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00:00I don't want to be on the end or the front.
00:04Can you please help me?
00:06No, you have to fend for yourself.
00:09I'm the girl and I get put in the very, very back.
00:11That's how I know something is up.
00:13Honestly, I just can't really put my finger on it.
00:16Haylin, can we talk to my truck for a minute?
00:20Can you turn your mic on?
00:23I'm king of the world!
00:25What are you doing?
00:26Oh, oh, oh, hello.
00:28I like him to call first before he shows up.
00:32I don't want to be in the house and look out the window and just see him there.
00:37I want to know if I look out, I'm going to see woods and birds, maybe a deer.
00:42I'm not going to see Barry.
00:44I'll just say it all so there's nothing left in the dark.
00:47She called me out on social media, which just hurt.
00:51For me, from the time that you two said I do, I see you as a son, son-in-law,
00:56part of the family.
00:57I just think actions really speak louder than words.
00:59And so I just hope that now that she's said that, it actually turns into action.
01:04I don't know if I'm in the past.
01:07I don't know.
01:15Praise God.
01:18I don't know if I'm in the past.
01:34You're going to get a drink?
01:36I'm going to have cider in a can.
01:37Yeah, I might.
01:38It's 5 o'clock somewhere, right?
01:41Yeah.
01:42Today's a good day to meet up with Ethan and Micah and Mariah.
01:47When they're in town, we do make a point to just get together.
01:52There she is.
01:53There she is.
01:54It's been a while, huh?
01:55Yeah.
01:56So today is just one of those infrequent times
01:58where we just go to a restaurant bar and just have
02:02some pizza and have a drink, just to chat.
02:05Yeah.
02:09Cheers to Ethan saying his first word today.
02:15I have an idea.
02:17Let's all go around and say something
02:21that we wished we didn't do today.
02:24Do you have more of an original idea?
02:26Why don't you start?
02:28Did you drive into another fountain today?
02:30No.
02:31I haven't had any incidences since I left Georgia.
02:35There's a lot to run into out there.
02:37Yeah.
02:37I mean, and there's a lot that can go wrong in Montana
02:39in the winter, you know?
02:40I thought there was nobody out there,
02:42and that's why I wanted to move out there.
02:44But then I realized there were people,
02:46and I also realized I kind of need people.
02:48Like, not you guys, but some people.
02:51I don't blame you there.
02:53I'm joking.
02:54What are the people like?
02:56Like, the community is very tight because they need each other.
02:59I can, like, pretty much promise you that when you guys come out to see me,
03:02you're going to know exactly why I couldn't come back.
03:04I will always have a very special place in my heart for Cairo.
03:09But Montana's my new home.
03:11That's where I feel like I belong.
03:13I worried about you when you first moved out there.
03:15I worried about myself, but I wasn't going to tell anyone.
03:21There's been some things in my life that I've had to work through,
03:24and I just, you know, I needed a reset,
03:27and I needed to just figure things out on my own
03:32and grow up a bit.
03:34Micah, I think we've lost her to Montana for good.
03:37But at least you found her home on a good spot.
03:41Mariah seems really happy.
03:42Probably the happiest I've ever seen her.
03:44And I think Mariah's happy because she's found peace.
03:49And peace is hard to come by.
03:50And when you find it, you should keep it.
03:52And that's what I want.
03:57You know, I had in my mind's eye this, like, vision of me
04:04finding some lady in Montana.
04:12What do you think of that?
04:14At this point, I'm just introducing them to the topic of me dating someone.
04:21I am open to meeting people in a variety of locations, right?
04:26Montana being a novel thought, that would be fun.
04:28It would be great to meet somebody.
04:32The only woman I've ever known my dad to be with is my mom.
04:34And I don't think that's going to be his type.
04:38I'm staying out of it.
04:40I just don't want to be the one son that is out at a bar with my dad
04:44and hooks him up with somebody.
04:46And then it's just hell, you know, if you meet somebody that looks good.
04:51But are you just thinking with that third leg?
04:56Dad, did you really have a vision?
04:58I'm looking at Micah.
05:00I'm looking at Ethan going, I'm in one mode and they're in another.
05:04Ethan, you know, he's kind of playing the role of bump on the log right now.
05:08If Micah, I don't know if Micah realizes it,
05:10but he needs to process that relationship that was so toxic and work through it.
05:15But I have an optimistic outlook on life right now.
05:17The divorce is behind me, now a new chapter's totally begun.
05:22It's a day of new beginnings, Mariah.
05:25Yeah.
05:28This is going to be an interesting journey.
05:31Dad, what's your best pickup line?
05:34I don't have any.
05:35You don't have any?
05:36He doesn't have any.
05:37No wonder he's single.
05:39Yeah.
05:40Mariah, he's been out of the game for like 30 years.
05:42Oh, okay.
05:43Ethan, what's a good pickup line?
05:44I don't have any.
05:46Micah used to use some.
05:48Dad just needs to walk up to a girl and go like,
05:51how you doing, baby?
05:54How you doing?
05:55How you doing?
05:57How you doing?
06:00How you doing?
06:01How you doing?
06:02I'm Barry.
06:04I'm from New York.
06:08I honestly would just like to see my dad try and flirt with him.
06:14How you doing, baby?
06:15Where do you park your car?
06:17Maybe I wouldn't want to see that.
06:18You know, never mind.
06:19I changed my mind.
06:20I don't want to see that.
06:23You'd make a pretty, pretty interesting New Yorker.
06:27Do they look like willing wingmen?
06:30I guess it's not going to happen.
06:33They're nowhere near any type of wingman.
06:35You know, that's fine.
06:36There'll be other people who might offer me advice or introduce me to someone.
06:41You have one job.
06:42And that would be?
06:43Take your time and find the right one.
06:45Yeah.
07:05so a few days ago, we were at the Halloween thing, and I could sense something was off.
07:13and so afterwards we had a long talk and me and Isaac ended up breaking up.
07:20I never saw it coming and I kind of thought everything was going really good.
07:25Today I'm at my friend Kim's house.
07:27I've had a really, really rough week and it might help just a little bit to have a glass of
07:32wine.
07:33We're both nurses and we graduated together.
07:37I share a lot of things with her and she knows Isaac and some about the family dynamics.
07:44Hey.
07:45Hey.
07:47How you doing?
07:50Just as you would expect.
07:53It's kind of been a lot the past few days.
07:56I can understand that.
07:58When he came to you, what exactly did he say?
08:04So, we were at that Halloween thing and I could kind of feel like something was off in a way.
08:10Like he was kind of distancing himself?
08:13Yeah.
08:14So, he pulled me aside after we got done and he was like, can we talk?
08:20And I was like, yeah.
08:21And I knew it was, like I knew something was coming.
08:24That's when it all happened.
08:26First, he can't get out the words and then, you know, I kind of make him like, you got to
08:32say it, say it with your chest.
08:35And he, you know, said that I think we should break up and honestly, like I'm kind of shocked in
08:44a way.
08:45Like it threw me, like it's thrown me for a loop.
08:49You know, I was just like, I honestly, I just, I didn't even know what to think.
08:52I'm just really shocked because out of all the people in the world that I know, I never would have
08:58saw this coming.
09:01Yeah, nobody saw it coming either.
09:07So, Dad, I have not heard this directly from you.
09:09Directly from me.
09:10But I have heard it around when you're open to date.
09:14That was the topic of conversation here before you walked in.
09:18I mean, it's kind of weird to be talking to my ex-husband about dating other people.
09:23You know, it's a new age.
09:25Another woman can have him.
09:27I'm okay with that.
09:29So how's everything been going, man?
09:31There's some going on right now.
09:33I'll work through it and get through it, but it's going.
09:37I got scared.
09:38I felt like it was moving too fast and I was too young.
09:41Just seeing her happy and stuff, knowing what I was about to do to her, just still haunts me to
09:46this day, honestly.
10:01We need, like, a steady hour with the big hose to knock a lot of dirt off.
10:06It would definitely make it easier, for sure.
10:08Today we're at one of our sheds and we just finished up picking peanuts.
10:13Me and Ralph have, uh, we've known each other since I started last year.
10:17We hit it off pretty well.
10:19We both just, like, screwing around, spending time together.
10:22We'll get this one washed off.
10:23Okay.
10:27There's no easy way to say it, but me and Kalen, I broke up with her because I felt like
10:37it was moving too fast and I was too young.
10:41Just certain thoughts built up to where I felt like I was under too much pressure and I wanted to
10:46just be free.
10:48I know she is a little bit older than me, so she may want to settle down a little sooner
10:52than I would have in mind.
10:55Just everything my family's been through, it scared me.
11:04Explain it.
11:04Did she say something?
11:05No, no, I mean, I wouldn't be the type to break up with someone because they say something.
11:09It wasn't, like, an instant decision.
11:10It was just something that I was thinking about.
11:12And that's one thing that was really hard was seeing her happy and her not knowing anything's going to happen,
11:18you know.
11:19Knowing what I was about to do to her just still haunts me to this day, honestly.
11:24He didn't know if he was ready to, like, be completely settled down, you know, like, because he knows marriage
11:28is on the table for me one day.
11:30It got into his head that he thought I wanted to be married in the next, like, year or two,
11:34and that was not the case.
11:35And then some of the guys at work kind of got into his head a lot.
11:40They were like, are you sure you want to be settled down?
11:42Are you sure you're ready for that?
11:44With divorce with Kim and then Mike and Veronica, I mean, he has been surrounded by relationship failure after relationship
11:54failure.
11:54And I think that's put a real big fear on him.
12:01He's got to understand, you are so far from the type of person Veronica was.
12:07Your relationship is not the same as the things that he's experienced with his family.
12:13How has he been after the fact, though?
12:15It was either Sunday or Monday night.
12:17He called my parents.
12:20Stop.
12:20And, yeah, he called mom and daddy.
12:25Why would he do that, though?
12:26He wanted to apologize.
12:28For hurting their daughter?
12:30Yeah, he just apologized.
12:31He apologized to them.
12:33He asked mom and daddy to pray for them.
12:35And he was like, I'm always going to love your daughter.
12:38Mama was like, you could tell he's confused about some stuff.
12:48So how's everything been going, man?
12:50Like, work or personal wants?
12:52A little bit of both?
12:54It's been going.
12:55I mean, work's been good, other than working with you.
12:59But then everything else is, there's some going on right now.
13:03I'll work through it and get through it.
13:05But it's going.
13:08It's only been a few days.
13:09Because that's one of the things that makes me feel so stupid.
13:12And it's one of those things where right after you make the decision, you just know in your gut it
13:16wasn't a good decision.
13:18She didn't deserve to be treated that way after everything she's done for me.
13:23We're not really talking, but I kind of reach out to her.
13:27And I have no desire to do anything other than to rebuild it with her.
13:30And that's all I want.
13:31That's all I can see myself doing.
13:33She's going to have to decide what she wants to do.
13:36A few days of being by myself is too much already.
13:39And it's killing me inside.
13:41But I just miss her, man.
13:52I don't think I should have listened to him.
13:54Some lessons are best learned the hard way?
13:56Yeah, I guess so.
13:58Where I'm at personally is pretty close to hell.
14:01It's just really setting in now.
14:03And looking back, that's something I should never have even thought about letting go of.
14:10I hate myself so much that I just don't even want to wake up if I can't be with her.
14:19I want more than anything to talk to her and work it out.
14:24There's a lot of trust that would need to be rebuilt.
14:27And I'm willing to go to the ends of the earth to do it.
14:30But I don't know if I can recover from this with her.
14:34You know, I don't know if she'd be open to that.
14:37But I'm really waiting to see, you know, where she stands.
14:41I don't know.
14:42I just don't know if I've done too much damage to redo it.
14:45But I'm just praying for a second chance.
14:55Has he been trying to contact you a lot since this?
14:58He's reached out probably like once a day.
15:01He wants to meet up sometime and talk.
15:05And he was like, you know, the ball's in your court.
15:06Whatever you want to do whenever I feel like I'm ready.
15:11And I was, you know, kind of confused about it.
15:13And you didn't message immediately back, did you?
15:16No.
15:16Okay.
15:17No.
15:17Yeah, make him wait it out.
15:20I have mixed emotions because, you know, I do still care for him.
15:22I do still love him.
15:24But I've always known my self-worth.
15:26I've always stuck up for myself.
15:28You know, I'm never a second option.
15:29And I'm not for all that.
15:31You can't just make these decisions without thinking about other people's feelings.
15:36I know it was probably really rough.
15:38And I know that it took a lot for him to come to you and talk to you about this.
15:42Yeah.
15:42But I want the best for you.
15:45And I don't know if Isaac's it.
15:48There's trust issues there.
15:49Yeah.
15:49I mean, you're going to have that.
15:50That's the whole thing about it, though.
15:52So when you put that seed of doubt into somebody and then in the future want to work that out
16:00or wait and see if he can reconcile, that seed of doubt's going to be there.
16:07When a man loves you and he wants to wife you up and marry you, he will show you.
16:14There will not be a doubt in your head.
16:16They won't allow him to exist.
16:19If he, you know, really wants this, he's going to prove it to me with his actions.
16:22Because, you know, to me, it's always actions over words.
16:26Honestly, right now, I don't necessarily know where me and Isaac stand.
16:29I really believed so much that he, you know, was the one.
16:35But, you know, trust isn't just giving.
16:37It's something that you have to earn with your actions.
16:40We'll just see what he does.
16:42And, yeah, just give it to God, because that's the only other thing I can do.
16:54Do you guys want to sing some music with me?
16:57Yeah.
17:00Ethan's back in Cairo.
17:01It's great to have him here.
17:02I think Ethan's doing good.
17:05It's kind of hard to tell, you know, with him.
17:09But since Ethan's been back here, he's been really quiet.
17:13What do you want to sing?
17:14Oh, I don't know.
17:16Gospel songs or something.
17:17I don't know what Ethan's thinking, but every once in a while, he'll share something with me.
17:22Wait, I need to be in the middle.
17:24But he's not, like, a very open person, as we all know.
17:27You know Amazing Grace?
17:29Yeah.
17:31It's just really nice to have him around.
17:36Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me.
17:50Well, I think it's been a good move for my little sisters to come back here.
17:54I'm very thankful for the time I get to spend with my siblings, especially my little sisters.
18:00I think that I did need to come back and see what it's like here, what it's like living here
18:05again.
18:06Just so I would know if I really wanted that or not.
18:09But the days of the farm and all of us there, it's not that anymore.
18:15It probably never will be.
18:16And that chapter's come and gone.
18:20And grace my fears relieved.
18:27I don't know.
18:28Whenever I'm with Tegan, I feel completely at home.
18:31And, like, everything, all the little things that bug you in life or day-to-day or whatever, they're just
18:36gone.
18:36And when I'm not with her, when I'm away from her, it's like I'm just restless.
18:42I can't sit still.
18:45I don't sleep very well.
18:49It's just...
18:52I know I'm not supposed to be here.
18:53It was grace that taught my heart to fear.
19:02So, at this point, you don't know if you're going to stay in Georgia or not, right?
19:09Mm-mm.
19:12If you don't stay in Georgia, what might you do?
19:16Only God knows that. I don't know.
19:18We've no less days to say in God's praise
19:26than when we first begun.
19:35It's very nice.
19:37Very nice.
19:51I can start with the comb.
19:53I just washed it.
19:55Okay.
19:55And I didn't do anything to it.
19:57I didn't brush it.
19:58Here.
19:58I can do it.
20:00I'm a professional, remember?
20:02Yeah.
20:02I'm a hairdresser now.
20:03Mom and I have been trying to get more time together lately.
20:06And, um, apparently she wants the haircut that I did on myself, like, last year or something.
20:13I've always wanted to be close with my mom.
20:15And I feel like through the years we have had our times where we were closer than others.
20:19But there's always been, like, a lack of transparency, a lack of vulnerability.
20:25We're both adults now.
20:26She's got to be able to let her walls down.
20:29Um, what I want to clear up with my mom is kind of one of the root issues of the
20:37distance
20:37in our relationship.
20:40Is this your first time seeing a hairdresser?
20:44Um, this year it is.
20:47Oh.
20:49The distance in Lydia and I's relationship, I feel like my part in that is not reaching
20:55out to her as much as I would have otherwise because I felt condemnation, judgment about
21:01my life choices, especially the divorce.
21:04I would love to get back to where we were before.
21:10Okay.
21:12You've been married less than a year, you know, um, so I'm sure you're still on that,
21:18you know, honeymoon stage and all that.
21:20Yeah, I mean, I know there were aspects that were quick for us personally.
21:24It never felt rushed.
21:25Um, I understand for you guys not having too much time with him and everything, that was
21:31hard.
21:32But I don't want to be, you know, 10 years into marriage and just be like, well, the
21:37honeymoon phase was fun, but now here we are.
21:39Yeah.
21:40And I feel like we've been doing that pretty well, having tough conversations.
21:45Things that we admired about each other at the very beginning that we feel like has
21:50faded a little bit.
21:50That's hard to hear, but it's needed.
21:54And he doesn't shy away from hard conversations.
21:57I've definitely always been one to shy away from hard conversations, but yeah, marriage
22:02takes two.
22:03It takes two to be vulnerable.
22:04It takes two to be honest.
22:05It takes two to sacrifice.
22:06And when hurt from life gets in the way and wounds you and numbs you, it affects every
22:14aspect of your life.
22:15Oh my goodness.
22:17Oh Lord.
22:18The tangles are like right back here.
22:20Oh.
22:21Oh, I see.
22:26You know, Isaac's coming over to visit and we're going to talk, I think, about Kaelin's
22:33stuff.
22:34Yeah.
22:35That's really sad.
22:36I feel like even though it's really hard, I feel like he did make the right decision
22:41in the fact that like he is only 20.
22:44And so to have some time, just him figuring stuff out, I think is really good.
22:49And I would love it if they could grow and come back together once they're in a good place.
22:55But I'm hoping that Lydia is kind of realizing that dating people, going through breakups,
23:02getting married, relationships can be more complicated.
23:05It's not always just, well, this is the right thing to do.
23:08Just do it.
23:12Okay.
23:16You and I used to be really close and I feel like all of this other stuff has kind of
23:21crept
23:21in over the years with the separation and divorce.
23:25All of that.
23:27Mm-hmm.
23:27When the divorce and the separation happened, you know, there was a rift between Lydia and
23:33I.
23:33I felt like Lydia has been a supporter of Barry and not me.
23:40Well, speaking of which, like whenever I would talk to you, it just felt like there was,
23:46I was talking to a brick wall.
23:58Like whenever I would talk to you, it just felt like there was, I was talking to a brick wall.
24:06I felt that you were judging me and, and like not accepting where I was in life.
24:15It hurts to hear because I certainly never intended to be like a brick wall.
24:20So I'm making an effort towards chatting about things on a deeper level.
24:26I mean, the hardest thing in all of that was knowing that it was hurting all of you kids.
24:31And that was the last thing I wanted.
25:00Mm-hmm.
25:0124 years of marriage, and then so soon jump into any other relationship.
25:08I can't support this.
25:09I can't say I agree with it.
25:14You okay?
25:17Yeah.
25:18What's going on?
25:22I just, I don't know.
25:27It's not going to be putting it towards.
25:29I can't.
25:37You know, that's understandable now, seeing that everything you were going through,
25:42that you were the one that left, you had to do what, what you had to do.
25:47There were definitely repercussions from that, but it's something that we can all grow from.
25:53The last thing I ever wanted for it to come across was that I was judging my mom.
25:59I think there's definitely part of me that was hurt, but deep down, that's, you know, was never my intention.
26:06And, you know, it's hard to hear that that's, you know, one of the reasons that she,
26:11distance herself.
26:13Going through all that was just about as hard as this tangle here.
26:16I am.
26:18Does Ken know you're getting this haircut, or are you just going to get it and see if he notices?
26:23No, he wouldn't, he would notice.
26:28It's kind of something I wanted to talk about with you.
26:32Back when you guys started dating, it was like right when everything was fresh,
26:38and then I expressed how I didn't approve, and I know there's been lots of ups and downs for you
26:46guys,
26:46but I see you guys are doing a lot better, and I see there's, you know, you're in a healthy
26:53place now,
26:54and the girls are happy, and you guys are happy, and I just wanted to make sure you knew that
27:00I'm really happy for you,
27:02and I approve, and if that day ever comes, then I'll be really happy for you guys.
27:33that really means a lot to me because you know like I hated how everything happened like it did
27:41yeah where like I wanted so much to give all of you kids a stable home and two parents and
27:50but
27:51at some point I just couldn't and I hated that I was the one that left but I didn't really
27:58I feel
27:59like I didn't I didn't have a choice it really means a lot that you know there's some grace there
28:07for yeah how all that played out yeah today really helped I felt like in her not accepting Ken it
28:16wasn't that she wasn't accepting Ken she wasn't accepting me and my choices to me it means she
28:22loves me no matter what I do and that just was huge for me I wasn't expecting to hear that
28:27today all
28:29right start with four inches maybe I just want to be able to move forward as a family and Zach
28:35is
28:35family now no going back oh these are nice scissors I'm excited to see what this looks like okay now
28:48if
28:48you want to stand up and I'll just look at the layers and see if anything needs to be okay
28:53yeah
28:53I think I should trim maybe I was supposed to cut it the other way oh no that's not what
29:03you want
29:03to hear are you laughing no I'm are you crying no I'm making it all good back here don't worry
29:17okay okay I think that's good all right go look in the okay now can I look mirror and see
29:23what you
29:23think you know I do see that she does want to be close with us and she does want the
29:29best for us
29:29I'm glad we could share this with each other and I'm excited to see where our relationship goes from
29:36here I hope it's good oh that looks good Lydia okay I love it I love it it's perfect let's
29:46go
29:53so how's the day good everything's good yeah you know I'm just prepping at the house for some
29:59other things Zach and I have had time now to spend together more and more and so if I need
30:05to talk
30:05with a guy and Zach is a guy I can go to yeah I know you got a pool table
30:09that's fine
30:12so tonight we're at Giorgio's and it's guys night at Giorgio's that's true I'm living for
30:19that shirt let's go to Hawaii right I have one very similar I may actually wear to church tomorrow
30:23now yeah I'm just uh looking for good wingmen who want to be a member of the few the proud
30:29my wingmen I didn't know I was being knighted tonight you're being enlisted into a valiant
30:36service need my hugs guys oh good to see ya all right man it's good to see you you too
30:44Taylor's a friend of Zach's Taylor's a friend of mine Lydia has worked for him Mariah has worked
30:50for him Taylor is Kim's boss as well so and Taylor knows what's going on with the Plath clan even
30:57when
30:57the Plath clan doesn't know what's going on with the Plath clan so what are you guys doing today
31:02we're just hanging out just relaxing just doing a father-in-law son-in-law hangout day
31:08yeah oh yeah we're trying to catch up yeah what should I have what would you recommend do you have
31:13one of your mocktails do the ginger orange mocktail it's out of this world the ginger orange mocktail
31:19ginger orange mocktail you got it absolutely yeah Barry and I have been friends for a little over
31:24a year now at the restaurant one evening Barry came in and I got to meet him and we just
31:28clicked
31:28right away Barry and I both have just come out of very long relationships and before I met the
31:34Plath I was in a really bad relationship it was the guy that I was with for 15 years and
31:40you get a lot
31:41of judgment from that from the fundamentalist community but the friendship that I've gotten
31:46from them and the non-judgment that I've gotten from the Plath have really helped mold me into the person
31:51I am today they have a special place in my heart for that yes what have you been up to
31:56yeah it's a
31:57new chapter I'm feeling pretty good right cheers yeah there's times where I think you know it'd be
32:04nice to maybe go out and go on a date and meet somebody uh but I really haven't dipped my
32:10foot
32:10into the dating pool sure at all yet it takes time so what are you looking for exactly somebody that
32:18likes to go to the beach somebody likes to travel the mountains yeah somebody who's very grounded in
32:23her faith someone who likes to stay active because I'm in like the second act of life and I'm like
32:29there's no slowing down so you know I kind of envision my path will intersect with the one
32:35exactly and then we'll both know with the two of us we're very extroverted so yeah you know if he
32:41hangs with us basically Zach and I are going to be your wingmen you can you can be my wingmen
32:46oh
32:46absolutely I mean yeah yeah it's much more fitting with like Micah and Ethan my my son's being wingmen
32:53and I'm like no that's weird you know do you think Barry has game are you maybe in a position
32:59to help
32:59him kick it up a notch um well I'm a little more in tune with how to date and stuff
33:08like that obviously
33:09just marrying Lydia it's nice to have a good father-in-law relationship and there's a couple
33:15generations separating us so there might be some different dating cues but you know I'll do my
33:19best we're like family thing wingman that just doesn't make sense we've got you yeah yeah we've
33:24got him on this we're not his children we're not in weird places ourselves so we're gonna be his
33:29wingman we're gonna find the right guy yeah right guy we're gonna find the right girl for Barry
33:34do you know yeah okay so pretend like I'm a beautiful blonde woman oh no we're not gonna do
33:44that we're not going doing what's your name I think that he's been with the same person for 25 years
33:50so
33:51now it's time to see what else is out there I actually have an aunt that is single and age
33:58appropriate you want to see a picture well in due in due time well it's been a while since Barry's
34:04been on a date so at this point in life I think Barry's type is the type that has a
34:09pulse
34:16hey girls well look who's arrived look who I found the ex-wife is there she's got a boyfriend
34:23and Barry's looking to get a girlfriend it's just the dynamics are present in the tension
34:28well I mean the divorce is final the divorce is final so I don't know what this world is anymore
34:43I don't know I I'm an extroverted person it's very easy for me to approach people are you like
34:49willing to talk to anybody kind of thing I'd like to engage people sure yeah well it is not
34:55on my agenda that I would give my father-in-law dating advice but I feel like I'm in the
35:01best
35:01position too so you know I have the most recent experience so I gotta help a man out you're a
35:07single man it's time to get you out on town I was thinking we could go throw axes oh now
35:12that would
35:13be interesting did you know that locally here there's a place where you can go and do sauna cold
35:17plunge no but I would do that in a second no that sounds awesome who are you gonna meet at
35:22a sauna
35:23doesn't seem like this would be a lot of places where ladies would hang out you know to be well
35:28rounded you want to do stuff with your friends you have a community do stuff with people who
35:34know robbery bonding yeah these are great guys I like these guys a lot I'm pretty fond of them
35:40myself and uh who knows what we might be doing next you know on guys night out
35:46send me the plans and I'm there okay awesome I'll be back over to visit when I get a chance
35:50I need to go check and do my work yep absolutely single and ready to mingle single and ready to
35:56mingle let's go find you a girl hey girls you got a haircut yeah it looks great well look who's
36:05arrived
36:06look look who I found hey hello your wife does a good job on the hair yeah it looks good
36:13yeah it looks
36:14really good you did a great job yeah looks great so if your day job doesn't hold up you can
36:19always
36:19go into cosmetology yeah right I can do that Barry comes over almost every Sunday for lunch but up to
36:26this point I haven't always seen Kim really reaching out to us as means of checking in or wanting to
36:32know
36:32how we're doing it's it's more just like hey come help me with this thing the thing that Lydia has
36:40just told me that she feels is missing is nourishment of just like being understood
36:48so dad I have not heard this directly from you directly from me heard it around you're open to
36:54date well is that misinformation we were discussing or tell me that was the topic of conversation here
37:02before you walked in I mean there's a lot to think about like my dad dating
37:07I'm honestly kind of excited because this would be this would be something
37:12well I've just heard you're like oh so and so told so and so told so and so I was
37:17like I need to hear
37:18from dad first yeah well I mean the divorce is final the divorce is final so go for it
37:28I'm sitting next to Zach and then my ex-wife pops into the picture and we're discussing dating
37:34and she's giving me advice it's really like an episode from the twilight zone but there it was
37:40you know it's a new age it's kind of comical when we're here like go for it or whatever I
37:46don't know
37:47what this world is anymore yeah I mean it's it's kind of weird to be you know I'm talking to
37:53my ex-husband
37:54about dating other people but I mean it's almost been five years since we separated so
37:59go for it I can't imagine going that long and not dating anybody is it just the dating that you
38:07can't imagine going that long without what do you mean so has that given you good advice or are you
38:18guys just talking oh he's giving me great advice I think the first thing we're gonna go do is just
38:23throw axes guys hang out should it concern me at all that the talk about Barry dating went straight
38:29to guys night no we're mixing okay how did we get to guys night out from Barry dating like did
38:37I miss
38:38something there's a girl supposed to be in there somewhere right that's definitely the way to start
38:43dating someone go have a guys night yeah there's there's dating and then there's guys night and I'm
38:49mixing the two right thank you for the heads up I'm getting lots of notes to file today here
38:57the ex-wife is there she's got a boyfriend Barry's looking to get a girlfriend it's just the dynamics
39:03are present in the tension but it's just not necessarily a conversation I feel like Kim needs
39:10to be a part of it's kind of an interesting dynamic of someone who wants to know it all and
39:15someone who
39:16maybe doesn't need to know anything about it so yeah this is a guy talk you guys can have your
39:21own
39:21conversations another woman can have them I'm okay with that so you know I've offered you this business
39:31Russell's military vehicles right there no I got somebody else's name right here we haven't talked
39:36in a while Tegan gave me the freedom to live up there or live down here and it's not good
39:43without her
39:43does she feel the same way what you you think I think I gotta ask relationship are you dating
39:51anybody it's not like I really want to get into any conversation with Ken about my dating life it's
39:57been a very long time yeah since I've even done anything like that he's into it although it'd be
40:03funny if I asked him let me give you a few pointers watch out for x y and z no
40:11I heard that you broke up with Caitlin I don't know what the hell I was doing or thinking but
40:17I'm gonna try to unscrew it I really don't know if I will get her back that really scares me
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