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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:44then that's all I wanted.
00:00:46Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary.
00:00:54You forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:06I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:24If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:42My trust is broken right now.
00:01:46I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:53I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:08I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:12Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:19She's a psycho.
00:02:21Good luck.
00:02:24You all right?
00:02:24Yeah.
00:02:25Are you okay?
00:02:26So cute.
00:02:27You run to her after this, right?
00:02:29Asshole.
00:02:31I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:33But that I'm done.
00:02:57Come to the gym?
00:02:58No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:03:00Rough night.
00:03:01Another one?
00:03:03Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:05She went off yelling at the, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:09How many people were there?
00:03:10Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:11Oh, f*** off.
00:03:12She stands up and she's like, how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another
00:03:18girl financially?
00:03:19I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:22Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:25I just don't know what to do.
00:03:26I'm confused.
00:03:33It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:35It's pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:36Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:41This morning I'm really deflated.
00:03:43That was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:48I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:51Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:55That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:04:00I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:04:03It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:04So, that's a lot to think about.
00:04:08I'm f***ing.
00:04:11Hurting.
00:04:13And for s***ing.
00:04:14Angry.
00:04:15Angry.
00:04:17Hey.
00:04:19Elise.
00:04:20How are you?
00:04:24I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:30I couldn't sleep and I just am embarrassed.
00:04:34I should not have acted that way.
00:04:42Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:44Is that a...
00:04:45I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:47I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:48Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:54Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:58I don't like embarrassment or personal s*** coming up.
00:05:01I acted a f***ing fool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:05I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:09The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions
00:05:13for me and sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me and I'm just worried now where
00:05:21that's where this makes us stand.
00:05:28That s*** should never happen once.
00:05:31There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:34s*** that.
00:05:36You know, I'm out.
00:05:44Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:52Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:59Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:06:01I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:08I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I, I, whatever, but you can go to the
00:06:14zoo.
00:06:17I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:19For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:23But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me
00:06:27or he really likes it.
00:06:28But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:31Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:33And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:40I gotta get ready.
00:06:41Can I have a hug?
00:06:43Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:51I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:56I'm sorry.
00:06:58Yeah.
00:07:01But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:07:06My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:11Well, good luck with that.
00:07:14My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:16And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:20really am,
00:07:21I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:31Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:33Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:36Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:37Uh, yes.
00:07:38I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:41100%, yeah.
00:07:42Hi!
00:07:43Her name is Kamira.
00:07:45Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:47She is very cute.
00:07:48Can I touch her?
00:07:49We can't touch her here.
00:07:51We are completely hands off.
00:07:52She does like people a lot.
00:07:54Hi!
00:07:55Oh, really?
00:07:57Hi!
00:07:58She's like a little teddy bearer.
00:08:00She is like a little teddy.
00:08:01Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:08:07We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:09Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:11Fun fact, I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:16Really?
00:08:18Yes.
00:08:20Thank you so much.
00:08:21Thank you so much.
00:08:22It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:23Anytime.
00:08:23Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:25Bye.
00:08:27Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:29We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:32We can.
00:08:35I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know,
00:08:39everything that went on last night.
00:08:50So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:54Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay, or, like, I'm trying to just,
00:09:01I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:09:05I don't know what to do.
00:09:09I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, and how much you mean to
00:09:13me, and then f*** what.
00:09:15You go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:20And that was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise
00:09:26last night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:30And I'm sorry.
00:09:32All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:35You are so much different to her.
00:09:37She's a friend.
00:09:38You are my girl.
00:09:41You embarrass her.
00:09:42You f***ing embarrass me.
00:09:44And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:46Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:52The f***ing thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:56Like, I am.
00:09:58But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:10:09I think the bottom line is, I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:16and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:19And I think just the...
00:10:20You got answers.
00:10:21You got answers.
00:10:24You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:32I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:35I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:37It will not happen again.
00:10:44No, I appreciate that.
00:10:47You're giving me another chance.
00:10:53I'm not very confident.
00:10:56See how convincing you are.
00:10:59I'm sorry.
00:11:01When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:11:06And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:11:11Baby, they're so cute.
00:11:13Can we feed them?
00:11:15I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:20And that's not fair to him.
00:11:22You are so cute.
00:11:25I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and not throw this
00:11:30all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:35But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:40I feel like I'm not.
00:12:33Earlier today, I met with Laura's friend, best friend, Michael.
00:12:42I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:46She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move, and she made the move.
00:12:56I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who
00:13:04wanted to be more than friends.
00:13:07How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:13:12Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:17Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:22Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:25Maybe there was a lot of lies, and maybe soul a lie.
00:13:34Hey, baby.
00:13:35Hey.
00:13:36How was your day?
00:13:38Perfect.
00:13:39Was it okay?
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:40I'm curious about it.
00:13:41I enjoyed it.
00:13:45Did you really?
00:13:46Yeah.
00:13:47He's a good guy.
00:13:50I've been saying that, that's a relief to hear.
00:13:53Why?
00:13:54He's a good guy.
00:13:56But it turns out, you were not so good.
00:14:04Why?
00:14:05Why?
00:14:05What did I do?
00:14:09He told me that you made a move on him.
00:14:31I didn't say anything because it was like, literally nothing to tell.
00:14:42You make me think like, Michael is the enemy, he's trying to break us up.
00:14:46I didn't make you think that.
00:14:47You thought that all on your own.
00:14:49But you did not avoid it.
00:14:52It was almost a year ago.
00:14:55I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:59This is a little thing.
00:15:00Are you sure?
00:15:00It is a little thing.
00:15:01It is not a little thing.
00:15:02It's 100% a little thing.
00:15:04It was one tiny little thing.
00:15:06We got drunk.
00:15:07We were on the couch.
00:15:08I tried to kiss him.
00:15:09Big deal.
00:15:13One night, almost a full year into our friendship.
00:15:16And before I met BeerCon.
00:15:19Michael and I were watching TV and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:24Pretty soon we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch.
00:15:29And I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:32He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:36Although it was really hurtful in the moment.
00:15:38Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:41It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:43And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:48Because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:56I don't trust you.
00:16:01This is your obligation to tell me your path.
00:16:06You tried to kiss me.
00:16:08Okay?
00:16:09Yeah, I did.
00:16:10That means you had feelings for her.
00:16:13You wanted something.
00:16:15They couldn't have it.
00:16:17Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:21He is still in your life.
00:16:22And you kept this from a secret.
00:16:25Nothing happened.
00:16:27And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:30It doesn't matter.
00:16:31You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:36What would you like me to say?
00:16:39Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:43I was drunk.
00:16:44I tried to kiss him.
00:16:45But he refused me.
00:16:47But we are still friends.
00:16:52That was hard?
00:16:53Nope.
00:16:54You didn't want it to say.
00:16:59I'm trying to change my country.
00:17:01I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:17:06Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:17:12This is so ridiculous.
00:17:19I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:24I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:29I mean, let's be real.
00:17:31He's kept a lot of secrets from me.
00:17:33And I'm still here.
00:17:35That pisses me off.
00:17:39You're missing all the points.
00:17:42I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:45Nothing is going on.
00:17:46Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:49Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:55I...
00:17:55No.
00:17:57Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:18:00Or just don't talk.
00:18:02Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:18:06You wanted a young husband.
00:18:08Deal with it.
00:18:10You know what?
00:18:12I wish we never met.
00:18:14I don't have to go through all of this.
00:18:16I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:18You wish that who never met?
00:18:21Us.
00:18:22You and me?
00:18:23Yeah.
00:18:25I can trust you.
00:18:28That's fine.
00:18:28I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:38If you care this much...
00:18:40No, I don't.
00:18:41You cross the line.
00:18:43If you're gonna tell me that you wish we never met,
00:18:46I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:48Okay.
00:19:03There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:19:08What's that?
00:19:09Oral sex.
00:19:12Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:19:15I am not a woman.
00:19:17I have my...
00:19:21There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:27My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:33Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:39We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:43But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:48It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
00:19:51Not just following her orders around.
00:19:57When you know, you know.
00:19:59That's how the story goes.
00:20:02I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:20:04Then you came and made it so easy.
00:20:07I got this in a globe.
00:20:09It looks like we're gonna get wrapped up in bananas.
00:20:12Woo! Banana?
00:20:14You gonna put me at the plate?
00:20:15Yeah.
00:20:24Oh!
00:20:25Oh!
00:20:26Hello, everyone.
00:20:28Hello.
00:20:28Hello, Pa.
00:20:30Welcome.
00:20:30Hello.
00:20:31Good afternoon, Pa. Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:35This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:20:37Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:40Go on.
00:20:40We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:41Alright, thank you. Yeah, thank you.
00:20:45Should I really need to remove my tops or something? No.
00:20:48If you want, ma'am.
00:20:49It's okay.
00:20:50It's okay.
00:20:51Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other,
00:20:55getting a chance to be with each other intimately,
00:20:58it was definitely something that we both needed.
00:21:01And I'm hoping the spa treatment is gonna help us de-stress.
00:21:05Okay.
00:21:07Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines,
00:21:10and I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:21:16And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:21:20Very great.
00:21:22Oh, wow.
00:21:23I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:21:26I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:31This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment,
00:21:34and it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food.
00:21:38Which is, most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:43It's kind of funny.
00:21:46How's things looking up there, ladies? Pretty good?
00:21:49It's okay, sir.
00:21:50Yeah.
00:21:51I feel like a giant wrapped tamale here.
00:21:55Tamale, bro.
00:21:55They're gonna throw me in the oven next.
00:21:57I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:22:00They're gonna steam you.
00:22:02This is so strange.
00:22:03Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:22:07Oh, my goodness.
00:22:08But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:22:15as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:22:23It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:22:27Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:22:30Yeah, I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:32And it's starting to rain.
00:22:35Oh, yeah, I love the rain.
00:22:37Yeah.
00:22:38Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:40Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:44Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:48Yeah.
00:22:50I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:53And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:58And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:23:05Wow.
00:23:06I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:23:09I love you, baby bear.
00:23:11I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:23:15I would try to help you find a job.
00:23:17If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:23:22I'll do what I can, my love.
00:23:25Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:23:31But at this point, living in the Philippines is, I feel, the best option.
00:23:37It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:41I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:47are way out of my bounds.
00:23:50It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears
00:23:56out my soul.
00:23:58I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:24:05You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:24:10And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:24:18us only.
00:24:21Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:24:27Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena, I felt like
00:24:34I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:40That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:48My mom has always been a very controlling person, and I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm planning
00:24:54on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:58I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:25:01Babe, mom would strangle everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship, even though I happen to
00:25:10try to do many things for her.
00:25:12It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:25:17do some things that you wanted to do, not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:25:23You have to make your own decisions.
00:25:28My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:35I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:42from my mother.
00:25:44Hello, ma'am, sir. Excuse voice. Time's up.
00:25:46Okay, thank you.
00:25:48But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:55I'm scared.
00:25:59I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start a life together.
00:26:03It's your time to shine, honey. I'm there for you.
00:26:17You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:26:32You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:41Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:47Can I tell them?
00:27:02Can I tell them?
00:27:05Can I tell them?
00:27:07Can I tell them that they're the others?
00:27:09Can I tell them that we have to do that?
00:27:10Can I tell them?
00:27:10Can they tell them the nature of the woman's life?
00:27:13you just want the answer you want to have a baby or not
00:27:32my uncle said we are strict about having children because they represent our family line
00:27:40continuing that's what we believe and it's not going to change so we only wait for you and you know
00:27:49that
00:27:52in their culture having the baby is the most important thing i understand that and i would
00:28:00hate for trish not to be respected by her community over this if trish didn't have a baby i feel
00:28:08like
00:28:08she would be ashamed i would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way
00:28:20they're waiting for our answer
00:28:26but at the same time i'm feeling like i'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker
00:28:34you don't feel like i'm being forced to um make a life-changing decision in in in such little time
00:28:47i know how important it is to the family
00:28:52and i really know how important it is to trish if we're gonna be together and get married
00:29:03then i want to make you happy i want you to feel like your life is complete
00:29:13so i have to say yes
00:29:18so you're saying yes now yes why you change your mind like that
00:29:25i didn't fully understand you know before
00:29:46i'm really shocked that rick say yes suddenly because he was not sure about
00:29:54his answer maybe because of my uncle's pressure but i'm really excited and also my family is very excited to
00:30:05hear that response
00:30:12so when are we going to have the baby
00:30:15so when are we going to have the baby
00:30:20i will file for the visa
00:30:23it's going to take at least eight months to a year
00:30:26and then once she's approved after we get married
00:30:30and that's when we're going to start planning our family together
00:30:36so when you are going to have the family here
00:30:39and that's when you're getting married
00:30:43and having you know what we're going to ask
00:30:45we're gonna go to school
00:30:46because of course they've got to start planning our family together
00:30:52and that's what i'm doing
00:30:57and that's why we're going to have a new family together
00:31:01and that's why we're going to have access to these kids
00:31:05Say quick and quick and make peace and quick.
00:31:12So what if it's after 20 years, you start?
00:31:16By the end of August, in about three months,
00:31:20then I will propose to Trish.
00:31:24So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:31:29and you will start the process?
00:31:32If everything goes in the direction
00:31:34that it's been going in the last few days, then yes.
00:31:38That's what's going to happen.
00:31:55They are going to give a blessing
00:32:01for everything.
00:32:03This is great news.
00:32:06I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:32:11Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision,
00:32:14because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:32:18and the only way that I would be able to is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:32:24But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is, it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:32:37I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities of having this family with Trish.
00:32:45She would be a great mother, and I'm actually starting to envision it, and things are looking really good.
00:32:55Her happiness is all I want.
00:33:08When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:33:13I'm going to do that, but you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:33:21Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:33:24I can't even spend money anymore. I'm done.
00:33:39I want to snuggle before we get up. One last snuggle.
00:33:52Now I have more sex with you. Before you go, before you...
00:33:56I hope so.
00:33:59I'll miss you.
00:34:00Baby.
00:34:01Baby.
00:34:02There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me. One promise.
00:34:07What is that?
00:34:08Oral sex.
00:34:09Oh.
00:34:11Why are you... Why are you putting it off?
00:34:14I know you like it, and you've been talking, you've been... How am I in on that, you've been?
00:34:18There's only a few things I've asked of you, and that's a major one right there for me.
00:34:24It's major for me.
00:34:27I've never had oral sex with Lisa, because I've never tried it before.
00:34:32I don't know how to do it.
00:34:35Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants, and she wants me to be doing the
00:34:40same.
00:34:41I am not a woman. I have my d***.
00:34:46Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:51When we get married, I'll make it up to you. Okay?
00:34:54Promise.
00:34:55I promise you.
00:34:56You better keep this promise, because I've done so much.
00:34:59I'm sorry, okay? I'll make it up to you.
00:35:06I wish it's possible for us to stay like, spend like one more week.
00:35:12It's not possible.
00:35:14You've got to start getting ready.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:19I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:35:24And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:35:29And then, I had to make up for all those lies.
00:35:34And I'm finally at a happy point. Everything is done.
00:35:37I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:35:40I don't want to go home.
00:35:44Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:35:51I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:55So, that means when you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America,
00:36:01right?
00:36:01I'm gonna do that, babe.
00:36:03My first step is to get back to work.
00:36:05And then, I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:36:09Okay.
00:36:10We are gonna find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:36:16Which one's gonna get you to America faster?
00:36:19That would be nice.
00:36:20Okay? So, that's what we'll do.
00:36:22Yes, I can.
00:36:25But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:36:33At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer getting you to America, doing what we need
00:36:41to do.
00:36:41I cannot send any more money.
00:36:43I can't even spend money anymore.
00:36:45I'm done.
00:37:03You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:37:09Um, babe, there's no problem about that. I have you.
00:37:15So, we have a game plan now.
00:37:17Yes.
00:37:18Hmm.
00:37:22All right, I have to get dressed. You have to get dressed. We have to get going.
00:37:25Yes.
00:37:27She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:37:29Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of the money she's giving me. No.
00:37:34I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:37:40She has good plans for me.
00:37:41She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:37:45She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:37:48Babe, this is so funny.
00:37:51You gonna wear it today?
00:37:53Do you know what women would say to me?
00:37:55What?
00:37:55They would say, your wife is wicked.
00:37:58Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:38:00Oh, my God.
00:38:02So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:38:05She deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:38:07That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:38:16All I want is love.
00:38:18And she has been giving it to me.
00:38:19I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:38:23I will miss everything about her.
00:38:27Even the sky is crying. It's raining.
00:38:31You're my husband. I love you.
00:38:33I love you.
00:38:38I knew it was gonna be hard.
00:38:40I didn't know it was gonna be this hard.
00:38:42Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:38:46To you.
00:38:48Oh, my God, baby.
00:38:56This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:58I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:39:01I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:39:04I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:39:09I didn't imagine any of this.
00:39:11I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:39:13I mean, none of this.
00:39:15I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:39:23I don't want to go.
00:39:27But I have to go.
00:39:31I can't wait to do with you.
00:39:33It'll happen soon.
00:39:35When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:39:51I love you.
00:39:53I love you.
00:39:55It's okay.
00:39:58It's okay, baby.
00:40:00It's okay, baby.
00:40:03I love you so much.
00:40:05I love you so, so much.
00:40:08We'll be together soon.
00:40:15My baby.
00:40:19I feel that I will not see her again.
00:40:23Because anything can happen.
00:40:26She might go back to her country,
00:40:28and she might change her mind on most of the promises,
00:40:31like bringing me to her country, you know, the visa.
00:40:36I am hoping she will do it,
00:40:38but we are not married legally yet.
00:40:41So it's very hard for me to say goodbye.
00:40:45I miss you so much.
00:40:49I love you, baby. I can't do it.
00:40:50You have to walk away from me. I can't do it.
00:40:57You did.
00:41:07I'll go. I'll go.
00:41:12It's very hard.
00:41:13I feel like I'm not going to see him again,
00:41:15even though I know I'm going to.
00:41:16I'm making these plans, but I'm thinking,
00:41:19what if they fall through?
00:41:22What if it's more than six months?
00:41:24What if it's more than a year?
00:41:25What if, what if, what if it's two years?
00:41:30What happens between Daniel and I?
00:41:32I don't know.
00:41:49This is nice.
00:41:51It's a big house.
00:41:52We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:41:55I was really upset with Elise
00:41:57and how she acted at the bar the other night,
00:41:59but she's trying to make it up to me.
00:42:01You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:42:03So the fact that I'm doing this must mean
00:42:05I really like you.
00:42:07Oh!
00:42:13You said, let's turn the heat up.
00:42:16I said, you play with my heart.
00:42:18You said, you're fine with the cheap stuff.
00:42:20It tastes the same in the dark.
00:42:22In the light of the cold grey
00:42:25cries for the old days.
00:42:28It's a match in the dark.
00:42:31Okay, we have everything you think?
00:42:33Yep.
00:42:34Okay, to a trip just us.
00:42:37Chris gets the place to himself now.
00:42:40Silence is coming soon.
00:42:43It's finally peaceful on the moon.
00:42:50Blue mountains.
00:42:51It's water.
00:42:53What's this?
00:42:55It's called deodorant.
00:43:00I was really upset with Elise
00:43:02and how she acted at the bar the other night.
00:43:04But Elise has realised she was in the wrong
00:43:06and she's trying to make it up to me
00:43:07and she's organised a two night stay
00:43:10at the Blue Mountains.
00:43:11Take me away.
00:43:13The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking
00:43:15and waterfalls and it's a different part of nature
00:43:18besides the beaches that Sydney has.
00:43:20So, I'm excited, you know.
00:43:22I've never even been.
00:43:23I wouldn't say all is forgiven,
00:43:25but she's trying.
00:43:26And this is a good start.
00:43:38Oh my God, are we here?
00:43:40We are here.
00:43:42This is nice.
00:43:44It's a big house.
00:43:44We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:43:48Yes, we can.
00:43:52I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains,
00:43:55but Josh has always spoken about it
00:43:57and how much he wanted to go,
00:43:59so I decided to book us a trip.
00:44:01And there's hot tubs there,
00:44:02so I was like, love that.
00:44:05Look, baby, look what I got us.
00:44:08Whoa.
00:44:09Oh, wow.
00:44:09A lot of space for a lot of activities.
00:44:13You're the best.
00:44:14I know.
00:44:15I thought it was a great idea
00:44:17to get out of Bondi,
00:44:19away from Nat,
00:44:20away from Chris,
00:44:21away from boats.
00:44:22I just want for us to really unplug
00:44:24and just be with each other more.
00:44:28Get out of the kitchen.
00:44:30I was cooking for you.
00:44:33You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:44:36So the fact that I'm doing this for you
00:44:38must mean I really like you.
00:44:39Well, that does mean a lot.
00:44:41This should be fun.
00:44:48Baby!
00:44:49What have you done?
00:44:51Ew, ew.
00:44:52This is not the worst stuff
00:44:54I thought was going to be in my mouth.
00:44:56Oh, no.
00:44:58Baby!
00:45:01I'm real crying.
00:45:03Ew, ew, ew, ew, ew.
00:45:05Oh, that was a process.
00:45:08Half of it went in my mouth,
00:45:10my face, my boobs.
00:45:12Maybe, should I take it off?
00:45:16Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:45:18I don't know how to turn on the stove.
00:45:20Oh.
00:45:22Which pasta do you want?
00:45:24That's so embarrassing.
00:45:26What packet was that in?
00:45:28I'm making you two types of pasta.
00:45:30Perfect.
00:45:33Ha-cha!
00:45:35Nope, not ready.
00:45:37Oh, God.
00:45:38This feels really good.
00:45:43Oh, my God.
00:45:47I read somewhere I heard that you'll know if pasta is ready if it sticks to the wall.
00:45:52So, like, if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall, then you know it's ready.
00:45:56Yeah, but I don't think that's the same with penne pasta.
00:46:02Let's throw in the pasta.
00:46:05Oh, my God, there's water in here.
00:46:08I think I just ruined the sauce.
00:46:11Baby.
00:46:13The kitchen is definitely not her element.
00:46:17I love seeing the side of Elise that's doing something that she's not used to doing.
00:46:22All right, that'll do.
00:46:23Elise, she keeps me on my toes.
00:46:26I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale, and I know it's not going to be
00:46:31dull with her.
00:46:31Let's see how we go.
00:46:34Is it good?
00:46:35It's not that bad.
00:46:41It's horrible.
00:46:43Be honest.
00:46:45I'm not picky.
00:46:46It was the most fun I've had making dinner.
00:46:50I laughed my head off, and I needed that.
00:46:52Me too.
00:46:54You know what's so cute about Josh is, like, when I f*** up or I do something stupid or I
00:46:59feel really awkward, like, he makes so light of it.
00:47:02I don't know.
00:47:03It's, like, it's the little moments, like, then that I'm like, you know what?
00:47:06Like, I feel like he could be my forever.
00:47:10But there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on, and it's been constantly playing in the back of my
00:47:15mind.
00:47:16I don't know if I can go back to Florida not having met your son to see how you are
00:47:24as a father.
00:47:25You would have met him already.
00:47:26I would want you to.
00:47:27But he's moved away.
00:47:29Like, so, for now, like, can we FaceTime all that work?
00:47:33Yeah.
00:47:35I'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through, but I'm leaving soon, and I
00:47:40haven't met anyone in his family.
00:47:42I haven't met his son.
00:47:43And this is a huge part of his life that I'm completely missing out on.
00:47:48So I really, really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip.
00:47:53Pretty full.
00:47:54Me too.
00:47:56Yeah.
00:47:59We're looking for wedding bands.
00:48:01I like classic stuff.
00:48:05It is really important for me to have the wedding ring.
00:48:10$268.
00:48:10Dollar.
00:48:12I think he's not sure.
00:48:15You don't want someone mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:48:20They can have you.
00:48:21Okay.
00:48:23Okay.
00:48:38It's disastrous.
00:48:39Sure.
00:48:40Why not?
00:48:43We have a wiener!
00:48:46Yeah.
00:48:47You really wanted that, don't you?
00:48:49Yeah.
00:48:52Here we go.
00:48:53Wee!
00:48:54Ready, boo?
00:48:56Woo!
00:48:57Woo!
00:49:01I'm sorry.
00:49:08That chick knows my family.
00:49:19That was fun.
00:49:20Yeah.
00:49:20That was so fun.
00:49:22Oh, look at those shops.
00:49:25That's where you can find very nice wedding gowns and dresses.
00:49:29Like, really pretty.
00:49:31Nice.
00:49:33Can't wait for the anniversary party.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:39Things with Jovon and I are really good.
00:49:42And now, in a couple of days, we're having our anniversary party,
00:49:46where we're going to renew our vows.
00:49:51Since we never had a wedding in person,
00:49:53basically, it's just like a second wedding to me.
00:49:57You know?
00:49:59Because last time, we didn't get to touch each other face to face.
00:50:05I've been dreaming about this.
00:50:07And now it's happening, and I just can't wait.
00:50:12Okay, boo.
00:50:14Yay!
00:50:16Are you ready?
00:50:17Yeah, I guess so.
00:50:21Now that we're going to renew our vows,
00:50:25Good afternoon.
00:50:27We decided to look at rings.
00:50:31We've been married almost three years,
00:50:33and sometimes I still can't believe that Jovon hasn't put a ring on it yet.
00:50:40I feel like I'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band.
00:50:47Hi.
00:50:49What are you looking for?
00:50:51We're looking for wedding bands.
00:50:53We have different styles.
00:50:55Okay.
00:50:55What are you prepared for?
00:50:57Well, I'm okay with a simple, plain wedding band.
00:51:01I want it more classic.
00:51:04I like classic stuff.
00:51:09This one.
00:51:14It is really important for me to have the wedding ring.
00:51:18My symbol of love.
00:51:20You need a ring to symbolize that?
00:51:22I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:51:28They can have you.
00:51:29Okay.
00:51:31Okay.
00:51:32She's on the market.
00:51:33I'll go, I'll go.
00:51:34I'm playing.
00:51:35Relax.
00:51:36When is your wedding?
00:51:39Well, we're actually married already.
00:51:42We don't have an official wedding ring set.
00:51:45We did our marriage on wine, that's why.
00:51:47You're a liar.
00:51:49You know, to be fair, you know, I did get you a ring.
00:51:54Okay.
00:51:55You sent me your money, and I bought a ring that's under $100, that's turned my finger green.
00:52:04But that's what you wanted.
00:52:06No, I thought it's just a substitute ring.
00:52:10How about Forza?
00:52:12What do you think?
00:52:13When it comes to bands, like, I prefer, like, black like this, silver in the middle, kind of sporty, but
00:52:21they don't sell that hit.
00:52:25I already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married, and I like it a lot.
00:52:33I'm not a jewelry person, and I really don't want to spend money on something I don't need or want.
00:52:42This one is good.
00:52:43It's just that it's too, um...
00:52:46What?
00:52:48Skinny.
00:52:48Like, do you have something that's a little bit wider?
00:52:52I have different kind of design.
00:52:54Okay.
00:52:54This one.
00:52:58This one is good.
00:52:59I like this one.
00:53:00More simple, but really looks like I'm married.
00:53:05You know what I mean?
00:53:07How much is this?
00:53:09Per gram, no?
00:53:11Yes.
00:53:1215,510 in peso.
00:53:1315,510.
00:53:15How much is that?
00:53:16U.S.
00:53:16That's 268 in dollar.
00:53:19268, yeah.
00:53:20Do you have anything budget?
00:53:22No, we didn't really have a budget.
00:53:25But...
00:53:27She's not...
00:53:28She's not sure.
00:53:29Are we going to buy this?
00:53:33We made today.
00:53:35Yeah.
00:53:37I can come back.
00:53:43We'll...
00:53:45We can come back.
00:53:47Yeah.
00:53:49Because I got to sort out my bank stuff.
00:53:52Okay.
00:53:55Why would you bring me ring shopping if we're not going to buy anything anyway?
00:54:01What's the point of going out?
00:54:05Just to get an idea of what you want.
00:54:15Thank you so much.
00:54:17Thank you so much.
00:54:17Bye-bye.
00:54:19I feel so humiliated.
00:54:23I can't even have the cheapest ring.
00:54:26It's not just a jewelry.
00:54:28It's a symbol of our marriage.
00:54:32I waited six years to be together in person.
00:54:36He never applied for a spousal visa.
00:54:39And now, I still don't have a ring.
00:54:44Once again, he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship.
00:55:06I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with him.
00:55:11I really don't.
00:55:12I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:55:17I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:55:21There's a lot of layers there.
00:55:24And, I mean...
00:55:44Oh, hey.
00:55:45Hey.
00:55:46A little concern from that phone call you gave me.
00:55:49Yeah.
00:55:50Me too.
00:56:01I'm assuming you've talked in beer con?
00:56:03Yeah, I did.
00:56:04It was super great.
00:56:06Thanks for that.
00:56:07I kind of partly blame you.
00:56:10Okay.
00:56:14You don't know?
00:56:15I don't know what was said between you and him.
00:56:18I only know my end of the story.
00:56:20Okay.
00:56:21So, we have to come together.
00:56:23Okay.
00:56:24Super curious.
00:56:25What was going through your head telling him that I hit on you?
00:56:31Like, I don't understand how that even came up.
00:56:34We never did anything.
00:56:36And he's pissed off about it.
00:56:38Because I didn't tell him.
00:56:40Told me that he wishes he never met me.
00:56:43And I kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring that up.
00:56:48Okay.
00:56:49And I'd like to know why you did.
00:56:51Okay.
00:56:53I'm brought it up because beer con was under the impression that I was in love with you.
00:56:58That man kept pushing and pushing and pushing.
00:57:02And at some point, I need him to understand that I said no to us having a relationship, but you
00:57:12were the one that asked.
00:57:12And from that, he got very upset, and I tried to reassure him it was a year ago.
00:57:16It didn't, I mean, it was before you met him.
00:57:20I feel like, honestly, it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it.
00:57:27How long have you been here with him?
00:57:30How long have you been here with him?
00:57:32Two and a half weeks.
00:57:33And in two and a half weeks, you cannot convince him that I was not a threat?
00:57:43But that's not on me.
00:57:44I did everything I could to defuse that situation.
00:57:49I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you.
00:57:53I really don't.
00:57:54I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:57:59I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:58:05There's a lot of layers there.
00:58:08But, no, that's not something I want to happen.
00:58:11Anyhow, we're friends.
00:58:15I don't want to anymore.
00:58:18At the end of the day, I want you to be happy.
00:58:21All I ever heard was little stories here and there about him from you.
00:58:24You said all these bad things.
00:58:27And just, why does she keep talking to this guy?
00:58:30So I came to meet him to see all the other good stuff.
00:58:34And you don't have to worry about him and I anymore.
00:58:37You just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you.
00:58:40Before you make a commitment.
00:58:42I don't even know what to do right now.
00:58:44Like, there's part of me that just wants to, like, go have another conversation with him.
00:58:47But I don't even know what to say.
00:58:48Because he just told me he wishes he never met me.
00:58:51Okay.
00:58:51But the opposite of love is not anger.
00:58:53It's apathy.
00:58:54So angry means he still loves you.
00:58:58I don't believe Michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all, romantically.
00:59:05But I think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind.
00:59:09And I think he does care about the future of my relationship with BeerCon.
00:59:14BeerCon is the person I need in my life.
00:59:17And I want to fix this.
00:59:20I just don't really know how to go about it.
00:59:24So what do I do?
00:59:25I feel like he never could understand that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal.
00:59:30Do you acknowledge that he felt the way he did?
00:59:33It didn't matter whether he was right or not.
00:59:36No, I never said that.
00:59:37At the end of the day, the relationship is more important than the argument.
00:59:45Which means somebody has to say, I'm sorry.
00:59:49It's amazing how the words, I'm sorry, when said truly can diffuse a situation.
00:59:55I see your point.
00:59:58I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that.
01:00:08I'll let you know how it goes.
01:00:11Yeah.
01:00:27Yeah.
01:00:30How are you?
01:00:33I'm good.
01:00:34Okay.
01:00:34How are you?
01:00:35I'm okay.
01:00:38I was just wondering if we could talk.
01:00:44Uh-uh.
01:00:46Not today.
01:00:47I'm sorry.
01:00:48Did you say not today?
01:00:51Yeah.
01:00:55Am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
01:00:58I'm sorry.
01:00:59Just give me that space.
01:01:04Okay.
01:01:04I guess I will get a room somewhere.
01:01:09Okay.
01:01:11We both need time.
01:01:13Yeah.
01:01:14And we both need to think about what's going on.
01:01:16Mm-hmm.
01:01:19Okay.
01:01:22Okay.
01:01:23Bye.
01:01:25Bye.
01:01:32I don't want to force you, but like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:01:37When Elise asked to meet my son, I can see that she really, really cares.
01:01:41But honestly, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts about trying to let her in to the
01:01:46most important part of my life.
01:01:56Oh, my God.
01:01:58Oh, that's hot.
01:01:59Oh, that's hot.
01:02:00Oh, it's really hot.
01:02:03That's burning me.
01:02:05Oh, you found the champagne.
01:02:06I got it.
01:02:07It did.
01:02:08Sounds good.
01:02:08I think we should open it.
01:02:14Wow.
01:02:16Cheers to that.
01:02:24What a perfect ending to a perfect little guy.
01:02:29Good drive.
01:02:31Good cooking.
01:02:34It's so funny, huh?
01:02:35It's so funny.
01:02:36Okay?
01:02:37I tried.
01:02:39So am I making it up to you?
01:02:40Am I doing a good job so far?
01:02:43Yeah.
01:02:43Absolutely.
01:02:46Well, have I made it up to you enough that, like, you can let me in your own world?
01:02:52Yeah.
01:02:55Well, I want to be with you, and I'm scared that I've came literally around the world,
01:03:01and all I've met is, like, a few friends.
01:03:04And I don't want to force you, but, like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:03:14When Elise asks to meet my son or, you know, talk to my son, I find that endearing.
01:03:19But honestly, the last couple of days, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts
01:03:24about whether I'll introduce him or not.
01:03:27Obviously, I'm very protective of my son.
01:03:28And so I want to be confident that this relationship is going to work.
01:03:34I understand he's young, and it's, like, a video call, and it's probably, like, a lot
01:03:40to explain to him.
01:03:41Yeah.
01:03:42I do want to prove how much you mean to me.
01:03:45But, um, that's been playing on me heavily.
01:03:51What's been playing on you heavily?
01:03:53Explain that.
01:03:55It's just been a tough year.
01:03:58I didn't move him away, but, you know, he's an hour and a half plane ride, and I don't see
01:04:05him as much as I want.
01:04:07But I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can, so it's
01:04:12just
01:04:14a guilty feeling for me at the moment.
01:04:18I miss him, you know, especially when you're here, you know.
01:04:23Really?
01:04:23Well, yeah, well, because when you're here, I think, you know, if he was here as well,
01:04:27it'd be like, I'd love you two to get along, and then it'd be like a perfect little world.
01:04:35I guess it's just painful to think about it.
01:04:40It's okay to have feelings, and it's okay to be upset.
01:04:45If you weren't emotional about your son, and you didn't feel this way, I would be worried.
01:04:49I'd be very, very worried.
01:04:52That means you're a good dad, and it means you care.
01:04:59It's like having a son's a responsibility and, like, excitement, and you do things with
01:05:03him, and then when something like that gets taken away from you, you're like, I feel like
01:05:07I lost myself.
01:05:10Yeah, I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself.
01:05:15My relationship with my son, we're really tight.
01:05:18I've been there since he was born.
01:05:20He's my little partner in crime.
01:05:22We go camping, we go fishing, surfing, you know, we kick footballs, we go and play golf.
01:05:28It's such a good part of my life.
01:05:31So it really did hurt this year when I didn't have that.
01:05:37I want to help make you feel like you're back together.
01:05:43I want to be that rock for you.
01:05:47I want to be there for you, support you in any way I can, but you have to let me
01:05:54into
01:05:54your life.
01:05:55I can't do that without getting brought into your life.
01:06:01This is very emotional because being away from my son affected me, you know, more than I
01:06:05thought.
01:06:07But I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life.
01:06:11I can see that she really, really cares.
01:06:13She's shown that she's worthy of, you know, getting to know my son.
01:06:17But at the same time, it is scary to let her in, the most important part of my life.
01:06:23What if things don't work out?
01:06:24You know, that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us.
01:06:28Well, I'm here for you now.
01:06:51I mean, after getting her family's approval.
01:06:59I just f*** it up.
01:07:03I don't want anything to approach her.
01:07:14I don't want anything to do.
01:07:35My family's happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:08:00I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them, yes, that I'm willing to have a child.
01:08:05But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:08:10Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family.
01:08:14But I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:08:18Now Trisha and I, we can sleep together and, you know, take a nice warm shower together.
01:08:23And not have to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:08:29They were really happy.
01:08:31You see, all of them.
01:08:33Wasn't it?
01:08:36I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off.
01:08:39After I said, then I, after I agreed to have that baby.
01:08:44They're so sweet.
01:08:46Gonna miss them.
01:08:49I'm ready to have a baby.
01:08:52But what if you change your mind?
01:08:59Maybe.
01:09:00As long as we're going and moving in the right direction, I'm all on board with having a baby.
01:09:06Because I know that it'll make you happy, and that's what you really want.
01:09:14I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm financially ready to
01:09:21have another child.
01:09:23But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises, this could put Trish in a very bad
01:09:31situation with her family.
01:09:33I know how much her family means to her.
01:09:36So I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:09:41I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation to financially support another child.
01:09:48But, um, yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:09:55Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:09:58Our future.
01:10:04You're...
01:10:05You do love me.
01:10:07Baby, I love you more than anything.
01:10:20You have to use the restroom or anything?
01:10:23No, I don't.
01:10:24I don't eat anything but just, uh, only chicken.
01:10:32Well, damn.
01:10:35My flight's been delayed.
01:10:37That's it.
01:10:38We wait for one hour.
01:10:40I hope this bad boy's going straight to Tana.
01:10:43A couple of days in Tana before my baby is going to go back.
01:10:55That's really sad.
01:10:58Sad story.
01:11:01It's just all beginning.
01:11:04I know.
01:11:28We were waiting on our flight, and it just kept getting delayed.
01:11:33The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:11:37I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:11:41Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:11:46And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:11:51It kind of, it kind of hit me that, um, I noticed she kept looking over at my phone, um,
01:12:00and she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:12:06Is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia?
01:12:10Yes.
01:12:24A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex.
01:12:32And then she was telling me that, um, you know, she misses the times that we, we had together.
01:12:38And, and I responded, and I responded inappropriately.
01:12:47Why did she told her your message?
01:12:52It was Wednesday.
01:12:53Today is Saturday.
01:12:55Why?
01:12:57I would never hide something.
01:13:00This is why what I'm talking about.
01:13:02You never told me what's really cool.
01:13:04I just told you.
01:13:05You didn't tell me if I didn't ask.
01:13:10Why?
01:13:11You didn't tell me what I'm talking about.
01:13:16You didn't tell me what I'm talking about.
01:13:18You didn't tell me what I'm talking about.
01:13:19He told me that he's not talking to his ex, that it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:13:26But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:13:41He makes me sad.
01:13:51like i love him we talk about the babies the future and i we just my dad just give him
01:14:03blessing
01:14:10i don't want anything from you
01:14:18i mean after getting her family's approval everything just felt it felt different
01:14:24than it did the whole couple weeks prior how did i come so close to getting my what i wanted
01:14:34and then
01:14:35i just up
01:14:40and i'm not sure if i'll get another chance to make things right with trish
01:14:45and it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter
01:14:58are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the united states
01:15:04we are leaving tomorrow i know my mom is not going to accept it but i'm ready to do what
01:15:11i need to do
01:15:11to ensure shana and i are together i have decided i'm going to stay here in the philippines this is
01:15:18our choice what's that you just came out of your mouth
01:15:43i'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today
01:15:45i know he feels relaxed when mom is sitting around in her bed and sorrow
01:16:02so when i talked to forrest he's like oh surprise mom i went and talked and met with a lawyer
01:16:08and the
01:16:09lawyer says he has to have like certain amount of income something like like that he didn't do
01:16:15anything right at all
01:16:18i'm upset right now forrest is coming back and for the last few days dev and i haven't heard anything
01:16:25from forrester sheena and we've just felt like we're kind of been left in the dark
01:16:29you know i don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation i
01:16:39don't know what the conversation is gonna be we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow
01:16:48and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all
01:17:01and we're not sure what they're talking about
01:17:02hey mom how's things going it's going pretty good how are you guys
01:17:12well i think we need to have a talk
01:17:15yeah i think we need to figure things out a little bit yeah that's kind of why we're here
01:17:24today was supposed to be my last day in the philippines but sheena and i
01:17:29have made the decision for me to stay here and basically start a life here with her
01:17:35you ready yeah we're gonna go let's go hi guys i know that my mom is not going to accept
01:17:42it
01:17:43but she has to understand that i'm not the child that you know she's seen all these years i have
01:17:50changed a lot this in trip and i'm ready to do what i need to do to ensure she and
01:17:55i are together
01:18:03so
01:18:03wow look at that
01:18:09graceful look at that
01:18:15came from originally from a punishment during the spanish era that people would have to put their feet
01:18:22and they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet first it's just such it tells a whole story
01:18:27yeah just today i agree oh my goodness oh look at that yay oh thank you oh that's beautiful
01:18:36good job guys well you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo but you
01:18:44have to be in a
01:18:45rhythm with your partner too at the same time kind of like life well i think she and i will
01:18:52work moving
01:18:53in perfect rhythm
01:18:57yeah definitely
01:19:03so she and do we get menus or how does how does it work yeah there's a set menu that's
01:19:09going to be
01:19:10prepared so you can try guys oh thank you so much
01:19:21so with the the um where where you guys went just fill me in what happened and give me all
01:19:28the details
01:19:30um yeah i feel like me and sheena we really bonded
01:19:37in more ways than one
01:19:46you had sex didn't you
01:19:52you know what yeah we did
01:19:56about time i enjoyed it it was fun
01:20:04you guys uh think that you have a good physical connection with each other yeah
01:20:12i feel like our souls really connected when now we can really understand each other
01:20:22i'm happy that you know my son finally lost his virginity finally you know
01:20:47you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that forrest has to leave you tomorrow
01:21:00but it must be very painful but are there plans being made and arrangements made
01:21:07somehow to try and get you over to the united states
01:21:14did you guys talk make any plans because this is we are leaving tomorrow
01:21:25yeah we talked a lot yesterday um with the k-1 visa i found out that being on disability i
01:21:35don't make
01:21:36enough money so she and i have decided that i'm going to stay here and live here in the philippines
01:21:47forrest forrest i'm tired of being alone oh my god i did not expect to be staying here long term
01:21:55oh you didn't expect to fall i want my love with me my second half this is our choice
01:22:04what's that you just came out of your mouth mom where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote
01:22:10out was that in between the excuse me you could say one thing something you want to say but for
01:22:17me
01:22:17i have him he had me i don't care if you're here for my son because i love your son
01:22:23and i want you
01:22:24everything for hard for him for our future i want you to trust your son for once in a while
01:22:33i trust my son i don't trust you
01:22:41i'm sorry i just want to need space sorry
01:22:54next time on before the 90 days when do you plan on applying for the fiance visa
01:23:00i thought you were gonna apply for me in the us
01:23:08no stig never mentioned wanting to move to the us it's two hours before i'm leaving it's just really
01:23:15weird timing you won't be able to make any money that's why you're gonna be my sugar mama
01:23:21i wish we could have talked it out last night you've been texting with him this morning what has
01:23:26he been saying i asked him if we could talk and he said sure so i want to show him
01:23:33that my feelings
01:23:33for him are so much stronger than how i ever felt about michael why did you mislead me like michael
01:23:41made
01:23:42the moment i was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him can you do
01:23:50that
01:23:53are you excited about today i think i should ask you that question though i just don't know what i'm
01:24:00gonna say for my vows it's just gonna be like the basics i just wanted today to be full of
01:24:08love
01:24:10but it just feels like any other day for him i don't know i can't pretend that everything is fine
01:24:21i love your son and i'll do anything my best for love doesn't pay the bills gina you know i'm
01:24:27like in
01:24:28panic mode that he's going to move to the philippines it's not going to work it won't work
01:24:33how much do you think that you're going to make working here where are you going to live for us
01:24:39have you even factored how much it's going to cost i don't know what to do
01:24:47all the messages in the text why did you betray me why don't you block her if you want this
01:24:55relationship
01:24:56tell her that you don't want her anymore that i'm with you i love trish but i mean love isn't
01:25:06so black and white i need to be honest about my feelings i don't know what to do
01:25:15oh my god stunning i don't think elise realized you know what she'd signed up for
01:25:26i'm just thinking she's being a drama queen i start to think oh is she okay
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