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Dive into the dramatic conclusion of 90 Day The Single Life: Between the Sheets Season 1 Episode 8. This episode navigates the complex emotional landscapes of our cast as they confront profound decisions about their relationships.
Expect raw honesty as couples grapple with the realities of commitment and the future. Unpacking the core challenges, viewers will witness vulnerable conversations and the potential for lasting change.
The journey culminates with intense moments of truth, revealing whether love can truly conquer all. This installment offers a compelling look at the ups and downs of finding a soulmate.
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Expect raw honesty as couples grapple with the realities of commitment and the future. Unpacking the core challenges, viewers will witness vulnerable conversations and the potential for lasting change.
The journey culminates with intense moments of truth, revealing whether love can truly conquer all. This installment offers a compelling look at the ups and downs of finding a soulmate.
#90DayTheSingleLife #BeforeThe90Days #RealityTV
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00:00Teach me some Spanish.
00:01¿Cómo estás, amor?
00:02¿Cómo estás?
00:03Y amor.
00:05Amor.
00:06Amor.
00:07Grrr.
00:08Grrr?
00:09No, no.
00:10Grrr.
00:10No.
00:11Grrr.
00:11Grrr.
00:12Grrr.
00:13Grrr.
00:17I'm going to, like, punch myself in the face
00:19and be like, why are you there?
00:20Like, run.
00:22Did you call my mother?
00:24That was bad.
00:26And now I said, no.
00:27Oh, my gosh.
00:29Oh, my gosh.
00:30I'm triggered.
00:34You're worried that I'm a player.
00:36Yeah.
00:36Is that what you're getting at?
00:37I told you.
00:38I just hope you're not playing games with my cousin.
00:41Uh-oh.
00:43Tony's in a hot seat.
00:44Literally.
00:45Tony took me out for this amazing dinner.
00:48And then I ended up getting a picture of olives at, like,
00:51midnight that I didn't see until the next morning.
00:54Turns out that picture was from a bar that he went to
00:57afterwards by himself.
00:58Like, I would feel betrayed.
01:00I said, no problem.
01:02If that's what you want to do, I'm going to be able to do
01:04the same thing.
01:05And don't you worry.
01:06By the end of the night, I'm going to go home with 10 phone
01:08numbers.
01:08Yeah.
01:13Oh, my God.
01:13ACL is gone.
01:14I don't even know what ACL is.
01:15Is that on your ankle, or where's that?
01:18I can't even find the G spot.
01:19Oh, my God.
01:20Colt.
01:21You have to find the G spot, damn it.
01:23G is the spot.
01:24So you got to go on the coast, over here, over, under.
01:27And it's right there.
01:28It's right there.
01:28This is a good friend that draws you a coochie map.
01:35My family can be a lot, but I'm not going to lose you
01:39because I bet that Patty was wrong.
01:43My sister was a little bit, feeling bad because she said,
01:46like, the comment about, you know, your mom doesn't love you.
01:48She apologized, not to Sophie, to me.
01:51Well, I feel like if I were to ever date you, I'm not dating
01:53you, I'm dating your sister.
01:54Orders come from your sister.
01:57Wow.
01:58You want to say that?
01:59Yeah.
02:00Whoa.
02:05All right, you ready?
02:07Yes.
02:09Just ready for the tea.
02:12We're back, baby.
02:13Let's go.
02:14Let's go do this.
02:16The best thing.
02:17Our opinions are like the real opinions, like the facts.
02:20Yeah, we're not holding back.
02:22Okay, Colt.
02:23First up, we're going to watch your mom arrive in Florida
02:25to try to convince Courtney to get back together with you.
02:28And this has some bonus footage.
02:30Oh, my mom.
02:32Oh, she gave you some support.
02:34Some support.
02:35She live in Canada.
02:36So she's flying here to give you some support.
02:39Mm-hmm.
02:40That is good.
02:41I called my mommy.
02:43I'm no angel.
02:46We have to really convince Courtney in a sweet way that she's
02:51making a mistake if she doesn't give Colt another chance.
02:54Oh, my God.
02:55My parents thought this was so awkward.
02:57They told me, like, you better not go back with him before
03:01they came over.
03:03Give them one last chance.
03:05Yeah, one last chance.
03:07I already know what play him and Debbie are going to run
03:09because I watched them say the exact same
03:12every single woman he's dated.
03:14And it's worked with them,
03:15so I guess that's why they keep running that play.
03:17In my teens or 20s, yeah, I've fallen for this game before.
03:21Like, I believe them now.
03:23I'm 35, babe.
03:25I played the game before.
03:26And I didn't need Colt and Debbie for anything.
03:29If anything, he was, like, dragging my life down.
03:34Hey!
03:35Hello!
03:35How are you?
03:36How are you?
03:37Thank you for seeing us.
03:39Of course.
03:40Welcome to our home.
03:41It's nice to meet you.
03:42Thank you for seeing us.
03:43Yeah.
03:44Appreciate it.
03:47Let's go sit down over here.
03:48Let's go sit down.
03:49Talk about stuff.
03:49Ah!
03:52So first of all, Colt wants to apologize.
03:55And he knows he made a big-ass mistake.
03:57And he wants to rectify it.
03:59He tears himself apart inside.
04:01He'll rip himself apart.
04:03Why is his mom even talking on his behalf?
04:06This is really silly.
04:07Isn't he, like, 40?
04:09But on the other hand, if he really does love you
04:13and swears that he'll never do this again...
04:16He's going to keep doing it.
04:17But why you talk with another woman if you love her?
04:21Because I'm stupid.
04:23You up.
04:24I up.
04:25OK, you admit it.
04:26OK.
04:27He told me a lot how bad he felt about not being
04:30able to pull his weight, basically, to do something.
04:33But that's no reason for him to do what he done, Nicole.
04:36No, it is an experience.
04:38Did your mom understand when you say
04:40you sent another woman's pictures?
04:42She understand it, right?
04:44She understands what I did.
04:45But she can't...
04:46doesn't want to acknowledge or accept that reality as such.
04:49She's never really told me no or give me any type
04:53of negative feedback or...
04:55what's the thing?
04:56Consequences, I guess?
04:58She's always been, like, my friend, like, my bro, you know?
05:01She bought me my first drink, got me my first playboy.
05:04Like, she's always been there, like, you know, like,
05:06hey, I'll do it for you, boy.
05:08Don't worry.
05:08You are a regional mama's boy on the show.
05:11The OG.
05:12Yes, you're OG mama's boy.
05:15He just is very...
05:17Stupid.
05:19And then so.
05:21Cole is the type of person that it seems like he's always
05:25wants something that he doesn't have at the moment.
05:29It's annoying his mom doesn't teach him consequences.
05:32Yeah, like, if you hurt somebody, you know,
05:34they shouldn't be with you, you're a piece of not.
05:36Oh, yeah, let me try to fix that for you.
05:38That's why he wants me now, because he can't have me.
05:41100%, I agree with that.
05:43I'm like, I'm just a placeholder until you can meet Diana.
05:48I would not enable my son that way.
05:50That's just embarrassing.
05:52That's where it's like, I don't even know if I should be
05:54mad at Cole or if I should be mad at Debbie,
05:56because clearly, like, you lie, cheat, you hurt somebody.
06:00It's like, oh, let me go get them back for you
06:01so you could do it for more.
06:03Yeah, that's just, that made me angry for you.
06:05How does this woman think it's OK for her son
06:08to treat another woman like that?
06:11That's not OK.
06:12Yeah.
06:12He only loves himself and his .
06:15He's not fighting for me.
06:16He's not proving he wants to be with me.
06:18He's just like, so it's like, I'm not going to be
06:20one of his options or in his love triangle.
06:22It's like, you had me, and it's like, you lost me.
06:27Courtney called me the night she kicked Colt out.
06:30She did call me.
06:31And she actually wanted to come.
06:33She was telling me that if I'm invited,
06:35she's coming to Africa.
06:35I was like, no, I still like you.
06:37In fact, I still love you.
06:39But believe me, I don't want you anymore.
06:42If she come back, I'm not interested,
06:44not because I didn't love her,
06:45but because I cannot be second option.
06:47Even if I'll be second option,
06:49let me be second option to somebody
06:50who is good looking, smart, you know, like,
06:53more, well, how can I be second option to somebody
06:55who is jobless?
06:56He has more boobs than her.
06:58His tummy can not allow you to see his .
07:01And after you run with this guy,
07:03and then you expect me to be with you?
07:06Like, I'm a big dog over here, darling.
07:08Like, I'm not, I'm not cheap.
07:12All right.
07:13This next clip is Sophie leaving Nicole's party.
07:16After the fight.
07:17Yeah, and it includes some never before seen footage.
07:20Okay.
07:20Oh, boy.
07:22Crazy.
07:23Get ready, Gino.
07:24Get ready.
07:26Get ready.
07:27Get ready.
07:30What was that?
07:32What you said there's her mother's in love, Eliza?
07:34No, no, no.
07:34But, no, no.
07:35Simplemente te voy a decir algo.
07:37Ella no puede me enredo de mi a decirme a mi
07:39to your mother.
07:40No, but.
07:41O sea, no, excuse me.
07:42Yo no puedo tolerar eso.
07:44Damn.
07:46Well, you know, at some point,
07:47you got to feel bad for Pedro.
07:48He just, his family just don't like no one.
07:51He brings home.
07:53Pretty good friends with Chantel.
07:54And she's told me too.
07:56Like, a lot of the reason their relationship
07:58didn't work out is because his family is,
08:01uh, how do you say?
08:02Moi loco.
08:05I like a little crazy, personally.
08:07Let's go.
08:08Let's go.
08:08Let's go.
08:09What?
08:10I was chill.
08:11I was chillin'.
08:12I don't know if you ever-
08:12You called my mother.
08:14Oh, we were acting crazy.
08:15We.
08:17We.
08:18You don't do anything like that.
08:19You don't do anything.
08:22Are you enough?
08:23I said, no, you enough.
08:25I'm sorry.
08:25I don't, okay, cool.
08:26I'm talking to her.
08:27Okay, cool.
08:28Happy birthday.
08:29Have a great birthday.
08:31That's so stupid.
08:32I never said to your mom.
08:34I said to your mom.
08:36I said to your mom.
08:38Yeah, but you didn't say it, Sophie.
08:39Justine.
08:40Trust me.
08:40I was very respectful to your mom.
08:43I felt really betrayed by Pedro
08:46because when the cameras were off,
08:50he told me like, oh, you are older than Sophie.
08:54You need to be, you need to be the role model.
08:57You know, like, okay, Pedro, excuse me.
09:00What?
09:01What?
09:01Just because I am older than her,
09:04she can't disrespect me and you need to shut up.
09:08No.
09:09If something is bad, it's bad, okay?
09:12She start and cross the line first.
09:16Okay, whatever.
09:17We'll see you tomorrow.
09:19And he's just, I thought he was gonna leave with her.
09:22I thought he was gonna leave with her
09:23and at least be respectful towards her.
09:25He's just, he's just sending her off
09:27and he's going back to the party.
09:28Wow.
09:29This was his chance to show to Sophie
09:31that he's a gentleman.
09:32He could have been like,
09:33that's not how we say it and say it over here,
09:35but I get what she was saying.
09:37No.
09:37He just let her leave.
09:38Nope.
09:39Holy .
09:40I can't believe it.
09:42Not .
09:42I love you.
09:43I can't believe it.
09:47Me and Pedro had a great day.
09:48We was laughing today.
09:50We was, I was, I laid on his lap,
09:52fell asleep on his lap today.
09:54An amazing day.
09:55And I was starting to have these real feelings
09:57and then his mom and sister.
10:00So I hope they know.
10:01They're the reason I'm not touching
10:02your son's banana, weirdos.
10:05That was your moment.
10:06I lose it.
10:08They're stalking their family member.
10:11Who does that?
10:12Honestly, tonight I probably would have
10:14because I had a great day.
10:16And now.
10:16Really?
10:16Oh, yeah.
10:18I was going to sleep in his hotel room.
10:22She didn't give you any signs
10:23that this is what she wants?
10:25No, any signs.
10:26If Haben know that Sophie want
10:29to do the delicioso that night,
10:31I jump in the bank.
10:32.
10:33you guys.
10:35Even come, I see the you.
10:36I leave it.
10:40And you would have touched his banana?
10:41I would have touched his banana.
10:42I mean.
10:42Yeah.
10:46Yeah, yeah.
10:47What is it?
10:48We wouldn't.
10:48Maybe the eggs.
10:49Maybe the banana.
10:50Maybe the eggs.
10:51Maybe one egg.
10:53Just the egg.
10:55Just like boop.
10:57Hello?
10:57I don't think I would like that very much.
10:59You're going to touch one of my balls?
11:01What is that?
11:03I want him to know.
11:04You could have got laid last night, bro.
11:05And your family that up.
11:07So be mad at them.
11:12Yeah.
11:13I'm sure a lot of people would say that her and I
11:14might have had a better chance at working
11:16our out if it wasn't for the people that she let
11:18in our relationship.
11:20Don't act like I've done something wrong
11:21when they're the ones been talking about me all night.
11:24She said she needs an emotional connection
11:26to want to have sex with somebody.
11:27Well, we had sex more after our marriage
11:29than we had sex our entire marriage.
11:32Easily.
11:34Easily.
11:34I think our entire marriage we had sex five times.
11:38We had sex five times in a weekend
11:42after we weren't together.
11:56It's your birthday.
11:57You don't have to be there to ask me questions.
11:59The first time meeting his family,
12:01that's what I dealt with.
12:02Imagine being married to him and having them.
12:05Like, I feel like it is a family issue.
12:07I don't think Pedro's as much the problem
12:09as his family is.
12:21I do think that Sophie didn't have a chance
12:23walking into that party.
12:25I saw them being so welcoming to Julia,
12:28so they could have been that welcoming to Sophie.
12:31Don't look at me.
12:34Pedro.
12:36She's hiding something.
12:42I'm kind of interested in what happened
12:43when, like, the camera's cut.
12:45My sister was a little bit, feeling bad
12:47because she said, like, the comment about,
12:50you know, your mother doesn't love you.
12:51I say, you don't say those things.
12:52You know, but she say, okay, I'm sorry for that.
12:55She apologized.
12:56Not, not to Sophie, to me.
12:57Oh.
12:59Well, I feel like if I were to ever date you,
13:01I'm not dating you.
13:02I'm dating your sister.
13:04I feel like orders come from your sister.
13:07But that's just how I feel and how I see it
13:09and I feel like...
13:10Wow, Liz.
13:11Wow.
13:12My friend, you want to say that?
13:13I mean, I say it because I'm your friend.
13:16What?
13:18Watching this back,
13:19do you feel like you should have stepped in
13:20and done something?
13:20Yes.
13:22I should have stepped in and done something
13:23because the situation was, like,
13:24blurred all that proportion.
13:26The nights would have been
13:28very different with a step band,
13:31but...
13:33it's what it is what it is.
13:34Nobody couldn't, you know, stop that.
13:39Teach me some Spanish to move the senoritas.
13:42Okay.
13:43What's something that's, like, slick?
13:45Dominicanos say, okay, okay, mamacita.
13:47Okay, okay, mamacita.
13:48Claro.
13:50No.
13:51Como estas, amor?
13:52Como estas, amor?
13:53Como estas, mi amor?
13:55Como estas?
13:57Y amor.
13:58Amor.
13:59Amor.
14:02Arr?
14:03Arr.
14:04Arr?
14:05Arr?
14:05No, no.
14:06Grrr.
14:07Grrr?
14:08Grrr.
14:09Come on, you have to put your tongue,
14:12ride your tongue.
14:14Oh, get out.
14:15Arr?
14:16Arra?
14:17No, no, no.
14:18you never want to be good doing sesora to a woman.
14:21Hey, I got skills for that.
14:24No, no.
14:24I got the endurance, man.
14:29All right, Vanya, the next clip we're going to watch
14:31is when Tony arrived in Maine, and you guys all
14:34hung out by the fire.
14:35OK.
14:36Ooh.
14:38Cut the tension with a knife.
14:41I just do what I want, do what I want, do what I want to do.
14:46I just do what I do.
14:47Hi, Tony.
14:48How are you?
14:49Come on in.
14:51Nice to see you.
14:52Nice to see you.
14:53Is it Olivia here?
14:54Yes, it's fine.
14:54Welcome to Maine.
14:55All right.
14:56Thank you for having me.
14:57Hi, Tony.
14:59What?
15:00Mariko, nice to meet you.
15:01Mariko, nice to meet you.
15:02Oh, he's cute.
15:03Where did he come from?
15:04Hi, look.
15:05Look.
15:06Hi.
15:08Wow.
15:10So I thought we were going to be making s'mores.
15:13What happened to that?
15:14Let's go.
15:15Let's go get it.
15:16Let's go get it.
15:16Yes.
15:20Why would you leave him alone with her?
15:24I don't want to talk to you alone, because I have some worries.
15:30Uh-oh.
15:32Tony's in the hot seat, literally by the fire.
15:36She told me about the story when you guys
15:38went to a restaurant and took her back home.
15:40And then you went to a bar sitting by yourself.
15:42Yeah, I went to a bar afterwards,
15:44but it was nothing more than that.
15:47Tony took me out for this amazing dinner.
15:50And we watched the sunset.
15:52It was just gorgeous.
15:53Aw.
15:53And I went home.
15:54And I just assumed that he was going home, too.
15:57And then I ended up getting a picture of olives at like midnight
16:01that I didn't see until the next morning.
16:03Turns out that picture was from a bar that he went to afterwards by himself.
16:08So that's weird he didn't invite you.
16:10And that was my point exactly.
16:12I don't mind you going to a bar and sitting at a bar by yourself.
16:16A, you should invite me.
16:18Or B, you should let me know what you're doing.
16:19And now just go send me home and do it behind my back.
16:22Yeah, that's weird.
16:23Maybe because you don't drink?
16:25I don't know.
16:26No, he had drinks at dinner.
16:27So it's not like I told him you can't have drinks around me.
16:31If a guy I was dating went to a bar without me,
16:34I'd be like, wow, you know I love bars.
16:37Why would you do that without me?
16:38Like, I would feel betrayed.
16:40So then when I talked to him about it later, I said, no problem.
16:44If that's what you want to do, I'm going to be able to do the same thing.
16:47And don't you worry.
16:48By the end of the night, I'm going to go home with 10 phone numbers.
16:52We were always friends.
16:54We kept it.
16:56Are you sure?
16:57Absolutely, 100%.
16:58Well, you had a girlfriend living with you,
17:00and then you were hanging out with Vanya.
17:02I mean, if I was that girlfriend, I would be pissed.
17:05Well, she's smiling.
17:06She's, like, stirring the pot.
17:08I told you, I just hope you're not playing games with my cousin.
17:11This is just so awkward.
17:14What have you been talking to her about?
17:16I mean, she just, like, full-out assaulted me out there.
17:20Assaulted?
17:20That's a hard word to use.
17:22I mean, I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
17:27Is this where we're sleeping tonight, or...?
17:29Oh, this is where you're sleeping.
17:31I'm going to be sleeping upstairs.
17:32Great.
17:34I didn't visualize this conversation transpiring like this.
17:38Unfortunately, a lot happened that was bad.
17:42Bad tensions, bad energy, and then this was just, like, the straw that broke the can was back.
17:50I was secretly hoping that Tony would sneak into my bedroom and have a discussion with me afterwards.
17:55Be like, babe, you know, let's just forget about this, and let's just look forward.
18:00But he didn't.
18:02We just called it a night.
18:03And it was just awkward in Tony's room, awkward in my room, awkward in Son on her husband's room.
18:10It was a house of awkwardness.
18:16No marshmallows.
18:16Get those out of here.
18:18Get those out of here.
18:19All right.
18:20You guys ready to play a game?
18:21Yeah.
18:22Let's go.
18:23Let's go.
18:23This is called Marshmallow Whispers.
18:26I already ate three marshmallows before you got here.
18:30This is inspired by Vanya and Tony having s'mores by the fire with her cousin.
18:35You will each take turns putting marshmallows in your mouth and whispering phrases to your
18:40partner of things that happen on The Single Life that they must guess.
18:45Ooh.
18:45I go first.
18:46You go first.
18:47Okay.
18:49I feel you had bigger things in your mouth before.
18:51Just go ahead.
18:52Okay.
18:58Don't spit it out at me.
19:00Sophie.
19:01Sophie.
19:03Road.
19:06Everyone say.
19:07Road.
19:08Sophie was?
19:09Road.
19:10Road.
19:11A pony.
19:12Sophie rode a pony.
19:14Yay!
19:20Pedro.
19:22Heather.
19:23Sister.
19:24Pete.
19:25Pedro.
19:26Win.
19:27To win.
19:27Ah.
19:29Pedro's sister.
19:31Can't.
19:33Can't.
19:34Can't.
19:35Can't.
19:36Can't.
19:36Can't.
19:36Okay, great.
19:37Do it again.
19:38What's this?
19:39Pedro's sister.
19:40Can't.
19:44Come on, shut them in there, Liz.
19:47You only did three, bitch.
19:48I did four, and I have a small mouth.
19:50Yeah, thank you.
19:57What?
19:58Is it me?
19:59Kim?
20:00Okay, it's Kim something.
20:03Kim had a booty call.
20:05I did, okay.
20:06I'm sorry.
20:10Whoa.
20:16Colt.
20:17Colt.
20:18And Courtney.
20:19And Courtney.
20:21Want.
20:22Want.
20:22A swing.
20:23A swing?
20:24Mm-hmm.
20:25In the bedroom.
20:26In the bedroom.
20:27Mm-hmm.
20:28Oh, Pedro's sister.
20:31You're pointing at your .
20:45I can't even understand you without the marshmallows.
20:48What the going on here?
20:52That was not cute.
20:53It was awful.
20:54That was so good.
20:55It probably looked like somebody with a in my mouth.
21:01Into a fire drill?
21:02Yeah.
21:02One, two, three.
21:14You fell in.
21:16Oh, actually, your spot is not bad.
21:18Your spot's terrible.
21:19Oh.
21:21The next scene we're going to watch is when you guys went for a hike with Larry,
21:25and it includes some never-before-seen footage.
21:28Okay, yeah.
21:29That was a fun day.
21:30It's like our first family outing.
21:33Mm-hmm.
21:34So cool having a family.
21:38Wow, isn't it weird seeing them?
21:40San Diego.
21:41My boys.
21:44Looks like me.
21:46You know.
21:46Not as good looking.
21:46You look like him.
21:47I keep telling him they.
21:50Before that, we had had lunch, and they were both looking at the menu, and their faces were scrunched the
21:56same way.
21:56And I was like, this is so weird.
21:57But they look like their dad that way.
21:59And I was like, wow.
22:01Like, they look a lot alike.
22:02Like, it gives me goosebumps, because they look so much alike, you know?
22:06Somebody told me the other day, Larry looks more like me than Jamal does.
22:09And I was like, I don't know about that.
22:10But he does.
22:11He looks just like me.
22:12Do you guys like each other?
22:14I love them.
22:16Do you love me?
22:17I love you.
22:18Aw.
22:19Aw.
22:19I'll say it, babe.
22:20Aw, that's so cute.
22:22Aw, stop it.
22:23I'm so awkward.
22:24I don't know how to do these things.
22:26Aw, that's so sweet.
22:28When I was in the military, after I had her, and I was standing in line at the ATM, and
22:35this woman of color came in with her baby.
22:39And they were lying in front of me.
22:41And I swear to this day, it was her.
22:43Yeah.
22:44Oh, my God.
22:46Aw, baby.
22:48No, it's okay.
22:49It was really hard.
22:51Aw.
22:52And I know, just when I said it was the hair, her skin tone, I mean.
22:57When you know it, you know it.
22:59Yeah.
23:00It makes me really sad.
23:01Sorry.
23:02It's okay.
23:06And I don't know, I think that's why, like, I've always had, like, a really hard time with her.
23:11You know what I mean?
23:12And I don't know why.
23:13Maybe because she's a girl.
23:14I don't know.
23:16I just have a really hard time with that one.
23:18You know?
23:20Her telling us that story and being emotional about it, I'm like, still?
23:23In her head, maybe it was like, this could have been.
23:26Yeah.
23:26And that's fine.
23:27But the way she told it was like, I still think that was my kid.
23:32Yeah.
23:32And I'm like, damn.
23:35Oh, no, I can't even bring a black girl home now.
23:37You might think that's her kid.
23:39How old is Chantel now?
23:4030?
23:41Maybe my mom thinks that's her kid, too.
23:43Oh, that's insane.
23:44Do you want to say?
23:46Now that it's all out, I'm ready to find her.
23:49Mm-hmm.
23:53I'm with you.
23:54I'm ready to find her.
23:56What about you?
24:00The next chapter.
24:03Yeah, I've been ready, you know?
24:06I feel like when my moms wanted to start looking for my sister immediately, I was a little caught off
24:10guard.
24:11Because I wanted to look for her years ago.
24:13I think ever since Larry has gotten to our lives, she kind of has been way more erratic with him
24:19and my sister.
24:21I think she just kind of wants to rip the Band-Aid off and let's just get it all done.
24:25Let's just be over it.
24:26And this is something we're going to have to be patient with.
24:29But I know my sister wants to find us.
24:34I have dreams about her.
24:37I know she's out there.
24:38I know she's alive.
24:40What if my sister's like Cardi B or something?
24:43What a story.
24:47There is the possibility she might not want to see me.
24:50She might be angry.
24:52I'm preparing my mental for that.
24:55So I contacted the adoption agency and sent them an email.
25:01And I got a response back from a lifelong post-adoption counselor.
25:09So her job is to put me in touch with my daughter.
25:13They sent a letter to her.
25:14So what the process does is they'll notify them, that side, would she like to be in contact with me?
25:23They're not going to give me her phone number.
25:24You know what I mean?
25:25It has to be.
25:26It's a process.
25:26It might take six months.
25:28It could take the rest of my life.
25:29I don't know.
25:30So then after they do that, then if she says yes, then we'll exchange emails through the adoption agency.
25:37We'll exchange letters, get to know each other.
25:39And then if she wants to meet me, then we'll arrange to meet in North Carolina at the adoption agency.
25:44She's like, you never know when it's going to happen, but it will happen.
25:47She was like, she said that they've matched hundreds and hundreds of families together.
25:52So she said, don't give up hope.
25:53If she sends it back and it's a rejection, we will let you know.
25:58But she may change her mind.
26:00She's like, never give up on her.
26:01And I was like, I never have given up on her.
26:05Okay, you are going to be playing body ball.
26:08Ooh.
26:09In the dating world, you are trying to find a partner who will always have your back.
26:13So we are going to see how well you two can work together and have each other's backs.
26:18You must use your bodies to hold a ball between you as you complete various tasks.
26:22No way.
26:25Are you ready?
26:26Yes.
26:26Okay, the first task is to touch both walls of the room.
26:30Let's go this way first.
26:32So we're going to turn our whole bodies, okay?
26:34Is this the easiest one?
26:35I think so.
26:36Okay.
26:36All right, let's go.
26:37Yeah!
26:38Turn this way.
26:38I'm coming, wait.
26:39All right.
26:40Small steps.
26:41Okay.
26:44Got it.
26:44Got it.
26:47Don't let me knock that over.
26:49Okay.
26:50Boom.
26:52Oh, crap.
26:53Oh, crap.
26:53Go, go, go, go, go.
26:54Go, go, go, go.
26:55I got you.
26:56Just touch it.
26:58Okay, yay.
27:02And boom.
27:03Done.
27:04Yeah.
27:04Turn?
27:05No, don't turn, don't turn.
27:06I could have touched it backwards.
27:07There you go.
27:07It's fine, it's fine.
27:11Touch.
27:11Touch.
27:12Last up, spin in a full circle three times.
27:15Ready?
27:21This looks so stupid.
27:22All right.
27:24One, two, three, four, four, five, six, how many?
27:37Hey, let's go.
27:47Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
27:49Let me, let me, one second.
27:51Okay.
27:52You got it?
27:53I got you.
27:53Okay.
27:54And the last time.
27:56Good job.
27:57Bam.
27:58Oh, I got to see it.
27:59All right.
28:00The next clip we're going to watch is a conversation, Pedro, you had with Sophie the day after the
28:06birthday party.
28:07It is amazing how much has happened on this trip.
28:11Too much.
28:20Good morning.
28:22Good morning.
28:23You doing?
28:25I'm doing okay.
28:27I like his outfit there.
28:29That's a nice color combo.
28:30I won't just say this.
28:32Oh, he's color, yes.
28:33He looks good in that.
28:34But look at you.
28:34You look like you just come from Yat.
28:36We're matching.
28:38Um, Mia, how do you feel?
28:40I'm asking you.
28:41Why is Sophie dressed like she's about to go birdwatching?
28:45Your sister is going crazy.
28:46Ooh, she looks so classy.
28:48She looks so beautiful.
28:49She's a beautiful girl.
28:50Look at that butt.
28:51Damn.
28:52I know.
28:52I don't look at girls that way, but I look at Sophie that way.
28:55Tell me the store where I can go and get me one.
28:58I wanted to have a fun time, you know, just be at your sister's birthday.
29:01I didn't know I was there to be grilled, especially when we're not in a relationship.
29:06She looks burnt out.
29:08She was judging me the whole night, Pedro.
29:11And you're mad because I said the word ?
29:14Yes, I am.
29:16After that party, I talked to my sister, like, to my mom, hey, all those moments I tried to,
29:22you know, get this girl like me, you destroy it with only one night.
29:27It's not fair.
29:28I told that to my mom, my sister, like, you destroy everything that I've been done, you destroy it.
29:35What did they say back?
29:36They went quiet, like, and they say that Sophie's not the woman for you.
29:41You know, like, you know, she's not the girl for you.
29:43What standards do they want?
29:45Mm, you know, no kids, prepared woman, you know, like, degree, you know, dress well,
29:53no show too much.
29:55Like, more professional style.
29:57Stop.
29:59So she didn't have a chance.
30:02Not like that.
30:05She could have a chance.
30:08My family can be a lot, but Anna, I'm going to lose you because our birthday party was wrong.
30:15I want to be there for you.
30:18I want to say I'm sorry for last night.
30:20I'm sorry if I made you feel I disrespected your mom.
30:24That's not, wasn't my intention.
30:41And I should have been more chill with Nicole.
30:45After last night, like, it's just a lot, so I just need to, like, step back a little bit.
30:49And every time I feel like we talk and we're, like, agree on something, it's just, like, something else happens.
30:54And I'm just, like, it's just overwhelming.
30:56Yeah, too much drama.
30:58Yeah, it's usually how it starts, it's how it's going to end, so.
31:02I just need, like, a little bit of space just to, like, process everything.
31:06I still like you and I still want to get to know you.
31:08I think Lydia and Nicole are going to run off every woman because, I mean, Pedro is, like, the love
31:15of their life.
31:16I think so.
31:17I think they want to keep Pedro to themselves, so they're going to make it difficult for every single woman
31:22to date him.
31:25And, like, I guess when Chantel was, like, working and doing all the work and then Pedro's taking the money
31:34Chantel's making and sending it to his family over there.
31:37So now they probably want another woman that's going to, like, provide for them, or Pedro's the one providing for
31:44them.
31:44So it's, like, they might see Sophie as a threat, like, oh, she's getting jewelry and flowers, and, oh, she's
31:50going to be, like, taking our source of income, too.
31:54I think you should never introduce anybody to his mom and sister.
31:59That's why I just need a bit of, like, time.
32:04Flickie Bater party.
32:07That was bad.
32:08She's a nice person.
32:10You know, she's a nice person.
32:13But she pulled away.
32:16That's why.
32:17Pedro tiene un problema.
32:19El tiene un...
32:19El problema es Pedro.
32:21El tiene un patrón.
32:22Sí.
32:23El tiene un patrón.
32:24Ella gusta las mujeres que llamen la atención.
32:27Yo estoy segura, Nicole, que la Sophie le hizo un hechizo.
32:31Le hizo brujería.
32:33Yo estoy segura que la Sophie cogió unos panties de ella, lo puso a hervir, y le dio el agua
32:38a Pedro.
32:38No, porque tú sabes que él fue a la casa de ella.
32:40Cuando viene a ver, le preparó un jugo, ella con agua de panties.
32:44Le preparó un jugo con los panties, le dio los panties ahí, agua de panties le dio, y por eso
32:48es que esa hombre anda así.
32:50¿Qué pasa?
32:50¿Qué pasa?
32:51¿Qué pasa?
32:52¿Qué pasa?
32:53¿Qué pasa?
32:55En el día de mañana, todo fue ruinado.
32:57Porque, last, there was a party.
32:59She was a little bit of a distance, you know.
33:02She was ready to go.
33:04Like, we starting from zero again.
33:07Yeah, bro, you can say whatever you want.
33:09You can say, like, that amazing guy, that in the world.
33:12But if you don't give me the opportunity to be with you, that's .
33:21We need to drink a little therapy.
33:23You remember in the last resort?
33:24Yeah.
33:25We did this, like, throw away air.
33:37It's so much here.
33:37Yeah.
33:38I'm tired.
33:42We're going to watch a bonus scene next.
33:44Oh.
33:45This is your meet-up with Courtney to get some ice cream.
33:51Finally, Courtney agreed to meet me.
33:53Just, my mom did something right.
33:57It's good to see you again.
34:00You look pretty.
34:02How you doing?
34:03Good.
34:06I'm glad you're doing well.
34:08How are you doing?
34:11It doesn't matter, I guess.
34:13See, this is how they lure you back in.
34:15They're like, do you want food?
34:16Do you want drinks?
34:17I'm like, yes, here I am.
34:18I love ice cream.
34:20Debbie wants me to go back to Canada with her.
34:23Yeah, I think that's a good idea.
34:29So this is it?
34:32I mean, what do you want?
34:37You?
34:39Jesus Christ.
34:40How many times this last meeting for Colt and Courtney?
34:43I'm gonna go.
34:45I will go now.
34:47I'm going.
34:50But you're also texting other women that you want them.
34:53You love them.
34:54I told Diana that I love you.
34:57I've spent time away from you.
34:59I've thought about it.
35:00I've been able to analyze everything and think about it.
35:02It really put my heart and my feelings and my brain in together.
35:06I think about you all the time.
35:08I still had this love for Courtney.
35:11I mean, it was hard.
35:12She was there with me every moment of every day for months.
35:16Suddenly it's ripped away.
35:17It's like, .
35:18Part of me is ripped away.
35:20What are you doing?
35:22Trying to get Uber to get out of here.
35:25Oh, my God.
35:28I'm triggered.
35:32Really?
35:34I don't.
35:34I feel like I've been here for you through the whole thing.
35:37And you keep.
35:40Why?
35:41I'm not gonna see you.
35:42Just waiting to escape.
35:43I'm not gonna see you again.
35:45I'm like, okay, I drove 30 minutes to be here.
35:49And then the moment I sat down, I think we only talked for one minute.
35:54And he's like, okay, I'm gonna get an Uber and go.
35:56And I'm like, I came all this way to see you, to say goodbye to you.
36:00And you're just gonna, like, run off.
36:02I just felt, in a way, like, rejected or like a slap in the face.
36:08Like, I keep putting all this effort and it's not reciprocated.
36:14You told me that you don't want anything to do with me, naturally so.
36:17I didn't say I don't want anything to do with you.
36:19I said, how am I gonna trust you again?
36:23How am I going to, like, be your girlfriend or wife?
36:26You did me dirty, but I don't hate you.
36:29It's like the minute he got out his phone, I'm like, I know whatever he's doing on that phone is
36:33a manipulation tactic.
36:34If she would have been like, all right, see ya.
36:37Do you think he would have left?
36:38He would not have left.
36:39Probably wasn't even on the Uber app.
36:40That man was just got it out, blank screen, waiting for her to say what you're doing.
36:44So he could say, just ordering my ride.
36:47So she could immediately be like, wait.
36:50Then he, she's chasing him.
36:51Now she's exactly back where he needs her.
36:54And it's like, oh, and I hate that it works.
36:57But it does.
36:58This has happened so many times.
36:59And I'm like, no!
37:01I hate that technique because it works.
37:03It's so evil.
37:05Like, I'm sad for myself.
37:08But I'm, like, more sad for your situation, like, where leg's broken.
37:13I don't know how to explain it.
37:15I'd say, like, any ex you see or any ex you're saying goodbye to, it's sad because it's like, okay,
37:19this is the end of our story.
37:21Of an era, yeah.
37:22This is the end of our friendship.
37:23This is the end of our story.
37:25I feel like Courtney gets lost in all of this because it's like, what about cold?
37:30What about what he needs?
37:31What about blah, blah, blah?
37:32But what about Courtney?
37:33Her heart got shattered in the whole process of this.
37:36I'm sure you felt used.
37:37I'm sure you felt duped.
37:39I question my whole reality.
37:40I'm like, was any of this real for him?
37:42Or was he just lying and manipulating me the entire time?
37:47I blew my knee out.
37:48Yeah.
37:49I need a new knee.
37:50ACL is gone.
37:51I don't even know what ACL is.
37:52Is that on your ankle or where's that?
37:55I can't even find the G-spot.
37:57Oh.
37:58Oh, my God.
37:59Colt.
38:05That must have been the medication.
38:07I know.
38:08Is that what it is?
38:09I know perfectly where the G-spot is.
38:11Oh.
38:11A lot of men have problems finding that.
38:13Well, where is it?
38:14It's over there.
38:16Want me to draw your map?
38:17Yes, actually.
38:21I will.
38:22OK.
38:23Well.
38:24I'm going to keep this forever.
38:25And I'm going to make copies.
38:26And any guy I date, I'm going to be like, here you go.
38:28Oh, yeah.
38:29That's definitely a priority.
38:30For my friend Colt.
38:31You should have, for sure.
38:33You got it here.
38:34That's like a map.
38:35OK.
38:36G's a spot.
38:37So you got to go to the coast, over here, over, under,
38:40and go over and then to the side.
38:42And then this way.
38:43And then it's right there.
38:44It's right there.
38:44It looks like a little penis.
38:46Well, you got to go in a little bit.
38:47OK.
38:48I'm going to keep this for the rest of my life.
38:50Thank you so much.
38:50Oh, you're welcome.
38:51This is a good friend that draws you a coochie map.
38:54I think we're, like, going to be bonded for life.
38:59What do you want to do now?
39:00Meet you up at your hotel or do you want to get Uber?
39:02I don't want an Uber.
39:04I don't want an Uber.
39:05I'm going to, like, punch myself in the face and be like,
39:07why are you there?
39:08Like, run.
39:11She still cares about me.
39:13I don't deserve it.
39:18Excuse me.
39:18My chariot awaits.
39:22So off camera, he told me he's going, like, oh,
39:25this is the last time we're going to see each other.
39:28So I dropped him back at his hotel.
39:29Then he calls me.
39:30And, like, on the phone, he's begging me to, like,
39:33come to his hotel and have sex with him and stuff.
39:35And I'm just like, no.
39:37No.
39:38I'm not having sex with you.
39:40Like, what the hell?
39:40How gross.
39:42Presumptious.
39:43I don't know what he was thinking.
39:45I think that man is delusional.
39:47The online girls were too busy for chat that day
39:50and then he wanted to get something in real life.
39:55Next time on Between the Sheets.
40:01Ooh.
40:02Things got a little bit intimate.
40:06A little like.
40:08Yeah, baby.
40:10She's like, oh, papi.
40:11Oh, papi.
40:12Did you go, you papi?
40:15Yeah.
40:16You're not disgusting.
40:18Tell me, how is sex talking?
40:20What is that?
40:21Well, I definitely said I won't do anal.
40:23OK.
40:24That's good to know.
40:25I did it one time and it hurt so bad I was, no.
40:28Sorry.
40:29One and done.
40:30Not even a one, it was a quarter done.
40:34I don't know where, like, your feelings are at with me.
40:38I'm really confused where I'm at myself.
40:42Look at me taking charge of the conversation.
40:44Not once did he say, let's see where things go with us.
40:48Not once did he ever stand up and be like, I want to date you.
40:53Are you interested in seeing where this is going?
40:55And I think that should have been a man moment.
40:57He didn't give me much to fight for.
41:00This has happened to me so many times in the past.
41:02A guy starts out one way and then it turns out
41:05that it was the opposite the whole time.
41:07I mean, if you really think I'm a person,
41:08it's going to truly just hurt you,
41:10then you should walk away from me.
41:11I agree.
41:13Oof.
41:14God, this was a hard one.
41:15I don't excuse his behavior.
41:18Because we're adults, we're going to have things that happen
41:20to us that we don't like.
41:22That doesn't give you green light to go disrespect
41:25your significant other.
41:26It's just, it's bad.
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