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Belle Collective - Season 7 - Episode 09
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00:00Previously on Bell Collective.
00:03Showtime.
00:03Woo!
00:05Welcome.
00:06The Museum of Canberra.
00:08Woo!
00:09My biggest accomplishment.
00:12I think we should do a velvet date.
00:14For all of us, not for y'all.
00:16We can ride four-wheelers and talk at the same time.
00:18It's got nothing like that.
00:20Mike is taking me to Columbia.
00:22Girl, he's talking about getting my teeth done.
00:23He was like, on our way today, I just
00:25want you to just have the most beautiful smile on your face.
00:28My doctor actually did ask me, like,
00:30do you want a hysterectomy?
00:31I'm like, you know.
00:31Don't do that.
00:32You know, because I do want, eventually,
00:35a baby somewhere in this life.
00:37So it was first at your focus group?
00:42No.
00:42I did put him on a leave of absence.
00:44So what do you want me to do?
00:46I think you should fire him and hire me as your manager.
00:49That's not going to happen, Liam.
00:58We're having some fun tonight.
00:59So subtle, sparkling lights.
01:02Tonight.
01:02Let's get our hair down.
01:04And it's like no one's watching.
01:06We on the night now.
01:09Let's do it like no one's watching.
01:13Hello.
01:14Hello.
01:15How's it going?
01:16Hey.
01:16Welcome.
01:17I'm Sid.
01:18Nice to meet you, Mr. Sid.
01:20Cliff, Sid.
01:21The first thing you're going to do before we cook,
01:23we're going to put the apron on, put your name tag on your apron,
01:25and wash your hands over there in the corner.
01:27Food bring people together.
01:29So I plan a double date with my wife and Glenn and his wife
01:35and try to get us back together and find out what's going between
01:39Letitia and my wife going to get the food as a family
01:43and bring together.
01:44Can you wash my hands too?
01:46I remember the day that we met.
01:48Yeah.
01:48Yeah.
01:49It's a moment I never forget.
01:51Yeah.
01:52With you.
01:53With you in them heels in the dress.
01:54Yeah.
01:55Yeah.
01:56I got to admit I'm impressed.
01:58But I got some things to confess.
02:01Hello.
02:01Hey, girl.
02:03Hey, Roger.
02:04How are you?
02:05How are you?
02:06I'm glad that Glenn and I are actually getting a chance to do a date night
02:10regardless of who it's with.
02:12But I must say that we are very cautious.
02:15But at the same time, I'm optimistic.
02:18It's going to be good.
02:19As long as we're not burning anyone with hot grease or...
02:24No, we wouldn't do that.
02:25It's been like that.
02:25No.
02:27Good vibes.
02:28Welcome, everybody, to Sur La Table.
02:29I'm Chef Sid.
02:31The class tonight is called Nonna's Kitchen.
02:32So we're going to cook like Italian grandmothers tonight.
02:35Oh!
02:36Okay.
02:36So we're going to make a brazole, which is, if you've ever seen like a Scorsese movie,
02:40they're always making some brazole, huh?
02:42You give me Italian, Mr. Italian, Steve.
02:46We're all Italian tonight.
02:48I know that's right.
02:51My husband felt like you needed the class.
02:53Y'all trying to tell us something?
02:55I'm a cook.
02:55Yep.
02:56You are, baby.
02:56I married you because of your food.
02:58Yeah.
02:58Mm-hmm.
02:59I do all the cooking.
03:01My husband loves my food.
03:03Like, he can't get enough of it.
03:06Mm-hmm.
03:06You got a lot of trials in the area.
03:07You finally made it where you need to be, where you can cook.
03:10Look, she finally got there.
03:12Stuff looks black.
03:14Don't worry about that, man.
03:15This thing gonna be good.
03:15Oh, girl, the butter expires.
03:19Listen, cooking is not my thing.
03:21Whatever I put on my husband's plate, he's gonna eat it.
03:26Mm.
03:27You're gonna be the first one.
03:29All right.
03:29I'm gonna put it in here, roll it up, tie it up,
03:31and put it on this container here.
03:37Nice.
03:37Yeah, there you go.
03:38Good at rolling, Glendale.
03:40That may be long, dude.
03:41It won't take long at all, you know.
03:44Now we're gonna add our tomato sauce
03:47and red pepper flakes.
03:48All right, that's the first dish.
03:50OK.
03:50How about that?
03:51Grisole.
03:51Grisole!
03:53Trish, you're gonna be point person
03:54on the saucepan for the creamy polenta.
03:57And we want to start simmering and boiling.
04:00So do y'all know what polenta is?
04:02It's not that stuff come out after Burfees.
04:05That's placenta.
04:06Grits.
04:06These are grits.
04:08Grits.
04:08Italian grits.
04:09Gotcha.
04:10Hearing Glendale joke about the placenta or whatever,
04:14it's definitely, it's light tonight.
04:16So I'm feeling very open to new beginnings with Latrice.
04:21I think that this is a start of maybe getting back on track.
04:25Really good, especially at Tambra's, um, even.
04:28Oh, yeah.
04:28That was real positive.
04:29That was really good.
04:30It was.
04:30I like that.
04:31Like, of course, a lot of stuff I already know about Tambra,
04:34so I'm just glad that she opened up a lot more.
04:37Uh-huh.
04:37Because Tambra is very private.
04:40Because we didn't know that the baby was five pounds.
04:43Right.
04:43And then Glenn said he can't stop seeing the, um...
04:46The fibroids, right?
04:46The fibroids.
04:47The fibroids.
04:47You have fibroids, right?
04:49They came back, so I have to get another surgery.
04:53And with this surgery, I came to the conclusion, with everything going on,
04:57that I do want to have a baby.
05:00Yay!
05:02Yay!
05:02What?
05:03You waited too long.
05:04I wanted to have a baby about two or three years ago.
05:08Whew.
05:09I'm so relieved that the test is negative.
05:11So how do you feel?
05:13I'm very disappointed that my wife is not pregnant.
05:16And I would love to bring a child in the world with Latrice.
05:20It just wasn't the right time.
05:22So did the scare from the blood clots, like, change our perspective?
05:26Yes, I just think me, you know, possibly being in a position
05:31to where I'm helpless, like, when it comes to a child,
05:35and, like, how I am with my mother, like,
05:37I'm never gonna leave her side.
05:38Your child is never gonna leave your side.
05:40It's like that unconditional love.
05:41Yeah.
05:42My husband leaving me while I'm on my deathbed.
05:46The doctor said she made it, she went on the deathbed,
05:49everything went good, you know what I'm saying?
05:51Honestly, it's my husband's fault that I want a baby now.
05:54Him leaving me in the hospital told me everything that I needed to know.
05:58I never want to be left alone in any situation.
06:02And my baby, I know for sure,
06:05little Clifforella will definitely not leave me.
06:08The name Clifforella, it will leave you.
06:12You waited too long. I'm older now.
06:15I don't care, you was older then. What's the difference?
06:18The difference is, I don't want to be up with the baby all night.
06:22The difference is, hire a nanny.
06:25I'm happy for you.
06:27How you happy? We're here.
06:28Can I tell you?
06:29Hold on.
06:30You're not gonna stop doing what you do to get the baby?
06:33What the hell?
06:34There's things I can do.
06:35No, you can't.
06:36That's right.
06:37No.
06:37Our man changed quickly.
06:39We're on it, we're on it now.
06:40Mm-hmm.
06:41If you don't give it up, then we're like, I don't want it no more.
06:43You hear that?
06:44That makes no sense.
06:45It made sense to me.
06:46Come on now.
06:47Them folks ain't trying to have no damn baby.
06:49I'm about to buy a dog or something.
06:51How are you in Glendale?
06:52When she rolled up that meat, that's the first time she touched the meat in a long time.
06:57I know that.
06:57She ain't not touching your man meat.
06:59There's a reason.
07:00When we removed that, it opened my, it helped me.
07:04Like, clarity.
07:06When you guys removed what?
07:07Sex.
07:08I'm doing what's best for me in this moment.
07:11What about your husband?
07:12Y'all is one.
07:14How do Gwen feel about it?
07:15How do you feel about it?
07:17I'm not going to lie.
07:18I mean, it did open up another door of intimacy, but I would like to be into her.
07:24It's kind of embarrassing, you know?
07:26I mean, you talking to another married couple, and I'm not happy with no sex in my marriage.
07:31That's crazy.
07:33That's how I cleared my clarity up in the bedroom.
07:37Okay, this is good.
07:38Yeah.
07:38We did a good job.
07:40This was a great good effort.
07:40Y'all did a real good job.
07:42Mm-hmm.
07:42This feels really good just catching up with y'all, though.
07:45It's good.
07:45It's good to be around the piercing.
07:47Yeah.
07:47Yeah, likewise.
07:48This is definitely a good start.
07:50You know, I feel like we are the head bells.
07:54But, um...
07:54Y'all relationship is important to people.
07:56If y'all keep fighting, people look at what they do in their coffee.
08:00Like Carrie with the flip-flopping.
08:02Oh.
08:02Carrie is Carrie.
08:03Mm-hmm.
08:04Yeah.
08:05Um, of course she came to taste, um, one night.
08:08Mm-hmm.
08:09And I told her that I felt some type of way because she was, um, she basically threw my
08:12husband under the bus.
08:13Mm-hmm.
08:14Saying the whole situation about, um, Selena, Mike, and the baby.
08:18I just probably put it on the guys because it's easier to just kind of throw it off on
08:22them.
08:22Babe, this is my husband.
08:24Now, one thing I'm never gonna do is throw anything on Matt.
08:28Yeah.
08:28Yeah, you know, don't do that.
08:30Mm-hmm.
08:30I'm not gonna sit there and allow you to lie or to say whatever for whatever reason.
08:34So you didn't tell Matt that?
08:37No.
08:37No.
08:37He told Matt.
08:38I told Matt.
08:39I didn't tell Matt that.
08:40I just told him up there was going on.
08:42But see, like I told him, I ain't a bell, so don't put it on me.
08:46Y'all the bell.
08:47So keep the gospel to the bell, not the men.
08:49He didn't even tell me until Elvis that he told my husband didn't tell me either.
08:53That he told Matt before he told me.
08:56I don't even, like, God think they're making a mountain out of Moehead.
09:01And women's are really like the bell group.
09:03They'll do anything that caused chaos in your life.
09:08So next time, I'm just gonna keep it to myself.
09:11This was absolutely amazing.
09:13This was, yes.
09:13This was great.
09:14Thank y'all for whatever y'all had to do and the guys to get this together.
09:19I would like to say this was very nice.
09:21Y'all did a great job.
09:22So do you have anything?
09:22What do you want to say?
09:24I don't, I don't.
09:24You might, you might get you some of the night, Glenda.
09:27Oh, baby.
09:28Well, listen.
09:29All right, chef.
09:30Oh.
09:31Oh, thank you, man.
09:33We love you.
09:34Y'all did great.
09:35You did.
09:36I'm a hugger.
09:37Thank you so much.
09:39Coming up on Felt Collective.
09:41As long as we stay on the market, we are bleeding like hemorrhaging.
09:45Right.
09:45If I told you how much of my influencer money I have used to prop up Brick and Stone,
09:49five figures.
09:50I think you don't comprehend everything that I do.
09:53What you do, you push buzz.
09:55So what's the big deal?
09:57I get me in the South, but even for me to be the first to have a million dollar live
10:03stream,
10:04you would think it would be more celebrated.
10:06But I wasn't supposed to be the face.
10:09Girl, they brought chills for me.
10:20I really want to get back there and cook some eggs, Ms. Alonzo.
10:23Come on back.
10:26Have y'all seen Carrie?
10:29Hey.
10:30What the heck are you doing back here?
10:32Working.
10:32Oh, girl.
10:33This ain't your job.
10:34What you doing back here?
10:35Yes, it is.
10:36I'm bossing.
10:37Oh, Lordy.
10:38Come on up here with us.
10:39All right.
10:41You want something to eat?
10:42Potato tots.
10:42Let me go get her something real fast.
10:44Of all days for my mama to pop up on me, she pops up in the midst of a tragic
10:51business
10:51moment.
10:53It's some multi-six figure problems.
10:55Let me just say that.
10:57And it's a multi-six figure conversation that I don't feel like having with my mama right
11:00now.
11:01Well, how you been?
11:02I've been good.
11:03How you been?
11:04Look like you working hard.
11:05You sweating.
11:06We'll have to slow down.
11:09You're too young.
11:09We got going on.
11:10It's going to make you over for your time.
11:24Hello.
11:26What did I miss?
11:27Where did I miss?
11:28Nothing.
11:29Oh, she got those tater tots.
11:31I got those tater tots though.
11:32This is the best tater tots on the coast.
11:35What?
11:36Look, I'm moving now, but I'm claustrophobic.
11:38Your daughter got a complex.
11:40I can't be trapped, baby, by no job, by no man, by no seat, nothing.
11:44It's all right.
11:44You trapped in a good place.
11:45Ain't no better place to be trapped than right now.
11:47That's right.
11:48Let's think about what else is in your life.
11:51What's the update on the mobile location?
11:53We have it on the market, and we had one potential buyer, and I think he's not able to get
12:00the
12:00loan that he needs to be able to buy it, and so now we're just back on the market.
12:04But as long as we stay on the market, we are bleeding, like hemorrhaging.
12:07Right.
12:08Ma, like if I told you how much of my influencer money I have used to prop up Brick and
12:12Spoon,
12:12five figures.
12:14The challenges that I'm dealing with in the restaurant make it paramount to put a vast
12:19amount of my time and effort into my influencer career.
12:22I got something to invite you to.
12:24I have to pour into the things that pay the bills.
12:28It's inevitable.
12:29The ship going down.
12:30It's like the chairs on the Titanic.
12:33It don't matter where you sit.
12:34Rose live.
12:35It don't matter.
12:36Well, you ain't Rose.
12:37No, I'm trying to be Rose.
12:39You ain't Rose.
12:40I'm trying to swim.
12:41You're just gonna have to cut your losses.
12:44Cutting the losses requires selling the store, but we don't have that many interested buyers.
12:48Now is a waiting period.
12:50Well, how long we gotta wait?
12:52There is no waving of the magic wand to bring a buyer in.
12:55As much as I would love for it to go that way, it doesn't.
12:58Tell you what, Carrie, you gonna have to make up your mind what you're gonna do.
13:01Because flip-flopping ain't gonna help you, especially when you're drowning.
13:05What's the next step?
13:06That's right.
13:07What is the next step?
13:08The next step is just to cut the losses.
13:10I mean, I hate to keep saying it.
13:11We know that, but how do we do that?
13:13It's very likely we might just have to close the doors and be done with it.
13:15Then I'm left with a bill.
13:16So when do we do that?
13:17Okay, we're gonna be left with a bill.
13:19I ain't trying to be left with no bill.
13:21Wait a minute.
13:22A rent bill is better than a bill paying for food and all of these people that you have to
13:27pay.
13:28Exactly.
13:28We have 20 people working for us.
13:29I don't want them to just have to lose their jobs.
13:31With all due respect to everyone that works with us, businesses come and go every day.
13:36The longer these doors are open, the more the debt is gonna pile up.
13:41Becoming a situation that's gonna affect the kids.
13:45That's right.
13:46I'm doing this for the kids.
13:47You ain't doing that for the kids.
13:49Do you think I want to have five jobs for no reason?
13:53I'm doing that for my kids.
13:54I get that.
13:55But at some point, you have to know when enough is enough.
13:58Your kids are gonna be all right, baby.
14:00In a way, I'm kind of like mind your business.
14:03Because I'm minding a business that pays me.
14:05And y'all need to mind y'alls.
14:06And that's the energy that I'm keeping for myself.
14:09How about we focus on the fact that I've got these other two bustling, thriving restaurants.
14:15I've got my social media that is thriving.
14:19And I'm not going to continue crying over spilled milk.
14:23We're talking and it's going past Gary's head.
14:26I understand.
14:26But y'all, I can't do it on my own.
14:29Like, what can we do to help?
14:31Buy it.
14:31You wanna buy it?
14:32Hell no.
14:34I'm in my retirement.
14:35And here's what you're not saying.
14:37You have the luxury of it being on you.
14:40Because you ain't got to worry about paying no bills at home.
14:42Because you got a husband who takes care of that.
14:45Yes, but all the reserve money, the stack up money that I bring, is not stacking.
14:51By not making a decision, it is starting to feel kind of selfish to me.
14:55But she got to make a decision today.
15:00Coming up on Bell Collective.
15:02You left me on our birthday and anniversary.
15:05You wanna know why?
15:06Why?
15:07Because I had to go check out what you were doing at the dinner.
15:09You couldn't be there.
15:10You went up there and got drunk and stayed there.
15:13You were sedated.
15:14You don't know what happened.
15:18You've been running through my mind.
15:19I've been thinking about you daily.
15:21Wanna spend some time.
15:22I was hoping that you made that.
15:25Feel the same way.
15:27Climpton.
15:29Yeah.
15:30What you want?
15:30Come here.
15:31I miss you.
15:32I haven't feed you all day.
15:34I've been in here cooking it.
15:35Well, not cooking, but cleaning.
15:37Cleaning.
15:38I know you wouldn't kill me.
15:40While we were on a double date with the Piercons,
15:42my husband joked about having a vasectomy.
15:45I don't wanna be up with the baby all night.
15:47Yeah, I gonna stop doing what you do to get the baby.
15:50What the hell?
15:50There's things I can do.
15:51No, you can't.
15:52That's right.
15:53Nah.
15:54I don't play those games, and he plays entirely too much.
15:58With my surgery right around the corner,
16:00it's very important that I sit and talk to my husband today
16:03so that he can understand how I feel,
16:05why I feel the way that I feel,
16:07and not just brush me off like you normally do.
16:09So how everything going?
16:12I'm just trying to catch up on a little pace work,
16:14a little house work.
16:16Pretty much some of everything.
16:17Okay.
16:18What you been up to all day?
16:20So, checking on the guys,
16:21make sure we're going on, stuff like that.
16:23Wow.
16:24I'm a little nervous going into this surgery
16:26because I know that I handle pretty much
16:28all the operations at taste,
16:30and my husband is pretty oblivious
16:32when it comes to anything pertaining to taste.
16:36If I'm not able to function or think to the capacity that I need to,
16:40then I'm afraid that taste will not survive.
16:45This is the thing.
16:46I feel like we never have serious conversation.
16:49You never take anything serious.
16:51I take everything serious.
16:52No, you take nothing serious.
16:54We're going to do this experiment without the jokes.
16:57TikTok is the new Google.
16:58I search anything from how to cook food
17:01to relationship ideas.
17:04So it's basically, we're going to sit face to face,
17:07and we're going to get really deep.
17:10I know about TikTok, but I don't be on TikTok.
17:13It's out my league.
17:15I don't want a man that's always on social media anyways.
17:17What do you think about me having the surgery?
17:19I think it's a good thing.
17:20After I've seen the picture of Tamra, they need to go.
17:25So I think for me, when I have the surgery, right,
17:29it's me having to put in place everything that has to go on
17:34in order to operate the business.
17:35You know, I have to be there like four to six weeks.
17:39So you can recover and do your business.
17:41But you're mostly on the computer.
17:42I'm pretty sure you can.
17:43You don't comprehend, like, the extent of everything that I do.
17:48I understand the state.
17:50What you can do, you can do it on a laptop.
17:52You're not operating no equipment in there.
17:54What you do, you push the button.
17:56So what's the big deal?
17:59Now, what you going to do, the four to six weeks that I'm out,
18:03you don't have me operating taste.
18:06It's going to get done.
18:08I've been running business over 30-something years.
18:11I own six and I make different business.
18:13So I do what I do good, but she don't understand that.
18:16I'm more worried about her handling her help.
18:18Business is going to always be there.
18:20You got to take care of yourself.
18:21A health is more important.
18:23I literally do everything.
18:25I do social media.
18:27I do payroll.
18:28I handle the employees.
18:29I handle everything with the city.
18:31I handle everything with lawyers.
18:33Here's what I did.
18:34What?
18:35I physically constructed, built it,
18:37overseed, made everything.
18:38It's here now.
18:39Now we have to make it work.
18:41When I did my part, I didn't complain,
18:43say you weren't doing your part.
18:45Your part was what?
18:47A few months.
18:47My part is everlasting.
18:49It took a year.
18:49I have to make sure that this business is still functioning.
18:53I want you to be there with me more.
18:55Just let's take for example.
18:57Oh.
18:58When I was in the hospital, and you left me on our birthday and anniversary.
19:03You want to know why?
19:04Why?
19:05Because I had to go check on what you weren't doing at the business.
19:07You couldn't be there.
19:07That's why I was.
19:08You was literally, I was looking on the cameras.
19:10You was drinking.
19:10You told me to go up there and check on it.
19:12As a man.
19:12I did what you told me to do.
19:14You went up there and got drunk and stayed there.
19:17Did not even come back to the hospital.
19:19In the morning, I came back.
19:20When it closed, I came back.
19:22No, you did not.
19:23You wasn't there.
19:24I asked for your permission, and you gave me your permission.
19:26One thing I'm never going to do is stop a man from doing what he want to do,
19:30because he's going to do it regardless.
19:31Okay, but you got the problem.
19:32But your love for your wife is strong.
19:35You should comprehend and be like, I should do this.
19:37Men don't think like women.
19:39Well, I don't give a damn.
19:40You couldn't comprehend, oh, well, it's our anniversary, and it's her birthday.
19:45You could have went and got me some roses or anything.
19:49Like, anything.
19:50You did nothing but went to taste.
19:53I went to a beer.
19:54And did not come home.
19:55I'm just telling you nothing.
19:56That's one thing that I'll never forgive you for.
20:02Coming up on Bell Collective.
20:04I always tell you, like, I feel like every man in my life left me.
20:07Like, my brothers died.
20:08My father was never there.
20:10And then the moment that I needed you, like, I've never been put in that position to where I'm hospitalized.
20:16I'm having surgery.
20:18I was there with you the whole time.
20:23That was one of the things that I feel like I could never forgive you for.
20:27You forgive me.
20:28No.
20:29No.
20:29I mean, it happened.
20:31And we're going on with life.
20:33I'm sorry.
20:34You felt that way?
20:35No.
20:36Because, you know, like I always tell you, like, I feel like every man in my life left me.
20:40Like, my brothers died.
20:41My father was never there.
20:43And then the moment that I needed you, like, I've never been put in that position to where I'm hospitalized.
20:50I'm having surgery.
20:51I was there with you the whole time.
20:53Like, I don't ask for a lot from you.
20:55I don't ask for anything from you.
20:57What that was was no big deal.
20:58I asked you everything.
20:59It was a big deal to me.
21:01Well, you could have called me and said, hey, come back.
21:03For what?
21:03I'll never do that.
21:04Never.
21:04See, that's your problem.
21:06You're fighting yourself.
21:07You ain't fighting me.
21:08He takes everything as a joke.
21:10And I think that that's a coping mechanism because he knows right from wrong.
21:15He knows what he should do and what he shouldn't do.
21:18I don't read Chris Rawls every day.
21:21I can't just look at it and say, this is what she wants.
21:23I'm telling you how I felt when you did it.
21:25You still did it.
21:26I didn't stop you.
21:28Why are you doing this about it?
21:31That's my problem.
21:32Because I felt some type of way.
21:34And I'm going to let you know I felt some type of way.
21:37Men of America, we're not going to win.
21:42Damn what we do and damn what we don't.
21:45We going in circles.
21:46So I just want to do something.
21:49So we can hold hands.
21:53And well, how do you feel like I show love to you?
21:56You provide.
21:57You care.
21:58And you be there in your time of need.
22:01What I love about you, besides the hospital situation, I haven't had a lot of men in my life that
22:08was there, you know, that I felt love from.
22:11And with you, I know that the love is there.
22:15It's unconditional.
22:16I know we said for better and worse.
22:19And we done had the better and we done had the worse.
22:22Like, everybody in the relationship going to have that.
22:24I believe that.
22:26We definitely got a lot of things off our chest.
22:28Because if we were to have a follow-up conversation, I feel like it'll go way better than this conversation.
22:34He's prepping.
22:35He's prepared.
22:36Yeah, in the future, whatever I want to do, I'm going to do the opposite.
22:40Maybe it'll work.
22:41I don't know.
22:43Well, opposites always attract.
22:47All right.
22:48All right.
22:48Love you.
22:52This was a great counseling session.
22:53Sorry to satisfy you.
22:54The next one is going to be simple.
22:56Mm-hmm.
22:57Well, you bet the next one, you better not leave her at the hospital on her deathbed.
23:02I appreciate you.
23:03Look how people like that.
23:04Uh-huh.
23:05For the next one.
23:06I'm bringing the heat.
23:09Yeah, you know I make the drizzle.
23:13I'm bringing the heat.
23:15Yeah, you know I have the drizzle.
23:18Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
23:21I'm bringing the heat.
23:24Hello, ma'am.
23:26Hey, girl.
23:28Let me sit.
23:30Mwah, mwah, mwah.
23:32Hey, girl.
23:33Oh, my goodness.
23:35Let me see.
23:37Oh, it's pretty.
23:39It was so natural.
23:40Oh, my God.
23:42It's real natural.
23:44I am finally back from Columbia with my new smile.
23:48I'm stopping by Tamara's job today.
23:50I just want to catch up because I missed her sip and see.
23:54And I need to see what went on and what I don't miss in the collective.
23:58How was the entire experience?
24:01We had everything.
24:02It was nice.
24:03It was so nice.
24:04Oh, you had a great time then.
24:05It was a roadblock, friend.
24:07OK, what happened?
24:08So you already know my health issues.
24:10Yeah.
24:10And one of them is high blood pressure.
24:12Oh.
24:13And you know I don't take my pills.
24:15Did you mention high blood pressure?
24:16I didn't think I had to mention getting some teeth done.
24:19Like, yes, ma'am.
24:21I had no idea.
24:23I had no idea.
24:23It was the anesthesia.
24:25Yeah.
24:25Because they had to put shots in my mouth to numb them.
24:28And every time they did it, my blood pressure went up higher and higher and higher.
24:33And they was like, we don't want you to have a heart attack.
24:35They was like, try to come back in the morning.
24:39Wow.
24:40So now I know if I have anything, I need to tell them about everything.
24:47This is definitely a wake up call when it comes to my health.
24:51I want to be here when Sanjay has her baby.
24:54And it's so much that I have to see.
24:57And I'm just not ready to go yet.
24:59I am glad she's OK.
25:01That's very scary.
25:04That's a lot to go through for some new teeth.
25:06On a lighter note.
25:07Yes.
25:08You did miss some things.
25:10So I had this sip and see at the museum.
25:15Sounds so cute.
25:16Yes.
25:16It was really cute.
25:17It was like the Museum of Tambra.
25:20So I started like with my parents, my grandparents, when I was that baby.
25:26But at the end, London Simone was the grand finale.
25:29Oh, was she?
25:29Yes, she was.
25:31Girl.
25:31So they're saying they never met her.
25:33Girl had like the little sparklers, the little smoke.
25:36And she came out in her little convertible car.
25:39Look.
25:39My biggest accomplishment.
25:45But they met her.
25:47So what did they have to say about that since you went down memory line of your life?
25:53I know, right?
25:53They're acting like this is like, oh, we finally, finally.
25:55And I'm like, now you know more about me than I've ever known about you all.
25:59You want some transparency?
26:01Everybody needs to be transparent, honey.
26:03Not just me, everybody.
26:05But then we had a talk afterwards, girl.
26:07Oh.
26:08For one, we talked about like moving forward.
26:12Okay.
26:12And the rumors.
26:13Yes.
26:14We were just talking about it's always people on the outside that's bringing the rumors
26:18to us.
26:19With Tisha's friend, I felt like literally, I'm like, I don't even know this girl.
26:24This was my very first time sitting down with you.
26:28And you're bringing me, you're bringing me some myths.
26:32The information was brought to me basically saying that, you know, her and DeMond are not
26:36together.
26:36They're basically two friends that decided that they want to have a baby.
26:39And I was like, what do you look like?
26:41Who is he?
26:42So I got a picture.
26:42What's his name?
26:47What's his name?
26:48So how are we to move forward if we're listening to all of these different rumors?
26:54And who continues to bring rumors to their friends?
26:58It's a lot of outside noise.
27:00You know what I mean?
27:02Outside noise.
27:03A lot of outside noise going on.
27:04I have never heard so many rumors on myself in my life until I joined this friend group.
27:09Baby, look, I'm thinking about old school something.
27:13Look at all these rumors.
27:14Yay!
27:16Coming up on Bell Collective.
27:18What's good?
27:19Hey.
27:20What's in that bag, man?
27:21What is that, diapers?
27:22I know you bring that to me.
27:24We got a little tag, come on, man.
27:25We got some pampers.
27:26I'm looking for that bag.
27:28Yeah.
27:52He's like Glenn.
27:54Now Latrice is okay with Glenn again.
27:56I can have a night with the guys and we can just really enjoy ourselves.
28:00When the guys get together, you know the bills.
28:03We ain't got to worry about what's going to pop off.
28:06Guys is totally different.
28:11Oh, wow.
28:12Okay.
28:12What's up?
28:13You're a spy right here.
28:14You can come hang out.
28:15Yeah, we go.
28:16In my little man cave.
28:18I'm going to close in in the future though.
28:20Oh, are you?
28:20Yeah.
28:21I wasn't necessarily expecting a cold tarp tent.
28:28You know, a wall with some heat would be nice.
28:31It's freezing.
28:33I'm pretty sure there's some coyotes out here.
28:36There's bears out here.
28:38And who knows what else?
28:40It's good.
28:41Hey.
28:42What's in that bag, man?
28:44What is that?
28:45Diapers?
28:45I know you're breaking that to me.
28:47Mike, listen.
28:48All right.
28:48Hey.
28:49Guess what?
28:49Hold up.
28:50Okay, that's mine.
28:51Yeah, we got a little teddy bear, man.
28:53We got some pampers.
28:54That's mine, man.
28:54Some little dogs, man.
28:56I need some looking for that bag.
28:59I need some looking for that.
29:01You know what's up?
29:02If that's real.
29:03Yeah.
29:03Why be crying just like you were a boy.
29:05Hey, hold on now, Mike.
29:07I be crying just like you were a boy if that's real.
29:09It was a joke.
29:10It was a joke.
29:10I know.
29:11I'm just joking, too.
29:11It was a joke, too.
29:13It's all good.
29:14Hey.
29:15Hee hee ha ha.
29:16Hee hee ha ha, man.
29:18Listen, listen.
29:19I've been in those shoes, right?
29:21So I just wanted to shed a little light on a situation
29:24that could be heavy.
29:25I bought a baby bag so I could, you know, lighten up the load, man.
29:30I'm glad to be with the guys without the bell drumming.
29:33You know, it would have been nice.
29:34It would have been a bit warmer.
29:35But, hey, I can't complain.
29:37You know, I just be talking .
29:38I know what it feel like.
29:39It's not a good feeling at all.
29:40How's Selena though?
29:41She good?
29:42Yeah. Oh, yup.
29:43She the one worried about it.
29:44I ain't worried about it.
29:45She feel like somebody brought it back to everybody.
29:51I told you about it before.
29:52You with me all the time about it.
29:54So, you know, probably feel like you did.
30:01I don't know if you slept with nobody.
30:04What the hell?
30:05What are you talking about?
30:06He saying that you did it, Cliff, didn't he?
30:08Yeah.
30:09At all.
30:09They said one of these coming.
30:15They did say all these three creepers.
30:17He did that, man.
30:17But they never mentioned the name.
30:19I knew it was me.
30:19He did that, man.
30:20I'm telling you.
30:21Who did it, Cliff?
30:22Yeah, he did.
30:23Everybody won't blame me for all these problems.
30:24If you ask me, I'm going to say I said it.
30:25You said that.
30:26What?
30:27Did you say me?
30:27I said a rumor was out there.
30:29You told who that?
30:30Me and you told.
30:31No, I'm saying who else you told that?
30:33Nobody else.
30:34Okay.
30:34I told my wife that.
30:35You said who?
30:36Oh, .
30:36That's it.
30:38That's it.
30:39That's it.
30:39That's how I got that guy.
30:40See what I'm saying?
30:41We just filed.
30:42We just filed out the court.
30:44I told you.
30:44Hold on.
30:44See that?
30:45See that?
30:47We know who did it, so it's over with.
30:49Now I can just put an end to it.
30:51She going to be happy.
30:51I'm happy.
30:52We all happy.
30:53Everybody got skeletons, but you know.
30:56You just can't do it now.
30:57No.
30:58Certain men gossip more than women.
31:00It depends on the man.
31:01You know, people like to tell a story.
31:04And they like to be entertained.
31:05So if you're the type of person to entertain people,
31:07you're going to do a lot of gossiping.
31:08That's the way I look at it.
31:09Men do not gossip more than women.
31:12Unless you're in a barbershop.
31:15I asked Selena a pretty smile.
31:17It come out good?
31:18Yeah, it came out good.
31:19It came out real good.
31:21Man, I went down to Columbia, man.
31:22Everything was cool, man.
31:23But her ass ain't told her before.
31:25They asked her, like, do you have any kind of disease?
31:28But they talking about, like, blood pressure and like that.
31:30Yeah.
31:30Her ass thinking about, like, HIV and all that .
31:33Yeah.
31:33So that's her ass.
31:34She up in that with high blood pressure
31:35trying to get her teeth did .
31:37Come on.
31:38They were like, you got your pills with you?
31:39She was like, nah, I don't take them.
31:40So they had to do hair for her,
31:43and then come back the next couple days, do the other hair.
31:45She was almost coming back looking like an alligator.
31:48Because I was over it.
31:49Baby alligator?
31:50Yeah, yeah.
31:51It was almost over it.
31:52I'm taking her .
31:53I'm going to be ugly now.
31:55The way they was talking, man,
31:57it kind of had me scared.
31:58It was like, we ain't going to be able to finish this
32:01with your blood pressure so high,
32:02because that stuff was like high, high.
32:04It was really kind of scary though,
32:05you know what I'm saying?
32:06Because I ain't know, you know what I'm saying?
32:07When you be somewhere else,
32:08you don't know what's going to happen.
32:09That would have been crazy for me, her kids, everybody.
32:11Just trying to get your teeth did if something happened to you.
32:13Yeah, I just want you guys to know, I had a cooking class.
32:17I've already cleaned his wife out.
32:19You did.
32:19It was the girls together.
32:21And the problem with the women, like,
32:23they really need to come together.
32:25Like, they got differences.
32:28And like, I told my wife,
32:30y'all got palsy in each other,
32:32which is destroying my wife,
32:34unless she make up with his wife.
32:35Because if it's destroying me,
32:37because she coming at me.
32:38I liked how my life was good.
32:40So sometimes you had to shed tears on the line.
32:43Now that right there,
32:45you did need subtitles for that.
32:49If I'd have been at your house,
32:50man, I would have got up,
32:52I would have been like, hold on,
32:53we ain't finna do this in my house, man.
32:55Have you ever been attracted to someone in the group?
32:58No.
32:58He a liar.
33:00Have y'all been attracted to her?
33:03I'm attracted to my wife.
33:04Okay, this .
33:05I probably would have been like, hold up, hold up.
33:07Let me ask something,
33:08do you really feel like I with that girl?
33:10I don't know what happened.
33:11She felt like you with her.
33:13That's her problem.
33:14That's Amanda's problem.
33:16Okay.
33:16Not a Glendale problem.
33:16Like this.
33:17Something happens, I'm flirting or something.
33:19Women get crazy.
33:20They don't be crazy for no reason.
33:21Okay, Cliff.
33:23Everyone sitting here,
33:24are we not all guilty of flirting at some point or another?
33:27My wife, the biggest flirt.
33:28See what I mean?
33:29She glad she taught everybody.
33:30Babe.
33:30I'm glad you said that.
33:31When we do it,
33:33it's something different.
33:34When we smile,
33:34it's something different.
33:35Right.
33:36Now, everybody in here know my personality.
33:38When I smile or I talk to somebody,
33:41bro, I'm being cool.
33:43I'm being cordial.
33:45I can't help .
33:46I told you quit smiling at them hoes.
33:49I'm supposed to walk around just mad all the time.
33:52For your sake of getting married?
33:53Yes.
33:54Just mad, just mean buggy.
33:55Like that.
33:56Let me get a gator smile.
33:58Glenn's got to change his way.
34:00If he want to keep his wife happy,
34:04he don't own up for whatever happened.
34:05Glenn ain't going to say it's never his fault.
34:07It's always somebody else's fault.
34:08That's the problem.
34:09Man, I think we should plan a guy through Columbia, man.
34:13You think?
34:13Bachelor party?
34:13Yeah.
34:14Bachelor party?
34:15Yeah, Columbia.
34:16Taking Columbia.
34:18Columbia.
34:21I'm with it.
34:22Columbia.
34:22Columbia.
34:26Never losing.
34:27I'm the one they choosing.
34:29As I keep moving, tell them to keep snoozing.
34:31Snoozing.
34:37Don't talk about the money, let me see the money.
34:39If you're talking about the cash, let me do the math.
34:42Don't talk about the money, let me see the money.
34:44Whip it out, whip it out, whip it out, yeah.
34:46Oh!
34:48Hey!
34:48Woo!
34:49Hello!
34:50Oh, my God!
34:51You look so cute!
34:52Woo!
34:54I'm meeting with my girl Stormi still today.
34:56Me and Stormi have been friends for way over 10, 12 plus years.
35:03She did hair, I sold hair, and we kind of linked,
35:06and it was like on from there.
35:10Booty?
35:12Hello, hello.
35:13How are you?
35:14Girl, oh, my God.
35:16She's busy, I'm busy, but when we get together,
35:18it is all love.
35:19We do not miss a beat.
35:21I can take your seat.
35:22You should take my seat.
35:23I'm going to be a gentleman.
35:25He's getting on my freaking nerves.
35:26OK.
35:27Well, I'm thinking about having my business.
35:29OK, bye.
35:29Let me take you in.
35:31Oh, my God, you're so gorgeous.
35:33You are too, baby.
35:35Me and Stormi came up together.
35:37We know what it feels like to be broke.
35:40She helped me when nobody else would.
35:43I supported her when she was doing hair.
35:45She supported me when I sold hair.
35:48And together, it just made great sense.
35:51Like, she's a successful woman.
35:53Stormi has broken so many different records.
35:55She is the number one seller for TikTok for the United States
35:59and the UK.
36:00And as a girl from Mississippi, it's unheard of.
36:05For her to break so many barriers, you can only admire that.
36:10I was passing through.
36:12Hey, I wanted to go see Mama.
36:13And I knew, like, I need to come check on you.
36:15How's your mom?
36:16She doing good.
36:17I'm building her house.
36:18So she in the beginning stages of trying to see what we gonna get,
36:24how she want it done.
36:25Is she excited?
36:26She is.
36:27Look, that construction gonna be hell, girl.
36:29Speaking of that hell, we just finished the condos upstairs.
36:33Ooh.
36:34Yes, girl, we have 10 condos upstairs that we just completed
36:37that we cannot move anyone in.
36:40You know, we want us to do the Airbnbs,
36:41but we're getting pushed back from the neighborhood
36:43because they don't want us in the neighborhood.
36:48Anytime we're open, they're calling the police
36:50like 20 and 30 times a night.
36:53What do they want?
36:54They want to paint us as a nuisance.
36:56You know, and I look at the other businesses in the area,
36:58and I'm like, they do the same thing.
37:00They play music for their customers.
37:04This is a white neighborhood?
37:06Yes.
37:07The reason why we can't rent them out
37:10is because you have to have the right licensing permits.
37:14And the neighbors has given us a lot of pushback.
37:17I hate to use the word racism,
37:19but I definitely feel like it plays a part when it comes to taste.
37:23That's the only solution that I can come up with.
37:26You know, they don't understand our culture, our music,
37:30so everything is, like, so taboo to them.
37:33I get we in the South, but for us to be so not far past that is crazy.
37:40Even for me to be the first, not black woman, not just first period
37:46to have a million-dollar livestream in the United States,
37:50you would think it would be more celebrated.
37:52But I've learned early on that I wasn't supposed to be the face.
37:57Oh, girl, that brought chills for me.
38:01But I always focus on the doors and opportunities that come to me
38:05because of the work that we do and people who notice it.
38:09The it.
38:10Girl.
38:11Take up more than enough space, okay?
38:14A lot of times I get in my head when it comes to my businesses
38:18because I work so hard and I know where I come from.
38:22Stormi's advice is all that I needed because I know where she is
38:27and I all too well aspire to be where she is.
38:30It's actually what I needed.
38:32You know, of course, I told you that they found fibroids again.
38:36So now I have to have that surgery.
38:39I'm so freaking nervous about the fibroid surgery, you know,
38:42because I have too much that I'm doing right now.
38:44And my husband is still oblivious about running the business.
38:47If I go into surgery and I have to spend six to seven weeks recovering,
38:52like everything is just going to turn into a down.
38:55So I think that I'm going to end up canceling the surgery.
38:58I just want to kind of calm down on work.
39:01Is there something you can put off like that?
39:03My doctor is telling me that I need to go ahead and get the surgery,
39:06but I know that it's not going to kill me.
39:09You cannot put that off.
39:11I have, I, no.
39:12When I had my first fibroid surgery, it was really, really painful.
39:18And I honestly remember having so much work to do.
39:22Even if my husband took on more tests,
39:25I wouldn't even be able to implement everything at the moment
39:28because I still have to train him.
39:31Pushing my surgery may not be the best idea,
39:34but right now it makes sense to me.
39:38So what's been going on with you and Canvas?
39:41Oh.
39:42In the Canvas world.
39:44Lala Anthony reached out to me about a collaboration.
39:47Oh, all right, Lala.
39:49Listen, I was like, what?
39:51We decided to collaborate together.
39:52It's our first celebrity collaboration.
39:55We've been working on it for the last three months.
39:57I took her to the fragrance house.
39:58She made her own fragrances from scratch, her nose, her vibe.
40:01And we're going to do a pre-release party
40:03so that people can try the product and then give feedback.
40:06And we can share that feedback with the internet
40:08and, you know, social media before we go live.
40:11I'm so proud of you.
40:13You are one of the most amazing women that I know.
40:16Everything that you do is inspiring.
40:18And I know that this collaboration with Lala,
40:21this is going to be insane.
40:23I'm excited.
40:23I feel like God put you here for a reason.
40:26Mm-hmm.
40:27And I can't wait to see what's next for you.
40:30Bitch, you got to keep soaring.
40:31I'm going to get on this road.
40:33Child.
40:33This track.
40:35I'm going to love you, baby.
40:36I love you.
40:37Next on Bell Collective.
40:39Where I am now is about financial independence.
40:42Like, I am standing on my own.
40:44Yes.
40:45It's time to take this to another level.
40:47I went to have a conversation with a financial advisor.
40:50OK.
40:50Why you done had a conversation with me?
40:52We talked about, um, post-nuptial agreement.
40:57A post what?
40:58I feel like we're in a good place.
41:00However, we all have our own friends.
41:04And we do support each other.
41:06Lala just said Tamper may not like Chantay.
41:09Hi.
41:10What are we doing?
41:11What's going on?
41:11I heard my name.
41:13Come on in.
41:13We have a Bell who doesn't want to be around.
41:16So now you want to stand up, but you didn't stand up.
41:18Now you're right.
41:19Now I ain't standing up, Chantay.
41:20Who are you yelling at?
41:21Get your finger out my face.
41:23OK.
41:24Check out a Bell.
41:24I'm sorry.
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