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00:00I'm moving to Wisconsin.
00:02Does she know you're coming to Wisconsin?
00:05I really want us to be together, you know,
00:07and I really want to be up there.
00:08If I move my life and then Tegan says no,
00:12that's just a risk that I'm willing to take.
00:15A few days ago, me and Isaac ended up breaking up.
00:19I have a lot of guilt from what I did,
00:22so it's just a matter of if we can unscrew what I screwed up.
00:26I really don't know if I will get her back.
00:30That really scares me.
00:32Have you dated anyone yet?
00:35I have not dated anybody yet, right?
00:38I've been waiting for him to, like, you know,
00:40say he's going to start dating.
00:42It's like, yeah, it's about time.
00:46I'm here in Wisconsin.
00:48I drove over here yesterday, and she doesn't know I'm here.
00:51To me, if you don't tell her, the worst thing that can happen
00:54is she finds out, and then she thinks you're really weird.
00:57I would seriously consider talking to Tegan.
01:12Tegan knows you well in this car.
01:14Oh, yeah.
01:17Are you purposely not...
01:19That was her.
01:20No, was it?
01:21Yeah, it was.
01:23I don't think she saw me, though.
01:25She never took her eyes off the front of the road.
01:29I just can't believe how lucky I was that she didn't see me.
01:34I didn't tell Tegan that I was moving up here
01:37because I wanted to have action already behind it,
01:41which, like, a place that I've already found that I'm going to live,
01:44you know?
01:45Wait.
01:46It's getting in the game, pretty much.
01:48And then tell her after.
01:50Mom.
01:51I'm sure it looks impulsive, but I spent months thinking about it
01:58every day, and I couldn't let it go.
02:04Hello.
02:07Wanted to order a dozen roses.
02:09I want to get her roses, but I don't know if I just leave the roses
02:13with a note or, you know, if I'm there.
02:16I guess I haven't figured that out.
02:19I'll do this one.
02:23I'm just, of course, a little nervous because I haven't seen her
02:26in a few months now.
02:27I haven't talked to her in forever.
02:30I don't know what's going on in her life.
02:33I mean, anything could have happened.
02:37What did you do that she's no longer your girlfriend?
02:42Be pretty much summarized in putting her last on the list for, like, a year.
02:48At least that's how she felt.
02:50Yeah, not good.
02:54The ladies at the flower shop, they're asking me, you know, like, who I'm getting
02:57the roses for.
02:58And they're like, do you think these will get her back?
02:59I was like, no, I don't think getting a rose is going to get her back.
03:05I could see it in both their eyes.
03:07They're like, oh, God, another one.
03:10That's how it felt.
03:12I mean, if you run a flower shop, you probably see that every day.
03:16The dude's coming in screwed up and, you know, aren't going to apologize unless they
03:21have some flowers.
03:24She doesn't know I'm here, and I drove past her on the road this morning.
03:28Really?
03:28Yeah.
03:29And she had no idea?
03:30She didn't see me as far as I know.
03:32I love that.
03:34I think I'm just going to drop the flowers off with a note.
03:38I don't know.
03:38It's a little exciting because it could be the start of a new chapter, but it could also
03:42be a hard no if I don't know.
03:46I'll be rooting for you.
03:47You have to come back and let us know.
03:48I will.
03:49But either way, I'm just excited to get to see what happens, even if it was a no.
03:55Good luck.
03:55Thank you very much.
03:56I appreciate it.
03:57Thank you, guys.
03:58Have a great day.
03:59You, too.
04:13All right, guys.
04:14You ready?
04:15Just be ready to sweat.
04:18Today we're at the gym, and it's a HIIT class session.
04:21So it's just a lot of high-intensity workout stuff until you basically puke.
04:27We got four rounds for time.
04:29So you know that means fast as you can go, hard as you can go.
04:32We're going to get you sore today.
04:34Jason is the instructor, and he's a motivator.
04:36Right?
04:37And so he likes to push us.
04:39Let's go.
04:39Go.
04:40Come on.
04:41Nice.
04:43If your butt don't touch, it don't count.
04:45All right.
04:46Tie flips.
04:47If you're ready, 25.
04:48Go.
04:49Nice.
04:55Five years ago, I wasn't working out at all.
04:57Right?
04:58And then the divorce happened.
04:59They needed an outlet.
05:01And then all of a sudden, it became what it is today.
05:03Ready?
05:04Go.
05:05We got a good group of people with the HIIT class.
05:08Barry, you touch that line!
05:10What?
05:12Come on, guys.
05:13What do you mean?
05:14You got to touch it?
05:15Yes, Barry, touch it.
05:16If you don't touch the ground, it won't count.
05:18Everybody's such a legalist around here this morning.
05:20Yeah, Allison's here.
05:21She's the unofficial drill instructor of the HIIT class.
05:25Everybody knows you always touch the line.
05:28We love Barry.
05:30I mean, we kid with him.
05:31We joke with him.
05:32Come on, Barry.
05:33Round two.
05:34Let's go.
05:34Come on, Barry.
05:35You're going a little slow today.
05:37You must have partied too hard last night.
05:39We've always known Barry because he kind of comes to the gym.
05:42And, you know, he didn't talk a whole lot.
05:45You know, he didn't conversate with people.
05:47And then all of a sudden, he comes in and he had on, like, a tank top.
05:51And we were like, what happened to this guy?
05:55Like, he's, like, jacked up.
05:58And, like, oh, my gosh.
06:11Barry has a nickname in our family, and he's called Plath Daddy.
06:16He is Plath Daddy.
06:18He is Plath Daddy.
06:18And he will always be Plath Daddy.
06:22Plath Daddy.
06:23Plath Daddy.
06:23Plath Daddy.
06:24He does not know that, y'all.
06:27He does not know that.
06:28He's about to find out.
06:30He's about to find out.
06:30Barry.
06:32Come over here.
06:33Do you want to know your nickname?
06:35You are officially nicknamed Plath Daddy.
06:41See?
06:41That's good.
06:44So somebody ginned up the term Plath Daddy.
06:47Maybe it came from, you know, some youngster or two or three.
06:52Who knows?
06:53Plath Daddy.
06:55Is it?
06:55There we go.
06:57Maybe give them some eye candy.
06:59Sometimes they like the bulging biceps.
07:03We got a great group, don't we?
07:05You guys are great.
07:06You killed it.
07:07Congratulations.
07:08So I was thinking of dipping my feet back in the dating pool again.
07:13That'll be good.
07:14So I think I'm about ready to try.
07:15You want to find somebody that's your best friend, right?
07:17Yeah, exactly.
07:19That we love doing like that.
07:20Mm-hmm.
07:22Would you say Barry's a catch?
07:23Yeah, he's a good-looking older guy, right?
07:26We're trying to push him about him getting out there, dating.
07:29Just do a speed date.
07:31I'm not going to do...
07:33That way you don't have to spend but a minute with each one or so.
07:37Yeah, it's like a sampler platter, right?
07:39Yeah.
07:40I think Barry's going to be picky because he was married for so long.
07:43He knows what he wants and what he don't want now.
07:46We try to keep our eye out, but, you know, in a small town, it's hard to find somebody really
07:51compatible.
07:52I mean, really, it is to me a lot about common interests.
07:55Well, you just need to find somebody that likes to work out.
07:58That would be fun.
08:00I'll keep you posted.
08:01Yeah, man!
08:02That feels good!
08:04Ugh!
08:11Since we broke up, I've just been thinking about all of this over and over and over and over again.
08:17In my heart, I didn't really know what I should do and what I shouldn't do because I didn't know
08:22how she felt.
08:23You know, I didn't know if she would think it was maybe inconsiderate to move up here.
08:30I mean, it's very possible that it's too late.
08:36But I don't know if I'll ever have an answer to us if I don't do this.
08:42You have a bunch of flowers sitting in the car.
08:47What's the next move?
08:50I don't know.
08:51I guess next move is to call her and tell her.
08:55But she's going to start asking me, well, are you here?
08:58And then I don't know what I'm going to say.
09:02I just didn't want to call her up and be like, hey, you know, I haven't talked to you in
09:05forever.
09:05I'm going to move there now.
09:07I fully realized that not telling her could backfire.
09:10And so I'm definitely nervous to call her.
09:13And part of me is hoping that she doesn't pick up.
09:29Yes, you didn't answer it all to do it now.
09:35Damn, I feel like it's such a soap opera.
09:39Oh, she's calling back.
09:40She's calling you back.
09:42You got this.
09:49hey hey are you good yeah i had something to ask you
09:55okay
10:01we get up far enough i'll let you run oh my gosh i moved to montana and now my life
10:07is perfect it's
10:08not at all perfect this is some snow being so scared of the future
10:15sometimes ends up holding you back and trust me i spent a lot of years running i would know
10:23today i'm out here to meet kaylin i never really knew how much she meant to me until she was
10:27gone
10:29she's ready to meet up so i'm really anxious and nervous
10:45i had something to ask you okay
10:52um
10:55well i have something for you
10:59uh just whenever
11:02i'm sure you're probably busy tonight yeah anyways just let me know when you go pick it up
11:13i was just wondering i can pick it up yeah at the park that we used to go to
11:22pick it up from there
11:29uh probably tomorrow night okay i'll make sure it's there by then
11:37okay
11:43all right well
11:47oh that sounds like a plan to me just let me know
11:51okay i'll call you in the morning okay that sounds good
11:56okay
11:57all right
11:59love you bye
12:01she didn't ask if i was here that's good
12:04i love her dearly and i want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with her but
12:08i'm not expecting her to just pick it up right where we left it off
12:12i'm perfectly fine and happy starting from square one
12:18i think it was good because she didn't hang up or like make me tell her everything you know
12:24do you think she knows you're here
12:26she could it's not impossible
12:29i think the call was very good surprisingly she didn't push me too hard
12:34i was like i'll make sure that it's there
12:38it's so dumb
12:41definitely leaves me feeling hopeful and excited
12:57if we get up far enough i'll let you run
13:00where you're not going to run and terrorize anyone
13:03i moved to montana going on nine months ago
13:08montana has been so healing so good for me
13:13starting over really did teach me to trust myself again and have more confidence in myself
13:17knowing like
13:18i did it all alone
13:21blackjack loves it out here
13:23isn't this pretty jack jack
13:25well i didn't do it all alone
13:28i had god and i had people who came into my life and just
13:32looked out for me for no reason
13:34that was what i needed
13:40oh no your jacket
13:43i still have my my moments i'm not saying like
13:46oh my gosh i moved to montana and now my life is perfect it's not at all perfect
13:51this is some snow
13:55well you're being good
13:57but i remember one day i was driving home
13:59i was smiling and just like happy i was like
14:02nothing special had happened that made me happy you know
14:06i'm just like happy
14:12it feels so good
14:13to have found a place that i realized like
14:16this isn't temporary
14:18who knows there might be a time in the future i gotta start over again
14:21but at least i know i can do it
14:23there you go honey
14:26ethan and isaac have kept their promise and they're coming out to see me
14:30i was absolutely heartbroken finding out that galen and isaac broke up and
14:37called isaac and told him i was like i i don't want to tell you this but i think
14:42i think this is a bad decision
14:44i think he feels right now like he's
14:48just not
14:50in the place that he wants to be
14:53but you're never gonna be ready
14:56and don't let anyone pressure you
14:58but if you wait your whole life to be ready for things
15:01you're gonna regret not taking certain leaps
15:10that's just one of the ways that you end up building a great life
15:14is by taking chances and taking leaps that you don't feel ready for
15:20and i'm not saying get married now i'm not saying propose to her now but
15:26being so scared of the future
15:31sometimes ends up holding you back
15:33and trust me i spent a lot of years running
15:35and i'm not saying i would know
15:38blackjack here you are
15:40high-end
15:52today i'm out here to meet calin and uh just talk about you know everything that's happened lately
16:02there were a few reasons why i broke up with her that you know were running around in my head
16:08but i never really knew how much she meant to me till she was gone all i've heard from her
16:14is that
16:15she wanted to take some time didn't know if it'd be a week a month but it's only been a
16:19few days
16:19and she's ready to meet up so i'm really anxious and nervous
16:41so isaac has been texting me and i just didn't necessarily know when would be the right time to
16:48talk just because him you know dropping me like like out of nowhere i do kind of feel like that
16:55was a little bit
17:02yeah just wondering what the heck is going on
17:07hey kaylin hey you want to sit in my truck and talk or yeah we can okay
17:29well over the past few days i've talked to a bunch of my family members and they're like
17:35well after what you just told me it sounds like you shouldn't have broken up with her
17:39and then i uh i realized i mean they were right and i'm just really sorry i put you through
17:53that
17:53you don't deserve that you said that you were overthinking about a lot of stuff
18:01about what happened with ethan and olivia and maca and veronica and that kind of got to your head and
18:09yeah i know i know that's different lives that is nothing to do directly with me other than just
18:15seeing that for the past several years just kind of scared me
18:22i try to be a very understanding person and try to see it from both sides
18:26you should have just communicated with me about it i know i should have and i don't want anybody else
18:36the thought of trying to build something with somebody else makes me sick and i don't want that
18:43the ball's in your court i'm just letting you know where i stand i don't take bullcrap i know my
18:51self-worth
18:53i know what i will and won't take
19:10i would give anything to be able to have one more chance to make it right because i know that
19:18that's
19:18what i want what else were you like overthinking about like because you had mentioned something
19:25about marriage like did you think that i wanted it like right away or something well not right away
19:33but with you being older and stuff that you know you know like i mean obviously marriage is on the
19:40table for me one day but i never pressured you about marriage or really anything i know
19:48i just got caught up in my head about certain things and that's what it led to but
19:53i really got a bunch of questions and a bunch of thoughts i was having all cleared up and answered
19:59in just the past few days i just hate that i had to hurt you you know in the process
20:05the day after it happened obviously you know i was crying i was upset and he called my parents
20:12and i was like why the heck did he call you mama was like kaylin you could tell he was
20:17really
20:17confused and he was hurt and really bad and he was really upset too she was like i could tell
20:23that
20:24he kind of thought shoot what did i do there are trust issues now and it's not something that you
20:34just give away it's something that you have to earn over time with your actions i know
20:42are you even willing to earn that trust back and everything
20:48i'm willing to do whatever it takes actions over words
20:55i can tell you know just from the way she's looking at me that you know she's not here to
21:00mess around
21:01and now i've done a number on her you know it's up to her i put myself in this situation
21:08i can't
21:09i gotta be able to accept the the results and then you know one conversation's not gonna
21:16obviously not yeah i don't care if it takes a year
21:20i mean it doesn't matter what i have to do all i need is one more chance
21:30i don't give second chances out easily
21:35i know in my heart that i do still love him and i you know i want to back together
21:40with him but
21:42i think right now i am just trying to set some boundaries just because i just don't want to get
21:47hurt again i'm willing to try every day to do better than i did the day before
22:03okay
22:05okay
22:10well i won't let you down i promise
22:14better not he's my best friend and we were just so close so fast and obviously i do want to
22:28get
22:28back to that i know for a fact he sweated it out some even if it was for a short
22:33while but i'm not
22:35going to sit here and drag it on because that's not fair to me that's not fair to him and
22:39i don't
22:39want to i don't want to do that i'm just hoping it's one of those things that will end up
22:43bringing
22:44us closer
22:48i don't know i'm at a loss of words i don't know what to say i really don't deserve a
22:51second chance
22:52but that just gives me all the more you know motivation to be the man she needs
23:00what would you want to get out and walk around a little bit or
23:05yeah we can it's really nice out the only thing i want is to be able to build something real
23:11with
23:11her i'm gonna you know just be honest with her communicate with her and and stay true to her
23:18but it's really good to just you know be able to hold her hand again after thinking i may never
23:23see her again i mean we're not in hawaii right see that looks good
23:31you're squishing it now no it's fine
23:48i texted tegan and she texted me like 10 minutes later and said what's tomorrow about
23:53and she texted me and said okay do i get a hint about what it's about
23:58because i'm mildly stressed out with a sweating emoji i don't know what to say
24:12i kind of need somebody to talk to like if there's something seriously wrong that's a
24:18flag i'm not seeing to tell me
24:23hi hey i was just asking a question i got some roses for tegan and i'm gonna meet her tomorrow
24:32and give her the roses and tell her what my plans are but i asked her if she could come
24:37to the park
24:38at some point because i had a surprise for her but now she's all stressed out about what the
24:43surprise is and she wants a hint i don't know what to tell her you could just say i'm in
24:49town visiting
24:49and i just wanted to see you does she know you're in town no
24:56she knows you're gonna be in town tomorrow
24:59no
25:02she's
25:03knows she's meeting you at the park tomorrow
25:06no
25:09you're gonna tell her that you're gonna meet her at the park
25:13no i wasn't going to i was just gonna surprise her
25:17just tell her you're having flowers delivered to the park tomorrow
25:20okay
25:21and then she knows that it's headed in a direction of something sweet
25:26you know
25:27but then when she sees you're the one delivering the flowers that'll be her surprise
25:32to me it's important to not lie
25:34yeah
25:35you know
25:35and that's something that you could say that is true
25:39what do you think
25:40i'll just read you what i wrote
25:42and i haven't sent it yet but you tell me if it's good
25:44well i don't want you to be stressed out or anxious so i'll give you a hint
25:47i'm having flowers delivered to the park
25:49on the bench we sat on in july
25:52along with something else i think you'll like
25:53do you think that's good or no
25:54yeah
25:56my mom
25:57bless her heart
25:58she's been very supportive
26:00it means a lot to me that she's there
26:03just for like a woman's perspective
26:05you know
26:06let me know how it goes
26:07i will
26:08okay
26:09i've waited for many months
26:11you know it's not like waiting another day is gonna
26:15kill anything but
26:16i am like pretty
26:19nervous so i'm gonna have to
26:21sit with that nervousness for another day
26:24but that's okay
26:26bye
26:27bye
26:33the plan is i'll just stay
26:35you know in my car
26:36why not just get a hotel
26:38you can afford it
26:38no
26:39yeah but
26:41that's the thing
26:42like
26:43even if you have money
26:44if you get a hotel
26:45that's still
26:46money you could keep
26:47which why not
26:48what i really want to do with my money is
26:50be able to
26:53very comfortably take care of
26:55the person i love
26:56and have you know family and all that
26:59i just stay dressed
27:00wrap up in a blanket
27:01it's very comfortable
27:02i just can't stretch out
27:04you're asleep anyway
27:05so you don't know if you're in a hotel
27:07or if you're in a car
27:11feel a little anxious about tomorrow
27:13it's not easy
27:14but i'm definitely willing to
27:17meet her where she's at
27:19and just see where things go
27:25kaylin says she wants me to prove to her with my actions
27:27i am kind of nervous you know
27:33i've had a few of my close friends tell me you know
27:38just move on and remember it for what it was
27:43but i just can't
28:01kaylin's gonna be here soon
28:02i got a lot of flowers
28:04i got some candles as well
28:07tonight i'm here at my mom's apartment
28:08that she uses as a vacation rental
28:11to do something a little nice for kaylin
28:13i think she definitely deserves it
28:15i am kind of nervous you know
28:17kaylin said she wants me to
28:19prove to her with my actions
28:20part of me is doing this because i said i would
28:23but making her happy makes me happy
28:25probably even more so than her
28:27so the least i can do is something like this for her
28:39oh my god
28:44i uh
28:45You spent a little time putting stuff up.
28:51Isaac, he's always been a romantic,
28:53but I would say, you know, him building back that trust,
28:57it's a work in progress, you know?
28:59It's not something that you can have overnight.
29:00It's something that you have to work on.
29:02But honestly, I've never had somebody do something like this for me,
29:06so I think it's, like, very, very sweet.
29:19What do you think, baby?
29:21Oh, I love it!
29:23It is a portrait of us,
29:26and you paint it with numbers and stuff like that,
29:29and that's actually what I had gotten him before we broke up, so...
29:34Well, where's that painting now that you got him?
29:38In the dumpster.
29:41I know the story of you getting the other one
29:43and why you threw it out and everything,
29:45but I hope you like this one and this picture,
29:48because I picked a different picture,
29:49but I did like this picture of us.
29:51I do like that picture, too.
29:53Oh, I just saw that!
29:57That's cute!
29:58What?
29:58Where it says, I love you.
29:59I thought you would have noticed.
30:01No, I didn't, until now.
30:04Kaylen's really happy,
30:05and that makes me feel like I've done a good job,
30:07and I'm glad she appreciates it.
30:09She sees and appreciates what I do,
30:10and that's why I continue to do it.
30:13Are you excited to go to Montana?
30:15I'm very excited.
30:16I've always wanted to go to Montana.
30:18Definitely looking forward to seeing Mariah and Ethan in the big skies.
30:23Isaac invited me on a trip to see Mariah in Montana a few months ago,
30:28and I am so excited because it feels like it's been forever since I've seen her.
30:34I'm sure you heard Ethan's moving to Wisconsin.
30:36Yeah.
30:38We're going to try to work stuff out again or something because he's going back.
30:42Were you surprised when you heard that Ethan was going to be moving back up there?
30:46A little bit, but I also figured he would at some point since he didn't seem to be able to
30:50move on from her.
30:52I am, you know, a little worried because Olivia was the whole s**t over several years,
30:56and then it kind of got rough with Tegan after Olivia, and then they broke up.
31:01I want him to be able to stand up for himself.
31:04Yeah, I'm going to miss Ethan, him being around so much, but you never know.
31:07He may move back.
31:09I do think that Ethan's been a little bummed out.
31:12I know that he does love Tegan, and he wants things to work out,
31:15but I do have sympathy for Tegan with everything that's going on,
31:20but certain things that have been said and done I don't agree with that she has done.
31:25I just want to make sure that, you know, like, motives are what they should be
31:31and that everything works out the way she wants them to
31:34and how Ethan wants them to and that they're both going to be good.
31:38I guess he has to go shoot his shot and see.
31:41He's doing what he thinks is right and following in his heart.
31:45I am very glad that you did this. It was really, really sweet.
31:48You're welcome.
31:50It turned out beautifully.
31:52Well, I tried. Can't say I didn't try.
31:55That does remind me, I do have...
32:02Something for me.
32:04Wait, wait, wait.
32:06Oh, that is a huge shot.
32:08There's two of them.
32:09Two?
32:09Uh-huh.
32:10Figured I'd get two, so that's one for you and one for you.
32:13I would say this date night is a 10 out of 10.
32:16He gets a lot of brownie points for this one.
32:19I just hope that this makes our relationship even stronger,
32:23and I'm looking forward to a lot more dates.
32:26Just like this.
32:30I know.
32:39I'm going to go to the park.
32:45I hope we'll see Tegan in a minute.
32:50I haven't seen her in a long time, so I'm just really excited.
32:53I don't even know what I'm seeing.
32:56I'll see something.
32:59Yeah, I was just going to drop the roses on the bench when she says she's coming over,
33:03and then I'll pull away so she doesn't see me there right away,
33:07and then I'll wait for her to get there and pick them up,
33:12and then I'll pull up and get out and say hi.
33:17What do you think she's thinking?
33:20Well, I think she's thinking he's probably here and is up to something.
33:27I think Tegan may maybe just not say much or be really happy and excited,
33:34or I don't know, I feel like I'm invading her personal space.
33:39I don't know.
33:41I really, really hope with everything that I am that there's a little something left
33:47and I can maybe give it another shot and do it better,
33:50you know, be who Tegan needs in a relationship,
33:53be there for her mentally, emotionally, physically.
34:02I hope that she is open to hear what I have to say,
34:05and we just go from there.
34:08That's about all that I'm hoping for.
34:21It's an option that I could do all this and, you know, that door is closed,
34:26the chapter is over.
34:27I mean, that's a very real possibility, but I certainly hope and pray that that's not the case.
34:35If she called me, I was like, okay, I've thought about it.
34:38This just isn't going to work. Don't come.
34:42I still would, you know, just to show her, like, at least for once, I was serious,
34:51and I did do what I said I was going to do.
35:16I've had a few of my close friends tell me, you know,
35:22just to move on and remember it for what it was, but I just can't.
35:32And if nothing ever happens, then I guess that's my answer.
35:39But I'll never know unless I try.
36:04I'll never know unless I try.
36:07I'm sorry.
36:17I'm sorry.
36:22I'm sorry.
36:23I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
36:26I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
36:26I didn't say something else.
36:27I guess I was not the case for you.
36:27And I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
36:28I can't, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
36:29Can I see the cops for you?
36:33And I'm sorry?
36:34I'm sorry.
36:34I'm sorry.
36:37I'm sorry.
36:37i can turn around this is crazy in a good way hopefully last night i was a nervous wreck we
36:50went to my car and we started talking after not talking to each other seeing each other for so
36:55long it was good to have a deep conversation about where both of us are at and me moving there
37:03and everything i was just shocked seeing him i don't know i think just too shocked to really feel
37:12anything else you know nice seeing an old friend i don't know what to say yeah just shocked and i
37:22mean we aren't dating so he's supposed to be down in georgia not here so
37:32i told him when we broke up that i would never date him again if he wasn't living here or
37:37nearby
37:38so that was and is a deal breaker for me i also talked to him when we broke up and
37:44i reminded him
37:44last night that i don't want to date him if he's still married and so those are just the two
37:51main
37:52i guess deal breakers per se with him exactly um is he still married uh inton is still married as
38:01far
38:01as i know this is a good rock to stand on i know but i gotta get there
38:11now that i'm here and i've told tegan everything she's waiting to see me actually move here
38:22is that right or no uh yeah i i just mean like i'll believe it when i see it and
38:27that our
38:28current relationship isn't gonna change for the time being and so if he moves here he moves here if
38:34he doesn't he doesn't move here move to minnesota stay down there move to africa like whatever you need
38:42to do yeah i am moving here okay
38:51i don't think it's a matter of believing or not i i don't think you should distrust people i think
38:56you should just trust people based on what they've showed you so like just i trust already how he is
39:02so
39:04we'll see if the patterns change i guess i don't really know
39:10that's perfectly fair
39:16i think it's just a personal choice i need to make this all happened yesterday and
39:22so i sort of need some time have you changed your mind in any way ethan or are you sticking
39:29to the plan
39:29no my plans have not changed at all i'm just very excited i can't wait regardless of whatever
39:37our future looks like i know it's what i need to do that's what i'm going to do and i
39:40want to very much
39:45okay well i should probably get going so maybe see you in montana
39:50i really hope you do come we'll see maybe ethan and i talked about going to visit
39:56mariah in montana before we broke up i've never been to montana i enjoy his family so
40:03i sort of want to go but on the other hand that's a lot of time with ethan and i
40:09know i can be friends
40:10but i'm more worried about can he be not weird and just be friends
40:18well can i hug you for a bit nope goodbye goodbye i hope you have a safe trip back down
40:27i will
40:29good goodbye goodbye
40:43yeah i think there's definitely a possibility he doesn't move it's just ethan plath so i never
40:48really know what to think you know sometimes when you get told things you know time and time again
40:53it's sort of hard to believe them so i'm just i'll believe it when i see it
41:12i'm seeing you again
41:18i'm seeing you again
41:28cheers to being back at the farm yeah here here if we were a horse and a cowboy who would
41:36ride who
41:39what's a more family-friendly answer all this vibrating is causing my butt to itch
41:45dad has recently started talking to ladies all i knew was you were blonde and very good looking keep
41:53these compliments i like what i see montana is gonna be fun well you know i asked tegan to come
42:02are you friends i don't like you behind me you're so close i cut what do you think
42:09why come to a whole different state with your ex-boyfriend and his family if you're not gonna make that
42:16effort
42:17oh my god what am i doing here kim is definitely dealing with some guilt and some shame you've got
42:24to release it because it's time is this a bad conversation i've heard things just around you know a lot
42:34of
42:34money you've spent with her apparently you and zach have sat down people and explained to them that they
42:41weren't godly enough or whatever they're only gonna end up alienating themselves from the family and i don't want that
42:48do you know what zach told me about you
42:52i don't care that definitely pisses me off
42:56i'm experiencing something wrong and i feel the need to speak up about it
43:01we are all family so we're going to talk about each other
43:05lydia zacker doing what they asked us not to it's just not always pleasant when you
43:10are given a list of things that like someone doesn't approve of you're exporting your opinion
43:15into lands that don't want to import man so i'm a problem for the whole family god cool
43:21zach you're part of the family now try to build a relationship with you and you're making it hard to
43:27do
43:27that am i supposed to just wrestle them and just i don't know i don't know what to do
43:36this is gonna be uncomfortable
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