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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 09: The Act of Monkey Barring

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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02You've never had my back.
00:04Yes, I have.
00:04You've never had my back.
00:05OK, you're happy now.
00:06I'm just done with Liz, and I'm just done
00:08with this whole trip.
00:10Liz.
00:10She just it all up.
00:12She's a horrible person.
00:15Sorry, everything's kind of going the way it's going right now.
00:18Via is becoming someone that I feel like I can trust.
00:23Do you want to have a baby with her?
00:28We just established today that you're not
00:30talking to other women, and now we're talking about babies.
00:34I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
00:37I don't know about completely sailed,
00:39because there's always options.
00:44Courtney broke up with me a few days ago,
00:47and here you go.
00:48My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada
00:51to save the day.
00:52So you're not going to get back together?
00:54Having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
00:58Thank you for seeing us.
01:00I wonder if Colt told his mom that he was sending jerk-off
01:03videos to other women.
01:05He thinks maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
01:10you could work this out.
01:12On a relationship standpoint, I'm done.
01:16Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me.
01:19I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
01:22My family can be a lot, but I'm not going to lose you,
01:25because my birthday party was wrong.
01:28I just need a bit of, like, time.
01:32Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
01:35You're worried that I'm a player.
01:36Yeah.
01:36Is that what you're getting at?
01:39Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya,
01:42because I feel like she's told her a lot about my past that now someone is using against me.
01:47I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
01:50This trip is off to such a bad start, and something happened today that makes me feel like
01:56I don't even know Tony whatsoever.
02:10Hola.
02:12Como esta?
02:13Bien, ¿y tú?
02:15Oh, sí.
02:28So Liz's not here yet, so I hope she will be calm,
02:31because we doesn't spoke with her a couple days, and it'd be so awkward.
02:35Yeah.
02:35But did you really just let this go?
02:38Yeah.
02:38I know we had a miscommunication, and, like, it wasn't great, but people make mistakes.
02:44It's been four days since me and Liz had our big fight,
02:47and Julia texted Liz to come and join us for some drinks.
02:50You know, it's up to her if she wants to continue our friendship,
02:52but I would love if she wants to, because I do value her.
02:56I think that every girl has a problem.
02:59Especially when they go on holiday.
03:00Oh, my God.
03:01Girls have issues.
03:02Then they're vacation.
03:03Yes, it's...
03:04They have a thing.
03:05Without the fight, it's going to be a not-girls trip.
03:08Let's go over there. It's more cuter.
03:10Oh, yeah, I agree.
03:11I was upset at Liz for talking to Pedro behind my back,
03:14but I did take it a little bit far.
03:17Especially after being on the receiving end of Pedro's family's craziness.
03:21So, if Liz does show up and she can see how we both went wrong,
03:24then hopefully we can just put this whole thing behind us.
03:30Hi.
03:31Hi, ladies.
03:32How are you?
03:33Hi.
03:39I haven't seen the girls in a few days.
03:41And I feel like shutting out a friend on a girl's trip is definitely mean girl energy.
03:47It doesn't feel good.
03:51I'm going to grab a drink.
03:53Can I grab you another?
03:55Can I get a pina colada?
03:56Yeah, thank you.
03:58But when Julia reached out, I decided it was worth hearing what Sophie has to say.
04:04Can I get two pina coladas, please?
04:07We came on this trip together.
04:10We still have a couple days left.
04:12So, I just, I need to clear the air.
04:15You're welcome.
04:16I'm glad you came.
04:19Because it's been a couple days silence and now it's time to back to our girls trip.
04:25I've been super overwhelmed since I got here.
04:27Not because of you, but because of me and Pedro.
04:30And it's been a lot.
04:32And I know, like, I probably came a bit too hard on you.
04:34And I apologize for that.
04:37I think I was projecting, like, my emotions.
04:41I really don't want, like, drama or pettiness.
04:45I really didn't have any intention of being malicious.
04:48I didn't have any intention of trying to harm you.
04:51Yeah.
04:52So, I'm sorry.
04:53I hope you do know that.
04:55I appreciate you saying sorry.
04:56And I'm sorry, too, if I seemed like I was, like, emotional.
05:02No one's perfect.
05:03People bake it.
05:04So, what you're saying is we got our first fight out of the way.
05:06Yes, yes, yes.
05:09I generally feel like Sophie had time to reflect on what had happened.
05:13Her apologies seemed very sincere.
05:15I really hope she believes my apology.
05:19I still feel like the outcast in some way.
05:22But I'm going to move forward and enjoy the rest of this trip.
05:26And, oh, my gosh, please just no more drama.
05:31I'm happy that this is all squashed.
05:33Like, even though, like, I wasn't with you this weekend,
05:36I want to know how you and Pedro are doing.
05:41Well, it was really bad.
05:43It was really bad.
05:44It was bad.
05:45Oh, my God.
05:47Okay, so Pedro introduces me to his mom.
05:49He did great.
05:51He was like, look, this is Sophie.
05:52She's not my girlfriend.
05:53She's my friend.
05:53I'm getting to know her.
05:55The first thing she says to me, she goes,
05:58you're not dating him yet,
05:59because you haven't had his banana and his eggs yet.
06:06He's in his .
06:07His mom said that in front of everyone.
06:09This is, like, first, like, first encounter.
06:12And then the sister comes to me.
06:14She goes to me, I don't trust you.
06:17That's a lot, Sophie.
06:19It's a lot.
06:19After that, I do need to step back and be like,
06:22okay, well, let me focus.
06:23I am single.
06:23I don't need to have all these issues right now.
06:27And since I got here,
06:28there was a guy that I found on my social media
06:31that lives literally in this area.
06:34And we have been talking.
06:36This guy's fine.
06:38I need to show you him.
06:39Oh, my God, I'm blushing.
06:41Like, okay.
06:44I was scrolling through some of the local guys on social media,
06:46and there's this one guy in particular that looks really cute.
06:50And I just feel like he could be really fun to meet up with.
06:52Okay, this is him, this is him.
06:53Okay, let's start with that one.
06:55Oh, yeah.
06:56Hell, yeah!
06:58Sophie, you need all of this for you.
07:03He rides motorcycles.
07:04He's tall, he's good looking, and he's in shape.
07:09I'm single, I'm on holiday, and I've told Pedro I need some space.
07:13This is a little fling, a little eel.
07:16And this guy looks like the right amount of space.
07:20So, when do you plan on hanging out with him?
07:23Uh, in a couple days, you know.
07:24I said, I still dance, you know, pleasure,
07:26but everything will happen in DR.
07:28Stay in DR.
07:30Cheers to this.
07:32Welcome to our crazy friendship party.
07:34Yes.
07:35That's all with you.
07:38Cheers.
07:51Good morning.
07:53Good morning.
07:54How are you?
07:55I'm feeling good.
07:56Ooh, yeah.
07:57Morning latte.
08:00Everything okay?
08:16Well, in terms of how the night ended, Tony was really upset.
08:21Did you really go so harsh at him?
08:23What happened?
08:24I wasn't hard on him.
08:25I was just kind of asking a question.
08:26Hey, what's up?
08:26What's your plan?
08:27I know Vinny is looking for a long-term relationship.
08:29Are you on the same page or not?
08:32That was nice-ish.
08:33Okay.
08:35I brought Tony to Maine to spend my birthday with my family.
08:39But instead, ever since we arrived, it's been a complete disaster.
08:44Last night, Tony stormed off to bed after Sanella started grilling him about his past.
08:50But before he even arrived to my cousin's home,
08:54I saw a side of Tony that I didn't know existed.
08:57And this could be a deal-breaker for us.
09:00I don't know if you picked up on what was happening when you were doing my eyebrows and my lips.
09:05Tony was blowing up my phone, and obviously I couldn't pick up because we were working on my face.
09:10Mm-hmm.
09:10And I called him back after we were done.
09:13And he was so angry that he ended up hanging up the phone on me.
09:17And you know that in my book, that's one of the most rudest things you can do to me.
09:22Like, you do not do that.
09:24Then, you know, when he showed up to the house,
09:27he was trying to make it look like he was ignoring what just transpired.
09:32The reason why he was upset just because you didn't pick up the phone.
09:35That's it.
09:35Yeah.
09:37It's too soon.
09:38If this is happening this early in a relationship, it's only going to get worse later.
09:44He completely freaked out about not being able to reach me, and he hung up the phone on me.
09:50He just blew up.
09:53It was disrespectful.
09:55It was hurtful.
09:56And I just don't know how to process this or what to do about it.
10:01It sounds very controlling.
10:03Yeah.
10:04So this is something that I'm going to have to deal with.
10:07I'm going to have to address it with him.
10:10It has to be done.
10:11Better sooner than later.
10:12I know.
10:14Tony made plans to go paddle boarding today,
10:16and I want to use this time to really get an answer about what happened yesterday.
10:25How'd you sleep last night, Tony?
10:27Did not get a good night's sleep.
10:28Kind of thinking about the conversation last night and what transpired.
10:32And Sonella just unleashed on me, and I just feel like I'm getting teamed up on.
10:36I feel like I'm alone in this, and I just feel a little bit awkward right now.
10:42whoo, whoo, whoo.
10:55Walk we go to the adventure!
10:57Walk we go.
10:58Walk we go.
11:07I think it's good to get out of the house and you know there's just a little bit I mean
11:12not even a
11:13little bit there's quite a bit of tension yesterday Sunila came at me pretty hard what do you mean
11:19she she came at you pretty hard she kind of threw out a lot of history that was from a
11:24while ago
11:24I think Sunila just has something against me and it really gets fair that she just comes out and
11:29attacks me on the first night I just feel like I was kind of blindsided by it all and well
11:33she's
11:33worried for me she wants to make sure that you have the best interest for me in your heart if
11:38you saw what happened I was being attacked she's just looking out for me and I think that she she
11:44went about it the wrong way but I think she had good intentions I know Sunila is Vanya's best friend
11:54but instead of really trying to communicate with me it becomes my cousin first and let's see what
11:59her opinions are and out of respect for me I would just prefer that we work out our issues together
12:06they don't have to be spread to the whole world howdy folks how you doing good good we have a
12:15reservation for Tony unfortunately we got some thunderstorms rolling in so unfortunately we
12:20just can't have folks on the water when we're doing thunder and lightning all right okay then
12:25you want to just walk around you can walk by the water thank you I feel like you can cut
12:36the tension
12:36with a knife Tony's being really quiet but you need to man up and own your mistakes there's nothing
12:45that I have done ever to this point that would warrant somebody hanging up the phone on me it's
12:51disrespectful it's rude it's childish and I will not tolerate it
12:57so why are you so quiet
13:01something on your mind yeah
13:05you hung up the phone on me and you got upset at me not my cousin you got upset at
13:10me
13:12and I didn't do anything wrong you knew what I was doing the whole time she was doing permanent
13:16makeup on me I couldn't talk and you got upset because I couldn't talk I mean I'm in a new
13:23place
13:24a new setting you know you have your family here I have no one here so I thought I could
13:29just kind
13:30of rely on you mourn and you know I didn't know what's bothering you so much though so much like
13:37this is so important for me for you to meet my family and it's all starting off on the wrong
13:42foot
13:45this is a special weekend for me and these are the most special people in my life and did you
13:51hang
13:51up the phone on me and you're just ignoring me this is horrible
14:02we have a great connection but our connection hasn't really been physical
14:08don't get nervous so far we've fooled around kissed a bit but we haven't had sex
14:15okay tonight is the night baby look at that big booty oh my god that's how I like it
14:24so I guess I have not told you ladies wait what yeah I've been keeping a secret since arriving in
14:32the DR the worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him yeah that's the worst
14:36thing you
14:36do feelings between via and I are evolving very quickly and he might be hurt by what I have to
14:43share with him and he might not want anything to do with me I think I need a few shots
15:00I need a nightcap
15:01for sure you know what happens when I get a few shots oh my god no I just care I
15:06do I do
15:18uncle Marco is interesting he's an interesting character he had a lot of a lot of questions
15:24you know I mean that was a lot to absorb but you know I just think that we need to
15:32walk before we run
15:37I invited Natalie to Michigan and things are going good between us getting my uncle Marco's blessing
15:45was a huge deal to me but I'm a little concerned that he kind of came in a little hot
15:52about Natalie
15:53and I having kids you haven't even met my children yet they don't even know you that's step one right
15:59step one yeah so if I ask you to marry me tonight is that too fast it's really important to
16:06me to have a
16:08child in my own so if I move forward with Natalie I'm hoping she can remain open-minded to make
16:15that a reality
16:17yeah we are home oh look at those flowers I got some nice flowers aren't they beautiful thanks to you
16:23and
16:24Uncle Marco I know okay go ahead oh this is nice you like it yeah enter my
16:38home yeah my bedroom is up there okay and if you want you can have a seat and wait for
16:46me while I get
16:47us a drink this could be a big night for Natalie and I so far we fooled around kissed a
16:54bit but we
16:55haven't had sex and that's not because I haven't wanted it cheers to the future the future cheers to the
17:02future there we go so let's hope tonight is the night baby what was your favorite part of the day
17:11what was my favorite part what I think was just hanging out with you today my favorite parts of the
17:18day was when you
17:19came to me and told me that you have decided not to talk to other women
17:26can you do that though can you do that are you gonna be able to do that I don't know
17:31see that's the thing no I'm just kidding listen there's beautiful women on this planet I mean
17:38gorgeous women I get it I get it the thing is is like it's hard to find a good quality
17:47woman that has like good qualities like you have yeah having a good quality woman
17:52trumps everything trumps everything right you're growing up yeah yeah no that's nice to hear it because
18:00you know what it's true you're absolutely right so after everything that happened in DC I took a big
18:05chance coming here but wanting to be exclusive and introducing me to Uncle Marco is finally showing me that
18:13Gino may be serious about being in a committed relationship I'm hopeful for the next step and it's
18:21probably the most hopeful I've been in a long time with him we have a great connection but our
18:28connection has been very mental and it hasn't really been physical so I mean don't get nervous
18:39that totally makes sense baby okay you are a good kisser I will say that I will give you that
19:02I'm getting kind of tired really I kind of think we should go to bed so soon so soon yeah
19:12you know
19:16Gino I'm ready to go to bed yeah I don't know how many more hints I can give you I'm
19:27ready to go to bed
19:28okay so let's go then let's go let's take the drinks it's probably been a year and a half
19:38since I've been intimate with a woman when I was with Jasmine I was miserable and I can't be intimate
19:46with someone that's yelling and screaming at me fighting with me and disrespecting me after you okay
19:54but with Natalie I feel like I can be myself she's a very good person and I'm going to prove
20:01to her
20:02that I can be the man that she deserves look at that big booty oh that's how I like it
20:08maybe we'll do it two three four five times who knows how many times we might even have sex till
20:16the sun comes up
20:17mmm yeah baby oh yeah
20:47okay ladies if you haven't find your man yet may try to hug yourself
20:53oh
20:55Julia stop hugging
20:56yeah
20:58we're sippin' on the go-go we're getting loco
21:02dancing with no way to go no sippin' on the go-go we're getting loco
21:07no need to keep it on the low low
21:09ho ho ho ho ho ho ho ho
21:12thank you for participating in our Zumba
21:15we'll see you on the next hangover Zumba
21:18yes tomorrow
21:20let's take a shot
21:22I am very relieved
21:24Sophie and I put the drama behind us
21:26and I really just want to enjoy the rest of our girls trip
21:32okay what do you want to say
21:34show us
21:35okay
21:37I really need some like guidance
21:40I've been keeping a secret pretty much the whole time since arriving in the DR
21:48okay
21:50you have a couple days left before home
21:52yeah
21:53you're gonna have fun because you have this all like
21:56not fun I mean you have some fun
21:58I've been spending so much time with via
22:00but I have not told you ladies
22:05so there is someone that I'm talking to back at home as well
22:09wait what
22:11yeah
22:12like talking talking or like like
22:14like we're dating
22:16wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
22:21okay
22:21about three months ago right after I broke up with Jason
22:24I met someone new
22:26his name is Alec
22:28and
22:30we just clipped
22:32really
22:33yes
22:34oh my
22:35I'm overstimulated
22:38Alec wants a relationship with me
22:41but I've never been single
22:42so
22:43I told Alec I was coming on this trip
22:46and I wanted to date
22:48I wanted to
22:49get it out of my system
22:51and then kind of come home and figure out if I wanted a serious relationship
22:55I never expected to fall for someone
22:59I made it very clear coming to here I wanted to express being single
23:03and then now I feel very conflicted because I see myself developing feelings for via
23:09so I'm scared to like tell via hey I am talking to someone back at home
23:14as long as you communicate and tell him hey like we're just hanging out
23:17that's all you can do you're being honest
23:20if anyone understands how this feels it's me
23:22because I just got out of a toxic relationship
23:25and I don't want to rush into anything either
23:26my only thing is it does feel a little shady that she's hiding it from via
23:31like I'm in the same boat like I'm also trying to get to know Pedro
23:34but the thing is I'm being extremely honest with him
23:36because I don't want to lead someone on
23:38so I hope she tells him soon or this whole thing could blow up in her face
23:43I think tell him he seems like a nice guy
23:45he's probably going to take it fine and he probably still want to get to know you
23:48the worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him
23:50but I feel like it's so complicated now and it scares me either way
24:02when Courtney took my phone she told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together
24:07I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up
24:10so how you been?
24:12you're hurting me
24:31I miss her
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24:59Courtney
25:00are you okay?
25:04let me know
25:06it's been about 5 days now since Courtney broke up with me
25:10and apparently my mother couldn't convince Courtney to give me a second chance
25:15and I can't say I'm exactly surprised
25:18I threw away a good relationship with a good woman
25:23and I hate myself for that
25:25I hate for all the pain that I caused to everybody
25:32living with her parents
25:34I couldn't do anything without Courtney
25:35I couldn't leave the house
25:36it was just like I was completely relying on her for everything
25:39and I felt trapped
25:42and talking with Diana allowed me to escape that reality
25:48I'm blocking our memories
25:51with a hidden black heartbeat
25:55Hello?
25:56I'm here
25:58Hey!
25:59Hey, how are you?
26:01You look great today
26:04I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up
26:08when Courtney took my phone
26:09she saw all the messages between Diana and I
26:12and she decided to message her directly
26:14she told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together
26:18and this is a problem because I never told Diana the truth
26:23that Courtney and I have been in a romantic relationship
26:27so
26:29how you been?
26:33tell me
26:34I'm angry
26:35because
26:36she told me
26:39about your plans
26:40your promise
26:41your promise to her
26:43so
26:47I'm feeling
26:48very stupid
26:49because you say
26:50I love you Diana
26:53I do love you
26:54I
26:54I have a lot of feelings for you
26:56that's why I wanted to see you
26:58but then I broke my leg
27:02Kane
27:02you know I didn't
27:04I wasn't expecting to see Courtney
27:05I wasn't expecting to
27:07have her in my life
27:12I love Courtney
27:18but I love you
27:19and if I haven't met you
27:20I was supposed to meet you
27:29you're hurting me
27:32I'm hurting everybody
27:35I feel terrible for causing Diana so much hurt
27:38and
27:39and seeing her upset but
27:42I want to be honest
27:43yes
27:43I still love Courtney
27:45I love Courtney
27:46and I also love you
27:47and Diana needs to know that
27:52do you still want me to come to Brazil?
28:07I could see that
28:12I don't know what
28:13what I'm doing
28:14with anything
28:16in life right now
28:21I'm sad
28:23I'm sorry that I've hurt you
28:27hurt you
28:29so many people
28:34I have to go
28:39I have to go
28:39well that sucked
28:41I know I
28:42with both of them
28:43I was treating both women
28:45equally wrong
28:49I wanted the benefits of having
28:52Diana as an outlet
28:53but I also wanted the benefits of having
28:55Courtney as a girlfriend
28:57and now they don't want anything to do with me
29:00and I take full responsibility for this
29:04but I'm not ready to give up on love
29:06I'm going to fight like hell to get her back
29:09which one?
29:13good question
29:20I like to be in control
29:21I like whatever I plan to happen
29:24but you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you
29:28I have never seen this controlling side of Tony in the past
29:32this is just all coming out of the blue
29:35this has happened to me so many times in the past
29:38a guy starts out one way
29:39then it turns out they were just hiding their real personality
29:42so is this who you are?
29:56this is a special weekend for me
29:58and these are the most special people in my life
30:01and then you hang up the phone on me
30:03and you're just ignoring me
30:12this is horrible
30:15yeah I made the mistake
30:16like I said
30:17I didn't communicate with you about what happened
30:19but it was kind of awkward with me
30:21kind of to bring it up at their place
30:22me and them for the first time
30:23but I don't want this to be
30:25kind of blown out in proportion
30:26where it was
30:27yeah about an issue we had yesterday
30:29regarding time management
30:30and spending time together
30:32don't make it like I'm like blowing things out of proportion
30:35you haven't really talked to me nicely since yesterday
30:40I didn't intend for this to happen
30:41I didn't
30:43I overreacted and one of my issues
30:44one of my flaws is
30:45I like to be in control
30:46I like the situation
30:49or whatever I plan to happen
30:51and you know and done right
30:52but you can't go with life thinking
30:55that things are going to go exactly how you planned
30:57you have to roll with the punches
30:58and in the process
30:59you can't alienate the person
31:01that's supposed to be so important to you
31:06Tony hanging up on me yesterday
31:09it took me by surprise
31:10I have never seen this
31:12kind of controlling side of Tony in the past
31:15this is just all coming out of the blue
31:19what did I tell you when we were first discussing
31:21trying to take this into a relationship
31:23I said
31:23are you going to change
31:25please don't change
31:26it's not much changing though
31:27because this has happened to me
31:28so many times in the past
31:29a guy starts out one way
31:31and then it turns out
31:32that it was the opposite
31:33the whole time
31:33and they were just hiding their real personality
31:35so is this who you are?
31:39no it's not like a new me
31:40it's not
31:41the old me is the real me
31:44that's the person you've known for the longest time
31:47but the old you has never hurt me like this
31:50I don't think someone should ever be judged
31:52on one reaction
31:53or one issue
31:55or one fault
31:59I don't know
32:02you think this is a real me?
32:04I don't know
32:05that's why I'm trying to have this conversation
32:07that's not fair Vanya
32:08that's not fair at all
32:14this has been kind of like a running theme
32:16in some of my past relationships
32:18a guy starts off
32:19being this amazing Prince Charming
32:22and then once they feel like they got you in their claws
32:25then they do a 180
32:27and they become a totally different person
32:29and who knows
32:30is Tony becoming this totally different person
32:32this early in a relationship
32:34and that's definitely a concern for me
32:38Tony
32:39I mean if you really think I'm a person
32:41that's going to truly just hurt you
32:42then you should walk away from me
32:44I agree
32:44I want to make sure
32:46that going forward
32:47you're not going to just
32:48have a
32:49have a
32:49freak out
32:50and then
32:51and then have a
32:52explosion
32:53like hanging up the phone
32:54and then ignoring me
32:57I can first of all apologize
32:58for what I did
32:59because hanging up the phone
33:00is not right
33:01I'm taking full accountability for it
33:07I like to be updated
33:08like to have things kind of go according to plan
33:11but then I feel like sometimes
33:12I'm not even on her radar
33:14so I felt like that yesterday
33:16I didn't respond the right way
33:17I hung up on the phone on her
33:18so you know
33:20it was not a good reaction on my end
33:22you know going forward
33:23I think communication
33:24transparency is key
33:25and you know
33:26I think Vanya in the end
33:27will see that this is still the real Tony
33:29and it's a pretty good version too
33:33so I'm not trying to hurt you
33:34I really am not
33:35and I don't like to see you cry
33:36like it hurts me too
33:46I don't know
33:46Are you going to get a smart chance?
33:48What?
33:49That's all right
33:52You're never going to lose you
33:55Right?
33:58After a year and a half of friendship
33:59I thought that I knew Tony
34:01but this whole experience now
34:04makes me feel like I'm walking on eggshells
34:06and it's putting seeds of doubt in my mind
34:09because is this what I want to sign myself up for?
34:14Maybe the relationship Tony
34:16and the friend Tony
34:17are two totally different people
34:24This one's good
34:25get things off your chest
34:26I just felt like it was important to talk about
34:29it's been really bothering me
34:33We've been having a great time
34:36we have a great connection I feel
34:37I think, I thought
34:39I guess I'm just going to be straightforward
34:42There is somebody back at home
34:44that I've been seeing
34:46Didn't expect that
34:47Oh, this is hard
34:50There's actually a lot of emotions involved
34:52so
34:54I don't really feel good right now
34:56I feel bad
35:07I know that I'm preaching to the choir
35:10But you're playing with fire
35:12And you wanna go higher
35:15So I'm taking you up
35:19Hey beautiful
35:20Hi
35:21How are you?
35:22Good
35:23Good, you ready?
35:24Yeah
35:25They smell good as always
35:26Yeah
35:27Ready for our dance lessons?
35:28I'm ready
35:29Yeah? Yeah
35:29Let's go
35:41Julia!
35:43Oh my goodness
35:45I think we're going to dance
35:46You look like you're going to the wedding
35:48Are you ready?
35:49Let's go
35:50Ever since landing here in the DR
35:52All I've wanted to do is go to a dance class
35:54Okay, Julia!
35:57You're ready for dancing
36:00Julia is joining us
36:02But Sophie decided to take some alone time for herself
36:04And I think that's a great idea
36:06Girl deserves it
36:07It's been a roller coaster
36:08It's so pretty
36:11Hello!
36:12Coming!
36:13A little dance
36:14This is exciting
36:15This is exciting
36:16Today we will give
36:17Some merengue and bachata
36:20Like Dominican style
36:21So follow me
36:22And enjoy
36:23We are here for give love
36:24Can I pick this one?
36:25He can have a crazy energy
36:26Yeah!
36:27Venga!
36:28Venga!
36:29Eso!
36:30You can have a big partner
36:31For example with him
36:33So we will start with some both steps first
36:37I feel like we've done this before
36:38Oh!
36:39Doesn't feel all that new
36:41It's kind of natural now
36:42And let's go to something fun!
36:45Yoo-hoo!
36:46Oh, we can do a spin
36:47Oh!
36:49Open position
36:50Again!
36:51Let's go, let's go, let's go!
36:53Here we go!
36:55I'm sorry, I feel like I have to count my steps
36:57I'm like thinking I'm talking
36:58And like counting my steps
36:59You can't hold it anytime?
37:00Two, three, one, two, three
37:03You're making me really nervous
37:04Why me?
37:06Why?
37:07I always get nervous
37:10You're getting me all hot
37:13Well, yeah
37:16Well, that can lead to that
37:18I've really done nothing but hang out with Via
37:21On my whole singles girl trip
37:24And as much as I'm enjoying being in the moment with him
37:28It's making me feel guilty for the feelings that I have back at home with Alec
37:36I think I'm really falling for Via and now I'm so beyond confused
37:40I've waited such a long time for just one good person to walk into my life that never did I
37:46imagine that there'd be two
37:49Okay guys
37:49I'm gonna see you tomorrow
37:51I'm gonna see you tomorrow
37:52Yeah, I'm gonna see you tomorrow
37:53So, rest now after this dancing
37:54Can you walk me?
38:00You seem so nervous, I know
38:02I just wasn't supposed to come here and start falling for someone
38:05It's true
38:06But you're gonna be honest
38:07That's all what you need to do
38:08Okay
38:09Yes
38:10Thanks girl
38:11See you, everything will be fine
38:13Just breathe
38:13Take a shot
38:20Hey
38:21Hey
38:22Hey
38:22You wanna go get a drink?
38:24From the bar?
38:25Yeah
38:25You wanna drink finally?
38:26Yeah, let's go get a drink
38:27And
38:28Everything okay?
38:29Yeah
38:30Yeah
38:30I am worried about hurting Via's feelings
38:34I don't know how he feels about me
38:36Is this just a vacation fling?
38:38Did he expect to like have feelings?
38:42We just, we have to have this conversation
38:45Cheers
38:46Cheers
38:48To dancing
38:49To dancing
38:50To chemistry
38:51To chemistry
38:52That was a lot of fun
38:54Mhm
38:54I feel like dancing with you is always a lot of fun
38:57Yeah
38:58I think every time I'm with you I have a lot of fun
39:01So I guess
39:03I don't know where your like your feelings are at with me
39:07But I know that I am developing feelings
39:13And same with me
39:15Um
39:15We've been having a great time
39:18We have a great connection I feel
39:20I think
39:21I thought
39:23I have the best time with you
39:27But
39:28I came on this ship to work on me
39:32And now having feelings for you is making it super complicated
39:36I guess I'm just gonna be straight forward
39:39There is somebody back at home
39:41That I have been seeing
39:47Okay
39:49Didn't expect that
39:52How serious like is this with this person?
39:56I don't know
39:58The whole point of this trip was to see if I wanted to embrace being single
40:03Or if I, where things can go potentially when I get back home
40:10Oh, this is hard
40:13It just doesn't make a lot of sense to me
40:15It just doesn't make a lot of sense to me
40:16Single's trip
40:17You're not single
40:18Well, I am single
40:20Right now
40:21Until you go back
40:24Like
40:26I can see how it looks to you
40:29Yeah
40:30I just kinda feel like I'm like
40:32I've been wasting my time, you know
40:38Okay
40:38We'll be right back
40:39I'm gonna use the restroom
40:43I got so scared
40:45Of letting the truth be told
40:47If I've in your head to hold
40:50If I've in your head to hold
40:52And I got freaked out
40:54By letting the truth be known
40:56Safer to be on your own
40:59There's actually a lot of emotions involved
41:02So
41:03I don't really feel good right now
41:05I feel bad
41:08Like I feel really bad right now
41:13Thought we were doing well, you know
41:16Thought we were
41:19On the right path
41:20And on the right track, I guess
41:21I just didn't expect that, so
41:23Feel a little
41:25Betrayed
41:28Deceived, I guess
41:29Oh, oh oh oh oh
41:31But I'm one size
41:32But one size
41:34What
41:34I feel so blind
41:35When I can't take it back
41:38No, oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh
41:41Bohooo
41:42Yeah, I feel really sick
41:44To my stomach right now
41:47Why a
41:48,
41:49I can't take it back
41:54Next time on The Single Life.
41:56Hello.
41:57Hi.
41:59How are you?
41:59I'm good.
42:00It's so good to see you.
42:02Wayne is 52 years old.
42:03He lives in the UK.
42:05And we've been talking for a couple months.
42:07I've even put some aftershave on for this coffee date.
42:10You're so handsome.
42:11I have to tell you, you are a handsome little guy.
42:13You are as well.
42:14Oh, thanks.
42:15Wayne might legit be my person.
42:18But putting all the effort into another international relationship, it's just taking such a chance.
42:26This is my daughter.
42:27I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
42:29I didn't expect that.
42:30I'm surprised you're even here.
42:32I was expecting more of a nice initial greeting, you know?
42:36That was a little weird for me.
42:38Can you close that?
42:39I could.
42:40Well, you better.
42:42So far, I'm not impressed.
42:47I want to know if you'd like to, you know, to try again.
42:51So I'm being honest.
42:52There is someone today that I'm going to just, like, meet.
42:57That's a day.
42:58You're going to have a date with someone.
43:00We have a few days left.
43:02And you'd rather spend that time with somebody that you know than spend the time with me?
43:06This is bulls**t.
43:08Are you free to dance?
43:09I am.
43:10All right, let's do it.
43:11I just don't see how dancing with other guys is respectful of the guy that you're with.
43:15It's my girl.
43:16Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
43:18No.
43:18I mean, like, are you serious?
43:20The fact that he's projecting this insecurity on me is not fair.
43:23It's not right.
43:24I'm not going to stand for it.
43:26I'm just, like, really done with this s**t.
43:28We might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
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