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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...

00:00:01No, just don't talk to me.

00:00:03My last two years have just been one dating disaster after another.

00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.

00:00:11I should be jaded at this point, but I'm still here, ready for love.

00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.

00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.

00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?

00:00:24I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.

00:00:28I was like living in hell.

00:00:31After everything that I've been through,

00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.

00:00:37Woo!

00:00:39What are you doing?

00:00:40You're just a little girl together.

00:00:43I think that's pretty much it, I don't know.

00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,

00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.

00:00:51Girl strip!

00:00:52Girl strip!

00:00:52Woo!

00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?

00:00:57The man.

00:00:58We're happy in the Dominican Republic, stay in the Dominican Republic.

00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.

00:01:08You guys remember B, right?

00:01:09I have plans to hook up right now.

00:01:13A booty call.

00:01:14A booty call.

00:01:15Oh!

00:01:15Oh, sexy.

00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.

00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.

00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.

00:01:29Using her?

00:01:30Yes.

00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.

00:01:35His name is Pedro.

00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santel and Pedro.

00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.

00:01:44I want my wife, I want the house, I want the kid.

00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.

00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.

00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.

00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.

00:02:05But now I have to be serious.

00:02:05I wish you did too.

00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.

00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.

00:02:11A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.

00:02:15So is this who you are?

00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love wife?

00:02:20No, I am just here, go stare about him, and ask you about it.

00:02:24Oh, yeah, you can be concerned.

00:02:24But don't call at me hostile, because I die.

00:02:27No, you cannot do it, I die.

00:02:29You guys have a f***ing weird relationship.

00:02:31Okay, bye.

00:02:32Yeah, yeah.

00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.

00:02:34Yeah, yeah.

00:02:35Okay, whatever.

00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.

00:02:39Damn.

00:02:52I'm sorry, I'm the flame, everybody knows my name.

00:02:57Hola.

00:02:58Hola, hola.

00:02:59¿Es posible un pina colada?

00:03:00Sí, claro.

00:03:01Gracias.

00:03:0721.

00:03:24Hey, bitches!

00:03:26Click, snap, look at that.

00:03:30I'm here!

00:03:32Look at that.

00:03:34Check, check, check, check, check it out.

00:03:36Look at that.

00:03:37Girl strip!

00:03:38Girl strip!

00:03:39Do I have your attention?

00:03:42I'm Sophie, I'm 26 years old.

00:03:45I'm from London, and I live in Texas.

00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.

00:03:48It's so hot.

00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.

00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years, and that marriage didn't go very well.

00:03:56Cheers!

00:03:56Oh!

00:03:56So, I've recently filed for divorce, and what better way to celebrate than with a girls' trip?

00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like, you're gonna have to, like, take the will on this.

00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks, and just have a good time, and not stress, and just actually have some

00:04:11fun.

00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?

00:04:13The men.

00:04:15Me too, and the guys here are fine.

00:04:18Even the workers are cute, the hotel people are cute, people on the beach, everyone's just cute here.

00:04:24How do you think it's an upgrade for me, ladies?

00:04:26I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.

00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.

00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected, and we kind of became a support for each other,

00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.

00:04:37And, yeah, now we've actually become friends.

00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?

00:04:42I still like the older man.

00:04:44Older? How old?

00:04:4693 is fine?

00:04:47Let's stick with it.

00:04:4997.

00:04:4994.

00:04:52I'm Liz, I'm 33 years old, and I'm from San Diego, California.

00:04:56But I currently live in Seattle, Washington.

00:04:59I've never actually really dated.

00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.

00:05:05But I'm single, and it feels really good to be single for once.

00:05:11Sophia, I know you're, like, a Latinian guy, right?

00:05:15Latinian?

00:05:17Latinian.

00:05:18I want to say Caribbean and Latino.

00:05:20Oh, no, yeah, I like that.

00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.

00:05:22Yeah.

00:05:23So, you like them.

00:05:24Okay.

00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time.

00:05:29And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.

00:05:32When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just, like, hit it off.

00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends, and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.

00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.

00:05:46Annoying bitch.

00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?

00:05:51He's fine.

00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, Sophie the single, not you.

00:05:56I'm Julia, I'm 31 years old.

00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.

00:06:04My husband, Brandon, is very protective.

00:06:07But he has a reason, because we have secrets.

00:06:10I'm pregnant.

00:06:12I don't tell anybody yet, because I believe in superstition.

00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mockdell's.

00:06:21So let's have fun.

00:06:22Yeah, let's have Jink and Mockdell's.

00:06:25After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.

00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard for me

00:06:37to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.

00:06:44Hi, thank you.

00:06:46I miss you so much.

00:06:47Give me a kiss.

00:06:48I missed you.

00:06:49Six years ago, when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't

00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.

00:06:59But even though we was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating site.

00:07:05I found this.

00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.

00:07:11Let's explore.

00:07:13I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women ten f***ing times.

00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve, and I had to walk away.

00:07:25I don't want to do everything.

00:07:27We're just not good together.

00:07:30Well, I think that's pretty much it, then, though.

00:07:38I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob, and there's definitely something scary about getting

00:07:44back out there because I've only known my life as an adult, really, with Rob.

00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob, but it's also very exciting.

00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you, and we have a special guy who we come to see.

00:07:59For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy, and it's been going really great.

00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.

00:08:10He's tall.

00:08:11He works out.

00:08:12He's very funny.

00:08:14If you could write on paper the perfect guy, it's literally him.

00:08:20His name is Pedro, and, yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantelle and Pedro.

00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?

00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media, and then I saw this really cute guy, and I was like, okay,

00:08:37like, I followed him.

00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, like, it's Pedro.

00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?

00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between him and Chantelle.

00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation, but I know better than to judge someone based on other

00:08:56people's opinions.

00:08:57We have been talking a lot, and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.

00:09:02He basically was like, oh, like, what's your ideal date?

00:09:05Like, and I told him, like, what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I want,

00:09:09and he just, like, did all of it.

00:09:10And I was like, oh.

00:09:11So what was the gift?

00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store, and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace, and that was

00:09:17the first time we met in person.

00:09:19Oh, my God.

00:09:21I know.

00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?

00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic, and I like that he's, like, trying to win me over, kind of, because, like,

00:09:28he doesn't buy me flowers, like, once.

00:09:30It's like every week I get new flowers at my door, and then he leaves, like, this little, like, love

00:09:33note in the flowers.

00:09:34You see that smile?

00:09:35Wait.

00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.

00:09:40We've only hung out, like, a couple times, so he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's

00:09:45birthday, and I wanted to do this girl's trip for a while now, so it kind of made perfect sense

00:09:50to just combine the two.

00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time you're spending with him.

00:09:54But also, I'm not trying to jump into, like, something super serious immediately, because I only met him, like, a

00:09:59couple times.

00:10:00You just finished your relationship.

00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.

00:10:02Like, my end goal is a relationship again, but right now, I also want to be single, and I want

00:10:07to make sure I know what I want this time.

00:10:09Yeah.

00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro, but at the same time, I've been through hell with my own

00:10:16marriage, and his marriage was a train wreck, obviously, so I want to make sure I don't rush things.

00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time and giving myself the time I need to figure it out.

00:10:25We're all going to see him tonight, which should be fun.

00:10:27I'll have fun.

00:10:28Is he bringing friends?

00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.

00:10:31Yeah.

00:10:31I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.

00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him, but I feel like

00:10:39he's catching very strong feelings very early on, and I really just want to make sure that I don't let

00:10:46someone force me into something that I'm just really not ready for yet.

00:10:50So, let's have fun!

00:10:52Yay!

00:10:53Ladies, we're happy in the Dominican Republic.

00:10:55Stay in the Dominican Republic.

00:11:17All right, cadets.

00:11:19Your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.

00:11:21It's full of enemies.

00:11:22They're going to be on all sides and surrounding you.

00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.

00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.

00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!

00:11:29Yeah!

00:11:32I'm going to get you.

00:11:36Ooh, I like this.

00:11:47Get around to the left.

00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.

00:11:49Star Wars hide.

00:11:50Not Star Wars.

00:11:51We're not in the Navy.

00:11:54My name is Kim.

00:11:55I'm 55 years old.

00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California, and for the past probably 10, 20 years, I've just been feeling really down about

00:12:03myself, and now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.

00:12:14For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey, and I've lost 57 pounds to dates, and it's

00:12:20been life-changing.

00:12:22I have more energy, and it's like I'm just tapping into this young, more adventurous Kim again.

00:12:30When I was 19 years old, I went into the military, and I was a sharpshooter, and I jumped out

00:12:37of planes.

00:12:39I was a bad bitch back then.

00:12:43I got you.

00:12:44You said, ugh.

00:12:45And now, 30 years later, I'm trying to get my groove back, especially in my dating life.

00:12:51Boo!

00:12:52Your shot.

00:12:52Oh, crap.

00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?

00:12:57Just call a truce, and we'll work together.

00:12:59You know how I used to go?

00:12:59I do.

00:13:00So I'm on a date, and this is Javier.

00:13:03I'm excited to be here.

00:13:06I like women when they take charge.

00:13:07Oh, do you?

00:13:08Do you?

00:13:09Okay.

00:13:09You got the right kind of woman then.

00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah, that kind of set us up, right?

00:13:15Like a little blind date.

00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman, too.

00:13:19Try to.

00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time, I was like, oh, he's kind of handsome.

00:13:24A little bit.

00:13:25No, I'm just joking.

00:13:26He's so handsome.

00:13:27Gracias.

00:13:28De nada.

00:13:30Oh, no, enemy!

00:13:32No!

00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months, but it is hard as **** to find a good man

00:13:40in your 50s.

00:13:42Okay, we're done.

00:13:44I'm done.

00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.

00:13:46I feel like I can see through all your games, and let's just be honest.

00:13:49I was with the biggest game player ever in the world.

00:14:00I met Usman on social media about five years ago.

00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria, and after 11 months of talking on the phone, my ass was

00:14:11on a plane to Africa to go meet Usman in person.

00:14:14Oh, my God!

00:14:18Oh, my God!

00:14:19From the beginning, Usman and I went through a lot.

00:14:21We had a lot of challenges, a lot of disagreements.

00:14:24Why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman?

00:14:28Oh, my God!

00:14:30This is funny.

00:14:31Is this **** funny, too?

00:14:32**** you!

00:14:33But eventually, we worked it out, and he put a ring on it.

00:14:37Will you marry me, babe?

00:14:38Yes!

00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids, and my baby-making days are over, but I loved

00:14:45Usman so much that I was willing to let him take a second wife to have a baby.

00:14:49And it's crazy when I think about that.

00:14:51When I get married to the second wife, I should take her child to you in the state.

00:14:57No, sir.

00:14:58Listen to me.

00:14:58That will bring you guys more closer.

00:15:00No.

00:15:01And you love each other, like close friends.

00:15:03No.

00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife to, like, coexist and, like, make biscuits or something.

00:15:09I don't know.

00:15:09And, like, raise this baby together.

00:15:11What the ****?

00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses before this became a whole sister-wise kind of thing.

00:15:19You're a **** asshole.

00:15:20You are a **** asshole.

00:15:22I'm done.

00:15:25We tried.

00:15:26We tried, right?

00:15:28We tried.

00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.

00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything, but I miss having a man.

00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.

00:15:38I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.

00:15:41Safe is, like, my biggest thing.

00:15:44So, how do you like it?

00:15:45It was so much fun.

00:15:46Oh, my gosh.

00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.

00:15:49You were in the military?

00:15:49Yes.

00:15:50Wore the little uniform, wore the little beret, jumped out of planes.

00:15:54I've done a lot.

00:15:55That's very sexy.

00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?

00:15:58Do you have your uniform?

00:15:59No, but I'll get one.

00:16:02So, where do you live?

00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.

00:16:06Okay.

00:16:06Do you, like, live by yourself?

00:16:08I have two roommates.

00:16:09Oh, ****.

00:16:10Two.

00:16:10So, it's like a big bachelor pad.

00:16:12No, no, no, not really.

00:16:15I live with two young women.

00:16:19So, like, how did you end up with two girl roommates?

00:16:23I used to date one of them.

00:16:24You used to date one of your roommates?

00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.

00:16:27Okay.

00:16:28What happened?

00:16:29Do you don't mind me asking?

00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.

00:16:32Javier.

00:16:33She dumped me.

00:16:35Well, I would have, too, if you would have cheated on me.

00:16:37Yeah.

00:16:39Javier is really cute, but there's a lot of red flags here.

00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.

00:16:46And, like, what is the situation with his ex, right?

00:16:49He lives with her.

00:16:50He cheated on her.

00:16:52They're still banging.

00:16:53There's something going on there.

00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.

00:16:56It's like an ambulance siren going,

00:16:57Kim, get out of here.

00:16:58Kim, get out of here.

00:17:00Thank you so much.

00:17:01It was fun.

00:17:03It was fun.

00:17:04Yeah, you too.

00:17:05In my past relationships, I let so much slide,

00:17:08and I'm just not going to do it now.

00:17:10I'm not going to do it.

00:17:11I'll text you.

00:17:13Okay.

00:17:13Or text me.

00:17:14Okay, got it.

00:17:15Thank you for taking me out here.

00:17:16It was fun.

00:17:17So I'm not going to see Javier again,

00:17:19but some woman is going to snatch him up.

00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.

00:17:22Sorry.

00:17:24Bye-bye.

00:17:26Bye-bye.

00:17:41Hello.

00:17:42What are you doing?

00:17:43I ran out of groceries at my house.

00:17:44Oh.

00:17:45So is my house the grocery store now?

00:17:47I actually need to take him to his bins.

00:17:48Oh, you do?

00:17:49Mm-hmm.

00:17:50Jamal is my son.

00:17:53He's 30 years old.

00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son

00:17:58than I am of Jamal.

00:17:59He is everything to me.

00:18:05Do you have a ranch?

00:18:06Yeah.

00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.

00:18:09I use that.

00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.

00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.

00:18:14That's not true.

00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.

00:18:17It's like a two for one.

00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?

00:18:22No.

00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?

00:18:24Yeah.

00:18:24I'll leave you one.

00:18:25Thanks.

00:18:27So, yeah, I went on like a little laser tag date.

00:18:30Oh, yeah?

00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.

00:18:33Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.

00:18:38I just feel like I still need...

00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.

00:18:45Indeed.

00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense

00:18:50and, like, really difficult between Jamal and I right now.

00:18:54Can you tell me what's been going on with him?

00:18:56I mean, there's no easy way to...

00:19:02say what I have to say, you know,

00:19:04or discuss what I've done.

00:19:08Love you.

00:19:09Love you, too.

00:19:09I'm going to go head out.

00:19:12I've kept things from him

00:19:13that have broken his trust with me.

00:19:16Text me later or something.

00:19:17Got you.

00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will...

00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.

00:19:23All righty.

00:19:23See you later.

00:19:24I preach authenticity.

00:19:26I preach being genuine.

00:19:28And I've been living a f***ing lie.

00:19:30And when the truth comes out,

00:19:32these things that I'm hiding

00:19:33are going to hurt other people.

00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.

00:19:38Never forgive myself.

00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.

00:19:48The first time I see something online,

00:19:49you know, I say,

00:19:50oh my God, like,

00:19:52she looks fine, like.

00:19:54The hair, the eyes, the lips,

00:19:56the f***, the ass, the leg.

00:19:58Maybe, if we love you,

00:20:00we get some.

00:20:02Nice to meet you.

00:20:03Nice to meet you.

00:20:03I'm Gino.

00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.

00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.

00:20:10Oh.

00:20:10Stop it.

00:20:12I knew meeting women in person

00:20:14would probably be difficult,

00:20:16but how did this all end up

00:20:18in such a disaster?

00:20:26Stop it.

00:20:29Stop it.

00:20:30Stop it.

00:20:31Let's go.

00:20:32What you drinking, what you want?

00:20:33Two counts right here.

00:20:36Let's go.

00:20:41Come on, Gino.

00:20:43You got this.

00:20:48Woo.

00:20:56All right, last 10 seconds

00:20:58before the end.

00:20:59I'm Gino.

00:21:01I'm 56 years young,

00:21:02and I'm from Camp, Michigan.

00:21:04Come on, let it all go.

00:21:05Woo.

00:21:06Nice job.

00:21:08I'm newly single,

00:21:09and I'm looking for the love of my life.

00:21:12I'm way out of shape.

00:21:15I'm working out again,

00:21:17getting myself in shape.

00:21:19I mean, after everything

00:21:20that I've been through,

00:21:22I want some young,

00:21:23beautiful, single ladies, baby.

00:21:26Woo.

00:21:27Would you mind taking

00:21:28just a couple selfies for me?

00:21:30Of course.

00:21:31If you don't mind,

00:21:32could you try to get my calves in it

00:21:34a little bit?

00:21:34Sure.

00:21:35Give me a big smile.

00:21:37I really want to find

00:21:38a woman that has a good heart,

00:21:41who's very much into me

00:21:42just how I am.

00:21:43Nice job.

00:21:44I just have to do a better job

00:21:46at choosing women

00:21:47because I have failed miserably

00:21:51in the last,

00:21:53well, last four years anyway.

00:22:03I met my soon-to-be ex-wife,

00:22:08Jasmine,

00:22:09online about four years ago

00:22:11and went to Panama to meet her.

00:22:20But looking back,

00:22:22I should have never married Jasmine

00:22:23and brought her to the U.S.

00:22:25There were some huge,

00:22:27serious red flags.

00:22:27You're trash.

00:22:30I don't want to see you anymore.

00:22:31That's your choice.

00:22:33F***ing.

00:22:34Don't.

00:22:35Guys.

00:22:36I'm going to f***ing kill this

00:22:37or I got them the president.

00:22:39Stop.

00:22:40Jasmine,

00:22:40look at me.

00:22:41Stop it, liar.

00:22:43I f***ing hate him.

00:22:45During our relationship,

00:22:47Jasmine always found a way

00:22:48to beat me down.

00:22:49And then last year,

00:22:50I found out that Jasmine

00:22:53was having a baby

00:22:54with a random dude

00:22:55down the street

00:22:57two months

00:22:58after we separated.

00:23:00I want you to know that

00:23:01I am pregnant.

00:23:04And Matt and I agree

00:23:06that we want to have the baby

00:23:08and that's what we're going to do.

00:23:11Well.

00:23:13Good.

00:23:15I thought she loved me.

00:23:19I thought

00:23:20she wanted to have

00:23:22a child with me.

00:23:26She's such a liar.

00:23:33She's such a liar.

00:23:36I was knocked down,

00:23:38but I got back up on my feet

00:23:40and now I just want to

00:23:41look forward to living

00:23:42my best life.

00:23:48Like apple pie.

00:23:50It's blue style, baby.

00:23:53Peaches and cream.

00:23:55Yeah, it's so crazy.

00:23:56Today, I'm going to an event

00:23:58that is hosted by

00:23:59a singles group

00:24:00that I found

00:24:01on social media.

00:24:27I have never been to a singles event before.

00:24:30I have never been to a singles event before.

00:24:32I met a woman in person

00:24:33and asked her out on a date

00:24:35in probably a good 30 years.

00:24:38Hi.

00:24:40Got Michelle over there

00:24:41and Rachel here.

00:24:43What's up?

00:24:44Before the internet,

00:24:45I used classified ads.

00:24:47It was scary

00:24:48because

00:24:49I didn't really know

00:24:51what they look like.

00:24:52In hindsight,

00:24:54it's probably not the safest thing to do

00:24:57and I'm lucky

00:24:58I never got scammed.

00:25:00So this is Amy.

00:25:01Hi.

00:25:02Hello.

00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.

00:25:03Nice to meet you.

00:25:04Nice to meet you.

00:25:05I'm Gino.

00:25:05But even now,

00:25:07I prefer to meet women online.

00:25:10Being rejected in person

00:25:12is the worst, right?

00:25:13You feel so small

00:25:15and it's hard to take.

00:25:16So I am way out of my comfort zone

00:25:19being here.

00:25:20I think we need to go

00:25:22play some kickball.

00:25:23Yeah, let's do it.

00:25:24Let's do it.

00:25:25Let's do it.

00:25:26Let's do it.

00:25:27Let's do it.

00:25:28Let's do it.

00:25:29Let's do it.

00:25:29Get her.

00:25:31Hey, can we get Gino up here?

00:25:33Let's go.

00:25:33My bat?

00:25:35Gino, you're up.

00:25:36Go, go, go.

00:25:37Gino, Gino.

00:25:39Gino, Gino, Gino.

00:25:41Gino.

00:25:44Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino.

00:25:48Woo!

00:25:52Woo!

00:25:54Woo!

00:25:55Woo!

00:25:56Woo!

00:25:56What's your name?

00:25:57What's your name?

00:25:57Gino.

00:25:58Gino.

00:25:58I'm Aaron.

00:25:59Nice to meet you.

00:26:00Nice to meet you.

00:26:01I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.

00:26:04Awesome.

00:26:05Awesome.

00:26:05Woo!

00:26:06Woo!

00:26:07I think this is a very good first step for me

00:26:09because it got me out of my comfort zone.

00:26:12But now that I have to have conversations with them, I hope I don't mess it up.

00:26:16We're so excited to have you here.

00:26:18Every time a guy joins, we're like, oh, my God, another normal guy.

00:26:21Oh, that's good.

00:26:21We're 70% women.

00:26:24So, like, that's why.

00:26:2470%?

00:26:25I like that.

00:26:25I know.

00:26:25Right?

00:26:26That's why I get excited.

00:26:28I'm like, a guy?

00:26:32So tell us, like, what brought you here?

00:26:35What brought me here?

00:26:36Yeah.

00:26:37Well, I mean, I'm single now.

00:26:38When did you get divorced?

00:26:40When I get divorced?

00:26:42Um, well, I'm not divorced yet.

00:26:46OK.

00:26:48Well, I'm married but separated.

00:26:50We don't live together.

00:26:53I don't do well with someone who's still technically married.

00:26:56What if they're not done?

00:26:59What chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if he's not ready?

00:27:05I'm with you on that.

00:27:06He seems so nervous.

00:27:08He's shaking.

00:27:09His voice is cracking.

00:27:10What the hell is going on here?

00:27:11What is he hiding?

00:27:13So tell us what happened.

00:27:15So basically what happened is five months after our marriage, she met a guy, a random

00:27:21guy at the gym, and cheated on me with him.

00:27:24What?

00:27:25And then while she was married to me, she got pregnant.

00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?

00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract them to me, not telling

00:27:38them about my nightmarish, miserable relationship that I just went through.

00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.

00:27:47But anyway, let's change the subject a little.

00:28:09I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in

00:28:16such a disaster?

00:28:28All lies don't mean what you're looking at.

00:28:31Yeah, I'm sinking my teeth like a big cat.

00:28:32I want to give you a little bit, a little bit of what's really good.

00:28:36Flying so high, yeah, I'm on in the night.

00:28:39I'ma show you what I like.

00:28:42Pedro's bad, baby.

00:28:46Moimala.

00:28:47Moimala.

00:28:48Moimala.

00:28:49Moimala.

00:28:50Moimala.

00:28:50You bad, honey.

00:28:51Got mad money.

00:28:52You bad, honey.

00:28:55Moimala.

00:28:56Moimala.

00:28:56Hello, baby.

00:28:57Hello, baby.

00:28:58Hello, baby.

00:28:59Hello, baby.

00:29:00How are you?

00:29:01Good.

00:29:03My name is Pedro.

00:29:04I'm 33 years old.

00:29:05Originally, I'm from Dominican Republic.

00:29:07But right now, I live in Atlanta, Georgia.

00:29:09Trae la van.

00:29:10Si.

00:29:10Ya estamos aquí.

00:29:11Si.

00:29:12Since my divorce with Chantel, I've been keeping a low profile.

00:29:15I needed time to myself.

00:29:17Dale, dale, dale.

00:29:20Eso, papá.

00:29:22But now, I put everything behind me, and I'm ready for the next shot of my life.

00:29:28Bam.

00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there.

00:29:30This is the same.

00:29:31That's right.

00:29:33What are we going to do with the band?

00:29:34We're going to raise the band and put it very beautiful for Sophie.

00:29:37Are you always willing to give it all for a woman?

00:29:40You're a romantic guy.

00:29:42I'm putting my best effort in this, okay?

00:29:46Yes, of course.

00:29:47I'm so excited.

00:29:49I'm very happy because Sophie arrived in the yard with her friends,

00:29:52and they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight.

00:29:55I really want to impress Sophie when she is in my own country.

00:29:58That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the band.

00:30:01They're going to drive Sophie and her friends around the yard.

00:30:05Pedro, how do you like that woman?

00:30:08I don't like that, Dad. I love it.

00:30:11Listen, man.

00:30:13The first time I saw Sophie online, you know, I said,

00:30:16oh, my God, like, she looks fine.

00:30:19Like, she has everything that I was looking for.

00:30:22The hair, the eyes, the lip, the , the ass, the leg.

00:30:26And she got, you know, the waist.

00:30:28You know, like, it's going to be here, going to be down, you know,

00:30:31like a guitar kind of style, you know.

00:30:33That's made me a little crazy.

00:30:43I have a strong feeling for Sophie,

00:30:45and I really, really want a relationship with her.

00:30:48She has very kind heart.

00:30:49She has the full package.

00:31:03When I met Chantel, I told her my life was set for forever.

00:31:07And then, you know, everything went to the drain.

00:31:13Ah!

00:31:15Hey, you!

00:31:15Ah!

00:31:17Baby!

00:31:21Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard

00:31:24and moved to the United States for love.

00:31:26Hello, my baby.

00:31:31But Chantel's family caused so much drama.

00:31:33They went freaking crazy.

00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey.

00:31:35What'd you say ?

00:31:36I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect, and nobody else.

00:31:40Let's go!

00:31:41Hey!

00:31:42Hey!

00:31:43Hey!

00:31:44Hey!

00:31:45Hey!

00:31:48Hey!

00:31:50Hey!

00:32:00Hey!

00:32:04Hey!

00:32:05Hey!

00:32:06Hey!

00:32:07Hey!

00:32:09Hey!

00:32:12Hey!

00:32:18All right, this is a plan to play.

00:32:21Dad, you already know?

00:32:22OK.

00:32:23Give him a little kiss.

00:32:25We'll see you there.

00:32:30You're doing good tonight.

00:32:33You're doing great.

00:32:34It's a big night.

00:32:37OK.

00:32:39All was good.

00:32:41Now let's go down.

00:32:44Let's go, little Bobby.

00:32:47It's been a long time.

00:32:48I never thought that this is going to be my life.

00:32:51The fact that I'm 30 years old, not a kid, you know,

00:32:55it made me feel a little devastated.

00:32:58We have to be nice and clean.

00:33:01What you never know.

00:33:03I want the type of life that everyone's dreaming about.

00:33:06I want my wife.

00:33:07I want the house.

00:33:08I want the kid.

00:33:10Maybe if we love it, we get some.

00:33:13If not, we try again.

00:33:17I want to show Sophie the time of her life in the yard.

00:33:20And I hope at the end of the street,

00:33:22we can be a relationship forever.

00:33:25OK.

00:33:26Yeah.

00:33:28We're ready.

00:33:38Are you ready to meet Kimberly?

00:33:43She has the biggest heart, and she loves Cass.

00:33:52Who's that beauty?

00:33:54Who's that beast?

00:33:55Dirty mouth, the conscience clean.

00:33:57All in one, a king and queen.

00:33:59Who's she?

00:34:00I'ma submit.

00:34:02That's me.

00:34:04I know what I bring to the table.

00:34:06I got my plate.

00:34:07I'm willing and able to make my own bread and eat it all alone.

00:34:12That's me.

00:34:13Hi.

00:34:13How was everything?

00:34:14It was great.

00:34:15Thank you so much.

00:34:16I'm going to go ahead and get you checked out.

00:34:18Have a great day, OK?

00:34:19Thank you so much.

00:34:20Bye.

00:34:21For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor in a hotel casino.

00:34:27Ooh, it's closing time.

00:34:28I really like it.

00:34:30I like scheduling.

00:34:31I like keeping things organized.

00:34:33And I think I get that from my military training,

00:34:36because you have to be organized when you're in the military.

00:34:39Are you almost done?

00:34:41We got to go.

00:34:42It's girls' night.

00:34:43Yeah, I just got to clean up this stuff and then fold the towels and put them away.

00:34:46Lily's my closest work friend.

00:34:48And I love the fact that, like, I can confide in her about things.

00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.

00:34:54I haven't been out in a while, so I think it'll do me a lot of good.

00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are going to meet some of our other friends.

00:35:00And we're just going to have a little ladies' night.

00:35:03I really wasn't a part of the planning, but I'm just down for whatever at this point.

00:35:07So if you see any guys tonight, you're going to try to talk to them?

00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.

00:35:13Really?

00:35:14How'd that go?

00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.

00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?

00:35:22No.

00:35:24But that's a different story.

00:35:27I don't know.

00:35:28I just feel like I'm not going to just settle for anything less than I deserve.

00:35:32You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.

00:35:35Yeah.

00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.

00:35:40No more 18 years younger than me.

00:35:42No.

00:35:42Yeah, you're going to need someone to match your vibe.

00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.

00:35:46Like, I've never had that.

00:35:48And I really need to feel that love, like, once before I die.

00:35:53Kim says that she's never experienced love.

00:35:57It hurts me as a friend because, you know, she's been through so much in her life that she does

00:36:02deserve to find love.

00:36:04Not someone who's going to try to take advantage or use her.

00:36:07She's a beautiful person.

00:36:09So I believe she should find someone who is going to cherish her and treat her like a queen.

00:36:14All right, let's go.

00:36:33Let's go.

00:36:33Hi.

00:36:34Hi.

00:36:35Hi.

00:36:36We love you.

00:36:37We love you.

00:36:38We love you.

00:36:40Mwah.

00:36:41Hi, girl.

00:36:42What are we doing?

00:36:43What are we doing?

00:36:44Sit down.

00:36:45What the is it?

00:36:46Pitch a friend.

00:36:46Just chill out.

00:36:48What is it?

00:36:49We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.

00:36:57The group chat was not talking about this.

00:37:00Just calm down.

00:37:02We got you.

00:37:03You knew about that.

00:37:04I did.

00:37:05I knew.

00:37:05She's in on it.

00:37:07I hate you.

00:37:08Uh-oh.

00:37:09Uh-oh.

00:37:10Oh, no.

00:37:11Here we go.

00:37:12Here's the noise and you can hear me.

00:37:17Welcome, welcome to Pitch Up, friend.

00:37:21All right, so we are going to have some of San Diego's finest wing men and wing women

00:37:26on this very stage pitching their wonderful single friends with a PowerPoint presentation

00:37:32so that you know who is available and looking for love in this room tonight.

00:37:38Give it up.

00:37:41Give it up.

00:37:42Give it up.

00:37:43Give it up.

00:37:44Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.

00:37:48However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.

00:37:52And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.

00:37:56We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes, bullet points about different things

00:38:03that we love about her.

00:38:05And who knows?

00:38:06Magic could happen.

00:38:08All right.

00:38:09Let's get started in Pitch Up Friends, starting with Rachel pitching.

00:38:14Alex!

00:38:16So I am introducing my friend Alex.

00:38:20He just celebrated his 42nd birthday.

00:38:23Oh, he's 42.

00:38:25And he went for us to 42.

00:38:28What do you think?

00:38:29Yeah.

00:38:30Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?

00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?

00:38:34You have a strong line.

00:38:36Standards.

00:38:37Okay.

00:38:39Boundaries.

00:38:40Alex, come on up here.

00:38:44Questions for Alex.

00:38:47Question.

00:38:49Alex.

00:38:50Yes.

00:38:51Do you like older women?

00:38:55I don't discriminate whatsoever at 1910.

00:38:58Okay.

00:38:59Give it up for Alex!

00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.

00:39:05We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!

00:39:09Woo!

00:39:12I don't know what they're going to say.

00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings and my 55-year-old

00:39:19ass is going to be on this damn screen.

00:39:21Why the am I here?

00:39:23I'm so nervous now.

00:39:25I'm sweating.

00:39:26Are you ready to meet Kimberly, the most authentic, funny military vet, yo?

00:39:38She has the biggest heart, and she loves her son, Jamal.

00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world, cats.

00:39:51Her cats.

00:39:52You have to love cats.

00:39:54If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no, you cannot date him.

00:40:00Cannot date him.

00:40:01They sleep in.

00:40:03Okay, could we have picked better pictures of Kim, first of all?

00:40:07Could we have said not so much about the cats?

00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.

00:40:12Kind of true, but, you know.

00:40:15Questions for Kimberly.

00:40:16Raise your hand.

00:40:18Well, hello.

00:40:20Unfortunately, I'm under 55.

00:40:22Damn it.

00:40:23I just want to say thank you for your service.

00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.

00:40:26Thank you so much.

00:40:29So embarrassing.

00:40:30More questions for Kimberly.

00:40:33Um, hey, my dad lives in New York.

00:40:37Have you dated a man that is far away?

00:40:40I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria, so why would I not go to New York?

00:40:45Why the not?

00:40:48This girl wants me to date her dad, and all the other guys here are like 20.

00:40:54I know my friends want me to find a man, and I know they have the best intentions, but this

00:41:00crowd is just making me feel hella old.

00:41:03Next up, we've got the Isabelle Bitchin' Moments!

00:41:08Okay, so what are we going to do?

00:41:09Do you want me?

00:41:10I don't like you.

00:41:11I'm good.

00:41:12But I love you guys.

00:41:13I appreciate it.

00:41:14I do appreciate it.

00:41:15That was amazing, right?

00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.

00:41:21Oh, yep.

00:41:21I gotta go.

00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.

00:41:23What?

00:41:25What?

00:41:26What?

00:41:27I have plans to hook up right now.

00:41:31Oh!

00:41:32Wait, wait.

00:41:34So, like, a booty call.

00:41:36A booty call, yeah.

00:41:39People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.

00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.

00:41:43But I like to have sex.

00:41:46I like to lay in bed with somebody.

00:41:47I like to have orgasms.

00:41:49Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.

00:41:52I'm like, hello?

00:41:53Come to Kim.

00:41:54You guys remember B, right?

00:41:58I'm going to f*** them.

00:42:00Oh-ho!

00:42:01Whoa!

00:42:16This is a great deal.

00:42:18Two for five.

00:42:18How can you beat that?

00:42:19I mean, I am budget conscious.

00:42:21And some girls will hate it and say,

00:42:23why are you being so cheap?

00:42:25So if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman that is all about value,

00:42:29we're going to get along at the grocery store.

00:42:42Hey.

00:42:42Excuse me.

00:42:43Hi.

00:42:43Do you, uh, know where the package meat is at?

00:42:48Like, hamburger?

00:42:49Yeah.

00:42:49It's going to be down here on the left.

00:42:51All the way down?

00:42:52All the way down?

00:42:52Uh-huh.

00:42:53I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife was vegan.

00:42:57Oh.

00:42:58And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store and buy meat because she's vegan.

00:43:04Yeah.

00:43:04You know, but now that I'm single, I mean, it's no problem.

00:43:09I feel so happy.

00:43:10You know what I'm saying.

00:43:11Yeah.

00:43:12A little ball and chain.

00:43:14Ball and chain, right.

00:43:15But thanks a lot.

00:43:16Nice talking to you.

00:43:18Sure.

00:43:18Enjoy your meat.

00:43:19Things are really looking positive nowadays.

00:43:22I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.

00:43:24I have the freedom to do anything I want and be who I really am.

00:43:29Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge,

00:43:35I have the freedom to do that now.

00:43:38Hmm.

00:43:38I think this will work.

00:43:42Take that, Jess.

00:43:44The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.

00:43:48I had a lot of fun at the singles event playing kickball.

00:43:52But maybe not the best situation, like, to find a date.

00:43:58In person, you know, I might be a little bit too anxious.

00:44:02So I've been posting more things on my social media nowadays.

00:44:07It lets me curate the image I want women to have in me.

00:44:12It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone.

00:44:15If I know this person is already interested in me, check this out.

00:44:21I posted a picture today of me working out.

00:44:25This woman says, sexy man.

00:44:28I definitely would not be able to go with you because I'll be looking at you instead of the trainer

00:44:35while I'm drawing.

00:44:41I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately.

00:44:45And I love it.

00:44:46I freaking love it.

00:44:49Oh, someone's messaging me.

00:44:54Who is it?

00:44:56Natalie's replying to my workout post and she says, great job.

00:45:01She's proud of me.

00:45:03Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.

00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.

00:45:13So are you.

00:45:14And you're just so adorable too.

00:45:17Look at your smile.

00:45:18It's so cute.

00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.

00:45:22I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.

00:45:26But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.

00:45:32Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?

00:45:35Oh, really?

00:45:36You should watch her.

00:45:38Don't touch her.

00:45:39Don't touch her.

00:45:40Relax.

00:45:41Relax.

00:45:41No.

00:45:42No.

00:45:42Listen.

00:45:44Get off me.

00:45:46We didn't talk for almost a year.

00:45:49And then Natalie and I, we reconnected at the happily ever after tele.

00:45:54And we've been texting each other ever since.

00:45:57Yeah.

00:45:58I responded to her, but I added some emojis to it.

00:46:01Like the heart emoji and the heart head with the three hearts around the head.

00:46:07You know, I want to get her attention.

00:46:08Like, hey, you know, I'm still interested in you.

00:46:13I still like Natalie a lot.

00:46:14So I asked her if I could visit her next week.

00:46:18And she said, yes.

00:46:20You know, this is soft.

00:46:22I mean, it's exactly how I like my women.

00:46:25Soft.

00:46:26This is my chance to build a relationship with her.

00:46:30But after everything that's happened, it's going to take a lot of work.

00:46:34I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie.

00:46:38Like with actions, not just words.

00:46:40I know it's my last shot and I cannot mess it up.

00:46:44Now that I could post on my Instagram.

00:46:46That big ass cucumber.

00:46:51Hello?

00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with.

00:46:56Oh!

00:46:57Candle in the car.

00:46:59The van alone, cute.

00:47:01But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.

00:47:04He's coming on very strong.

00:47:05Ah!

00:47:06It's Pedro.

00:47:07He has an ink in his hands.

00:47:16They call me fuego, they call me fire.

00:47:18They call me all that you desire.

00:47:20They call me fuego, they call me fire.

00:47:23They call me all that you desire.

00:47:25They call me fuego.

00:47:28This is my first night in the VR.

00:47:31And I am going out with Sophie and Julián.

00:47:34And we are actually going to go meet Pedro.

00:47:38I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends.

00:47:41So I'm super excited right now.

00:47:50I need to get a spark back in my life.

00:47:54I live in Washington.

00:47:56It's always gloomy.

00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine.

00:48:00And it can be very depressing at times.

00:48:03So when Sophie planned a girls trip, I was all about it.

00:48:08I need sun kisses from head to toe.

00:48:11I am really excited.

00:48:13I want to get dressed up.

00:48:13I want to go out.

00:48:14I want to meet people.

00:48:15I want to mingle.

00:48:16I want to flirt.

00:48:16And I want to feel sexy.

00:48:19I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship.

00:48:22And looking back, I've never picked the right guy.

00:48:25And I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.

00:48:31I think you're amazing.

00:48:33And I want to ask you out on a date.

00:48:36One of my last relationships was Ed.

00:48:39It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face.

00:48:42But, um...

00:48:42It took me a while to get used to you.

00:48:45Burn!

00:48:46We were kind of always a hot mess.

00:48:48Hi, go yourself.

00:48:50Bye.

00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz.

00:48:52You are out of control, you drunk.

00:48:54Shut the up.

00:48:56You don't give a , Ed.

00:48:58But despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed.

00:49:03And always wanted to make it work.

00:49:05Will you marry me?

00:49:10But then Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.

00:49:14You're going to be the best person of yourself.

00:49:16And it's not going to be with me.

00:49:19Liz, rest assured, I'm always going to be an asshole.

00:49:25Then came Jason.

00:49:27You're in the past.

00:49:28We're going to move forward.

00:49:29Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.

00:49:32Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.

00:49:34Four months into dating Jason, I found out that he had another girlfriend that he was dating for a year.

00:49:40And then the time that I needed him to step up and be there for me the most.

00:49:45Like, he didn't.

00:49:46He couldn't.

00:49:48A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason, I didn't get the best news.

00:49:55I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.

00:49:59It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer, which I actually found out through a miscarriage that Jason

00:50:07and I had.

00:50:09And I'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch.

00:50:13Me being sick, but...

00:50:18I think I can touch it.

00:50:25Being sick took a huge toll on me.

00:50:28But I also know that I'm going to overcome it.

00:50:31I'm really hopeful about my future.

00:50:34I don't want to waste any moment.

00:50:38I want to live my life.

00:50:41And I really do want to find love again.

00:50:45Girls night!

00:50:47I deserve the best.

00:50:49And I've definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else.

00:50:53I bet you're missing me now.

00:51:01You are my soul!

00:51:03I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.

00:51:06Really?

00:51:07Yeah.

00:51:07Mine was like two days before this trailer.

00:51:10It's my first night in the DR and I have my girls with me, but I'm also really looking forward

00:51:15to just spending some time with Pedro.

00:51:16Hello?

00:51:17Oh my gosh.

00:51:19Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the DR and get around with, which

00:51:24I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.

00:51:25Bye.

00:51:27Hello!

00:51:29Oh!

00:51:33Oh my God!

00:51:35Oh my goodness!

00:51:37Oh my goodness!

00:51:38Okay, should I hop in the back?

00:51:39I'm sorry, that is like candle in the car!

00:51:45Candle in the car!

00:51:47The van alone, cute.

00:51:49But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed and I just feel like he's coming on very strong.

00:51:55I feel like that is welcome to his country.

00:51:58I don't think that's too much.

00:52:00It's nice.

00:52:00Candle in the car, okay.

00:52:02Candle in the car is blowing my mind.

00:52:05Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?

00:52:09No, it's really cute.

00:52:11It's cute.

00:52:11It is cute.

00:52:12It is cute.

00:52:15Did he do the bowl as well?

00:52:18Pedro put this in more than a sexy vibe, but he forgot we will be there too.

00:52:23It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.

00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.

00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.

00:52:30I speak Julia language.

00:52:32Yeah.

00:52:33Let's chill later.

00:52:34Yeah.

00:52:35Do you wanna kiss him?

00:52:36Yeah.

00:52:37If he goes in for like a...

00:52:38Well yeah, we haven't done anything yet.

00:52:40You know, so it's like, I'm gonna hug him.

00:52:42Do we keep the tequila out of your hands or do we put it in your hands?

00:52:45Put it in my hands.

00:52:46Okay.

00:52:47In my hands.

00:52:56Let's go.

00:52:57Let's dance homage.

00:52:59Honey, I don't know if I can make it long.

00:53:03Cause I'll be watching you while a DJ plays your song.

00:53:08It's been two and a half months the last time I saw Sophie.

00:53:10I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.

00:53:14Maybe you could show me.

00:53:16Cause I've been waiting so long.

00:53:22Ah!

00:53:23It's Pedro!

00:53:24Where is he?

00:53:24He has a ring in his hands.

00:53:26Shut up.

00:53:27He has a ring of flowers and the red carpet.

00:53:30He's even dying on the phone.

00:53:35You got this, girl.

00:53:39Wow!

00:53:42You look good.

00:53:44How are you?

00:53:45How you been?

00:53:45I'm good. How are you?

00:53:46How about the fly?

00:53:47It's long. It's okay.

00:53:50She looked...

00:53:52like...

00:53:52stunning.

00:53:53She looked stunning.

00:53:55Oh...

00:53:55The hug that she gave me was very awkward.

00:53:58Hug like a brother!

00:53:59She hug me like a...

00:54:01like a...

00:54:02like a side hug.

00:54:03You're welcome.

00:54:03Like...

00:54:05Even the baseball, they give you a little spanky.

00:54:07Oh!

00:54:08Good job, boy.

00:54:09Bam!

00:54:12Introduce Miss to you.

00:54:13Oh, yeah.

00:54:14That's...

00:54:15Oh, hey!

00:54:18How's it going?

00:54:19How's it going?

00:54:20How's it going?

00:54:21That's the first time I met Julia.

00:54:22And then she hugged me with so much sighting like,

00:54:24God damn it.

00:54:25Like, Sophie, come on.

00:54:27Get Julia's energy, please.

00:54:28You love it?

00:54:29I'm ready to be here.

00:54:31Nice to meet you.

00:54:32Liz.

00:54:33Okay, ladies.

00:54:34Uh, we're going to go out there to the rooftop.

00:54:37You're going to meet my friends.

00:54:38Enjoy the night.

00:54:40Follow me, ladies.

00:54:41Okay, which way should we go?

00:54:41How you doing?

00:54:43Very good.

00:54:43How are you?

00:54:44Good, good, good.

00:54:45Do this one?

00:54:46Yeah, please.

00:54:56Good, good, good.

00:54:57Good.

00:54:59Good.

00:55:00Good.

00:55:01All right, guys, let me introduce you.

00:55:02That's my friend Villas.

00:55:04Good.

00:55:04Ali, Ernestis, Raphael, okay,

00:55:08she's Sophie, Julia, and Liz.

00:55:12Oh, yeah, nice to meet you.

00:55:14Question, how was the band?

00:55:16Was it good?

00:55:17Yeah, yeah, it was here.

00:55:18Good job, guys.

00:55:19They helped me.

00:55:20Oh, yeah, it was so good for you.

00:55:23I can tell Pedro's very excited

00:55:25for all his friends to meet me,

00:55:29which, it's nice.

00:55:30But it feels like I'm, like, walking in

00:55:32to, like, a job interview, or, like,

00:55:34I'm supposed to give a speech or something,

00:55:35because they were just sat there like this at me.

00:55:39Okay.

00:55:40Hey, should we sit?

00:55:41Ah, let me...

00:55:45I already feel like there's expectation of me,

00:55:48and I'm kind of brought here as Pedro's girlfriend.

00:55:52It's just kind of freaking me out a little bit.

00:55:57One, three.

00:55:58Let's just go, please.

00:55:59We're just gonna go to the bathroom real quick.

00:56:00Okay, go to the bathroom.

00:56:01You know where the bathroom at?

00:56:03We'll find it.

00:56:05Huh?

00:56:05We'll find it.

00:56:09We'll find it.

00:56:12That's...

00:56:14That energy, bro.

00:56:15I don't know.

00:56:16What's life?

00:56:17I don't know.

00:56:18I don't know.

00:56:19I don't know.

00:56:20I don't know.

00:56:21What's very awkward?

00:56:23I'm excited that stuff is here,

00:56:25but right now, it's feel cold, indifference, weird.

00:56:30You know, like, awkward.

00:56:34So feel entirely different person than I met before.

00:56:40Sexually, he is good.

00:56:42He's great with me.

00:56:43And his is big, so there you go.

00:56:45Ow!

00:56:46Even though I'm in my 50s, I still have urges.

00:56:49I still have needs.

00:56:53Ooh.

00:57:07I have plans to hook up right now.

00:57:10Oh-oh!

00:57:12Whoa!

00:57:13Oh, wait!

00:57:14I'm feeling too fly.

00:57:16Yeah.

00:57:17I've been going way up.

00:57:18Yeah.

00:57:19Give me my paper.

00:57:20Cause you already know.

00:57:21Wait.

00:57:22Wait.

00:57:23So, like, a booty call.

00:57:26A booty call.

00:57:27Yeah.

00:57:28So, a booty call is when you're not in a relationship,

00:57:31and you just meet up with one of your little friends,

00:57:34and, you know, you have some drinky drinks,

00:57:36and then do the deed, and then you just go home.

00:57:40Even though I'm in my 50s, I still have urges.

00:57:43I still have needs.

00:57:44And it, like, gets the needs met.

00:57:47You know what?

00:57:47It's a step in the right direction.

00:57:50Why not?

00:57:51I'm meeting up with Benjamin, or as everybody calls him, B.

00:57:55He's a really good friend of mine,

00:57:56and I dated him for about six months before I met Usman.

00:58:00Once Usman and I broke up, and he knew it,

00:58:03he just slid right in the DMs,

00:58:05and we've been banging it out ever since.

00:58:10It's tricky with me and B, because the connection is there.

00:58:13Like, you can feel it, you know?

00:58:15But he's just a friend with benefits.

00:58:16Like, I just don't feel like we're at that point

00:58:19to make it a relationship.

00:58:21When B and I tried to date, like, five, six years ago,

00:58:25we were doing pretty good.

00:58:26We have a lot of things in common.

00:58:28And then about six months in, B hit me up with,

00:58:31he wanted to be, like, in a thropple.

00:58:33He wanted me to have sex with the woman.

00:58:36And I was just like, are you high?

00:58:38No, I'm not doing that.

00:58:40He was very free-spirited back then, and Kim was not.

00:58:43Sexually, B is, he's good.

00:58:45He's great with me.

00:58:46And his is big, so there you go.

00:58:48Huh?

00:58:49You had that with Usman, though.

00:58:50It was the same thing.

00:58:51You had the connection, but there was all these other red flags.

00:58:54That's how I feel, and I don't want the red flags.

00:58:56So, being a woman of a certain age that we all are,

00:59:03it is refreshing for me to see her having a little bit of a ho phase.

00:59:12You know what?

00:59:13I'm all for that.

00:59:14Are you for that?

00:59:14Yeah, I think she, I mean...

00:59:16Get it out of her system for a little bit

00:59:17until she finds the right one.

00:59:19Friends with benefits, whatever they have is a good connection.

00:59:22I'm down for it.

00:59:23Yeah.

00:59:23Okay, love you.

00:59:24I love you.

00:59:26But we want her to find somebody that is truly special

00:59:30and truly someone that she can fall in love with, and that loves her.

00:59:34True.

00:59:35He ain't the one.

00:59:36No.

00:59:36But for tonight, he is the one.

00:59:45Be and I have been hooking up every couple weeks in some really nice hotels

00:59:49because he has roommates, and with my house, I never know if Jamal is going to show up or not.

00:59:59At first it was a little inconvenient, but I have to tell you, like, hotel sex is kind

01:00:02of hot.

01:00:03Nice hotel sex.

01:00:13Ooh.

01:00:14Ooh.

01:00:15Yeah.

01:00:17Come on in.

01:00:18I've been waiting to see you.

01:00:22It's good to see you, Michelle.

01:00:24I know.

01:00:25I know.

01:00:25Hell yeah.

01:00:26Come on in.

01:00:27Come on in.

01:00:27I know, right?

01:00:29So much nicer than those old hotels we used to get.

01:00:32Uh-uh.

01:00:33I know.

01:00:33Man.

01:00:34Back in the day.

01:00:35Isn't that crazy?

01:00:36Absolutely.

01:00:37Look at us now.

01:00:37You look beautiful, as usual.

01:00:39I try.

01:00:40My name is Benjamin, but everybody calls me B because I'm like the bumblebee.

01:00:46I'll always be buzzing around, and you never know where I'll land at.

01:00:50This is a good bed.

01:00:51This is nice.

01:00:52Look at that.

01:00:53Look at the big bed.

01:00:54This is a big bed.

01:00:55The reason why me and Kim keep coming back to each other is definitely because of the friendship

01:00:59that we have together.

01:01:00She's somebody I'd definitely like.

01:01:03I rock with.

01:01:05So I went to this dating event thing.

01:01:08Today?

01:01:08Yeah.

01:01:09See, this is why I love you, because we can talk about this stuff, right?

01:01:12Of course.

01:01:13So it was Laura and Jody and my friend Lily.

01:01:15Right.

01:01:16And they pitched me, so it was called Pitch a Friend.

01:01:19It was a slideshow presentation about-

01:01:21Like a real slideshow?

01:01:23Yes.

01:01:23Like with pictures?

01:01:24Yeah, of me.

01:01:25And then my likes and dislikes and all this stuff.

01:01:28Wow.

01:01:28It was cool.

01:01:29It was very touching, but it just was not my thing.

01:01:32Sometimes I tell B about me like meeting other guys or like this whole Pitch a Friend thing,

01:01:36because I want to see what he's going to say.

01:01:38Like, don't do that.

01:01:40Let me try to be your man.

01:01:41B and I are good together, and I know he sees it.

01:01:43And I was kind of hoping that with age that B would like, you know, calm it down a little

01:01:48bit with the sexcapades and want to be in a monogamous relationship.

01:01:52We've known each other forever.

01:01:54Yeah, I miss you so much.

01:01:55I miss you too.

01:01:56Like, we're cool.

01:01:57Like, we're friends with benefits now, and I love that.

01:01:59Mm-hmm.

01:01:59But like, I'd like maybe to see it grow to see what else it could be.

01:02:04We've always talked about it, you know?

01:02:06And the only way we're going to find that out is with more time.

01:02:09Mm-hmm.

01:02:10We should plan like once every two weeks.

01:02:14When we can.

01:02:17You haven't even been to my house yet.

01:02:19No, but I'm...

01:02:19It's so crazy.

01:02:20I'm coming.

01:02:26Yeah.

01:02:27Okay.

01:02:28I am tired, and I just want to go take a shower.

01:02:30Is that okay?

01:02:31Yeah, of course.

01:02:32Okay.

01:02:33I'll give you a massage once I get out of the shower.

01:02:36So...

01:02:36I'm just...

01:02:37I'm just...

01:02:38Baby, baby, please.

01:02:40Baby, baby, baby, baby, please.

01:02:41What?

01:02:42Can...

01:02:42Can you show me like what that...

01:02:44What my dad...

01:02:45Yes.

01:02:45That might feel like?

01:02:46Yes.

01:02:46Let's go.

01:02:47Let me see.

01:02:47Ooh.

01:02:48Let me see.

01:02:50I have good hair.

01:02:52I love B to death, and I would love to be in a relationship with him.

01:02:55And I'm putting out the vibe, but he is not picking up what Kim is putting down.

01:02:59So...

01:03:00I mean, where do we go from here?

01:03:02Ooh.

01:03:02Dang, girl.

01:03:04I'm gonna go take a shower.

01:03:05I don't want to be shuffling with my walker up to a hotel room when I'm 80 years old.

01:03:10I just want more for myself.

01:03:12So if B doesn't step up soon, I mean, this whole relationship is gonna have an expiration date.

01:03:17I'm not gonna keep waiting.

01:03:22I'm not gonna keep waiting.

01:03:23Traveling today to see Natalie again.

01:03:25God, aren't these sexy?

01:03:27I mean, holy cow.

01:03:28Wow.

01:03:28I hope she gives me a second chance.

01:03:31And more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.

01:03:44You know I work it, work it, cause I'm gonna earn it, earn it.

01:03:51Why are you packing up shampoo?

01:03:53Well, I gotta wash the hair, right?

01:03:55The little hair that I have, the patch of hair on the back of my head.

01:03:59I shampoo it.

01:04:00I condition it.

01:04:01I take very good care of it.

01:04:03That's the only hair I got left on my head.

01:04:06I've got a good thing going and I'll never slow them down.

01:04:17I want to look good for Natalie, you know, so I bought a couple of new shirts.

01:04:23Hopefully she'll like them.

01:04:25I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie.

01:04:28They're colorful, that's for sure.

01:04:33Definitely colorful.

01:04:35I visited Natalie in Vegas previously because that's where her home's at.

01:04:40This time, I'm gonna travel to DC because she's currently working remotely there.

01:04:45God, aren't these sexy?

01:04:47I mean, holy cow, that's some sexy ass underwear right here.

01:04:51A lot of our talks through text and such has been a lot of small talk, to be honest.

01:04:57And hasn't been very deep.

01:05:00So I really, really don't know how Natalie feels about me.

01:05:05But I don't think she would invite me to her apartment if she didn't have any feelings for me.

01:05:12I don't need my little blue pills and I'm not packing any because the little blue pills I need for

01:05:19someone that is ugly on the inside and a constant bitch.

01:05:24Then I need something to pump me up.

01:05:26But Natalie is a different story because just her personality and attitude, the way she is, I'm gonna get it

01:05:33up, man.

01:05:35All right, I think we got it.

01:05:39Woohoo!

01:05:43I'm in the thrift store, wondering what to do with my life.

01:05:47Then through the back door, and she comes sharp as the night.

01:05:51Time to board. I'll see you soon, Natalie.

01:05:54I've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the last two years.

01:05:59So trying to put myself out there again, it's not easy.

01:06:03Woohoo!

01:06:07But there's not many times that you can get a second chance.

01:06:11And especially with a woman that's high quality, like Natalie is.

01:06:23Good morning.

01:06:24Good morning. How are you?

01:06:27Doing great. Doing great. My first time in Washington, D.C.

01:06:30I'm excited.

01:06:31Excited. I hope you enjoy your stay.

01:06:33I'm so excited to be here to see who I'm meeting today.

01:06:37Natalie, on top of her having a great personality and caring and fun and kind,

01:06:43she is a hot, sexy, passionate Latina, let me tell you.

01:06:47She's on fire, man.

01:06:48She's on fire, baby.

01:06:53Oh, is this it?

01:06:54Yeah, this is it.

01:06:57I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office.

01:07:00The plan is to catch up a little and then go check out her apartment.

01:07:17How are you feeling?

01:07:19Well, I'm super excited to see her and hang out with her.

01:07:24But I have some nervousness. It's a little nerve-wracking.

01:07:32My heart's racing a bit.

01:07:35That's what Natalie does to me.

01:07:48I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance.

01:07:51But more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.

01:07:55Hey!

01:07:59What is your name again?

01:08:01Via.

01:08:01Via?

01:08:02Yeah, it's nice to meet you.

01:08:02Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?

01:08:04No, there you go, there you go.

01:08:07Via is very good looking and he smells expensive.

01:08:14Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, he would still be mad.

01:08:18Any hookahs with him?

01:08:20I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants.

01:08:24What the are we doing here?

01:08:36How do you feel right now?

01:08:38I don't know why his energy just gives me, like, I just feel like in his head we're in a

01:08:43relationship.

01:08:43Like, if you ask him, I feel like he's like, yeah, that's my girl.

01:08:48Uh-huh.

01:08:55They take a long time in the restroom. What are they doing?

01:08:59Nobody tell you, you can have fun.

01:09:02Just have fun.

01:09:03I feel like he won't let me have fun now.

01:09:06Like, now he's gonna feel like she's in my country, she's meeting my friends.

01:09:11Like, I feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong vibe.

01:09:13You should loosen up a little bit with a couple drinks and you'll be good.

01:09:18That's just how it goes.

01:09:20It'll be a good night.

01:09:21Yeah.

01:09:22You know what?

01:09:22Help me meet my man.

01:09:25Kitty's thirsty.

01:09:28Me and the girls just arrived at the club to meet Pedro and his friends,

01:09:31and it's a very overwhelming environment.

01:09:34Sorry, uh, you can't sit down.

01:09:37Um, uh, you can't sit over here, Sophie.

01:09:40I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van,

01:09:42and now I just feel like he's thinking this is my girlfriend,

01:09:45she's meeting all my friends,

01:09:46and it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before.

01:09:49Which, that's what I loved before, it was so easy going,

01:09:51and this feels a little bit, a little bit pressure.

01:09:55Lisa, I'm going to introduce you to my friend, Villa.

01:09:58What is your name again?

01:09:59Villa.

01:09:59Villa?

01:10:00Yeah, it's nice to meet you.

01:10:01Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?

01:10:02No, I don't even know what we're doing.

01:10:05No, there we go, there we go.

01:10:08Villa is very good looking.

01:10:11He's very well groomed, like, his haircut's on point,

01:10:15and he smells really good.

01:10:17He smells expensive.

01:10:20Cheers, thank you for inviting us all.

01:10:23Okay, ladies, let's go.

01:10:25Arriba!

01:10:26Arriba!

01:10:28Abajo!

01:10:29Pal centro!

01:10:30Abadentro!

01:10:32There we go.

01:10:32That's fair.

01:10:33Ah!

01:10:35That's it?

01:10:35Machata BJ!

01:10:37You dance?

01:10:38Yes!

01:10:38That's what our videos look like.

01:10:40One, five, two.

01:10:46There, you got it!

01:10:53As we're dancing,

01:10:54I can tell we're both very attracted to each other.

01:10:56Get close, get close, get close to me.

01:10:59No, get close to me.

01:11:00No worries.

01:11:02He just smells really good, he dresses well,

01:11:04and he's just hot.

01:11:06But even though I'm attracted to him,

01:11:07I don't want to, like, be all over him the first night

01:11:10and lead him on,

01:11:11because I still don't really know what I want yet.

01:11:15So you've never danced bachata before?

01:11:17I was trying to sign up for bachata lessons while I'm out here.

01:11:19It's so easy.

01:11:20I can teach you that.

01:11:21Okay.

01:11:24We can start here, right?

01:11:26So it's one, two, three.

01:11:29Oh, you do know!

01:11:33One, two.

01:11:34One, two.

01:11:35One, two.

01:11:36And bam, bam, bam, bam, bam!

01:11:43You lied to me.

01:11:44You said she didn't know.

01:11:46She said she was going to take classes.

01:11:47One last day.

01:11:49No.

01:11:53Let's go over here better.

01:11:56Everyone just left.

01:11:58That's okay.

01:12:00They needed that alone time.

01:12:01Yeah.

01:12:02You look beautiful.

01:12:03You look gorgeous.

01:12:05I'm super happy that you're here.

01:12:08Oh, yeah.

01:12:08That you take the invitation to come in here,

01:12:10to spend a little time with me.

01:12:11I know you're going to have the best time.

01:12:14I woke up and I had a pina colada for breakfast.

01:12:18Because I'm in the DR.

01:12:21Wow, that's a lot.

01:12:23You don't need classes.

01:12:25No class?

01:12:26No.

01:12:27I think Liz likes your friend.

01:12:28Yeah, look.

01:12:29Villa?

01:12:30Yeah.

01:12:32So are you from here or are you from here?

01:12:33Well, I was born in Atlanta.

01:12:36When's your birthday?

01:12:38When's your birthday?

01:12:38September.

01:12:39September?

01:12:40I'm May, baby.

01:12:41I'm a Gemini.

01:12:42You're a Gemini?

01:12:43Yeah.

01:12:44What is your size?

01:12:45I'm a Libra.

01:12:46Okay.

01:12:46I feel like us Libras are pretty well balanced,

01:12:49which is...

01:12:51Is this your only tattoo?

01:12:53Oh.

01:12:53Yeah.

01:12:53Wow.

01:12:54It's a whole sleeve.

01:12:55It's a Libra.

01:12:56So a woman with the blindfold and the scale.

01:13:01What's this?

01:13:02Oh, it's my son's name.

01:13:04I have a kid.

01:13:08Riley Leanne.

01:13:09You have a kid?

01:13:10Yeah.

01:13:10Really?

01:13:11She's gonna be 12.

01:13:13You have a 12-year-old?

01:13:14Yeah.

01:13:15My baby means everything to me.

01:13:16Same.

01:13:17Yeah.

01:13:17Same.

01:13:17He is my reason for everything.

01:13:20Definitely.

01:13:22Oh.

01:13:23I'm feeling butterflies talking to Villa.

01:13:26He'll be eight in July.

01:13:27He's sweet.

01:13:28He loves his kid.

01:13:30He's making eye contact with me.

01:13:32We're having great conversation.

01:13:35I think we need a drink to that.

01:13:36I think we need a shot.

01:13:39Is your friend a hoe?

01:13:40He is?

01:13:42I know.

01:13:43He is a hoe.

01:13:44It's okay.

01:13:45This isn't her single era.

01:13:47So this is her time to just, like, live her life a little bit.

01:13:50Same with me.

01:13:51I'm not in a toxic relationship.

01:13:53You're separated right now.

01:13:54Are you still married?

01:13:55Are you divorced?

01:13:58How, how, how that goes?

01:14:00Like, I'm still suddenly married, but I'm, like, started the process of divorce.

01:14:05How far you are then?

01:14:09Like, just now.

01:14:11So it's very new.

01:14:13It never really felt like it was the end because he would still call me.

01:14:17He still called you?

01:14:18He called me two days ago, four in the morning.

01:14:20For what?

01:14:21It was an unknown number, so I have me blocked.

01:14:23And he was like, why do you have me blocked?

01:14:24I'm like, we're getting divorced.

01:14:28Why, why are you so upset with you?

01:14:30Like, why are you not going to move on?

01:14:31Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, he would still be mad.

01:14:35I thought that Sophie and her husband divorced was more fired alone.

01:14:40Because she tell me he was the worst husband.

01:14:44That he, he made her, like, miserable all the time.

01:14:48If that guy threw you that bad, why you get the phone calls and answer the phone?

01:14:53Any hookers with him?

01:15:01Yeah.

01:15:03We, like, hooked up after a few months.

01:15:05Because as much as that guy was horrible to me, I still had love for him.

01:15:09When he was being nice to me, I forgot about all the bad memories.

01:15:13And so we slept together.

01:15:17They've been hookups.

01:15:18And she never told me they did hookup before.

01:15:21I am speechless.

01:15:23It's hard when you love someone.

01:15:24I can't just be like, I you.

01:15:26Bye, you know?

01:15:27Look, if you want to be with Rob, okay, be with Rob.

01:15:30Or be with everybody that you want to be.

01:15:32But I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody that don't know what it wants.

01:15:37What the we doing here?

01:15:42I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.

01:15:46You know?

01:15:47But now I have to just.

01:15:47I wish you did too.

01:15:48I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.

01:15:54I don't know.

01:15:54I don't know what I up.

01:15:56You know?

01:16:10I'm just getting home from my night with B.

01:16:13Even at 55, I'm still doing the walk of shame.

01:16:16Hey, I'm not gonna fall in your line.

01:16:21Hey, I'm a hard working woman and I do what I like.

01:16:25Hey.

01:16:26Come on, let me give you some treats.

01:16:29Hey.

01:16:29Hi, my baby.

01:16:31Here.

01:16:33Last night was pretty amazing.

01:16:35B's really good in bed, I have to say.

01:16:39And usually after a night like that, I'm feeling all zen and woosah and, you know, calm.

01:16:43But right now I'm feeling a little anxious and nervous because Jamal's coming over.

01:16:48So good to be out of those clothes.

01:16:50God.

01:16:51He thinks he's coming over here to help me build a dresser.

01:16:54But really, I have some things I need to talk to him about.

01:17:03Ding dong.

01:17:04Hey.

01:17:05What's up?

01:17:06How are you?

01:17:07Good.

01:17:08How are you?

01:17:09I'm good.

01:17:10Okay.

01:17:11So this is a dresser I want to put in my guest room.

01:17:13See?

01:17:14Is it big?

01:17:15It's...

01:17:15Look at the picture.

01:17:17Okay, here we go.

01:17:18So they go A and C, E.

01:17:21It goes like this.

01:17:22Yeah, this is E, see?

01:17:25This is so fun.

01:17:27So I went out for girls night last night with Laura, Jody, and Lily.

01:17:31You know my friend from work, Lily.

01:17:32So we went to Mavericks and they had this event called Pitch Me.

01:17:36Oh, no way.

01:17:36So they did like a presentation of like what I'm looking for in a guy.

01:17:40And all the guys were like 12, Jamal.

01:17:42They weren't even like grown, you know?

01:17:44Well, I feel like your last couple guys have been younger, so.

01:17:49My last one guy was younger.

01:17:53So, well, B's not really.

01:17:54B's 44.

01:17:56So, I mean, he's, you know.

01:17:57What's his real name?

01:17:57Benjamin.

01:17:58Oh.

01:17:59Yeah, B sounds better.

01:18:00Yeah.

01:18:00But, um, so then he texts me and I went over to a hotel with him last night.

01:18:08Sure you don't want to know about that?

01:18:09Yeah, I don't need to hear that.

01:18:13Things have been tense between me and Jamal lately.

01:18:16I've hid things from him for so long that when I told him, it just devastated him.

01:18:24As long as we're not talking about these things, Jamal and I are fine.

01:18:27But it's like everything's hidden under this carpet and I have to pull that carpet away every now and then

01:18:32and talk about it.

01:18:33But Jamal will just hang up on me.

01:18:35He won't answer a text.

01:18:36He'll walk out the house.

01:18:38It's been very uncomfortable.

01:18:42Um, you know, Larry's coming out here.

01:18:46Why is he coming out here?

01:18:48Just to see, like, you know, where I grew up at and, you know, get a little more of my

01:18:52family history.

01:18:55And I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.

01:18:59You know, but now I have to just...

01:19:00I wish you did too.

01:19:04You hid him for so long.

01:19:09I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

01:19:16I did what I thought, what I thought was right.

01:19:18Yeah, but why did you hide him for so long?

01:19:25Just give me a second.

01:19:29Jamal is not my only child.

01:19:34This is really hard for me.

01:19:42Jamal's dad and I were never married.

01:19:44Um, we were together for seven and a half years.

01:19:47We were in the military together.

01:19:49And he was just cheating all the time.

01:19:52It was just like, every day there was like a different girl.

01:19:58When I got pregnant with my first son, Larry, first thing his dad said was abort it.

01:20:04And I just couldn't do that.

01:20:06When I was only 21 years old, I couldn't imagine being a single mom.

01:20:09I was not mentally ready.

01:20:11I was starting my military career.

01:20:13I was just not ready.

01:20:14So I decided to put my son up for adoption.

01:20:17And I never told Jamal until last year, when Larry found us through an Ancestry website.

01:20:23I don't think you ever would have told me.

01:20:25I would have told you.

01:20:26I don't think so.

01:20:27And that's a huge thing for me is like, I don't think you ever would have told me.

01:20:34Because like, there was no reason to not tell me.

01:20:37I just didn't know how to say it.

01:20:39You know?

01:20:40And it's always been like me and you, me and you, me and you.

01:20:42And I finally got our relationship to where like, I've always wanted it to be, right?

01:20:47So it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret.

01:20:51I felt like in my head, I was just like, trying to protect myself and then trying to protect you

01:20:56too.

01:20:57Because I just didn't.

01:20:58Larry protecting me.

01:20:58I don't know.

01:20:59I just didn't know how to handle it.

01:21:00I didn't, I, that's, that is the complete truth.

01:21:03I did not know how to handle this at all.

01:21:06At all.

01:21:08Last year, I found out I had an older brother, full blood, mommy and dad.

01:21:15And my first thought was that she was lying.

01:21:18It was a joke or something.

01:21:22Because why would you hide this for so long when we're so close?

01:21:26And then when I found out it was true, I was just really pissed off.

01:21:29I have this whole other family and you knew about it.

01:21:32And I'm like, how could my own mom like, look me in my eyes when she knows I have a

01:21:38whole brother.

01:21:42Dude, that's just not something I'm like, even thought about forgiving yet.

01:21:47Cause I just, I just don't know who would do that.

01:21:49So I'm like, damn.

01:21:58I don't know.

01:21:59I feel like your mom's the person you're supposed to trust like only.

01:22:01Like, if you can't trust anyone else, you can trust her.

01:22:04But now it's like, wow, I can't trust anyone in the world anymore.

01:22:09Oh, I'm like shaking.

01:22:14It's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this whole thing.

01:22:17You do make a lot of excuses.

01:22:20I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.

01:22:22I don't know.

01:22:22I don't know what I up, you know?

01:22:26Like, I don't, I don't know what else to say to fix it.

01:22:30I know keeping Larry from Jamal was not the right thing to do.

01:22:34It ended up just hurting him worse.

01:22:37Jamal had every right to know that he had a brother out there.

01:22:40And now all I'm trying to do is just repair what I up.

01:22:45Last year, Jamal and I went to North Carolina to meet Larry, his wife and his son.

01:22:52Meeting Larry for the first time was like crazy because I'm looking at him.

01:22:57I'm like, OK, this is my blood.

01:22:58This is my son.

01:22:59And he has my face.

01:23:01He looks just like me, but he's a total stranger to me.

01:23:06And technically, I'm a grandma.

01:23:09It's a surreal feeling.

01:23:12But I'm so relieved because he was such a good man.

01:23:17And I don't know how he would have turned out if I would have kept him, you know?

01:23:20It makes me feel certain that I did the right thing.

01:23:25Since then, Jamal and I have been talking with Larry.

01:23:28And I invited him to San Diego so I could get to know him more and he could see where

01:23:33I'm from.

01:23:36What do you think you even want to do with Larry once he comes out here?

01:23:39Like, what's next?

01:23:39You think you're going to have like a deep talk with him?

01:23:41I have to have a deep talk with him.

01:23:43About what?

01:23:48About the other one.

01:24:04How do you think he's going to react?

01:24:06I think he's going to be pissed.

01:24:07He's going to be really upset with me.

01:24:10Hey, by the way, you have a sister like the .

01:24:16Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.

01:24:20I also had a daughter.

01:24:31This season on The Single Life.

01:24:37This is the kind of life that I want, where I can have fun with my partner.

01:24:43You're getting me all hot.

01:24:45Oh, yeah?

01:24:45This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.

01:24:49Nice to meet you.

01:24:51I'll never see you again.

01:24:53I was helping him upload something on social media and it shows me all the women he's been messaging.

01:24:59Something's fishy about this.

01:25:01Courtney's worried that I'm just going to leave or cheat or whatever one day.

01:25:04Are you still living that way, dude?

01:25:06Be honest with me.

01:25:07Well, um...

01:25:10How are you?

01:25:11A wreck.

01:25:12I'm, like, shaking.

01:25:14I didn't tell my son Larry about his sister when he first found me.

01:25:18Here, sit.

01:25:18But I want to tell him now and I'm really scared.

01:25:22What if he just turns around and leaves?

01:25:23What if he never speaks to me again?

01:25:26Wait a minute.

01:25:30Do you mind if I have a dance?

01:25:32It's my girl.

01:25:33Are you serious?

01:25:35I do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else.

01:25:38I just don't see how that's respectful, the guy that you're with.

01:25:41So you're stopping me from being who I am.

01:25:43You don't see a problem here at all.

01:25:45What is the freaking problem?

01:25:46I think the problem is actually us.

01:25:48I'm done with this .

01:25:50Yesterday, I was talking police and she made me feel maybe I do have another guy in your mind.

01:25:55But why does she tell you that?

01:25:57I don't want Sophie to play a game with me.

01:26:00I'm not interested in that .

01:26:02Hell no.

01:26:03Not with me.

01:26:05Everything I've told you, he knows.

01:26:08You've never had my back.

01:26:09Yes, I have.

01:26:09Enough.

01:26:10Enough.

01:26:11That's breaking girl code.

01:26:13Like, you don't do that.

01:26:14Go the homeless.

01:26:16Adios.

90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 01: The Art of the Love Bomb

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