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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02You've never had my back.
00:04Yes, I have.
00:04You've never had my back.
00:05OK, you're happy now.
00:06I'm just done with Liz, and I'm just done
00:08with this whole trip.
00:10Liz.
00:10She just it all up.
00:12She's a horrible person.
00:15Sorry, everything's kind of going the way it's going right now.
00:18Via is becoming someone that I feel like I can trust.
00:23Do you want to have a baby with her?
00:28We just established today that you're not
00:30talking to other women, and now we're talking about babies.
00:34I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
00:37I don't know about completely sailed,
00:39because there's always options.
00:44Courtney broke up with me a few days ago,
00:47and here you go.
00:48My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada
00:51to save the day.
00:52So you're not going to get back together?
00:54Having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
00:58Thank you for seeing us.
01:00I wonder if Colt told his mom that he was sending jerk-off
01:03videos to other women.
01:05He thinks maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
01:10you could work this out.
01:12On a relationship standpoint, I'm done.
01:16Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me.
01:19I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
01:22My family can be a lot, but I'm not going to lose you,
01:25because my birthday party was wrong.
01:28I just need a bit of, like, time.
01:32Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
01:35You're worried that I'm a player.
01:36Yeah.
01:36Is that what you're getting at?
01:39Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya,
01:42because I feel like she's told her a lot about my past that now someone is using against me.
01:47I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
01:50This trip is off to such a bad start, and something happened today that makes me feel like
01:56I don't even know Tony whatsoever.
02:10Hola.
02:12Como esta?
02:13Bien, ¿y tú?
02:15Oh, sÃ.
02:28So Liz's not here yet, so I hope she will be calm,
02:31because we doesn't spoke with her a couple days, and it'd be so awkward.
02:35Yeah.
02:35But did you really just let this go?
02:38Yeah.
02:38I know we had a miscommunication, and, like, it wasn't great, but people make mistakes.
02:44It's been four days since me and Liz had our big fight,
02:47and Julia texted Liz to come and join us for some drinks.
02:50You know, it's up to her if she wants to continue our friendship,
02:52but I would love if she wants to, because I do value her.
02:56I think that every girl has a problem.
02:59Especially when they go on holiday.
03:00Oh, my God.
03:01Girls have issues.
03:02Then they're vacation.
03:03Yes, it's...
03:04They have a thing.
03:05Without the fight, it's going to be a not-girls trip.
03:08Let's go over there. It's more cuter.
03:10Oh, yeah, I agree.
03:11I was upset at Liz for talking to Pedro behind my back,
03:14but I did take it a little bit far.
03:17Especially after being on the receiving end of Pedro's family's craziness.
03:21So, if Liz does show up and she can see how we both went wrong,
03:24then hopefully we can just put this whole thing behind us.
03:30Hi.
03:31Hi, ladies.
03:32How are you?
03:33Hi.
03:39I haven't seen the girls in a few days.
03:41And I feel like shutting out a friend on a girl's trip is definitely mean girl energy.
03:47It doesn't feel good.
03:51I'm going to grab a drink.
03:53Can I grab you another?
03:55Can I get a pina colada?
03:56Yeah, thank you.
03:58But when Julia reached out, I decided it was worth hearing what Sophie has to say.
04:04Can I get two pina coladas, please?
04:07We came on this trip together.
04:10We still have a couple days left.
04:12So, I just, I need to clear the air.
04:15You're welcome.
04:16I'm glad you came.
04:19Because it's been a couple days silence and now it's time to back to our girls trip.
04:25I've been super overwhelmed since I got here.
04:27Not because of you, but because of me and Pedro.
04:30And it's been a lot.
04:32And I know, like, I probably came a bit too hard on you.
04:34And I apologize for that.
04:37I think I was projecting, like, my emotions.
04:41I really don't want, like, drama or pettiness.
04:45I really didn't have any intention of being malicious.
04:48I didn't have any intention of trying to harm you.
04:51Yeah.
04:52So, I'm sorry.
04:53I hope you do know that.
04:55I appreciate you saying sorry.
04:56And I'm sorry, too, if I seemed like I was, like, emotional.
05:02No one's perfect.
05:03People bake it.
05:04So, what you're saying is we got our first fight out of the way.
05:06Yes, yes, yes.
05:09I generally feel like Sophie had time to reflect on what had happened.
05:13Her apologies seemed very sincere.
05:15I really hope she believes my apology.
05:19I still feel like the outcast in some way.
05:22But I'm going to move forward and enjoy the rest of this trip.
05:26And, oh, my gosh, please just no more drama.
05:31I'm happy that this is all squashed.
05:33Like, even though, like, I wasn't with you this weekend,
05:36I want to know how you and Pedro are doing.
05:41Well, it was really bad.
05:43It was really bad.
05:44It was bad.
05:45Oh, my God.
05:47Okay, so Pedro introduces me to his mom.
05:49He did great.
05:51He was like, look, this is Sophie.
05:52She's not my girlfriend.
05:53She's my friend.
05:53I'm getting to know her.
05:55The first thing she says to me, she goes,
05:58you're not dating him yet,
05:59because you haven't had his banana and his eggs yet.
06:06He's in his .
06:07His mom said that in front of everyone.
06:09This is, like, first, like, first encounter.
06:12And then the sister comes to me.
06:14She goes to me, I don't trust you.
06:17That's a lot, Sophie.
06:19It's a lot.
06:19After that, I do need to step back and be like,
06:22okay, well, let me focus.
06:23I am single.
06:23I don't need to have all these issues right now.
06:27And since I got here,
06:28there was a guy that I found on my social media
06:31that lives literally in this area.
06:34And we have been talking.
06:36This guy's fine.
06:38I need to show you him.
06:39Oh, my God, I'm blushing.
06:41Like, okay.
06:44I was scrolling through some of the local guys on social media,
06:46and there's this one guy in particular that looks really cute.
06:50And I just feel like he could be really fun to meet up with.
06:52Okay, this is him, this is him.
06:53Okay, let's start with that one.
06:55Oh, yeah.
06:56Hell, yeah!
06:58Sophie, you need all of this for you.
07:03He rides motorcycles.
07:04He's tall, he's good looking, and he's in shape.
07:09I'm single, I'm on holiday, and I've told Pedro I need some space.
07:13This is a little fling, a little eel.
07:16And this guy looks like the right amount of space.
07:20So, when do you plan on hanging out with him?
07:23Uh, in a couple days, you know.
07:24I said, I still dance, you know, pleasure,
07:26but everything will happen in DR.
07:28Stay in DR.
07:30Cheers to this.
07:32Welcome to our crazy friendship party.
07:34Yes.
07:35That's all with you.
07:38Cheers.
07:51Good morning.
07:53Good morning.
07:54How are you?
07:55I'm feeling good.
07:56Ooh, yeah.
07:57Morning latte.
08:00Everything okay?
08:16Well, in terms of how the night ended, Tony was really upset.
08:21Did you really go so harsh at him?
08:23What happened?
08:24I wasn't hard on him.
08:25I was just kind of asking a question.
08:26Hey, what's up?
08:26What's your plan?
08:27I know Vinny is looking for a long-term relationship.
08:29Are you on the same page or not?
08:32That was nice-ish.
08:33Okay.
08:35I brought Tony to Maine to spend my birthday with my family.
08:39But instead, ever since we arrived, it's been a complete disaster.
08:44Last night, Tony stormed off to bed after Sanella started grilling him about his past.
08:50But before he even arrived to my cousin's home,
08:54I saw a side of Tony that I didn't know existed.
08:57And this could be a deal-breaker for us.
09:00I don't know if you picked up on what was happening when you were doing my eyebrows and my lips.
09:05Tony was blowing up my phone, and obviously I couldn't pick up because we were working on my face.
09:10Mm-hmm.
09:10And I called him back after we were done.
09:13And he was so angry that he ended up hanging up the phone on me.
09:17And you know that in my book, that's one of the most rudest things you can do to me.
09:22Like, you do not do that.
09:24Then, you know, when he showed up to the house,
09:27he was trying to make it look like he was ignoring what just transpired.
09:32The reason why he was upset just because you didn't pick up the phone.
09:35That's it.
09:35Yeah.
09:37It's too soon.
09:38If this is happening this early in a relationship, it's only going to get worse later.
09:44He completely freaked out about not being able to reach me, and he hung up the phone on me.
09:50He just blew up.
09:53It was disrespectful.
09:55It was hurtful.
09:56And I just don't know how to process this or what to do about it.
10:01It sounds very controlling.
10:03Yeah.
10:04So this is something that I'm going to have to deal with.
10:07I'm going to have to address it with him.
10:10It has to be done.
10:11Better sooner than later.
10:12I know.
10:14Tony made plans to go paddle boarding today,
10:16and I want to use this time to really get an answer about what happened yesterday.
10:25How'd you sleep last night, Tony?
10:27Did not get a good night's sleep.
10:28Kind of thinking about the conversation last night and what transpired.
10:32And Sonella just unleashed on me, and I just feel like I'm getting teamed up on.
10:36I feel like I'm alone in this, and I just feel a little bit awkward right now.
10:55Well, off we go to the adventure.
10:57Off we go.
10:58All right.
10:59To the coast.
11:07I think it's good to get out of the house and, you know, there's just a little bit,
11:12I mean, not even a little bit, there was quite a bit of tension yesterday.
11:17Sunilat came at me pretty hard.
11:18What do you mean she came at you pretty hard?
11:21She kind of threw out a lot of history that was from a while ago.
11:25I think Sunilat just has something against me and I don't think it's fair that she just
11:28comes out and attacks me on the first night.
11:30I just feel like I was kind of blindsided by it all.
11:32Well, she's worried for me.
11:34She wants to make sure that you have the best interest for me in your heart.
11:38If you saw what happened, I was being attacked.
11:41She's just looking out for me and I think that she went about it the wrong way,
11:46but I think she had good intentions.
11:51I know Sunilat is Vanya's best friend, but instead of really trying to communicate with me,
11:57it becomes my cousin first and let's see what her opinions are.
12:01And out of respect for me, I would just prefer that we work out our issues together.
12:07They don't have to be spread to the whole world.
12:12Howdy, folks. How you doing?
12:13Good, good. We have a reservation for Tony.
12:16Unfortunately, we've got some thunderstorms rolling in.
12:20So unfortunately, we just can't have folks on the water when we're doing thunder and lightning.
12:24All right. Okay, then. You want to just walk around?
12:27Yeah, might as well.
12:27You can walk by the water.
12:34I feel like you can cut the tension with a knife.
12:38Tony's being really quiet, but you need to man up and own your mistakes.
12:43There's nothing that I have done ever to this point that would warrant somebody hanging up the phone on me.
12:51It's disrespectful, it's rude, it's childish, and I will not tolerate it.
12:57So why are you so quiet?
13:01Something on your mind?
13:02Yeah.
13:05You hung up the phone on me, and you got upset at me.
13:09Not my cousin, you got upset at me.
13:12And I didn't do anything wrong.
13:14You knew what I was doing the whole time.
13:15She was doing permanent makeup on me.
13:17I couldn't talk, and you got upset because I couldn't talk.
13:21I mean, I'm in a new place, a new setting.
13:25You know, you have your family here, I have no one here.
13:27So I thought I could just kind of rely on you, mourn, and, you know.
13:33I didn't know what was bothering you so much, though.
13:35So much.
13:36Like, this is so important for me, for you to meet my family.
13:40And it's all starting off on the wrong foot.
13:45This is a special weekend for me, and these are the most special people in my life.
13:51And did you hang up the phone on me?
13:53And you're just ignoring me.
13:56This is horrible.
14:02We have a great connection, but our connection hasn't really been physical.
14:08Don't get nervous.
14:10So far, we've fooled around, kissed a bit, but we haven't had sex.
14:15Okay.
14:17Tonight is the night, baby.
14:20Look at that big hoodie.
14:21Oh, big.
14:22That's how I like it.
14:24So, I guess I have not told you, ladies.
14:26Wait, what?
14:27Yeah.
14:29I've been keeping a secret since arriving in the DR.
14:32The worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him.
14:35Yeah.
14:35That's the worst thing you could do.
14:37Feelings between Via and I are evolving very quickly, and he might be hurt by what I have
14:43to share with him, and he might not want anything to do with me.
14:58I think I need a few shots.
15:00I need a nightcap for sure.
15:03You know what happens when I get a few shots at me.
15:05Oh, my God.
15:05No, I just can't.
15:06I do.
15:07I do.
15:18Uncle Marcum's interesting.
15:20He's an interesting character.
15:22He had a lot of questions.
15:25You know, I mean, that was a lot.
15:28There's a lot to absorb, but, you know, I just think that we need to walk before we run.
15:37I invited Natalie to Michigan, and things are going good between us.
15:43Getting my Uncle Marco's blessing was a huge deal to me, but I'm a little concerned that
15:50he kind of came in a little hot about Natalie and I having kids.
15:55You haven't even met my children yet.
15:57They don't even know you.
15:58That's step one, right?
15:59That's step one, yeah.
16:00So if I ask you to marry me tonight, is that too fast?
16:05It's really important to me to have a child of my own.
16:09So if I move forward with Natalie, I'm hoping she can remain open-minded to make that a reality.
16:18We are home.
16:19Oh, look at those flowers.
16:21I know, I got some nice flowers.
16:22Aren't they beautiful?
16:23Thanks to you and Uncle Marco.
16:25I know.
16:27Here we go.
16:29Okay.
16:32Go ahead.
16:33Oh, this is nice.
16:35You like it?
16:36Yeah.
16:37Enter my home.
16:39Yes.
16:40My bedroom is up there.
16:42Okay.
16:43And if you want, you can have a seat and wait for me while I get us a drink.
16:48This could be a big night for Natalie and I.
16:51So far, we've fooled around, kissed a bit, but we haven't had sex.
16:56And that's not because I haven't wanted it.
16:59Cheers to...
17:00The future.
17:01The future.
17:02Cheers to the future.
17:03There we go.
17:04So let's hope tonight is the night, baby.
17:09What was your favorite part of the day?
17:11What was my favorite part?
17:13Mm-hmm.
17:14What I think was just hanging out with you today.
17:17My favorite parts of the day was when you came to me and told me that you have decided
17:22not to talk to other women.
17:26Can you do that, though?
17:28Can you do that?
17:29Are you going to be able to do that, though?
17:31I don't know!
17:32See, that's the thing.
17:32No, I'm just kidding.
17:33Listen.
17:36There's beautiful women on this planet.
17:38I mean, gorgeous women.
17:39I know.
17:39I get it.
17:40I get it.
17:41The thing is, is like, it's hard to find a good quality woman that has, like, good qualities
17:48like you have.
17:49Yeah.
17:50Having a good quality woman trumps everything.
17:53Aw, you're growing up.
17:55Trumps everything, right?
17:56You're growing up.
17:57Yeah.
17:58No, that's nice to hear it.
18:00Because you know what?
18:01It's true.
18:01You're absolutely right.
18:03So after everything that happened in D.C., I took a big chance coming here.
18:06But wanting to be exclusive and introducing me to Uncle Marco is finally showing me that
18:13Gino may be serious about being in a committed relationship.
18:18I'm hopeful for the next step.
18:20And it's probably the most hopeful I've been in a long time with him.
18:25We have a great connection, but our connection has been very mental.
18:29And it hasn't really been physical.
18:32So, I mean...
18:35Wait, don't get nervous.
18:39That totally makes sense, baby.
18:41Okay.
18:43Okay.
18:55You are a good kisser.
18:56I will say that.
18:58I will give you that.
19:01I'm getting kind of tired.
19:04Really?
19:07I kind of think we should go to bed.
19:09So soon?
19:10So soon.
19:12Yeah.
19:12You know.
19:15Gino, I'm ready to go to bed.
19:18Yeah?
19:22I don't know how many more hints I could give you.
19:26I'm ready to go to bed.
19:28Okay.
19:29So let's go then.
19:31Let's go.
19:32Let's take the drinks.
19:34It's probably been a year and a half since I've been intimate with a woman.
19:40When I was with Jasmine, I was miserable.
19:44And I can't be intimate with someone that's yelling and screaming at me, fighting with me, and disrespecting me.
19:52After you.
19:53Okay.
19:54But with Natalie, I feel like I can be myself.
19:57She's a very good person.
19:59And I'm going to prove to her that I can be the man that she deserves.
20:05Look at that big booty.
20:06Oh, big.
20:07That's how I like it.
20:09Maybe we'll do it two, three, four, five times.
20:13Who knows how many times?
20:14We might even have sex till the sun comes up.
20:18Mm.
20:20Yeah, baby.
20:23Oh, yeah.
20:24Yeah.
20:28Yeah.
20:47Okay, ladies.
20:49If you haven't found your man yet, may try to hug yourself.
20:55Julia, stop hugging.
20:56Yeah.
21:12Thank you for putting us a bang in our Zumba.
21:16We'll see you on the next Hangover Zumba.
21:18Yes.
21:18Tomorrow.
21:20Let's take a shot.
21:23I am very relieved.
21:24Sophie and I put the drama behind us.
21:26And I really just want to enjoy the rest of our girls' trip.
21:33Okay.
21:33Where do you want to sit?
21:34Show us.
21:35Allison over here.
21:36Okay.
21:37I really need some, like, guidance.
21:40I've been keeping a secret pretty much the whole time since arriving in the DR.
21:48Okay.
21:50You have a couple days left before home.
21:52Yeah.
21:53You're going to have fun because you have this all, like, not fun.
21:57I mean, you have some fun.
21:58I've just been spending so much time with Fia, but I have not told you, ladies.
22:05So there is someone that I'm talking to back at home as well.
22:09Wait, what?
22:11Yeah.
22:13Okay.
22:13Like talking, talking, or like, like...
22:15Like we're dating.
22:16Wait.
22:17Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
22:20wait.
22:21About three months ago, right after I broke up with Jason, I met someone new.
22:26His name is Alec, and we just clipped.
22:32Really?
22:33Yes.
22:34Oh, my.
22:36I'm overstimulated.
22:38Alec wants a relationship with me, but I've never been single.
22:42So I told Alec I was coming on this trip, and I wanted to date.
22:48I wanted to get it out of my system and then kind of come home and figure out if I
22:53wanted a serious relationship.
22:55I never expected to fall for someone.
22:59I made it very clear coming to here I wanted to express being single.
23:03And then now I feel very conflicted because I see my self-developing feelings for Via.
23:09So I'm scared to, like, tell Via, hey, I am talking to someone back at home.
23:14As long as you communicate and tell him, hey, like, we're just hanging out, that's all you can do.
23:18You're being honest.
23:20If anyone understands how Liz feels, it's me, because I just got out of a toxic relationship, and I don't
23:25want to rush into anything either.
23:27My only thing is, it does feel a little shady that she's hiding it from Via.
23:31Like, I'm in the same boat.
23:32Like, I'm also trying to get to know Pedro, but the thing is, I'm being extremely honest with him, because
23:37I don't want to lead someone on.
23:38So I hope she tells him soon, or this whole thing could blow up in her face.
23:43I think tell him, he seems like a nice guy.
23:45He's probably going to take it fine, and he'll probably still want to get to know you.
23:48The worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him.
23:51But I feel like it's so complicated now, and it scares me either way.
24:02When Courtney took my phone, she told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together.
24:07I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
24:10So, how you been?
24:13You heard me.
24:22Should've known how good you had it
24:25Thought I would love you out of habit
24:28But you never earned it
24:30So you don't deserve it
24:33I miss her.
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24:59Courtney, are you okay?
25:04Let me know
25:06It's been about five days now since Courtney broke up with me
25:10And apparently my mother couldn't convince Courtney to give me a second chance
25:15And I can't say I'm exactly surprised
25:18I threw away a good relationship with a good woman
25:22And I hate myself for that
25:25I hate for all the pain that I caused to everybody
25:32Living with her parents
25:34I couldn't do anything without Courtney
25:35I couldn't leave the house
25:36It was just like I was completely relying on her for everything
25:39And I felt trapped
25:42And talking with Diana allowed me to escape that reality
25:48I'm blocking our memories
25:51With a hidden black heartbeat
25:55Hello?
25:56I'm here
25:57Hey!
25:59Hey, how are you?
26:01You look great today
26:04I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up
26:08When Courtney took my phone, she saw all the messages between Diana and I
26:12And she decided to message her directly
26:14She told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together
26:18And this is a problem because I never told Diana the truth
26:23That Courtney and I have been in a romantic relationship
26:28So, how you been?
26:33Tell me
26:46I do love you
26:54I have a lot of feelings for you
26:56That's why I wanted to see you
26:58But then I broke my leg
27:02Kane
27:02You know, I wasn't expecting to see Courtney
27:05I wasn't expecting to have her in my life
27:12I love Courtney
27:18But I love you
27:19And if I haven't met you, I was supposed to meet you
27:29You're hurting me
27:32I'm hurting everybody
27:35I feel terrible for causing Diana so much hurt
27:38And seeing her upset
27:41But I want to be honest
27:43Yes, I still love Courtney
27:45I love Courtney
27:46And I also love you
27:47And Diana needs to know that
27:52Do you still want me to come to Brazil?
28:00I'm feeling like your last option
28:06I could see that
28:12I don't know what I'm doing with anything in life right now
28:21I'm sad
28:23I'm sorry that I've hurt you
28:27I've hurt so many people
28:34I have to go
28:39Well, that sucked
28:41I know I f***ed things up with both of them
28:43I was treating both women equally wrong
28:49I wanted the benefits of having Diana as an outlet
28:53But I also wanted the benefits of having Courtney as a girlfriend
28:57And now they don't want anything to do with me
29:00And I take full responsibility for this
29:04But I'm not ready to give up on love
29:06I'm going to fight like hell to get her back
29:09Which one?
29:13Good question
29:20I like to be in control
29:21I like whatever I plan to happen
29:24But you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you
29:28I have never seen this controlling side of Tony in the past
29:32This is just all coming out of the blue
29:35This has happened to me so many times in the past
29:38A guy starts out one way
29:39Then it turns out they were just hiding their real personality
29:42So is this who you are?
29:57This is a special weekend for me
29:58And these are the most special people in my life
30:01And did you hang up the phone on me?
30:03And you're just ignoring me
30:12This is horrible
30:15Yeah, I made the mistake
30:16Like I said, I didn't communicate with you about what happened
30:19But it was kind of awkward with me
30:21Kind of to bring it up at their place
30:22Me and them for the first time
30:23But I don't want this to be
30:25Kind of blown out in proportion
30:26Where it was, yeah, about an issue we had yesterday
30:29Regarding time management, spending time together
30:32Don't make it like I'm blowing things out
30:34Of proportion
30:35You haven't really talked to me nicely since yesterday
30:40I didn't intend for this to happen, I didn't
30:43I overreacted
30:44And one of my issues, one of my flaws
30:45Is I like to be in control
30:46I like the situation
30:49Or whatever I plan to happen
30:51And, you know, done right, correctly
30:53But you can't go with life thinking
30:55That things are going to go exactly how you planned
30:57You have to roll with the punches
30:58And in the process
30:59You can't alienate the person
31:01That's supposed to be so important to you
31:06Tony hanging up on me yesterday
31:09It took me by surprise
31:10I have never seen this kind of controlling side of Tony
31:15In the past
31:15This is just all coming out of the blue
31:19What did I tell you when we were first discussing
31:21Trying to take this into a relationship
31:23I said, are you going to change?
31:25Please don't change
31:26It's not much changing though
31:27Because this has happened to me so many times in the past
31:29A guy starts out one way
31:31And then it turns out that it was the opposite
31:33The whole time
31:33And they were just hiding their real personality
31:35So is this who you are?
31:39No, it's not like a new me
31:40It's not
31:41That the old me is the real me
31:43And that's the person you've known for the longest time
31:47But the old you has never hurt me like this
31:50I don't think someone should ever be judged
31:52On one reaction or one issue or one fault
31:59I don't know
32:02You think this is the real me?
32:04I don't know
32:05That's why I'm trying to have this conversation
32:07That's not fair, Vanya
32:08It's not fair at all
32:14This has been kind of like a running theme
32:16In some of my past relationships
32:18A guy starts off being this amazing prince charming
32:22And then once they feel like they got you in their claws
32:25Then they do a 180
32:27And they become a totally different person
32:29And who knows
32:30Is Tony becoming this totally different person
32:32This early in a relationship?
32:34And that's definitely a concern for me
32:38Tony
32:39I mean, if you really think I'm a person
32:41That's going to truly just hurt you
32:42Then you should walk away from me
32:44I agree
32:44I want to make sure that going forward
32:47You're not going to just have a freak out
32:50And then have an explosion
32:53Like hanging up the phone
32:54And then ignoring me
32:57I can first of all apologize for what I did
32:59Because hanging up the phone is not right
33:01I'm taking full accountability for it
33:07I like to be updated
33:08I like to have things kind of go according to plan
33:11But then I feel like sometimes
33:12I'm not even on her radar
33:14So I felt like that yesterday
33:16I didn't respond the right way
33:17I hung up on the phone on her
33:18So, you know, it was not a good reaction on my end
33:22You know, going forward
33:23I think communication and transparency is key
33:26And, you know, I think Vanya in the end
33:27Will see that this is still the real Tony
33:29And it's a pretty good version too
33:33So I'm not trying to hurt you
33:34I really am not
33:35And I don't like to see you cry
33:36Like it hurts me too
33:46Are you going to get a smart chance?
33:48What?
33:49That's all right, man
33:52You're never going to lose you
33:55Right?
33:58After a year and a half of friendship
33:59I thought that I knew Tony
34:01But this whole experience now
34:04Makes me feel like I'm walking on eggshells
34:06And it's putting seeds of doubt in my mind
34:09Because is this what I want to sign myself up for?
34:14Maybe the relationship Tony
34:16And the friend Tony
34:17Are two totally different people
34:24This one's good
34:25Get things off your chest
34:26I just felt like it was important to talk about
34:29It's been really bothering me
34:33We've been having a great time
34:36We have a great connection
34:37I feel
34:37I think
34:39I thought
34:39I guess I'm just going to be straightforward
34:42There is somebody back at home
34:44That I've been seeing
34:46Didn't expect that
34:47Oh, this is hard
34:49There's actually a lot of emotions involved
34:52So
34:54I don't really feel good right now
34:56I feel bad
35:07I know that I'm preaching to the choir
35:11But you're playing with fire
35:13And you want to go higher
35:15So I'm taking you up
35:19Hey, beautiful
35:20Hi
35:21How are you?
35:22Good
35:23Good, you ready?
35:24We smell good as always
35:27Ready for our dance lessons?
35:28I'm ready
35:29Yeah?
35:29Yeah
35:29Let's go
35:41Julia!
35:43Oh my goodness
35:44I think we're going to dance
35:46You look like you're going to the wedding
35:48Are you ready?
35:49Let's go
35:49Ever since landing here in the DR
35:52All I've wanted to do is go to a dance class
35:54Okay, Julia!
35:57You're ready for dancing
36:00Julia is joining us
36:02But Sophie decided to take some alone time for herself
36:04And I think that's a great idea
36:06Girl deserves it
36:07It's been a roller coaster
36:08It's so pretty
36:10Hello!
36:12Coming, coming!
36:13A little dance
36:14This is exciting
36:16Today we will give some merengue and bachata
36:20Like Dominican style
36:21So follow me and enjoy
36:23We are here for giving love
36:24Can I pick this man?
36:25He can have a crazy energy
36:26Yeah!
36:27Venga!
36:28In my photo!
36:29Eso!
36:30You can have a big partner
36:31For example, with him
36:33So we will start with some both steps first
36:36I feel like we've done this before
36:38I don't feel like all that new
36:41It's kind of natural now
36:42And let's go!
36:51Let's go!
36:51Let's go!
36:52Let's go!
36:52Let's go!
36:52Let's go!
36:52Let's go!
36:53And we go!
36:55I'm sorry
36:56I feel like I have to count my steps
36:57I'm like thinking
36:58I'm talking and like counting my steps
36:59You can't pull the same time?
37:00Two, three, one, two, three
37:03You're making me really nervous
37:05Why me?
37:06Why?
37:06I hate you
37:07I'm always getting nervous
37:10You're getting me all hot
37:13Oh yeah?
37:16Well, dancing can lead to that
37:18I've really done nothing but hang out with Via
37:21On my whole singles girl trip
37:24And as much as I'm enjoying being in the moment with him
37:28It's making me feel guilty for the feelings that I have back at home with Alec
37:36I think I'm really falling for Via
37:38And now I'm so beyond confused
37:40I've waited such a long time for just one good person to walk into my life that never did I
37:46imagine that there'd be two
37:48Okay, guys
37:49I'm gonna see you
37:51I'm gonna see you tomorrow
37:52Yeah, I'm gonna see you tomorrow
37:53So, rest now
37:54After this dancing
37:54Can you walk me?
38:00You seem so nervous
38:01I know
38:02I just wasn't supposed to come here and start falling for someone
38:05It's true
38:05But you're gonna be honest
38:07That's all what you need to do
38:08Okay
38:09Yes
38:10Thanks, girl
38:11So, see you
38:12Everything will be fine
38:13Just breathe
38:14Take a shot
38:20Hey
38:21Hey
38:22You wanna go get a drink?
38:24From the bar?
38:25Yeah
38:25You wanna drink finally?
38:26Yeah, let's go get a drink
38:27Everything okay?
38:29Yeah
38:30I am worried about hurting Via's feelings
38:34I don't know how he feels about me
38:37Is this just a vacation fling?
38:38Did he expect to, like, have feelings?
38:42We just, we have to have this conversation
38:45Cheers
38:46Cheers
38:47Cheers
38:48To dancing
38:49To dancing
38:50To chemistry
38:51To chemistry
38:52That was a lot of fun
38:54Mhm
38:54I feel like dancing with you is always a lot of fun
38:57Yeah
38:58I think every time I'm with you I have a lot of fun
39:01So, I guess
39:03I don't know where, like, your feelings are at with me
39:07But I know that I am developing feelings
39:13And same with me
39:15Um, we've been having a great time
39:18We have a great connection, I feel
39:20I think
39:21I thought
39:23I have the best time with you
39:27But
39:28I came on this trip to work on me
39:32And now having feelings for you is making it super complicated
39:36I guess I'm just gonna be straightforward
39:38There is somebody back at home that I have been seeing
39:47Okay
39:49Didn't expect that
39:52How serious, like, is this with this person?
39:56I don't know
39:58The whole point of this trip was to see if I wanted to embrace being single
40:03Or if I
40:04Where things can go potentially when I get back home
40:10Oh, this is hard
40:13Doesn't make a lot of sense to me
40:16Single's trip, you're not single
40:18Well, I am single
40:20Right now
40:21Until you go back
40:23Like
40:26I can see how it looks to you
40:29Yeah
40:30I just kinda feel like I'm like
40:32I've been wasting my time, you know
40:38We'll be right back
40:39I'm gonna use this
40:40Sure
40:43I got so scared
40:45Of letting the truth be told
40:47If having your head to hold
40:50If having your head to hold
40:51And I got freaked out
40:54By letting the truth be known
40:57Safer to be on your own
40:59There's actually a lot of emotions involved
41:02So
41:03I don't really feel good right now
41:05I feel bad
41:08Like I feel really bad right now
41:12I thought we were doing well, you know
41:16We were
41:19On the right path
41:20On the right track, I guess
41:21I just didn't expect that, so
41:23Feel a little
41:25Betrayed
41:28Deceived, I guess
41:29Oh
41:42Yeah, I feel really sick to my stomach right now
41:48Well
41:48I can't take it back
41:54Next time on The Single Life
41:56Hello
41:59How are you?
41:59I'm good, it's so good to see you
42:01Wayne is 52 years old
42:03He lives in the UK
42:04And we've been talking for a couple months
42:07I've even put some aftershave on for this coffee date
42:10You're so handsome, I have to tell you
42:12You are a handsome little guy
42:13Oh, thank you, you are as well
42:14Oh, thanks
42:15Wayne might legit be my person
42:18But putting all the effort into another international relationship
42:22It's just taking such a chance
42:26This is my daughter
42:27I'm surprised I'm meeting you today
42:29I didn't expect that
42:30I'm surprised you're even here
42:32I was expecting more of a nice initial greeting, you know
42:36That was a little weird for me
42:38Can you close that?
42:39I could
42:40Well, you better
42:42So far, I'm not impressed
42:47I want to know if you'd like to, you know, to try again
42:50So I'm being honest
42:52There is someone today that I'm gonna just like meet
42:57That's a day, you're going on a date with someone
43:00We have a few days left
43:02And you'd rather spend the time with somebody that you know than spending the time with me
43:06This is bull
43:07Are you free to dance?
43:09I am
43:10Alright, let's do it
43:11I just don't see how dancing with other guys is respectful of the guy that you're with
43:15It's my girl, do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
43:18I mean like, are you serious?
43:20The fact that he's projecting this insecurity on me is not fair, it's not right, I'm not gonna stand for
43:25it
43:25I'm just like really done with this
43:28We might have even bigger problems than I originally thought
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