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00:00:00Oh my god, this is so romantic.
00:00:03Yep.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:07With past boyfriends.
00:00:09I've been lied to a lot.
00:00:11So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:00:14Do you not care about my past?
00:00:16No.
00:00:17We can leave the past.
00:00:19I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement.
00:00:24But this does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past,
00:00:29because he has something that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:00:33Hey Boo, it's your wife.
00:00:35Annalyn and I have been married for three years.
00:00:37And now I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet her for the first time in person.
00:00:44But lately it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:00:48You told me if we're going to be married, we can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:00:55I'm not saying you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step.
00:01:03Welcome, gorgeous.
00:01:05Do you want to go to bed?
00:01:08Why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV?
00:01:14I don't know what's happening.
00:01:16It was like great when we first met.
00:01:18But now I feel like there's something really wrong.
00:01:21Maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:01:24It's freaking me out.
00:01:29You lied about the fact you've been married to women several times.
00:01:33Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:36I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:44Now that the ancestors are approved, I am planning a big surprise when I meet Lisa at the airport.
00:01:50But I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
00:01:55We don't accept it here.
00:01:57You were giving your parents money.
00:02:00Why did you not tell us?
00:02:02They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept.
00:02:05It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
00:02:11That still didn't answer the question.
00:02:14He's just got the blinders on.
00:02:17And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
00:02:22It's okay, baby.
00:02:30I'm going to break the rules.
00:02:32Let's go.
00:02:34Let's go.
00:02:35Let's go.
00:02:36Let's go.
00:02:38Let's go.
00:02:39Let's go.
00:02:40Let's go.
00:02:41Let's go.
00:02:42Let's go.
00:02:42Wow, look at all the clothes.
00:02:44Oh, yeah.
00:02:45Check what you want.
00:02:46Then we could haggle, okay?
00:02:58Hey, Shin.
00:02:59Yeah?
00:03:00What do you think of these?
00:03:01Oh, you want to get that?
00:03:02Yeah, maybe.
00:03:03Oh.
00:03:05How do you think it looks on me?
00:03:11I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now.
00:03:13And despite all the drama, being with Sheena every day is amazing.
00:03:22Thank you so much.
00:03:23Yeah, thanks.
00:03:24What is something you need?
00:03:25I kind of need some shorts.
00:03:27Mm-hmm.
00:03:28Well, I like that.
00:03:28Yeah, that's cool.
00:03:30Going out and eating food, sharing meals, holding hands, kissing her.
00:03:36It's just something I've been wanting my entire life.
00:03:40Make sure you hold me.
00:03:41Yeah, I'm holding you.
00:03:43I'm holding you out.
00:03:43You're holding me.
00:03:44Okay, there we go.
00:03:45Does it fit?
00:03:47Oh.
00:03:48If you can put that up.
00:03:49Oh, it's a little bit small.
00:03:51Mm-mm.
00:03:51Yeah.
00:03:52Okay.
00:03:53Sorry.
00:03:53That's too sad.
00:03:55I'm sorry.
00:03:55I'm a giant man.
00:04:00I kind of packed really light since Sheena was going on and on about how easy and cheap
00:04:05it is to go and get clothes here in the Philippines.
00:04:08Turns out, you can find clothes.
00:04:10It's just, I'm a big man.
00:04:15Yeah, if she has some t-shirts, we'd like to check that out.
00:04:18Maybe there's a t-shirt that you can use.
00:04:20I'm going 2X.
00:04:212X?
00:04:21Nah, that's too small.
00:04:23This one, 5X.
00:04:25Man, why do I have to be so ginormous?
00:04:30Forrest, he's around like 6'2 or 6'3.
00:04:35It's not too common to have a height like that here in my country.
00:04:38My previous partner, that was around like 5' or 5'2.
00:04:44But for me, Forrest is the most tallest guy that I've ever seen in my life.
00:04:51Wow.
00:04:52You look like a macho.
00:04:53You look like a professional guy.
00:04:54You look like a tennis player.
00:04:56Yeah.
00:04:57Hey, it's too tight.
00:04:58It's too tight.
00:04:59Ow.
00:04:59See, we'll just look somewhere else.
00:05:02Yeah.
00:05:04Right now, I'm kind of regretting bringing just a backpack with a couple fresh shirts and a pair of bundes
00:05:09on my multi-week trip here in the Philippines.
00:05:12But thank goodness I was able to find some banana hammock underwear.
00:05:15Hopefully, I get to try those on later.
00:05:17You never know.
00:05:20Hey, baby.
00:05:21It's so hot.
00:05:24You know, maybe I'll just take a seat real quick.
00:05:26Okay.
00:05:27Let's take a seat.
00:05:29Yeah.
00:05:30I'm really grateful to have this alone time with Sheena.
00:05:33Since my mom and my stepdad, Dev, joined me on this trip to the Philippines, it's been kind of hard
00:05:38to come by.
00:05:40And unfortunately, having them around has not been rose petals and unicorns.
00:05:46So, Sheena, how are you feeling after last night?
00:05:51I'm actually better now, so you don't have any problems with that.
00:05:55Last night, my mom confronted Sheena about lying and giving the money to her parents and not actually saving anything.
00:06:04I feel bad about how ugly things got, but I'm very glad Sheena agreed to finally confront her parents about
00:06:10this issue and kind of get the ball rolling.
00:06:11The big issue next is to take you to meet up with your parents and confront them about, you know,
00:06:21the money issues and everything.
00:06:24I believe that after everything, the last seven years, cutting off your family is the only thing we can do.
00:06:31So, it's time to be independent, it's time to be strong, and I'm going to be behind you and be
00:06:38your backbone every step of the way.
00:06:43I understand that, babe.
00:06:48This is the best thing that I could do.
00:06:51I would plan a meeting for you, so you could explain to them the situation that,
00:06:57sorry, we don't have that much money, but we're trying to stay because we have a lot of plans for
00:07:02us.
00:07:02And I will have to move with you to the U.S.
00:07:06Just show them that you are a very sincere person, what kind of person you are.
00:07:11Because in my culture, parents are the one who should approve if we are going to marry someone.
00:07:22So, if my parents would approve then, it would be much easier for just to have a better future for
00:07:28us.
00:07:36Sheena, why didn't you explain this to me beforehand?
00:07:39Why didn't you just come out and tell me?
00:07:42It's complicated.
00:07:45Sheena has never told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:07:50I feel like after everything I've heard about them and how they have been mistreating Sheena,
00:07:57I don't believe that I need their blessing at all.
00:08:01So, now I have to go and get their approval while I have to tell them that their days are
00:08:05basically numbered
00:08:06with getting money away from their daughter.
00:08:08This does not sound like an easy task.
00:08:12Also, what happened last night with talking with your mom, I have been thinking about,
00:08:18what if we could meet, you could meet my parents first, personally, before we introduce your parents?
00:08:26Because if I would take your mom to the province and she would cause a lot of commotion, then things
00:08:33might work.
00:08:39So, you think that we should have me come see your parents a day ahead of my parents?
00:08:46I think it's the best way to meet everyone.
00:08:51Well, Sheena, all right, but my mom is definitely going to blow her lid.
00:09:01She's not going to take this too well.
00:09:04I know, baby. I understand about that.
00:09:08My mom's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that Sheena is cutting my mom out of
00:09:15the situation.
00:09:17She already doesn't trust Sheena, and I believe that this is just going to make things worse, and I'm scared.
00:09:30My titties work. Don't wear a strapless bra on a flat. It's going to take two days.
00:09:38I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be done with my
00:09:44titties because they're hurting.
00:10:11Today is my big day. My girlfriend.
00:10:15It's coming, so that's why I'm excited and happy.
00:10:20Oh, my God. Lisa is coming today.
00:10:23I barely slept last night.
00:10:25How should I put this?
00:10:28I live in Oweri.
00:10:30That's my hometown.
00:10:32Because of things that are going on there, a lot of shooting, a lot of kidnappings.
00:10:38Lisa booked a hotel for she and I to stay here in Lagos.
00:10:42I can't even wait to, you know, welcome her.
00:10:45And when I see her with my eyes, oh, my God.
00:10:50I'll kiss her like I never did before.
00:10:57I'm really nervous.
00:11:00I planned a lot of things to welcome her from the airport. She doesn't have an idea of what I'm
00:11:09planning.
00:11:14So we have begun to decide. I have to do a happy dance. Do a happy dance. I'm so excited.
00:11:24I'm finally going to meet Daniel for the first time. But I'm nervous because there's so much to tell him.
00:11:30Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I've been with women for the past 21
00:11:36years.
00:11:37Oh, my God. I am so ready for this to come to fruitation.
00:11:44I want to marry Daniel, but I promised my daughter, Faith, I wouldn't get married while I'm in Nigeria and
00:11:50that I will tell him about my past before getting engaged.
00:11:54But I don't want to tell him everything right away.
00:11:58I want to get comfortable with him and eventually open up when the time is right.
00:12:06Touchdown.
00:12:15Oh, my God.
00:12:17Oh, my God.
00:12:18Oh, my God.
00:12:42I'm so nervous, I feel like a drowned rat from the heat and the humidity.
00:12:50I did not sleep at all on the plane, and my nerves are just going crazy.
00:12:55I'm feeling really self-conscious right now.
00:12:58Oh my God.
00:13:00Oh my God.
00:13:06I have boob sweat.
00:13:08When you're this large, you can't help but have boob sweat.
00:13:11I'm going to wash my crotch area, because I don't want to stink down there either.
00:13:22I am freaking out to the point where I feel sick to my stomach.
00:13:27I think he's going to be as handsome as ever, and I think he's going to look at me and
00:13:32say,
00:13:32Oh my God, she's older than I thought she was.
00:13:34Because everything with this heat, I can't camouflage anything, and my age of 52 is showing today.
00:13:44Oh my God.
00:13:45It was such a long flat.
00:13:48The bags are under my eyes, and the wrinkles are in my forehead.
00:13:54Normally, when I talk to Daniel on video, I have the opportunity of getting my makeup perfect,
00:14:01getting my lighting just so, putting my camera angle just where it needs to be, and trying to be perfect.
00:14:09I don't feel perfect right now.
00:14:24A few seconds, she should be coming out.
00:14:28I will see.
00:14:38Now, I'm getting it.
00:14:43I have a million thoughts going through my mind right now.
00:14:46How am I going to be able to keep all these promises I made to Faith?
00:14:49What if I come clean about my past and he just leaves me stranded in a foreign country?
00:14:54And then my worst nightmare.
00:14:55What if I'm not what he expected?
00:14:58I'm terrified.
00:15:00I'm afraid he's going to reject me.
00:15:02And if he rejects me, it's all for nothing.
00:15:10I am here. I am waiting.
00:15:13I'm done. I'm done. I'm done.
00:15:16All right, here we go.
00:15:29What's she taking a deep breath for, man?
00:15:31Trying to get comfortable, man.
00:15:33Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:15:35Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:15:38I know, man.
00:15:39Cute.
00:15:41Sexy.
00:15:42Javon and I had a fight because he told me that he's been talking to this woman.
00:15:47But we have some problems that are way worse than this.
00:15:56This is where we're going.
00:15:59The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on
00:16:08my second date here in Turkey.
00:16:10Are you nervous?
00:16:11A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:16:21What are you taking a deep breath for, man?
00:16:24No, I'm just trying to get comfortable, man.
00:16:27Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:16:29Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:16:33I know, man.
00:16:34Don't tell you.
00:16:34You're going to be comfortable when your ass is asleep.
00:16:39You got me in a love, hey.
00:16:43Call it a love, babe.
00:16:48Babe.
00:16:48All right.
00:16:50You're driving me.
00:16:51Love you.
00:16:51All right.
00:16:52Love you, too, man.
00:16:53Have a safe trip, man.
00:16:56Just arrived at the airport, you know, ready to see my lovely wife, Anna.
00:17:04Yeah, man, I'm excited.
00:17:07This is it.
00:17:08Today is the day I fly to the Philippines to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:17:17I just got past checkpoint, and, you know, I'm heading to my gate right now.
00:17:24I got a long flight ahead of me, but I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:17:35This trip for me determines my future with Anna Lynn, because if it doesn't go well, I need
00:17:43to figure out what that means for this relationship.
00:17:47I really do love her, so I'm praying that this marriage wasn't a huge mistake.
00:17:54This is it.
00:17:56Can't wait to see her.
00:18:14Let's get started.
00:18:24Let's get started.
00:18:32Oh, OMG.
00:18:34Cute.
00:18:36Sexy.
00:18:38Oh, look.
00:18:42Hey, Juvon.
00:18:44It's me, your wifey.
00:18:47I tied a tie.
00:18:49I tied a tie.
00:18:51I tied a tie.
00:18:53I tied a tie.
00:18:54I tied a tie.
00:18:56I tied a tie.
00:18:58I'm Annalyn and I'm 38 years old from Cavite, Philippines.
00:19:05I've always been, I would say, bubbly, happy person, talkative, but there's also a hard-working part of me as
00:19:14well.
00:19:15I went to university and I studied mass communication because I like talking, sometimes a lot.
00:19:24But I decided to stop working full-time because Juvon and I are on opposite time zones.
00:19:31So I have to change my sleep schedule.
00:19:35And that has made it really difficult to keep up any kind of job.
00:19:40Thankfully, Juvon sends me $400 to $500 once a month.
00:19:46Ma.
00:19:47Ma.
00:19:48Ma.
00:19:48Tignan.
00:19:49Buksan mo ko.
00:19:50Yung gate.
00:19:51Uh-uh.
00:19:51Ha?
00:19:53My mom and I live next to each other.
00:19:57And she has a small store.
00:20:01Ma, may mga binili ako.
00:20:02Tignan mo.
00:20:03Ano?
00:20:03Ano yan?
00:20:04Katingin?
00:20:06I feel like we're more like best friends.
00:20:08But she's a very timid, shy woman.
00:20:12And I'm more like...
00:20:14Hey!
00:20:14Ha ha ha ha.
00:20:20He's first in fact.
00:20:21Ha ha ha.
00:20:22Kailangan ko ng pandag-dagn ng height.
00:20:25Kasi si Juvon mataas yung height difference namin.
00:20:29Ha ha ha.
00:20:30Excited na ako.
00:20:31Ha ha ha.
00:20:39Tomorrow morning, I'm traveling to Beagle to meet Javon.
00:20:44And finally have our honeymoon.
00:20:48This will be the first time that we get to spend time together physically.
00:20:54And intimacy-wise, we'll be able to discover a lot more about each other.
00:20:59So, yeah, good luck to us.
00:21:05I'm so excited, Mama.
00:21:07I'm so excited.
00:21:10Because it's been a long time for me to be here.
00:21:15It's been six years.
00:21:16It's been six years.
00:21:18I think it's been a long time for me to come back.
00:21:22Six years now.
00:21:24You're just going to be able to find your life, your world, and you're going to be able to find
00:21:29your name.
00:21:31You're not going to be a good job.
00:21:36You're not going to be able to find your friends.
00:21:38You're not going to be able to find your child.
00:21:45You're not going to be able to find your child.
00:22:03Absolutely.
00:22:04You're not going to be able to, you're not going to be able to find your child.rive
00:22:18you for the moment. Lo
00:22:21menos USA. And
00:22:21every day, you're not going to be able to find your child.
00:22:29But at the same time, Jubon and I have some problems
00:22:34that are way, way worse than this.
00:22:58Jubon and I have a lot of struggles,
00:23:01and at times we fight a lot.
00:23:04Jubon thinks I changed, but how I see it is that
00:23:08he's the one that really changed.
00:23:11What happened was, after we got married,
00:23:15he started watching podcasts about masculinity and stuff.
00:23:21They teach the man to find women that's soft, feminine, and submissive.
00:23:28Suddenly you have this idea in your head that I should be like this as a woman,
00:23:32like, what the hell?
00:23:34We were not like this before.
00:23:37I feel like he's trying to change me to a person that I'm not.
00:23:42He thinks that even if I don't agree with him, I should just be quiet.
00:23:46And I'm a type of woman that I just don't agree.
00:23:49I question things.
00:23:53Atay, yung gumagawa ng kapalara natin.
00:23:55Ito yung pinili ko eh.
00:23:57So, kailangan kong panindigan.
00:24:00Bakasal ka nga. Wala naman siya dito.
00:24:06I love Jubon, and I know he loves me, but my biggest fear is Jubon will come here and we
00:24:15can't get along.
00:24:16But it's not like I'm meeting a boyfriend, I'm meeting a husband.
00:24:21I can't just, you know, give off after everything I did for six years.
00:24:27If we can't resolve our issues and we fight the whole time, what am I gonna do?
00:24:35Sana lang patutungohan yung kahihintay mo sa kanya sa loob ng mahabang taon.
00:25:02How are you feeling when you went to bed last night?
00:25:05To be completely honest, I was really frustrated.
00:25:11Disappointed, because I went to bed alone.
00:25:22When I got here, there were lots of moments where it felt really awkward.
00:25:26Like we were not sure what to say.
00:25:31And I internalized those things.
00:25:34And so, last night, I decided to go out into the living room and see if I could have a
00:25:42little bit of a conversation with Bearcon.
00:25:45I felt really disconnected that whole first day.
00:25:50I wanted to give you some space, so...
00:25:53But at the time, I'm thinking, oh, my worst fear that he's just not attracted to me in person has
00:26:01just come true.
00:26:04I didn't.
00:26:06Yeah.
00:26:07We ended up, like, making out pretty good.
00:26:10Good times.
00:26:15We have time to explore this further as we get to know each other better.
00:26:22But, you know, I am still kind of feeling a little, like, unsure about the situation.
00:26:28Because he decided to put the brakes on us having sex.
00:26:32And also, I am worried because we have some things to do later today that I'm really anxious about.
00:26:52More rain.
00:26:53Yeah.
00:26:54God loves us.
00:26:56I feel like he's crying on us.
00:26:58We are bringing bliss wherever we go.
00:27:01Okay.
00:27:02I think this is where we're going.
00:27:05Okay.
00:27:07The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on
00:27:16my second date here in Turkey.
00:27:22Hello.
00:27:23Hi.
00:27:23Oh, hi, kitty.
00:27:25You must be Laura.
00:27:26Yeah.
00:27:26Nice to meet you.
00:27:28Nice to meet you.
00:27:28Please take a seat.
00:27:29Okay.
00:27:30Before I came to Turkey, I had been researching skin removal surgery.
00:27:36And Turkey has such high-quality plastic surgeons.
00:27:40So, fortunately, I was able to secure an appointment with one.
00:27:45But, unfortunately, the only appointment they had was for today.
00:27:53So awkward.
00:27:55Are you nervous?
00:27:57A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:27:58Absolutely.
00:27:59So, you want me to come inside with you or you want to do it alone?
00:28:05No.
00:28:06If you want to come, you can.
00:28:08Okay.
00:28:09A few weeks ago, I asked Bjorkan to come with me because I kind of want to see how our
00:28:15future could look together as someone who's supposed to support me.
00:28:19But now I kind of think it just feels weird.
00:28:22Even though we made out last night, I am still feeling insecure about how he actually perceives me physically.
00:28:31Is he attracted or not?
00:28:36Laura thinks too much about her appearance.
00:28:40It is a curse that you always try to be perfect.
00:28:46But nobody is perfect.
00:28:48If you ask me, I'm happy with my teeth because it is my teeth.
00:28:52I'm going to eat with this.
00:28:53So, who cares?
00:28:54But this is her body and she's not happy with that.
00:28:58That's why I support her.
00:29:01Hi.
00:29:01You must be Laura.
00:29:02I am.
00:29:02Nice to meet you.
00:29:03Nice to meet you.
00:29:04You come?
00:29:04Nice to meet you.
00:29:06Please, take your seats.
00:29:07Okay.
00:29:08So, I'm Dr. Amar.
00:29:10I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon.
00:29:12How can I help you?
00:29:13I have recently lost 140 pounds.
00:29:17And so, I have some loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
00:29:23Which areas bothers you the most?
00:29:24Me, in my stomach area.
00:29:26The stomach part.
00:29:27It's my least competent spot.
00:29:30Uh-huh.
00:29:31So, I will take you to the studio.
00:29:33Okay.
00:29:33For some pictures, if it's okay for you.
00:29:35That's fine.
00:29:35And then you can ask your questions.
00:29:37Okay, I love that.
00:29:38And we can figure out a treatment plan for you.
00:29:41I love that.
00:29:41Thank you very much.
00:29:45Just knock the door when you're ready.
00:29:47Okay.
00:29:47I will come in.
00:29:48Alright.
00:29:50Shall I?
00:29:51For sure you can.
00:29:55I touched someone else's boobs.
00:29:57I'm sorry.
00:30:01It's like a jellyfish.
00:30:03I just wanted to touch.
00:30:05You can't blame me, guys.
00:30:13I guess at least you're having fun.
00:30:16Perfect.
00:30:18This is going to be enough for me.
00:30:20Can you come closer to the background?
00:30:22Come closer?
00:30:22Perfect.
00:30:23Okay, now we're going to pull this part down.
00:30:26A little bit more.
00:30:28Perfect.
00:30:28Yeah, this is the area that I...
00:30:30Yeah, I got it.
00:30:30What's it look at?
00:30:32I got it.
00:30:33Perfect.
00:30:34Hello.
00:30:34No, nothing is...
00:30:35Okay.
00:30:36...seen.
00:30:37Perfect.
00:30:38Alright.
00:30:40Okay.
00:30:41Just a few pictures.
00:30:43Okay.
00:30:43And it will be over.
00:30:44Your arms will be on your back.
00:30:46Exactly like that.
00:30:47Thank you very much.
00:30:49Mm-hmm.
00:30:53This part is as fast as possible.
00:31:00I feel really awkward because my stomach area is my biggest insecurity.
00:31:07Perfect.
00:31:09Same thing to the other side.
00:31:11I have worked my ass off literally and figuratively.
00:31:16And the fact that I still have the loose skin has been really hard.
00:31:22Thank you very much.
00:31:23That's great.
00:31:24When I look in the mirror, I don't want to see myself at 315 pounds anymore.
00:31:29I want to see myself now and the work that I've put in.
00:31:38Oh, okay.
00:31:42So, the problem at the tummy part is actually really common.
00:31:49Okay.
00:31:49After losing so much weight.
00:31:50Yeah.
00:31:51I will just show you some pictures.
00:31:59So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here.
00:32:03Mm-hmm.
00:32:04We should cut vertically.
00:32:08I was not expecting the doctor to take the things that you know are your most insecure flaws
00:32:16and project them for everyone to see like that.
00:32:21I am immediately regretting having Fearcon come with me.
00:32:25Here I am sitting next to my boyfriend who happens to be 20 years younger than I am.
00:32:32Like, what the hell was I thinking?
00:32:35This is not romantic.
00:32:37It's not sexy.
00:32:39It's awful.
00:32:46So, do you think I can meet your family?
00:32:49My brothers, my father, everyone have here life.
00:32:53So, I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:32:56That's what I think.
00:32:58It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me.
00:33:00It just makes me feel like he's hiding something about his life.
00:33:16Hello.
00:33:19How are you?
00:33:21Salaam.
00:33:22Do you know where I can buy, like, hair oil?
00:33:24Like, to make my hair shiny?
00:33:26No, speak English.
00:33:27Arabic.
00:33:28Oh.
00:33:30Excuse me?
00:33:30Do you know where I can get hair oil?
00:33:32Spice is all right there.
00:33:34No, not like hair oil.
00:33:35Not spice.
00:33:36Down there?
00:33:37Okay.
00:33:39Okay.
00:33:41Maybe here?
00:33:42No.
00:33:44No.
00:33:45Bags.
00:33:46Not oil.
00:33:49Can you get stuff for your hair?
00:33:51Here?
00:33:52Oh, really?
00:33:52Here?
00:33:53Perfect.
00:33:54Do you want to drink tea or coffee?
00:33:56I love tea.
00:34:06We're going to be cooking today.
00:34:11Shokran.
00:34:12This doesn't really match my outfit.
00:34:14It's fine.
00:34:15It's just, it's for, cover your outfit.
00:34:17So you don't need.
00:34:20This morning, I took a walk through the Medina to try and clear my head.
00:34:25This isn't really sexy.
00:34:27Right now, I'm feeling really concerned about everything that's happened since I landed.
00:34:33Ziad's been very distant with me, emotionally and physically, the whole time that I've been here.
00:34:39And it's making me a little suspicious.
00:34:41I'm actually really excited for this.
00:34:44But Ziad is taking me to a cooking class today.
00:34:48And I really think it's such a cute idea.
00:34:51I'm going to really try not to just be in my head and overthink things.
00:34:57And I'm hoping this could be a fun bonding moment between us.
00:35:01What are we making?
00:35:03What are we making?
00:35:06Tagine with chicken and lemon.
00:35:09Yum.
00:35:10That sounds good.
00:35:14Uh-huh.
00:35:17Can you tell me what she's saying?
00:35:19We start with lemon.
00:35:20Okay.
00:35:21Wait, but I want to do it.
00:35:24Oh, you peel it.
00:35:25Exactly.
00:35:26Oh.
00:35:28So we're peeling the lemon.
00:35:29Exactly.
00:35:30All right.
00:35:31I could do that.
00:35:35I did it.
00:35:36Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:35:36Yeah.
00:35:37She said you make it perfect.
00:35:41Perfect.
00:35:45Oh.
00:35:46Can you try it?
00:35:48No.
00:35:50Careful, two fingers.
00:35:51Got it.
00:35:53Don't I look like a wife right now?
00:35:55I have an apron on.
00:35:56I'm cooking.
00:35:57Yeah.
00:35:58This is like real wife material.
00:36:00This is actually a lot of fun.
00:36:02Yeah.
00:36:02I like this.
00:36:04I want to teach Emma how to cook for me.
00:36:07I don't have a picture of you in my mind.
00:36:09You are cooking.
00:36:10You're cleaning.
00:36:11Yeah, I don't.
00:36:11I don't cook.
00:36:13No.
00:36:14You need, for example, to make breakfast.
00:36:17I don't like breakfast.
00:36:18Dinner, lunch.
00:36:20How did you leave if you don't?
00:36:22Coffee is my breakfast.
00:36:24I could make you, like, toast.
00:36:28And what about the lunch?
00:36:29I'll order you something.
00:36:31For lunch, I can cook for myself.
00:36:34I make it easy for you.
00:36:36Yeah.
00:36:37That's better.
00:36:40What's your favorite food?
00:36:45What's my favorite?
00:36:46Do you remember?
00:36:48It's, uh, it's sushi.
00:36:50Yeah.
00:36:50I know it.
00:36:51Oh, you remember.
00:36:53Have you ever cooked for your other ex-girlfriends before?
00:36:57No, never.
00:36:57We don't meet in-house or, no.
00:37:00We, if you want to eat, we eat outside.
00:37:04So we don't have time to...
00:37:05Oh, so you don't eat in the house?
00:37:06Never.
00:37:07Just for myself.
00:37:10Oh, for my parents.
00:37:16Did you tell your family about me yet?
00:37:18Yeah, yeah.
00:37:19They know you are here and I'm with you.
00:37:24Before I came to Morocco, Zied mentioned that he didn't tell anyone in his family that I was coming.
00:37:31I was upset.
00:37:32So I'm glad that Zied finally told them.
00:37:35But I'm a little disappointed that he hasn't set up a meeting.
00:37:42I want to know more about him and understand him a little bit more.
00:37:45And I feel like meeting his family is the best way to do that.
00:37:49So do you think I can meet your family?
00:37:52Uh, I don't know which time they will be free or they will be there, for example.
00:38:00My father always traveling.
00:38:03So I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:38:06Maybe, yeah.
00:38:07That's what I think.
00:38:11Don't you think that's a little frustrating for me?
00:38:13It is, it is.
00:38:14Like, I'm not seeing your apartment, I'm not meeting your family.
00:38:16It is.
00:38:18Every one of my brothers, my father, everyone have their life.
00:38:24You know, this is the man that I love and that I want to be with.
00:38:28It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me to his family.
00:38:32And it just makes me feel like he's hiding me or hiding something about his life.
00:38:39And that's not okay.
00:38:42Have you ever introduced a girl to your parents?
00:38:44A girl?
00:38:45Yeah.
00:38:45No, no, no.
00:38:47The girls you date normally are just Moroccan girls.
00:38:50Yeah, yeah.
00:38:51Have you ever talked to an American girl, like online?
00:38:55Or just me?
00:38:58Uh-huh.
00:39:00Have you talked to girls from, like, Europe or...?
00:39:03Uh, no, no.
00:39:07Because the app that we met on is international.
00:39:10Yeah, yeah, I know.
00:39:11I was matched with a lot of girls, but I don't talk.
00:39:14We didn't talk.
00:39:15We didn't talk.
00:39:16You didn't message any of them?
00:39:18No, no, no.
00:39:21I feel like he's lying to me.
00:39:24Before I came to Morocco, me and Sia had gotten into a huge fight because I found out that he's
00:39:30still talking to a woman online.
00:39:32He told me that he wasn't cheating on me, but I'm not so sure about that.
00:39:38So I downloaded this extension on my laptop, and it shows you, in order, who people follow.
00:39:47Cut the garlic.
00:39:52This morning, I checked on my computer, and I found out that he's still adding more women.
00:40:00They're all from different countries.
00:40:02I mean, it's like he's never stopped looking for other options.
00:40:06It feels like everything is hitting me all at once, and I'm putting the pieces together.
00:40:12And it's just making me wonder if he did cheat on me, or if he even really wants this relationship.
00:40:18I think it's time to find out what's the real story here.
00:40:27I still really want to talk to your family.
00:40:31It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first, so they could have a better understanding.
00:40:39I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:40:43I need to be there with Forrest.
00:40:48Forrest?
00:41:00This is Kahlo, so this is the area where there's a lot of, you know, street clubs.
00:41:10That's something we're gonna have to do, you guys.
00:41:12I don't need to see that, all I need is my sheep.
00:41:16Forrest, it's not the point of replacement, it's the point of just observing other things.
00:41:24I have no interest in women, but the human body is beautiful.
00:41:30I don't even go to those in the States.
00:41:32On my construction job, that was our lunch, because they cooked the best hamburgers.
00:41:38Monday was amateur day.
00:41:41Oh, man.
00:41:50Oh, look at that tree coming right over the wall.
00:41:52I know, that's me, isn't it?
00:41:54Mmm.
00:41:56My conversation with Sheena yesterday forced me to reevaluate how I'm going to approach Sheena's parents.
00:42:01And we decided that it's best to meet Sheena's family first without my mom and dad.
00:42:07So what other things are in, uh, what do you call it?
00:42:10Intramural roles.
00:42:12So this is another historical site in Manila.
00:42:15It's like a Spanish piece.
00:42:17Oh, man.
00:42:18I just have such a thing for history because you have to learn from history.
00:42:23Yes.
00:42:23Because history repeats itself.
00:42:25You can kind of predict what's going to happen if you don't learn from mistakes from the first time.
00:42:32You know, that's how I've always felt.
00:42:35I'm not looking forward to talking to my mom about this at all.
00:42:39She's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that her family is trying to get the hooks
00:42:44into me.
00:42:45Like, I'm going to go the first day, and they're just going to set me down.
00:42:48They're going to open up my brain, and they're just going to pour the brainwashing juice directly into my soul.
00:42:54And she's going to fight me tooth and nail to allow herself to go.
00:43:00Here we are at the Intramuros.
00:43:04Woo!
00:43:07So this, you can see, it's like a garrison for Spanish governors.
00:43:12For all the important guys.
00:43:14Yes, yes, yes.
00:43:15For Spanish rulers at that era, yes.
00:43:18Mostly, like, 1600s.
00:43:19That is neat.
00:43:21Hey, Mom, look at the fountain.
00:43:23Yeah, that's the good stuff here.
00:43:24Oh, my God.
00:43:25You want to see?
00:43:26Oh, so beautiful.
00:43:27Yeah.
00:43:28You can definitely tell that you're not in America anymore.
00:43:30Yeah.
00:43:30You can see the constructions, the variation.
00:43:32Do you know what?
00:43:33One thing Deb and I talk about all the time is we'll look at a rock, and we say, you
00:43:40know,
00:43:40imagine how much this rock has seen.
00:43:45It all blows my mind right there.
00:43:48Oh, man.
00:43:51To Sheena's credit, she really is making the effort to show us the best of her country.
00:43:56Oh, my God.
00:43:58Yeah.
00:43:58Yes.
00:43:58Hard.
00:43:59How old is this?
00:44:00Probably a thousand years.
00:44:01I don't know if we could.
00:44:01Yeah, you could try to open.
00:44:02Maybe something will pop up.
00:44:03Oh, no, no.
00:44:04I don't want to open it.
00:44:06Yeah.
00:44:06But honestly, I don't regret going so hard on Sheena the other night like that.
00:44:12Whoa.
00:44:12Whoa.
00:44:13Oh, my God.
00:44:14I want to get one of these hats.
00:44:15Mom and her hats.
00:44:17Oh.
00:44:17Yeah, that's what it look like.
00:44:18Oh, you're like Vietnamese.
00:44:19Oh, hey, that's perfect.
00:44:21I want to believe she has good intentions.
00:44:24Yeah, you look so handsome.
00:44:26But we're just sitting here, stirring in this pot.
00:44:30I'm still struggling to figure out why Sheena lied.
00:44:34And I know in my heart that there is more to this story.
00:44:38There.
00:44:39There.
00:44:40There.
00:44:40There.
00:44:41There.
00:44:42That's the monkey's walk.
00:44:44I'm going to sit down, guys.
00:44:46All right.
00:44:46I'm sweating like crazy.
00:44:49Oh, God.
00:44:50This is all wonderful.
00:44:52I didn't realize how truly beautiful the Philippines is.
00:44:56Yes.
00:44:57Thanks so much.
00:44:58I mean, seeing this, meeting you, is so important.
00:45:05Mm-hmm.
00:45:05But there's still one little piece of the puzzle.
00:45:10And that's with your family.
00:45:13So I still really want to talk to them and discuss things.
00:45:19Well, I'm glad that you brought up, you know, Sheena's family.
00:45:28Sheena and I had a discussion about, you know, going by ourselves to meet your parents and how it's important
00:45:34that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
00:45:38So, mom, I know that you wanted to go as a group to meet with Sheena's family.
00:45:43But we would really like it if you come the next day.
00:45:48Forrest.
00:45:49Isn't that right, babe?
00:45:51It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first so they could have a better understanding.
00:46:00I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:46:05If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena the way that they do with the whole tradition and the first
00:46:13oldest daughter thing and that we're broke, then who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:46:20I need to be there with Forrest and Sheena.
00:46:27I feel it is important that you have me and Dev to stand by your side.
00:46:35Just we will come in and say our greetings, hello, how are you?
00:46:40No going and yelling and screaming, I promise.
00:46:44And so I was hoping that you would be in agreement to doing that, allowing us to come.
00:46:57Mom, we're not saying that we don't want you to be there.
00:47:00We want you to be there.
00:47:02We just want you to go the next day.
00:47:05Because we can talk about special pink fairy dust and all this other great things, but we live in reality,
00:47:14okay?
00:47:14And in reality, you are a very hardcore person.
00:47:20You know you are going to go and look for anything to be said.
00:47:25And I'm an adult.
00:47:27You can be.
00:47:27You need to treat me like an adult.
00:47:29I'm not a child anymore.
00:47:31And you should be able to trust me and Sheena in our judgment.
00:47:36I cannot trust Sheena yet.
00:47:38She has not perfect.
00:47:39This is the perfect opportunity.
00:47:40And I cannot trust you now.
00:47:41This is the perfect opportunity.
00:47:43I cannot trust you now.
00:47:46I know Forrest.
00:47:47He will sacrifice his own self and do anything for Sheena.
00:47:53This was the whole reason why I came here was to protect Forrest from Sheena's parents.
00:47:58This is total bull .
00:48:06Only moments away.
00:48:07This is so surreal.
00:48:10I'm meeting my husband, not just any man.
00:48:13I have a feeling that we're going to have some communication problem again.
00:48:17I don't know.
00:48:21Come on.
00:48:22Bobby, where are you?
00:48:27Bobby.
00:48:30Bobby.
00:48:31Ok.
00:48:44You are all I can think about.
00:48:48You are all I can think about.
00:48:56Oh, today is the day that I'm going to meet my loving husband, and I'm so excited.
00:49:05It's just so surreal.
00:49:11After being married for three years, in a relationship for six years, I finally get to meet my husband in
00:49:20person for the first time.
00:49:22It's so crazy.
00:49:27Hi, hello, good morning. I'm finally picking up my husband. Could you please bring us some champagne later on?
00:49:34I suggested that we start this trip on our honeymoon.
00:49:38So this morning, I checked into this beautiful resort in Bicol, but it's been raining ever since I showed up.
00:49:48Some people would think that it's a bad sign, but you know, I'm Catholic, and for us, water is cleansing.
00:49:56For me, it's a blessing.
00:49:58Some breath spray for the first kiss ever.
00:50:02My God, Javon, here I come.
00:50:08Can I go to the airport, please?
00:50:12Wow, I feel like puking.
00:50:16There's just so many emotions going on in my system right now.
00:50:22I feel happy, I feel excited, I feel intense.
00:50:26It's just the fact that I'm meeting my husband, not just any man.
00:50:32At the same time, I have a feeling that we're also going to have some communication problem again.
00:50:38I don't know.
00:50:40But I don't want to be negative because this moment is very special to me.
00:50:46I've been waiting for a long time.
00:50:49So for today, I'm going to focus on the positive, which is the love and the feelings we have for
00:50:56each other.
00:51:10This is so surreal.
00:51:14I can't believe that even though we almost been married for three years, I'm about to meet my wife for
00:51:20the first time.
00:51:22This moment is huge because it's been a buildup over years.
00:51:26I'm excited, but also I have a lot of anxiety
00:51:30because things are far from perfect right now.
00:51:34I would love to get back to the place
00:51:36where me and Anna can have fun and laugh together
00:51:41and be happy in our relationship,
00:51:43like how it was in the beginning.
00:51:52This has been like an overdue dream for me.
00:51:55I would always daydream of how it's going to be,
00:51:59how it would feel like.
00:52:01I wonder how it feels to touch him, to hold him.
00:52:05Oh, my God.
00:52:08The nervousness is just leveling up.
00:52:11It's like ordering something online
00:52:14and when it finally arrives,
00:52:17you're just excited to unpack the package.
00:52:20Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:52:22Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:52:24Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:52:26Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:52:28Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:52:30Just past customs.
00:52:32I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:52:34And, uh, just so ready.
00:52:37Ha, ha, ha.
00:52:38I'm waking up today
00:52:40and I'm finally seeing the sun.
00:52:42Come on.
00:52:44Puppy, where are you?
00:52:46I'm beating on my skin.
00:52:48I'll soak it in.
00:52:50Oh.
00:52:53Better days have just arrived
00:52:56and I'm ready now.
00:52:58I've been waiting for my time
00:53:00and I won't get out.
00:53:01The big thing I want cannot begin.
00:53:05I'm going to get away.
00:53:08That's a calm.
00:53:13Mommy.
00:53:16Oh, my God.
00:53:17Hey, boo.
00:53:21Oh, man.
00:53:29OK.
00:53:35Look at you in pink.
00:53:37Like a peach on a windowsill.
00:53:39Yeah.
00:53:40Yeah, I told you.
00:53:42Yeah.
00:53:44Happy, huh?
00:53:49Stop crying.
00:53:51It's OK.
00:53:51You're supposed to be happy.
00:53:53I'm happy.
00:53:55Here's some joy.
00:53:59I rehearsed the moment in my head
00:54:01a thousand times of how I was going to approach her
00:54:04and what she was going to look like.
00:54:06And she's just everything that I ever hoped for and more.
00:54:13Oh, my God.
00:54:15You're so fluffy.
00:54:18You're very handsome and tall.
00:54:20And yeah, perfect.
00:54:23It's just feels like a dream.
00:54:26It feels surreal.
00:54:27I still can't believe it, but I just want more kisses.
00:54:34Yeah.
00:54:37It's still not enough.
00:54:41I got you some chocolate.
00:54:43Some more stuff for you in my suitcase.
00:54:44Very smart.
00:54:45Yeah.
00:54:46Mr. Green.
00:54:47Like, I can't even wrap my brain around it
00:54:51that I am standing next to my wife.
00:54:54It just feels amazing.
00:54:56And I'm ready for the honeymoon.
00:55:09You look uncomfortable right now.
00:55:11So I'm curious if you're OK with this.
00:55:14Everything is fine by me.
00:55:14I am comfortable with everything.
00:55:17Seeing your photos is just, it is just.
00:55:20Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:55:22Are you?
00:55:31I will just show you some pictures.
00:55:43So as you can see, a horizontal problem here
00:55:47that we should cut vertically.
00:55:49We call it abdominoplasty,
00:55:51but in public it's called thumb tuck.
00:55:53OK.
00:55:54So fix this area here and here in this part.
00:55:58We can remove it.
00:55:59OK.
00:56:00When we do an FDL tummy tuck,
00:56:03we have to cut in the middle of your tummy.
00:56:05So it's almost impossible to hide it.
00:56:08Right. OK.
00:56:09You look uncomfortable right now.
00:56:11So I'm curious if...
00:56:12I'm comfortable with everything.
00:56:16Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:56:18Are you?
00:56:25Didn't make me uncomfortable.
00:56:28It kind of surprised me, but it's just...
00:56:31It is just people's life, you know?
00:56:37It is not a problem for me.
00:56:43So overall, all for $7,175.
00:56:48OK.
00:56:50That's pretty much all.
00:56:50The healing period, usually the patients...
00:56:52That's what I was about to ask.
00:56:53Usually the patients ask.
00:56:54Uh-huh.
00:56:55So six weeks.
00:56:56OK.
00:56:56All right.
00:56:57So like anything I do at the gym pretty much...
00:57:00Exactly.
00:57:00...would be done for six weeks.
00:57:01Almost, yes.
00:57:02Almost.
00:57:02But approximately two to three weeks later,
00:57:05you can start jogging and light exercises.
00:57:09Excellent.
00:57:09And I'll have a packet of all this information.
00:57:12Of course.
00:57:12It's already printed out.
00:57:14OK.
00:57:15Thank you very much.
00:57:16But we'll be in touch.
00:57:17Yes, absolutely.
00:57:19And if you have additional medical questions,
00:57:21feel free to ask.
00:57:22I love that.
00:57:23I was just going to ask if there was an email.
00:57:26I really need that.
00:57:27I appreciate your time.
00:57:30I'm glad I did it.
00:57:31But I feel really embarrassed about going to this appointment with Birkan.
00:57:37I'm not fully confident that he's, like, physically attracted to me.
00:57:44And having him in there with me has made me more insecure than ever.
00:57:53So what are you thinking about surgery?
00:57:56It's something that I've thought about for a long time now.
00:57:59Yeah.
00:58:00I feel like sometimes I'll catch a glimpse of myself
00:58:04and I feel like I don't look any different than I did 140 pounds ago.
00:58:07And I hate that.
00:58:09Yeah.
00:58:10OK.
00:58:11I see.
00:58:12If you feel more confident when you do it, just do it.
00:58:17This is your life.
00:58:18You have to make your own decisions.
00:58:23That shows you how brave you are.
00:58:26You know?
00:58:27I don't feel like it's brave, though.
00:58:30This feels exactly the opposite of brave.
00:58:33I feel, like, scared and embarrassed and, like, it's not brave.
00:58:42But you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed.
00:58:48You have the power to change your life.
00:58:51You wanted a better body.
00:58:54Now you have it.
00:58:56You lost all the weight you want.
00:58:58This is the best part.
00:59:00You just go into a surgery and enjoy your rest of your life, you know?
00:59:07And you are gorgeous.
00:59:13I will always be on your side.
00:59:16OK?
00:59:21OK.
00:59:22OK.
00:59:23OK.
00:59:25I appreciate that.
00:59:28I love how supportive Birkan is.
00:59:33His words are so touching.
00:59:37I feel like I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him that, yeah, he really does love me.
00:59:45And I can trust what he's saying.
00:59:48You wanna go?
00:59:49Mm-hmm.
00:59:50Now let's go.
00:59:52OK.
00:59:56You're the best.
00:59:58I know.
01:00:00That's my mojo.
01:00:08Since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:00:13No, I don't.
01:00:14I just don't want us to have any secrets.
01:00:16So what about you?
01:00:18When we match, we're talking, and one day, we just go away.
01:00:23Can you just give me some details while you're displaying?
01:00:37Cute!
01:00:40That is so cute!
01:00:43That's, like, the cutest thing I've ever seen.
01:00:45Can we eat now?
01:00:59This is so pretty!
01:01:01Yeah, so nice.
01:01:02Do you wanna sit over here?
01:01:03You can sit right at this table.
01:01:04I'm feeling a little frustrated after the cooking class because I feel like the past couple days, he's just been
01:01:11changing his story.
01:01:12He's been telling different things to me online and in person.
01:01:15Oh, this is what we need.
01:01:17This is so solid.
01:01:18And then seeing what Siet is doing on social media, I feel like he has something that he's hiding or
01:01:24that he doesn't wanna tell me.
01:01:27This is all the more reason that I think every girl needs to do a little bit of stalking.
01:01:33I would never, like, show up at someone's house in the middle of the night.
01:01:36Like, that's, like, creepy stalker status.
01:01:40But, you know, like, some light digging is, like, totally normal.
01:01:45I investigate.
01:01:47I don't stalk.
01:01:52We did a really good job.
01:01:54Yeah.
01:01:55Should we try it?
01:02:00Mmm!
01:02:02That's really good.
01:02:04Do you like it?
01:02:06Good.
01:02:16You don't, you don't eat yours, there is...
01:02:18Yeah, I'm eating.
01:02:20No, you eat nothing.
01:02:21You just...
01:02:24I have a lot on my mind.
01:02:26I'm thinking...
01:02:27For example?
01:02:30I don't know, I'm just, like, thinking about...
01:02:33About what?
01:02:34Just, like, the whole...
01:02:39Argument we got into a couple weeks ago.
01:02:41What?
01:02:42When I found out that you were still talking to girls.
01:02:46And you haven't talked to any girls since.
01:02:48No.
01:02:49So you don't talk to girls on your social media?
01:02:51Social media, it's...
01:02:53Just people who know me.
01:02:55I've been looking at your page.
01:02:58Every day.
01:02:59Mm-hmm.
01:03:00You follow new girls.
01:03:02Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:03:04No, no, there is not...
01:03:05Yeah.
01:03:05And it's, like, thousands of people that you follow.
01:03:07There is...
01:03:08It's, like, respect.
01:03:09If someone follow me, I follow him back.
01:03:11So what if they message you?
01:03:12Do you respond to messages, too?
01:03:14Mm, just people who, they know me or I know them.
01:03:17If girls try to flirt with you, what do you say?
01:03:20I would say thanks, that's all.
01:03:22Or...
01:03:23So since we've been dating...
01:03:24...have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:03:28I'm...
01:03:29I speak only with you, like, something romantic,
01:03:32because you are my girl.
01:03:37So...
01:03:37So you don't think you've ever cheated on me?
01:03:42No, I don't.
01:03:43You would never cheat?
01:03:44No.
01:03:45Or lie?
01:03:46No.
01:03:47I just don't want us to have any secrets between each other.
01:03:50For me, everything on me, I say to you.
01:03:54I don't hide nothing.
01:03:59Anything she asks me, I give her answers.
01:04:02But in the beginning of our relationship,
01:04:05she did something that confused me.
01:04:08And I never ask her about it.
01:04:12Sometimes I see her reaction, how she talk with me.
01:04:16It's like she has, like, secret or something inside here.
01:04:21It's like I feel it.
01:04:24I want to feel like I can trust you.
01:04:27And that, like, you're not ever going to do something behind my back.
01:04:29Like, I don't ever want to have to worry about it.
01:04:32I don't hide nothing.
01:04:35So...
01:04:36What about you?
01:04:38Do you have some secret to me?
01:04:44No.
01:04:45Sure.
01:04:46Mm-hmm.
01:04:50Because...
01:04:50I remember, when we match, we're talking, and one day...
01:04:56Where is she?
01:04:57I don't know.
01:04:58We just go away.
01:05:00So, when you come back, I was waiting for you to talk.
01:05:04You didn't talk.
01:05:07Can you just give me some details why you did this prayer?
01:05:16Um...
01:05:16I was just going through a bad breakup.
01:05:18So, no, in the sad moments when we talk, you still with someone or by yourself?
01:05:24I was going through a breakup.
01:05:28When we're speaking the first time, you give me a picture of you like you are single.
01:05:34You know?
01:05:35And you are not.
01:05:36You are still with him.
01:05:36Well, I was going through a breakup.
01:05:40Breakup.
01:05:40I mean, you're still talking with him?
01:05:42Like, going through a breakup means...
01:05:44Still talking with him.
01:05:46We were going through a breakup.
01:05:48I have to repeat again.
01:05:49I have to repeat.
01:05:50No.
01:05:51I was going through a breakup.
01:05:54That's my answer.
01:05:55I was going through a breakup.
01:05:57Okay.
01:05:57I wasn't in the right head space to start a relationship.
01:06:01Ah.
01:06:03Me and Zied have actually never talked about why I ended things with him when we first started dating.
01:06:09So, I'm really shocked to hear Zied bringing this up right now.
01:06:13I mean, honestly, I did kind of just drop him and disappear because I was trying to make things work
01:06:19with my ex.
01:06:23I really want to be open with Zied about Mohamed, but I feel like with the way Zied is, like,
01:06:29badgering me for this information right now, he wouldn't take it well.
01:06:36So, I'm just not really ready to tell him in this moment.
01:06:41That was a long time ago.
01:06:43Right?
01:06:44No, I want to...
01:06:45I want to...
01:06:45I want to listen to the details.
01:06:47I'm here with you now, and I want to be with you now.
01:06:49I'm not talking with now.
01:06:50Yeah.
01:06:50What I'm talking about now is...
01:06:52Because I want to be with you now and focus on right now, us being together.
01:06:58She's being weird.
01:07:00She don't want to tell me everything.
01:07:02And when I speak with her in the subject, she changed the subject for another subject.
01:07:13Right now, I see, like, she hiding a lot of things.
01:07:18And I can't be engaged with someone who has this secret.
01:07:30Wow, would you do all this?
01:07:32Yeah.
01:07:33I am very nervous because it has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:07:40Okay.
01:07:42Well, if the positions have changed, do I still know how it's going to go?
01:07:49Jovan, you ready for me?
01:07:54Now, how is it all of a sudden you can miraculously change and stand up to your parents?
01:07:59Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:08:01Now, the story changes again.
01:08:05Lying.
01:08:06Not keeping her story straight.
01:08:08That's where I have an issue.
01:08:10I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:08:14They're going to have you snookered before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:08:31I'm so happy.
01:08:33Really?
01:08:33Yeah.
01:08:35What?
01:08:36You can just look at me all night.
01:08:41Oh, my God.
01:08:42Oh, my God.
01:08:45Forrest, you need to kiss me.
01:08:46Oh, my God.
01:08:47Oh, my God.
01:08:47Oh, my God.
01:08:47Oh, my God.
01:08:52My God.
01:08:59I just met my wife for the first time in person.
01:09:03Man, I dreamed about this day for a long time.
01:09:06This is freaking huge.
01:09:09Right now we're on our way to the resort that Anna booked and it's a very surreal feeling.
01:09:17before i before i met you i have a lot of thought about this daydream about this wild dream about
01:09:26this yeah what dreams about this but then it's funny because even though we're married i was a
01:09:33bit worried about i was thinking like oh my god like am i gonna be shy but i feel like
01:09:40i can fart
01:09:41over here right now anna's personality is a big ball of energy and she's a little wacky
01:09:51and she can literally hold a conversation all on her own
01:09:57pretty much the opposite of me but what can i say that's my wife
01:10:04so am i what you were expecting you're exactly what i was expecting
01:10:11my beautiful chatty wife
01:10:13here we are
01:10:22this is really nice that's why i baked it it's got good taste you know yes
01:10:29so ready
01:10:34okay you got it yeah
01:10:54i've been waiting on this night for six years it's our honeymoon and seeing the rose petals on
01:11:01the bed you know the environment is right for us to you know get it in
01:11:15bull this is yours
01:11:19you can take off your these come with the room yeah okay you can take this off
01:11:24oh i'm kind of scared to take my socks off
01:11:31oh i can smell that
01:11:37oh boy
01:11:41i was wearing boots i haven't took a shower in like
01:11:44why would you wear boots 33 hours 33 hour flight
01:11:51get a big whiff man that's what you're gonna have to deal with on a day-to-day basis
01:11:55you want to take a shower please do all right okay i'll be right out
01:12:03i knew that i knew that i would learn a lot of things about jubon but i did not expect
01:12:08that the feet would smell
01:12:12so badly
01:12:15smell terrible
01:12:22okay
01:12:23i am very nervous because oh my god never been with a man for a long time
01:12:31it has been almost a decade since i had sex
01:12:36okay yeah look at you better i am worried a little bit i'm not going to be able to satisfy
01:12:44him i don't know
01:12:45i don't know what if the positions have changed do i still know how it's gonna go like i don't
01:12:54know
01:13:00javon you ready for me
01:13:04hey yeah look at you
01:13:09good boy
01:13:11i know we have a lot to figure out about each other the next few weeks but so far jubon
01:13:18and i are
01:13:19off to a really romantic start all right you ready ready yeah yeah but oh my god i've never seen
01:13:26any married couple that took three years before doing it wish me luck
01:13:47sheena be if we go and meet your parents i agree to not speak out of turn and i i
01:13:57don't believe
01:13:57you're going to do that and we cannot mess this up with sheena's family
01:14:15okay sheena your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along
01:14:22the cultural thing and the duty of the family now how is it all of a sudden under one day
01:14:29you can
01:14:30miraculously change and stand up to your parents well my family isn't the bad people
01:14:36it's just that probably got misunderstood oh but now the story changes again again you told me yourself
01:14:44yes mom that you are pressured and you're scared of your family remember i am you're scared of your
01:14:54family and i could know but now you feel totally safe and yes i understand how that switches sheena
01:15:03telling me that her parents aren't bad people it's like what what are you saying that's a total
01:15:10different story from what you've been telling me all along oh they're mistreating me they're gonna
01:15:16kick me out they call me names all of this and now the story switches it's hard to think bad
01:15:23of your
01:15:23parent you can't go and slam her and judge her just because she thinks highly of her parents where my
01:15:29problem is is her lying not keeping her story straight that's where i have an issue i still don't
01:15:37know if this isn't something that you're involved in either it would be the most perfect setup for
01:15:43your family and you guys your family of course doesn't want you to leave this country and go to
01:15:51the united states so you get forced to come over there and then it's twice the amount of money to
01:15:58your
01:15:58parents and he will be the the grunt just like you are stop don't i don't do that i love
01:16:05my person i love
01:16:06your son i love more than anything i have self-respect for your son but i'm just saying my fear
01:16:11is
01:16:12forrest is going to say and do anything just to keep your love and then find out that it was
01:16:18all a con
01:16:21mom you acting this way has proven my point
01:16:27i ask you to please just wait one day so i can go and greet sheena's family that was it
01:16:33and look at where
01:16:34we're sitting right now you can't even hold your temper my mom is saying things that are way out of
01:16:42line sheena is a person with such a kind heart that she would never do anything to put me in
01:16:48danger or
01:16:48hurt me i brought my mom to manila to kind of support me and give me advice but instead she's
01:16:57always just
01:16:58nuking it which makes everything worse mom i don't think one day is truly going to change
01:17:08everything of course it's not even the point you know we've gone beyond that we've it's already gone
01:17:14beyond that you know why it's gone beyond that because of the fact that you don't trust me
01:17:24i have bust my ass trying to make sure to be there for you and to be there for her
01:17:33you think
01:17:34that if i didn't trust you that i would bring you all the way here to the philippines that took
01:17:39a lot of trust a lot of trust to bring you here for a saying that he doesn't trust me
01:17:46that i won't
01:17:47blow up the reason why i blow up has always been to protect him but to see how
01:17:59he's taken that protection and made it a problem it's painful and i will not be anybody's problem
01:18:10you guys want your life you want your thing go handle it not trying to hurt you they're going
01:18:16to have you snookered before you even realize it forrest so good luck guys good luck
01:18:24so how do you feel this conversation went did you get what you wanted yes it's for the best
01:18:32that she's not coming
01:18:41oh my god is it really you
01:18:50oh
01:18:51you devoured me when we get to the room then uh maybe i will cheer you
01:19:01oh my god you better stop
01:19:03oh my god daniel
01:19:17i don't mind being here for morning to night i'll wait
01:19:23i'll wait
01:19:33i am having a little lovers
01:19:41i can't believe i'm finally about to meet daniel excuse me hello
01:19:48this is a beginning chapter no matter what it is whether it's good or bad it's going to change
01:19:55everything in my life right now
01:20:13oh my god
01:20:15oh my god
01:20:28i don't even have words for how i felt when i first saw daniel he started running towards me and
01:20:47i was like oh my god that's him and and and my heart just exploded and and he devoured me
01:20:58daniel oh my god daniel
01:21:03when we get to the room then uh maybe i will cheer you
01:21:11oh my god
01:21:12oh my god you better stop oh my god oh my god is it really you is it really oh
01:21:20my god
01:21:32don't cry
01:21:33i'm trying not to cry don't you cry
01:21:55oh my god i don't know what to do i don't know what to do i don't know what to
01:22:05do next okay
01:22:05we should go let me get my are you going to get the luggage i will get this you get
01:22:09that one which way
01:22:17okay
01:22:18what the heck
01:22:29Did you do this for me?
01:22:32Did you really do this?
01:22:34Did you?
01:22:42God!
01:22:57I walked out and there's music and it's loud and there's dancers dancing around and
01:23:03I'm thinking, what the hell?
01:23:04Is this how they welcome all foreigners into their country?
01:23:08But no, this is about me.
01:23:11Daniel set this up for me.
01:23:12What the hell is going on in here?
01:23:15This is nuts.
01:23:19Wait a minute, hold this, let me try.
01:23:21Wait, hold the flowers.
01:23:23Wait.
01:23:27Is that right?
01:23:28Yeah.
01:23:29Am I done it?
01:23:30Yeah.
01:23:34I can't do that though.
01:23:39I plan to welcome her like a queen.
01:23:41That's why I invited traditional dancers.
01:23:45I am happy that she joined the dancers and the way she's laughing.
01:23:51I am very sure about Lisa at this moment.
01:24:04Oh my God, that was amazing.
01:24:22What are you doing?
01:24:28I'm army.
01:24:39next time on before the 90 days this one is for you
01:24:48today we're traveling to meet sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be
01:24:54married they have a lot of questions for you first it's your career the truth is I'm quite
01:25:01frustrated for us haven't saved anything for a future you're an adult you could find a job you
01:25:07had to be man out of it I brought condoms too baby go take your shower get everything ready
01:25:15it's been 21 years since I've been with a man let me take your shower I want it to happen
01:25:20wait
01:25:21what if I want it and he doesn't want me when we first started talking he was so sweet calling
01:25:34me
01:25:34his wife within like 10 minutes so you are looking to get married yes
01:25:45she lied about something
01:25:49sometimes you overstep just a little bit we had that argument and you call my sister I love you
01:25:57but you are a little bit unhinged oh my god I can't believe you're born right now you done done
01:26:05with
01:26:05this conversation well this is something you didn't tell me about stop can you just calm
01:26:13down because I wanted this secret for what four months now now I'm thinking her ghost me for five
01:26:19days directly has to do with her ex there was I didn't told you if you're trying to get me
01:26:28back
01:26:31I went to Istanbul but I couldn't find job so with my dad I am just broke did you say
01:26:40your debts yeah
01:26:43how much is it I don't want to give you a heart attack
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