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00:00:00Previously, feedback from their peers...
00:00:03Steve-O needs to put on his captain's hat.
00:00:05...allowed some couples to deepen their connections.
00:00:08There's two ways to a woman's heart.
00:00:11Chocolate or cheese.
00:00:13Only the best for my wife.
00:00:15I'm excited by you taking the lead.
00:00:18It reminds you are appreciated.
00:00:22Want a nacho kiss?
00:00:23Thank you for sending tasks that really understand the dynamic of Stephen and I
00:00:28and what we needed.
00:00:30Probing questions reinforced some were on the same page.
00:00:34Yes, I do see as a father of my children.
00:00:36Once again, Danny avoided direct questions from Beck.
00:00:40Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:00:43I want to be very careful I'll answer this question.
00:00:49Um...
00:00:49Chris and Sam were caught in a tense stalemate.
00:00:52Not getting defensive at all.
00:00:54Even like a little sorry it felt like that way for you, Sam.
00:00:56I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:57Yeah, cool.
00:00:57Yeah, I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:58Lead with that.
00:01:00And despite Scott's willingness to get fresh perspective...
00:01:04I'm definitely going to take it on board and I hope Gia does too.
00:01:07No thanks.
00:01:08Gia was less than impressed.
00:01:10Hi.
00:01:12We're just going through this.
00:01:13Oh, I want to get out.
00:01:14I love you.
00:01:15As her and Scott pulled off a disappearing act.
00:01:19Tonight.
00:01:20I feel like I have been caught up in the Gia room, Beck.
00:01:24What?
00:01:24It's been toxic from the start.
00:01:26I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:01:29Alissa's reached her limit and is standing her ground.
00:01:33I've had enough.
00:01:34And it's the first time she'll come face to face with Beck after those text messages.
00:01:41The vibe with Alissa was icy cold.
00:01:43It was vile and vicious.
00:01:45Very different vibe tonight, Alissa, doesn't she?
00:01:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:01:48Hang on, hang on.
00:01:49Oh, God.
00:01:50Stop using me!
00:01:52Why are you laughing?
00:01:54What bombshell has Sam dropped on Chris right before the dinner party?
00:01:58I'm fuming.
00:01:59I feel uncomfortable.
00:02:00I feel betrayed.
00:02:02I've never had someone do this to me.
00:02:05And then...
00:02:05That needs to stop.
00:02:07That needs to stop.
00:02:08Has Danny reached his breaking point?
00:02:10I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:02:13Two months ago, Danny.
00:02:14Two months ago.
00:02:15I can't believe it was ten years ago.
00:02:27After a week of honest feedback about their relationships,
00:02:31tonight our couples are coming together
00:02:34to reflect and unpack at the sixth dinner party.
00:02:39And after feedback week,
00:02:41Stella and Phillip's relationship is going from strength to strength.
00:02:45Would you like a coffee?
00:02:47Just peppermint tea.
00:02:48Just peppermint tea.
00:02:49Please.
00:02:49A bit of honey.
00:02:50A bit of honey.
00:02:51Yeah, why not?
00:02:51Just spice it up a little bit.
00:02:54Feedback week was amazing, to be honest.
00:02:56Trying to understand each other,
00:02:57and that's definitely deepened our connection.
00:03:00I think feedback week was one of the best weeks.
00:03:03Yeah, it was good.
00:03:03It still really was.
00:03:04It was a good week.
00:03:05Yeah, everything's going great.
00:03:07Ready to rumble?
00:03:09I thoroughly enjoyed it, so hopefully everyone else got much out of it like we did.
00:03:16For Rachel and Stephen, feedback week brought plenty to smile about.
00:03:22I'm actually excited to share with the group, like, what a good week we've had.
00:03:26It was fun.
00:03:27It was flirty.
00:03:28We were really lucky.
00:03:30Yeah.
00:03:31I feel like we've really leant into feedback.
00:03:33Like, Stephen's definitely stepped up.
00:03:35It's time to let Steve-O put his captain hat on and lead for the day.
00:03:41Are you making me a microwave meal?
00:03:43Only the best for my wife.
00:03:47No one makes nachos like me, though, do they?
00:03:51No.
00:03:52And maybe they shouldn't.
00:03:59I like that task.
00:04:01I'd love to do it for more than one day, actually.
00:04:03You know, you'd be waking up, and I'll have my sailor's hat on,
00:04:05and you'd be like, oh, what's this guy up to?
00:04:09Oh, that was exactly what you're up to.
00:04:20After a bizarre disappearing act over the weekend...
00:04:26..Gia and Scott have returned to their apartment.
00:04:33I hated feedback week.
00:04:35I don't know, I just think everything got to me.
00:04:36..and I just wasn't feeling really good, and I wanted to leave.
00:04:40I can see the difference in you with, um,
00:04:43being away from the experiment, like...
00:04:45Yeah, I know.
00:04:46I don't think Gia's good at, um, you know,
00:04:48taking feedback from anyone.
00:04:50So I planned ourselves a nice little weekend getaway,
00:04:53and I feel like it was the best thing we've ever done.
00:04:55I think the weekend away did really well for Scott and I.
00:04:59I feel much better today after our weekend.
00:05:01Yeah.
00:05:02Everything's been reset.
00:05:03I feel like we had a factory reset.
00:05:05And I guess the topics of tonight will probably be...
00:05:08Feedback week.
00:05:10The only issues that Scott and I have in our relationship
00:05:12are that we're in this experiment with people that we don't like.
00:05:15And also, uh, I don't take advice from people doing worse than me either.
00:05:21So, that's the only drama.
00:05:23Whenever these setbacks happen for me and Scott,
00:05:25I think it makes us stronger.
00:05:27Going into this dinner party with a smile on a doll
00:05:30and a spring in our step.
00:05:32Yeah.
00:05:33Moving forward, I just want to focus on Scott and I
00:05:35and have fun with a few people that are here now.
00:05:38Are you ready to hit the road, hit this dinner party, or what?
00:05:41Let's do it.
00:05:44Gia and Scott weren't the only couple
00:05:46who had a difficult feedback week.
00:05:51I...
00:05:52I've been anxious all weekend.
00:05:54Um, you know, I've been holding in some stuff with Chris
00:05:57that I'm not really happy with how, uh, feedback week ended.
00:06:01At the last commitment ceremony,
00:06:03Chris's plan for Sam to move to Sydney took him by surprise.
00:06:08Are you starting to think about life outside the experiment?
00:06:12I think what it would probably look like is he'd go to Sydney.
00:06:14I would stay primarily at the farm
00:06:16and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit
00:06:18from Sydney to the farm.
00:06:20But when Sam raised the issue with Chris...
00:06:23Oh, that's the first time I heard that plan
00:06:25and it was kind of like you've just, like, made a decision
00:06:27on how this is going.
00:06:28Well, no, actually, no.
00:06:30That's not true.
00:06:31I feel like you're getting really, like, defensive with me now.
00:06:34I'm not getting defensive at all.
00:06:35Well, even, like, a little sorry it felt like that way.
00:06:37I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:06:38OK, cool.
00:06:41That comment was maybe misconstrued or whatever.
00:06:45I'm happy to, like, just, like, move forward from it.
00:06:47Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:06:49I'm not getting defensive.
00:06:50I'm having a conversation.
00:06:51Leaving things unresolved.
00:06:55I just feel like Chris isn't understanding me.
00:06:58Like, he basically told the experts a plan
00:07:01of how it's going to work after the experiment
00:07:03without consulting me at all.
00:07:04And that just made me feel like I didn't really have a voice
00:07:06and I wasn't being heard
00:07:07and I didn't have much empathy around
00:07:08how this was all going to end.
00:07:10The next day, he tried to turn the whole thing around on me
00:07:13and gaslight me.
00:07:15And the only reason I've held it in
00:07:17is because I just can't feel like I can get through to him by myself.
00:07:21Yeah, going into tonight,
00:07:23I'm feeling really anxious about bringing this up.
00:07:25And the anxiety comes from I don't think
00:07:26it's going to be received well from Chris.
00:07:29I can see Chris cutting me off tonight
00:07:31if I try to talk about it.
00:07:32So I just need that group dynamic to bring it up.
00:07:35But hopefully, with the support of the group,
00:07:37maybe we can get there.
00:07:41Over the weekend,
00:07:43Feedback Week has prompted a change
00:07:45in Bec and Danny's relationship status.
00:07:48What about the fact that I'm not only a wife,
00:07:51but I'm a girlfriend now?
00:07:54Like, it still doesn't make too much sense to me,
00:07:57but whatever we roll with it.
00:08:01Danny and I talked about, you know,
00:08:04are we going to call each other husband and wife after this?
00:08:06And he was like, well, yeah, you're my wife.
00:08:08And I was like,
00:08:09what about the security of actually being your girlfriend?
00:08:12And he was like, will you be my girlfriend?
00:08:14And I was like, do you want me to be?
00:08:16And he said, absolutely.
00:08:18So I'm a girlfriend and a wife.
00:08:21Double parked.
00:08:23I think it's the security of, like,
00:08:25when we leave,
00:08:26we'll still be husband and wife, right?
00:08:29Well, yeah, of course.
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:31So, but...
00:08:32If I just kind of whip the ring off and be like,
00:08:34right,
00:08:36we're mates.
00:08:38But, um...
00:08:38It's just the security of it, I think.
00:08:40It's nice.
00:08:42Interesting, isn't it?
00:08:43Tonight, I'm walking to a dinner party,
00:08:44not only as a wife in the experiment,
00:08:46but as a girlfriend overall,
00:08:49it proves that, you know,
00:08:50he's got my back.
00:08:51We're ride or die.
00:08:52And this is really serious.
00:08:54It's never been done before.
00:08:56No.
00:08:56There's not a wife who's a girlfriend.
00:08:58Yeah.
00:08:59Well, except from you now.
00:09:01But, yeah.
00:09:02I like it.
00:09:05Well, when a woman's your wife,
00:09:09to go back to being a girlfriend
00:09:10almost seems like you're downgrading.
00:09:13You know, men, a lot of the time,
00:09:14we do things we don't want to do
00:09:16or...
00:09:17Not that I didn't want to do it,
00:09:18I'm not saying that,
00:09:18but we just do things
00:09:20to make these women feel good.
00:09:22So, that's what it was.
00:09:25How are we feeling
00:09:26about going to the dinner party, boo?
00:09:28Feel good.
00:09:28Feel relaxed.
00:09:29I actually feel pretty good as well.
00:09:31Going into this dinner party
00:09:33is probably the least stressed I've been,
00:09:35but then again,
00:09:35that could be a really bad omen.
00:09:37Obviously, like,
00:09:38I've been on apology tours.
00:09:41Like...
00:09:42You've apologised more than OJ Sims.
00:09:44I know I have.
00:09:45It's a...
00:09:46And I'm still apologising now
00:09:48for messages that were wrote
00:09:49two and a half months ago.
00:09:50It's a disaster.
00:09:51Suck it up, champ.
00:09:53If Alyssa, you know,
00:09:54brings it up tonight,
00:09:55then I'm just going to sit
00:09:56as quiet as a field mouse.
00:09:58I'm not going to defend someone
00:09:59who's in the wrong.
00:10:00Yeah, I don't condone bad behaviour,
00:10:03even if it's from my wife,
00:10:04I don't condone it.
00:10:05But this should be the last time,
00:10:07I'd assume.
00:10:08It can't keep coming up.
00:10:09It has to.
00:10:10Yeah, I hope we can get
00:10:12to the end of the sorries.
00:10:13Do you know what I mean?
00:10:14Let's get to the end of them sorries
00:10:16because I didn't come
00:10:17on this experiment
00:10:19to just hear sorry.
00:10:25While Beck and Danny
00:10:26are hoping to move on,
00:10:28little do they know,
00:10:30the texts have since been circulated
00:10:33to the entire group.
00:10:49Yeah, the text messages
00:10:50are pretty bleak.
00:10:54Very descriptive, polarising.
00:10:57It was so long ago.
00:10:58It was two months ago
00:10:59that I wrote this message
00:11:00when I was furious
00:11:01after I'd gotten off the phone
00:11:03to Gia and Scott,
00:11:04being told that Alyssa and David
00:11:07were saying that Daniel's not into you,
00:11:10you're in a fake relationship,
00:11:12you're this, that and the other,
00:11:12and I was like,
00:11:13f*** you, you know?
00:11:14Regardless if it was six,
00:11:16eight, ten weeks ago.
00:11:17A month ago, two months ago.
00:11:19You still sent it,
00:11:21you still said it,
00:11:22and what you said
00:11:23was really, really horrible.
00:11:27Gia did this on purpose.
00:11:29She's taken the worst of me,
00:11:32right?
00:11:33And left the worst of her out of it.
00:11:38Gia's sitting there scot-free,
00:11:39but actually...
00:11:44..she's venomous.
00:11:46I wrote that message, right?
00:11:48I was angry.
00:11:49I did it.
00:11:49At the end of the day,
00:11:51she's hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:53Gia, you're hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:58Oh, here we go again.
00:12:00Obviously, I'm feeling pretty hurt still
00:12:02from reading the messages
00:12:03that were sent to me.
00:12:06I don't even want to use the words
00:12:08and the language
00:12:08because it's completely foul.
00:12:11And, yeah, I feel like
00:12:13it really needs to be addressed.
00:12:17Bec, I read the receipts.
00:12:19You said those things
00:12:21about David and I.
00:12:23Why?
00:12:24Like, what sparked that fuel
00:12:26and how does something so hatred
00:12:28come out of your mouth?
00:12:29I'm going to call it out.
00:12:31100%, and you should...
00:12:32You don't deserve to be treated
00:12:33the way they've treated you.
00:12:35Since the beginning of the experiment,
00:12:38Alyssa and David have been the target
00:12:40of unwanted scrutiny.
00:12:42Because I will say,
00:12:43I think it's a fake showmance.
00:12:45100% agree.
00:12:46I'm sorry, got to agree.
00:12:48Alyssa came under fire
00:12:50at every opportunity.
00:12:53Excuse me, that's not nice.
00:12:55Alyssa, shut up.
00:12:57Shut up, Alyssa,
00:12:59you ratchet idiot.
00:13:01So, ultimately, girls...
00:13:03But ultimately, I wanted to be fake
00:13:05as usual.
00:13:07And nowhere was safe.
00:13:10We've literally been staying up
00:13:11for late hours just talking.
00:13:13Sounds like an infomercial.
00:13:15Selling hair products.
00:13:17Desperately 3am on your TV.
00:13:20Even when it got too much
00:13:22for Alyssa...
00:13:23I care about what people think.
00:13:25I care about people's feelings.
00:13:27You know?
00:13:28I don't want to have
00:13:29this conflict.
00:13:31The blows kept coming.
00:13:35There's a bit of chatter
00:13:36around Adelaide
00:13:39about Beck trying to actually
00:13:41dig shit up on Alyssa.
00:13:45Are you talking to people
00:13:46in Adelaide, like,
00:13:48about Alyssa?
00:13:49No.
00:13:51You're not digging up information?
00:13:53No.
00:13:53Not at all.
00:13:55With the texting drama
00:13:56being the latest
00:13:57in a long line of attacks.
00:13:59Why do you think
00:14:01people are coming after you?
00:14:03Ask them.
00:14:05I don't know.
00:14:07I don't know.
00:14:12I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:14:14You know?
00:14:15And be that
00:14:15horn in the middle.
00:14:17I don't care what's
00:14:18going to happen
00:14:19between Beck and Gia.
00:14:20You have to speak your truth
00:14:22and I know you will.
00:14:23Going into tonight,
00:14:25we've got each other's backs.
00:14:26Boys.
00:14:27I have never said
00:14:28a bad word
00:14:29about anyone.
00:14:31So,
00:14:32I'm not going to
00:14:33tolerate it anymore.
00:14:34Enough is enough.
00:14:35The behaviour
00:14:36needs to be addressed.
00:14:39Tonight,
00:14:40I am done.
00:14:42I just
00:14:43had enough.
00:14:44Had enough.
00:14:57Today is a good day.
00:14:58Walking to a dinner party.
00:15:00We're reset.
00:15:01We're refreshed.
00:15:03Vibes are high.
00:15:05And...
00:15:07Hold for sorry.
00:15:07Don't know about that.
00:15:10You told me.
00:15:20Dinner party number six.
00:15:21Now,
00:15:22they're coming off
00:15:22feedback week,
00:15:23which is always
00:15:23a pivotal part
00:15:24of the experiment.
00:15:25How does that make you feel
00:15:26knowing that someone loves you?
00:15:28It's good.
00:15:30It's some giggling.
00:15:33They all have
00:15:34pretty much
00:15:35a front row seat
00:15:36to each other's relationships.
00:15:38They're so intertwined by now.
00:15:39So,
00:15:39it'll be really interesting
00:15:40to see
00:15:41how they've
00:15:42taken on the feedback
00:15:43from the other people
00:15:44in the experiment.
00:15:48I think everyone's
00:15:49going to kind of discuss
00:15:50what letters they got,
00:15:51how their date went.
00:15:52Danny,
00:15:52it might be like,
00:15:53why didn't you turn up
00:15:54to the date?
00:15:54And I'll be like,
00:15:54because you're a wanker.
00:15:57Give me your hands.
00:16:02Oh,
00:16:02that was so smelly.
00:16:04It was so cute.
00:16:05Couples are starting
00:16:06to talk about
00:16:07beyond the experiment,
00:16:08which brings up
00:16:09even more.
00:16:10And I think
00:16:10it's a good time
00:16:11to be having
00:16:12those conversations
00:16:13before they go
00:16:13into home states
00:16:14so they can really
00:16:15prepare themselves
00:16:16to ask that question.
00:16:17Is this relationship
00:16:19going to survive
00:16:19outside the experiment?
00:16:20You look like
00:16:21an absolute queen today.
00:16:23And that's the highlight
00:16:24of my night already.
00:16:26And we haven't even
00:16:26started the dinner party.
00:16:29Hopefully,
00:16:30I can get a,
00:16:31you know,
00:16:32a couple bites
00:16:33of food down before
00:16:35someone raises
00:16:35their glass
00:16:36and ding,
00:16:37ding, ding, ding.
00:16:38I've got something
00:16:39to say.
00:16:43Let's go, babe.
00:16:44Oh, it's busy in here.
00:16:46Vic and Danny.
00:16:48How good does my wife look?
00:16:50Give everyone a 12.
00:16:52Not that there's
00:16:53no one in it, ever.
00:16:54Looking fancy
00:16:54and looking very together
00:16:55and very comfortable.
00:16:57Yes.
00:17:00Thanks, baby.
00:17:02I'll have a little one
00:17:03with you.
00:17:03Okay.
00:17:04That's cute.
00:17:04Not the tension
00:17:05that we saw
00:17:06from these two last week
00:17:07walking into that
00:17:08cocktail party.
00:17:09At least we're coming
00:17:10into this dinner party
00:17:12in such a good spot.
00:17:13Hmm.
00:17:14You didn't run away?
00:17:15I didn't run away.
00:17:15I always show up.
00:17:16You always show up, babe.
00:17:18Unlike Gia.
00:17:19I mean...
00:17:21Big news this week is
00:17:22you're now my wife
00:17:24and my girlfriend.
00:17:27Any wonder
00:17:28Bec's looking so happy
00:17:29and relaxed.
00:17:30She got a whole lot
00:17:32of validation.
00:17:34Danny asking me
00:17:35to be his girlfriend
00:17:35definitely gives me
00:17:36reassurance.
00:17:37It just feels like
00:17:39it's not just the experiment,
00:17:40but it's real life
00:17:41and it's really important.
00:17:44Is it important to you
00:17:45or not?
00:17:46I'm not going to lie.
00:17:46Not that important
00:17:47because, like,
00:17:48I take this experiment
00:17:49seriously anyway.
00:17:50Yeah.
00:17:50So, like,
00:17:51when we got married,
00:17:53getting married on national TV
00:17:54is about as serious
00:17:54as it gets.
00:17:55Do you know what you mean?
00:17:56So, I was just like...
00:17:57But, yeah.
00:17:58If it's important to you,
00:17:59it's important to me.
00:17:59That's right.
00:18:00It's one of them ones.
00:18:01That's right.
00:18:02I'm just not looking forward
00:18:03to having to, um...
00:18:06deal with the text messages.
00:18:08Well, one text message
00:18:09that I sent from two months ago
00:18:11to a group of women
00:18:12that I thought were my friends
00:18:13that I've obviously seen
00:18:14that aren't.
00:18:16Bec shouldn't have
00:18:16sent the messages.
00:18:17I've said that to her.
00:18:19It's hard for me
00:18:20to defend her.
00:18:21As a husband,
00:18:22it puts me in a bad situation
00:18:24because I feel like
00:18:25I'm letting her down
00:18:26when I don't defend her,
00:18:27but it's also
00:18:28I don't condone that behaviour
00:18:29so I don't want to defend her.
00:18:31I have all these text messages
00:18:33that Gia's written
00:18:33about these people,
00:18:34but I wouldn't stoop
00:18:35to that level
00:18:35of sending them out to people
00:18:37because as much as Gia annoys me,
00:18:40I don't want to hurt
00:18:40all these other people
00:18:41that she's talked about.
00:18:43Gia's come to war with me.
00:18:45Like, she just needs to stop.
00:18:48I'm sick of it.
00:18:50Hey!
00:18:52Hey!
00:18:53Oh, look at you!
00:18:55Oh, Stella and Phillip.
00:18:57Here we go.
00:18:58Another happy, confident entrant.
00:19:00Yes.
00:19:01Great to see.
00:19:03You guys had a good week?
00:19:04Yes, we did.
00:19:05Yeah, we had a good week.
00:19:06It was probably
00:19:06one of the best weeks,
00:19:07to be fair.
00:19:08They've seen.
00:19:10Oh!
00:19:11Hey!
00:19:12Hello.
00:19:14Rachel and Steve.
00:19:16Keeping out of trouble?
00:19:17Trying to.
00:19:18Nah, I'm keeping out of trouble.
00:19:20Oh, you're good.
00:19:20Nah, I'm screwing with you guys.
00:19:21Nah, it's been good.
00:19:22Hold the chat.
00:19:25I didn't just become a wife.
00:19:27I'm now a girlfriend.
00:19:28Oh!
00:19:31Okay.
00:19:32Okay.
00:19:34Cheers, God.
00:19:35Oh, and it's empty class.
00:19:36But, like, cheers.
00:19:37Okay.
00:19:37Cheers to that.
00:19:38Congratulations.
00:19:39That's cute AF.
00:19:41Excuse me.
00:19:41You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:43I did.
00:19:44You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:45Yes, yes, I did.
00:19:45And what did you tell me?
00:19:46What?
00:19:47Well, we're not going backwards.
00:19:48Okay, yeah.
00:19:49Okay.
00:19:49Hey, yeah?
00:19:50Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:52Yeah?
00:20:00We're proud of you showing up tonight.
00:20:02We're just there to show that you are a strong person, and not because you need to tear other
00:20:07people down.
00:20:09I've never done that.
00:20:10We've always been kind.
00:20:11And I don't understand the why.
00:20:15I just want some clarity.
00:20:17Yeah.
00:20:17I think we all deserve that clarity.
00:20:19We just need some clarity and just to put it to bed for once and for all.
00:20:31Yay!
00:20:33There she is.
00:20:35Hi!
00:20:36Oh, Alyssa and David.
00:20:37All smiles.
00:20:39They're very cute.
00:20:40Always so affectionate.
00:20:42Love the blue liner on your eyes.
00:20:44They're so sexy.
00:20:50I saw Bec, and I'm always kind.
00:20:53I'm going to say hello.
00:20:54I'm going to give her a hug.
00:20:57You look like J-Lo.
00:20:58Yeah.
00:20:59Oh, you look like J-Lo.
00:21:01But inside, I'm like, oh, this person has stabbed me so hard in the back.
00:21:09I've seen the messages.
00:21:12How vicious and how hurtful they were.
00:21:16I don't know what's going on here, but I'm not playing a game anymore.
00:21:23So, I feel like there is a lot to be said.
00:21:27How was your week?
00:21:31It was...
00:21:33It was an interesting week.
00:21:35I feel like feedback week was a big one.
00:21:36It was a big one.
00:21:37Yeah.
00:21:39She has a very different vibe tonight, Alyssa, doesn't she?
00:21:42Yes, it's quiet.
00:21:42She seems inside her head.
00:21:44Yes.
00:21:46I don't know.
00:21:47Unless she has an issue with Bec because of the texts that have gone on in the past.
00:21:51True.
00:21:52So, do you feel like...
00:21:55Because can I...
00:21:56I don't want to talk about it right now.
00:21:58We'll give her about it at the dinner table.
00:22:01The vibe with Alyssa is icy.
00:22:03It's icy cold.
00:22:05She's been quite cold in a sense that she didn't even want to speak to me.
00:22:09Can I tell you guys something?
00:22:11My husband didn't get to do the task where he met with someone I met with, David.
00:22:16He didn't get to do it.
00:22:18She refused to, and he was quite upset about it.
00:22:21Bec had a lot to say about Gia, and I'm thinking, do I pull out the screenshots?
00:22:28She's probably going to say, Alyssa, that was like four, five weeks ago.
00:22:32It doesn't matter.
00:22:35Regardless of if it was four weeks ago or yesterday, it doesn't matter.
00:22:40Take some accountability for your f***ing bad behaviour.
00:22:45We're not friends, girl.
00:23:01We're not friends, girl.
00:23:45Just a heads up, I'm not super happy with how things
00:23:49ended last week, and the only reason I haven't spoken about it is because I didn't feel
00:23:52like I was getting through to you just by myself, and I feel like I need some people
00:23:56around to give us both an outside perspective on the situation.
00:24:00Is this in relation to the comment that I said to Mel?
00:24:03Is that, that's what I brought up, but it's the whole defensiveness from that?
00:24:10I just don't feel like you're hearing me, and I don't feel like you're genuine with
00:24:14your apology, I don't feel like you really understand what you've done wrong.
00:24:17Um, and I've tried to explain it, but it's, it's not, I'm just not...
00:24:22I'm fuming.
00:24:28I'm angry.
00:24:31Because my husband and my partner has just dropped a bombshell on me five minutes before
00:24:36entering a social gathering.
00:24:38It can seem like I don't leave a space that's safe for you to come up and feedback for me,
00:24:43and that's basically, like, the definition of gaslighting is turning the situation around
00:24:48on to me.
00:24:49I feel uncomfortable, I feel betrayed.
00:24:54I'm anxious and nauseous because I f***ing hate standing up for myself like this.
00:24:58I thought this was all over, so this is all new to me.
00:25:02I had no idea what was going on, and I could feel the awkwardness yesterday when I got home,
00:25:07and, I'm afraid, now we're walking to a dinner party and getting everyone involved.
00:25:11I just got called a gaslighter and got told that my apologies weren't genuine.
00:25:16I've never had someone do this to me.
00:25:47I've never had someone do this to me.
00:25:48Chris and Sam, very separate.
00:25:50Why are they not holding hands?
00:25:52I've never seen this from them.
00:25:55Hello, my man.
00:25:57Sam and Chris, we just look like two mates walking in, to be honest, or not even good mates.
00:26:02Hi, honey.
00:26:04That was frosty.
00:26:05It looked disconnected, disinterested.
00:26:09It was shocking, to be honest.
00:26:13This is new.
00:26:14Something's happened.
00:26:16Oh, babe, yucky.
00:26:17Yuck.
00:26:18What's going on, babe?
00:26:20Um, where do I start?
00:26:21I'm sure he wants to do it in this forum, so you'll hear all about it.
00:26:25I just got told five minutes before entering the dinner party by Sam that he will be bringing
00:26:30up in front of the whole group that my four apologies weren't genuine enough on the back
00:26:35end of calling me a gaslighter.
00:26:37So I've just walked into the dinner party, hoping to have some drinks with my friends
00:26:39and catch up with everyone.
00:26:41And he has, um, just dropped a bomb on me in the car, like, five minutes before walking
00:26:45in the door.
00:26:46Like, amazing.
00:26:49How you been, mate?
00:26:51Been a rough week, man.
00:26:52You look flat as a pancake.
00:26:54What's up?
00:26:55Um.
00:26:58So basically, sitting on the couch at the commitment ceremony, Mel asked, like, what's the plan
00:27:01after the experiment?
00:27:02And Chris, like, said, well, Sam's going to move to Sydney, and then you can do this, move
00:27:05there, move that.
00:27:06Like, this is how it's all going to work.
00:27:07Like, we had never discussed a plan.
00:27:09Oh, really?
00:27:10We never discussed it?
00:27:13By watching it, I just assumed you'd had them conversations.
00:27:15Yeah, so we hadn't.
00:27:16And at the end of the day, it's fine.
00:27:17Like, he might have been excited or whatever, but then in feedback week, I, like, just wanted
00:27:21to say, I just wanted to say to him, like, hey, man, like, when you made the plan of, like,
00:27:27how it's already made, and he just goes, that's not what I said.
00:27:30What I said was, like, dismissing, shutting it down.
00:27:33Do you get quite aggressive?
00:27:33That conversation went awfully, then basically, I was like, he's like, what do you want me
00:27:39to do?
00:27:39I was like, can you just say sorry?
00:27:40Like, the apology just comes with defensiveness.
00:27:43Like, he apologised in the same voice that he was defensive.
00:27:46Like, it's like, it's not genuine.
00:27:47I don't feel it yet.
00:27:49And he's just so defensive with me today as well, and I'm like, all I'm trying to do
00:27:53is be heard, and, like, he's upset that I've spoken up.
00:27:55Yeah.
00:27:57That's not okay.
00:27:58Balcony, yeah.
00:27:59Yeah.
00:28:02Hi!
00:28:02Hi!
00:28:04Lucky loss.
00:28:06Ah!
00:28:06And here's Gia and Scott.
00:28:08We didn't know if we wanted to come, you know?
00:28:10Nice for Gia to show up tonight, do you know what I mean?
00:28:13She's got one of them robes, what Harry Potter has, where she goes invisible from time to time.
00:28:18How are you?
00:28:19How are you, mate?
00:28:19Good, mate.
00:28:20Good to see you.
00:28:21How are you going?
00:28:21Yeah, how are you going?
00:28:22How are you going?
00:28:23It's surprising to see Gia and Scott actually hugging Beck and Danny, particularly Scott, who
00:28:29made it very clear that he didn't want to have anything to do with Beck.
00:28:32Oh, thank you.
00:28:33Oh, thank you.
00:28:33You look nice.
00:28:34You look beautiful.
00:28:37Oh, look at your men.
00:28:37You guys look dapper.
00:28:39Danny, how are you?
00:28:40Good to see you.
00:28:41You too.
00:28:42Hello.
00:28:42Hello.
00:28:42My eyes are very, very, very much open with Gia.
00:28:47You've shared personal messages between you, myself and a few other ladies, right, to try
00:28:53and take me down.
00:28:55You are vicious.
00:28:58Stay away from me.
00:28:59Stay away.
00:29:01Hi, babe.
00:29:02Hi.
00:29:03Love you.
00:29:03We got separated.
00:29:04Mm-hmm.
00:29:05Yeah, hold it.
00:29:05It's on.
00:29:06It's on.
00:29:06Do you want to grab a drink?
00:29:07Yeah.
00:29:07Yeah.
00:29:08I was so happy to see Chris.
00:29:09I knew he'd been stressing.
00:29:11The way he ran, it was like, he needs to talk to his girl.
00:29:14We were in the car on the way over and we have not spoken all day.
00:29:17It's been awkward as f***.
00:29:18And then in the car, he called me a gaslighter.
00:29:23I never really liked Sam from the minute I saw him.
00:29:27Sam doesn't play his cards how his cards really are.
00:29:32He's waited until tonight to do this.
00:29:35This is a, like, this will happen last week.
00:29:37Yeah.
00:29:38Very calculated.
00:29:39Very super calculated and cruel.
00:29:40But I'm going to back myself.
00:29:42Yeah.
00:29:42I'm not apologising again.
00:29:43I've apologised four f***ing times.
00:29:45How much more can you do?
00:29:47Yeah.
00:29:47It's just, it's just childish.
00:29:50You want to play games like a little boy?
00:29:53Sorry.
00:29:54No, you're not doing that to Chris.
00:29:55Obviously, he's going to have, like, back on his side, so.
00:29:58Well, yeah, that's even.
00:29:59Yeah.
00:29:59Yeah.
00:30:00So, I'll spell that.
00:30:02That's right.
00:30:03Mmm.
00:30:06Dinner is served.
00:30:13All right.
00:30:14Bon appétit.
00:30:16Oh, the table's compressed.
00:30:18I think tonight we're going to see some of the consequences of that feedback week playing out.
00:30:25With a small amount of couples left in the experiment, the dinner party's become much more intimate.
00:30:29Yes.
00:30:30You're very much a part of all of the drama that unfolds.
00:30:36It's a lot easier to have one conversation in the group rather than a variety of them going on at
00:30:41the same time.
00:30:42It puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about.
00:30:46Yes.
00:31:00It puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about.
00:31:15Oh, there's a tension in there, isn't there?
00:31:24It was very awkward at the side of the dinner party.
00:31:30There were crickets.
00:31:31I could hear them.
00:31:32I was sitting, cutting my steak and I could hear...
00:31:36I'm looking at Beck and I already know what she said about me and my husband behind my back.
00:31:42Obviously, Gia's hurt me too, but nothing can top the screenshots of the messages that Beck said about David and
00:31:50I.
00:31:54How have you been, Alyssa?
00:31:55Are you OK?
00:31:57I've had enough of this yaya, these individual conversations and sweeping shit under the rug.
00:32:02I feel like it all needs to be brought to light and I feel like the other couples need to
00:32:06know as well.
00:32:07So, if everybody wants to listen in.
00:32:10So, there were obviously some receipts from the last commitment ceremony that Juliet received from Gia.
00:32:27And after that commitment ceremony, Juliet was like, Alyssa, I really need you to see these messages.
00:32:32Um, and I guess reading those messages brought up a lot of hurt.
00:32:37Because, you know, this happened weeks ago.
00:32:41This happened like four or five weeks ago.
00:32:44Five weeks ago.
00:32:46Two months ago.
00:32:47I've got some dates on there.
00:32:48Two months ago.
00:32:50Yeah, anyway, whatever.
00:32:51But it doesn't matter, babe.
00:32:52Like, it doesn't matter because they were the most vicious.
00:32:57Vulgar.
00:32:58Yeah.
00:32:58I would never say that to someone in real life.
00:33:01Let alone in a message.
00:33:04Like, people at this table don't even know that I was called a rat.
00:33:10Ooh.
00:33:11My husband's a rat.
00:33:17My head is so far up my ass and how much of a I am.
00:33:25Ugh.
00:33:29Um, and we're c***** licking c*****.
00:33:34Oh, no.
00:33:45They were the most vicious, vulgar.
00:33:49Yeah.
00:33:49I would never say that to someone in real life, let alone in a message.
00:33:55Like, people at this table don't even know that I was called a rat.
00:34:02My husband's a rat.
00:34:05My head is so far up my c***** arse and how much of a c***** I am.
00:34:11We're c***** licking c*****.
00:34:16Oh, no.
00:34:18Why, why, why would you do that?
00:34:22Why would you do that?
00:34:24Really vile language.
00:34:26That's really destructive.
00:34:29Incredibly disappointing.
00:34:32Gia played a part in them as well, but what came out of your mouth?
00:34:35I'm telling you, I was in tears.
00:34:37It was vile and vicious, babe.
00:34:39I've seen repetitive behaviour, not just with me,
00:34:42but with other people at this table where you've come at them,
00:34:44and I'm just like...
00:34:45Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:34:46Like, there's been...
00:34:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:34:47Hang on, hang on, hang on.
00:34:48Alyssa, I don't think you can say that the people at this dinner table...
00:34:52I know, but everybody's been affected by your behaviour, babe.
00:34:54Hang on, wait.
00:34:54I'm sorry.
00:34:55Everyone at this table at some point has been affected by your behaviour.
00:35:01I get it.
00:35:01And I know that you're saying sorry,
00:35:03and I know that you've said sorry,
00:35:04but I'm saying right now...
00:35:06Listen to me for one second.
00:35:11I feel like Alyssa was really trying to hold her own,
00:35:13but Bec keeps talking over the top of her.
00:35:17We saw it at retreat with me.
00:35:19It's just really frustrating.
00:35:22I understand what you're saying.
00:35:23I'm just trying to have one...
00:35:25Like, just let me have a piece.
00:35:26I understand what you're saying, right?
00:35:29I agree that the messages that I wrote were unacceptable.
00:35:33They were disgusting.
00:35:34And they were disgusting.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:36The reality of the situation is that you've seen snippets, right?
00:35:40Snippets.
00:35:40Well, then what else is there?
00:35:42But I'm not going to do that.
00:35:43There is no excuse for what I wrote.
00:35:46I am sorry to you for what I wrote about you.
00:35:49Would I ever say that to your face?
00:35:51Never.
00:35:51Did I...
00:35:52Do I think that?
00:35:53No, definitely not.
00:35:56Bec controls conversation.
00:35:58Bec controls narrative.
00:35:59I could just feel this beside me being like,
00:36:01accept some accountability and stop deflecting to everyone else.
00:36:06Is it okay?
00:36:07No.
00:36:10But I'm not going to send you the messages
00:36:12that everyone else has said about you
00:36:14to hurt you to get to her
00:36:16because that makes me just as bad.
00:36:22She isn't able to take on
00:36:23any sort of accountability for her actions.
00:36:29This is what Bec does, yeah.
00:36:31She is wrong
00:36:33and tries to think of anyone else who's involved
00:36:36that she can then blame for her actions.
00:36:39We have a war, right?
00:36:41But Gia sent them to Juliet
00:36:43and Juliet's going to shit on everyone.
00:36:45And what that's done is hurt you two
00:36:47when you guys don't deserve to be hurt.
00:36:50You don't have to trust me.
00:36:52You don't have to believe me.
00:36:54But I am apologetic to both of you sincerely.
00:37:00Bec wanted to do what she always does,
00:37:04which is sweep things under the carpet.
00:37:06But the important thing is
00:37:08Alyssa stood up for herself.
00:37:10In the real world,
00:37:10if you read messages like that,
00:37:12you'd never go back.
00:37:13You'd never trust that person.
00:37:14You'd cut them off.
00:37:15But obviously because of this experiment,
00:37:17we're faced with the fact
00:37:18we have to still be cordial.
00:37:20But you understand how, like,
00:37:22in the real world,
00:37:23there's no coming back.
00:37:24You can't trust someone and be friends with.
00:37:27Those text messages were vile
00:37:30and I don't think anyone would ever
00:37:32accommodate for people in their lives
00:37:36that talk about them like that
00:37:37at any period of time.
00:37:41I know that you've said sorry.
00:37:45But this shit is...
00:37:48I just want to stay out of it.
00:37:50This could have exploded,
00:37:52escalated and got very hostile.
00:37:54It's interesting that Alyssa,
00:37:56she's essentially stayed at a conversational tone
00:38:00and this has not escalated at all.
00:38:03It's very mature of her.
00:38:06It's just noise.
00:38:08I've heard this before.
00:38:09Bec and I have tried to work on our relationship.
00:38:14And I'm sorry,
00:38:15but I think I've given her way too many chances.
00:38:20I'm here for my husband.
00:38:22You know, I'm so lucky that I have David.
00:38:26Ultimately, like,
00:38:27I'm just going to put her to bed.
00:38:30I'm pretty disgusted in the behaviour
00:38:33and I'm not here for mean girl shit.
00:38:40Coming up...
00:38:41I have to change my whole life
00:38:43to fit into your life.
00:38:45Do I get any say
00:38:47in how this is going to work at all?
00:38:50And Bec's behaviour
00:38:51takes its toll on Dani.
00:38:56I just want you to be wary
00:38:58about what you say.
00:39:00I'm very wary.
00:39:01I want you to be wary
00:39:02about what you text people.
00:39:15You too.
00:39:18Look at Stella and Philip.
00:39:20So much love.
00:39:24So just in sync.
00:39:27Oh, yeah, mate.
00:39:28No, you've made my face.
00:39:29Oh, yeah, it's down.
00:39:32So relaxed.
00:39:33A lot of swag.
00:39:34Yes.
00:39:35And so together.
00:39:39Philip and Stella,
00:39:40we haven't heard about, like,
00:39:41your feedback week.
00:39:43Like, what's very good?
00:39:45We'd just come up
00:39:47for a really good week
00:39:47and it was awesome.
00:39:49We had good probing questions
00:39:51and, yeah,
00:39:52we were just going back and forth.
00:39:53It was almost like the honeymoon box.
00:39:54So they were really good probing questions.
00:39:57Yeah, it was a good...
00:39:58It's a great week.
00:39:59I'm excited.
00:40:02Clearly, some couples
00:40:03have actually embraced
00:40:05the feedback
00:40:07and have got closer together.
00:40:08But for others,
00:40:10it's just absolutely
00:40:11unravelled them.
00:40:17Can I just say something?
00:40:20Chris and I are going through
00:40:21something that's actually internal.
00:40:24I can't get to a conclusion
00:40:26with just the two of us
00:40:27and that's why
00:40:27I kind of wanted to bring that up tonight.
00:40:29So if we could get that sort of...
00:40:30Yeah, let's do it.
00:40:31Yeah, let's check out of the way.
00:40:32Um, if you don't mind,
00:40:33I'm going to kick it off.
00:40:35Obviously, my energy
00:40:36is not great tonight.
00:40:37This is not my usual vibe.
00:40:38You know that.
00:40:40I'm going to just give you
00:40:40a bit of background
00:40:41on what happened.
00:40:42Sam and I had an issue
00:40:43mid-last week,
00:40:44which I thought we had squashed.
00:40:46On the drive over here,
00:40:49Sam mentioned to me
00:40:50that he wanted to bring
00:40:50this issue up
00:40:51in front of the whole group.
00:40:53And then on the back end of that...
00:40:55Why? Why did I want to...
00:40:56Can I just please talk?
00:40:59On the back end of that,
00:41:00insinuated that I was a gaslighter.
00:41:05A gaslighter is a very strong word
00:41:07to throw around.
00:41:09So obviously, my energy is off.
00:41:11I feel like I've been thrown under the bus.
00:41:14So I'm going to let Sam speak
00:41:16and I'll hear him.
00:41:17And then you can get my version
00:41:18of the events.
00:41:25Um, basically,
00:41:26when Mel asked us
00:41:28on the couch last week,
00:41:29like, what's the plan after this?
00:41:32She said,
00:41:32what does life look
00:41:33outside the experiment?
00:41:34OK, can I talk?
00:41:35Sure.
00:41:40Um, and Chris said,
00:41:42well, the best way
00:41:43it could work is like,
00:41:44Sam can move to Sydney.
00:41:47But the thing is,
00:41:49is like Chris and I
00:41:50had never, ever discussed
00:41:51a plan of how it was going to work
00:41:53outside the experiment.
00:41:58So then to hear him say to Mel,
00:42:00like, this is how the plan
00:42:01was going to work,
00:42:01I'm like,
00:42:02do I get any say
00:42:03in how this is going to work at all?
00:42:07Feedback week,
00:42:08I thought would be
00:42:08a really good time
00:42:09for me to bring this up.
00:42:11So we're sitting on the couch
00:42:12and I say,
00:42:13Chris, when you said this to Mel,
00:42:15I just felt like
00:42:15I didn't have a voice
00:42:16and he cut me off
00:42:17and he goes,
00:42:17I didn't say that.
00:42:18You could have spoken up.
00:42:19You had every opportunity
00:42:20to speak just as much as I did.
00:42:22And then I said,
00:42:23I wish there was just
00:42:24more empathy around the fact
00:42:25that I have to change
00:42:27my whole life
00:42:28to fit into your life.
00:42:31I was like,
00:42:31could you say you're sorry?
00:42:32And he goes,
00:42:32I'm sorry,
00:42:33I'm sorry,
00:42:33I hate your feelings.
00:42:34I'm sorry,
00:42:34like,
00:42:34I'm sorry,
00:42:35I hate your feelings.
00:42:39I haven't had
00:42:39a genuine apology
00:42:41and when I try
00:42:42and bring it up,
00:42:43I'm just met
00:42:43with defensiveness
00:42:44and I feel like right now
00:42:45my feelings
00:42:46have been shut down
00:42:46about it.
00:42:48There's no recognition,
00:42:49no acknowledgement
00:42:50of the other's experience.
00:42:54And unfortunately,
00:42:55like,
00:42:55this wasn't the first time
00:42:56I've witnessed you
00:42:57shutting me down
00:42:58but it's the first time
00:42:59that I've spoken up
00:42:59about it
00:43:01and
00:43:03me speaking up
00:43:03about it
00:43:04has just caused you
00:43:05to, like,
00:43:05hate me
00:43:06and just be, like,
00:43:07off me
00:43:07and I just don't understand
00:43:09what I've done wrong.
00:43:12Hate?
00:43:13See,
00:43:14they're in a terrible way,
00:43:15aren't they?
00:43:17OK,
00:43:18let me talk.
00:43:19My turn.
00:43:21Hand on heart,
00:43:22I apologised three times
00:43:23and I said,
00:43:23I'm so,
00:43:24I'm sorry,
00:43:25I did not mean
00:43:26to make you feel that way.
00:43:27I then apologised
00:43:28two more times,
00:43:29he thinks it wasn't genuine,
00:43:30I'm telling you,
00:43:31it was.
00:43:32Why I'm so off Sam
00:43:33is because he's chosen
00:43:34to do it in this forum
00:43:36in front of everybody.
00:43:37He's thrown this at me
00:43:38ten minutes prior
00:43:39to entering the dinner party
00:43:40on the back end
00:43:41of calling me a gaslighter.
00:43:42Sometimes, yes,
00:43:43I am fiery,
00:43:44sometimes I do get defensive
00:43:45but there's got to be
00:43:46some point
00:43:46where I've got to back myself.
00:43:48For him to throw me
00:43:50under the bus...
00:43:50Do you think he's
00:43:51throwing you under the bus, though?
00:43:53I feel like this
00:43:54could have been done
00:43:54in a different way.
00:43:55I would have preferred
00:43:56to do it privately
00:43:57without...
00:43:58We tried that.
00:43:59We speak to the experts
00:44:00in front of the whole group
00:44:01every week
00:44:02to help our relationships.
00:44:03I think where Sam
00:44:04was trying to speak to you
00:44:05was in front of the whole group
00:44:07because he felt like
00:44:08he wasn't getting nowhere.
00:44:12So I think he thought
00:44:14if he had the group involved
00:44:15he could get some opinions
00:44:16and it could help
00:44:16your relationship.
00:44:18Chris, if you give a genuine apology...
00:44:20I get that, Sam.
00:44:21I am genuinely sorry
00:44:23that I hurt your feelings.
00:44:24I did not want to put pressure on you.
00:44:26Why are you laughing?
00:44:40Why are you laughing?
00:44:58Because I asked you
00:44:58to do this this morning
00:44:59and you couldn't...
00:45:00I'm doing it again.
00:45:01I'm doing it right now.
00:45:02This is what you wanted.
00:45:02You want it in front of the group
00:45:03and you won't even let me
00:45:04finish the apology.
00:45:07Watching Sam and Chris,
00:45:09they're both valid
00:45:10in what they're saying.
00:45:11They're both valid
00:45:11in their feelings.
00:45:13They're both hurting.
00:45:17So I was actually
00:45:18very surprised to hear
00:45:19how Chris was talking
00:45:21about things,
00:45:21how Sam was talking
00:45:22about things.
00:45:23To see them behaving
00:45:24in that manner,
00:45:25it's a shame.
00:45:26A week ago,
00:45:27I was like,
00:45:28Sam and Chris are super strong.
00:45:29But now,
00:45:30I think the boys
00:45:31are in real trouble.
00:45:34I am genuinely sorry
00:45:36that I hurt your feelings
00:45:37and I put pressure on you.
00:45:38That was not my intention.
00:45:39I'm sorry that I was defensive.
00:45:41I just feel like
00:45:42there's got to be a point
00:45:43where I apologise three times
00:45:45and then again the next morning.
00:45:46That's the first time
00:45:46you apologise
00:45:47for being defensive.
00:45:50They're in real,
00:45:51real dire straits
00:45:53in these two.
00:45:56But what it has done
00:45:57is it's opened up
00:45:58their issues
00:46:00in their relationship
00:46:00that we can actually target
00:46:02at the next
00:46:03commitment ceremony.
00:46:06It just shows
00:46:07how powerful
00:46:08emotional tone is
00:46:10when couples are trying
00:46:11to deal with conflict
00:46:13and repair.
00:46:16It's like a dagger
00:46:17to the heart.
00:46:18I feel like my heart's
00:46:19been stabbed.
00:46:21I've done so much
00:46:22to be in this experiment
00:46:23to find love
00:46:24and a husband
00:46:25and to have
00:46:26this argument
00:46:27over the authenticity
00:46:28of my sorries,
00:46:30which were five,
00:46:31and then be laughed
00:46:32at in the face.
00:46:32It's a f***ing joke.
00:46:36OK, how about...
00:46:37Hey, how about
00:46:38a positive note?
00:46:40That was feedback week
00:46:41for you guys.
00:46:42Yeah, look,
00:46:42feedback week was really
00:46:43good for Stephen and I.
00:46:45Positive.
00:46:46Personally, I feel that way.
00:46:47I hope Stephen
00:46:48feels the same way.
00:46:50But, yeah,
00:46:51it's been good.
00:46:53Alyssa,
00:46:55love the catch-up.
00:46:56We had lots of fun
00:46:57and everything.
00:46:58A bit of advice
00:46:59from Alyssa
00:47:00that I really took
00:47:01on board
00:47:01was to be a little bit
00:47:02more masculine
00:47:03and bring some leadership
00:47:06into the relationship,
00:47:07which I'm definitely
00:47:10going to put my
00:47:10captain's undies on
00:47:12and hat
00:47:12and, you know,
00:47:15lead.
00:47:15I love you.
00:47:17And what else
00:47:18did I tell you, babe?
00:47:25Do I have to mention that?
00:47:26No.
00:47:27Well, do you know what?
00:47:28No, because I respect
00:47:29Rachel as my bestie
00:47:30and we're not going
00:47:31down that road.
00:47:32On that topic,
00:47:34I'm probably going to say
00:47:35this right now
00:47:35in front of everyone,
00:47:37that I feel like
00:47:38me and Rachel's
00:47:40sex life
00:47:40has been in the spotlight
00:47:41for way too bloody long.
00:47:46Now,
00:47:47yeah,
00:47:47we've had our troubles
00:47:48and we're getting closer
00:47:51intimately,
00:47:52right?
00:47:52However,
00:47:54now it's gotten
00:47:54to the point
00:47:55when I get close
00:47:56to Rachel
00:47:57or Rachel
00:47:57gets close to me.
00:47:58We've got this
00:47:59thought in the back
00:48:00of our mind now.
00:48:01It's starting to get
00:48:02to the point now
00:48:03like,
00:48:03are we doing this,
00:48:05you know,
00:48:05because we want to
00:48:07and it's a passionate
00:48:08moment or are we doing
00:48:09this because we're
00:48:09getting told to
00:48:10and there's pressure
00:48:10on it?
00:48:12Because I feel like
00:48:13there's so much
00:48:13pressure on,
00:48:14can you two have
00:48:15sex already?
00:48:16Do you need to
00:48:16have sex already?
00:48:17So,
00:48:18on that note,
00:48:19we've heard everyone
00:48:20loud and clear
00:48:21when the moment
00:48:22comes.
00:48:23You all know.
00:48:24We'll set fireworks
00:48:25off on the balcony,
00:48:26all right?
00:48:29Good on you,
00:48:30Steve-o.
00:48:31This is the first
00:48:31time that I've seen
00:48:32him taking like a
00:48:33stance about the
00:48:34relationship,
00:48:35kind of taking the
00:48:36lead.
00:48:36You guys are taking
00:48:37steps forward,
00:48:38hey?
00:48:39Yeah.
00:48:40When it comes to
00:48:40our sex life,
00:48:43they can say what
00:48:44they bloody want.
00:48:46I'm not here for
00:48:47the drama,
00:48:49not here for anything
00:48:50else besides Rachel,
00:48:51so.
00:48:53And on the last
00:48:54night of a feedback
00:48:55week,
00:48:55we had nachos
00:48:56and watched a
00:48:58fishing video on
00:48:59YouTube.
00:48:59Oh, my God,
00:49:00it's wild!
00:49:01You?
00:49:06Can I,
00:49:07Gia,
00:49:07can I ask you,
00:49:09obviously we was
00:49:10meant to have a
00:49:10meeting or whatever
00:49:11you want to call it,
00:49:12but what was the
00:49:15reason,
00:49:15just out of interest,
00:49:16why did you not
00:49:16show up?
00:49:19Because we had a
00:49:20really tough week in
00:49:22our relationship,
00:49:22to be honest,
00:49:23and I was packing
00:49:24my bags,
00:49:25trying to leave
00:49:25up.
00:49:25She tried to leave
00:49:26and it's the whole
00:49:27week,
00:49:27so it's a snowball,
00:49:28not just you,
00:49:28it's everything,
00:49:29It was really hard,
00:49:29like it was just
00:49:30really hard.
00:49:30She felt like
00:49:30anything's been
00:49:31coming at her,
00:49:31so she wanted to
00:49:31leave and she
00:49:32tried to leave and
00:49:32I didn't let her
00:49:33have a cup.
00:49:33He was like,
00:49:34no,
00:49:34you can't.
00:49:39in my mindset was
00:49:40to go into it
00:49:41and really talk
00:49:41positive.
00:49:43I actually don't
00:49:44have no negative
00:49:44feedback between
00:49:45yours and Scott's
00:49:46relationship.
00:49:46I think Scott's
00:49:47been really honourable,
00:49:48how he's like,
00:49:49took your daughter
00:49:49on board and stuff
00:49:50like that.
00:49:51I think you guys
00:49:51have got a good
00:49:51relationship,
00:49:52you back each
00:49:52other.
00:49:54I've only got
00:49:55blokes in my life
00:49:56really.
00:49:57Yeah.
00:49:57Like my mum and
00:49:58everyone's back home,
00:50:00so like it would have
00:50:00been nice to get some
00:50:01advice from a woman
00:50:02in the experiment
00:50:03for like a third party.
00:50:05Danny is a liar.
00:50:07He's full of shit.
00:50:08It would have been
00:50:09probably a screaming
00:50:10match.
00:50:10We would have been
00:50:10arguing.
00:50:11Do I need to be
00:50:11doing that right now?
00:50:12No.
00:50:13It was just a bad
00:50:14week and I think I
00:50:15couldn't personally
00:50:16take any more at that
00:50:17point because I was
00:50:18like, I'm damned if I
00:50:19do, damned if I don't.
00:50:20If I go and me and
00:50:21Danny argue, I'm going
00:50:21to look terrible.
00:50:27Maybe just next time
00:50:28try and look at it
00:50:29more positively because
00:50:30I wouldn't have come
00:50:31at you with no
00:50:31disrespect.
00:50:32No, and honestly,
00:50:32it wasn't that it
00:50:33was like, oh my God,
00:50:34it's Danny.
00:50:35F*** that.
00:50:35It was like we had a
00:50:37really tough week in our
00:50:38relationship, to be
00:50:39honest.
00:50:41She didn't turn up to
00:50:42speak to Danny because
00:50:42you know she lied about
00:50:43Danny when you said that
00:50:45my husband wants to be
00:50:46with you.
00:50:47I think Gia cares about
00:50:49Gia and taking people
00:50:51out.
00:50:52You're the one sending
00:50:53screenshots to people and
00:50:54throwing people under the
00:50:55bus and being vicious and
00:50:57manipulative.
00:50:58So we had the
00:50:59commitment ceremony.
00:51:00Juliet was yelling.
00:51:01I don't know if you guys
00:51:01Yeah, we heard.
00:51:03We heard.
00:51:04I'm so over her and
00:51:06her fake two-facedness.
00:51:12What was the reason for
00:51:13sending the messages to
00:51:16Juliet?
00:51:16Because you don't know
00:51:18Juliet.
00:51:19You don't trust Juliet.
00:51:20But you've sent messages to
00:51:22her about Alyssa and David.
00:51:25But was the point to take me
00:51:27down?
00:51:27Like, is that the point?
00:51:28Was that the point?
00:51:33Well, you tried to take me
00:51:34down.
00:51:35So I gave it back to you.
00:51:37Oh, God.
00:51:48What was the reason for
00:51:49sending the messages to
00:51:52Juliet?
00:51:52Because you don't know
00:51:54Juliet.
00:51:55You don't trust Juliet.
00:51:56But you've sent messages to
00:51:58her about Alyssa and
00:52:00David.
00:52:01But was the point to take
00:52:03me down?
00:52:04Like, is that the point?
00:52:04Was that the point?
00:52:09Well, you tried to take me
00:52:10down.
00:52:11So I gave it back to you.
00:52:13Oh, God.
00:52:16You're still feeding that
00:52:18dynamic that we've been
00:52:20trying to call out for weeks
00:52:22now.
00:52:22How?
00:52:23How?
00:52:25How did I try and take
00:52:26that?
00:52:28Stop using me!
00:52:30Stop using me as a
00:52:31porn!
00:52:32I don't know what the
00:52:33f*** is going on here, but
00:52:34I'm not playing a game
00:52:36anymore.
00:52:38Do you ever and beg?
00:52:39They can just hate each
00:52:40other forever.
00:52:41Ultimately, my main focus is
00:52:43David.
00:52:43I want to give my husband my
00:52:44everything and I don't want
00:52:45to get caught up in the
00:52:46ah-yah anymore.
00:52:49Once again, Alyssa is the
00:52:52collateral damage in other
00:52:53people's fights.
00:52:56And it's so unfortunate
00:52:57because it really is generating
00:53:00distress in other couples.
00:53:02I don't want to engage
00:53:03anymore.
00:53:03I'm actually done with this
00:53:04conversation.
00:53:05I can't do any more drama.
00:53:06How did I try and take you
00:53:06down?
00:53:07I can't do any more drama,
00:53:08Bec.
00:53:08It's going to go around and
00:53:09around and I'm not doing it.
00:53:10Thank you so much.
00:53:18I just needed to know
00:53:20whether or not the whole
00:53:21point was to take me down.
00:53:23That's all I wanted to know.
00:53:24Yes, it was.
00:53:25Because you girls ultimately
00:53:27throw each other under the
00:53:28bus every f***ing time and
00:53:31you use them.
00:53:31Do you know what?
00:53:32Do you know that's even
00:53:32worse?
00:53:33What's worse is your
00:53:34collateral damage for a war.
00:53:39Which is f***ing that
00:53:40I need to stop.
00:53:41I need to stop.
00:53:42Well, well, well,
00:53:44direct it that way.
00:53:46More drama.
00:53:49I don't know how to feel
00:53:50about it.
00:53:51My feelings are strong for
00:53:53Bec.
00:53:53I care about Bec a lot.
00:53:55But sometimes I feel that
00:53:56I'm more focused with drama
00:53:58than it is on our
00:53:59relationship.
00:54:01I just wanted to know if
00:54:02the whole point was to
00:54:04throw me under the bus and
00:54:04you guys are collateral.
00:54:05I just had to ask the
00:54:06question.
00:54:06That was it.
00:54:07That's all I needed to
00:54:08know.
00:54:14I feel like Bec and
00:54:15you're out for like top
00:54:16dog spot and I'm sorry
00:54:17there is no top dog here.
00:54:20Let's remember why we're
00:54:21here.
00:54:21To meet a match.
00:54:23To have the opportunity
00:54:24to find love.
00:54:25So if you're more busy
00:54:27about like sending
00:54:28shitty messages about
00:54:29people, sending out
00:54:31screenshots and like,
00:54:32oh, you said this and
00:54:33you said this.
00:54:35Then why are you here?
00:54:49I'm going to be here.
00:54:51I'm going to be here.
00:54:56I'm going to be here.
00:55:06To be honest, I'm not going
00:55:07to lie.
00:55:08I'm not going to candy
00:55:09coat it.
00:55:10I'm frustrated because I
00:55:12know that's not how Bec is
00:55:13as a person.
00:55:14How would you feel in the
00:55:16same situation if every
00:55:18week, every single week
00:55:20you were coming to a
00:55:21dinner party and there
00:55:22was something else?
00:55:22I don't care how long
00:55:24of that was or what the
00:55:25circumstances is.
00:55:26I don't really care.
00:55:27What would you expect?
00:55:28How would you feel in the
00:55:29same situation?
00:55:30Please answer the
00:55:30question.
00:55:31Yeah, of course.
00:55:32It would be frustrating.
00:55:33Okay.
00:55:33And that's all.
00:55:34I'm fine.
00:55:35We're in an experiment,
00:55:35babe.
00:55:36100%.
00:55:36With vicious, vicious
00:55:37vipers around.
00:55:38Do you think that this is
00:55:39what like is outside of
00:55:41this experiment?
00:55:42I didn't come here for
00:55:43drama.
00:55:44I came here for love.
00:55:46I want to talk about
00:55:47how can I become a better
00:55:49partner and a better
00:55:49husband.
00:55:50I feel like sometimes all
00:55:51I do is talk about
00:55:52drama.
00:55:53I'm just saying from my
00:55:55point of view, I need
00:55:56help.
00:55:57As a man with our
00:55:58relationship, I struggle
00:55:59with a lot of these
00:56:00things.
00:56:00You know that.
00:56:01That's why I came on
00:56:02this experiment, because
00:56:03I've failed in the real
00:56:04world.
00:56:04I'd rather get these
00:56:05dinner parties towards
00:56:06positive things and not
00:56:07drama.
00:56:08That's not where I'm
00:56:09from as well.
00:56:12Oh, no.
00:56:14This is a troubling
00:56:15sign, isn't it?
00:56:16That Danny has started
00:56:18to second guess his
00:56:20commitment to Beck.
00:56:23And these text
00:56:24messages, while he knew
00:56:25they were out there,
00:56:26they've come up again
00:56:26and he's really now
00:56:29retreating.
00:56:29Yeah.
00:56:31I don't know why you're
00:56:32getting upset.
00:56:33I'm just saying, my
00:56:34peers...
00:56:35Your boss will ride or
00:56:35die.
00:56:36I am ride or die.
00:56:37I am.
00:56:38You're throwing me under
00:56:39the bar.
00:56:39I'm not throwing you
00:56:40under the bus.
00:56:40I'm not throwing you
00:56:41under the bus.
00:56:41I'm ride or die.
00:56:42You swat out of the
00:56:43retreat.
00:56:44You swat out of the
00:56:44retreat.
00:56:46Beck and Danny's
00:56:47relationship has been so
00:56:48much stronger the past
00:56:49few weeks.
00:56:50So to see this now, at
00:56:51this point in the process
00:56:54is very discouraging.
00:56:56Because I want us to
00:56:56have a really good
00:56:57relationship.
00:56:58We have a really good
00:56:59relationship.
00:56:59We do.
00:56:59Daniel, do not sit
00:57:00here.
00:57:01Do not sit here.
00:57:01I didn't say we did.
00:57:02Just relax.
00:57:03Do not sit here.
00:57:04Don't be sassy with me.
00:57:05Don't sit here and say,
00:57:07I want us to have a good
00:57:08relationship.
00:57:10But we don't because of
00:57:11drama at dinner parties.
00:57:12Did I say we don't?
00:57:13No, I just want you to be
00:57:14wary about what you say.
00:57:15Did I say we don't?
00:57:16No.
00:57:16No.
00:57:17I said I want us to have
00:57:18a good relationship.
00:57:19wary about what you say.
00:57:21I'm very wary.
00:57:22I want you to be wary about
00:57:23what you text people.
00:57:26Sure, two months ago,
00:57:27Daniel.
00:57:27Two months ago.
00:57:28I think that was ten
00:57:29years ago.
00:57:31I'm done.
00:57:32I've got to go.
00:57:35Has no one ever
00:57:36f***ed up before?
00:57:37We've been talking about
00:57:37this for nearly two months.
00:57:40I can't.
00:57:43Oh.
00:57:55Don't sit here and say,
00:57:57I want us to have a good
00:57:58relationship, but we don't
00:58:00because of drama at dinner parties.
00:58:02Did I say we don't?
00:58:03I want us to have a good
00:58:04relationship.
00:58:05You have to be wary about
00:58:05what you say.
00:58:07I'm very wary.
00:58:08I want you to be wary about
00:58:09what you text people.
00:58:11Sure, two months ago,
00:58:12Daniel.
00:58:12Two months ago.
00:58:13I think that was ten years
00:58:14ago.
00:58:18I'm done.
00:58:19I've got to go.
00:58:33I'm done.
00:58:35I'm not going back in.
00:58:36I'm done.
00:58:37I want out now.
00:58:39I'm done.
00:58:44I'm done.
00:58:45I'm not going back
00:58:46into that dinner party.
00:58:48I want some joint down here.
00:58:49Let's go to the couch for a sec.
00:58:53I want out.
00:58:54Take me downstairs.
00:58:56I want out.
00:58:57Get me out of here.
00:58:59F***ing f***ing f***ing me.
00:59:02How are you feeling?
00:59:05I feel like I'm wasting my time
00:59:08at a dinner party talking about
00:59:10abusive text messages that I sent.
00:59:12I came here to work on my
00:59:14relationship and to try and be a
00:59:16good husband and stuff.
00:59:17It's like I can't voice my opinion
00:59:18because then she says I'm throwing
00:59:20her under the bus.
00:59:23He says, oh, we're ride or die.
00:59:24We're ride or die.
00:59:25We're not.
00:59:26We're not ride or die.
00:59:29We're not ride or die.
00:59:31This is not okay.
00:59:34Every single week I come to
00:59:36these dinner parties.
00:59:37Every single week.
00:59:38And it's, this has happened.
00:59:40This has happened.
00:59:41Do you have said this to you?
00:59:42It's like I don't care no more.
00:59:45I'm here for a wife and a
00:59:46relationship.
00:59:47I'm not here for drama.
00:59:50Do not.
00:59:51Do not sit there in front of
00:59:53everyone and not show
00:59:54solidarity to me.
00:59:56Because I've had to
00:59:57apologize to someone.
01:00:02Pretend.
01:00:03Just pretend for the sake of
01:00:05me.
01:00:08Pretend for two minutes.
01:00:12Sunday night.
01:00:14It's the second last commitment
01:00:16ceremony.
01:00:17You ask the question of like,
01:00:18all right, if we go outside the
01:00:19experiment, how quick would you
01:00:21expect like a proposal?
01:00:23I say the sooner the better.
01:00:24Wow.
01:00:24And some are already locking in
01:00:27plans for married life outside of
01:00:29the experiment.
01:00:30My man is leaving.
01:00:32And he is actually starting to
01:00:33show me what my life here in
01:00:35Sydney could look like.
01:00:36And then.
01:00:37So last week you said that the
01:00:39noise from the group and around
01:00:41Gia doesn't affect your
01:00:43relationship.
01:00:44Do you still believe that?
01:00:46Will Scott speak up and confess how he
01:00:49feels in front of Gia?
01:00:51I will admit like.
01:00:56The question, what was it like?
01:00:58It was a bit.
01:00:59Could you see yourself falling in love
01:01:00with me?
01:01:01Why is Danny dodging the question?
01:01:10In one of the most confronting couch
01:01:13sessions ever seen.
01:01:15It's a pretty black and white question.
01:01:20Before the blind side.
01:01:25That will leave the room speechless.
01:01:29I just can't believe it.
01:01:32And now, the fallout after the dinner party
01:01:36on Leon Stan.
01:01:38I just can't believe it.
01:01:38I just can't believe it.
01:01:40I just can't believe it.
01:01:40I just can't believe it.
01:01:41I just can't believe it.
01:01:41I just can't believe it.
01:01:42I can't believe it.
01:01:42I can't believe it.
01:01:43I can't believe it.
01:01:43I can't believe it.
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