🏘️ Love & Marriage: Huntsville (2019) - Season 11 Episode 8
In Huntsville, success comes with strings attached. In Episode 8 "Empire & Emotions", the Huntville elite navigate the delicate balance between building empires and preserving relationships. A major real estate deal tests old alliances, a family secret threatens to derail a business launch, and one explosive confrontation at a charity gala leaves everyone questioning who's truly loyal. With stakes higher than ever, the question isn't just who will win... but who will walk away with their reputation intact.
🔹 Episode Highlights:
• Business drama: a high-stakes deal forces partners to choose between profit and principle
• Family tension: personal conflicts spill into professional spaces with costly consequences
• Gala showdown: a glamorous event becomes the stage for shocking revelations
• Power plays: strategic moves, hidden agendas, and the price of ambition
• Signature L&MH flair: wealth, wit & unforgettable reality TV moments
🔹 Series Info:
• Format: Reality TV / Ensemble Drama / Luxury Lifestyle Serial
• Original Network: OWN (US) / Discovery+ / International Syndication
• Series Launch: 2019 | Season: 11 | Episode: 8 | Title: "Empire & Emotions"
• Setting: Huntsville, Alabama, USA | Language: English
• Runtime: ~42-45 minutes (full) | Clip/Highlight version: ~10-15 min
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👉 Enjoying the series? Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and comment: "Who handled the drama best? 👇" Turn on notifications 🔔 for Episode 9!
#ShowTVMovies #LoveAndMarriageHuntsville #OWN #EmpireAndEmotions #S11E08 #RealityTV #BingeWatch #BlackExcellence #HuntsvilleLife #LuxuryLifestyle
⚠️ Copyright Disclaimer: This video is shared for promotional, review, and informational purposes only. All rights to "Love & Marriage: Huntsville" belong to OWN, Oprah Winfrey Network, and associated producers. This upload complies with Fair Use guidelines (Section 107, U.S. Copyright Act). No copyright infringement intended.
In Huntsville, success comes with strings attached. In Episode 8 "Empire & Emotions", the Huntville elite navigate the delicate balance between building empires and preserving relationships. A major real estate deal tests old alliances, a family secret threatens to derail a business launch, and one explosive confrontation at a charity gala leaves everyone questioning who's truly loyal. With stakes higher than ever, the question isn't just who will win... but who will walk away with their reputation intact.
🔹 Episode Highlights:
• Business drama: a high-stakes deal forces partners to choose between profit and principle
• Family tension: personal conflicts spill into professional spaces with costly consequences
• Gala showdown: a glamorous event becomes the stage for shocking revelations
• Power plays: strategic moves, hidden agendas, and the price of ambition
• Signature L&MH flair: wealth, wit & unforgettable reality TV moments
🔹 Series Info:
• Format: Reality TV / Ensemble Drama / Luxury Lifestyle Serial
• Original Network: OWN (US) / Discovery+ / International Syndication
• Series Launch: 2019 | Season: 11 | Episode: 8 | Title: "Empire & Emotions"
• Setting: Huntsville, Alabama, USA | Language: English
• Runtime: ~42-45 minutes (full) | Clip/Highlight version: ~10-15 min
🎧 Prefer audio? Listen to reality TV recaps & Black entertainment podcasts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts.
👉 Enjoying the series? Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and comment: "Who handled the drama best? 👇" Turn on notifications 🔔 for Episode 9!
#ShowTVMovies #LoveAndMarriageHuntsville #OWN #EmpireAndEmotions #S11E08 #RealityTV #BingeWatch #BlackExcellence #HuntsvilleLife #LuxuryLifestyle
⚠️ Copyright Disclaimer: This video is shared for promotional, review, and informational purposes only. All rights to "Love & Marriage: Huntsville" belong to OWN, Oprah Winfrey Network, and associated producers. This upload complies with Fair Use guidelines (Section 107, U.S. Copyright Act). No copyright infringement intended.
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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03I miss a lot of the things we do.
00:05But it's not to the point where I'm like, damn,
00:06I need to go back home.
00:07I can't do this no more.
00:09When you create space from somebody,
00:12you can't dictate what they do.
00:14When he came and asked me, was I talking to someone,
00:17I was honest.
00:18I said, yes, I was.
00:20And I have.
00:21But I do love him.
00:22So I was like, if it's meant to be,
00:24it'll circle back around.
00:25Am I supposed to get on a bullhorn and alert
00:28everybody that my license revoked?
00:29No, no, no, no, no, just me, just me.
00:32Who the are you?
00:35Some of these adult children are having a hard time
00:38understanding what boundaries are.
00:40When Lance asks you to keep his kids,
00:43he does not pick up when he tells you he's going to pick up.
00:47After this party, I think you've probably done enough partying.
00:51No, the 4th is live right around the corner.
00:52What you mean?
00:54Congratulations for your first listing.
00:57Yeah, no, this isn't my first listing.
01:00You wanted me to defend you against grown people
01:02that you beefing with?
01:03Jesus Christ.
01:04You're delusional.
01:04I'm going to be delusional about this relationship.
01:06I'm good.
01:06All right, yeah, because it's too much worse.
01:08Too much worse?
01:09Too much worse.
01:10Why would I have to put in with you?
01:11You are a liar, Tisha.
01:18We keep it moving.
01:21All day, all night.
01:23Yeah.
01:24Ain't no stopping us.
01:26Drop that.
01:27We ain't stopping.
01:29You know, you know.
01:32You know, you know.
01:32We keep it moving.
01:34We keep it moving.
01:37All day, all night.
01:39Yeah.
01:42All day, all night.
01:44All day, all night.
01:44Yeah.
01:46Yeah.
01:46Ain't no stopping us.
01:49Yeah.
01:50All day, all day.
02:13Thank you so much, babe.
02:16Yeah, baby.
02:17You good?
02:18Yeah.
02:18All right.
02:18Whew, I love it.
02:21I invited Destiny out.
02:23Oh, really?
02:24Yeah, Destiny's going to come hang out with us this morning.
02:27Yeah.
02:28Yeah, she said she wanted to talk to him about something.
02:31I don't know.
02:32I'm getting a call.
02:33Huh?
02:34I'm getting a call from Trish.
02:36Trish?
02:37Yeah, Trish called him and let's see what's going on.
02:39Hey, Trish.
02:41Hey, lady.
02:42What's going on with you?
02:43Nothing much, nothing much.
02:46You know, life is always life-y.
02:48Oh, Lord.
02:49What's going on?
02:50I know.
02:51It's always life-y.
02:53Yeah, that's true.
02:53I agree.
02:55But I wanted to, you know, get all the ladies together
02:58and just have a girl's lady, just let our hair down moment.
03:04OK, a girl's lady, we're going to let our hair down.
03:07What we doing?
03:08Let our hair.
03:09I don't know.
03:10I don't know yet.
03:11OK, I'll be more than happy to be in attendance.
03:14I really appreciate you calling and inviting me.
03:17And if not, I'll give you a call back when I leave here
03:21with Fletcher from brunch.
03:23OK.
03:23OK.
03:24All right.
03:25Bye-bye.
03:31Well, how are you?
03:32Y'all made it.
03:33What's up, girl?
03:34Hello.
03:35How are you doing?
03:36How are you doing?
03:37I was just talking about you.
03:39Oh, Lord.
03:39I just said I invited Destiny out, so.
03:43Oh, well, thank you.
03:44I'm the two-piece and a biscuit on the side.
03:48What you been doing, girl?
03:50Let me just take the Band-Aid off.
03:52So I had an open house for one of the properties
03:55that's listed under my brokerage.
03:56And Tisha came by.
03:58She immediately walked in throwing jabs.
04:00She was like, oh, I bought you a bottle of wine
04:03to celebrate your first listing.
04:05But I realized that this isn't even yours.
04:08And I guess I can take it back.
04:10What does she mean it's not yours?
04:12And it's my first.
04:13After 19 years, I ain't never had a listing before.
04:16And that just ain't cool.
04:19Tisha was out of line.
04:20And she know Destiny's been in real estate for,
04:24you know, some time now.
04:25And the Tisha is a broker.
04:26But maybe she don't really practice being a broker.
04:30That's Scott bull they do all the time.
04:32So I'm not surprised.
04:33After all the shade, she sat down.
04:35And she was like, I met with Nell.
04:38And you know, I just felt like she has a lot going on.
04:41And I feel like I should, you know, me,
04:43I should support her.
04:44Because this is about the sisterhood.
04:45And I was like, so the whole time I was saying
04:48that Nell had a lot going on when y'all
04:50was beefing and you need to go sit and talk with her.
04:52Now you have this whole epiphany that she got a lot going on.
04:56And I just, we never got anywhere.
04:58Yeah, I was going to say how to tell.
05:00I'm going to say N.
05:01With a couple of you's and, um.
05:04You and Letitia?
05:06That's how the conversation ended.
05:07I was like, this is too much work.
05:09Oh, she lost her damn mind when I said that.
05:13Too much work?
05:17What?
05:19Like, what is really going on?
05:21Because I'm still trying to figure out
05:22what we was fighting about.
05:24Do you have any insight?
05:26Just ask her.
05:27Point blank.
05:28What is your issue with me?
05:32Period.
05:32I did that.
05:33You called me a hoe in a box?
05:35That's not supporting me.
05:36You called me a hoe in a box?
05:37Yes, you did.
05:38You, I know what box put you in.
05:39A hoe in a box.
05:40Am I a hoe to you?
05:41And then you go back and you talk about me to Kimmy.
05:45So you clearly asked her what is her issue with you?
05:48Multiple times.
05:49Maybe she's the feisty one and she just, like, arguing.
05:52She got to have somebody to be in tune with.
05:54Yeah.
05:55That means that you're deflecting from your real .
05:58But with that, with that said, you know,
06:00I had talked to you earlier on about, when I met up with you,
06:03about some things Marceau said to Fletcher.
06:07You came at me like, when you found out about the change,
06:10the status change of your license,
06:12why you didn't contact me?
06:14Y'all got some deals together y'all working on?
06:16Not one deal.
06:18Not one.
06:19It was a thought two years ago.
06:23So he thinks you had to answer to him about your license?
06:26I'm like, who the are you?
06:28Oh.
06:29Why the would I call you?
06:31Well, I mean, I guess I think more about friendship than you,
06:36and da-da-da.
06:37What the?
06:38What are you talking about, dude?
06:39They're trained in the same class.
06:41The same thing.
06:41That's my whole point.
06:42What alternate reality are y'all living in?
06:44Exactly.
06:45Sounds like there's an issue with the scars.
06:48I think that Tisha and Marceau both have
06:51a lot of misplaced energy.
06:53I think that they probably should work that out together
06:57and stop projecting on other people.
07:00Like, honestly, it's hurtful more than anything.
07:03And so I think I left that conversation confused
07:11and, like, hurt.
07:14Tisha's been a great friend to me.
07:16She has showed up for me.
07:17And I hate to say this, because I hope that it's not true.
07:20But she showed up for me in my lowest,
07:21and now that I'm glowing up again,
07:25it's like, I'm gonna beat it down.
07:27Oh, you doing real estate?
07:28Oh, I didn't even know you had a license.
07:30That's not cool.
07:30You were my bro.
07:31Like, what?
07:32Like, what are we doing?
07:34I have been a loyal friend.
07:35I try my best with everybody.
07:38And, like, I told her I don't always get it right.
07:40But at the same time, yeah.
07:41And that's probably, you hit it right there.
07:43You try your best with everybody.
07:46I do.
07:47Sometimes that's just not enough.
07:49Enough, and then I don't need to be your friend.
08:02Come in.
08:04Come in.
08:23Come in.
08:24What up?
08:27So after my talk with Will, I spent a lot of time thinking about,
08:30you know, me and Trisha's situation.
08:32And I think it's time we really have a good, deep conversation.
08:36And hopefully, with this talk, we can figure out, you know,
08:40what we're gonna do in the future.
08:48I don't like the space of red, Kenny, because it's different.
08:54I ain't gonna lie.
08:55I've been conflicted.
08:56Like, you know, as much fun as we had, like, our...
09:02I think some of the bad times has kind of, like, stuck.
09:07And, you know, I get caught up thinking about him, you know.
09:10And I ain't gonna lie.
09:12I have, you know, Will.
09:13That's my dog.
09:14So I've kind of been doing a lot of talking to him and, like,
09:19not really knowing where I want to go, not really knowing what I want to do.
09:23Kind of felt like I was at that breaking point to where I was like,
09:29man, I don't even really want to do it no more.
09:31And I don't know.
09:34I know we've had arguments in the past,
09:36but the space that we're in now just feels a lot different.
09:44I feel like if I got...
09:50I don't know.
09:53Like, one of the things I really want to do is I just really want to apologize
09:56for my part, the role that I played in it.
10:01I could have been a lot better in a lot of situations.
10:05As far as, like, not allowing myself to get caught up in emotion,
10:10not allowing myself to get angry about certain things,
10:12being a little more patient in areas.
10:15But I feel like everybody got a breaker point.
10:18And I was in the middle of a damn tornado.
10:20And back and forth between you and your ex.
10:25And then trying to...
10:26I don't know. It just kept me on edge.
10:28And I got caught up in...
10:32just...
10:32I don't know.
10:34The thing is, is I messed up.
10:37I ain't gonna lie.
10:37I have been kicking it with that girl a little bit.
10:39What's she do?
10:40She's a nurse.
10:41A traveling nurse.
10:42I mean, she cool.
10:43She a cool chick.
10:44I mean, she's really pretty.
10:45She's definitely pretty.
10:46Now, you said someone sent Trish the picture of you and...
10:49Yeah, she got it on her phone.
10:50She showed me.
10:51So she showed you the picture?
10:52Showed me the picture.
10:53What'd she say?
10:53I was like, I mean, I can't deny it.
10:55That is me, you know?
10:58I feel like I started to become the evil person that I said you were being.
11:05And it's not cool, you know what I mean?
11:07Like, I can't call you evil and then do evil things.
11:10Now, this wasn't like I was doing it blatantly.
11:12But in essence, I was because I didn't care, you know?
11:15I think I was hurt, frustrated.
11:18I just felt like in the moment, it felt right.
11:29I was hurt when I saw you communicating to somebody
11:34because I thought we were working on fixing things then.
11:38I mean, this might sound crazy.
11:43And I don't want you to take this the wrong way.
11:49But that was my whole point.
11:51I wanted to see if I could hurt you for this.
11:57Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
12:00Do not bring anyone to my home that you're not serious about.
12:06I think everybody deserves a fair shot.
12:08That's your problem.
12:11What rumors have you heard?
12:13How about you?
12:14About anything.
12:14About me.
12:15Um, I read a few rumors about you.
12:18I've been hearing this one little rumor about me, man.
12:20What is it?
12:21About me and Kayla.
12:22You and Kayla?
12:29I don't want you to take this the wrong way,
12:32but that was my whole point.
12:33I wanted to see if I could hurt you for this.
12:39So you intentionally tried to hurt me.
12:42That pissed me off.
12:44Hell no.
12:45I didn't think you would give up, like, I didn't think you cared.
12:48I was like, you know, because you've never been, I don't know, you're not super emotional.
12:54And it was, like I said, it was stupid.
12:56I was being childish.
12:57I was being immature.
12:58Like, I was responding like a young adult.
13:01And pushing 40, I shouldn't be doing certain things like that.
13:06Yeah.
13:10Tricia has let me talk.
13:12And it's kind of scary because she typically, you know, interjects a lot.
13:15But I can tell that she's hurting, and I can take full responsibility for that.
13:21Us not being able to communicate properly, definitely,
13:24we definitely didn't set ground rules or expectations.
13:27I'm going to apologize and will apologize in the future if I have to,
13:30because it was just outright childish.
13:34We started off so fast.
13:36We did.
13:37And we started off, like, 24-7.
13:42It was me and you, 24-7.
13:43And we never really had the space.
13:47Like, I think up until recently, this is the most time we've spent away from each other
13:52in the entirety of our relationship.
13:54And it's kind of, it was peaceful, but it kind of was like,
13:58ah, yeah, this ain't there for me either.
14:02I would rather be sitting in the middle of that damn couch, you know?
14:05You know me, I'm a family man.
14:06I enjoy being home.
14:10I agree.
14:11And then there's a little thing of trust.
14:15We got to get back to where we trust each other,
14:20because I think I kind of lost that.
14:25And you have to be honest with me,
14:28because I'm not innocent either.
14:33Well, are you still seeing her?
14:40No.
14:41Absolutely not.
14:43And it wasn't even, like,
14:46serious like that.
14:47Like, I wasn't going to go hop in a relationship after,
14:49like, what?
14:51Come on.
14:51Well, I'm not interested.
14:54I prefer to be right here if I'm allowed to be.
14:58So what do we do from here?
15:02I want us to fix it.
15:06We do have to communicate.
15:09Even when arguing, we have to communicate better.
15:12For sure.
15:15Probably ain't going to, it ain't going to happen overnight.
15:17But I think, you know,
15:22I don't really know what you want to do
15:24as far as, like, keeping the space, keeping, you know.
15:27No.
15:29We're going to fix it together here.
15:32You sure?
15:33I'm positive.
15:36I had to sit there and think about it.
15:38And the kids and everything,
15:41just a whole big grin of it all.
15:44Our good times definitely outweighed our bad times.
15:47I think at the end of the day,
15:48I just always think about what we did have.
15:52And it's kind of hard to really want to fully let it go.
15:55And again, I love him.
15:57So it's like, you try to fight for stuff you truly love.
16:02You know, someone you truly love.
16:04So we cool?
16:05We are.
16:07We got this.
16:10For the 10th time.
16:13It ain't been that many.
16:15All right.
16:16Come here.
16:18I ain't did this in a long time.
16:20Come on.
16:25Hey, you can't stop me anytime I'm running down.
16:31We got your whole team looking like some clowns.
16:34We'll pull up anywhere.
16:36We'll meet you in your town.
16:37Yeah, we the ones.
16:38Yeah, we coming for that crown.
16:40Oh, this hill.
16:41I know.
16:43Damn.
16:44Hell.
16:45Every time I come to this house.
16:47I'm meeting at Lance's house today with my sons.
16:50I'm very sick and tired of talking about these boundaries.
16:54The boundaries have been thrown out the window several times.
16:57I'm going here on a more softer approach.
17:01So I'm hoping Lance is doing everything he needs to be doing.
17:05And then I can keep my tone at room temperature and not have to raise my voice.
17:12Well, hello.
17:14Hey, beautiful.
17:15Hey.
17:16What's going on?
17:16You got my cologne.
17:17You looking great.
17:19We knew he was coming over here.
17:21So we know we figured we might as well represent.
17:23Represent.
17:24We put on the green.
17:25Hello to you.
17:26Gorgeous.
17:28What's up?
17:29We already got bones to pick.
17:30Wait a minute.
17:31Shh.
17:32Popped up on Lenny.
17:33She popped up on me.
17:34I wasn't expecting.
17:36Yeah.
17:36Yeah.
17:37Wait a minute.
17:37And I come over here to try to be calm.
17:40I didn't know everyone was coming.
17:42Not to chop nobody's head off today.
17:45Just to have some small talk and say I was going to do better.
17:50You trying to go in on me before I get in the door?
17:52Nah, it sounds like y'all already been going in on me.
17:55I'm a bit annoyed because I'm kind of tired of talking about the same old thing.
17:59But my mom is going to be my mom.
18:00My dad is going to be dad.
18:01And, you know, there's really no way around it.
18:04So, I'm going to try to do my best to sit in and just listen to the corrective criticism.
18:09This is kind of funny.
18:10I got all y'all here at someone else's house.
18:13At Len's house.
18:14Not mine.
18:16Okay.
18:16So, I have some things I need to talk to you about.
18:20Kayla come in.
18:20She tell me.
18:21She's like, you know, mama feeling the way about my timing in reference to when you watch
18:26my baby.
18:27But I feel like, I'm just like, dang, that's the first I'm really hearing of that.
18:30I think it's more so just us girl talk because, you know, I'm her daughter.
18:34So, it's like more girl talk so she just venting more.
18:38I am over it.
18:40I do not want no more grandkids from Lance.
18:43No time soon.
18:45He got three baby mamas.
18:47That's enough.
18:49Chris, he does not need none.
18:51He got one.
18:53Well, Lance, you not picking up when you're supposed to.
18:59With Chris, you just feel like mom just catered more to Lance's kids instead of your child.
19:07I mean, if we're going to be truthful, actually, I've been trying to juggle both of them.
19:11And I feel like I have twins.
19:13Yeah.
19:14Okay.
19:15Well, going forward, I'll do my due diligence, you know.
19:19Okay.
19:20That's acceptable.
19:22Chris, what you been doing?
19:23You dating?
19:25I mean, I'm a young man, so I'm always, like, out there like this.
19:30You said out there?
19:32Yeah.
19:32Are you out there?
19:33But are you, so are you...
19:34I guess dating is...
19:35Are you dating?
19:35Are you exclusive?
19:37No, you're outside.
19:38Outside?
19:38Sure, yeah.
19:39I'm out there.
19:40Yeah.
19:40Okay, so you just not tied down to no one person.
19:43That's what I'm, yeah.
19:44That's what we're getting to.
19:45Yeah.
19:46Okay, so...
19:46But I guess I just be trying to feel people out.
19:50I'm not into rushing things.
19:54Do not bring anyone to my home that you're not serious about.
20:02You're not going to take serious.
20:04You know you're just playing around.
20:05But to see what that's...
20:11I think everybody deserves a fair shot.
20:14Everybody?
20:14That's your problem.
20:16No, I'm saying everybody who I'm interested in.
20:18Not everybody.
20:18I'm saying if I have interest in it, then yeah, you just...
20:22You always doing life.
20:23Doing life.
20:24We all do life.
20:25Don't you do life?
20:26Yeah, but you...
20:27God damn it.
20:28Put a saran wrap around it, some bubble wrap.
20:31Listen, listen, listen.
20:31I don't give a .
20:32Put something on that .
20:33Let's be clear.
20:34Put something on it and seal it up.
20:36Let's be clear.
20:36I'm 34 years old.
20:38I have three children.
20:40I know.
20:40There is nothing.
20:41There is...
20:42That is not a bad number for a 34-year-old man.
20:46If I was married, we wouldn't even be talking about this.
20:48Exactly.
20:49But that's the point.
20:49But that's the point.
20:51Because you would be married with one baby mother, not three baby mothers.
20:55I don't...
20:55That doesn't bother me.
20:56Everybody throws that around.
20:57Three baby mothers, that don't bother me.
20:59That don't bother me at all.
21:05Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
21:08I did run into Twine and we were talking about rumors and...
21:11He brought up that people think him and Kayla are dating.
21:18What the is going on right now?
21:25Let's be clear.
21:26Put something on that mother...
21:27Let's be clear.
21:27Put something on it and seal it up.
21:29Let's be clear.
21:30I'm 34 years old.
21:32I have three children.
21:33I know.
21:34There is nothing.
21:35There is...
21:35That is not a bad number for a 34-year-old man.
21:39If I was married, we wouldn't even be talking about this.
21:41Exactly.
21:42But that's the point.
21:43But that's the point.
21:44Because you would be married with one baby mother, not three baby mothers.
21:48I don't...
21:49That doesn't bother me.
21:50Everybody throws that around.
21:51Three baby mothers, that don't bother me.
21:52That don't bother me at all.
21:56But the situation has affected your life.
22:00Yeah.
22:01So it has to bother you somewhere.
22:03You got about three different women.
22:05You got to deal with three different situations.
22:07Honestly, the way I've digested it is that everybody has a task and a battle that they're going to have
22:11to, you know, try to conquer and overcome.
22:14Mm-hmm.
22:14This is just my battle.
22:16My situation is always so magnified.
22:19And it's...
22:20Honestly, it's just...
22:21It's overwhelming.
22:22Because you're always doing .
22:23No.
22:24You can meet someone and you think you're good.
22:27That's with anybody.
22:28Exactly.
22:29I've been married twice.
22:29But that's why you...
22:31But that's exactly.
22:32So you should know better than anybody.
22:33You have to be careful with dating.
22:35You have small children.
22:38And everyone does not need to be around your small children or introduced to your small children.
22:43You know, I don't care.
22:44When it comes to kids and you're no longer with the mother, there is a double standard, right?
22:49For whatever reason, it's okay when a woman is dating someone else.
22:56Maybe it's the woman you're laying down with.
22:59You got to choose the women carefully.
23:02That's why you take your time before you rush into anything and get to know people.
23:06I kind of think...
23:07It takes time.
23:07I think it's hard for you.
23:08It should be months.
23:09Take your time.
23:10I think it's really hard for you to really put a lot...
23:13Like, you're very seasoned when it comes to marriage.
23:16Dating, not so much.
23:20So therefore...
23:21Hell, I know about dating.
23:24And I know about marriage.
23:25And I know there's things you just don't do.
23:28So how...
23:28How has times changed?
23:31Like, drastically?
23:31Oh yeah, times have changed.
23:32So therefore...
23:33Y'all whole world, really, if you ask me, is up.
23:35Okay.
23:36The internet, social media, all this .
23:39Y'all online trying to see what...
23:40This is all y'all.
23:41Everybody looks to see what the other one doing.
23:44If you put the goddamn phone down and pay attention to your kids and what's going around in your world,
23:48then you wouldn't have these issues.
23:49We need to bear the up generation and also...
23:52Like that...
23:53No, you don't need to bear the up generation.
23:55No.
23:55You need to choose.
23:56There's for a few left in this generation that you can decipher through there and find...
24:02Some people have raised still good women.
24:05And I know I'm raising one.
24:09And like I told her, don't get yourself involved with nothing.
24:12Don't bring no kids here.
24:13You ain't married.
24:14Pay attention to what you're doing.
24:16Don't bring no babies.
24:17Because now they got to go to separate homes.
24:19And then really, once that start, you're gonna get some chaos.
24:24Because you got a mom over here, a daddy over here, and the baby in the middle.
24:27And who got to suffer the most?
24:29The child.
24:31So that's why you don't do no one night stands and overnights and one night onlys and kumbayas
24:37and three months down the road, you damn broke up and .
24:40Choose carefully.
24:41Choose wisely.
24:43They just don't get it.
24:45I do not even know it's settling down.
24:48It's in their vocabulary.
24:49When our adult kids date someone, it affects pretty much all of us.
24:54And it does. I agree.
24:55Yeah.
24:56Because they like to intertwine them in their relationship within the family for some odd reason.
25:02I'm out, goddammit. Let me go check on my grandmakes.
25:08I feel sometimes y'all do tend to ignore red flags in y'all situations when it comes to who
25:16y'all date.
25:17Listen, I say whatever. That's how this goes.
25:21Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
25:24Just for the sake of the rumors, it's like, I don't know, it's just kind of weird, you know?
25:31Isn't that like your little sister?
25:34Let's get something understood. At my dinner table, Kiki always like...
25:39Flirt.
25:40Flirt with Twan or whatever, so I thought it was Kiki, but not for damn.
25:45I got nothing to lose. And you know, yeah, you know that it's true.
25:50Gotta do whatever I gotta do.
25:53Cause I got, yeah, I got, cause I got nothing, nothing to lose.
26:04Well, hello there.
26:06Hello, mamas. How you doing?
26:07I'm good. How are you?
26:09I'm good.
26:11So Twan gave me a call. I haven't seen him in a minute. He wanted to catch up and do
26:15lunch. So, he's now my friend in the box. Why not?
26:21How have things been?
26:23Things have been super califragilist. Ex-pialidocious.
26:28Oh, Lord, man. My favorite word is right.
26:30Yeah.
26:30Yeah.
26:31How about for you?
26:33It's been straight.
26:34So, you know, I told Nell that we had our little business lunch and that we shut the restaurant down.
26:41You know, him and I both agree there's an attraction there.
26:46It's like forbidden fruit because of...
26:48Even though Lance gave his blessing, but we shut the restaurant down.
26:53Like, didn't want to leave.
26:54Ooh.
26:55I was not expecting that and I don't think he was either.
26:59Ooh.
27:00Scared the out of me.
27:03So unexpected.
27:04I don't know. Did you expect that?
27:06Nah. I mean, but we was having a good conversation.
27:09We were having a good time, man. We was chilling.
27:10And after a while, I had to look around and realize that it wasn't...
27:14That nobody was there?
27:15I was like, ah, okay, bet.
27:17So, it was a good time, though.
27:18I wasn't expecting, um...
27:20First of all, you'd be that silly.
27:22What? Come on.
27:23Well done, yeah.
27:24And...
27:24And...
27:25I don't know.
27:27I'm trying to express myself here and it's kind of hard for me, but...
27:30Oh, now it's all right. That's great.
27:32Yeah. I'm gonna be like, yeah, you know.
27:34Really, honestly, I think your presence is just...
27:36It, like, brings what I feel like protection.
27:39I don't know if it's because of your size.
27:42You know, maybe that has something to do with it.
27:44Yeah, yeah, yeah.
27:44But, um...
27:46Nah, seriously, though.
27:47Like, I was able to let down my walls and I normally don't.
27:51So...
27:52It was a reminder to me that I can be, you know, in a salt place.
27:57A salt place, okay.
27:58I mean...
27:58I appreciate the ability to be myself.
28:02Nah, likewise. For real, for real.
28:04So, if I haven't said thank you for that, I appreciate it.
28:08And I know we just friends and, you know, I like where we are as friends
28:12and what we're building as a friendship.
28:14I appreciate you. I really do.
28:15I appreciate you too, man. Like...
28:18You allowed me in your space.
28:20Most women, I mean, of your caliber.
28:22You know what I'm saying? And stuff like that.
28:24You know, it's like...
28:25Who am I?
28:26Thank you for that.
28:27Thank you for listening to some certain advices that I gave.
28:31And all the times I was right when I said what I said.
28:33You know what I'm saying? Stuff like that.
28:34Thank you for admitting that.
28:36All those things, you know what I'm saying?
28:37Wait a minute. Wait, what?
28:39That's what makes friendships work.
28:41All the times you were right.
28:44Can you give me an example?
28:47Right, right, right.
28:49Right, right, right.
28:49But you're right, right, right, right.
28:51No, no, no.
28:52You just said right, right.
28:53You see?
28:54Twan and I are good friends.
28:56Although, it's no relationship.
28:57I'm having a good time.
28:59I enjoy his presence.
29:00It makes me feel, like, soft and girly again.
29:04And I can be goofy, like, piece of fun guy.
29:06You know, I definitely still want to do business.
29:09Still, I know we got to do some training.
29:11Yeah.
29:11If you can hang, you know, in the gym with me.
29:15And also, you know, I don't mind you still guarding my body.
29:19I don't know about touching it, because, you know...
29:21I mean...
29:22You still fine now.
29:23I got to stay away from you, okay?
29:24We got to keep the friendship, you know?
29:26I guard your little body, man.
29:28That's cool, man.
29:29Little...
29:30My...
29:31Little fine body.
29:32Okay, thank you.
29:33Okay, I appreciate it.
29:34Hey, hey.
29:35All right.
29:36I got that curry rum for you.
29:37I got a bit more food than anybody.
29:39You like garlic?
29:41Y'all doing okay?
29:41I'll take a water with lemon, as well.
29:43Water with lemon?
29:43Yes, ma'am.
29:44I'll get that for you.
29:45Will somebody be offended at me guarding your body?
29:50Who?
29:51Oh, no.
29:53You think anybody will be offended if you, uh,
29:56continue to guard my body?
30:00Nobody has the right to be offended.
30:02Mm.
30:03That's right.
30:04You know, it could be your lady friends, your girlfriends.
30:12What rumors have you heard?
30:13About you?
30:14About anything.
30:15About me.
30:16Um, I really don't hear rumors about you.
30:18I've been hearing this one little rumor about me, man.
30:21What is it?
30:22About me and Kayla.
30:24You and Kayla?
30:25Yeah.
30:27Nell's daughter.
30:28So it's Godmother's daughter?
30:30Uh-huh.
30:31That's not gonna work.
30:32Isn't that like your little sister?
30:33I mean, God, sister, it's the type of situation.
30:36You know what I'm saying?
30:37Separation, because it ain't no blood.
30:39But at the same time, you know, just for the sake of the rumors,
30:42it's like, I don't know, it's just kind of weird, you know?
30:47Only because I think she posted, like, every time we finish a workout,
30:52because I just started training her, every time we finish a workout,
30:54she posted on IG, like, some little whatever.
30:57I seen y'all working out on IG.
30:59Yeah, I am kind of akin to the family.
31:03Like, I'm always around.
31:05If not them, I'm Lance, Chris.
31:07Like, you know what I'm saying?
31:09That's the thing about Huntsville.
31:10For me and what I realize is that I can stand next to somebody
31:13and that's my boyfriend.
31:14I'm just gonna say that.
31:15Everybody can do what they want to do,
31:16but it's to sit there and try to paint narratives
31:18or push something for whatever.
31:24So, uh...
31:28You and Kayla, that's so cute.
31:30Well, had she heard about it?
31:32What'd she say?
31:33I mean...
31:35She told me about it, too.
31:37I mean, I'm around pretty often.
31:38You know what I'm saying?
31:39Whether it be her, whether it be all of them at one time,
31:41whether it be me and Flex singing, you know what I'm saying?
31:44I just...
31:45Like, what do you expect?
31:47You wouldn't tell nobody.
31:49No.
31:49I mean, not unless it was...
31:51Not unless it was to be told.
31:52So what you're saying is that there is something going on,
31:54you're just not gonna speak on it.
31:55Never said that.
31:56Good try though.
32:00Oh, okay, I got it.
32:01That's what I'm deduced.
32:02I get it.
32:03Ain't nobody's business, right?
32:04Y'all post and people are gonna automatically start talking.
32:08So if it's true, then lean in it.
32:09If it's not, it is what it is.
32:12But if it is something, y'all...
32:13Y'all young, y'all are attractive, you know?
32:16It ain't even about that.
32:17If it's just family, it's just family.
32:19It ain't about that.
32:19But nah, just, you know, since we're friends, you know?
32:24And...
32:26Sometimes it's cool to get a head of store.
32:30Coming up on Love & Marriage Huntsville.
32:32Everybody in their room was in...
32:36You know what?
32:37I'm not finna do this.
32:39Y'all can do this.
32:41She usually does everything right.
32:43She's not doing anything wrong in this
32:45because it's a rumor, right?
32:47How the hell is it a rumor?
32:49What is it a rumor?
32:51I don't want this, no trouble.
32:54What makes you think you're important?
32:56Leave me in a fantasize.
32:59Too far gone to be hypnotized.
33:04I ain't sitting there.
33:06What the hell to do?
33:08Okay.
33:14Hey, Lentz.
33:15Yo, yo, yo, how you doing?
33:16I was trying to finish folding the stuff and push it out the way before you got here.
33:21How you doing?
33:22Fine.
33:23He almost caught me doing everything.
33:25So I received a call from Lentz to finish up the conversation that we had at his home.
33:31And I am hopeful that we will find some common ground.
33:35How's it been going for you?
33:37It's been all right.
33:38I just want to come check in on you, see how you doing.
33:40I know the last time we met, you know, we kind of had a little bit of, you know, friction,
33:46it seemed like.
33:47I guess I've been taking your advice.
33:49Lowell Diesel, he's over here like, you who, Dad?
33:51Hey, I'm playing ball now.
33:53He was six.
33:54You know, so he's, uh, he's requiring a lot of time from me with him, you know, playing sports.
34:00And he's like, Dad, why I need you to show me how to do this amount of push-ups so
34:03that I can be this strong, you know?
34:05You know, so he's, he's, he's requesting a lot of my time, too.
34:08So therefore, I appreciate you giving me that gem that I need to sit back and take the time from
34:14the kids.
34:15So that I can be more assertive and actually involved in my kids' day to day.
34:19Oh, so you are taking my advice, um, to try and be more organized as far as your kids choosing
34:29days that's designated to them, not your work.
34:33Because you do have to sit work aside when it comes to your kids.
34:37It, it, it doesn't matter.
34:38You have to.
34:39So during my conversation with Lance, I noticed he said he's going to spend more quality time with his kids.
34:45And you know what? For now, I'm pleased with that.
34:50But I noticed he didn't say anything about his dating.
34:54He kind of went around that.
34:57But I'm going to give him some grace right now.
34:59And I'm just going to let him have it.
35:02But we will circle back to this.
35:05Let me get the door open.
35:09Well, hello.
35:10Hey, beautiful.
35:11Look at you.
35:12No, look at you.
35:13You came through going like gone with the wind, girl.
35:17Oh, oh, oh, twirl, twirl.
35:20Yeah!
35:20So listen, I'm here because Nell invited me.
35:23She wanted me to be the buffer between her and Lance.
35:26I think that she needs to establish some boundaries.
35:28What that looks like for her, I really don't know.
35:30But there's also this other non-rumor rumor about Twan and her daughter.
35:36So I'm like, here I am.
35:40You must know I was here. You gonna come looking like this.
35:43What's up, shawty?
35:44What's up, gangsta?
35:45Sit right down here.
35:46How you doing?
35:47Uh-uh.
35:47I was sitting there with you.
35:49Sit right there so I can see both of y'all.
35:51Are we in the hot seat?
35:52Put y'all right there together so I can lay eyes on you.
35:55All right.
35:55But yeah, I was talking to Lance.
35:57Hey, how you doing?
35:58Oh, boy, here we go.
36:00There goes that chemistry.
36:01Just say hello.
36:02Yeah, just hi.
36:04I enjoyed your birthday party.
36:05Did you enjoy your birthday?
36:06It was cool.
36:07I think it was good.
36:09I liked it.
36:09I do remember you having a conversation with his old lady.
36:13I got an old lady?
36:15You don't?
36:16They're not so exclusive anymore.
36:18Right.
36:20Well, quickly how things change.
36:23I did run into Twan and we were talking about rumors and he brought up that people think him and
36:30Kayla are dating.
36:37Oh, how you looking at me like that?
36:38Damn!
36:48That's some .
36:51What the is going on right now?
36:59I did run into Twan and he brought up that people think him and Kayla are dating.
37:04What the is going on right now?
37:09It's like, that's my...
37:11Hell, I think it's my godson.
37:14What all did he say?
37:15He said it was a...
37:16Yeah, I want to know because let's get something understood.
37:19At my dinner table, at one point, Kiki always like...
37:24Flirt.
37:25Flirt with Twan or whatever.
37:26So I thought it was Kiki, but not Kayla.
37:31Not Kayla.
37:32That's it.
37:32Y'all worry about me and Kree.
37:34It's kind of refreshing to hear Destiny, you know, come in and just mic drop like that.
37:38So I appreciate it.
37:39Thanks, Destiny.
37:40I'm not sure how Kayla's going to feel, but it feels good to have the, you know, spotlight off of
37:47me for once.
37:47Y'all have had several friends, always from being young.
37:51I've always had boys around the house.
37:54And that, and that, and everybody know that.
37:56Even with whoever you brought around, y'all's friends, the gentlemen or guys that have been around in the past,
38:04everybody looked after little Kayla.
38:06Kayla's usually the one everybody protect.
38:10Wait, whoa, whoa.
38:11I'm always protecting.
38:12I don't get the...
38:13We ain't doing that.
38:14You know what I mean.
38:14We're talking about when we were younger and, like, teenagers.
38:18We're all grown now.
38:19I'm still over everybody and still watch after what everybody does.
38:22But at the end of the day, she's grown, huh?
38:25I can only do and say so much.
38:28And right now, for one, it sounds like it's a rumor.
38:30Right?
38:31Or it sounds like there's something that's undeveloped.
38:34So what, you met with Twan and asked him something?
38:36No, he brought it up.
38:38Looking back, me telling Nell and Lance about Twan telling me about the rumor of him and Kayla,
38:45I didn't think it was that serious.
38:48I just didn't think it was gonna be that serious.
38:50I really didn't.
38:51If it looks like a kill, I would have been dead.
38:54Yeah.
38:56I'll go to Kayla.
38:58That's what I'll do.
38:59What it sound like need to do.
39:00I sure didn't hear real.
39:01It was really, he said it was nothing.
39:04I am in a awkward, effed up, up situation.
39:10The Twan and Kayla rumor hits me like a gut punch.
39:15It really pisses me off because me and Kayla do not normally have secrets.
39:23This is getting crazy by the moment.
39:27Everybody in their rumors and you know what?
39:32I'm not finna do this.
39:33Y'all can do this.
39:36She usually does everything right.
39:38She's not doing anything wrong in this because it's a rumor, right?
39:42How the hell is it a rumor?
39:43What is it?
39:44I don't know.
39:45If I knew, I'd tell you.
39:46You her big brother.
39:46You supposed to know.
39:47If she doesn't disclose everything with me, she's, trust me, she doesn't.
39:51He said nothing.
39:52He said it was nothing.
39:53You saying that, but then you talking about you need to pay attention.
39:57It's always me and Chris.
39:58What the hell the that supposed to be?
40:00You're saying the same thing I've always said.
40:02You're like, mama, you're like, Lance, you're doing this.
40:03Lance, you're doing that.
40:04You need to do this.
40:05You need to, Chris, you're doing that.
40:06And it's like, okay.
40:07So I'm just saying.
40:08It's only because she don't have no kids.
40:10Bottom line, you know, that's our daughter.
40:13And for something that needs to be said, I need to hear it from my daughter.
40:21Next on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
40:23Destiny said something to the effect of.
40:26Twan says that he's dating Kayla.
40:30To clarify.
40:31Um, I am lost for words.
40:36I am too.
40:39Did you get that text from Trish about her party?
40:42Yeah, I got it.
40:43You going?
40:43Mm-hmm.
40:44Yeah, I like a theme party.
40:45It's going to be fun.
40:47Ladies.
40:49If you are ready for some drag, make some motherfuckers.
40:54Do you feel like you can trust Kayla?
40:56Do you feel like he'll be telling the truth?
40:57Um, I feel like we can.
40:59So did y'all sleep with somebody else?
41:00Is that the thing y'all did?
41:02Well, it's obvious that both of y'all have been hurt by each other.
41:07I get that.
41:08I'm not on the page of like, everybody did something wrong.
41:11Do you feel like you all hurt an opponent?
41:13No.
41:13No.
41:14Horrible friend.
41:15Horrible friend.
41:15Horrible friend.
41:15Oh, you sitting right here.
41:17If you're sitting right here.
41:18If you're sitting right here.
41:19If you're sitting right here.
41:20If you're sitting right here.
41:22Somebody's laughing through the door.
41:23Not one time did you give me a heads up and .
41:26All right.
41:26It's all this .
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