90 Day The Single Life S05E01 (2026)

BRITCOM III

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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...

00:00:01No, just don't talk to me.

00:00:03My last two years have just been one dating disaster after another.

00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.

00:00:11I should be jaded at this point, but I'm still here, ready for love.

00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.

00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.

00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?

00:00:24I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.

00:00:28I was like living in hell.

00:00:30After everything that I've been through,

00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.

00:00:37Woo!

00:00:39What are you doing?

00:00:40You're just not good together.

00:00:43I think that's pretty much it.

00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,

00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.

00:00:51Girl strip!

00:00:52Woo!

00:00:54What are you guys most excited for?

00:00:57The man.

00:00:58What happened in the Dominican Republic?

00:01:00Stay in the Dominican Republic.

00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.

00:01:07You guys remember B, right?

00:01:09I have plans to hook up right now.

00:01:13A booty call.

00:01:14A booty call.

00:01:15Oh!

00:01:16Oh!

00:01:17Sexy.

00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.

00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.

00:01:27I'm sorry.

00:01:27I feel like you're using her.

00:01:29Using her?

00:01:30Yes.

00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.

00:01:35His name is Pedro.

00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santana Pedro.

00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.

00:01:42Ha, ha, ha, ha.

00:01:44I want my wife.

00:01:45I want the house.

00:01:46I want the kid.

00:01:47Ha, ha, ha.

00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.

00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.

00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.

00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

00:02:01I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.

00:02:04But now I have to just...

00:02:05I wish you did too.

00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.

00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.

00:02:11A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.

00:02:15So it's just who you are.

00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love wife?

00:02:20No.

00:02:20I am just here concerned about him and asking you about it.

00:02:23Okay, you can be concerned.

00:02:24No, no, no, no.

00:02:26You're going to talk to me about it.

00:02:26I don't know you.

00:02:28You guys have a f***ing weird relationship.

00:02:31Okay, bye.

00:02:32Yeah, yeah.

00:02:32Trust me.

00:02:33I was very respectful.

00:02:34Yeah, yeah.

00:02:35Okay, whatever.

00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.

00:02:39Damn.

00:02:52I'm sorry, I'm the flame, everybody knows my name.

00:02:57Hola.

00:02:58Hola, hola.

00:02:59¿Es posible un pina colada?

00:03:00Sí, claro.

00:03:01Gracias.

00:03:02No, you want it.

00:03:04You want it.

00:03:05Come and get it.

00:03:06Ha.

00:03:07I'm on my mission to get in your face.

00:03:09Got nothing to lose when I'm taking the stage.

00:03:11I fly like a Peggy, so straight out the gate.

00:03:13Do I have your attention?

00:03:18Do I have your attention?

00:03:20Check, check, check, check, check, check, check, check.

00:03:24Hey, bitches!

00:03:27Click, snap, look at that.

00:03:30I'm here!

00:03:32Look at that.

00:03:33Check, check, check, check, check, check it out.

00:03:35Check, check, check, check, check it out.

00:03:37Girl's trip!

00:03:38Girl's trip!

00:03:39Woo!

00:03:39Do I have your attention?

00:03:42I'm Sophie.

00:03:43I'm 26 years old.

00:03:45I'm from London, and I live in Texas.

00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.

00:03:48It's so hot.

00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.

00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years,

00:03:53and that marriage didn't go very well.

00:03:55Cheers!

00:03:56Oh!

00:03:56So I've recently filed for divorce,

00:03:58and what better way to celebrate than with a girl's trip?

00:04:00I've never traveled, so this is like,

00:04:03you're gonna have to, like, take the will on this.

00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks,

00:04:07and just have a good time, and not stress,

00:04:09and just actually have some fun.

00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?

00:04:13The men.

00:04:15Me, too.

00:04:16And the guys here are fine.

00:04:18Even the workers are cute.

00:04:20The hotel people are cute.

00:04:21People on the beach, everyone's just cute here.

00:04:24Everything's an upgrade for me, ladies.

00:04:26I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.

00:04:28At first, we didn't get along, like,

00:04:30at all.

00:04:31But after that,

00:04:32me and Liz actually connected,

00:04:33and we kind of became a support for each other,

00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.

00:04:38And, yeah, now we've actually become friends.

00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?

00:04:42I still like the older man.

00:04:44Older?

00:04:45How old?

00:04:4693 is fine.

00:04:47Let's stick with it.

00:04:4894.

00:04:4897.

00:04:4994.

00:04:52I'm Liz.

00:04:53I'm 33 years old,

00:04:54and I'm from San Diego, California,

00:04:56but I currently live in Seattle, Washington.

00:04:58I've never actually really dated.

00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.

00:05:04But I'm single,

00:05:06and it feels really good to be single for once.

00:05:11Sofia, I know you like a Latinian guy, right?

00:05:15Latinian?

00:05:17Latinian.

00:05:18I would say Caribbean and Latino.

00:05:20Oh, no, yeah, I like that.

00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.

00:05:22Yeah.

00:05:23So, you like them.

00:05:24Okay.

00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip,

00:05:26obviously both single,

00:05:27ready to have a great time,

00:05:28and then Julia is married,

00:05:30but she's so fun.

00:05:32When we met,

00:05:33when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona,

00:05:35we immediately just, like, hit it off.

00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends,

00:05:38and I feel like she's the perfect person

00:05:40to have as a wingwoman.

00:05:41I'm going to be your coach,

00:05:43babysitter,

00:05:44whatever you want to call me.

00:05:46Annoying bitch.

00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?

00:05:50He's fine.

00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me,

00:05:53so be the single, not you.

00:05:56I'm Julia.

00:05:57I'm 31 years old.

00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar,

00:06:00and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.

00:06:03My husband, Brandon,

00:06:05very protective,

00:06:06but he has a reason

00:06:08because we have a secret.

00:06:10I'm Pritman.

00:06:12I doesn't tell anybody yet

00:06:14because I believe in superstition.

00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed

00:06:18at Jinky and Mockdells.

00:06:21So let's have fun.

00:06:22Yeah.

00:06:23Let's have Jinky and Lures.

00:06:25After dealing with this divorce

00:06:27and the stress with Rob and everything,

00:06:29like, I need this.

00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob

00:06:33towards the end of the marriage

00:06:34that it's really hard for me

00:06:36to even believe that I was just so hopeful

00:06:39in the beginning.

00:06:46I miss you so much.

00:06:47Give me a kiss.

00:06:48I missed you.

00:06:49Six years ago,

00:06:50when I first met Rob,

00:06:51I just fell in love with him so quick

00:06:53that I didn't even think twice

00:06:54about moving to another country

00:06:56to marry him.

00:06:59But even though he was married,

00:07:01I found out he actively had

00:07:03a dating profile on a dating site.

00:07:04I found this.

00:07:07You're down to be adventurous.

00:07:10Let's explore.

00:07:13I was only on a dating app

00:07:14after Sophie told me

00:07:15to go talk to other women

00:07:1710 times.

00:07:20He was just never going to be the man

00:07:22that I feel I deserve,

00:07:23and I had to walk away.

00:07:37I was only 20 years old

00:07:39when I first started talking to Rob,

00:07:41and there's definitely something scary

00:07:43about getting back out there

00:07:44because I've only known my life

00:07:46as an adult really with Rob.

00:07:48I haven't really seen what life

00:07:49looks like without Rob.

00:07:50But it's also very exciting.

00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you,

00:07:54and we have a special guy

00:07:56who we come to see.

00:07:59For the past four months,

00:08:00I've been talking to this guy,

00:08:02and it's been going really great.

00:08:08He has, like, dark features

00:08:09that I like.

00:08:10He's tall, he works out.

00:08:12He's very funny.

00:08:14If you could write on paper

00:08:15the perfect guy,

00:08:17it's literally him.

00:08:20His name is Pedro,

00:08:22and, yeah,

00:08:23it is that Pedro

00:08:24from Chantel and Pedro.

00:08:30How did you guys

00:08:31even start talking?

00:08:32I started, like, swiping

00:08:33on social media,

00:08:34and then I saw this really cute guy,

00:08:36and I was like, okay,

00:08:37like, I followed him.

00:08:38And then when we started talking,

00:08:40I was like, wait, like,

00:08:41it's Pedro.

00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro,

00:08:43you know?

00:08:44Before me and Pedro

00:08:45started talking,

00:08:46I didn't know the ins and outs

00:08:47of what happened

00:08:48between him and Chantel.

00:08:49I do know he doesn't

00:08:51have a great reputation,

00:08:52but I know better

00:08:53than to judge someone

00:08:54based on other people's opinions.

00:08:57We have been talking a lot,

00:08:58and then we ended up meeting up

00:08:59three times or so in person.

00:09:02He basically was like,

00:09:03oh, like, what's your ideal date?

00:09:04Like, and I told him, like,

00:09:06what type of food,

00:09:07what type of restaurant,

00:09:08what type of gift I want,

00:09:09and he just, like, did all of it,

00:09:10and I was like, oh.

00:09:11So what was the gift?

00:09:13He basically took me

00:09:14to a jewelry store,

00:09:15and then he bought me

00:09:15a $2,000 necklace,

00:09:17and that was the first time

00:09:17we met in person.

00:09:19Oh, my God.

00:09:21I know.

00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock,

00:09:23you know?

00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic,

00:09:25and I like that he's, like,

00:09:26trying to win me over, kind of,

00:09:28because, like, he doesn't

00:09:28buy me flowers, like, once.

00:09:29It's, like, every week

00:09:30I get new flowers at my door,

00:09:32and then he leaves, like,

00:09:32this little, like, love note

00:09:33in the flowers.

00:09:34You see that smile?

00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta

00:09:38and me in Texas,

00:09:39we don't hang out much.

00:09:40We've only hanged out, like,

00:09:41a couple times.

00:09:42So he invited me here

00:09:43to the Dominican Republic

00:09:44for his sister's birthday,

00:09:46and I wanted to do this girl's trip

00:09:47for a while now,

00:09:48so it kind of made perfect sense

00:09:50to just combine the two.

00:09:52It's going to be the most amount

00:09:53of time you're spending with him.

00:09:54Yeah, but also,

00:09:55I'm not trying to jump into, like,

00:09:56something super serious immediately,

00:09:58because I only met him, like,

00:09:59a couple times.

00:09:59You just finished your relationship.

00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.

00:10:02Like, my end goal

00:10:03is a relationship again,

00:10:04but right now,

00:10:05I also want to be single,

00:10:07and I want to make sure

00:10:07I know what I want this time.

00:10:09Yeah.

00:10:11I'm excited to spend

00:10:12more time with Pedro,

00:10:13but at the same time,

00:10:14I've been through hell

00:10:15with my own marriage,

00:10:16and his marriage

00:10:17was a train wreck, obviously.

00:10:19So I want to make sure

00:10:20I don't rush things.

00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional

00:10:22this time

00:10:23and giving myself the time

00:10:24I need to figure it out.

00:10:25We're all going to see him tonight,

00:10:26which would be fun.

00:10:27I can't wait.

00:10:28Is he bringing friends?

00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.

00:10:31Friends, yeah.

00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro

00:10:33about what my intentions are.

00:10:35I want to just come here

00:10:36and have a good time

00:10:37and get to know him,

00:10:38but I feel like

00:10:39he's catching very strong feelings

00:10:41very early on,

00:10:42and I really just want to make sure

00:10:44that I don't

00:10:46let someone force me

00:10:47into something that

00:10:48I'm just really not ready for yet.

00:10:50So, let's have fun!

00:10:52Yay!

00:10:53What happened in the Dominican Republic?

00:10:56Stay in the Dominican Republic.

00:11:17All right, cadets.

00:11:19Your mission today

00:11:19is to infiltrate this valley.

00:11:21It's full of enemies.

00:11:22They're going to be on all sides

00:11:23and surrounding you.

00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.

00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.

00:11:27Let's go play laser tag!

00:11:29Whee!

00:11:32I'm going to get you.

00:11:36Oh, I like this.

00:11:47Get around to the left.

00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.

00:11:49Star Wars side.

00:11:50Not Star Wars.

00:11:51We're not in the Navy.

00:11:54My name is Kim.

00:11:55I'm 55 years old.

00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.

00:11:58And for the past

00:12:00probably 10, 20 years,

00:12:01I've just been feeling

00:12:02really down about myself.

00:12:03And now I can say

00:12:05Kim is 55 and fabulous.

00:12:11Ah!

00:12:12Ah!

00:12:13For the past year,

00:12:15I've been on this weight loss journey

00:12:16and I've lost 57 pounds to dates.

00:12:19And it's been life-changing.

00:12:22I have more energy

00:12:23and it's like I'm just tapping

00:12:25into this young,

00:12:27more adventurous Kim again.

00:12:30When I was 19 years old,

00:12:32I went into the military

00:12:33and I was a sharpshooter

00:12:36and I jumped out of planes.

00:12:39I was the bad bitch back then.

00:12:43I got you.

00:12:44You said, ugh.

00:12:44And now, 30 years later,

00:12:46I'm trying to get my groove back.

00:12:48Especially in my dating life.

00:12:51Boo!

00:12:51You're shot.

00:12:52Oh, crap.

00:12:55Do you think we should

00:12:56just call a truce?

00:12:57Just call a truce

00:12:57and we'll work together.

00:12:58You know how I use a gun?

00:12:59I do.

00:13:00So I'm on a date

00:13:01and this is Javier.

00:13:03I'm excited to be here.

00:13:06I like women

00:13:06when they take charge.

00:13:07Oh, do you?

00:13:08See?

00:13:08Okay.

00:13:09You got the right kind of woman then.

00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah,

00:13:14that kind of set us up, right?

00:13:15Like a little blind date.

00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman too.

00:13:19Try to.

00:13:20When I saw Javier

00:13:21for the first time,

00:13:22I was like,

00:13:22well, he's kind of handsome.

00:13:24A little bit.

00:13:25No, I'm just joking.

00:13:26He's so handsome.

00:13:27Gracias.

00:13:28De nada.

00:13:30Oh, no, Henry!

00:13:32No!

00:13:34I've been casually dating

00:13:35for the last few months,

00:13:37but it is hard as

00:13:38to find a good man

00:13:40in your 50s.

00:13:42Okay, we're done.

00:13:44I'm done.

00:13:44I'm putting my gun down.

00:13:46I feel like I can see

00:13:47through all your games

00:13:48and let's just be honest,

00:13:49I was with the biggest game player

00:13:50ever in the world.

00:13:59I met Usman on social media

00:14:01about five years ago.

00:14:05He's a singer-rapper

00:14:06in Nigeria,

00:14:07and after 11 months

00:14:09of talking on the phone,

00:14:10my ass was on a plane

00:14:12to Africa

00:14:12to go meet Usman in person.

00:14:14Oh my God!

00:14:18Oh my God!

00:14:19Oh my God!

00:14:21We've been through a lot.

00:14:21We had a lot of challenges,

00:14:23a lot of disagreements.

00:14:24Why would you bring me down here

00:14:26to shoot a video

00:14:27about another woman?

00:14:28Oh my God,

00:14:29this is funny.

00:14:30Is this funny too?

00:14:32you.

00:14:33But eventually,

00:14:34we worked it out

00:14:35and he put a ring on it.

00:14:37Will you marry me, babe?

00:14:38Yes!

00:14:39I knew that Usman

00:14:40wanted to have a couple kids

00:14:41and my baby-making days

00:14:44are over,

00:14:44but I loved Usman so much

00:14:46that I was willing

00:14:47to let him take a second wife

00:14:48to have a baby.

00:14:49And it's crazy

00:14:50when I think about that.

00:14:52When I get married

00:14:53to the second wife,

00:14:54I should take her child

00:14:56to you in this state.

00:14:57No, sir.

00:14:58Listen to me,

00:14:58that will bring you guys

00:14:59more closer.

00:15:00No.

00:15:01And you love each other,

00:15:02like close friends.

00:15:03No.

00:15:03But he wanted me

00:15:05and the second wife

00:15:06to like coexist

00:15:07and like make biscuits

00:15:08or something,

00:15:09I don't know,

00:15:09and like raise this baby together.

00:15:11What the ?

00:15:13Luckily,

00:15:14I came to my senses

00:15:15before this became

00:15:16a whole sister-wise

00:15:18kind of thing.

00:15:19You're a asshole.

00:15:20You are a asshole.

00:15:22I'm done.

00:15:25We tried.

00:15:26We tried, right?

00:15:27We tried.

00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.

00:15:31I really don't need a man

00:15:32too much for anything,

00:15:33but I miss having a man.

00:15:35I want to feel

00:15:36emotionally supported.

00:15:37I want to feel

00:15:38the comfort

00:15:39and feel safe.

00:15:41Safe is like

00:15:41my biggest thing.

00:15:44So how do you like it?

00:15:45It was so much fun.

00:15:46Oh my gosh,

00:15:47it reminds me

00:15:47of my military days.

00:15:49You were in the military?

00:15:50Yes.

00:15:50Wore the little uniform,

00:15:52wore the little beret,

00:15:53jumped out of planes.

00:15:54I've done a lot.

00:15:55That's very sexy.

00:15:57Do you want to see me

00:15:57in my uniform?

00:15:58Do you have your uniform?

00:15:59No, but I'll get one.

00:16:02So, where do you live?

00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.

00:16:06Okay.

00:16:06Do you like live by yourself?

00:16:08I have two roommates.

00:16:09Oh, two.

00:16:10So it's like

00:16:11a big bachelor pad.

00:16:12No, no,

00:16:13not really.

00:16:15I live with two

00:16:16young women.

00:16:19So like,

00:16:20how did you end up

00:16:21with two girl roommates?

00:16:23I used to date

00:16:24one of them.

00:16:24You used to date

00:16:25one of your roommates?

00:16:26I used to date

00:16:26one of my roommates.

00:16:27Okay.

00:16:28What happened?

00:16:28Do you don't mind me asking?

00:16:30Sadly,

00:16:31I cheated on her.

00:16:32Javier.

00:16:33She dumped me.

00:16:35Well,

00:16:35I would have too

00:16:36if you would have cheated

00:16:36on me too.

00:16:37Yeah.

00:16:39Javier is really cute,

00:16:40but there's a lot

00:16:42of red flags here.

00:16:44He's a man

00:16:44in his 50s

00:16:45with roommates.

00:16:46And like,

00:16:47what is the situation

00:16:48with his ex, right?

00:16:49He lives with her.

00:16:50He cheated on her.

00:16:51They're still banging.

00:16:53There's something

00:16:53going on there.

00:16:54It's not even a red flag

00:16:55at this point.

00:16:55It's like an ambulance

00:16:56siren going,

00:16:57Kim, get out of here.

00:16:58Kim, get out of here.

00:17:00Thank you so much.

00:17:02It was fun.

00:17:03It was fun.

00:17:04Yeah, you too.

00:17:05In my past relationships,

00:17:06I let so much slide

00:17:08and I'm just not

00:17:09going to do it now.

00:17:10I'm not going to do it.

00:17:11I'll text you.

00:17:13Okay.

00:17:13Or text me.

00:17:14Okay, got it.

00:17:15Thank you for taking me

00:17:16out of here.

00:17:16It was fun.

00:17:17So I'm not going

00:17:18to see Javier again,

00:17:19but some woman

00:17:20is going to snatch him up.

00:17:21It's just not going

00:17:22to be Kimberly.

00:17:22Sorry.

00:17:24Bye-bye.

00:17:30Hello.

00:17:41What are you doing?

00:17:43I ran out of groceries

00:17:44at my house.

00:17:44Oh, so is my house

00:17:45the grocery store now?

00:17:47I actually need

00:17:47to take a few things.

00:17:48Oh, you do?

00:17:49Mm-hmm.

00:17:49Oh.

00:17:50Jamal is my son.

00:17:52He's 30 years old.

00:17:54I don't think anybody

00:17:56could be prouder

00:17:57of their son

00:17:57than I am of Jamal.

00:17:59He is everything to me.

00:18:05Is it ranch?

00:18:06Yeah.

00:18:07But you're not

00:18:08taking my ranch.

00:18:09I use that.

00:18:11I feel like

00:18:12we don't hang out anymore.

00:18:13You just come over

00:18:13when you need stuff.

00:18:14That's not true.

00:18:15I'm going to hang out here

00:18:16while I get my stuff.

00:18:17It's like a

00:18:18two for one.

00:18:20Do you need

00:18:21two potatoes?

00:18:22No.

00:18:22Would you like

00:18:22to take a potato?

00:18:23Yeah.

00:18:24I'll leave you one.

00:18:25Thanks.

00:18:27So, yeah,

00:18:27I went on, like,

00:18:28a little laser tag date.

00:18:30Oh, yeah?

00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.

00:18:33Maybe dating isn't

00:18:35something you should be

00:18:36stressing too hard about.

00:18:38I just feel like

00:18:39I still need...

00:18:40I just think

00:18:40you have a lot

00:18:41of other things going on.

00:18:45Indeed.

00:18:48Things have been

00:18:48feeling really tense

00:18:49and, like,

00:18:51really difficult

00:18:51between Jamal and I

00:18:53right now.

00:18:53Can you tell me

00:18:54what's been going on

00:18:55with him?

00:18:56I mean,

00:18:57there's no easy way

00:19:00to...

00:19:02say what I have to say,

00:19:03you know?

00:19:04Or discuss

00:19:05what I've done.

00:19:08Love you.

00:19:08Love you, too.

00:19:09I'm going to go

00:19:10head out.

00:19:12I've kept things

00:19:13from him

00:19:13that have broken

00:19:15his trust with me.

00:19:16Text me later

00:19:17or something.

00:19:17Got you.

00:19:18I'll be pretty busy,

00:19:18but I will...

00:19:19Make time for your mom,

00:19:21Jamal.

00:19:22All righty.

00:19:23See you later.

00:19:24I preach authenticity.

00:19:26I preach being genuine.

00:19:28And I've been living

00:19:29a f***ing lie.

00:19:30And when the truth

00:19:31comes out,

00:19:32these things

00:19:32that I'm hiding

00:19:33are going to hurt

00:19:34other people.

00:19:35I'll never forgive

00:19:36myself for that.

00:19:38Never forgive myself.

00:19:45Let's go,

00:19:46little puppy.

00:19:48The first time

00:19:48I see something online,

00:19:49you know,

00:19:49I say,

00:19:50oh my God,

00:19:51like,

00:19:52she look fine,

00:19:53like.

00:19:54The hair,

00:19:54the eyes,

00:19:55the lip,

00:19:56the f***,

00:19:56the ass,

00:19:57the leg.

00:19:57Maybe,

00:19:59if we love it,

00:20:00we get some.

00:20:01Nice to meet you.

00:20:03Nice to meet you.

00:20:03I'm Gino.

00:20:04I have never been

00:20:05to a singles event before.

00:20:07Well,

00:20:08I'm not divorced yet.

00:20:12I knew meeting women

00:20:13in person

00:20:14would probably

00:20:15be difficult,

00:20:16but how did this

00:20:17all end up

00:20:18in such a disaster?

00:20:29stop down.

00:20:31Let's go.

00:20:32What you drinking,

00:20:32what you want?

00:20:33Two counts right here.

00:20:35Check yourself out in the murky.

00:20:37Let's go.

00:20:42Come on,

00:20:43Gino,

00:20:43you got this.

00:20:56All right,

00:20:57last 10 seconds

00:20:58before the end.

00:21:00I'm Gino,

00:21:00I'm 56 years young

00:21:02and I'm from

00:21:03Kent,

00:21:03Michigan.

00:21:04One,

00:21:04let it all go.

00:21:06Nice job.

00:21:08I'm newly single

00:21:09and I'm looking

00:21:10for the love

00:21:10of my life.

00:21:12I'm way out of here.

00:21:15I'm working out again,

00:21:17getting myself in shape.

00:21:19I mean,

00:21:19after everything

00:21:20that I've been through,

00:21:22I want some young,

00:21:23beautiful,

00:21:24single ladies,

00:21:25baby.

00:21:25Woo!

00:21:26Would you mind

00:21:27taking a couple selfies

00:21:30for me?

00:21:30Of course.

00:21:31If you don't mind,

00:21:32could you try to get my

00:21:33calves in it a little bit?

00:21:34Sure.

00:21:35Give me a big smile.

00:21:37I really want to find

00:21:38a woman that has

00:21:39a good heart

00:21:40who's very much into me

00:21:42just how I am.

00:21:43Nice job.

00:21:44I just have to do

00:21:45a better job

00:21:46at choosing women

00:21:47because I have

00:21:48failed miserably

00:21:51in the last,

00:21:53well,

00:21:54last four years anyway.

00:21:59Oh my God.

00:22:00Is it?

00:22:01Jasmine?

00:22:02Is it you?

00:22:03Oh my God.

00:22:05I met my soon-to-be

00:22:07ex-wife,

00:22:08Jasmine,

00:22:09online

00:22:09about four years ago

00:22:11and went to Panama

00:22:12to meet her.

00:22:13You're standing here for it.

00:22:15Yeah.

00:22:17Yeah.

00:22:20But looking back,

00:22:21I should have never

00:22:22married Jasmine

00:22:23and brought her

00:22:24to the U.S.

00:22:25There were some

00:22:26huge, serious red flags.

00:22:28You trash.

00:22:29I don't want

00:22:30to see you anymore.

00:22:31That's your choice.

00:22:33You guys?

00:22:36I'm going to

00:22:36kill this.

00:22:38Oh, God damn,

00:22:38the president.

00:22:39Stop.

00:22:40Jasmine,

00:22:40allow me.

00:22:41Stop it, liar.

00:22:43I hate him.

00:22:45During our relationship,

00:22:47Jasmine always found

00:22:48a way to beat me down.

00:22:49And then last year,

00:22:51I found out that Jasmine

00:22:53was having a baby

00:22:54with a random dude

00:22:55down the street

00:22:57two months

00:22:58after we separated.

00:23:00I want you to know

00:23:01that I am pregnant.

00:23:04And Matt and I agree

00:23:06that we want

00:23:07to have the baby

00:23:08and that's what

00:23:09we're going to do.

00:23:10Well,

00:23:15I thought she loved me.

00:23:19I thought she wanted

00:23:21to have a child

00:23:22with me.

00:23:26She's such a liar.

00:23:33She's such a liar.

00:23:36I was knocked down,

00:23:38but I got back

00:23:39up on my feet.

00:23:39And now,

00:23:40I just want to look forward

00:23:42to living my best life.

00:23:48Like apple pie,

00:23:50it's blue sky, baby.

00:23:53Peaches and cream.

00:23:54Yeah, it's so crazy.

00:23:56Today,

00:23:57I'm going to an event

00:23:58that is hosted

00:23:59by a singles group

00:24:00that I found

00:24:01on social media.

00:24:15Hi there.

00:24:17I'm Melissa.

00:24:18Gino.

00:24:18Gino, nice to meet you.

00:24:20Is this your first event?

00:24:21Yeah, this is my first event.

00:24:22So, let's get you

00:24:23into there

00:24:24and meet some

00:24:24of our people, okay?

00:24:26Okay, sounds good.

00:24:27I have never been

00:24:28to a singles event before.

00:24:30In fact,

00:24:31I haven't met

00:24:32a woman in person

00:24:33and asked her out

00:24:34on a date

00:24:35in probably

00:24:36a good 30 years.

00:24:38Hi.

00:24:40Got Michelle over there

00:24:41and Rachel here.

00:24:42And Rachel here.

00:24:43What's up?

00:24:44Before the internet,

00:24:45I'd use classified ads.

00:24:47It was scary

00:24:48because I didn't really know

00:24:51what they look like.

00:24:52In hindsight,

00:24:54it's probably not

00:24:55the safest thing to do,

00:24:57and I'm lucky

00:24:58I never got scammed.

00:25:00So, this is Amy.

00:25:01Hi.

00:25:02Hello.

00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.

00:25:03Nice to meet you.

00:25:04Nice to meet you.

00:25:04I'm Gino.

00:25:05But even now,

00:25:07I prefer to meet

00:25:08women online.

00:25:10Being rejected in person

00:25:12is the worst, right?

00:25:13You feel so small

00:25:15and it's hard to take.

00:25:16So, I am way out

00:25:18of my comfort zone

00:25:19being here.

00:25:20I think we need to go

00:25:21play some kickball.

00:25:23Yeah, let's go.

00:25:23Let's go.

00:25:28Let's go.

00:25:31Hey, can we get Gino up here?

00:25:32Let's go.

00:25:33My bat?

00:25:35Here you go, girl.

00:25:36Go, go, go.

00:25:37Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino.

00:25:55What's your name?

00:25:56What's your name?

00:25:57What's your name?

00:25:57Gino.

00:25:58Gino, I'm Erin.

00:25:59Nice to meet you.

00:26:00Nice to meet you.

00:26:01I think the women

00:26:02are finding me pretty sexy.

00:26:04Awesome.

00:26:06Nice job.

00:26:07I think this is a very good

00:26:08first step for me

00:26:09because it got me

00:26:10out of my comfort zone.

00:26:12But now that I have to

00:26:13have conversations with them,

00:26:14I hope I don't mess it up.

00:26:16We're so excited

00:26:17to have you here.

00:26:18Every time a guy joins,

00:26:19we're like,

00:26:19oh my God, another normal guy.

00:26:21Oh, that's good.

00:26:21It's 70% women.

00:26:2470%?

00:26:24I like that.

00:26:25I know, right?

00:26:26That's why I think

00:26:27I get excited.

00:26:28I'm like, a guy?

00:26:29I'm like, oh my God.

00:26:32So tell us.

00:26:34Like, what brought you here?

00:26:35What brought me here?

00:26:36Yeah.

00:26:37Well, I mean,

00:26:37I'm single now.

00:26:38When did you get divorced?

00:26:40When I get divorced?

00:26:42Um, well,

00:26:44I'm not divorced yet.

00:26:46Okay.

00:26:48Well, I'm married

00:26:49but separated.

00:26:50We don't live together.

00:26:53I don't do well

00:26:54with someone

00:26:55who's still technically married.

00:26:56What if they're not done?

00:26:59What chance does it have

00:27:00for me to leap forward

00:27:03and try to start something

00:27:04if he's not ready?

00:27:05I'm with you on that.

00:27:06He seems so nervous.

00:27:08He's shaking.

00:27:09His voice is cracking.

00:27:10What the hell is going on here?

00:27:11What is he hiding?

00:27:13So tell us what happened.

00:27:15So basically what happened

00:27:16is five months

00:27:17after our marriage,

00:27:19she met a guy,

00:27:20a random guy at the gym

00:27:22and cheated on me with him.

00:27:24What?

00:27:24And then while she was married to me,

00:27:26she got pregnant.

00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?

00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them

00:27:34something that's going to attract them to me,

00:27:37not telling them

00:27:38about my nightmarish,

00:27:41miserable relationship

00:27:42that I just went through.

00:27:44I think it's kind of

00:27:45turning off the ladies here.

00:27:47But anyway,

00:27:48the changes sucked like a little.

00:27:50What are you guys looking for

00:27:52in a man?

00:28:01Wait, can you hear?

00:28:05Oh, did I hear that?

00:28:07No.

00:28:08I didn't hear anything.

00:28:09Okay.

00:28:09I knew meeting women in person

00:28:12would probably be difficult,

00:28:14but how did this all end up

00:28:15in such a disaster?

00:28:42Pedro's bad, baby.

00:28:48you Bad, you're bad.

00:28:52You Bad, Tony?

00:28:53My life, my life.

00:28:56Hello, friend.

00:28:57Hello, kid.

00:28:59How are you?

00:29:00How are you?

00:29:01It's a cold, though.

00:29:03My name is Pedro.

00:29:04I'm 33 years old.

00:29:05Originally, I'm from Dominican Republic.

00:29:07But right now, I live in Atlanta, Georgia.

00:29:09Trae la van.

00:29:09Si, ya estamos aquí.

00:29:11Si.

00:29:12Since my divorce from Chantel, I've been keeping a love profile.

00:29:15I needed time to myself.

00:29:17Dale, dale, dale.

00:29:20Eso, papa.

00:29:21But now, I put everything behind me,

00:29:24and I'm ready for the next chapter of my life.

00:29:27Bam.

00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there.

00:29:30Así mismo.

00:29:31Así mismo.

00:29:33¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?

00:29:34Vamos a agrar la van, ponerla bien bonita.

00:29:36Para Sofi.

00:29:36Tú siempre estás dispuesto a darlo todo por una mujer.

00:29:40Oye, es un tipo romántico.

00:29:42I'm putting my best effort in this, okay?

00:29:46Si, claro.

00:29:47I'm so excited.

00:29:48I'm very happy.

00:29:50Because Sofi arrives in the yard with her friends,

00:29:52and they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight.

00:29:55I really want to impress Sofi when she is in my own country.

00:29:58That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the van.

00:30:01They're going to drive Sofi and her friends around the yard.

00:30:04Pedro, ¿a la verdad es que te gusta esa mujer?

00:30:07No me gusta, papa.

00:30:10Me encanta.

00:30:11Óyeme.

00:30:13The first time I saw something online, you know, I said,

00:30:15oh my God, like, she looks fine.

00:30:19Like, she has everything that I was looking for.

00:30:21The hair, the eyes, the lip, the ****, the ass, the leg.

00:30:26And she got, you know, the waist.

00:30:28You know, like it's gonna go me here, gonna go me down, you know,

00:30:31like a guitar kind of style, you know, that made me a little crazy.

00:30:43I have a strong feeling for Sophie, and I really, really want a relationship with her.

00:30:47She has very kind heart.

00:30:49She has the full package.

00:30:51It's time to start your life again.

00:30:54And I hope that the mistakes you can make will not be repeated again.

00:30:59No, all the mistakes that happened were mistakes.

00:31:01Now I learned my mistakes.

00:31:03When I met Chantel, I told her my life was set for forever.

00:31:07And then, you know, everything went through the drain.

00:31:13Ah!

00:31:14There you!

00:31:15Ah!

00:31:17Baby!

00:31:21Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard and moved to the United States for love.

00:31:26Hello, my baby.

00:31:27It was crazy.

00:31:28Mwah!

00:31:29Mmm.

00:31:31But Chantel's family caused so much drama.

00:31:33They were freaking crazy.

00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.

00:31:35What'd you say ?

00:31:36I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect, and nobody else.

00:31:40Let's go!

00:31:41Hey!

00:31:42Hey!

00:31:43Hey!

00:31:46Hey!

00:31:52Hey!

00:32:17Hey!

00:32:29You're doing good!

00:32:32Hey!

00:32:37Hey!

00:32:39Hey!

00:32:39What's up?

00:32:45Hello, little Bobby.

00:32:47It's been a long time.

00:32:49I never thought that this is going to be my life.

00:32:51The fact that I'm 30 years old, not a kid, not married,

00:32:55made me feel a little devastated.

00:32:58We have to be nice and clean, what you never know.

00:33:03I want the type of life that everyone's dream about.

00:33:06I want my wife.

00:33:07I want the house.

00:33:08I want the kid.

00:33:10Maybe if we love it, we get some.

00:33:12If not, we try again.

00:33:17I want to show Sophie a time of her life in the yard.

00:33:20And I hope, at the end of the street,

00:33:22we can be a relationship forever.

00:33:25OK.

00:33:26Yeah.

00:33:28We're ready.

00:33:31What the is a picture friend?

00:33:33We are going to have some of San Diego's finest

00:33:36lead men and women pitching their wonderful single friend.

00:33:40Are you ready to meet Kimberly?

00:33:43She has the biggest heart, and she loves Cass.

00:33:52Who's that beauty?

00:33:54Who's that beast?

00:33:55Dirty mouth, but conscience clean.

00:33:57All in one, a king and queen.

00:33:59Who's she?

00:34:00I must admit, that's me.

00:34:04I know what I bring to the table.

00:34:06I got my plate.

00:34:07I'm willing and able to make my own bread and eat it all alone.

00:34:12That's me.

00:34:13Hi.

00:34:13How was everything?

00:34:14It was great.

00:34:15Thank you so much.

00:34:16But I'm going to go ahead and get you checked out.

00:34:18Have a great day, OK?

00:34:19Bye.

00:34:20For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor

00:34:24in a hotel casino.

00:34:27Ooh, it's closing time.

00:34:28I really like it.

00:34:30I like scheduling.

00:34:31I like keeping things organized.

00:34:33And I think I get that from my military training,

00:34:36because you have to be organized when you're in the military.

00:34:39Are you almost done?

00:34:40We got to go.

00:34:41It's girls' night.

00:34:42Yeah, I just got to clean up this stuff and then fold the towels

00:34:45and put them away.

00:34:46Lily's my closest work friend.

00:34:48And I love the fact that I can confide in her about things.

00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.

00:34:54I haven't been out in a while.

00:34:55So I think it'll do me a lot of good.

00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are going to meet some of our other friends.

00:35:00And we're just going to have a little ladies' night.

00:35:02I really wasn't a part of the planning,

00:35:04but I'm just down for whatever at this point.

00:35:07So if you see any guys tonight, you going to try to talk to them?

00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.

00:35:13Really?

00:35:14How'd that go?

00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.

00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?

00:35:22No.

00:35:24But that's a different story.

00:35:27I don't know.

00:35:28I just feel like I'm not going to just settle for anything less than I deserve.

00:35:31You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.

00:35:35Yeah.

00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s, no more 18 years younger than me.

00:35:42No.

00:35:42Yeah, you're going to need someone to match your vibe.

00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.

00:35:46Like, I've never had that.

00:35:47And I really need to feel that love, like, once before I die.

00:35:52Kim says that she's never experienced love.

00:35:57It hurts me as a friend because, you know, she's been through so much in her life that

00:36:02she does deserve to find love, not someone who's going to try to take advantage or use

00:36:07her.

00:36:07She's a beautiful person.

00:36:09So I believe she should find someone who is going to cherish her and treat her like a

00:36:13queen.

00:36:14All right, let's go.

00:36:16Let's go.

00:36:17Pretty girls around the world.

00:36:18They're waking up.

00:36:18They serving up.

00:36:19You couldn't catch.

00:36:20Just one if you tried.

00:36:21Oh, we serve.

00:36:21We serve spicy.

00:36:23Yeah, we know it's a lot.

00:36:25We're going right up here.

00:36:27What is this?

00:36:28Let's see where we get inside.

00:36:34Hi.

00:36:36We love you.

00:36:37We love you.

00:36:38Hello, baby.

00:36:40Hi, girl.

00:36:40Mwah.

00:36:41Hi, girl, babe.

00:36:42What do we do?

00:36:43What are we doing?

00:36:44What the is?

00:36:46Pitch a friend.

00:36:46Just chill out.

00:36:48What is it?

00:36:49We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.

00:36:57The group chat was not talking about this.

00:37:00Just calm down.

00:37:02We got you.

00:37:03You knew about that.

00:37:04I did.

00:37:05I knew.

00:37:05She's in on it.

00:37:06I hate you.

00:37:08Uh-oh.

00:37:09Uh-oh.

00:37:10Oh, no.

00:37:11Here we go.

00:37:12Here we go.

00:37:13Girls and boys, can you hear me?

00:37:17Welcome.

00:37:18Welcome to Pitch Up, friend.

00:37:20All right.

00:37:21So, we are going to have some of San Diego's finest wingmen and wingwomen on this very stage

00:37:27pitching their wonderful single friends with the PowerPoint presentation so that you know

00:37:33who is available and looking for love in this room tonight.

00:37:37Give it up. Give it up.

00:37:43Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.

00:37:47However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.

00:37:52And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.

00:37:56We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes,

00:38:01bullet points about different things that we love about her.

00:38:05And who knows? Magic could happen.

00:38:08All right, let's get started and print some friends,

00:38:11starting with Rachel pitching Alex!

00:38:16So I am introducing my friend Alex.

00:38:19We just celebrated his 42nd birthday.

00:38:23Oh, it's 42.

00:38:24He's 41.

00:38:25And he can advance for us to 42.

00:38:28What do you think?

00:38:29Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?

00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?

00:38:34Do you have a strong line?

00:38:36Standards.

00:38:39Boundaries.

00:38:41Alex, come on up here.

00:38:45Questions for Alex.

00:38:47Question.

00:38:50Alex, do you like older women?

00:38:55I don't discriminate whatsoever in 19 days.

00:38:58Okay.

00:38:59Give it up for Alex!

00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.

00:39:05We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!

00:39:12I don't know what they're going to say.

00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad,

00:39:15but all these little 20-somethings,

00:39:17and my 55-year-old ass is going to be on this damn screen.

00:39:21Why the am I here?

00:39:23I'm so nervous now.

00:39:25I'm sweating.

00:39:27Are you ready to meet Kimberly?

00:39:30She's probably the most authentic, funny military vet, yo.

00:39:38She has the biggest heart, and she loves her son, Jamal.

00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world,

00:39:49cats.

00:39:51Her cats.

00:39:52You have to love cats.

00:39:54If you do not love cats,

00:39:56if you are allergic to cats,

00:39:58no, you cannot date Kim.

00:40:00You cannot date Kimberly.

00:40:01They sleep with him.

00:40:03Okay, could we have picked better pictures of Kim?

00:40:06First of all.

00:40:07Could we have said not so much about the cats?

00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.

00:40:12Kind of true, but, you know.

00:40:14Questions for Kimberly.

00:40:16Raise your hand.

00:40:17Well, hello.

00:40:20Unfortunately, I'm under 45.

00:40:21Damn it.

00:40:23I just want to say thank you for your service.

00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.

00:40:26Thank you so much.

00:40:28Thank you so much.

00:40:29So embarrassing.

00:40:30More questions for Kimberly.

00:40:33Um, hey, why if my dad lives in New York

00:40:36and you date a man that lives far away?

00:40:40I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria,

00:40:43so why would I not go to New York?

00:40:45Why the not?

00:40:48This girl wants me to date her dad,

00:40:50and all the other guys here are, like, 20.

00:40:54I know my friends want me to find a man,

00:40:57and I know they have the best intentions,

00:40:59but this crowd is just making me feel hella old.

00:41:03Next up, we've got the Isabelle bitching moment!

00:41:06Oh!

00:41:08Okay, so where are we going to talk to you?

00:41:10I don't like you.

00:41:11I'm good.

00:41:11Are you tired?

00:41:12But I love you guys.

00:41:13I appreciate you.

00:41:14I do appreciate you.

00:41:15That was amazing, right?

00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.

00:41:21Oh, yep.

00:41:21I gotta go.

00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.

00:41:23What?

00:41:25What?

00:41:26What?

00:41:27I have plans to hook up right now.

00:41:31Oh!

00:41:32Wait, wait.

00:41:33What?

00:41:34So, like, a booty call.

00:41:36A booty call, yeah.

00:41:39People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.

00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.

00:41:43But I like to have sex.

00:41:46I like to lay in bed with somebody.

00:41:47I like to have orgasms.

00:41:49Especially now I got all this energy

00:41:51and lost all this damn weight.

00:41:52I'm like, hello?

00:41:53Come to Kim.

00:41:54You guys remember B, right?

00:41:58I'm going to f*** them.

00:42:00Oh-ho!

00:42:01Whoa!

00:42:02Okay!

00:42:16This is a great deal.

00:42:18Two for five.

00:42:18How can you beat that?

00:42:19I mean, I am budget conscience,

00:42:21and some girls will hate it and say,

00:42:23why are you being so cheap?

00:42:25Well, if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman

00:42:26that is all about value,

00:42:29we're going to get along at the grocery store.

00:42:30And I'm just going,

00:42:32floating through the ocean.

00:42:35The sky's so wide and open,

00:42:37my turn to get away.

00:42:41Hi.

00:42:42Excuse me.

00:42:43Do you know where the package meat is at?

00:42:48Like, hamburger?

00:42:49Yeah.

00:42:49It's going to be down here on the left.

00:42:51All the way down?

00:42:52Uh-huh.

00:42:53I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife

00:42:56was vegan.

00:42:57Oh.

00:42:58And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store

00:43:01and buy meat because she's vegan.

00:43:03Yeah.

00:43:04You know?

00:43:04But now that I'm single,

00:43:06Mm-hmm.

00:43:07I mean, it's no problem.

00:43:09Mm-hmm.

00:43:09I feel so happy.

00:43:10You know what I'm saying.

00:43:11Yeah.

00:43:12Ball and chain.

00:43:13Ball and chain, right.

00:43:15But thanks a lot.

00:43:16Nice talking to you.

00:43:17Sure.

00:43:18Enjoy your meat.

00:43:19Things are really looking positive nowadays.

00:43:21I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.

00:43:24I have the freedom to do anything I want

00:43:26and be who I really am.

00:43:29Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store

00:43:32and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge,

00:43:35I have the freedom to do that now.

00:43:38Hm.

00:43:38I think this will work.

00:43:42Take that, Jeff.

00:43:43The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.

00:43:48I had a lot of fun at the singles event,

00:43:51playing kickball,

00:43:52but maybe not the best situation, like,

00:43:55to find a date.

00:43:58In person, you know,

00:43:59I might be a little bit too anxious.

00:44:02So I've been posting more things

00:44:04on my social media nowadays.

00:44:07It lets me curate the image

00:44:09I want women to have in me.

00:44:11It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone

00:44:15if I know this person is already interested in me.

00:44:20Check this out.

00:44:21I posted a picture today of me working out.

00:44:25This woman says,

00:44:27Sexy man, I definitely would not be able to go with you

00:44:31because I'll be looking at you instead of the trainer

00:44:35while I'm drawing.

00:44:41I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately,

00:44:45and I love it.

00:44:46I freaking love it.

00:44:49Oh, someone's messaging me.

00:44:54Who is it?

00:44:56Natalie's replying to my workout post,

00:44:58she says, great job.

00:45:01She's proud of me.

00:45:02Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago

00:45:06when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.

00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.

00:45:13Thank you. So are you.

00:45:14And you're just so adorable too.

00:45:16Look at your smile. It's so cute.

00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.

00:45:22I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.

00:45:26But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party

00:45:29and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.

00:45:31Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?

00:45:35Oh, really?

00:45:36You should watch your mouth.

00:45:38Don't touch her.

00:45:40Relax, relax.

00:45:41No, no.

00:45:42Don't keep .

00:45:43Listen.

00:45:44Get off me.

00:45:46We didn't talk for almost a year.

00:45:49And then Natalie and I,

00:45:51we reconnected at the Happily Ever After Tello.

00:45:54And we've been texting each other ever since.

00:45:57Yeah, I responded to her.

00:45:59But I added some emojis to it.

00:46:01Like the heart emoji and the heart head

00:46:05with the three hearts around the head.

00:46:07You know, I want to get her attention.

00:46:08Like, hey, you know, I'm still interested in you.

00:46:12I still like Natalie a lot.

00:46:14So I asked her if I could visit her next week.

00:46:17And she said, yes.

00:46:20You know, this is soft.

00:46:22I mean, exactly how I like my women.

00:46:25Soft.

00:46:26This is my chance to build a relationship with her.

00:46:30But after everything that's happened,

00:46:32it's going to take a lot of work.

00:46:34I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie,

00:46:38like with actions, not just words.

00:46:40I know it's my last shot and I cannot mess it up.

00:46:44Now, that I could post on my Instagram.

00:46:46That big-ass cucumber.

00:46:51Hello?

00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls

00:46:54to get around with.

00:46:56Oh!

00:46:57Candle in the car!

00:46:59The van alone, cute.

00:47:01But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.

00:47:04He's coming on very strong.

00:47:06Ah!

00:47:06It's Pedro!

00:47:07He has a ring in his hands!

00:47:28This is my first night in the VR.

00:47:31And I am going out with Sophie and Juliana.

00:47:34and we are actually going to go meet Pedro.

00:47:37I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends,

00:47:41so I'm super excited right now.

00:47:50I need to get a spark back in my life.

00:47:54I live in Washington.

00:47:55It's always gloomy.

00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine,

00:47:59and it can be very depressing at times.

00:48:03So when Sophie planned a girls' trip,

00:48:06I was all about it.

00:48:08I need sun kisses from head to toe.

00:48:11I am really excited.

00:48:12I want to get dressed up.

00:48:13I want to go out.

00:48:14I want to meet people.

00:48:15I want to mingle.

00:48:16I want to flirt, and I want to feel sexy.

00:48:19I have jumped from relationship to relationship

00:48:21to relationship, and looking back,

00:48:24I've never picked the right guy,

00:48:25and I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.

00:48:31I think you're amazing,

00:48:33and I want to ask you out on a date.

00:48:36One of my last relationships was Ed.

00:48:39It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face,

00:48:41but, um...

00:48:42It took me a while to get used to you.

00:48:45Burn!

00:48:46We were kind of always a hot mess.

00:48:48Ed, go f*** yourself.

00:48:50Bye.

00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz.

00:48:52You are out of control, you drunk.

00:48:54Shut the f*** up.

00:48:55You don't give a f***, Ed.

00:48:58But, despite all that,

00:49:00I truly had fallen in love with Ed,

00:49:02and always wanted to make it work.

00:49:05Will you marry me?

00:49:07It's beautiful.

00:49:08Woo!

00:49:10Woo!

00:49:10But then, Ed ended the relationship

00:49:12one month before the wedding.

00:49:14You're going to be the best person of yourself,

00:49:16and it's not going to be with me.

00:49:19Liz, rest assured,

00:49:20I'm always going to be an asshole.

00:49:25Then came Jason.

00:49:27You're in the past.

00:49:28We're going to move forward.

00:49:29Starting today,

00:49:30you will never disrespect her again.

00:49:31Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.

00:49:34Four months into dating Jason,

00:49:36I found out that he had another girlfriend

00:49:38that he was dating for a year.

00:49:41And then,

00:49:42the time that I needed him to step up

00:49:44and be there for me the most,

00:49:45like, he didn't.

00:49:46He couldn't.

00:49:48A couple months ago,

00:49:49right before I broke up with Jason,

00:49:52I didn't get the best news.

00:49:55I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.

00:49:59It turned out to be

00:50:01pre-stage one ovarian cancer,

00:50:03which I actually found out through

00:50:05a miscarriage that Jason and I had.

00:50:09And I'm so grateful for that because

00:50:10it helped me catch

00:50:13me being sick, but

00:50:18I think I can touch it.

00:50:24Being sick took a huge toll on me.

00:50:27But I also know that I'm going to overcome it.

00:50:31I'm really hopeful about my future.

00:50:34I don't want to waste any moment.

00:50:38I want to

00:50:39live my life.

00:50:41And I really do want to find love again.

00:50:45Girls night.

00:50:47I deserve the best.

00:50:49And I've definitely learned that life is too short

00:50:52to accept anything else.

00:50:53I bet you're missing me now.

00:51:00Yeah, my soul.

00:51:03I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.

00:51:06Really?

00:51:07Yeah.

00:51:07Mine was like two days before this trailer.

00:51:10It's my first night in the DR,

00:51:12and I have my girls with me,

00:51:13but I'm also really looking forward

00:51:14to just spending some time with Pedro.

00:51:16Hello?

00:51:17Oh my gosh.

00:51:18Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls

00:51:20to basically use in the DR

00:51:22and get around with,

00:51:23which I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.

00:51:25Bye.

00:51:26Hello.

00:51:33Oh my God.

00:51:35Oh my goodness.

00:51:37Oh my goodness.

00:51:38Okay, should I hop in the back?

00:51:39I'm sorry.

00:51:40That is like candle in the car.

00:51:45Candle in the car.

00:51:47The van alone, cute.

00:51:49But the other stuff,

00:51:50I feel very overwhelmed

00:51:51and I just feel like he's coming on very strong.

00:51:55I feel like that's just welcome to his country.

00:51:58I don't think that's too much.

00:52:00And it's nice.

00:52:00Candle in the car, okay.

00:52:02Candle in the car is blowing my mind.

00:52:05Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?

00:52:09No, it's really cute.

00:52:11It's cute.

00:52:11It is cute.

00:52:12It is cute.

00:52:15Did he do the ball as well?

00:52:18Pedro put this in more than a sexy vibe,

00:52:21but he forgot we will be there too.

00:52:23It's a sexy vibe for me

00:52:25and my friends.

00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.

00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.

00:52:30I speak Julia language.

00:52:32Yeah.

00:52:32This translator.

00:52:34Yeah.

00:52:35Do you wanna kiss him?

00:52:36Yeah.

00:52:37If he goes in for like a pssst.

00:52:38Well, yeah, we haven't done anything yet, you know?

00:52:40So it's like, I'm gonna hug him.

00:52:42Do we keep the tequila out of your hands

00:52:44or do we put it in your hands?

00:52:45Put it in my hands.

00:52:46Okay.

00:52:47In my hands.

00:52:55Let's go.

00:52:57Let's dance a mosh.

00:52:59Honey, I don't know if I can make it long

00:53:03Cause I'll be watching you while the DJ plays your song

00:53:07It's been two and a half months the last time I saw Sophie.

00:53:10I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.

00:53:13Maybe you could show me

00:53:16Cause I've been waiting so long

00:53:22Ah, it's Pedro!

00:53:24Where is he?

00:53:24He has a ring in his hand.

00:53:26Shut up.

00:53:27He has a ring of flowers and the red carpet.

00:53:30You've been dying.

00:53:31I'm gonna go film.

00:53:35You got this, girl.

00:53:39Wow!

00:53:41You look good.

00:53:44How are you?

00:53:45How you been?

00:53:45I'm good.

00:53:46How are you?

00:53:46How was the flying?

00:53:47As long as okay.

00:53:50She looked like stunning.

00:53:53She looked stunning.

00:53:54Oh, the hug that she gave me was very awkward.

00:53:57Hooked like a brother.

00:53:59She looked like a...

00:54:00Hooked like a brother.

00:54:02Like a side hug.

00:54:04Like...

00:54:05Even the baseball, they give you a little spanky.

00:54:07Oh, good job, boy.

00:54:09Bam!

00:54:12Introduce me to you.

00:54:13Oh, yeah, that's...

00:54:15How's it going?

00:54:19How's it going?

00:54:20That was the first time I met Julia

00:54:22And then she hugged me with so much sighting

00:54:23Like, God damn it.

00:54:24Like, Sophie, come on.

00:54:26Get Julia's energy, please.

00:54:28You love it?

00:54:29I'm ready to be here.

00:54:30Pedro, nice to meet you.

00:54:31Nice to meet you.

00:54:32Liz.

00:54:33Okay, ladies.

00:54:34We're going to go out there to the rooftop.

00:54:37You're going to meet my friends.

00:54:38Enjoy the night.

00:54:40Follow me, ladies.

00:54:41Which way should we go?

00:54:41How you doing?

00:54:43Very good.

00:54:43How are you?

00:54:44Good, good, good.

00:54:45Is it this one?

00:54:46Yeah.

00:54:56Good, good.

00:54:59Guys, let me introduce you.

00:55:02That's my friend Villas.

00:55:04Darling.

00:55:05Ernestys.

00:55:05Rafael.

00:55:07Okay.

00:55:08She's Sophie.

00:55:09Julia.

00:55:11And Liz.

00:55:13Nice to meet you.

00:55:14Well, how was the band?

00:55:16Was good?

00:55:17Yeah, yeah.

00:55:17It was here.

00:55:18Good job, guys.

00:55:19They helped me.

00:55:20That was super cute.

00:55:23I can tell Pedro's very excited for all his friends

00:55:26to meet me, which it's nice, but it feels like I'm like

00:55:32walking into like a job interview or like I'm supposed

00:55:34to give a speech or something because they were just sat

00:55:36there like this at me.

00:55:39Okay.

00:55:40Make sure you sit.

00:55:41Let me.

00:55:45I already feel like there's expectation of me and I'm

00:55:49kind of brought here as Pedro's girlfriend.

00:55:52It's just kind of freaking me out a little bit.

00:55:57One.

00:55:58Let's just go pee.

00:55:59Okay, yeah.

00:55:59We're just going to go to the bathroom real quick.

00:56:00Okay, go to the bathroom.

00:56:02Do you know where the bathroom at?

00:56:03We'll find it.

00:56:05Huh?

00:56:05We'll find it.

00:56:14That's energy, bro.

00:56:15I don't know.

00:56:16What's life?

00:56:17I don't know.

00:56:19I don't know.

00:56:20I don't know.

00:56:21What's very awkward?

00:56:23I'm excited that Sophie is here, but right now,

00:56:26it's still cold, indifference, weird, you know,

00:56:31like awkward.

00:56:34Sophie is an entirely different person than I met before.

00:56:40Sexually, he's good.

00:56:42He's great with me.

00:56:43And his is big.

00:56:44So there you go.

00:56:46Even though I'm in my 50s, I still have urges.

00:56:49I still have needs.

00:56:53Ooh.

00:57:07I have plans to hook up right now.

00:57:10Whoa.

00:57:12Whoa.

00:57:14I'm feeling too flat.

00:57:16Yeah.

00:57:17I been going way up.

00:57:18Yeah.

00:57:19Give me my paper.

00:57:20Because you already know.

00:57:21Wait.

00:57:22Wait.

00:57:23So like, a booty call.

00:57:26A booty call.

00:57:27Yeah.

00:57:28So a booty call is when you're not in a relationship,

00:57:31and you just meet up with one of your little friends,

00:57:34and you know, you have some drinky drinks,

00:57:36and then do the deed, and then you just go home.

00:57:40Even though I'm in my 50s, I still have urges.

00:57:43I still have needs.

00:57:44And it like gets the needs met.

00:57:46You know what?

00:57:47It's a step in the right direction.

00:57:50Why not?

00:57:51I'm meeting up with Benjamin, or as everybody calls him,

00:57:54B.

00:57:55He's a really good friend of mine, and I dated him for about

00:57:57six months before I met Usman.

00:58:00Once Usman and I broke up, and he knew it,

00:58:03he just slid right in the DMs, and we've been banging it out

00:58:07ever since.

00:58:10It's tricky with me and B, because the connection is there.

00:58:13Like, you can feel it, you know?

00:58:14But he's just a friend with benefits.

00:58:17Like, I just don't feel like we're at that point

00:58:19to make it a relationship.

00:58:21When B and I tried to date like five, six years ago,

00:58:25we were doing pretty good.

00:58:26We have a lot of things in common.

00:58:28And then about six months in, B hit me up with he wanted

00:58:31to be like in a thropple.

00:58:33He wanted me to have sex with the woman,

00:58:36and I was just like, are you high?

00:58:38No, I'm not doing that.

00:58:40He was very free-spirited back then, and Kim was not.

00:58:43Sexually, B is good.

00:58:45He's great with me.

00:58:46And his is big, so there you go.

00:58:48What?

00:58:48You had that with Usman, though.

00:58:50It was the same thing.

00:58:51You had the connection, but there was all these other red flags.

00:58:54That's how I feel, and I don't want the red flags.

00:58:56No.

00:58:57Being a woman of a certain age that we all are,

00:59:03it is refreshing for me to see her having a little bit of a hoe phase.

00:59:12You know what?

00:59:13I'm all for that.

00:59:13Are you for that?

00:59:14Yeah, I think she, I mean...

00:59:16Get it out of her system for a little bit until she finds the right one.

00:59:19Friends with benefits, whatever they have is a good connection.

00:59:22I'm down for it.

00:59:23Yeah.

00:59:23Love you.

00:59:24I love you.

00:59:25All right, bye.

00:59:25I love you.

00:59:25Love you, too.

00:59:26But we want her to find somebody that is truly special,

00:59:30and truly someone that she can fall in love with, and that loves her.

00:59:34True.

00:59:35He ain't the one.

00:59:36No.

00:59:36But for tonight, he is the one.

00:59:45B and I have been hooking up every couple of weeks in some really nice hotels

00:59:48because he has roommates, and with my house, I never know if Jamal's going to show up or not.

00:59:59At first, it was a little inconvenient, but I have to tell you, like, hotel sex is kind of hot.

01:00:03Nice hotel sex.

01:00:13Ooh.

01:00:14Ooh.

01:00:15Yeah.

01:00:16Come on in.

01:00:17I've been waiting to see you.

01:00:22It's good to see you, Michelle.

01:00:24I know.

01:00:25I know.

01:00:25Hell yeah.

01:00:26Come on in.

01:00:27This is nice, B.

01:00:28I know, right?

01:00:29So much nicer than those old hotels we used to get.

01:00:33Man.

01:00:34Back in the day.

01:00:35Absolutely.

01:00:36Look at us now.

01:00:37You look beautiful, as usual.

01:00:39I try.

01:00:40My name is Benjamin, but everybody calls me B because I'm like the bumblebee.

01:00:46I'll always be buzzing around, and you never know where I'll land at.

01:00:50This is a good bed.

01:00:51This is nice.

01:00:52Look at that.

01:00:53This is a big bed.

01:00:55The reason why me and Kim keep coming back to each other is definitely because of the friendship that we

01:01:00have together.

01:01:00She's somebody I'd definitely like.

01:01:03I rock with.

01:01:05So I went to this dating event thing.

01:01:08Today?

01:01:08Yeah.

01:01:09See, this is why I love you, because we can talk about this stuff, right?

01:01:12Of course.

01:01:13So it was Laura and Jody and my friend Lily.

01:01:15Right.

01:01:16And they pitched me.

01:01:17So it was called Pitch a Friend.

01:01:19It was a slideshow presentation about-

01:01:21Like a real slideshow?

01:01:23Yes.

01:01:23Like with pitchers?

01:01:24Yeah, of me.

01:01:25And then like my likes and dislikes and all this stuff.

01:01:28Wow.

01:01:28So it was cool.

01:01:29It was very touching, but it just was not my thing.

01:01:32Sometimes I tell B about me like meeting other guys or like this whole pitch a friend thing,

01:01:36because I want to see what he's going to say.

01:01:38Like, don't do that.

01:01:40Let me try to be your man.

01:01:41B and I are good together and I know he sees it.

01:01:43And I was kind of hoping that with age that B would like, you know, calm it down a little

01:01:48bit with the sexcapades and want to be in a monogamous relationship.

01:01:52We've known each other forever.

01:01:54Yeah, I miss you so much.

01:01:55I miss you too.

01:01:56Like we're cool.

01:01:57Like we're friends with benefits now and I love that.

01:01:58But like I'd like maybe to see it grow to see what else it could be.

01:02:03We've always talked about it, you know?

01:02:06And the only way we're going to find that out is with more time.

01:02:09Mm-hmm.

01:02:10We should plan like once every two weeks.

01:02:13When we can.

01:02:17You haven't even been to my house yet.

01:02:18No, but I'm...

01:02:19It's so crazy.

01:02:20I'm coming.

01:02:26Yeah.

01:02:27Okay.

01:02:28I am tired and I just want to go take a shower.

01:02:30Is that okay?

01:02:31Yeah, of course.

01:02:32Okay.

01:02:33I'll give you a massage once I get out of the shower.

01:02:35So, I'm just...

01:02:37I'm just...

01:02:38Baby, baby, please.

01:02:40Baby, baby, baby, baby, please.

01:02:41What?

01:02:42Can you show me like what that might feel like?

01:02:46Yes.

01:02:46Let's go.

01:02:47Let me see.

01:02:48Let me see.

01:02:50I have good hands.

01:02:52I love B to death, and I would love to be in a relationship with him.

01:02:55And I'm putting out the vibe, but he is not picking up what Kim is putting down.

01:02:59So, I mean, where do we go from here?

01:03:01Ooh.

01:03:02Dang.

01:03:03All right.

01:03:04I'm going to go take a shower.

01:03:05Ooh.

01:03:06I don't want to be shuffling with my walker up to a hotel room when I'm 80 years old.

01:03:10I just want more for myself.

01:03:12So, if he doesn't step up soon, I mean, this whole relationship is going to have an expiration date.

01:03:17I'm not going to keep waiting.

01:03:22Traveling today to see Natalie again.

01:03:25God, aren't these sexy?

01:03:26I mean, holy cow.

01:03:28I hope she gives me a second chance.

01:03:30And more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.

01:03:51Why are you packing up shampoo?

01:03:53Well, I got to wash the hair, right?

01:03:55The little hair that I have, the patch of hair on the back of my head.

01:03:58I shampoo it.

01:04:00I condition it.

01:04:01I take very good care of it.

01:04:03That's the only hair I got left on my head.

01:04:06I've got a good thing going, and I'm never slowing down.

01:04:17I want to look good for Natalie, you know, so I bought a couple of new shirts.

01:04:23Hopefully, she'll like them.

01:04:25I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie.

01:04:29They're colorful.

01:04:31That's for sure.

01:04:33Definitely colorful.

01:04:34I visited Natalie in Vegas previously because that's where her home's at.

01:04:39This time, I'm going to travel to DC because she's currently working remotely there.

01:04:45God, aren't these sexy?

01:04:47I mean, holy cow.

01:04:48That's some sexy-ass underwear right here.

01:04:51A lot of our talks through text and such has been a lot of small talk, to be honest.

01:04:57And it hasn't been very deep.

01:04:59So I really, really don't know how Natalie feels about me.

01:05:05But I don't think she would invite me to her apartment if she didn't have any feelings for me.

01:05:12I don't need my little blue pills, and I'm not packing any.

01:05:17Because the little blue pills I need for someone that is ugly on the inside and a constant bitch.

01:05:24Then I need something to pump me up.

01:05:25But Natalie is a different story.

01:05:27Because just her personality and attitude, the way she is, I'm going to get it up, man.

01:05:35All right.

01:05:36I think we got it.

01:05:47Time to board.

01:05:52I'll see you soon, Natalie.

01:05:54I've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the last two years.

01:05:59So trying to put myself out there again, it's not easy.

01:06:07But there's not many times that you can get a second chance.

01:06:11And especially with a woman that's high quality, like Natalie is.

01:06:23Good morning.

01:06:24Good morning.

01:06:25How are you?

01:06:27Doing great.

01:06:28Doing great.

01:06:28My first time in Washington, D.C.

01:06:30I'm excited.

01:06:31Excited.

01:06:31I hope you enjoy your stay.

01:06:33I'm so excited to be here to see who I'm meeting today.

01:06:38On top of her having a great personality and caring and fun and kind, she is a hot, sexy,

01:06:45passionate Latina, let me tell you.

01:06:46She's on fire, man.

01:06:48She's on fire, baby.

01:06:53Oh, is this it?

01:06:54Yeah, this is it.

01:06:56You're welcome.

01:06:57I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office.

01:07:00The plan is to catch up a little and then go check out her apartment.

01:07:17How are you feeling?

01:07:19Well, I'm super excited to see her and hang out with her.

01:07:24But I have some nervousness.

01:07:26It's a little nerve wracking.

01:07:32My heart's racing a bit.

01:07:35That's what Natalie does to me.

01:07:47I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance.

01:07:51But more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.

01:07:54Hey.

01:07:59What was your name again?

01:08:00Via.

01:08:01Via?

01:08:01Nice to meet you.

01:08:02Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?

01:08:04No.

01:08:05There you go.

01:08:06There you go.

01:08:06Via is very good looking and he smells expensive.

01:08:14Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, he would still be mad.

01:08:18Any hookups with him?

01:08:20I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody that don't know what it wants.

01:08:24What the we doing here?

01:08:36How do you feel right now?

01:08:38Well, I don't know why his energy just gives me, like, I just feel like, in his head, we're in

01:08:42a relationship.

01:08:43Like, if you ask him, I feel like he's like, yeah, that's my girl.

01:08:55They take a long time in the restaurant.

01:08:57What are they doing?

01:08:59Nobody's telling you.

01:09:00You can have fun.

01:09:02Just have fun.

01:09:03I feel like he won't let me have fun now.

01:09:05Like, now he's going to feel like she's in my country.

01:09:09She's meeting my friends.

01:09:11Like, I feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong vibe.

01:09:13You just loosen up a little bit with a couple of drinks and then you'll be good.

01:09:18That's just the other girls.

01:09:20It'll be a good night.

01:09:21Yeah.

01:09:22You know what?

01:09:22Help me meet my man.

01:09:25Kitty's thirsty.

01:09:28Me and the girls just arrived at the club to meet Pedro and his friends.

01:09:31And it's a very overwhelming environment.

01:09:34Sorry, you can sit down.

01:09:38You can sit over here.

01:09:40I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van.

01:09:42And now I just feel like he's thinking this is my girlfriend.

01:09:45She's meeting all my friends.

01:09:46And it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before.

01:09:49Which, that's what I loved before.

01:09:51It was so easy going.

01:09:51And this feels a little bit, a little bit pressure.

01:09:55Lisa, I'm going to introduce you to my friend, Villa.

01:09:57What is your name again?

01:09:59Villa.

01:09:59Yeah, it's nice to meet you.

01:10:00Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?

01:10:02No, I don't think so.

01:10:03What am I doing?

01:10:05No, there you go, there you go.

01:10:08Villa is very good looking.

01:10:11He's very well groomed, like his haircut's on point.

01:10:15And he smells really good.

01:10:17He smells expensive.

01:10:20Cheers, thank you for inviting us all.

01:10:22Good ladies and girls.

01:10:25Arriba!

01:10:26Arriba!

01:10:27Arriba!

01:10:28Abajo!

01:10:29Pal centro!

01:10:30Adentro!

01:10:31He goes there.

01:10:34Does it?

01:10:35Banchanta B J!

01:10:37Do you dance?

01:10:38Yeah!

01:10:39That's what our videos look like.

01:10:40One, two.

01:10:41One, two.

01:10:46There, you got it!

01:10:53As we're dancing, I can tell we're both very attracted to each other.

01:10:56Get close, get close, get close to me.

01:10:59No, get close to me. No worry.

01:11:01He just smells really good, he dresses well, and he's just hot.

01:11:06But even though I'm attracted to him, I don't want to, like, be all over him the first night and

01:11:10lead him on,

01:11:10because I still don't really know what I want yet.

01:11:15So you've never danced bachata before?

01:11:16I was trying to sign up for bachata lessons while I'm out here.

01:11:19It's so easy. I can teach you that.

01:11:24We can start here, right? So it's one, two, three.

01:11:29Oh, you do know!

01:11:33One, two. One, two. One, two.

01:11:36And bam, bam, bam, bam, bam!

01:11:43You lied to me. You said she didn't know. She said she was going to take classes.

01:11:47I said I wanted to do one last day.

01:11:49No.

01:11:53Let's go over here better.

01:11:56Everyone just left.

01:11:57That's okay.

01:12:00They needed that alone time.

01:12:01Yeah.

01:12:02You look beautiful. You look gorgeous.

01:12:04Thank you. Thank you.

01:12:05I'm super happy that you're here.

01:12:08Oh, yeah.

01:12:08That you take the invitation to come in here, to spend a little time with me.

01:12:11I know you're going to have the best time.

01:12:14I woke up and I had a pina colada for breakfast.

01:12:18Because I'm in the DR.

01:12:21Wow, that's a lot.

01:12:24You don't need classes.

01:12:25No class?

01:12:26No.

01:12:27I think Liz likes your friend. Yeah, look.

01:12:29Villa?

01:12:30Yeah.

01:12:32So are you from here or are you from here?

01:12:33I was born in Atlanta.

01:12:36When's your birthday?

01:12:38September.

01:12:39September?

01:12:40I'm May, baby.

01:12:41I'm a Gemini.

01:12:42You're a Gemini?

01:12:43Yeah.

01:12:43What is your size?

01:12:45I'm a Libra.

01:12:46Okay.

01:12:46I feel like us Libras are pretty well balanced.

01:12:49Which is?

01:12:51Is this your only tattoo?

01:12:52Oh.

01:12:53Yeah.

01:12:53Wow.

01:12:54It's a whole sleeve.

01:12:55It's a Libra.

01:12:56So a woman with the blindfold and the scale.

01:13:01What's this?

01:13:02Oh, it's my son's name.

01:13:03I have a kid.

01:13:07Riley.

01:13:08Leanne.

01:13:09You have a kid?

01:13:10Yeah.

01:13:10Really?

01:13:11She's gonna be 12.

01:13:13You have a 12-year-old?

01:13:14Yeah.

01:13:15My baby means everything to me.

01:13:16Same.

01:13:17Yeah.

01:13:17Same.

01:13:17He is my reason for everything.

01:13:20Definitely.

01:13:21Oh.

01:13:23I'm feeling butterflies talking to Via.

01:13:26He'll be eight in July.

01:13:27He's sweet.

01:13:28He loves his kid.

01:13:30He's making eye contact with me.

01:13:32We're having a great conversation.

01:13:35I think we need a drink to that.

01:13:36I mean, we need a shot.

01:13:37Yeah.

01:13:39Is your friend at home?

01:13:41He's?

01:13:42I know.

01:13:43He is at home.

01:13:44It's okay.

01:13:44This isn't her single era.

01:13:47So this is her time to just, like, live her life a little bit.

01:13:50Same with me.

01:13:51I'm not in a toxic relationship.

01:13:53You're separated right now.

01:13:54Are you still married?

01:13:55Are you divorced?

01:13:58How...

01:13:59How'd that go?

01:14:00Like, I'm still suddenly married, but I've, like, started the process of divorce.

01:14:05But we're still...

01:14:06How far you are now?

01:14:09Like...

01:14:09Just now.

01:14:11So it's very new.

01:14:13It never really felt like it was the end because he would still call me.

01:14:17He still called you?

01:14:18He called me two days ago, four in the morning.

01:14:20For what?

01:14:20It was an unknown number, so I haven't blocked.

01:14:23And he was like, why do you have me blocked?

01:14:24I'm like, we're getting divorced.

01:14:28Why?

01:14:29Why are you so upset with you?

01:14:30Like, why do you not can move on?

01:14:31Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, he would still be mad.

01:14:35I told that Sophie and her husband divorced was more fired alone.

01:14:40Because she tell me he was the worst husband.

01:14:44That he...

01:14:44He made her, like, miserable all the time.

01:14:48If that guy threw you that bad, why you get the phone calls and answer the phone?

01:14:53Any hookers with him?

01:15:01Yeah.

01:15:03We, like, hooked up after a few months.

01:15:05Because as much as that guy was horrible to me, I still had love for him.

01:15:09When he was being nice to me, I forgot about all the bad memories.

01:15:13And so we slept together.

01:15:16They've been hookups.

01:15:18And she never told me they did hookup before.

01:15:21I am speechless.

01:15:23It's hard when you love someone.

01:15:24I can't just be like, I you.

01:15:26Bye, you know?

01:15:27Look, if you wanna be with Rob, okay, be with Rob.

01:15:30Or be with every guy that you want to be.

01:15:32But I don't wanna be collateral damage for somebody that don't know what it wants.

01:15:37What the we doing here?

01:15:42I wish I would've just handled this whole situation better.

01:15:46You know, but now I have to just...

01:15:47I wish you did, too.

01:15:48I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.

01:15:54I don't know.

01:15:54I don't know what else.

01:15:55I up, you know?

01:16:08I've never seen I'm a lion.

01:16:10I'm just getting home from my night with Bea.

01:16:13Even at 55, I'm still doing the walk of shame.

01:16:16Hey, I am not gonna fall in your mind.

01:16:20Hey, I am a hard-working woman and I do what I like.

01:16:24Hey, come on, let me give you some treats.

01:16:29Hey, hi, my baby.

01:16:31I'm unapologetically do what I like.

01:16:33Last night was pretty amazing.

01:16:35Bea's really good in bed, I have to say.

01:16:38And usually after a night like that,

01:16:40I'm feeling all zen and woosah and, you know, calm.

01:16:44But right now I'm feeling a little anxious and nervous

01:16:46because Jamal's coming over.

01:16:48So good to be out of those clothes.

01:16:50Oh, my God.

01:16:51He thinks he's coming over here to help me build a dresser.

01:16:54But really, I have some things I need to talk to him about.

01:17:02Super good pipes.

01:17:04Ding dong.

01:17:04Hey.

01:17:05What's up?

01:17:06How are you?

01:17:07Good.

01:17:08How are you?

01:17:09I'm good.

01:17:11So this is a dresser I want to put in my guest room.

01:17:13See?

01:17:14Is it big?

01:17:15It's...

01:17:15Look at the picture.

01:17:17Oh.

01:17:17Okay, here we go.

01:17:18So they go A and C, E.

01:17:20It goes like this.

01:17:22Yeah, this is E, see?

01:17:24This is so fun.

01:17:27So I went out for girls night last night with Laura, Jody, and Lily.

01:17:31You know my friend from work, Lily.

01:17:32So we went to Mavericks and they had this event called Pitch Me.

01:17:36Yeah.

01:17:36Oh, no way.

01:17:36So they did like a presentation of like what I'm looking for in a guy.

01:17:40And all the guys were like 12, Jamal.

01:17:42They weren't even like grown, you know?

01:17:44Well, I feel like your last couple guys have been younger.

01:17:49So...

01:17:49My last one guy was younger.

01:17:53So...

01:17:53Well, B's not really.

01:17:54B's 44.

01:17:55So, I mean, he's, you know...

01:17:56What's his real name?

01:17:57Benjamin.

01:17:58Oh.

01:17:59Yeah, B sounds better.

01:18:00Yeah.

01:18:00But, um, so then he texts me and I went over to a hotel with him last night.

01:18:08Sure you don't want to know about that?

01:18:09Yeah, I don't need to hear that.

01:18:13Things have been tense between me and Jamal lately.

01:18:16I've hid things from him for so long that when I told him, it just...

01:18:22Devastated him.

01:18:24As long as we're not talking about these things, Jamal and I are fine.

01:18:27But it's like everything's hidden under this carpet.

01:18:30And I have to pull that carpet away every now and then and talk about it.

01:18:33But Jamal will just hang up on me.

01:18:35He won't answer a text.

01:18:36He'll walk out the house.

01:18:38It's been very uncomfortable.

01:18:42Um, you know, Larry's coming out here.

01:18:46Why is he coming out here?

01:18:47Just to see like, you know, where I grew up at and, you know,

01:18:51get a little more of my family history.

01:18:55And I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.

01:18:59You know, but now I have to just...

01:19:00I wish you did too.

01:19:04You hid him for so long.

01:19:09I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

01:19:16I did what I thought, what I thought was right.

01:19:18Yeah, but why'd you hide him for so long?

01:19:25Just give me a second.

01:19:29Jamal is not my only child.

01:19:42Jamal's dad and I were never married.

01:19:44Um, we were together for seven and a half years.

01:19:47We were in the military together and he was just cheating all the time.

01:19:52It was just like every day there was like a different girl.

01:19:58When I got pregnant with my first son, Larry,

01:20:00first thing his dad said was abort it.

01:20:04And I just couldn't do that.

01:20:06When I was only 21 years old, I couldn't imagine being a single mom.

01:20:09I was not mentally ready.

01:20:11I was starting my military career.

01:20:13I was just not ready.

01:20:14So I decided to put my son up for adoption.

01:20:17And I never told Jamal until last year.

01:20:19When Larry found us through an Ancestry website.

01:20:23I don't think you ever would have told me.

01:20:25I would have told you.

01:20:26I don't think so.

01:20:27And that's a huge thing for me is like...

01:20:31I don't think you ever would have told me.

01:20:34Because like there was no reason to not tell me.

01:20:37I just didn't know how to say it.

01:20:39You know?

01:20:40And it's always been like me and you, me and you, me and you.

01:20:42And I finally got our relationship to where like I've always wanted it to be.

01:20:46Right?

01:20:47So it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret.

01:20:51I felt like in my head I was just like trying to protect myself.

01:20:55And then trying to protect you too.

01:20:56Because I just didn't...

01:20:58Why are you protecting me?

01:20:58I don't know.

01:20:59I just didn't know how to handle it.

01:21:00I didn't...

01:21:01That's...

01:21:02That is the complete truth.

01:21:03I did not know how to handle this.

01:21:05At all.

01:21:06At all.

01:21:08Last year, I found out I had an older brother.

01:21:13Full blood.

01:21:14Mom and dad.

01:21:15And my first thought was that she was lying.

01:21:18It was a joke or something.

01:21:21Because...

01:21:22Why would you hide this for so long when we're so close?

01:21:26And then when I found out it was true, I was just really pissed off.

01:21:28I have this whole other family and you knew about it.

01:21:32And I'm like, how could my own mom, like, look me in my eyes when she knows I have a

01:21:38whole

01:21:38brother.

01:21:41Dude.

01:21:42That's just not something I'm like, even thought about forgiving yet.

01:21:47Cause I just...

01:21:48I just don't know who would do that.

01:21:49So I'm like...

01:21:51Damn.

01:21:58I don't know.

01:21:59I feel like your mom's a person you're supposed to trust, like, only.

01:22:01Like...

01:22:02If you can't trust anyone else, you can trust her.

01:22:04But now it's like, wow, I can't trust anyone in the world anymore.

01:22:09Oh, I'm like shaking.

01:22:14It's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this whole thing.

01:22:17You do make a lot of excuses.

01:22:20I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.

01:22:22I don't know...

01:22:22I don't know what else...

01:22:23I up.

01:22:24You know?

01:22:25Like, I don't...

01:22:26I don't know what else to say to fix it.

01:22:30I know keeping Larry from Jamal was not the right thing to do.

01:22:34It ended up just hurting him worse.

01:22:36Jamal had every right to know that he had a brother out there.

01:22:40And now all I'm trying to do is just repair what I f***ed up.

01:22:45Last year, Jamal and I went to North Carolina to meet Larry, his wife, and his son.

01:22:52Meeting Larry for the first time was, like, crazy.

01:22:55Because I'm looking at him, I'm like, okay, this is my blood.

01:22:58This is my son.

01:22:59And he has my face.

01:23:00He looks just like me.

01:23:02But he's a total stranger to me.

01:23:05And technically, I'm a grandma.

01:23:09It's a surreal feeling.

01:23:12But I'm so relieved because he was such a good man.

01:23:17And I don't know how he would have turned out if I would have kept him.

01:23:20You know?

01:23:20It makes me feel certain that I did the right thing.

01:23:25Since then, Jamal and I have been talking with Larry.

01:23:28And I invited him to San Diego so I could get to know him more and he could see where

01:23:32I'm from.

01:23:36What do you think you even want to do with Larry once he comes out here?

01:23:38Like, what's next?

01:23:39You think you're gonna have, like, a deep talk with him?

01:23:41I have to have a deep talk with him.

01:23:43About what?

01:23:48About the other one.

01:24:04How do you think he's gonna react?

01:24:06I think he's gonna be pissed.

01:24:07He's gonna be really upset with me.

01:24:09Hey, by the way, you have a sister, like the .

01:24:16Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.

01:24:20I also had a daughter.

01:24:31This season on The Single Life.

01:24:37This is the kind of life that I want.

01:24:39Where I can have fun with my partner.

01:24:43You're getting me all hot.

01:24:44Oh, yeah?

01:24:45This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.

01:24:49Nice to meet you.

01:24:51I'll never see you again.

01:24:53I was helping him upload something on social media,

01:24:56and it shows me all the women he's been messaging.

01:24:59Something's fishy about this.

01:25:01Courtney's worried that I'm just gonna leave or cheat or whatever one day.

01:25:05Are you still living that way, dude?

01:25:06Be honest with me.

01:25:07Well, um...

01:25:10How are you?

01:25:11A wreck.

01:25:12I'm, like, shaking.

01:25:14I didn't tell my son Larry about his sister when he first found me.

01:25:18Here, sit.

01:25:18But I want to tell him now, and I'm really scared.

01:25:22What if he just turns around and leaves?

01:25:23What if he never speaks to me again?

01:25:26Harder time.

01:25:30Do you mind if I have a dance?

01:25:32It's my girl.

01:25:33Are you serious?

01:25:34I do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else.

01:25:38I just don't see how that's respectful, the guy that you're with.

01:25:41So you're stopping me from being who I am?

01:25:43You don't see a problem here at all.

01:25:45What is the freaking problem?

01:25:46I think the problem is actually us.

01:25:48I'm done with this .

01:25:51Yesterday, I was talking to Liz, and she made me feel maybe I do have another guy in your mind.

01:25:55But why would she tell you that?

01:25:57I don't want Sophie to play games with me.

01:26:00I'm not interested in this .

01:26:02Hell no. Not with me.

01:26:05Everything I told you, he knows.

01:26:08You've never had my back.

01:26:09Yes, I have.

01:26:09You've never had my back.

01:26:11That's breaking girl code.

01:26:13Like, you don't do that.

01:26:14Go the home, Liz.

01:26:16Adios.

01:26:17involve you ho-

01:26:17Bye, guys.

01:26:18Bye.

01:26:19Bye bye.

01:26:19Bye.

01:26:19Bye bye.

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