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00:00:00Previous season, before 90 days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:46Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:25If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38That she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken right now.
00:01:45I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:52I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:01But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:07I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:11Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:18She's a psycho.
00:02:20Good luck.
00:02:22You're up?
00:02:23Yeah.
00:02:24Are you in a cake?
00:02:25So cute.
00:02:26You run to her after this, right?
00:02:28Asshole.
00:02:30I feel like I was falling in love though.
00:02:32But that I'm done.
00:02:55Go to the gym?
00:02:56No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:58Rough night.
00:02:59Another one?
00:03:00Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:03She went off yelling, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:06How many people were there?
00:03:08Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:09Oh, f*** off.
00:03:10She stands up and she's like,
00:03:11how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:17I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:19Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:22I just don't know what to do.
00:03:24I'm confused.
00:03:30It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:32It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:33Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:38This morning I'm really deflated.
00:03:40There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:45I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:48Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:51That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:03:57I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:03:59It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:01So, it's a lot to think about.
00:04:06I'm hurting.
00:04:09I'm just angry, angry.
00:04:13Hey.
00:04:15Elise.
00:04:16How are you?
00:04:20I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:25I couldn't sleep and I just am embarrassed.
00:04:29I should not have acted that way.
00:04:38Is that a, is that a sorry or is that?
00:04:40I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:42I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:44Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:49Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:53I don't like embarrassment or personal coming up.
00:04:56I acted cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:00I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:04The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions
00:05:08for me.
00:05:08And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:12And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:22That should never happen once.
00:05:26There's going to be a common occurrence.
00:05:28that.
00:05:30You know, I'm out.
00:05:38Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:46Are we still going to go to the zoo?
00:05:53Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:54I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:02I would understand if you don't want to take me.
00:06:04I, I.
00:06:05Whatever.
00:06:06We can go to the zoo.
00:06:10I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:12For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:16But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me
00:06:20or he really likes her, but I think it was a massive overreaction, couldn't have been
00:06:25worse really.
00:06:26And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the
00:06:30relationship.
00:06:32I'm going to get ready.
00:06:34Can I have a hug?
00:06:36Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:43I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:48I'm sorry.
00:06:50Yeah.
00:06:53But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:58My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:03Well, good luck with that.
00:07:05My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:08And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:12really am, I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:22Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:25Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:27Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:29Uh, yes.
00:07:29I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:32100%, yeah.
00:07:32Hi!
00:07:34Hi!
00:07:35Her name is Kamira.
00:07:36Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:38She is very cute.
00:07:39Can I touch her?
00:07:40We can't touch her here.
00:07:42We are completely hands off.
00:07:43She does like people a lot.
00:07:45Hi!
00:07:46Oh, really?
00:07:47Hi!
00:07:49She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:50He is like a little teddy.
00:07:52Most people probably think we're animals in Australia.
00:07:55They think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:07:57We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:00Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:02Fun fact.
00:08:03I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:07Really?
00:08:08Yes.
00:08:10Thank you so much.
00:08:12Thank you so much.
00:08:12It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:13Anytime.
00:08:14Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:15See ya.
00:08:17Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:19We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:22We can.
00:08:24I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time,
00:08:26but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo
00:08:28with, you know, everything that went on last night.
00:08:39So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:44Is it gonna be, like, just kind of quiet?
00:08:46Or are we okay?
00:08:48Or, like, I'm trying to just, I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:08:54I don't know what to do.
00:08:58I told you, like, I told you, like, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how
00:09:02much you mean to me.
00:09:03And then, what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:09That was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last
00:09:15night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:19And I'm sorry.
00:09:49All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:50I'm trying to meditate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:57I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:03and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions, and I think just...
00:10:07I mean, you got answers, you got answers, and you're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:20I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:22I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:24It will not happen again.
00:10:31No, I appreciate that.
00:10:33Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:39I'm not very confident.
00:10:42See how convincing you are.
00:10:45I'm sorry.
00:10:47When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing, and it scares
00:10:53me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:57Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:59Can we feed them?
00:11:00We can, yeah.
00:11:01I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh, and that's not fair to
00:11:07him.
00:11:08You are so cute.
00:11:11I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and not throw this all away for
00:11:17one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:21But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:37Nevermind, let me call it.
00:11:39Come over.
00:11:40Come over.
00:11:40Join me now.
00:11:40Just come over.
00:11:42Come over.
00:11:48Please be right.
00:11:49Be right.
00:11:49I don't know.
00:12:18Earlier today, I met with Laura's friend, best friend, Michael.
00:12:26I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:29She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move, and she made the move.
00:12:39I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura right now.
00:12:44I see that she is the one who wanted to be more than friends.
00:12:51How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:12:55Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:01Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:05Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:08Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:10Maybe it's all a lie.
00:13:16Hey, baby.
00:13:18Hey.
00:13:19How was your day?
00:13:20Perfect.
00:13:21Was it okay?
00:13:23Yeah.
00:13:23I'm curious.
00:13:24I enjoyed it.
00:13:27Did you really?
00:13:29Yeah.
00:13:29He's a good guy.
00:13:32I've been saying that.
00:13:34That's a relief to hear.
00:13:36He's a good guy.
00:13:38But it turns out, you are not so good.
00:13:46Why?
00:13:47What did I do?
00:13:51He told me that you made a move on him.
00:14:02There is one person.
00:14:04I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:09That one person was your best friend.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:13That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:17I didn't say anything because it was like literally nothing to tell.
00:14:26I didn't make you think that.
00:14:28You thought that all on your own.
00:14:33It was almost a year ago.
00:14:36I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:39It is a little thing.
00:14:40Are you sure?
00:14:41It is a little thing.
00:14:42It is not a little thing.
00:14:43It's 100% a little thing.
00:14:44It was one tiny little thing.
00:14:46We got drunk.
00:14:47We were on the couch.
00:14:48I tried to kiss him.
00:14:50Big deal.
00:14:53One night, almost a full year into our friendship,
00:14:57and before I met BeerCon,
00:14:59Michael and I were watching TV,
00:15:01and we both had a pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:04Pretty soon, we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch,
00:15:08and I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:12He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:15Although it was really hurtful in the moment,
00:15:18Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:20It's not something that ever came up again,
00:15:22and I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael
00:15:27because I knew if I did,
00:15:29he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:36I don't trust you.
00:15:40This is your obligation to tell me your path.
00:15:45You tried to kiss me, okay?
00:15:48Yeah, I did.
00:15:48That means you had feelings for her.
00:15:52You wanted something.
00:15:54They couldn't have it.
00:15:56Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:15:59He's still in your life,
00:16:01and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:03Nothing happened.
00:16:05And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:08It doesn't matter.
00:16:10You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:15What would you like me to say?
00:16:17Maybe you were like, sorry.
00:16:21I was drunk.
00:16:22I tried to kiss him,
00:16:23but he refused me,
00:16:25but we are still friends.
00:16:30That was hard?
00:16:31No.
00:16:32You didn't want it to say.
00:16:37I'm trying to change my country.
00:16:39I'm trying to make plans for us,
00:16:41for our future.
00:16:42Now I'm thinking about maybe I shouldn't.
00:16:50This is so ridiculous.
00:16:56I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:02I don't think that it's that big of a deal
00:17:04that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:06I mean, let's be real.
00:17:08He's kept a lot of secrets from me,
00:17:10and I'm still here.
00:17:12That pisses me off.
00:17:16You're missing all the points.
00:17:18I suspected something is going on
00:17:21between you and Michael.
00:17:22Nothing is going on.
00:17:23Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:26Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:31No.
00:17:34Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:17:37Or just don't talk.
00:17:38Maybe when you grow up a little bit,
00:17:40you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:17:42You wanted a young husband.
00:17:44Deal with it.
00:17:46You know what?
00:17:48I wish we never met.
00:17:50I didn't have to go through all of this.
00:17:52I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
00:17:53You meant you wish that who never met?
00:17:57Us.
00:17:58You and me?
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:00I can't trust you.
00:18:03That's fine.
00:18:04I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:13If you care this much.
00:18:15No, I don't.
00:18:16You cross the line.
00:18:18If you're going to tell me
00:18:19that you wish we never met,
00:18:22I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:24Okay.
00:18:38There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:42What is that?
00:18:44Oral sex.
00:18:47I am not a woman.
00:18:52I have my d***.
00:18:55There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:01My mom.
00:19:02She's been blowing me up all morning,
00:19:05sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:07Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can
00:19:10just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:13We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:16But I'm terrified to tell her
00:19:18that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man,
00:19:25not just following her orders around.
00:19:41It looks like we're not going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:44Woo!
00:19:45Banana?
00:19:46You going to put me at the plate?
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:56Oh!
00:19:57Oh.
00:19:58Hello, everyone.
00:19:59Hello.
00:20:00Hello, pa.
00:20:01Welcome.
00:20:03Good afternoon, pa.
00:20:04Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:06This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir,
00:20:08because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:11We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:13All right.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:16Should I really need to remove my tops or something?
00:20:19No.
00:20:19If you want, ma'am.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:22Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other,
00:20:26getting a chance to be with each other intimately,
00:20:28that was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:32And I'm hoping the spa treatment is going to help us de-stress.
00:20:35Right on, man.
00:20:36Right on.
00:20:37Okay.
00:20:38Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines,
00:20:41and I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:46And then, uh, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:20:50I agree.
00:20:52Oh, wow.
00:20:53I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:57I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:01This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment,
00:21:04and it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food,
00:21:08which is most people in my country,
00:21:10they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:12It's kind of funny.
00:21:16How's things looking up there, ladies?
00:21:17Pretty good?
00:21:18It's okay, sir.
00:21:19Yeah.
00:21:20I feel like a giant wrap tamale here.
00:21:24Tamale, bro.
00:21:25They're going to throw me in the oven next.
00:21:27I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:29They're going to steam you.
00:21:31This is so strange.
00:21:32Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:36Oh, my goodness.
00:21:37But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves
00:21:43and unable to move as the sun blasts me in the face
00:21:47and melts off my woes.
00:21:52It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:55Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:21:58Yeah, I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:01And it's starting to rain.
00:22:03Oh, yeah, I love the rain.
00:22:05Yeah, got to love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:08Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:13Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:16Yeah.
00:22:19I've been thinking about everything,
00:22:21and I feel like last night just strengthened the urge
00:22:23to be with you more.
00:22:25And so maybe I could get a job
00:22:28and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:33Wow.
00:22:34I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:22:37I love you, baby bear.
00:22:39I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:43I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:45If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:49I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:52Sheena and I, from the very start,
00:22:54have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:22:59But at this point, living in the Philippines,
00:23:02I feel the best option.
00:23:03It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:08I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self
00:23:12and to try to do things that are way out of my bounds.
00:23:16It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her
00:23:21just rips up my heart and tears out my soul.
00:23:24I personally believe you're my wife,
00:23:26even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:23:31You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:36And I hope that your mom would happen to respect
00:23:39that as our decision to make, not hers, but to us only.
00:23:47Well, she's been blowing me up all morning,
00:23:49sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:53Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder
00:23:56ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:23:59I felt like I needed to text her
00:24:01to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:06That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:13My mom has always been a very controlling person,
00:24:16and I'm terrified to tell her and Deb
00:24:18that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:23I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:26Babe, mom would strangle you everything that she can
00:24:30just to get rid of our relationship,
00:24:33even though I happen to try to do many things for her.
00:24:37It's time for you to grow up and be a man
00:24:39and try to tell mom that you want to do some things that you wanted to do,
00:24:43not just following her orders around.
00:24:48You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:52My mother, she's always been my safety net,
00:24:54but her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:00I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines
00:25:02because it's going to definitely give me some space away from my mother.
00:25:08Hello, mom, sir. Excuse voice. Time's up.
00:25:10Okay, thank you.
00:25:11But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything
00:25:16my mom has told me not to do, and I'm scared.
00:25:23I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start life together.
00:25:26It's your time to shine, honey.
00:25:28I'm there for you.
00:25:41You have to decide it, yes or no.
00:25:43But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:55You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:04Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:34You just want the answer.
00:26:38You want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:54My uncle said,
00:26:56we are strict about having children
00:26:58because they represent our family line continuing.
00:27:03That's what we believe.
00:27:05And it's not going to change.
00:27:07So we only wait for you, and you know that.
00:27:12In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:19I understand that, and I would hate for Trish
00:27:22not to be respected by her community over this.
00:27:25If Trish didn't have a baby,
00:27:28I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:27:32I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:27:46But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:27:54I don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:07I know how important it is to the family,
00:28:11and I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:16Trish, if we're going to be together and get married,
00:28:22then I want to make you happy.
00:28:24I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:28:32So I have to say yes.
00:28:37So you're saying yes now?
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Why do you change your mind like that?
00:28:44I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:29:05I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly,
00:29:09because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:13Maybe because of my uncle's pressure.
00:29:18But I'm really excited.
00:29:19And also my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:29:29So when are we going to have the baby?
00:29:37I will file for the visa.
00:29:41It's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:29:44And then once she's approved, after we get married,
00:29:47then that's when we're going to start planning our family together.
00:29:53I want to say no to her.
00:29:55It was a great time.
00:29:57It was just that we had to pay a lot.
00:30:01It was a great time.
00:30:03So, when we were trying to pay the bills,
00:30:09I would like to pay people to pay attention.
00:30:28So what if it's after 20 years, you start?
00:30:32By the end of August, in about three months,
00:30:36then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:40So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:30:45and you will start the process?
00:30:48If everything goes in the direction that it's been going
00:30:51in the last few days, then yes.
00:30:54That's what's going to happen.
00:31:12They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:31:18This is great news.
00:31:20I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:26Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision,
00:31:29because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:31:33and the only way that I would be able to
00:31:36is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:31:40But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is,
00:31:46it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:51I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities
00:31:54of having this family with Trish.
00:31:59She would be a great mother,
00:32:01and I'm actually starting to envision it,
00:32:06and things are looking really good.
00:32:09Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:21When you get back to America,
00:32:23you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:32:26I'm going to do that.
00:32:27Right.
00:32:27You do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:32:34Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:32:37I can't even spend money anymore.
00:32:39I'm done.
00:32:47We need to snuggle before we get up.
00:32:52One last snuggle.
00:33:00I'm going to have more sex with you before you go.
00:33:05Before you...
00:33:06I hope so.
00:33:09I hope so.
00:33:11Baby.
00:33:12Baby.
00:33:12Here's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:33:16One promise.
00:33:17What is that?
00:33:18World sex.
00:33:19Oh.
00:33:22Why are you putting it off?
00:33:24I know you like it.
00:33:26And you've been talking.
00:33:27You've been hammering on that.
00:33:28You've been...
00:33:28There's only a few things I've asked of you,
00:33:31and that's a major one right there for me.
00:33:34It's major for me.
00:33:37I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:33:40Because I've never tried it before.
00:33:42I don't know how to do it.
00:33:45Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:33:48And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:33:51I am not a woman.
00:33:53I have my...
00:33:56Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:00When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:03Okay?
00:34:04Promise.
00:34:05I promise you.
00:34:06You better keep this promise, because I've done so much.
00:34:09I'm sorry.
00:34:10Okay?
00:34:11I'll make it up to you.
00:34:16I wish it's possible for us to stay like...
00:34:18Spend like one more week.
00:34:21It's not possible.
00:34:23You gotta start getting ready.
00:34:27Okay.
00:34:28I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:34:32And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:34:38And then, I had to make up for all those lies.
00:34:43And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:34:45Everything is done.
00:34:46I just wanna stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:34:49I don't wanna go home.
00:34:53Um...
00:34:54Baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you
00:34:56before you left.
00:34:59I sent you to help us.
00:35:01To find my papers.
00:35:03So, that means when you get back to America,
00:35:06you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America, right?
00:35:09Yes.
00:35:09I'm gonna do that, babe.
00:35:11My first step is to get back to work.
00:35:13And then, I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:35:17Okay.
00:35:18We are gonna find out which is better.
00:35:20The K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:35:24Which one's gonna get you to America faster?
00:35:27That would be nice.
00:35:28Okay?
00:35:28So, that's what we'll do.
00:35:29Yes, I can.
00:35:32But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:35:40At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer,
00:35:45getting you to America, doing what we need to do.
00:35:48I cannot send any more money.
00:35:50I can't even spend money anymore.
00:35:51I'm done.
00:35:56Um, that's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is.
00:36:00Okay?
00:36:01So, maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance.
00:36:07Thanks.
00:36:10You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:36:15Um, babe, there's no problem about that.
00:36:20I have you.
00:36:21So, we have a game plan now?
00:36:23Yes.
00:36:28All right, I have to get dressed.
00:36:29You have to get dressed.
00:36:30We have to get going.
00:36:33She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:36:35Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of the money she's giving me.
00:36:39No.
00:36:40I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:36:45She has good plans for me.
00:36:47She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:36:50She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:36:53Babes.
00:36:54What?
00:36:55This is so funny.
00:36:56You gonna wear it today?
00:36:58Do you know what women will say to me?
00:37:00What?
00:37:01They will say, your wife is wicked.
00:37:03Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:05Oh, my God.
00:37:07So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:37:09She deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:37:12That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:37:21All I want is love.
00:37:22And she has been giving it to me.
00:37:24I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:37:28I will miss everything about her.
00:37:31Even the sky is crying.
00:37:33It's raining.
00:37:35You're my husband.
00:37:36I love you.
00:37:37I love you.
00:37:42I knew it was gonna be hard.
00:37:44I didn't know it was gonna be this hard.
00:37:46Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:37:50To you.
00:37:52Oh, my God, baby.
00:37:59This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:02I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:38:04I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:38:08I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:38:12I didn't imagine any of this.
00:38:14I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:38:16I mean, none of this.
00:38:18I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:38:26I don't want to go.
00:38:30But I have to go.
00:38:34I don't want to do with you.
00:38:36It'll happen soon.
00:38:37When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:38:51Shh.
00:38:53I love you.
00:38:55Shh.
00:38:57It's okay.
00:39:00It's okay, baby.
00:39:02It's okay, baby.
00:39:05I love you so much.
00:39:07I love you so, so much.
00:39:10We'll be together soon.
00:39:16Bye, baby.
00:39:17Bye, baby.
00:39:19Bye, baby.
00:39:21I feel that I will not see her again.
00:39:25Because anything can happen.
00:39:27She might go back to her country, and she might change her mind on most of the promises, like bringing
00:39:33me to her country.
00:39:34You know, the visa.
00:39:37I am hoping she will do it, but we are not married legally yet.
00:39:42So, it's very hard for them to say goodbye.
00:39:46I miss you so much.
00:39:50I love you, baby.
00:39:51I can't do it.
00:39:51You have to walk away from me.
00:39:52I can't do it.
00:40:02Okay, I'll go.
00:40:08I'll go.
00:40:12It's very hard.
00:40:13I feel like I'm not going to see them again, even though I know I'm going to.
00:40:17I'm making these plans, but I'm thinking, what if they fall through?
00:40:22What if it's more than six months?
00:40:24What if it's more than a year?
00:40:25What if, what if, what if it's two years?
00:40:30What happens between Daniel and I?
00:40:32I don't know.
00:40:33Oh, man, come on.
00:40:35Oh, my, my uncle.
00:40:36Oh, my, my uncle, oh, my uncle.
00:40:38Oh, my, my uncle.
00:40:42Oh, my, my uncle.
00:40:46Oh, my, my uncle.
00:40:48Oh, my uncle.
00:40:49It's nice.
00:40:50It's a big house.
00:40:51You can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:40:55I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night, but she's
00:40:59trying to make it up to me.
00:41:00You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house, so the fact that I'm doing this must
00:41:04mean I really like you.
00:41:07Oh!
00:41:23It's for the old days.
00:41:25It's a match in the dark.
00:41:28Okay, we have everything, you think?
00:41:30Yep.
00:41:31Okay, to a trip just us.
00:41:34Chris gets the place to himself now.
00:41:37Silence is coming soon.
00:41:40It's finally peaceful on the moon.
00:41:46What are the mountains?
00:41:48It's water.
00:41:50What's this?
00:41:51Uh, it's called deodorant.
00:41:57I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night, but Elise has
00:42:01realised she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me and she's organised a two
00:42:06night stay at the Blue Mountains.
00:42:08Take me away.
00:42:10The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls and it's a different part of
00:42:14nature besides the beaches that Sydney has, so I'm excited.
00:42:17You know, I've never even been.
00:42:19I wouldn't say all is forgiven, but she's trying.
00:42:22And this is a good start.
00:42:34Oh my God, are we here?
00:42:35We are here.
00:42:38This is nice.
00:42:39It's a big house.
00:42:40We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:42:44Yes, we can.
00:42:47I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains, but Josh has always spoken about it and how
00:42:53much he wanted to go, so I decided to book us a trip.
00:42:56And there's hot tubs there, so I was like, love that.
00:43:00Look, baby, look what I got us.
00:43:02Whoa.
00:43:03Oh, wow.
00:43:05A lot of space for a lot of activity.
00:43:08You're the best.
00:43:09I know.
00:43:09I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi, away from Nat, away from Chris, away from
00:43:16Boat.
00:43:17I just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more.
00:43:23Get out of the kitchen.
00:43:24I was cooking for you.
00:43:27You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:43:30So the fact that I'm doing this for you must mean I really like you.
00:43:33That does mean a lot.
00:43:35This should be fun.
00:43:42Baby!
00:43:43What have you done?
00:43:44Baby!
00:43:45I will.
00:43:46This is not the first stuff I thought was going to be in my mouth.
00:43:50Oh, no.
00:43:52Baby!
00:43:54I'm crying.
00:43:56This is eww, eww, eww, eww, eww.
00:44:00Oh, that was process.
00:44:02Half of it went in my mouth, my face, my boobs.
00:44:05Maybe, should I take it off?
00:44:09Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:44:11I don't know how to turn on the soap.
00:44:13Oh.
00:44:15Which pasta do you want?
00:44:17That's so embarrassing.
00:44:19What packer was that in?
00:44:21I'm making you two types of pasta.
00:44:23Perfect.
00:44:28Nope, not ready.
00:44:30Oh, God.
00:44:31This feels really good.
00:44:35Oh, my God.
00:44:37Oh.
00:44:40I read somewhere I heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall.
00:44:45So, like, if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall, then you know it's ready.
00:44:49Yeah, but I don't think that's the same with penne pasta.
00:44:52Oh.
00:44:54Let's throw in the pasta.
00:44:57Oh, my God.
00:44:58There's water in you.
00:45:00Oh, I think I just ruined the sauce.
00:45:03Uh-huh.
00:45:03Baby.
00:45:05The kitchen is definitely not her element.
00:45:08I love seeing the side of Elise that's doing something that she's not used to doing.
00:45:13All right, that'll do.
00:45:15Elise, she keeps me on my toes.
00:45:17I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale.
00:45:21And I know it's not going to be dull with her.
00:45:23Let's see how we go.
00:45:25Is it good?
00:45:26It's actually not that bad.
00:45:33It's horrible.
00:45:35Be honest.
00:45:36I'm not picky.
00:45:37It was the most fun I've had making dinner.
00:45:41I laughed my head off.
00:45:42And I needed that.
00:45:43Me, too.
00:45:45You know what's so cute about Josh is, like, when I up or I do something stupid or I feel
00:45:50really awkward, like, he makes so light of it.
00:45:53I don't know.
00:45:54It's the little moments, like, then, that I'm like, you know what?
00:45:57Like, I feel like he could be my forever.
00:46:00But there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on, and it's been constantly playing
00:46:05in the back of my mind.
00:46:06I don't know if I can go back to Florida not having met your son
00:46:13to see how you are as a father.
00:46:15You would have met him already.
00:46:16I would want you to.
00:46:17But he's moved away.
00:46:19So, for now, like, can we FaceTime?
00:46:22Will that work?
00:46:23Yeah.
00:46:24I'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through.
00:46:28But I'm leaving soon, and I haven't met anyone in his family.
00:46:31I haven't met his son.
00:46:33And this is a huge part of his life that I'm completely missing out on.
00:46:37So, I really, really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip.
00:46:42Pretty full.
00:46:43Me too.
00:46:48We're looking for wedding bands.
00:46:51I like classy stuff.
00:46:54It is really important for me to have the wedding ring.
00:46:59$268.
00:47:01I think he's not sure.
00:47:04I don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:47:09They can have you.
00:47:10Okay.
00:47:12Okay.
00:47:13Okay.
00:47:20Let's go.
00:47:27Sure.
00:47:28Why not?
00:47:30We have a wiener!
00:47:34Yeah.
00:47:34You really wanted that, don't you?
00:47:35Hey.
00:47:38Here we go!
00:47:40Wheeee!
00:47:41Ready, Bo?
00:47:42Uh!
00:47:44Uh!
00:47:50Oops!
00:47:52Oops!
00:47:53Ha!
00:47:55That tickles my belly!
00:47:58Ha!
00:48:05That was fun.
00:48:06That was so fun.
00:48:08Ooh, look at those shops.
00:48:11That's where you can find very nice wedding gowns and dresses.
00:48:15Like, really pretty.
00:48:17Nice.
00:48:19Can't wait for the anniversary party.
00:48:22Yeah.
00:48:25Things with Jovon and I are really good.
00:48:28And now, in a couple of days, we're having our anniversary party where we're going to renew our vows.
00:48:36Since we never had a wedding in person, basically it's just like a second wedding to me.
00:48:42You know?
00:48:45Because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face.
00:48:50I've been dreaming about this.
00:48:52And now it's happening and I just can't wait.
00:48:57Okay, boo.
00:49:01Are you ready?
00:49:02Yeah, I guess so.
00:49:32Now that we're going to renew our vows,
00:49:33What are you looking for?
00:49:35Uh, we're looking for wedding bands.
00:49:37We have different styles.
00:49:39Okay.
00:49:39What are you prepared for?
00:49:41Well, I'm okay with a simple, plain wedding band.
00:49:44I want it more classic.
00:49:47I like classic stuff.
00:49:53This one.
00:49:57It is really important for me to have the wedding ring, my symbol of love.
00:50:03You need a ring to symbolize that?
00:50:05I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:50:11They can have you.
00:50:12I just can't.
00:50:12Okay.
00:50:14Okay.
00:50:15She's on the market.
00:50:16I'll go, I'll go.
00:50:17I'm playing.
00:50:18Relax.
00:50:19When is your wedding?
00:50:22Well, we're actually married already.
00:50:24We don't have an official wedding ring yet.
00:50:28We did our marriage online, that's why.
00:50:30Liar.
00:50:32You know, to be fair, you know, I did get you a ring.
00:50:37Okay.
00:50:38You sent me your money, and I bought a ring that's under $100.
00:50:44That's turned my finger green.
00:50:46But that's what you wanted.
00:50:48No, I thought it's just a substitute ring.
00:50:52How about Purser?
00:50:54What do you think?
00:50:55When it comes to bands, like, I prefer, like, black like this, silver in the middle, kind
00:51:02of sporty, but they don't sell that yet.
00:51:07I already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married, and I like it a lot.
00:51:15I'm not a jewelry person, and I really don't want to spend money on something I don't need
00:51:20or want.
00:51:23This one is good.
00:51:24It's just that it's too, um, skinny.
00:51:30Like, do you have something that's a little bit wider?
00:51:33I have different kind of Purser.
00:51:35Okay.
00:51:35This one.
00:51:39This one is good.
00:51:40I like this one.
00:51:42More simple, but really looks like I'm married.
00:51:46You know what I mean?
00:51:48How much is this?
00:51:50For a gram, no?
00:51:52Yes.
00:51:52It's 15, 5, 10 in peso.
00:51:5315, 5, 10.
00:51:55How much is that, U.S.
00:51:56That's $268 in dollar.
00:52:00$268, yeah.
00:52:01Do you have anything budget?
00:52:03No, we didn't really have a budget.
00:52:06But...
00:52:09He's not sure.
00:52:11Are we going to buy this?
00:52:13What do you mean today?
00:52:17I can come back, boo.
00:52:25You can come back.
00:52:27Yeah.
00:52:29Because I got to sort out my bank stuff.
00:52:31Okay.
00:52:34Why would you bring me ring shopping if we're not going to buy anything anyway?
00:52:41What's the point of going out?
00:52:44Just to get an idea of what you want.
00:52:54Thank you so much.
00:52:56Bye-bye.
00:52:58I feel so humiliated that I can't even have the cheapest ring.
00:53:05It's not just a jewelry.
00:53:07It's a symbol of our marriage.
00:53:10I waited six years to be together in person.
00:53:15He never applied for a spousal visa.
00:53:18And now, I still don't have a ring.
00:53:23Once again, he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship.
00:53:44I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with him.
00:53:49I really don't.
00:53:50I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:53:54I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:53:59There's a lot of layers there.
00:54:01And, I mean...
00:54:20Hey.
00:54:21Hey.
00:54:22What concern from that phone call you gave me?
00:54:24Yeah.
00:54:25Me too.
00:54:36I'm assuming you've talked to Miracon?
00:54:38Yeah, I did.
00:54:39It was super great.
00:54:41Thanks for that.
00:54:42I kind of partly blame you.
00:54:45Okay.
00:54:48I don't know...
00:54:49He's...
00:54:49You don't know?
00:54:50I don't know what was said between you and him.
00:54:53I only know my end of the story.
00:54:55Okay.
00:54:55So, we have to come together.
00:54:58Okay.
00:54:59Super curious.
00:55:00What was going through your head telling him that I hit on you?
00:55:05Like, I don't understand how that even came up.
00:55:09We never did anything.
00:55:11And he's pissed off about it because I didn't tell him.
00:55:14Told me that he wishes he never met me.
00:55:17And I kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring that up.
00:55:22Okay.
00:55:23And I'd like to know why you did.
00:55:25Okay.
00:55:27I brought it up because Miracon was under the impression that I was in love with you.
00:55:32That man kept pushing and pushing and pushing.
00:55:36And at some point, I needed him to understand that I said no to us having a relationship.
00:55:45But you were the one that asked.
00:55:46And from that, he got very upset.
00:55:48And I tried to reassure him it was a year ago.
00:55:50It didn't...
00:55:51I mean, it was before you met him.
00:55:53I feel like, honestly, it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it.
00:56:00How long have you been here with him?
00:56:03How long have you been here with him?
00:56:05Two and a half weeks.
00:56:06And in two and a half weeks, you cannot convince him that I was not a threat?
00:56:16That's not on me.
00:56:17I did everything I could to defuse that situation.
00:56:21I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you.
00:56:26I really don't.
00:56:26I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:56:31I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:56:37There's a lot of layers there.
00:56:40But no, that's not something I want to happen.
00:56:43Anyhow, we're friends.
00:56:47I don't want to anymore.
00:56:50At the end of the day, I want you to be happy.
00:56:53All I ever heard was little stories here and there about him from you.
00:56:56You said all these bad things.
00:56:59And just, why does she keep talking to this guy?
00:57:02So I came to meet him to see all the other good stuff.
00:57:05And you don't have to worry about him and I anymore.
00:57:08You just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you before you make a commitment.
00:57:13I don't even know what to do right now.
00:57:15Like, there's part of me that just wants to, like, go have another conversation with him.
00:57:18But I don't even know what to say.
00:57:19Because he just told me he wishes he never met me.
00:57:22Okay.
00:57:22But the opposite of love is not anger, it's apathy.
00:57:25So angry means he still loves you.
00:57:29I don't believe Michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically.
00:57:36But I think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind.
00:57:40And I think he does care about the future of my relationship with Birkon.
00:57:45Birkon is the person I need in my life.
00:57:48And I want to fix this.
00:57:50I just don't really know how to go about it.
00:57:54So what do I do?
00:57:55I feel like he never could understand that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal.
00:58:00Do you acknowledge that he felt the way he did?
00:58:03It didn't matter whether he was right or not.
00:58:06No, I never said that.
00:58:08At the end of the day, the relationship is more important than the argument.
00:58:15Which means somebody has to say, I'm sorry.
00:58:18It's amazing how the words, I'm sorry, when said truly can defuse a situation.
00:58:25Okay.
00:58:25I see your point.
00:58:28I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that.
00:58:37I'll let you know how it goes.
00:58:40Yeah.
00:58:59How are you?
00:59:01I'm good.
00:59:02How are you?
00:59:04I'm okay.
00:59:07I was just wondering if we could talk.
00:59:16I'm sorry, did you say not today?
00:59:19Yeah.
00:59:23Am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
00:59:26I'm sorry.
00:59:28Just give me that space.
00:59:31Okay.
00:59:33I guess I will get a room somewhere.
00:59:37Okay.
00:59:38We both need time.
00:59:41Yeah.
00:59:41And we both need to think about what's going on.
00:59:44Mm-hmm.
00:59:47Okay.
00:59:49Okay.
00:59:50Bye.
00:59:53Bye.
00:59:54Bye.
00:59:55Bye.
00:59:56Bye.
00:59:58Bye.
01:00:00I don't want to force you, but like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:00:04When Elise asked to meet my son, I can see that she really, really cares.
01:00:08But honestly, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts about trying to let her
01:00:12in to the most important part of my life.
01:00:22Oh, my God.
01:00:23Oh, that's hot.
01:00:24Oh, that's hot.
01:00:26Oh, it's hot.
01:00:26Oh, it's really hot.
01:00:28That's burning me.
01:00:30Oh, you found the champagne I got.
01:00:32It did.
01:00:33It's so good.
01:00:35I think we should open it.
01:00:39Wow.
01:00:41Cheers to that.
01:00:49What a perfect ending to a perfect little guy.
01:00:53Good drive.
01:00:56Good cooking.
01:00:58It's so funny, huh?
01:01:00It's so funny.
01:01:01Okay?
01:01:01I tried.
01:01:03So am I making it up to you?
01:01:05Am I doing a good job so far?
01:01:07Yeah.
01:01:08Absolutely.
01:01:10Well, have I made it up to you enough that, like, you can let me in your own world?
01:01:16You have.
01:01:19Well, I want to be with you.
01:01:21And I'm scared that I've came literally around the world.
01:01:25And all I've met is, like, a few friends.
01:01:28And I don't want to force you.
01:01:30But, like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:01:38When Elise asks to meet my son or, you know, talk to my son, I find that endearing.
01:01:43But honestly, the last couple of days, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts
01:01:47about whether I'll introduce him or not.
01:01:50Obviously, I'm very protective of my son.
01:01:52So I want to be confident that this relationship is going to work.
01:01:57I understand he's young and it's, like, a video call and it's probably, like, a lot to explain
01:02:03to him.
01:02:04Yeah.
01:02:05I do want to prove how much you mean to me.
01:02:08But, um, that's been playing on me heavily.
01:02:14What's been playing on you heavily?
01:02:16Explain that.
01:02:17It's just been, you know, a tough year.
01:02:21I didn't move him away, but, you know, he's an hour and a half plane ride and I don't see
01:02:27him as much as I want.
01:02:30I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can, so it's just
01:02:35a guilty
01:02:37feeling for me at the moment.
01:02:41I miss him, you know, especially when you're here, you know.
01:02:45Really?
01:02:45Well, yeah, well, because when you're here, I think, you know, if he was here as well,
01:02:49it'd be like, I'd love you two to get along, and then it'd be like a perfect little world.
01:02:57I guess it's just painful to think about it.
01:03:02It's okay to have feelings.
01:03:04It's okay to be upset.
01:03:06If you weren't emotional about your son and you didn't feel this way, I would be worried.
01:03:11I'd be very, very worried.
01:03:13It means you're a good dad and it means you care.
01:03:20You know, it's like having a son's responsibility and, like, excitement and you do things with
01:03:24him.
01:03:24And then when something like that gets taken away from you, you're like, I feel like I
01:03:28lost myself.
01:03:31Yeah, I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself.
01:03:36My relationship with my son, we're really tight.
01:03:39I've been there since he was born.
01:03:41He's my little partner in crime.
01:03:43We go camping, we go fishing, surfing, you know, we kick footballs, we go and play golf.
01:03:48It's such a good part of my life.
01:03:51So it really did hurt this year when I didn't have that.
01:03:57I want to help make you feel like you're back together.
01:04:03I want to be that rock for you.
01:04:07I ain't gonna do that.
01:04:10Be there for you, support you in any way I can, but you have to let me into your life.
01:04:15I can't do that without getting brought into your life.
01:04:20This is very emotional because being away from my son affected me, you know, more than
01:04:25I thought.
01:04:26But I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life.
01:04:30I can see that she really, really cares.
01:04:33She's shown that she's worthy of, you know, getting to know my son.
01:04:37But at the same time, it is scary to let her in, the most important part of my life.
01:04:42What if things don't work out?
01:04:43You know, that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us.
01:05:10I mean, after getting her family's approval,
01:05:17I just f***ed it up.
01:05:21Thank you very much.
01:05:22I don't want anything to approach.
01:05:49My family is happy.
01:06:15I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them, yes, that I'm willing to have a child.
01:06:20but it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing overall I've been
01:06:26enjoying my time with Trisha's family but I'm sure glad that we're headed back
01:06:31to Antananarivo now Trisha and I we can sleep together and you know take a nice
01:06:37warm shower together and not have to worry about the eyeballs on us
01:06:44they were really happy I thought there was gonna be like fireworks set off
01:06:53after I said that after I agreed to have that baby
01:06:57they're so sweet gonna miss them
01:07:04I'm ready to have a baby but what if you change your mind
01:07:13maybe as long as we're going and moving in the right direction
01:07:17I'm all on board with having a baby with you
01:07:21because I know that it'll make you happy I know that's what you really want
01:07:28I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind
01:07:31about whether or not I'm financially ready to have another child
01:07:36but I know that if I don't follow through with my promises
01:07:41this could be Trish in a very bad situation with her family
01:07:46I know how much her family means to her
01:07:49so I feel like that I have to keep my word
01:07:54I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation
01:07:57to financially support another child
01:08:03yeah I'm kind of banking on that
01:08:07looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out
01:08:10our future
01:08:15yeah
01:08:18do love
01:08:19baby I love you more than anything
01:08:32do you have to use the restroom or anything
01:08:35no I don't I don't eat anything but just um
01:08:38or any chicken
01:08:44well damn
01:08:46my flight's been the lane
01:08:48that's it
01:08:49we wait for one hour
01:08:52hope this bad boy's going straight to Tana
01:08:56couple of days in Tana before
01:09:00my baby
01:09:06that's really sad
01:09:09sad story
01:09:12it's just all beginning
01:09:15I'll go
01:09:39we were waiting on our flight
01:09:41and it just kept getting delayed
01:09:43the whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her
01:09:47I kept telling her yes I love you
01:09:51eventually she says you know why I'm asking
01:09:55and then Trish demanded that I give her my phone
01:10:01it kind of it kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone
01:10:10and she probably saw that my ex had texted me
01:10:15is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia
01:10:20yes
01:10:22some of the most beautiful times of my life
01:10:26a few days ago I got a text message from my ex
01:10:40and she was telling me that um you know she misses the times that we we had together
01:10:47and and I responded and I responded inappropriately
01:11:03I would never hide something
01:11:08this is why what I'm talking about
01:11:10you never told me what's really you didn't tell me if I didn't ask
01:11:18why
01:11:26he told me that he's not talking to his ex
01:11:29that it's just completely over between Rick and that girl
01:11:34but they start talking while we are at my father's house
01:11:48he makes me sad
01:11:57like I love him
01:12:00we talk about the babies
01:12:03the future
01:12:24I mean after getting her family's approval
01:12:28everything just felt it felt different
01:12:31the whole couple weeks prior
01:12:35how did I come so close to getting my what I wanted
01:12:40and then I just
01:12:46I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish
01:12:50and it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter
01:13:03are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States
01:13:09we are leaving tomorrow
01:13:11I know my mom is not going to accept it
01:13:14but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:13:17to ensure she and I are together
01:13:18I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines
01:13:22this is our choice
01:13:25what's that you just came out of your mouth
01:13:46man I'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today
01:13:48I know he feels relaxed with
01:13:50mom is sitting around
01:13:51and we're bad and sorry
01:14:04so when I talked to Forrest
01:14:07he's like oh surprise mom
01:14:09I went and met with a lawyer
01:14:11and the lawyer says
01:14:12he has to have like a certain amount of income
01:14:14something like like that
01:14:16he didn't do anything right at all
01:14:20I'm upset right now
01:14:22Forrest is coming back
01:14:23and for the last few days
01:14:25Dev and I haven't heard anything from Forrest or Sheena
01:14:28and we've just felt like we're kind of been left in the dark
01:14:32you know I don't know what to expect when they get back
01:14:37from their little rendezvous romantic vacation
01:14:40I don't know what the conversation is going to be
01:14:47we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow
01:14:50and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all
01:15:03hey mom
01:15:05how's things going
01:15:08it's going pretty good how are you guys
01:15:13well I think we need to have a talk
01:15:16yeah
01:15:16I think we need to figure things out a little bit
01:15:19yeah
01:15:21that's kind of why we're here
01:15:25today is supposed to be my last day in the Philippines
01:15:27but Sheena and I
01:15:30have made the decision for me to stay here
01:15:33and basically start a life here with her
01:15:36you ready?
01:15:37yeah we're going to have
01:15:38go let's go
01:15:38all right
01:15:39I know that my mom is not going to accept it
01:15:43but she has to understand that
01:15:45I'm not the child that
01:15:47you know she's seen all these years
01:15:49I have changed a lot
01:15:51this trip
01:15:52and I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:15:54to ensure Sheena and I are together
01:16:00oh my god
01:16:02wow
01:16:03look at that
01:16:05they moved to every ethnic race
01:16:09well look at that
01:16:15oh my god
01:16:15came from originally from a punishment
01:16:18during the Spanish era
01:16:19that people would have to put their feet
01:16:21and they have to avoid the bamboo
01:16:23while hitting its feet
01:16:24yes
01:16:24it's just such
01:16:25it tells a whole story
01:16:26it's just a damn
01:16:27I agree
01:16:28oh my goodness
01:16:29oh look at that
01:16:30yay
01:16:32oh thank you
01:16:33oh that's beautiful
01:16:35good job guys
01:16:37that's awesome
01:16:37well you realize you have to be
01:16:39not only in a rhythm
01:16:41with the bamboo
01:16:42but you have to be in a rhythm
01:16:44with your partner too
01:16:45at the same time
01:16:46kind of like life
01:16:49well I think Sheena and I
01:16:50were worth moving in perfect rhythm
01:16:56yeah definitely
01:17:02so Sheena do we get menus
01:17:03or how does it work
01:17:06there's a set menu
01:17:07that's going to be prepared
01:17:09so you can try guys
01:17:10oh
01:17:15thank you so much
01:17:19so with the
01:17:20the um
01:17:21where you guys went
01:17:23just fill me in
01:17:24what happened
01:17:26and give me all the details
01:17:28um
01:17:29yeah
01:17:29I feel like me and Sheena
01:17:31we really bonded
01:17:35in more ways than one
01:17:44you had sex didn't you
01:17:49you know what
01:17:50yeah we did
01:17:53now time
01:17:55I enjoyed it
01:17:56it was fun
01:17:58yeah
01:18:01you guys
01:18:02think that you
01:18:03have a good physical
01:18:05connection with each other
01:18:06yeah
01:18:09I feel like
01:18:10our souls
01:18:11have been connected
01:18:12really connected
01:18:13and now we can really
01:18:14understand each other
01:18:18I'm happy that
01:18:20you know
01:18:20my son finally
01:18:21lost his virginity
01:18:22finally
01:18:23you know
01:18:24nookie nookie nookie
01:18:25bang bang bang bang
01:18:29then also too
01:18:30that's an important aspect
01:18:32to know if they had
01:18:33compatibility
01:18:34on all aspects
01:18:35including sexuality
01:18:38well
01:18:39that's good
01:18:39I'm glad you guys
01:18:40are both
01:18:41de-virginized
01:18:42finally
01:18:42that's
01:18:43yeah mom
01:18:48well
01:18:48you know
01:18:49it's a sad
01:18:50thing
01:18:50that we have to
01:18:52leave you
01:18:52and that Forrest
01:18:53has to leave you
01:18:54tomorrow
01:18:55but it must be
01:18:56very painful
01:18:58but
01:18:58are there plans
01:19:00being made
01:19:01and arrangements
01:19:01made
01:19:02somehow
01:19:04to
01:19:05try and get you
01:19:07over to the
01:19:07United States
01:19:10did you guys
01:19:11talk
01:19:11make any
01:19:12plans
01:19:13because
01:19:14this is
01:19:15we are
01:19:16leaving tomorrow
01:19:20yeah
01:19:20we talked
01:19:21a lot
01:19:21yesterday
01:19:24with the
01:19:25K-1 visa
01:19:25I found out
01:19:26that
01:19:27being on
01:19:28disability
01:19:29I don't
01:19:30make enough
01:19:30money
01:19:32so
01:19:32she and I
01:19:34have decided
01:19:35that I'm
01:19:36going to stay
01:19:37here
01:19:37and live
01:19:38here
01:19:38in the
01:19:39Philippines
01:19:41forrest
01:19:42I'm tired
01:19:43of being
01:19:44alone
01:19:44oh my god
01:19:45I did not
01:19:46expect
01:19:47to be staying
01:19:48here
01:19:48long term
01:19:50oh you
01:19:51didn't expect
01:19:51to fall
01:19:53I want
01:19:53my love
01:19:54with me
01:19:54my second
01:19:55half
01:19:55this is our
01:19:56choice
01:19:58what's that
01:19:59you just came
01:19:59out of your
01:20:00mouth
01:20:01mom
01:20:01where's your
01:20:02list of pros
01:20:03and cons
01:20:03that you wrote
01:20:04out
01:20:05was that in
01:20:05between
01:20:07excuse me
01:20:08you could say
01:20:09one thing
01:20:10someone you
01:20:10want to say
01:20:10but for me
01:20:11I have him
01:20:12he had me
01:20:12I don't care
01:20:13if you're here
01:20:13for my son
01:20:14I'm doing my best
01:20:15for the part
01:20:15for your son
01:20:16because I love
01:20:16your son
01:20:17and I've worked
01:20:17everything for
01:20:18hard for him
01:20:19for our future
01:20:20I want you to
01:20:21trust your son
01:20:22for once in a
01:20:22while
01:20:27I trust
01:20:27my son
01:20:28I don't
01:20:29trust you
01:20:34sorry
01:20:35I just
01:20:35want
01:20:35need
01:20:36space
01:20:37sorry
01:20:39excuse me
01:20:47next time
01:20:48on
01:20:48before the 90 days
01:20:49when do you plan
01:20:50on applying
01:20:51for the fiance visa
01:20:53to live
01:20:53and believe
01:20:54I thought you
01:20:55were going to
01:20:56apply for me
01:20:56in the US
01:20:59no
01:21:01Stig never
01:21:02mentioned
01:21:03wanting to
01:21:03move to the US
01:21:04it's two hours
01:21:05before I'm leaving
01:21:06it's just
01:21:07really weird
01:21:07timing
01:21:08you won't
01:21:08be able
01:21:09to make
01:21:09any money
01:21:10I saw you
01:21:10going to
01:21:10be my sugar
01:21:11mama
01:21:13I wish
01:21:14we could
01:21:14have talked
01:21:14it out
01:21:15last night
01:21:16you've been
01:21:17texting with him
01:21:17this morning
01:21:18what has he
01:21:18been saying
01:21:19I asked him
01:21:20if we could
01:21:21talk and he
01:21:21said sure
01:21:22so
01:21:23I want to
01:21:24show him
01:21:25that my
01:21:25feelings for him
01:21:26are so much
01:21:27stronger
01:21:27than how I
01:21:29ever felt
01:21:29about Michael
01:21:30why did you
01:21:31mislead me
01:21:32while Michael
01:21:33made the move
01:21:34I was worried
01:21:35you would
01:21:36try to
01:21:37put a stop
01:21:38to my friendship
01:21:39with him
01:21:40can you do that
01:21:45are you excited
01:21:46about today
01:21:46I think
01:21:47I should ask
01:21:48you that question
01:21:49though
01:21:49I just
01:21:51don't know
01:21:51what I'm gonna
01:21:51say for my
01:21:52vows
01:21:53it's just
01:21:54gonna be
01:21:54like
01:21:54the basics
01:21:56I just
01:21:57wanted today
01:21:58to be full
01:21:59of love
01:22:00but it just
01:22:02feels like
01:22:03any other
01:22:03day for him
01:22:04I don't know
01:22:06you can't
01:22:07pretend that
01:22:08everything is
01:22:09fine
01:22:12I love your son
01:22:13and I'll do
01:22:13anything my best
01:22:14for him
01:22:14love doesn't
01:22:15pay the bills
01:22:16Gina
01:22:17you know
01:22:18I'm like
01:22:18in panic
01:22:19mode
01:22:20that he's
01:22:20gonna move
01:22:20to the
01:22:21Philippines
01:22:21it's not
01:22:22gonna work
01:22:23it won't
01:22:23work
01:22:24how much
01:22:25do you think
01:22:25that you're
01:22:26gonna make
01:22:27working here
01:22:27where you
01:22:28gonna live
01:22:29for us
01:22:29have you
01:22:30even factored
01:22:31how much
01:22:31it's gonna
01:22:32cost
01:22:33I don't
01:22:34know what
01:22:34to do
01:22:37all the
01:22:37messages
01:22:38in the
01:22:38text
01:22:39why did
01:22:40you betray
01:22:41me
01:22:42why don't
01:22:43you block
01:22:43her
01:22:43if you want
01:22:45this relationship
01:22:46tell her that
01:22:46you don't want
01:22:47her anymore
01:22:48that I'm
01:22:49with you
01:22:51I love
01:22:52Trish
01:22:52but love
01:22:54isn't
01:22:55so black
01:22:56and white
01:22:56I need to
01:22:58be honest
01:22:58about my
01:22:59feelings
01:23:00I don't know
01:23:01what to do
01:23:05oh my god
01:23:06stunning
01:23:07I don't think
01:23:08Elise realized
01:23:09you know
01:23:09what she'd
01:23:09signed up for
01:23:14come on baby
01:23:18at first
01:23:19I'm just
01:23:19thinking
01:23:20she's being
01:23:20a drama queen
01:23:23I start to
01:23:23think
01:23:24oh
01:23:24is she okay
01:23:27she'sτο
01:23:28mathematics
01:23:29We'll
01:23:2942 in
01:23:30denial友
01:23:30episode
01:23:31remember
01:23:31is
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