Por que você não consegue esquecer quem sumiu sem dar explicação? A resposta brutal de Jung e Frankl sobre a tortura da espera e o mito do "encerramento".
Você já se pegou de madrugada rolando o feed, sentindo um nó na garganta enquanto tenta achar o motivo de alguém ter ido embora sem nem se despedir? Neste vídeo denso de psicologia profunda, vamos dar a real sobre por que o famoso "ghosting" e o abandono sem justificativa travam a nossa mente num looping exaustivo.
Apoiados na filosofia existencialista e nas sombras da psicologia analítica, vamos desconstruir a ilusão de que você precisa de uma "última conversa" para conseguir seguir em frente. A psicologia profunda comprova, através do Efeito Zeigarnik, que o nosso cérebro detesta ciclos abertos e tarefas inacabadas. Mas a filosofia existencialista nos dá o tapa na cara necessário: a falta de resposta já é a resposta inteira. É hora de usar o autoconhecimento para largar esse peso e provocar uma verdadeira transformação interior.
🧠 Neste vídeo você vai descobrir:
• Por que a espera por um pedido de desculpas é a pior sabotagem na visão da psicologia profunda
• O conceito de "Sombra" na psicologia analítica e por que idealizamos tanto quem nos feriu
• A sacada de Viktor Frankl e Sartre na filosofia existencialista para você bancar a autoria do próprio fim
• Como usar o autoconhecimento para trancar a porta por dentro e declarar paz unilateral
• Uma reflexão de vida visceral sobre a diferença entre o luto real e a dor inútil de enterrar uma miragem
• O movimento prático de transformação interior ensinado pelos grandes mestres estoicos e pela psicologia analítica
✨ Esse mergulho de autoconhecimento prova que a cura definitiva nunca nascerá da boca de quem causou o trauma. É uma reflexão de vida dura, eu sei. Mas quando abraçamos de vez essa transformação interior, paramos de entregar a caneta do nosso destino na mão de figurantes.
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*Capítulos do Vídeo:*
00:00 O Efeito Zeigarnik: O Abandono Inexplicável e a Tortura da Espera
02:44 A Ilusão do Desfecho: Por Que a Falta de Resposta Já É a Resposta Completa
04:46 A Metáfora da Tela Apodrecida: Projetando Nossas Virtudes em Quem Foge
09:47 A Metáfora da Pedra: A Cruel Autossabotagem de Segurar o Peso do Outro
14:04 Os Três Movimentos de Cura: O Luto da Ilusão e o Fim do Tribunal Interno
17:09 A Autoria do Fim: Pegue a Caneta e Declare a Sua Paz Unilateralmente
21:05 A Metáfora do Copo Quebrado: A Aceitação Madura Contra as Falsas Esperanças
25:01 A Folha em Branco e a Porta Aberta: Tranque a Fechadura Pelo Lado de Dentro
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#CarlJung #PsicologiaProfunda #ViktorFrankl #Estoicismo #Autoconhecimento
Você já se pegou de madrugada rolando o feed, sentindo um nó na garganta enquanto tenta achar o motivo de alguém ter ido embora sem nem se despedir? Neste vídeo denso de psicologia profunda, vamos dar a real sobre por que o famoso "ghosting" e o abandono sem justificativa travam a nossa mente num looping exaustivo.
Apoiados na filosofia existencialista e nas sombras da psicologia analítica, vamos desconstruir a ilusão de que você precisa de uma "última conversa" para conseguir seguir em frente. A psicologia profunda comprova, através do Efeito Zeigarnik, que o nosso cérebro detesta ciclos abertos e tarefas inacabadas. Mas a filosofia existencialista nos dá o tapa na cara necessário: a falta de resposta já é a resposta inteira. É hora de usar o autoconhecimento para largar esse peso e provocar uma verdadeira transformação interior.
🧠 Neste vídeo você vai descobrir:
• Por que a espera por um pedido de desculpas é a pior sabotagem na visão da psicologia profunda
• O conceito de "Sombra" na psicologia analítica e por que idealizamos tanto quem nos feriu
• A sacada de Viktor Frankl e Sartre na filosofia existencialista para você bancar a autoria do próprio fim
• Como usar o autoconhecimento para trancar a porta por dentro e declarar paz unilateral
• Uma reflexão de vida visceral sobre a diferença entre o luto real e a dor inútil de enterrar uma miragem
• O movimento prático de transformação interior ensinado pelos grandes mestres estoicos e pela psicologia analítica
✨ Esse mergulho de autoconhecimento prova que a cura definitiva nunca nascerá da boca de quem causou o trauma. É uma reflexão de vida dura, eu sei. Mas quando abraçamos de vez essa transformação interior, paramos de entregar a caneta do nosso destino na mão de figurantes.
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*Capítulos do Vídeo:*
00:00 O Efeito Zeigarnik: O Abandono Inexplicável e a Tortura da Espera
02:44 A Ilusão do Desfecho: Por Que a Falta de Resposta Já É a Resposta Completa
04:46 A Metáfora da Tela Apodrecida: Projetando Nossas Virtudes em Quem Foge
09:47 A Metáfora da Pedra: A Cruel Autossabotagem de Segurar o Peso do Outro
14:04 Os Três Movimentos de Cura: O Luto da Ilusão e o Fim do Tribunal Interno
17:09 A Autoria do Fim: Pegue a Caneta e Declare a Sua Paz Unilateralmente
21:05 A Metáfora do Copo Quebrado: A Aceitação Madura Contra as Falsas Esperanças
25:01 A Folha em Branco e a Porta Aberta: Tranque a Fechadura Pelo Lado de Dentro
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#CarlJung #PsicologiaProfunda #ViktorFrankl #Estoicismo #Autoconhecimento
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00:02A healthy man does not torture others.
00:05It is usually the tortured who becomes the torturer.
00:10It is with this reflection that Carl Gustav Jung invites us to look at our most intimate wounds.
00:18Today, we're going to deconstruct the myth of closure.
00:22and understand why spend your life waiting for an excuse that will never come.
00:26It is the greatest trap that exists for the mind.
00:30We need to talk about the urgency of closing cycles and moving forward.
00:35even when a relationship ends without any definitive conclusion.
00:41In the next few minutes, we'll find out how to regain control.
00:45and heal the void left by those who simply disappeared,
00:48without needing to rely on an explanation to start living again.
00:53Imagine the following everyday scene.
00:56Someone enters your house, breaks your furniture, tears the curtains, and leaves.
01:02leaving the front door wide open.
01:04Instead of sweeping up the dirt and changing the lock,
01:07We sat on the cold floor of the room, looking outside.
01:12We spend days, months, sometimes years, waiting for the invader to return.
01:18Ask for forgiveness and fix the damage.
01:20This sounds absurd in the physical world, but it's exactly what we do to our mental health.
01:26There is a scientifically proven phenomenon called the Zeigarnik effect.
01:32which demonstrates how our brain hates unfinished tasks.
01:36Human memory records with extreme force everything that was suddenly interrupted.
01:42That's why abandonment without justification hurts so much.
01:48We suffer from a type of emotional phantom limb syndrome.
01:52The physical body no longer has an arm.
01:55But the nervous system continues to send out signals of distress into an empty space.
02:00That person is no longer part of our routine.
02:03But her presence continues to haunt every thought.
02:08Simply because the narrative didn't have a clear ending.
02:14Most of life slips away while we hesitate.
02:17And our whole lives while we wait.
02:20As Lucius Seneca, the Roman Stoic philosopher, warns us.
02:24and one of the great thinkers on the brevity of existence,
02:28Waiting is a drain through which our vitality flows away.
02:32We've been conditioned to romanticize the idea of settling scores.
02:37Movies and soap operas have taught us that all affection,
02:40whether it's a friendship or a romance,
02:43It requires one last mature conversation.
02:45a farewell hug
02:47or a poetic ending to be overcome.
02:50However, this obsessive pursuit of justice
02:53It often turns into voluntary imprisonment.
02:56We tied up our tranquility.
02:59to an event that we do not control.
03:01The harsh reality, the one we discussed here.
03:05like sharing a coffee at the end of the day,
03:07The fact that there is no answer is already a complete answer.
03:12When someone chooses to turn their back and leave in silence,
03:16This attitude perfectly illustrates the character of the person who fled.
03:20There is no mystery to be solved.
03:23Handing the pen to the other person so they can write the last paragraph of our story.
03:27It's a brutal attack against ourselves.
03:31The relief we've been searching for.
03:33It will never come from the mouth of the person who caused the trauma.
03:37Peace is not a treaty signed by two agreeing parties.
03:41It needs to be a unilateral declaration.
03:44The moment we realize this is intense,
03:47but it is also the exact moment
03:49where true liberation begins.
03:55The awareness of one's own darkness.
03:57It's the best method for dealing with other people's darkness.
04:03In this surgical finding,
04:06Jung points us towards a painful, yet necessary, way out.
04:10When someone leaves suddenly,
04:12without leaving a trace or giving reasons,
04:15We entered a state of deep denial.
04:18Our minds simply reject the idea.
04:23that an individual in whom we place trust
04:25capable of such coldness.
04:29The anguish of being left behind,
04:31without an explanation,
04:33It consumes us.
04:34Because it threatens our own perception of reality.
04:38We began to doubt our sanity.
04:40and the ability to assess the character of others.
04:45Consider the following metaphor.
04:46It's like buying a beautiful painting.
04:50and we hung it in the living room.
04:52One fine day,
04:54The paint peels off on its own.
04:56revealing a rotten screen
04:58behind that perfect image.
05:01Instead of accepting that the work was always flawed,
05:04We spent the early mornings
05:06trying to glue the colored pieces back onto the fabric,
05:09swearing to ourselves
05:10that the original beauty still resides there.
05:13The effort is exhausting and pointless.
05:18In analytical psychology,
05:21This basement of the human mind is called the shadow.
05:24This is the interior space.
05:26where everyone hides their weaknesses,
05:29Cowardice and traces of selfishness.
05:32We tend to design our own moral compass.
05:35in those we love,
05:37believing firmly
05:39that they would act with the same emotional responsibility
05:42that we would have.
05:45When the other person runs away silently,
05:47He simply exposed that dark side.
05:50However, we are reluctant to confront this hidden side.
05:54We believe that the absence of a resolution
05:56It's a temporary error that will be corrected.
05:59when, in fact,
06:00this abandonment already represents
06:02the most honest facet of that relationship.
06:07Convictions are the enemy of truth.
06:10More dangerous than lies.
06:13With this provocation,
06:15Friedrich Nietzsche,
06:1619th-century German philosopher
06:19and a master at deconstructing morality,
06:22It takes us to the heart of our self-deception.
06:25We invent alibis for those who hurt us.
06:27Because facing the stark reality is key.
06:30It requires a devastating emotional effort.
06:34Waiting for redemption for those who fled.
06:36It works, ironically.
06:38like a psychological shield
06:39built on false certainties.
06:42It's an ingenious way.
06:44that the psyche finds to postpone
06:46The confrontation with absolute loss.
06:49The physical sensation of this process
06:51It's the one about holding your breath underwater.
06:55waiting for the same person
06:57who pushed us into the pool
06:58Dive in to save us,
07:00whereas we could simply swim
07:03all the way to the surface.
07:05We chose to stifle hope.
07:07because he pushes away
07:09the acceptance stage.
07:11Mourning for someone who is still breathing.
07:13It is the most complex of sufferings.
07:16because at every moment
07:17our brain suggests
07:19that reversing the situation is feasible.
07:22If we admit that forgiveness
07:24It will never be asked,
07:26we will be forced to bury
07:28the idealized version
07:29what we constructed from that individual.
07:32Deep down in our soul,
07:33We do not yearn for a genuine retraction.
07:36What do we really want?
07:38It's about the ghost becoming real again.
07:42We wish the ex-partner
07:43or old friend
07:44prove that he was the good character
07:46which we cast for our own particular film,
07:49But existence defies scripts.
07:51predefined
07:52and does not obey our desires
07:54of poetic justice.
07:57That silence that tortures so much.
07:59It's not a pause in communication.
08:01He is the whole message.
08:04delivered in the most brutal way possible.
08:07Accepting this silence burns the skin.
08:09But it's the fundamental step.
08:11so that we don't drown in illusion.
08:16Man is not simply conditioned.
08:19and determined by the circumstances.
08:21He's the one who decides what will happen.
08:23and how it will act in the next fraction of a second.
08:28It is with this forcefulness
08:29that Viktor Emil Frankl,
08:32Austrian psychiatrist,
08:33Holocaust survivor
08:35and creator of logotherapy,
08:37hand us the key
08:38from our own prison.
08:41Let's think about the clear sensation.
08:43of holding an immense stone
08:45with both hands.
08:46The arms begin to tremble,
08:48the muscles burn,
08:50Sweat is running down his face.
08:52Someone put that burden there.
08:54And then it simply disappeared.
08:57Instead of dropping the rock on the ground
08:59and relieve the exhausted body,
09:01We insisted on holding it firmly.
09:03waiting for the same person to return,
09:06Look us in the eyes.
09:07and ask permission to remove the weight.
09:09The initial aggression came from outside.
09:12but the continued torture
09:14It became an internal decision.
09:16The wound of inexplicable abandonment
09:19bleeds profusely
09:20because the mind collapses,
09:22without a logical conclusion.
09:24The lack of a full stop.
09:26It creates a terrifying psychological labyrinth.
09:29Sudden muteness
09:31to whom did he swear loyalty
09:32It makes the psyche doubt.
09:34of one's own lucidity.
09:36In the darkness of doubt,
09:38We replayed each scene from the experience,
09:41we reread old messages
09:43and we dissect banal attitudes,
09:45searching for the exact millisecond
09:47where everything fell apart.
09:48The agony multiplies.
09:50because, deep down,
09:51we try to take the blame
09:53due to the escape of others,
09:54in a desperate attempt
09:56to make sense of chaos.
09:58The existential conflict
10:00It springs precisely from this distortion.
10:03By linking inner healing
10:05to repentance
10:06of those who hurt us,
10:07We signed a lifetime contract.
10:09of emotional slavery.
10:11Well-being
10:12it becomes dependent
10:13of a confession
10:14that the deserter
10:15He has absolutely no intention of doing so.
10:18Frankl reminds us
10:20that space
10:20between the traumatic event
10:22and the reaction
10:23what we have before him
10:24belongs exclusively
10:26to those who suffer.
10:28Hand over this territory.
10:29sacred to the aggressor
10:30It is the cruelest.
10:31of self-sabotage.
10:36Life can only be understood
10:38looking back,
10:40but it can only be lived
10:42Looking ahead.
10:45Soren Kierkegaard,
10:46Danish philosopher
10:4819th century
10:49and considered
10:50the father of existentialism,
10:51illuminate the abyss
10:53that we dig
10:53when we try
10:54To freeze time.
10:55The big trap
10:58of the closing
10:58resides in childish illusion.
11:00than a magical explanation
11:02would make the clock go back
11:04erasing the damage caused.
11:06However,
11:07The blow has already been struck.
11:09The fabric of trust
11:11It tore irreparably.
11:14Even though the retraction
11:15was to be delivered
11:16with genuine tears
11:17and deep remorse,
11:19the impact of disappointment
11:21It would remain embedded in the skin.
11:23The spoken word
11:25It does not undo the brutal act.
11:28The penny drops violently,
11:31but curative,
11:32when we understand
11:33the true anatomy
11:34of overcoming.
11:36It is commonly thought
11:37in the acquittal
11:38as a gift
11:39handed over to the culprit,
11:41an amnesty
11:41that clears the history
11:43Who made the mistake?
11:44But closing a traumatic cycle
11:47It's a movement.
11:48completely alone
11:49and selfish,
11:50In the best sense of the word.
11:52It works like a letter.
11:54of manumission
11:55drafted,
11:56signed
11:57and stamped
11:58by the injured person himself.
12:00It's not about
12:01to alleviate
12:02cruelty
12:02who left,
12:03and yes, refuse
12:05vehemently
12:06The role of perpetual victim.
12:08To wait
12:09the ghost return
12:11to fix the mess
12:12prevents reconstruction
12:14of the walls.
12:15That piercing silence
12:17It's the only justification.
12:19available.
12:19Ultimate tranquility
12:22It blooms instantly.
12:23what do we look at
12:25to the ashes
12:25of what was left.
12:26We took a deep breath.
12:28and we decided
12:29that we don't need
12:30external authorization
12:31to sweep up the rubble
12:32and move forward.
12:34The other person's reason
12:36becomes completely
12:37irrelevant
12:38in the face of responsibility
12:40non-negotiable
12:41to continue existing.
12:46First, tell yourself
12:48What would you be?
12:48and then do
12:50What you have to do.
12:52With this direct instruction,
12:54Epictetus,
12:55Greek Stoic philosopher
12:57who was born a slave
12:58and became
12:59one of the greatest masters
13:00of inner freedom,
13:01It calls us
13:02to action.
13:04So how?
13:05we apply this wisdom
13:06millennial
13:07In our daily lives?
13:09Mainly
13:09when the chest
13:10press in the early morning
13:12and the cell phone
13:13He remains silent.
13:14Understanding is not enough.
13:15the trauma
13:16only in an intellectual way.
13:18The emotion
13:19needs to be
13:20re-educated.
13:22To break
13:23paralysis,
13:24philosophy
13:25suggests adoption
13:26of three postures
13:27intimate,
13:28structured
13:29like someone who tidies up
13:30your own house
13:31after a storm.
13:33The initial step
13:35and
13:35withdrawal
13:36of the witness.
13:37Imagine a court.
13:39gigantic
13:39completely empty
13:41where one
13:42victim
13:42keep screaming
13:43for the chairs
13:44wooden
13:45requiring the judge
13:46appear to
13:47to sentence the crime.
13:49That's exactly it.
13:50what the mind does
13:51when it conditions
13:53overcoming
13:53to admission
13:54guilt
13:55of the offender.
13:56We spent the years
13:57begging that
13:58who hurt us
13:58witness
13:59in our favor.
14:01To begin
14:02liberation,
14:03we must understand
14:04that wear
14:05psychic
14:06It's authentic.
14:06simply
14:07Because we feel it.
14:09we don't need
14:10that the cause
14:11of the storm
14:12validate the damage
14:13that the wind did
14:14at the living room window.
14:16The scar
14:17embedded in the skin
14:18It's already the only one.
14:19medical report
14:20necessary.
14:21From the moment
14:23where did we stop?
14:23to ask the other
14:24attest to the injury,
14:26the agony loses
14:27your main
14:28food source.
14:30Moving forward
14:31along that road
14:32arduous,
14:32we come across
14:33with the second
14:34internship,
14:35mourning
14:36of illusion.
14:37Think about the despair
14:38to see
14:39a mirage
14:40in the desert.
14:41Water
14:41it seemed
14:42incredibly
14:43real,
14:43the headquarters
14:44It was genuine.
14:45It's urgent.
14:46however,
14:47dry sand
14:48I could never do it.
14:49to satisfy
14:49that desire.
14:52Crying for the mirage
14:53Don't fill the glass.
14:54The figure
14:55who left
14:56without looking
14:56back,
14:57leaving the uncertainty
14:58as a response,
15:00revealed there
15:00its essence
15:01more naked.
15:03The companion
15:04mature
15:05and responsible
15:05what we expected
15:06that he would return
15:07sorry
15:08It never existed.
15:09It was about
15:10of a character
15:11fictitious,
15:12molded
15:13by our
15:13own need.
15:15Bury
15:16this fantasy
15:17It burns the soul.
15:18because the burial
15:19requires abandoning
15:20the attempt
15:21to justify
15:22The cowardice of others.
15:23Weakness
15:24from whom does he flee?
15:25It's not a mystery.
15:26intellectual
15:27to be deciphered.
15:28but one fact
15:30gross
15:30to be accepted.
15:34You have the power.
15:35about your mind,
15:37not about external events.
15:39Understand this
15:40and you will find
15:41your strength.
15:43In this powerful reflection,
15:45Marcus Aurelius,
15:47Roman emperor
15:47and maximum exponent
15:49from the Stoic school,
15:50hand us the map
15:51for the final stage
15:52of personal rescue.
15:55When the court is empty
15:56it is abandoned
15:57and the mirage
15:58it falls apart
15:59under the sun,
16:00thought
16:01find space
16:02Clean enough to breathe.
16:03It is in this scenario
16:05newly discovered
16:06clarity
16:06that the cycle
16:07It is complete.
16:09Like this,
16:10We have reached the third movement,
16:12the authorship of the end.
16:14Visualize a long book.
16:15where the co-author
16:16simply stood up
16:17from the table,
16:18He took the inkwell.
16:19although
16:19in the middle
16:19of a chapter
16:20tense
16:21and turned off the light.
16:23Instead of staying
16:24paralyzed in their chairs,
16:26staring at the leaf
16:27stained in the dark,
16:29we decided to light
16:30a candle
16:31and take
16:31our own pencil.
16:34Pick up the pen again
16:35It means understanding.
16:36intimately
16:37that the closing
16:38it doesn't depend
16:39of an amicable agreement
16:40or a signature
16:42joint.
16:43Declare peace.
16:45unilaterally
16:46sets up the largest
16:47proof of autonomy
16:48emotional
16:49that someone can
16:50to offer oneself.
16:52The outcome
16:53It happens not because
16:54the counterpart
16:54He pleaded for clemency.
16:55but because us
16:56we refuse to keep
16:57the open work,
16:59accumulating dust
17:00and preventing
17:01that the next
17:02Let the story begin.
17:04The end point
17:05it doesn't have to be
17:06harmonious,
17:07it doesn't have to be
17:08understood by the world
17:09and much less
17:10lacks agreement
17:12mutual.
17:12He just
17:13It needs to be drawn.
17:15firmly
17:15on paper.
17:17When we execute
17:18this psychic triad,
17:20Waiting loses
17:21your strength
17:22gravitational.
17:23The door
17:24that we maintained
17:24leaning against the wall,
17:25supporting
17:26night wind
17:27in hope
17:28of a return
17:29miraculous,
17:30it's finally
17:31locked
17:31Inside.
17:33The recovery
17:34becomes
17:35a road
17:35solid,
17:36paved
17:37by attitudes
17:38own,
17:39very far away
17:40control
17:40invisible
17:41from who
17:42he didn't even have
17:42greatness
17:43to say goodbye.
17:47There is only
17:48a path
17:49for peace of mind,
17:50stop us
17:51worry
17:52with things
17:52that escape
17:54to power
17:54from our
17:54willing.
17:57Epictetus
17:58consolida
17:58here
17:59the great
17:59Epiphany
18:00of our
18:01crossing
18:02intimate.
18:03We arrived
18:03to that phase
18:04acute
18:04where we need
18:05look at
18:06the horizon
18:07cloudy
18:07and release
18:08the shackles
18:09that tear
18:10the hands.
18:11Imagine a
18:12sailor
18:13on the high seas,
18:14surprised
18:15by a
18:15storm
18:16terrifying.
18:17The sky
18:17It gets dark.
18:18quickly
18:19and the waves
18:20they hit
18:20on the hull
18:21of the vessel
18:22with a
18:22brutal fury.
18:24Instead
18:25to adjust
18:25the candles,
18:26to tie
18:26the strings
18:27and hold
18:27the rudder
18:28firmly,
18:29the browser
18:30climbs onto the deck
18:31and it begins
18:31yelling
18:32with the clouds,
18:33requiring
18:33that the climate
18:34ask him
18:34forgiveness
18:35for ruining
18:35your trip.
18:37The storm
18:38does not have
18:39ears
18:39and nature
18:41should not
18:41satisfaction
18:42something to humans.
18:43Require
18:44that the rain
18:44stop for
18:45consideration
18:46to pain
18:46it's the recipe
18:47exact
18:47for the
18:48shipwreck.
18:50In the sphere
18:50of affections,
18:51absence
18:52sudden
18:53of a
18:53explanation
18:54opera
18:55exactly
18:55like this
18:56gale
18:57unpredictable.
18:58The separation
18:59from who
18:59decided to disappear
19:00It can't be
19:01reversed
19:02through the tears,
19:03neither tamed
19:04by arguments
19:05logical
19:06irrefutable.
19:07to understand
19:08deeply
19:09this fact
19:10does not represent
19:11a surrender
19:12failed,
19:13but yes
19:13the biggest
19:14revolution
19:14psychic
19:15that we can
19:16to carry out.
19:17Calm
19:18real
19:18sprouts
19:19in the millisecond
19:20where did we stop?
19:21to try
19:21domesticate
19:22The uncontrollable.
19:24That muteness
19:25from the old
19:26partner
19:26or partner
19:27cease to be
19:28an enigma
19:29torturous
19:29and transforms
19:31in the only
19:31true
19:32palpable.
19:33The liberation
19:34occurs
19:35when
19:35we stopped
19:35the screams
19:36against
19:37invisible clouds
19:38and we returned
19:39the focus
19:40exclusively
19:40for protection
19:42of himself
19:42boat.
19:46We suffer
19:46much more
19:47in our
19:47imagination
19:48than
19:48in reality.
19:51Seneca
19:51pulls us
19:52back
19:52to the ground
19:53firm
19:53with that
19:54shock
19:54surgical
19:55of lucidity.
19:56The coup
19:57original
19:57farewell
19:58poorly resolved,
19:59that exact
20:00minute
20:00of abandonment
20:01physical,
20:02it was
20:02first
20:03arrow.
20:04It hurt.
20:05intensely,
20:06bled
20:07the soul
20:07and opened
20:08a crack
20:09severe
20:09in capacity
20:10to trust.
20:11However,
20:12the months
20:13and years
20:14how much do we spend
20:14seated
20:15in the dark,
20:16reproducing
20:17dialogues
20:17never
20:18happened
20:18and begging
20:19via message
20:20that justifies
20:21the escape,
20:22They are arrows.
20:23poisonous
20:24that we shoot
20:24against our
20:25own chest
20:26dozens
20:27times
20:28per day.
20:29The attacker
20:30fired
20:31just one
20:31time,
20:32we assume
20:33the post
20:33of executioners
20:34and we continue
20:35work
20:36dirty.
20:37The outcome
20:38sublime
20:39for that
20:39tragedy
20:40daily
20:40does not reside
20:41in a reunion
20:42harmonious
20:43worthy of a movie,
20:44in which
20:45two hearts
20:46they hug
20:46crying
20:47and clean
20:48the past.
20:50Poetry
20:50genuine
20:51resilience
20:52It lies in acceptance.
20:53mature and silent.
20:55Let's think
20:56in the accident
20:56to leave
20:57a glass falling
20:58glass
20:58gorgeous
20:59on the ground
20:59from the kitchen.
21:00The shards
21:01spread
21:02quickly.
21:03Relief
21:04not found
21:05in an attempt
21:06necklace
21:06every little bit
21:07sharp
21:08back
21:08in the format
21:09perfect,
21:10injuring the fingers
21:12in an effort
21:13illusory
21:13to undo
21:14what already
21:14it broke.
21:16Serenity
21:17It's about grabbing the broom.
21:18pick up the pieces
21:19with respect,
21:21play everything
21:21in the trash can
21:22and finally,
21:22be able to walk
21:23barefoot
21:24around the house
21:25without the slightest
21:26fear
21:26to bleed
21:27again.
21:29Declare
21:29that the plot
21:30It has come to an end.
21:30configure
21:31an act
21:32sacred,
21:33completely invisible
21:34for the viewers
21:36from the outside,
21:36but that echoes
21:37for all eternity
21:39in consciousness.
21:40The void
21:41provoked
21:42with the excuse
21:43unspoken
21:43cease to be
21:44a wound
21:45open
21:45and it becomes
21:47on a plot of land
21:47clean,
21:48ready for
21:49we build
21:50an existence
21:50authentic.
21:54between the stimulus
21:55and the answer
21:56There is space.
21:57In this space
21:58Our power lies there.
22:00to choose
22:00Our response.
22:02In our response
22:03reside
22:04our freedom.
22:07Viktor Frankl
22:08outlines
22:09with precision
22:09the territory
22:10sacred
22:11where the cure
22:12authentic
22:12it happens.
22:14The time has come.
22:14of turning
22:15the mirror
22:16directly
22:16for our
22:17own face,
22:18undressing
22:19justifications
22:20that we create
22:20along
22:21of the years.
22:23Let's think
22:23in the image
22:24of a train
22:24that broke
22:25abruptly
22:26in the middle
22:26out of nowhere,
22:27dropping off the passengers
22:29on the edge
22:29of the tracks.
22:30Instead of walking
22:31across the fields
22:32Until next time!
22:33city,
22:34the reaction
22:34automatic
22:35it's sitting
22:36in the suitcase
22:37and stay
22:37waiting
22:38that the train driver
22:39fix the engine
22:40and come back
22:41to search
22:41who stayed
22:42back.
22:44At night
22:45falls into the forest,
22:46The cold intensifies,
22:47but the victim
22:48It's still there,
22:49paralyzed
22:50on the platform
22:51of land.
22:52The hard
22:53true
22:54behind
22:54of this illustration
22:55That's because,
22:56mostly
22:57sometimes,
22:58the vigil
22:58by retraction
23:00stranger
23:00acts as
23:01armor
23:02incredibly
23:03comfortable.
23:05If we continue
23:06focused
23:06during the escape
23:07from who
23:07It disappointed us.
23:09we won one
23:09occupation
23:10Full-time.
23:11Outrage
23:12constant
23:13provides
23:13a fake
23:14sense
23:14On purpose.
23:16While
23:17we concentrate
23:17all of our
23:18mental energy,
23:19collecting the debt
23:20emotional
23:21that the other
23:21he left,
23:22we avoid looking
23:23for the land
23:24wasteland that it has become
23:26our own
23:26routine.
23:28Having to rebuild
23:29the foundation
23:30of a building
23:31It's a lot of work.
23:32gigantic
23:32It's scary.
23:34Blame the hurricane
23:35for having destroyed
23:36the roof
23:36is infinitely
23:38easier.
23:41it doesn't matter
23:42what did they do
23:43what did they do
23:43like you
23:43what matters
23:45That's what you
23:46do it with that
23:47what did
23:47like you.
23:49Jean-Paul Sartre
23:51French thinker
23:52and one of the biggest
23:53exponents
23:54of philosophy
23:54existentialist
23:55delivers
23:56this scam
23:57definitive
23:58against our
23:59comfort
23:59prisoner.
24:01When the curtain
24:02falls
24:03and we decided
24:04that there will be
24:05more shifts
24:05nights
24:06waiting
24:07explanations
24:07a void
24:09terrifying
24:09It invades the environment.
24:11In the end
24:12to remove muteness
24:13of the offender
24:14from the center
24:14from the stage
24:15it means
24:15put the focus
24:17only
24:17about our
24:18own choices.
24:20The shield
24:21protector against grief
24:22It will end up on the ground.
24:23The great provocation
24:25that rises
24:26at this stage
24:26of lucidity
24:27does not refer
24:28more to the reasons
24:29The cruel effects of abandonment.
24:31The questioning
24:32which should resonate
24:33through our conscience
24:35starting today
24:36It's just one.
24:37Who will we be tomorrow?
24:39Now that the wait
24:40It's finally over.
24:43Abandon the position
24:44of a wounded creditor
24:45It requires courage.
24:47absurd
24:47to face
24:48the blank sheet of paper.
24:49The injury
24:50It will still be pulsing.
24:51for a while
24:51the brand will remain
24:53recorded in memory
24:54forever
24:54but the script
24:56from the following pages
24:57belongs
24:58exclusively
24:59to whom does it belong?
24:59the pen
25:00at the present moment.
25:02True harmony
25:04does not stand out
25:05on the horizon
25:06when the past
25:07It gets a cynical patch.
25:08She wakes up at dawn.
25:10in the exact millisecond
25:11in what we perceive
25:12that the future
25:13it is not necessary
25:14permission
25:15of those who hurt us
25:16to start over.
25:19There's an old story.
25:21about someone
25:21that one night
25:22severe storm
25:24saw the person
25:25who did he trust the most?
25:26to leave.
25:27In the rush of departure
25:28who left
25:29left the door
25:30from the wide-open front.
25:31The icy wind
25:33invaded the room
25:34He put out the fire.
25:35and took over
25:36of the environment.
25:38Instead of getting up
25:39and lock the lock
25:40the resident
25:41simply
25:42sat down
25:43on the carpet.
25:44He believed
25:45firmly
25:45that only
25:46the same hand
25:47that had opened
25:48the passage
25:49would have the duty
25:50to close it.
25:52The seasons have changed.
25:54Frost
25:54It's become routine.
25:56This person
25:56aged
25:57and lost its beauty
25:58of sunny days
25:59keeping the eyes
26:01embedded in the street
26:02awaiting return
26:03of the one who would bring
26:04the request for forgiveness
26:06and finally
26:07I would pull the latch.
26:09Until
26:10one morning
26:11of extreme exhaustion
26:12decided to stand up
26:13supporting the weight
26:14of the body
26:15in worn wood.
26:16When touching the metal
26:17of the doorknob
26:18the big revelation
26:20it happened.
26:21The lock
26:21It always worked
26:22perfectly
26:23from the inside.
26:25We often repeat
26:26this exact tragedy
26:28with our
26:28invisible wounds.
26:30We accept
26:31to inhabit the wind
26:32of abandonment
26:33because we swore
26:34that the cure
26:35dwells in the voice
26:35of those who hurt us.
26:38We've spent decades
26:39freezing
26:40existence itself
26:41waiting
26:42that the offender
26:43grant us
26:44permission
26:44to move forward.
26:46However
26:47relief
26:48definitive
26:48it's not a gift
26:50that the other
26:50delivers us
26:51in a box
26:52beautiful.
26:53Overcoming
26:54it's the attitude
26:55brave
26:56to get up
26:56from the ground
26:57and hit
26:57the door.
26:58The outcome
26:59of history
27:00never needed
27:01of agreement
27:02of two people.
27:03He demands
27:04only that one
27:05understand them
27:06that the cold
27:07It has already lasted
27:07Too much time.
27:10If the words
27:10today
27:11they brought
27:12some outline
27:12peace
27:13or clarity
27:14for your
27:14crossing
27:15I invite you
27:16to leave
27:17your like
27:18comment
27:19your experience
27:19and share
27:21this video.
27:23It is through
27:23of this movement
27:24simple
27:25that you
27:25support
27:26continuity
27:27from this space
27:28allowing
27:29that these
27:29reflections
27:30reach
27:31other people
27:32which also
27:33They are looking
27:33freedom
27:34real.
27:35Even ours
27:36next meeting.
27:37And there
27:55Caption by Sônia Ruberti
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