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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35Sure, pretty much, yeah.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:05Yeah.
00:01:06You should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's the real camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me.
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:09I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:04I'm hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on
00:03:19with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him.
00:03:53And then about 11.08 PM, I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:14Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:22what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days,
00:04:37and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this,
00:04:42when I've already made plans to take him somewhere special,
00:04:45and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So, what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:52telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for,
00:04:55and hopefully he'll come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because I watched her sweat.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room.
00:05:18So I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like, on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way,
00:05:47shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:49and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:54and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um...
00:07:14You have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:39Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she had not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:22I love mountains.
00:10:24I do too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me, this is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:30I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs bounced.
00:10:53I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:00I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:13It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir after our romantic getaway in Cheshme.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael, I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:19Play, revisit, emphasis.
00:12:22We have obsession with marble.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from Texas Central DC.
00:12:41Great.
00:12:41Yeah.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is like carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:29There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:49You know?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:14:04I hope you know that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah, that makes two of us.
00:14:16But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So the other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:31Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns?
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45About our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns, and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:50I have concerns because you are still communicating with Michael and talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well, he wants to come here.
00:15:13Perfect.
00:15:17No, there is no point.
00:15:22He already bought a flight.
00:15:28What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:35Yeah.
00:15:38Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:15:45This is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, you know, I'm glad you came, because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was to go, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So, you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So, what else do you want?
00:16:26Seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:27Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me, so I can get in the car, because I'm really
00:16:52full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the bag.
00:16:53I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you.
00:17:03Two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me your heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me your horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing, so I'm not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names, and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose, Presage Nocturne, Middle Earth, Maidan, Al Riffa, Buckaroo.
00:17:44I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know, kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:18:03So we're taking her out on the town, see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:08But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31At least 200 metres to our ride is the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:36Oh, f***, you guys working feet.
00:18:38F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down 1,000.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:11I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17Think about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for no.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:23Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:34Like the games are very bullshit.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that out of the way.
00:19:53We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05This is much needed.
00:20:07No.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheesies, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah, yeah.
00:20:16But, you know, I'm glad you came because you're one of my best friends.
00:20:24And, you know, as soon as you come, I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57Okay.
00:20:58Let's start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've traveled, what you've given up, and, you know, what it's taken to
00:21:03get here.
00:21:04So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:08So, this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:13Well, thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realize it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:24I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know, seven, eight months, I've slowed
00:21:34down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night, but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um, I could party a bit, yeah.
00:21:49Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats, and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:22:15But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with
00:22:19me and my cat and snuggling.
00:22:21And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:33Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:45To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not choosing to that.
00:23:12How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:23:31Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom, but my cat, Mito, got sick, so we
00:23:44had to run him to the vet.
00:23:46I look at you and your comb.
00:23:48You don't like the comb.
00:23:50Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream comb.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:00And so, today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast and finally get to know Javon more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:13Javon!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:24What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:36I don't want to see it.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay, my bad, then.
00:24:48Here's the thing.
00:24:48The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:57I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this, and then I just...
00:25:14Yes, that's the point of the water.
00:25:17Water was created to clean your butt.
00:25:22I'm going to go wash off mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh, ma, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47That's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Oh, okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:57Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:25:59And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:05Okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig it.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great, and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in
00:26:23-law.
00:26:25Jibon.
00:26:26Hmm.
00:26:27Mosta naman yung tulag mokigabi.
00:26:29My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:32My sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:41Ang daming nangyayari.
00:26:43Tapit bahay.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45Pero saya na ako na nandito ka na.
00:26:48She's happy that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52Kailan hanggang kailan ka dito?
00:26:55Till when you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here, like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02Ang bilis naman, ano?
00:27:04She said it's too fast.
00:27:05Hindi bang one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12Kailan ka pa rin kasi umuwi.
00:27:14I don't want to.
00:27:15Kailan naman tong anak ko.
00:27:16It was about my daughter.
00:27:19Sama mo na to.
00:27:24Saya ako na nakarating na si Dubon dito, sa Pilipinas, sa bahay namin.
00:27:31Pero ang nararamdaman ko, simpre,
00:27:35ang tagal niyang dumating dito sa Pilipinas,
00:27:41na ang iniisip ko kasi kung paano na yung anak ko.
00:27:47Sa six years na paghihintay ng anak ko,
00:27:51alalang-alala ako para sa kanya.
00:27:53She said for six years that my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:58I was so worried about her.
00:28:00Kasi parang nawawala na rin siyang pag-asa at ako.
00:28:03Because she was sometimes, I could see she was losing hope.
00:28:06And also me.
00:28:09I'm sorry it took so long, though.
00:28:11But I'm gonna make it up.
00:28:13I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:28:14I promise, okay?
00:28:16Alright?
00:28:17Na-intindihan mo?
00:28:18Uh-uh.
00:28:20Maraming nakasing ka nangyari.
00:28:22Na ano?
00:28:23Na, pangakong nakapako.
00:28:28Kung nasasakta ng anak, mas masakit sa ina.
00:28:33I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:28:36I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:28:41And we've been married for three years.
00:28:43And we still don't have a definite plan for the future.
00:28:49He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:53What does that mean?
00:28:57We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship for the rest of our lives.
00:29:02I don't want to.
00:29:04Right now, I don't feel secure about the future.
00:29:13Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:29:18Don't be mad.
00:29:21But don't be mad.
00:29:26Who is it?
00:29:27Mohammed.
00:29:28Oh, my God.
00:29:55Oh, my God.
00:30:06It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with Ziyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:30:22Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:30:26I'm looking for a Riyadh.
00:30:28And I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:30:35Just one person.
00:30:37I just got dumped.
00:30:42Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:54And somehow, I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:31:03But now, I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:31:19Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi!
00:31:22I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:31:27I miss you so much!
00:31:30What's up?
00:31:31What's wrong?
00:31:32What?
00:31:33Can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:31:36No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to...
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already.
00:31:40Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:45Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Ziyadh everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally, Maddie, went to s***.
00:31:59Like, we got into a huge fight, and it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me
00:32:04and leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:32:09This is odd.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:14That one there is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously doesn't care about you.
00:32:27And he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts.
00:32:33Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar.
00:32:39And, like, this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:48You know, it's like I did...
00:32:50I did all this, like, again.
00:32:52And, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of s***.
00:32:57Like, what, like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch.
00:33:00And for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:33:04Why is he acting like he's just, like, Ryan Gosling as, like, Morocco?
00:33:12Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad, but don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma.
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:36Maybe.
00:33:46Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know.
00:33:50I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:56Because...
00:33:56That was terrible.
00:33:57Because he was just as bad.
00:34:00Yeah.
00:34:01But, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when I
00:34:06was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:16Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:17What are your intentions out seeing him?
00:34:20I mean, is your...
00:34:21Are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean, I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:41Stop.
00:34:42I just want you to get hurt again.
00:34:43Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:34:45Stop.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Muhammad hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:56It's like, I just...
00:34:57I just want you to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:01Like, it will do.
00:35:01Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:05I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:20Emma, interview.
00:35:22I'll take money.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Muhammad.
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm going to answer it just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:43I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why?
00:35:46You want to see me?
00:35:49So, do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something?
00:35:56All right.
00:35:56Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:36:01You too.
00:36:01Bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So, Muhammad just asked me.
00:36:14Oh, my God.
00:36:15Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while.
00:36:20So, it's like...
00:36:22Um...
00:36:23What's his voice?
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:34I said, no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Muhammad have been through a lot,
00:36:50and we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:55So, that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:37:11You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex
00:37:19just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:37:23So, it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:37:44So, you ready to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:37:56Mm-hmm.
00:37:58It seems like you were not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:38:09to be introduced to your family.
00:38:12I told you, yes.
00:38:14So, what else do you want?
00:38:17Mm.
00:38:25It's like you were hesitating.
00:38:27Just tell me.
00:38:27Make things clear, Rick.
00:38:30Please.
00:38:33I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after.
00:38:39I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:38:45Tonight, we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay
00:38:48to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
00:38:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around,
00:38:55and she gets to talking about this great place
00:38:58that her ex took her to when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:03I feel like Trisha's bringing up her ex
00:39:05just to get back at me, you know, because of what I did.
00:39:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous,
00:39:15and it's a game for you.
00:39:18Shut up, please.
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me
00:39:21when I responded to you bragging about...
00:39:25You said, like, oh, this is a place
00:39:27that your ex took you, and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Then why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:37I enjoy...
00:39:39But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:42That means you appreciate what he has done for you
00:39:46more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:40:00I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:02Oh, okay.
00:40:03I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:04Because that's what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08I'm not.
00:40:08I will never be back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather...
00:40:13Then leave him alone.
00:40:14Then stop talking about him.
00:40:16I don't want to hear it.
00:40:17Because you hide your ex?
00:40:18No, I don't want to talk about my ex,
00:40:20and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:40:22Because you hiding your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:40:25Look what you did.
00:40:25You went to Columbia for your ex.
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us.
00:40:32I want a relationship with you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:40:43You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:40:50This is so ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place,
00:40:57to this place, and it was nice.
00:41:00That's it.
00:41:00It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him,
00:41:05or I'm still with my ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him.
00:41:10That's his action.
00:41:12Not me.
00:41:16So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here.
00:41:23I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:30If I know that you're committed,
00:41:33I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:41:41Okay.
00:41:46I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:41:59Maybe I'm in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me after what I
00:42:07did.
00:42:09And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too much.
00:42:16I'm feeling pressure.
00:42:18I'm feeling pressure.
00:42:18I'm feeling pressure.
00:42:19Massive pressure.
00:42:20This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:42:30I am miserable.
00:42:33Okay.
00:42:34Do you want to talk about this?
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now.
00:42:39she didn't care what I think or what I say you don't respect that's not true at all and now
00:42:46I
00:42:47have doubts this us could be mistake Michael he's coming yeah without asking without telling anything
00:43:09nothing he cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision I told him
00:43:28you know that I would think about him coming but I woke up this morning to a bunch of texts
00:43:34from him
00:43:35saying that he already booked a flight the other night in Cheshmay Michael offered to come to Turkey
00:43:45so he could give me his perspective on my relationship with beer con I had planned to
00:43:52talk to beer con about it but before I even had a chance to Michael texted me and said he
00:43:57booked
00:43:58his flight given beer cons very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael I am concerned
00:44:06that this will complicate the progress that beer con and I have made but on the other hand Michael is
00:44:15always the person that I'm gonna turn to when I need advice if beer con and I are really gonna
00:44:20move
00:44:20forward I need my best friend's opinion this is not normal something's wrong with him is he out of his
00:44:31mind is he out of his mind yeah no he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation
00:44:37or some chance
00:44:41chance to blow this relationship so he can have it am I right Michael and I have only ever been
00:44:49friends
00:44:51he's very logical he's very insightful and I value his opinion your your friends have scoped me out so
00:45:02why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends meet you and have you get along
00:45:07with
00:45:08them my friends doesn't want to me he made that low it's over he has no chance before she came
00:45:21here
00:45:22Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael and he said that I am the obstacle those two
00:45:30having a
00:45:30relationship I took it as a move she said that it was meaning just friends but I don't trust Michael
00:45:40this is his opportunity to break us up while she is confused about our relationship this is a strategy
00:45:51look I want this relationship to work with you I would never let a third party come between me and
00:46:05you
00:46:07maybe you should try to like calm down and just meet him
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice
00:46:27okay I just feel frustrated right now I feel like I have no choice it's already coming she didn't care
00:46:42what I think or what I say I just hope that Michael doesn't up my entire future and my relationship
00:46:54let's go we have a reservations okay
00:47:08you can't speak Turkish
00:47:11maybe I can't speak English okay thank you you know what the Turkish say cheers
00:47:16how cheers I'm just cheers
00:47:41we had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruins
00:47:48but beer con's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward you don't seem like you want to taste wine
00:48:00you're like pounding it like a shot yeah that's not a wine tasting yeah I am miserable you're miserable
00:48:08I'm waiting for my best friend Michael
00:48:16this is 13.5 person alcohol this one is that three different to Turkish grape
00:48:24okay let's try cheers thank you you're welcome okay do you want to talk about this
00:48:34okay there was no heads up you declined my existence in this relationship
00:48:43you just decide whatever you want you are not respecting the person in your life
00:48:52you don't respect me that's not true at all and now I have doubts
00:48:59when we get married it will only get worse
00:49:04that could be my worst mistake I don't know
00:49:09what could be your worst mistake this us
00:49:17here we are it's a nice place I hope
00:49:21I have booked a resort the pictures online looked really nice
00:49:26so I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect
00:49:31what is it it's moving
00:49:33kill it
00:49:35step on and get rid of it take it outside
00:49:38no
00:49:41Daniel
00:49:53guys where are we going
00:49:55left here and we're just up here on the left
00:49:59here we are
00:50:00well it looks super cute
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys's place
00:50:13we'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you
00:50:18cute
00:50:19wow
00:50:23at this point it's been 40 hours that I've been up and I am completely delirious
00:50:28completely foggy I put a game face on I went to the mother bar and now I am beyond
00:50:33thankful we're at the rental and I'm going to be getting some rest soon
00:50:36guys I really have to pee where's the bathroom and then you can show me around
00:50:41I'm really excited someone didn't make their bed
00:50:43Joshua
00:50:44someone else
00:50:45oh
00:50:47her oh my god this is a bathroom we're sharing
00:50:49oh no
00:50:51this is too small
00:50:55I'm going to die here
00:50:56you will not die
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward and like be positive and
00:51:01and show him that like I'm not a complainer
00:51:03it's small as
00:51:06sounds positive
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of like Josh getting the apartment in a nice location
00:51:12maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial
00:51:15and like I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate
00:51:19like no offense love you Chris
00:51:21this is your room
00:51:25what wait wait wait what
00:51:27it's the Moaning Lisa we call it
00:51:29you wanted this picture
00:51:30Chris thought it was hilarious
00:51:31I put it up
00:51:33yeah
00:51:36why would you let him do that
00:51:38I didn't let him do that
00:51:40but I thought it was quite hilarious
00:51:42so like what when we're having sex we have to look at Chris
00:51:44that's f***ing weird
00:51:46when we have sex
00:51:47it's pretty assumptuous of you
00:51:51yeah
00:51:51yeah
00:51:56so I'm really confused
00:51:57like you could have put a picture of me
00:51:59didn't have one
00:52:01in such high depth
00:52:02all of my social media
00:52:05it feels very surreal
00:52:06having Elise here with me in person
00:52:08she's just been a voice on the other end of the phone
00:52:11so it'll be interesting to see how
00:52:13you know we both react
00:52:15to living together
00:52:17where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer
00:52:23did you get a steamer?
00:52:24steamer?
00:52:25yeah
00:52:26do you think we should get like a closet organizer here?
00:52:30do you not
00:52:31do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36um
00:52:37it looks like it could be an adjustment
00:52:40there's like literally only one towel in here
00:52:44I'm gonna need more pillows
00:52:47uh
00:52:48we can organize that
00:52:49pillows
00:52:51steamer
00:52:51in the morning
00:52:52we should maybe make a list
00:52:54so you don't forget
00:52:55I'll write it down
00:52:55set yourself up for success
00:52:56I'll write it down
00:52:57promise
00:52:57okay
00:52:58let's go to bed
00:52:59okay
00:52:59come on
00:53:00alright guys
00:53:02goodnight
00:53:03alright
00:53:05this is your bed
00:53:06okay
00:53:07I just want to get comfy clothes on
00:53:09yep
00:53:09and go to bed
00:53:10okay perfect
00:53:11and I'm on the couch
00:53:12okay
00:53:14before I got here
00:53:16I told Joshua
00:53:17I wanted to take things slow
00:53:18so he's gonna sleep on the couch
00:53:20that way we're both avoiding temptation
00:53:22okay
00:53:25Joshua gives me butterflies
00:53:27like he's hot
00:53:28like sending him away
00:53:29it's hard
00:53:30but like I came here
00:53:31wanting to do things differently
00:53:33like not leading with sex
00:53:34but at the same time
00:53:36I wanted to make him
00:53:37you know
00:53:37see a little glimpse
00:53:39of what he might be getting
00:53:46Josh
00:53:53are you gonna come say goodnight
00:53:54absolutely
00:53:56why such a serious look
00:53:58because it's
00:54:02you know why
00:54:03you look like someone killed you
00:54:05yeah I'm getting killed inside
00:54:07painful
00:54:08alright well come take a night to me
00:54:23goodnight
00:54:23goodnight
00:54:26it's gonna be hard sleep
00:54:27on the couch
00:54:27but yeah
00:54:28it's good to try and connect
00:54:30more on that emotional level
00:54:31than the sexual level
00:54:32off the bat
00:54:33I think that probably
00:54:34you know that helps us
00:54:36but would you want to have sex
00:54:39in an ideal world
00:54:40of course I would
00:54:40as soon as I saw it
00:54:41I would
00:54:41roll it on the airport floor
00:54:43but um
00:54:43you know
00:54:46I'm really happy
00:54:47that we have a really strong connection
00:54:49straight away
00:54:50from the moment we met
00:54:52but um
00:54:52I haven't shared my whole life
00:54:54with um
00:54:54Elise yet
00:54:55I'm a bit worried
00:54:56that she might
00:54:57you know find out some things
00:54:58you know
00:54:58parts of my life
00:54:59that she's not exactly happy with
00:55:01I just hope
00:55:02I can show her
00:55:02that I'm a good person
00:55:03you know
00:55:04with flaws
00:55:04but a good person
00:55:05and hopefully she falls in love with me
00:55:24okay
00:55:25we have to pack
00:55:37Daniel are you sure
00:55:38you're okay
00:55:38going on this trip with me
00:55:39um yeah
00:55:42yeah sure
00:55:45since I'm now settled
00:55:46with Lisa
00:55:47I'm still really hot
00:55:49with all the offense
00:55:50she have committed
00:55:51by telling lies
00:55:53but
00:55:54I decided to go
00:55:55on this trip with her
00:55:57I hope we didn't forget anything
00:55:59I don't know
00:56:00I don't think so
00:56:01I think we're good
00:56:03this is going to be difficult
00:56:05but
00:56:05I will try my best
00:56:07to have a good time
00:56:18long ride
00:56:19we'll get there pretty late
00:56:20so
00:56:21what is the place like
00:56:23it's a lake
00:56:24yeah there will be
00:56:25a lot of nature
00:56:26in the area
00:56:27to look at
00:56:28and lots of
00:56:29activities to do
00:56:30so
00:56:31I thought it would be
00:56:32enjoyable for us
00:56:33thank you
00:56:35thank you
00:56:36she's not gonna come
00:56:41I'll have mercy on you
00:56:43baby
00:56:45I'll have mercy on you
00:56:48you're thinking
00:56:49where the hell
00:56:49is she taking me
00:56:50you know
00:56:52we call these in America
00:56:53the boonies
00:56:54what is
00:56:55the boondocks
00:56:56where there's no real
00:56:58civilization
00:56:59it's just
00:57:00just woods
00:57:04here we are
00:57:06it's a nice place
00:57:07I hope
00:57:10I have booked
00:57:11a resort
00:57:12in Bagari
00:57:14Nigeria
00:57:15it's the western part
00:57:16of Lagos
00:57:17the pictures online
00:57:19looked really nice
00:57:20and it's
00:57:21in my price range
00:57:22so
00:57:23I'm hoping this place
00:57:25is fun
00:57:25and romantic
00:57:26and can help us
00:57:27reconnect
00:57:29oh wow
00:57:30I like it
00:57:31what do you think
00:57:35nice little space
00:57:36right
00:57:36it's nice
00:57:37it's fine
00:57:38it's nice
00:57:38oh my god
00:57:42what is it
00:57:45no
00:57:46that could be
00:57:48poisonous
00:57:48I've not seen
00:57:49someone
00:57:50bitten by
00:57:51a spider
00:57:51before
00:57:54I have
00:57:55I'm not gonna
00:57:56sleep in here
00:57:56with a spider
00:57:57I'm terrified
00:57:59of this spider
00:57:59because I don't know
00:58:00what kind of spider
00:58:01it is
00:58:01this thing
00:58:02is in Africa
00:58:03this could be
00:58:04dangerous
00:58:04don't you dare
00:58:06fling it towards
00:58:07me
00:58:11is it dead
00:58:12just smush
00:58:13it's moving
00:58:16kill it
00:58:17step on it
00:58:18get rid of it
00:58:19take it outside
00:58:20no
00:58:21ah
00:58:23Daniel
00:58:25all right
00:58:25stop
00:58:26leave it
00:58:26I will kill it
00:58:27myself
00:58:28ah
00:58:29no
00:58:29don't kick it
00:58:30again
00:58:30stop
00:58:32stop
00:58:32kicking it
00:58:36where'd it go
00:58:38Daniel
00:58:38get it off
00:58:39my shoe
00:58:40okay
00:58:41don't kick it
00:58:42at me
00:58:44I have a phobia
00:58:45of spiders
00:58:46it's just spider
00:58:47no
00:58:48it's not just a spider
00:58:50it was huge
00:58:51it was like
00:58:51tarantula sized spider
00:58:53you are so rude
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders
00:58:58I told you to kill spider
00:59:00why didn't you kill the spider
00:59:01I have
00:59:02just spider
00:59:03ordinary spider
00:59:04it's not an ordinary spider
00:59:05it's a vicious spider
00:59:07this is room you paid for
00:59:08you know where the spider's coming from
00:59:10kill the spider
00:59:11kill it
00:59:11no you kill it
00:59:14we're here now right
00:59:18so what are we here for
00:59:21it's a romantic getaway
00:59:23romantic
00:59:24yes
00:59:25yes
00:59:30she wants us to have
00:59:32a romantic trip
00:59:34but it's very hard for me
00:59:36I am feeling tense
00:59:40because I don't know
00:59:41what my uncle is going to do
00:59:43whether he will cancel this marriage
00:59:46I don't like waiting
00:59:47you know to talk to him
00:59:49you should enjoy it
00:59:51you came
00:59:52why'd you come
00:59:53if you're not going to enjoy it
00:59:54honest
00:59:55you know why I'm here right
00:59:57no I have no idea
00:59:58why you decided to come
00:59:59no
01:00:01I'm here because
01:00:03I don't want the money
01:00:04you paid to be
01:00:05to be a waste
01:00:08that's the only reason
01:00:09why you came
01:00:13so
01:00:14no
01:00:15no sex
01:00:17no kissing
01:00:19auntie I call my uncle
01:00:20and I want him to consult
01:00:22you know the oracle
01:00:23the ancestors
01:00:24why don't you just wait
01:00:26a couple days
01:00:26just a couple days
01:00:29we can
01:00:29we can make this work
01:00:30for a couple days
01:00:32Daniel I need a couple days
01:00:33to do what
01:00:34just to get my head together
01:00:37and then we call your uncle
01:00:42I need a couple days
01:00:43because I have to come clean
01:00:44to Daniel about the rest
01:00:45of everything
01:00:46before he goes to his uncle
01:00:49but he's already so angry with me
01:00:52how am I going to get through it
01:00:55I am terrified
01:00:56that Daniel's going to leave me forever
01:00:58once he finds out
01:01:00I need a day or two
01:01:02that's all I'm asking for
01:01:03I want to have a day or two with you
01:01:07fine
01:01:12this
01:01:13this one never ends
01:01:15why do you do this
01:01:16is your mom always just bossy
01:01:19you want traditional roles
01:01:21when it applies
01:01:22to you
01:01:24I'm just done with this conversation
01:01:26you know you used to be a lot softer
01:01:28and sweeter
01:01:29you don't want a bitchy wife
01:01:31don't be a asshole
01:02:15what's wrong
01:02:18really
01:02:19yeah really
01:02:20you don't help me with anything
01:02:23like this laundry
01:02:25and this
01:02:26this one never ends
01:02:28why do you do this
01:02:30what the
01:02:34it's been nice
01:02:36having Javon in my house
01:02:37but
01:02:38I'm still thinking
01:02:39about my mom's
01:02:41concern about
01:02:41our long distance relationship
01:02:44on top of that
01:02:46now that Javon and I
01:02:48are living together
01:02:49in one house
01:02:50slowly
01:02:51a baby
01:02:53I get to see how he is
01:02:58he's very messy
01:03:00and he just puts
01:03:01the clothes
01:03:03and the towels
01:03:03everywhere
01:03:04I feel like
01:03:06I have a toddler
01:03:07and I always have to
01:03:08pick up stuff
01:03:09from male to male
01:03:11is your mom always
01:03:12just bossy
01:03:15what I heard
01:03:16we just haven't got time
01:03:18I heard that
01:03:21no me too loves me
01:03:23well I love you too
01:03:25I mean it doesn't mean
01:03:26that you're not bossy
01:03:28what's wrong with telling
01:03:29your husband to pick up
01:03:30their socks
01:03:31there's nothing wrong with
01:03:32that Anna
01:03:33it's how you're delivering
01:03:35Anna
01:03:35what do you want from me
01:03:36instead of coming in the room
01:03:38say
01:03:38Javon pick up your stuff
01:03:40you know
01:03:41you can just say
01:03:42boo
01:03:43if you don't mind
01:03:44could you just pick up
01:03:45your stuff
01:03:48Javon
01:03:48yeah
01:03:48no matter how much
01:03:49I put it
01:03:50if you really would like
01:03:51to pick up that socks
01:03:53you would have
01:03:54see
01:03:55you don't see that
01:03:56I do
01:03:57actually
01:03:58you do
01:03:58but you don't do it
01:03:59no
01:04:03and like every time
01:04:04I talk to you
01:04:05you leave the room
01:04:18we all we do is
01:04:19talk
01:04:21that's all we do
01:04:21alright
01:04:22well I'ma try a little
01:04:24action today
01:04:25would you like to
01:04:27go get our
01:04:28like a manicure
01:04:29like a feet done
01:04:32well
01:04:34you definitely
01:04:35need a pedicure
01:04:38okay
01:04:47I feel sorry
01:04:48for whoever's
01:04:49gonna clean your feet
01:04:51dang
01:04:51how bad
01:04:52do you think
01:04:53my feet is
01:04:55Anna's always
01:04:56complained that
01:04:56I'm not romantic enough
01:04:59but
01:04:59it's hard to be romantic
01:05:01when you're being
01:05:02nagged
01:05:03a lot
01:05:05still
01:05:05you thought it'd be
01:05:06a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice
01:05:08for Anna
01:05:08to show her
01:05:09you know what
01:05:10I appreciate what you do
01:05:14I just hope that she sees
01:05:16that I'm making a real effort
01:05:17here
01:05:19so
01:05:20it's like Barbie
01:05:22threw up in here
01:05:24suits you so well
01:05:25look at you
01:05:27sitting like a queen
01:05:29sitting like a queen
01:05:30it's all pink
01:05:31I like it
01:05:32I know you do
01:05:36there you go
01:05:37yeah
01:05:40yeah
01:05:41see I told you
01:05:44it just feels weird
01:05:47oh that's nice
01:05:49oh my god
01:05:50boo
01:05:51that's a lot
01:05:53you doing okay
01:05:54over there
01:05:56I'm so tired
01:06:01is this being romantic
01:06:04yeah
01:06:05did I pass the test today
01:06:06kind of
01:06:08yeah
01:06:08thank you
01:06:09some cool points
01:06:10I like that
01:06:13you still have to be
01:06:15nicer to me though
01:06:16and I'll do more
01:06:17nice things
01:06:19like if I leave
01:06:21like underwear
01:06:22or socks on the floor
01:06:24you know
01:06:25will you be nice
01:06:28no
01:06:28no
01:06:29I mean
01:06:30you can be nice to me
01:06:32but not
01:06:32by not dropping
01:06:34them on the floor
01:06:38I know but Anna
01:06:39you know
01:06:40you used to be
01:06:41a lot softer
01:06:41and sweeter
01:06:42and you know
01:06:44more patient with me
01:06:45you know what
01:06:46I think it is
01:06:47it's just
01:06:47I think that you knew
01:06:48I wasn't going anywhere
01:06:49and you got comfortable
01:06:53being too comfortable
01:06:55is not a good thing
01:06:56because you feel like
01:06:57okay well
01:06:58I got this person
01:06:59I don't have to try anymore
01:07:01you know
01:07:02he's always going to be there
01:07:03no matter what
01:07:06don't ever get too comfortable
01:07:07ever
01:07:13I don't understand
01:07:14where did this come from
01:07:16do you get it from those
01:07:17videos that you've been
01:07:19watching
01:07:20about
01:07:22masculinity
01:07:22and all the things
01:07:24no that's my
01:07:25that's
01:07:26that's
01:07:26that's
01:07:26that's
01:07:26all my idea
01:07:27I take full credit
01:07:29for that
01:07:32it's just odd
01:07:33because I feel like
01:07:34over the couple of years
01:07:36watching all these
01:07:38videos
01:07:38you've changed
01:07:39and
01:07:40I love
01:07:41who you are
01:07:43but Anna
01:07:44this is who I was
01:07:45when you first met me
01:07:46no you're not
01:07:48you were not that
01:07:49prideful before
01:07:50I feel like
01:07:51your idea
01:07:52of being a husband
01:07:53changed
01:07:55you see it like
01:07:56a power
01:07:57I don't have any
01:07:58that's the problem
01:07:59like I feel like
01:08:00that's the problem
01:08:01you need to feel powerful
01:08:02no
01:08:02and you're not
01:08:03I feel like
01:08:04I have all the responsibility
01:08:05with no authority
01:08:06because when I tell you
01:08:08to do something
01:08:08you don't listen to me
01:08:09so what are you talking about
01:08:13you want traditional roles
01:08:15when it
01:08:15when it applies
01:08:16to you
01:08:17I always have to take care
01:08:19of everything
01:08:20financially
01:08:20so
01:08:21as your husband
01:08:23I feel like
01:08:23having to say is nice
01:08:24you know
01:08:25it just means
01:08:26you're just respectful
01:08:30ah
01:08:30just done with this conversation
01:08:37why did you bring me here
01:08:39well
01:08:40I wanted
01:08:41you to have a good time
01:08:42yes
01:08:43but if you were gonna
01:08:44do I look like
01:08:44I'm having a good time
01:08:45but you set me up
01:08:46you were asking me questions
01:08:48and I just answered them
01:08:49honestly
01:08:50you ever heard the term
01:08:52you know
01:08:52you don't want to hear the answers
01:08:53so cease from asking
01:08:54dumbass questions
01:08:57you ever think about that
01:08:58and you don't want
01:08:59to bitch your wife
01:09:01don't be a
01:09:01asshole
01:09:04I can just sit here
01:09:05and get my feet done
01:09:06like I don't have to
01:09:09then they should stay here
01:09:10okay
01:09:11don't come home
01:09:11you need to calm down
01:09:18I don't want to see you
01:09:19ever again
01:09:22don't come home
01:09:24ever
01:09:26jerk
01:09:29you're disgusting
01:09:33hey I will see you soon
01:09:35all right
01:09:36I cannot believe
01:09:38Michael is actually
01:09:40here in Turkey
01:09:41he said to tell you hi
01:09:43I'm nothing
01:09:47you want to open it
01:09:48hey
01:09:50hi friend
01:09:51oh my god
01:10:13I have a phone call
01:10:20hello
01:10:21hello
01:10:22hey good morning
01:10:24good morning
01:10:25how are you
01:10:28oh
01:10:30my hotel won't be ready
01:10:32until like
01:10:322 o'clock
01:10:35is there any chance
01:10:36I can point in my
01:10:37say hello
01:10:40it's totally fine
01:10:41with me
01:10:42I mean
01:10:42I was just gonna say
01:10:45I pin-drop you
01:10:46my location
01:10:46I will see you soon
01:10:50I wish for walking
01:10:51your direction
01:10:51all right
01:10:52be careful
01:10:55thanks
01:10:55bye bye
01:10:56bye
01:11:06I'm a little bit worried
01:11:07that Michael's here
01:11:09now that this is real
01:11:11and he actually
01:11:12showed up in Turkey
01:11:14my stomach is about to
01:11:16explode on itself
01:11:18I'm incredibly nervous
01:11:20and
01:11:21I feel like I'm about to die
01:11:27hey
01:11:28hey
01:11:29that was Michael
01:11:31what is he saying
01:11:35he said to tell you hi
01:11:37what
01:11:40why
01:11:41because
01:11:42I'm not saying hi
01:11:43well
01:11:46he's gonna be here
01:11:48at this apartment
01:11:50this apartment
01:11:51and about
01:11:52Turkey is okay
01:11:54but this apartment
01:11:5510 minutes
01:12:01I cannot believe
01:12:03that Michael is actually
01:12:05here in Turkey
01:12:06he dropped everything
01:12:08to get on a plane for me
01:12:10I mean it does feel pretty good
01:12:12that someone cares about me
01:12:14enough to do that
01:12:15but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated
01:12:22so you think
01:12:23this is normal
01:12:27well
01:12:29I think he's just
01:12:30concerned about me
01:12:33yeah
01:12:33sure
01:12:36that's totally normal
01:12:38for friends to be
01:12:39concerned about each other
01:12:40yeah I believe him
01:12:42yeah I believe him
01:12:43he's such a good heart
01:12:50I'm not five years old
01:12:51I don't eat that
01:12:55your friend
01:12:56your friend is trying to
01:12:57this connection
01:12:58and you're like
01:12:59yay
01:13:01okay
01:13:03it's like
01:13:03I don't get it
01:13:06I never wanted him to come
01:13:08and I still don't want him
01:13:10to come
01:13:11I think he's coming
01:13:13in Turkey
01:13:14to mix up
01:13:15Laura's mind
01:13:16maybe talk some
01:13:17about me
01:13:18give Laura
01:13:20more doubts
01:13:22but
01:13:22if
01:13:23our relationship
01:13:25is gonna end
01:13:26because of Michael
01:13:28I don't blame Michael
01:13:30why you will blame Laura
01:13:37you want to open it
01:13:39yeah I do actually
01:13:41thank you
01:13:47hey
01:13:48hi friend
01:13:49oh my god
01:13:50I cannot believe
01:13:52you're in Turkey
01:13:53is it safe to come in
01:13:55yes
01:13:55oh my god
01:13:56wild
01:13:57oh my god
01:13:59they're gonna palace here
01:14:06I cannot believe
01:14:08you're in Turkey
01:14:09I know
01:14:09this is amazing
01:14:10it's the most spontaneous
01:14:12thing I've ever done
01:14:13in my life
01:14:13and I do it for you
01:14:15I do it for you
01:14:18so
01:14:19oh my god
01:14:21absolutely
01:14:22oh wow
01:14:23yeah this is
01:14:24fantastic right
01:14:25I hope my hotel room
01:14:27looks like this
01:14:27holy cow
01:14:28hi Michael
01:14:30nice to meet you
01:14:32finally
01:14:32I've heard so much
01:14:33about you
01:14:34yeah
01:14:35you probably heard
01:14:36I'm
01:14:38okay
01:14:44make yourself at home
01:14:46okay
01:14:47you want something
01:14:48to drink
01:14:49tea
01:14:50yeah
01:14:50anything like that
01:14:51okay
01:14:52just have a seat
01:14:53right here
01:14:53I don't know how it works
01:14:54do the women make tea
01:14:55here or do the boys do it
01:14:58boys
01:14:58the boys make the tea
01:15:00they call men
01:15:02if they are grown up
01:15:03oh okay
01:15:07um
01:15:08would you like anything
01:15:10nope
01:15:12I am perfect
01:15:13thank you
01:15:27so bunny what you're watching
01:15:30Scarface
01:15:35you like American classic movies
01:15:38no
01:15:42I like mob stuff
01:15:45I enjoy pretty much
01:15:47violence
01:15:53do you like
01:15:56do I like this movie
01:15:57violence
01:15:58violence
01:16:03uh
01:16:05golly
01:16:06I
01:16:07I'll be honest with you
01:16:08I don't know what to make of beer con
01:16:09um I know I just kind of dropped it on him
01:16:11but he's talking about violence to me on the couch
01:16:14if that's truly who he is
01:16:16then I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura
01:16:20my first impression of beer con
01:16:21is that Laura and I are more compatible than I think uh than beer con and she are
01:16:25so I want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:16:35I love you so much
01:16:37but stop telling me that
01:16:39stop with hurting some secrets
01:16:41all I can think about
01:16:43is how there is more to tell him
01:16:45and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
01:16:48it has to be tonight
01:16:50so I have more to tell you then
01:16:52more to tell me
01:17:17good morning
01:17:20good morning
01:17:25you're going to sleep
01:17:26you're going to sleep or I
01:17:28you kept me awake
01:17:28I tried to lie
01:17:30I know
01:17:30I didn't mean to keep you awake
01:17:32I couldn't help it
01:17:33I was sad
01:17:33now you almost went to bed with tears
01:17:42I feel bad about everything that transpired
01:17:47but I feel better this morning
01:17:50yeah because I cuddled you right
01:17:53and they were crying so loud
01:17:55so I have to
01:17:56I have to cuddle you
01:17:58you know
01:18:01last night I cried myself to sleep
01:18:03and all I could think about is how I have to tell Daniel my secret
01:18:07and I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever
01:18:10but Daniel held me all night
01:18:12so I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful
01:18:16today is a new day
01:18:18and I'm hoping that we can explore and have some fun together
01:18:21yes hello
01:18:22where are we breathing
01:18:23I'd like to look at the lake
01:18:25and I'd like to walk around and see what else there is
01:18:28that's fine
01:18:29all right
01:18:29let's get dressed
01:18:41come on
01:18:41let's go down towards the water
01:18:46oh my gosh
01:18:50this is a whole resort
01:18:51and there's nobody here
01:18:59it's not like it's pictures
01:19:03it's pretty desolate actually
01:19:06and it's a bit run down
01:19:10smile a little bit
01:19:13but maybe that it's desolate
01:19:15is gonna help me with Daniel
01:19:20maybe it's a little bit more intimate for the two of us
01:19:25water is so big
01:19:27yeah it's so big the water
01:19:33oh look at this
01:19:34this is neat
01:19:35let's have one
01:19:37two please
01:19:41I feel that things are going back to normal
01:19:44like Lisa is trying to rebuild our relationship
01:19:48oh wow
01:19:51delicious
01:19:52let's go for a bike ride
01:19:54can you ride a bike?
01:19:56I don't know
01:19:57I will try
01:19:59to me
01:20:00I welcomed it
01:20:01I want us to be together
01:20:02because I love her
01:20:07you know it takes muscle to pull this
01:20:09yes that's why
01:20:10you're doing the pedaling
01:20:11and I'm doing the steering
01:20:13look up the pace
01:20:14no not that fast
01:20:16thank you baby
01:20:17not that fast
01:20:20don't go so fast
01:20:24I feel so light
01:20:26and so good in this moment with Daniel
01:20:28he is having fun
01:20:30and seeing the smile on his face
01:20:31as he's doing it
01:20:33I really feel like we're reconnecting
01:20:36are you having fun
01:20:37yes I am
01:20:39see this is exactly what we needed
01:20:43I want to just enjoy myself
01:20:44but I can't
01:20:45because all I can think about
01:20:47is how there is more to tell him
01:20:49and I have to get it said
01:20:51before he goes to his uncle
01:20:52it has to be tonight
01:20:55it has to be tonight
01:21:16it's a bonfire honey
01:21:17we're dancers
01:21:20I'm enjoying the sun
01:21:24this is beautiful
01:21:26have a seat
01:21:27let's watch them
01:21:28let's enjoy it
01:21:32it's beautiful isn't it
01:21:37thank you
01:21:38thank you
01:21:42this is nice
01:21:45are you glad you gave me one more day
01:21:50I'm enjoying spending time with you
01:21:51this is what this few days is about
01:21:55do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit
01:21:58I really want us to reconnect
01:22:00you know I miss the way we used to be
01:22:04but I'm trying to respect our tradition
01:22:08we have to call my uncle
01:22:10when I call him
01:22:12I will beg on our behalf
01:22:14I love you
01:22:15I love you
01:22:16I want to make you
01:22:18I want to love you forever
01:22:22but stop telling me lies
01:22:24stop with hurting some secrets
01:22:27okay
01:22:29I understand
01:22:30okay
01:22:33so I have more to tell you then
01:22:36more to tell me
01:22:40what do you mean
01:22:43so like in Nigeria
01:22:45it's not legal
01:22:47for men to marry men
01:22:50or women to marry women
01:22:51right
01:22:51it's not legal
01:22:52it's not
01:22:53in America it is
01:22:56yes I've had all of that
01:23:01so
01:23:02my last marriage wasn't with a man
01:23:07I'm divorcing a woman Daniel
01:23:12and I've been with more than one woman
01:23:16you're the first man
01:23:18you're the first man that I've been with
01:23:19in 21 years
01:23:21because um
01:23:30it's not
01:23:31don't
01:23:31it's not as bad
01:23:33don't come close to me
01:23:39next time on before the 90 days
01:23:46having female friends can be hard to juggle
01:23:49but I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about
01:23:51today I found out that he was living with you
01:23:54yeah
01:23:54yeah I think that she has a financial hold on you
01:23:56that's making you feel some sort of way
01:23:58financial holds big words
01:24:01are you jealous of me
01:24:02and our relationship
01:24:08we're officially on the GP
01:24:11I only have a week left here in the Philippines
01:24:13and I don't want to waste any time
01:24:16in bringing Sheena to America
01:24:17so I have to be very clear here
01:24:20if you file today for the K-1 vision
01:24:25it will be denied
01:24:30I just feel really hopeless
01:24:33because I'm putting in massive effort
01:24:36and at this moment
01:24:38I'm at a crossroads
01:24:39I don't know how to move forward
01:24:46I'm excited to see my family
01:24:49you think they're going to be happy to see
01:24:51yeah, to see me
01:24:52what about me?
01:24:54I don't know
01:24:55I feel scared
01:24:58my family won't accept Rick
01:25:01when they don't like something
01:25:03they are really aggressive
01:25:05Rick doesn't know what he's in for
01:25:15they want babies
01:25:20you have a lot of secrets
01:25:22I have no more secrets
01:25:24shut your mouth
01:25:25you don't have to
01:25:25you have been touched by a woman
01:25:27not even women
01:25:30what a range
01:25:34Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am
01:25:36you know what?
01:25:38him
01:25:39him
01:25:42he's us
01:25:44you
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