can make your own decisions
35:07But at this point
35:07Don't expect me
35:08To support it anymore
35:10Well
35:11Uh
35:13And I just think
35:14You're just too beautiful
35:15And smart and successful
35:16To be with such a
35:17Spineless loser like him
35:19And I wish you saw that too
35:21I love you
35:22But that's
35:22Just really all
35:23I want you to hear from me
35:28Whoa
35:32She does not like me
35:39Are you okay?
35:40No
35:44I want to throw up
35:47That was a lot of nasty words
35:49That Bella was saying
35:50About me
35:51How bad of a person I am
35:53What trash I am
35:55Loser
35:55Whatever
35:57She didn't even give me a chance
35:59She didn't even show up
36:00And meet me
36:00I mean come on
36:01You
36:03Don't judge me
36:04Based on
36:04You know
36:05What you hear
36:06For one incident
36:08It's not fair
36:11After all of that
36:13You know
36:14How do you feel
36:15About me
36:16I guess
36:19My feelings
36:20For you
36:21Haven't changed
36:23However
36:24I would like
36:25Her blessing
36:29Okay so
36:30Okay
36:32So basically
36:33Our relationship
36:34Is kind of like
36:35On hold
36:36Until you get
36:37Her blessing
36:39She's my number one
36:40She's my number one priority
36:44So what happens
36:45If she doesn't change
36:47Her mind
36:47And she
36:49Doesn't give her
36:50Blessing
36:50What would happen
36:51You think
36:52Between us
36:53I need to talk to her
36:55And then
36:56As soon as I get the answer
36:57I'll talk to you
36:59Are you gonna
37:01Stay
37:02Over my place
37:03Tonight
37:03I'm gonna try to
37:04Go over to see Bella
37:06Okay
37:06It's important to me
37:07That we don't
37:09End a conversation
37:10On a negative note
37:12Okay
37:13That's fair
37:15Thank you
37:16I get it
37:18I care about Geno
37:20But this is a lot bigger
37:21Than
37:22My daughter
37:23Not wanting to meet
37:24A guy that I'm dating
37:26Alright
37:26Let's
37:28Let's go
37:28Let's go
37:31Bella doesn't trust
37:31My judgment
37:33She's never seen me
37:34In a healthy relationship
37:35Alright
37:36Well let me get packing
37:39And it makes me feel
37:40Like a failure
37:42As a parent
37:43That I was not able
37:44To show my daughter
37:45That I
37:47Am capable
37:48Of being in a good relationship
37:51And I just want to go
37:52And I want to comfort her
37:53And I want to let her know
37:54That I'm okay
37:55And safe
37:56She's my priority
37:58Okay
37:59Well I better get going
38:00Well
38:01I had a really good time
38:03Me too
38:03So
38:07The last two days
38:08Have been awesome
38:10Aww
38:10Yeah
38:11I know
38:12They have
38:12Yeah
38:13They've been awesome
38:16The hardest thing
38:17Is
38:17What if
38:18My daughter
38:19Never accepts him
38:20Where would this
38:21Relationship go
38:22And I think
38:23He knows the answer
38:26That's something
38:26I really don't want
38:27To deal with
38:27At this moment
38:31I don't want to talk
38:32About this anymore
38:34We'll have to
38:34See each other again soon
38:36Yeah
38:38Bye
38:38Take care
38:42I thought that
38:43This trip
38:44Would bring
38:44Natalie and I
38:45Closer together
38:46I could use a drink
38:48I imagine
38:49Hitting it off
38:50With Bella
38:51And then
38:52In the future
38:53Potentially becoming
38:55A father figure to her
38:57I've always wanted
38:58To be a dad
38:59So her daughter
39:00Not wanting
39:01Anything to do
39:02With me
39:03It's impacting
39:04The dreams
39:05That I had
39:06For my life
39:08And it makes me
39:09Really sad
39:10But these eyes
39:12Won't cry
39:13No fear
39:15I'll fight
39:21God
39:27Next time
39:27On the single life
39:29Let me touch it
39:31Oh wow
39:32Okay
39:34Going into this day
39:35I don't really have
39:35Any expectations
39:36He's cute
39:37His good body
39:38Seems fun
39:39Like this is literally
39:40One of the reasons
39:40I came to DR
39:41To just have fun
39:44Like
39:49Whoa
39:49Is that the queen
39:50Of England
39:50Hello peasants
39:52Hello
39:53After talking to Wayne
39:55For the past three months
39:56I am in
39:56Jolly old England
39:58To meet him in person
40:00Oh wow
40:01I'm really hopeful
40:02That by the end
40:03Of this trip
40:03I do go home
40:04In a relationship
40:06Now I have to ask you
40:07Okay
40:07Are you dating now
40:08Here
40:12Hey Natalie
40:13What's up
40:15After Natalie's daughter
40:17Disapproved of our relationship
40:18I don't know
40:20Where things stand
40:20I was hoping
40:22That at some point
40:23You would talk to Bella
40:24To see how she feels
40:25Cause I know
40:26At the time
40:27You were saying
40:28If she didn't like me
40:30That you know
40:31We wouldn't have
40:32A relationship
40:33Has that changed
40:34At all with her
40:36I mean
40:41Hey Courtney
40:44I'm going through
40:45A lot of
40:45Internal conflict
40:46Right now
40:47I still care about
40:48Colt
40:49And I still have
40:50Love for him
40:51Really it is
40:52Nice to see you
40:52But then my mind's
40:53Like this lying
40:54Cheating
40:55Manipulative
40:56Son of a bitch
40:57Did you sleep with Diana
40:59I can't say
41:00I didn't do that
41:02Well I'm glad
41:03Your d***
41:04Worked for her
41:07Here we go
41:08Ibiza bitches
41:08I'm trying to go
41:10With Sanela
41:10Listen to some music
41:12And then
41:12You send me a message
41:13And another
41:14And another
41:14You're ruining my night
41:16But on top of it
41:17I'm there with my cousin
41:18And I'm embarrassed
41:19In front of her
41:20All over again
41:20I need to understand
41:22What caused you
41:23To do what you did
41:24If Tony wants
41:25To be with me
41:26He's going to have
41:27To change
41:28Fast
Comments