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Love Is Blind - Season 10 - Episode 10: Vanishing Mode
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00:07I just can't wait to start the rest of my life with her. I love her. I didn't think like
00:12someone like her even existed
00:14It's stuck with me when you can close your eyes and like envision who's gonna experience life with you
00:19I envisioned you. Thanks to you. Really nice.
00:22Love you. I love you. It looks good on ya. It just feels right. I love you.
00:28Yeah, baby. I love you too. You happy?
00:33Ash is a different type of person than I would have gone after. I do like darker futures. I like
00:38certain things in my woman.
00:39We haven't been intimate. Are you not attracted to me?
00:42In the pods it really came down to like you and Connor. I appreciate you for like just vigor and
00:48energy you have for life.
00:49Like it's so attractive. Over the past two days I was thinking about like what it would be like if
00:54I was with the number two person I had. Do you think we have a good physical connection?
00:58I do. Do you not?
01:00I just don't know if it's like there for me.
01:02Did she say she wants to be Donna?
01:04Yeah. She's like I can't be around you anymore.
01:07Emma immediately looked at my ring and she goes what is that?
01:11Have you got to meet her yet, Emma?
01:13No.
01:13I'm a little nervous. Like when she doesn't like me. Never have I ever had a hickey.
01:17I can give you your first one. I don't want a hickey.
01:19I don't like that you don't ever really tell me that I'm pretty because I don't know if you're attracted
01:23to me.
01:23You're forcing me. Well now I don't feel like it's genuine if I say anything.
01:27Do you think you were afraid of having kids because of your birthmarks?
01:31Oh yeah, 100%.
01:33If we get married and then we have a kid and you resent that, you resent your child, you resent
01:38me for what happened, I could never live with that.
01:42So what makes you think you can settle down?
01:44You're tired of moving?
01:46Absolutely.
01:47Different chicks?
01:48I won't lie, absolutely.
01:50Do you still have a relationship with any of your ex?
01:52Yes.
01:52The travel nurse?
01:53Yes.
01:54Saw her in Austin for a week.
01:56What was that dynamic when you visited her then?
01:59I mean, we hooked up.
02:00If you had that type of relationship with someone like that is kind of concerning.
02:04The keg outside.
02:06This is a frat house.
02:07This is literally a normal blue collar dude. Like, I work for a dumpster rental company.
02:11You need someone who's gonna be more dominant in your life and to help you, like guide you and like
02:15show you places you've never been before.
02:17I saw you and I was like, that is the girl I would literally propose to.
02:36We saw you and her together. It was like, we thought 100%. It was like, you guys were totally in
02:42it. Cause I feel like the emotional connection was like there.
02:47Why didn't you say this stuff in Cabo? Cause like at the end of it, we were so sure of
02:52like our decisions. Like no hard feelings.
02:54Like we were like cool.
02:55I'll be honest with you.
02:57Yeah.
02:58The night where Jess was like, oh, you're my number one Chris. I told Connor.
03:05Cause you knew we were dating.
03:08Yeah. And he's like, all right, I'm gonna go with three then.
03:12I'm gonna make her my number one then.
03:16I'm just saying.
03:19I think that's what fucked it up. I should have told him that.
03:23Because like he would have went with Emma.
03:25Yeah, a hundred percent. I'm being honest.
03:28Would you have like broken it off then?
03:30I would have broken it off a hundred percent.
03:32What worried me honestly was like, you were just friends with like a lot of dudes, but like you were
03:36friends with like a lot of loser dudes.
03:40Dudes who were like happy with life going through the vibes and like somebody who's like, hey, I have a
03:46clear path to where I want to be in like five years, 10 years, 20 years.
03:50Like we need to like have these like types of assets.
03:53Guys who are like literally directional driven.
03:56I just got to say it now.
03:58I'm back in the real world.
03:59I'm like, fuck, she lives a half a mile from me.
04:01She's hot as fuck.
04:02And we vibed so well.
04:04Can I ask you a crazy question?
04:05Can you be honest with your wedding ring on?
04:07Yeah.
04:08I'm like, what?
04:11Are you like attracted to me?
04:14I would take you for four pieces.
04:17Like stay in there.
04:18That's maybe luxurious to normal people.
04:21Yeah.
04:21Room service in the rows for Mr. Fusco.
04:24Baby, stop.
04:27Stop.
04:29We would have a good time.
04:30Yeah.
04:31It's just guaranteed.
04:32I felt like we would have been like fuck buddies.
04:37I saw your Instagram and I was like, yes.
04:41Yeah.
04:42I'm just saying.
04:43I sent you that message, but you're like, you never responded back.
04:46So I was like.
04:47Well, I'm in a relationship.
04:49I know.
04:51Connor would have dropped me.
04:52I would have been out.
04:53Honestly, I would not go through this with anybody but him.
04:59Mr. Brightside.
05:00Do you like that?
05:01Yeah.
05:06Apparently, I'm Andrew Tate apparently.
05:09You're who?
05:10The crazy Andrew Tate guy.
05:12Oh, I don't know that person.
05:13Okay.
05:13Yeah.
05:13Alright, whatever.
05:27Kev, this is Emma.
05:28Hi, I'm Emma.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:30Nice to meet you.
05:31Nice to meet you.
05:32Hi.
05:33Hey.
05:34How are you doing?
05:35Good.
05:36It's good to see you.
05:36It's good to see you.
05:37I'm Kia.
05:39Yeah.
05:40In the flesh.
05:40Lavin' in the flesh.
05:42Yes, yes, yes.
05:42Kevin in the flesh.
05:44Yeah, you look amazing.
05:46Do you mind if I move to a seat?
05:48Yeah.
05:49You lead the way.
05:49I'm there.
05:51What's your story?
05:52What happened with you?
05:53Um, so I had a, um, I had a connection with two women.
06:01In his defense, though, they were badass women.
06:03They were.
06:04Yeah.
06:05But, Kia.
06:06You're one of the most amazing people.
06:08She was, like, one of the first women in my life to ever have me, like, open up my heart.
06:14Just, like, learning, like, okay, this is what you need to do as a man.
06:18What do you do?
06:19You step up.
06:20You step up for that woman.
06:22You're right.
06:23You're right.
06:23Have you guys been talking?
06:25Nah, so we haven't been talking.
06:27How do you feel about Kia choosing herself?
06:30As she should, and I apologize.
06:32I appreciate that.
06:34I'll never forget you.
06:36Oh, I mean, duh.
06:38Are you kidding me?
06:42Oh, that was quite vain.
06:44I recognize this game.
06:46Oh, it was so close.
06:47You talked to Felizca for a while.
06:48You're doing good.
06:49But you're okay.
06:50Yeah.
06:50You know where your trends are.
06:53Oh, my God.
06:54You ended up with my wife?
06:56This is my wife, actually.
06:57You were friends with my wife.
06:59Wait, so how do you guys know each other?
07:00Well, Chicago is where we first met.
07:03Yeah, yeah.
07:04And then I ran into you in Austin.
07:05Yeah.
07:05But I thought you said you, like, moved there.
07:07Uh, for a little bit, yeah.
07:08I was back and forth between Cleveland and Austin.
07:10I thought you were looking for a place in Austin.
07:11I was looking for a place in Austin.
07:13Yeah, yeah.
07:13I was back and forth between it.
07:14It was, like, one of those because I was trying to figure out where my lease was going
07:16to be.
07:16Yeah.
07:17And I did want a place down there, realistically.
07:18Yeah, yeah, yeah.
07:19So, yeah.
07:19In Austin?
07:20I was one of them, yeah.
07:22We've talked about this.
07:23You were in there to see your ex.
07:25At that time, yeah.
07:26Yeah.
07:26You were staying at your ex's place, travel nurse.
07:29Yes.
07:30Yeah, yeah, yeah.
07:30She was either on an assignment or something and that you were staying at the place.
07:34Yeah.
07:35Anyways.
07:36You look off.
07:37The story was a little different when you told it.
07:41Which part?
07:42You made it seem like you went to the F1 race to see her.
07:45You guys hooked up.
07:46Oh, so she wasn't on an assignment.
07:48She was on assignment in Austin.
07:50I stayed at her place.
07:51Oh, so she was there when you were there.
07:52Correct.
07:53Which I said.
07:55No, you didn't say that.
07:57I...
07:57I said that I was staying at her place.
07:59We hooked up.
07:59Well, she was on assignment.
08:01When you say she's on assignment, I'm assuming she is, like, out of Austin.
08:04She was not there.
08:05She was a travel nurse that was living there, working there for a few months at a time.
08:08I stayed at her place and then went to the F1 with her.
08:11It made sense for me at that point because I wasn't in a relationship or had met either.
08:15Well, I've met you before but had met you.
08:18Um...
08:19So then you went back?
08:20Yeah.
08:21I feel like I'm getting, like...
08:22No, wait.
08:23No, no, no.
08:23Just double teamed right now.
08:24What's going on?
08:24No.
08:25You told me you were in Cleveland for a year and a half.
08:27I was.
08:27My license is Cleveland.
08:28I lived in Cleveland for a year and a half, realistically.
08:32When you tell someone that you just moved to Austin...
08:36Did I say I just moved to Austin?
08:37You definitely told me that you had moved there and then I thought actually the girlfriend was, like, or the
08:42ex-girlfriend was on a random assignment.
08:44That's why you were staying at her place.
08:46But I didn't realize that you guys were simultaneously living in the same home.
08:49At the one week that I met you, yes, we were.
08:52Is this a problem?
08:53I just, like, asked you the timeline so many times and you make me feel like an idiot when I
08:57ask about it.
08:58And now the story is changing.
09:00Do you know where you were three years ago on a Tuesday in May?
09:04No, but the way you tell your stories, it seems like you do.
09:07I don't.
09:08Like, I can pull up my Airbnbs if you would like and we can go through it together.
09:12I don't care.
09:12But, like, you're asking...
09:13Well, you do care because you ask my timeline every time we speak.
09:16Correct.
09:16And when you say that you've lived in Cleveland for a year and a half...
09:19Yes.
09:19Do you want my license?
09:20I'm expecting, like...
09:20No, I don't give a fuck about your license.
09:22Okay.
09:23When you say that you've lived in Ohio for a year and a half, I'm expecting you live in Ohio
09:26for a year and a half...
09:26That's my home base.
09:27Now she's saying that you lived in Austin.
09:29Like, now you've lived there.
09:30Now you're like, I lived in Florida.
09:31Have I not said I've lived in Florida and Austin and Phoenix and San Diego?
09:35You said you went to visit your ex.
09:37On that occasion, I also lived in Austin previously before all of that without my ex.
09:42When I ask you questions, you seem to get annoyed with me.
09:45But when something changes, I want to do it.
09:46Right now, I feel attacked at the moment.
09:47Like, I feel it's a two-on-one.
09:48I'm not attacking you.
09:49So where did you fly in here?
09:50I didn't know anything was not being said.
09:52You told me you flew in from Cleveland.
09:53You asked where I lived.
09:54I lived in Cleveland.
09:55Yeah, why did you fly in Austin?
09:56Because I'm flying back and forth trying to figure out if I want to live and work there.
10:00This has never come up in our conversation, though.
10:02Because I've already come up with the answer, I don't want to live in Austin, Texas.
10:06And is that because your ex lives there?
10:07No.
10:09I mean, did you have anything before as well?
10:11Yes, I told you.
10:12Have you never hooked up with anyone in between that?
10:14No.
10:15Okay.
10:16I mean, I question that.
10:18But this wasn't an exclusive relationship to where I don't view it as something that you need to know about.
10:22But if you want, every time I jerk off, I'll let you know.
10:26That was stupid.
10:28That was a nice.
10:29Not.
10:29But I'm just like, your story changes so much.
10:32I have been very open with the fact that I don't have a home base, and I haven't had a
10:35home base for four years.
10:36I'm pretty sure you told me you flew in from Cleveland.
10:38I couldn't be wrong.
10:39I did tell you that I flew in from Cleveland.
10:40It was easier for me to explain it that way without having to go through this entire process of, yes,
10:45I flew back and forth between Austin and Cleveland.
10:47I flew in from Cleveland.
10:48Why didn't you tell me that that way?
10:49Because you have a billion questions that I wouldn't feel like answering because they're not relevant to this entire process.
10:56Hmm.
10:57The pain is marriage.
10:59Now I feel like a two-on-one.
11:00No, no, no.
11:00No, no, no, no.
11:01It's okay.
11:02It's a two-on-one now.
11:02You just said that.
11:03I'm just saying, like, you're calling me.
11:04So it's a two-on-one.
11:05It's not a two-on-one.
11:06You just said something, and I'm trying to be your friend also and tell you, like...
11:08My friend, okay.
11:09It's a...
11:10It's not a process.
11:11Like, it's a marriage.
11:12So everything should be on the table.
11:13Between us two, right?
11:14Correct.
11:15So why are you here?
11:16Okay.
11:17Okay, you don't need to get snappy with me.
11:20I don't take shit like that.
11:21I think you guys continue this conversation.
11:25I think...
11:26Yeah, thank you.
11:26I was in Austin, Texas for a race for the weekend.
11:29Do you understand how dumb I look right now?
11:31Like...
11:31No.
11:34The story didn't line up, like, to the hour.
11:36It's not to the hour.
11:38To the day?
11:40No.
11:40To the fucking year.
11:41Like, you say a lot of words sometimes, and like, sometimes it just has nothing to it.
11:47Okay.
11:48I mean, do you want me to explain it again?
11:50Like...
11:50No, I get it.
11:51You were with your ex on F1.
11:53And then you went back and forth.
11:54But no, you did not see her.
11:55And that makes total sense to me.
11:56And she's back in Florida.
11:57And now she has a boyfriend.
11:58And you guys talk about how great it is that she has a boyfriend.
12:01That's totally normal.
12:02And I've given the timeline, like, ten times.
12:05Just be honest with me.
12:06Like, I'm very understanding as a person.
12:08If you were to come to me and be like, I fucked up.
12:10Or like, hey, I told you this, but I actually meant this.
12:13Okay.
12:14Or I need to tell you this.
12:14I'd be like, much more calm right now.
12:17Just come to me.
12:18Okay.
12:18Where does that leave us?
12:20I think that's in your hands.
12:23So long.
12:25Afraid to let go of the past.
12:29No!
12:30Yeah.
12:31What's up, buddy?
12:32What's up, man?
12:32How are you?
12:33New crowd?
12:33Yeah, I am good.
12:34Good, man.
12:35How are you?
12:36No bad.
12:37Good to see you.
12:38Good to see you.
12:39Yes.
12:41I actually went to all of those finals lately.
12:43How are you?
12:44I'm good.
12:45Good to see you.
12:46Good to see you.
12:47You look good.
12:48Thank you so much.
12:50I feel like we should, um, I'm so sorry.
12:54It's just like, can we like, kind of talking privately?
12:59Okay.
13:00Let me just like couch, maybe like over there where no one's out.
13:03Okay.
13:03I think that'd be fun.
13:05Do you have a good drink?
13:06Mm-hmm.
13:07What are you drinking?
13:08Coke.
13:09Wait, you're not drinking alcohol?
13:13That dude is hammered.
13:15Who?
13:15Chris.
13:16He couldn't even open his left eye.
13:20Oh, God.
13:25It's like crazy to see you.
13:28You look good though.
13:30I appreciate it.
13:31Is it like, okay, like going back to work?
13:34Like you feel like okay and like normal again?
13:36No, it's bad.
13:38Last week I was in love and thought I was getting married.
13:41Okay.
13:42Since then I've worked every single day.
13:44You weren't.
13:45You never texted me once though.
13:47Are you fucking kidding me?
13:48All of Monday and all of Tuesday?
13:51That's the only text I got was, are you alive?
13:54That's okay.
13:55Who cares though?
13:56I do.
13:57Okay.
13:57Well, that's the only text I got.
13:59That's convenient.
14:00Listen.
14:01I wasn't trying to be mean.
14:02Mm-hmm.
14:03I'm sorry.
14:04If it came off that way.
14:06I appreciate you apologizing.
14:07I appreciate that.
14:08Like, I think you're very attractive, Jess.
14:13You have dark features.
14:15I don't, you don't have to tell me why I'm attractive.
14:18Okay.
14:19I know you hate me.
14:20It's okay.
14:20There's a lot of people that hate you.
14:21I didn't say that.
14:22I am really, really, really hurt and I was 110% in.
14:28When's your next day like to chill?
14:30It doesn't matter.
14:31It doesn't matter to me.
14:33You had your time to make sure of things and that time is over.
14:37You don't want me to worry about that?
14:38That's fine.
14:38I'll do my own thing and worry about my own life then for the rest of my life.
14:41I thought you already were.
14:44I honestly feel like you don't feel like you know me.
14:52I thought I did.
14:53No one's gonna save me.
14:56No one's gonna save me but me.
15:03Love you.
15:04I love you too, baby.
15:06I'm ready to be home.
15:07Yeah.
15:08Snuggled with you.
15:11Have you met Emily yet or no?
15:19Not yet.
15:19So I just met Matt, which is the dad this weekend.
15:23That's supposed to be me and Emily.
15:25Which is like, I bought her a little present.
15:26I got a little gift bag.
15:28Amazing.
15:29Coloring books, some good color, some of the good ones.
15:31The colored pencils.
15:32Okay.
15:33Yeah.
15:33It'll be good but it's like, it's a relationship that I also have for the world.
15:37I don't want to feel like I'm just like invading their space.
15:40Yeah.
15:41So, see how it goes but like, it's scary.
15:46Hey, babe.
15:47Yeah.
15:50I just want you to know like, if you do want to bail at any point, just let me know.
15:54Wait, stop, stop.
15:56You're hearing the wrong thing right now.
15:57Amber, you're hearing the wrong thing right now.
16:22I wasn't trying to attack you or anything tonight.
16:27I've been lied to in the past but I've never felt that from you so I guess tonight it was
16:32kind of a shock.
16:33I guess the only question I have is like, what is your relationship like with this girl now?
16:40I've had my phone back for, what is it, two weeks now?
16:43We haven't talked.
16:45Like there's no tie at all.
16:47Okay, so if I were to break things off tonight, would you go in two days and text her though?
16:51Like that's...
16:52No.
16:53Okay.
16:53She has somebody that she's happy with.
16:55I'm very happy for her, she's happy for me.
16:58Are you happy?
16:59Yes.
17:10Okay.
17:10You okay?
17:13Yeah.
17:15Nuggets?
17:16What's happening?
17:18McDonald's?
17:19Yeah, I need something.
17:21I need nuggets.
17:22Coke?
17:22Fries?
17:23Yeah.
17:2510-piece?
17:27Buffalo?
17:28Honey?
17:29What do you got?
17:30Buffalo?
17:31Buffalo?
17:32Buffalo?
17:33Buffalo?
17:35A large Coke?
17:37You want fries?
17:38I do.
17:39Yeah, there we go.
17:40You want fries?
17:40There we go.
17:43Darts starts Monday.
17:44Supposed to fit into a wedding dress at some point here.
17:49So...
17:49You'll be fine, I'm sure.
17:51I'm sure.
17:53Grease me up.
17:54I will go down with this shit.
17:58And I won't put my hands up and surrender.
18:04I will go down with this shit.
18:12I don't want to be with me if it's not ready for a lot of this.
18:16I don't think I can talk to him about it tonight.
18:26Can we talk?
18:34Yeah, we're...
18:37Tonight, we just tried to talk to Amber, trying to be honest.
18:40She got...
18:41She got pissed.
18:43I was like, well, if you're not certain, then that's that, and we're not doing this.
18:48She got upset and left, and she's still pretty pissed, and...
18:52It's the first time we've ever had a disagreement.
18:54I haven't even met her daughter yet, and...
18:57I don't know, I've never been in, like, a father figure role.
19:01And, I don't know, I was just trying to talk about the way that I felt.
19:04Well, I'm scared.
19:06Amber, would you like to talk?
19:08I'm gonna fuck off.
19:11Okay.
19:19The good news is, at least I found somebody else I can't talk to my feelings about.
19:25One-way street.
19:27One-way street, brother.
19:28Mm-hmm.
19:34Tell me about your conversation with our little buddy.
19:38We talked about how he DM'd me.
19:40And it was really crazy, because he was like, I told you to call me.
19:44Like, why didn't you ask for my number?
19:46And I literally was like...
19:48Because I'm, like, with... I'm in a relationship.
19:53He literally said to me, do you find me attractive?
19:56And I said, listen, there is nobody else that I would choose over Connor.
20:01It was Connor or nobody.
20:03That shows me who he is, too.
20:04I'm like, why are, like...
20:06You're saying, like, inappropriate things.
20:08Just weird stuff, you know?
20:09Yeah.
20:10And then try to dap me up after.
20:11That dude's not anybody's friend anymore, so...
20:14Can I ask you a question, though, that he brought up to me?
20:17Okay.
20:17Basically, when he came in from night dating with Jess one night,
20:20he was like, hey, man, like, I think I'm gonna put, like, Jess number one.
20:24And you're like, okay, okay, cool.
20:26Then I'll put Bree number one.
20:28No.
20:30I mean, you were my number one that night.
20:32And I'm saying that 100% honestly.
20:35He's trying to plant doubt and get us to go against each other.
20:38We fell in love sight unseen.
20:40It wasn't about money.
20:41It wasn't about how we look.
20:43Like, me and you fell genuinely in love.
20:45I don't know if it's, like, a jealous thing or what the deal is,
20:47but, like, he also fell in love.
20:50And then now that they've seen each other, now he wants to pivot.
20:53I think it's disrespectful.
20:54It's just hard because I did really respect him,
20:57and, like, I thought he was really cool.
20:58So did we.
20:59And then it's, like, I just see it.
21:01This just totally gives me the egg.
21:02I mean, yeah.
21:04I guess it's just almost, like, a shock.
21:06This dude just flipped out of nowhere.
21:13Not Fusco putting me on, um, what do we say?
21:17Disappear mode or whatever.
21:19Vanish mode?
21:19You want to do the honors?
21:21Let's see it together.
21:23Chris Fusco, let's see it.
21:24Are you staying in GV tonight?
21:29Do you want me to answer?
21:30No.
21:31All right, it's fine.
21:32The more I disengage with him, the more it's going to keep going.
21:35Like, if I'm like, yes, I am.
21:36And then I'd be like, well, why?
21:38Like, I don't need to poke the bear.
21:40Exactly.
21:41It's one of those people that you just cut toxic people out of your life.
21:43Yeah, it's just like, exactly.
21:44Why give it any more energy?
21:45Yeah.
21:46So, I mean, you get a little bit jealous.
21:48You know that.
21:49But I'm trusting you 100%.
21:55Oh, your hands are cold.
21:58Stop.
22:00Oh, man.
22:00Why are you, like, good at this?
22:02This is, like, weirding me out that you're good at this.
22:05Don't worry.
22:06Why are we doing this also?
22:07You have, like, a strong thumb.
22:12Toast.
22:13All right, fine.
22:13You win.
22:14Not the thumb war.
22:15How'd you win in a thumb war?
22:17I crushed you.
22:18Oh, my God.
22:18You're actually really good at that.
22:20You mean to win or to be the man I need?
22:22Talk to me.
22:26Talk to me.
22:27Talk to me, talk to me.
22:28Be the man that I need, baby.
22:29Talk to me, talk to me.
22:31Be the man that I need, maybe.
22:34Talk to me.
22:36Talk to me, talk to me.
22:37Hey, there's some color in there.
22:38I know, I'm gonna do one of these guys.
22:41What's the occasion?
22:42Wedding.
22:42Yes.
22:43Congratulations.
22:45What do you think, should we do more of a round
22:46or more of like a spread out?
22:48So you're coming down the aisle.
22:50Do you want the flowers to be all encompassed of?
22:54I think I'm about more like nice and neat.
22:55And neat.
22:56Because I think if I'm gonna toss a bouquet.
22:58You want it to be tight, so let's go for tall.
23:01Okay, and then I'll add in as just wherever?
23:04Yeah.
23:06Okay.
23:07Okay.
23:09On the outside?
23:10Yeah.
23:11Looks good.
23:11I can't wait to see you come down the aisle.
23:14Yeah.
23:15Baby, I want you.
23:19Thanks.
23:19Hmm.
23:21I just feel very, very, very lucky.
23:24Very grateful.
23:25No fears?
23:26No fears?
23:27Yeah.
23:27Would you tell me if you did?
23:28If I have fears, I'll let you know.
23:30Okay.
23:30Yeah.
23:31At any point?
23:32Five years from now?
23:33Ten years from now?
23:33Uh-huh.
23:34There are none.
23:35None.
23:36None.
23:37Me neither.
23:38Yeah.
23:38Think that's normal?
23:40I don't know.
23:42This whole thing isn't normal, right?
23:43True.
23:44Can't wait to be forever with you.
23:46Me too.
23:52Okay, what colors do you not want in our wedding?
23:56I suppose?
23:56I don't know.
23:57This is the thing.
23:58Like, I've never, I've never even thought about that.
24:02Time to noodle.
24:03So, I like greenery.
24:04Like, I like a lot of florals.
24:06Are you opposed to green?
24:09So, tell me honestly, you don't want green?
24:12I think it's whatever you want.
24:15No, babe.
24:16I want you to like it too.
24:17Obviously, you're in white.
24:20I was actually gonna go with a pink dress.
24:23Like a tutu?
24:24Yeah.
24:25I do want an espresso martini tower.
24:27I like that.
24:28But I realize everyone's gonna be gold goblet, so you can't really do a martini tower.
24:31What the hell we can't?
24:33First ever gold goblet martini tower.
24:35Um, Italian castle.
24:37Yeah.
24:38But in Columbus, Ohio.
24:39Those two things should never be in the same sense.
24:41That's awesome.
24:48Step into my office.
24:59Would you like the bedformer on?
25:00No.
25:02When most people think like, oh, you do lashes in your basement, it's probably a little, like, janky.
25:10But I wanted it to be somewhere when my clients come.
25:14They don't feel like they're in a home.
25:15They feel like they're in a little oasis.
25:19You actually have really pretty lashes.
25:20You could just do a lash lift.
25:22Although you might look a little crazy.
25:23I mean, like, super curled lashes.
25:25I do not.
25:27But my home, it's gonna become ours.
25:29I've never had that before.
25:31Like, I've never been able to come home and be like, hello.
25:34I'm here.
25:35Like, honey, I'm home.
25:36So I'm super excited for that moment.
25:42My dad helped me build this whole fireplace.
25:44Like, this was all black and gold.
25:46You guys, like, took it out.
25:48And we put all of this stone in.
25:48I like that.
25:49It is a fireplace that works.
25:51I have never used it because I'm scared to burn my house down.
25:55Burn the house down.
25:56Where's your spot on the couch?
25:57My couch spot is here.
26:00Okay, that's good.
26:01I always sit here because it's, like, right in front of the TV.
26:04See, I need the long spot.
26:06Is that that far away?
26:08I'll touch your foot.
26:10You talk during movies.
26:11I already know.
26:13Only sometimes.
26:14Do you watch the movies with the captions on?
26:17No.
26:17Like, you got a little lash soldier from downstairs.
26:22I'll get used to that.
26:24Yeah.
26:24We'll have lashes all over your socks.
26:27Right now, like, what's your monthly output?
26:30Mortgage is, like, $1,215.
26:34Okay.
26:34Like, $1,800.
26:35Got it.
26:36For bills.
26:36I don't even think it's that much.
26:38Like, all in?
26:39Yeah.
26:39Yeah.
26:39That's not bad at all.
26:41My previous house in Charlotte, just my house bills alone,
26:44before you started getting utilities and stuff,
26:46was, like, $5,200 a month.
26:49I said that.
26:49Oh, my God.
26:50He's going to throw up.
26:54It's sales.
26:54It's weird.
26:55Like, one month I could make $12,000.
26:59In one month I could make $40,000.
27:01Like...
27:02It just really...
27:03Whoa!
27:04I don't think I've ever made that much money in a month.
27:07I try to have at least, like, six to eight months, like, in reserves, like, quickly.
27:11Maybe you should be in charge of our finances.
27:14I try to be financially smart.
27:17I mean, I am a shopper for sure, and sometimes I do go overboard.
27:21But if you run out of your own fun money, don't come looking in my pot.
27:25I'm like, oh, you're going to have to...
27:27What do you mean?
27:27Are we going to have a joint account?
27:29I'm excited to share bills.
27:31This is great.
27:34So this is going to be our little home.
27:36It's going to be our little home.
27:49Okay, so we are zooming up to Grand Rapids to meet my family, my dad, aka G-Man, but you
27:58will be calling him Mr. McNeese.
28:00I already know.
28:01I just don't bring guys around a lot so I don't know how this is gonna go with my dad
28:08We did a little pit stop and stop me in our work
28:11And I'm taking Connor around to all the spots that I know and love in college
28:17The tradition is if you kiss under this arch you get married so
28:21I guess that's good
28:24You better freaking get married then huh
28:26We have the honor of cutting the cake
28:30So we figured this would be a really good practice
28:33All right Connor wait I feel like we have to do it together
28:35Yeah we do all right you ready?
28:36Oh my god
28:37I have to get it
28:38You ready?
28:42Okay this is actually pretty good
28:44And then you put it in her mouth and she puts it in yours
28:48Save that
28:51Yay!
28:52Now you kiss! Now you kiss!
28:55Yay!
28:56You gotta show the rest of the fame
28:58From the Grand Rapids crew
29:00If it's you
29:04You can tell me to go
29:06Go, go, go, go
29:14This was definitely the first like argument that we've gotten in
29:18And I wouldn't say it was good
29:20I definitely get needing to take a beat and like go take a breather
29:25Because that's how I am a lot of times like I have to cool my head
29:27So that I understand but like the total silence is
29:32I mean you can't work with that
29:33Oh no
29:44Hey
29:44Hey
29:45Hey
29:46How's it going?
29:47It's going, how are you doing?
29:55How was your day?
29:56I just need a drink.
29:58Okay.
30:10I, like, completely understand your disposition
30:13with wanting to meet Emma.
30:15What I don't understand is,
30:16why the fuck didn't you tell me before you told Vic?
30:21I'm just pissed.
30:22That's really what, like, shot the pain for me
30:25was because, like, I thought we really had
30:26this, like, open level of communication.
30:28I trust you, like, with all my heart
30:30that you were, like, communicating everything to me.
30:33Now I'm just, like, having some skepticisms
30:35and, like, doubts.
30:37And I need to know the honest-to-God truth
30:39at this point, like, right now.
30:41Like, if it is Emma, we can work on it.
30:45If it's not and it's, like,
30:46hey, I wasn't really feeling this
30:47or, like, I was feeling another type,
30:49why you just need to be straight up with me?
30:51You know, I feel bad that you think that
30:55any, like, feelings that I have for you
30:56are not, you know, not genuine,
30:58like, what I've said
30:59because I think you're incredible.
31:02Like, I don't think I've ever felt this way
31:04about anybody before.
31:05The only reason I've gone as far is because of you.
31:09But before, you know, making a lifelong commitment,
31:12like, I have to meet Emma first.
31:14Never meeting her before
31:15and, like, trying to build a relationship
31:17is a scary thought.
31:19That I totally understand.
31:20But, like, when did these thoughts come into your head
31:22and, like, why didn't you tell me these?
31:26I don't know.
31:27I think it's just gotten more real in the last week.
31:29I think the nerves of, like,
31:30she's the person I've been most nervous to meet.
31:32She's the most important person in your life.
31:34So, have you thought about, like,
31:37what if she doesn't like me?
31:38Because that's something that plays in my head
31:40a little bit that's, like, a scary thought.
31:43Like, I told her to brush her teeth this morning.
31:45It would be one thing if, like,
31:46you were, like, a bad person.
31:48Or, like, we had a toxic relationship
31:50or we're fighting all the time.
31:51It's a different story.
31:53I just don't understand, like,
31:54the knowing and coming into it.
31:56Like, you kind of knew that was a thing.
31:58Like, I still love you.
32:00I was never trying to bail.
32:01I just...
32:02It's a step-by-step process.
32:04Like, all of the steps need to happen
32:05for it to be successful.
32:08So...
32:08I'd like to work on it.
32:09I don't know where you stand on things.
32:11I understand if you need some time.
32:14It's so, so hard for me
32:16to, like, trust a man.
32:21They will tell you they're gonna marry you
32:23and, like, all this other bullshit.
32:24I wouldn't have said all the things
32:25I said to you if I didn't feel that way.
32:28Men say fucking bullshit all the time.
32:29Okay, I'm not the dudes that you're with.
32:32You haven't proven that to me yet.
32:34That makes me feel shitty.
32:35It's like I feel like I've put myself out here
32:37and you're just comparing me
32:38to a bunch of dirtbags
32:39that you've dated in the past.
32:41Like, that's not fair.
32:42I've had to build this barrier
32:44to protect myself.
32:46I can empathize with having to put walls up
32:49and, like, protect your daughter.
32:50I get that.
32:51And I know that you've had shitty people
32:53in your past.
32:54But I don't know what to do
32:56for you to...
32:58to trust me.
33:03I still do trust you,
33:04but usually I go into, like, fight or flight.
33:06Like, usually...
33:07I would just be, like, completely gone
33:09and just, like...
33:10And I'm not doing that.
33:11I showed up today.
33:16I've been so anxious.
33:18I haven't eaten all day.
33:19Why?
33:20Because I'm feeling a ball of nerves.
33:23I didn't know how this was going to go,
33:24if you were going to leave,
33:26or how...
33:26I just...
33:27Yeah, I've been so anxious.
33:49I still really love you.
33:50I'm really sorry for just the way that this played out.
33:56Me too.
33:59You look really pretty today.
34:01Me too.
34:05Can you just make sure you're like, tell me everything straight up?
34:08Yes, yes.
34:10As soon as I think it.
34:11As soon.
34:13As soon as I think it.
34:15I mean, you know, I don't miss a beat.
34:17I know.
34:35I got kind of updated on like some of the things with Chris.
34:38Oh, you heard about him?
34:39Yeah, bro.
34:39And I was like, what the F?
34:41I'll never talk to that dude again.
34:43Yeah.
34:43You shouldn't.
34:44We had a very close relationship.
34:46I talked to him about a lot of shit.
34:47Yeah.
34:47And then he started using that against me to try and talk to my fiance.
34:51Did he send her a text or something after too?
34:53He DM'd her that night.
34:54DM'd, okay.
34:55And she goes, can you not respond to him?
34:58She would have sent a picture of your nut sack from her account.
35:01What are you doing, dude?
35:03We're going through this.
35:05We have a solid group.
35:06And then to just fucking disrespect you like that.
35:09He thought that he was going to like steal her from me?
35:12Yeah.
35:13Buddy, you're 5'6", so.
35:15And Brie won't date anybody under 5'9", so.
35:18Just wanted a man.
35:19Yeah.
35:20Oh.
35:21Oh.
35:22That came to the other one.
35:23All right.
35:24Somebody stop me.
35:26What's up, fellas?
35:27Oh!
35:28You're a little over a week away from standing at the altar in front of the love of your life.
35:35The tux, the suit you pick out today, represents your personality and represents your love.
35:40I'm so happy for all of you talking through a wall, finding someone, and now picking out
35:46your wedding dress.
35:47It's absolutely incredible.
35:49I do already have my own wedding dress.
35:52Before you went on the show, you bought the dress.
35:55Yep.
35:56Just by the man.
35:59I bought her dress because I said, this here is faith.
36:03We truly believe that you're going to find your person.
36:08So we did.
36:09We bought the dress.
36:10I love it!
36:12I truly hope that you guys prove love is blind, because I want for all of you
36:18a marriage that lasts the test of time.
36:20This is a beautiful day.
36:22Have a blast.
36:23Try on some suits.
36:24I wish you guys nothing but the best.
36:27Good luck, guys.
36:28All right.
36:30All right, let's go.
36:32Let's go.
36:33Let's go.
36:33Let's go.
36:35This is what we're waiting for.
36:38So it's not a perfect fit, but we're going to see what works.
36:41All right.
36:42I see you, smooth criminal.
36:43I can cry.
36:44You think you're going to have some tears coming down?
36:45It's going to be good.
36:46I'm excited about it.
36:47I'll tell you that much.
36:48No, I'm excited for you.
36:49Yeah.
36:50Any reservations?
36:51All right.
36:52No.
36:52It's a happy day.
36:58Oh, yeah.
36:59You guys got your tissues ready?
37:01Oh, yeah.
37:02So sad.
37:04Hey.
37:05Gorgeous.
37:06Oh.
37:07Oh, my God.
37:08It's so beautiful.
37:08Oh, my God.
37:09I kind of hate it.
37:10And I was literally going to say, I'm not a fan.
37:13I hate it.
37:14Not at all me.
37:15It's not.
37:16We tried something different, and we know that it's not it.
37:19Yeah.
37:21Stop it.
37:22Oh, my goodness.
37:24Oh, wow.
37:25What do you think?
37:27I don't like it either.
37:29She's like, I got to get out of this thing.
37:33Oh, my God.
37:37Oh, my God.
37:39Oh, my God.
37:40Oh, my God.
37:40Oh, my God.
37:40Oh, my God.
37:43Oh, my God.
37:46Now, I can't get you out of my head.
37:49This is amazing on you.
37:51There's some elements that are working.
37:53I do really like some of this.
37:53Yes.
37:54Yeah.
37:54Yeah.
37:55I do like the slit.
37:56I feel like you're on the leg.
37:58You look amazing in that.
38:00Oh, it's pretty.
38:01Oh, I like the back.
38:01Yeah, it came out with the back.
38:02Wow.
38:03Oh.
38:04It's...
38:04I still just don't know about the top.
38:07I don't think I'm being picky.
38:09It's a wedding dress.
38:10Christine.
38:11Yeah, yeah.
38:11If it's not perfect, it's not perfect.
38:13Yeah.
38:14Do you want to try a veil with it?
38:15Sure.
38:16Okay.
38:18Oh.
38:19Oh.
38:21Yeah.
38:21You're so beautiful.
38:22I feel bridal.
38:24I'm already, like, getting emotional,
38:25but it's not the dress that makes you emotional.
38:28It's everything behind the dress.
38:30Yeah.
38:32I really wanted this for a long time,
38:33and I just have the perfect person to do it with.
38:39Oh.
38:40Oh.
38:41Oh.
38:43How is this woman?
38:45Cut.
38:46This is a fresh...
38:47This is a fresh test.
38:49I think you could rock a midnight blue also.
38:51My colors for the wedding are green.
38:53Green?
38:55Emma, like, likes, like, the deep green,
38:57like, uh, the green floral.
38:59Oh, all right.
38:59So it's black and green.
39:00It's black and green.
39:01Proudy, man.
39:02Brilliant.
39:09Yay!
39:11Wait, are you wearing your shoes already?
39:14Look at this.
39:14Yeah.
39:15Oh, my God.
39:16Look at that tree.
39:16It's really gorgeous.
39:18Beautiful.
39:20It's like a little garden.
39:21It's so pretty.
39:22I feel like it's exactly what I would picture for you.
39:25Just the perfect amount of glitz,
39:27but, like, still simple for you,
39:29and it's just gorgeous.
39:30I like the sheer at the top.
39:32Oh, it is very sheer.
39:36Mom wants some sauciness.
39:39Yeah, I, like...
39:39Do you feel comfortable?
39:40I feel really comfortable.
39:41Like, I can, like...
39:43Give us some dance moves.
39:44I can dance.
39:45Okay.
39:45Do you feel like I can do my Irish jigs?
39:46Oh, good.
39:48Are you?
39:50I don't know.
39:51This is gonna kill me.
39:52You might have to watch.
39:52Oh.
39:53Oh, my God.
39:55Oh, my God.
39:56Oh, my God.
39:57Oh, my God.
39:59Oh, my God.
40:00Oh, my God.
40:00This is crazy.
40:01How beautiful.
40:02Oh, my God.
40:04Oh.
40:05Oh.
40:05Yes.
40:06You have to wear a veil.
40:12Okay.
40:13Oh, stunning.
40:15Like, it just feels so...
40:17Right.
40:18Like, surreal.
40:19Like, I didn't think I'd be here.
40:27The dress seals the deal.
40:28The dress seals the deal.
40:30It's perfect.
40:32It'll work.
40:34It'll do.
40:34It'll do.
40:35Oh, my God.
40:41Feeling excited.
40:43Finally getting the suit fitted.
40:44I'm gonna do a tie clip that matches her dress.
40:46Oh, yeah.
40:48See our dreams come alive.
40:52We've been waiting for so long.
40:54As a little girl, I definitely dreamed about my wedding dress, getting all dolled up, putting
41:00the veil on, the flowers, all of it.
41:02So, I'm super excited that my dream was coming into flourishing.
41:06I feel like a bride.
41:08I'm super excited.
41:09I do already have my own wedding dress.
41:11There's so much hype around this dress now.
41:13I feel like buying the dress before definitely jumped full force into this journey of believing
41:21that this is what I'm supposed to do.
41:23Now, everything that I've always dreamed of is going to happen.
41:26Oh, my gosh.
41:27I'm getting married.
41:28I will be a full-on bride.
41:32Oh, my gosh.
41:33Oh, my gosh.
41:34Okay.
41:34Yeah.
41:34That makes sense.
41:35Oh, my God.
41:37You look beautiful.
41:39Wow.
41:40Oh, my God.
41:41I love it.
41:42I think this is stunning.
41:45This is my dress.
41:51I'm glad you bought one before.
41:52I know.
41:53Yeah.
41:54Oh, my gosh.
41:56It's so pretty.
41:57This is, like, my wedding day.
41:59What I want to look like.
42:01I feel like a bride.
42:02Mm-hmm.
42:03That's gorgeous.
42:04Where's the veil?
42:05Bring the veil.
42:06Oh.
42:07Stunning.
42:08Oh, yeah.
42:09Very pretty.
42:10Gorgeous.
42:11Beautiful.
42:17She's waited a long time.
42:21And you're getting everything.
42:23He checks every box, you said.
42:26And it's been worth the wait.
42:28Yeah.
42:29He was more than worth the wait.
42:31Yes.
42:31And, like, he's the person that I've literally been looking 32 years for.
42:35I'm happy.
42:38Next week, I'm going to get to call on my husband.
42:41He better lose it when he sees you.
42:42He is literally a man of few words.
42:45And I have just come to accept that.
42:47He may not have words, but he's going to be choking.
42:51Oh, my God.
42:52We're getting married.
42:53Yes, we are.
43:00You're going to get married.
43:01How do you feel?
43:02How do you feel about it?
43:03Let's see it.
43:04I might be a bow tie.
43:05Good God.
43:06Is that James Bond?
43:07Yeah, there it is.
43:08He has to say, give me figure guns.
43:09Yeah.
43:10So I don't look like a dweeb in it?
43:11No.
43:12It says I'm formal.
43:13I'm ready to get married.
43:15I feel confident in this.
43:16I feel good.
43:17Yeah.
43:18This is going to be the only time I get married.
43:21Yeah.
43:21This is an I do tux.
43:29My mom and Connor's mom are here today.
43:32It's so fun to have mom's meet.
43:33And like, it's beyond just picking out my wedding dress.
43:35It's also just another step within the process of like joining our families together.
43:40Connor would not care what she has on.
43:43Absolutely not.
43:45Absolutely not.
43:45She could have on sweatpants and he'd be perfectly happy.
43:49That might be option two.
43:51Connor and I both come from big families.
43:52We're super communal.
43:53So I'm not surprised that our moms are getting along because they're Midwest moms that love
43:58their kids.
43:59Are you nervous to see her?
44:00Mm-hmm.
44:01Mm-hmm.
44:02This whole weekend was a lot for us of like picking up the marriage license.
44:06We went back to Grand Rapids.
44:07We met my dad.
44:08And the big bad, she was like, we were just a wild card.
44:11I didn't know how he was going to show up.
44:13I mean, he only has one daughter.
44:16I'm his baby girl.
44:17And you know, there was some tough questions asked of Connor by my aunts and my dad and everybody
44:22because I know they love me and want what's best.
44:24But it was great seeing them interact.
44:26They all love him.
44:27Gave me the confidence that I needed to go into today.
44:30Here she comes.
44:31Sorry.
44:33I was like, also not my hair.
44:35Oh, my God.
44:36Oh, my God.
44:38That is beautiful.
44:39There you are.
44:40Give me a little more.
44:41That's beautiful.
44:42I know.
44:43I'm just like, but does it feel too simple?
44:45Like, is there, I don't know.
44:47Oh, honey.
44:49Yeah.
44:50How long I've been waiting for this.
44:52No.
44:53I don't think you need all the sparkles and everything.
44:55No.
44:56Like, this is, like, you.
44:57Yeah.
44:58I feel like it fits you so perfectly.
45:00Stunning.
45:00It's absolutely gorgeous.
45:03You lift me up.
45:06You take me higher.
45:08I guess you're right.
45:10I'm not trying to be someone I'm not and try on glitter and florals.
45:14Connor will be blown away.
45:17He hit it out of the park.
45:19Did he not?
45:19Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
45:21Oh.
45:31Whoa.
45:34Clean cut?
45:36Did I get that right?
45:36Yeah.
45:37Feeling good?
45:37I think you guys know I make decisions intuitively so maybe this is this is
45:42telling of itself but like I look at it like I'm not nervous like I'm not
45:46necessarily feeling nervous when it comes to it were you guys nervous in
45:49your guys weddings like coming into it or putting on tuxes or right yeah felt
45:54right yeah I think I bring a level of confidence and you know I don't want to
45:58say emotionless but a rock type thing in the sense of I'm very comfortable in
46:02situations like this so I'm not necessarily nervous it's more excited at
46:06this point so I'm ready for the big day it does feel you know relatively normal
46:10for me
46:17I feel like it's really pretty you look like a cake topper I know it's an offer me
46:27this is not the dress it's nice to finally see her get her moment she's
46:35obviously stunning she looks literally like Barbie I want her to be happy and
46:40whatever that looks like I'm so proud of the journey she's had like a year ago I
46:44can't even imagine seeing her in this position just want the best for her oh my
46:51oh okay oh my god this is stunning you're getting wedding Barbie and yeah no this is totally your
47:01vibe just got up here that is very very I was like totally fine in there I swear
47:07you guys you look perfect don't cry oh I'm like shaking you're you're a bride I'm a bride oh my
47:18goodness like we've been fiance's but now we're brides we're brides it's really incredible stunning
47:24this elegant it's exactly what I would picture you with it's yeah it's you it is simple no like frills
47:33or
47:33no lace or anything but I feel absolutely like gorgeous in this dress you are gorgeous
47:38you deserve the world you are the most special person I know for so much of your
47:43life you felt like you weren't but it's everything you deserve and more and you
47:48look so beautiful you've always put everyone else I'm so happy for you this is your time
47:54I'm fine here comes a veil
48:01I'm literally gonna lose it oh no no it's just wild we're getting married in a week I remember
48:08having conversations and being like I'm not gonna get engaged no one's gonna like me and now I'm up
48:13here standing like ready to marry Alex and okay bring Alex in because I can't like this is it this
48:19is the
48:19one this is the wedding
48:36all right okay that looks good yeah this looks pretty sharp does it feel like something you want
48:44to wear to get married to the love of your life I mean I think this looks damn good what
48:47do you think
48:48Amber's gonna thank you look she likes me regardless you like that yeah oh yeah ah you're pulling my hair
48:55I'd give you my 401k all right I'll be back I want this suit to fit right you know I'm
49:03a big
49:03boy but I want that thing to be maybe slim me down a little bit dude I like well like
49:09a champagne or
49:09brown type but she doesn't care about what I'm gonna wear this is pretty nice it's a more complete love
49:15than I've ever had I come out wearing gym shorts she probably wouldn't like that but I could and
49:21I'd still be cool with it but uh you know we've been working on this relationship and and just think
49:27that the bond um that's the that's the whole reason we're here that's the most important part
49:43he was like Jamie this is like different I was like yeah finally for you you know I mean like
49:50that's why I'm so happy for her oh my god that is so beautiful you're just like sparkling
50:21it's so pretty what would Emma say if she saw you she wanted all the sparkles and all the flowers
50:27so that's why I picked a sparkly dress because she wanted that oh it's amazing and Emma does deserve
50:34to like see her mommy be a princess and she deserves everything and I love you I'm done
50:44I am more excited to show Emma what true love looks like more than anyone can know
50:51oh oh my god she deserves that and she deserves to know like what it's like to have a good
50:56guy
50:57loving her so do you so do you I think you're the best role model Emma could ever have
51:04no and you do it very well this dress just matches your personality like you sparkle and she sees
51:11that and so do we so the greatest mom in the world
51:19no this is the one I don't think this is the one
51:24it's a special moment you know to see yourself in a dress I've never been in a wedding dress or
51:30anything like that I feel very excited oh my gosh I deserve the world but it never gives it to
51:39me
51:39I need Jordan to meet Emma but I think our love is strong enough to overcome most obstacles I am
51:47ready
51:48to be by Jordan's side forever
52:23be by Jordan's side forever
52:26do you
52:28yeah
52:29is
52:30Russian
52:32yeah
52:32yeah
52:34yeah
52:38yeah
52:40yeah
52:41yeah
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