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00:00Previously on the single life
00:04I've recently filed for divorce. So what better way to celebrate them with a girl's trip?
00:09Sophie B all here because of you and we have a special guy who we come to see I've been
00:14talking to this guy
00:15His name is Pedro
00:18and
00:19Yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantelle and Pedro
00:22But I don't want to rush it the same way I rushed my marriage you separate right now. Are you
00:27still married?
00:28I'm still trying to be married. Any hookups with him? Yeah
00:32They've been hookups and she never told me they did hookup before what the we doing here?
00:40I want to look good for Natalie, so I bought a couple of new shirts my first attempt at dating
00:46Natalie
00:46It didn't go very well, but I asked her if I could visit her and she said yes
00:52I have some nervousness it's a little nerve-wracking
00:54I know it's my last shot and I cannot mess it up
00:59I have two roommates. Oh two. I used to date one of them. Sadly, I I cheated on her
01:06It is hard as to find a good man in your 50s. Maybe dating isn't
01:12Something you should be stressing too hard about you have a lot of other things going on
01:16I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years
01:20Jamal is an older brother named Larry that I put up for adoption
01:24You think you're gonna have like a deep talk with him?
01:26I have I have to have a deep talk with him. About what?
01:29About the other one. Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption. I also had a daughter
01:54I have to have a deep talk with him. She liked me
01:57I don't know man. La cosa es que ella se esta divorciando ahora, tu me entiendes?
02:01Si. Y ese es el problema
02:05Yo veo la panorama
02:07Es más de lo que nos lleva
02:10Es la panorama
02:14Yo sé que ella le sube pareja, no la trató como la tiene que tratar
02:18Y tú eres experto en eso
02:20I just decided that Sophie is here and they are with her friends
02:23I really really want a relationship with Sophie
02:26But she has sex with the ex a couple of months ago
02:29So I don't know if she's ready to let her go the past
02:33Ya vuelte a traer como una princesa, una reina
02:36Todo lo que ella quiera
02:37Tú sabes voy a tratar de hacerlo
02:39Pero todo depende de ella
02:41I don't like this situation
02:45But I want to let her go because I like her
02:48And I want to do whatever day to win Sophie over
02:51How did your conversation go?
02:53We're getting to know each other but
02:55That's the extent that I'm ready for
02:57If he just lets me open up myself
03:00It will be better for me
03:02So can you take a step back?
03:04Yes
03:04And you will take a step forward
03:05Step forward, yeah, yeah
03:07Pedro's coming on very strong
03:08You know what Pedro asked me?
03:10He asked me if I Rob
03:12And what do you say?
03:13I said truth
03:14Yeah, I said the truth
03:15Why am I gonna lie?
03:16And what did he say?
03:17He was not happy
03:18Oh
03:19Like I feel like he kind of was like judging me
03:21Even if you say yes
03:23I sleep with him yesterday before I came to DR
03:27It's nothing because you're not a relationship
03:29You're dating
03:30Come with me, I need a pig
03:35Hi
03:35Oh, hi
03:38What's up, bro?
03:39Yeah
03:39Hi
03:40How you doing?
03:41I'm having a great time
03:42Sophie's been talking about me
03:44So
03:45Sophie's definitely been like
03:47Like he's the first guy to buy me flowers
03:50And she said that you're so like respectful
03:54Like very sweet
03:55You're very sweet and romantic
03:57Are we serious about her?
03:59I am
03:59Are y'all?
04:01I am
04:01Yeah
04:02You're thinking that she really want this?
04:05Like she's been a little decent these days, you know
04:07I think, you know, she just recently is just getting out of this marriage and relationship
04:13And it seems like you've been kind of separated and divorced for a while
04:16I see in the beginning stages of trying to like discover like where she's at
04:21That's a little scary like she want to discover more that side
04:24No, no, no, not discover more
04:27She needs to
04:28She's still healing
04:30She's still healing?
04:31Killing, yeah
04:32Yeah
04:34I didn't feel the list is holding back
04:35And she's not telling me the whole story
04:38She didn't say directly
04:40But it's made me think the Sophie's not ready for a relationship
04:44Like what the
04:45I've been doing all those things for you
04:47And right now maybe you're not ready for a relationship
04:50That made me feel like a freaking idiot
04:51What are we interrupting right now?
04:55Nothing
04:55What are we doing?
04:56Nothing
04:56Nothing
04:57I think in VR
04:59Tyrants
05:00No
05:00And we have to go back to the resort
05:02I'm ready for bed
05:04Let's bring you to the band ladies, okay?
05:06I'm wearing a bedchata
05:09I came to the DR to be single and mingle
05:13And first night crushed it
05:15I'll see you tomorrow
05:16Okay
05:16Make sure he gets home stay
05:18I'll go ahead and give you a text
05:19You have my number, okay?
05:20Thank you
05:20All right
05:21Have a good night
05:22I even got a number
05:23Via is so sexy and so sweet
05:26I'm so excited to see you
05:49I'm so excited to see him again
05:56I see you tomorrow
05:56You look beautiful
05:56Thank you
05:57Thank you
05:57Thank you
05:58And then tomorrow we see you, okay?
06:00Okay
06:00See you tomorrow
06:02I want a relationship with Sophie
06:03I feel like she's like a true diamond
06:05And I know that we can be really good together
06:09Bye princess
06:09Bye
06:10Take care
06:10Yeah
06:11But if she's not serious about me
06:13What's she doing to be hard with me?
06:16I don't know what's going on
06:18It's freaking up
06:34As much as I want to sit here and like
06:37Talk about how like I feel bad for you and stuff
06:39I don't expect you to feel bad for me
06:41I've never asked you to
06:42I know I don't
06:52Like I know it's like a lot for you
06:55But I caused it
06:56Yeah, it's your fault
07:00So I just don't have Jamal as a son
07:03I have Larry who I put up for adoption when I was 21 years old
07:10Last year when I told Jamal of all of this and all of this opened
07:16It hurt worse because I had hit it for so long
07:21It just sucks dude
07:23Like me thinking I was the only child
07:25But then finding out not only my non-only child I have like multiple siblings
07:34Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption
07:36I also had a daughter a year later
07:39My relationship with Jamal's dad at that point was not good
07:42And I had to do what was best for me at the time
07:48I don't regret what I did
07:50But I'm not happy with what I did either
07:55Because you're bringing these beautiful beings into this world
08:01And you feel that motherly love and you feel that maternal thing and knowing what you're doing and knowing that
08:07you're giving them up for adoption
08:11It's probably one of the hardest thing I think any birth mother has to go through
08:17I knew about my sister when I was 12 and then I found out about Larry because he found you
08:23A year ago, it's like
08:25Why in that gap you didn't just tell me about him?
08:29I just didn't know how
08:30I really just did not know how
08:33When Jamal was 12, he overheard me and my mother talking about his sister and that's how Jamal found out
08:40I think I only told Jamal about one because I just thought to me like one would make sense
08:46But to do it twice, I didn't want to him up
08:52Did I handle it well? No, not at all
08:56I don't know I really feel for Larry not telling him about our full-blood sister
09:03I feel like every time I talk to him, it's like I'm like
09:06Hiding a truth from from him and I feel like about it
09:11Do you not think I feel like too?
09:16I didn't tell Larry about his sister when he first found me because I was like trying to get to
09:21know him
09:21He was trying to get to know me and I just couldn't figure out a way to tell him
09:27But now Larry wants to come visit us and I have to go into this being completely 100% transparent
09:34We can't build a strong honest relationship if I'm keeping secrets from him
09:43So I'm gonna tell him about his sister but I feel like I don't want you to be there when
09:47I tell him so don't worry about that
09:49Why would I not be there? I feel like I do want to be there because like
09:54And I don't want to sound like a dick, but I don't know what you're gonna tell him
09:58Let me tell him the truth. I don't know
10:01I don't know
10:05I feel
10:07Really protective of Larry because I don't want my mom to lie to him like she lied to me
10:15I'm hoping
10:16I'm hoping me and my mom can get back to how we used to be
10:20But it's gonna take a lot of rebuilding of trust like her actually being transparent with larry because right now
10:29I just
10:30I just don't trust her anymore
10:35Anyway, let me know when larry's coming
10:39Oh
10:47All right, I'm out. All right. Love you. Bye
10:56Telling larry about his sister is gonna be really difficult, but I know I have to do this because it's
11:02killing me. It is literally killing me
11:05And it's like I feel like I'm like drowning sometimes and I have to like swim just to get to
11:10the top
11:14You know the way I handled it was terrible it was awful you do you think this was easy for
11:18me to live with my whole life
11:21For 30 35 years 34 years is awful
11:25All of this has affected my self-esteem my self-worth
11:29But I feel like now I have to like gain jamal's trust back
11:34I want to build a bigger relationship with larry
11:37And I feel like I want to find love I want somebody to accept me for all this craziness that's
11:43going on
11:44I think having larry out here and just talking to him and being real and then you know
11:48Just having transparent conversations. It's gonna help a lot. That's what I'm hopeful for
11:55Morning family
11:57morning
12:00Courtney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat in mexico things got romantic
12:05So she invited me to live with her in florida at her parents house
12:11There it is there it is oh nice one you think they have sex more than we do anything's more
12:16than what we're doing
12:19I
12:20We're talking to Liz
12:21She told me like oh, yeah
12:24You do a missing team for Sophie, but are you sure that she wanna be with you?
12:30She made me feel a bit like
12:32How to say I be careful
12:33What did she exactly say
12:36To go behind my back that's breaking girl code like you don't do that. I'm really pissed
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18:50She knew I didn't have anywhere to go.
18:52I had a long road to recovery,
18:54and she wanted to help me as much as possible.
18:57I'm glad you're here.
18:58I'm glad I'm here, too.
19:00I know you're in a lot of pain,
19:02but why don't you guys come golf with us?
19:04You can ride in the golf cart, get some fresh air.
19:07Do you want to go?
19:08Yeah, that'd be great.
19:09OK, if you're going to go, let's golf.
19:11Let's go get ready.
19:11I'll help you.
19:12OK.
19:12OK.
19:19Do you want your titties shaking?
19:21I guess.
19:22Oh, look at that.
19:25I brought him to Florida to help him
19:28go through physical therapy, take care of him.
19:31And I really hoped he'd be further along in his recovery
19:34by now, but basically, I'm his full-time nurse.
19:38Do you want to wear the green or the tan?
19:40I think the tan.
19:41OK.
19:42He could barely even wipe his ass by himself.
19:46They're tight.
19:47They're tight.
19:49I feel some things should probably be left unseen,
19:53especially so early on in a relationship.
19:58Ah!
19:59Push.
19:59Oh, my God.
20:00You're going to hug my heel?
20:06Off-world driving.
20:09Hey.
20:11OK.
20:13Straight ahead, I believe.
20:14You got this.
20:15I have confidence in you.
20:18Your turn, Courtney.
20:20Good luck.
20:22Oh, .
20:22You got this.
20:24You went up too steep.
20:26There you go.
20:26Yay, Courtney!
20:28I see it.
20:33There it is.
20:34There it is.
20:34Ooh, nice one.
20:36They're so cute.
20:37You think they have sex more than we do?
20:39Oh, my God.
20:40Like, ew.
20:41Why are you thinking that?
20:43Yeah.
20:43But anything is more than what we're doing, so.
20:46Yeah.
20:49We haven't had sex, full-on sex yet.
20:52Right now, the plumbing doesn't work so well.
20:56Oh, my God.
20:57We'll get there.
20:59It's a grower, you know?
21:01But it's very majestic when it's fully, you know, realized.
21:06Oh, God.
21:06It makes me feel, like, insecure.
21:09Yeah.
21:09Like, am I your type?
21:10You're definitely my type.
21:12I mean, you know, we've had some success.
21:14But it's just when we transition into penetration,
21:20then I kind of go down.
21:24But why?
21:24I don't know.
21:25It hurts.
21:26I'm moving my body around.
21:27There's a lot of expectation.
21:28I'm still on medicine.
21:32Colt is, like, known for being, like, a horny bunny.
21:36Like, he wants to do it hourly.
21:37He wants it all the time.
21:38So the fact he can't get it up from me,
21:41it's making me wonder, like, is Colt here because he's into me
21:46or is he here out of convenience?
21:47Because he basically has everything provided for him.
21:50He's not paying rents.
21:51He's not paying bills.
21:52He has it pretty good.
21:54We're in this weird situation because I feel like I've known you forever.
21:59We get along.
22:00We don't argue.
22:01But then it's like, okay, I don't really know you.
22:04I've only known you, like, a month or two.
22:06Yeah.
22:07Let's be honest.
22:08Like, your exes are constantly online.
22:09Like, oh, you're a liar.
22:11You're a cheater.
22:11Like, they're not saying anything good about you.
22:14Why were they with me then?
22:16I mean, I'm sure they liked you in the beginning until you cheated on them.
22:21I mean, sure, I have a past.
22:23But, you know, it doesn't mean I'm always going to do that.
22:26It doesn't mean I can't be a good guy for you.
22:29Trust is everything in a relationship.
22:30But I do struggle to trust men in general because a lot of them do lie and cheat.
22:36I want to believe that Colt has changed.
22:39Maybe he's matured.
22:40Maybe he's grown up.
22:41Like, I know that we have a lot to figure out.
22:44But I want to do it with you.
22:46I want to figure out all these problems with you every day as we grow old together.
22:51I mean, I've always wanted to get married, have kids, have a family.
22:56Like, I feel me and Colt are aligned.
22:58We have a lot of the same goals.
23:00So I'm hoping it works.
23:02It has to work.
23:04We'll get there.
23:08I didn't like the way it ended for us.
23:10I understand that you didn't create the havoc.
23:14But there's a lot I felt I didn't know.
23:17I haven't seen Gino in almost a year.
23:19I want to believe that he truly made a mistake.
23:22But I don't know if I can trust Gino.
23:24I don't know if I can trust anything he says.
23:39It's a little nerve-wracking.
23:40I haven't seen Natalie in a long time.
23:43This is my chance.
23:44One, two, three, turn around.
23:47Don't you watch me now.
23:48Just turn around.
23:49Touch your knees, don't look.
23:51Just turn around.
23:52Do it now.
23:53Don't make me countable.
23:55Hey.
23:57Gino.
23:58How are you?
24:00I'm good.
24:01How are you?
24:02Doing good.
24:03Long time at the sea.
24:05How are you?
24:05How are you?
24:06I'm good.
24:07I'm good.
24:07You look thinner.
24:09You look thinner.
24:10After all the drama that happened, I did not expect Natalie to give me a second chance.
24:16I'm on your home turf this time.
24:18I know.
24:18This time you're in D.C.
24:20I am absolutely super excited to have this opportunity to reconnect with her and make things
24:28right.
24:29Oh my gosh.
24:30It's so cool here.
24:32Yeah.
24:32You have some beautiful trees and hills and parks.
24:39You seem a little nervous.
24:40Are you okay?
24:43Well, I am nervous.
24:44I do have a little nerves coming here because last time we were together, you know, it didn't
24:49end very well.
24:51It didn't.
24:51You stormed out of the hotel and you were upset with me.
24:55Well, yeah.
24:56I mean, that was a disaster.
25:01So I haven't seen Gino in almost a year in person.
25:04And I really don't know how I feel about it right now because Gino has a lot of explaining
25:09to do.
25:10When I met Gino, one of my first questions that I asked him is, are you single?
25:15He said he was separated, about to get a divorce.
25:19But then he invited me to come to Michigan and meet his family.
25:24And I was kind of surprised by some of his cousin Michelle's comments.
25:31What's the deal with you and Jasmine?
25:33I mean, you guys just actually went out and had dinner.
25:39Was there hope for progress when you went?
25:42I mean, slight, slight.
25:46You know, he basically lied to me.
25:49So I just wanted to get out of there.
25:52And before I could, Jasmine walked in the door and attacked me.
25:57Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
26:01Don't get close to me.
26:03Don't touch her.
26:04Don't you .
26:05Relax.
26:06No, no.
26:07Don't you .
26:08Listen.
26:08.
26:09Get off it.
26:13I totally understand why you're upset after all that chaos at the party.
26:18I understand that you didn't create the havoc.
26:22But you kind of did create the havoc because I, there's a lot I didn't, I felt I didn't know.
26:30I shouldn't have been there in the first place.
26:33You know, that's how I felt.
26:34Okay, that makes a little more sense because I didn't like the way it ended for us.
26:39Neither did I.
26:41And I'm a little bit more recovered, I guess.
26:44Well, that's good.
26:45Now I, now I.
26:47It's taken some time.
26:48It doesn't happen right away.
26:49I know that.
26:50I knew that.
26:51I knew that.
26:52I wasn't fully recovered.
26:53No, and I could tell.
26:55But anyway, it's all over.
26:56It's all over.
26:57It's done with, like, you're here now.
27:00Like, what do you want?
27:04Well, obviously, I want to, like, just hang out like we did in Vegas.
27:09We had fun together.
27:11And it was, you know, a good vibe, you know?
27:14I mean, I like that idea, you know?
27:17I like putting the past in the past and, you know, starting new.
27:20Yeah.
27:23You know, as much as I like Gino, I'm approaching this weekend with a lot of caution.
27:28I'm not gonna deny that he's hurt me.
27:30But, you know, I understand what it's like to go through a destructive marriage and things happen.
27:35I want to believe that he truly made a mistake.
27:39The weather's pretty , but we can go back to my place.
27:43Ooh, you're inviting me to your place.
27:45Oh, my God.
27:46I'm scared.
27:48But I don't know if I can trust Gino.
27:51I don't know if I can trust anything he says.
27:53Let's go.
27:54Let's do it.
27:54I got an umbrella, too.
27:57If Gino wants something romantic with me more than friends, he's gotta prove that he's gonna be honest.
28:03He's gotta prove that he really wants this.
28:06So we'll see if he can.
28:08I can roll.
28:13I like things clear, you know?
28:16I've been clear to you.
28:17If you find somebody that doesn't want to settle down, they're gonna have some fun, you open to that with
28:21somebody else.
28:22I am single, so I'm allowed to do whatever.
28:25I thought that we were exclusive with each other.
28:28If you die with the games to the begin, that you are single and I am single, what the can
28:33I do all of this for you?
28:38I'm craving something wild.
28:42Look at my evil smile.
28:46Okay, I have this yellow dress.
28:48Okay.
28:49Oh, I like it.
28:49I like this one.
28:50It's pretty cute.
28:51It's beachy.
28:52Yeah, it needs to be beachy.
28:54Why you put this dress there?
28:57Because I'm gonna wear this one.
28:58Seriously?
29:00Okay, here in the middle of your boobs.
29:10I'm gonna get ready.
29:12Okay, have a good laugh.
29:13Give me a hug.
29:14I'll let you know how it goes.
29:16Last night with Prejo and his friends was just very awkward for me.
29:21Prejo was just coming on a lot stronger than he has in the past.
29:25It's not even that I don't appreciate the effort that he's making.
29:28It's not that.
29:29It's more so I can just feel he's putting too much pressure on it.
29:35You look amazing.
29:36Hello.
29:37How are you?
29:38Good.
29:38How are you?
29:39I'm good.
29:40I do like Prejo.
29:41Like, I want to get to know him.
29:43I want to go on dates and see where things go.
29:47You're welcome.
29:47But I just finished with my marriage and I'm healing from it.
29:51You feel good?
29:52Yeah.
29:53He just needs to chill.
29:54That's all he needs to do is just chill.
29:56And let us get to know each other naturally.
29:58And, like, people usually do when they just meet.
30:04How you feel today?
30:07I feel like I'm kind of tired.
30:10Your hair look amazing.
30:12Do you prefer a straight or curly?
30:13I love both.
30:14You look amazing in every way.
30:17Ooh.
30:18Oh, wow.
30:19That looks nice.
30:22Did you have a good time yesterday?
30:24Yeah, I had a good time, you know.
30:26A little awkward, but...
30:27It was really awkward.
30:29This made me a little worried about, you know,
30:31because yesterday I was talking to Liz,
30:34and then she told me, like,
30:36oh, yeah, you do amazing things for Sophie.
30:40You give you flowers, you give you this, you give you that.
30:42Yeah, but are you sure that she wanna be with you?
30:51That's made me a little bit, like,
30:53what's going on here?
30:54Like, it's like...
30:55Wait, what did she exactly say?
30:56She made me feel, like, a little bit, like,
31:00insecure about all the things I've been doing.
31:04Maybe you have another guy in your mind.
31:06She made me feel a bit, like...
31:09How to say?
31:10Like, be careful.
31:12I invited Liz to the Dominican Republic.
31:14I thought we were friends,
31:15and then to go behind my back,
31:17she knows this up.
31:18She just met Pedro.
31:20That's not even her friend.
31:21That's breaking girl code.
31:23Like, you don't do that.
31:25I'm really pissed.
31:29I was in a relationship from when I was 20 years old,
31:31pretty much my whole adult life.
31:33I wanna figure out what I want.
31:35I don't know what it is.
31:36I'm 33 years old, you know.
31:38Looking for a serious relationship.
31:41We're not in the same pace.
31:43I don't want you to, like, wait around for when I'm ready.
31:47I just want us to, like, get to know each other.
31:48You want to meet, like, go, date other people.
31:52If someone comes along and she's, like, ready right now
31:56to settle down and have kids and everything you want,
31:59I'm not gonna say to you,
32:00no, be loyal to me when I'm not ready.
32:02That's extremely selfish.
32:03How about if you find somebody that didn't wanna settle down,
32:06they're gonna have some fun,
32:07you open to that with somebody else.
32:09I am single, so I'm allowed to do whatever.
32:14I thought that we were exclusive with each other.
32:17And that we're going to come into this trip
32:19to try to get everything settled
32:21to move to a relationship.
32:24If that were the game to the beginning,
32:26that you are single and I am single,
32:29what the can I do all of this for you?
32:30I'm not going to spend my time, my money,
32:33my good intention with someone that not really wanted.
32:36I like things clear, you know.
32:39I've been clear to you.
32:43No, you didn't.
32:44Yes, I did.
32:47The truth?
32:49You told me you was already healed.
32:51I have never once told you I have healed
32:53and I'm ready for a relationship.
32:54I have never told you that.
32:55Sophie.
32:55No, never told you that.
32:56Never told you that.
33:00I'm really not understanding why he's acting like this
33:02is, like, brand new information.
33:03I know I've said this because I've made a point
33:05because it's so important to me,
33:07and I've told him that.
33:08So for him to then say,
33:09oh, you've never told me that, it's like,
33:12it's frustrating.
33:14Don't act like I've said something I haven't said.
33:17Sophie.
33:18Are you telling the truth?
33:19I'm not going to lie to you.
33:21You are lying to me right now.
33:22Yes, you are.
33:26And even last night, like, I wasn't acting like that's my man.
33:30Like, I wasn't, you know, being all over him and touching him.
33:33I'm literally making sure, like, I'm not giving him mixed signals at all.
33:39I'm not going to fight with you back and forth.
33:40If you tell me, you tell me what's my fault.
33:42I don't like when people say I'm a liar.
33:43Yeah.
33:45My ex, that's going all the time.
33:56If she needs time to heal her marriage, what's she doing to deal with me?
34:01You ready?
34:02Whatever.
34:04I'm not a healer.
34:06I'm not a doctor.
34:10I don't want Sophie to play games with me.
34:13I'm not interested in that .
34:16Miss?
34:17No.
34:18No.
34:18Hell no.
34:19Not with me.
34:23He's having issues right now.
34:25He's not able to get, like, up.
34:27Oh .
34:28It's like blowing up a balloon.
34:30It's like, it's getting there, getting there.
34:33And then it's like .
34:36There is a girl that I was talking to before I even went to the resort.
34:42Where does she live?
34:43She's in Brazil.
34:44Oh.
34:45Yeah.
34:45Here we go again.
34:47Diana and I met a year ago online.
34:50But are you still in contact with Diana?
34:53Do the right thing.
35:07Let's get wet and juicy.
35:10That doesn't sound right.
35:12I think it sounds delicious.
35:16We got the game.
35:18Cool champagne.
35:19Light it up tonight.
35:21How was your trip?
35:22I heard you got a boy now.
35:24Yeah.
35:25You don't miss being single.
35:28She'll be single in like a month.
35:29Oh my God.
35:33As much as I love colds, it's a little, like, dragging down my vibe being a full-time caregiver.
35:39I feel like a caged animal.
35:41Like, I'm a cat stuck inside the house when really I want to be out roaming the streets.
35:46So, I'm so excited for Girls' Day, for cocktails, to have a good time, turn up.
35:51Woohoo!
35:53So, what do you like about him?
35:54I feel like we connect on a deep level.
35:58Like, I feel comfortable with him.
35:59I could be myself with him.
36:01But he's having issues right now.
36:04Like, he's not able to get, like, up.
36:08He's not able to get what?
36:10Up.
36:10Like, his thing doesn't work?
36:13Yeah.
36:13Oh.
36:14Oh, .
36:18Well, cuddle or kiss, like, he's done stuff to me, but I haven't done stuff to him.
36:22But it's like, okay, what am I supposed to do?
36:24Like, play with your the whole night?
36:26Like, I don't know what you want me to do.
36:27Oh.
36:27That's never fun.
36:29It's like blowing up a balloon.
36:31It's like, it's getting there, getting there.
36:34And then it's like, pfft.
36:49How you doing, Mark?
36:51What's going on, dude?
36:52Been a while, man.
36:54Well, a lot has happened.
36:55I broke my leg in Mexico.
36:58Dude, we gotta get you, like, a bubble wrap outfit or something.
37:02Mark has been a really good friend for the past few years.
37:06He's been there with me through several relationships.
37:09And he's definitely aware of my dating mishaps.
37:12And he's not afraid to call out my bull .
37:14And right now, I really need an honest perspective.
37:17So when I was at the retreat, I met somebody.
37:20All right.
37:21Let's hear it.
37:21Her name's Courtney.
37:22We connected on a lot of different levels.
37:24And we kind of got this, like, relationship going while we were there.
37:27And then she asked me if I wanted to come back with her and live with her in Florida.
37:33Wait, stop it.
37:34You're in her house right now?
37:35I'm in her house right now.
37:36You guys live together?
37:37We live together.
37:38Been here for over a month now.
37:39Holy crap.
37:40Congratulations, dude.
37:42Wow.
37:42Yeah.
37:43But Courtney lives with her parents.
37:45So I live with Courtney and her mom and dad.
37:49Here we go.
37:50Here we go.
37:52All right.
37:52How's that going?
37:53What's that look like?
37:54It's been pretty good.
37:55They're very patient.
37:56They're very sweet people.
37:57But the energy is weird.
38:00Courtney is very shy.
38:02And our intimacy isn't exactly where I want it to be.
38:05My past relationships have been very spicy.
38:09I've dated a few Brazilian women.
38:12And they like to .
38:16Mmm.
38:18Courtney make me want sex all the time.
38:24On the other hand, Courtney's like watching Little House on the Prairie.
38:28It's quality.
38:29But after a while, it gets a little bored.
38:32I don't know.
38:33You have a girl that just gets so energetic that just on your .
38:37Like her life depends upon it.
38:40That type of energy, you know?
38:41And then you go to somebody that's just like, yeah, do whatever you want.
38:44You know what I mean?
38:46It's just not the same.
38:47It's hard to go back to that.
38:54I don't know if he's not attracted to me or if it's just like he's not getting enough blood flow
38:59because of his broken leg.
39:01So I'm trying to be supportive.
39:02I'm trying to be his rock, I feel like.
39:04But then, yeah, I do have like doubts or fears.
39:07Like what's he doing behind my back?
39:08What do you mean?
39:09I was helping him upload something on social media.
39:12And then it shows me all the women he's been messaging.
39:16And I'm like.
39:16All?
39:16I didn't even dig deep.
39:17I just went to like a few messages down and he told a girl, hey, gorgeous.
39:21I'm doing all this stuff for you.
39:24And then you're like messaging other women.
39:27Like, are you kidding me?
39:28I know you want like to get married and stuff like that.
39:31But something's fishy about this.
39:34He definitely doesn't sound like Mr. Right.
39:36He's talking to other girls behind her back and I've had that happen in relationships and it never works out.
39:42He can't even get it up.
39:44He can't provide anything.
39:46Way too many red flags.
39:47He is the red flag.
39:49He needs to realize that he's actually lucky to have you because he is.
39:56Are you able to talk to her about like deep stuff and the future and relationships?
40:01Yeah, but she knows my reputation and she thinks like I'm just going to leave or cheat or whatever one
40:08day.
40:08So Courtney is worried that she'll be like another victim basically.
40:11Are you still living that way, dude?
40:12Be honest with me.
40:18So, well, there is a girl that I was talking to before I even went to the resort.
40:24Where does she live?
40:25She's in Brazil.
40:27Oh.
40:28Yeah.
40:29Here we go, kid.
40:30Yeah.
40:32Diana and I met a year ago online.
40:35Originally, I had plans to meet Diana in Brazil after the singles retreat ended.
40:41But meeting Courtney and my injury ultimately changed those plans.
40:46Are you still in contact with Diana?
40:49I still talk to Diana.
40:52It's been hard to let her go.
40:54Me and Courtney right now, I'm taking it one day at a time, but I don't want to hurt her.
40:59I care about her.
41:00There's definitely feelings there, but I don't, I really don't know what to do.
41:04I mean, this does sound a lot like things you've been through in the past, right?
41:09Yeah.
41:10And there's a situation where you could hurt her.
41:13And I know you don't want to do that.
41:15You want to get out of these cycles.
41:17Every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or a combination of both.
41:25I love Courtney.
41:26I never wanted to keep secrets from her.
41:29But if I tell her about Diana, she's never going to trust me again.
41:33This might be an opportunity for you to sort of take that next step in your personal growth and have
41:39some hard conversations.
41:41Yeah.
41:41You know, do the right thing.
41:42I don't know, man.
41:47Next time on The Single Life.
41:49I am Vanya.
41:51I have been single for about a year.
41:53I'm starting to wonder if the guy from me has been right in front of me this whole entire time.
41:58His name is Tony.
42:01Is that your friend, Tony?
42:02Yeah.
42:03I kissed him.
42:04Oh, my God, girl.
42:06We haven't made it clear if we're exclusive, if we're dating.
42:09You need to have a conversation with him.
42:12If I have this conversation, there is no going back.
42:15Our friendship will be changed forever.
42:18How are you day with Pedro?
42:20We definitely did not mesh well at the end.
42:22It flipped so quick.
42:23And he's ignored me since the day.
42:26At this point, I am starting to panic a bit because what if Pedro just never takes me back?
42:30Nobody can give up.
42:33You know, I'm happy that you came here.
42:36But I just keep seeing that you have this online battle still with Jasmine back and forth.
42:44To me, it's a red flag because there's a thin line between love and hate.
42:49Does he have these unresolved feelings for Jasmine?
42:54Yeah.
42:57Oh, yes.
42:58Sexy.
43:01He looks sexy.
43:03What are you doing?
43:04I really want this relationship to work with Colt, but we have major issues.
43:09His leg is broken, trust issues, his erectile dysfunction.
43:13We're not able to have sex.
43:15So, but now you're fully committed to Courtney at this point.
43:17100%.
43:19I'm sorry.
43:19I feel like you're using her.
43:21Using her?
43:22Yes.
43:23Do you have, like, a gut feeling?
43:24Because, like, that's usually what we go by.
43:27I don't know.
43:27That's why you're not an option to work.
43:27I don't know.
43:28I'm sorry.
43:28You're gone.
43:29It's the best.
43:29I'm sorry.
43:30It's the best.
43:30I want to go.