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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35Sure, pretty much, yeah.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:05Yeah.
00:01:06You should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's the real camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me.
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:09I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:04I'm hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on
00:03:19with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him.
00:03:53And then about 11.08 PM, I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:14Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:22what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days,
00:04:37and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this,
00:04:42when I've already made plans to take him somewhere special,
00:04:45and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So, what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:52telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for,
00:04:55and hopefully he'll come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because I watched her sweat.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room.
00:05:18So I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like, on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way,
00:05:47shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:49and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:54and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um...
00:07:14You have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:39Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she had not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:22I love mountains.
00:10:24I do too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:30I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs bounced.
00:10:53I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:00I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:13It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir after our romantic getaway in Cheshme.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael, I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:19Play, revisit, emphasis.
00:12:22We have obsession with marble.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from Texas Central DC.
00:12:41Great.
00:12:41Yeah.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is like carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:29There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:49You know?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:14:04I hope you know that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah, that makes two of us.
00:14:16But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So the other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:31Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns?
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45About our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns, and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:50I have concerns because you are still communicating with Michael and talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well, he wants to come here.
00:15:13Perfect.
00:15:17No, there is no point.
00:15:22He already bought a flight.
00:15:28What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:35Yeah.
00:15:38Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:15:45This is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, you know, I'm glad you came, because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was to go, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So, you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So, what else do you want?
00:16:26Seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:27Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me, so I can get in the car, because I'm really
00:16:52full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the bag.
00:16:53I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you.
00:17:03Two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me your heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me your horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing, so I'm not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names, and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose, Presage Nocturne, Middle Earth, Maidan, Al Riffa, Buckaroo.
00:17:44I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know, kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:18:03So we're taking her out on the town, see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:08But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31At least 200 metres to our ride is the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:36Oh, f***, you guys working feet.
00:18:38F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down 1,000.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:11I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17Think about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for no.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:23Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:34Like the games are very bullshit.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that out of the way.
00:19:53We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05This is much needed.
00:20:07No.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheesies, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah, yeah.
00:20:16But, you know, I'm glad you came because you're one of my best friends.
00:20:24And, you know, as soon as you come, I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57Okay.
00:20:58Let's start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've traveled, what you've given up, and, you know, what it's taken to
00:21:03get here.
00:21:04So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:08So, this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:13Well, thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realize it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:24I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know, seven, eight months, I've slowed
00:21:34down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night, but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um, I could party a bit, yeah.
00:21:49Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats, and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:22:15But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with
00:22:19me and my cat and snuggling.
00:22:21And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:33Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:45To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not choosing to that.
00:23:12How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:23:31Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom, but my cat, Mito, got sick, so we
00:23:44had to run him to the vet.
00:23:46I look at you and your comb.
00:23:48You don't like the comb.
00:23:50Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream comb.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:00And so, today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast and finally get to know Javon more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:13Javon!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:24What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:36I don't want to see it.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay, my bad, then.
00:24:48Here's the thing.
00:24:48The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:57I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this, and then I just...
00:25:14Yes, that's the point of the water.
00:25:17Water was created to clean your butt.
00:25:22I'm going to go wash off mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh, ma, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47That's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Oh, okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:57Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:25:59And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:05Okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig it.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great, and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in
00:26:23-law.
00:26:25Jibon.
00:26:26Hmm.
00:26:27Mosta naman yung tulag mokigabi.
00:26:29My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:32My sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:41Ang daming nangyayari.
00:26:43Tapit bahay.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45Pero saya na ako na nandito ka na.
00:26:48She's happy that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52Kailan hanggang kailan ka dito?
00:26:55Till when you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here, like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02Ang bilis naman, ano?
00:27:04She said it's too fast.
00:27:05Hindi bang one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12Kailan ka pa rin kasi umuwi.
00:27:14I don't want to.
00:27:15Kailan naman tong anak ko.
00:27:16It was about my daughter.
00:27:19Sama mo na to.
00:27:24Saya ako na nakarating na si Dubon dito, sa Pilipinas, sa bahay namin.
00:27:31Pero ang nararamdaman ko, simpre,
00:27:35ang tagal niyang dumating dito sa Pilipinas,
00:27:41na ang iniisip ko kasi kung paano na yung anak ko.
00:27:47Sa six years na paghihintay ng anak ko,
00:27:51alalang-alala ako para sa kanya.
00:27:53She said for six years that my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:58I was so worried about her.
00:28:00Kasi parang nawawala na rin siyang pag-asa at ako.
00:28:03Because she was sometimes, I could see she was losing hope.
00:28:06And also me.
00:28:09I'm sorry it took so long, though.
00:28:11But I'm gonna make it up.
00:28:13I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:28:14I promise, okay?
00:28:16Alright?
00:28:17Na-intindihan mo?
00:28:18Uh-uh.
00:28:20Maraming nakasing ka nangyari.
00:28:22Na ano?
00:28:23Na, pangakong nakapako.
00:28:28Kung nasasakta ng anak, mas masakit sa ina.
00:28:33I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:28:36I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:28:41And we've been married for three years.
00:28:43And we still don't have a definite plan for the future.
00:28:49He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:53What does that mean?
00:28:57We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship for the rest of our lives.
00:29:02I don't want to.
00:29:04Right now, I don't feel secure about the future.
00:29:13Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:29:18Don't be mad.
00:29:21But don't be mad.
00:29:26Who is it?
00:29:27Mohammed.
00:29:28Oh, my God.
00:29:55Oh, my God.
00:30:06It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with Ziyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:30:22Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:30:26I'm looking for a Riyadh.
00:30:28And I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:30:35Just one person.
00:30:37I just got dumped.
00:30:42Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:54And somehow, I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:31:03But now, I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:31:19Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi!
00:31:22I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:31:27Thank you so much.
00:31:30What's up?
00:31:31What's wrong?
00:31:32What, can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:31:36No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to...
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already.
00:31:40Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:47Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Ziyad everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally, Maddie, went to s**t.
00:31:59Like, we got into a huge fight.
00:32:00And it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me and leaving me alone in the desert by
00:32:08myself.
00:32:09This is odd.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:15There is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously doesn't care about you.
00:32:27And he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts.
00:32:33Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar.
00:32:38And, like, this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:48You know, it's like I did all this, like, again.
00:32:51And, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of s**t.
00:32:57Like, what?
00:32:57Like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch.
00:33:00And for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:33:04Why is he?
00:33:05I mean, like, he's just, like, Ryan Gosling as, like, Morocco.
00:33:11Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad.
00:33:22But don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma.
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:36Maybe.
00:33:46Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know.
00:33:50I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:56Because.
00:33:56That was terrible.
00:33:57Because he was just as bad.
00:34:01But, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when I
00:34:06was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:15Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:18What are your intentions out seeing him?
00:34:20I mean, is your, are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean, I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:41Stop.
00:34:41I don't know if you're going to get hurt again.
00:34:43Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:34:45Stop.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Mohammed hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:56It's, like, I just, I just want you to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:01Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:35:05Yeah, I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:19Uh, Emma, interview, I'll take one.
00:35:23Hmm.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Mohammed?
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm going to answer it just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:34Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:44I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why?
00:35:46You want to see me?
00:35:49So do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something.
00:35:56All right.
00:35:56Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:36:01Two.
00:36:01Bye.
00:36:04Bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So Mohammed just asked me.
00:36:14Oh, my God.
00:36:15Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while.
00:36:20So it's, like, um.
00:36:23What was his voice?
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:34I said no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Mohammed have been through a lot.
00:36:50And we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:54So that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:37:11You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:37:22So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:37:44So you ready to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:37:58Sounds like you are not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:38:12I told you, yes.
00:38:14So what else do you want?
00:38:25It's like you were hesitating.
00:38:27Just tell me.
00:38:28Make things clear, Rick.
00:38:30Please.
00:38:33I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after.
00:38:39I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:38:45Tonight we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
00:38:51But after the merengue fight, we were walking around and she gets to talking about this great place that her
00:38:59ex took her to when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:03I feel like Trisha's bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know, because of what I
00:39:09did.
00:39:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous and it's a game for you.
00:39:18Shut up.
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me when I responded to you bragging about.
00:39:24Yeah, because you said like, oh, this is a place that your ex took you and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:37I enjoy.
00:39:39But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:43That means you appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:40:01I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:02I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:04Because that's what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08No, I'm not.
00:40:09I will never be back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather...
00:40:13Well, then leave him alone.
00:40:14Then stop talking about me.
00:40:16I don't want to hear it.
00:40:17Because you hide your ex?
00:40:18No.
00:40:19I don't want to talk about my ex and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:40:22Because you're hiding your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:40:25Look what you did.
00:40:25You went to Columbia for your ex.
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us.
00:40:31I want a relationship with you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:40:44You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:40:50This is so ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place, and it was nice.
00:41:00That's it.
00:41:00It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him or I'm still with my ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him.
00:41:10That's his action, not me.
00:41:16So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here.
00:41:23I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:30If I know that you're committed, I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:41:43I want to go if I know that you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:44I want to go if I know that you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:46I want to go if I know that you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:46I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:41:59Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me.
00:42:06After what I did, and the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too
00:42:15much.
00:42:16I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:42:20This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:42:30I am miserable.
00:42:33Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now.
00:42:40She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:42:43You don't respect me.
00:42:45That's not true at all.
00:42:46And now I have doubts.
00:42:48This, us, could be a mistake.
00:42:57Michael, he's coming.
00:43:00Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:43:17He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision.
00:43:26I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming, but I woke up this morning to a
00:43:33bunch of texts from him saying that he already booked a flight.
00:43:41The other night in Cheshmay, Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:43:48relationship with Birkan.
00:43:50I had planned to talk to Birkan about it, but before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me
00:43:57and said he booked his flight.
00:44:00Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that
00:44:09Birkan and I have made.
00:44:11But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice.
00:44:18If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion.
00:44:25This is not normal.
00:44:29Something's wrong with him.
00:44:30Is he out of his mind?
00:44:32Is he out of his mind?
00:44:33Yeah.
00:44:33No, he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation.
00:44:39Or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have his.
00:44:45Am I right?
00:44:47Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:44:51He's very logical.
00:44:53He's very insightful.
00:44:55And I value his opinion.
00:44:59Your friends have scoped me out.
00:45:02So why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends meet you and have you get
00:45:07along with them?
00:45:08My friends doesn't want to f*** me.
00:45:13He made that blow.
00:45:14It's over.
00:45:15He has no chance.
00:45:20Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael.
00:45:26And he said that I am the obstacle to those two having a relationship.
00:45:31I took it as a move.
00:45:34She said that it was meaning just friends, but I don't trust Michael.
00:45:40This is his opportunity to break us up.
00:45:44While she is confused about our relationship, this is a strategy.
00:45:55I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now.
00:46:37I feel like I have no choice.
00:46:39He's already f***ing coming.
00:46:41She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:46:44I just hope that Michael doesn't f*** up my entire future and my relationship.
00:46:54Let's go.
00:46:55We have a reservation.
00:46:58Okay.
00:47:09You can't speak Turkish.
00:47:11Oz, Oz, Turkish.
00:47:12Maybe I can't speak English.
00:47:13Okay.
00:47:15You know what the Turkish say?
00:47:16Cheers.
00:47:17How?
00:47:17Cheers.
00:47:18I'm just cheers.
00:47:29Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:35After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:47:41We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the
00:47:48ruins, but beer con's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:47:57You don't seem like you want to taste wine.
00:48:00You're like pounding it like a shot.
00:48:02Yeah.
00:48:02That's not a wine tasting.
00:48:05Yeah.
00:48:06I am miserable.
00:48:08You're miserable.
00:48:09I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:48:15This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:48:19This one is that.
00:48:20Three different to Turkish grape.
00:48:24Okay.
00:48:25Let's try.
00:48:25Cheers.
00:48:26You're welcome.
00:48:27Okay.
00:48:28Do you want to talk about this?
00:48:32Okay.
00:48:35There was no heads up.
00:48:37You declined my existence in this relationship.
00:48:43You just decide whatever you want.
00:48:47You are not respecting the person in your life.
00:48:52You don't respect me.
00:48:54That's not true at all.
00:48:55And now I have doubts.
00:48:59When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:49:04That could be my worst mistake.
00:49:07I don't know.
00:49:09What could be your worst mistake?
00:49:11This.
00:49:13Us.
00:49:17Here we are.
00:49:19It's a nice place, I hope.
00:49:21I have booked a resort.
00:49:24The pictures online looked really nice.
00:49:26So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:49:29and can help us reconnect.
00:49:31What is it?
00:49:32It's moving!
00:49:34Kill it.
00:49:35Step on it, get rid of it, take it outside.
00:49:38No!
00:49:40Ah!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:53Guys, where are we going?
00:49:56Lefty and we're just up here on the left.
00:49:59Here we are.
00:50:00Well, it looks super cute.
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys' plays.
00:50:13We'll tell you the code in about a week
00:50:15once we trust you.
00:50:18Cute.
00:50:19Wow.
00:50:23At this point,
00:50:24it's been 40 hours that I've been up
00:50:26and I am completely delirious,
00:50:28completely foggy.
00:50:29I put a game face on,
00:50:31I went to the mother bar,
00:50:32and now I am beyond thankful
00:50:34we're at the rental
00:50:35and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:50:37Guys, I really have to pee.
00:50:39Where's the bathroom?
00:50:40And then you can show me around.
00:50:41I'm really excited.
00:50:42Someone didn't make their bed.
00:50:43Joshua?
00:50:44Someone else?
00:50:46Oh!
00:50:47Her?
00:50:48Oh my God, this is a bathroom we're sharing?
00:50:50Oh no.
00:50:51This is too small!
00:50:55I'm going to die here.
00:50:56You will not die.
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward
00:51:00and like be positive
00:51:01and show him that like I'm not a complainer.
00:51:04It's f***ing small as s***.
00:51:06Sounds positive.
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of like Josh
00:51:10getting the apartment in a nice location.
00:51:13Maybe a little more vanity space
00:51:14would be beneficial
00:51:15and like I would have settled
00:51:17for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:51:19Like no offense, love you Chris.
00:51:21This is your room.
00:51:25What?
00:51:26Wait, wait, wait.
00:51:26What?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa we call it.
00:51:29You wanted this picture.
00:51:30Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:51:32No, I put it up.
00:51:33You know?
00:51:34Yeah.
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:38I didn't let him do that
00:51:40but I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:51:42So like what?
00:51:43When we're having sex
00:51:43we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's f***ing weird.
00:51:46When we have sex
00:51:47it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:56So I'm really confused.
00:51:58Like you could have put a picture of me.
00:52:00Didn't have one
00:52:01in such high depth.
00:52:02I mean all of my social media.
00:52:05It feels very surreal
00:52:06having Elise here with me in person.
00:52:08She's just been a voice
00:52:09on the other end of the phone
00:52:11so it'll be interesting to see
00:52:12how you know
00:52:14we both react to living together.
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space.
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer.
00:52:23Did you get a steamer?
00:52:24Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:27Do you think we should get
00:52:28like a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not
00:52:31do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36Um
00:52:36it looks like it could be
00:52:38an adjustment.
00:52:40There's like literally
00:52:41only one towel in here.
00:52:44I'm going to need more pillows.
00:52:47Uh
00:52:48we can organize that.
00:52:50Pillows
00:52:51steamer
00:52:51in the morning.
00:52:53We should maybe make a list
00:52:54so you don't forget.
00:52:55I'll write it down.
00:52:55Set yourself up for success.
00:52:57I'll write it down.
00:52:57Promise.
00:52:57Okay.
00:52:58Let's go to bed.
00:52:59Okay.
00:53:00Come on.
00:53:00Night guys.
00:53:02Good night.
00:53:03Alright.
00:53:06This is your bed.
00:53:07Okay.
00:53:07I just want to get comfy clothes on.
00:53:09Yep.
00:53:10And go to bed.
00:53:10And we're-
00:53:11Okay perfect.
00:53:11And I'm on the couch.
00:53:13Okay.
00:53:14Before I got here
00:53:16I told Joshua
00:53:17I wanted to take things slow
00:53:18so he's going to sleep
00:53:19on the couch.
00:53:20That way we're both
00:53:21avoiding temptation.
00:53:23Okay.
00:53:25Joshua gives me butterflies
00:53:27like he's hot
00:53:28like sending him away
00:53:29it's hard
00:53:30but like I came here
00:53:31wanting to do things differently
00:53:33like not leading with sex
00:53:34but at the same time
00:53:36I wanted to make him
00:53:37you know
00:53:37see a little glimpse
00:53:39of what he might be getting.
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:53Are you going to come
00:53:54say goodnight?
00:53:55Absolutely.
00:53:57Why such a serious look?
00:53:59Because it's
00:54:02you know why?
00:54:03You look like
00:54:04someone killed you.
00:54:06Yeah I'm getting killed
00:54:06inside.
00:54:07Painful.
00:54:08Alright well
00:54:09come take a night to me.
00:54:22Good night.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:26It's going to be
00:54:26hard sleep on the couch
00:54:27but yeah
00:54:28it's good to try
00:54:29and connect more
00:54:30on that emotional level
00:54:31than the sexual level
00:54:32off the bat.
00:54:33I think that probably
00:54:34you know that helps us.
00:54:36But would you want
00:54:37to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world
00:54:40of course I would
00:54:40as soon as I saw her
00:54:41I would.
00:54:42Rolled on the airport floor
00:54:43but you know
00:54:46I'm really happy
00:54:47that we have
00:54:48a really strong connection
00:54:49straight away
00:54:50from the moment we met.
00:54:52But I haven't shared
00:54:53my whole life
00:54:54with Elise yet.
00:54:55I'm a bit worried
00:54:56that she might
00:54:57find out some things
00:54:58you know
00:54:58parts of my life
00:54:59that she's not
00:55:00exactly happy with.
00:55:01I just hope
00:55:02I can show her
00:55:02that I'm a good person
00:55:03you know
00:55:04with flaws
00:55:04but a good person
00:55:05and hopefully
00:55:06she falls in love with me.
00:55:24Okay, we have to pack.
00:55:37Daniel, are you sure
00:55:38going on this trip
00:55:39with me?
00:55:40Um, yeah.
00:55:42Yeah, sure.
00:55:45Things are now
00:55:45settled with Lisa
00:55:47I'm still really hot
00:55:49with all the offense
00:55:50she have committed
00:55:51by telling lies
00:55:54but I decided
00:55:55to go on this trip
00:55:56with her.
00:55:57I hope we didn't
00:55:58forget anything.
00:55:59I don't know.
00:56:00I don't think so.
00:56:01I think we're good.
00:56:03This is going
00:56:04to be difficult
00:56:04but I will try
00:56:06my best
00:56:07to have a good time.
00:56:18Long Rod
00:56:19will get there
00:56:20pretty late
00:56:20so
00:56:21What is the place like?
00:56:23It's a lake.
00:56:25Yeah, there will be
00:56:25a lot of nature
00:56:26in the area
00:56:27to look at
00:56:28and lots
00:56:28of activities
00:56:29to do
00:56:30so
00:56:31I thought
00:56:32it would be
00:56:32enjoyable for us.
00:56:36So I want to come.
00:56:48You're thinking
00:56:49where the hell
00:56:49is she taking me?
00:56:51You know
00:56:52we call these
00:56:52in America
00:56:53the boonies.
00:56:54What is she?
00:56:55The boondocks
00:56:56where there's
00:56:57no real civilization
00:56:59it's just
00:57:00just woods.
00:57:04Here we are.
00:57:06It's a nice place
00:57:07I hope
00:57:10I have booked
00:57:11a resort
00:57:12in Bagari
00:57:14Nigeria
00:57:15it's the western
00:57:16part of Lagos
00:57:17the pictures online
00:57:19looked really nice
00:57:20and it's
00:57:21in my price range
00:57:22so
00:57:23I'm hoping
00:57:24this place
00:57:25is fun
00:57:25and romantic
00:57:26and can help
00:57:27us reconnect
00:57:29Oh wow
00:57:30I like it
00:57:31What do you think?
00:57:35Nice little space
00:57:36right?
00:57:36It's nice
00:57:37It's fine
00:57:38it's nice
00:57:39Oh my god
00:57:42What is it?
00:57:45Yes
00:57:45it's a spider
00:57:46No
00:57:47that could be poisonous
00:57:48I've not seen
00:57:49someone
00:57:50bitten by
00:57:51a spider before
00:57:54I have
00:57:55I'm not going to
00:57:56sleep in here
00:57:56with a spider
00:57:57I'm terrified
00:57:59I'm terrified of this spider
00:57:59because I don't know
00:58:00what kind of spider it is
00:58:01This thing is in Africa
00:58:03This could be dangerous
00:58:04Don't you dare
00:58:06fling it towards me
00:58:11Is it dead?
00:58:12Just much
00:58:13It's moving
00:58:16Kill it
00:58:17Step on it
00:58:18Get rid of it
00:58:19Take it outside
00:58:20No
00:58:23Daniel
00:58:25Alright stop
00:58:26Leave it
00:58:26I will kill it myself
00:58:29No
00:58:29Don't kick it again
00:58:31Stop
00:58:32Stop kicking it
00:58:36Where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel
00:58:38Get it off my shoe
00:58:40Okay
00:58:41Don't kick it at me
00:58:43I have a phobia
00:58:45of spiders
00:58:46It's just a spider
00:58:47No
00:58:48It's not just a spider
00:58:50It was huge
00:58:51It was like
00:58:51tarantula sized spider
00:58:53You are so rude
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders
00:58:58I told you to
00:58:59kill the spider
00:59:00Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:59:02I have
00:59:02Just spider
00:59:03Ordinary spider
00:59:04It's not an ordinary spider
00:59:05It's a vicious spider
00:59:07This is room you paid for
00:59:08You know where the spider's coming from
00:59:10Kill the spider
00:59:11Kill it
00:59:11No you kill it
00:59:14We're here now right?
00:59:18So what are we here for?
00:59:21It's a romantic getaway
00:59:24Romantic
00:59:24Yes
00:59:25Yes
00:59:30She wants us to have a romantic trip
00:59:33But it's very hard for me
00:59:36I am feeling
00:59:38Intense
00:59:40Because I don't know
00:59:41What my uncle is going to do
00:59:43Whether he will cancel this marriage
00:59:46I don't like waiting
00:59:47You know to talk to him
00:59:49You should enjoy it
00:59:51You came
00:59:52Why'd you come
00:59:53If you're not going to enjoy it?
00:59:55Honest
00:59:55You know why I'm here right?
00:59:57No I have no idea
00:59:58Why you decided to come
00:59:59No
01:00:01I'm here because
01:00:03I don't want the money
01:00:04You paid to be
01:00:05To be a waste
01:00:08That's the only reason
01:00:09Why you came
01:00:12Thanks
01:00:24Why don't you just wait a couple days?
01:00:27Just a couple days
01:00:28We can make this work for a couple days
01:00:31Daniel I need a couple days
01:00:33To do what?
01:00:35Just to get my head together
01:00:37And then we call your uncle
01:00:42I need a couple days
01:00:43Because I have to come clean to Daniel
01:00:45About the rest of everything
01:00:46Before he goes to his uncle
01:00:49But he's already so angry with me
01:00:52How am I going to get through it?
01:00:55I am terrified
01:00:56That Daniel's going to leave me forever
01:00:58Once he finds out
01:01:00I need a day or two
01:01:01That's all I'm asking for
01:01:03I want to have a day or two with you
01:01:07Finally
01:01:13This
01:01:13This one never ends
01:01:15Why do you do this?
01:01:16Is your mom always just bossy?
01:01:19You want traditional roles
01:01:21When it applies to you
01:01:24I'm just done with this conversation
01:01:26You know you used to be
01:01:27A lot softer and sweeter
01:01:29You don't want a bitchy wife
01:01:31Don't be a asshole
01:01:57You can't
01:01:59You know you used to be
01:02:15You can't
01:02:15You can't
01:02:16You can't
01:02:16what's wrong really yeah really you don't help me with anything like this laundry and this
01:02:26this one never ends why do you do this what the
01:02:34it's been nice having juvon in my house but i'm still thinking about my mom's concern about our
01:02:42long-distance relationship on top of that now that juvon and i are living together in one house
01:02:50slowly a baby i get to see how he is he's very messy and he just puts the clothes and
01:03:03the towels
01:03:03everywhere i feel like i have a toddler and i always have to pick up stuff from male to male
01:03:11is your mom always just bossy what i heard that we just haven't got time i heard that
01:03:21no me too loves me yeah well i love you too man i mean doesn't mean that you're not bossy
01:03:28what's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks there's nothing wrong with that
01:03:32anna it's how you're delivering anna what do you want from me instead of coming in the room say
01:03:38juvon pick up your stuff you know you can just say oh if you don't mind could you just pick
01:03:45up your
01:03:45stuff
01:03:48juvon yeah no matter how much i put it if you really would like to pick up that socks you
01:03:53would have
01:03:55see you don't see that i do actually you do but you don't do it no
01:04:03and like every time i talk to you you leave the room
01:04:18we all we do is talk that's all we do all right well i'm gonna try a little action today
01:04:25would you like to go get our like a manicure like our feet done
01:04:33well you definitely need a pedicure
01:04:38okay
01:04:46i feel sorry for whoever's gonna clean your feet
01:04:51dang how bad do you think my feet is anna's always complained that i'm not romantic enough
01:04:59but it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot still you thought it'd be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for anna to show her you know what i appreciate what you do
01:05:11hi good afternoon hello hello pa i just hope that she sees that i'm making a real effort here
01:05:20so it's like barbie threw up in here
01:05:24suits you so well look at you
01:05:26yeah sitting like a queen it's all pink
01:05:31i like it i know you did
01:05:36there you go
01:05:37yeah
01:05:40yeah
01:05:41see i told you
01:05:44it just feels weird
01:05:47oh that's nice
01:05:49oh my god boo that's a lot
01:05:53you doing okay over there
01:05:56i'm so tired
01:06:02is this being romantic
01:06:05yeah
01:06:05did i pass the test today
01:06:06kind of
01:06:08okay
01:06:08thank you some cool points
01:06:10i like that
01:06:13you still have to be nicer to me though
01:06:16and i'll do more nice things
01:06:19like if i leave like underwear or sops on the floor
01:06:24you know will you be nice
01:06:28no
01:06:28no
01:06:29i mean you can be nice to me but not by not dropping them on the floor
01:06:38i know but anna you know you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and you know more patient
01:06:44with me
01:06:45you know what i think it is it's just i think that you knew i wasn't going anywhere and you
01:06:49got comfortable
01:06:53being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like okay well i got this person
01:07:00i don't have to try anymore you know he's always going to be there no matter what
01:07:06don't ever get too comfortable
01:07:07i don't understand where did this come from do you get it from those videos that you've been watching
01:07:21about masculinity and other things
01:07:24no that's my that's that's that's all my idea i take full credit for that
01:07:32it's just odd because i feel like over the couple of years watching all these videos you've changed
01:07:39and i love who you are
01:07:43but anna this is who i was when you first met me
01:07:46no you're not you were not that prideful before i feel like your idea of being a husband changed
01:07:55you see it like a power
01:07:57i don't have any that's the problem like i feel like
01:08:00that's the problem you need to feel powerful
01:08:02no
01:08:02and you're not i feel like i have all the responsibility with no authority because when i tell you to
01:08:08do something you don't listen to me so what are you talking about
01:08:13you want traditional roles when it when it applies to you i always have to take care of everything financially
01:08:21so as your husband i feel like having to say is nice you know it just means you just respectful
01:08:30ah just done with this conversation
01:08:37why did you bring me here
01:08:40well i wanted you to have a good time
01:08:42yes
01:08:43but if you were gonna
01:08:44do i look like i'm having a good time
01:08:45but you set me up
01:08:46you were asking me questions and i just answered them honestly
01:08:50you ever heard the term you know you don't want to hear the answers so cease from asking dumbass questions
01:08:57you ever think about that
01:08:59and you don't want to bitch your wife don't be a asshole
01:09:04i can just sit here and get my feet done like i don't have to
01:09:09then just stay here okay don't come home
01:09:12you need to calm down
01:09:18i don't want to see you ever again
01:09:22don't come home ever
01:09:26jerk
01:09:29you're disgusting
01:09:33hey i will see you soon
01:09:35all right
01:09:36i cannot believe michael is actually here in turkey
01:09:41he said to tell you hi
01:09:43i'm not saying hi
01:09:47you want to open it
01:09:49hey
01:09:50hi friend
01:09:51oh my god
01:10:13i have a phone call
01:10:20hello
01:10:23hello
01:10:23hey good morning
01:10:25good morning how are you
01:10:28are you doing well
01:10:30um
01:10:30my hotel won't be ready until like 2 o'clock
01:10:34uh
01:10:35is there any chance i can point in my
01:10:37say hello
01:10:40it's totally fine with me i mean
01:10:43i was just gonna say i pin dropped you my location
01:10:46yeah
01:10:47okay i will uh i will see you soon
01:10:50i wish for walking your direction
01:10:51all right
01:10:52be careful
01:10:55thanks
01:10:55bye bye
01:10:57bye
01:11:06i'm a little bit worried that michael's here
01:11:09now
01:11:09now that this is real and he actually showed up in turkey
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself
01:11:18i'm incredibly nervous and i feel like i'm about to die
01:11:27hey
01:11:29hey
01:11:30that was michael
01:11:31what
01:11:32what is he saying
01:11:35he said to tell you hi
01:11:37what
01:11:40why
01:11:41because
01:11:42i'm not saying hi
01:11:44well
01:11:46he's gonna be here
01:11:48at this apartment
01:11:50this apartment
01:11:51and about
01:11:52turkey is okay but this apartment
01:11:55ten
01:11:55minutes
01:12:01i cannot believe that michael is actually here in turkey
01:12:06he dropped everything to get on a plane for me
01:12:10i mean it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that
01:12:15but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated
01:12:22so you think this is normal
01:12:27well
01:12:29i think he's just concerned about me
01:12:33yeah
01:12:34sure
01:12:36that's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other
01:12:40yeah i believe him
01:12:42he's such a good heart
01:12:50i'm not five years old
01:12:51i don't eat that
01:12:55your friend is trying to this connection and you're like yay
01:13:01okay
01:13:03it's like i don't get it
01:13:06i never wanted him to come
01:13:08and i still don't want him to come
01:13:11i think he's coming in turkey
01:13:14to mix up laura's mind
01:13:16maybe talk some about me
01:13:19give laura more doubts
01:13:22but
01:13:23if
01:13:23our relationship is
01:13:25gonna end
01:13:26because of michael
01:13:28i don't blame michael
01:13:30i will blame laura
01:13:37you want to open it
01:13:39yeah i do actually
01:13:41thank you
01:13:47hey
01:13:48hi friend
01:13:49oh my god
01:13:50i cannot believe you're in turkey
01:13:53is it safe to come in
01:13:55yes
01:13:55this is
01:13:56oh my god wild
01:13:57oh my god
01:13:59oh my god
01:13:59they're gonna palace here
01:14:07i cannot believe you're in turkey
01:14:08oh no
01:14:09this is amazing
01:14:11it's crazy
01:14:11the most spontaneous thing i've ever done in my life
01:14:13i have no doubt
01:14:14and i do it for you
01:14:15i do it for you
01:14:18so
01:14:19so
01:14:19oh my god
01:14:21absolutely
01:14:22wow
01:14:22oh wow
01:14:23yeah this is
01:14:24fantastic right
01:14:25i hope my hotel room looks like this
01:14:27holy cow
01:14:28no
01:14:29hi michael
01:14:30you come
01:14:31nice to meet you finally
01:14:32i've heard so much about you
01:14:34yeah
01:14:35it probably hurt
01:14:36i'm
01:14:38okay
01:14:45make yourself at home
01:14:46okay
01:14:47you want something to drink
01:14:49tea
01:14:50yeah anything like that
01:14:51okay
01:14:52just have a seat right here
01:14:53i don't know how it works
01:14:54yeah that's my
01:14:55do the women make tea here or do the boys do it
01:14:58boys
01:14:58the boys make the tea
01:15:00they call men if they are grown up
01:15:03oh okay
01:15:08um
01:15:09would you like anything
01:15:10okay
01:15:12i am perfect
01:15:13thank you
01:15:27so bunny what you're watching
01:15:30scarface
01:15:36you like american classic movies
01:15:39no
01:15:43i like mob stuff
01:15:45i enjoy pretty much violence
01:15:54do you like
01:15:56do i like this movie or
01:15:58violence
01:16:03uh
01:16:05golly i i'll be honest with you i don't know what to make of beer con
01:16:09um i know i just kind of dropped it on him but
01:16:12he's talking about violence to me on the couch
01:16:14if that's truly who he is then i can't imagine that's healthy for laura
01:16:20my first impression of beer con is that laura and i are more compatible than i think uh than beer
01:16:24con and she are
01:16:25so i want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:16:35i love you so much
01:16:37stop telling me that
01:16:39stop with her some secrets
01:16:41all i can think about
01:16:43is how there is more to tell him
01:16:45and i have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
01:16:48it has to be tonight
01:16:50so i have more to tell you then
01:16:52more to tell me
01:17:17good morning
01:17:20good morning
01:17:25you're going to sleep
01:17:26you're going to sleep or i can
01:17:28you kept me awake all try tonight
01:17:30i know i didn't mean to keep you awake i couldn't help it i was sad
01:17:33now you almost went to bed with tears
01:17:42i feel bad about everything that transpired
01:17:48but i feel better this morning
01:17:50yeah because i i coded you right
01:17:53and they were crying so loud so i have to
01:17:56i have to cuddle you you know
01:18:01last night i cried myself to sleep
01:18:03all i could think about is how i have to tell daniel my secret
01:18:07and i'm scared i'm going to lose him forever
01:18:10but daniel held me all night so i'm waking up feeling a little hopeful
01:18:16today is a new day
01:18:18and i'm hoping that we can explore and have some fun together
01:18:21yes hello
01:18:22where are we breathing
01:18:23i'd like to look at the lake and i'd like to walk around and see what else there is
01:18:28that's fine
01:18:29all right let's get dressed
01:18:41come on let's go down towards the water
01:18:46oh my gosh
01:18:50this is a whole resort and there's nobody here
01:18:59it's not like it's pictures
01:19:03it's pretty desolate actually
01:19:06and it's a bit run down
01:19:10i'm gonna smile a little bit
01:19:13but maybe that it's desolate is gonna help me with daniel
01:19:20maybe it's a little bit more intimate for the two of us
01:19:25water is so big
01:19:27yeah it's so big the water
01:19:33oh look at this this is neat
01:19:35let's have one
01:19:37two please
01:19:41i feel that things are going back to normal like
01:19:44this is trying to rebuild our relationship
01:19:48oh wow
01:19:51delicious
01:19:52let's go for a bike ride
01:19:54can you ride a bike?
01:19:56i don't know i will try
01:19:59to me i welcomed it
01:20:01i want us to be together
01:20:03because i love her
01:20:07you know it takes muscle to pull this
01:20:09yes that's why you're doing the pedaling and i'm doing the steering
01:20:13look at the pace
01:20:14no not that fast i think you made me not that fast
01:20:20don't go so fast
01:20:24i feel so light and so good in this moment with daniel
01:20:29he is having fun and seeing the smile on his face as he's doing it
01:20:33i really feel like we're reconnecting
01:20:36are you having fun?
01:20:38yes i am
01:20:39see this is exactly what we needed
01:20:43i want to just enjoy myself
01:20:44but i can't because all i can think about
01:20:47is how there is more to tell him
01:20:49and i have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
01:20:52it has to be tonight
01:21:16it's a bonfire honey
01:21:17we're dancers
01:21:20i'm enjoying the sun
01:21:24this is beautiful
01:21:26have a seat
01:21:28let's watch them
01:21:28let's enjoy it
01:21:32it's beautiful isn't it
01:21:37thank you
01:21:38thank you
01:21:42this is nice
01:21:45are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:21:50i'm enjoying spending time with you
01:21:51this is what this few days is about
01:21:55do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit?
01:21:58i really want us to reconnect
01:22:01you know i miss the way we used to be
01:22:04but i'm trying to respect our tradition
01:22:08we have to call my uncle
01:22:11when i call him i will beg on our behalf
01:22:14i love you
01:22:15i love you too
01:22:16i want to make you
01:22:19i want to you know love you forever
01:22:22but stop telling me lies
01:22:24stop with hurting some secrets
01:22:27okay?
01:22:29i understand
01:22:31okay
01:22:33so i have more to tell you then
01:22:36more to tell me?
01:22:40what do you mean?
01:22:43so like in nigeria
01:22:46it's not legal for
01:22:49men to marry men or women to marry women right?
01:22:52it's not legal?
01:22:52it's not, yeah
01:22:53in america it is
01:22:56yes i've heard of that
01:23:01so
01:23:02my last marriage wasn't with a man
01:23:07i'm divorcing a woman daniel
01:23:12and i've been with more than one woman
01:23:16you're the first man that i've been with in 21 years
01:23:30it's not
01:23:32it's not as bad as...
01:23:33don't come close to me
01:23:39next time on before the 90 days
01:23:42hi
01:23:45hi
01:23:46having female friends can be hard to juggle
01:23:49but i want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about
01:23:51today i found out that he was living with you
01:23:54yeah i think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way
01:23:58no financial hold
01:23:59no i don't
01:24:01are you jealous of me?
01:24:03and our relationship?
01:24:08we're officially on the gp
01:24:11i only have a week left here in the philippines
01:24:14and i don't want to waste any time in bringing sheena to america
01:24:17so i have to be very clear here
01:24:21if you file today for the k1 vision
01:24:25it will be denied
01:24:30i just feel really hopeless because i'm putting in massive effort
01:24:36and at this moment i'm at a crossroads i don't know how to move forward
01:24:46i'm excited to see my family
01:24:49do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:24:51yeah, to see me
01:24:52what about me?
01:24:54i don't know
01:24:56i feel scared
01:24:58my family won't accept rick
01:25:01when they don't like something
01:25:03they are really aggressive
01:25:05rick doesn't know what he's in for
01:25:15they want babies
01:25:20you have a lot of secrets
01:25:22i have no more secrets
01:25:24you don't have to
01:25:25you have been touched by a woman
01:25:27not even women
01:25:30what a range
01:25:34daniel's not going to accept me for who i am
01:25:36you know what?
01:25:37him
01:25:39him
01:25:43he's us
01:25:43you
01:25:45you
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