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1000-lb Sisters - Season 8 - Episode 04: Nobody's Butt Monkey
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00:00Previously on 1,000 Pound Sisters.
00:03There's one thing for certain.
00:04I know I want a first dance with my husband.
00:11If I had known breakdancing would have turned into an Olympic sport,
00:14I would have stuck with it.
00:15But, I mean, who saw that coming?
00:17I'm planning on asking Amy to go to the animal shelter with me.
00:22I think it's a great idea.
00:24Technically, right now, everything is semi-okay with Amy.
00:27But at the same time, it feels like we're drifting apart.
00:32She used to be my best friend.
00:36Lily's gonna be my middle owner.
00:39After every day, I'm gonna want to spend it.
00:43And she's doing this to me.
00:47Man, what the hell happened this morning in the group chat?
00:51Amy backed out of going to the animal shelter.
00:54And Tammy lost her.
01:00She called me a deadbeat mom, you know?
01:03Tammy went too far.
01:04You can say what you want about Amy, but she does her best with the boys.
01:26Even though I mostly moved in with Andrea, I still have a lot of stuff at the yellow house.
01:31So, I decided to go and clean up and hang out for a little bit.
01:36And an old friend of the family is gonna stop by.
01:41Man!
01:43Oh, my God.
01:46It's late.
01:47And girl, look at you.
01:49My God!
01:51How much weight have you lost?
01:53How much weight have you lost?
01:55Well, look, I've got you a few things.
01:57My relationship with Tammy started in 1993.
02:01I was working as an administrator for a church at the time.
02:05So, in the summer, I would pick up kids and we'd take them to Evansville and do those kind of
02:09things.
02:09So, look here.
02:13No, I'm done with you.
02:15Yeah, well, you need to be.
02:16One time, we was going to a water park and I remember pulling up to their house and Tammy sticking
02:22her head out.
02:22I was like, who is that?
02:24Amy says, that's fat Tammy, she can't go.
02:27And I was like, well, if fat Tammy can't go, fat Amy can't go.
02:30And I walked in the house, got Tammy, she got in the front of the van, and we've had a
02:35connection practically ever since then.
02:38You're a totally different person.
02:41I can't believe it.
02:43The last time I saw Tammy at Caleb's memorial service, she was mobile, but she was still very overweight.
02:52To be honest, I thought that was going to be her limit.
02:56And then when I saw Tammy today, I was totally shocked.
03:00If I would have seen Tammy anywhere besides here, I wouldn't have even known it was her.
03:04What surgeries did you have done?
03:06I had my apron removed, my upper arms.
03:11Oh, my girl.
03:13They put fat right here, my upper cheeks, and my line right here to make my small little upper not
03:20down.
03:21Well, because they know you got that resting bitch face, you know?
03:25They're trying to make you somebody young.
03:26Is that what it is?
03:27No, I'm teasing.
03:29I love Billy.
03:31He's an ordained minister and a registered nurse.
03:35And he has been there through all the ups and downs throughout my life.
03:42I got it.
03:44All right.
03:45Friends and families, I present Caleb and Tammy Willingham.
03:55So, how's the family?
03:59Falling apart.
04:00Girl.
04:02Amy's done blocked me.
04:05It's never been this bad.
04:08I haven't heard from Amy since our text fight.
04:11She's blocked me on everything.
04:14This is the first time Amy's ever blocked me.
04:17But she's not hurting nobody but herself because she's lost her sister, the one that was there for her for
04:24everything.
04:26I used to go to the animal shelter.
04:29And she's like, PTSD, PTSD, PTSD.
04:33From what, bitch?
04:35Wait a minute.
04:36She just got bit by a camel.
04:39What's she talking about?
04:40Oh, well.
04:41There you go, PTSD.
04:42You go to pet stores and get snakes and cats.
04:47What's the difference?
04:50There's nothing bigger than a dog.
04:52How the animal shelter.
04:56Maybe apologize and say you didn't put the big dogs and the camels together.
05:02And sometimes that's all it takes is doing that.
05:07Tammy's argument with her sister makes no sense to me whatsoever.
05:12Tammy and Amy have come so far.
05:14And it wasn't because they were separated.
05:16It was because they were together.
05:17And my hopes is that they realize they need each other.
05:22Anyway, Amy called and asked me about marrying them.
05:29So, which I'm more than happy to do it.
05:32But I do have to, you know, just like you and Caleb, I got to get with him and see
05:36what's needed.
05:38Amy asked Billy to officiate her wedding.
05:43Kind of funny.
05:43He did mine.
05:45Now you want him to do yours.
05:48But she's always been jealous of me.
05:52Good luck.
05:53Because he's not going to do it if he don't think they're ready.
05:59I'm not going to judge him because it's not my, well, I know that you are.
06:03But it's, we learn it's not our place to judge.
06:05However, we can, we can have high opinions.
06:08And you know that with your, your whole family.
06:10If you have an opinion about something, nobody else's opinion matters.
06:14Nobody's.
06:26Oh, look, we're here, Daddy.
06:28We are.
06:29You want to go on in?
06:30No, we got to wait for everybody.
06:33All right.
06:35It's so good that the wedding is finally coming out of my head and becoming a reality.
06:41You know, we have a venue.
06:42We have flowers.
06:43And today, me, Chris, Misty, Brittany, and Brian are all going wedding cake tasting for my wedding.
06:50I was going to have Tammy at my cake testing, but she don't want nothing to do with me, so
06:56her.
06:57Like, I'm done trying.
06:59I threw out all my olive branches.
07:00They ain't got no more on the tree.
07:02She rebuked every one of them and lit them on fire.
07:08What's up, sis?
07:09Hey, what's up?
07:10This is us.
07:11This is the cake decorating or cake testing crew.
07:14It's the cake tasting team.
07:16Okay.
07:17Look, I'm a fat kid.
07:18Let's go here and try some cake.
07:20The truth is, Tammy not being here sucks.
07:24But she's too damn hard-headed to say I'm sorry.
07:27And I think 10 years down the road, Tammy will have remorse about not being a part of Amy's special
07:36day.
07:37Hello, I have an appointment for her cake tasting.
07:40Okay, is it Amy?
07:41Yes.
07:42Yes.
07:43Perfect.
07:44With cake tasting, typically, I just meet with the bride and the mom of the bride.
07:50Sometimes it's the groom, but it's usually just, like, two or three people.
07:54So when they walked in, I was kind of taken aback because it was the whole family.
07:58Thank y'all so much for coming.
07:59It really does mean a lot to me.
08:01Oh, you're welcome.
08:02I'm glad you give me a reason to cheat on my diet.
08:06All right.
08:07So the one on the very end is the cookies and cream.
08:11Copy that.
08:13Actually, that ain't bad.
08:14That is good.
08:15But, Lord, it's sweet.
08:17We are all used to sugar-free stuff, so when we get sugar, it's like, whoa.
08:22Yeah.
08:22The next one is actually a banana cake.
08:26This is good.
08:29I haven't had sugar in two or three months, so I'm ready for some cake.
08:35I'm just going to take little bitty teeny bites.
08:39So I'm not depriving myself, but I still get a little taste of it.
08:43The next one is salted caramel.
08:45It's infused with caramel on the inside.
08:47You've got to get to the good part.
08:49You can go deep-sea diving in here.
08:51Yeah.
08:52So what's the plan?
08:53Are you going to feed her, or are you just going to smash it in his face?
08:56I'm not going to smash it, because I'm not here, so I'm going to hurt somebody.
09:00Well, that's rude.
09:00I'm not smashing through.
09:01I'd be worth it just for us, for you to just, what?
09:05If he gives me permission.
09:07What?
09:07You don't ask for permission.
09:09You begs for forgiveness later.
09:11Yes.
09:12If you're smashing the cake in my face, I'm good.
09:14Okay.
09:15See, I get permission.
09:18Would you guys say that you're bonding with Brian at all today?
09:22I don't know about bonding.
09:24We don't bond.
09:26Not really.
09:27We tolerate.
09:28Yeah.
09:28They're bed warmers until they've been around for 10 years.
09:31After 10 years, then we kind of...
09:33So I'm still a bed warmer?
09:34You've been around 10 years.
09:37We haven't been married 10.
09:38No, but we've been together over...
09:39We've been together 10, so that's what I'm talking about.
09:45You know Dr. Smith's going to read us right after...
09:48You know him, dude.
09:49I think he'll be okay, just one exception.
09:51No, because there's no cheat days.
09:53Not supposed to be.
09:55Like, I try to eat healthy.
09:57But I'm going to need the energy, you know?
09:59I'm going to have my sons there, plus, you know, getting married, and I'm going to need the sugar.
10:03Go big or go home.
10:06The past few months, I gained a lot of weight.
10:08I know I did.
10:09And right now, I'm still not at a healthy size.
10:13But now I'm trying to get my weight right for the wedding.
10:17And skin removal is more important to me now than ever, because I ain't going to lie, my dumb lap
10:22pisses me off sometimes.
10:25My dumb lap, my belly, my floopy.
10:28Like, if you crawl on the floor with your boys, right?
10:32I once kicked my damn floopy.
10:37That's a serious condition, man.
10:45I like this one.
11:04Amy says that she's on her diet.
11:06You know how you lose that fabulous vibe right before you get in that dress?
11:11Don't look at me like that.
11:12You know what I'm talking about?
11:13I know what you're talking about.
11:14I just don't see Amy doing it.
11:17She was eating the out of that icing, and that icing ain't nothing but sugar.
11:22We can't eat nothing else the rest of the day.
11:23No, we don't blow our calories.
11:25Even with the little teeny bites.
11:27Don't matter.
11:29You're blowing your calories looking at him.
11:39Are we hot?
11:40Are we hot?
11:44Are you okay?
11:52I know you miss her.
11:53You can't lie to her.
11:55I know Tammy got very rolled up with the text and stuff, but it's because she misses her so
12:01bad, so she acts out.
12:03I just like to see y'all reconcile as well.
12:09Describe your wedding vibe in three words.
12:11This is not what I expected.
12:12I thought there was going to be Halloween costumes.
12:14It's more than three words.
12:17I didn't know the power of clothing until I tried on that dress.
12:22Tammy ain't the queen no more.
12:24I've been knotted now.
12:36How are you doing over there, boss?
12:38You all right?
12:41Do you feel like your blood sugar's going crazy?
12:44I don't know.
12:46I'm feeling funny.
12:48Well, yeah, it's called dumping syndrome.
12:51Yeah, she will get dumping syndrome because she had the bypass.
12:55Mm-hmm.
12:55Yeah.
12:56No.
12:58A lot of bariatric patients do get dumping syndrome after they had the weight loss surgery.
13:05It happens when you eat too many bites and your stomach can't hold it, and it goes off
13:10to your small intestine before it should.
13:13I just feel strange and off, like my forehead's sweating.
13:17I'm feeling like something's about to come up the pipes that ain't supposed to come up.
13:37But after a while, it'll just feel better.
13:41Y'all want to try this last one?
13:44All right, so it's a chocolate turtle.
13:46It's filled with caramel and pecans.
13:48It already sounds good, and I ain't even touched it.
13:51Today, Amy failed wholeheartedly on her diet.
13:55You can't eat like that after bariatric surgery.
13:59She can ignore the whole damn diet if she wants to, but her ass whiter than her shoulders,
14:04you can't deny.
14:07She want to think it's a problem that's going to go away on its own.
14:10No, bitch.
14:11You're going to be in the same boat you were five, six years ago.
14:16So what if we just do this banana one?
14:19The turtle and the salted caramel.
14:21Could I request the turtle be in the top, like the...
14:24Oh, yeah.
14:25To do the cake with it.
14:27Yes, I love it.
14:42I don't even know this place existed, but it'll be fun.
14:46Andrea made us an appointment so we can go get our hair blown out and cut.
14:53I know she's doing it to kind of help me get out of my feelings a little bit.
15:00Hi.
15:01Hey.
15:03Welcome to Willow in Barcelona.
15:05We'll get you guys started.
15:07The fight recently with Tammy and Amy is the most upset I've seen Tammy since I've known her.
15:13I mean, Amy is Tammy's person.
15:15Everybody's got a person, and Amy is her person.
15:18That's why it's bothering her so bad, and it bothers me to see her that way.
15:23So today, I just wanted to bring Tammy here just so she could enjoy herself.
15:27I want her to get all dolled up, and whatever she wants, she can have.
15:31Do you want to scoot down just a little bit?
15:34Maybe just a little bit more.
15:36It takes a minute to get kind of used to it.
15:38Does that feel okay?
15:39Yeah, that's better.
15:40You've never had a blowout, have you?
15:42No, I didn't even know what one was.
15:45I get used to this, so...
15:49When Andrea told me we were going to go get a blowout, I've had one before.
15:54I just didn't know that that's what they were called.
15:57If you just say, I have a blowout, could be your baby had a blowout and blew his diaper off.
16:08I don't know.
16:10This feels so good.
16:15Are you asleep?
16:20It does feel good getting my hair washed and stuff.
16:25It hurts a little bit, but that's not her fault.
16:29It's because my skin removal surgery is still a little tender.
16:35It's like the sides of my head, right here, because that's mostly where scarring is.
16:44But other than that, like, I really did enjoy it.
16:47And I think most importantly for me, Andrea enjoyed it.
16:54I'm going to take this off, and I will be right back.
16:59And how would you like me to style yours?
17:00Do you want some curls thrown in it?
17:02Do you want me to blow it out like Tammy's?
17:04Yeah, that's fine.
17:05You're going to blow it out like Tammy's?
17:06Okay.
17:07I'm going to go grab you a new kit, too, okay?
17:08Okay, thank you.
17:09You're welcome.
17:11So, Amy told us where she was going to have her wedding.
17:17Where?
17:18Near Louisville.
17:19Oh, okay.
17:21It's supposed to be, like, kind of a historic place.
17:24I don't think I'm about it anymore because of the argument.
17:33Listen, you guys were so close, and I just want to see...
17:40Y'all be how you used to be.
17:44Tammy misses Amy like crazy.
17:46Every time we talk about it, she kind of tears up a little bit.
17:50You know, in 2013, my mom died.
17:54It was the worst day of my life.
17:55I didn't get to say goodbye.
17:57I didn't get to say any of that.
17:59And life's too short to be arguing over silly stuff.
18:04Family, when they're gone, they're gone.
18:06That's it.
18:08I just like to see y'all reconcile as all of me.
18:11It's not that I don't want to, but if Amy's blocked me on everything...
18:15Well, I understand that, but I...
18:17And if I'm around her, she's not going to acknowledge me.
18:24Well, maybe start out baby steps.
18:27I might be without the bull...
18:29Listen, we could do.
18:31We could, like, I don't know, go out to eat or something, all three of us.
18:39She ain't going to go.
18:41If you want to try, try.
18:43I want to try, I do want to try.
18:45I seriously doubt it, but okay.
18:48Because I know you miss her.
18:50You can't like her.
18:52I know Tammy got very rolled up with the text and stuff,
18:55but it's because she misses her so bad,
18:58so she acts out to...
19:00She wants it, but she just don't want to admit it.
19:04All right, we're going to get started with the blowout.
19:16I kind of really like my hair.
19:18I think the 20-40 era of hairstyles kind of fit me now.
19:27Like, they make...
19:28Like, I look like I'm blonde in that era
19:31when I have my hair done like that.
19:34You've been taking pictures of me, haven't you?
19:36Maybe.
19:37How's that?
19:38It looks good. I like it.
19:40Why are you just laughing at me?
19:42Not good.
19:43Because you finally pampered yourself.
19:47I know.
19:49It looks good when you can.
19:52She's always going to look beautiful to me.
19:55Even when she wakes out of bed,
19:58has her fro.
20:03Even I do.
20:04Because the way we rustle in bed,
20:07nothing nasty.
20:08Just how we turn over.
20:10Toss it and turn it in the bed.
20:13It happens.
20:15Do I look delicious?
20:18What's your answer?
20:26He got hot in here.
20:28We had a great time.
20:30And I appreciate Andrea's advice
20:33to talk things out with Amy.
20:35But I don't think it's going to work.
20:39Amy's got to set her ways.
20:41And when she makes her mind up, it's over.
20:43So I really think it's a waste of time.
20:47I'm not saying I'm not willing to give it a chance.
20:50But if the other party is not willing,
20:53then why?
20:53Why?
20:54It's just a waste of time and effort.
21:02I am not in the wrong for asking a damn question.
21:05In order to forgive Tammy,
21:07she needs to take accountability for her actions.
21:11If she don't want to be positive to me,
21:13then I don't want to talk to her.
21:22I don't really care about the cut and stuff.
21:24I just want a lot of appliques and stuff like that.
21:27You want a cut that's going to be flattering to your figure.
21:31Today, me, Brittany, Misty, and my maid of honor, Lily,
21:35are going wedding dress shopping for me.
21:38In a perfect world, all my sisters would be here
21:41and help me pick out a wedding dress.
21:42But Amanda's sick and Tammy's a bitch.
21:45So there's that.
21:47But I ain't letting them ruin it.
21:49This is my day, bitch.
21:51Did y'all get to go wedding dress shopping?
21:54Nope.
21:54I didn't.
21:55Somebody I knew had one for sale
21:57and they're like, this will look good.
21:59I guess I went to their house and tried it on.
22:02My first time I got married,
22:04I wore sweatpants and T-shirt.
22:06I went bougie with David.
22:08I put on black dress pants and a nice shirt.
22:13I mail-ordered mine for me and Michael's.
22:17My first wedding dress was a burlap tater sack.
22:21So now that I'm skinnier,
22:24I can fit into a lot more gams.
22:27In my head, I kind of picture like lacing and stuff like that.
22:31You wasn't bougie.
22:33Yeah.
22:35So Andrea called me the other day
22:37and asked me to go get coffee with her
22:39just to meet me in person for the first time
22:43and talk to me about what's going on with Tammy
22:46so Tammy can actually sit down with me
22:48and have an adult conversation.
22:50Because she's trying to patch thing over.
22:53Yeah, but if she don't want to be positive to me,
22:56then I don't want to talk to her.
22:57I just simply asked a question,
22:59what kind of animals are going to be at this place?
23:02And she went postal.
23:03I am not in the wrong for asking a damn question.
23:07Well, unless you're going to a zoo,
23:09they don't have exotics.
23:14Well, how was I supposed to know that
23:16until she actually said it?
23:17I understand what you're saying.
23:18It's only cats and dogs, Amy, maybe a fairy.
23:21I would have been fine.
23:26The thing of it is,
23:27when you have major surgeries like that,
23:29it messes your body up for a while.
23:31And it takes a couple years for it to get back in sync.
23:35I'm a lot better now than I was.
23:37Right.
23:38You know, Chris went through a little bit of a period
23:40where he was anal.
23:42Amy Elizabeth, you did too.
23:45Now, with Tammy, she had a lot done in one surgery,
23:49and it might have messed her hormones up.
23:52But until Tammy realizes that she has a problem,
23:56she will not address it.
23:59Tammy's lucky that I'm willing to hear her out.
24:02But in order to forgive her,
24:05she needs to take accountability for her actions.
24:08Damn, the popo knew I was coming.
24:10They're already down here with the lights flashing.
24:13This time, I'm innocent.
24:24Hey, Gara.
24:25Hey.
24:27How are you?
24:28I'm good.
24:29How y'all doing?
24:30Pretty good.
24:31Brittany, have you met Lili?
24:32Mm-mm.
24:33This is my friend, Lili.
24:34She's also my man and honor.
24:36This is the first time Brittany and Missy's
24:39actually hanging out with Lili one-on-one,
24:41or two-on-one, or whatever.
24:44It's really nice seeing, you know,
24:47my best friend meet my sisters
24:48and becoming one with the family,
24:50because that's how I see her.
24:53Hello.
24:53Welcome to Hattie James.
24:55Who's the appointment for today?
24:56Amy.
24:57All right.
24:57You guys can come with me.
25:00This is my mom, Holly.
25:02Hi.
25:02She's going to go through all the questions.
25:04It's just going to kind of give us a good idea
25:06of what you're thinking for your dress.
25:08Describe your wedding vibe in three words.
25:10Like, when somebody comes to your wedding,
25:12what do you want them to say afterward about your wedding?
25:15This is not what I expected.
25:16I thought there was going to be Halloween costumes.
25:18That's more than three words.
25:20Not what I expect.
25:22Okay.
25:23If you were to pick, like, a celebrity
25:25that you like kind of their fashion,
25:28who would that be?
25:30What's that girl's name?
25:33Melissa.
25:33Melissa McCartney.
25:35Okay.
25:35The fat bitch.
25:36Yeah.
25:39McCartney's married to one of the Beatles dudes.
25:41Perfect.
25:41Yeah.
25:42Yeah.
25:42I love the Beatles.
25:43I know.
25:44Yeah.
25:46Melissa McCartney's just a fat actress.
25:48Well, she used to be fatter,
25:50but, like, fat Amy Reba Wilson.
25:53They both were big actresses,
25:55and they were true to their fat girlness.
25:59And what are some of the most important details
26:01of your dream wedding gown?
26:03I want it mostly white,
26:04but with black accents.
26:07Okay.
26:07Yeah, perfect.
26:08Margot is going to hand you all some white gloves,
26:11and then we will let everyone go through some dresses.
26:14For my wedding, I wore sweatpants and a T-shirt,
26:17so I think it's hilarious that this lady thinks
26:20that we can pick out a dress for Amy.
26:22Hopefully we can find one that suits her unique personality.
26:30Just trying to think of her style she likes.
26:34Do they have that style in a wedding dress?
26:37I feel so posh in me.
26:39This would be cute,
26:40because she was talking about the accents.
26:42Yeah.
26:43What y'all think about this?
26:45That's pretty.
26:46I can't believe how heavy them things are.
26:48I met Lele last year.
26:51I don't know that much about her.
26:54But, honestly,
26:55it's extremely weird to me
26:57that Tammy's not the maid of honor.
27:00All right, y'all ready?
27:01Mm-hmm.
27:01Yes.
27:03Oh, Lord, that's a lot of dress.
27:05Whose choice is this?
27:06Mine.
27:08I feel like a cake topper.
27:12I feel like a marshmallow cake topper.
27:15I feel like a decoration.
27:16I don't know.
27:17This is a lot of dress
27:18for how short you are.
27:21No offense to Misty,
27:23but I kind of want to feel skinny
27:25and not a thousand layers.
27:28Like, I feel short and compact.
27:31I'm a
27:33recycled bin.
27:35Here I come.
27:43It's real sparkly.
27:45It's twirly.
27:50I do love the little thing up top.
27:53Not gonna lie,
27:53it gives you a little extra something, something.
27:55The one shoulder.
27:56Yeah.
27:57Mm-hmm.
27:57The dress that Lele picked out,
27:59I like the top portion,
28:01but the skirt was just too much.
28:02This one's losing glitter.
28:05They like to shed,
28:06that's for sure.
28:09Are y'all ready?
28:10Yeah.
28:11Yeah.
28:12It's all you get.
28:14I'm sorry.
28:16I'm just kidding.
28:17Oh, that is so pretty.
28:20I love that.
28:21Oh, you look beautiful.
28:25I love it.
28:27That looks gorgeous.
28:29Yeah, I like that.
28:30Y'all want to see it with the veil?
28:32Yeah.
28:38Tammy ain't the queen no more.
28:39I've been nodding now.
28:42If you want to look in this big mirror,
28:44this is kind of what your full picture would look like.
28:46That looks really nice.
28:48I know, right?
28:49I've lost all that weight.
28:50Like, before I would be...
28:51It's so beautiful.
28:52No, I think it looks amazing.
28:54And it's hiding my...
28:55Yes.
28:56Dumb lip?
28:57Jelly roll, that's what I call it.
28:59Jelly roll.
29:01Usually, I see myself as more fatter.
29:03And then when I, like, looked in the mirror, I'm like,
29:07Oh, I feel like a skinny, volumptuous woman, man.
29:11I got hips for days and don't discriminate against pies,
29:14mother trucker.
29:16How's my ass?
29:17Woo!
29:19Almost failed.
29:22You look beautiful.
29:24You look like a beautiful bride.
29:30I think this is the one.
29:31I think this is my dress.
29:32Yay!
29:33Yay!
29:35The Fit and Flare dress is perfect for me.
29:38I'm surprised Brittany got the right one.
29:40Hers was a winner, because we are totally different people.
29:44The saint picked out the sinner's outfit.
29:51Sorry, I'm getting emotional.
29:57Even though there's this drama with Tammy,
29:59right now I'm the happiest I've ever been.
30:02I didn't know the power of clothing until I tried on that dress.
30:08It's just emotional, because I've been through so much.
30:11And to have Brian, that one good thing in my life, you know,
30:15get me out of the darkness, get me out of everything.
30:18Diane, I'm just happy.
30:26You shouldn't have never said it.
30:28Well, you shouldn't hurt my feelings.
30:30She is toxic.
30:31And you're her girlfriend.
30:33You know what I'm talking about.
30:34Oh, my God.
30:36Oh, my God.
30:48Everything's going to be okay, I promise.
30:51Babe, I'm nervous.
30:54I know, but like I said, I got your back, you know.
30:58Today, we're on our way to meet up with Amy
31:01to work out our differences.
31:04But I'm really nervous.
31:06I don't think it's going to work out.
31:09I really, really want you guys to get better.
31:12I know I keep, like, saying it,
31:14but I just want y'all to...
31:15I mean, don't you want to...
31:17Of course.
31:18Or let me go.
31:19Well, I know, I know.
31:21But I just don't want to make you do anything
31:23you don't want to do, you know.
31:30Exactly.
31:31So that's what we're going to do.
31:33We're going to make peace.
31:34It should be talked completely out.
31:38Right.
31:39Or it's not going to be solved.
31:41Yeah.
31:42So you have to get to the root of the problem.
31:45That's what we're doing today.
31:48Communication is important to me.
31:49But I think Tammy's a hothead.
31:51I think Amy's a hothead.
31:53So when we put them together,
31:56I hope they can both stay calm.
31:59If something wants to go down
32:00or start going down,
32:02I'm just going to walk away.
32:03Listen, I'm telling you...
32:05I'm not going to start a big scene
32:06because I'm not going to do that.
32:07You know, I don't do the confrontation, you know,
32:09and especially in public.
32:11It's just...
32:12I'm sorry I might be a meme,
32:13but it's just tacky.
32:14There's been multiple times
32:16where I'd be, like, talking this way
32:18with this mellow tone
32:20to Amy
32:22about something,
32:23and then she'll start yelling
32:26at me,
32:27and I say,
32:29please stop yelling at me.
32:31And when she doesn't,
32:33like, I get mad.
32:34So, like, if she starts
32:35that shit...
32:36I'll ask her to stop.
32:38Also, if she starts her crime,
32:40pity party ball,
32:41I'm leaving, too.
32:43Same thing.
32:44Like, I can't handle that.
32:45I'm wrong.
32:46But it's going to be fine,
32:47I promise.
32:48If it's not,
32:49we'll walk out the door.
32:51Yes.
32:54I'm kind of...
32:55I'm kind of scared,
32:56nervous about going in there.
32:58I hope I'm doing the right thing.
33:00I hope I made the right call
33:01by doing this.
33:07Hello.
33:08How are you?
33:08Good.
33:10Today, I'm going to talk
33:12to Tammy,
33:12and I want to finally
33:14explain to her
33:14how she made me feel,
33:15and her actions
33:16have repercussions.
33:18Like, it wasn't okay
33:19for you to send
33:20those messages to me.
33:24Well, we're here.
33:26Thank you for all
33:27your love and support.
33:28You're welcome.
33:29I love you.
33:30I love you.
33:32Everything will be all right.
33:33Okay.
33:36It means a lot to me
33:37that Andrew is willing
33:38to put her self
33:42in the middle
33:42of my name's bullsh**t.
33:48Hey.
33:49Hey.
33:50Amy, this is Andrea.
33:54I was trying to help
33:56finally introduce you.
34:00This is my first
34:01sufficient meeting with Andrea.
34:03I just hate
34:03it's under these circumstances.
34:06I was just...
34:09I just wanted to get together
34:10and see if you and Tammy
34:14can maybe get better
34:16than you guys are now.
34:17Do you know what she said to me?
34:19She called me a deadbeat mom.
34:22I do.
34:24Would you forgive easily?
34:28The s*** takes time.
34:30It takes time.
34:31Yeah.
34:32It takes a lot of time.
34:34You shouldn't have never said it.
34:38Well, you shouldn't hurt my feelings.
34:40How did I hurt your feelings?
34:42I only said...
34:43No.
34:43I only said
34:44what kind of animals
34:45are going to be at this place?
34:47And you got mad at me.
34:49No, you didn't understand that.
34:49And you're still not
34:50listening to me about it, so...
34:54I had every s***ing intention
34:58to go in there
35:00and lead
35:02with I'm sorry.
35:04I'm glad I didn't.
35:06I said stuff I shouldn't have.
35:08I know I did.
35:09But at the same time,
35:12they don't need to be brought up right now.
35:14She couldn't respect me,
35:16so why the s*** should I stay?
35:19She pretty much lost her sister.
35:21Just tell me on the real.
35:23She lost her sister.
35:24The day she decided
35:26to call me a deadbeat mom,
35:28all I was trying to do
35:29is ask her about the animals.
35:32And she jumped me.
35:34Okay.
35:35She went totally ballistic.
35:38I mean, she's kind of
35:40been going, like,
35:42with these hormones.
35:43I didn't know...
35:44This has been going on
35:45before the hormones,
35:46before the surgeries.
35:47This has been going on
35:48for 37 years.
35:50Now I'm to the point where
35:52it's better for me
35:53to be away from
35:54the negative, toxic person
35:56that she is.
35:57And you're her girlfriend.
35:58You know what I'm talking about.
36:00You know what I'm talking about.
36:01Yeah.
36:02She is toxic.
36:05And now she's running back
36:06and telling my mom
36:07talking bad about me and Brian.
36:09I've heard about it.
36:11And we have not said
36:12a word about her.
36:13We have always lifted her up.
36:19I think I underestimated
36:21how hurt these two are.
36:25And I can tell
36:26it's taken a toll
36:27on both of them.
36:29This is not the outcome
36:30that I wanted.
36:31I wanted this to work so bad.
36:34I tried.
36:36I tried.
36:38I can't even throw a truce.
36:40She won't.
36:41I'm done.
36:42I'm going off.
36:43No.
36:44F*** that bitch.
36:45No, no, no.
36:45She's dead to me.
36:46I know that she won.
36:47F***.
36:50Like, I did that
36:51alacantus in my heart.
36:53I know.
36:53I know what she did, too.
36:55Amy.
36:56Amy.
37:05F*** that bitch.
37:06Amy.
37:10Hey.
37:10I don't know where the f*** go.
37:11I don't know either.
37:13Oh, my God.
37:14F***.
37:14I really tried to get
37:16Amy and Tammy back together,
37:17but Tammy has already
37:19walked out,
37:19and now Amy's saying
37:21she's going to leave, too.
37:22But she went down
37:23the wrong hallway.
37:24I didn't even really know
37:25where she was going,
37:26so I didn't really want
37:27to follow her.
37:28Like, that's bulls***.
37:29I was just trying to talk to you
37:30and get you to apologize
37:32to me, bro.
37:33Right, right, right.
37:35Well, do you think
37:36we can sit back down?
37:38She didn't want no truth.
37:47Please stop, will we be?
37:51You know, she came here today
37:53to make peace, but...
37:54I tried to make peace.
37:56I see you tried.
37:57I see that.
37:58Yeah.
38:01Being here today,
38:02we're supposed to be
38:03an olive branch.
38:05Saying, hey,
38:07just because we're in a fight
38:08don't mean I don't love you.
38:10Like, I have gave you so much.
38:15And I'm nothing to you.
38:20I wish she would just come back in
38:21just to get it talked out,
38:25so, you know.
38:27I'll take her drink, too.
38:29Maybe that'll help.
38:47I'm sorry, though.
38:48I was talking to Amy.
38:50No, you're a bitch sitting.
39:01Babe, do you want to try again?
39:04No.
39:07So it's definitely a no?
39:09There's nothing I can say or do?
39:12No.
39:13I'm not going back in there,
39:14and you're already going to chase my mom.
39:16Okay.
39:16Okay.
39:18Right now, I have no idea what to do.
39:20I tried to get Tammy to come back in.
39:22I knew when I opened the door
39:24that she wasn't going to.
39:25It's very frustrating, to be honest.
39:29Why should I get you?
39:31I don't know.
39:33I'm sorry, Amy.
39:35I'm sorry.
39:36She just...
39:40Yeah, I was just hoping she would sit there
39:42and just be calm and talk it out,
39:44but I can't get her to come back in
39:49as much as I want her to.
39:51And you can tell her,
39:52I wanted to...
39:53I wanted to reconnect
39:54if you would just listen.
39:59I can't handle her toxic ass no more.
40:03I got two kids to raise.
40:05I know.
40:07And you're doing good.
40:08You're doing good.
40:09I see the videos.
40:12At least Andrea had some respect
40:15and actually heard me out like an adult.
40:19She didn't grow up like me and Tammy.
40:21You can tell that real quick.
40:23I'm a deadbeat mom.
40:25What the ?
40:26I know that's got to be hurtful.
40:28I know.
40:29It has to be.
40:31But I know deep down
40:33she doesn't want this to be this way.
40:36I know deep down she doesn't.
40:38I say,
40:39you miss Amy, don't you?
40:40She says, yes.
40:42I mean,
40:42I tried throwing an olive branch.
40:45She threw it back in my face,
40:48so...
40:48I'm done trying.
40:53I'm no longer Tammy's butt monkey.
40:55I'm not allowing her to use me
40:57as a punching bag anymore.
41:00Tammy's out of my wedding and my life.
41:04I just wanted to be back
41:05like y'all was.
41:06I ain't never gonna be back.
41:09Amy and Tammy are dead.
41:12The Slayton sisters are dead.
41:25I heard you and Amy
41:27kind of had a little bit
41:28of a issue the other day.
41:30My mental is not right right now
41:32and she's pushing the issue.
41:33Okay, she'll stop herself.
41:34I don't give a f***.
41:35Amy,
41:36if you really f***ing want to make up,
41:38then come to me,
41:40not Andrea.
41:41Your problem's with me.
41:42Leave her the f*** alone.
41:44What about the bachelorette party?
41:46I was thinking about doing, like,
41:48press something.
41:52No.
41:53I'm not gonna let her get away
41:55with a low-key bachelorette party.
41:56We're gonna spice it up,
41:58make it a little lit.
42:00That would be beautiful
42:01for your sister's wedding.
42:04It would be.
42:05That's a f***ing thing.
42:07Lily's trying to force me
42:08into going to the wedding
42:09and I'm not doing it.
42:11I'm getting very overwhelmed.
42:14I don't think Tammy
42:16really understands
42:17how to deal with her negative emotions
42:19at this point.
42:20Look at me.
42:21Everything's gonna be okay.
42:24No, I'm...
42:25I'm...
42:25I'm gone.
42:26I'm and I'm...
42:29I'm...
42:31I'm...
42:34I'm...
42:35You
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