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Love Is Blind - Season 10 - Episode 11: See Where the Chips Fall
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00:00:11You
00:00:16Best defender I've seen in a minute. Don't do tricks. I don't know. That's not a trick. That's normal
00:00:25Look at you
00:00:28Well, it's coming to my face now. I get so scared. I'm just gonna let you score
00:00:38Yay our marriage lesson is easy peasy
00:00:47Five six seven and here comes the spin now you can take her nice up turn out that was beautiful
00:00:56And then just together. Oh, yeah, I like it
00:00:59Let's fall in love
00:01:17Did you get me flowers? I did
00:01:24Thank you of course so today we are as you can hear
00:01:31They love to show off. I love that got a nice dinner plans final date before the weddings kind of
00:01:37crazy
00:01:39Meeting with fam I was like one of the best nights of my life
00:01:42How Tina and Brandon opened up their home like he wanted to show you his bourbon collection and like Tina's
00:01:47like go upstairs and we have fresh towels
00:01:48We have this and we have that it's like
00:01:50How they showed up for us in that moment is how I expect like us to show up for others
00:01:57to as a household
00:01:58You want someone to feel at home in your home. It's so important to me
00:02:02To like create a home like that same
00:02:06So a g-man I try to call mr. McNeice try to say mr. McNeice I
00:02:11Knew he was gonna be like, oh my gosh. I have to come in like
00:02:16The iron fist of like breeze dad and like my baby girl is getting married like I need to be
00:02:21so critical
00:02:24You're cheesing like are you laughing at me? Are you happy?
00:02:28It's just like so weird for me. I'm like being so honest
00:02:32I feel like weirdly me and him are like a lot more like than
00:02:36Either must whatever you maybe admit even just like a little mannerisms. It's like slightly look over make sure like
00:02:42you're good and just like always
00:02:44Holding the door paying for stuff. I don't know. I feel like
00:02:48He can see me as a normal guy. It was just really nice. We just kept talking about stuff and
00:02:53he's like, oh, she'll do that. Yep
00:02:56Oh, you already know that and I think you just said one place like I trust you kids
00:02:59Like even like when we were leaving is like well might need to get a tux or something here soon
00:03:03Don't we I didn't know what I want and I was I wanted it to be us
00:03:07You are just like a boss bitch and you do what you want when you want and the fact that
00:03:13I choose me every day
00:03:15Makes me even feel confident more about myself
00:03:17Because like I am like I know what I want so much so like I want this man
00:03:23So like that makes you feel like hell. Yeah, she wants me. Yeah, that's interesting
00:03:28Because like you are not getting the best of me
00:03:31Like I'm not myself right now
00:03:33And it's crazy that you're falling in love with this part of me because like this is not my best
00:03:37self
00:03:37There's gonna be some days where you need your resets that believe me. I won't
00:03:45Ever take offense to it you're grinding your ass off going to work and I can just see
00:03:50Obviously and just feel some of the stresses that you've been under but you
00:03:54Even if you come home like tired and exhausted you still at least like give me a hug. Give me
00:03:58a kiss at least a little smile
00:04:00I think even on some of my worst days
00:04:02You know how to talk to me the moments that I have
00:04:07I've needed you you've been there and that means like the world to me
00:04:12I feel like I even fall in love with you like more and more each day
00:04:15Stop okay
00:04:19But each night we get to go to sleep and just like this is awesome
00:04:23Each time I wake up even though you're like I need you to get me up earlier
00:04:27Those five minutes in the morning when we finally let me cuddle you because you wanted to be away from
00:04:32me all night
00:04:33Okay, not all night. Yeah, but
00:04:36It's just like those little moments. I'm like feels like a forever thing. I
00:04:41Know you're gonna be a good mom and especially since we're dreamers. That's all I'm thinking about right now. I'm
00:04:44just like
00:04:45Yeah, our little left-footed midfielder playing well and you on the sidelines cheering him on it
00:04:54Well, this is endless is if it's a six-hour train ride I could feel the time of why you'd
00:04:58be a good wife
00:04:59Okay, stop it
00:05:03Well, let me just like talk about why the reasons I love Connor, okay
00:05:07I have heard my friends talk about dating. I've heard them talk about
00:05:11Marriages and like all these things and everybody kept saying like when you know, you know talking to you like
00:05:17and I
00:05:18Literally had butterflies heart palpitations everything in between like it was just like I
00:05:24Physically it was like unwell like I was like oh my god. This is the feeling they're talking about like
00:05:29I'm insane
00:05:30Like this is crazy. Yeah, I was like done. She's getting married
00:05:33I put it all on Connor. I fell in love with you. If it wasn't you it was nobody and
00:05:39what's crazy is I know
00:05:41What it's like to feel loved now?
00:05:45Like you fucking love me. I
00:05:50Know you do you love me
00:05:52Like you bring me flowers every day you run down to the
00:05:59Garage to greet me on my way home from work
00:06:03You sometimes are my punching bag and you're like you're so cute when you do that
00:06:08Being a bitch
00:06:10Like you love me
00:06:13I'm a psycho
00:06:16I'm crazy
00:06:18You even call me you're like you're a lunatic. I was like I know and you love me
00:06:21You're my lunatic. I don't have to be anybody who I'm not
00:06:25I can be me you loving me has opened up my eyes to be like I am deserving of this
00:06:33I should have somebody that loves every bit of me every piece of me and to find somebody like that
00:06:38is insane
00:06:39you really taught me like
00:06:42what love is
00:06:45To our last date in this experiment finding crazy finding my favorite person ever
00:07:07Africa events I go play with the monkey. I gotta go play with a monkey
00:07:12I'm returning you to sender
00:07:15Bringing me home
00:07:23Hi, how are you?
00:07:26Oh my gosh anything you don't want slobber on remove now, okay
00:07:32Um, so here at the columbus si we have 17 giraffe we have quite a few this is bobby hi
00:07:38handsome
00:07:38He is actually our breeding bull of the herd oh, all right bobby
00:07:43He's got four lovely ladies in the house
00:07:45Look at you
00:07:47And here she comes one of them right now is zuri
00:07:50As you can see they don't think they get fed at all
00:07:53You are a lot of people
00:07:56You are a you know you are
00:07:59Emma you gotta control your man
00:08:01You gotta control your man
00:08:08There you go buddy
00:08:10You're my best friend wow
00:08:12Another head of lettuce please
00:08:14He's like give me a hat
00:08:16Just give it all of us
00:08:22All gone
00:08:25Hey this is so cool
00:08:27That was really cool i've never done anything like that so
00:08:32Oh shit oh oh is that my boy
00:08:35Wait probably
00:08:36So cool this is so cool this is a great finale date before our wedding
00:08:41It is
00:08:42You smell like giraffe
00:08:44Do you a little bit
00:08:46What does that smell like
00:08:47Come on over
00:08:50Feeding giraffes
00:08:51For our anniversary every year we like pick something on our bucket list and like
00:08:56Do something super like cool and wacky and whether the cool shit is like
00:09:00Literally walking around the zoo together and like getting getting culvers and a sweet treat
00:09:07I want to be able to like have shared experiences before
00:09:12We start a family and then like when that family comes like then it's like
00:09:16You get to do
00:09:18Cool experiences with them it's like disney world and just like all of that stuff
00:09:21But it's like i want to do things with us that we can do while we're young right then do
00:09:27stuff
00:09:28Post right i mean i that's i couldn't agree more like
00:09:33Is that
00:09:34I don't know you said with family and stuff like you've been thinking more on that
00:09:38I have been thinking about it and like
00:09:43I
00:09:46Like i a hundred percent think you are the right partner like i
00:09:53Don't
00:09:54Like i don't think like i just i picture like
00:09:58You're laughing so i'm sorry no no i um and but like the way like i feel with you like
00:10:04safe and stable and like
00:10:06Confident like it's one in a million like i
00:10:11Am continuing to be open-minded yeah that's all you just brought it up this way no no
00:10:16But i am thinking about it i want to show you i'm thinking about it because like i
00:10:20I am like and i see
00:10:23I see it like i do see a family with you and i see
00:10:27um
00:10:28Sorry i was like what is that um the drops are talking
00:10:36Go on
00:10:38It's like in Cabo and i can't stop laughing um
00:10:42No i like i see that with you but i
00:10:45I think that will like also continue just to go with time sure
00:10:52Sure i get it
00:10:53Yeah
00:10:54You're not good
00:10:57You're very cute
00:11:11It doesn't feel like it's only been a month and a half like i feel like i've known you for
00:11:16way longer than that
00:11:17Yeah, that feels like so long ago.
00:11:20To see how far we've come, it's just crazy.
00:11:23Mm-hmm.
00:11:24How much, like, has happened in a matter of six weeks?
00:11:28A lot can change in six weeks.
00:11:30Mm-hmm.
00:11:31You had 16 girlfriends, and I had 16 boyfriends.
00:11:34Oh, that was nice.
00:11:36Just shut up.
00:11:37This is the only time I'll be able to do that.
00:11:40Ever.
00:11:41Take me back, honestly.
00:11:43That was when life was good.
00:11:46I can't stand you.
00:11:49Oh, man.
00:11:50What a ride.
00:11:52What a ride.
00:11:53I'm going to get married in a week.
00:11:57It's crazy when you say it like that.
00:12:00Yeah.
00:12:02Oh, wow.
00:12:04Mm-hmm.
00:12:04Let's go sit by the fire.
00:12:06I guess I haven't had this pressure before of, like,
00:12:10the marriage has more been in a relationship
00:12:11where it's like you can just kind of drag things out.
00:12:13What we have, like, foundation-wise can last a lifetime.
00:12:18Um...
00:12:19Yeah.
00:12:19You are the first person I've met that I felt like
00:12:23it's worth giving up my independence.
00:12:26Yeah.
00:12:27Well, that's good.
00:12:28I would say I'm definitely, like, worried about it.
00:12:30You were snoring last night legitimately.
00:12:33Stop it.
00:12:35Sound like a lumberjack.
00:12:36I'm a cute sleeper.
00:12:38To each their own.
00:12:42So you're still going to choose me even though I snored like you?
00:12:46I don't know.
00:12:46You kind of sounded like Godzilla last night.
00:12:48Stop it.
00:12:50Did I really?
00:12:52Oh, yeah.
00:12:52Yeah.
00:12:53Paul Bunyan.
00:12:54That's your nickname.
00:12:55Stop talking.
00:12:59My mind, like, at night has been racing.
00:13:01I haven't been able to, like, sleep.
00:13:03Yeah.
00:13:03Of course we could say yes and...
00:13:05But it's just, like...
00:13:05Yeah.
00:13:06It's a lot.
00:13:08And it's definitely been waiting on me.
00:13:10Yeah.
00:13:11I need to, like, get away.
00:13:13Everything is, like, great and amazing,
00:13:14but I'm just trying to, like, really, like, process it.
00:13:17I need, like, time to just, like, really sit
00:13:19because it's, like, it is a big decision.
00:13:21I feel like it's starting to, like, weigh on me,
00:13:24like, in a good way,
00:13:24but it's, like, I got to really sit with my thoughts
00:13:27and kind of, like, literally go ghost.
00:13:29Mm-hmm.
00:13:30I'll probably do, like, a day where I'm just, like,
00:13:33I'm unreachable.
00:13:34Okay.
00:13:35So completely off the grid.
00:13:36It's, like, completely, like, complete dark day.
00:13:39Like, phone probably won't even be on.
00:13:41Do you feel like you're not certain if you're going to say yes?
00:13:47Like, I'm, like, obviously, I would say, like, I'm 98% there.
00:13:52I told you my biggest fear is getting to the aisle
00:13:55and it being, like, a no.
00:13:57Yeah.
00:13:58I can see myself saying yes.
00:14:00Yeah.
00:14:00I wouldn't have my family come here if I didn't,
00:14:03if I wasn't going to say yes.
00:14:05Even though I already had a wedding dress,
00:14:07Mm-hmm.
00:14:07Like, trying on wedding dresses again,
00:14:09when I tried it on this time, it was, like, exciting
00:14:13because I'm, like, I can see myself marrying you.
00:14:18I can be a wife and, like, have a husband.
00:14:22It does kind of feel like we're just in this fairy tale.
00:14:25Trust me, I get it.
00:14:28You're saying yes at the altar.
00:14:31Well, there is one thing that I want to talk about.
00:14:34Someone told me that, like, the dress fitting day,
00:14:39they heard that I don't, like, kiss you enough
00:14:42or tell you you're pretty enough
00:14:43and to, like, remind me to do that.
00:14:46I was pissed because I was like,
00:14:48oh, I'm being talked about again in a negative way.
00:14:51They asked what Devante is going to say
00:14:53when he sees you in this dress,
00:14:55and he said, well, he's a man of few words.
00:14:57I don't know what he's going to say.
00:14:59Yeah.
00:15:00I think everybody knows, like, how I feel about you,
00:15:04and it's very obvious.
00:15:05Yeah.
00:15:06But I know you're not somebody
00:15:08that's ever going to be, like, gushing over me.
00:15:10Yeah.
00:15:10It's, like, not your personality,
00:15:11and that's something that, like,
00:15:12I've had to come to terms with,
00:15:14of, like, accepting that, like, that's not, like,
00:15:19how you show me that you think that I'm pretty.
00:15:22That makes sense.
00:15:23Obviously, I would like for you to tell me
00:15:25that you think that I'm pretty.
00:15:27Right.
00:15:27But I also know that that's not how you are.
00:15:32There's one more thing.
00:15:34I know the sacrifices that I've made
00:15:36to get to where I'm at.
00:15:38I don't ever want to lose that,
00:15:40lose half of that or a lot of that,
00:15:42and, like, I don't know.
00:15:44So, prenups,
00:15:47and I don't think that was, like,
00:15:48something we even talked about in the pods.
00:15:50So I'm not saying that's directed toward you.
00:15:53That is more for, like, where I feel good
00:15:56in my own space.
00:16:00You're entitled to feel how you feel.
00:16:01Yeah.
00:16:02Like, obviously, you have worked very hard
00:16:03to get where you are.
00:16:04Yeah.
00:16:05To build the life that you have,
00:16:07but I don't know.
00:16:12I don't want to be married to somebody
00:16:14that feels like they have to protect themselves from me.
00:16:17I don't think people intend to be spiteful
00:16:19until they have the opportunity to do it.
00:16:21I'm not spiteful.
00:16:23Like, that's not who I am.
00:16:24That's never going to be who I am.
00:16:25I don't know.
00:16:26I guess it's just how I feel.
00:16:29Sometimes you don't know why you feel the way you feel.
00:16:34Or...
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:37So is this you saying you want one?
00:16:41I think it would make me feel comfortable.
00:16:48I wish you would have brought this up sooner.
00:16:50Well, the reason I didn't is because I was like,
00:16:53I'm not going to jump right into this one.
00:16:55It's like we don't even know
00:16:56what everything else looks like.
00:17:00So if I didn't feel comfortable with the prenup,
00:17:03is that...
00:17:04Hmm.
00:17:08I don't know.
00:17:11I guess it's just something I'll have to decide.
00:17:13If I sign that paper,
00:17:16will I be able to not think about the fact
00:17:19that there's that in the background?
00:17:22Yeah.
00:17:23It just feels like...
00:17:27you have a plan
00:17:29to not always fight for it.
00:17:33Well, I can tell you one thing,
00:17:35that I'm still here for a reason.
00:17:37You know that I'm not a quitter.
00:17:39I'm not asking you to make a decision right this second.
00:17:43Sleep on it.
00:17:43But we're going to be life partners.
00:17:46We've got to have everything out on the table.
00:17:48I've stayed because you actually, like, want to be here.
00:17:52Mm-hmm.
00:17:53You know, you said actions speak louder than words,
00:17:55and your actions...
00:17:57Your actions have definitely shown me...
00:18:00Okay.
00:18:01...that it's worth staying.
00:18:03I didn't come this far to come this far.
00:18:05Were you planning on having this conversation tonight?
00:18:07Yeah.
00:18:07Oh.
00:18:08Yeah, tonight.
00:18:10Save the best for past.
00:18:11Yes.
00:18:13Because you knew that I wouldn't take it well.
00:18:15That's why.
00:18:16See, I know you.
00:18:20I think we should pray.
00:18:21When in doubt.
00:18:22What we need.
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:26Dear Heavenly Father, I thank you for this day.
00:18:28I thank you for Devante.
00:18:31We trust you, and, you know, if we do choose to get married,
00:18:36God, I pray blessings over our marriage,
00:18:38over our future, over our kids, over our finances.
00:18:42I just thank you for Devante.
00:18:45I thank you for everything that you've brought us through
00:18:48and that you'll continue to bring us through.
00:18:50Thank you that we're going to be able to celebrate
00:18:52with our family next week, and I just thank you for the journey.
00:18:57Amen.
00:18:58Amen.
00:19:01Were you going for a high five there?
00:19:03I don't know how I was going there.
00:19:10It's going to be okay.
00:19:12The sun will rise again tomorrow.
00:19:14Mm-hmm.
00:19:15Oh, not here.
00:19:17Not in a while.
00:19:20The clouds will rise again tomorrow.
00:19:36Yo.
00:19:38We're here.
00:19:40Yay!
00:19:40All right.
00:19:41I'm excited.
00:19:42Me too.
00:19:43Otherworld is Emma and I's favorite place to go.
00:19:46When I told Emma I was coming here with Jordan,
00:19:49which she has not met him yet,
00:19:50she's going to meet him Saturday,
00:19:51she was like,
00:19:52I want to go, I want to go,
00:19:53and I was like,
00:19:54we will definitely come back here with him.
00:19:56Emma was playing with my ring,
00:19:58and she has this little stuffed animal,
00:20:00and she had put it, like, literally right there.
00:20:04I found it in her toy box,
00:20:05and I was like,
00:20:06yeah, let's just not do that again.
00:20:09Maybe never do that again.
00:20:10Ever.
00:20:11Look at this vampire gold.
00:20:13I got the teeth, and I got the clothes.
00:20:16Nothing gonna stop me now.
00:20:17I'm on my way.
00:20:18Ready?
00:20:19Yeah, what do you got?
00:20:20What do you got?
00:20:24Oh, yeah.
00:20:25This one's tripping.
00:20:26Oh, man, I'm gonna ram into a mirror in here.
00:20:28I know.
00:20:29Isn't this crazy?
00:20:30It's so fun.
00:20:31Yeah.
00:20:31Yeah.
00:20:33This is so pretty.
00:20:34Yeah.
00:20:35Thanks for bringing me.
00:20:36I'll give you what you need.
00:20:38What you need.
00:20:40Down here about us on device.
00:20:45So don't make me tell you to hide.
00:20:50Oh, let me, let me, oh.
00:20:52Let me, let me, oh.
00:20:55Cheers.
00:20:56Cheers.
00:20:57Cheers.
00:20:57Good games.
00:20:58Yes.
00:21:00Oh.
00:21:01Yes.
00:21:01Oh, yeah.
00:21:02So we have a little goodie bag.
00:21:04But the grand prize is for you.
00:21:08Oh.
00:21:08Oh, my God.
00:21:09We will ever see this.
00:21:13Somebody's gonna love that.
00:21:13Getting to meet Emma finally.
00:21:15Yeah.
00:21:16That'll be awesome.
00:21:16Saturday, yeah.
00:21:17Yeah.
00:21:18I finally have a plan to meet Emma, which is gonna be cool.
00:21:20So I wouldn't say that I have any reservations about the wedding because I know Amber and I
00:21:25are on the same page.
00:21:26We're just looking forward to planning a life together.
00:21:29Can't wait to see what Emma has to say about that.
00:21:32Actually, you know what?
00:21:34Maybe I'll have you bring it to her Saturday.
00:21:37Hmm.
00:21:39I have another little thing for her.
00:21:41So maybe you can bring both.
00:21:42Okay.
00:21:43That'd be really cute.
00:21:44Okay.
00:21:44Yeah.
00:21:44That's a good plan.
00:21:48I'm excited.
00:21:50Me too.
00:22:02Ready?
00:22:03Is this where I get murdered?
00:22:05No.
00:22:06Are you proposing?
00:22:07Again?
00:22:08You know I get surprises.
00:22:10Trust me.
00:22:10Okay, okay.
00:22:11All right.
00:22:12So that's kind of what we got going on tonight.
00:22:14Oh my gosh.
00:22:15Pretty cool, yeah.
00:22:16This is so cute.
00:22:17I'm obsessed.
00:22:18Yeah?
00:22:18Oh my god, yeah.
00:22:19Can I go sit?
00:22:20Absolutely.
00:22:21This is so beautiful.
00:22:23Did you plan this?
00:22:24All of it.
00:22:25Yeah.
00:22:25It's like the most romantic thing.
00:22:27I love it.
00:22:29Want some champagne?
00:22:30Sure.
00:22:36Mmm.
00:22:37We need a cheers.
00:22:38Do you like an ice?
00:22:38Cheers, Dad.
00:22:39Dad's expert.
00:22:40Seven years.
00:22:42I don't want that.
00:22:44We don't need that.
00:22:45Mm-mm.
00:22:45What are you most excited for on the wedding day?
00:22:47Are you running?
00:22:49No.
00:22:50No.
00:22:51Just spending time with you.
00:22:52Like, obviously.
00:22:53A wedding day?
00:22:53Yeah.
00:22:54I need to sit back.
00:22:54I need to sit back.
00:22:55You're going to fall asleep.
00:22:56No, I'm not.
00:22:57What are we doing for our first Christmas?
00:22:59We'll be here before we know it.
00:22:59So do you see that globe right there?
00:23:01Yeah.
00:23:01You know that, like, bottom tip?
00:23:04It's called Antarctica.
00:23:05No.
00:23:05We're going to go there for our first Christmas.
00:23:06No.
00:23:07If anything, we'd first of all go to the North Pole for Christmas.
00:23:10It makes no sense.
00:23:11That's where Santa lives.
00:23:12You do make good arguments.
00:23:14Obviously.
00:23:15Okay, so for real, what are we doing for Christmas?
00:23:17Switzerland.
00:23:19Um, St. Moritz?
00:23:20I don't know.
00:23:21We've got to go somewhere warm.
00:23:22A beach would be nice.
00:23:24Make that work.
00:23:25What's one thing you want to do in our first year of marriage?
00:23:27What's a goal we should have?
00:23:31We have to travel out of the country at least once.
00:23:33Yeah.
00:23:34I guess I would just love for us to, like, obviously know where, like, our home is.
00:23:39Oh, for sure.
00:23:39At least where we want to be for a while.
00:23:41Whether it's Florida, Arizona, wherever, starting to have those roots.
00:23:46And I, like, I don't want to, like, scare you when I say these things, like, you know, planting roots
00:23:49and, like, staying grounded.
00:23:50It doesn't throw me, like, as much as I feel like you think it might.
00:23:53But I do want it to be in a place where I'm not thinking about other places.
00:24:02How do you want to celebrate your first birthday as a married man?
00:24:05Oof.
00:24:06I don't know.
00:24:07What about you?
00:24:08I normally like to go, like, on a trip somewhere, to be honest.
00:24:11It's got to be warm, though.
00:24:12Mmm.
00:24:13Mmm.
00:24:14Mmm.
00:24:15No promises.
00:24:16You don't want me to be happy.
00:24:19What other questions you got for me?
00:24:22Mmm.
00:24:23Mmm?
00:24:25Um.
00:24:29I just asked one.
00:24:31What'd you ask?
00:24:33Uh, I thought I just asked one.
00:24:36No.
00:24:36Did I not?
00:24:37No.
00:24:37No, was that you?
00:24:38We were talking about birthdays.
00:24:39Oh, that's right.
00:24:40That is right.
00:24:41Um.
00:24:46I'm trying to think.
00:24:47What about your new dress?
00:24:49You have to be excited about it.
00:24:50I got emotional putting on the dress.
00:24:52Did you?
00:24:52Mmm-hmm.
00:24:53I know.
00:24:53Shocking.
00:24:55No, it was, like, a very real moment.
00:24:57Yeah?
00:25:00Yeah.
00:25:01Thinking about what you were gonna think or say when you saw me.
00:25:04For sure.
00:25:04All the girls were there, and my friends were there, and just think how pretty I was.
00:25:09Stop it.
00:25:10But go on.
00:25:11It's my job.
00:25:12Stop it.
00:25:12But go on.
00:25:14That's funny.
00:25:14No, but it was sweet.
00:25:16They asked, like, what's your dad gonna think when he sees you?
00:25:19And I just started crying.
00:25:20I was like, he's not invited.
00:25:21Like, he's no longer invited anymore.
00:25:23No, I'm sure he'll support you.
00:25:26We'll see.
00:25:31What's your mom gonna think?
00:25:33I think she'll be excited.
00:25:34Like, she's probably pushing more for grandkids at this point.
00:25:37Oh, my God.
00:25:37Really?
00:25:38I think so.
00:25:39Oh, my God.
00:25:40No, she's excited, though.
00:25:41What do you say, like, when someone asks you, like, tell me about Ashley?
00:25:44What do you say?
00:25:45Oh, I love her authenticity.
00:25:46The confidence and the competitive spirit that she shows is huge.
00:25:49I do love the fact that you're willing to put yourself out there.
00:25:53Try new things.
00:25:55What do you tell your friends?
00:25:57My friends hate you.
00:25:59I know.
00:26:00Ridiculous.
00:26:01I'm just kidding.
00:26:02I tell them that your golf swing needs a lot of work.
00:26:05It's true.
00:26:07No.
00:26:07That's just what you tell your dad.
00:26:09I did tell him that he needs some work.
00:26:10I'm just kidding.
00:26:12Um, no, I tell them that you're very well-traveled.
00:26:15You're very passionate about soccer and day trading.
00:26:18It seems like your friends and family have nothing but good things to say about you.
00:26:23I think you'll be, like, a good husband, a good father, just based off of, like, your experiences.
00:26:30I love that.
00:26:31I love that.
00:26:32And I think when you, like, have something in your mind, you put everything you have into it.
00:26:37Mm-hmm.
00:26:37So that's why I think you've been successful in this experiment.
00:26:40Mm-hmm.
00:26:40No, not tooting my own horn or anything, but, like, you got really lucky.
00:26:44I did, I did.
00:26:45With who you chose.
00:26:45So you know how to make a really good decision.
00:26:48I do.
00:26:51How are you feeling about having to make a decision?
00:26:54How confident, I guess, are you?
00:26:56I feel good about it.
00:26:57I feel kind of like we're where we should be.
00:27:01Um, obviously, like, we're crushing it.
00:27:04Like, we've done...
00:27:04Crushing it.
00:27:05We've done very well.
00:27:06We've been on the same page for a long time, it seems like.
00:27:08So there's excitement there for sure.
00:27:10I know it's a big, big day.
00:27:12It's obviously, like, a life, you know, changing decision.
00:27:16But everything for me goes back to soccer.
00:27:18Like, you can't plan out how the game's gonna go.
00:27:20You just play it.
00:27:21Like, you're in that game and you're a part of it.
00:27:24And obviously doing your best, but you don't necessarily control the outcome.
00:27:29And this is one of those things that I control part of it.
00:27:32But it's an outcome that is going to happen.
00:27:36How it was meant to happen is the way I look at it.
00:27:38Stoicism helps out as well in the sense of, like, keep the emotions in check.
00:27:42I feel confident in the end product as well.
00:27:47Yeah.
00:27:48The fear of the unknown always gets me.
00:27:50You know that.
00:27:51I'm sure you got the vibe.
00:27:52I was, like, attracted to you because you were so confident in, like, your decision to choose me.
00:27:56Like, I've been second best so many times.
00:28:00Mm-hmm.
00:28:00And when you work, like, I want it to be you.
00:28:03Yeah.
00:28:03That is when I was, like, this guy's got it.
00:28:06That was it for me.
00:28:07I love that.
00:28:08I love that.
00:28:10Choose me and finish this.
00:28:11Finish?
00:28:12My God.
00:28:12Mm-hmm.
00:28:13You didn't make eye contact.
00:28:14Mm-hmm.
00:28:16I did in my head.
00:28:17So you're having bad sex for seven years.
00:28:19Well, you're having it with me, then.
00:28:20I will be having good sex.
00:28:22I've looked in your eyes.
00:28:22Did you?
00:28:23Anyways.
00:28:24We have a wedding, people.
00:28:26I'm excited for it.
00:28:27For you, I'd steal the sun so I could light your sun.
00:28:35For you, I'd stop the world from spinning just so we could have some time.
00:28:44Aww.
00:28:47How cute.
00:28:49How's this morning?
00:28:50Pretty.
00:28:52I can't wait for wedding day.
00:28:54Like, I'm on countdown in my head, but I'm just trying to remind myself to slow down
00:28:59and to take in every last moment that I get with Vic.
00:29:02Toast to many more memories, our future, and love.
00:29:08Yeah.
00:29:09Into one chapter and all the books to write to come.
00:29:13I like that one.
00:29:14Salud.
00:29:16Mm.
00:29:18Every phase of this has felt like an eternity in the best way.
00:29:24Yeah.
00:29:25You know it all.
00:29:26And you accept me for who I am.
00:29:28You love me for who I am.
00:29:29I don't think I've ever felt as confident about anything in my life, especially something
00:29:34so serious as this.
00:29:35And I know it's not even just, like, my decision, right?
00:29:38I mean, you're great in love, but...
00:29:42I've been praying for you for a lot longer than I've known you.
00:29:45Same.
00:29:47I can see and I can feel how much you love your family, how much you love your friends,
00:29:53how much you love your job, how much you love what you get to do and the change you get
00:29:57to be a part of, how much you love God, how much you love me.
00:30:03You just pour yourself out in, like, the best way.
00:30:06And it's a way that, like, fills you.
00:30:08And it's like, that's the part that I love.
00:30:11Mm-hmm.
00:30:11How, like, filling it is for you to love so much.
00:30:14Mm-hmm.
00:30:15You're an amazing woman and you know that.
00:30:16I don't even have to tell you everything about you.
00:30:21Your selflessness, the love you have in you.
00:30:23You're smart.
00:30:25Like, I think you're brilliant.
00:30:26I love hearing your stories.
00:30:29And, I mean, I know you'll make an excellent partner.
00:30:33Sometimes I get speechless around you.
00:30:36Because of, it's just like, I get this, this, like, this wow feeling that happens.
00:30:44You're gonna make me cry already.
00:30:46Yeah, I love you.
00:30:47I love you too.
00:30:49I'm gonna set this on fire.
00:30:52I'm gonna reach even higher.
00:30:55I can't open now.
00:30:58You're somebody that I'd be, and I am, very, very, very proud to know and to love and to call
00:31:10you my husband.
00:31:11Mm-hmm.
00:31:13Mm-hmm.
00:31:13And for you to be the father of my kids someday.
00:31:16Yeah.
00:31:18I love you very, very much.
00:31:20I love you deeply, baby.
00:31:22Deeply.
00:31:24Deeply, deeply, deeply, deeply.
00:31:26And you're just everything that I could want in so many ways.
00:31:30I mean, even just down to your hobbies and snacking on your cashews and just, like, the little habits that
00:31:35you have.
00:31:35And I think we're gonna complement each other.
00:31:38Mm-hmm.
00:31:39And push each other.
00:31:40Push me to be better.
00:31:41And vice versa.
00:31:43Yeah.
00:31:43You're gonna push me too.
00:31:44I know that.
00:31:44Yeah.
00:31:45I've never felt like this in my life.
00:31:47Mm-hmm.
00:31:48Yeah.
00:31:49Me too.
00:31:50And it just makes so much sense.
00:31:52You know, you look back at every single little stepping stone of your life.
00:31:56Even the hard times, you know?
00:31:57I'm just like, I would do those things a million times over if it got me here.
00:32:02Mm-hmm.
00:32:03Yeah.
00:32:04I'm saying.
00:32:05You're an answer prayer.
00:32:06So are you.
00:32:07Mm-hmm.
00:32:09So are you, baby.
00:32:10I love it.
00:32:11I love you.
00:32:12Everything.
00:32:13I love you.
00:32:14I'm so excited.
00:32:15So happy.
00:32:16So grateful.
00:32:18So, so grateful.
00:32:20You too.
00:32:23I had a great day with you, mom.
00:32:27Great.
00:32:28The last first date.
00:32:30The last first date.
00:32:32Mm-hmm.
00:32:35I love you too.
00:32:36It's cocaine.
00:32:37Earth is coke, man.
00:32:39These are the moments we live for.
00:32:43I want more.
00:32:46this is the most bizarre exciting expansive coolest thing i've ever done and i couldn't have
00:32:54done it without you and i wouldn't have done it without you like there's no chance i mean we fell
00:32:59in love not even looking at each other i know it's crazy it really is but you're not getting
00:33:05the best of me right now because i have just been grinding what's really sad is like i know
00:33:14i can give so much more when i see my friends and family tell you that you're not getting the
00:33:20best version of me and this isn't me right now it really hurts that's really tough to say out loud
00:33:27that's i mean it's powerful um it's a testament to you so even in maybe your worst version
00:33:34still obsessed with you
00:33:38you really do love me for the good bad the ugly
00:33:45even as we're seeing each other every single day when you text me at like 505 you're like can i
00:33:49call
00:33:50you i get so happy
00:33:54i'm gonna start getting emotional like i just can't wait to like we've had so many nights where after
00:34:01the longest day we still just sit in bed and talk for like two hours yeah those are my favorite
00:34:06moments
00:34:06with you if this is who you are right now and this is how much i'm obsessed with you
00:34:14stop i think once you get back into what you call your normal stay it's like
00:34:18i think you're gonna be able to give more love too so i'm excited for not only me how much
00:34:24more
00:34:24i even might love you which is i don't know if it's possible yeah but like you also to give
00:34:28off their love and accept it more too like i'm so excited to see that kind of transition
00:34:32i know me too do you think you are ready for marriage i am ready for it i think i'll
00:34:38be a good
00:34:39husband uh good father transparently when i came into your house i see your car and i'm like this guy
00:34:45doesn't give a like he doesn't give a shit about anything what does this mean about like how he's
00:34:49going to show up for like a presentation of like our house and our family and like his job and
00:34:54is
00:34:54he proud of it like i know like it's such a silly thing about a house and a car but
00:34:59like what clothes
00:35:00you wear and like how you present yourself it doesn't have to be like high-end crazy things but
00:35:06just like have pride and like that's a reflection of you it just makes me feel like it's lazy like
00:35:11there's no pride there's no like hustle there's no grit there's no like pride to this and like
00:35:16it just made me feel like who is this guy is he just gonna be a liability like i don't
00:35:23know
00:35:24i'm just so used to someone that's out alpha'd me like he's been the leader it's not like you're
00:35:30coming in and being like i'm gonna make like five times more money than you i live in a nicer
00:35:36house
00:35:36than you i do this like it wasn't like this extravagant like in your face like out alpha me you
00:35:43don't have the big energy where you're talking over me or ordering at the restaurant or like the
00:35:47confidence to be like she'll take this like you're kind of looking at me like what should we order like
00:35:53what and it was just like this weird energy that i'm not used to and it's actually interesting because
00:35:58we talk about challenge and challenge shows up so differently like is it challenging me to get up at
00:36:03six o'clock and go to the gym and like be disciplined about that maybe that's something that i would
00:36:08love
00:36:08for someone to encourage me to do but like also is the challenge of like being able to accept just
00:36:14being loved for who i am some people think i don't care about a lot of things because there's not
00:36:19like
00:36:19a lot of i guess material things that like yeah i would love a nice car yeah i'd love a
00:36:25nice house and
00:36:25i can't wait for those things someday but i think that's why i do work and support you and a
00:36:30family
00:36:30someday but a lot of people sometimes just see like the the keg on the outside or something or
00:36:37that i haven't cleaned up and uh i just don't love talking about myself and just like listening
00:36:43more is kind of who i've been you've actually seen more of me and i'm just very glad that you
00:36:49took the time because not everybody does my dad and i have had conversations he's like maybe that's
00:36:54you've been chasing the wrong thing and you need to shift into something like that where like you can't
00:36:59still lead but you find somebody that's complimentary and leads you in other ways i just feel like i've
00:37:05been so critical and so analytical and like trying to figure out if this is my husband that i've like
00:37:11lost sight of like literally the whole concept of it is love blind because had i seen all those things
00:37:20i may be a past judgment on things that weren't true and i did yeah and like that's like the
00:37:27whole
00:37:27point of this experiment right i know you hustle and i know that you're proud of what you've built
00:37:32for yourself and i know you take pride in that and i hated that i watered that down because i
00:37:37do like
00:37:38it is incredible you own a house you have an established career i know you've worked your ass
00:37:42off to get where you're at and like you are thinking about the future and like what you could
00:37:46do with your career to support a family and do all those things like you have absolutely shown up for
00:37:52me in ways i have never been i've never experienced before i know that you love every piece of me
00:37:59the way that you make me feel loved is insane even on my darkest days or even when i'm like
00:38:04literally feeling the most disgusting like you think i'm the most beautiful person in the world
00:38:08however i show up to you is enough i'm trying to decide are you the total package or are you
00:38:16in my
00:38:16life to teach me how to be loved is this my person for the rest of my life is that
00:38:22true love
00:38:25i can't go up to the to the altar and be like yeah question mark am i ready to walk
00:38:33down the aisle
00:38:35no
00:38:42if i were to go down the aisle today it would be no for me
00:38:46but that makes me question like why why is it no because if it is the right person i'm like
00:38:54so deeply in love and it's like my person for life like would it matter
00:39:01i think i would have said yes to you you would have gone to the altar and said yes
00:39:05so had i been in a different space we would be at our wedding day
00:39:10yeah i would have on monday said yes and i've been open about that i've no issue saying that
00:39:17um and i'm not gonna be ashamed of that and i know you don't think anything less of me because
00:39:21i wanted to marry you so
00:39:27what the fuck am i doing
00:39:33if we can get through this like i hope that it's not a no forever
00:39:37so do you see yourself marrying me someday i hope
00:39:41hold me up until the morning
00:39:47yeah
00:39:48break me down into the dust
00:39:55what a ride
00:39:57what an absolute craziest month of my life
00:40:00month it's been like years
00:40:02that's true
00:40:03i saw the couch or something
00:40:05is that okay
00:40:06i can't say with certainty that he's not my person like that's the hard part
00:40:10i hate that i have to say
00:40:11no i'm not ready
00:40:12i hate to be saying things like
00:40:15are you a lesson to learn or are you the love of my life
00:40:19it's really hard to understand why i'm going backwards
00:40:21i don't know why
00:40:22it sucks that we aren't getting married monday
00:40:24because of just the way i feel
00:40:26and uh did i want to come here and just teach you how to be loved more
00:40:32no but i think any time before this if somebody had said that they aren't ready to marry me
00:40:39and i'm ready to marry them is i would have freaked out
00:40:41why do you think that's different
00:40:43because of how much we do love each other
00:40:48i am optimistic and i know you're not going to run
00:40:52you've consistently proven that you're going to be there for me
00:41:01i would have said yes
00:41:03but
00:41:07as life
00:41:08you've told me you're wise this whole time
00:41:09you've directly communicated
00:41:11where you were at
00:41:12i've never had that in my entire life
00:41:15and that's why i'm more excited to
00:41:19continue to grow
00:41:19continue to prove
00:41:21that i'm going to be there for you
00:41:22i mean there's a reason
00:41:24that we fell in love sight unseen
00:41:27that's something i'll remember forever in my entire life
00:41:29and
00:41:30hopefully
00:41:31it's a connection that brings us
00:41:34even to the altar someday
00:41:36i love her with all my heart
00:41:37and i knew that before even seeing her
00:41:40so
00:41:41yeah
00:41:43i think love is blind
00:41:51this has been
00:41:52the ride of a lifetime
00:41:55so thank you
00:42:03yeah
00:42:21this is going to be so fun
00:42:35it's monster jam
00:42:38it's bachelor night
00:42:40monster trucks
00:42:41good vibes
00:42:42good friends
00:42:43damn near family at this point man
00:42:45feeling good
00:42:47very ohio
00:42:49kudos to whoever set that up
00:43:02so today's the bachelet party
00:43:04and i'm feeling really excited
00:43:10turn down for what
00:43:13oh my god
00:43:20this is so funny
00:43:23we are at the casino
00:43:24celebrating our last night of single life
00:43:27hopefully win some money
00:43:28help me for the weddings
00:43:29no i'm just kidding
00:43:30turn down for what
00:43:32i'm gonna be alex henderson's wife
00:43:34in a couple days
00:43:35and that is a crazy thing to say
00:43:37i'm gonna be a wife
00:43:38turn down for what
00:43:39you're betting on love
00:43:40i'm all in
00:43:41first bachelet party
00:43:50this is how i'm practicing
00:43:51walking down the aisle
00:43:52i'm just sitting there with alex
00:43:55i do
00:43:57jordan he's the best man i've ever met
00:43:59what i'm hopeful for is like tomorrow
00:44:02when he meets emma
00:44:02that he'll realize it's not that scary
00:44:04i think that would fulfill his life so much
00:44:07in ways that like he can't even understand yet
00:44:11i feel very goofy trying to walk sexy
00:44:17amber's got the legs
00:44:20all right let's hit it baby
00:44:23damn
00:44:28there's no way the girls have this much fun
00:44:30they just can't be
00:44:32amber texted me a little bit ago and asked if i wanted pizza i said we're not done
00:44:36at least she didn't get pizza though
00:44:38i'll eat the rest later while she's probably asleep
00:44:41i hope she takes my dog out
00:44:45ooh 40
00:44:47jesus christ man
00:44:49now you're getting me killed as a quarterback
00:44:52i am excited to get to the altar and to see her in her dress
00:44:55we do have question marks in terms of children
00:44:58does sound like she's coming around
00:44:59but i don't know what she's gonna say
00:45:01excited yeah excited nervous
00:45:03it's a good good time
00:45:06i love sports
00:45:10oh give me that
00:45:13oh my daisy can let's serve
00:45:155-0
00:45:16oh my god
00:45:18i think ashley's a phenomenal person
00:45:20so when i close my eyes and picture my wife
00:45:22in five years i see myself living in florida
00:45:24with a phenomenal house
00:45:25potential trust in dubai
00:45:27and a safe house in queenstown new zealand
00:45:28i feel my i see myself very happy with a wife and kids or kids on the way at that
00:45:32point
00:45:33game point
00:45:33it's a good good
00:45:34all my days
00:45:36here's a toast to everybody finding a husband
00:45:42toast to love
00:45:43happiness
00:45:44toast to marriage god damn it
00:45:46marriage god damn it
00:45:48i feel my wedding day and i'm so excited big day i'm like really in my head right now i'm
00:46:17really
00:46:21children and like all the thoughts and like it's a big decision
00:46:24yeah i just don't want to make the wrong
00:46:27yeah have you talked to mike at all today no i text him it's her motherfucking wedding and he goes
00:46:33like he thumbs it and he's like i'm very late i was like i am too
00:46:37we just had like fun last night too you know it's like we never talked about
00:46:41anything
00:46:41did you guys end up staying together last night or did you
00:46:43no no i like we went to our hotels
00:46:46i love him for you yeah mom loves him i've never felt this way about someone before
00:46:54yeah he's very comfortable he fits in really well
00:46:58he makes me feel so happy and so comfortable
00:47:04i just really haven't felt this light and free
00:47:13with someone before
00:47:31today's the big day getting married it's wild we're in this forever you know until death do us part
00:47:38how you feeling man feeling good feeling nervous feeling a little nervous
00:47:43yeah nervous about i mean i don't know if she's gonna say yes or no
00:47:46oh it's scary what's the rest of the family thinking
00:47:50they're supportive nobody understands fully just kind of
00:47:52what we've talked about and what we've gone through either you've got that's the thing
00:47:55you're getting married that's a lot but it feels like forever
00:47:59exactly the hearts of thousands of women are gonna break today
00:48:03i'm in jeff
00:48:16you guys look so beautiful thank you thank you
00:48:20this is my sister hannah i'm hannah hi hannah nice to meet you and this is my best friend
00:48:25hi i'm kayla hi nice to meet you honey i'm patty hello beauty are you nervous i'm excited
00:48:31good
00:48:34i feel so happy and calm oh emma
00:48:38stop emma no don't she just did your makeup i know i was like i'm a blivering mess but yeah
00:48:48i feel just excited good good everybody is how are you feeling i'm good thank you happy birthday
00:48:57thank you first day of 28 how's mom and dad good they're also kind of emotional too but they're
00:49:03really good they love him so much too they like think he fits perfect in their family hannah's like
00:49:11hannah what's your verdict 100 yes that man makes me feel so safe and so secure
00:49:19and it makes me feel comfortable like in my own skin
00:49:22but it's a big decision right i don't take lightly
00:49:29oh what do you think look at this guy i gotta put the buttons and everything yeah have you been
00:49:34working out i hate you yeah all right lipstick on me uh-huh oh yeah
00:49:51bracelet the bracelet might be too much but bracelets too much i like the bracelet my sister has the same
00:49:56bracelet i like the bracelet a lot but hell no no all right this guy exciting day you got good
00:50:03men
00:50:03by your side looking forward to the future cheers cheers cheers cheers thank you guys
00:50:14oh oh where's my boy you look fit for you look you look so beautiful ma thank you my son
00:50:21oh my god
00:50:22you look fantastic i love you good hon thank you look at that baby all right
00:50:34how are you feeling good good you excited excited nervous yeah they let mommy and cali go by emma
00:50:42oh you were over there nice how was it she was emotional she's crying already she says she's
00:50:49gonna cry let's sit down i'm just concerned about you okay i'm gonna make sure you're okay i know
00:50:55you're stressed out yeah i mean i i talked to you maybe what three times every single time you had
00:51:01an attitude yeah which is understandable yeah i'm sorry i shouldn't take it out on you it's just
00:51:06you always call it the worst time huh so it's actually unreal it really it really is she's uncanny for
00:51:12that i really is are you happy yeah i'm happy i just want you to be happy so you're happy
00:51:18i'm happy
00:51:18yeah you're miserable i'm miserable okay which i was so there's only so much crying we can do in the
00:51:26house oh yeah i relax i relax on the crying all right i relax mainly i learned a lot more
00:51:33about this
00:51:34whole thing so you know like this is a it's like a whirlwind you don't know detail you know what
00:51:41i mean
00:51:42and i you know me as as parents and you'll you'll know you'll notice hopefully one day
00:51:49we love you and we just want the best for you and you know understanding now i'm understanding now
00:51:59that you make the decisions so right you're your own man as long as you're happy you instilled that
00:52:04in me so at the end of the day we just want you to be happy and uh yeah i
00:52:10want different
00:52:10experiences you know that we made mommy dated for five years before we got before i asked to marry
00:52:17me you know so that's you know that's why we were taken off guard a little bit in the beginning
00:52:23right
00:52:24mm-hmm yeah yeah but if she's the one for you making sure you feel that way deep in your
00:52:30heart
00:52:31then you know we're behind you like you know i love her i think she's great i appreciate it she's
00:52:38a
00:52:38good kid yeah i mean she definitely fits in yeah
00:52:46it's a lot to take in i'm gonna be honest with you like just to think about starting off on
00:52:49the
00:52:49pods and turns into the rest of my life the rest of our lives we raised your right i know
00:52:55that
00:52:56i'm happy for you if you're happy i'm happy for you it looks so good okay
00:53:03all right i love you all right all right baby yeah see you guys there yeah yeah
00:53:11she has the question marks in terms of children and that's our biggest thing so i i would love for
00:53:18her to go first to see what that answer is if she can overcome that and say yes that means
00:53:23she's really
00:53:23thought about it and she's like i can see a future with mike with children so i would love to
00:53:29hear her
00:53:29say yes like okay that's the biggest thing in my mind is children you just check that off like let's
00:53:34do it let's do it let's dive in i hope i'm the one who gets to stand beside you i'd
00:53:44never let
00:53:46let you go oh my god i'm so beautiful now i'm gonna cry just wait for the veil mom stop
00:54:08don't cry
00:54:11oh so my pearl earrings my dad gave them to me for my wedding
00:54:20oh this night is full of wonder
00:54:26i know i know there's my something
00:54:34here am i something old
00:54:40oh my god it's it's magical and it's beautiful
00:54:48she's meant to wear a veil yeah look at her you look so pretty
00:54:58if you can picture yourself in any situation with him and having him still makes you happy
00:55:02that's the one we are here no matter what you decide just make yourself happy true
00:55:08okay okay final cheers we love you we love you cheers good decisions
00:55:35i'm behind you 100 percent thank you okay i love you
00:55:43i love you more than you more than you know okay yeah nervous
00:55:50it's a lot to take in you know we're all behind you you know
00:55:55um
00:55:57i love you
00:56:36Oh, God, here she comes.
00:56:42You look beautiful.
00:56:45I'll try not to wrinkle you.
00:56:49Are you ready?
00:56:52Okay.
00:56:54I love you, sweetie.
00:57:00The dress is beautiful.
00:57:02Oh, my God.
00:57:03I'm going to have a freaking faint.
00:57:05I guess it's okay.
00:57:06It's okay.
00:57:20It's okay.
00:57:22Oh, my God.
00:57:23How cute.
00:57:23Oh, my God.
00:57:23I'm going to have a good food.
00:57:26Please rise.
00:57:33When you're ready.
00:57:35Holy fuck.
00:57:57I love you.
00:58:03I love you.
00:58:15I know is it straight please be seated
00:58:27good evening and welcome I'd like to thank everyone in this room for being here today
00:58:32as we celebrate Emma and Mike and the journey they've been on together so far
00:58:37today the two of you are taking the first step of your new chapter and in many ways a whole
00:58:42new life
00:58:44loving someone in marriage is a reason to stretch beyond our limits to become more for the sake of
00:58:50the other it is to look into the soul of your beloved and accept what you see yet hold space
00:58:57for all that they're going to become as you join today you're announcing to the world that you're
00:59:02welcoming that challenge and all the joys that come with it Emma our journey has been amazing and it
00:59:14wasn't easy we have so many questions with the kids and throughout our whole experience you have been
00:59:22open and understanding to hearing my journey and my story but I really just I want to know that you
00:59:28want to start a family with me I know you've been thinking about it and it's not fair for you
00:59:36to have
00:59:36to choose now but one of the biggest things that I love about you and I love about us is
00:59:42that we're
00:59:42able to communicate and we'll always be genuine with one another and get to the bottom of anything
00:59:50so thank you for that and thank you for making it easy on me to love such an amazing person
00:59:56inside
00:59:56and out because I can't wait to see what the future holds for us
01:00:06Mike yeah I knew that I was doing this for a reason and being here my reason is you
01:00:17you've made me feel safe and seen and comfortable we have gone through a lot I know you have made
01:00:28me feel
01:00:30so special and empowered me to march to the beat of my own drum and not sacrifice who I am
01:00:39in the
01:00:39process and I can't ask for a better partner like throughout my life I'm on Mike you chose to get
01:00:52engaged and spend the rest of your lives together based on a deep emotional connection looks age
01:00:58finances and all the superficial things of the world we're not a factor for you to now is the time
01:01:05to
01:01:05decide love is blind will you get married and commit to facing life together as husband and wife or will
01:01:17you walk away forever
01:01:29Emma do you take Mike to be your lawfully wedded husband to have and to hold from this day forward
01:01:37for better or for worse for richer or for poorer in sickness and in health to love and cherish
01:01:46forsaking all others for all the days of your life if so say I do
01:02:01I've been thinking a lot about this decision
01:02:13there's a lot of things that we still need to go through whether that's today or whether that's two years
01:02:25from now
01:02:32I've been thinking about
01:02:36how you make me feel
01:02:38and I can't
01:02:46I can't
01:02:48see a future without you
01:02:57and I love you I really really do and if that was a yes
01:03:17Mike
01:03:18do you take Emma to be your lawfully wedded wife
01:03:22to have and to hold from this day forward
01:03:25for better for worse
01:03:27for richer or for poorer
01:03:29in sickness and in health
01:03:32to love and cherish
01:03:33forsaking all others for all the days of your life
01:03:42if so say I do
01:04:08I will find you
01:04:11I will find you
01:04:14everything is like great
01:04:15I can see my life being with you
01:04:17I know Christine
01:04:18I know all the parts of her
01:04:21and she knows all the parts of me
01:04:22it's a lot of pressure
01:04:25how do you think your sister is going to take care of everything
01:04:26this is a strange like meeting on the day of
01:04:29really
01:04:30what are you all doing
01:04:31this is like the calm before the storm
01:04:33I'm ready
01:04:34now is the time to decide
01:04:36if love is blind
01:04:39she flat out calls him a liar
01:04:42you're so strong
01:04:45every stone will make a fire
01:04:52every heart will feel desire
01:04:58every love will lead me higher
01:05:05there's something inside
01:05:07you can't let it go
01:05:09the time when her death
01:05:39you may be
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