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00:02this romance is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:13garçon okay breathe is possible will you pique my interest there's two of us there's two of you
00:20no nobody's losing their cool an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it
00:29a match made in heaven i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i have this forever erect nipple
00:49what happens next
00:54is up to them
00:55cute would you like to see each other again romantically who goes first
01:07romance comes in different shapes
01:11little gestures which make that person see you
01:17morning i think we all need to take a leaf out mateo's book you know go back to the old
01:21school he's such an old school romantic okay your date for the night
01:26he's a bundle of love in the room
01:27just like heart emojis just going out of it radiating
01:33we do love mateo
01:34we do love him he's just a cupid just going around just making the matches happen
01:39take care of each other all right guys i would consider myself old school full stop
02:07i'm recording every moment of my life i have done for ten and a half years
02:13yeah keep it rolling click that helps sometimes with dating
02:19but it definitely attracts the wrong kind as well sometimes but i suppose that's what i signed up for
02:35it's actually really exciting for me that like i have no idea who's going to walk through that door
02:39i was just at a festival for three days hence the horse voice how was it oh so good yeah
02:44i'm a
02:44festival girl if you want a festival then you go to amsterdam any festival you choose is like oh man
02:51all people our age no kids i'm probably a little too young then am i
02:57i'd ruin the crack i'd ruin the party i give up on the date naps this year i just decided
03:03they are not for me i just much prefer to meet people out in the wild
03:07well welcome to the first dates restaurant thank you very much
03:18as a dater mons brings a lot to the table
03:23as a chef not so much have you ever cooked for a date i tried it once it didn't go
03:30well
03:31she didn't like it and she made it very clear we ended up just ordering food after
03:37was there a second date after that oh it was like yeah but like i just never cooked again
03:44hi how are you very good nice to meet you you're good looking top thank you thank you very much
03:49how are you keeping i'm fantastic looking forward to this i feel like i'm a fun person to be around
03:53well i hope i am anyways i just like someone to get along with like hopefully to match my energy
04:00hello hi nice to meet you how are you nice to meet you what's your name mons what are you
04:04mons clona
04:05how are you fine i'm very good yourself good good are you from where are you from where are you
04:11from
04:11i'm from warford oh nice i'm from tip oh tip oh geez monster that's very close
04:16sorry my eyes have to tear enough because the wind it's okay i know people do get quite emotional
04:21hearing me is there anyone out there yes elaine and thankfully she's come along
04:39i talk to spirits who's passed
04:45i just have them wake me up in the middle of the night and all you know
04:50the spirit's very funny as well you know they'd be cracking jokes
04:55can you hear spirits in the room right now no i blocked myself before i came in just in case
05:00they
05:00were you can protect yourself by blocking yourself yeah but it doesn't always work
05:03i don't want to be around but i don't want to be around it it's intense but i love it
05:22hi hello mateo your name please elaine pleasure to meet you elaine nice to meet you too you look lovely
05:27thank you some people they probably think i'm a bit crazy when they first meet me like hello hi
05:33but i think a good kind of crazy but i don't know i just want someone who even if they're
05:40not into
05:40the same i'm into just be like there's my crazy bitch do you know what i mean like and support
05:45me
05:45being a crazy bitch do you know that way i love to moon bed it's literally i'm sitting at my
05:51back
05:51in my pajamas with blankets on me and i'm watching i'm under the moon you know instead of the sun
05:56i love
05:57um sea swims and hiking i love um i do a bit of volunteer work we're adults that live alone
06:04with
06:04special needs and intellectual disability so i help them like clean and organize their houses i do bring
06:09them to get their haircuts do their shopping now and all that's my mates like yeah actually it's very
06:14fun to you neil one of my guys really yeah he fancied you really i'm flattered so you have to
06:20get a
06:20picture with me later absolutely let's do it now yeah come on let's go okay there you go good
06:28for geez you're stunning on the camera wow thank you yeah let's hear that oh yes my man be happy
06:36with
06:36this definitely for mama mama look at me
06:45are you a picture of the food kind of lad and puts it on a story nah not my story
06:50i just take it
06:50for memories and stuff like or sometimes for memories yeah but like oh that was some steak no no no
06:56it's
06:57because it was like that was the steak i ate when i met it's the memory of the time describe
07:03your ideal
07:04woman people are going to kill me for this but kim kardashian i'm sorry when i was like 15 16
07:12i had
07:12a huge crush on her like you just haven't grown out of that yet nah i don't think i ever
07:16will either
07:16like i think she's fantastic i'm having things like late 2020 how about yourself i've been single for
07:21like two and a half ish years like i've been in a few situationships now oh we've all been there
07:27unfortunately how do you find being single it's rough out there it is rough out there
07:34do you have like blonde hair hair yeah oh nice it looks cool i like that thank you i just
07:39got it done
07:40thank you for noticing you're welcome can i have a chip of course you can oh my god there was
07:45a lad a
07:45couple of weeks ago i was on a night out he comes over and he just does this he like
07:50tops my arm
07:52and says follow me what type of stuff what type of stuff you into like what like that's a crazy
07:57question to ask so early on no no no no no no no no no no no i don't mean
08:02like that like i mean like
08:04your hobbies and stuff you're so funny man oh my god
08:13how long are you single eight years and i do feel like only now i'm ready for something do you
08:19know what
08:21time to go back out there fair pleasure i'm searching for my twin flame we complete each other i believe
08:27my angels are gonna hook me up darren has his sights set on the perfect woman and he's aiming high
08:39i'm wishing on a star bruna nice eyes nice friendly smile good personality good conversation
08:53like a latino goddess something like that we may as well shoot for the stars we might land on the
09:02moon
09:02like
09:02now welcome
09:10dobro večer prijatelje štai ima kakosy dobro sam go we go spodine go be into croatia a few
09:16toys i did you have holidays picked up a little few holidays yeah always that cool he's here oh it's
09:22easy
09:22huh you got swag he's got swag he's got swag do your date is at the bar show enjoy it
09:27my minute here we go now
09:31hello hello nice to meet you i'm elaine nice to meet you darren nice to meet you how are you
09:36good good
09:37good all good all good so where'd you come from today uh donna be oh yeah myself italic okay nice
09:45how long are you single jesus straight in there yeah it's only because he just asked me so i was
09:52it's just in my mind two years two years and career have you any kids i do yeah two two
09:58yeah boy and
09:59a girl jamie 24 and 19. ah no minding them yeah yourself just uh one job she's 12. i haven't
10:08had
10:08many dates like most dates have been on but now a girl for a while before i initiated any sort
10:14of
10:14romantic gesture what do you do yourself i'm an energy heater like a reiki and all that sort of
10:22stuff yeah what do you get off my energy i got a nice calm energy off you yeah yeah i'll
10:28take that
10:29i can be quite a force i like to absorb everything that's going on around me but once you get
10:35to know
10:36me i'm not quite and you're going to do starters or desserts or this is there perfect yeah you can
10:42get
10:42the heart if you want to have to have it don't you have to have it iconic i have to
10:47get one of them
10:47they smash it yeah let's see if you can heal it
10:57as she navigates the sea of love sarah is wary of ships that pass in the night
11:06he'll come again i swear to god the heartbreak of a situation ship is nearly worse than an actual
11:12relationship it's so bad and shaking me up you feel like you're in a relationship you're committed
11:19to that person but i just don't think the lads see it that way nobody wants to settle down like
11:25everyone just wants to mess around and i'm just not here for it how are you how are you i'm
11:32kind of hoping you might be able to find me a decent lad at least i am out of my
11:37comfort zone but
11:38sure look it is what it is they get you to the bar yeah that'd be great yeah
11:45i'm from a very small village in wicklow it's kind of the back arse of nowhere to be honest
11:51i would kind of like a bit of a culture maybe i agree spec kind of man i wouldn't mind
11:56a farmer now
11:56i'm a fan of a man in wellies and just someone that's sound out like yeah i kind of like
12:01taking
12:02the piss out of people so i'd like them to take the piss out of me yeah yeah yeah definitely
12:07like
12:07a ga lad as well i'd love to be a little like wag supporting on the sidelines looks the cows
12:13during
12:13the day and then plays guys one day maybe even today peter will find a match to match the match
12:29of all matches 20 12 i must have been seven or eight father was almost in tears whenever he was
12:35watching jimmy's running my chest it means so much to donna gall people they say in claire brian
12:44lohan is their god jim mcginnis is our messiah bringing sound back to donna gall my girl
12:55well first things a good one man yourself what's your name peter nice to meet you peter where you
13:00from donna gall the best thing about donna gall obviously the running all team the people the
13:08firemen the seeds let's do some dating why not let's get started football special oh my god football
13:16special too how did i forget that hi how are you hi how's things how are you how's things how
13:23are you
13:23how's things how are you peter nice to meet you peter ah lovely to meet you too where are you
13:28from donna gall
13:29oh yeah that's kind of unfortunate for you too isn't it football wise oh don't get me started
13:50what are you in the mood for
13:55cocktail go on do you like a negroni surprise me why not what even is a negroni yeah it's strong
14:02now
14:02do you like your strong cocktails ah he'll have a strong one all right yeah see there you go you
14:07got a strong one you need a strong cocktail yeah you need to catch up here you know
14:16so last year i spent a whole year dating to date i wasn't dating for an outcome i wasn't dating
14:22to
14:22find the husband to find a boyfriend to do any of this i think when you put that pressure on
14:26yourself
14:27yourself and the universe there's a lot of pressure to put on someone you just start talking for the
14:30first time in my opinion it's a stranger i just love to know that somebody has their own life because
14:34i am a busy girl the nine to five has never worked for me i'm more of a like i'll
14:38work on a saturday and a
14:39sunday and a monday and i might take tuesday off for myself my work we start on wednesday because
14:43i work nice so tomorrow morning i'm going to go gym i want to chill out i'm going to go
14:47to sleep
14:47before work next morning i'm going to gym after you know like you just i like i just like routine
14:51like i know what i'm going to do for the week like you kind of have to yeah so where
14:55do you have time
14:56in your life for a woman then i can make time if there if it's for the right woman i
15:00can make time
15:04have you ever dated anyone with kids or anything like that no do you have kids no do you i
15:12have
15:12three wow two girls and one boy what age are they ten seven she's gonna be eight actually oh my
15:23little
15:23my little boy he's only five oh yeah yeah so do you co-parent oh yeah yeah like we get
15:29on really well
15:29like she's such a good mother like so obviously i have a lot to live up to like they are
15:33very good
15:34their mom does a very good job with them that's it's great like except for maybe like when you have
15:39to shower them their hair i don't do a really good job with their hair when a mom does it
15:43just perfect
15:44and i just i just can't get it like and i've tried my i honestly try my best i've been
15:49singing like what
15:49four years now going five years like no one's ever met my kids like i don't i wouldn't feel
15:53comfortable interested in my kids to anyone unless like unless they were so right yeah but they
15:58obviously dating can be difficult like for example if i see like i'm into someone and stuff obviously
16:02i let them know like because kids are like a big part of my life i'm not gonna you're quite
16:06young
16:06having kids i was like 20 21 21 my first year in college so i had my childhood yeah yeah
16:13i moved out when i was 16. oh you had you had a baby and all so you had to
16:17like you've got your own
16:18face did you yeah just an apartment yeah yeah i'd say that was a shock to the system two 16
16:23year olds i don't know
16:24it all just walked out that way to the day jamie's born and he got handed to me yeah something
16:31just
16:32switched like so i literally became a man at 16.
16:40yeah i don't like it involved too much for me do you mind cleaning up no i have ocd so
16:47i don't clean
16:47so yeah i have ocd adhd i have autism i have ecolia i only got diagnosed in 22. i thought
16:58it would be
16:58life-changing but it kind of made my whole life make sense you like that like big crowds and stuff
17:05you need to teach you a bit yeah yeah yeah yeah just a pub full of people i can hear
17:09like every
17:10conversation going on yeah some people say why don't you go and i'm like it's just kind of
17:14over anymore it's too overwhelmingly yeah i very rarely go out so it's very hard to meet someone
17:19have we ever been on a blind date like this same i was at a blind deb's
17:26my friend ral rang and he was like my friends for us after breaking off on the deb's is tonight
17:29will you
17:30come and i was like all right okay i was actually just that he spent the whole night crying trying
17:34to come back with his ex oh lovely yeah but i still had a great night
17:45get down to you know will you don't you rush me in this my house was like mad this morning
17:52just
17:53for everyone trying to help me like figure out what to wear oh it was so bad how many is
17:58in your
17:58family six six children yeah wow what are you are you the oldest oh you're the youngest oh my siblings
18:06and be like jesus like when you're going to find a fella and like i just to be honest i
18:11don't know
18:11when is a fella going to find me really like that's the thing i'm not so bad i'm an only
18:16child so
18:17to get the farm all to yourself that's stressful though twice the work yeah we have to do all the
18:23chores all the farm work you're at the hard labors yeah so is it just sheep you do or is
18:29it like
18:29sheep and sheep and cattle and like are you in a like town or a village i'm in a village
18:36called
18:39call
18:42call call what m u f f
18:49moff
18:50moff
18:52moff
18:52moff
18:53moff
18:54moff
18:55moff
18:55moff
18:55moff
18:56moff
18:58how is that like real like how is that moff
19:02moff
19:03i i i was i was just kind of cutting how many times you would say moff five times
19:07did you actually count it
19:17david is all set to be the life and soul of the party he just loves a big do
19:24oh oh oh woke up today most of my teenage life has been spent in the pursuit of hair volume
19:34i used to beg my mom to let me start my hair on my own i used to fry my
19:39hair used to watch it
19:39sizzle i got my hairspray and radio i'm ready to go man you're on the mission huh i am i
19:48feel like
19:48i've been fired out for canon your brother vibrate you're cool man
19:55you look good thank you it's very 80s i love it yeah funky this isn't a look this is a
19:59moment
20:00once i have a good hair day that's just you know i can i feel like i can take on
20:04the world
20:06and what are you looking for mostly a good time okay yeah good and if they like me that's
20:11only a bonus well they'll have to like i mean how can you not like this this is class some
20:14people
20:14do find my personality a bit intimidating well then they're not for you
20:18that's the thing you know i'm not willing to tame myself for anybody and nobody ever should
20:28carl has learned how to make quality connections by transmitting on his own unique frequency
20:37i grew up with being labeled oh you're the weird kids
20:41but then i found more people who were like on my wavelength
20:48as we got older we realized a lot of people might not like you but that's okay
20:56find friends who do and stick with them instead
21:05i know it's tricky i knew i'd overthink the door it doesn't matter perfection is boring you know
21:09i usually do like someone that's like really goofy and laid back and has kind of a more unique vibe
21:15this
21:15walk here it's like what's happening i was just walking down being like okay all i have to do is
21:21just open the
21:21door and then i pulled the wrong door and you know what i've already made that mistake so now if
21:27anything else happens it's fine worst comes to worst this is like a great tinder bio as featured on
21:34hi darling how are you davis nice to meet you nice to meet you how are you doing i'm well
21:40nervous yeah listen i don't bite so you're safe by me
21:45i love your hair thank you very much hi how are you oh look at this
21:49i mean your hair's gorgeous to be fair
21:56i think you have to be very happy in yourself and satisfied with yourself before you get involved
21:59with other people it's true you have to set boundaries with people as well she said boundaries
22:03yeah you have to set boundaries we love the boundaries that in king
22:07they definitely did in like past relationships allow someone to overstep my boundaries a lot and i
22:12became like this little insecure shell of myself that wasn't me i'll never let myself go back to being
22:19that girl again i've done loads of therapy i've done loads of like so i was going to talk to
22:24someone though it's really important to talk to somebody i mean i've never had a therapy session
22:27in my life really never i think absolutely everybody can benefit from therapy i think your
22:31mental health is like the most important thing i was never brought up to like deal with emotion and
22:36things like that like i remember my dad he he actually passed away in 2020 i didn't tell my ex
22:41in time when he passed away i didn't tell her for a couple of weeks he used to live in
22:46england so we
22:46had to bring the body back so by the time everything was sorted obviously i said it to her then
22:50like
22:50but i do believe a man does have to be strong but i should be able to open up at
22:55the same time
22:56but yeah i'm a little yeah i'm a little more in touch with my emotions now anyway i feel like
23:00i need
23:01someone to bring to like take me out my comfort zone i love people who are just very out there
23:04chatty
23:05because just to bring they're bringing out another side of you as well as much as i am secure and
23:11happy
23:11single there's other times where you're just like when am i gonna meet my person i'm ready like
23:18do you want my chips i don't want to finish my chips of course you can you can have it
23:23bro it's a
23:23challenge it's all good did you call me bro no no i said you can have it though oh that
23:30you're like
23:30you have bro maybe i did am i your bro maybe i did no no but it's just it's that's
23:38the way i talk to
23:39literally everyone uh it's like it's just rolls out of my tongue all the time but no you're not my
23:43bro
23:46you're i'm you're a nice person you're a nice girl thank you nice girl thank you i appreciate that
23:56i was very pleased when i saw you like and obviously you're a very chatty person like yeah
24:00it's actually been great like no honestly i've had a good time cheers
24:08she'll be my type yeah she's pretty she's a good energy about her cool we're off to a flyer then
24:14so
24:14it's a love to hear so far so good yeah he's a really nice guy and he's really hot like
24:20the
24:21conversation has flown yeah it's flown but i don't know i feel like i am kind of initiating the
24:29conversation a lot more like it's early days it's early days oh jill listen he goes what you do and
24:35i said an energy healer he goes we'll get the heart and we'll smash it and see if you can
24:39put it back
24:40together because you're a healer what will you do if the spirits try to contact you during the date i
24:46will chat with them and before i go in and i'll say listen no to chat but if i go
24:51to the toilet
24:52you can pass on a message then i could get messages for someone three tables away so if i hear
24:57someone
24:58saying their name if i go in and someone says oh hi sir and i'd be like that's the server
25:04the messages
25:04for so i'll say here listen by the way i was in the toilet and mary says your chain is
25:09under your pillow
25:10do you know what i mean now we have two wines oh yeah perfect thank you so much one for
25:18the lady oh
25:18you're very good thank you and one for the gentleman thank you very much thank you you look lovely in
25:24the yellow thank you you're welcome i actually do yeah thank you well i know if you fancy your date
25:31if i'm kind of i'd go on smiling say it could be a bit awkward as well that's that's definitely
25:36another one
25:45now that's why do you have to hold it like this to you if i was trying to flirt like
25:52i'm just going
25:52up and taking the piss out with someone really my hands are that delicate you know they're not that big
25:57like you don't need to grasp the glass my friends say my hands are like sandpaper like the feel of
26:02it
26:02just sandpaper your hands aren't even that big like are they like sandpaper like that like they're not
26:09that bad i'm doing that thing i like to stop it right now
26:17i'm shit awkward i'm locked as intolerance so far ibs girlies rise up i'm not allergic i think i'm just
26:25such a picky or chicken nuggets chips maybe beans my family's polish and i go there polish food is so
26:30like
26:31oh it's just it's like cold chicken inside like gelatin like it's all like communist era 1980s like
26:37i like the 80s but that was like poland was not good so i don't know if somebody doesn't get
26:43my sense
26:43of humor which can be very dry and very sarcastic we are dead in the water i love bantering with
26:47people
26:47that's like my love language oh i'm a yapper pro yapper i love your accent by the way where are
26:51you from
26:52uh baliwon really yeah where are you from plundalkan oh fair enough opposite ends of the 13 rest in peace
26:58the 13
26:58scene i'm proud of where i'm from i hate when people kind of have like a lesser down mentality
27:04i went to college and you see when people were like oh i live in a student accommodation while
27:08i'm on it's such a dive and i'm like oh i'm from there like oh oh you went to college
27:12good for you
27:12and i'm like okay wow so i worked in a student union for a year that's fun though that was
27:17so fun my
27:18favorite thing was planning freshers and booking jedward did you get to meet them they're so nice
27:23yeah in the first five minutes of being on stage doesn't one of them just like do a bit of
27:27a jump
27:27across the stage and man on his ankle oh they said grand and got back up anyways i used to
27:33be a
27:33competitive dancer and i did that same mistake i landed like i sprained my ankle on stage i sat out
27:39for a
27:39month covid came around by the time i healed and i just never went back to it oh go back
27:43to it i hate
27:44dancing well i'm a theater kid but i don't like dancing i am quite outgoing and quite loud even like
27:49i very
27:50much fit to build my friends and being like annoying to your kids what's your opinion on
27:53dinosaurs i went to a dinosaur phase i used to pretend i was a dinosaur and like bite my friends
27:58i feel
27:58like i need to see you do your best impression of a dinosaur i'd be like i want someone that
28:03if i was
28:04like on an iowa on the way to the bus stop we will start a really annoying sing song down
28:08the road
28:08my friend in scotland got a noise complaint because i was screaming like a version of my madonna while
28:14walking down the street to her apartment after a night out that's just that's how i roll i can't sing
28:18for
28:18life for me to be fair it seems like you're the dancer and i'm the singer so we make one
28:21good
28:22theater performance i think so yeah we can do this he's lovely he's from waterford go on monster
28:31and are you finished eating yeah i'm done i think she's someone to chip so i'm not 100 sure i'll
28:36know i just leave that there for her a few months yeah yeah and i'll come back in a bit
28:39thank you very
28:40much not at all did you pull four chips on my plate when i was gone i thought you i
28:48don't want to have
28:49it like you can have it i don't mind that was really sweet that you did that when i was
28:52gone
28:52welcome thanks yay
29:02you going away this year or have you been away
29:05i haven't been away this year no i was away last year i was in morocco oh so was i
29:11i went
29:12actually went in october i went on my own first time going away on my own ever i've been away
29:15on
29:15my own a couple of times yeah enjoy it what's most important to you in a partner i suppose someone
29:22who doesn't mind talking about their feelings and communicating have everything on the table basically
29:26what's your work and i work in my supermarket all right for the study and acting in gaiety
29:34now i'm doing a part time okay for the last year i've been focusing on myself and building myself up
29:41kind of had a big life event last year that kind of just put everything into perspective
29:45your father passed away heart attack
29:48what's your heart attack 65 oh very unexpected for you yeah totally unexpected yeah
29:57it was hard to digest for a while i thought it was kind of going to derail me but it
30:03just drove me to
30:04pursue things that i've wanted to pursue i remember doing speech and drama at school yeah i've always
30:10wanted to try the acting never had the confidence to go for it done a bit of salt searching and
30:15went back
30:15and it was just like something just clicked in my head it was like he left all his strength with
30:21me so
30:21he'd go over to him to just put myself out there now and go for teams so you must have
30:26been real
30:27already coming on this if you're used to kind of acting now no it's different like when you have a
30:31like you have a script and stuff you know what i do yeah yeah because this is real yeah yeah
30:35yeah you just
30:36have to wing it yeah it's so far so good yeah so much did you ask for yeah brown eyes
30:43brown hair
30:44nice teeth good personality hope for a bit of crack yeah the crack has the most doesn't it
30:54and do this no do you want some no i'm really i'm really liking this oh okay
30:58because it ate all your chips i don't mind you can
31:02however you are easy now
31:06i had a really good time there tasha was really good looking
31:10so you didn't stop that challenge literally the whole way to the day it was really nice like
31:13that's way too much strawberry for me bro you don't like sweet things i do like sweet things
31:18i'm here with you look i don't like sweet things
31:22damn it you took my line right from under me
31:26would you like to see each other again yeah he's lovely for sure i think we've a lot more to
31:32talk
31:32about oh thank you i do i think so oh that's good well i don't i'm joking i'm joking i'm
31:38joking
31:39no i definitely would like to see you again yeah thank you his dress is really thank you
31:46that was great fun he's so so sweet i really like his
31:50mindset i think like he's very mature and super kind person
31:57conversation's slow now i think yeah you just match away and i do it
32:04you're an interesting conversationalist oh thank you but you can't say about all men
32:08oh wow oh cute
32:34it's actually going really well he is a farmer yeah he has his own farm and all yeah
32:43this man you are going to love and we are going to bring to the george how's it going so
32:47far god
32:48really good we actually have a lot in common oh that's great i've been single basically my entire
32:53life i would like to go out there a bit more but just i struggle kind of doing that and
32:58would you
32:58have a typical type just kind of somebody who can handle me honestly and do you think he could i
33:03think he could oh yeah sometimes when i have interest in somebody or somebody shows interest in me
33:08i kind of freak out and i'm like oh my god oh my god like i can't do this i
33:11can't do this and it's
33:11kind of like shut the door off completely we have been having good chats um i did ask him to
33:16do an
33:16impression of a dinosaur and you did it i've actually never been in a relationship i definitely
33:23do have like weird commitment-y issues there's been times where like i've really got on with
33:28someone but like i start thinking like long term and start like listing off the variables and like
33:32if i can see in the next like two years an issue forming i'm just going to avoid it i'm
33:38definitely
33:38getting more of like friendship vibes because i don't think we're flirting yet i am going to go in
33:45some mentality of i'm just going to go for it i want the experiences and i want to have someone
33:50to just do dumb shit with oh thank you i'm sure did you even come to the restaurant if you
33:56didn't
33:56have chocolate heart you know thank you you're very welcome enjoy it oh so cute crack it and then she
34:04on the hill it looks so cute ah it's not hard it's soft
34:20it's okay thank you now i am very upset
34:27because in my head this tastes it's different comparison is the key for joy
34:38what's that supposed to be what is that i don't know what
34:44oh i think it's a sweet potato one i don't like sweet potato and me working with potatoes at my
34:50job too
34:50i'm doing it specializing yeah jesus you're flat open aren't you i'm more or less busy
34:5924 7 between firemen playing my football playing my hurling a lot of fatigue kind of kicks in with
35:06that as well like i did struggle with mental health you can imagine the stress the anxiety
35:13everything that goes on in your head it did take a step back and like having an outside life and
35:20kind of those friendships can help with mental health that's what i kind of learned from that experience
35:30oh what that is strong i have to say is that do you not like it
35:36i do no you don't because you would have had it gone by now if you did if i had
35:41that gone i wouldn't
35:42have finished my meal is it really strong test it
35:51i don't want to go like what is this i'll take it you don't like that you don't
36:07you should have brought it to the bathroom with you and just pour it through the toilet
36:16i think this piece is too fancy for me we should be in a dive bar realistically
36:20it's not the most it rockets my beloved although i am i have beef with the milkshakes
36:24they've gotten smaller as the years went down i wouldn't know that i'm not about that way
36:29i'm so sorry i feel like if i ate that i would have like something's exploding yeah something i have
36:37more volume in my hair than ever i would just stand straight up like jedwars i probably would take that
36:42anyway to the average person sure i don't think i'm too far off to be honest as well it's good
36:46to have
36:46individuality i feel like when you look a bit out of the ordinary people kind of give you like
36:50a double take i'm used to stairs i spent a lot of time trying to fit in and have people
36:56being like
36:57oh you read books that's so wild why aren't you playing football and then they play football and
37:01they'd be like oh you're bad at football school was weird definitely it taught me that people can be
37:08very close-minded but it also taught me that finding finding your people is so important
37:15i was always raised to be a bit of a tough cookie i remember one time this is really nasty
37:20but um
37:20somebody took their semen to put it bluntly and spread like put it all over my locker
37:30i found out who did it so what i did i went to the butchers the next day i got
37:34a lamb's heart
37:35and i put it all over their locker and i was like if you're gonna do this i'm gonna do
37:38this so
37:39don't mess with me people in my school speculated for years whether or not i was trans i didn't
37:44deny it because i'm like would it be so bad if i was no it wouldn't but then again i
37:48don't want
37:49you an explanation i hate when people are so locked into the idea that they need to know something about
37:54you i know i played into it they're like what's going on underneath there and i'm like come and have
37:58a look at my vagina you know that was me in the changing room i just kind of laughed at
38:02all it isn't
38:03nice but that's you know that's how life is some people are not gonna be nice and you just have
38:06to
38:06learn how to deal with it like who cares what anybody else thinks yeah actually cheers i know this is
38:13like way too late but cheers sláinte sláinte the vibes are vibing it's such a good yap when two yappers
38:22collide watch out you're not gonna eat your your flower it's not edible is it yeah i have hay food
38:34you're
38:35not allergic if you eat them i'm not gonna start sneezing now you know my eyes swell up
38:43it's all they were called better heal me yeah what went through your mind when you saw your date
38:50uh it was a bit overwhelmed with the whole situation just everything just calmed down
38:58it's after flying in all the same isn't it it went fast it feels like running sitting down for about
39:0310 minutes didn't it that's good sign isn't it it is a good sign she had a nice energy about
39:07her we
39:08we were vibing it's definitely more to explore thank you thank you i'll get it no can we not go
39:15dutch no
39:17please please well thank you very much get me back one time maybe
39:25would you guys like to see each other romantically again
39:29you go first okay i'd usually say ladies first but yeah i'll go first yeah i would yeah
39:35um for me i think you're a really lovely guy and your sound which was just no spark for me
39:46okay that's all right that's okay you're you're cool you're dead kill yeah we'll take that yeah
39:54see you later bye bye
39:57see you you're hot and all like do you know don't get me wrong and your sound just the spark
40:02was missing
40:03let's go i would love to see you again be mates and maybe to give you a healing yeah you
40:09can give me
40:10a healing if you want yeah it might take you a long time
40:17is there anything you would have done differently maybe have hearts that smashed
40:31it's working down yeah yeah what if we just staged a really dramatic fight oh my god we showed
40:37like you're dragging my hair out pulling it across the room one of the staff members comes over next
40:41we pretend we're just having a massive argument i think so too what's it what's the argument over
40:46though what are we fighting over chaplarone is overrated
40:52oh that had a string didn't it i'm sorry everything she did is what lady gaga did 16 years ago
40:58it's
40:58like art pop leftovers we'd like chaplarone
41:03wow another glass of wine and a vodka white thank you so much
41:09we're currently having a mini argument over oh really he thinks that chaplarone is overrated lady gaga
41:15i want to be i don't think that she's like a guy i want to be i'm suddenly you definitely
41:20can't
41:20settle this but um no no it's not going to be settled but it's fine well it's good that you
41:24can
41:24have it out we're agreeing to disagree and that's good even though you're in the wrong we're agreeing to
41:29disagree do you think so in polish we have a little saying called tema which basically means
41:37it's a topic that flows like a river there is no end to it could i partake in stealing a
41:42small bit of
41:42course go ahead oh thanks darling should i just lift it across like
41:45oh that's close it's very deep feeling it you can only share with um certain people so how would
41:55you die in a 80s horror film i'd flirt with the killer i would try to like get by them
41:59by flirting with
42:00them and they would just like probably chop my head off oh that's cute i've spent so long even
42:07growing up trying to like plan a future but the one variable you can plan for is love i guess
42:12if i
42:12have to choose a way to go shark attack i'd love a shark attack that'd be funny right now i
42:18can't plan
42:18for that part of my future if i find someone i can start to plan it i definitely have all
42:25of like the
42:26love to give i actually hope that when i'm dead somebody either stuffs me and puts me in their living
42:30room or chops my head off and mounts on a wall like a deer but i've always said it would
42:35be extremely
42:36funny if i get cremated and that's mixed into paint and it's a portrait of me but like not even
42:42like
42:42a nice like casual portrait like full creepy like me and my dog in like a suit just like staring
42:47and
42:48like it needs to be left in the attic for at least 50 years i would like to be a
42:53ghost yeah
43:04my granddad he would have been a farmer now so like yes and then my father never really like
43:10like he'd help them out but like he never really got into the farming yeah like i wouldn't live on
43:14a farm or anything i wouldn't mind it though farmer's wife i wouldn't mind it what's the biggest
43:23misconception peter do you think people have about you i suppose that i'm just kind of stuck with the
43:28one straight path in life i went to italy so did rome a couple weeks ago did you don't betray
43:34me
43:34fighting too through coin in what's that mean administration is you throw one coin in so you
43:39have to throw it from your right hand over your shoulder okay that means you'll come back to rome
43:42two coins that means you'll find love really and the third one is you'll get married i should look
43:51maybe we'll go back together will we definitely some people do leave the country and never come
43:56back that's what i kind of don't want i want to kind of go out and explore and definitely come
44:02back
44:02i probably want someone just to do those things with as well you know see we go over to scotland
44:08because my mum's scottish you see never been over in scotland come over you can come over experience the
44:14highlands oh that's a really nice place yeah we'll go there will we i'll take you over i'll make it
44:21work
44:23cheers to us cheers to us
44:30now i'm just gonna pop this down okay let you know that uh we'll need the table back in about
44:3510 minutes okay perfect thank you
44:39so what 10 minutes left what are we gonna do with it
44:43make the list to it what went through your head when you saw your date for the very first time
44:49i thought that he looked like somebody that i would get along with it's my friend's birthday today
44:54can we send her a voice now singing happy birthday of course as the date went on just jowls perfectly
45:00happy birthday dear hey happy birthday to you i love you we're having such a great chat it was like
45:08we were in a kebab shop at 4am you know the club bathroom chats yeah i feel like that's pretty
45:14much
45:14the vibe which i think is a very good vibe to have
45:19would you like to see each other again romantically yeah sadly i don't think romantically okay right now
45:27i would 110 love to see you again just like hang out like literally and then from then on obviously
45:34see where it goes yeah i'd be happy to see where it goes a pleasure to have you thank you
45:38bye-bye thank you
45:52i think you know people come into your life for a reason if i just make a really good friend
45:58i make a
45:58really good friend i think we need to go on a night out and be the most insufferable people in
46:04the
46:04smoking area absolutely terrorize everyone i agree yeah dublin's not ready hey sure
46:21i don't know you know huh i don't well i wouldn't have finished that i'd be more of like a
46:27basic
46:27beach when it comes to those things so i'm quite basic as well well we just can't point your rock
46:32shore snyder like rock shore snyder like how to kind chat away how to do it's like go somewhere
46:37for drinks before you have to get the bus back facts i thought he ticked all the boxes on you
46:43jeez and sladzies couldn't have done any better to me i'll get it no you will not i will no
46:49don't let
46:49this turn into my father ted episode now mrs doyle now friend i might be up in dunygal shearing sheep
46:55yeah you never know i'll revolute you later right would you like to see each other again romantically
47:03i'd say yes definitely i would too i would say yeah too yeah yeah i'll have to get your number
47:11so i can
47:11revolute that's not gonna be a problem that's not gonna be a problem you fancy her yeah i do
47:22once i came in her looks were just class her bubbly bubbly personality too like
47:28preparing a few trips too like scotland belfast donegal wicklow rome was another one too that's
47:34right oh there could be more added to the list really might take you up to a championship match
47:40i can imagine you on the sideline just cheering me on what are you doing keep on going
47:47see at the wedding there'll be three balls of football special to everyone
48:05we can crash a pub quiz crash a team that we don't know on the pub quiz and make sure
48:10they lose yeah
48:21how'd a good time a great time people who live in monster are great so yeah that's actually very true
48:39i would love to give you a healing i'm down for that yeah i have to see a vote of
48:44that
48:53could this be the magic
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