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90 Day The Single Life S05E11
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00:01Previously on The Single Life, we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah. We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do. And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute. This legit might be my person.
00:13We gotta do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money to go over to another country to have my
00:22heart broken again?
00:25We are in Hollywood.
00:27Oh my God, look who's here.
00:29I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm gonna meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today. I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's gonna be any chance for our relationship to work, I'm gonna have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days, you could work this out.
01:00I'm not gonna be one of his options in his love triangle. It's like, you had me, and you lost
01:05me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom, but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done, like.
01:20Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:22Are you serious?
01:22You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a freaking dance class,
01:28we might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
01:32I'm just, like, really done with this .
01:48Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:50How are you feeling this morning?
01:53I'm feeling good.
01:54I'm feeling good, too.
01:55That was one wild, crazy night.
02:07That was pure madness.
02:09How'd you like your lap dance?
02:11Ah, the lap dance was amazing.
02:13Good, I'm glad.
02:15Last night, Natalie took me to a strip club in LA,
02:19and we had an amazing, terrific time.
02:21Both of us were, like, hot and sweaty by the time it was done,
02:25and we were horny and excited to, like, have some real fun.
02:29I unleashed the beast last night.
02:32You were a wild and crazy man.
02:34The sex was so much better than the first time.
02:38Seeing this freaky side of Natalie took all my anxiety away.
02:42I had no problem throwing my hat off and getting down.
02:47So, yeah.
02:50So, what are we gonna do today?
02:53Plan for the day is to meet my family.
02:55Do you know where we're going or anything?
02:57It's a surprise.
02:58But we need to get going because the reservation's coming up soon.
03:01Okay, let's hit the road.
03:03Today, Gino and I are meeting up with my daughter, Bella, and my brother, Nick.
03:08Do we have a car picking us up?
03:10We're walking.
03:11Are we walking?
03:12We're walking.
03:13Oh, my goodness gracious.
03:15Bella is skeptical about Gino because what's happened in the past,
03:19but I'm hoping everybody can have fun, just let their guard down,
03:23because my feelings for Gino are only getting stronger,
03:27and I really need for everybody in my family, especially Bella, to be on board.
03:32Nick!
03:34Nick!
03:35Oh, hi.
03:36Hey.
03:36How you doing?
03:37How are you?
03:39I'm doing good.
03:40Oh, nice to meet you.
03:41This is Gino.
03:42How you doing?
03:42Nice meeting you, finally.
03:44Nice meeting you, too.
03:45This is my twin brother.
03:47Twin brother.
03:47Yeah.
03:48She's a pretty twin.
03:49Yeah.
03:51No, I think you're the pretty twin.
03:54I can see the resemblance.
03:56The first time Natalie dating Gino, everything went to crap.
04:00Everything was a nightmare.
04:01She was calling me, crying all the time.
04:04And, I mean, he broke her heart.
04:06So, when Natalie told me she was dating Gino again, I thought she was crazy.
04:10This is going to be a whole huge drama mess, like every other relationship she's been through.
04:16We're going to see some entertainments.
04:18Have you ever seen a drag show before?
04:20Drag show?
04:21I've heard of them, but I've never seen one.
04:24You're in Bird Tree.
04:25Oh, yeah.
04:26Is Bella there already?
04:27Have you talked to her?
04:27I haven't seen Isabella since yesterday.
04:30You haven't talked to her?
04:31Not since yesterday.
04:34I'm just going to text her real quick.
04:38Yesterday, when Bella dropped her mom off at the hotel, she was really cold to me and had an attitude.
04:46I can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me.
04:51OK.
04:52I texted.
04:53All right.
04:54So we're good to go?
04:55Yeah, let's go.
04:56We're going to miss the show.
04:58OK.
04:58Stop worrying.
04:59I'm not.
04:59Yeah, don't worry about anything.
05:01It's not good for that pretty face.
05:03Stop.
05:06I'm a girl you see on the street.
05:08Draw a blood boy down to my feet.
05:10I like when you're under me.
05:12What?
05:15How's everybody doing today?
05:17Woo!
05:19Are you all ready to get started?
05:21Yeah!
05:22Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the stage, Penny Drever!
05:31I have never been to a drag queen show before.
05:35Being here in person is freaking amazing.
05:46And they're putting their in my face.
05:54This is what I love about Natalie.
05:57She brings me out of my shell, or even out of my comfort zone.
06:01She can do that to me.
06:11Yeah!
06:11You all have a good time with us today?
06:14Yeah!
06:14Oh, yeah!
06:16Have a great day, everybody.
06:17I'm joined now!
06:22After the show, it really clears out, doesn't it?
06:24Yeah.
06:25Man, I wish Bella was here.
06:26She's not responding to me.
06:29Really?
06:29That's weird.
06:32She's not a company.
06:33She texted you?
06:35Yeah.
06:39Bella arranged the whole thing to come here.
06:41And at the last minute, something just went off.
06:44She just doesn't like Gino.
06:46She doesn't trust him.
06:47All she wants to make sure is her mom is happy.
06:50And she doesn't think Gino is that person.
06:54I'm sad myself because I wanted to get to know her a little bit.
06:57It seems like she doesn't want to meet you.
06:59You think so?
07:01She's told me she does not like him.
07:03And that's the reason why she'd not come.
07:05I mean, you're still married.
07:07Your ex attacks Natalie.
07:09That's ridiculous.
07:10But we came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it.
07:15But she hasn't gone past it.
07:17That's the problem.
07:18We don't have to deal with Jasmine anymore.
07:21So take Jasmine out of the equation,
07:23and everything has been progressing really good.
07:25Like, we are having fun together.
07:27So have you filed for divorce?
07:37Bella has a lot of anger towards me.
07:40And Nick, he's kind of questioning if I'm the right person for her as well.
07:46So everything I did to rebuild my relationship with Natalie is falling apart.
07:52I mean, I don't blame Isabella.
07:54You're still married to another woman, and she doesn't want to see her mother hurt.
07:59I get it.
08:00She wants to look out for me, and I love her, and I appreciate that.
08:04But I still would like her to give him a chance.
08:08You're just going to have to show her it's not like the other relationships that you had in the past.
08:16She comes first.
08:19Bella has never seen me happy with a man in my entire life.
08:23They are toxic.
08:25They're liars.
08:26They're not honest.
08:27I had an ex that was a serial cheater, and I knew it.
08:33So when it comes to Gino, Bella has her guard up.
08:36I think she is very protective and very leery of his intentions.
08:42You're going to have to win her over.
08:44She's the hard one to win over.
08:46Yeah.
08:47And don't piss her off.
08:54It has trouble with her.
08:57She is crazy.
08:57I'm so tired.
08:59Six, seven, walk her through.
09:01We go one.
09:02Two.
09:03We go forward.
09:04Tap.
09:05What the ****?
09:06I just don't freakin' get it.
09:22i asked you if you want to dance and you said no
09:25so then i told you i'm going to dance with somebody else and i did and then you interrupted
09:29me in the middle of the dance so like i wanted you to have fun and i wanted you to
09:32come come
09:33into my world i was i enjoyed the dancing i was having the problem then i mean we just talked
09:40about coming to his class learning how to dance and social was out nowhere and all of a sudden
09:47we talk about that and then you storm off find some vin diesel guy or actually a guy looks just
09:52like your ex and you're just having a good time are you kidding me so here's the thing you're going
09:57to abiza in a couple weeks there's gonna be many socials in abiza too and there's gonna be many
10:01socials in croatia as well so you think i'm gonna go cheat on you with a guy in abiza what
10:06i'm trying
10:06to say is like if you're going to dance with random guys what's going to happen and they want to
10:11have
10:11a good time they want to have a good time so because they want to have a good time i
10:16need to
10:16be punished and i'm going to be and i'm going to be yeah so you're trying to accuse me of
10:20something
10:21that i haven't even done yet so you have freedom of reigns to do whatever you want to dance i
10:24just
10:25don't understand tony because it's like a vacation listen i danced with a guy after a dance class after
10:29you said that you don't want to dance and now you're accusing me of of of dancing with random
10:34guys in abiza and like you said you would like you're literally putting words in my mouth i never
10:40said that he knew i was a dancer when we started dating he knew i was a dancer when we
10:50were friends
10:51i feel like at this point in our relationship he should trust me he should know who i am he
10:56should
10:56know what i stand for he should know that i would not do anything to disrespect him or put our
11:01relationship in jeopardy tony is projecting his own insecurity on me and i'm really hurt by that i
11:09don't think i deserve it you don't see a problem here at all you're not even looking at it from
11:15my
11:15perspective what is the freaking problem the problem is actually us because you look at it as hey this is
11:21my everyday life this is what i've been doing for years this is my passion i see it as this
11:25is not
11:25appropriate for a new relationship that's the problem so you're stopping me from being who i am
11:30because i'm in a relationship with you i think there's compromise there's compromise we're not
11:35having this is this is unbelievable tony this is really it's it's not it's compromised you ruined
11:41everything so i hope you're happy i need to go find my freaking phone i'm taking an uber home and
11:46this is it i'm done with this
11:52she's been single for a very long time she still does things her own way i'm concerned that sometimes
11:57vanya may not look at the big picture of when you're in a relationship it's about compromise and
12:02to me dance is very essential dance has a lot of feelings attached and you know it's very easy to
12:08fall
12:08in love with your dance partner you're just gonna storm off again no i just i'm done tony i'm calling
12:14an
12:14uber and i'm going home i brought up concerns about her traveling and dancing with other guys
12:18and other clubs and she completely said hey that's my prerogative is to have fun hey by the way
12:24tony just trust me uh when i can't even trust her when i'm watching her and with her so that's
12:29it
12:29that's it she's gonna storm out again yeah really yeah no compromise there's no resolution to anything
12:36now is there what compromise is there really you're accusing me of being somebody who's who has
12:41nefarious intentions in mind you said you can do whatever you want you said i can have fun i can
12:45dance whatever and that's what do you want me to do then just stay in my hotel room the whole
12:50time
12:50i'm there maybe you should enjoy join a visa you know we'll see how it works out when you get
12:57back
12:57then it's what now you're threatening me what
13:05you obviously don't trust me and i'm going home
13:20seriously
13:24this guy is acting like a complete control freak trying to tell me how to live my life
13:30it is unacceptable i'm a grown woman i can make my own decisions i'm not going to be told what
13:35i can
13:35and cannot do
13:41i'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them i mean what else do you
13:46think
13:46is going to happen here this is really making me worried about our relationship going forward
13:51because if this is how tony is acting when we're together i cannot even imagine what he's going to
13:58be like once we're apart for two weeks it's really scaring me
14:17mama didn't raise no food she let me walk in my own shoes so double down and let me lose
14:23there ain't no mountain i can't move
14:37now what do we need these for what do you want avocado we're on a diet okay put them back
14:42i'm gonna put them back huh hey we're on a diet
14:46yeah
14:58i'm gonna get a cabbage we're gonna make some cabbage rolls
15:03so i talked to colt oh my gosh where is he at no he's in brazil he went to brazil
15:10yeah to see the
15:11other woman yeah for the last month i haven't been in touch with colt because i needed a break
15:18from that dumpster fire of a relationship but he called me out of the blue this morning from brazil
15:25did he go back to canada when no i guess i guess he went straight from florida to brazil oh
15:31my gosh
15:33seriously yeah i thought colt went to canada to live with his mom i found out the whole time he's
15:40been
15:40in brazil with diana the woman he's been sending videos to
15:46okay they're saying the ligaments in his knee need to be replaced so he has to have another surgery
15:52but he said he's found a doctor here that will accept the insurance and stuff here yeah in orlando
15:58so i guess he's coming back he's not staying with us he's not staying at our place no no okay
16:05oh my gosh one thing we've learned from this experience is there's no stranger's going to
16:11stay at our house again ever it's not going to happen not going to happen is he still in the
16:17wheelchair or is he yeah well i guess the doorways are small there so he's been using crutches because
16:22the wheelchair and walker are too big how's he going to get around yeah he can't drive no i said
16:27i'd go
16:28pick him up and like help him get situated in the hotel picking up colt from the airport is going
16:34to
16:34be torture you know we had a really strong connection there's still some type of bond
16:41which is maybe really dumb but i feel responsible for him does he want to try to get back with
16:47you
16:47i don't know what he wants don't don't let it happen
16:53he's not going to be faithful yeah yeah no i think he's gonna lie and keep lying and lying
16:59i don't trust him so it's like how can i be with somebody i don't trust
17:04when you keep lying about stuff you're not sincere yeah i don't see any sincerity at all to this
17:13no respect i mean leave our daughter alone i mean bottom line
17:20well if it was me i would be over with it but it's you i think you're strong enough but
17:29when he
17:29casts that fishing line and reel you back in and you know he's gonna try
17:36don't revolve your life around him no no because he could care less about you he's just using you
17:42once again i feel he can't use me because i'm offering help i'm offering to do this for him i
17:48want to do this for him so it's like he's not using me it's like he's not playing me he's
17:52playing
17:52himself but then how far are you gonna take this yeah i just want to you know get him from
17:58the airport
17:58to the hotel yeah right okay set boundaries like all the crying and stuff i've been doing i think
18:04it's just like feeling sorry for him like he might be permanently disabled so i cry more about his leg
18:10than about him dating other women i know my parents are worried about colt breaking my heart again
18:17they see that he still affects me and like the truth is i don't know what i'm gonna feel when
18:24i see
18:25him we had such a deep intense connection and you can't just turn that off i feel like colt has
18:33some
18:33type of crazy power over me and i don't really trust myself with him life is way too short to
18:39be
18:39putting up with that fill your life with happy things i will you want the donuts
18:45no i think i need the wine the wine
18:59yay stockings here you can hang your own stocking up son
19:05all right boom
19:08okay there we go look at that look at that
19:12you already have stuff in your stocking is it candy
19:15oh yeah i gotta get one okay
19:18this isn't good it's been in there since last year
19:34here we go grand illuminate
19:40this actually looks pretty good do you remember this monkey grandma bought this for you so i'll let
19:44you hang that just hang it like near her picture yeah it's cute huh christmas is in a few weeks
19:52and
19:52i'm really really excited because it's my favorite holiday everything's all sparkly everybody's just
19:57nice and it brings back so many happy memories of my mom and my sister and previous holidays when i
20:04do
20:04stuff like this it reminds me of grandma because this was like our thing and my grandma it was like
20:08our thing was to like decorate you know so it's gonna be our thing now i think so and i
20:12think we
20:12should include larry in this as well because he doesn't know any of our stuff doesn't know anything you
20:16want to call him yeah christmas is all about family and this christmas is even more special
20:24because my family just got bigger my relationship with my son that i placed for adoption is just
20:30getting better and better we video chat all the time and it's really become a special part of my
20:36life hey what's up y'all what's up how are you i'm doing good man it looks like y'all
20:44in the christmas
20:44spirit yeah i'm really excited to talk to him today and show him my christmas decorations but i also
20:50have some news to share with both him and jamal so we thought we would call you and get you
20:56in the
20:56christmas spirit with us yeah for sure so jamal's gonna carry you around let's go for a tour all
21:02right look so this is my little tree i like bling you know i'm all about the glitter i love
21:07the sequins
21:07and stuff so this is instead of doing a star i do a top hat isn't it cute isn't it
21:12cute yeah i don't
21:13know about that it's so cute and then i do stockings am i gonna get a stocking yes you're gonna
21:22get a
21:22stocking of course you are there was never a holiday a birthday or any other day in 35 years that
21:32i did
21:32not think about larry or my daughter i always wondered like what kind of life they had how they
21:38celebrated their birthdays how they celebrated their holidays how's my hair a little flat
21:47i'm so grateful to larry that he gave me the chance to make up for lost time
21:54i'm really glad that you can enjoy some of this with us yeah for sure so yeah and i'm glad
21:59that we
21:59have communication especially now i think the communication is a lot better now that i've been
22:04i agree i'm free so speaking of that i told you guys about the guy that i've been talking to
22:10in england and i'm going he invited me to come so i'm gonna go and meet him
22:16i mean everybody deserves a chance at love so i don't see why you wouldn't take it just don't
22:22get your hopes up no you know what i'm saying a little bit just a little bit of hope no
22:27no let's
22:28just stay neutral i mean just go over there with an open mind yeah i like him but i'm not
22:33i'm not
22:34doing what i did with usman it's a totally different thing i've learned from my mistakes
22:39don't look so skeptical no i am i can't help but naturally be concerned when you take these trips
22:46for men that you haven't met you're gonna fly by yourself you're gonna be there by yourself
22:51i remember even when you go to nigeria by yourself you would call me and be like i wish you
22:55were here
22:56why don't you go with me what are you doing no no why is that not too much why don't
23:01you go you
23:02don't have to meet him like the first day but you should maybe you should go with me
23:05go jamal yeah you should go you should definitely go i do wish i would have went to nigeria sooner
23:11me too because maybe i could have helped in that one faster the men you've met they're so nice to
23:17you in the beginning and they they trap you because you get stuck and you fall fast yeah so luckily
23:23when
23:23i'm there maybe i'm able to talk to her and be like just remember to not give too much in
23:28the
23:28beginning because you do that all the time yeah in the past once my mom really starts to like a
23:35guy
23:35she starts believing whatever they say so i really do hope wayne is this nice guy that he's been
23:42telling her that he is because my mom's heart cannot take much more i feel like now everybody everybody's
23:48in place i'm working on myself it's time for me to go and find love well i think you've had
23:53a lot
23:54off your shoulders yeah like telling you about your sister and everything telling me about him
23:59then telling him about her yeah speaking of um sister i reached out to the adoption agency like
24:06we all agreed upon to try to find her and well they sent me a letter her adopted mom had
24:12wrote me a
24:12letter so i have the letter it's like 10 pages long and i was waiting for an opportunity to just
24:18kind
24:18of bring it out i want to see it all right when the adoption agency told me they had a
24:24letter about
24:24my daughter from when she was six years old i was stunned this was dated november 26 98
24:34okay it says to the birth mother of our beloved daughter r
24:40she came home with us in january of 93 she was then and has continued to this day to be
24:45a healthy and happy
24:46child
24:50i can't read this yeah i just i want something this is crazy
25:13i haven't seen tony since our dance class a few nights ago and obviously things ended on a really
25:19bad note i'm really nervous it's not an easy thing to like have that huge blow up and then off
25:26i go for
25:27for half a month
25:28i wish i knew better
25:30cause it always feels the same
25:35yeah it always feels the same
25:39you're driving me insane
25:41yeah you're driving me insane
25:45tony is coming over to take me to the airport and it's awful because i'm leaving for two and a
25:52half week
25:52vacation to europe this is not how i wanted to leave things between us
26:06i uh i made us a little snack so have a seat i'll go grab it
26:14i haven't seen tony and his reaction during the dance class it has me worried that this kind of
26:21jealousy and control is only going to get amplified while i'm gone and it could be the end of us
26:32so how are you feeling
26:34i mean
26:37i know you're leaving soon so i thought we at least talk about you know what's going on and
26:44i just don't want this tension anymore
26:48so what's what's what's on your mind
26:51i do trust you but the words escalated the emotions escalated and all of a sudden you left and
26:57i'm like well are we really just throwing it away
27:03yeah i i agree that that wasn't the best thing to do i shouldn't have done what i did like
27:10stormed
27:10out but i you know i was i was very upset but at the end of the day you you
27:17mean the world to me
27:18and i want to make sure that when i'm away that you feel comfortable that you're not you know thinking
27:24what am i doing what's going on am i putting our relationship in jeopardy because i would never do
27:30anything like that
27:34thank you i mean that means a lot to me i'm not trying to say hey listen to either you
27:40dance or
27:40it's me i just really want to make sure that we're on the same page going forward and you know
27:46this
27:46upcoming trip i just don't want it to be about us not talking a lack of communication or if there's
27:52tension i just don't want it to just linger i agree we're not going to go sleep angry we're not
27:59going
27:59to let the day end with us not having a resolution okay i like that okay i'm just gonna put
28:06this in
28:06kitchen and then we can skedaddle we both took responsibility for what we did wrong and feeling
28:15a little bit more secure vanya i'm going to help grab your luggage okay okay thank you all right but
28:21at the same time our relationship is just starting to take the next step we even started saying i love
28:27you to each other and now i'm leaving immediately for two and a half weeks i mean this gives us
28:32no time
28:33together to hug and kiss and just be good oh sucks
28:53baby i'm gonna miss you so much oh my god i can't believe we're here already
29:01oh my god i'm gonna try as much as possible let's keep in touch all right welcome pretty
29:10welcome baby
29:15next trip is gonna be a together trip absolutely okay okay i miss you already i miss you too baby
29:22all
29:23right oh bye bye bye babe
29:28i feel like our relationship is so new that there there is worry the last few weeks we've had a
29:35great
29:35foundation and i really hope this trip is not going to test it to the point where she's going to
29:40realize
29:40that the single life is better for her i would be in shambles if i lost vanya it would break
29:45me apart
29:48there are so many variables that could go wrong on this trip and i hope we can get through it
29:54but i
29:54would be lying if i said i wasn't concerned because if he has another meltdown while i'm away
30:00i don't think our relationship can survive
30:23to the birth mother of our beloved daughter r
30:42this letter was not delivered to me almost 30 years ago because i moved around a lot i was in
30:47the military so i just never received it it's very emotional for me because it's like me getting
30:54to know her it means so much to get a glimpse into what her life was like growing up i
31:00got it
31:03her developmental skills progressed normally except in one area where she
31:07proved exceptionally gifted she's very verbal i guess she talks like her mama right
31:13ours vocabulary is tremendous her thoughts and desires at a level beyond her six years
31:20we hope to keep her in private school as long as we can afford it ours favorite food is pasta
31:26pasta pasta
31:27that's her italian side she is also a great vegetable eater we have a large vegetable garden she loves to
31:33go out and pick vegetables for dinner she had a pretty nice life wait a minute
31:40i think reading this letter and finding out these things about her like now we know her name starts with
31:45and r we know she had a vegetable garden we know she went to private school
31:53sorry
31:58and it's like a bittersweet feeling right like it makes her more real to me and it just makes me
32:05so
32:05happy to know that she was raised so well
32:09we are indeed thankful for having her in our lives and love her very much with best best wishes to
32:15you and yours
32:18it's really intense um i'm really glad that she's had such a good life like that's that's why i did
32:25what i did you know because i know i couldn't provide that for you or her like i can't say
32:30like
32:30i regret what i've done i can't say that now i can say that the way i handled it was
32:34up but i can't
32:36like i can't like feel bad for what i did you know yeah and that's what i keep trying to
32:42tell you since
32:43you know day one so i'm glad you finally kind of you know seeing it for yourself too yeah
32:51the decision to place my children up for adoption was
32:54the most heartbreaking decisions i've ever had to make in my whole life
33:02now 34 years later i can honestly say i'm at peace i feel like i did what was best for
33:10my children
33:12and really at the end of the day that's all that matters to me
33:16all we can do now is just wait yeah we'll see what happens i do have a feeling we're going
33:24to find
33:24her i hope like i'm very positive about that i hope so
33:32i'm going to try calling her hello hi bella i just wanted to know why you didn't show up today
33:40i can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating you know with such a troll like gino
33:47whoa i care about gino but this is a lot bigger than
33:50and my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that i'm dating
34:10oh you want to sit down yeah for a moment enjoy this beautiful fire pit
34:18oh they got blankets this is kind of like camping or something i don't know we just don't have a
34:24tent
34:36that was rough yeah i'm a little bit i don't know concerned now because
34:43nick was saying that she she doesn't like me well she doesn't know you
34:51one of the big reasons that i came to l.a was to get to know natalie's daughter bella
34:57but when it was time to hang out she never showed apparently bella's mad at me because jasmine
35:06attacked natalie last year you definitely want to have approval of the family members or you know the
35:13chances of this relationship working is not very good but i'm going to try calling her
35:25okay
35:26Hola.
35:26Hola, Bella.
35:28Hola.
35:30Es mom, ¿cómo estás?
35:31I'm fine.
35:33Um, I just wanted to know why you didn't show up today.
35:39I just want to say what I have to say, honestly,
35:42and then you can do whatever you want.
35:45I love you, but I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself
35:49by associating, you know, with such a troll like Gino.
35:54I don't see why you feel the need to extend any grace to him at all
35:57after how badly he disrespected you in Michigan.
36:01You're a grown woman, you can make your own decisions,
36:03but at this point, don't expect me to support it anymore.
36:07Well...
36:09And I just think you're just too beautiful and smart and successful
36:12to be with such a spineless loser like him.
36:15And I wish you saw that too.
36:18I love you, but that's just really all I want you to hear from me.
36:21I...
36:25Whoa.
36:29She does not like me.
36:35Are you okay?
36:37No.
36:41I want to throw up.
36:44That was a lot of nasty words that Bella was saying about me.
36:48How bad of a person I am, what trash I am, loser, whatever.
36:55She didn't even give me a chance.
36:56She didn't even show up and meet me.
36:58I mean, come on, you...
37:00Don't judge me based on, you know, what you hear for one incident.
37:06It's not fair.
37:09After all of that, you know, how do you feel about me, I guess?
37:17My feelings for you haven't changed.
37:20However, I would like her blessing.
37:27Okay.
37:28So...
37:29Okay.
37:31So basically our relationship is kind of like on hold until you get her blessing.
37:38She's my number one.
37:39She's my number one priority.
37:43So what happens if she doesn't change her mind and she doesn't give her blessing?
37:49What would happen, you think, between us?
37:52I need to talk to her.
37:54And then as soon as I get the answer, I'll talk to you.
37:58Are you gonna stay over my place tonight?
38:03I'm gonna try to go over to see Bella.
38:05Okay.
38:05It's important to me that we don't end a conversation on a negative note.
38:11Okay.
38:13That's fair.
38:14Thank you.
38:15I get it.
38:18I care about Gino, but this is a lot bigger than...
38:22my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that I'm dating.
38:25Oh.
38:26All right.
38:27Let's, uh...
38:28Let's go.
38:28Let's go.
38:30Bella doesn't trust my judgment.
38:33She's never seen me in a healthy relationship.
38:36All right.
38:36Well, let me get packing.
38:39And it makes me feel like a failure as a parent, that I was not able to show my daughter
38:45that I am capable of being in a good relationship.
38:51And I just want to go, and I want to comfort her, and I want to let her know that
38:55I'm okay
38:55and safe.
38:56She's my priority.
38:59Okay.
38:59Well, I better get going.
39:02Well, I had a really good time.
39:04Me too.
39:07So...
39:07The last two days have been awesome.
39:11Aw.
39:12Yeah.
39:12I know.
39:13They have.
39:14Yeah.
39:14They've been awesome.
39:17The hardest thing is, what if my daughter never accepts him?
39:21Where would this relationship go?
39:23And I think he knows the answer.
39:27That's something I really don't want to deal with at this moment.
39:32I don't want to talk about this anymore.
39:35We'll have to see each other again soon.
39:38Yeah.
39:39Bye.
39:40Take care.
39:44I thought that this trip would bring Natalie and I closer together.
39:48I could use a drink.
39:50I imagine hitting it off with Bella, and then in the future, potentially becoming a father
39:57figure to her.
39:59I've always wanted to be a dad.
40:01So her daughter not wanting anything to do with me, it's impacting the dreams that I had
40:08for my life.
40:09And it makes me really sad.
40:13But these eyes won't cry.
40:16No fear.
40:18I'll cry.
40:23God.
40:29Next time on The Single Life.
40:32Let me touch it.
40:34Oh, wow.
40:35Okay.
40:36Going into this day, I don't really have any expectations.
40:40He's cute.
40:41He has a good body.
40:42It seems fun.
40:42Like, this is literally one of the reasons I came to DR.
40:44To just have fun.
40:52Whoa, is that the Queen of England?
40:54Hello, peasants.
40:55Hello.
40:57After talking to Wayne for the past three months, I am in jolly old England to meet him in person.
41:02Hi.
41:03Oh, wow.
41:04I'm really hopeful that by the end of this trip, I do go home in a relationship.
41:09Now, I have to ask you.
41:11Okay.
41:11Are you dating now?
41:12Here?
41:16Hey, Natalie.
41:17What's up?
41:19After Natalie's daughter disapproved of our relationship, I don't know where things stand.
41:24I was hoping that at some point you would talk to Bella to see how she feels.
41:30Because I know at the time you were saying, if she didn't like me, that, you know, we wouldn't have
41:36a relationship.
41:38Has that changed at all with her?
41:43I mean...
41:46Hey, Courtney!
41:49I'm going through a lot of internal conflict right now.
41:52I still care about Colt, and I still have love for him.
41:56Really, it is nice to see it.
41:58But then my mind's like, this lying, cheating, manipulative son of a bitch.
42:02Did you sleep with Diana?
42:04I can't say I didn't do that.
42:07Well, I'm glad your d*** worked for her.
42:12Here we go, Ibiza bitches!
42:14I'm trying to go with Sanela, listen to some music, and then they send me a message, and another, and
42:19another.
42:20You're ruining my night, but on top of it, I'm there with my cousin, and I'm embarrassed in front of
42:24her all over again.
42:26I need to understand what caused you to do what you did.
42:29If Tony wants to be with me, he's going to have to change, fast.
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